After watching all of these videos, I noticed that the "loving" people seem to be more calm, whereas the "friendship"people seem to be more excited, even a bit flirty. Like there was still some obvious tension between them, not just this hidden sparkle, which is easy to see for loved ones, but not for outsiders. It made me think of this quote: "If you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate’ you’ll feel calm."
There is something about seeing someone say "I'm in love with you" or "I love you" to the person they care about. Gives me chills and you can't help but smile.!
Nothing like annoying the hell out of each other to keep it real at times. It is all about making love an issue you work on together that keeps you interested and keeps you interesting to each other.
This is the first time i guessed correctly! They seemed like a couple who have grown with each other and have lived with each other's "flaws". They were so calm about it and talked easily about what they didn't like about the other. That's what made me think that they are still together.
This couple was definitely a bit trickier to guess, I think since you did see a level of comfort that can be picked up as apathy in ex-couples if you're not careful. But they had an underlying chemistry that you couldn't deny as they remembered the beginning of their relationship
I guessed it right! they were so calm and real since the beginning. not trying to force anything just naturally showing happiness, codependency and respenct
pawuyah i knew it before, but yes. i was like : if this is the kind of fights that stick out to you, it's true love. my husband and i get in fights because he keeps the cap off of full waterbottles and the toothpaste. it drives me nuts, but that's about it tbh
the loving couples talk more spontaneously and they say things about each other without fearing to upset the other person .. tou can sense the trust between them
the way how he look at her, and the time they mention the magical connection when they first see each other. that gave was a good hint indicating that they are inlove .
OMG I'm so happy for them((: this is the perfect example of a true relationship - through the bad and the good they stuck together for 17 years and instead of fighting and divorcing, they overcome their pride and work together to stay together. To have what they have is gold.
None of these are hard. I've gotten each one of them right. The crew tries too hard to make each couple seem the opposite of what they are. If they're together, they have them sit far apart, and talk about the difficult things in their relationship. If they're broken up, they sit closer in the beginning and talk about the positive things in their past relationship. Keep your eye on the atmosphere and pick the opposite. You can't lose. Also if they talk over each other a lot, it's a dead give away they're a couple.
oh gosh i was praying they were still in love. that vibe they gave me had so much of it. so when i clicked yes that they are still in love and heard her say she still loved him, i teared up a bit. so happy.
guessed right, they are calm, and very open about it all, and verb tenses were implying to the future past, and present while they spoke, lovely couple!
Roy and Betsy are looking great. As what Betsy says regarding their relationship which she finds a magical connection, I agree to her that there is something with their relationship that I can’t find in other couples. I wish that their relationship will last longer as the years pass by.
being in love is feeling you're at home safe , and you :) love needs more than passion to keep it alive . you've got to appreciate your partner at first .
I kneeeeeeew it! Haha they complained about each other like a long-term married couple and turns out they are. So cute! I wonder if they had any kids, would have been a nice surprise at the end of the video to show them somehow
Yes Roy, I am going to be alone and like it. I enjoy seeing other people in love, but my days are over for looking, trying to change to apease someone who's ungrateful, untrusting, etc. I find making my own happiness and living by the beat of my own drum fulfills me. However, again, I'm happy for those who do make it and are not burnt out from doing the work. Kudos!
yup, the way they laughed when talking about their faults and fights. she was trying so hard to look stern until he talked about his faults then her love showed
It was the body language that determined it for me. They are sitting THE EXACT SAME WAY through most of the video. It's not just mirroring small movements, but really sitting comfortably the same way. And at the beginning, her legs absolutely pointed at him, so that gave it away from the start xD
This is what my boyfriend has been concerned before. I mean, love at the first phase gives you some mixed feelings and confusing signals sometimes. You may have all kinds of feelings, like feeling of spending all the time with that person, of losing him or her, etc. But by the end, when we both decide to make things work, we just try to stay calm, listen to our own concerns and resolve everything together. And I agree, the calmer your mind, the better you are to resolve things.
omg. I was right. I thought I was going to be wrong, and almost picked no. but the way they bickered, and she giggled, I assumed they were still together.
I watched all of these, yall. I guessed no love every time and was sure that I was right. I think that says more about me than these people. Thanks, Soulcakes. I got to do some soul searching.
Their body language threw me off at first but I guessed they were together because they complained about small things. Then when I saw they shared music, yeah it was a fit to who they are and they could be that together. So lovely
I guessed right, but I made my guess based on him. He just looks in love with her, he sits in a way that he seems to still be trying to sit closer to her. There's also just something about the way they talked about each other. It's really cute
I guessed it correctly because you can still see the chemistry. Also he made her laugh ☺️ I love how they both have the same interests in music 😍💯 that's goals
They are in love. Look at their faces..they resemble each other so much.. I read somewhere when u r in love..u start resembling each other as if siblings
I could tell (or my guess was) right away that they were married and in love. Because they bickered the way only people who have been married for a while do. It was like looking in a mirror for me, and I could relate to so much of what they said.
I guessed that they were in love because of how they bickered a bit, it was real, and sassy, not completely cold. You can tell there are real challenges happening at the moment between them, and that they actually care about what the other had to say even if it was light arguing.
I didn't guess correclty because I felt they are blaming each others...but now I understand that love doesn't mean to think they same way..not at all.xo
I GOT IT CORRECT. I knew the min they narrated their backgrounds and they are both musical. As the video went on I just didnt see why they wouldnt be together
They keep talking in present tense so it made me think they are still together. Also they looked comfortable with each other so, I completely guessed right :)
taoist40 i just pointed at it cause it's one of my favorite song from Mimi. well idk i'm just her fans and i don't live with her everyday, idk how mature she is nor how she thinks of herself. i just love her songs:))
After watching all of these videos, I noticed that the "loving" people seem to be more calm, whereas the "friendship"people seem to be more excited, even a bit flirty. Like there was still some obvious tension between them, not just this hidden sparkle, which is easy to see for loved ones, but not for outsiders. It made me think of this quote: "If you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate’ you’ll feel calm."
U H hey.. so true
U H is it budha?! ThE quote!!??
U H THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH FOR THIS QUOTE OMFG I'M CRYING.
U H what a beautiful quote. It literally made me think of what u wrote and that came out being so true.
Be honest...you saw that quote from 9gag didn't u?
I keep getting them right and yet, I can't figure out my own love life. Great
Heathcliff Scarlet same tho
Heathcliff Scarlet same here
Heathcliff Scarlet you and me both
im with ya on the love life part😂🤫
There is something about seeing someone say "I'm in love with you" or "I love you" to the person they care about. Gives me chills and you can't help but smile.!
yes yes!
who is here because of Jackie Aina ?
socills mee!! Jackie and Denis
socills yessss girl 😂
socills I am🎉🎉
socills me😊
hell yeah
You can feel the spark, the love just from the beginning
donnt even have to watch it all to know they are together x
Yeah couldn't even be bothered watching past the first 5 seconds when you already know the answer.
Nothing like annoying the hell out of each other to keep it real at times.
It is all about making love an issue you work on together that keeps you interested and keeps you interesting to each other.
Being still emotional about their ‚mistakes‘ made me think, that they are still together....
You know it's real when her first issue is cleanliness
That was the giveaway for me 😂 reminded me of my marriage lol
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This woman is gorgeous
So is HE!! 😀
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This is the first time i guessed correctly! They seemed like a couple who have grown with each other and have lived with each other's "flaws". They were so calm about it and talked easily about what they didn't like about the other. That's what made me think that they are still together.
Well done! Good points to pick up on 😊
I thought they were not in love, then when you see she said... she is in love! I was so happy!!
NN N thats called being married for 17 years! Lol
I guessed wrong. They seemed so distant and didn't look at each other much. They tricked me! Lol!!
If that is you in your profile picture, then your hair looks awesome!
I'm glad I was correct about this couple. They really seem invested in each other and as someone else commented, comfortable.
Wow I keep guessing wrong.. Lol
Melissa Zeng lol same
Melissa Zeng same
lol i thought i was the only one
lol yes
Maybe they're okay with a different kind of love.
This is the one series on TH-cam where you shouldn't scroll through comments while watching, it ruins the fun! 😂
ouch.. you caught me 😅 scrolling back up right after this!
When they showed the video of them singing and playing together, you could just tell they were so in love and connected to each other.
❤️❤️
Omgg they remind me of Monica and Chandler. Such a sweet couple! 😂😍
Lol yess😂😂
i think youre normal Betsy!!! why DAFUQ would i leave that door unlocked.
was not expecting that result
This couple was definitely a bit trickier to guess, I think since you did see a level of comfort that can be picked up as apathy in ex-couples if you're not careful. But they had an underlying chemistry that you couldn't deny as they remembered the beginning of their relationship
you could see it in their eyes when they looked at each other.
body language tells first few seconds. and yes, I lock the doors even on 2nd floor apt patio door
I guessed it right! they were so calm and real since the beginning. not trying to force anything just naturally showing happiness, codependency and respenct
After I heard about the cleaning I was like, they are so in love.
haha, this is what sealed the deal for me as well!!!
pawuyah i knew it before, but yes. i was like : if this is the kind of fights that stick out to you, it's true love. my husband and i get in fights because he keeps the cap off of full waterbottles and the toothpaste. it drives me nuts, but that's about it tbh
lool!
I guessed it right just cause the seemed annoyed but not mad or bitter at each other, they said things normal couples fight about
the loving couples talk more spontaneously and they say things about each other without fearing to upset the other person .. tou can sense the trust between them
THIS MAKES ME FEEL SO FUZZY AND WARM INSIDE
I got it right! They bicker and playfully push each other's buttons the way only a couple does.
I think its hard to tell the difference between a couple who have been together that long and ex's. It's almost the same vibe lol
Jenni S. That's honestly scary
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the way how he look at her, and the time they mention the magical connection when they first see each other. that gave was a good hint indicating that they are inlove .
OMG I'm so happy for them((: this is the perfect example of a true relationship - through the bad and the good they stuck together for 17 years and instead of fighting and divorcing, they overcome their pride and work together to stay together. To have what they have is gold.
None of these are hard. I've gotten each one of them right. The crew tries too hard to make each couple seem the opposite of what they are. If they're together, they have them sit far apart, and talk about the difficult things in their relationship. If they're broken up, they sit closer in the beginning and talk about the positive things in their past relationship. Keep your eye on the atmosphere and pick the opposite. You can't lose. Also if they talk over each other a lot, it's a dead give away they're a couple.
So insightful and interesting
i knew it OMG , because of the way they talk to each other , they are used to each other , and their face features really matches
Totally look like they have fun and honest relationship.
i knew they were in love from the way she would smile at him. :)
I would love to hear more from them! Personally, I feel like I could l could learn a lot from their wisdom!!
Ruby Smith yeh me too!
I GOT IT RIGHT FROM THE FIRST SECOND I SAW THEM! look at 0:10 you cannot fake the happiness in his eyes
Guessed right because they seemed calm & accepting about the topics of conversation.
the editing gives it away every single time
oh gosh i was praying they were still in love. that vibe they gave me had so much of it. so when i clicked yes that they are still in love and heard her say she still loved him, i teared up a bit. so happy.
I realized they were in love as soon as I saw her singing for his piano play!! wonderful couple!! Best wishes for a long and happy marriage!!
guessed right, they are calm, and very open about it all, and verb tenses were implying to the future past, and present while they spoke, lovely couple!
I got it right this time :))
And I'm really glad I was right. They look great together.
their body language definitely says it. Their knees pointing into each other give away that feels
why do I keep watching these soulpancake vídeos and crying like a baby at the end of each one of them? :D
"What are you going to be alone?" It's definitely better to be alone than stick with the wrong person because you don't want to face the truth.
idk why I feel like tearing up when I look at these videos it's very hopeful. whether they are together or not love it
Roy and Betsy are looking great. As what Betsy says regarding their relationship which she finds a magical connection, I agree to her that there is something with their relationship that I can’t find in other couples. I wish that their relationship will last longer as the years pass by.
Look at the sparks from the start. They look definitely in love!
I thought they had zero chemistry but went for they are in love, because I felt it was a bluff. KNEW IT. They are so adorable!
i am obsessed with your channel!!! HOLY EVERY VIDEO HAS AN AWESOME MESSAGE!!! GAHHHH
being in love is feeling you're at home
safe , and you :)
love needs more than passion to keep it alive . you've got to appreciate your partner at first .
Good for them!! This one was hard to judge!
I kneeeeeeew it! Haha they complained about each other like a long-term married couple and turns out they are. So cute! I wonder if they had any kids, would have been a nice surprise at the end of the video to show them somehow
Yes Roy, I am going to be alone and like it. I enjoy seeing other people in love, but my days are over for looking, trying to change to apease someone who's ungrateful, untrusting, etc. I find making my own happiness and living by the beat of my own drum fulfills me. However, again, I'm happy for those who do make it and are not burnt out from doing the work. Kudos!
I have a sense that this is a lot of very clever editing :) but I'm on to you! I guessed correctly :D
yup, the way they laughed when talking about their faults and fights. she was trying so hard to look stern until he talked about his faults then her love showed
I guessed correctly and in the end, they made me cry !!
Been binge on your channel and this episode actually bring me happy tears 💓
When u are in love for so long there this stillness you can feel that
It’s huge when a man recognizes that he has a temper and is judgmental. Many would get defensive and have a hard time admitting so kudos to him.
It was the body language that determined it for me. They are sitting THE EXACT SAME WAY through most of the video. It's not just mirroring small movements, but really sitting comfortably the same way. And at the beginning, her legs absolutely pointed at him, so that gave it away from the start xD
They knew each other really well and bickered like an old married couple, which is more light than the divorced couple type of arguments
This is what my boyfriend has been concerned before. I mean, love at the first phase gives you some mixed feelings and confusing signals sometimes. You may have all kinds of feelings, like feeling of spending all the time with that person, of losing him or her, etc. But by the end, when we both decide to make things work, we just try to stay calm, listen to our own concerns and resolve everything together. And I agree, the calmer your mind, the better you are to resolve things.
omg. I was right. I thought I was going to be wrong, and almost picked no. but the way they bickered, and she giggled, I assumed they were still together.
I watched all of these, yall. I guessed no love every time and was sure that I was right. I think that says more about me than these people. Thanks, Soulcakes. I got to do some soul searching.
Their body language threw me off at first but I guessed they were together because they complained about small things. Then when I saw they shared music, yeah it was a fit to who they are and they could be that together. So lovely
😲 I thought they were together at first but them they didn't seem like. I'm so happy to hear this! Beautiful couple
I guessed right, but I made my guess based on him. He just looks in love with her, he sits in a way that he seems to still be trying to sit closer to her. There's also just something about the way they talked about each other. It's really cute
Yup, so comfortable together. Their age shows so theyve clearly been together a while.
Shows that love CAN survive a few differences in attitudes
Got it right, yay! Good for them!
This is the first one I got wrong. I'm actually surprised at the end how happy he is with her.
I guessed it correctly because you can still see the chemistry. Also he made her laugh ☺️ I love how they both have the same interests in music 😍💯 that's goals
They are in love. Look at their faces..they resemble each other so much.. I read somewhere when u r in love..u start resembling each other as if siblings
The moment she said about the clock ticking and he said that he didn't get that... I knew they had kids together... subtle! Haha
I have binge watch all these videos from this series this is my fave couple
My tears just rolling when she say yes I'm in love with u..
I immediately didn't think they were together (haha) but the more they talk the more they seem to be in a relationship.
Yup, I guess it correctly. I watched their body language - they're sitting almost facing each other from the beginning.
This is a fun series; I'd like to see it be brought back if possible. 🙂
I could tell (or my guess was) right away that they were married and in love. Because they bickered the way only people who have been married for a while do. It was like looking in a mirror for me, and I could relate to so much of what they said.
"Sometime its not easy to understand that's it your fault and ask sorry first" - really its the important thing to keep the relationship.
Urghhh I got the last one right !! And since, I was starting to see myself as a love expert :P
i was correct, i knew it from the very first beginning when she start to sing: they share the same passion.
I'm so good at this!! I've been guessing right! woohoo haha
I guessed that they were in love because of how they bickered a bit, it was real, and sassy, not completely cold. You can tell there are real challenges happening at the moment between them, and that they actually care about what the other had to say even if it was light arguing.
I want to hear them sing and play more together!
He seemed nervous at first and looked to and relied on her for support. That's what first tipped me off.
"Are the kangaroos going to jump up here? " He play all day. 😂😂
the way he looks at her for first time is enough to tell that they're in love
I didn't think they were in love but it's nice that they are
So the one reason why she wanted to settle down was kids and they are together but they don't mention if they have kids
Fiona T They have kids. You can tell by watching their body language when they talk about kids.
I'm at 1:02 and they're
in love. Her knees are pointed towards him and their camaraderie shows that they are best-friends married to each other.
I didn't guess correclty because I felt they are blaming each others...but now I understand that love doesn't mean to think they same way..not at all.xo
That didn't turn out the way I expected.
I GOT IT CORRECT. I knew the min they narrated their backgrounds and they are both musical. As the video went on I just didnt see why they wouldnt be together
I keep guessing right. When you can pick on other person's flaws with tat kind of ease in their presence.. That's when u know u r still in love.
Still my favorite couple of this series.
I guessed this one right because this is literally my own relationship
They keep talking in present tense so it made me think they are still together. Also they looked comfortable with each other so, I completely guessed right :)
When you watch videos like this and you've not been told "I love you" for a long time
At first I thought yes but then after that second part I changed my mind.
4:53 Love takes time
*listen at Mariah Carey*
Alpha Cat lol Mariah Carey will never marry. And if she does it won't last long. It's obvious she is not as mature as she thinks she is.
taoist40 i just pointed at it cause it's one of my favorite song from Mimi. well idk i'm just her fans and i don't live with her everyday, idk how mature she is nor how she thinks of herself. i just love her songs:))