She was a sister when she needed the money but a step-sister when it came time to pay back. This is why I always borrow money from people who'd borrow money from me, test their loyalty, and you'll see what type of people they're. I also will never loan money I can't afford to lose.
Exactly her sister, the plaintiff ,helped her in a time of need and now she is angry she has to pay it back. And the things she paid for were non essential
@@gj9933 It's so sad the world seems to be filled with more takers than givers! This is a time going forward when you need to remember who it is that's in your corner.
Exactly! I was watching and minding my own business waiting for the defendant to be the bigger person. I guess not, smh. And the nerve of the defendant saying all that...smh🙄
1st words out of Defendant's mouth: she's a step sister. That's terrible. Waa she just your step sister when you made her pay for your daughter's prom? PAY THE LADY.
Exactly! That was a nasty thing to do, and then talking about her losing her section 8. Really Sis...it seems like you are the one who doesn't have her life in order. Just a nasty woman!
Probably that's how I say it to my half brother even when he asked me for money and asked him for money he's just my half brother does not matter but he'll still ask me for money and I'll still ask him if statin fact so what
LISTEN UP EVERYONE: Family has no business taking advantage of you. You are under no obligation to help grown azz adults because you share DNA. If it is a loan, you have every right to sue if they don't repay you. Don't feel bad or guilty about it.
That's the type of "family" that we can do without. The defendant started out by pointing out the plaintiff is her step-sister; that was a low blow. It will definitely be no loss to the plaintiff to not have to deal with that user.
I'm sorry but Doug saying to the defendant "All right but you lost the case, you got to give her the $247.00, and you're going to get your gift cards back...SO THERE" just got me! 🤣🤣
Simple!! People always said I’m too much because I told dem I won’t take a loan or borrow Reason being I can say I’ll be giving you your loan bk and something happens and I can’t pay. Mi easy to be ashamed Secondly I think it’s only food or medical someone should credit those are essential
Auntie, you don't have to get rid of her, you just have to pay her...😒😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️. While you and "yo' husband" are at the bank, withdraw her money 💰 and give it to her.
@@hopeh6176 yeah she seems very down to earth..what she might have been trying to say is get your nails done is a luxury not a necessity and if you can't afford to get them done professionally do them yourself
This case is a perfect example of why I don't lend out money to family....because once they get what they want out of you, then all of a sudden they get amnesia and forget how you helped them out!
Who the hell you talking to because if it's a problem here and now it's important including makeup if it's a female or a gay boy because who goes to prom with no nails no hair done and when I fall out you might as well not go to problem let's be real make it make sense
@@mahailiabrown3972 😂 Oh my, if you think it's an emergency, you do you. I would never, ever borrow money from a friend/family for something that isn't rent, food, gas, or medication. Omg and prom?? You know prom is coming months in advance. But like I said, to each their own. 🧘🧘
You borrowed cash from me but u wanna pay me back in gift cards?? If u had the money to buy gift cards, u had the cash u to pay me back! Such a B Word....
People like the defendant, are bitter, miserable people. They're all kinds of nice when they want to borrow the money. However, when the time comes to repay the loan, their true character appears front and center. Regarding Judge John's comment about sisters, the defendant made it clear, they were step sisters; not blood related.
My brother stole all of my other brother's belongings when he passed the day after his death. I caught him and his wife going through his apartment and taking his stuff. Let's just say I cut him out of my life. I haven't spoken to him in years and one Xmas I was set up by my mother because she wanted us to be a family again. I didn't appreciate that underhanded move. Anyway, a few months later my sister came to me asking for $1,600.00 for his back rent. She promised me he will pay me back. She pulled the, we're family and he needs his family's help, card. I took some time and thought out everything before giving her my answer. I love my family but I will NOT let them take advantage of me. I said HELL NO! Seven years later and my sister still holds that against me. I still sleep well at night! Her lost!
My mother’s son hacked and stole money from her acct before and the day after her death. I told my mother my truth where he was concerned before her death and I too sleep well at night. Dont ever feel guilty folks for not allowing ppl to take advantage and disrespect you period. Just cuz their family, dont mean anything.
Yeah, i’m trying. Believe it or not, I’m consider the black sheep of the family. I worked hard to get my credit back on point. When I did, family members came out of the woodwork asking me to co-sign for them. Once again… Hell no! I will never end up on peoples court trying to get money back from a family member . It will never get to that point.
Don’t live above your means, especially for things that aren’t essential. This child could’ve just styled her hair and done her own makeup and nails and I bet she would’ve been beautiful
As the last of Mom’s 10 children and in my 7th decade having experienced zero situations such as this case within the family I’m feeling sad for these persons 🙁
So she wanted us all to lnow first off that Tonya is the step-sister who has no car. Ok cool Suga Mama, but Tonya is also the one who paid for everything you and your daughter needed right? Noted! Let me explain something to you Suga Mama...The hair stylist and the nail tech don't take gift cards mam!💳💳They take cold hard cash only!💵💵 who wants chairs in lieu of cold hard cash??? Nobody!
I help everyone I can and I’m a strong believer in you should pay it forward. I never help anyone with anything I’m not willing to loose and pretty much expecting to loose 😊
I am so done and just sick of folks. This is the world we are living in now and you can't even really turn to family. Nowadays family will screw you over quicker than a stranger
You absolutely do not want anyone like the defendant in your life. Singling the plaintiff out as the “step-sister”, unnecessarily, but SHE was the one footing the bill for prom.
Paid her back in gift cards and DISCOUNTED chairs.. So STILL PAID for the chairs... that's not really paying somebody back if they're still PAYING for something. You're getting money STILL and not her saying she out for money because she lost her section 8 omg 😂😂😂😂
Yet another example of why not to loan or gift money to anyone, regardless on if it's family or not. But if you have to choose one, gifting it is better than loaning so theres no anticipation of getting it back. It'll save a friendship or relationship
You know what else saves friendships and relationships? Paying back the people who were nice enough to help you in your time of need. The only time I gift🎁 money is on birthdays and Christmas, with maybe a graduation or promotion thrown in there to say congratulations 🎊. Other than that, any money I hand out is a loan. I expect to be paid back and will have no problem suing if I am not. I don’t care who it is.
@@Childfree334 GOOD ON YOU SUNDAY 👏 THAT'S THE WAY IT SHOULD BE! IF YOU LOAN PEOPLE MONEY, IT SHOULD BE EXPECTED TO BE PAID BACK. WITHOUT ANY HASSLE. I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS CONCEPT, IF YOU LOAN PEOPLE MONEY, DON'T EXPECT TO GET IT BACK? 😕 THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE TO ME 😒
The defendant has a chip on her shoulder, the way she had to mention that the plaintiff was one of 7 sisters but she was a step-sister. Best not to have people like the defendant in your life. Sad as it may be, the plaintiff is better off without her in her life...
SMH let’s stop taking advantage of family! It’s ok to say “hey I need help, I’m not sure if I can pay you back but please help me if you can”!! Stop the false “I’ll pay you back” crap!
Ughh. Disgusting. What was the point of clarifying she's a stepsister as opposed to sister? I bet she wasn't saying "Hey STEP-SIS, can i borrow...." 👀🤔
"Me and Sharita were waiting in the car and wondering why she took so long." ....ma'am, so if your sister wasn't supposed to pay and "just did", then that means you ran out without paying. 🤨
I love when rich people tell us hundreds of dollars is "not a lot of money". Just bc they're rich and never worry about financial issues, doesn't mean the rest of the world is. JM & her "husband" are so out of touch.
Why did she have to point out that she's the STEP sister? And what difference did it make that the Plaintiff doesn't have a car and the Defendant had to drive when she(the Defendant) borrowed the money? Step sister or not, she owed the Plaintiff money and is ridiculous for not paying her back.
defendant SEEMS! to be the one that's hurt, guess she's BURNED! so many bridges& ran over so many people, seems she's passing her "TRIFLING" using,attitude right along to the next generation.🤔🤨
Why purchase gift cards? Just give her the damn cash. She got gift cards, used them, then sent used empty gift cards to her sister. It makes NO SENSE to go and buy gift cards to pay her sister back. Just give her the DAMN CASH.
This defendant is an ungrateful, user, who is taking advantage of her sister. Let me explain something to you, YOU’RE A TAKER who used your family member!! Shameful woman!!
She has a job a husband and a teenager going to prom the student should have had 250 dollars. The defendant is wrong for not going to her nephew funeral supporting her family during a death smh.
She was a sister when she needed the money but a step-sister when it came time to pay back. This is why I always borrow money from people who'd borrow money from me, test their loyalty, and you'll see what type of people they're. I also will never loan money I can't afford to lose.
Deep
Excellent point! I didn't catch that, but your so right!
The defendant got more excuses than somebody going to jail...take a shot yall everytime the defendant says let me splain something to you😂
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😂😂 I'd b dead 💀
I'm pwastered.
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If everything is "NO PROBLEM" then why did she have to bring you all the way to court, for her money? THIS IS WHY I STOPPED HELPING PEOPLE, SMH 💯
Exactly! She could've been rid of the defendant if she paid her what she owed...with her nasty attitude.
You took the words right outta my mouth!
And yes to you last sentence! It will be your own family, smh
Exactly. It doesn’t even benefit you in ANY way to help people. Sad but true
The defendant is a piece of work!
Exactly her sister, the plaintiff ,helped her in a time of need and now she is angry she has to pay it back. And the things she paid for were non essential
@@gj9933
It's so sad the world seems to be filled with more takers than givers! This is a time going forward when you need to remember who it is that's in your corner.
Exactly! I was watching and minding my own business waiting for the defendant to be the bigger person. I guess not, smh.
And the nerve of the defendant saying all that...smh🙄
1st words out of Defendant's mouth: she's a step sister. That's terrible. Waa she just your step sister when you made her pay for your daughter's prom? PAY THE LADY.
Exactly! That was a nasty thing to do, and then talking about her losing her section 8. Really Sis...it seems like you are the one who doesn't have her life in order. Just a nasty woman!
RIGHT! SHAME ON THE DEFENDANT. SHE IS NASTY 😠 🤬
Probably that's how I say it to my half brother even when he asked me for money and asked him for money he's just my half brother does not matter but he'll still ask me for money and I'll still ask him if statin fact so what
The defendant is outrageous! Your sister lends you money, at your time of need. She gave you cash, you repay with cash!
What, come on girl you know those Dollar Store gift cards are as good as cash 😂 That's like a 10 year supply of toothbrushes
@@Channel-JJ 😆😆😆😆😆
I love when people mad at you they start telling your business
LISTEN UP EVERYONE: Family has no business taking advantage of you. You are under no obligation to help grown azz adults because you share DNA. If it is a loan, you have every right to sue if they don't repay you. Don't feel bad or guilty about it.
Thank you Sunday
Spot on
Exactly! Thank you
Thanks for this! Word for the new year!💯
#Preach
That's the type of "family" that we can do without. The defendant started out by pointing out the plaintiff is her step-sister; that was a low blow. It will definitely be no loss to the plaintiff to not have to deal with that user.
I'm sorry but Doug saying to the defendant "All right but you lost the case, you got to give her the $247.00, and you're going to get your gift cards back...SO THERE" just got me! 🤣🤣
Doug is a piece of work 😂
He is definitely a shady lady lol
If you can't pay back a loan don't borrow the money.
Simple!!
People always said I’m too much because I told dem I won’t take a loan or borrow
Reason being I can say I’ll be giving you your loan bk and something happens and I can’t pay.
Mi easy to be ashamed
Secondly I think it’s only food or medical someone should credit those are essential
Auntie, you don't have to get rid of her, you just have to pay her...😒😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️.
While you and "yo' husband" are at the bank, withdraw her money 💰 and give it to her.
Also get rid of that WIG!!
THE DEFENDANT IS A TRIP! THINKS NOW SHE CAN BULLY HER "STEP-SISTER" 🤔 GLAD SHE WAS MADE TO PAY BACK THE MONEY SHE OWED! 😊
I am 3 minutes in and already I can hear the sister is an OPPORTUNIST!
Judge said she does her own nails.... or if she doesn't have the money 🤣🤣🤣 ya right
Judge Milan is loooaaadddeeeddd
@@delenareed9731Absolutely even though she's quite down to earth She doesn't always get some people's struggles..All the best
@@hopeh6176 yeah she seems very down to earth..what she might have been trying to say is get your nails done is a luxury not a necessity and if you can't afford to get them done professionally do them yourself
@@delenareed9731 💯 agree with you on that ...All the best
As Judge Judy would say No good deed goes unpunished
This case is a perfect example of why I don't lend out money to family....because once they get what they want out of you, then all of a sudden they get amnesia and forget how you helped them out!
Hair and nails are not an emergency! Even for prom.
Who the hell you talking to because if it's a problem here and now it's important including makeup if it's a female or a gay boy because who goes to prom with no nails no hair done and when I fall out you might as well not go to problem let's be real make it make sense
@@mahailiabrown3972 😂 Oh my, if you think it's an emergency, you do you. I would never, ever borrow money from a friend/family for something that isn't rent, food, gas, or medication. Omg and prom?? You know prom is coming months in advance. But like I said, to each their own. 🧘🧘
Why is she so mad?! You took her money! 🤡
For $200 huh? Just sad.
You borrowed cash from me but u wanna pay me back in gift cards?? If u had the money to buy gift cards, u had the cash u to pay me back! Such a B Word....
People like the defendant, are bitter, miserable people. They're all kinds of nice when they want to borrow the money. However, when the time comes to repay the loan, their true character appears front and center.
Regarding Judge John's comment about sisters, the defendant made it clear, they were step sisters; not blood related.
My brother stole all of my other brother's belongings when he passed the day after his death. I caught him and his wife going through his apartment and taking his stuff. Let's just say I cut him out of my life. I haven't spoken to him in years and one Xmas I was set up by my mother because she wanted us to be a family again. I didn't appreciate that underhanded move. Anyway, a few months later my sister came to me asking for $1,600.00 for his back rent. She promised me he will pay me back. She pulled the, we're family and he needs his family's help, card.
I took some time and thought out everything before giving her my answer. I love my family but I will NOT let them take advantage of me.
I said HELL NO!
Seven years later and my sister still holds that against me.
I still sleep well at night! Her lost!
My mother’s son hacked and stole money from her acct before and the day after her death. I told my mother my truth where he was concerned before her death and I too sleep well at night. Dont ever feel guilty folks for not allowing ppl to take advantage and disrespect you period. Just cuz their family, dont mean anything.
Thats soooo toxic its a cycle of literal abuse im so happy you broke that cycle and i hope they wake up one day too
Yeah, i’m trying. Believe it or not, I’m consider the black sheep of the family.
I worked hard to get my credit back on point. When I did, family members came out of the woodwork asking me to co-sign for them. Once again… Hell no!
I will never end up on peoples court trying to get money back from a family member .
It will never get to that point.
I agree with you ...don't lend money ..it usually ends up being a problem...All the best
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Wow!!! Relationship done over $247? The niece needs a job.
some siblings are close and some aren't
Plain and simple.
@@crystalshaw8744 👍
sounds like they'd be better off forgetting each other
The defendant looks like Sugar Mama from the Proud Family
Spot on😂🤣😆
Yes!!! That is the first thing I thought of.
Don’t live above your means, especially for things that aren’t essential. This child could’ve just styled her hair and done her own makeup and nails and I bet she would’ve been beautiful
Liars, con people and someone that's potentially about to harm you start sentences with "let me explain something to you"
The defendant looks like the grandma on the proud family Lol 🤭
I have an uncle like this. He has owed every person in the family money. No one will loan him anything now.
Gift cards have stipulations; Cash 💰 don’t!
Judge Milian when you don't have money stop it the no time part I understand
Yep, that was comical. SMH 😹
The judge is savage today
As the last of Mom’s 10 children and in my 7th decade having experienced zero situations such as this case within the family I’m feeling sad for these persons 🙁
I’ll never understand how the person whom owes money is the one with the attitude
Lemme splain summn to yah…No ma’am!
Looking like Suga Mama from The Proud Family
Defendant looks about as crazy as her hair does
Don't wear a flannel to court
"too bad so sad for you".... classic... lol
Damn the defendant is bitter as hell!!
You got money to do your nails judge, stop it 🤣
If the hair fits. . .🤡
What a way to treat your own sister! 🤦
If “FIRST OF ALL “ was a person, it would be the defendant!😂
Defendant is why I keep family at a distance
The defendant will be back begging for money next week! 😂
The defendant looks like the granny on the Proud Family
Perfect look with the eye glasses
God, this episode is like two old broody hens fighting over a scrap of chicken feed.
So she wanted us all to lnow first off that Tonya is the step-sister who has no car. Ok cool Suga Mama, but Tonya is also the one who paid for everything you and your daughter needed right? Noted!
Let me explain something to you Suga Mama...The hair stylist and the nail tech don't take gift cards mam!💳💳They take cold hard cash only!💵💵 who wants chairs in lieu of cold hard cash??? Nobody!
I help everyone I can and I’m a strong believer in you should pay it forward. I never help anyone with anything I’m not willing to loose and pretty much expecting to loose 😊
It's always "no problem" until there is a problem🥴
I am so done and just sick of folks. This is the world we are living in now and you can't even really turn to family. Nowadays family will screw you over quicker than a stranger
The Defendant is a piece of work. Why would she pay back her sister with gift cards?? Girl bye!!!
It’s so sad when money comes between family
If the defendant is nasty in court, on national television, you can imagine how she is in private...🙄
OH HONEY, YOU KNOW SHE'S 10 X'S WORSE 😏 THE PLAINTIFF EVEN SAID IT AT THE END! I'M GLAD SHE WON & GOT HER MONEY BACK FROM THIS BIG MOUTH LIAR 😄😂
Typical person that doesn't want to pay for what they owe
Baby if you don’t got them receipts then JM don’t wanna waste her time talking about it 😂😂✌🏽
You absolutely do not want anyone like the defendant in your life. Singling the plaintiff out as the “step-sister”, unnecessarily, but SHE was the one footing the bill for prom.
Paid her back in gift cards and DISCOUNTED chairs.. So STILL PAID for the chairs... that's not really paying somebody back if they're still PAYING for something. You're getting money STILL and not her saying she out for money because she lost her section 8 omg 😂😂😂😂
The defendant was so mad at the end cuz she thought she could get away with not paying the plaintiff back.
The plaintiff has a young voice sounds like she’s in her 30’s
Defendant was sure “snotty.”
When people be like that’s still your family that don’t mean anything to me they play in your face the most
Yet another example of why not to loan or gift money to anyone, regardless on if it's family or not. But if you have to choose one, gifting it is better than loaning so theres no anticipation of getting it back. It'll save a friendship or relationship
You know what else saves friendships and relationships? Paying back the people who were nice enough to help you in your time of need. The only time I gift🎁 money is on birthdays and Christmas, with maybe a graduation or promotion thrown in there to say congratulations 🎊. Other than that, any money I hand out is a loan. I expect to be paid back and will have no problem suing if I am not. I don’t care who it is.
@@Childfree334 GOOD ON YOU SUNDAY 👏 THAT'S THE WAY IT SHOULD BE!
IF YOU LOAN PEOPLE MONEY, IT SHOULD BE EXPECTED TO BE PAID BACK. WITHOUT ANY HASSLE. I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS CONCEPT, IF YOU LOAN PEOPLE MONEY, DON'T EXPECT TO GET IT BACK? 😕 THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE TO ME 😒
2022 I HAVE LEARNED TO NOT LOAN MONEY TO FAMILY CAUSE THEY TAKE ADVANTAGE
I tell ppl if I write LOAN in the memo section of the check that I WILL SUE YOU
The defendant has a chip on her shoulder, the way she had to mention that the plaintiff was one of 7 sisters but she was a step-sister. Best not to have people like the defendant in your life. Sad as it may be, the plaintiff is better off without her in her life...
Now I understand why Ronald McDonald isn't used in commercials anymore, poor sight has really fallen on hard times.
😂 it took me a second 😂
I was like wait what….lol good one
No kidding. And this woman paid for extensions in order to look like that. Think about that for a moment. 😁😁
OMGOSH JJ TOO FUNNY 😂😂 I COULDN'T FIGURE OUT WHY SHE LOOKED SO FAMILIAR 😂🤣😂
@@devildoll9929 RIGHT! TO PAY MONEY TO LOOK THAT GOOFY LOL 😆 😂
SMH let’s stop taking advantage of family! It’s ok to say “hey I need help, I’m not sure if I can pay you back but please help me if you can”!! Stop the false “I’ll pay you back” crap!
There is one in every family where they constantly count the costs or dwell on every lil thing they did for you
The defendant looks like sugar mama from Proud Family
And acts like her🤣🤣🤣
Nails done for a job interview
If the sister lay off the Burger King & Popeyes she would have money to repay her debt
Ughh. Disgusting. What was the point of clarifying she's a stepsister as opposed to sister? I bet she wasn't saying "Hey STEP-SIS, can i borrow...." 👀🤔
"Me and Sharita were waiting in the car and wondering why she took so long."
....ma'am, so if your sister wasn't supposed to pay and "just did", then that means you ran out without paying. 🤨
I love when rich people tell us hundreds of dollars is "not a lot of money". Just bc they're rich and never worry about financial issues, doesn't mean the rest of the world is. JM & her "husband" are so out of touch.
This Defendant is entitled she thinks she can correct Judge Milan
$500 for stress. LMAO!
Why did she have to point out that she's the STEP sister? And what difference did it make that the Plaintiff doesn't have a car and the Defendant had to drive when she(the Defendant) borrowed the money? Step sister or not, she owed the Plaintiff money and is ridiculous for not paying her back.
If I could sue for stress I’d never have to work again 😅
Let me 'splain something to you, Defendant, you're a piece of work!
Judge Milian, why do you let the litigants take over your courtroom?
😂😂
They both act like kids!!! However the defendant is beyond trifling!
All the plaintiff did was sue for what she is owed, that’s not acting like a kid…
The Plaintiff did nothing wrong.
Let me 'splain something to you. Ok, Ricky, 'splain it to me.
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That's just ridiculous the daughter needed her nails done for a job interview 🤣 priorities all messed up
What nasty sister the defendant is
"STEP-SISTER" 😒
Why bring up her being a stepsister like that was going to make you look good or something?? SMH
Omg in getting family flashbacks she very much is giving old school south jersey Philly personality way of thinking i hate it.
So sad! A family torn over $200+ dollars. Though, in this case it’s probably for the best.
She was so wrong for that. She helped you and your daughter get the things for prom and you do this. Cool
defendant SEEMS! to be the one that's hurt, guess she's BURNED! so many bridges& ran over so many people, seems she's passing her "TRIFLING" using,attitude right along to the next generation.🤔🤨
Why purchase gift cards? Just give her the damn cash. She got gift cards, used them, then sent used empty gift cards to her sister. It makes NO SENSE to go and buy gift cards to pay her sister back. Just give her the DAMN CASH.
She needed to do her own nails and makeup. Mom needed to find a reasonable hairstyle for her.
Defendant seems lovely
Oooh, they’re saying “buried”. I thought they were saying “burned”….I was all kinds of confused.
I'm so confused. Why is she using money to buy gift cards instead of just giving her sister the money?
The defendant is a miserable person
This defendant is an ungrateful, user, who is taking advantage of her sister. Let me explain something to you, YOU’RE A TAKER who used your family member!! Shameful woman!!
The defendant has such pretty hair.
She has a job a husband and a teenager going to prom the student should have had 250 dollars. The defendant is wrong for not going to her nephew funeral supporting her family during a death smh.
I love the love between the judges