Just started to listen to the story and I already know where it’s going. A man that talks bad about his ex wife already and bring roses the first time is already a red flag. And then talked about $ already when he’s just starting to get to know you is a gold digger. You people need to learn that your $ doesn’t buy true love 🤦♂️
First of all you shouldn’t let him see your paycheck and you shouldn’t tell him how much you make. Listening to your story I think you purposely wanted him to know about your income and financial status. I’m glad your friend opened your eyes to see his true colors and dumped him at the end. My boyfriend and I dated for couple years now, but I never tell him how much I make or show him my paycheck and he never ask, all he know is that I’m a nurse.
You should have not care about what your ex husband and the Hmoob communities said or say about living with your children!!! You have to stand your ground being their mother and the one who gave birth to them!!
Don't be desperate if you want to avoid financial and emotional ruins. Red flags, he desperately looking for you (why you out of 1000s of poj nrauj poj ntsuam who are equally as beautiful or more beautiful than you), bad mouth his ex and wants marriage right away. And why would you call him? You should've deleted and blocked his numbers.
Tus me muam aw cov txiv neej zoo li koj tus ntawm koj ces txawm li cas los leej twg los yeej paub tias dag kaus koj xwb mas tus txiv neej hlub koj tiag2 mas tsias muaj tus txiv neej muab nyiaj pub tus poj niam xwb hos mus noj mov Tom lab los tsuas muaj tus txiv neej them xwb, yog tus txiv neej twg yaum hais tias kom nws thiab yus mus noj mov Tom lab es tseem ua txuj hais ub hais no hais tias g nco qab nqa nyiaj lawm no ces tus no muab pov tseg kiag hmo ntawv lawm xwb mas tus me muam aw, peb cov no txawm yog tus poj niam yaum mus noj los yus tus txiv neej yuav tsum ua tus them mas thiaj yog ib tug txiv neej zoo nawb, koj txawm yuav muaj nyiaj npaum cas los tus txiv neej ntawv yeej g pub koj them li mas tus ntawv thiaj yuav yog ib tug txiv neej zoo thiab hlub yus tiag2 nawb cov zoo li kuv tus no mas kuv txawm g yog nws tus hlub los yog kuv nrog ib tug poj niam mus noj mov lawm ces kuv yeej g pub ib tug poj niam them li hos yus yog txiv neej yus yog tus them mas thiaj yog ib tug txiv neej zoo nawb mog
Good thing she dropped this loser! Cov txiv neej hmoob es yog gold-diggers mas cas yuav xu siab ua luaj, ntshe nws tub nkeeg thiab es nws tus ex-wife thiaj muab mus nrauj lawm tag laus.
Koj tus hluas nraug ces tuaj ua txiv ntiav rau koj xwb os, vim koj lav check thaum twg ces koj twb muab $200 rau nws e nws thiaj li nrog koj pw ne.. neb ces zoo ibyam xwb tsis tas yuav sib rhuav li os yog koj zoo tshaj nws ces koj yeej tsis cia nws siv koj li ntawd
Tus TXIV DEV no koj siab tseem zoo muab koj ib nrab nyiaj rau nws lawm thiab koj mas hmoov phem dua nws lawm thiab yog kuv ces muab nws pov tseg hmo ntawv lawm es tsis tas hu nrog nws tham li lawm na.
Ntuj aw tej tug niag dev tuag tshaib xwb los cas tseem tham thiab. Tej tug neeg qab choj xwb nws tsua ntxias koj nyiaj siv xwb os. Cas koj tseem qhia koj lub neej rau nws paub thiab lau.
Haha twb tsis yog thaub vam koj daim check xwb nws tseem xav tuaj siv koj lub paiv thiab nws mus kom pob tw nyhav mam tuaj siv koj tej nyiaj thiab koj lub paiv kom nqig Ces mus tsis tuaj lawm .
Red flag when first time met, he is already talking bad about his first wife!!! That does not mean that he is a good guy. This is lesson to learn for you sister and any women out there. Beware of a guy who does not work and saying that he just taking care of his mom by getting money from the government. Why would you give him half of your paycheck to him after you found out he is a heartless bastard? I would have took that money back and then dump the jerk right there and then.
Kuv kuj yog txiv neej thiab tiam sis tus qhia seb nws yog leej twg kuv mam mus qhia kev cai rau soj...lim hiam npaum ko thov kom ntuj muab nws tua tuag ua qab ke luag xwb thiaj ncaj ncees.
peb cov poj niam txhob ruam2 es txawm peb yuav muaj nyiaj ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau Los txhob qhia cov txiv neej no vim thaum lawv paub tias peb muaj nyiaj ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau ces lawv xav ntxias peb kom lawv tau chaw nyob thiab ntxias peb tej nyiaj xwb thaum.nyiaj tag ces lawv mus xwb na
Cov viv ncaus nej twb ua nkauj nrab nav twb paub tias txiv neej lub siab mas dag luaj ntuj luaj av ua cas yuav ntseeg txiv neej ruam ua luaj nas thiab cas pheej maj2 muab nyiaj muas txiv neej txoj kev hlub nas cov poj niam es txiv neej ntxias zoo2 hais lus zoo2 tas xwb ces txawm siv rhos nyiaj los hlub lawm ces yus yeej ruam tshaj ruam nyiaj yuav tsi tau kev hlub tsi kav nas
This guy is a stalker, a creep, and a user. How this woman does not see all the red flags is beyond me. She's more desperate for a man than she wants to admit. Any man who asks after your money and easily takes your money without shame is NOT good boyfriend material, he's just a user!
This story is so sad is almost the same as my story too. My ex husband he is a very selfish like this story… Man these day are no good only gold digger…
Woman how can you let the situation get this far to the point where you allow him to take half of your money!? He doesn't want a good house wife, he only wanted to secure a cash cow
My spouse only tells me he loves me on my pay days too but he ain’t get shiz. We don’t share accounts and I tell him my kidney is mines and I won’t take yours. 😅😂
Ua tsaug ntau uas koj qhia cov niag gold diggers no lub qe rau peb os me viv ncaus. Kuv thov qhuas koj txoj kev ntse uas sim nws siab kom koj pom tus neeg tseeb tseeb ntawm tus txiv neej no.
Tus niam tsev txua y no tim koj xwb koj twb ntse kawg tsis kam yuav txiv na ha tseem raug yawg nrauj dag tau koj thiab peb cov niam tsev txhob ntsaw ntsaw txiv neej koj lub paj hlwb tsawg tshaj tus yawg nrauj ko luah kaus koj nyiaj noj tau 6 hli tseem ho tsis paub ces cia kom kaus ntau zog tso yawg nrauj siab phem tsjaj qhov hais tau lo koj ntseeg ntseeg nws ces nyuam qhuav haum txiv nerj txoj keb hlub zais koj tob tib koj ces ruam tshaj ruam nyuam qhuav haum xwb mas
Hahahaha, you've got to have fun once in a while....lol But, the lessons are real. There are people out they preying on the weak and the unfortunate. Understand what you are worth and talk to family and friends to make sure the relationship is honest and respectable. And, yes, test, test, test. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have honesty. It is the huge base of meaningful relationships. The hidden theme here is to understand the assigning value of money. The story goes a little too far with a pattern of blatancy on the value of money. Five months of premeditate stealing and then a robbery to conclude. It's drama done extreme. Lol...
Just started to listen to the story and I already know where it’s going. A man that talks bad about his ex wife already and bring roses the first time is already a red flag. And then talked about $ already when he’s just starting to get to know you is a gold digger. You people need to learn that your $ doesn’t buy true love 🤦♂️
Agree
This is what a desperate woman does to secure what she thinks its love. These kind women have low self esteem.
First of all you shouldn’t let him see your paycheck and you shouldn’t tell him how much you make. Listening to your story I think you purposely wanted him to know about your income and financial status. I’m glad your friend opened your eyes to see his true colors and dumped him at the end. My boyfriend and I dated for couple years now, but I never tell him how much I make or show him my paycheck and he never ask, all he know is that I’m a nurse.
OMFG why would you let him take half of your check. Take your money it's not his. Your friend opened your eye's. Your foolish.
Gold digger man meets show off lady…excellent combinations…😩👍!!!
Ntuj aw cas tseem yuav cia nws nqa 1nrab thiab os tsis thas k muab 1nrab rau li os
This guy has no manner, shouldn't look at people checks or documents without permission.
I'm glad you dumped him.
To the desperated lady, you were too nice and couldn’t see the corn man deceitful behavior.
U should’ve known he never love u but use u for money only how u not know take u that long to know
Never show a man your paycheck until he marries you. In your case, he doesn't love you.
You should have not care about what your ex husband and the Hmoob communities said or say about living with your children!!! You have to stand your ground being their mother and the one who gave birth to them!!
Lady why did you let him take half of your check. I would grab it out of his hand.
I would’ve take the money back and if I drove us there to the bank, I would have dumped his ass there.
$20 an hour is nothing right now.
Yup...minimum wage is $15/hr now.
I’ve met man like that before. They called these pathetic liar and narcissistic
OMG! You let him take half your paycheck? That's all I got to say.
That’s what I’m thinking too
Don't be desperate if you want to avoid financial and emotional ruins. Red flags, he desperately looking for you (why you out of 1000s of poj nrauj poj ntsuam who are equally as beautiful or more beautiful than you), bad mouth his ex and wants marriage right away.
And why would you call him? You should've deleted and blocked his numbers.
Tus me muam aw cov txiv neej zoo li koj tus ntawm koj ces txawm li cas los leej twg los yeej paub tias dag kaus koj xwb mas tus txiv neej hlub koj tiag2 mas tsias muaj tus txiv neej muab nyiaj pub tus poj niam xwb hos mus noj mov Tom lab los tsuas muaj tus txiv neej them xwb, yog tus txiv neej twg yaum hais tias kom nws thiab yus mus noj mov Tom lab es tseem ua txuj hais ub hais no hais tias g nco qab nqa nyiaj lawm no ces tus no muab pov tseg kiag hmo ntawv lawm xwb mas tus me muam aw, peb cov no txawm yog tus poj niam yaum mus noj los yus tus txiv neej yuav tsum ua tus them mas thiaj yog ib tug txiv neej zoo nawb, koj txawm yuav muaj nyiaj npaum cas los tus txiv neej ntawv yeej g pub koj them li mas tus ntawv thiaj yuav yog ib tug txiv neej zoo thiab hlub yus tiag2 nawb cov zoo li kuv tus no mas kuv txawm g yog nws tus hlub los yog kuv nrog ib tug poj niam mus noj mov lawm ces kuv yeej g pub ib tug poj niam them li hos yus yog txiv neej yus yog tus them mas thiaj yog ib tug txiv neej zoo nawb mog
Good thing she dropped this loser! Cov txiv neej hmoob es yog gold-diggers mas cas yuav xu siab ua luaj, ntshe nws tub nkeeg thiab es nws tus ex-wife thiaj muab mus nrauj lawm tag laus.
Hehehehehehe, lus mos yog lus txhawb zog tab sis lus ntxhib cia thaum koj tau koj daim paycheck tso mam yog lus qab zib.
Koj tus hluas nraug ces tuaj ua txiv ntiav rau koj xwb os, vim koj lav check thaum twg ces koj twb muab $200 rau nws e nws thiaj li nrog koj pw ne.. neb ces zoo ibyam xwb tsis tas yuav sib rhuav li os
yog koj zoo tshaj nws ces koj yeej tsis cia nws siv koj li ntawd
Cov niag txiv khib nyiab phem li ntawd ..txhob khaws Los sw hauv yus lub Neej o lawv aw..nws Mas tub nkeeg thiab ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws li o
Txiv neej hmoob mas cov zoo no muaj coob kawg nawb mas yuav tsum ntse thiaj tsis raug siv plawv thiaj tsis nres ov.. koj mas lucky koj muaj koj tus friend pab koj siv tswv yim koj thiaj tsis mag siv ntev os..
Tus TXIV DEV no koj siab tseem zoo muab koj ib nrab nyiaj rau nws lawm thiab koj mas hmoov phem dua nws lawm thiab yog kuv ces muab nws pov tseg hmo ntawv lawm es tsis tas hu nrog nws tham li lawm na.
Ntuj aw tej tug niag dev tuag tshaib xwb los cas tseem tham thiab. Tej tug neeg qab choj xwb nws tsua ntxias koj nyiaj siv xwb os. Cas koj tseem qhia koj lub neej rau nws paub thiab lau.
Haha twb tsis yog thaub vam koj daim check xwb nws tseem xav tuaj siv koj lub paiv thiab nws mus kom pob tw nyhav mam tuaj siv koj tej nyiaj thiab koj lub paiv kom nqig Ces mus tsis tuaj lawm .
Red flag when first time met, he is already talking bad about his first wife!!! That does not mean that he is a good guy. This is lesson to learn for you sister and any women out there. Beware of a guy who does not work and saying that he just taking care of his mom by getting money from the government. Why would you give him half of your paycheck to him after you found out he is a heartless bastard? I would have took that money back and then dump the jerk right there and then.
Kuv kuj yog txiv neej thiab tiam sis tus qhia seb nws yog leej twg kuv mam mus qhia kev cai rau soj...lim hiam npaum ko thov kom ntuj muab nws tua tuag ua qab ke luag xwb thiaj ncaj ncees.
peb cov poj niam txhob ruam2 es txawm peb yuav muaj nyiaj ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau Los txhob qhia cov txiv neej no vim thaum lawv paub tias peb muaj nyiaj ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau ces lawv xav ntxias peb kom lawv tau chaw nyob thiab ntxias peb tej nyiaj xwb thaum.nyiaj tag ces lawv mus xwb na
tsuas hnov pojnrauj gold digger xwb cas es ho muaj yawg nrauj gold digger thiab ne hahaha
Viv ncaus wb, cas twb laus los tseem ruam txog qhab cia nws muab yus cov nyiaj txeeb kiag ib nrab lawm thiab nawb. Oyo, tsis paub hais li lawm os
Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj ces yeej phem sib phim xwb nawb lawv aw...
U fall for him because he handsome n when u know he using u ur lying to urself that he will love u until shit happen😂😂😂🤣
You brag too much that's why this happens.
if you're smart you'd direct deposit 😄
He's a user who wants a woman for his benefits. Men are also gold diggers. Be smart and protect your assets.
My wife rubs in my face how much she makes and it annoys me so I gotta go back to school and hopefully make more than her some day before I die.
Sooo you knew he only wants you for your money but you let him take half of your paycheck??? Wow you’re not too bright.
If a man loves you, you wouldn’t have to pay him. So call friends with benefits…
Cov viv ncaus nej twb ua nkauj nrab nav twb paub tias txiv neej lub siab mas dag luaj ntuj luaj av ua cas yuav ntseeg txiv neej ruam ua luaj nas thiab cas pheej maj2 muab nyiaj muas txiv neej txoj kev hlub nas cov poj niam es txiv neej ntxias zoo2 hais lus zoo2 tas xwb ces txawm siv rhos nyiaj los hlub lawm ces yus yeej ruam tshaj ruam nyiaj yuav tsi tau kev hlub tsi kav nas
Ghov tsis yuav txiv cais lam khav Kom lawv ghuas xwb os pog aw
Tsis muaj txiv ais yuav ua Cas nyob tau ?
This guy is a stalker, a creep, and a user. How this woman does not see all the red flags is beyond me. She's more desperate for a man than she wants to admit. Any man who asks after your money and easily takes your money without shame is NOT good boyfriend material, he's just a user!
This story is so sad is almost the same as my story too. My ex husband he is a very selfish like this story… Man these day are no good only gold digger…
Tus ko ces nws tuaj ua paum thiab pab siv koj cov nyiaj xwb
You dont need a man to complete u!. We can manage ourselves!
I recycle him first week of his action lol
Poj ruam aw lawv siv koj xwb os
Hahaha 😆 😂 😆
Woman how can you let the situation get this far to the point where you allow him to take half of your money!? He doesn't want a good house wife, he only wanted to secure a cash cow
Is this for real ?? Lol
I love your money only! Lol
Es seb koj nrauj koj niag thaub laus xwb los koj nrauj xeem thiab mas? Yog nws phem ces kuj nrauj nws xwb es tsis txhob nraug xeem ces koj tseem nyob taus nrog koj cov mes nyuam kawg os. Ntshe Koj tsis xav nrog koj cov mes nyuam nyob xwb!
Ib txhia nkauj nrab, nraug nrab ces hlub yus daim check xwb mas. Ntawm kuv ces yog ib tug txiv neej nug txog kuv hauj lwm inclome thiab kuv cov me nyuam txiv puas nrog kuv yug kuv cov me nyuam ces kuv lwb sai li sai xwb os.
Lawv ntshai tsam kuv siv lawv los kuv haj yam ntshai tsam lawv ntxias kuv siv.
Sister , no worries...I agree with u too that little bit of money not gonna make him rich. Being single probably the best medicine. Just date .
My spouse only tells me he loves me on my pay days too but he ain’t get shiz. We don’t share accounts and I tell him my kidney is mines and I won’t take yours. 😅😂
Cas koj twb paub tias nws tsi hlub koj no los tseem faib 1/2 koj cov nyiaj tsau nws thiab na? Nws tseem hais lus tsw2 qhuav tsau koj thiab?
Bahahaha
I like this test...should do this at the beginning of a relationship especially niam trais tog txiv txais nta.
I have plenty of good single brothers who are hard working men... but don't know how to look for love... where r u from
Ua tsaug ntau uas koj qhia cov niag gold diggers no lub qe rau peb os me viv ncaus. Kuv thov qhuas koj txoj kev ntse uas sim nws siab kom koj pom tus neeg tseeb tseeb ntawm tus txiv neej no.
Lawv hlub koj cov nyiaj xwb tus niam tais aw ces paj hlwb yuav tshawg ua luag li na. Vim koj ntshaw22 niag txiv dev no ne tus niam tais aw
Ua cas tsis muaj hmoo es nrhiav tsis tau cov poj niam siab zoo zoo li koj li ne me muam.
Tus niam tsev txua y no tim koj xwb koj twb ntse kawg tsis kam yuav txiv na ha tseem raug yawg nrauj dag tau koj thiab peb cov niam tsev txhob ntsaw ntsaw txiv neej koj lub paj hlwb tsawg tshaj tus yawg nrauj ko luah kaus koj nyiaj noj tau 6 hli tseem ho tsis paub ces cia kom kaus ntau zog tso yawg nrauj siab phem tsjaj qhov hais tau lo koj ntseeg ntseeg nws ces nyuam qhuav haum txiv nerj txoj keb hlub zais koj tob tib koj ces ruam tshaj ruam nyuam qhuav haum xwb mas
Ua nyob txhob qhia tias kuv muaj nyiaj ntau2 no maj
Glad u see that side of him before u marry him no no date him 😊
Hahahaha, you've got to have fun once in a while....lol
But, the lessons are real. There are people out they preying on the weak and the unfortunate. Understand what you are worth and talk to family and friends to make sure the relationship is honest and respectable. And, yes, test, test, test. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have honesty. It is the huge base of meaningful relationships.
The hidden theme here is to understand the assigning value of money. The story goes a little too far with a pattern of blatancy on the value of money. Five months of premeditate stealing and then a robbery to conclude. It's drama done extreme. Lol...