Mendeecees Breaks His Wife Yandy Smith’s Heart With This New Decision

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  • Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta‘s Mendeecees Harris revealed love wasn’t a factor in him staying in his marriage to Yandy Smith-Harris.
    In the April 2 episode of LHHA (Season 11, Episode 26: “Sassing Through the Snow”), Yandy went to Canada with the group (sans Mendeecees). At a point in the trip, Yandy, 42, FaceTimed her hubby, talking about the cold weather and how much she missed him. However, Mendeecees, 45, wasn’t in the mood to sweet talk and told his wife he wanted a serious sit-down with her when she returned.
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  • @FYoOp1nion
    @FYoOp1nion 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    When he said, "God knows I be trying," there was so much emotion in his voice.

  • @michellecarlmixoncummings4881
    @michellecarlmixoncummings4881 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Dude, your wife is driven, she's ambitious. Support that

    • @silkysomethin7584
      @silkysomethin7584 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Ur right but He needs to be included ...plus...he only got about 200,000 her net worth is 10 million. He dont have half of that i know that shit bothers him. Its like there marriage is a business and dont forget he said her wifely duties that means she dont really give up any pussy

  • @paulinefarleyjemison2900
    @paulinefarleyjemison2900 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    When will we women learn the NOTHING keeps a man except a MAN WHO WANTS TO BE KEPT

    • @theresaburnett5827
      @theresaburnett5827 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Exactly

    • @3n1sunmoon62
      @3n1sunmoon62 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And,
      Mendeecees Is Not A Kept Man.
      He Is A Real Man.
      He Is The Head Of His House.

    • @maryrussell9595
      @maryrussell9595 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly

    • @eboneebanks6131
      @eboneebanks6131 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Preach

    • @OneWhoKnowz
      @OneWhoKnowz 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thiiiiiiis

  • @ruthking9416
    @ruthking9416 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Never let a person tell you more than once that they do not want to be with you. I remember when they were on couples therapy, he said that if the shoe was on the other foot he would not stay. I say and I always say as of lately a lot of stuff that women do men will never do. For some people you can do so much and it will never be enough.

    • @user-yk7mn3cu1r
      @user-yk7mn3cu1r หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

    • @LusterThomas-if7nt
      @LusterThomas-if7nt 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Preach....went through that in my second marriage.

    • @ruthking9416
      @ruthking9416 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LusterThomas-if7nt I was engaged and felt as though it was not right 2 get married. Sometimes we know we just want it to be what it was in the beginning not understanding and knowing that people change all things are not sometimes what we want but what we need.

  • @user-ze1ys7uq3d
    @user-ze1ys7uq3d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    People grow apart I think that's what's happening here they been together for years

    • @therealsongstress
      @therealsongstress 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yeah and she emasculating that brotha … he’s sweet guy but strong

    • @KazBrown-qu5rn
      @KazBrown-qu5rn หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yandy a smart business woman we seen it for years that’s sad they were happy and in love

    • @lisajackson7069
      @lisajackson7069 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She held that man down took care of his other children. Put up with his mother, and the other bm's she worked hard for him and the family. His selfish he even said if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldn't have held her down.He basically let her know she isn't worthy of him she needs to let him know he's not worthy of her.😊

    • @mellajoe
      @mellajoe 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@therealsongstressand you know this how! A guy that Ransomed his whole mother you know nothing about

  • @LisaJones-lg8lu
    @LisaJones-lg8lu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Two beautiful people and family call on God and talk to him🙏

    • @terriswartz8668
      @terriswartz8668 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God needs to talk to her do you watch the show

  • @blackice112
    @blackice112 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    She held him down, but when he got out she stopped viewing him as her man. She keep making decisions without him. That are life changing decisions.

    • @user-nk6zy6gg7f
      @user-nk6zy6gg7f หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And yandy been messing around with a dude 😎

    • @KazBrown-qu5rn
      @KazBrown-qu5rn 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She stopped asking for his opinion and she left him behind Yandy always for the $$$ bag

    • @blackice112
      @blackice112 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Jesus take the wheel. She acting like she got a back up.

  • @angelasmith900
    @angelasmith900 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    What man wants to see his wife kids running around the world??? He said NO that should be respected!!! Even Judy and Dabrat told her No that's not cool and it isn't period.

    • @72dee
      @72dee หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly I understand what he is saying. That child will have Yandy DNA. Which makes his kids siblings to that child. I hear him loud and clear...

  • @Change2be1
    @Change2be1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +244

    I don't get Mendeecees this lady held his family together children that wasn't hers dealing with his baby mommas, and his mother. She worked hard to pay the bills and keep those kids safe and cared for while he Served time in prison, so what is up with him he always came off strange to me.

    • @roeback0916
      @roeback0916 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      So you must don’t know who he was before going to jail! Dude was a kingpin so he probably more than likely put her on before she was on ! All of New York knew him before she was a star

    • @myopinion1705
      @myopinion1705 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I think maybe she did actually cheat then and they keeping it low key

    • @SweetSixteen-xw9fy
      @SweetSixteen-xw9fy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      I think yendi would do better without him

    • @missalphaomegagod-2u
      @missalphaomegagod-2u 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@SweetSixteen-xw9fythank you

    • @vlsice2024
      @vlsice2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Basically, while he was in the slammer she held him down and he was fine with that while he was in the jail but the minute he comes out, he wants her to go back to the wife position and given back the power, he had prior to going to jail and I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t want to give him back power she had while he was in jail. She don’t want to be like that when he was in jail, always grinding always trying to get that next couple book you know make sure her bills were paid because Lord knows she don’t put another baby in somebody else’s belly and that she’s gonna have to take care of because he was unfaithful to her. Why does she think she’s gonna be faithful now so she’s kind of probably just you know seeing how he do before she make a decision on giving him back she right now. He probably gave her some so she can actually deal with the businesses. He was actually dealing with prior, so that was some money in his absence so of course, probably a lot of stuff got put on a wayside on her personal and her professional things she wanted to do and he when he came out now it was time for her to kinda you know do a little stuff that you know she wanted to do and think she wanted to accomplish personally that she had to put on the wayside because she had to deal with his stuff

  • @karenborden1620
    @karenborden1620 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    She's always traveling without him.

    • @shannajoywoodard8209
      @shannajoywoodard8209 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Because she work have business wtf

    • @FijiMatic
      @FijiMatic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@shannajoywoodard8209 Exactly, she was a manager for many ppl since day 1 on love and hip hop, so I'm not sure why it's a problem that she's still working smh. If she went off the radar for 6 months to 1 year will he be able to provide the lifestyle without any of her money included?

    • @FmTrini
      @FmTrini หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Right traveling leads to new eggplants lol

    • @mellajoe
      @mellajoe 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She’s used to it he was locked up

    • @kaydencefreeman6043
      @kaydencefreeman6043 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He's an felon so obviously 🥴 he can't go everywhere she does. Canada is strict on felons.

  • @therealsongstress
    @therealsongstress 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    If yandy doesn’t want to let it go then she need to tell her sister NO

    • @mildredbrown1093
      @mildredbrown1093 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      100

    • @taotaostrong
      @taotaostrong หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Absolutely. Yandy has the reasoning skills of a well intentioned 13 year old.

    • @gregorymcbride3503
      @gregorymcbride3503 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you frfr

    • @gaylaleflore8995
      @gaylaleflore8995 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with you 💯

  • @aliciarushing4707
    @aliciarushing4707 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    She makes a lot of decisions as a single woman that’s what happens. Especially carrying a child for her sister. She told him after she made a decision. That’s not how you move in marriage

    • @CharlotteHill-bb4uc
      @CharlotteHill-bb4uc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She did a oops not telling

    • @happybirthday8803
      @happybirthday8803 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe she wanted yandy eggs.

    • @sophiagreen7625
      @sophiagreen7625 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She definitely do make single decisions

    • @preedestined1
      @preedestined1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Period

    • @louveniawilliast9178
      @louveniawilliast9178 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She not carrying a child for her sister. She is donating some of her eggs and she can do that if she want to. Mendecee just want to control everything about Yandy

  • @teep2056
    @teep2056 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    How easy for him to forget that she stood by him when he was locked up

    • @Chocolategurl61
      @Chocolategurl61 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wo!😮 Your absolutely right!😊 I forgot about that! She was 💯!👍🏾👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😊

    • @Chocolategurl61
      @Chocolategurl61 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😢 It's sad and really deep!😳 I can't imagine being in a situation like that!😮 Thanku Jesus!🙏🏾🙌🏾🥺 I'm not 🥹 I truly feel sorry for both of them 😔 Wow!😮😢

    • @ms.fortune2957
      @ms.fortune2957 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Is everyone going to keep bringing up she was there for him as an excuse for her incompetence as his WIFE🔥 RESPONSIBILITIES CHANGE when you are married because your titles changed. She needs to STEP UP IN HER ROLE or prepare to lose him. Smh

    • @quanblaze6471
      @quanblaze6471 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No Man is going to want a wife still dabbling in that single life with her homegirls... And we not gonna condemn Mendeecees when yall cheered for Remy Ma

    • @shareeblackmon1393
      @shareeblackmon1393 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Guess what while her husband was locked up she still did what she wanted to do as a single woman. The question is once he got out she should have slowed down instead she is busy and now she leaves him with the kids .

  • @shaspeaks
    @shaspeaks หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I always saw he wasnt happy.. 🫣 What he says makes sense .. I pray for the babies🙏🏾💜

  • @joyy7506
    @joyy7506 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    ALWAYS remember this...➡️ you loose em' how you got em' Dat part‼️ no 🧢💯‼️‼️

  • @areliagray3542
    @areliagray3542 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I'm reading the comments and I feel people are bringing up things that a couples made a commitment to do. The real issue is Yandy is moving like she is a single person. She makes decisions that should clearly be made as a couple. When you take those vows you become one not you and I. I do agree they need to pray and ask God for guidance. I pray that they will work it out 🙏

    • @shannajoywoodard8209
      @shannajoywoodard8209 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because of work he a fucking baby wtf baby momma s and more plz

    • @downbad2874
      @downbad2874 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      And he made a commitment for better or worse so all that bs you just said means nothing

    • @teeleedavis72435
      @teeleedavis72435 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @downbad2874, EXACTLY! If she was moving as a single woman it’s PROBABLY BECAUSE SHE HAD NO OTHER CHOICE. Between, jail, baby mommas, have to take care of ALL the kids, running businesses, AND the household, WITH HIM NOT AROUND OR HELPING. So of course she needs some “ME” time to get back to taking care of herself. Just because you get married DOES NOT MEAN YOU STOP BEING AND INDIVIDUAL. Who takes are of her when she needs to taken care of? Clearly he wasn’t.

    • @mjones4458
      @mjones4458 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I've been watching the show for years and that's exactly how she operates. Like wanting to get pregnant for a family member Without consulting with your husband first. She treats him like a child. Most men are not gonna be okay with that. Thank you for your comment. I was looking for one that was gonna make some sense.

    • @MIRAISHOME000
      @MIRAISHOME000 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I wonder does she still pay or ever did pay for his child support

  • @mrskeith1540
    @mrskeith1540 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    He deserves to be happy as well

    • @amkali24
      @amkali24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yeah with a man

    • @crystalxoxox1266
      @crystalxoxox1266 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly!!!

    • @LanayKeel
      @LanayKeel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Was she happy when he was locked up for all of those years??? Now he here trying to give ultimatums. Now that he’s made a little money because of her he’s trying to control her. If it wasn’t for her putting him on with love and hip hop he would have no job and wouldn’t have a job. Mendecees need to grow up and be grateful!!!

    • @estherblack2770
      @estherblack2770 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      A man's happiness shouldn't be based on a woman putting down her dreams. If a man never have happiness in him, it's not a woman's duty to build happiness in a broken unhappy man's life. This man is jealous of this woman's achievements

    • @downbad2874
      @downbad2874 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He does but she isn’t the one stopping that wat else he want her soul

  • @edwintorres2305
    @edwintorres2305 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I absolutely will never hold a man down while he's doing a bid. They talk so passionately while there in and you sacrifice money, time, sex all for them to get out and completely ish on you. I've seen it time and time again.

    • @feliciamurray2047
      @feliciamurray2047 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are so right I did it and I will never in my life do it again

    • @miscomisco305
      @miscomisco305 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb หลายเดือนก่อน

      they always do that so called self improvement jail talk when all they really want is in house booty and a woman to take care of them.😂😂.

    • @gemininikki619
      @gemininikki619 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You ain't lying... I did it, and I felt so low and betrayed 😔 I'm like I'll Never do this Again.. Loyalty didn't mean Ish! Let alone the sacrifice and compromise you make while waiting..

    • @user-tp8ld7br5k
      @user-tp8ld7br5k หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep

  • @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely
    @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    This comment section is disgusting! Folks really think they can buy a man. Just because Yandy held him down in prison doesn’t mean Mendeecees is forever indebted to her. Why would anybody want to be with a man that’s only with u because of obligations… some people are sick.
    What she’s doing to that man is wrong, through and through.

    • @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584
      @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly... how he feels about the situation should be taken seriously

    • @anavarela6958
      @anavarela6958 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agreed and what’s worse is that she takes no accountability and doesn’t seem to even care about his feelings. If she does, something is wrong with her capacity to truly SHOW that. She is a selfish person. He should leave.

    • @Dueceswild876
      @Dueceswild876 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's what she's supposed to do as a woman. Hold her man down doesn't mean she's the best. I agree with you

    • @kathiwilliamsyoung2871
      @kathiwilliamsyoung2871 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Disgusting 😂😂😂😂gurl why can't he just support his wife.For better or worse 😊

    • @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely
      @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kathiwilliamsyoung2871 No…that’d be U.
      THE MAN IS NOT HAPPY. HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH HER.
      Holding onto somebody who doesn’t want u is DISGUSTING.

  • @awheeler516
    @awheeler516 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Always been a his fan! This man is 💯💯💯. She's taking him for granted

  • @arnoldaustin5745
    @arnoldaustin5745 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Both parties deserved to be Happy and Never take the other for granted...Dont ever be too Independent and Ignore your Lover...

  • @PamalaParker
    @PamalaParker 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    God Got this Girl....PRAYER !

  • @ms.fortune2957
    @ms.fortune2957 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    He is completely RIGHT. She is living like a single independent woman, and she can't do that as a MARRIED WOMAN🔥
    I'm with him. If she is not committed to being a WIFE, then her title needs to be changed.
    They both need to ACCEPT JESUS CHRIST and live according to the scriptures. GOD has an order for the Covenant of MARRIAGE

    • @calvthomas6153
      @calvthomas6153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm inclined to agree with this comment. If she wants to stay married, then she has to let go of her thoughts about the past. Meaning, yes she held him down when he was away....which helped keep them together, but that's what they both wanted right? She can't now think that her not being present in the marriage because she wants to travel and do this and that because it's "her turn to be free" is the solution. That doesn't make sense. If the goal is to stay together, then she's got to listen to what he's saying to her. If not, then go be free. I guarantee you, if she chooses the latter, she"ll end up with regrets. Especially if she loves her family.
      Then again, this could all be for a storyline. She does at times sound like a dramatic actress in her scenes.

    • @a.k.446
      @a.k.446 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree with both these comments

    • @ms.fortune2957
      @ms.fortune2957 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @calvthomas6153 Haaaaaa Haaaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 YES, Yandy is addicted to attention and will do anything for it, clearly. Smh
      She just recently posted a selfie video of herself in church praising GOD🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 I rebuked her and unfollowed. That was my LAST straw with her. Now that I see how DEEP her issue goes, I won't feed it. The girl needs deliverance fast. She looks pathetic to me at this point.
      LMBO 😭 But you for sure nailed your perception of her. She better tred lightly because Mandecee is fine and looks 100 times better in real life than he does on TV, so he won't be single long.
      He and I physically bumped into each other really hard to where I almost fell, and he grabbed me to break my fall and to say parten me and sorry. Neither one of us was looking where we were going, so I apologized, too. Then I took a double look 👀 like oh okay. 😍 Let me look away from that married man. LOL. ALL of the guys with him were fine as well, so she better KEEP her HUSBAND and LEARN how to be a GODLY wife because that is clearly what he is looking for.

    • @louveniawilliast9178
      @louveniawilliast9178 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If she stop working how tf go they go eat. Stop the bs. Love don't pay bills

    • @calvthomas6153
      @calvthomas6153 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not once do you hear any conversation about the need to pay bills. This woman is smart and extremely enterprising. She can carry out her career anywhere and still be okay. She's talking about being "free". When you have a family, sacrifices have to be made. The same would be thought if this were a husband/father, who spends time away from their family because they want to be "free".Rich or poor.

  • @PhaZeBaby
    @PhaZeBaby หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    She's doing it to her self at this point

  • @joegetfitpinkfitness2758
    @joegetfitpinkfitness2758 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    After she held him down 😢smh

    • @therealsongstress
      @therealsongstress 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah I think we all getting tore of he sayin that and throwing it in his face in the wry argument 🤭🤭🤭

    • @jaelwalters9009
      @jaelwalters9009 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly my point

    • @perfectlyperfect4556
      @perfectlyperfect4556 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That was her choice. I'd rather you leave than to stay out of obligation. That does not work eventually it could turn to hate or regret.

    • @Dataisthetruth
      @Dataisthetruth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@therealsongstressbecause it was a huge part of their relationship………

    • @TAM-media
      @TAM-media 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      When a man says he is unhappy the next move he will make is leaving, women will stay but an unhappy man will leave or cheat

  • @feliciamorris2903
    @feliciamorris2903 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Y’all better stop letting these men control the narrative. She deserves so much more from him

    • @gregorymcbride3503
      @gregorymcbride3503 หลายเดือนก่อน

      not her eggs for her cousin to have baby that's not his yall sound crazy as hell move on from her go get something new

    • @user-yk7mn3cu1r
      @user-yk7mn3cu1r 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think they have always been very different.
      Yandy is far more sophisticated and has a better head for business.
      He's always known that Yandy is very independent, I think it didn't matter as much to him when he was on the streets making his money his way.
      He goes away for years and she has to be a " single parent".
      Making all the decisions in real time,she shouldn't be expected to call him daily with "what should I do".
      I think mendeecee is a little
      embarrassed also because she held it all together.

  • @lisagreen3192
    @lisagreen3192 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Mendeecees is a quiet homebody type of gentleman and yandy is always moving about he's feeling everything else is getting her attention except for her family always creating more businesses trying to contribute to her cousin having a baby it's time to block out all the noise slow down and concentrate on your household

    • @lindaholden3749
      @lindaholden3749 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is a former dope dealer and should be grateful for a woman who was strong enough to pull him out of that life. Mendeeces is being selfish. Everything except the egg thing now I don't agree with that because that would be Yandy's and whoever the donor is baby, Kesha would be the carrier. That just the truth.

  • @marcqueseboatwright1027
    @marcqueseboatwright1027 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    People need to look at, it is not that he does not want her to be happy or do her thing it's the fact that she's making a lot of decisions based off of herself and not considering her family

    • @a.k.446
      @a.k.446 หลายเดือนก่อน

      EXACTLY

  • @cortneystandifer7914
    @cortneystandifer7914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    People play with marriage tooo much like too much don’t ask if you are willing to do the life time commitment you vowed to. Especially when it has nothing to do with cheating or forms of abuse. You done because you just don’t want to anymore is not a good enough answer. He is gonna have to man up keep his momma out of his marriage. Period. That’s the problem and has always been the problem.

    • @MsLishaJ11
      @MsLishaJ11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I digress..
      That man has said more than once that they needed to discuss it further so that they can have a clear understanding and make a rational decision as husband and wife.. She continues to tell him that it's her body and that her and Kesha had already decided.. She even started taking the shots.. All against wishes, without his knowledge and without having the clarifying conversation that he asked for.. They're on national TV.. That is blatant disrespect and can be determined as neglect.. She talks over him a lot and she has gotten used to him being so soft spoken, that when he finally spoke up about something, she immediately disregarded it.. Yandy out here moving like a single woman.. State to state, country to country, and not once have I seen the entire family..
      Granted, she held him down during his bid in prison, but that was a choice she made.. He's doing what he absolutely should as a husband and father.. He's trying to understand things.. Kesha doesn't even have money for the treatment, so Yandy is paying for that.. Plus, her dad just moved, and Yandy is paying for that as well..
      He's trying to find out if she can't afford the treatment for the baby. How will she be able to take care of it.. Yandy and Mendecees is paying all of her big bills, and a baby isn't cheap..
      Whether Yandy chasing her bag or not, him going to prison and her out here acting single and disrespecting her husband are two different crosses..

  • @reneturner9332
    @reneturner9332 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Let’s call a thing a thing. When two people meet one person is on an emotional level ( Mandeecee) the other person is on a mental level (Yandy) and for me I knew that there was something always wrong in the marriage . Mandeecee was abandoned as a child and people with that kind of connection are always miserable. For an example Ashley Silver is another abandoned character.♑️

    • @veronicajenkins7321
      @veronicajenkins7321 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed....And Ashley is so mean. She's the reason why I don't tune in for that show.

    • @feliciamorris2903
      @feliciamorris2903 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally agree it’s him not her

  • @honestystegall4140
    @honestystegall4140 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He need to much attention ‼️💅 give him an talk show

  • @bridgetteyoung1930
    @bridgetteyoung1930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Man can't take it when the women make more money than them I'm praying for you yandy

    • @delainerollie8351
      @delainerollie8351 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s all it is because she out here making money moves he wanna cheat anyway

    • @DeeDeeBanks-zl6zo
      @DeeDeeBanks-zl6zo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@delainerollie8351exactly

    • @gregorymcbride3503
      @gregorymcbride3503 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you are missing the point everyone not worrying over money you must single

    • @bridgetteyoung1930
      @bridgetteyoung1930 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@gregorymcbride3503 no I'm not missing the point she's doing the same thing she was doing when he was in prison he's mad because she's still holding it down and he's still trying to find himself

  • @therealsongstress
    @therealsongstress 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    When he couldn’t cross the border …. She should have stayed in the country with him

    • @LoveyB90
      @LoveyB90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Hell no she shouldn’t. Filming is a job. He shouldn’t have gotten into trouble.

    • @Dataisthetruth
      @Dataisthetruth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So stop working for him even though he admitted he wouldn’t do the same for her. Got it 😂😂😂

    • @carolynswan1171
      @carolynswan1171 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@LoveyB90exactly

    • @shannajoywoodard8209
      @shannajoywoodard8209 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She have to work look at they life style

    • @louveniawilliast9178
      @louveniawilliast9178 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You bugging. Nobody putting they life on hold because he wanted to be a criminal and commit felonies. That's a him problem. He should of stayed outta jail

  • @sweetiepie4041
    @sweetiepie4041 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    He's disrespectful. She waited for him and now he has no patience

    • @joyy7506
      @joyy7506 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I experienced this 1st hand...I did bids & waited...throughout my waiting period I was working on BIGGER plans for us & KEPT saying be patient I'm working on it...He came home to someone else stringing me along throughout his incarceration, he wasn't patient & my dream came to fruition NOW he's living with regrets & ALWAYS reminds me of them. Now he's singing the shoulda, coulda, woulda song, & he's living a nightmare & reminds me of this EVERY chance he gets & how he WISHES with every moment of his life & every breath how he should've JUST waited. I remind him EVERY chance I get that he made his bed, & so now he has to lay in it & face the music & cold hard FACTS. ✌️

    • @tonelowpope293
      @tonelowpope293 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯 He’s Ungrateful, Insecure & Controlling…Why Females Do This Is Bothersome!

    • @jewelsmith8777
      @jewelsmith8777 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What duties she has a right to be happy too

    • @missjenny6674
      @missjenny6674 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Believe me when he was in there...he was financially supporting her n their children, she was being STRONG holding it down, but he is home, he wants his children to have a different life than he had....Yandy needs to fall back n re group n have to balance for her husband, family and business

    • @louveniawilliast9178
      @louveniawilliast9178 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@missjenny6674how was he supporting anything when Yandy was still working and helping take care of his kids he got with other women

  • @bridgetteyoung1930
    @bridgetteyoung1930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Yandy girl GOD has you and your family ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @NathanMoy-ex3zx
      @NathanMoy-ex3zx 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yandy cheating Thats why her interest is low

  • @LaydeeMunch
    @LaydeeMunch หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is very heartbreaking I couldn’t see myself live without yandy or Mendeeses.

  • @theriawilliams818
    @theriawilliams818 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mendeecees going to divorce Yandy because of that baby.

  • @mstrina256
    @mstrina256 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She makes decisions without talking to him. It's a partnership

  • @rosiefelder6542
    @rosiefelder6542 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Like my mother would say dont let a man stop you from making your money because if he leaves you than what. Keep positive Yandy because you have been there for this man❤❤never give up

    • @user-kc2xb9io5v
      @user-kc2xb9io5v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God is the answer to all this

    • @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584
      @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And your Mom is single and can't keep A Man ..I'm sure

    • @lindawilliams3531
      @lindawilliams3531 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah he gonna want half when he leave

  • @EVAD1973
    @EVAD1973 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Work it out & include the Lord while doing So. 🙏

    • @andriataylor4758
      @andriataylor4758 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen

    • @elroco4827
      @elroco4827 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Leave the evil Lord out of it

    • @andriataylor4758
      @andriataylor4758 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@elroco4827 Bye.

    • @elroco4827
      @elroco4827 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andriataylor4758 just keeping it real. Maybe you’ll find out when you do some research about the god(s) of the Bible. Pure EVIL

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She would be a fool to stay with this dusty after who he proven that b. If this isn’t an act it’s embarrassing 4 her

  • @3n1sunmoon62
    @3n1sunmoon62 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Mendeecees Is A Real Man.
    Real Men Would Never Allow Their Wifes To Turn Them Into House Wifes.

  • @evelynwilliams9443
    @evelynwilliams9443 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You don't make life long decision by yourself.

  • @queenmary1224
    @queenmary1224 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    With God all things are possible. Without God it is impossible to stay committed to anything or anyone!

  • @cynthiacrapp1331
    @cynthiacrapp1331 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man we love y'all work that shit out

  • @veronicawashington7329
    @veronicawashington7329 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She has had his back through all the jail time and now he wants to act single. She has took care of all his children for years.

  • @yourakedafan2
    @yourakedafan2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People stop thinking because she waited for him to get out of jail that he owes his list life to her. she never shows him love and respect. They are not in love with each other anymore let it go🛑

  • @LaydeeMunch
    @LaydeeMunch หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My heartbreaks for Yandy I swear 💔

  • @abubarrie88
    @abubarrie88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I would take mendecees seriously, if he hadn’t been out here smuggling drugs and doing jail time when he was married with kids and a whole family acting like a man without responsibilities and neglecting his own duties as a husband when he shouldn’t have been and it landed him behind bars

    • @tanyal.mcwhorter3780
      @tanyal.mcwhorter3780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They weren't married when he went to prison.

    • @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584
      @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She knew he was a drug dealer..his name was heavy in the streets of Harlem

    • @gregorymcbride3503
      @gregorymcbride3503 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she has benefited from that nyc drug money too

  • @omiyinkaogunsegun5012
    @omiyinkaogunsegun5012 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She asked Mendeecee if the shoe was on the other foot, would he hold her down if she went away to prison for the same amount of time. Do you know that Mendeecee had the audacity and told her NO! She held him and those kids down both emotionally as well as financially all by herself. If I remem-ber correctly, he had to pay restitution. She sacrificed a great deal for this man! Also, if I remember correctly, this same cousin who asked Yandy for her eggs also helped her to keep HIS family together.

  • @jrodtharealest5227
    @jrodtharealest5227 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bro Tripping Hard! A lot Of Us Guys Will Kill For A Woman Like Yandy Forreal

  • @pheonyxjohnson5966
    @pheonyxjohnson5966 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He should have said that when he was doing years in jail and she was covering the cost for everything including his son's that he had by other women. It's not Yandy's fault that he has to pay for his crimes and a major part of that is not being able to travel, he already knew that. Instead of making her feel bad he needs to do something with his time because they don't have babies in the house so he can get into training or something.

  • @ItsTaniworld
    @ItsTaniworld 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I dont think divorce is always the answer. He suggested that they both seek counseling to help them balance out their marriage. They need work thought. I do however thinknthey can both be selfish to one another and communication seem to be the lack oof issues in their marriage . I really they work things out because it can be fixed

  • @VonnieWatts
    @VonnieWatts 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Stop taking him for granted.

  • @ritasmith972
    @ritasmith972 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's always what she wants. She makes important decisions without him so what does she expect.

  • @Mechelle-wb2ru
    @Mechelle-wb2ru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Beautiful couple

  • @LusterThomas-if7nt
    @LusterThomas-if7nt 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Boy that's a real dude right there... I'm taking about yandy.

  • @BoBoAnderson4052
    @BoBoAnderson4052 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Yandy is now a full fledged Keisha.. That brother doesn’t want a Keisha

    • @lmiller6675
      @lmiller6675 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What’s a Keisha?

    • @BoBoAnderson4052
      @BoBoAnderson4052 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lmiller6675 a ratchet out of order BW

    • @LusterThomas-if7nt
      @LusterThomas-if7nt 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks I really didn't know that.

  • @IamJairra
    @IamJairra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I think it’s fake..😂 Yandy is extremely private, she would not let him air this if it was real lol

  • @tinaross7037
    @tinaross7037 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yandy is very selfish. she's very self-centered. She treats him like her puppet.

  • @fibonaccibrown9711
    @fibonaccibrown9711 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yandy sometimes treats her marriage like one of her business deals. Like the answer is so simple and she has it all figured out. She looks at Mendeeces like a confused client she needs to convince of her point of view. It's like she frowns at him like "Why don't you agree with me since I'm going to do this anyway?". She seemed more emotionally invested when she yelled at Kimbella about mentioning her kids than she seemed in this moment with her husband.

  • @Thebohorainbow
    @Thebohorainbow หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He used her when he did that bid!! At least he’s being truthful

  • @princessbemah
    @princessbemah 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let’s keep her in our prayers! She’s learning a life lesson. It’s not for us to judge. I pray she has a safe space to grow. I declare that God does a new thing in her life. Everyone and person can’t travel in new seasons. Sometimes you can outgrow a person and environment!

  • @user-kc2xb9io5v
    @user-kc2xb9io5v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly she secure the 💰💯🔐

  • @letitiaabuckley7968
    @letitiaabuckley7968 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I know yall better work it out.☝️🙏🏻❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️

    • @therealsongstress
      @therealsongstress 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well … she need to start saying no and put her husband above all other gets period

  • @simonelawson6135
    @simonelawson6135 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He’s not grateful for his wife for holding him down it’s time for him to step up.!

  • @NothingHatebeinghack
    @NothingHatebeinghack 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dang, that hurt my feelings

  • @sandramoore2129
    @sandramoore2129 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I think the fact that she didn’t discuss with him about giving her sister one of her eggs

    • @therealsongstress
      @therealsongstress 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally ….she gaslighting him …..you don’t love me anymore 🙄🙄🙄

    • @louveniawilliast9178
      @louveniawilliast9178 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's her egg. Her body. But it was cool for Mendecee to have a break baby on Yandy before he went to jail and she helping him raise that break baby but he got a problem with her donating a egg to her sister FOH if yall don't see he trying to control everything she do

  • @KazBrown-qu5rn
    @KazBrown-qu5rn หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww know I thought they would work it out Yandy looks good 42 ❤ they love each other

  • @carenecocly1760
    @carenecocly1760 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This thing call dream n careers 😅😂

  • @glendorameyers4584
    @glendorameyers4584 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He’s not happy and I wonder what he feels he needs…. That she isn’t giving to him. I wish them luck and I hope their love is strong enough to work through these troubling times.

  • @carlahull7681
    @carlahull7681 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It happens and she held him down when he needed her so at this point as when women we need to keep a big percentage of our live to ourselves ( we ride so hard for men and when we lack our part men want to walk)

  • @therealsongstress
    @therealsongstress 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You just not respecting him yandy I think he still loves you though

  • @LaydeeMunch
    @LaydeeMunch หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember the trash can scene

  • @missjazz5043
    @missjazz5043 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Sometime you can tell your partner you need more but they don’t always change. It took a lot to get to this place it’s going to take serious work to get out this place. How much money is enough? Slow down and fight for your family But she did wait for him when he went to jail. If she is willing he owes it to her to hang in there.

    • @s.c.8300
      @s.c.8300 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They both have made sacrifices in the relationship, and keeping tabs won't help anything. It takes both partners for it to work and not just Mendeecee. Change and effort will need to come from both of them. I'm praying they work things out and weather the storm. I respect Mendeecees honesty because it does be like that. So many other people will cheat or file for divorce claiming because they're not in love with their spouse.

  • @bellegee6287
    @bellegee6287 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would never put my sister before my husband. Her sister is dead wrong for putting Yandy in that position. Like she couldnt find somebody else to do it...putting that burden on your sisters family not caring how it will affect her marriage is selfish AF. But she made her choice...gotta accept the consequences.

  • @yasminjohnson7527
    @yasminjohnson7527 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awww 😢

  • @stema1141
    @stema1141 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Playing it safe is ezier than lettin someone go. If u wnt to be married act n move lyk a married person not lyk ur single.

    • @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584
      @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A lot of today's women want to be single/married... move like a single woman but have a husband

    • @louveniawilliast9178
      @louveniawilliast9178 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@m.o.bmindonbusiness5584just like yall men been doing for decades and still doing. I wish u men stop playing like yall good guys when yall not. Yall are Demon seeds

  • @ShaShaLuva414
    @ShaShaLuva414 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WHY IS THIS IN THE MEDIA open for so many people to watch 😳

  • @brooklynskillz3608
    @brooklynskillz3608 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I knew he felt this way,its because she is more than him.

  • @NancyEllis-nt1em
    @NancyEllis-nt1em 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow!

  • @ballershanelle
    @ballershanelle หลายเดือนก่อน

    42.. young enough to live. Regroup and roll up and high, yandy. He's been wanting out to explore for years. Let it go, yandy. Love yourself and find a new love

  • @michaelstarina9675
    @michaelstarina9675 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I think they would have been over if he had never gone to jail. He has commitment issues. When will women learn when a man has multiple baby mamas he cannot commit. I believe he wants to leave and take half her money and live the single life. He appears to me to be another Kevin, Wendy Williams husband.

    • @Andrea-ju7to
      @Andrea-ju7to 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yea cause who is he and what does he do😂

    • @LoveyB90
      @LoveyB90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He has his own money. He was making money while he was locked up. Have you been watching the show over all the years?

    • @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584
      @m.o.bmindonbusiness5584 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Multiple baby mommas only means he doesn't like condoms and his pullout game is week...Bro has his own money and he's doing big things in real estate

    • @Andrea-ju7to
      @Andrea-ju7to หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @LoveyB90 dude went to jail for fraudulent activities and she has way more money than him again what does he do

    • @LoveyB90
      @LoveyB90 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Andrea-ju7to Ok you clearly haven’t been watching the show. Wow, successful black man being degraded and his past being used against him as usual. Crazy thing is he is doing better than everyone in these comments talking 💩 about him.

  • @feliciabrice2654
    @feliciabrice2654 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well she trying to keep that bag 💰💰💰 at all cost and sometimes that's hard they have to fight for the marriage.

  • @arlenebentley4246
    @arlenebentley4246 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    WOW

  • @lemari178
    @lemari178 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    After what he’s been through
    This kinda thing happens, it’s not his fault, and I can see the pain and trouble about something deep he isn’t telling her….. yandy is too much sometimes ( looking in on the outside)
    Yup , she’s definitely holding on to mendecces
    They may grow apart because looking like mendecces is checking out emotionally and mentally

  • @maroonblaxk
    @maroonblaxk 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I believe he never did really wanted to marry yandy he just did it because he was going to get locked up and he needed her support and he know she was going to support him through and through

  • @user-qi4oy5ey9y
    @user-qi4oy5ey9y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She love him she stood by him he was in jail and u can't understand then their something wrong with him not her think about she kids and bill and job while we're not their you can't keep the kids while she's work u enjoyed the time with kids and she have pulled up we your mother tre,ated bet any kind away love I Yandy praying for your family ❤️ 💜💗🙏

  • @sheilahollingsworth1316
    @sheilahollingsworth1316 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Give him a responsibility in his strength! All men aren't money pros. Use your skills, one! I love them. But, Mendeces has options! Two, I know of. They would love his return. So, Yandy got to be smart. Play yal's strengths, please!

    • @amkali24
      @amkali24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stfu you dont know them an U don't know shit and mendecees is disposable tampon. He's useless . And these options ur referring to are probably dudes. No spiritually healed 1woman wants that garbage..maybe u but not me..he's useless

  • @missjenny6674
    @missjenny6674 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Believe me .he is a smart man..n why did they move to Atlanta...what did he go in for? .money is not the problem in their marriage ..it's the quality time..n making decisions together ..n communication...n balancing business vs husband n family..

  • @angelaplace4375
    @angelaplace4375 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Continue to hold down the black men and your family should always come first. Fight this stay together !

  • @vthe_listener886
    @vthe_listener886 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God has to be the reason and the foundation of the marriage. Biblical men and Biblical women marry how God says marry❤

  • @taotaostrong
    @taotaostrong หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Free Mendeeces! Maybe it’s for the show, but it seems that Yandy is always coming up with thirsty schemes designed to get attention. She appears more committed to seeking attention than she does to giving energy to the real humans in her life. The whole sister cousin baby niece egg donation thing is short-sighted. It’s not generous. Yandy has the reasoning of a teenager.

  • @shenitagriffin2786
    @shenitagriffin2786 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This does not surprise me these new generation marriages never last long cause ppl getting married for the wrong reasons and ignoring their vowels my mom and dad been married 55 years my dad always to me marriage is hard work but as long as you got faith in your love for that person you can overcome whatever comes your way I want my first marriage to be my only marriage I want a lifetime partner not a temporary one

  • @user-kc2xb9io5v
    @user-kc2xb9io5v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand her while waiting for him in jail I was in a similar situation

  • @ClaudiaStricklin
    @ClaudiaStricklin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She has made you decision. She wants to live that single life. I believe they’re marriage is coming to an end. I really feel bad.

  • @evelyndaniel253
    @evelyndaniel253 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Start believing Yandy does not perceive her husband's place here first, mental, physical and she doing what she wants

  • @dawnbarrett7017
    @dawnbarrett7017 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish y'all well my Sister he is the head of the home let's him be the man's God's made him to be stay in your place as the wife we all are replaceable keep him happy or let's him go looks at your own marriage don't ever compare your marriage to no one else love y'all I pray you see what you have before someone else's do peace ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @irenediego5676
    @irenediego5676 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I pray they work it out. She went through the storm with you and for you boy. I know you can make this work. Please do. Pray 🙏🏽 together and all will be fine

  • @janetgonzalez3931
    @janetgonzalez3931 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hate when men forget what a wife did for him he was in jail and she took care of his kids and paid the bills and took care of him.as well hes going to regret it im.prayng for both of them i never saw this comming ever they are my favorite couple this breaks my heart ❤️

  • @kimtorres5458
    @kimtorres5458 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes being apart destroys relationships and no matter how hard u try to get back what u had things r different sometimes can’t be fixed