My beautiful baby... I love you so much. I've known you since you were 13 years old, and to have watched you grow up these past 13 years has been not only an honor, but a highlight of my life. I couldn't imagine what my life would be like without your influence, and I wouldn't dare to try. And I'm only a friend. That's why I can say I know your father is so proud of you, and loves you so much. You bring love, life and light into every room, every conversation, every heart. You have always been a beacon of joy, a reason to smile, and a pillar of strength. That strength inside of you is something I've always admired, and always hoped you would never need. And now, with all this happening all at once, you are forced to be strong. It can be so draining and painful, especially when that strength feels like it's already dwindling and you're at wits end. So it's our turn. Jake is such an incredible man, and you are both lucky and a blessed to have each other. Let him be your strength. I'm alright, not as great as him I know, but I'm only a couple hours away. And always ready for a phone call. Let me be your strength. Your mother, Jake's family, all your friends and loved ones, are in your life because they are incredible people with big hearts and caring souls... let them be your strength. You are not alone, my beautiful baby, you are never alone. And you are not done. It's okay to rest, and it's okay to lean on others for support. And when your strength has come back -and I promise you, it will- you can be that delightfully independent-but-also-loves-helping-everyone-to-the-point-you-almost-depend-on-it woman again. Your Sugar Momma loves you, so very much. P.S. Please keep posting. I want to hear more stories about the amazing man that helped raise such an incredible woman.
My deepest sympathies. So much happening back to back and so much loss. I don’t know you and just came across your video, but I’m praying for you and your family or comfort and your healing🙏🙏🙏
I’m really sorry for your loss. I understand. I just loss my Dad in March of last year. It is so painful. You never get over it but you learn to live with it.
So very sorry for the loss of your precious dad, and for your horrible injuries! Praying for a good recovery from your injuries, and for comfort and peace for the loss of your dad! 🙏🙏
I just stumbled across your video. I’m so sorry life has been tough for you lately. Things will get easier, they always do. But in the meantime you are in a world of literal hurt and grief. I think many people will identify with that.
Just ran across your channel. So sorry for your loss and for your accident. Your accident in away could have saved you from something else. Life is strange but during my 60+ years things do happen to keep you on the right path. Hang in there and it will get better.
I lost my dad to pancreatic cancer too. He lived 3 weeks after diagnosis. Like your dad he had just retired as well and my mom was only 57. I’m so very sorry, it’s so difficult and unfair. You’ll always carry him in your heart.
My heart hurts for you and your loss. I lost my Dad to the same thing 12/7/1980, lost my daughter to suicide 5/28/2018, and my wife to small cell lung cancer 5/17/2024. Grief does affect your memory and know I will be holding you and your family up in prayer and care. Be gentle on yourself.
Just stumbled upon your channel. I am so sorry for your loss. Lost my mom and dad quite some time ago. I'm in my 50's now. Not a day goes by without thinking of them. One never really recovers from the loss of a parent or child or sibling or wife or husband. One just learns to live with the absence. ASNF - a son never forgets. In your case - ADNF.
Best of luck with your recovery. Condolences to your family on your dad’s passing. Sharing any lessons learned related to navigating health care for end of life would be helpful. Only if you’re ready.
My dad passed away ( in Canada) from liver cancer about one year after diagnosis. I am sorry for your loss, i know how difficult the process is ( i was in denial the entire time before his death always telling myself he would survive). I wanted to let you know my dad's hospice doctor told me that based on everything she experienced as a hospice doctor, that consciousness survives death. She did not say this because she was religious. She was very bright, she was an anaesthesiologist before becoming a hospice doctor. Many hospice workers come to think that there is more after death based on what they experienced during their work being around those who are end of life. My writing this obviously does not bring your dad back, or ake your pain disappear, but know that his consciousness may not have ended after his death.
Sending love and prayers for strength and healing. I lost my Mom in 2021 and the grieving process has taught me so much about myself and what is really important. It is hard when life events get derailed and don’t go like we hope or expect. Be patient with yourself and your life. I am learning to surrender to what is and letting go of how I wanted it to be. Be blessed. ❤
Firstly I am so sorry about the loss of your father. It’s very sad to loose your father so so young. It doesn’t help when you’re dealing with a broken health system. You have been through a lot. I think it’s important to speak out about our health systems and its failures and maybe it may help you to talk about your experience as it is so traumatic when watching a loved one navigate a system when they are at the end of their life. I’m a nurse and our system is broken here in New Zealand too and I’ve watched many families go through so much extra heartache and stress due to the very institution that is meant to be there in their time of need, it’s very disappointing. It was lovely of you to go and collect your dad and be that support for him and your mum. Pancreatic cancer is such a horrible cancer and takes its host so quickly. I’m sorry you had to go through that, it’s difficult to watch a parent pass away like that. Been there myself. I hope your mum is doing ok and it’s so very unfair that they had such a wonderful dream to retire together and for this to happen, life is incredibly cruel and unfair. I also understand how frustrating it is to be a very independent and active person and then you injure yourself, I broke my back in multiple places in a fall and life hasn’t been the same since, it’s really frustrating to have to rely on others or not be able to do the things you are used to doing, it makes you go crazy. A lot of bad things all in a row for you and that’s soul destroying. Sometimes these kinds of accidents are gods way of intervening, I truly believe in Devine intervention. I know it must be very disappointing and it’s also very hard when you are going through so much, then your dream and start to your new marriage doesn’t go the way you planned. But maybe it just happens at a later date and when you are in a better frame of mind to enjoy it more. I’m so sorry you have been through such a terrible time, you almost get too afraid to relax as you are just waiting for the next bad thing to happen when things just seem to keep on snowballing. I’m glad your dad was able to spend your special day with you, what a blessing. Sending you and your family my condolences and sending you healing, love and strength ❤ you seem like such a beautiful soul. Lots of incredible moments are awaiting you, it’s just the start of the best years of your life, being married gives us a sense of security and purpose and I wish you all the happiness in the world lovely lady. ❤🐝❤️🌈🙏🇳🇿💕✌️🐳⭐️ hugs
First of all, I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad and for the accident from your climbing adventure, my heart and prayers go out to you and your husband and mother. My mother just finished treatments for breast Cancer and now is facing cancer of her feet and legs, I don't know what to do, I feel so helpless, I feel selfish, because I don't know how I could ever be without my Mom. Please help me with any advice, words of encouragement or just anything for my Mother and myself. Thank you for sharing, may God bless you and keep you and his love shine down on you and yours- Cindy
We feel for you and are here for you all. All of us have had that period of life of loss and when thins can go wrong, they all go wrong together. Two years ago everything went wrong (at least the most recent 🤪). I failed out of school, then my 4 legged son (cat) died, then I got COVID, then my dad died, and then my brother died all within a 45 day period. I say this to say, better days are ahead and continue to invest in each other and each day with the joy and love as if it is new. This way when the bad comes, you can still appreciate life and love. My condolences and my well wishes to both of you. Hang in there 😥 always more light than dark especially when true love 💕 is there. 🙏
I’m so sorry about the loss of your dear dad. Both of my parents are gone now, so I do understand what it feels like to not have them here anymore. Regardless of your age, you do feel a bit as if you’ve been orphaned or something similar. And I do know that pancreatic cancer is a particularly tough cancer to fight. I think because it’s not usually found until it’s hit late stages. There’s just no good test yet, like mammogram or colonoscopy. I hope one day they’ll come up with one! Then on top of everything your fall and double wrist fractures. This part will pass. They will heal and before you know it that accident will feel like it was a long time ago. In the meantime, love on your new hubby and your dear mom. Do what your doctors tell you. And wait it out. Our bodies are pretty amazing at repairing broken bones. I hope the next 60 years goes smooth as silk, you all deserve it. Many blessings for a long and healthy, happy life!
Sweet Girl - I found you on accident scrolling through. I want to first say how sorry I am that this is the path that you are walking right now. I lost my Daddy to leukemia 7 years ago. The pain doesn't go away, but it does get better. Second, I believe that God uses bad things in our life to draw us closer to Him. Lean on the Lord and give Him your weakness and sorrow. Only God can heal your soul. ❤
I'm sorry you are going through all of this. I lost both my parents in my 30s and I'm still hit with random waves of grief in my 40s. The waves get to be fewer and farther between, but they still hit kinda hard.
I was scrolling through my fyp and found you! Thank you for sharing your story! Sorry for your loss. You made me think about times i have with loved ones❤️
Wishing you the best! I also got married in a hospital so my dad could be there with us. He had terminal cancer. I was 35. In the last three years I've had 6 spine surgeries and my husband had to help me with everything. It's tough when you are like I am, fiercely independent . Allow people to help you. You'll help others again soon. Praying for your speedy recovery and also for your loss.
You came up in my feed. I'm so sorry for the loss of your father, your injuries and your delayed plans. I've never seen your videos before but I'd reach out and hug you if I could. ❤🩹I hope you're heart and your bones are healing.
I am so very sorry for your loss and injuries. I pray you will heal quickly and completely, and get to enjoy many adventures. Hardships do grant us the gift of appreciation for life and all its blessings. Take care! 💛
I'm so sorry for the Loss of your Dad. May God give you the strength and the comfort in your heart to go through this hard time. I just found your sad story from your Dad and also that you fall and that you are injured. I wish you all the best. 🤗😐🌹🦋🍁🍂🍁🍂💐
So sorry on the loss of your Dad. Definitely don’t give up making videos. Id love to hear more about your Dad. Sending you prayers for a speedy recovery 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I’m so sorry about your precious dad!! I lost my mom last December from Alzheimer’s and now I’m helping take my dad to chemo for prostate cancer! I cherish every single minute that I have him here!!! I will be praying for you and your family!! 🙏🏻❤️
Wishing you a much better year than your past one. I'm so sorry about losing your Dad, your accident, the delay in your trip, all of it. You can survive an awful lot when you have a loving person supporting you and obviously you do. I hope your year improves and you find your joy once again.💜
I’m sorry for your loss & your mom’s loss!! I can say for me, they say time heals all but I’m not convinced it applies when a girl looses her daddy! God Bless I look forward to your future videos!
I am so sorry about your dad. My dad died when I was 27, just a few months after we got married. I understand what you are going through, and if you ever want to talk to someone who has been there, I’m happy to listen. (It’s often easier to talk to a stranger.) So sorry about your broken wrists, too! You poor thing. (I don’t know why TH-cam recommended your channel, but I’m subscribing now.)
This video was so beautifully done you know especially with it being so recent and yes I would like to hear more videos on your father and family and your journey you all are in my prayers God bless 🙏🙏🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m with you and your mom. My husband died of Pancreatic cancer seven years ago. We had so children, so I was pretty much alone. To watch your loved one die is horrific. I think of him almost every day. I’ll be here to listen to you or help you and your mom in any way I can. I think your channel will really help you heal. I’m also sorry about your fall during your Honeymoon. Things never last forever, nothing Bad and nothing good. It just life. May God Bless and watch over you and your mom. 🙏🏻💕
My dad passed away before we could get married so we just eloped after the fact because we felt it wouldn’t be the same. I feel your pain and it’s really hard. It will never be easy and all the “I’m sorry’s” will never be easy to hear but, you’ll learn to smile and go on with your day every time it’s said. Some days will be better than others but I’m not going to lie, the holidays will suck. All the first without dad is going to suck so maybe celebrate a different day and/or preoccupy yourself Christmas and/or thanksgiving. Do something different like make a dinner reservation somewhere, anywhere because it’s going to tough if you celebrate the way you did with dad. From one girl to another who lost her dad last year, my heart goes out to you and your mom.
Thank you so much for sharing your news. I really feel for you, that’s all too much. So glad you have such a great husband, what a blessing. You are not alone xoxo
I am so sorry for your loss. My father has this form of cancer and it has attached to his bones. He had a lot of pain in his bones and we are working to manage this as much as possible. It truly is a journey. All you can do is take one day at a time for now.
my dad passed away 5 years ago from lung cancer and it’s still hard for me today. I am so sorry for your loss and all that comes with missing your daddy. Today is the day after I found out my dad had cancer. I know how it feels. The grief was crippling. I will say 5 years out, while I miss him everyday, I am used to the grief now and I don’t cry everyday. When I hear a song or a season comes along where I would have seen him, I feel sad. My son was diagnosed with leukemia a little over a year ago and now that’s what I cry about. My grief focus lives but I am still sad. I am so sorry you are walking through this. ♥️🦋♥️
I’m so sorry, what a hard few months you have had, and your dad seems like a wonderful person, I’ll bet he’s so proud to have you as a daughter. Hold on, things will get better.
Wow you have certainly been through so much my friend but I’m so grateful you have such a supportive beautiful husband! Going through so much together will make the roots of your marriage grow strong for any future trials! I’m so sorry you have had so much to cope with in such a short time! I will subscribe to your channel to support your future life journeys ! Steph from New Zealand
This is a video that TH-cam recommended. I'm so glad I watched it. Very happy that you were able to work things around and get married so your dad could be there. Very precious memories for all of you. My husband's nephew passed away from pancreatic cancer. What a horrible disease. Please make more videos about your dad when you're able to. Sharing some of what you've gone through will be helpful for others and for you. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
God bless you and gives you strength to continue moving forward. I am sorry about the loss of your dad, and hope you continue your recovery so you can have the trip of your dreams.
💔🖤I lost my dad a few days before my birthday. And I feel so broken. He wanted so bad to get back home. He was supposed to be recovering but his immune system got really low and caught hospital-acquired pneumonia. I don't know how I'm gonna get through this 🖤my heart feels hollow
My dad died when I was 19. He had cancer and was given less than 6 months to live. Only option was chemo to just prolong his life by a few months, which he declined. He did suffer at the end. He made it through Christmas, then died a few days after new years. It was the hardest time of my life and for years it was hard. I have to say that time does make things better but unfortunately will always have that emptiness and sadness. I’m glad your dad got to see you married. I wish mine got to see me be a sports medicine doctor. He would have been crazy proud.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad on August 16, 2016. We found out in February that year he had stage 4 lung cancer. He started treatment and made it only 6 months. Worst thing I have lived through to date and I’m 52.
Awe, that’s a lot of hardship you’ve had to endure these past few months. So grateful you have your amazing husband to help you on your hard days. I have no doubts that you guys will go on an amazing adventure in time. Best wishes to you.
Sounds like devine intervention for your trip. Your weren't meant to go. Life throws curve balls. I happy to see you are alive and healthy, other than the wrists. You have your health, your husband and your Mom still with you. Take it with grace. You're going to be just fine. It may seem hard but you will be stronger in the long run.
its 2025, Jan 3rd. your video popped up randomly. My condolences on the loss of your Dad. I'd love to hear more about him if you decide to make another video. I was grateful to have excellent care, my work Insurance had to change and its very expensive now, (lord willing I don't end up homeless) but I was able to go to an excellent hospital. Every illness/cancer is different and medical care is at times difficult to deal with. I lost my Dad when I was in my late teens, I don't think I'm over it yet :(. Things do move along and get better, but we never forget them.
Very challenging and emotionally draining few months. As things come to center once again, I hope you're able to draw upon one another to make your lives exactly as you'd like. This community will support you in spirit, sending good wishes and prayers for a strong re-boot to your lives.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Also for your accident but I'm glad you weren't injured worse! Glad you have each other and hope you know that you can call on Jesus as He is always there!
I wish could give you a big hug. My Dad died of pancreatic cancer when I was 42. My mom died when I was 27. The impact on one's life is beyond any pain I could of felt. You don't want them to go but you don't want them to suffer. Cherish the moments and memories you have in your heart and mind. Please let yourself grieve. it gets a little better but it's always there. Make your life what you really want don't settle for less. You are a kind beautiful woman take this time to mend your heart your mind and your body. Stay strong.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad, the loss of your dream trip and your injuries...Remember all the good times with your Dad, those memories will sustain you for the rest of your life. I know your injuries will heal and I hope that you will be able to rebook your trip. Stay strong❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹
Hi. You were blessed to have a Dad who was there for you. There are people like me, who never had a Dad. It was hard, very hard to go through life without a person like that. Count your blessings. You are alive to live your life, celebrate the good things. When I lost my leg at 50 a few years ago, i made a choice to move forward. Only you can decide to move forward. Happiness comes from your decision to want it. Be inspiring and have courage to stay happy for yourself and others. Cheers.
Todo pasa por alguna razón. Dios tendrá para ustedes algo mejor en el futuro. son una pareja joven y tendrán otras oportunidades para cumplir sus sueños.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. Totally feel your pain. I lost my mum in April and my dad in October 2024, it’s still raw. You never get over, but time lessons the pain a bit. 🫂
Allowing others to help you is an act of charity, be humble and accept the help. You are young and these are hard lessons but try to see the blessings amidst the pain. Gratitude in life is everything.
Doesn’t matter what age you are, you’re never ready to loose your mother! I lost my mom last week. I’m 68 and she was 98. She had 5 of us kids. Just me and one of my sisters are left.
Not sure why this popped into my feeds, but God Bless you all. Life bites sometimes, don't try to figure out the why, will just make you crazy. Heal, get well, live life to honor your Dad. Had to add a John Lennon Quote: "Life is what happens when you are making other plans". Never has a more truthful thing been said. BTW, I am easily old enough to be your Dad or even GrandDad and have kids younger and substantially older than you (one wife).
So sorry for your loss and that you had this painful accident 💔 It's way tooo much and I admire your strength and composure. Lots of love and hugs for you! Greetings from Poland 🩷🩷🩷
My beautiful baby... I love you so much. I've known you since you were 13 years old, and to have watched you grow up these past 13 years has been not only an honor, but a highlight of my life. I couldn't imagine what my life would be like without your influence, and I wouldn't dare to try.
And I'm only a friend. That's why I can say I know your father is so proud of you, and loves you so much. You bring love, life and light into every room, every conversation, every heart. You have always been a beacon of joy, a reason to smile, and a pillar of strength. That strength inside of you is something I've always admired, and always hoped you would never need.
And now, with all this happening all at once, you are forced to be strong. It can be so draining and painful, especially when that strength feels like it's already dwindling and you're at wits end.
So it's our turn.
Jake is such an incredible man, and you are both lucky and a blessed to have each other. Let him be your strength.
I'm alright, not as great as him I know, but I'm only a couple hours away. And always ready for a phone call. Let me be your strength.
Your mother, Jake's family, all your friends and loved ones, are in your life because they are incredible people with big hearts and caring souls... let them be your strength.
You are not alone, my beautiful baby, you are never alone. And you are not done. It's okay to rest, and it's okay to lean on others for support.
And when your strength has come back -and I promise you, it will- you can be that delightfully independent-but-also-loves-helping-everyone-to-the-point-you-almost-depend-on-it woman again.
Your Sugar Momma loves you, so very much.
P.S. Please keep posting. I want to hear more stories about the amazing man that helped raise such an incredible woman.
So sorry to get these updates! thanks for making it and we do care. Happy that you have Jake and you guys have eachother!
My deepest sympathies. So much happening back to back and so much loss. I don’t know you and just came across your video, but I’m praying for you and your family or comfort and your healing🙏🙏🙏
I’m really sorry for your loss. I understand. I just loss my Dad in March of last year. It is so painful. You never get over it but you learn to live with it.
So very sorry for the loss of your precious dad, and for your horrible injuries! Praying for a good recovery from your injuries, and for comfort and peace for the loss of your dad! 🙏🙏
I just stumbled across your video. I’m so sorry life has been tough for you lately. Things will get easier, they always do. But in the meantime you are in a world of literal hurt and grief. I think many people will identify with that.
Just ran across your channel. So sorry for your loss and for your accident. Your accident in away could have saved you from something else. Life is strange but during my 60+ years things do happen to keep you on the right path. Hang in there and it will get better.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m so glad you’re ok and weren’t hurt worse in your fall.
I lost my dad to pancreatic cancer too. He lived 3 weeks after diagnosis. Like your dad he had just retired as well and my mom was only 57. I’m so very sorry, it’s so difficult and unfair. You’ll always carry him in your heart.
My heart hurts for you and your loss. I lost my Dad to the same thing 12/7/1980, lost my daughter to suicide 5/28/2018, and my wife to small cell lung cancer 5/17/2024. Grief does affect your memory and know I will be holding you and your family up in prayer and care. Be gentle on yourself.
I’m so sorry.
My beautiful daughter, there are no words.... I love you❤️
Just stumbled upon your channel. I am so sorry for your loss. Lost my mom and dad quite some time ago. I'm in my 50's now. Not a day goes by without thinking of them. One never really recovers from the loss of a parent or child or sibling or wife or husband. One just learns to live with the absence. ASNF - a son never forgets. In your case - ADNF.
I’m sorry for your loss lass! 😔 Hoping you had a great Xmas and remembered the good times with your Dad! Have a great Bew Years… 😊🤙🎉🎊🙏
Best of luck with your recovery. Condolences to your family on your dad’s passing. Sharing any lessons learned related to navigating health care for end of life would be helpful. Only if you’re ready.
My dad passed away ( in Canada) from liver cancer about one year after diagnosis. I am sorry for your loss, i know how difficult the process is ( i was in denial the entire time before his death always telling myself he would survive). I wanted to let you know my dad's hospice doctor told me that based on everything she experienced as a hospice doctor, that consciousness survives death. She did not say this because she was religious. She was very bright, she was an anaesthesiologist before becoming a hospice doctor. Many hospice workers come to think that there is more after death based on what they experienced during their work being around those who are end of life. My writing this obviously does not bring your dad back, or ake your pain disappear, but know that his consciousness may not have ended after his death.
Sending love and prayers for strength and healing. I lost my Mom in 2021 and the grieving process has taught me so much about myself and what is really important. It is hard when life events get derailed and don’t go like we hope or expect. Be patient with yourself and your life. I am learning to surrender to what is and letting go of how I wanted it to be. Be blessed. ❤
The algorithm brought me here- all I can say is that it’s okay to grieve all of the losses you’ve had in such a short period of time. Hugs to you.
Firstly I am so sorry about the loss of your father. It’s very sad to loose your father so so young. It doesn’t help when you’re dealing with a broken health system. You have been through a lot. I think it’s important to speak out about our health systems and its failures and maybe it may help you to talk about your experience as it is so traumatic when watching a loved one navigate a system when they are at the end of their life. I’m a nurse and our system is broken here in New Zealand too and I’ve watched many families go through so much extra heartache and stress due to the very institution that is meant to be there in their time of need, it’s very disappointing. It was lovely of you to go and collect your dad and be that support for him and your mum. Pancreatic cancer is such a horrible cancer and takes its host so quickly. I’m sorry you had to go through that, it’s difficult to watch a parent pass away like that. Been there myself. I hope your mum is doing ok and it’s so very unfair that they had such a wonderful dream to retire together and for this to happen, life is incredibly cruel and unfair. I also understand how frustrating it is to be a very independent and active person and then you injure yourself, I broke my back in multiple places in a fall and life hasn’t been the same since, it’s really frustrating to have to rely on others or not be able to do the things you are used to doing, it makes you go crazy. A lot of bad things all in a row for you and that’s soul destroying. Sometimes these kinds of accidents are gods way of intervening, I truly believe in Devine intervention. I know it must be very disappointing and it’s also very hard when you are going through so much, then your dream and start to your new marriage doesn’t go the way you planned. But maybe it just happens at a later date and when you are in a better frame of mind to enjoy it more. I’m so sorry you have been through such a terrible time, you almost get too afraid to relax as you are just waiting for the next bad thing to happen when things just seem to keep on snowballing. I’m glad your dad was able to spend your special day with you, what a blessing. Sending you and your family my condolences and sending you healing, love and strength ❤ you seem like such a beautiful soul. Lots of incredible moments are awaiting you, it’s just the start of the best years of your life, being married gives us a sense of security and purpose and I wish you all the happiness in the world lovely lady. ❤🐝❤️🌈🙏🇳🇿💕✌️🐳⭐️ hugs
Thank you so much for this ❤️
First of all, I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad and for the accident from your climbing adventure, my heart and prayers go out to you and your husband and mother. My mother just finished treatments for breast Cancer and now is facing cancer of her feet and legs, I don't know what to do, I feel so helpless, I feel selfish, because I don't know how I could ever be without my Mom. Please help me with any advice, words of encouragement or just anything for my Mother and myself. Thank you for sharing, may God bless you and keep you and his love shine down on you and yours- Cindy
We feel for you and are here for you all. All of us have had that period of life of loss and when thins can go wrong, they all go wrong together. Two years ago everything went wrong (at least the most recent 🤪). I failed out of school, then my 4 legged son (cat) died, then I got COVID, then my dad died, and then my brother died all within a 45 day period. I say this to say, better days are ahead and continue to invest in each other and each day with the joy and love as if it is new. This way when the bad comes, you can still appreciate life and love. My condolences and my well wishes to both of you. Hang in there 😥 always more light than dark especially when true love 💕 is there. 🙏
I’m so sorry about the loss of your dear dad. Both of my parents are gone now, so I do understand what it feels like to not have them here anymore. Regardless of your age, you do feel a bit as if you’ve been orphaned or something similar. And I do know that pancreatic cancer is a particularly tough cancer to fight. I think because it’s not usually found until it’s hit late stages. There’s just no good test yet, like mammogram or colonoscopy. I hope one day they’ll come up with one! Then on top of everything your fall and double wrist fractures. This part will pass. They will heal and before you know it that accident will feel like it was a long time ago. In the meantime, love on your new hubby and your dear mom. Do what your doctors tell you. And wait it out. Our bodies are pretty amazing at repairing broken bones. I hope the next 60 years goes smooth as silk, you all deserve it. Many blessings for a long and healthy, happy life!
So true I lost my mom at 30 dad 42 and feel exactly like you wrote
RIP. My Dad is not doing well right now. He is 93, I am 66 and I am not ready.
Sweet Girl - I found you on accident scrolling through. I want to first say how sorry I am that this is the path that you are walking right now. I lost my Daddy to leukemia 7 years ago. The pain doesn't go away, but it does get better.
Second, I believe that God uses bad things in our life to draw us closer to Him. Lean on the Lord and give Him your weakness and sorrow. Only God can heal your soul. ❤
I'm sorry you are going through all of this. I lost both my parents in my 30s and I'm still hit with random waves of grief in my 40s. The waves get to be fewer and farther between, but they still hit kinda hard.
I was scrolling through my fyp and found you! Thank you for sharing your story! Sorry for your loss. You made me think about times i have with loved ones❤️
Omg you poor girl. You and your family have been through so much 😢 I hope only good vibes from now on ❤❤
Wishing you the best! I also got married in a hospital so my dad could be there with us. He had terminal cancer. I was 35. In the last three years I've had 6 spine surgeries and my husband had to help me with everything. It's tough when you are like I am, fiercely independent . Allow people to help you. You'll help others again soon.
Praying for your speedy recovery and also for your loss.
You came up in my feed. I'm so sorry for the loss of your father, your injuries and your delayed plans. I've never seen your videos before but I'd reach out and hug you if I could. ❤🩹I hope you're heart and your bones are healing.
I am so very sorry for your loss and injuries. I pray you will heal quickly and completely, and get to enjoy many adventures. Hardships do grant us the gift of appreciation for life and all its blessings. Take care! 💛
I'm so sorry for the Loss of your Dad. May God give you the strength and the comfort in your heart to go through this hard time. I just found your sad story from your Dad and also that you fall and that you are injured. I wish you all the best. 🤗😐🌹🦋🍁🍂🍁🍂💐
So sorry for your loss, please take care of yourself right now! Heal then you can start your new life together and adventures! God Bless your Family❤
So sorry on the loss of your Dad. Definitely don’t give up making videos. Id love to hear more about your Dad. Sending you prayers for a speedy recovery 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I’m so sorry about your precious dad!! I lost my mom last December from Alzheimer’s and now I’m helping take my dad to chemo for prostate cancer! I cherish every single minute that I have him here!!! I will be praying for you and your family!! 🙏🏻❤️
Wishing you a much better year than your past one. I'm so sorry about losing your Dad, your accident, the delay in your trip, all of it. You can survive an awful lot when you have a loving person supporting you and obviously you do. I hope your year improves and you find your joy once again.💜
My deepest condolences. Hoping for your quick and complete recovery from your injuries.
I’m sorry for your loss & your mom’s loss!! I can say for me, they say time heals all but I’m not convinced it applies when a girl looses her daddy! God Bless I look forward to your future videos!
I am so sorry about your dad. My dad died when I was 27, just a few months after we got married. I understand what you are going through, and if you ever want to talk to someone who has been there, I’m happy to listen. (It’s often easier to talk to a stranger.) So sorry about your broken wrists, too! You poor thing. (I don’t know why TH-cam recommended your channel, but I’m subscribing now.)
I am so sorry for your loss. ❤
This video was so beautifully done you know especially with it being so recent and yes I would like to hear more videos on your father and family and your journey you all are in my prayers God bless 🙏🙏🙏
Lost my dad 1 yr ago- the pain is still strong. You seem to be a strong person and will get through this.
What a sweet video. Yes, you were heard. Thank you for reaching out.
I’m so glad he was able to walk you down the aisle. God bless you 😢
I’m so sorry ❤ I lost my dad too, and there are just no words or anything anyone can do to take away the pain.
May your father rest in piece❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m with you and your mom. My husband died of Pancreatic cancer seven years ago. We had so children, so I was pretty much alone. To watch your loved one die is horrific. I think of him almost every day. I’ll be here to listen to you or help you and your mom in any way I can. I think your channel will really help you heal. I’m also sorry about your fall during your Honeymoon. Things never last forever, nothing Bad and nothing good. It just life. May God Bless and watch over you and your mom. 🙏🏻💕
My dad passed away before we could get married so we just eloped after the fact because we felt it wouldn’t be the same. I feel your pain and it’s really hard. It will never be easy and all the “I’m sorry’s” will never be easy to hear but, you’ll learn to smile and go on with your day every time it’s said. Some days will be better than others but I’m not going to lie, the holidays will suck. All the first without dad is going to suck so maybe celebrate a different day and/or preoccupy yourself Christmas and/or thanksgiving. Do something different like make a dinner reservation somewhere, anywhere because it’s going to tough if you celebrate the way you did with dad. From one girl to another who lost her dad last year, my heart goes out to you and your mom.
My best wishes to you. I’m sorry for your loss.
Sending prayers for you and your family. I’m so sorry! I just lost my father last week. It is never a good time.
Thank you so much for sharing your news. I really feel for you, that’s all too much. So glad you have such a great husband, what a blessing. You are not alone xoxo
I am so sorry for your loss. My father has this form of cancer and it has attached to his bones. He had a lot of pain in his bones and we are working to manage this as much as possible. It truly is a journey. All you can do is take one day at a time for now.
my dad passed away 5 years ago from lung cancer and it’s still hard for me today. I am so sorry for your loss and all that comes with missing your daddy. Today is the day after I found out my dad had cancer. I know how it feels. The grief was crippling. I will say 5 years out, while I miss him everyday, I am used to the grief now and I don’t cry everyday. When I hear a song or a season comes along where I would have seen him, I feel sad. My son was diagnosed with leukemia a little over a year ago and now that’s what I cry about. My grief focus lives but I am still sad. I am so sorry you are walking through this. ♥️🦋♥️
I’m so sorry, what a hard few months you have had, and your dad seems like a wonderful person, I’ll bet he’s so proud to have you as a daughter. Hold on, things will get better.
Wow you have certainly been through so much my friend but I’m so grateful you have such a supportive beautiful husband! Going through so much together will make the roots of your marriage grow strong for any future trials! I’m so sorry you have had so much to cope with in such a short time! I will subscribe to your channel to support your future life journeys !
Steph from New Zealand
This is a video that TH-cam recommended. I'm so glad I watched it. Very happy that you were able to work things around and get married so your dad could be there. Very precious memories for all of you.
My husband's nephew passed away from pancreatic cancer. What a horrible disease. Please make more videos about your dad when you're able to. Sharing some of what you've gone through will be helpful for others and for you. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
God bless you and gives you strength to continue moving forward. I am sorry about the loss of your dad, and hope you continue your recovery so you can have the trip of your dreams.
💔🖤I lost my dad a few days before my birthday. And I feel so broken. He wanted so bad to get back home. He was supposed to be recovering but his immune system got really low and caught hospital-acquired pneumonia. I don't know how I'm gonna get through this 🖤my heart feels hollow
May God bless you both 🙏 lost my dad about 12 years and my son 3 years ago stays with you.
I am so sorry for you and your Mom. You have been through so much in such a short time. I hope everything goes better for you both from now onwards.❤
My dad died when I was 19. He had cancer and was given less than 6 months to live. Only option was chemo to just prolong his life by a few months, which he declined. He did suffer at the end. He made it through Christmas, then died a few days after new years. It was the hardest time of my life and for years it was hard. I have to say that time does make things better but unfortunately will always have that emptiness and sadness. I’m glad your dad got to see you married. I wish mine got to see me be a sports medicine doctor. He would have been crazy proud.
I am so sorryfor all that you have been through.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad on August 16, 2016. We found out in February that year he had stage 4 lung cancer. He started treatment and made it only 6 months. Worst thing I have lived through to date and I’m 52.
Awe, that’s a lot of hardship you’ve had to endure these past few months. So grateful you have your amazing husband to help you on your hard days. I have no doubts that you guys will go on an amazing adventure in time. Best wishes to you.
Wishing you a speedy and healthy recovery
I am so sorry for all that you are going through. Give yourself some time and grace. ❤❤
Sounds like devine intervention for your trip. Your weren't meant to go. Life throws curve balls. I happy to see you are alive and healthy, other than the wrists. You have your health, your husband and your Mom still with you. Take it with grace. You're going to be just fine. It may seem hard but you will be stronger in the long run.
its 2025, Jan 3rd. your video popped up randomly. My condolences on the loss of your Dad. I'd love to hear more about him if you decide to make another video. I was grateful to have excellent care, my work Insurance had to change and its very expensive now, (lord willing I don't end up homeless) but I was able to go to an excellent hospital. Every illness/cancer is different and medical care is at times difficult to deal with. I lost my Dad when I was in my late teens, I don't think I'm over it yet :(. Things do move along and get better, but we never forget them.
So sorry for yous loss❤ May your dad rest in peace 🕊
My deepest condolences on your loss….. ❤
I am a new subscriber. I would suggest is what ever you want. Telling your family stories if you feel you can handle it. ❤❤
Very challenging and emotionally draining few months. As things come to center once again, I hope you're able to draw upon one another to make your lives exactly as you'd like. This community will support you in spirit, sending good wishes and prayers for a strong re-boot to your lives.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Also for your accident but I'm glad you weren't injured worse! Glad you have each other and hope you know that you can call on Jesus as He is always there!
I'm so so Very Sorry for your Loss My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your Family.
I wish could give you a big hug. My Dad died of pancreatic cancer when I was 42. My mom died when I was 27. The impact on one's life is beyond any pain I could of felt. You don't want them to go but you don't want them to suffer. Cherish the moments and memories you have in your heart and mind. Please let yourself grieve. it gets a little better but it's always there. Make your life what you really want don't settle for less. You are a kind beautiful woman take this time to mend your heart your mind and your body. Stay strong.
I’m so sorry you lost your Dad! I was 31 when my Dad passed. I still feel cheated.
Look forward for more of your next next and nxt videos
But you are still here ❤ and Jake is amazing and you are amazing and you’ll get through this, and there will be more trips❤❤❤❤
I'm so sorry for your loss.
You’re young and you are alive and you have a great future ahead so live it up
Sorry for your lost, take care❤
Your video showed up on my feed. I just wanted to send you my deepest condolences.
Brave young lady,, 1 day at a time & Family, Friends
I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad, the loss of your dream trip and your injuries...Remember all the good times with your Dad, those memories will sustain you for the rest of your life. I know your injuries will heal and I hope that you will be able to rebook your trip. Stay strong❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹
I am so sorry. My Dad passed of pancreatic cancer back in 1996 when he was 41. It is so fast... from diagnosis to his passing, it was weeks. :(
Hi. You were blessed to have a Dad who was there for you. There are people like me, who never had a Dad. It was hard, very hard to go through life without a person like that. Count your blessings. You are alive to live your life, celebrate the good things. When I lost my leg at 50 a few years ago, i made a choice to move forward. Only you can decide to move forward. Happiness comes from your decision to want it. Be inspiring and have courage to stay happy for yourself and others. Cheers.
Todo pasa por alguna razón. Dios tendrá para ustedes algo mejor en el futuro. son una pareja joven y tendrán otras oportunidades para cumplir sus sueños.
Sending you my thoughts and wish you peace.
thank you for sharing.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. Totally feel your pain. I lost my mum in April and my dad in October 2024, it’s still raw. You never get over, but time lessons the pain a bit. 🫂
Allowing others to help you is an act of charity, be humble and accept the help. You are young and these are hard lessons but try to see the blessings amidst the pain. Gratitude in life is everything.
I can tell that y’all are going to be ok. It is hard.
So sorry for your loss
Yes, you have a following. Thanks for the update.
I lost my mom at 26, it is 3 years this weekend. I understand how challenging it can be to be in this situation at this age.
Doesn’t matter what age you are, you’re never ready to loose your mother! I lost my mom last week. I’m 68 and she was 98. She had 5 of us kids. Just me and one of my sisters are left.
I know your pain, I lost my Father to liver cancer on August 2…I know how hard it…take one day at a time…remember the good memories.
I’m so sorry about your dad my mom died of pancreatic cancer 3 years ago. 😢
Sorry for your loss, be well
I would love to hear your story about your dad
Not sure why this popped into my feeds, but God Bless you all. Life bites sometimes, don't try to figure out the why, will just make you crazy. Heal, get well, live life to honor your Dad.
Had to add a John Lennon Quote: "Life is what happens when you are making other plans". Never has a more truthful thing been said. BTW, I am easily old enough to be your Dad or even GrandDad and have kids younger and substantially older than you (one wife).
So sorry for your loss and that you had this painful accident 💔 It's way tooo much and I admire your strength and composure. Lots of love and hugs for you! Greetings from Poland 🩷🩷🩷
Love and healing to you❤