A lot of us good men are focusing on becoming who God wants us to be. That way we can be the right man for the woman we are supposed to be with! Great video tho, love yall!🔥💯
i use to ask that question but i started focusing on being the best me, i havent had time to really focus on where the good men at. God revealed to me that the good men are in his perfect will and as long as i stay in his will, our meeting will be at his apptd time, i stopped looking way back when and usually the question as a woman of where they at means she is looking which she shouldnt be or she is tired because she hasnt been found yet and maybe like me all your friends are dating and the journey can get hard but this video reminds so much of us, we are worth theeeeeee wait and the wait will be worth it. stay the course, they may be hidden, like i was and believe i still am
good point bre about the family structure!! a lot of good men are buried under the hurt and pains of life, abandonment, rejection, and father and mother wounds but its not a woman's job to dig him out but a good mature stable man to pull the good man out.
I loved this video, my only concern is that with the Costco analogy we place a lot of the responsibility on the woman when I think that men shouldn’t get a pass just because “they were doing what they had access to”. It kind of places blame on the woman instead of also looking at the guy for not also wanting more and wanting to buy the membership. Love y’all and this video.
Keesha Miller agreed. A good man has integrity, practices self control and takes responsibility for his own actions. I wouldn’t call a man who just does whatever the woman allows a good man, but maybe he’s a man with potential. And I see a lot of men with wonderful potential around me but you don’t marry the potential, you marry the reality. So if the man isn’t currently practicing the things that you would say that a good man practices, personally, I would take a step back. Super difficult, but I feel like it’s the smarter choice.
I appreciate this video but I would tweak 17:20 a little bit, Christian ladies: God will send a man who is also waiting and not "allowing access" to women as well. Gotta hold these men accountable! Love y'all
Gems!! Bre, what you said about women thinking men aren't good men after we've basically given them "the store" is so true! I know I've found myself in that position where I thought the guy was perfect and then "suddenly" he changed up. The thing is that WE as women hold so much power, but because we seek this perfect, romantic, ideal fantasy of love, we fall so quickly. We have to hold that power! Good video!
I am guilty of giving access to the whole store without requiring a membership, sometimes out of choice and sometimes out of fear that I won’t find a match anytime soon. I like this analogy way better than why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free! This one speaks my language. Thanks for the gems!
New Subscriber! First off I love yall! I am practicing abstinence 26 years strong waiting for my Boaz! Just want to start by saying I am 4 videos in and I love Dre's analogies they always drive the point home!
Going through a discouraging phase of waiting for my King . I just ended what could have been until he knew I was waiting until marriage . These videos remind me it will be worth the wait ❤
Great men are out there! I believe good things come to those who wait. I have no experience with dating, but I'm in no hurry either. This was a great video!
This was a great analogy & an encouragement. Relating to Costco lol but hit it right on the nail. I agree with Bre in the meantime to just focus on your goals, don’t go searching & to love yourself always in all ways so when the right one comes along he adds to you. We don’t mind boundaries & non negotiables when we know who we are & whose we are!
Hello, you guys touched a lot of great points. I do believe there’s good men out there. I wanting and willing to be in a relationship with others. However there’s a huge stigma between both men and women that’s we both ain’t stuff. Women that are hurt by men feel like they can respond by sleeping with many parnthee to get Thur their hurt and pain from others. Men continue to get praise for jungling several women at a time. If in turn mess up relationships, marriage and families. Your right you have to find one good person to start life with and be great
As someone whos waiting for marriage.. i can attest that eliminating sex from a relationship doesnt stop men from playing you ir acting stupid.. some see you as a challenge .. and will be patient. When you dont give in they display their frustration in other ways .. character is how you act towards people who have nothing to offer you.. if youre a good man .. you respect and treat all women accordingly.. we cant keep giving men excuses to their behavior.. by saying they just do what is allowed or putting the responsibility back on the woman .. just my thoughts ..
I'm so glad that this video popped up on my feed! I really liked the store analogy! It took me over a year to get out of a membership less situationship and since then I have really been focusing on God and trying to live my life accordingly. This video just reaffirmed literally everything that I have prayed about and what I have been discovering these past couple of months. Thank you for posting this!
Great Feed and valid point on the article mentioned regarding men/women's needs, along with the mention of women giving men full access, and then later on calling "men" bad/jerks etc. Once they decide to move on. I think women fail to realize at times, we can be the "enabler." I was one of those non-believers, and after much growth - I do believe there are good men out there. Great content all around, keep it up!
Bre!!! I love Michelle McKinney Hammond books too! Been a life long avid reader of her work! And yes, being occupied minding my own business with business is key!💝 Dre be preaching sermons low-key! Love the video and nuggets given! There are good great guys out there. It's all about God's timing, not our own.
I just started watching y’all about a week ago, and every time I watch a new video, there are some GEMSSSS being dropped !! Definitely love y’all already 💕💕
Time stamp 13:19 happens toooooooooooo many times I thought I was the only one noticing that. As soon as I got the notification I new it was gonna be good love ❤️ the advice thanks guys. 👏🏾🙏🏾
Not shallow at all! It’s a great parable for the time we live in today. It was very understandable. Jesus would have probably say it the same way. Whoever is offended by your analogy are those who feel guilty and don’t share the moral integrity you and your wife share. Breanna, I chose singleness very very early in my life bc I didn’t trust men and their ability to sign up for a “membership”, commit to it and maintain it. So I instinctively resisted any pursuit because I chose to believe there were no good men in the world. I’m learning from TH-cam channels like yours that there are some. I’m happy you met yours. Breanna and Dre, continue to grow in faith and continue to use this platform to teach and encourage! Bless you.
Love this! I've watched a few of your videos and you are a beautiful couple and are speaking from wisdom! I will be forwarding to my single friends that are asking this exact question! God continue to bless you! ❤
Could you all share the link to the article you mentioned on why a woman shouldn’t date a man for over a year? And also I really enjoyed the Cosco analogy, it was very profound. I’m going to steal that lol. I really admire your relationship and hope to have one just as great someday. Keep being a blessing to those watching and continue to let God guide you all.
just bought the book! i am a new subbie! love your channel! i am a woman worth thee wait and waiting til marriage to have sex. February 21, 2019 will be my 3rd year sexually pure. 3 is complete!
I am 23 and I’ve dealt with guys who have treated me poorly in the past ... I’m afraid i will never find that special someone or I’ll have to wait yearrrs to meet him. I know if I do have to wait years it’s not the end of the world lol but I’m ready to finally be with the man i deserve after all the crap I’ve been through. I guess I’m losing hope in that person existing for me 😕😕😩 any advice?
Thank you dolls! So wish I would've watched this BEFORE seeing my ex two days ago 😥. I always need a little reminder and encouragement because I go back after time..never fails..I just stopped believing the real good guy is out there. And Im a worship leader smh. Whats my problem? Lol I dont know that I believe women should be seeking guys..do y'all agree? Adam didn't go looking either..Eve was presented to him..same with Ruth and Boaz..the one person who sought someone..David..sought after Bathsheba lol..what yall think? I'm rambling😬😂😂 love y'all! Bre..your smile is so sweet!
At first I thought this was a real story but then I’m like oh wait this is an analogy! I love that never thought of it like that. You guys are so cute ! May God bless your union .! Are you guys doing premarital consoling?
I am a 39 year old woman who is waiting for marriage. So I should not be in dating websites? Or go speeding dating? I should just kicked it with family and friends. Enjoy life and let God bring the guy my way. I probably making this confusing for myself.
That's an inspiration. Stay patient princess, you've come along way. GOD won't fail you, he is not a liar. you don't need to rush yourself and i wish i stayed a virgin, well i last mine at 16 to a player (ex boyfriend) but i was raped when i was 15 by schoolboys(ive forgiven them). I was already broken before. I didn't know God then.fast forward I will get married soon.
I feel there are plenty of Good Men left. And I say left because, let's be honest, Women now a Days want the cave man. Good Men get disrespected, taken for granted, played with physically, mentally, financially, emotionally, & even Spiritually. Talking from experience. Then will complain how there are no Good Men. You're absolutely right. You're killing them. And steady Chasing down the guy that takes from You,. Belittles You. Hits You. And everything in between. Sad part is, I want so badly, lately, not to be a Good Dude. And it burns 🔥 Me up inside because it's not in My DNA to be as such. From the time I could walk I've been taught a Gentleman's characteristic. I know nothing else.
Where are the good men? Women ran them off, that was what happened to them. The good men, who had so much love to give to one special woman, were repulsive to the young women, who craved the 'excitement' of sociopathic bad boys. Eventually, the good men gave up and walked away. They do not try any more. They just go home to their empty beds and broken hearts every night.
You two should make separate videos like his perspective her perspective so Dre can get all his thoughts out and you can get your spur of the moment thoughts out. I felt like Dre was about to drop another nugget but you cut him off & he lost it. Otherwise this was an informative video
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
A lot of us good men are focusing on becoming who God wants us to be. That way we can be the right man for the woman we are supposed to be with! Great video tho, love yall!🔥💯
This typpa energy 🙏❤
Amen!! 🙌🏾
Well in the UK there's no, 'alot' of Christian men. They just don't submit to God. I might have to hop over to the USA and find me a godly man.
Rhashad Wilson well said👌
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i use to ask that question but i started focusing on being the best me, i havent had time to really focus on where the good men at. God revealed to me that the good men are in his perfect will and as long as i stay in his will, our meeting will be at his apptd time, i stopped looking way back when and usually the question as a woman of where they at means she is looking which she shouldnt be or she is tired because she hasnt been found yet and maybe like me all your friends are dating and the journey can get hard but this video reminds so much of us, we are worth theeeeeee wait and the wait will be worth it. stay the course, they may be hidden, like i was and believe i still am
Speak my sister in Christ speak 🤗🥰🥰🤗
good point bre about the family structure!! a lot of good men are buried under the hurt and pains of life, abandonment, rejection, and father and mother wounds but its not a woman's job to dig him out but a good mature stable man to pull the good man out.
I loved this video, my only concern is that with the Costco analogy we place a lot of the responsibility on the woman when I think that men shouldn’t get a pass just because “they were doing what they had access to”. It kind of places blame on the woman instead of also looking at the guy for not also wanting more and wanting to buy the membership. Love y’all and this video.
I agree...
I agree
Keesha Miller agreed. A good man has integrity, practices self control and takes responsibility for his own actions. I wouldn’t call a man who just does whatever the woman allows a good man, but maybe he’s a man with potential. And I see a lot of men with wonderful potential around me but you don’t marry the potential, you marry the reality. So if the man isn’t currently practicing the things that you would say that a good man practices, personally, I would take a step back. Super difficult, but I feel like it’s the smarter choice.
I appreciate this video but I would tweak 17:20 a little bit, Christian ladies: God will send a man who is also waiting and not "allowing access" to women as well. Gotta hold these men accountable! Love y'all
Bre Covington truth 💯💯💯
Gems!! Bre, what you said about women thinking men aren't good men after we've basically given them "the store" is so true! I know I've found myself in that position where I thought the guy was perfect and then "suddenly" he changed up. The thing is that WE as women hold so much power, but because we seek this perfect, romantic, ideal fantasy of love, we fall so quickly. We have to hold that power! Good video!
Thanks for all this information and words of wisdom.
I am guilty of giving access to the whole store without requiring a membership, sometimes out of choice and sometimes out of fear that I won’t find a match anytime soon. I like this analogy way better than why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free! This one speaks my language. Thanks for the gems!
Omg "Lady and the Beast" you are too cute 😂 you had me laughing so hard
New Subscriber! First off I love yall! I am practicing abstinence 26 years strong waiting for my Boaz! Just want to start by saying I am 4 videos in and I love Dre's analogies they always drive the point home!
That was an exceptionally beautiful analogy ! ❤️
Going through a discouraging phase of waiting for my King . I just ended what could have been until he knew I was waiting until marriage . These videos remind me it will be worth the wait ❤
Woahhh this lighting though and y’all 😍😍😍
Afia Belle right
Loving these faux locs siss😍😍😍his analogies are lit🔥🔥
Great men are out there! I believe good things come to those who wait. I have no experience with dating, but I'm in no hurry either. This was a great video!
You guys trying to figure out where to look is so cute. Love your relationship, content and vibe...okay back to the video. 😊♥️
I like the updated analogy of "why buy the cow if you get the milk for free"
Exactly! It's so easy now cuz of the WAP Era.
This was a great analogy & an encouragement. Relating to Costco lol but hit it right on the nail. I agree with Bre in the meantime to just focus on your goals, don’t go searching & to love yourself always in all ways so when the right one comes along he adds to you. We don’t mind boundaries & non negotiables when we know who we are & whose we are!
YO THAT analogy is definitely L.I.V.E!!! I'm celibate but I WILL definitely KEEP THAT ALL in Mind!!!💯💖👑
Hello, you guys touched a lot of great points. I do believe there’s good men out there. I wanting and willing to be in a relationship with others. However there’s a huge stigma between both men and women that’s we both ain’t stuff. Women that are hurt by men feel like they can respond by sleeping with many parnthee to get Thur their hurt and pain from others. Men continue to get praise for jungling several women at a time. If in turn mess up relationships, marriage and families. Your right you have to find one good person to start life with and be great
You realize Marriage is a shitty deal for any Man ¿Right?.
As someone whos waiting for marriage.. i can attest that eliminating sex from a relationship doesnt stop men from playing you ir acting stupid.. some see you as a challenge .. and will be patient. When you dont give in they display their frustration in other ways .. character is how you act towards people who have nothing to offer you.. if youre a good man .. you respect and treat all women accordingly.. we cant keep giving men excuses to their behavior.. by saying they just do what is allowed or putting the responsibility back on the woman .. just my thoughts ..
Another dope message! Let these ladies know so we can end this 2019 relationship dysfunction in our community.
Viva Specifico for sure!
I love Michelle! I just got hip to her last year, and I am glad that her content is still helping others.
Love the analogy , it’s very true . I needed this . I was in a bad situationship like this & I didn’t understand at first but now I do . Sad to say .
I love all of this! Haven’t heard that story before, but it was everything♥️
I'm so glad that this video popped up on my feed! I really liked the store analogy!
It took me over a year to get out of a membership less situationship and since then I have really been focusing on God and trying to live my life accordingly. This video just reaffirmed literally everything that I have prayed about and what I have been discovering these past couple of months. Thank you for posting this!
Great Feed and valid point on the article mentioned regarding men/women's needs, along with the mention of women giving men full access, and then later on calling "men" bad/jerks etc. Once they decide to move on. I think women fail to realize at times, we can be the "enabler." I was one of those non-believers, and after much growth - I do believe there are good men out there. Great content all around, keep it up!
Suss your hair and your makeup is everything 🔥
Bre!!! I love Michelle McKinney Hammond books too! Been a life long avid reader of her work! And yes, being occupied minding my own business with business is key!💝 Dre be preaching sermons low-key! Love the video and nuggets given! There are good great guys out there. It's all about God's timing, not our own.
Such a simple yet profound analogy Dre! You guys shared many gems in this video!
Appreciate the faux loc’s “infomercial”! 😄
So i just found you guys 2 days ago and I love your love! ♥️
Isn’t it beautiful!
me too, i found them two days ago too and fell in love with them instantly
Omg same here 2 days ago 🥰
Yall are a gorgeous couple inside and out. God bless you two 🥰❤️
I was following Dre as soon as she talked about the Costco story.
I just started watching y’all about a week ago, and every time I watch a new video, there are some GEMSSSS being dropped !! Definitely love y’all already 💕💕
LOL lady and the beast! Too funny!! Love the analogy
Good men are avoiding bad mens leftovers!
Yasss!!! I’ve never heard of this analogy but I seriously love it! It’s so true! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
His analogies. Your faux locks. Y'all 🔥 I'm here for this ❤️
Time stamp 13:19 happens toooooooooooo many times I thought I was the only one noticing that. As soon as I got the notification I new it was gonna be good love ❤️ the advice thanks guys. 👏🏾🙏🏾
They are out there; but it takes time and PATIENCE. 🙌🏾
Not shallow at all! It’s a great parable for the time we live in today. It was very understandable. Jesus would have probably say it the same way. Whoever is offended by your analogy are those who feel guilty and don’t share the moral integrity you and your wife share.
Breanna, I chose singleness very very early in my life bc I didn’t trust men and their ability to sign up for a “membership”, commit to it and maintain it. So I instinctively resisted any pursuit because I chose to believe there were no good men in the world.
I’m learning from TH-cam channels like yours that there are some. I’m happy you met yours. Breanna and Dre, continue to grow in faith and continue to use this platform to teach and encourage! Bless you.
Yall both made some great valid points!!!
Now we have Dre just staring at the camera. He only looked away like once. Lol. I give y’all credit for trying!!!
Just want y’all to know xander was watching this and obsessed he wouldn’t stop smiling and laughing. Great video guys 🥰
Good men are rare good woman are rare big facts💯!!
Love this! I've watched a few of your videos and you are a beautiful couple and are speaking from wisdom! I will be forwarding to my single friends that are asking this exact question! God continue to bless you! ❤
The beginning of this video SENT ME!!!! When Bre gets all in the camera😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love Costco story! This is a word! 🙌🏾❤️
YaaaaaaaaasssssssS!! Love you guys! Brea we're coming to your event next weekend!!! Can't wait
Aww this is too adorable!! I love that you guys are trying to look at the camera though lol
Could you all share the link to the article you mentioned on why a woman shouldn’t date a man for over a year? And also I really enjoyed the Cosco analogy, it was very profound. I’m going to steal that lol. I really admire your relationship and hope to have one just as great someday. Keep being a blessing to those watching and continue to let God guide you all.
Your personality is so bomb. Love you guys. New subbie!
This analogy 🤯🤯 😂😂 Love watching yall’s videos! 💛✨
Great points... Love the analogy👫
Just ordered my book!!!!! Love a good read.
Totally off topic lol but girl what lipstick are you wearing because I need it in my life!!!
Thank you for this video! Would you be able to set the camera to manual focus instead of auto focus, to keep both of you focused at the same time
My counselor's love y'all💜
That was a great analogy at the beginning!
The Costco analogy though 🔥🔥🔥
Amazing! I love everything about this video. You guys are really inspiring the millennial generation. Keep it up!
Love you guys really enjoy your channel
Everyone can decide to be good to the person they want to be good to. So if they weren't good to you, it's cause they didn't want or choose you.
Very informatove video 😋 #tip grabbed
Lol @ the introoo.. I've always wondered that! *continues watching*
Explaining my life/thoughts starting at 10:11. "You cute, you bomb" is what I literally tell myself lol
Wow 20:24 so good. I never thought about that!!
Can you guys remake or update this video
Loved this !
just bought the book! i am a new subbie! love your channel! i am a woman worth thee wait and waiting til marriage to have sex. February 21, 2019 will be my 3rd year sexually pure. 3 is complete!
An amazing couple
Oh my gosh I am from Cleveland
I am 23 and I’ve dealt with guys who have treated me poorly in the past ... I’m afraid i will never find that special someone or I’ll have to wait yearrrs to meet him. I know if I do have to wait years it’s not the end of the world lol but I’m ready to finally be with the man i deserve after all the crap I’ve been through. I guess I’m losing hope in that person existing for me 😕😕😩 any advice?
Girl I am 25 and still a virgin also never been in a relationship because all the men I.keep on meeting ain't shit sad to say!!!
I loved this❤
Thank you for the knowledge ❤️
Look at the camera please 🤭🥰
but we never answered where are all the good men lmao smh.
lol smh
aestheticsoul692 i was sitting here thinking the same thing🤔 like when are they going to answer the question?
I love you guys👑💓
Thank you dolls! So wish I would've watched this BEFORE seeing my ex two days ago 😥. I always need a little reminder and encouragement because I go back after time..never fails..I just stopped believing the real good guy is out there. And Im a worship leader smh. Whats my problem? Lol I dont know that I believe women should be seeking guys..do y'all agree? Adam didn't go looking either..Eve was presented to him..same with Ruth and Boaz..the one person who sought someone..David..sought after Bathsheba lol..what yall think? I'm rambling😬😂😂 love y'all! Bre..your smile is so sweet!
What is the name of the book again?
"Secrets of an Irresistible Woman" by Michelle McKinney-Hammond😊
At first I thought this was a real story but then I’m like oh wait this is an analogy! I love that never thought of it like that. You guys are so cute ! May God bless your union .! Are you guys doing premarital consoling?
Is there an email we can contact y’all to send in a question?
Ps just started watching 4hrs ago and I’m HOOKED!
Needed to see this❤️bless you both❤️
The first minute of the video 😂😂😂
I am a 39 year old woman who is waiting for marriage. So I should not be in dating websites? Or go speeding dating? I should just kicked it with family and friends. Enjoy life and let God bring the guy my way. I probably making this confusing for myself.
You should just wait sitting in a chair because standing you will get tired.
@@aldaoroman 😆
That's an inspiration. Stay patient princess, you've come along way. GOD won't fail you, he is not a liar. you don't need to rush yourself and i wish i stayed a virgin, well i last mine at 16 to a player (ex boyfriend) but i was raped when i was 15 by schoolboys(ive forgiven them). I was already broken before. I didn't know God then.fast forward I will get married soon.
I am a good man who yet has not found suitable woman.
It should really be called lady and the beast for real.
Lady and the beast lmbooo!
I feel there are plenty of Good Men left. And I say left because, let's be honest, Women now a Days want the cave man. Good Men get disrespected, taken for granted, played with physically, mentally, financially, emotionally, & even Spiritually. Talking from experience. Then will complain how there are no Good Men. You're absolutely right. You're killing them. And steady Chasing down the guy that takes from You,. Belittles You. Hits You. And everything in between. Sad part is, I want so badly, lately, not to be a Good Dude. And it burns 🔥 Me up inside because it's not in My DNA to be as such. From the time I could walk I've been taught a Gentleman's characteristic. I know nothing else.
Show didn’t answer the question...I can be busy all day but nobody looking at me
You guys are to cute!
Doesn’t doing what you’re allowed to do mean you’re NOT a good guy? Good guys make good decisions.
Where are the good men?
Women ran them off, that was what happened to them.
The good men, who had so much love to give to one special woman, were repulsive to the young women, who craved the 'excitement' of sociopathic bad boys.
Eventually, the good men gave up and walked away.
They do not try any more. They just go home to their empty beds and broken hearts every night.
You two should make separate videos like his perspective her perspective so Dre can get all his thoughts out and you can get your spur of the moment thoughts out. I felt like Dre was about to drop another nugget but you cut him off & he lost it. Otherwise this was an informative video
Agreed
You can totally see the difference when y'all don't look in the camera lol.
HERE IS A MESSAGE
NO HYMEN NO DIAMOND.
I'm a black woman and I think all the good men are white
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bre