I always forgive my husband and he always forgive me, we have been marriage 9 months now, and I’m pregnant 7 months. Alhamdulillah my love for him is growing and so his. We pray together everyday and we remind each other of Allah. As long as you have Allah in your heart and mind, it will make it so easy to forgive everyone around you. I always forgive people no matter what.
Alhumdulillah i have had been blessed so blessed with my Nasir. Almost 4 years now. He has to be the most patient person in the world esp dealing with me. I love him unconditionally😙
There's a line between mistakes and abuse btw. This video speaks about mistakes. Cheating, beating, verbal abuse, sexual abuse aren't just mistakes - you need to take a divorce when it comes to abuse. Allah's not that cruel and evil to make you stay with such a horrible person.
Very True!! Many women are told to stay with their husbands even when they are physically, verbally, and sexually abusive and even some men do the same to keep the marriage. Even tho you can stay but its better if you dont! Allah wouldn't have permitted divorce if we were supposed to bear all the pain. But this video highlights forgiving spouse for misunderstandings, and small fights that could become huge with time and our hearts will turn against each other for the longer we dont forgive.
It is very important for men and women to know they're on the same team on our journey to Islam. Different roles and responsibilities, different routes but same destination!
The Blessed Home Series should have tons and tons of contents because, this is time of confusion, there are people good at heart , but can`t act or react the way Dearest Prophet(PBUH) taught us so they make mistakes and then big blunders..........may Allah grant reward billion times to every single person behind this channel......
May Allah give us understanding... Ya Allah help us to build a beautiful relation with our close ones... ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة عين وجعلنا للمتقين أماما
Alhamdulillah for this video. I have been in a very difficult situation for so many years now and I do not know how to get this resolved. Shk Mufti Menk I need your help
Asalamu alaikum same thing happened to me now after praying to Allah seeking forgiveness i made my mind to forgive my husband.I forgiven him in the sake of Allah
Never forgive your wife. .or never forgive your husband. .thinking spouse every times. ..No remember mistakes. .Remember the good and Best moment togheter. . Hands togheter always. . Amiin
Please Pray for my marriage to be successful. Pray for me to be a best muslim & live according to islam & also please pray for me to grant Allah's forgiveness 🙂
for muslims, punishment of cheating your spouse is being killed by stoned you can say "woah, that punishment is so harsh" yes it is, but it shows that how vile act chatting is.. one of the ugliest sin that a people can commit
@@mery6793 btw yeah. my knowledge on that topic is very shallow. I just heard it the punishment of cheating the spouse. maybe not I dont know but cheating your spouse one of the ugliest action you can do. I rather prefer suicide instead of cheating my wife. yeah maybe it will be jumping in the Hell directly, but at least I would not commit that ugliness
I asking forgiveness 2.4years... from my husband. He got angry with me after we perform umrah in luhar time. After Prayed Asar we went to Masjid AlHaram for Ifthar and Tharaweeh. He was in male area. I was in female area. He told me after Tharahweeh call me. But I was his call. After saw my parents I went with them without call him. He may got angry. Told me, u go with ur parents. Don't come back. He argued with me and went. I came with my parents. Still asking forgiveness no response.I am waiting Allah knows best
Asalamualaikum sister I don't know but I just thought to comfort you your husband always got angry like this small kind of stuff it's just not right na when he scold you for no reason I know as a sister I will pray for you that one day he will realized his mistake ☺😊😊
Abuse isn't a mistake - when men are abusive they know full well what they're doing. And when it comes to 'showing remorse' they often fake it, and start being abusive again. You have to leave people like this.
Please make dua for me I’m going through a very hard time with my husband and unfortunately I think he might divorce me i’m currently pregnant and we already have a 1 year-old son I don’t want to divorce but if it’s allahs plan thing I can’t do anything about it.😢
Forgiving people kinda relies on them being kind in the first place. You can't forgive someone that does not regret. And there's a lot of bad folks out there. (Guess try not to marry a bad one eh?)
We will forgive when they think they did mistake and ask for forgiveness... we can't forgive a person who does mistake all the time and when we said that's a mistake then ... stop answering husband.... this is the reply or .... do job .. my mother will take care of kid .. go earn .... or be patient think that's your life and zip your mouth
She is a hindu why would she see this. Also, movies are used as an agenda to break families up. Quit watching bollywood movies entirely. They are a menace to society.
I always forgive my husband for his mistake and move on and keep loving him but he didn’t want forgive me because I become impulsive even I asked 1000 time for forgiveness and love from him back I’m dealing now with cold heart 😔
I always forgive my husband and he always forgive me, we have been marriage 9 months now, and I’m pregnant 7 months. Alhamdulillah my love for him is growing and so his. We pray together everyday and we remind each other of Allah. As long as you have Allah in your heart and mind, it will make it so easy to forgive everyone around you. I always forgive people no matter what.
Mashallah may Allah bless your marriage
Umulkher Ali Aameen
me too sister! may Allah bless you with a healthy blessed child inshallah
Mashallah.
Queen of shadow I always forgive him but he take days to forgive me :(
mashaAllah.. as a single man i found this beauty. see ya my future wife, take care of yourself until we meet
Assalamualikum brother inshallah you will be a good husband and may Allah blessed you with a good wife
How old r u?
That's so cute
Ma sha Allah 😇
Aww. Mashallah thats very cute!
Oooh Allah ....I'm sooo stupid before this...im doing a mistake....Please forgive me Allah...And I hope she will forgive me too...😢😢😭
Insha Allah
After 1 year i reading your comment. .mistakes all us making. .but perdon is very important. .
JazakAllha Ameem
Alhumdulillah i have had been blessed so blessed with my Nasir. Almost 4 years now. He has to be the most patient person in the world esp dealing with me. I love him unconditionally😙
Allah humma barik
There's a line between mistakes and abuse btw. This video speaks about mistakes. Cheating, beating, verbal abuse, sexual abuse aren't just mistakes - you need to take a divorce when it comes to abuse. Allah's not that cruel and evil to make you stay with such a horrible person.
Very True!! Many women are told to stay with their husbands even when they are physically, verbally, and sexually abusive and even some men do the same to keep the marriage. Even tho you can stay but its better if you dont! Allah wouldn't have permitted divorce if we were supposed to bear all the pain.
But this video highlights forgiving spouse for misunderstandings, and small fights that could become huge with time and our hearts will turn against each other for the longer we dont forgive.
Depends on number of repeated for 1chance you must forgive.
May Allah make my marriage stay for long as Allah's plan
It is very important for men and women to know they're on the same team on our journey to Islam. Different roles and responsibilities, different routes but same destination!
As he said, if there is a speck of remorse within that person, forgive.
The Blessed Home Series should have tons and tons of contents because, this is time of confusion, there are people good at heart , but can`t act or react the way Dearest Prophet(PBUH) taught us so they make mistakes and then big blunders..........may Allah grant reward billion times to every single person behind this channel......
I wish some people can watch this
May Allah give us understanding...
Ya Allah help us to build a beautiful relation with our close ones...
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا و ذرياتنا قرة عين وجعلنا للمتقين أماما
Masaallah. Great video and lecture.
After years and years of forgiveness it becomes too much.
Yeah men can't forgive. Women too forgiving.
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@@TheMrsansari seek refuge in Allah
I remember one dakwah, the words kinda like this,, give up expectation for your husband, just do it for Allah SWT insya Allah,, jannah
Thanks for this lecture, it's so useful. May Allah bless you ameen.
Help your children by forgiving your spouse 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 well said
May Allah make us forgive our spouse and May Allah forgive us all
May Allah guard you until jannah
Alhamdulillah for this video. I have been in a very difficult situation for so many years now and I do not know how to get this resolved. Shk Mufti Menk I need your help
May we have the hearts to accept the forgiveness
MashAllah.. jazakAllah dear bro 😘
Asalamu alaikum same thing happened to me now after praying to Allah seeking forgiveness i made my mind to forgive my husband.I forgiven him in the sake of Allah
may Allah forgive us and bless us with understanding inshallah
May Allah give people more Knowledge to ask Allah for help Ameen
Never forgive your wife. .or never forgive your husband. .thinking spouse every times. ..No remember mistakes. .Remember the good and Best moment togheter. .
Hands togheter always. .
Amiin
@@ayo5023 Assalamialaikum. .
Good your comment. .
@@ayo5023 thanks a lot. .i am thinking your comment. .i go prayer soon. .i no want forgive your good Words. Ameem. .
@@ayo5023 Assalamialaikum 🌹
Forgive for the mercy of Allah subhanahu wa taala ❤
Thank you
Zajakallahu khoir kasir
Great speech and great video
SubhaanAllah (سبحان الله)…. JazākAllāh (جزاك اللهُ)….
Amazing talk thank you for you guidance please give more videos JazakAllah
People rarely forgive nowadays and if they do they don’t forget.
Please Pray for my marriage to be successful. Pray for me to be a best muslim & live according to islam & also please pray for me to grant Allah's forgiveness 🙂
Thank u sir
Couples do not live with each other because they love eachother No..not at all
It is because they forgive each other
Ameen
Very good teachings
What if the spouse cheats on you? What do you have to do in this situation?
Zaza Nu it was be written in holly Quran. Rest it u will find answer
for muslims, punishment of cheating your spouse is being killed by stoned
you can say "woah, that punishment is so harsh"
yes it is, but it shows that how vile act chatting is..
one of the ugliest sin that a people can commit
@@silyu97 wrong. Stoning does not exist in islam. It only exists in the christian and jewish religion. Countries that do it are wrong and disgusting.
@@mery6793 people who cheat their spouse wrong and disgusting
@@mery6793 btw yeah. my knowledge on that topic is very shallow. I just heard it the punishment of cheating the spouse. maybe not I dont know
but cheating your spouse one of the ugliest action you can do. I rather prefer suicide instead of cheating my wife. yeah maybe it will be jumping in the Hell directly, but at least I would not commit that ugliness
I edited this comment so that you won't know why i got so many likes
human ? Same
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 find one
😂😂
Go look for one brother
AHAHAHHA YES
great👍
Masha Allah
I asking forgiveness 2.4years... from my husband. He got angry with me after we perform umrah in luhar time. After Prayed Asar we went to Masjid AlHaram for Ifthar and Tharaweeh. He was in male area. I was in female area. He told me after Tharahweeh call me. But I was his call. After saw my parents I went with them without call him. He may got angry. Told me, u go with ur parents. Don't come back. He argued with me and went. I came with my parents. Still asking forgiveness no response.I am waiting Allah knows best
Asalamualaikum sister I don't know but I just thought to comfort you your husband always got angry like this small kind of stuff it's just not right na when he scold you for no reason I know as a sister I will pray for you that one day he will realized his mistake ☺😊😊
True! I always forgive my husband and he also forgive me both are nikahfied plz pray for me and my husband job jazakAllah
If your spouse does not stop abusing you..... What should we do...... If he doesn't believe u.....
Abuse isn't a mistake - when men are abusive they know full well what they're doing. And when it comes to 'showing remorse' they often fake it, and start being abusive again. You have to leave people like this.
Please make dua for me I’m going through a very hard time with my husband and unfortunately I think he might divorce me i’m currently pregnant and we already have a 1 year-old son I don’t want to divorce but if it’s allahs plan thing I can’t do anything about it.😢
Forgiving people kinda relies on them being kind in the first place. You can't forgive someone that does not regret. And there's a lot of bad folks out there. (Guess try not to marry a bad one eh?)
We will forgive when they think they did mistake and ask for forgiveness... we can't forgive a person who does mistake all the time and when we said that's a mistake then ... stop answering husband.... this is the reply or .... do job .. my mother will take care of kid .. go earn .... or be patient think that's your life and zip your mouth
Masya Allah. Kok jadi baper ya
I forgave but cannot tolerate cheating and affairs, period!
Taapsee pannu should really see this
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She is a hindu why would she see this. Also, movies are used as an agenda to break families up. Quit watching bollywood movies entirely. They are a menace to society.
السلام عليكم و رحمۃ ﷲ تعالی و بركاته
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته كيف الحال
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I always forgive my husband for his mistake and move on and keep loving him but he didn’t want forgive me because I become impulsive even I asked 1000 time for forgiveness and love from him back I’m dealing now with cold heart 😔
Should i forgive my physical abusive husband?
No, Allah's not that evil to expect that from you. Your husband a grown man who knows what he's doing. Leave him.
Their eyes are literally ء
Yes
The word for eye in Arabic is عين
First letter been ع
@@BadiArt i know already
But what to do when they cheat? There is no forgiveness for cheating.
even if that person cheats?
What if one of the partners cheated on the other one, with someone, as in they had sex with them... Etc
Divorce
What if she still says she has made her mind even though she says she has forgiven me - she still wants D and will handle the consequences.
It depends of the situation whats ir fault nd what's her fault?
Allah is all knowing, if she insist fulfil her. Hang in there brother.