GET AWAY FROM YOUR FAMILIES MAN!! KEEP YOUR CHILD AND WIFE SAFE FROM THEM. YOU ARE MESSING UP YOUR DAUGHTERS LIFE, WIFE AND EVEN YOUR LIFE!! YOU DONT NEED THEM!! TOXIC VERY TOXIC, TO YOU MAN , YOUR WIFE AND DAUGHTER ! GET RID OF YOUR FAMILY MAN!!. DISOWN THEM NOW AND FIREVER!! THEY ARE BLAMING YOU FOR EVERYTHING INSTEAD OF TAKING RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE! OH YOU CAN FORGIVE BUT I SAY AGAIN BUT STAY AWAY FROM THE TOXIC FAMILY! JUST BECAUSE YOU FORGIVE SOMEONE DOESN'T MEAN YOU STILL INTERACT WITH THEM! GOD DOES WANT US TO FORGIVE ..BUT NOT TO KEEP GOING WHERE YOU GET THE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS. Be careful be cautious be mindful be watchful be prepared above all PRAY 🙏📖🙏🕊show ❤like Jesus then if need be 🪓🏹then victory 🙌🙌
Right? I hate to admit it, but by the end I was thinking “OP deserves whatever these awful people throw at him.” He should have told his family to get lost a long time ago, like, before the reunion even happened long time ago. His desire to earn the regard of his family is causing harm to his wife and daughter. They should be his first priority; screw the rest of ‘em.
@@BruinPhD2009 Honestly, the victim blaming here is terrible. It's no different than asking a woman dealing with DV why she didn't leave the guy. Emotional and mental a* is the main part in any a* relationship that causes the person to stick around, mostly the gaslighting. As much as OP tries to claim his parents weren't/aren't outright a*, they are, 100% they are.
Prioritizing your own family's well-being and creating a healthier environment for Lily is crucial. It’s good to see you and Emma supporting each other through this tough time.
How can you wrong someone THAT BADLY and then expect them to apologize to you? What is next? Demanding that Jewish people apologize to the German government after the 2nd world war? Demand that African Americans apologize to the American government for slavery? Are my examples too extreme?
The OP's decision to go low contact on his extended family was most worth it and brought on changes that could make a difference one day, let's hope that they decide to make an effort to do the right thing.
My mom didn’t speak to my aunt, her sister, for 15 years it was over a misunderstanding about my grandmothers house when she died. It took my cousins overdose and death for me to get them speaking again. They had 5 years of speaking before my aunt passed away. All of those years wasted for a misunderstanding. I understand being upset he has every right to be. I don’t think i would want them near my kids. Who knows what they will do to hurt Lily in the same way. You have to weigh each choice. I’m sorry that you had to be abused by Your parents. It’s their loss not yours. I hope it all works out for you
It always astounds me when people have to struggle to break contact with toxic people. That should be automatic. Also, a defamation of character suit, and calling CPS on Sarah due to her son's actions, should not be overlooked.
The same thing happened to me in kindergarten. I had a friend in my class named Bella and her cubby was right next to mine and she brought her lunch to school one day and before lunch it disappeared and everybody thought that I stole it bc our cubbies were right next to each other. The teachers made me stand up in front of the class and “admit” that I “did” it. I kept trying to tell everybody that I was innocent but they never believed me. Then one day in 3rd grade I was walking around the playground at school with Bella and my friend Anna. And Bella asked me if I was the one who stole her lunchbox in kindergarten and I said no it was me. She then said that maybe it was one of our other classmates in kindergarten whose name I forgot. I just know that it was a girl. And she can be a little bit of a trouble maker sometimes. But back in kindergarten there was another kid in the class who was a real troublemaker and his name was Braxton. And his cubby was also right next to Bella’s but everybody blamed me instead. Idk why. It was honestly really annoying and it still is to this day. On the bright side I’ve changed schools and I don’t have to deal with that again. I hope that something like that never happens again
I'm not going to lie I don't understand why the original poster would want to stay in contact with these people to begin with he was aware of their abuse and favoritism towards his sister and him always being mistreated like shit but yet he still wanted to be around these people cuz I know for a fact I would not put my wife and kids through this bullshit somebody is accusing me my wife and kids are stealing I just be packing up and leaving and be like okay watch when the truth comes out the truth comes out and that would be it
The easy way to avoid some of the issues is to tell the family that you simply won't hang out with them if they can't even admit that they had been wrong.
Make no mistake. People do not change. OP has seen the true colors of his family and it's dark. Move, change your phone numbers. Become unavailable. My wife and I had to do to protect our two boys from our toxic family. We simply stopped going to family gathering. No holidays, no birthdays or casual visits. I have found little value in these relationships. Often being more trouble than they are worth.
So OP just spinelessly accepted them back instead of going nc. It's either fake or op is insincere in "breaking the cycle". Since he insists on continuing to expose his child to these people.
Surprised OP n his wife is suing the flying monkeys 4 defamation n calling them out in front of the community as pay bk on the humiliation of have been accused of theft.
Why haven't yall blocked them? Why are you allowing ur family to text ur wife n berate her? Never talk to them again. Op n his wife are pathetic to still want these ppl in ur life after everything they did to you? You've still willing to give them a chance.Smh i can't feel sorry for yall anymore.
The only thing I can hope is that maybe they will try to file for harassment? Since then they have a paper trail of their insanity. But yeah I agree… just cut your losses at this point,
Some people want to live by "blood is thicker than water" and it seems they want their daughter to not be ostracized from ops side of the family they aren't pathetic just weak and far too lenient
@@shadowedpokefan331 Actually the quote goes "Blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb" ie. the family you choose always comes first than the family you're born.
@perjus I'm more than well aware of the full quote and it's meaning but most are blind to that and teach their families that blood relationships are most important and that's what it seems this is my ex has a family dynamic drastically close to this one and they taught him since a very young age that family was always most important I'm simply implying that op was probably taught the same thing
what doormat op and his wife are after what happen they still want contact after what happened alright if it happens again op better not comeback to Reddit then or just whine about it since they wanted to be with the family
Wow, that was intense! The most dramatic part was when Linda suddenly accused the narrator and Emma of stealing her expensive purse. The situation got even worse when Sarah joined in, criticizing them for living beyond their means. It must have been really painful to face such unfair accusations from family members and feel unsupported. This really highlights the struggles of maintaining family relationships when trust and fairness are questioned.
My mom didn’t speak to my aunt, her sister, for 15 years it was over a misunderstanding about my grandmothers house when she died. It took my cousins overdose and death for me to get them speaking again. They had 5 years of speaking before my aunt passed away. All of those years wasted for a misunderstanding. I understand being upset he has every right to be. I don’t think i would want them near my kids. Who knows what they will do to hurt Lily in the same way. You have to weigh each choice. I’m sorry that you had to be abused by Your parents. It’s their loss not yours. I hope it all works out for you
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You’re innocent until proven guilty. That is so sad, don’t let jealous people into your life even if it’s family.
You know Sarah took the purse, not her kid.
One CAN pick one's nose , and one"a friends , but one cannot pick one's friends nose , or one"s relatives..... Don't walk away.....Run !
Story 1: Always stay away from toxic.
Sue for defamation of character.
Why say story 1 if there’s only one story in the video?
Good fences make good neighbors !
OP needs to stop being a puss and just go scorched earth. He should be completely no contact with the lot of them. Have some dam self respect.
GET AWAY FROM YOUR FAMILIES MAN!! KEEP YOUR CHILD AND WIFE SAFE FROM THEM. YOU ARE MESSING UP YOUR DAUGHTERS LIFE, WIFE AND EVEN YOUR LIFE!! YOU DONT NEED THEM!! TOXIC VERY TOXIC, TO YOU MAN , YOUR WIFE AND DAUGHTER ! GET RID OF YOUR FAMILY MAN!!. DISOWN THEM NOW AND FIREVER!! THEY ARE BLAMING YOU FOR EVERYTHING INSTEAD OF TAKING RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE! OH YOU CAN FORGIVE BUT I SAY AGAIN BUT STAY AWAY FROM THE TOXIC FAMILY! JUST BECAUSE YOU FORGIVE SOMEONE DOESN'T MEAN YOU STILL INTERACT WITH THEM! GOD DOES WANT US TO FORGIVE ..BUT NOT TO KEEP GOING WHERE YOU GET THE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS. Be careful be cautious be mindful be watchful be prepared above all PRAY 🙏📖🙏🕊show ❤like Jesus then if need be 🪓🏹then victory 🙌🙌
Why are they still giving these horrible people a chance? I don’t understand how they are still open to rebuilding a relationship!
I think they are both mentally challenged.
They are weak n pathetic not strong enough to let toxic ppl go. I can't feel sorry for them anymore. You can't fix stupid
OP is a doormat.
Right? I hate to admit it, but by the end I was thinking “OP deserves whatever these awful people throw at him.” He should have told his family to get lost a long time ago, like, before the reunion even happened long time ago. His desire to earn the regard of his family is causing harm to his wife and daughter. They should be his first priority; screw the rest of ‘em.
@@BruinPhD2009 Honestly, the victim blaming here is terrible. It's no different than asking a woman dealing with DV why she didn't leave the guy. Emotional and mental a* is the main part in any a* relationship that causes the person to stick around, mostly the gaslighting. As much as OP tries to claim his parents weren't/aren't outright a*, they are, 100% they are.
They should have taken this to court and cleared their names and got money out of this mess.
Aunt Linda is a true Karen
Prioritizing your own family's well-being and creating a healthier environment for Lily is crucial. It’s good to see you and Emma supporting each other through this tough time.
Stay away from people who act like a victim in a problem THEY created
How can you wrong someone THAT BADLY and then expect them to apologize to you? What is next? Demanding that Jewish people apologize to the German government after the 2nd world war? Demand that African Americans apologize to the American government for slavery? Are my examples too extreme?
Amen!
The OP's decision to go low contact on his extended family was most worth it and brought on changes that could make a difference one day, let's hope that they decide to make an effort to do the right thing.
Breaking toxic behavior, good luck with that. Just TRYING to be nice is harder than it seems, just getting rid of greed will be a huge HUGE step.
Sue for defamation
They're not strong enough to do that.
that is ssad for emma i mean how can you frame someone and not get any apologies i fell bad
OP never had a "bio family".😢
They are the only ones from out of town, yet they live closer than his sister? Makes no sense.
My mom didn’t speak to my aunt, her sister, for 15 years it was over a misunderstanding about my grandmothers house when she died. It took my cousins overdose and death for me to get them speaking again. They had 5 years of speaking before my aunt passed away. All of those years wasted for a misunderstanding.
I understand being upset he has every right to be. I don’t think i would want them near my kids. Who knows what they will do to hurt Lily in the same way. You have to weigh each choice. I’m sorry that you had to be abused by
Your parents. It’s their loss not yours. I hope it all works out for you
Wow
Can you go into a little more detail? What kind of "misunderstanding" can damage a family that badly?
Its ok op. Now you realize these toxic pos doesn't deserve your time.
OP, maybe you can look into a defamation lawsuit. I don't know how far that can go, but maybe look into it anyway.
It always astounds me when people have to struggle to break contact with toxic people. That should be automatic.
Also, a defamation of character suit, and calling CPS on Sarah due to her son's actions, should not be overlooked.
The same thing happened to me in kindergarten.
I had a friend in my class named Bella and her cubby was right next to mine and she brought her lunch to school one day and before lunch it disappeared and everybody thought that I stole it bc our cubbies were right next to each other. The teachers made me stand up in front of the class and “admit” that I “did” it. I kept trying to tell everybody that I was innocent but they never believed me.
Then one day in 3rd grade I was walking around the playground at school with Bella and my friend Anna. And Bella asked me if I was the one who stole her lunchbox in kindergarten and I said no it was me. She then said that maybe it was one of our other classmates in kindergarten whose name I forgot. I just know that it was a girl. And she can be a little bit of a trouble maker sometimes. But back in kindergarten there was another kid in the class who was a real troublemaker and his name was Braxton. And his cubby was also right next to Bella’s but everybody blamed me instead. Idk why. It was honestly really annoying and it still is to this day. On the bright side I’ve changed schools and I don’t have to deal with that again. I hope that something like that never happens again
monsters and horrible parents and family
Sue them for slander.
16:48 not the worm eating the flowers for what seems to be a week
I had a similar story in my life, thanks for the story!
I'm not going to lie I don't understand why the original poster would want to stay in contact with these people to begin with he was aware of their abuse and favoritism towards his sister and him always being mistreated like shit but yet he still wanted to be around these people cuz I know for a fact I would not put my wife and kids through this bullshit somebody is accusing me my wife and kids are stealing I just be packing up and leaving and be like okay watch when the truth comes out the truth comes out and that would be it
Victim blaming.
The easy way to avoid some of the issues is to tell the family that you simply won't hang out with them if they can't even admit that they had been wrong.
Make no mistake. People do not change. OP has seen the true colors of his family and it's dark. Move, change your phone numbers.
Become unavailable. My wife and I had to do to protect our two boys from our toxic family. We simply stopped going to family gathering.
No holidays, no birthdays or casual visits. I have found little value in these relationships. Often being more trouble than they are worth.
The hardest words to say are, “You were right, I was wrong.”
Why does AI use the same terms over and over again?
For example...?
So OP just spinelessly accepted them back instead of going nc.
It's either fake or op is insincere in "breaking the cycle". Since he insists on continuing to expose his child to these people.
A simple misunderstanding that involved the police. I would have told aunt linda where she could stick her purse.,
Surprised OP n his wife is suing the flying monkeys 4 defamation n calling them out in front of the community as pay bk on the humiliation of have been accused of theft.
You need to send aunt's emal to the cops.
doing a quick google search confirms this is written by AI.
I’m very sorry for you I’ll Pray for you
"I 34 may" 😂😂😂😂😂
This is so sad…
Why haven't yall blocked them? Why are you allowing ur family to text ur wife n berate her? Never talk to them again. Op n his wife are pathetic to still want these ppl in ur life after everything they did to you? You've still willing to give them a chance.Smh i can't feel sorry for yall anymore.
The only thing I can hope is that maybe they will try to file for harassment? Since then they have a paper trail of their insanity. But yeah I agree… just cut your losses at this point,
Some people want to live by "blood is thicker than water" and it seems they want their daughter to not be ostracized from ops side of the family they aren't pathetic just weak and far too lenient
@@shadowedpokefan331 Actually the quote goes "Blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb" ie. the family you choose always comes first than the family you're born.
@perjus I'm more than well aware of the full quote and it's meaning but most are blind to that and teach their families that blood relationships are most important and that's what it seems this is my ex has a family dynamic drastically close to this one and they taught him since a very young age that family was always most important I'm simply implying that op was probably taught the same thing
what doormat op and his wife are after what happen they still want contact after what happened alright if it happens again op better not comeback to Reddit then or just whine about it since they wanted to be with the family
Wow, that was intense! The most dramatic part was when Linda suddenly accused the narrator and Emma of stealing her expensive purse. The situation got even worse when Sarah joined in, criticizing them for living beyond their means. It must have been really painful to face such unfair accusations from family members and feel unsupported. This really highlights the struggles of maintaining family relationships when trust and fairness are questioned.
My parents are narcs one sibling i left st you age i have had NARC partners my whole life i am finally single
Narcissists parents
Wow
❤
You were dating your family?! 😮
You should have sued them.
I am not sure how you can. They were kicked out of a family gathering but how is that suable?
@@Zurround I gotta watch it again, lol. I've forgotten why I thought so🤣🤣
My mom didn’t speak to my aunt, her sister, for 15 years it was over a misunderstanding about my grandmothers house when she died. It took my cousins overdose and death for me to get them speaking again. They had 5 years of speaking before my aunt passed away. All of those years wasted for a misunderstanding.
I understand being upset he has every right to be. I don’t think i would want them near my kids. Who knows what they will do to hurt Lily in the same way. You have to weigh each choice. I’m sorry that you had to be abused by
Your parents. It’s their loss not yours. I hope it all works out for you