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  • Wheelchair Friendly House Tour | Our Accessible Features!
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    Welcome to the official Roll with Cole & Charisma TH-cam channel! Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about our experiences as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. On this channel you can catch us doing travel and adventure vlogs, challenges, our inclusion series, couple first times, music, and so much more! We started this vlog to bring people into our lives, to answer some questions about how we navigate the world, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about inclusion and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!

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  • @CatB1PYT
    @CatB1PYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I love how Charisma always reinforces how Cole helped her by keeping her company while she puts things together that he can’t physically do. That’s unity. Their marriage will last forever because of the genuine love they have for one another. The house looks amazing!

  • @klmhookedmoore5847
    @klmhookedmoore5847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    I love Charisma's love and devotion for Cole. So admirable in a young person in today's world.

    • @syliviamayanja1770
      @syliviamayanja1770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @toni5543
      @toni5543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      More common than ever 🥰

    • @poojagokool6462
      @poojagokool6462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr ❤️

    • @pimplove4772
      @pimplove4772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They are meant for each other..

    • @rbsarr5521
      @rbsarr5521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It looks like Charisma is educated in love and affection then it is easy for her to give love and affection to everyone

  • @monicacoleman6344
    @monicacoleman6344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    “Anything to get away from death is preferable 😏 “ I love Cole’s dark humor 🤣🤣

    • @georgelewis8798
      @georgelewis8798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lady Monica, I sincerely do appreciate the way you 🤔 think

    • @irisscott9488
      @irisscott9488 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@georgelewis8798 Yes, I, too, ALWAYS appreciate Cole's sense of humor! Low key but hilarious!😍

    • @georgelewis8798
      @georgelewis8798 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@irisscott9488 I truly envy Cole and his incredible wife for using their "God" given platform to richly encourage others.✝️💟

  • @Zahra-kd8hk
    @Zahra-kd8hk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    I love that whenever Cole mentions something Charisma has to do by herself like making the furniture she always includes him by saying sweet stuff like keeping her company.❤

    • @Kate-uj2pn
      @Kate-uj2pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And he is always so proud of her :')

    • @ClarksCozyCorner
      @ClarksCozyCorner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just said the same thing!! I absolutely LOVE that! It warms my heart!!💛💛

    • @sheenaalexis8710
      @sheenaalexis8710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. There are MANY ways of helping that aren't always physical and are JUST as important. I love how he is included!

  • @carolyncoates7401
    @carolyncoates7401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    Happy wedding day
    November 7th is my birthday I will be blessed to be 77 years old. 💐

    • @theescorpio565
      @theescorpio565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's my birthday too! That's awesome for them❤

    • @patmebg3794
      @patmebg3794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Many more years to you both🎂🎁🎉

    • @sandrablake120
      @sandrablake120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s my birthday as well so glad you are getting married on that day many blessings to you both!

    • @tsitsib6084
      @tsitsib6084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its my birthday too. Blessed day

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Happy Birthday

  • @pamelasimsjones557
    @pamelasimsjones557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    The house is airy, accessible and chic. I love the fact that it's not cluttered with unnecessary furniture & knick knacks. You guys are free spirits, nurturing, practical and loving. Your home reflects that! Congratulations.

    • @brendawashington5340
      @brendawashington5340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Handsome guy 😊blessed

    • @Tefixitafuckme
      @Tefixitafuckme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Remember hr bought it from another person with the same needs, he's the MVP

  • @scaledandginger
    @scaledandginger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    when cole calls charisma “my love” my heart goes 💜💕💕💛💚💘🧡💞❤️💜💞💞🧡💜

  • @madisilver460
    @madisilver460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    May I suggest some sort of heat resistant protective cover over Cole's lap when you're getting food from the microwave-a tray or mat? 🤔 Although he may not feel the pain if hot food or beverage spill on his legs/lap, a burn-minor or major could be problematic.
    Thanks for the cool tour, guys.

    • @carol8696
      @carol8696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      My daughter is blind and wheelchair user. When she was in The School for the Blind they always place a oven mitten gloves elbow length in front of her chest pinning it across the chest and one or two on her lap to protect her from the heat or hot spills even thought she never really cook anything while in school just when through the motion with plenty of tears. It was very difficult because the plate will slide off her short lap when moving and turning the manual wheelchair She is 32 now can't used her hands but she can shove something in the toaster oven or microwave with her fist. She is still very afraid of any heating element and her food has to be cool before eating it. I still have to prepared the food and believe it or not she hate store brought premade food. Spoil.

    • @becklyn3
      @becklyn3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I'm a paraplegic and yes burns can happen so fast. When I cook I put a cutting board on my lap for moving hot things and when Im at the stove i always put a towel on my legs just in case some hot liquid may splash.

    • @AndSoWeLaughed
      @AndSoWeLaughed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      And the fact he doesnt feel it could be an issue as burns can get infected. How lovely of you to comment and think of Cole’s safety. (Although they may already have one!)

    • @xsuicide
      @xsuicide 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      *TIP: You guys should put a handle right under the microwave so it’s easy for Cole to pull out with his hand.
      That way he doesn’t have to use his arm and wrist to pull by pressing it up against it underneath.

    • @magretongubo1902
      @magretongubo1902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wise suggestion 🇰🇪

  • @keishajones9582
    @keishajones9582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    Someone needs to bottle up the love charisma exudes asap! I think it has the power to heal a nation.👀 Congratulations Cole and Charisma.

    • @LC-widowed
      @LC-widowed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well said ❤️

    • @riggedbyrachel8390
      @riggedbyrachel8390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      FACT.

    • @suzannerossiter1682
      @suzannerossiter1682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Bottle his love too , they perfect for each other.

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Both of them! Both equally!

    • @traceyhulin4328
      @traceyhulin4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bottle up both of the love that they have for one another. They are an amazing and adorable couple.

  • @TheNeeuqnozama
    @TheNeeuqnozama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    He’s a cutie😍 an his Girlfriend is his cheerleader❤️❤️ in any situation one would want a supportive partner❤️

    • @alisaishere
      @alisaishere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      *fiancé They're going the distance with this one.

    • @PlainJaneWay
      @PlainJaneWay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Fiancé not girlfriend 🙂

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I love this so much about them! She wants the best for him she is definitely a keeper!

    • @sherh3435
      @sherh3435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly Raven......exactly.....

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

  • @nataliar5656
    @nataliar5656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Good lord he is so handsome and she is a beautiful girl 😍

  • @linalewismedina2810
    @linalewismedina2810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love how charisma looks at Cole you know she loves him they are adorable

  • @johnisewilkins8087
    @johnisewilkins8087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Yall are blessed. My husband is a Double amputee below the knee. I love him 💖🥰😎

    • @sefudibotlhole5652
      @sefudibotlhole5652 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In sickness and health 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤ you're a 🌟🤩⭐🌠💫✡

  • @skaywest1772
    @skaywest1772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I have to really respect him even though he's restricted in some areas in his life he's more independent the most!

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%! He is amazing! If he can do something, he will do it!

  • @mbpresentsanonymous1337
    @mbpresentsanonymous1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    he is such a mood :), love him he is such a goofball, charismatic and handsome. also his soon-to-be-wife is beautiful and lovely

  • @jmurry6695
    @jmurry6695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Such a good looking couple. They r each so beautiful. We need the witness of couples in love like Cole and Charisma. Real love is also sacrificial and they have that as well.

  • @cecemimi101
    @cecemimi101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Lol Cole is SO DRAMATIC about this spider 😂😂 he could’ve just rolled away. “Babe help
    Me! I’m gonna die!” 😂😂😂

    • @cecemimi101
      @cecemimi101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paradejah Dehart of course, auto correct is a furious beast.

    • @Kate-uj2pn
      @Kate-uj2pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I love the way she smacked it hahaha

    • @lillibethj.s.7032
      @lillibethj.s.7032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m a magnet for spiders. I’m from Hawaii, which has TONS of spiders, one type being the Cane Spider; YIKES! Scary! The first time I was “attacked” by a spider was while I was sleeping in my bed. I had just returned back to Hawaii from the Newport News/Hampton area of Virginia where I had been going to college and my dad had retired from the Navy while I was gone, so my family had moved to a two-story townhouse outside of military housing and had to get rid of my waterbed so I was just sleeping on a mattress on the floor. It got me in just the right place...very low on my left butt cheek! I actually started feeling sick, then I realized that my left side was very sore then, when I got in my car, I wasn’t able to sit with pressure on my left butt cheek. I had my mom look at my behind and she was able to get up close and personal. I knew it was bad when she gasped and said, “OH MY GOD!” Apparently, it was about the size of a little more than a quarter and it had a very dark red circle around it, and it was full of hundreds of little blisters. I could only look in the mirror and turn around to see it and all I could see was what looked like a red circle that was gray in the middle; the grayness was all of the little blisters. Oh, and there were two red fang marks in the middle.
      I moved to Iowa about 20 years ago and I have lost count of how many times I have been bitten by a spider. They always hurt, itch, welt, etc. they can easily get infected too. So if Cole can’t feel if a spider bites him, he may not know that he has a spider bite unless he or Charisma happen to see it.

  • @hcd621
    @hcd621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    “I can’t feel my hands, I’m fine” 😂

    • @drewharris7785
      @drewharris7785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Worth mentioning that if you can't feel your hands or any body part, you should check your skin regularly for wounds, pressure sores, and in this case splinters. Unfortunately, I can tell you from personal "first foot" experience, not having sensation is no joke.

    • @atheenak3256
      @atheenak3256 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drewharris7785 True

    • @idacooper625
      @idacooper625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow they are a cute couple 💑 😍

    • @bettylewis1970
      @bettylewis1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@idacooper625 what color is love ? has no color ,they are a beautiful couple and she takes care of him well God is blessing them.

  • @monmac7387
    @monmac7387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Watching Cole rediscover his independence is so enjoyable. You both are positively awesome!👍🏽

  • @elenahaynes8021
    @elenahaynes8021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i think we can all agree he is probably the most charismatic guy EVER. too funny, too sweet we love him

  • @elizabethd.7662
    @elizabethd.7662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    Accessibility is key. You’ve done well. My mom was in a wheelchair and only saw the basement level of my first home. It was bittersweet.

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Absolutely! It’s tough because houses are built to be accessible. Ranchers aren’t as common where we are

    • @khaliskhan7864
      @khaliskhan7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Im in a wheelchair and I have never seen my kitchen

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

    • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
      @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@khaliskhan7864 Hopefully things change for you♥️

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@coleandcharisma HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

  • @kymberlyp4056
    @kymberlyp4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    The both of you truly bring the saying.... “Home Is Where The Heart Is”.... to life. 💕

  • @neonpandas
    @neonpandas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Charisma looks like a young Eartha Kitt.

  • @speakonit25
    @speakonit25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I inspire to be as sweet as these people. My heart literally cry everytime I watch their videos. So much love and appreciation.

  • @lyndabanhart799
    @lyndabanhart799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I usually get a little jealous when somebody gets a new nice house like this because I'm not in a good situation myself. This is one of the few times I only feel happy for somebody because these people deserve this so much.

    • @luciliaedward9149
      @luciliaedward9149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well this is the tie you will be blessed with one yourself. Always be happy for everyone. we are all blessed differently.

    • @elliebird990
      @elliebird990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don’t be jealous as it will block your blessing. The law of attraction can’t work in a negative space/mind. Always be happy for others and say to yourself “l am so happy because I am next”. Always believe and have faith . Think on it; see it; feel it; believe it; claim it; own it

  • @amyhammer2707
    @amyhammer2707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Y’all two are so stinking adorable! I’m so happy that y’all have a house that worth’s for both of you. Many. Many hears of happiness awaits you there, I’m sure.

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

  • @celinaanglemyer7395
    @celinaanglemyer7395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    He’s so funny & where do y’all find men like this Aw

    • @briantahs1841
      @briantahs1841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @celina Anglemyer not far I'm still available very funny guy just hit me up 😂 😂 days ahead

    • @lorettatomplait3270
      @lorettatomplait3270 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@briantahs1841 😂😂😂

    • @ashantiigallery8746
      @ashantiigallery8746 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@briantahs1841 haha haa so urgent

    • @ninaappelt9001
      @ninaappelt9001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Charisma found him in the gym working out doing his rehab.

  • @disneymama4475
    @disneymama4475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hello. My husband is also in a wheelchair, but there are days he doesn’t need it (he suffers from Hemiplegia from a car accident 3 years ago). We found your channel while searching accessible home renovations and have binged every video.

  • @griermarr6868
    @griermarr6868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Thank you for this! We are adopting a kiddo that will be in a wheel chair and this was helpful! 🧡

    • @theresafleetwood4962
      @theresafleetwood4962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That is such a courageous and selfless thing to do. Wish more people were up for it. Best wishes and emense respect. 👍🕊🇬🇧

    • @ashleebates5708
      @ashleebates5708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awh this is amazing beautiful and so inspirational ❤️❤️

    • @sharity3289
      @sharity3289 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooh, I like your name - Grier! Gotta keep that in mind for future grandbabies lol!

  • @nutziecraze
    @nutziecraze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    "It's probably infecting me with spider venom" lmao love your sence of humor Cole. Beautiful home guys xx

  • @stassivan6573
    @stassivan6573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I grew up in a wheelchair friendly home (my dad was a quadriplegic) you and your wife remind me of my mom and dad so much. My dad was 21 when he was injured. You have a beautiful home!

    • @soulwisdomstories
      @soulwisdomstories ปีที่แล้ว

      That's beautiful Stassi. I'd love to hear more about your story!

  • @funfactmarkers
    @funfactmarkers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I like Cole he's so funny I can't explain it. It doesn't even seem like he has disabilities he's so happy and Charisma is so happy I love there love 🥰

    • @ktremmy
      @ktremmy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1st time watcher & this is one reason I'll be binge watching. They show that having a disability is not the end of the world. We're just like you( yes I'm also a quadriplegic) & it definitely makes a difference if you have family & friends that support you.💜

  • @donnagrosch4519
    @donnagrosch4519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Cutest couple ever. I hope we get to see the 2 of you get married.

  • @blue-lilliepeace2617
    @blue-lilliepeace2617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Cole is so.... handsome, he really is !!!🥰

  • @xsuicide
    @xsuicide 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    *TIP: You guys should put a handle right under the microwave so it’s easy for Cole to pull out with his hand.
    That way he doesn’t have to use his arm and wrist to pull by pressing it up against it underneath.

  • @MrsMc-tt4xl
    @MrsMc-tt4xl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    November 7th is my wedding anniversary. 2020 will be 39 years.

  • @lady_lusungukondowe
    @lady_lusungukondowe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Lmao Cole's moment with the Trash can was so hilarious 😂
    No one :
    Cole : "Open can" *smile* , "stay open" , you know I am done "Close can"
    He was having a Cool moment 😂👍🏾

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

  • @lindawilson1965
    @lindawilson1965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Cole is sooo handsome!!!! Omg!!!! Charisma is beautiful so I can just imagine how beautiful your kids are going to be!!🤗 Much ❤ to you both!!

  • @morganriddlr2033
    @morganriddlr2033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You can tell she is really in love with him so sweet

  • @eallen7772
    @eallen7772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The way she makes him light up is amazing...and you can really see the love in her eyes. Beautiful. Great house. Enjoy!.

  • @rasberrytea43
    @rasberrytea43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Independence through accessibility is extremely empowering...🎊..Enjoy🎉!

  • @lillou6509
    @lillou6509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I just found you guys today and find you both really humble, it's beautiful to see, I'm already looking forward to the wedding, off to buy my hat tomorrow lol ... great house, stay safe, sending love from across the pond Wales UK

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you! 🤗

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello

    • @debrab1201
      @debrab1201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wales UK awesome. I just found out my DNA from my ancestors is Wales.

  • @schampie99
    @schampie99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    So happy for you guys with this new house and the wedding coming up!

  • @boujeeonabudgetwithjas118
    @boujeeonabudgetwithjas118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m new to this channel so I’m sure it’s been pointed out but can we pause and admire how very handsome Cole is but Charisma is a beauty as well🥰just beautiful couple

  • @FreshStartWithJoy
    @FreshStartWithJoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    You guys bring me so much joy... I was feeling down this weekend and decided to check in to see how my niece and nephew were doing (yes, I've adopted you) :o) I ended up binge-watching all weekend. As such, I wanted to tell you how proud I am of you two for your class, edutainment, and for making everyone feel like family that watches. Never lose your magic... you have something special. Your content is healing the hearts of many and giving hope to all and you serve with all of the love in your heart... that's a ministry. I pray for a lifetime of joy, peace, wealth, and health. Be blessed you two... Love Auntie Joy

    • @ladyrochelle9388
      @ladyrochelle9388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awww, what a sweet and encouraging message!!😇🙏🏽

    • @riannatripp6594
      @riannatripp6594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏great positive message

    • @marysylvery5826
      @marysylvery5826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏🙏😍😍

    • @mimimaxwell2997
      @mimimaxwell2997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Auntie joy the same you wish them will be back
      to you good person the world need more positive people like you

    • @itshaluastyle
      @itshaluastyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      AFRICAN Fashion th-cam.com/video/XCwQ6_wIzdI/w-d-xo.html

  • @DeDe-pw3kq
    @DeDe-pw3kq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I see you Cole, Mr independent! I love the new house tour. These are some excellent ideas that hopefully can help others out. 👍 👍

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

  • @cheyenne1082
    @cheyenne1082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    “i can’t feel my hands, i’m fine”
    i almost choked on my food cause it caught me so off guard

  • @tinaterlaje483
    @tinaterlaje483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You ought to think about designing homes for people with challenges. Your home is beautiful...and the thought process you applied are wonderful throughout. I never thought about an *alternate emergency accessible exit* . I need to seriously get this going, however living on a tropical island... *typhoon* prone location, building codes dictates rebar enforced concrete structures, which costs a pretty penny! I wonder if there are any grants available that will assist me in making my home accessible for my paralyzed adult son since I am his fulltime Mother & caretaker and I've done pretty much everything on my limited retired budget to help him. You have great people working with you in creating your beautiful home! I'm so excited for your wedding day! Blessings to you two beautiful souls... ♡

  • @hooyosomaliyeddream8841
    @hooyosomaliyeddream8841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I love this couple they are my favorite 😍. From East Africa somalia 🇸🇴

    • @Nico.Robin7
      @Nico.Robin7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🇸🇴💕

    • @CoachYaz
      @CoachYaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes to that sis bingewatching them with the biggest smile 😃

    • @hooyosomaliyeddream8841
      @hooyosomaliyeddream8841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Coach Yaz wan kuso boqday

    • @CoachYaz
      @CoachYaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hooyosomaliyeddream8841 thanks hababti welcome x

  • @maritessolis7759
    @maritessolis7759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I came across you two yesterday - it was Cole's face that caught my eyes. He is also so gorgeous and charming and come across kind, nice and just gives off a total good vibe even just on tv. I subscribed and followed you on IG. Watching you two makes me happy. I had binged watch today so have seen most of your videos in a day.

    • @riannatripp6594
      @riannatripp6594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Marites Solis omg you are so right, I too stumbled on this channel in (this lockdown)Cole is so positive in what he’s been through I applaud them

  • @diogocruz454
    @diogocruz454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Alright! I’ve just found you on TH-cam yesterday, and I’m so glad I did. I’m joe from Brazil and to be honest, I’m not really a type of person who gets emotional watching videos or movies. However, there’s something special about you both that really gets me tearing up a little bit. So happy how far you both got and wish you can get even better and further. The big day is just around the corner, so have a great time and share this moment with me. Wishing all the best for yous from the other side of the world. ☀️💙

  • @orangezest5501
    @orangezest5501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    45 days will be here before you know it? I love ❣️ your home especially the kitchen. You guys are on of my favorite couples.
    God bless .

  • @specialk5589
    @specialk5589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    OMG! Cole is so crazy, the very end I thought he really cracked his head on the glass. LORD!😂🤣

  • @joicewinslow8889
    @joicewinslow8889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Y'all's house differently don't look the same , all of yur family & u2 have done a marvelous job. I'm glad that I watched this vlog for I didn't know the Wedding date had been changed. Cole, I can understand about the wided of the door ways. My Husband, needs this as well for he has damage our bedroom door + the hallway walls because there not wide enough for his chair. Our next home we're praying for a builder to make the next house more accessible for him. Love u both 💕💗💕

  • @kaceyreynolds3985
    @kaceyreynolds3985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a dream home!

  • @pamelawiggins9131
    @pamelawiggins9131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I looove your house. Looks totally different now. So fresh, so beautiful. Perfect for new beginnings. 💞💕💞💕💞💕💞💕💞💕

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

  • @ph3lovestory
    @ph3lovestory 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    SUCH A LOVELY YOUNG AND VIBRANT COUPLE!!!!! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL UNION!!!!! 🥰😇🙏🏽😘

  • @isbatwilliams115
    @isbatwilliams115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are two beautiful couples I love everything you put in the house and thank you to all the families and friends that support you in one way or the other to make it possible. Enjoy your new home looking forward to your wedding day I’m very happy for you guys.

  • @kellypurifoy2386
    @kellypurifoy2386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a video my MIL should watch. 2 years ago my FIL fell and had a spinal cord injury, surgery on c3 & c4 of his spine. Currently recovering but making some progress. This is offering genius tips and tricks that could make many things easier for them.

  • @someonerandom6379
    @someonerandom6379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    My partner has an sci and even little adaptations can make a huge difference to independence and just general day to day comfort.

  • @shrondasmith7544
    @shrondasmith7544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I am very happy for you guys best wishes on your up coming wedding...

  • @nikki3108
    @nikki3108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this gives me such joy to see two beautiful people living their best lives!!!!!! ahhh i stan

  • @chockss2kt250
    @chockss2kt250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The house has come together perfectly.. I like how you guys always explain everything & always keep it comical.. Cole is so crazyy... Nobody:
    Cole: We have stairs it won't be pretty but anything is better than death😂😂
    Love watching ya'll..

  • @anonymousperson3690
    @anonymousperson3690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's heartwarming to see how much work and thought you put in so Cole can be independent. My great-grandmother had a serious hip injury in her 90's. It made me appreciate the little things like making my own tea and cooking a meal.

  • @allhersubomi5693
    @allhersubomi5693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I had a smile on my face the whole time, really enjoy watching you guys‘s personalities ❤️

    • @vilmawatson5443
      @vilmawatson5443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too my second watching and still smiling

    • @allhersubomi5693
      @allhersubomi5693 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaab Yaabe May you have a reason to smile, may you receive favor in your darkest times. May you find love and acceptance. In you time of your need may you not be judged based on ignorance. Hope you have a full and prosperous life. 🙏🏿

  • @znycelondon5313
    @znycelondon5313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You guys......🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
    I’ve followed you for a long while and I am thrilled you guys have the home you worked so hard to create.
    You will truly enjoy the fruits of your labor 🥰
    I just love the way Cole looks at you........deep contented love...........
    You guys are awesome and soon to be ........Mr & Mrs..........
    Wishing you an abundance of love and blessings in all you do.
    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @laurenmorris1111
    @laurenmorris1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    #couplegoals y’all are so wonderful, both individually and together.

  • @heatherburrell8412
    @heatherburrell8412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I’m a new viewer, impressed to the love and positivity the two of you beam to the world. Your love shines. In all honesty, I am doubtful I could find the the positive side if faced with same event. You are both an inspiration that life can be lived to the fullest. Truly an inspiration. Not sure if the 2 of you give inspirational talks, but should .....

  • @angiemoss9814
    @angiemoss9814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Love, love, love the house. Great job! You two are definitely home.

  • @gladysortiz59
    @gladysortiz59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m speechless of how much respect and love you have for one another! It’s beautiful! Congratulations! It’s hard to find true love and care any more

    • @ninaappelt9001
      @ninaappelt9001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They were truly meant to be together.

  • @katybowles2493
    @katybowles2493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love yall. I'm from the Richmond area and remember hearing his story. To find yall on TH-cam doing y'alls thing is absolutely amazing. I myself spent a lot of my youth hanging out at (on) the James river. Dead Rock on Bells Isle was a thing. I'm so happy for yall.

  • @kayleywoods6922
    @kayleywoods6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Y’all should have a meet and greet when COVID is over

    • @kevindickerson9513
      @kevindickerson9513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And both sets of parents lol

    • @lonnie008
      @lonnie008 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      c o vid is never gonna be over

  • @cecemimi101
    @cecemimi101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    You guys forgot to show charisma’s little bathtub in the shower!!! Such a cool feature

  • @gailturner9381
    @gailturner9381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You two are so beautiful and I love your relationship , and your home is really nice,stay safe and enjoy your life.🥰🥰🥰

  • @komusinguzijoanah4539
    @komusinguzijoanah4539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They're happy people, christians and that stood out.
    Love how they're always their for each other

  • @candisbar524
    @candisbar524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cole and Charisma, I'm so happy ya'll are getting settled in to your home!! Two things: How are Cole's parents? I miss seeing Momma Kelly, and wondered do ya'll see them much these days? Also, have you ever done a segment about the effects of being in a wheelchair most of the day, does Cole deal with things like bedsores? If so, how do you deal with that sort of thing? I'm so happy and proud for you both for the life you are building, can't wait to see the wedding pics! Take care.

    • @Entergalactic
      @Entergalactic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mama kelly house is close to theirs so i guess they see each other often😇

  • @graciemaci5092
    @graciemaci5092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Y’all are my favorite couple on TH-cam ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kalebmulisha6313
      @kalebmulisha6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HELP ME SO THEY SEE THIS!
      They need to play this song at their wedding.
      It was written for a guy that had polio and could hot dance with his bride and wanted her to enjoy their wedding and DANCE!
      It's Pomus' story that led to “Save the Last Dance for Me.” Pomus, whose real name was Jerome Felder, contracted polio as a boy, forcing him to use crutches to get around. According to musician Lou Reed, who worked with Pomus, the song was written on Pomus' wedding day while watching his bride dance with their guests.
      THE DRIFTERS "SAVE THE LAST DANCE FOR ME!!!."

  • @cristinacris3678
    @cristinacris3678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow, he's very handsome!

  • @sanobermalhotra6307
    @sanobermalhotra6307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There is so much love, friendship, respect and consideration among this adorable couple and now, a cozy house to call their own! Bliss!!!

  • @dominiquewilliams1350
    @dominiquewilliams1350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Never clicked so fast lol! I love watching you all videos. Congratulations on your home 🧡🍂

    • @Lea-zh3ti
      @Lea-zh3ti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL Me too!!

  • @Weswife1998
    @Weswife1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The home turned out beautifully!!

  • @sandan778
    @sandan778 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love is not about who gets more. It is about giving oneself with no expectation and that is what I see in this beautiful couple. I pray you have 2 or 3 kids because that is what completes your happiness as a person and as a family. I know having kids will be a challenge but when they are toddlers and you see their own personalities, you discover what each child took from mom or dad. Love to see little Cole and Charisma running around and when you grow old you have someone you could talk to for hours and hours about the hardships you went through but had overcame.

  • @peaceandtlove
    @peaceandtlove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can we get a video with "the mama's" helping with the wedding and talking about how excited they are!!!

  • @blessingsbless5213
    @blessingsbless5213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God continue to pour out blessing on your beautiful home and on the both of you.
    My favorite flavor cookie is snickerdoodle. First learned about that from Barney the dinosaur Christmas special. Barney ,BJ and Baby Bop prepared snickerdoodle cookies...but I digress. 💖👍

  • @dewdan11dnd46
    @dewdan11dnd46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    ✨🏡Thanks so much for the tour of your home. You guys ROCK. Your home is beautifully thought out, with great practical elements. Packed with style, comfort and an elegant flair, throughout💞

  • @tamariabrown4628
    @tamariabrown4628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys give me hope there is love out here for me. I love the fact that Cole found his love. I am proud of you both for giving the world this heartwarming glimpse in your lives.

  • @georgiagrant4933
    @georgiagrant4933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Don’t add any more furniture in the bedroom it beautiful and spacious I love the empty clean look

  • @jobethk588
    @jobethk588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Really beautiful home. Happy for you two! The 2nd exit is a great safety feature plus a really nice living area.

  • @judymuqtasid1341
    @judymuqtasid1341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So proud of you !! Congratulations and keep the LOVE going !! Stay Blessed !!

  • @conniepositivevibe
    @conniepositivevibe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Charisma and Cole are absolutely in love with one another. I feel in love with Cole n Charisma because they put out such positivity, funny loving, caring energy. When I find myself under the weather due to everything. I will look at Cole n Charisma videos and I find myself smiling or laughing. Despite of it all Cole n Charisma has this Awesome Positive Energy that I love. May God continue to use y'all to be a blessing to everyone or anyone that watches your Blog/Videos. Much luv!!!! I love your home..... Connie from High Point NC

  • @micheleevans4056
    @micheleevans4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They just seem to be such a dynamic team and you can see the love they have for each other, with everything they say and do with each other. I love their story.

  • @NennaAutry
    @NennaAutry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your house is so cozy and warm. Love it. Y’all did a great job making the space yours! 😍🙌

  • @barbarabutler8186
    @barbarabutler8186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They are precious, beautiful couple.

  • @rockykoast7065
    @rockykoast7065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a complete stranger but I feel very happy for you guys.
    Also very inspiring for me personally as I head thru paraplegia towards quadraplegia.

  • @faithy9288
    @faithy9288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i swear, their videos make my day go from a 3 to a solid 14, they’re just the sweetest

  • @lesangbieliauskas3483
    @lesangbieliauskas3483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love the house, I was smiling the whole time. Blessed couple!!!!

  • @Yahoo.266
    @Yahoo.266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You did a great job in the house....I can see how much u both love each other 🤗. God Bless you both. 🥰. Violet

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, y'all have a big yard◼ I'm so happy for y'all on your upcoming nuptials◼ the house is so beautiful, y'all really did a great job. I remember the videos with Cole's DIY mom doing stuff

  • @meghanson5472
    @meghanson5472 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just stumbled on your page tonight and dove into the deep dive, and I love you two and how transparent you are to give knowledge while still showing the world the greatness you two are!

  • @Born2TeachAndGrow
    @Born2TeachAndGrow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The house is absolutely perfect!!! I’m sure you give so many ppl hope! I pray that you both continue to live your best and fullest life!!! ❤️