Tamera Reveals The Best Advice a Marriage Counselor Gave Her

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  • @PCinDC
    @PCinDC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +834

    Ok, I can't even hear what she's talking about #distracted! Can we just give serious props to Tam's hair stylist. ...Lawd, her hair is gaw'juss! 😍

    • @lisapierce737
      @lisapierce737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m loving this hairstyle that she is rocking with 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @jayec.2845
      @jayec.2845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes and not only hair stylist but her clothes stylist too!!! 😍😍😍 Tamera don't even realize how she be killing it 💓💓💓 i wish she do a short video show us who styles her and her hair they have her on point all times

    • @fatoutouray608
      @fatoutouray608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jayec.2845
      Myss Jaye
      There is a video about it. It is called Tamera's I woke up like this

    • @GotGood77
      @GotGood77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right! She looks so beautiful!

    • @jayec.2845
      @jayec.2845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fatoutouray608 thank you! As much as im in love with tam i should know this 😔😄

  • @malumbesyatwinda8094
    @malumbesyatwinda8094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Tam Tam is killing us this season with all the slay 😍😍. she's so beautiful and I love her hair!!

    • @lifechoice7889
      @lifechoice7889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She really is 💃🏾💃🏾

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    • @MyNoob300
      @MyNoob300 ปีที่แล้ว

      Slay lol.

  • @lynnfaraj9051
    @lynnfaraj9051 5 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Tam looks beautiful as always, and I agreed with her!

  • @KamrieNekia
    @KamrieNekia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    agreed... but I won't necessarily take this advice just for marriage... this is great general advice. Don't suffocate yourself when you have a problem... handle it head on, immediately!!!!

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alright

    • @Neeshpeesh123
      @Neeshpeesh123 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts!!

    • @xxo8888
      @xxo8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ur right. I need a few days to process

  • @nuhopetv
    @nuhopetv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Best marriage advice in my premarital counseling was “its better to be happy than right”

    • @aleeshagresham2420
      @aleeshagresham2420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

    • @kiamyal8698
      @kiamyal8698 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      igotnuhope yes

    • @kharlie22
      @kharlie22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Some people don't believe that, sadly. Makes more sense than fighting to the death to prove a point and only worrying about being right. When you do that, you just leave both parties damaged and hardened.

    • @dinavienna
      @dinavienna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That s really good advice !

    • @Mrs.T305
      @Mrs.T305 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What worries me about this is that the person who is wrong, never learns.

  • @KYESHAKNOWSSKIN
    @KYESHAKNOWSSKIN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    TAMERA I CAN'T HEAR NOTHING YOU SAYING!!! Your BEAUTY is distracting me !!!! 😍😍😍 Lorddd you are so gorg!!! ❤️

  • @teebina5537
    @teebina5537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Tamera looks AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGGGG

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    We all need help somewhere. A quality and qualified counselor is great to have in your life.

  • @teresaguerrero531
    @teresaguerrero531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I married at 19 yrs old. At the age of 35 I separated from my husband. I will really encourage anyone to work on themselves and be the best you , you can be so that way you don’t look for your partner to fulfill you. And you are truly in a partnership. Go to premarital counseling , I wish I had and I wish like Tamara said do not let the brick wall get high. Resentment kills the love . Love needs nourishment, a plant needs you to feed it otherwise it dies , a relationship deserves the time and commitment as well.

  • @shanellewarner6873
    @shanellewarner6873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    This is great advice even though I'm not married yet.

    • @khabibamin8610
      @khabibamin8610 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      how old are you

    • @joannefaith1243
      @joannefaith1243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Does it matter her age 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄

    • @shanellewarner6873
      @shanellewarner6873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@joannefaith1243 omg thank you that's why I didn't reply too that bs. Like its great advice so if I do get married , I can remember that advice.

    • @as19J01
      @as19J01 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao me, i have a playlist of all tamera's greatest advices 💀

  • @trinidoll625
    @trinidoll625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Tamera looks soooo beautiful

  • @shavonnej1684
    @shavonnej1684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I cant with these little segments..post the whole show🙄

  • @anamorlamusic
    @anamorlamusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Tamera’s curls 😩😍

  • @shirleyfretty487
    @shirleyfretty487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Speaking the truth Tamera! Looking very pretty today!!

  • @hayleekakuske7917
    @hayleekakuske7917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She’s ageless. Beautiful, well versed, glowing, happy and honest. I just love her. She’s just a wonderful woman.

  • @MN-qc1nm
    @MN-qc1nm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Tam’s hair has been so gorgeous lately!!!!! Love it and love the advice

  • @writerspen010
    @writerspen010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Important advice, but we have already had a segment about it. Personally, if they haven't already, I think it could be cool to bring a marriage counselor on set for a discussion, or bring in an array of couples counselors, e.g. marriage counselor, a pastor, a family therapist, and a sex therapist, all together or over the course of a week so the audience can more readily assess them and figure out what kind of counselor or mentor is best for them and their partners and families

  • @ElohimWorshiping
    @ElohimWorshiping 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The marriage is not the end but the beginning entering a new chapter and as it goes we keep learning and growing on from it while loving each individual.

  • @MissNickkieJ
    @MissNickkieJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    LOOOOOVE Tamera's look/outfit here!!!!

  • @LovingArmywife9
    @LovingArmywife9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Tamera great advice!! You look so beautiful too. Love your natural hair💜💜

  • @nellymakes4042
    @nellymakes4042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tamera- gorgeous... she looks like an African princess

  • @milaniinalim3357
    @milaniinalim3357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great advice! What’s the best advice you’ve ever received on marriage? Mine is ‘Make sure you like the person and you can actually call them your friend because most marriages end because the couple stops being friends’

  • @xxo8888
    @xxo8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The best marital advice I've gotten is to be kind. You can say anything u want, kindly. You can't take back words spoken from anger and it hangs in the air like bad odor

  • @lindsaylindsay4884
    @lindsaylindsay4884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tamera! Looks! Amazing!

  • @jamiegarrity6439
    @jamiegarrity6439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Marriage is sometimes hard." I've been married almost 10 years now, and from the beginning, marriage was hard. Marriage is designed to be hard cause you need to constantly work at it. Hard doesn't necessarily mean bad, just that it's a daily work in progress.

  • @iMolikaMenThlang
    @iMolikaMenThlang 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Agreed Tam Tam! 💯 percent and how passionate you are about this topic. Btw you’re just gorgeous with your naturals! 🥰

  • @marie18881
    @marie18881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tam looks gorgeous! Loving the curls!

  • @ThePasu88
    @ThePasu88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally agree! I’ve heard this in regards to the rug metaphor. Don’t keep brushing everything under the rug because at some point the rug is going to become bumpy and lumpy and you will start to trip over it in your relationship. Face your battles head on but at the same time be wise to know which ones to pick.

  • @karena2295
    @karena2295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is going to be Tam's year, she's just more and more stunning every time! 🥰

  • @kennyrodgers2460
    @kennyrodgers2460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree with Tamara pertaining to Marriage Counseling before actually being Married. After 23 years it's steal affective

  • @rakiyaabdi9111
    @rakiyaabdi9111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tamera is just getting more beautiful each day

  • @summerlyric506
    @summerlyric506 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree Tamera! I always say tackle issue when it happens vs let resentment pile up.
    Btw she looks so beautiful.

  • @ambiance7943
    @ambiance7943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tamera looks like my egyptian friend she is so beautiful with those curls

  • @KristianCheyenne413
    @KristianCheyenne413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agree with what all that she said, but, can we get into this LOOK 🙌🏾🥰

  • @gailsack5696
    @gailsack5696 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tamera Tamera Tamera light us up we are your fireworks hunnay💓💖😘🤩

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray1848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love love love the Mowry girls. I too have a Psych. Background and couldn’t agree with her and their counselor more. Two of the ones that have helped our marriage most are 2. Don’t go to bed mad. You can agree to finish your argument later, say you hit your word limit for the day, etc but don’t end the day in anger. The second is just what she said, hit things head on as they come up. If you build or leave an obstacle on your path you will spend all your time going around it, ignoring it, or finding ways to avoid it all while that thing adds stress and unnecessary blockage to your walk together. It doesn’t have to be pretty, but moving that wall/ breaking it down is by far the best way to deal with the tough stuff.

  • @gabriellachang2967
    @gabriellachang2967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tamera looks so gorgeous ❤️

  • @chanyisme
    @chanyisme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh, hey Tamera! Just gorgeous! I honestly gasped!

  • @SoshiStars
    @SoshiStars 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So glad she's open about this

  • @javiruiz4405
    @javiruiz4405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Damn Tamera is looking hott! I love that hair on her! She looks stunning! 🍯🍑

  • @heavenlites
    @heavenlites 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Wow, tamera looks super duper hot!!

  • @SetApart617
    @SetApart617 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tamera looks so pretty 💜

  • @shaniquejoe5108
    @shaniquejoe5108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t necessarily agree with that especially if the issue erupts into an argument. If not then yes but if it changes into something where yelling or physical abuse comes to play walk away!!! Calm down write your feelings down and address it when you and the other party is calm and can think straight. Walk away as many times as need to.

  • @fearbear1085
    @fearbear1085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes Tam. Wear that hair.

  • @yenitaylor84
    @yenitaylor84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I wanna be a psychologist 😊

    • @add-a-line6520
      @add-a-line6520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeni Taylor GO FOR IT!

    • @lovingmyself8416
      @lovingmyself8416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeni Taylor I feel like I already am. I'm always the middle woman between my siblings, my children and both of my friends ALWAYS!!! And I'm not even certified😊😕✔

    • @carolinaalapizco4569
      @carolinaalapizco4569 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @xlovelylaurenx
      @xlovelylaurenx 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So do I! Studying for it right now in school. Good luck to you ❤️

  • @specialkchosen1461
    @specialkchosen1461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your hair is POPPIN' TAM!!! 💇💞

  • @AngelOne11
    @AngelOne11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am starting to really like the real. It's a good show with a lot of good info.

  • @TheMissLeanne
    @TheMissLeanne 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    TAMERA'S HAIR IS EVERYTHING!!!!

  • @sheabugg1
    @sheabugg1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tam looks gorgeous! Her hair is amazing!

  • @deniselopez8583
    @deniselopez8583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just have to say I LOVE THESE LADIES!!! Such a great talk show👌🏼

  • @f.-j.j.5738
    @f.-j.j.5738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes all you need is some exterior well intented help. I was watching a couple that was saying there were ready to file for divorce and then they reached out to their church for professional financial counselling in settling who was going to have what. And while they were there, they realized their finances weren't the problem, their way of dealing with it was. And they saved their marriage...

  • @janacorraspe5792
    @janacorraspe5792 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera looks gorgeous!! Great advice. This will work in all areas of your life also

  • @squidmom390
    @squidmom390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tamera is looking so stunning!

  • @victoriamciver9900
    @victoriamciver9900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tamera looks nice Love her jewelry outfit and makeup!

  • @kyrab8108
    @kyrab8108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That is good advice. Wish I went to marriage counseling first. I had no idea really what I was in for. All I had was my parents not so good example to follow. Hmmm. Hindsight is 20/20 🤓

  • @nawalbaswedan
    @nawalbaswedan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree, ideally, this is a good advice. An effective one actually. But the reality is situations can be a lot more complicated than that. Of course the character/personality of the person you are having issues with play a big role as it takes two pair of hands to wanna tear down the walls and make up.

  • @triciacharles8022
    @triciacharles8022 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera’s hair and outfit is everything 😍😍😍

  • @karenhiggins683
    @karenhiggins683 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my favorite Tamera look, go Tam Tam.

  • @Mundane158
    @Mundane158 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am living for Tamera’s hair!!!😍😍😍

  • @Melomaneization
    @Melomaneization 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Counseling is very helpful!

  • @88missbeauty
    @88missbeauty 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tam Tam's hair looks great!!!

  • @JohnneseP
    @JohnneseP 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen to that!
    I know for my church, if you are planning to get married by our bishop it is mandatory that you and your fiancé go through counseling before he does your wedding. I agree I think it's important because sometimes you need to have that other party on the outside help you through some things before you say "I Do", you might think you have everything planned out but in some cases you still need to talk through some important details

  • @PaulaMelissaXX
    @PaulaMelissaXX 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay but TAM LOOKS AMAZING 😭😍

  • @Rose-dd4xv
    @Rose-dd4xv ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything she said is absolutely correct

  • @elizabethmorrison3895
    @elizabethmorrison3895 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing about therapy is people typically associate it with something being wrong. Pre marital counseling was highly recommended from my preacher. He usually wont marry someone till they have counseling with him a few times. I think its great. Its just tips to make a stronger marriage. Its even better when you are married. i personally believe divorce rates are so high because theres this lack of communication and like tamera said building bricks instead of handlimg tje situation head on. With therapy yall learn healthier ways to communicate and build a stronger marriage. It's okay to have that outside help. Therapy/counseling in general is good for those who need it not only just on the topic of marriage.

  • @benola5977
    @benola5977 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera looks amazing

  • @brilily6648
    @brilily6648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice in general honestly married or not married.

  • @angeladixon2049
    @angeladixon2049 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the prettiest I’ve seen her

  • @gossipschmossip3223
    @gossipschmossip3223 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice Tamera

  • @FamilyAffair2012
    @FamilyAffair2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Tamara’s hair 💞

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    she looks gorgeous

  • @Alemarie2023
    @Alemarie2023 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice 👏

  • @nazia9687
    @nazia9687 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tam Tam looking like a flower. Beautiful.

  • @arianakefu
    @arianakefu 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera! You are gorgeous!!!!!! 🥰

  • @paigez7680
    @paigez7680 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Upload full eps!!!!!!! Everyone like this so we get full new episodes!!

  • @lexmatthews7495
    @lexmatthews7495 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this show well mannered

  • @valerie4912
    @valerie4912 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love my therapist and advise everyone I meet to have one 😊

  • @arivlogs6560
    @arivlogs6560 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her hair like that I wish my curls could be like hers

  • @erinlhair
    @erinlhair 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera’s hair ❤️❤️

  • @phillipswatson3452
    @phillipswatson3452 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    😇TAM TAM...YOURS CURLS ARE YOUR SIGNATURE 💕

  • @kaylaa9767
    @kaylaa9767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ♡ I think I can speak for the rest of us when I mention videos under 2 and 1/2 minutes are starting to get a little bit old and tedious 😔 ... We would really really appreciate videos between 4 to 7 minutes because we really love these girls and the things they have to share and I think they are just worth a lot more than soundbytes ♡ XO

    • @kaylaa9767
      @kaylaa9767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gah 😞 Just went back to the videos list to see if I might want to catch up on any and it's just a bunch of super short videos that I am definitely not putting the time into as much as I might be interested in the content. Going to move on to longer video subscriptions now I suppose 💓

    • @sonjahoggatt7516
      @sonjahoggatt7516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Has anyone ever explained why they do it this way? Wendy Williams' team posts entire segments of her shows daily on TH-cam. Why can't The Real?

    • @kaylaa9767
      @kaylaa9767 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sonjahoggatt7516 I've wondered that, too... And tried and tried to figure out how I could find them or maybe even a reasonable subscription online or something like that but I definitely don't need DirecTV or any of those things so I'm just not sure what to do LOL

  • @youmadornahhh
    @youmadornahhh 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Tamera's hair here.

  • @fumanejafta8515
    @fumanejafta8515 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her hair 💗

  • @brookec5454
    @brookec5454 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all.... Tamera is serving us a whole look.

  • @casianamasse4437
    @casianamasse4437 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my favorite looks on tamera

  • @hyltonallen7917
    @hyltonallen7917 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a similar case like Teresa but not divorced. Fear of going down that road and loosing what I have is surreal. But I can completely relate. Unlike Tamara trying to work something out with someone who holds on to stuff months.. Year's later when you find out has been my issue.

  • @annholl1603
    @annholl1603 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So gorgggg, Tam.😻

  • @EbonynoIvory
    @EbonynoIvory 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera looks fly! 🔥

  • @valenecox7170
    @valenecox7170 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Tamera's hair....

  • @vuyomoketsi1974
    @vuyomoketsi1974 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    tam those curls are to die for❤

  • @jasminesmith5447
    @jasminesmith5447 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her hair 😍.

  • @She17pj
    @She17pj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advise 💜💜

  • @beemowry
    @beemowry 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera, is too beautiful 💖

  • @tiffanyn.3097
    @tiffanyn.3097 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamera just looks better and better every day

  • @leahmichele22
    @leahmichele22 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey hair looks amazing

  • @etf42
    @etf42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is good advice but ultimately its up to the man to lead the difficult conversations and handle conflict maturely and rationally. The man must be responsible.

  • @krysinichols7085
    @krysinichols7085 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What episode was this

  • @Soy_Jessica_
    @Soy_Jessica_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best advise tam

  • @user-mb9jx5tx9y
    @user-mb9jx5tx9y 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if that’s her natural hair color. It’s so dark !❤️

  • @yanniizmmy
    @yanniizmmy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like we heard this before at a different girl chat