The OG moms had abby's number. They literally knew what to say and how to take her down. It seems like these moms are afraid of abby. But then again, it is a show. And abby must be doing something right to get them to stay irl. If it was my kid, NOPE. BYEEEE
@@AdrianaGarcia-ke9tq well her mom just wanted to warned abby about studio19 and abby took it the wrong way. And michelle had apologized and wanted to apologized. But either way, a child is not supposed to told their mother to go off like that. It's just not right.
@@zoekarafoti3582 if she stood up for her mom, she'd have to face consequences with Abby too. Michelle took everything out of proportion, it ain't that deep. Sarah was being respectful to her teacher. A grown adult would have kept calm and talked with her child later..
I know right. One day Sarah will have to stop dancing for Abby, so Michelle, should let sarah dance while she can. Abby doesn't have the whole life to be with Sarah, Abby won't be there at Sarah's wedding day, Abby won't be there when Sarah has babies, Abby won't be there at Sarah's funeral. While, on the other hand, *Michelle*. Will be there at every moment of Sarah's life, every little bit. And over here- Michelle is *LITERALLY* crying over something that eventually will stop, (I mean the one day Sarah won't be dancing for abby).
@@Hxpottersx The mothers consistently make life harder for their kids. I dont think Sarah was in the wrong, nor was she 'choosing abby' just by not wanting her mom to continue to make drama and fight. Michelle is the one who made it a one-or-the-other toxic choice
@@Indiasheawynn79 I think the thing was Michelle felt abandoned by her kid she gave up everything including risking her marriage which she talked about and her kid just abandoned her for a person that treated her like absolute crap. I don't think she was trying guilt trip. Which I admit that talk she had with her could have been handled better
Yes, but she should have stood up for her mom. I have arguments with my mom all the time, but if this happened I would’ve stood up for her. Like, without her, I wouldn’t have even been alive. That’s deep.
Ye, without Michelle, Sarah wouldn’t even have a dream. Dance classes aren’t cheap. Sarah shouldn’t just tell her mother to get out. Michelle should have got out tho tbh. But why didn’t Sarah stand up for her mother when Abby was trashing her? Oh bc iTs hEr dReaM?? Guess who help you achieve that dream? Your mother.
I don’t think Sarah chose Abby I think she just wanted her mum to go upstairs to stop the drama which is what I would do. I also think Michelle totally over reacts.
its not sarah's job to go against her teacher and defend her mother. michelle is a grown ass adult who can speak for herself and/or leave if she cant stand having abby talk about her. dont become a parent if you're gonna expect your child to act like an adult and protect you when it's actually *YOUR* job to act like an adult and protect *THEM.* its a terrible and abusive thing to do to a kid.
I honestly wished more girls would be like Sarah and told their moms off too for ridiculous behavior.... so much less drama if moms just stayed out of the room during pyramid too. I get that Abby can be just as bad, but it's the moms who purposefully set her off the majority of the time. Dance Moms should have done what Bring It! did and not allow parents in the building during rehearsal, lol.
she picked dance, she didnt pick abby. she loves dance, its who she is. without it, she will be sad and angry. this is going to far on both sides [abby and michelle.]
Yeah just like what i thought ! Too much drama the girl just wanted to dance and the mother is so overwhelmed! She is a mess ! If i were her place i would've laughed it out and talked with my daughter about what's going and don't let her be involved that much of a drama . Abby is to much and the mother too.
@Anike Mosaku i got the point but she cant say that i want to be famous in front of the cameras and the mother knows that too. But it still the same fame and dance what ever she wants .. the mother shouldn't be like that to her and push it to the point to give her the choice.
I'm with sarah. When she's at home, her mom's the boss but when she's at dance, she should listen to her instructor. Michelle is risking ruining an entire successful career for Sarah, who has done nothing wrong.
It is hard for mothers the first time their little girl says they don't need them 110% of the time. This is normal but Michelle will let it go if she is mature. Good on Sarah for sticking up for herself respectfully
ShawnaLei Salazar family is everything Sarah’s mom is scared to lose her. Sarah’s mom is dealing with Abby talking trash all the time just so her daughters dream can come true
Bruh if i had too choose i would choose my MOTHER bcs i know Sarah wants too dance but Abby is like tearing there MOTHER and daughter bond in a milion pieces.
lol and what do you think the industry will do? Make them both superstars and cater to her mothers inability to behave herself? ALDC is the kindergarten of the industry. If you can't handle her then you don't stand a chance in the real dance world.
@@p0t69 you don't know the industry because they don't teach kids this way. All the dancers abby has trained has all regressed under her so called training
Well Michelle started it all for not listening to Abby like she knew what was coming. And then that made everyone on edge with Michelle. But I don’t blame anyone.
If I'm being honest, I think Michele is overeating. Sarah just told her to go upstairs to avoid drama and continue dancing. It's not that big of a deal. Sarah definitely didn't deserve to be yelled at be her mother like that, in my opinion
This is a tough one. On the one hand, Michelle is absolutely right. Family mean everything. But on the other she’s giving semantics and hysterics with the “chose her over your mother”. Really, the choice she made was to follow the rules and instructions she was given in order to dance and hope to succeed.
Remember Yolanda is a Teacher so she's more sensitive and inclined to understand the mother daughter dynamic. But honestly Stacey is kind of a narcissist 😒😒
Amna it’s not really I don’t your position with parents but when I turn 18 I’m gonna bolt already... family can’t be everything when mine can’t stand by me at all.
Yesss it’s like people say family is just DNA but family is the people you choose call family for example my father left me when I was 2 and during the time he was in my life he abused my mom . But he’s DNA right? I should just let him back into my life. I think not
When Yolanda told Michelle off, Y’all be getting mad and saying Yolanda was jealous YOLANDA was just being true and I agree with everything that Yolanda said,
Jahel casillas ‘periodt’ is an intentional misspelling of ‘period’, which has been used for years… in Aus we say ‘full stop’ to have the same effect. And Michelle wasn’t using it as slang. She used it to mean “end of conversation” using only the one word.
I really don’t like Sarah’s mom anymore, she acts like she’s the victim and is worried about herself. Sarah wanted to dance more than her her mom arguing with Abby that can jeopardize Sarah’s dance career
Sarah wanted to dance, and like even if she went to another studio, they cant go because they have contract during the season. So its like useless in a way because even if abby has harsh critiques and is below the belt in the show, the producers are still the ones in charge. I feel bad for sarah, her technique especially in acro are one the best ones.
"Family is everything":that's what I've believed my whole life and what I'll teach my future kids. They will always be my priority,like I've always been a priority to my only parent,my mom.
It annoys me so much when Michelle say “ Abby trying to flush a mother daughter realitionship down the toilet” Me is like Michelle your such a drama queen
Don't act dumb pretend like Michelle's fears are so far fetched. We watched years of Abby trying to turn kids against their mothers. Chloe, especially, and she made many remarks to Nia and even Kalani about their moms. And how about how she tried to isolate Maddie from everyone in her life? And look at how Kendall treated her mom in favour of "keeping the peace." Michelle didn't do absolutely anything wrong.
zaina elshayeb idk how that would work lol because men tend to get very aggressive expecially when it’s about there kids but it would be cool to see how they react and stuff
it would be so much more peaceful. cuz if a mom sneezes the other moms are like “WHAT DID YOU JUST TO ME?!? MY LITTLE KENDALL IS AMAZING” and if a dad trash talked someone else’s kid they’d just confront each other. facts. (please don’t @ me)
To a degree. The mother also needs to grow up and be an adult. Shes screaming at a child who is literally being put in a rock and a hard place by the mothers actions.
It’s so sad how Abby has a problem with Michelle and telling Sarah to turn against her mom. I love my mom but I would have to pick Abby in that situation because I would love to be on the ALDC elite team. I’m so sorry for Sarah and Michelle🥺
She's not turning her against her but just getting her to speak up, as she did, when her mother is impacting on Abby's work. Michelle can either accept that Sarah is growing up and needs some space and is being very mature or she can have a tantrum and make Sarah resent her. Her choice
emma.dancer.08 yt that’s actually really disturbing mate our mums have sacrificed so much for us and you won’t be able to sacrifice this small goal for them - you need to get your priorities straight .
@@aishahusseinali but it gets to the point where you need to divide the 2. If my mom was in that position she would go sit upstairs because I'm not being mistreated. Abby treat the children based on their mothers behavior.
The Literary Queen she does and that’s why I would never want to join the dance company cause I would never want my mum to be humiliated like that 🤷🏾♀️
emma.dancer.08 yt nah the aldc is not that great. The only thing it will offer you is fame. If you want to be a professional dancer, go to a studio with good choreography and technique.
family is not everything sis, her daughter did not deserve to be treated like that she had and incredible opportunity and if michelle REALLY came onto this show thinking abby wouldn’t treat her or any other mom that way knowing how abby is then she kinda got what was coming to her 🙄
Brittany Luvianos but Michelle wasn’t being embarrassed she was being HUMILIATED. Abby was treating her like trash and that’s not ok. If someone was saying that your mom is rubbish and stupid you would defend her right? Or would you side with the person who was saying that
Exactly. I hate when people say family is everything. It’s good that people have good family members, but sometimes family ain’t shit and it’s just the case for some people unfortunately. Family is not always gonna be understanding so people need to know that. And Abby didn’t even try to turn her against her mom, she was probably telling her that her mom’s choices could get them off the team . Simple .
Makayla not simple, Abby was saying that she didn’t deserve to be in the room. Your parents raised you. Without ur mother you wouldn’t be in this world. So you have to show sole gratitude to her and defend her.
GabesDaBomb I do agree. She did at least need to have some type of respect for her mom. She was okay with doing that dance that portrayed her mom as a bad person, and it disturbed me. But at the same time, nobody knows if her mother does stuff to upset her.
1:50 I agree with Yolanda on this, Sarah got every opportunity. Isn’t that what they were here for? To dance and not being insecure about your daughters relationship with you? This is for your daughter and not for family business in my opinion.
It’s all for fame. Let’s be honest, if it was about dance, she would have stayed at Studio 19. I would take the Savannah route. I would never dance to a song insulting my mother, just shows how the power of fame is corrupting.
Tatiana Swanson and then after all that she has to go through her mom guilt tripping her for trying to deescalate the tired old drama her mom was bringing back
“A Dream is one thing but a family is everything” Yeah right. Says the woman who took their daughters words out of proportion, yelled at their own daughter for nothing, and added more stress to the daughter. The lady should be proud of her daughter. This show is for the kids, and yet these moms always have something to start. You don’t have to have a strong family to get high with your dreams. You need a strong social circle. People you can depend on. If family treats you like crap, screw them. You can find better people that treat you more like family than they ever will.
It's like parents aren't allowed to set boundaries, keep their child in check, or act like a parent at all without you idiots online crying about it. Yes she yelled at her kid. She was setting boundaries because she is right, she shouldn't listen to an abusive dance teacher over her own mother. There is literally nothing out of line about that.
you shouldn't just cut family off because you disagree with them. Deep relationships with unconditional love are not easy to replace. But this woman is blowing things out of proportion. The child is doing a dance on her own for a few hours, not filing for emancipation. It's just extremely confronting for mothers of daughters this age- especially if they live vicariously through them- when the daughter says for the first time that they don't want their mother by their side and they're going to make their own decision.
As someone who had social anxiety growing up, I’m shocked at some people saying sarah should have stuck up for michelle. The girl is 12 years old and to do that in a room with many people on television isn’t as easy as it looks.
Lydia King by saying she can’t dance for Abby and she won’t pick Abby over her and this and that. She’s not “picking” she’s trying to live her dream and her mom is trying to pressure a 12 year old to pick her mother and give up her dream when she could dance and her mother could just shut up
Kristen Miller but she’s still dancing for Abby, she didn’t make her leave. Abby is the one making her choose. Abby blew a situation that wasn’t a big deal out of proportion for the show. At the end of the day Michelle pays Sarah’s tuition, so dream or not you show you’re mother the respect she deserves. Michelle understands that Sarah wants to dance for Abby for whatever reason and she’s allowing her to do so, while being treated like she is less than for her kid.
Lydia King i agree with this but I feel like respect works both ways. Michelle didn’t respect Abby saying don’t come to me again with any studio drama. She did. She said don’t come to the studio you can’t come. She took her daughter anyway. She was told not to go to the competition. Did anyway. She didn’t respect anything either and that’s how she got into this mess. If she could have just focused on their team and not the other studio drama and minded her own business and not take it to Abby like she was told it wouldn’t even be a thing. Ya know?
I'm not mad at Sarah like some are seeing it. Sarah said herself that she's mad at Abby for this dance, but she wants to dance and not lose this opportunity. It's 'all about the kids' right?
Family isn't everything if it's toxic. Family isn't everything if you're being held back. Dreams can be way more than Family. They can be the escape and a saving grace from toxic family
Sarah should have supported her mum but at the same time they spend thousands with abby every season and its a waste not to dance or learn. but yes she should have stood up for michelle
Sarah didn't pick Abby over her mom. She picked her dancing career over petty drama between Abby & Michelle. That's what professionals do, they make the right decisions for themselves. She still lives with her mother, not Abby.
The new moms not even being 1 year in the studio: *cries 56 times in whole show each* The OG moms being in the show for 7 years: *cries 5 times in whole seasons each*
OH MY GOSH POOR HANNAH MY GOODNESS SHE IS SO STRONG!! The way her mother is dealing with this and is taking it out on her is absolutely crazy. Hannah is so brave for still doing amazing in the dance room. You go gurl!!
I get Michelle’s point but it’s obvious Sarah told her to leave at the time just to stop all the yelling and the screaming clearly at that second she wasn’t thinking that send picking her teacher over her own mother
you can clearly see how much sarah really loves dance and pours her heart and soul into it and i admire her for that. this is an unpopular opinion but i think Michelle needs to go upstairs for now and just let her daughter enjoy her spotlight while she still can. a mother daughter bond is unbreakable and its forever no matter what. You can love your mother with all your heart (which sarah clearly does) AND still pursue your dream. It's not one or the other. michelle needs to understand that sarah will ALWAYS love her 100000000x more than any dance teacher, even if in that one moment, she chose to dance. one moment/one choice does not define your relationship.
Her mother is abusing her. Totally and outright and It just sucks to know there are people out there in these relationships… they’re literally torture.
While I completely understand Michelle and her perspective, I just feel like with as long as this show has been on you kind of have an idea of what you’re signing up for 🤷🏼♀️
I mean she has a point. Family comes first. Those who choose fame over your loved one are the ones who are selfish. The way Sarah spoke to her was rude and that clearly hurt Michelle. Sarah should've talked to her privately in a respectful tone. But I guess the producer's wouldn't allow that.
@Evienne Revelus it's narcissistic because even though she is the parent and could simply tell her daughter that they need to move to a new studio, she is letting her immature daughter make the choice and then gaslighting and guilt tripping her for it. obviously a child isn't going to make a completely objective and selfless choice, it's up to the parent to step in and make the correct ones. but instead this mother would rather continue to let her daughter make the wrong choices and then try to make her daughter feel like she is victimizing HER which is totally wrong. she has the power to end it but she would rather fight with her daughter and pity herself over it.
@Evienne Revelus I probably wouldn't put my kids in a program with a teacher like abby because of her methods, knowing fully well that she may be mean to me as a mother, or put my child on a tv show for the whole world to see. but if you want to do that with your kids, go ahead.
Why so much drama from Michelle?, just play it like sarah, she doesn't like the situation but just play along in front of abby, sometimes it is about knowing when to just retreat
@@MrS-in8pp it's because it didn't happen to anyone you care about that's why and what abby did isn't petty it's manipulative and quite disturbing. If you watch it you can see how conflicted Sarah felt because Abby is putting it in Sarahs head that her mother is a bad person.
The type of psychological and emotional trauma Michelle is putting Sarah through is absolutely insane. She's twelve. Why poison your daughters mentality by blaming your personal issues on her when she just wants to follow her dreams and have a future?
Y'all are too much. There was nothing toxic about it. If Michelle didn't put her foot down, a precedence would have been set that it's okay for Sarah, a child, to disrespect her mother in favour of Abby. And it's not okay. Michelle was right. Michelle has taken time out of her life away a possible career and her family and her marriage to do this for Sarah, and at the end of the day, a mother's word trumps that of a dance teacher and the child needs to know that. And don't act dumb pretend like Michelle's fears are so far fetched. We watched years of Abby trying to turn kids against their mothers. Chloe, especially, and she made many remarks to Nia and even Kalani about their moms. And how about how she tried to isolate Maddie from everyone in her life? And look at how Kendall treated her mom in favour of "keeping the peace." Michelle didn't do absolutely anything wrong.
Family may be everything, But what family for years later when you have regrets about your life because you didn't live your dream? You can't always put others before yourself. So in this case I agree with Sarah 🤷
Why would Michelle shout at Sarah because of choosing dance that’s just toxic she making her choice between her dream or her mother Michelle is just so disgusting
Yes a" dream is one thing and family is everything " but she the one that was having issues with her husband because she was spending too much time in the studio.
I don't know if this was edited for drama's sake or if she actually did this.....but I think Michelle crossed the line here. Yolanda makes an excellent point. They left....they were dismissed....if she didn't like how Abby was teaching her daughter, she shouldn't have brought Sarah back. (which I'm sure this is probably because they are under contract and COULDN'T leave) Sarah didn't make her stay in the balcony. Sarah didn't make her stay out of the dressing room at competition.....Abby did that. She brought Sarah to Abby so that Sarah could dance on the competition team and that is all Sarah was doing. She was learning her solo. She told her Mom to leave so that Abby wouldn't get mad at her again and throw her off the team. If Michelle had a problem with the dance, she should have gone to Abby in private, like a mature adult and dealt with Abby. It was unfair of her to blame a child for something that she had absolutely no control over.
Michelle is not the best example of a mother and selfless love. She talks through both sides of her mouth: We are leaving! I want you to stay! ( well which is it??)
Seeing her yell at Sarah is like watching a kid yell at a friend for being friends with another kid. She’s the mother she took her daughter to dance and now because she’s getting attitude she wants to crush her dreams she’s there to dance so obviously she’s going to choose Abby.
Michelle: Makes fun of Ann for crying
Also Michelle: *cries*
Wasn't Ashley the one that called Ann a "train wreck" when she was crying?
Ninja Star Yeah, but I remember specifically Michelle saying something about it
Alyssa Brooke exactly
Michelles crying because of a actual reason if it was i would cried as well
Alyssa Brooke lolll
these moms have cried more than any of the og moms🤦♀️
The OG moms had abby's number. They literally knew what to say and how to take her down. It seems like these moms are afraid of abby. But then again, it is a show. And abby must be doing something right to get them to stay irl. If it was my kid, NOPE. BYEEEE
But abby in this season is too kind if we compare with season 1-7 lol
Astou Diouf frr yoo 😭
These moms have cried more than their children
And it’s just the first season
Sarah: *chooses her dream over drama*
Michelle: _Our 12 yr relationship is practically over_
Exactly hahaha 😂
She didn't choose her dream over drama , she chose to humiliate her mother instead of standing up for her
Zoe Karafoti like they said in a earlier episode “you should not live by someone else’s consequences”
@@AdrianaGarcia-ke9tq well her mom just wanted to warned abby about studio19 and abby took it the wrong way. And michelle had apologized and wanted to apologized. But either way, a child is not supposed to told their mother to go off like that. It's just not right.
@@zoekarafoti3582 if she stood up for her mom, she'd have to face consequences with Abby too. Michelle took everything out of proportion, it ain't that deep. Sarah was being respectful to her teacher. A grown adult would have kept calm and talked with her child later..
I’ve never seen a mother so insecure about her relationship with her daughter. Yikes.
I know right. One day Sarah will have to stop dancing for Abby, so Michelle, should let sarah dance while she can. Abby doesn't have the whole life to be with Sarah, Abby won't be there at Sarah's wedding day, Abby won't be there when Sarah has babies, Abby won't be there at Sarah's funeral. While, on the other hand, *Michelle*. Will be there at every moment of Sarah's life, every little bit. And over here- Michelle is *LITERALLY* crying over something that eventually will stop, (I mean the one day Sarah won't be dancing for abby).
james novak that's what i have to put up with my mom because of the so insecure which ik she is
my mom is like this
If u watch the og video, her daughter literally forces her mom to get out the room. She kinda chooses Abby over her mom tbh
@@Hxpottersx The mothers consistently make life harder for their kids. I dont think Sarah was in the wrong, nor was she 'choosing abby' just by not wanting her mom to continue to make drama and fight. Michelle is the one who made it a one-or-the-other toxic choice
what michelle did to sarah was one the most toxic representations of a mother daughter relationship if i’ve ever seen one
Imagine michelle was sarah and sarah was michelle
I agree it’s like she was guilt tripping Sarah. Michelle needs to grow up and realize not everything is abt her. Sarah doesn’t owe her anything.
Nope
@@Indiasheawynn79 I think the thing was Michelle felt abandoned by her kid she gave up everything including risking her marriage which she talked about and her kid just abandoned her for a person that treated her like absolute crap. I don't think she was trying guilt trip. Which I admit that talk she had with her could have been handled better
@@zamayafrasier1144 But it’s not a child’s job to regulate her mother’s emotions.
Poor Sarah, none of this is her fault and she just wants to do what so many children dream of
69th like lol
Bruh
I agree
Yes, but she should have stood up for her mom. I have arguments with my mom all the time, but if this happened I would’ve stood up for her. Like, without her, I wouldn’t have even been alive. That’s deep.
Ye, without Michelle, Sarah wouldn’t even have a dream. Dance classes aren’t cheap. Sarah shouldn’t just tell her mother to get out. Michelle should have got out tho tbh. But why didn’t Sarah stand up for her mother when Abby was trashing her? Oh bc iTs hEr dReaM?? Guess who help you achieve that dream? Your mother.
I don’t think Sarah chose Abby I think she just wanted her mum to go upstairs to stop the drama which is what I would do. I also think Michelle totally over reacts.
its not sarah's job to go against her teacher and defend her mother. michelle is a grown ass adult who can speak for herself and/or leave if she cant stand having abby talk about her. dont become a parent if you're gonna expect your child to act like an adult and protect you when it's actually *YOUR* job to act like an adult and protect *THEM.* its a terrible and abusive thing to do to a kid.
@@someidiot420 period
I honestly wished more girls would be like Sarah and told their moms off too for ridiculous behavior.... so much less drama if moms just stayed out of the room during pyramid too. I get that Abby can be just as bad, but it's the moms who purposefully set her off the majority of the time. Dance Moms should have done what Bring It! did and not allow parents in the building during rehearsal, lol.
Same that is what 8 thought as well she wanted to stop the drama so she can dance. It's her dream to dance and I think that Michelle kinda overreacts
she most def does not overreact abby and all the other moms attack her
she picked dance, she didnt pick abby. she loves dance, its who she is. without it, she will be sad and angry. this is going to far on both sides [abby and michelle.]
Angel no if she wanted to pick dance she wouldn’t have come to the aldc
Anike Mosaku Exactly
She can dance elsewhere, some studio where she gets respect . she chose Abby over her mother.
Yeah just like what i thought ! Too much drama the girl just wanted to dance and the mother is so overwhelmed! She is a mess ! If i were her place i would've laughed it out and talked with my daughter about what's going and don't let her be involved that much of a drama . Abby is to much and the mother too.
@Anike Mosaku i got the point but she cant say that i want to be famous in front of the cameras and the mother knows that too. But it still the same fame and dance what ever she wants .. the mother shouldn't be like that to her and push it to the point to give her the choice.
The fact she did that to her 12 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER is absolutely toxic and disgusting
Can I know a 2nd meaning of that word? I see it more often but NOT LIKE THIS🤮. 😊
literally
“A dream is one thing, but family is everything"
yes... so let Sarah (who is family and therefore everything) live her dream
Underrated!
You can clearly see Hannah next to Sarah. I hate that they take dances out it’s seriously annoying.
Isn’t it gianina
It is Pressly and in the beginning you can see her doing Sarah’s Choreography. I think she also learned it.
There swings just in case
there was another member (i think hannah) who did a solo, but it wasnt aired
hannah did a solo as well, but she didn't place. the producers probably didn't show it to make her seem like an underdog.
sarah is acting more of a adult than her mom is 🤷🏽♀️
Vicky Ferrier wth English?
Shut up
Vicky Ferrier don’t get mad at me over my opinion. everyone has their opinion you don’t have to like my opinion but it’s my opinion
What do you expect when her mom is acting like a child taking everything personal 🤷🏻♀️
ikkk haha but she was also being like kinda smart-ass to her mom
I'm with sarah. When she's at home, her mom's the boss but when she's at dance, she should listen to her instructor. Michelle is risking ruining an entire successful career for Sarah, who has done nothing wrong.
I agree there abby is the boss at dance and Michelle boss at home
I love when she dandies
But Michelle was being embarrassed and that was horrible
I agree
GabesDaBomb I agree
Lmao I never imagined a mother saying "PERIODT!"
Lol
LMAOAOAOAOOA IKRRR 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
My mom says it all the time thinking she's cool or something smh
i grew up with my mom ending arguments like that lol and she stopped saying it when it became a thing
I thought mom’s were the originators of it ? My mom always said this to us growing up
Sarah looks so done with the drama. Honestly she reacted pretty mature in this situation. Most 12 year olds I know would've broke down at this
I’m 14 and I would’ve. If someone yells at me, I’m gonna cry. There’s no question there.
@@juls.faithh Some of us are just sensitive. There’s nothing wrong with that. It’s just part of my personality.
at 3:01 Michelle said "period" like, no tampon sarah, she serious
😂😭
Emily Goldner 3:08
Lol
She is... heavy flow with white pants serious.
Kamryn 8:07
Michelle is speaking facts
"A dream is one thing, but family is everything"
Unknown Person period.
fcking period sis
It is hard for mothers the first time their little girl says they don't need them 110% of the time. This is normal but Michelle will let it go if she is mature. Good on Sarah for sticking up for herself respectfully
honestly it’s so annoying Sarah wasn’t choosing abby over her mom she literally just wanted to dance so
Periodt
“A dream in one thing, but family is everything” and a toxic mother who can’t hold it together for her child is a bad thing...
ShawnaLei Salazar true
she’s human. all our mums are just human. from time to time they are going to break down and lose it.
ShawnaLei Salazar family is everything Sarah’s mom is scared to lose her. Sarah’s mom is dealing with Abby talking trash all the time just so her daughters dream can come true
My mom comes first though
Bruh if i had too choose i would choose my MOTHER bcs i know Sarah wants too dance but Abby is like tearing there MOTHER and daughter bond in a milion pieces.
i’m sorry but i can’t stand michelle’s hair lmao
alyssa divi ikr
alyssa divi it kinda looks like a Karen hair-do
isnt that a Karen cut?
It looks like a Karen who tried to look cool.
doodlepuff :3 because she is acting like one so she did it like that to match
*I’d be genuinely scared if my mother was Michelle..*
Same izuku
Lol 😂
Deku? Is that you
Maybe 😉
@@katsukibakugou1347 WTH are you to doing here?!
Abby crossed the line here I must say,, she basically is turning Sarah against her own mother smh
lol and what do you think the industry will do? Make them both superstars and cater to her mothers inability to behave herself? ALDC is the kindergarten of the industry. If you can't handle her then you don't stand a chance in the real dance world.
@@p0t69 true, but the industry also isnt as harsh as abby. i would know because i am in the dance industry and know how it works.
@@p0t69 you don't know the industry because they don't teach kids this way. All the dancers abby has trained has all regressed under her so called training
@@kyrball save your tears for the pillow is exactly how the dance industry works.
Kyra Schmitz Abby has her own way of teaching. Obviously her teaching works as she has made stars. Every teacher’s teaching method is different.
“A dream is one thing, but family is everything” couldn’t have said it any better. I genuinely feel so terrible for Michelle.
That bitch was the real reason why Savanna and her mom leave! Michelle got what she deserve
@@andyfro6907 Savannah left because of previous dance commitments
Well Michelle started it all for not listening to Abby like she knew what was coming. And then that made everyone on edge with Michelle. But I don’t blame anyone.
But don’t get me wrong I do feel bad for her but I think It’s just as hard for Sarah.
I feel terrible for her too. She is a grown woman that cannot behave herself. Her daughter acts way mature than she does.
If I'm being honest, I think Michele is overeating. Sarah just told her to go upstairs to avoid drama and continue dancing. It's not that big of a deal. Sarah definitely didn't deserve to be yelled at be her mother like that, in my opinion
I agree
I agree
Totally agree
I agree I think Michelle is being selfish because she is only thinking about herself she doesn't even care about her daughter's career.
I totally agree her mom is being so selfish
She really be like: PERIOD.
Yeah, she really needs to like calm her hearts down
This is a tough one. On the one hand, Michelle is absolutely right. Family mean everything. But on the other she’s giving semantics and hysterics with the “chose her over your mother”. Really, the choice she made was to follow the rules and instructions she was given in order to dance and hope to succeed.
If Michelle feels so strongly about it, as a mother she should make the decision instead of putting it on Sarah.
Tbh Yolanda is a better therapist/parenting coach than Stacey is
Large Rooster never expected that I would agree tot this.
Large Rooster exactly.
Stacey being a psychiatrist is a joke. Poor patients....
Never though i would agree with thus but my God i do
Remember Yolanda is a Teacher so she's more sensitive and inclined to understand the mother daughter dynamic.
But honestly Stacey is kind of a narcissist 😒😒
Family is not always everything. She sounds so manipulative. That girl is going to worship the day she turns 18
actually, it is.
I agree, fucking hated when my dad pulled the "I'm your dad" card as if it meant he got to decide everything for me.
Amna it’s not really I don’t your position with parents but when I turn 18 I’m gonna bolt already... family can’t be everything when mine can’t stand by me at all.
Caleb Mayfield She was bullied throughout the season and isn't even popular now..
Yesss it’s like people say family is just DNA but family is the people you choose call family for example my father left me when I was 2 and during the time he was in my life he abused my mom . But he’s DNA right? I should just let him back into my life. I think not
Once she said PeRiOt I couldn’t take her serious anymore LOL-
learn how to spell
@@aldcpaigehylandlover don't be rude
@@aldcpaigehylandlover you don't know she/he/they may have English as their second or third language
You do know that the term "period" existed before social media, right? You Gen Zers, I swear 🙄
@@Fantouma “he/it/xe/shit/retard/them” stfu you are fucking cringe
When Yolanda told Michelle off,
Y’all be getting mad and saying Yolanda was jealous
YOLANDA was just being true and I agree with everything that Yolanda said,
Same girl same
*"A dream is one thing, but family is everything" - Michelle 2019*
ღтєαღ with the periodt at the end
PERIOT!!! dont forget that part
um hello? PERIODT
She really said PERIODT 😂
Jahel casillas in America that means a full stop, like the dot you put at the end of a sentence.
@@MrS-in8pp umm I like in cali and "periodt" is a slang word for this generation
Period Pooh
Jahel casillas ‘periodt’ is an intentional misspelling of ‘period’, which has been used for years… in Aus we say ‘full stop’ to have the same effect. And Michelle wasn’t using it as slang. She used it to mean “end of conversation” using only the one word.
@@MrS-in8pp Gen Z 🙄
No one:
Me: I lIkEd tHe oLd muMs BetTeR
Same!
Same
They prob got new producers so they want the moms to act different because the fights arent real the only thing real are the comps
Same
Me too
I really don’t like Sarah’s mom anymore, she acts like she’s the victim and is worried about herself. Sarah wanted to dance more than her her mom arguing with Abby that can jeopardize Sarah’s dance career
well clearly sarah's mom probally been partying and drinking in my opinion
Sarah wanted to dance, and like even if she went to another studio, they cant go because they have contract during the season. So its like useless in a way because even if abby has harsh critiques and is below the belt in the show, the producers are still the ones in charge. I feel bad for sarah, her technique especially in acro are one the best ones.
“A dream is one thing, but family is everything” damn I felt that
“a dream is one thing, but family is everything”
facts 👏🏾👏🏾
You forgot the “periodt!” at the end 😂
.....unless your family is abusive. (not saying mine is, but everytime i hear this, it just makes me think of that..)
"Family is everything":that's what I've believed my whole life and what I'll teach my future kids. They will always be my priority,like I've always been a priority to my only parent,my mom.
Periodt
I love how Michelle is crying and acting irrational, Sarah is just calmly talking to her.
I love how Pressley was in the back doing Sarah’s solo
Right I was just gonna say that
It annoys me so much when Michelle say “ Abby trying to flush a mother daughter realitionship down the toilet”
Me is like Michelle your such a drama queen
But she is tho she literally call her a monster in front of her daughters face
Don't act dumb pretend like Michelle's fears are so far fetched. We watched years of Abby trying to turn kids against their mothers. Chloe, especially, and she made many remarks to Nia and even Kalani about their moms. And how about how she tried to isolate Maddie from everyone in her life? And look at how Kendall treated her mom in favour of "keeping the peace." Michelle didn't do absolutely anything wrong.
@@nevermindmyname813 girl I wrote that 2 years ago why are you arguing with a comment from 2 years ago you don’t have to be so rude
@@turtlesafari6889 your point? It's on the platform, it's open to comment on at anytime. And if you took it as rude, that's not my fault 🤷🏽♀️
@@nevermindmyname813 you told me to not act dumb like that’s not rude I was like 11 when I wrote that
Who else thinks that there should be dance dad's😂😂
zaina elshayeb idk how that would work lol because men tend to get very aggressive expecially when it’s about there kids but it would be cool to see how they react and stuff
it would be so much more peaceful. cuz if a mom sneezes the other moms are like “WHAT DID YOU JUST TO ME?!? MY LITTLE KENDALL IS AMAZING” and if a dad trash talked someone else’s kid they’d just confront each other. facts. (please don’t @ me)
zaina elshayeb holy fuck i’m just thinking of my dad doing it and that’d be fucking hilarious
@@laurenjohnson2267 ikr, my dad would be chill and not get involved in anything
Well then the dads would be all in fist fights
does Michelle realize how much sarah would resent her if sarah chose her mom and then got kicked off the team
Lauren Johnson Oml so true she just choose the best thing plus she’s young Michele is the cry baby and I thought here Anne was
@@Livvy053 all mom's are the same all cry babies
marc labrie LoL ur right
michele snapped with what she said. she couldn’t have said it better. family is everything and it should come before dance
To a degree. The mother also needs to grow up and be an adult. Shes screaming at a child who is literally being put in a rock and a hard place by the mothers actions.
TheNonMakeupGuru you snapped as well
@@tyler-iy9ms What does that even mean?lol
tyler stephenson but really , she chose dance over drama ...
@@TheNonMakeupGuru agreed
"A dream is one thing, but family is everything"
And as a mother you should support your daughter's passion which is dancing
she is supporting it 🙈 but Abby is stabbing her in the back
“you play that bad monster that i saw your mother play” RIP Michelle
It has always bothered me the way Abbey insults the mothers to their daughters...yet if one person insulted her mother, all hell would break loose!
Cause her mother a , a n g e l
It’s so sad how Abby has a problem with Michelle and telling Sarah to turn against her mom. I love my mom but I would have to pick Abby in that situation because I would love to be on the ALDC elite team. I’m so sorry for Sarah and Michelle🥺
She's not turning her against her but just getting her to speak up, as she did, when her mother is impacting on Abby's work. Michelle can either accept that Sarah is growing up and needs some space and is being very mature or she can have a tantrum and make Sarah resent her. Her choice
emma.dancer.08 yt that’s actually really disturbing mate our mums have sacrificed so much for us and you won’t be able to sacrifice this small goal for them - you need to get your priorities straight .
@@aishahusseinali but it gets to the point where you need to divide the 2. If my mom was in that position she would go sit upstairs because I'm not being mistreated. Abby treat the children based on their mothers behavior.
The Literary Queen she does and that’s why I would never want to join the dance company cause I would never want my mum to be humiliated like that 🤷🏾♀️
emma.dancer.08 yt nah the aldc is not that great. The only thing it will offer you is fame. If you want to be a professional dancer, go to a studio with good choreography and technique.
family is not everything sis, her daughter did not deserve to be treated like that she had and incredible opportunity and if michelle REALLY came onto this show thinking abby wouldn’t treat her or any other mom that way knowing how abby is then she kinda got what was coming to her 🙄
Brittany Luvianos but Michelle wasn’t being embarrassed she was being HUMILIATED. Abby was treating her like trash and that’s not ok. If someone was saying that your mom is rubbish and stupid you would defend her right? Or would you side with the person who was saying that
@@Gabes1321 I would probably side with them cause sis you don't know my life.
Exactly. I hate when people say family is everything. It’s good that people have good family members, but sometimes family ain’t shit and it’s just the case for some people unfortunately. Family is not always gonna be understanding so people need to know that. And Abby didn’t even try to turn her against her mom, she was probably telling her that her mom’s choices could get them off the team . Simple .
Makayla not simple, Abby was saying that she didn’t deserve to be in the room. Your parents raised you. Without ur mother you wouldn’t be in this world. So you have to show sole gratitude to her and defend her.
GabesDaBomb I do agree. She did at least need to have some type of respect for her mom. She was okay with doing that dance that portrayed her mom as a bad person, and it disturbed me. But at the same time, nobody knows if her mother does stuff to upset her.
I feel so bad for Sarah she doesn’t deserve this treatment
1:50 I agree with Yolanda on this, Sarah got every opportunity. Isn’t that what they were here for? To dance and not being insecure about your daughters relationship with you? This is for your daughter and not for family business in my opinion.
I feel so bad for Sarah she has to go through getting a dance about her mom and Abby calling her mom names
Ikr she's only 12 years old..
It’s all for fame. Let’s be honest, if it was about dance, she would have stayed at Studio 19. I would take the Savannah route. I would never dance to a song insulting my mother, just shows how the power of fame is corrupting.
Tatiana Swanson and then after all that she has to go through her mom guilt tripping her for trying to deescalate the tired old drama her mom was bringing back
“A Dream is one thing but a family is everything”
Yeah right. Says the woman who took their daughters words out of proportion, yelled at their own daughter for nothing, and added more stress to the daughter. The lady should be proud of her daughter. This show is for the kids, and yet these moms always have something to start.
You don’t have to have a strong family to get high with your dreams. You need a strong social circle. People you can depend on.
If family treats you like crap, screw them. You can find better people that treat you more like family than they ever will.
It's like parents aren't allowed to set boundaries, keep their child in check, or act like a parent at all without you idiots online crying about it. Yes she yelled at her kid. She was setting boundaries because she is right, she shouldn't listen to an abusive dance teacher over her own mother. There is literally nothing out of line about that.
you shouldn't just cut family off because you disagree with them. Deep relationships with unconditional love are not easy to replace.
But this woman is blowing things out of proportion. The child is doing a dance on her own for a few hours, not filing for emancipation. It's just extremely confronting for mothers of daughters this age- especially if they live vicariously through them- when the daughter says for the first time that they don't want their mother by their side and they're going to make their own decision.
As someone who had social anxiety growing up, I’m shocked at some people saying sarah should have stuck up for michelle. The girl is 12 years old and to do that in a room with many people on television isn’t as easy as it looks.
i love sarah’s attitude and vibe idk i just love it…she’s 12 but yet she’s very mentally strong
This is frustrating. Michelle did this to herself. It’s selfish to try and hold your child back bc you can’t listen.
Kristen Miller how is she trying to hold her back?
Lydia King by saying she can’t dance for Abby and she won’t pick Abby over her and this and that. She’s not “picking” she’s trying to live her dream and her mom is trying to pressure a 12 year old to pick her mother and give up her dream when she could dance and her mother could just shut up
Kristen Miller but she’s still dancing for Abby, she didn’t make her leave. Abby is the one making her choose. Abby blew a situation that wasn’t a big deal out of proportion for the show. At the end of the day Michelle pays Sarah’s tuition, so dream or not you show you’re mother the respect she deserves. Michelle understands that Sarah wants to dance for Abby for whatever reason and she’s allowing her to do so, while being treated like she is less than for her kid.
Lydia King i agree with this but I feel like respect works both ways. Michelle didn’t respect Abby saying don’t come to me again with any studio drama. She did. She said don’t come to the studio you can’t come. She took her daughter anyway. She was told not to go to the competition. Did anyway. She didn’t respect anything either and that’s how she got into this mess. If she could have just focused on their team and not the other studio drama and minded her own business and not take it to Abby like she was told it wouldn’t even be a thing. Ya know?
Kristen Miller the only thing that’s holding her back is Abby. Abby is holding all of these kids back
Nobody:
Literally no one:
Not a single soul:
Michelle at the end: PERIODTTTTT
I'm not mad at Sarah like some are seeing it. Sarah said herself that she's mad at Abby for this dance, but she wants to dance and not lose this opportunity. It's 'all about the kids' right?
Family isn't everything if it's toxic. Family isn't everything if you're being held back. Dreams can be way more than Family. They can be the escape and a saving grace from toxic family
When Yolanda says you’re wrong that’s when you really know you’re the problem
It is really sad how Abby has influenced Sarah into turning against her own mom. :(
That means abbys a great teacher
avas🦄 channel no.
avas🦄 channel wtf no
@@ajenterprise3144 my dance teacher is to soft on kids so thos kids are struggling
Sarah should have supported her mum but at the same time they spend thousands with abby every season and its a waste not to dance or learn. but yes she should have stood up for michelle
Michelle should know to not beg abby back lmao
Michelle’s gotta trust that Sarah doesn’t have any intent on hurting her, she’s just pretending to follow along with Abby so that she can dance.
Sarah didn't pick Abby over her mom. She picked her dancing career over petty drama between Abby & Michelle. That's what professionals do, they make the right decisions for themselves. She still lives with her mother, not Abby.
The new moms not even being 1 year in the studio: *cries 56 times in whole show each*
The OG moms being in the show for 7 years: *cries 5 times in whole seasons each*
Who ever owns this channel l love you (cause I don't have to pay for the whole season when u just post it for free
Ikr 😂😂
it’s free on lifetime app
OH MY GOSH POOR HANNAH MY GOODNESS SHE IS SO STRONG!! The way her mother is dealing with this and is taking it out on her is absolutely crazy. Hannah is so brave for still doing amazing in the dance room. You go gurl!!
Hannah wasn’t involved in the fight…
I know that everyone thinks Joanne and gianina are stuck up but Joanne is starting to grow on me by sticking up for Michelle
lelia! Yeah, I caught that too. That was cool.
I agree! I actually like Joanne
sarah is literally such an amazing dancer, it’s unreal
Sarah wasn’t choosing Abby, she just wants her mom to stop embarrassing her!
YES…😢
Who would u choose
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-Like for Michelle
-Comment 😊 for Sarah
ItsMeMirah 😊
I get Michelle’s point but it’s obvious Sarah told her to leave at the time just to stop all the yelling and the screaming clearly at that second she wasn’t thinking that send picking her teacher over her own mother
ItsMeMirah sarah. Ngl I think she done the right thing.
sarah, michelle is so dramatic
Sarah.
you can clearly see how much sarah really loves dance and pours her heart and soul into it and i admire her for that. this is an unpopular opinion but i think Michelle needs to go upstairs for now and just let her daughter enjoy her spotlight while she still can. a mother daughter bond is unbreakable and its forever no matter what. You can love your mother with all your heart (which sarah clearly does) AND still pursue your dream. It's not one or the other. michelle needs to understand that sarah will ALWAYS love her 100000000x more than any dance teacher, even if in that one moment, she chose to dance. one moment/one choice does not define your relationship.
I agree
But if you dont like your teacher then you risk not dancing
“A dream is one thing, but family is EVERYTHING”
period😂
Michelle just roasted Sarah “dance is a dream, family is everything...PERIOD!!!”
Her mother is abusing her. Totally and outright and It just sucks to know there are people out there in these relationships… they’re literally torture.
While I completely understand Michelle and her perspective, I just feel like with as long as this show has been on you kind of have an idea of what you’re signing up for 🤷🏼♀️
Facts. They're just in it for fame.
How dare Michelle guilt trip her daughter for doing what she loves!! Get your pride and ego out of this and let Sarah try and succeed.
I mean she has a point. Family comes first. Those who choose fame over your loved one are the ones who are selfish. The way Sarah spoke to her was rude and that clearly hurt Michelle. Sarah should've talked to her privately in a respectful tone. But I guess the producer's wouldn't allow that.
right? the whole time all i could think was how much it would suck to have a parent who is that narcissistic.
@Evienne Revelus it's narcissistic because even though she is the parent and could simply tell her daughter that they need to move to a new studio, she is letting her immature daughter make the choice and then gaslighting and guilt tripping her for it. obviously a child isn't going to make a completely objective and selfless choice, it's up to the parent to step in and make the correct ones. but instead this mother would rather continue to let her daughter make the wrong choices and then try to make her daughter feel like she is victimizing HER which is totally wrong. she has the power to end it but she would rather fight with her daughter and pity herself over it.
@Evienne Revelus I probably wouldn't put my kids in a program with a teacher like abby because of her methods, knowing fully well that she may be mean to me as a mother, or put my child on a tv show for the whole world to see. but if you want to do that with your kids, go ahead.
@@sarahfranklin7208 I hope you know fully well that the show is fake lol
Why so much drama from Michelle?, just play it like sarah, she doesn't like the situation but just play along in front of abby, sometimes it is about knowing when to just retreat
LOL yeah sarah acts way more mature than her mother.
Well just imagine if a dance teacher kept telling your child bad things about you, are you going to just allow the teacher manipulate your child?
stephanie timothy if your relationship with your child is weak enough to be affected by petty remarks you have bigger problems
@@MrS-in8pp it's because it didn't happen to anyone you care about that's why and what abby did isn't petty it's manipulative and quite disturbing. If you watch it you can see how conflicted Sarah felt because Abby is putting it in Sarahs head that her mother is a bad person.
Or maybe if she didn't do enough drama she'd get kicked out
"but family is forever" and this is how you drive the wedge of your relationship with your daughter even farther
Sarah definitely acted way more mature than her mother.
P E R I O D T
-Michelle
2:15 Paige’s chair
💀💀💀
Omggg
😂
Honestly if my daughter backtalked me and IM THE ONE FUNDING HER CLASSES lmao she will feel some type of way
I bet
“you humiliated me!”
WHAT MOTHER SAYS THAT?🤣 that’s like something ur sister or friend says, not ya dayum momma
The type of psychological and emotional trauma Michelle is putting Sarah through is absolutely insane. She's twelve. Why poison your daughters mentality by blaming your personal issues on her when she just wants to follow her dreams and have a future?
Y'all are too much. There was nothing toxic about it. If Michelle didn't put her foot down, a precedence would have been set that it's okay for Sarah, a child, to disrespect her mother in favour of Abby. And it's not okay. Michelle was right. Michelle has taken time out of her life away a possible career and her family and her marriage to do this for Sarah, and at the end of the day, a mother's word trumps that of a dance teacher and the child needs to know that. And don't act dumb pretend like Michelle's fears are so far fetched. We watched years of Abby trying to turn kids against their mothers. Chloe, especially, and she made many remarks to Nia and even Kalani about their moms. And how about how she tried to isolate Maddie from everyone in her life? And look at how Kendall treated her mom in favour of "keeping the peace." Michelle didn't do absolutely anything wrong.
Family may be everything, But what family for years later when you have regrets about your life because you didn't live your dream? You can't always put others before yourself. So in this case I agree with Sarah 🤷
Michelle: A dream is one thing, but family is everything.
Me: I mean, I guess.
Season 1-7:moms shouting and having arguments
Season 8:tears and emotion
Suzanne Smith lmaoo
2:34 “you are not choosing a dance teacher over me” ... ok but your name isn’t on her jacket is it? 😂
After Michelle said FAMILY IS EVERYTHING she was like PERIODT! And I died of 😂 laughter
Michelle: "A dream is one thing, but family is everything" And thats on period:)
A dream is one thing but family is everything....PERIODT 😌💅
Why would Michelle shout at Sarah because of choosing dance that’s just toxic she making her choice between her dream or her mother Michelle is just so disgusting
A dream is one thing , but family is everything......Period. I am dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂
When Michelle said I feel isolated me: so am I cause I’m in quarantine love
Yes a" dream is one thing and family is everything " but she the one that was having issues with her husband because she was spending too much time in the studio.
Lorena Gonzalez she was spending too much time in the studio because of Sarah, no because she wanted to.
0:37 Michelle: *Looks at the other moms like their the ones who did something*
ooo she said it “PERIOD”
I don't know if this was edited for drama's sake or if she actually did this.....but I think Michelle crossed the line here. Yolanda makes an excellent point. They left....they were dismissed....if she didn't like how Abby was teaching her daughter, she shouldn't have brought Sarah back. (which I'm sure this is probably because they are under contract and COULDN'T leave) Sarah didn't make her stay in the balcony. Sarah didn't make her stay out of the dressing room at competition.....Abby did that. She brought Sarah to Abby so that Sarah could dance on the competition team and that is all Sarah was doing. She was learning her solo. She told her Mom to leave so that Abby wouldn't get mad at her again and throw her off the team. If Michelle had a problem with the dance, she should have gone to Abby in private, like a mature adult and dealt with Abby. It was unfair of her to blame a child for something that she had absolutely no control over.
Michelle is not the best example of a mother and selfless love. She talks through both sides of her mouth: We are leaving! I want you to stay! ( well which is it??)
Elliana danced twice because of her mom.That just prooves how proffesional she is.
Seeing her yell at Sarah is like watching a kid yell at a friend for being friends with another kid. She’s the mother she took her daughter to dance and now because she’s getting attitude she wants to crush her dreams she’s there to dance so obviously she’s going to choose Abby.