This was a lovely video. I am 37 and struggle so much with confidence in my art. After going to Graphic design school I was so burned out that I stopped drawing for 10 years. Coming back to it was hard but it feels good. I don't think I foresee an art career for me but at least i can express myself artistically again.
Hi! I’ve also struggled with my art career! I went back to school for a graphic design degree. I graduated in May at age 48. My thinking was then I could do work that was creative while I continue my fine art. I’m hoping we can both express our art and maybe have an art career, too. :)
I just turned 38 and graduated in May at 37, after returning to school for Web & Digital Media Design. I landed a remote, full time Graphic Design role and like Amylouise below, I hope to keep this stable career while investing more time into building my art skill/routine/career dream . It's never too late
Thank you for sharing your story. I have a similar past, went to artschool and burned out.. stopped making art seriously for 10 years. Now I’m picking it back up and hopefully be artistically fluent again. I wish you the best!!!
Oh.. so valueable this video, thank you so much Mimi!!!! And I can relate many of you who commented below❤️ although I did not take an artschool in my childhood bec of my parents they said I cannot make money from it…I was totally burnout few years ago because of pleasing everyone around me…then everything changed finally! Now I am in an prof illustrator designer course and have gorgeous mentors and like-minded fellow artists with similar backgrounds. I just turned to 39 but never been so dedicated about my dreams and goals!!!
Thank you for this. I'm 53 and have begun this journey. Thank you for assuring me that I haven't "missed the boat." I am a terrible critic of myself. Thank you for your positive, uplifting advice.
As a 49yr old, I have recently rediscovered my love for art and drawing. I’ve always “dabbled” but thought of it more as a way to fill time when I was bored. But it’s something I truly love to do and I found after spending several weeks getting back into the flow of drawing daily that I do in fact have a style. Who knew? This video was so informative and uplifting ❤
I never comment on TH-cam but my goodness, the level of maturity and rationality you have really inspires me. The way you addressed each fear with kindness and detail and then gave pointers to take charge of our fears shows how much you care. I have never adored someone the way I adore you. I had/have many of the fears you mentioned and got to understand a lot! Thank you so much and please keep making videos and creating your artwork! ♥
"The time will pass anyway" is such an obviously true statement that I'm sure most of us don't stop to think about it often enough. But it does pass. I wanted to start down a path towards an art business when I started working from home during the pandemic, but today I'm no closer to that goal than I was then. I didn't pursue my dream, and the time passed anyway. But luckily, time passing never means that we've missed some magical "perfect" moment and now we have to give up. You can always choose today as the time to start.
I never comment on TH-cam videos - this is actually my first one! - but I felt compelled to tell you how valuable this is. I’ve always struggled with perfectionism and not feeling good enough. But, this video has inspired me to keep going! Not having an art style has always held me back, but I just need to trust the process. Plus, my art Instagram account is approaching 100 followers, so I can’t be that bad!!! Thank you Mimi for sharing your story and for encouraging us as always x
Aw thanks so much for your lovely comment, Chloe! Definitely keep going, you'll only develop more and more as you practice (even if it's not perfect) 🌷✨
dont think too much about art style honestly. Its important to become a good artist first and then you can develop any style you want. Style is a tool just like the brush you use and its natural to be all over the place when youre still learning
Hey Chloe, I grew up surrounded by perfectionist degreed professionals, so it was easy to catch that bug. It's one thing to honestly give things your best efforts and intentions, another to not be able to stop messing with it or make yourself or loved ones feel less than good enough. Btw, you're at least 40 followers ahead of me on Instagram, so I'm impressed! If you ever need encouragement, consider me a fan.
I have a hard time finding people making money solely from digital art and or can only do everything Remotely. It’s my situation right now. I have health problems and it makes it hard to do a lot of things. This video really explains the struggles of an artist and my family does mean well. But often try to push me into jobs they want me to do. But I know they want me to be happy too. I love them no matter what. If you’re a true artist, you’ll follow your heart no matter the obstacles
Thank you thank you thank you for mentioning energy along with time! Everybody keeps saying you can always find 10 or 30 minutes in your day... yeah, but after a day of full-time work, taking care of a small child (or several), other household responsibilities, some exercise and maybe the odd neighbor or relative passing away (that's what's been happening here, like constantly), you might just need these 10 minutes to sit down and stare into space. 😔
I'm loving your comment, not sure you'll see this cause it's been 2 years since your comment🤣🤣. I'm currently a full- time hospital Respiratory Therapist at Night, & I homeschool my boy during the day. And I'm trying to start my little business moving at what feels like a snails pace. My initial reason was so I could be more present for my son, and be a light of comfort to those I may reach in the world through my art. It all started during COVID when I started watercolor painting to get my mind off things, it was a mental refuge. I think Mimi here has given me some hope, that just starting and somehow being consistent, will eventually pay off. But I feel like I need that "staring into space" for a few minutes is suuuuch a healing/saving thing for me right now?😂 If I can make this happen, in the few minutes of down time in between patients at work at night how encouraging would THAT be!?😂😂 Someday I'll be able to fit MYSELF back into my life, with msybesome exercise and actual cooking...
this video was like a hug to me, I recently jumped into the commissions thingy and oh Lord, the anxiety that I feel isn't normal, I just feel like what I do isn't good enough for my clients even if they say that it does look good... I hope it gets better with time because I do really want a career in art ://
I always feel a twang of anxiety when I send a client a commission because I'm a little scared that they won't like it! Definitely listen to their feedback though, if they say they like it then you did a great job! Commissions are such great practice, so keep it up 🌷
Feel you, but that is common when doing new things. Each commision will give experience and with time you may feel used to it. Good luck with it ^^ the habit creates the confidence sometimes
Oh boy here we go... 1) Low Self Value -This has always been a problem for me and my work. I have worked with art in some capacity for most of my life, no matter if I get praise from family or strangers I always feel it is never good enough. This is the curse of looking at work though your own eyes, you will always want something to change or to be better. As I have been working with myself to better the bond between my creativity and mind I have been learning to let each piece go once I reach that point of "done". Move onto the next with the knowledge you have gained, make the next work better than the last. 2) Perfectionism and Overthinking -Having OCD and Anxiety makes everything on this list, but especially this one, super hard to deal with. I have been working more in my sketchbooks which allow me to set my mind aside a bit and help me let things happen that they may. Give myself the space to just sketch things out instead of it being perfect. Don't get me wrong my body still forces it out of me bringing me back to item number one. 3) Financial Stability -The wonderful soul crushing realization that all artists go through or avoid art for that reason. I went to college because I and my family wanted it for my future. I spent literally THREE YEARS telling myself that art won't make me money and that I needed to pick something else to be passionate about that will sustain my life and passions. Surprise, surprise, I hated everything. Not necessarily everything but nothing came to me as a permanent thought that I would enjoy what I did after college that would make me money. I took art classes every year if not every semester and loved them all but the others never stuck. So after being an undecided major for three years I caved and went into art, knowing the cost of loans and the problem of finding work after. I graduated in the beginning stages of covid in 2020. Go figure.... Now that everything is calmer and now I have the financial freedom to take the risk I am finally trying to push myself to create for a living, no matter how slow it is. 4) External Comparison -I don't do this really, however my subconscious will always fight me. I love art, I love other creators' art, I take inspiration from other artists and nature but I always come back to that thought to where my skill isn't good enough for selling and my perfectionism fights for my skills to be better. Low self value plays a large role in deciding if I am "ready" to let my art into the world. 5) No Time -Yeah... Having a demanding full time job to pay off that college debt has bitten me in the butt for this. Now that I am happily married, financially stable and am fully capable of giving into my art my energy is tapped due to the physical demands of my job. When I have that creative buzz throughout the day but I am stuck at work coming home and just wanting to plop down on the couch and not do anything makes the creativity sit in sadness too. I have more big changes coming up in my life so I hope that with that comes the drive to really deep dive into my work. 6) No Art Style -College was where this hit me the hardest. I love realistic work from myself however any other style I admire from other artists. Because, that's just not where my comfort lies. This doesn't bother me much anymore because style happens naturally, you don't need to "find it", you develop it naturally throughout your creative process. If you aren't happy with where you are, learn from those you admire. You would be amazed about what you can learn from those who share their work. 7) Wasting Time -HAHA! Another one. This has been the biggest concern for me lately in all aspects of my life. Now don't laugh.... I am approaching thirty and still have no idea what to do with my life. No surprise, many that are in their golden years are still finding themselves and what they love to do, but that doesn't have to be me. I never feel that my time with art is wasted. Art has and will never be a waste to me. Everything is a learning experience that helps you get to a better version of yourself. Its just myself (or yourself) that gets in the way. My only thing is that I wish I could devote myself fully to my work without having to take what feels like so much time away before I can come back again. Don't even get me started on incomplete projects...... 8) Social Approval -Two words. "TRY ME". I as well as many of the artists I have known and loved get scrutinized because of what, how, why they do what they do. It's just human nature to criticize what we think is good or bad. I don't care for social approval anymore. I knew going into art that not everyone likes it (still makes me angry about the "value of art in the real world" argument). My words of wisdom for anyone who reads this, You are not for everyone. Art is for yourself. It is for people who love the things you do. It is for the people that can relate or see things in your work that you may not have even noticed yourself. So F**k everyone else. You put your work out there if you are brave enough and those who you would consider your people will come naturally with caring hearts and the kindness to hold you up to better yourself. 9) Late to Start -I don't feel "late" per say more along the lines of "I can't get started when I so desperately want to. Or the best way to do so. 10) Fear of Failure -This will always be here to remind you how much you care about your work. Failure is just a reminder of how much you want it to work and to slow you down so you can reassess the best course of action for you. My failure is never starting or not finishing. I am working with myself to change this of course but I hope deep down, that you realize that failure is not the end. It's an uncomfortable pothole that will force you to panic but know this, you can always help yourself or get others to help you change the tire and continue on.
I love that you separated them into bullet points and gave advices on how to look forward on our art journey. I'm glad to saw this in premiere and talking with other artists as well. Love this vid 💖💖
I actually agree with you on almost everything. Stay Postitive, stay trying, don't let excuses get in the way. I work a job that is anywhere from an 8 hour to 10 hour day but I find those 5-10 minutes to draw down ideas which creates more ideas that I can sketch on a new page, and fill in later so A really GOOD TIP: Take your sketchbook like your wallet, everywhere!
My heart breaks for all the 30-50 Y.O. artists here in the comments who stopped creating altogether because of lack of confidence or support 😢 But I'm happy to see that there are also so many of you that have gotten back into it despite past experiences! I'm turning 26 this week and I can relate to all the points you've made to some degree. It can be so overwhelming to even come up with a plan for how to move forward. Thank you for sharing your advice in such an easy to digest way and for encouraging such an open and compassionate community!
Gosh, you are so inspiring. I'm turning 50 with a busy job. I loved creating art when I was a kid but dropped my passion along the way. Hope to start with digital doodling again.
Thank you for this video ❤️☺️ I'm 37 mommy and just started to learn the basics of drawing, even though I usually draw for my son and since younger, but not with method and intention like now :) this gives me motivation to keep going and have fun to achieve what I want some day. Hugs ❤️
That is so sweet! I want to wish you luck on your journey and just want to say that expressing your creativity will definitely help your son grow his! I remember drawing with my mom as a kid and how much she loved scrapbooking and those times together helped me foster my love for drawing and feel like I had something I could really connect with and share with my mom!
Just thank you for the line: "You're so deserving of your dreams." It hit hard. I'm ready to make art my business. I just need to tell my brain to shush more often, haha. Thanks again!
I just posted art for the first time in years and when I heard you say you started at 28 like me it really gave me some fuel to use to propel myself forward into this art career Im trying to build for myself!
Hello! 🌸 I'm new here but I've been hitting a slump over the past couple of months. I've been feeling really lost and alone like I don't belong anywhere. Truth be told, I've never felt like I've truly belonged in any community. I've never felt heard, never felt seen, never felt needed or wanted. I have a lot of the fears you spoke of in your video. I fear failure on many levels yet have dreams that feel impossible. I still am having some problems on figuring out how to have the courage to be a part of something. I want to be part of a community. I want to feel like I belong somewhere. I want to feel like things are possible and that the future is bright. I also am struggling to know where to start. 🙃 Thank you for taking the time to make such uplifting videos and content! ☺️ Your story and journey leaves more of an impact than you know.🥰
Your "feeling overwhelmed?" Playlist always gets me back on track when motivation slips away. I love how realistic, down-to-earth and peaceful your videos are. Really makes me believe a 100% that I can do it too with hard work and patience. Thank you so much for showing the good and challenging sides of your art journey! Happy Friday Everyone!
When I was younger, all I really cared for was expressing myself through art. I remember having a really close friend in my early adult years when I didn't really have much of anything. I wanted to give them a gift and even though I couldn't buy them something extravagant, the best way I knew to show my love and gratitude was through art. I was excited to bring up the idea of painting something for them and their response was pretty much just "why would I want that? What would I do with it?".. I'm sure almost all of us grew up hearing that art was a waste, you can't make a living off of it etc..and this was just before you could blow up on social media doing whatever you loved. So yeah...it finally got to me.. what was really the point of even my closest family/friends couldn't care less of anything I made. And now with all the great artists out there, all the pressure to have the best supplies..and all of that..it's just all very intimidating to get back into it especially when it feels like all your creativity was zapped from you. That's what I struggle with. When you're an adult too it feels like if you do anything, it has to be making you money so you can survive or it's just a waste of time, so there's also a lot of guilt in trying to just do something even if only for the enjoyment especially when it costs money to have waht you need to do it. And when you're not perfect or as good as you'd like, it feels like you're wasting time, money, and supplies. The struggle is real.
Doing art is not a waste of time. It's also therapy. In the old days there were things called pastimes. Things to do to pass the time. These days everyone feels guilty just passing time, but it is good for the soul.
Thank you very much Mimi for taking the time to make this video. I'm sure that it will be very helpful for a lot of people. I sat at my desk, crafting, while I listened and I must say I agree with you on all that you've said. I also recognize a lot of them. Being 53 years old now does indeed make me feel like I can take all of my life experience and pour it into my creativity. I've learned to go back to creating just for myself which helped resolve a lot of anxiety.
I love that you probably feel like you don't create unique content but ended up creating a video so practical that it became unique from other self help and motivational videos. This was an incredibly helpful video, thank you so much for taking the time to make it!
I'm also 28 right now and starting to finally listen to that artistic voice that I had in me as a child and that was shut down many years ago. Now I feel like I'm finally choosing a path for myself instead of letting or waiting for someone else choose it for me. In my case, drawing played a part in my childhood years, but now, since the pandemic started, I've done more and more crocheting e discovered punch needling. I've started my instagram account and I have a vision of where I want my atelier to look like, the people I want to reach as clients, and I have a list of things and collections of products I've designed and am slowly actually producing them. My fears are: approaching stores and people to sell my product to or to display my product at, the marketing and digital part of the business that I have no clue as a form of reaching my potential client, aaand many others...
I love at the end, “i am an illustrator”. I have watched videos that explains when you want to be something then do it. Even if you have vision boards and write a story envisioning yourself as the person that you wanna be. Slowly but surely over time you will become that person. This was a beautiful reminder to not give up on that goal. ❤
Much needed encouragement. I tend to get allot of "30:34 8 - Worrying That Your Family, Friends or Community Won’t Approve." I have struggled most of my life with it. I have a loving husband that supports me and has made it his life goal to help me accomplish what others do not approve of because of their back grounds and beliefs. We continue to struggle with the same trails. I keep posting video's similar to you to show that it is possible. I am so glad to hear others out there that believe the same way we do. Thank you.
„Ask yourself 'What if I succeed?'" was so impactful, it actually made me cry. I'm totally unhappy with my current „career/job“ and always dreamt of doing illustrations. People around me told me I'd be good at drawing but I was a total jerk and stupid so I stopped drawing, I thought doing something with art as a main job would be ridiculous and some friends always were kind of jealous, which was very depressing for me - even if they didn't want to hurt me. Thank you. I started drawing again a few weeks ago, but this time I won't quit. Ever. Again.
To anyone feeling scared to start, I’m right there with you! I have so many artistic passions that I don’t know where to start. If you’re scared you won’t make it, I heard something that really helped me. It was something along the lines of if you are scared you won’t get to the finish line, die on the road. It’s better to have tried than have not and live in regret! I love you all and I hope your passions continue to drive you past your fears!
I just want to say THANK YOU for giving me a push. I was already planning to start my journey with my art. I have my tools, watercolors and color pencils. I have starting drawing and sketching but was hesitant to record videos of it or post my output and create my own page and channel because I feel that it was not good enough. Despite that, this video pushed me to do it anyway, I'll embrace my clumsy art style and just want to enjoy the journey while improving ♥ ♥ GOD BLESS YOU MIMI !! For inspiring and having a positive community. You art is really my inspiration. Just looking your art gives that warm vibe that just makes you smile, calms my heart, and makes me at ease. Thank you so much again ♥ ♥
This was such an amazing video, I had almost all the fears listed. You really made me feel comforted and like I could really do this. I really want to thank you for making this long video I loved every minute ❤️. I hope all of us artist cultivate the strength to believe in ourselves and our art 🥰 we can do it !
I loooove longer videos😍 Sometimes I feel doubt and anxiety when drawing and put those kinds of videos on. They make me relaxed and let me enjoy the process 🙏
I watched it all first thing in the morning and it makes me feel so much comfortable and at ease to listen to these fears being spoken about. Thanks Mimi for a wonderful video, i wish more n more artists have a nice time listening to these amazing 40 mins of guidance and relatability you provide ✨✏️
You don't even realize how much you're helping me by this video!!! Thank you so much!! This feels like a breath of new inspiration to me, gonna draw tonight hehe~~
Thank you for this! I've seen a few videos like this, but never were they in this much detail and full of great suggestions! I personally have been dealing with the fear of not developing an art style. A part of me wants one, but another part of me doesn't because I like experimenting with different mediums of expression. But I think my biggest fear is having my art that I post online get stolen (or worse, having my overall portfolio leached out and stolen altogether). I know its unfortunately very common (and its happened to me before already) and should be expected, but just the thought of someone taking my art that I love so much and that I have a personal connection with being taken in the blink of an eye is horrifying. I'm slowing trying to get over it. I have been trying to reconfigure my brain to not let it get to me. Here's what I tell my brain: no one is actually going to steal ALL of your work (I have other pieces that I keep to myself), you can always make something else (and potentially better too) and just the thought of being held back by this imaginary dark cloud (having my art stolen) be the ONE THING that stops me from my overall dream is something that I cannot accept, no matter how scary it is. I don't know when I'll conquer this, but I just know I gotta face it!
Thank you. You're making me think more deeply about this. When I got back into art after a couple decades away, I did the "writer thing" of imaging one person as your ideal audience... but I made the mistake of choosing a real person. And, of course, then experienced a couple things that felt like direct rejection by them, and some not nice comments by others. Paired with my MH issues with abandonment, etc, the sudden art block was a like a stone wall slamming into place. Trying to find the freedom of not caring what anyone thinks of it but me. Tho now, I have the inner critic telling me it's never good enough. I think I DO have really high expectations of myself.
A friend of mine told me something just yesterday that I think will help me achieve an art career. Don’t let your emotions keep you from doing the the things you need to get done. Our emotions are usually all over the place and before you know it your sitting on the couch watching Netflix. Be aware of what your doing and trying to achieve.
Thank you so so much for making this video, I can relate to quite a few of these and knowing that I’m not the only one makes me feel better. You said to reach out to others in the comments, so here’s me taking a chance: one of the things I struggle with the most is not having anyone to share the journey of becoming an illustrator with. I can’t afford art school, my old friends are moving on with their lives and don’t share the same interests as me. I’m trying to build my portfolio (I want to become a children’s book illustrator), but I struggle to fully commit to it, I feel like I can procrastinate as much as I want since no one’s really “watching” and I don’t have to meet a deadline. Is anyone here struggling with the same thing and would like to have an accountability partner? We could check on each other’s progress once or twice a week, give some feedback and share whatever we’re struggling with. Feel free to reach out if you like this idea! 🥰
Hi Moniado, I read your comment about your struggle and just wanted to let you know that some years ago was in the exact same spot and doubting if I wanted to pursue my art career or not. I also did not go through art school and wanted to become a children’s book illustrator. I was also the only one in my friend group and community. I just wanted to let you know that it is very possible and there are communities online to join, connect with and grow with :) Last year I ended up signing with an agent and this year my first picture book is released, and more is in the making :) So keep going, you’re on the right track! Video’s like this help so much and give so much inspiration. Some extra tips for your journey: What helped me a lot with my skills in making picture book illustrations were the courses provided by SVS. They have a monthly subscription and all things picture book related from A to Z in their courses. They also have a free forum and a monthly drawing challenge that is great for developing your portfolio. You can also find accountability buddies there. What helped me as well were portfolio reviews, to get some feedback and know where to add to and refine my portfolio. Much luck and fun in your journey! ❤️
That's a great idea! I also really struggled with accountability a lot in the beginning. I looked at your Instagram and your art is SO CUTE, I'd love to see more! 🥰
Hello! I’m going through a similar situation. I really want to pursue a career in illustration and can’t got to art school as of now but I’d rather not this is my first time trying to be self taught and it’s going really well for me. I want to discuss colour palettes, ideas and brushes so much but though I have artists in my family, they use traditional medium. I need some accountability too yo stay comsksten on Instagram. The goal is to get some traffic enough to get some sponsorship and projects my way. So I’d love to be part of your art journey, if you’d have me of course 😄 I’m from Mumbai India. My handle is @anjanaayyar
This video came to me in the perfect time! I have been procratinating for SOO Many year... I been an artist my entire life, I just never shared my art to the world, BUT now finally after many friends and family have nudge me to take that leap into actually start selling my art. I have always struggled with my own insecurity in my art, and been scared that I will never be as good as I want to be. NOW I am implimenting a rutine of consistency, to help me on my journey into having an art business
Hello Mimi, thank you so much for this video. I am a little late to have stumbled upon this video but this video in itself is like therapy - explaining all of life's challenges in the most artistic way. I can watch this video or just close my eyes and hear it over and over again just to gain a new perspective on life. I needed this very badly and i think with this, the universe is conspiring in my favor. Thanks a ton. Love from India.
I can verify your advice about feeling afraid to make art, if you just start making it for yourself regularly eventually you will find that confidence. I've been doing exactly that for 10 years and it has made all the difference!🎉 My problem now is the art business, I've tried a few things but am having the hardest time figuring out how to do the business side in a steady, consistent way that doesn't overwhelm me.😧
Thank you! I recently lost my job and I’m focusing on art for a bit until it gets me as far as it can or until I get a new job. I love your channel and I send lots of positive vibes your way :)
Thank you for sharing this! I think the biggest thing for me was the things people said about artists not being able to make it, that only graphic design is something one could pursue if you're willing to work on advertisements for other companies. That idea really ticked me off. I never wanted to work to make somebody else's dream come true. I wanted to work on my own dreams so I discontinued my pursuit and tried out other avenues which weren't nearly as exciting to me as art. Looking at how things have changed and how easier it has become to get your foot in the door as an artist I've come back over after more than a decade and now a busy mom. I am lucky now though to see things through my son's eyes. It is true that we can learn a lot from our children. They have no fear, my son is now doing art with me and while his art might be far from perfect but he is selling art cards at markets along with me. His art speaks to people and so does anybody else's art. You just have to take that leap, do your best and put it out. Even if you don't like your piece of art. I have sold art at craft shows that I never thought would sell and they ended up being a hit!! Now I need to work on getting more organized and getting up on my social media game and maybe I can reach a larger audience. It really is just about your passion and sharing that with people! Authenticity sells :))))
I cried watching this video! Thank you so much for making this💕 it really means a lot to hear this things. I hope to become an illustrator and inspire others with my journey like you one day (soon) 🦋 i'm 25 and it had been many years since I stopped drawing because hard situations in my life and fear of failure but I know this is what I want to do and that is not too late for me💖 Ps: greetings from Ecuador💛
I really need to thank you for this video. It seems I've been experiencing all 10 fears about having a creative career. But as I listened to this video, I opened one of my sketch books and began working on my favourite style: Pointillism. While I'm glad I found part-time work in photography, I will still be working on my art and literature. In time, I'll show them all what I can really do! Thanks again!
This video has so many beatiful thoughts and reflections in it. Im 27 and have lost my artistic side for quite some years, since middle school to be exact. I've restarted drawing and bullet journaling during the pandemic and many people tell me that I should share it online, but many points you touched in this videos hold me back. Selfdoubt and being overwhelmed by where to start mostly. As you said, it doesnt need to be perfect to be wonderful, and I think I should just post it online and slowly see where my art journey is taking me.
First I’d like to say just how impressed I am with how organized and thorough you are when explaining things, and how your videos are edited so professionally. They are pleasurable to watch while learning. Second, I can relate to almost everything on this list. As a 50 year old male that is struggle financially because I’m paralyzed by all the thoughts and fears of failing, and not knowing what my true purpose is, I have to say all of the reasons listed are definitely valid and are a real struggle no matter your age. What stinks is, agreeing with and understanding everything you are saying, yet not being able to take a step forward. It’s so stressful and emotionally painful. I’m very disappointed in myself for not being a better person.
Thank you so much for your insight. One of my BIGGEST fears are financial stability, as I work a full-time job and feel so drained of energy, I barely have the fortitude to keep practicing my art. I feel as if I am in a rock and a hard place because I do have natural art talent, and have spent my life attending art colleges, including web design. But I have also spent so much of my life working less than great paying conventional jobs to keep from becoming a "starving artist". Now, being in my 60s scares me because retirement looms around the corner, and I will continue on that dead-end pragmatic path to working unfulfilling jobs. This video, and many of your other videos, is helping overcome those fears. I won't quit my job tomorrow and plunge into the unknown, but you are an inspiration to help me put a plan into place. 🙂
Your content is seriously incredible value. I’ve been watching and nodding along to so many of them. It’s like I see myself reflected in it, and then you sort of soothe the negative thoughts that had been sticking around. I’ve been getting so inspired by artists on TH-cam for years now, yet never actually thought I could “be an artist”. I’m still not 100% sold that I could. But these sorts of videos allow me to dream freely and ask the honest questions I need to about what I want and wish for. Thank you!
This video has come at such a good time for me. I am in the process of pushing myself to focus more on my art. I really wanna leave my current job to focus on my art and a lot of the talking points and fears are things I am struggling with currently. What you had to say has me thinking. Thank you for this. 🙏
This whole video just listed my whole life as bullet points. I constantly have anxiety that im kidding myself. I know i have skills and talents enough to do this but not having the success to back though thoughs make me feel like banging my head on a wall. And not having support is rough when i ask for help and the people closest to me dont know how to support me. Yet i keep trying
Thank you so so much for this wonderful video! I was suprised how fast it was over because I knew it's 40 minutes long. I love listening to you! You said so many wonderful things which made me positive about myself and my future and calmed me down in my head. It's so important that we speak about all the topics you mentioned in your video especially our fears. I think as a beginner you tend to think other artists on another level have all their stuff together and figured everything out, but no. We are all struggeling, having fears and selfdoubt in every "level" we are in. Nobody figured it out to 100% and this is ok. We should talk about this way more often and help each other, support each other and say, it's okay to be scared, to have fears but we will all got this, together! 💕
I'm a musician with a music channel but I absolutely love your videos! I really connect with the fear of financial stability and feeling like I don't have enough time. I know it'd be better if I posted more but it's just really hard with a full-time work schedule sometimes and life (family members getting sick, etc.) so I'm just posting at a slow but manageable pace for now, building for the future. Watching this video gave me a lot of comfort and confidence in continuing to pursue my music slowly but steadily, thank you! :)
Thank you so much Mimi, for this amazing video. There are problems and solutions too in this video. My most loved part of the video is when you say, "I believe in you." 😇
Wow...That was fantastic, Mimi! The Video was not long at all to me because it had info and your enthusiasm showed your level of love for helping others, and I am very grateful people like you still exist in this world, people who can see the good side of things and want for others too! ❤️ I enjoyed your organization and neatness both in your studio and your sketching and illustration; as a visual person, your cute organized steps helped me to learn a few and reminded me to not let the old thought and negative limited beliefs back to me. I loved when you mentioned something about 2 years will pass and why not have my art in my life than a negative irritating thought; I am 57, never could see one day I will be this age and still not feel it, and I guess is a good message for younger than me to follow what you said 👍; many of the 10 excuses were applied to me, all those that only from my thought and not the reality were kept me back, but now a good reminder to me and sure others to not wait and just do the action! Much appreciate and Love ❤️ 🙏
Being a 14 yr old beginner , I sometimes feel I'm not giving proper time to art due to I my studies but, I love doing art and whenever I get free time I try to test out some fun thing and post it . Thank you so much for this video ! 💛
I'm so glad I came across this video in my recommended feed! I've never quite felt like something was speaking directly to me so strongly. This is heaped full of not just understanding and acknowledgement of the difficulties creatives from all disciplines face, but offers helpful ideas to overcome them. Thank you so much for this epic video!! I wish I could adequately express what this has meant to me.
Letting go of Perfectionism and just Letting Yourself Do the Thing, was my biggest hurdle, but it vaulted me forward so much when I finally turned off the critical self-judgement buttons and just gave myself permission to make what I wanted.
For me I think my fear is that I have nothing to say with my art so I therefore won’t make anything truly great. I feel like I’m in a major block where I have no vision of what I want to make and so I haven’t made anything in a while and I think thats what’s keeping me from my creativity flow. I also worry about the concept of making it my career because it’s the only thing I’m best at but I worry that I won’t go far with it or won’t be good at it
The best advice I can give you Mush is that finding a passion/interests take time, we may not have it overnight even. But one thing is true is that once you realize your weakness, you can turn them into strengths. We all are human, and we all make mistakes even me. I adore family-friendly content such as cartoons and I was picked on for it for liking Looney Tunes, Mickey Mouse, Toy Story, the Incredibles content. But I realized that are people who love cartoons like me and that I am not alone, and I have learned that if I love something, you can achieve anything you set your mind onto, as long as you put in the dedication, hard work and love. I hope this advice helps.
“What I want to address in this video is how we might shift our thoughts and feelings about these things that are holding ourselves back, from giving our fears the permission to direct our inaction, to giving ourselves the permission to take action and work towards our dreams.” Wow, that is such a powerful statement. I really have let my fears hold me back so many years, especially when I did feel like I failed at my attempts of being an artistic entrepreneur so many times in the past (I failed at my attempted crafting small business, my TH-cam channel, Twitch streaming, and my tarot business). Ever since I could remember, and whenever anyone asked me what I wanted to be when I was a kid, I would always say “artist.” But I had so much trouble further defining what that actually meant. I am still trying to figure out what “artist” means to me. I’ve always struggled to define what I can bring to the table, what my skills are, and how I can provide value to others. Basically I’ve struggled with confidence in my own work. Even though I have a degree in Design, I’ve never felt confident enough in my work to pursue a formal career and have never held a career salaried position. I’m getting scared I might have missed the boat on those opportunities because I was dealing with depression and feelings of inadequacy. I really did convince myself that maybe I’m just not cut out for this whole creative business life and maybe I should just give up. And for a while, I really did give up on my dreams. I stopped drawing. I stopped making, well, anything. I was severely depressed because I couldn’t stomach yet another failure. I wished in vain that I had different, more “achievable” dreams. But I can’t get anywhere sitting still and taking no action forward, even if sometimes it feels like going backwards in some ways. Failure makes me feel like I’m swimming, drowning in a sea of possibles, and sometimes I don’t know which way I’m swimming. Am I swimming up or am I just swimming further and further down? But as Dory says, “Just keep swimming.”
This video is fantastic! And I’m so glad I got to chat with all of the wonderful creative people in the live chat ❤ Thank you Mimi for this video and the premiere. I think this is the first time I’ve ever managed to catch a live premiere, and I don’t think I have ever been happier to catch one ❤
Aw I'm so glad! It was really lovely to chat with you and hear a bit about your story, I think I'll aim to do a premiere every few weeks because it's a nice way to connect ❤️
Thank you so much Mimi! I'm almost 39 and I think I'm pretty creative in many ways (at least others tell me that).. I have so many ideas, so many things that interest me but I've never committed myself to those ideas.. I get to the first problem and start to think that I will never learn how to do it, I'm too old for that etc... I even got an iPad couple months ago thinking I can do this (start drawing) but then realized I don't know a single thing about drawing and kind of gave up until this video that gave me much needed boost! 😊Thanx Mimi!
This comforted me more than I expected! Thank you! I can relate to all of those fears but what I struggke with the most is productivity, time management, distraction, lack of dicipline or focus. If anyone here would like an art buddy for accountability and exchange, please let me know😊
For those that think it's too late or they are too old: I'm 51, started digital illustration 18 months ago, and still working to improve my skills and find a style, but I already identified a direction. I work in marketing and try to switch to graphic design and illustration. I know this is a long work, I expect one more year to be where I want to be. But most important is that I am following my passions and doing what I love.
I am slowly learning that failures are not a bad thing but an opportunity to learn from and grow. Thankful for your videos. Keep on creating lovlies! ❤
this is artistic GOLD! thank you so much I am a professional artist of 20yrs and feel ive lost my way. watching your videos have inspired me soooo much thank you for the honesty and positive outlook
I started my art journey many years ago. Even went to university to grow myself even more. But somehow I always end up not doing anything. I feel like a failure. I discovered that my mom has a huge impact on my art as well. If she tells me that a piece is not ok (e.g. Do not draw sad things… people won’t like it) I cannot lie to myself that I don’t care. She is an artist living on her own art. How should I keep on doing it if I feel like I will never succeed and even keeping focus is a metter to me.
What a fantastic video! You've covered many of the things I've asked myself over the years. For me, I just decided that art has to be a part of my everyday life because I love doing it so much. I’ve stopped caring about what other people I've never met think of it, because I'd make art anyway. I've only recently joined Instagram, despite making art (and sometimes taking on commissions and selling art) for most of my adult life. Since the situation in 2020 I decided to explore whatever style or medium I wanted to, not just the art that I was previously associated with. I don't worry about the likes or follows being small (after all the algorithm affects that disproportionately anyway!), and this has made things a lot easier for me. I am a home ed parent and primary carer for my mother, so spare time (and energy) is very limited and I know I'm not able to post enough content on social media to make a big impact. I've accepted all those things, and I think that, for me, was a major step forward. That's my story and I hope it helps someone else feel better too ❤
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️I’m the primary caregiver for my mother too and it is so hard to sit down and practice with a fresh mind, but art also feels like a sort of lifeline for me, so it’s something I want to keep going at. Would you have any tips on how you make it work despite the ~exhaustion of life~?
@@PB-yf6or Thank you for your kind comment ❤ My best advice - that I have to remind myself of from time to time - is don't put yourself under any pressure, go with the flow. If you need to rest instead of do art, then rest. The process has to be a positive one to be sustained and to fill your cup, if you know what I mean. Making art a regular part of your schedule doesn't necessarily mean every day. Regular can be, as Mimi said in the video, when you sit and watch TV in the evening. I hope that makes sense.
@@MimimooIllustration thank you Mimi ❤ it's all about mindset, isn't it? After all, if we don't enjoy the process of making art, what is the point? I think creative things should be a fulfilling part of our lives, even if it's what you do for a living and is sometimes a lot of work. Mindset... now there's a whole other subject to discuss! 😊
Thank you so, so much. I have drawn my hole life, i love doing it since I was a kid. I'm 28 yo now and this year I decided to dive in the world of digital illustration (which I dreamed about since I was 17). I can see I improved a lot, but still struggling with some things and i really want to make a business out of it. Your vid calmed lots of insecurities, fears and the anxiety I usually get when I have discouraging thoughts such as "I'm not in the place I want to be yet". Sometimes i forget that in the first place I do this cause I LOVE drawing, but at the same time is such a big personal dream to show my art to other people and make them like it that I just forget to enjoy it and have fun. This video is such a good help and motivation booster. Thank you! I wish u the best💜
I've been procrastinating so much at this point that I even procrastinated watching this video and it waited in my "watch later" list for 2 months before I watched it today. But omg, this was so helpful, super inspiring and motivating. I took notes throughout the entire video to make sure I can bring back this good energy (that I got from watching the video) by looking at my notes. Thank you so much Mimi for taking your time to make such amazing videos for us! 🌞💖
Hi Mimi, i'm so emosional yet inspired thanks to your video. I just have conversations about artist career with my mom but she seems doubting me and keep telling me to switch. I,m sad bcs i dont get much support from my surroundings. Then your channel came up and i strated to watch your video 1 by 1 and I find it amazing, and so thoughtful. You bring my spirit back. Massive thanks to you, Mimi. you're such a kind-hearted and lovely human being.
I always come back to this video whenever I wanna give up on my art because I don't feel it's good enough. Very helpful, Mimi, I deeply appreciate this video! ❤❤
Thank you for all the hard work you put into this video! This is sooo valuable for most of us who lack confidence in their art. I started painting two years ago at 37 and I’m currently on a break since I just gave birth to a lovely daughter. But now I feel so inspired that I try to squeeze in a little time now and then to paint again or at least scribble something. I think it can help to have a limited amount of time so you don’t fool around too much and just get started.
Can I just say after watching this whole video a sincere thanks because everything you described is what I have been going through lately with so much and it brings a smile to my face hearing this. Even earlier I was having frustrations and doubts but this helped me see through and acknowledge I don’t have to perfect which I struggle with most. Thanks
Thank you so much! 💗 This was really helpful! I wanna send a huge encouragement hug to everyone here, the simple fact that we are here means we are moving towards the place we want to get to :)
I don’t know from where I have the quote but here it is: don’t be scared of perfectionism. You won’t reach it :) I love that quote because nothing is perfect since it depends on the point of view
Thank you so much for making this video Mimi. I'm 30 years old and feel hesitant about perusing the creative path for almost all of the factors you mentioned in this video. I feel empowered now realizing lots of them are just what I create in my mind. I guess the most important reason for me has been lacking a supportive community that back me up, and here I found one. Big warm hugs
I really needed to find this; thank you. My Art is my therapy for me, so I do feel it personally when it doesn’t get many likes, or any views, but I also feel it personally when someone says it’s great, or asks me about it, or even shares their criticism. Sometimes it’s negative, but then I like to work on that after going over if it’s ‘true.’ Most of the things you’ve talked about, do hold me back. I’m dead set on doing something with it, though. I feel like that’s what I should do, I’m also not sure where to start.
It's always reassuring to hear so many other artists share the same fears because you at least know that even the most famous ones we've come to recognize have had or still have those doubts like us, yet they have still made it! It goes to show that any one of us has the capacity to reach that height too even when we are experiencing our lowest of lows right now. For me, I'm more worried that I'm not enjoyin art as much as I used to when I was younger; I don't draw much and worst of all, I can hardly keep focus on finishing a small sketch because of my low attention span. Though I know it has stemmed from my complacency and contempt for where I'm at now in my art stage - color is just hard for me to get a grasp on and I feel my style itself is starting to look boring and flat. Art is a long and arduous process and you can't always expect to be keeping up the same pace as others or the same pace as you used to be able to do before. It's *never* consistent I'll tell you that much. I believe if we accept where we are and how much we've changed as we gain more and more skills into our craft, it'll be a lot easier to be *easy on yourself*. Not saying to be content with where you are at or to give up, but to more so realize that we're probably at a different stage than we were ages ago or that we've had a lot more things come up that took priority over our art journey. Lots of things could happen and even if you do find it boring nowadays, there's nothing wrong with that either! You just might need a break from it or you discovered something new to be passionate about : )
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This was a lovely video. I am 37 and struggle so much with confidence in my art. After going to Graphic design school I was so burned out that I stopped drawing for 10 years. Coming back to it was hard but it feels good. I don't think I foresee an art career for me but at least i can express myself artistically again.
Hi! I’ve also struggled with my art career! I went back to school for a graphic design degree. I graduated in May at age 48. My thinking was then I could do work that was creative while I continue my fine art. I’m hoping we can both express our art and maybe have an art career, too. :)
I just turned 38 and graduated in May at 37, after returning to school for Web & Digital Media Design. I landed a remote, full time Graphic Design role and like Amylouise below, I hope to keep this stable career while investing more time into building my art skill/routine/career dream . It's never too late
Thank you for sharing your story. I have a similar past, went to artschool and burned out.. stopped making art seriously for 10 years. Now I’m picking it back up and hopefully be artistically fluent again. I wish you the best!!!
Oh.. so valueable this video, thank you so much Mimi!!!! And I can relate many of you who commented below❤️ although I did not take an artschool in my childhood bec of my parents they said I cannot make money from it…I was totally burnout few years ago because of pleasing everyone around me…then everything changed finally! Now I am in an prof illustrator designer course and have gorgeous mentors and like-minded fellow artists with similar backgrounds. I just turned to 39 but never been so dedicated about my dreams and goals!!!
I’m 43 but I started drawing again after years not to and I’m working hard trying to improve no matter all the years I wasted
Going from "what if i fail" to "what if i succeed" is a game changer, thank you so much for this very needed video ♥
That was a big takeaway for me, too.
100%
Thank you for this. I'm 53 and have begun this journey. Thank you for assuring me that I haven't "missed the boat." I am a terrible critic of myself. Thank you for your positive, uplifting advice.
As a 49yr old, I have recently rediscovered my love for art and drawing. I’ve always “dabbled” but thought of it more as a way to fill time when I was bored. But it’s something I truly love to do and I found after spending several weeks getting back into the flow of drawing daily that I do in fact have a style. Who knew? This video was so informative and uplifting ❤
I am 54 years old and fear of failure holds me back. Your video has helped me out with dealing with these feelings thank you
I never comment on TH-cam but my goodness, the level of maturity and rationality you have really inspires me. The way you addressed each fear with kindness and detail and then gave pointers to take charge of our fears shows how much you care. I have never adored someone the way I adore you. I had/have many of the fears you mentioned and got to understand a lot! Thank you so much and please keep making videos and creating your artwork! ♥
That is so kind of you to say, thank you for the lovely feedback!
"The time will pass anyway" is such an obviously true statement that I'm sure most of us don't stop to think about it often enough. But it does pass. I wanted to start down a path towards an art business when I started working from home during the pandemic, but today I'm no closer to that goal than I was then. I didn't pursue my dream, and the time passed anyway.
But luckily, time passing never means that we've missed some magical "perfect" moment and now we have to give up. You can always choose today as the time to start.
Each time I'm feeling low about my art journey, I come back to this video and listening to your words helps me feeling better !
"[Falling] into the trap of thinking that not creating anything is safer than creating something that fails because it isn't perfect..." ❣
I never comment on TH-cam videos - this is actually my first one! - but I felt compelled to tell you how valuable this is. I’ve always struggled with perfectionism and not feeling good enough. But, this video has inspired me to keep going! Not having an art style has always held me back, but I just need to trust the process. Plus, my art Instagram account is approaching 100 followers, so I can’t be that bad!!! Thank you Mimi for sharing your story and for encouraging us as always x
Aw thanks so much for your lovely comment, Chloe! Definitely keep going, you'll only develop more and more as you practice (even if it's not perfect) 🌷✨
Let your style develop naturally as sticking to one too soon might stop you from creating fabulous pieces in the future.
dont think too much about art style honestly. Its important to become a good artist first and then you can develop any style you want. Style is a tool just like the brush you use and its natural to be all over the place when youre still learning
Hey Chloe, I grew up surrounded by perfectionist degreed professionals, so it was easy to catch that bug. It's one thing to honestly give things your best efforts and intentions, another to not be able to stop messing with it or make yourself or loved ones feel less than good enough. Btw, you're at least 40 followers ahead of me on Instagram, so I'm impressed! If you ever need encouragement, consider me a fan.
I have a hard time finding people making money solely from digital art and or can only do everything Remotely. It’s my situation right now. I have health problems and it makes it hard to do a lot of things. This video really explains the struggles of an artist and my family does mean well. But often try to push me into jobs they want me to do. But I know they want me to be happy too. I love them no matter what. If you’re a true artist, you’ll follow your heart no matter the obstacles
Thank you thank you thank you for mentioning energy along with time! Everybody keeps saying you can always find 10 or 30 minutes in your day... yeah, but after a day of full-time work, taking care of a small child (or several), other household responsibilities, some exercise and maybe the odd neighbor or relative passing away (that's what's been happening here, like constantly), you might just need these 10 minutes to sit down and stare into space. 😔
I'm loving your comment, not sure you'll see this cause it's been 2 years since your comment🤣🤣.
I'm currently a full- time hospital Respiratory Therapist at Night, & I homeschool my boy during the day. And I'm trying to start my little business moving at what feels like a snails pace.
My initial reason was so I could be more present for my son, and be a light of comfort to those I may reach in the world through my art.
It all started during COVID when I started watercolor painting to get my mind off things, it was a mental refuge.
I think Mimi here has given me some hope, that just starting and somehow being consistent, will eventually pay off. But I feel like I need that "staring into space" for a few minutes is suuuuch a healing/saving thing for me right now?😂
If I can make this happen, in the few minutes of down time in between patients at work at night how encouraging would THAT be!?😂😂
Someday I'll be able to fit MYSELF back into my life, with msybesome exercise and actual cooking...
this video was like a hug to me, I recently jumped into the commissions thingy and oh Lord, the anxiety that I feel isn't normal, I just feel like what I do isn't good enough for my clients even if they say that it does look good... I hope it gets better with time because I do really want a career in art ://
I always feel a twang of anxiety when I send a client a commission because I'm a little scared that they won't like it! Definitely listen to their feedback though, if they say they like it then you did a great job! Commissions are such great practice, so keep it up 🌷
Feel you, but that is common when doing new things. Each commision will give experience and with time you may feel used to it. Good luck with it ^^ the habit creates the confidence sometimes
Oh boy here we go...
1) Low Self Value
-This has always been a problem for me and my work. I have worked with art in some capacity for most of my life, no matter if I get praise from family or strangers I always feel it is never good enough. This is the curse of looking at work though your own eyes, you will always want something to change or to be better. As I have been working with myself to better the bond between my creativity and mind I have been learning to let each piece go once I reach that point of "done". Move onto the next with the knowledge you have gained, make the next work better than the last.
2) Perfectionism and Overthinking
-Having OCD and Anxiety makes everything on this list, but especially this one, super hard to deal with. I have been working more in my sketchbooks which allow me to set my mind aside a bit and help me let things happen that they may. Give myself the space to just sketch things out instead of it being perfect. Don't get me wrong my body still forces it out of me bringing me back to item number one.
3) Financial Stability
-The wonderful soul crushing realization that all artists go through or avoid art for that reason. I went to college because I and my family wanted it for my future. I spent literally THREE YEARS telling myself that art won't make me money and that I needed to pick something else to be passionate about that will sustain my life and passions. Surprise, surprise, I hated everything. Not necessarily everything but nothing came to me as a permanent thought that I would enjoy what I did after college that would make me money. I took art classes every year if not every semester and loved them all but the others never stuck. So after being an undecided major for three years I caved and went into art, knowing the cost of loans and the problem of finding work after. I graduated in the beginning stages of covid in 2020. Go figure.... Now that everything is calmer and now I have the financial freedom to take the risk I am finally trying to push myself to create for a living, no matter how slow it is.
4) External Comparison
-I don't do this really, however my subconscious will always fight me. I love art, I love other creators' art, I take inspiration from other artists and nature but I always come back to that thought to where my skill isn't good enough for selling and my perfectionism fights for my skills to be better. Low self value plays a large role in deciding if I am "ready" to let my art into the world.
5) No Time
-Yeah... Having a demanding full time job to pay off that college debt has bitten me in the butt for this. Now that I am happily married, financially stable and am fully capable of giving into my art my energy is tapped due to the physical demands of my job. When I have that creative buzz throughout the day but I am stuck at work coming home and just wanting to plop down on the couch and not do anything makes the creativity sit in sadness too. I have more big changes coming up in my life so I hope that with that comes the drive to really deep dive into my work.
6) No Art Style
-College was where this hit me the hardest. I love realistic work from myself however any other style I admire from other artists. Because, that's just not where my comfort lies. This doesn't bother me much anymore because style happens naturally, you don't need to "find it", you develop it naturally throughout your creative process. If you aren't happy with where you are, learn from those you admire. You would be amazed about what you can learn from those who share their work.
7) Wasting Time
-HAHA! Another one. This has been the biggest concern for me lately in all aspects of my life. Now don't laugh.... I am approaching thirty and still have no idea what to do with my life. No surprise, many that are in their golden years are still finding themselves and what they love to do, but that doesn't have to be me. I never feel that my time with art is wasted. Art has and will never be a waste to me. Everything is a learning experience that helps you get to a better version of yourself. Its just myself (or yourself) that gets in the way. My only thing is that I wish I could devote myself fully to my work without having to take what feels like so much time away before I can come back again. Don't even get me started on incomplete projects......
8) Social Approval
-Two words. "TRY ME". I as well as many of the artists I have known and loved get scrutinized because of what, how, why they do what they do. It's just human nature to criticize what we think is good or bad. I don't care for social approval anymore. I knew going into art that not everyone likes it (still makes me angry about the "value of art in the real world" argument). My words of wisdom for anyone who reads this, You are not for everyone. Art is for yourself. It is for people who love the things you do. It is for the people that can relate or see things in your work that you may not have even noticed yourself. So F**k everyone else. You put your work out there if you are brave enough and those who you would consider your people will come naturally with caring hearts and the kindness to hold you up to better yourself.
9) Late to Start
-I don't feel "late" per say more along the lines of "I can't get started when I so desperately want to. Or the best way to do so.
10) Fear of Failure
-This will always be here to remind you how much you care about your work. Failure is just a reminder of how much you want it to work and to slow you down so you can reassess the best course of action for you. My failure is never starting or not finishing. I am working with myself to change this of course but I hope deep down, that you realize that failure is not the end. It's an uncomfortable pothole that will force you to panic but know this, you can always help yourself or get others to help you change the tire and continue on.
I love that you separated them into bullet points and gave advices on how to look forward on our art journey. I'm glad to saw this in premiere and talking with other artists as well. Love this vid 💖💖
Thanks for joining us in the chat! ✨
I actually agree with you on almost everything. Stay Postitive, stay trying, don't let excuses get in the way. I work a job that is anywhere from an 8 hour to 10 hour day but I find those 5-10 minutes to draw down ideas which creates more ideas that I can sketch on a new page, and fill in later so A really GOOD TIP: Take your sketchbook like your wallet, everywhere!
My heart breaks for all the 30-50 Y.O. artists here in the comments who stopped creating altogether because of lack of confidence or support 😢 But I'm happy to see that there are also so many of you that have gotten back into it despite past experiences! I'm turning 26 this week and I can relate to all the points you've made to some degree. It can be so overwhelming to even come up with a plan for how to move forward. Thank you for sharing your advice in such an easy to digest way and for encouraging such an open and compassionate community!
I needed this I’m 38 and just getting back into art. I had so many of these self limiting beliefs! This video is exactly what I needed! 🙏🏼
Hey im also 38, and just saw this video X) So cool to know there much more people here that aren't 18 anymore yay! : 3
Me too ! I just turned 38 and I just started working on my portfolio 😁... this video is beautiful and just what alot of us need.
i’m 16 so I’m still young, but I also felt behind cause artist who like 12 13 are doing better
This video did help me
Gosh, you are so inspiring. I'm turning 50 with a busy job. I loved creating art when I was a kid but dropped my passion along the way. Hope to start with digital doodling again.
What really helped me when I started saying "it doesn't need to be perfect, it just needs to exist." It was a game changer.
Thank you for this video ❤️☺️ I'm 37 mommy and just started to learn the basics of drawing, even though I usually draw for my son and since younger, but not with method and intention like now :) this gives me motivation to keep going and have fun to achieve what I want some day. Hugs ❤️
That is so sweet! I want to wish you luck on your journey and just want to say that expressing your creativity will definitely help your son grow his! I remember drawing with my mom as a kid and how much she loved scrapbooking and those times together helped me foster my love for drawing and feel like I had something I could really connect with and share with my mom!
@@bunbearry thank you 🌻 I'll remember your words ❤️
Just thank you for the line: "You're so deserving of your dreams." It hit hard. I'm ready to make art my business. I just need to tell my brain to shush more often, haha. Thanks again!
I just posted art for the first time in years and when I heard you say you started at 28 like me it really gave me some fuel to use to propel myself forward into this art career Im trying to build for myself!
As a 41 yr. old I was facing the fear that I was to late. I had to come to a realization that I could follow my dreams at any age!
Absolutely you can! In another 10 years you'll be thinking how young you were at 41 🥰
I just turned 42 and am in the same boat! We got this!
@@verilyvexed I made a youtube account just for art..I will go check you out on there!
Thank you so much Mimi! I am 42, determined but very financially limited and have been feeling really discouraged lately. Your videos really help.
Hello! 🌸 I'm new here but I've been hitting a slump over the past couple of months. I've been feeling really lost and alone like I don't belong anywhere. Truth be told, I've never felt like I've truly belonged in any community. I've never felt heard, never felt seen, never felt needed or wanted. I have a lot of the fears you spoke of in your video. I fear failure on many levels yet have dreams that feel impossible. I still am having some problems on figuring out how to have the courage to be a part of something.
I want to be part of a community. I want to feel like I belong somewhere. I want to feel like things are possible and that the future is bright. I also am struggling to know where to start. 🙃
Thank you for taking the time to make such uplifting videos and content! ☺️ Your story and journey leaves more of an impact than you know.🥰
Your "feeling overwhelmed?" Playlist always gets me back on track when motivation slips away. I love how realistic, down-to-earth and peaceful your videos are. Really makes me believe a 100% that I can do it too with hard work and patience. Thank you so much for showing the good and challenging sides of your art journey! Happy Friday Everyone!
When I was younger, all I really cared for was expressing myself through art. I remember having a really close friend in my early adult years when I didn't really have much of anything. I wanted to give them a gift and even though I couldn't buy them something extravagant, the best way I knew to show my love and gratitude was through art. I was excited to bring up the idea of painting something for them and their response was pretty much just "why would I want that? What would I do with it?".. I'm sure almost all of us grew up hearing that art was a waste, you can't make a living off of it etc..and this was just before you could blow up on social media doing whatever you loved. So yeah...it finally got to me.. what was really the point of even my closest family/friends couldn't care less of anything I made. And now with all the great artists out there, all the pressure to have the best supplies..and all of that..it's just all very intimidating to get back into it especially when it feels like all your creativity was zapped from you. That's what I struggle with. When you're an adult too it feels like if you do anything, it has to be making you money so you can survive or it's just a waste of time, so there's also a lot of guilt in trying to just do something even if only for the enjoyment especially when it costs money to have waht you need to do it. And when you're not perfect or as good as you'd like, it feels like you're wasting time, money, and supplies. The struggle is real.
Doing art is not a waste of time. It's also therapy. In the old days there were things called pastimes. Things to do to pass the time. These days everyone feels guilty just passing time, but it is good for the soul.
Illustration and art really calms me, grounds me its not just for a career it encourages safe self expression
Thank you very much Mimi for taking the time to make this video. I'm sure that it will be very helpful for a lot of people. I sat at my desk, crafting, while I listened and I must say I agree with you on all that you've said. I also recognize a lot of them. Being 53 years old now does indeed make me feel like I can take all of my life experience and pour it into my creativity. I've learned to go back to creating just for myself which helped resolve a lot of anxiety.
So glad to hear that you're creating just for yourself, Maureen! And I love that we could chat while you were crafting 😊💕
I love that you probably feel like you don't create unique content but ended up creating a video so practical that it became unique from other self help and motivational videos. This was an incredibly helpful video, thank you so much for taking the time to make it!
art is one of the purest ways of expression and fun, pls don’t be afraid to express yourself in the way that YOU feel most comfortable with 💖💖
I'm also 28 right now and starting to finally listen to that artistic voice that I had in me as a child and that was shut down many years ago. Now I feel like I'm finally choosing a path for myself instead of letting or waiting for someone else choose it for me. In my case, drawing played a part in my childhood years, but now, since the pandemic started, I've done more and more crocheting e discovered punch needling. I've started my instagram account and I have a vision of where I want my atelier to look like, the people I want to reach as clients, and I have a list of things and collections of products I've designed and am slowly actually producing them. My fears are: approaching stores and people to sell my product to or to display my product at, the marketing and digital part of the business that I have no clue as a form of reaching my potential client, aaand many others...
You inspired me to follow my dreams and stop being a scared
I love at the end, “i am an illustrator”. I have watched videos that explains when you want to be something then do it. Even if you have vision boards and write a story envisioning yourself as the person that you wanna be. Slowly but surely over time you will become that person. This was a beautiful reminder to not give up on that goal. ❤
Much needed encouragement. I tend to get allot of "30:34 8 - Worrying That Your Family, Friends or Community Won’t Approve." I have struggled most of my life with it. I have a loving husband that supports me and has made it his life goal to help me accomplish what others do not approve of because of their back grounds and beliefs. We continue to struggle with the same trails. I keep posting video's similar to you to show that it is possible. I am so glad to hear others out there that believe the same way we do. Thank you.
„Ask yourself 'What if I succeed?'" was so impactful, it actually made me cry.
I'm totally unhappy with my current „career/job“ and always dreamt of doing illustrations. People around me told me I'd be good at drawing but I was a total jerk and stupid so I stopped drawing, I thought doing something with art as a main job would be ridiculous and some friends always were kind of jealous, which was very depressing for me - even if they didn't want to hurt me.
Thank you. I started drawing again a few weeks ago, but this time I won't quit. Ever. Again.
To anyone feeling scared to start, I’m right there with you! I have so many artistic passions that I don’t know where to start. If you’re scared you won’t make it, I heard something that really helped me. It was something along the lines of if you are scared you won’t get to the finish line, die on the road. It’s better to have tried than have not and live in regret! I love you all and I hope your passions continue to drive you past your fears!
I just want to say THANK YOU for giving me a push. I was already planning to start my journey with my art. I have my tools, watercolors and color pencils. I have starting drawing and sketching but was hesitant to record videos of it or post my output and create my own page and channel because I feel that it was not good enough. Despite that, this video pushed me to do it anyway, I'll embrace my clumsy art style and just want to enjoy the journey while improving ♥ ♥ GOD BLESS YOU MIMI !! For inspiring and having a positive community. You art is really my inspiration. Just looking your art gives that warm vibe that just makes you smile, calms my heart, and makes me at ease. Thank you so much again ♥ ♥
This was such an amazing video, I had almost all the fears listed. You really made me feel comforted and like I could really do this. I really want to thank you for making this long video I loved every minute ❤️. I hope all of us artist cultivate the strength to believe in ourselves and our art 🥰 we can do it !
I loooove longer videos😍
Sometimes I feel doubt and anxiety when drawing and put those kinds of videos on. They make me relaxed and let me enjoy the process 🙏
I do the same with podcasts! Perhaps I should make longer videos like this 😊
I watched it all first thing in the morning and it makes me feel so much comfortable and at ease to listen to these fears being spoken about. Thanks Mimi for a wonderful video, i wish more n more artists have a nice time listening to these amazing 40 mins of guidance and relatability you provide ✨✏️
Thanks so much for the kind words, Daksha! 🥰
You don't even realize how much you're helping me by this video!!! Thank you so much!! This feels like a breath of new inspiration to me, gonna draw tonight hehe~~
Yay love that!
Thank you for this! I've seen a few videos like this, but never were they in this much detail and full of great suggestions! I personally have been dealing with the fear of not developing an art style. A part of me wants one, but another part of me doesn't because I like experimenting with different mediums of expression. But I think my biggest fear is having my art that I post online get stolen (or worse, having my overall portfolio leached out and stolen altogether). I know its unfortunately very common (and its happened to me before already) and should be expected, but just the thought of someone taking my art that I love so much and that I have a personal connection with being taken in the blink of an eye is horrifying.
I'm slowing trying to get over it. I have been trying to reconfigure my brain to not let it get to me. Here's what I tell my brain: no one is actually going to steal ALL of your work (I have other pieces that I keep to myself), you can always make something else (and potentially better too) and just the thought of being held back by this imaginary dark cloud (having my art stolen) be the ONE THING that stops me from my overall dream is something that I cannot accept, no matter how scary it is. I don't know when I'll conquer this, but I just know I gotta face it!
Thank you. You're making me think more deeply about this. When I got back into art after a couple decades away, I did the "writer thing" of imaging one person as your ideal audience... but I made the mistake of choosing a real person. And, of course, then experienced a couple things that felt like direct rejection by them, and some not nice comments by others. Paired with my MH issues with abandonment, etc, the sudden art block was a like a stone wall slamming into place. Trying to find the freedom of not caring what anyone thinks of it but me. Tho now, I have the inner critic telling me it's never good enough. I think I DO have really high expectations of myself.
A friend of mine told me something just yesterday that I think will help me achieve an art career. Don’t let your emotions keep you from doing the the things you need to get done. Our emotions are usually all over the place and before you know it your sitting on the couch watching Netflix. Be aware of what your doing and trying to achieve.
I'm 58 and this year I enrolled in an arts program at my community college. I'm loving it.
Thank you so so much for making this video, I can relate to quite a few of these and knowing that I’m not the only one makes me feel better. You said to reach out to others in the comments, so here’s me taking a chance: one of the things I struggle with the most is not having anyone to share the journey of becoming an illustrator with. I can’t afford art school, my old friends are moving on with their lives and don’t share the same interests as me. I’m trying to build my portfolio (I want to become a children’s book illustrator), but I struggle to fully commit to it, I feel like I can procrastinate as much as I want since no one’s really “watching” and I don’t have to meet a deadline. Is anyone here struggling with the same thing and would like to have an accountability partner? We could check on each other’s progress once or twice a week, give some feedback and share whatever we’re struggling with. Feel free to reach out if you like this idea! 🥰
Hi Moniado, I read your comment about your struggle and just wanted to let you know that some years ago was in the exact same spot and doubting if I wanted to pursue my art career or not. I also did not go through art school and wanted to become a children’s book illustrator. I was also the only one in my friend group and community. I just wanted to let you know that it is very possible and there are communities online to join, connect with and grow with :) Last year I ended up signing with an agent and this year my first picture book is released, and more is in the making :) So keep going, you’re on the right track! Video’s like this help so much and give so much inspiration. Some extra tips for your journey: What helped me a lot with my skills in making picture book illustrations were the courses provided by SVS. They have a monthly subscription and all things picture book related from A to Z in their courses. They also have a free forum and a monthly drawing challenge that is great for developing your portfolio. You can also find accountability buddies there. What helped me as well were portfolio reviews, to get some feedback and know where to add to and refine my portfolio. Much luck and fun in your journey! ❤️
That's a great idea! I also really struggled with accountability a lot in the beginning. I looked at your Instagram and your art is SO CUTE, I'd love to see more! 🥰
Hello! I’m going through a similar situation. I really want to pursue a career in illustration and can’t got to art school as of now but I’d rather not this is my first time trying to be self taught and it’s going really well for me. I want to discuss colour palettes, ideas and brushes so much but though I have artists in my family, they use traditional medium. I need some accountability too yo stay comsksten on Instagram. The goal is to get some traffic enough to get some sponsorship and projects my way. So I’d love to be part of your art journey, if you’d have me of course 😄 I’m from Mumbai India. My handle is @anjanaayyar
Hello I would like to have accountability partner.
I’d love to join!!
This video came to me in the perfect time! I have been procratinating for SOO Many year... I been an artist my entire life, I just never shared my art to the world, BUT now finally after many friends and family have nudge me to take that leap into actually start selling my art. I have always struggled with my own insecurity in my art, and been scared that I will never be as good as I want to be. NOW I am implimenting a rutine of consistency, to help me on my journey into having an art business
Hello Mimi, thank you so much for this video. I am a little late to have stumbled upon this video but this video in itself is like therapy - explaining all of life's challenges in the most artistic way. I can watch this video or just close my eyes and hear it over and over again just to gain a new perspective on life. I needed this very badly and i think with this, the universe is conspiring in my favor. Thanks a ton. Love from India.
I can verify your advice about feeling afraid to make art, if you just start making it for yourself regularly eventually you will find that confidence. I've been doing exactly that for 10 years and it has made all the difference!🎉 My problem now is the art business, I've tried a few things but am having the hardest time figuring out how to do the business side in a steady, consistent way that doesn't overwhelm me.😧
Thank you! I recently lost my job and I’m focusing on art for a bit until it gets me as far as it can or until I get a new job. I love your channel and I send lots of positive vibes your way :)
Shame to hear about your job but I'm glad you're getting to focus on your art and I hope it takes you great places! ✨
Good luck with your art focus, you can do it! 😃
Maybe losing a job is winning something new, big and fun. All the best
Thank you for sharing this! I think the biggest thing for me was the things people said about artists not being able to make it, that only graphic design is something one could pursue if you're willing to work on advertisements for other companies. That idea really ticked me off. I never wanted to work to make somebody else's dream come true. I wanted to work on my own dreams so I discontinued my pursuit and tried out other avenues which weren't nearly as exciting to me as art. Looking at how things have changed and how easier it has become to get your foot in the door as an artist I've come back over after more than a decade and now a busy mom. I am lucky now though to see things through my son's eyes. It is true that we can learn a lot from our children. They have no fear, my son is now doing art with me and while his art might be far from perfect but he is selling art cards at markets along with me. His art speaks to people and so does anybody else's art. You just have to take that leap, do your best and put it out. Even if you don't like your piece of art. I have sold art at craft shows that I never thought would sell and they ended up being a hit!! Now I need to work on getting more organized and getting up on my social media game and maybe I can reach a larger audience. It really is just about your passion and sharing that with people! Authenticity sells :))))
I cried watching this video! Thank you so much for making this💕 it really means a lot to hear this things. I hope to become an illustrator and inspire others with my journey like you one day (soon) 🦋 i'm 25 and it had been many years since I stopped drawing because hard situations in my life and fear of failure but I know this is what I want to do and that is not too late for me💖
Ps: greetings from Ecuador💛
I really need to thank you for this video. It seems I've been experiencing all 10 fears about having a creative career. But as I listened to this video, I opened one of my sketch books and began working on my favourite style: Pointillism.
While I'm glad I found part-time work in photography, I will still be working on my art and literature. In time, I'll show them all what I can really do!
Thanks again!
You said the awaited words in the perfectionism part, you’re the only one who seemed to fully get it and know what to say to fix it 😢❤ thank you
This video has so many beatiful thoughts and reflections in it. Im 27 and have lost my artistic side for quite some years, since middle school to be exact. I've restarted drawing and bullet journaling during the pandemic and many people tell me that I should share it online, but many points you touched in this videos hold me back. Selfdoubt and being overwhelmed by where to start mostly. As you said, it doesnt need to be perfect to be wonderful, and I think I should just post it online and slowly see where my art journey is taking me.
First I’d like to say just how impressed I am with how organized and thorough you are when explaining things, and how your videos are edited so professionally. They are pleasurable to watch while learning. Second, I can relate to almost everything on this list. As a 50 year old male that is struggle financially because I’m paralyzed by all the thoughts and fears of failing, and not knowing what my true purpose is, I have to say all of the reasons listed are definitely valid and are a real struggle no matter your age. What stinks is, agreeing with and understanding everything you are saying, yet not being able to take a step forward. It’s so stressful and emotionally painful. I’m very disappointed in myself for not being a better person.
Mimi, you've outdone yourself with this video! Thank you so, so much for your thoughts!
Aw thank you so much, I really appreciate that!
Thank you so much for your insight. One of my BIGGEST fears are financial stability, as I work a full-time job and feel so drained of energy, I barely have the fortitude to keep practicing my art. I feel as if I am in a rock and a hard place because I do have natural art talent, and have spent my life attending art colleges, including web design. But I have also spent so much of my life working less than great paying conventional jobs to keep from becoming a "starving artist". Now, being in my 60s scares me because retirement looms around the corner, and I will continue on that dead-end pragmatic path to working unfulfilling jobs. This video, and many of your other videos, is helping overcome those fears. I won't quit my job tomorrow and plunge into the unknown, but you are an inspiration to help me put a plan into place. 🙂
Your content is seriously incredible value. I’ve been watching and nodding along to so many of them. It’s like I see myself reflected in it, and then you sort of soothe the negative thoughts that had been sticking around. I’ve been getting so inspired by artists on TH-cam for years now, yet never actually thought I could “be an artist”. I’m still not 100% sold that I could. But these sorts of videos allow me to dream freely and ask the honest questions I need to about what I want and wish for. Thank you!
This video has come at such a good time for me. I am in the process of pushing myself to focus more on my art. I really wanna leave my current job to focus on my art and a lot of the talking points and fears are things I am struggling with currently. What you had to say has me thinking. Thank you for this. 🙏
This whole video just listed my whole life as bullet points. I constantly have anxiety that im kidding myself. I know i have skills and talents enough to do this but not having the success to back though thoughs make me feel like banging my head on a wall. And not having support is rough when i ask for help and the people closest to me dont know how to support me.
Yet i keep trying
Thank you so so much for this wonderful video! I was suprised how fast it was over because I knew it's 40 minutes long. I love listening to you! You said so many wonderful things which made me positive about myself and my future and calmed me down in my head. It's so important that we speak about all the topics you mentioned in your video especially our fears. I think as a beginner you tend to think other artists on another level have all their stuff together and figured everything out, but no. We are all struggeling, having fears and selfdoubt in every "level" we are in. Nobody figured it out to 100% and this is ok. We should talk about this way more often and help each other, support each other and say, it's okay to be scared, to have fears but we will all got this, together! 💕
Yess absolutely! We are all in the same boat really 😊🌷
I'm a musician with a music channel but I absolutely love your videos! I really connect with the fear of financial stability and feeling like I don't have enough time. I know it'd be better if I posted more but it's just really hard with a full-time work schedule sometimes and life (family members getting sick, etc.) so I'm just posting at a slow but manageable pace for now, building for the future.
Watching this video gave me a lot of comfort and confidence in continuing to pursue my music slowly but steadily, thank you! :)
Loved the video
Thank you so much Mimi, for this amazing video. There are problems and solutions too in this video. My most loved part of the video is when you say, "I believe in you." 😇
Wow...That was fantastic, Mimi! The Video was not long at all to me because it had info and your enthusiasm showed your level of love for helping others, and I am very grateful people like you still exist in this world, people who can see the good side of things and want for others too! ❤️
I enjoyed your organization and neatness both in your studio and your sketching and illustration; as a visual person, your cute organized steps helped me to learn a few and reminded me to not let the old thought and negative limited beliefs back to me. I loved when you mentioned something about 2 years will pass and why not have my art in my life than a negative irritating thought; I am 57, never could see one day I will be this age and still not feel it, and I guess is a good message for younger than me to follow what you said 👍; many of the 10 excuses were applied to me, all those that only from my thought and not the reality were kept me back, but now a good reminder to me and sure others to not wait and just do the action!
Much appreciate and Love ❤️ 🙏
This is absolutely what I needed to hear after years and years of excuses and fear. It's so encouraging and you nailed it on every point!
Being a 14 yr old beginner , I sometimes feel I'm not giving proper time to art due to I my studies but, I love doing art and whenever I get free time I try to test out some fun thing and post it . Thank you so much for this video ! 💛
I'm so glad I came across this video in my recommended feed! I've never quite felt like something was speaking directly to me so strongly. This is heaped full of not just understanding and acknowledgement of the difficulties creatives from all disciplines face, but offers helpful ideas to overcome them. Thank you so much for this epic video!! I wish I could adequately express what this has meant to me.
Letting go of Perfectionism and just Letting Yourself Do the Thing, was my biggest hurdle, but it vaulted me forward so much when I finally turned off the critical self-judgement buttons and just gave myself permission to make what I wanted.
For me I think my fear is that I have nothing to say with my art so I therefore won’t make anything truly great. I feel like I’m in a major block where I have no vision of what I want to make and so I haven’t made anything in a while and I think thats what’s keeping me from my creativity flow. I also worry about the concept of making it my career because it’s the only thing I’m best at but I worry that I won’t go far with it or won’t be good at it
The best advice I can give you Mush is that finding a passion/interests take time, we may not have it overnight even. But one thing is true is that once you realize your weakness, you can turn them into strengths. We all are human, and we all make mistakes even me.
I adore family-friendly content such as cartoons and I was picked on for it for liking Looney Tunes, Mickey Mouse, Toy Story, the Incredibles content. But I realized that are people who love cartoons like me and that I am not alone, and I have learned that if I love something, you can achieve anything you set your mind onto, as long as you put in the dedication, hard work and love. I hope this advice helps.
“What I want to address in this video is how we might shift our thoughts and feelings about these things that are holding ourselves back, from giving our fears the permission to direct our inaction, to giving ourselves the permission to take action and work towards our dreams.” Wow, that is such a powerful statement. I really have let my fears hold me back so many years, especially when I did feel like I failed at my attempts of being an artistic entrepreneur so many times in the past (I failed at my attempted crafting small business, my TH-cam channel, Twitch streaming, and my tarot business). Ever since I could remember, and whenever anyone asked me what I wanted to be when I was a kid, I would always say “artist.” But I had so much trouble further defining what that actually meant. I am still trying to figure out what “artist” means to me. I’ve always struggled to define what I can bring to the table, what my skills are, and how I can provide value to others. Basically I’ve struggled with confidence in my own work. Even though I have a degree in Design, I’ve never felt confident enough in my work to pursue a formal career and have never held a career salaried position. I’m getting scared I might have missed the boat on those opportunities because I was dealing with depression and feelings of inadequacy. I really did convince myself that maybe I’m just not cut out for this whole creative business life and maybe I should just give up. And for a while, I really did give up on my dreams. I stopped drawing. I stopped making, well, anything. I was severely depressed because I couldn’t stomach yet another failure. I wished in vain that I had different, more “achievable” dreams. But I can’t get anywhere sitting still and taking no action forward, even if sometimes it feels like going backwards in some ways. Failure makes me feel like I’m swimming, drowning in a sea of possibles, and sometimes I don’t know which way I’m swimming. Am I swimming up or am I just swimming further and further down? But as Dory says, “Just keep swimming.”
This video is fantastic! And I’m so glad I got to chat with all of the wonderful creative people in the live chat ❤ Thank you Mimi for this video and the premiere. I think this is the first time I’ve ever managed to catch a live premiere, and I don’t think I have ever been happier to catch one ❤
Aw I'm so glad! It was really lovely to chat with you and hear a bit about your story, I think I'll aim to do a premiere every few weeks because it's a nice way to connect ❤️
Thank you :) I will keep an eye out for the premieres, it’s wonderful to connect with likeminded people 😊
Thank you so much Mimi! I'm almost 39 and I think I'm pretty creative in many ways (at least others tell me that).. I have so many ideas, so many things that interest me but I've never committed myself to those ideas.. I get to the first problem and start to think that I will never learn how to do it, I'm too old for that etc... I even got an iPad couple months ago thinking I can do this (start drawing) but then realized I don't know a single thing about drawing and kind of gave up until this video that gave me much needed boost! 😊Thanx Mimi!
This comforted me more than I expected! Thank you! I can relate to all of those fears but what I struggke with the most is productivity, time management, distraction, lack of dicipline or focus. If anyone here would like an art buddy for accountability and exchange, please let me know😊
For those that think it's too late or they are too old: I'm 51, started digital illustration 18 months ago, and still working to improve my skills and find a style, but I already identified a direction. I work in marketing and try to switch to graphic design and illustration. I know this is a long work, I expect one more year to be where I want to be. But most important is that I am following my passions and doing what I love.
I am slowly learning that failures are not a bad thing but an opportunity to learn from and grow. Thankful for your videos. Keep on creating lovlies! ❤
this is artistic GOLD! thank you so much I am a professional artist of 20yrs and feel ive lost my way. watching your videos have inspired me soooo much thank you for the honesty and positive outlook
I started my art journey many years ago. Even went to university to grow myself even more. But somehow I always end up not doing anything. I feel like a failure. I discovered that my mom has a huge impact on my art as well. If she tells me that a piece is not ok (e.g. Do not draw sad things… people won’t like it) I cannot lie to myself that I don’t care. She is an artist living on her own art. How should I keep on doing it if I feel like I will never succeed and even keeping focus is a metter to me.
Art makes me so happy and hopeful, but also sometimes it fills me with such doubt, this was such a nice video and makes me feel so much less stressed
I rarely comment on videos but I needed to hear this. Your words are very comforting. Thank you!
What a fantastic video! You've covered many of the things I've asked myself over the years. For me, I just decided that art has to be a part of my everyday life because I love doing it so much. I’ve stopped caring about what other people I've never met think of it, because I'd make art anyway. I've only recently joined Instagram, despite making art (and sometimes taking on commissions and selling art) for most of my adult life. Since the situation in 2020 I decided to explore whatever style or medium I wanted to, not just the art that I was previously associated with. I don't worry about the likes or follows being small (after all the algorithm affects that disproportionately anyway!), and this has made things a lot easier for me. I am a home ed parent and primary carer for my mother, so spare time (and energy) is very limited and I know I'm not able to post enough content on social media to make a big impact. I've accepted all those things, and I think that, for me, was a major step forward. That's my story and I hope it helps someone else feel better too ❤
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️I’m the primary caregiver for my mother too and it is so hard to sit down and practice with a fresh mind, but art also feels like a sort of lifeline for me, so it’s something I want to keep going at. Would you have any tips on how you make it work despite the ~exhaustion of life~?
@@PB-yf6or Thank you for your kind comment ❤ My best advice - that I have to remind myself of from time to time - is don't put yourself under any pressure, go with the flow. If you need to rest instead of do art, then rest. The process has to be a positive one to be sustained and to fill your cup, if you know what I mean. Making art a regular part of your schedule doesn't necessarily mean every day. Regular can be, as Mimi said in the video, when you sit and watch TV in the evening. I hope that makes sense.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us, it sounds like you're in a really lovely place with your art and creating it for yourself 🥰
@@MimimooIllustration thank you Mimi ❤ it's all about mindset, isn't it? After all, if we don't enjoy the process of making art, what is the point? I think creative things should be a fulfilling part of our lives, even if it's what you do for a living and is sometimes a lot of work. Mindset... now there's a whole other subject to discuss! 😊
You can't imagine how much you helped me with your videos, my motivation level went up from 0 to 100% , Thank you so much !!
"Your art has value beyond your control..." Yes! Love this!!!
Thank you so, so much. I have drawn my hole life, i love doing it since I was a kid. I'm 28 yo now and this year I decided to dive in the world of digital illustration (which I dreamed about since I was 17). I can see I improved a lot, but still struggling with some things and i really want to make a business out of it. Your vid calmed lots of insecurities, fears and the anxiety I usually get when I have discouraging thoughts such as "I'm not in the place I want to be yet". Sometimes i forget that in the first place I do this cause I LOVE drawing, but at the same time is such a big personal dream to show my art to other people and make them like it that I just forget to enjoy it and have fun.
This video is such a good help and motivation booster. Thank you! I wish u the best💜
I've been procrastinating so much at this point that I even procrastinated watching this video and it waited in my "watch later" list for 2 months before I watched it today. But omg, this was so helpful, super inspiring and motivating. I took notes throughout the entire video to make sure I can bring back this good energy (that I got from watching the video) by looking at my notes. Thank you so much Mimi for taking your time to make such amazing videos for us! 🌞💖
Hi Mimi, i'm so emosional yet inspired thanks to your video. I just have conversations about artist career with my mom but she seems doubting me and keep telling me to switch. I,m sad bcs i dont get much support from my surroundings. Then your channel came up and i strated to watch your video 1 by 1 and I find it amazing, and so thoughtful. You bring my spirit back. Massive thanks to you, Mimi. you're such a kind-hearted and lovely human being.
I always come back to this video whenever I wanna give up on my art because I don't feel it's good enough. Very helpful, Mimi, I deeply appreciate this video! ❤❤
Thank you for all the hard work you put into this video! This is sooo valuable for most of us who lack confidence in their art.
I started painting two years ago at 37 and I’m currently on a break since I just gave birth to a lovely daughter. But now I feel so inspired that I try to squeeze in a little time now and then to paint again or at least scribble something. I think it can help to have a limited amount of time so you don’t fool around too much and just get started.
4:47 I LOVE those hedgehog pictures! They're so adorable!
Wow. I’m not even an artist but I’m totally blown away by how inspiring your videos are and artwork is! Amazing. Well done you.
Can I just say after watching this whole video a sincere thanks because everything you described is what I have been going through lately with so much and it brings a smile to my face hearing this. Even earlier I was having frustrations and doubts but this helped me see through and acknowledge I don’t have to perfect which I struggle with most. Thanks
Thank you so much! 💗 This was really helpful! I wanna send a huge encouragement hug to everyone here, the simple fact that we are here means we are moving towards the place we want to get to :)
I don’t know from where I have the quote but here it is: don’t be scared of perfectionism. You won’t reach it :) I love that quote because nothing is perfect since it depends on the point of view
Thank you so much for making this video Mimi. I'm 30 years old and feel hesitant about perusing the creative path for almost all of the factors you mentioned in this video. I feel empowered now realizing lots of them are just what I create in my mind. I guess the most important reason for me has been lacking a supportive community that back me up, and here I found one. Big warm hugs
I really needed to find this; thank you. My Art is my therapy for me, so I do feel it personally when it doesn’t get many likes, or any views, but I also feel it personally when someone says it’s great, or asks me about it, or even shares their criticism. Sometimes it’s negative, but then I like to work on that after going over if it’s ‘true.’ Most of the things you’ve talked about, do hold me back. I’m dead set on doing something with it, though. I feel like that’s what I should do, I’m also not sure where to start.
2:10 Love the animation showing the permission heart moving from "Fear" to "Self."
It's always reassuring to hear so many other artists share the same fears because you at least know that even the most famous ones we've come to recognize have had or still have those doubts like us, yet they have still made it! It goes to show that any one of us has the capacity to reach that height too even when we are experiencing our lowest of lows right now. For me, I'm more worried that I'm not enjoyin art as much as I used to when I was younger; I don't draw much and worst of all, I can hardly keep focus on finishing a small sketch because of my low attention span. Though I know it has stemmed from my complacency and contempt for where I'm at now in my art stage - color is just hard for me to get a grasp on and I feel my style itself is starting to look boring and flat. Art is a long and arduous process and you can't always expect to be keeping up the same pace as others or the same pace as you used to be able to do before. It's *never* consistent I'll tell you that much. I believe if we accept where we are and how much we've changed as we gain more and more skills into our craft, it'll be a lot easier to be *easy on yourself*. Not saying to be content with where you are at or to give up, but to more so realize that we're probably at a different stage than we were ages ago or that we've had a lot more things come up that took priority over our art journey. Lots of things could happen and even if you do find it boring nowadays, there's nothing wrong with that either! You just might need a break from it or you discovered something new to be passionate about : )