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I hope his wife watches this video and sees how self absorbed and deflecting of full responsibility he still is. She tried for years but now probably needs to reclaim her confidence and dignity in a new respectful relationship.
@@jilly8372 Even if that’s the case, human’s make mistakes. If he is truly changing himself & never repeats it again, then that’s amazing and he deserves to have that chance!
This person is probably not a good example of a spouse who wants his marriage to be saved. He has admitted zero responsibility but instead chooses to blame his wife for his cheating. Horrible. Blames her for communication issues, lack of “understanding” etc. The part where he references his 4 children and how she is still his “wife” whether she likes it or not…sickening. Where was that thought when you we’re screwing every woman who looked your way? Horrendous. I am very pro marriage but his ex wife in this case, is much better off with someone else than him. He has a lot of work to do on himself before he anyone even considers a relationship with someone so broken.
Very commendable, it takes a lot for someone to admit their wrongs, seek help and not give up. I pray that your wife sees the love you have for her and your willingness to do the work for your marriage. You mentioned how important it is to seek the right help in this situation and I couldn't agree more. So many of us seek "professionals" that aren't specialized in this scenario which in turn can lead to a potential death of a marriage. Keep trying and have faith.
Thanks a lot for sharing. Such an enlightening episode. Sounds like a lot of work and I pray for grace d’or you. Praying that you do a video soon with her and your one year would have lapsed and no divorce. Wishing you much joy . Shalom
As an adult who had to survive a horrible childhood due to my Parents being incompatible divorce was a saving grace. Why insist on people staying together if they do not live another. Your site is helpful but you neglect what children have to endure Sometimes divorce should be done sooner than later don’t drag it out for the “ children “ That is unfair
Your wife was hurting when you brought up the couples workshop, I hope you understand now that she wanted you to feel pain. Remember hurt people hurt people.
Thank you so much for sharing. I hope your wife will see that you want to save your marriage for the sake of love, not only for the kids or financial purpose. I hope she will see that you want her back because you love her and her love does matter for your life.
There’s a song about. Love hurts if your not happy then get out of it I was so blessed in my marriage of 60 yrs listening to all the unhappy couples it’s pretty sad. It takes a lot of work and a lot love You can’t let no one else I cause that’s when your in trouble.
I've been married for 39 years I've been talking to my first love from high school for the past 10 months My marriage actually sucks I've been wanting out of this thing forever come to find out recently My wife was abused as a child by her stepfather and she is still carrying it to this day I now realize why she pushed me away all these years. I know she loves me but I have fallen out of love with her. It's a little bit late I'm ready to move on and I know I have a lot to lose.
Larry thank you for sharing. It sounds like you have already made up your mind about moving on, but if you change your mind and choose to stand for your marriage, we are here to help. If you're still considering if marriage is worth it, this video might help you make up your mind. th-cam.com/video/soYwtlw2NcM/w-d-xo.html Blessings,
@@MarriageHelper being rejected has turned me into someone I do not like. I just bury myself in my work I do not like going home, anxiety kicks in knowing that she will be there at home.
@@larryrichins7887 As someone who has also been abused I just want to say that I'm so sorry. If your wife says that she loves you but has rejected you perhaps physically I would bet it wasn't personal. It wasn't against you, it probably wasn't even about you. It was all her stuff. Programming that was interfering, messing with her emotional responses to you. I'm sure you feel bitter, I get that but your wife is suffering. She needs love and support to go through with recovering her missing pieces. If you can't do it then tell her that and go ahead and go with grace. Just be honest, life is short. I hope the best for both of you.
@@lorimiller4301 rejection in a marriage sucks after 40 years she has done nothing and never said squat about it until now that I want out I cannot deal with it anymore! At one time I would have gave up my life for her but not anymoreI I just want to move on I'm not even worried about the granted grass and other fans or whatever I just shouldn't be alone in the end I don't care anymore.
Before u do Anything and I promise u will regret it !!!!! She’s your Wife is hurting and sad and in pain Be careful how u let her down 😒 And your wife may be thinking the same Of u What a loser I married
Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. I am the faithful spouse and listening to you gives me hope that my unfaithful spouse's heart can change. We are in the early stages as well. My spouse has not demonstrated the revelations that you have gotten. In this dark situation thank you for being a light to the brokenhearted. Praying for you and your family
The first time you had sex knowing or not knowing to late. No excuses. The virgin man or woman did it right to wait you don't hear them complaining. Virginity is the answer
While these videos are helpful - the guests need some coaching on getting to the point. Most of this can be summed up in less than 15 minutes. You lose audiences with so much repetition, “uh’s” and “um’s”.
Thank you for your feedback Jeff! We will be doing highlights from this season over the coming months and will likely have a much more condensed version of this episode for people to listen to. This was simply the the raw interview. But we hope you found it helpful and insightful! Blessings,
Hard to be concise and polished when you're not reading from a script I imagine. I personally think the important part of this type of video is the sharing of raw emotion. Hard to be open and edit yourself at the same time. No wonder Toastmasters is a thing. Editing will make a huge difference but in the meantime the listener can always increase the playback speed.
If you'd like to learn more about our Solo Spouse Workshops, please follow this link:
marriagehelper.com/solo-spouse-workshop/
We hope to see you in the next workshop happening very soon.
- Marriage Helper ❤️
I hope his wife watches this video and sees how self absorbed and deflecting of full responsibility he still is. She tried for years but now probably needs to reclaim her confidence and dignity in a new respectful relationship.
They are always sorry when the wife is completely done.
@@jilly8372 Even if that’s the case, human’s make mistakes. If he is truly changing himself & never repeats it again, then that’s amazing and he deserves to have that chance!
@@Sadiraaa "humans" not "human's".
@@JA-jm8bk Thanks lol
This person is probably not a good example of a spouse who wants his marriage to be saved. He has admitted zero responsibility but instead chooses to blame his wife for his cheating. Horrible. Blames her for communication issues, lack of “understanding” etc.
The part where he references his 4 children and how she is still his “wife” whether she likes it or not…sickening. Where was that thought when you we’re screwing every woman who looked your way? Horrendous. I am very pro marriage but his ex wife in this case, is much better off with someone else than him. He has a lot of work to do on himself before he anyone even considers a relationship with someone so broken.
Very commendable, it takes a lot for someone to admit their wrongs, seek help and not give up. I pray that your wife sees the love you have for her and your willingness to do the work for your marriage. You mentioned how important it is to seek the right help in this situation and I couldn't agree more. So many of us seek "professionals" that aren't specialized in this scenario which in turn can lead to a potential death of a marriage. Keep trying and have faith.
Thanks a lot for sharing. Such an enlightening episode. Sounds like a lot of work and I pray for grace d’or you. Praying that you do a video soon with her and your one year would have lapsed and no divorce.
Wishing you much joy . Shalom
Because they don't love that person anymore.
Keep up the good work, Steven. The LORD sees your hearts and desire and all the hardwork you are putting in
Good stuff here!
As an adult who had to survive a horrible childhood due to my Parents being incompatible divorce was a saving grace. Why insist on people staying together if they do not live another. Your site is helpful but you neglect what children have to endure
Sometimes divorce should be done sooner than later don’t drag it out for the “ children “
That is unfair
Am praying for you and your wife
Your wife was hurting when you brought up the couples workshop, I hope you understand now that she wanted you to feel pain. Remember hurt people hurt people.
Thank you so much for sharing. I hope your wife will see that you want to save your marriage for the sake of love, not only for the kids or financial purpose. I hope she will see that you want her back because you love her and her love does matter for your life.
I don't know how she would see that. My perspective is that he cares more for his kids than he cares for her.
There’s a song about. Love hurts if your not happy then get out of it I was so blessed in my marriage of 60 yrs listening to all the unhappy couples it’s pretty sad. It takes a lot of work and a lot love You can’t let no one else I cause that’s when your in trouble.
He's selfish, it's just that simple
If the shoe were on the other foot I'll bet he wouldn't just "get on with it".
It's always a different set of rules for the faithful than for the cheater.
I've been married for 39 years I've been talking to my first love from high school for the past 10 months My marriage actually sucks I've been wanting out of this thing forever come to find out recently My wife was abused as a child by her stepfather and she is still carrying it to this day I now realize why she pushed me away all these years. I know she loves me but I have fallen out of love with her. It's a little bit late I'm ready to move on and I know I have a lot to lose.
Larry thank you for sharing. It sounds like you have already made up your mind about moving on, but if you change your mind and choose to stand for your marriage, we are here to help. If you're still considering if marriage is worth it, this video might help you make up your mind. th-cam.com/video/soYwtlw2NcM/w-d-xo.html
Blessings,
@@MarriageHelper being rejected has turned me into someone I do not like. I just bury myself in my work I do not like going home, anxiety kicks in knowing that she will be there at home.
@@larryrichins7887 As someone who has also been abused I just want to say that I'm so sorry.
If your wife says that she loves you but has rejected you perhaps physically I would bet it wasn't personal. It wasn't against you, it probably wasn't even about you. It was all her stuff. Programming that was interfering, messing with her emotional responses to you. I'm sure you feel bitter, I get that but your wife is suffering. She needs love and support to go through with recovering her missing pieces. If you can't do it then tell her that and go ahead and go with grace. Just be honest, life is short. I hope the best for both of you.
@@lorimiller4301 rejection in a marriage sucks after 40 years she has done nothing and never said squat about it until now that I want out I cannot deal with it anymore! At one time I would have gave up my life for her but not anymoreI I just want to move on I'm not even worried about the granted grass and other fans or whatever I just shouldn't be alone in the end I don't care anymore.
Before u do
Anything and I promise u will regret it !!!!!
She’s your
Wife is hurting and sad and in pain
Be careful how u let her down 😒
And your wife may be thinking the same
Of u
What a loser I married
Was that it?
Hey Norma! You must've joined before this episode went live.
Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. I am the faithful spouse and listening to you gives me hope that my unfaithful spouse's heart can change. We are in the early stages as well. My spouse has not demonstrated the revelations that you have gotten. In this dark situation thank you for being a light to the brokenhearted. Praying for you and your family
I wish you well.I pray you both work through this that your marriage is saved.
Thanks much.....appreciated
The first time you had sex knowing or not knowing to late. No excuses. The virgin man or woman did it right to wait you don't hear them complaining. Virginity is the answer
While these videos are helpful - the guests need some coaching on getting to the point. Most of this can be summed up in less than 15 minutes. You lose audiences with so much repetition, “uh’s” and “um’s”.
Thank you for your feedback Jeff! We will be doing highlights from this season over the coming months and will likely have a much more condensed version of this episode for people to listen to. This was simply the the raw interview. But we hope you found it helpful and insightful! Blessings,
Hard to be concise and polished when you're not reading from a script I imagine.
I personally think the important part of this type of video is the sharing of raw emotion. Hard to be open and edit yourself at the same time. No wonder Toastmasters is a thing.
Editing will make a huge difference but in the meantime the listener can always increase the playback speed.
@@lorimiller4301 I agree, for sure.
All blokes cheat !!
That is not true. Maybe you’re rojecting yourself on others.