THIS is how you manifest correctly | Mel Robbins

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  • @ChristianaSenibo
    @ChristianaSenibo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    "When you visualise the work, you're preparing your body for it. So you're not resistant to it when it comes." Beautiful. You attract what you focus on. Keep focusing on what you want from life and you'll find your life will move in that direction ❤

    • @gabardjean-paul3779
      @gabardjean-paul3779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Sister !

    • @jjadebrooklyn
      @jjadebrooklyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Subscribed! Love your content!

    • @ChristianaSenibo
      @ChristianaSenibo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jjadebrooklyn thanks 😊

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's bigger than that. You are forcing your mind to do it, because it believes it already have and that it is now okay to do it, there's nothing to fear since it has done it already and came out feeling good from it. The mind is always attached to what makes it feel good, it doesn't matter what it is, so if your visualization makes the mind reach a point of feeling supreme and good, it is going to push you to do it and again, even seek out instructions on how to make what you visualized happen physically.

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    “Don’t limit yourself. Many people limit themselves to what they think they can do. You can go as far as your mind lets you. What you believe, remember, you can achieve.”

  • @Leahvieantana
    @Leahvieantana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I’ve manifested many things by visualising the end goal and meditating/visualisation. I still had a positive attitude and told myself “I’ve put my order into the universe it will come” then I continued to work towards it 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @BalancingLifeStyles
      @BalancingLifeStyles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are doing exactly what she is saying to do. You can’t just think something is going to happen without putting work in. You put the work in and the outcome will come. You are building the momentum of greater things. Also thinking of the obstacles that will get in the way. To get to that main goal.

    • @andredarin8966
      @andredarin8966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Despite the fact that your method has worked-as it has for me-we’re doing it wrong.
      What B.S. Why visualize a problem that may not happen? It’s sufficient to merely realize that problems might occur but that won’t negate the inevitable.
      This woman is really arrogant. Everyone is doing it wrong-like a friend of mine who while driving a truck long haul imagined he was in the cockpiit of a DC-10 as a captain. Ten years later he was even after visualizing wrong.

    • @onedudethelegend
      @onedudethelegend 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BalancingLifeStylesshe believes manifesting is only mental and that the whole universe putting in its part isn’t a thing. Neville would disagree. Of course it takes two in some scenarios. That’s why it’s called “inspired action”. It’s something that comes natural and not forced from us. You have to think of it this way. There are so many people who do the work and never get where they want to be because they lack consciousness and being connected with the universe. Manifestation also isn’t a one size fits all thing. That’s why there is no right or wrong way unless you have a terrible self concept.

  • @stevolutiontv
    @stevolutiontv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    Neville Goddard would disagree, he advises to live in the wish fulfilled and dream better than the best, I'm sticking with neville ;)

    • @jamilynn322
      @jamilynn322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      So, what happens when you faceplant and can't think of other options? What happens when your goal doesn't materialize exactly the way you envisioned? Being flexible is always preferable to rigidly assuming everything is going to go perfectly - because it doesn't.

    • @alessia7687
      @alessia7687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Neville said that you have to immerge in that reality, I believe what Mel Robbins is saying is consistent with Goddard's teaching, when you don't feel at ease with your desire you have to be there, feeling your body doing the work

    • @user-qe7bt9dz1l
      @user-qe7bt9dz1l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@alessia7687 Mel’s way is basically expecting and accepting that the bad things that’ll happen on the journey are inevitable and she thinks it’s better to be ready for them rather than pretend they won’t happen and everything will unfold 100% smoothly without a single road bump. I don’t think Neville has that approach.

    • @alessia7687
      @alessia7687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@user-qe7bt9dz1l You're right, but there are people who struggle to imagine the end result, without thinking about the fact that they don't have it now. In this way they emphasize the idea of lack. I believe when someone is negative can only imagine and believe in negative things, so it easier for him/her to imagine the issues that you encounter during the process towards your desire /end state. I agree with what you're saying, but I am referring only to those people. :)

    • @SimplyOneSound
      @SimplyOneSound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Basic Mel is saying people let their outer world control their faith. But what she said does remind me of David goggins as well. Goggins does both. Trudeau said this once too. But basically what she is saying people cannot stay in the end. They have trouble they that because certain problems take them away from it. When I say the end I mean faith. I hear so many people say this but the issue is faith. It isn't these other things. It's always faith. Most people studying this let their outside world control their faith even after their teacher on the subject has told them not too. The book that inspired THE SECRET tells exactly NOT to do this. In fact I'd say it is by far the most different LOA book there is. It is the only one that talks about action. The book is, "The Science of Getting Rich". But seriously it's always about faith. But I don't think she is wrong either. But it's all about faith and self-discipline. Faith without works is dead.

  • @char6457
    @char6457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    AS someone who understands manifesting and has read/studied an incredible amount on it.....Not sure if I exactly agree with this....I have had exact visualizations show up in life...why would you visualize something bad happening? If you get aligned with yourself then USUALLY the bad things dont happen....and if they do they just dont bother you..you know how to deal with them. Get aligned with yourself first...then do the marathon and visualize the happy ending.

    • @SimplyOneSound
      @SimplyOneSound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The only time I've heard someone say imagine the bad parts is because he was talking about things that 100% were going to happen. Like navy seal hell week. True suffering type stuff. What she is really doing is teaching people how to have mental toughness so they don't lose faith and crumble... BUT you know that faith is believing in the inner world despite the outer appearance of things. If they dont have faith it is because they dont fully understand and believe the material taught. Everything she said was about faith or self discipline. You and I both know it is impossible to even imagine the middle because there is no way to know the middle. As far as the things pertaining to self discipline she is not wrong. Visualizing is very similar to doing the real thing. IF you want to practice waking up in the morning when your buzzer rings you could visualize it. It will help to make it a habit faster but that is very different than manifesting. That is just practice. Manifesting is when you are utilizing an intelligent power.

    • @blue-qm5dk
      @blue-qm5dk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      absolutely agree Char

    • @lisaquinlan1292
      @lisaquinlan1292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you!!!! I fully agree! Why would I want to visualise running in the rain and being miserable? I’d want to visualise good weather, strong muscles, etc

    • @lisaquinlan1292
      @lisaquinlan1292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said @simplyonesound

    • @khih3216
      @khih3216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree 100%… I’m definitely not agreeing with visualizing anything bad… that sounds depressing. I already know it’ll take work and ups and downs. You’re so right!

  • @moonshine-morningstar
    @moonshine-morningstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I love how Mel breaks things down. I had a bad habit of visualizing the achievement and not the journey. Now I understand. Thanks for the great advice!!!

    • @melrobbins
      @melrobbins  2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @Tousicle
      @Tousicle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah such a big change right? I usually do this to prime myself as well; usually when I wake up or I'm coming home from work and I know I'm tired I will envision myself working out or writing (either 2 things I really wanna do) and just take pleasure in the mere visualizing of it; because it takes no effort; meanwhile when I arrive home I'm ready, there's no resistance because I've already created the momentum for it :D

    • @Mike.Sadala
      @Mike.Sadala 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would you do that? That's messing with the middle. You only objective is to visualize the end result. Once the subconscious mind is impressed with that result, you will naturally move through a bridge of Incidents orchestrated by the universe to get you there. Never visualize the middle. Even the Bible speaks on that. Neville Goddard himself goes beyond this

  • @cheriekisa4448
    @cheriekisa4448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I feel like ppl in the comments missed the point. Visualize the journey, “the bridge”, and visualize working through hardships, how you’re going to deal with it and how you’re going to feel when you overcome obstacles

    • @cheriekisa4448
      @cheriekisa4448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ofc you’re not suppose to visualize that you’re going to fail 🤣🤣

    • @melrobbins
      @melrobbins  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!!

    • @marshaparker2559
      @marshaparker2559 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      B M b b b b ok

    • @andredarin8966
      @andredarin8966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      O.K. So, I’m an airline pilot. The night before a flight I’m supposed to visualize engine, electrical, hydraulic and other system failures as well as clear air turbulence, icing issues, possible mid-air collisions, wind shear, stalls, and a hundred other things that could jump up and bite me?
      The basic principle of manifesting is trusting that whatever the power is that makes it possible also has your back. As William James put it, you surrender, become indifferent to the outcome, and trust a higher power to see you through.
      I get this video and it’s contrary to what every great spiritual teacher has thought regarding this subject.

  • @lovepeacebliss
    @lovepeacebliss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    anytime i hear the words "hard work" and manifestation, i know they are doing it wrong. Manifestation is carving out an energetic path to bring your desires to you easily.

    • @adamjoyner1004
      @adamjoyner1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. And I've done it loads! ...there is!! No hard work, and there's not a job I could do/ have that would get me the stuff and lifestyle I've got now and have been enjoying for about 10 years

    • @sreesree8794
      @sreesree8794 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am manifesting a specific person and there is no small change or symptoms of that coming...
      And many coaches say we should not waver, and feel lack about that manifestation but I can't stop lacking abt that..
      As it is not happening in reality, its like handling two diverse things that we should imagine as we have it and in all the day it is not there...
      Can someone help me how I can get my manifesttaion easily

  • @Manifestwithmark
    @Manifestwithmark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I love her but I would have to disagree with her on this. I have not manifested the financial success she has as of yet but I have manifested many material things and wonderful experiences and even healed myself from devastating health problems and this came from seeing and feeling and living in the end. That’s the work to feel the end even when your not in it over and over again. When you feel like it’s not working, when you feel frustrated, when you feel it’s taking too long bring yourself back to the end. This is the work. It’s not easy when you give more importance to your outer world then your inner world but as you start to manifest you will shift that. What she is talking about is mental rehearsal which does work but you can’t do that if you have no idea how this thing will exactly manifest. Nor should you know the how is the domain of God. And seeing yourself at the end of the race as if it’s done constantly and vividly will pull you through everything you need to do to get to that place.

    • @tonyrocket2103
      @tonyrocket2103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You are so right Mark, I disagree with her as well, Visualizing the miserable stuff will bring you miserable stuff but visualizing the happiness at the end will bring you there.

    • @lifebeelifebee9214
      @lifebeelifebee9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My exact thought. By being fearful of visualizing the end of the result, one only shows that they do not believe in the magic completely. Actually, fear or doubt is the reason why our manifestation does not bring the results we want.

    • @nikoshawhite1296
      @nikoshawhite1296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally agree with these comments!! 🥰

    • @elizabethzsoldos511
      @elizabethzsoldos511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's absolutely the same with me, Mark! While listening to Mel now, I told myself it was definitely not the way how I have manifested my success.

    • @Manifestwithmark
      @Manifestwithmark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @fairyffine if you are visualizing the end and feeling bad your not really in the end but your feeling the lack of the end. The secret is not the problem

  • @QuanTheAlchemist
    @QuanTheAlchemist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Here are my 10 extra tips to INCREASE your daily manifestations that I’ve learned over the years..👇🏾
    1. Practice gratitude every morning. When you wake up, list everything that you are grateful for and feel that gratitude in your core. Feel free to write things down in a journal so it is easy for you to remember.
    2. Replace your negative thoughts with positive ones. Every time you feel a negative thought coming on, make a positive spin on it right away.
    3. Take ownership for things that happen in your life. It's easy to blame others however you will feel much better when you realize that most issues stem from us.
    4. ALWAYS believe that good things are about to happen. By being open to new possibilities you are inviting abundance into your life.
    5. Remember that like attracts like so you get back whatever you put out, whether it is good or bad. So do good AND received good.
    6. Meditate for five minutes a day. During this time focus on how you want your life to be; but place your focus on how you feel AND feel that feeling as if you have already accomplished those goals.
    7. Step outside of your comfort zone. Stop playing it safe and make that decision to finally go for your dreams.
    8. Focus on activities that make you feel truly happy. When you are truly happy you have the best vibrational frequency to manifest your desires.
    9. Avoid the naysayers and surround yourself with people who only lift you higher. Downers will be downers, don't let them drag you into their misery.
    10. Don't be afraid to dream and know that you are always supported by the universe.
    Hope this helps!
    - Your Friendly Neighborhood Coach 🤍👌🏼

    • @stifbabu1557
      @stifbabu1557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Blessed day friend. Thank you
      Thank you 😊

    • @mrgruffy4499
      @mrgruffy4499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Excellent advice. Thanks.
      Part of my morning and evening attempts to show my GRATITUDE by reciting them aloud:
      I fold my hands across my heart. I begin with 3 “AUM’s expressed as AAAAUUUMMM
      “From the respect and gratitude that I feel in my heart and in my mind, I THANK THE UNIVERSAL CONSCIOUSNESS
      -for my ability to express my gratitude,
      -for guiding, protecting and providing for those I care about, and for blessing them with all that they need.
      -for my humility to show my gratitude to others for playing their parts in my spiritual progress, and to call down blessings upon them,
      -for the life I have already lived, and the life I am now living,
      -for the guidance I’ve received in all my past years, and for the guidance and protection from all present and future perils,
      for the God-power within me to be more observant, and to radiate the Christ within me that others can feel while in my presence,

    • @smb8677
      @smb8677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @abiatheexplorer9166
      @abiatheexplorer9166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How amazing you are

    • @johnjames6980
      @johnjames6980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      great advice - Thank you!

  • @gardenlover9663
    @gardenlover9663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Long before I knew LoA existed, I fantasized about meeting Elvis Costello. I was in high school. Abt three years later when I was at UCSB, I met him while driving someone I didn't know to the phone company to pay a phone bill. I didn't need to do a thing. It was all taken care of for me.

  • @jeanshelbybooks4154
    @jeanshelbybooks4154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My first book comes out this Friday and I love to visualize people enjoying reading it. I like the idea of visualizing the work involved. Now that I’ve gone through the whole process, I can totally do that. 😉😆

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    *"I believe every human has a finite number of heartbeats. I don't intend to waste any of mine." - Neil Armstrong*

    • @Nikki.Nasvytis
      @Nikki.Nasvytis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not really a belief though, it's a fact!

    • @michelledee2586
      @michelledee2586 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Says the fake man on the moon. Haha.

  • @kbs7583
    @kbs7583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If you feel like a loser looking at things on your vision board, you've missed the point. Feel what you eventually want to happen/manifest, so the stepping stones to it will be manifested.

    • @SimplyOneSound
      @SimplyOneSound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People don't understand the faith part. They let there outside world, the relative, control their state. And tbh I cannot blame them. Unless you really study this and not just Neville like most people you'll never have the faith for huge goals or the knowledge of how faith is created where it isn't present. But the point is to have unwavering and her method works too if it gives people that.

    • @adamjoyner1004
      @adamjoyner1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, ahhhhhh.... a vision board is not about!! Taking STEPS!!!!!! ....I've done loads, ....and I love! How, it's a matter of see what it is you want, and keep seeing it, DAILY....don't criticise yourself about how many days, but rather pamper yourself and gaze!!!!!!! Into your desired thing/s....I promise! You won't feel,like a loser! Doing that...and if you do it like I do it...pretty soon, the stuff does! Turn up like magic, WITHOUT any work at all!!!!!... I only watched this video because I Knew!!!!! They would be talking complete rubbish.

  • @brochachoiii6657
    @brochachoiii6657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The trick is visualizing those hard things while sitting in the emotion of the dream board. So the energy is different in those hard thoughts, and it begins to minimize them.

  • @beautytalkwithsam
    @beautytalkwithsam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've looked so much into Law of Attraction and manifesting and I've never heard this tip. It makes sense and is super helpful! This truly takes the quote "life is a journey" into practice!

  • @BlasianGoddessTM77
    @BlasianGoddessTM77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We manifest everyday. Therefore I make it a habit to be highly grateful everyday. Don’t get fixated on what you don’t have but be content and grateful for the life you currently have. Less complaints, be happy. Change your mindset.

  • @gloriamitchell3518
    @gloriamitchell3518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As always, Thanks Mel for breaking complicated concepts down into more digestible bits.

  • @theetravelhippie
    @theetravelhippie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    manifestation is so real. you can have whatever you want in this life❤

  • @tusharg2751
    @tusharg2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree visualisation "How you are doing your work is also good!" Step by step towards big picture!

  • @hakidag23
    @hakidag23 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This Mel's advice is going to change my life, for sure !!! 💕

  • @Parkitloveit
    @Parkitloveit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you 🙏
    I’ll manifest:
    Speaking 6 languages is easy and I love it so much that I’ll attract some nice people who want to travel and study with me.
    Have a great day you two, I love you 💕

  • @PepTalkDiva
    @PepTalkDiva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why would I want to visualize the hard parts? The path of least resistance is the life I want to live. If I am facing resistance that means I amm not centered somewhere. If I am centered when I come to the hard parts I will be able to deal with the emotions that come with it, refocus and get to the big picture.

  • @GoogleAccount00
    @GoogleAccount00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “VISUALIZE THE WORK” is the critical phrase here. That’s it and that’s all. Most of us think it all comes easy without work (and on some rare occasions it does, but) and commitment in those difficult times.

  • @patriciaparadise1133
    @patriciaparadise1133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @curinbenbow7944
    @curinbenbow7944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Thanks Mel for clarifying the difference, I see what you mean now.

  • @shirleywechsler3186
    @shirleywechsler3186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lovee this!! Just started a job in cold callingg!! I needed to hear this

  • @goldenchild_chosenone
    @goldenchild_chosenone 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never would have thought of that. Initially, it sounded like visualizing negativity.. But as i listened, i understood what she was saying about having manifested being IN your goal and PERSEVERING through the tough stuff 👍 very wise and creative; very strategic, definitely!!!

  • @BrothaNeo
    @BrothaNeo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Well in my opinion and from experience, there are more than 1 way to perceive how to go about manifesting. So I suggest to people that they seek out and examine what method works best for themselves and feel most comfortable with. A method that actually brings them positive RESULTS that is! The other thing is that a lot of people have been focusing way too hard on the end result of their manifestations rather than their actual personal development along with it!
    If people would focus on their personal development, developing a high level of resiliency, confidence, intuition, and other things, then they would be able to get through any adversity of the process. They wouldn't need to visualize hardship as this process in this video explains. I CERTAINLY haven't EVER felt that this method explained here in this video was necessary to manifest anything in my life. Everything has come to me effortlessly. Small and large things.

    • @sweetsue4204
      @sweetsue4204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you. I feel the same way, and I’ve been manifesting wonder in my life for over 67 years, with none of this work to make things happen. 😄

    • @BrothaNeo
      @BrothaNeo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sweetsue4204 Exactly. The moment she said that people have been manifesting wrong and when she said the part about imagining the hard parts of the journey, that's when my intuition spiked up and made me feel weird lol. I knew something wasn't right.
      We create our experiences based off our beliefs and vibrations. That is how we truly feel about something or someone. If we don't believe something will happen to us and don't offer that vibrational frequency as a dominant vibration, then it WON'T happen to us. It really is that simple. This is why it is essential for people to study and think for themselves rather than BLINDLY follow a person's instructions.

  • @donacardenasHomes
    @donacardenasHomes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are 100% correct and it just dawned on me while you were talking. When I decided to train for and complete an Ironman race, first step was to make it definitive. Then I broke each section down by the time I wanted to finish that segment in. Then I went deeper and broke that down even further to help me stay on track. Worked like a charm.
    So now I’ll take my pretty vision board and break it down into “segments” so that I can get to my dream day.

  • @jennifer8929
    @jennifer8929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Mel. She’s a realist and wise.

    • @onedudethelegend
      @onedudethelegend 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she’s not always right though. There is no wrong way to manifest. We technically manifested our current lives. The point is become conscious so we can attract the right opportunities and circumstances. Neville wouldn’t agree with her.

  • @michelledehaen8997
    @michelledehaen8997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Mel, interesting and more realistic to manifest without resistance, step by step ! Greetings from Belgium, Europe.

  • @user-qe7bt9dz1l
    @user-qe7bt9dz1l 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow that was better and way more helpful than expected.

  • @GigiBela
    @GigiBela 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice! Right to the point.

  • @i_yashh
    @i_yashh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is so energetic and funny as well as Helpful at the same time....thanks Mam ❤️

  • @anchaleeintac.2195
    @anchaleeintac.2195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take out: not jut visualize the outcome/ goal, but also the bridge, the hard parts, putting in the work, failing and pushing through.

  • @jenniferc925
    @jenniferc925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love this message... thank you Mel

  • @dewshine3359
    @dewshine3359 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome advice Mel. Thankyou!❤

  • @mariamonicamariado3926
    @mariamonicamariado3926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🙏 THIS IS THE BEST EXPLANATION AND ADVICE regarding LOA and making a vision. Thank you 😊 I feel blessed 😇

  • @healthyfoodlover1124
    @healthyfoodlover1124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video thank you for sharing❤❤

  • @reginadavis1028
    @reginadavis1028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so needed this right now.

  • @chastityreign4030
    @chastityreign4030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mel, I have been drowning for a while now. I am so stuck. I came across your videos last night. Normally I listen to scary stories to fall asleep, but you popped up. Ive been watching you all morning. I've been needing a female mentor for a long time. I just want to say thank you, I already feel like I am gaining some tools to move forward.

    • @melrobbins
      @melrobbins  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so glad you cam upon my video!! I hope my content will help you feel unstuck and give you the tools to be successful going forward ❤️

  • @MNP208
    @MNP208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this!!! I got through my first marathon (in my 50's) just this way!! Baby steps along the way and knowing what obstacles I would encounter.

    • @melrobbins
      @melrobbins  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's incredible!!

    • @SimplyOneSound
      @SimplyOneSound 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah but you knew those things would happen. You cannot know everything that is gonna to happen with certain goals. You cannot know all secondary causes. Training you brain for mental toughness and using God are two different things. Training yourself to not loose faith and to keep going is not manifesting lol. That is not the primary cause. The primary cause is the power. It is has simple as that. This is basic stuff lol. I agree vision boards are dumb because they have nothing to do with manifesting other than helping you get clear on your goals.

  • @noblesinghraina
    @noblesinghraina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AWESOME THANK YOU VERY MUCH MEL

  • @annetteflowers5921
    @annetteflowers5921 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @marinnisu5665
    @marinnisu5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @renaemyers9641
    @renaemyers9641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to her always gives me chills

  • @parrotlover9035
    @parrotlover9035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I get the point, and it makes sense. Just briefly imagine a challenge - don't give it much attention - then invoke positive energy by envisioning how you overcome the challenge and get closer to your goal. It reaffirms your determination, so when the reality of obstacles happens, you've already trained yourself to not let them trip you up. Brilliant!!

    • @andredarin8966
      @andredarin8966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why imagine a challenge that may never appear? What’s the difference between that an imagining being diagnosed with a disease you may never have?

  • @lex8799
    @lex8799 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Mel Robbins 🌎

  • @joeboulden7042
    @joeboulden7042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful insight here!

  • @philiplisondra2542
    @philiplisondra2542 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is GOLD!!!

  • @BroGilbert
    @BroGilbert 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lot's of wisdom in this Mel ⚡️

  • @Joe161964
    @Joe161964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    🙏🏿Thank you! I couldn't understand why I never bought into the Vision Board concept...but you broke it down brilliantly. Glad this video popped up.

  • @PraxisOfHealthBillFaulkner
    @PraxisOfHealthBillFaulkner 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish this was the first video in L.O.A. I came across. In my opinion, there's so many teachers on TH-cam that is teaching this wrong! I was one of many who was financially broke when I learned about LOA and everyone I came across instructed me to create a vision board of my wealthy life. For years I didn't get remotely close to attracting what was on my board. In fact, my financial situation got worse because I was always thinking of the end result and not visualizing of the next step! Thank you both for clarification!!!

  • @RICHGIRLASMR
    @RICHGIRLASMR 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Mel!

  • @n-dowd7372
    @n-dowd7372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so true my first vision board was more about building my confidence and being emotionally healthy to be prepared for my ultimate goal. It was so beautiful looking back seeing my manifesting skills work. I do boards every year for mostly smaller goals and a few big goals. It's been a gamechanger for me ❤

    • @lilij1915
      @lilij1915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vision boards work for you then?

    • @SimplyOneSound
      @SimplyOneSound 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilij1915 no they dont work. They are solely for clarifying your vision. That is literally step 1.

    • @lilij1915
      @lilij1915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SimplyOneSound how many steps are there?

  • @patrice7p
    @patrice7p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God, finally someone who sees the problem with only visualising the result. I thought something is wrong with me, i did that only to find myself getting exactly the opposite. But in understand why: the gap was too great and made me feel like it was too hard, like i was a failure, like it was impossible to get there, feeling the lack of the thing I desired. Now i visualise AND DO small steps first, to get familiar with my goal. Like if you want to win a marathon visuslize yourself running just like Mel said, but also start in reality running for a few minutes at first. Thank you for your excellent advice, i will definitely implement that!

  • @AizaKhan28
    @AizaKhan28 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank You Ladyy❤❤❤

  • @alizemontoya6609
    @alizemontoya6609 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you added how he said he would visualize the obstacles ANDDD how to deal with the obstacles >>

  • @user-ps4vx9rk4d
    @user-ps4vx9rk4d 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is insanely good!

  • @Ann-xs7xk
    @Ann-xs7xk ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing explanation ❤️

  • @jodief8371
    @jodief8371 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant!

  • @Paintmylips
    @Paintmylips 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best! Thank you so much

  • @meghabhagat4972
    @meghabhagat4972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the masterpiece Mel 😎

  • @SimplyOneSound
    @SimplyOneSound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    (I've further thought it over because I don't want to be bias)
    If you're confused:
    1. Mel Robbins is 100% correct. Let me explain. She is teaching people how to practice aka prepare the body and mind for the work. How to tangibly or physically BE the person who has the goal.
    2. She is NOT teaching people how to use the Law of Attraction. She is teaching people how to do the ACTION part.
    3. The attraction part is solely due to the mind. BUT if you don't do the action part you will not manifest it or receive it. It has been well documented of this problem and it is why a lot of people fail at using mental science. Mental science being science of the mind NOT neural science. This is why I dislike those who only follow Neville because they seem to not always understand all the facets of action.
    4. If you do the ACTION part and DON'T do the attraction part you will also fail. Many people who order their lives rightly in all other ways FAIL because they are ignorant of the attraction part. I know of many real examples. Even examples like once they became aware of the attraction part they then started doing good, even though the action part did not alter in any way... Also the law of attraction is a secondary law. The law of vibration when used for obtaining your goal will put you in the vibration or attitude you need to be in to make the Correct decisions and actions. If you are in doubt you will not be making the right decisions and actions unless you are doing something you already know how to do and even then you will still fail in the end like I said early.
    5. Visual Boards do NOT work; she is correct. But let me tell you why: "Something more is necessary, however, than merely to see the picture clearly. If that is all you do, you are only a dreamer, and will have little or no power for accomplishment." The vision boards ONLY PURPOSE is to help in clarifying your vision of what it is you want. That is it!
    6. Should you visualize OVERCOMING obstacles that may occur?
    A) It is up to you. If you have a strong faith, then I do not think you need to. The key is to not let your outer world control your thinking and emotions. If you do that you will keep going with strong mental toughness no matter what. The outer appearance of things trick you. Stop looking to the outside to see if it is working. Your understanding knows that it is working. BUT if your faith wavers, then that is BAD. You are attracting the opposite of what you want ever hour and day you spend in doubt, worry, and fear. Not only that you will begin to make the wrong decisions because you are being lead by a negative attitude. Trust me, I know this from experience back when I didn't understand this much. Lost a lot of things I gained. You want to gain and keep. Faith can also be created and strengthen without doing what she said too. I explain later on.
    B) If you know that temporary defeat or what looks like it in your outer world will cause you to lose your faith and your positive attitude then do what she said to do. Look it is not your concern what happens in the bridge. Your only concern is your will. That is what she is teaching you. You must will yourself to BE the person that has obtained the goal. That person can overcome... That person doesn't sleep in... That person doesn't over party with friends... That person has great faith... That person has an expectant attitude... However you get these things to be true for you DOESN'T MATTER
    By visualizing the bad parts, you're not believing those negative things will 100% happen. But even if they do happen you will be prepared unlike those who did not visual it. Assuming they don't have a strong faith that is. Your only task is the action part, you must BE truly the person who has the goal. She is teaching you how. But here is what Wallace Wattles says about it:
    "you cannot tell how you will want to act in any future contingency until that contingency has arrived... And do not spend time in the present taking thought as to the best course in possible future emergencies; have faith in your ability to meet any emergency when it arrives."
    8. How does the Law of Attraction part work?
    A) You get a clear and definite vision of what you want (vision board or on a paper or just your mind)
    B) Then you claim that vision for yourself in your consciousness. You do that by getting emotionally involved with the vision. You must have emotional faith and be emotionally involved with your goal all the time. Emotionally believe it is already done. Every outgoing wave of emotional faith will produce a more stronger belief in your paradigm. Assuming you retain your faith and do not swing back and forth between faith and doubt. The paradigm is what makes it more and more NATURAL. You can use any emotion. If you feel with deep sadness that you have won the award and do the action part to win it... You will win the award. Odd huh? If you feel with gratitude you have won the award and do the action part, you will win the award. When you exactly win the award cannot be controlled though. Sorry. This is why faith is so important. You have to retain it. Btw I am not saying you should use negative emotions on purpose... If you have negative emotions just use them productively as fuel, DONT push them down. Keep in mind you can control your emotions by choosing to think the right way. But regardless of positive or negative emotions FAITH must be retained.
    9. Summary of all the stuff I wrote:
    Mel Robbins is teaching you the action part. You will fail without the action part. I promise you that. She is NOT teaching you the attraction part. Without the attraction part you will also fail. If you have the action part, most likely, you will unconsciously being doing the attraction part. The attraction part is always going whether you believe in it or not.
    The main point in visualizing overcoming the bad is to retain faith and mental toughness. That is all. Lastly, yes vision boards don't work. Listen to this lady. She is not just saying stuff that has no validity.
    - If you see any of my other comments, disregard them because it is before I sat down and really thought about what she said.

    • @sweetsue4204
      @sweetsue4204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s focused on all that hard work in the middle, work you’re going to naturally be doing anyway, without all that preloaded effort internally. Have some faith in the vision. Have more fun with it. Watch wonder open up before you over and over again. Of course there will be hard work. No one denies that, but when you get that energy stream going it feels like fun work, like work you thrill to get done. Even the hard stuff becomes something you look forward to.
      I have a deep faith - backed up by a lifetime of evidence - that jumping directly to the peaceful knowing it is done creates wonder that appears at times to be magical. I think of it as normal. 😁

  • @govindgargi27
    @govindgargi27 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes !! This is exactly what I needed to hear. Absolute logic ❤️
    Keep guiding like this. Stay blessed 🙃

  • @DJAvalonArizona
    @DJAvalonArizona 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mel always speaks the truth. I uh, need to amend my vision board, looks like 😆

  • @carolbottura
    @carolbottura 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I listen to this and I remember you said the exact same thing on the High 5 habit audio book.

  • @michealallenn4616
    @michealallenn4616 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts ....mindsett ...fi straight ....pan d journey

  • @charlesbukowski7730
    @charlesbukowski7730 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am going to visualize the horrible stuff more often!
    This remind me of the stoic tecnique of "negative visualization"!

  • @poopsie280
    @poopsie280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mel, that was so damn cool.. Thank you!

  • @BobbyS.Taylor
    @BobbyS.Taylor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know I was doing it wrong..lol. thanks Mel❣❣ You are so awesome

  • @FallForwardTv888
    @FallForwardTv888 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you, Mel. 😩

  • @bobbiejo8993
    @bobbiejo8993 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mel is so awesome

  • @marialeemlb1574
    @marialeemlb1574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    loved this - truth

  • @eytschmaen
    @eytschmaen ปีที่แล้ว

    Visualize deeply enjoying the "hard work" that it takes, in order to fulfill your life purpose, because you're on a mission. That's much deeper than just visualizing about getting things.

  • @RevealerOfNow
    @RevealerOfNow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Visualization of hard work manifests the hard work. I feel she's saying this to get people into a state of allowing/acceptance. Yes there are things that could be "hard" along the way , it's hard because you said it's hard and have accepted it as such. Manifestation is easy, we're doing it now, now, now. Always manifesting.
    Neville Goddard "Live in the end" the bridge creates itself. It's not a 'Doing' it's 'Being'.
    Hermes: "That which is, is manifested; that which has been or shall be, is unmanifested, but not dead; for Soul, the eternal activity of God, animates All things."

  • @estherkinzelmann4875
    @estherkinzelmann4875 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it. Amazing good 👍

  • @ms.vickieb
    @ms.vickieb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yea!!! This reminds me of when my husband says sorry u have to go to work and I’m like I’m not. I’m glad I can work.

  • @patrice7p
    @patrice7p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is soooo right!!!

  • @vasudhasharma9004
    @vasudhasharma9004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Mel. Sometimes I watched videos on a mute because of auto-captions and I love to watch videos on mute kindly put captions on your all videos. It's a humble request, lots of people cannot hear properly so they read the caption.😊😊

  • @antoniolangle4472
    @antoniolangle4472 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great! It gave me a clear insight of what I should be focusing on.
    Just one thing…
    isn’t visualizing the bad stuff attracting the bad stuff in some way shape or form flyer it to happen?

  • @sunidhirao4651
    @sunidhirao4651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! ❤

  • @ERICACAMPBELLVIDEO
    @ERICACAMPBELLVIDEO 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow wow, thank you!

  • @andyh5022
    @andyh5022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “You don’t change the score by watching the scoreboard.” ~ Vince Lombardi

    • @user-qe7bt9dz1l
      @user-qe7bt9dz1l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No I change the scoreboard by visualizing a different number. Source: Double slit experiment.

    • @lovepeacebliss
      @lovepeacebliss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah u visulize the scoreboard and feel the feelings of winning.

  • @MohammadAli-cq6qg
    @MohammadAli-cq6qg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true I was very demotivated

  • @klevykids
    @klevykids 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But in general, these are great tips- " resilience ", AKS immunity and preparedness!

  • @meham6954
    @meham6954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always visualise myself getting through the worst. Like if I m continuously getting stuck at same problem I visualise next time getting thru it. And then the next step n next. It's a bridge. It's a road / journey to that big thing I'd want to end up to. I visualise having more energy or not getting tired when I'm doing a certain work etc. It's a childhood habit. But then since Mel has pointed out. Makes sense that y ppl get intimidated by the big things they don't even believe they can have or they don't mean anything to them!

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    *"It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light." - Aristotle Onassis*

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    *5 things to quit right now:*
    *1. Overthinking*
    *2. Trying to make everyone happy*
    *3. Living in the past*
    *4. Worrying*
    *5. Doubting yourself*

  • @rebeccacarnagerampage888
    @rebeccacarnagerampage888 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a an up-and-coming pro fighter myself and this has helped me massively ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @stephanie-nl6ud
      @stephanie-nl6ud ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you really need help?
      I can recommend you to the same very powerful spiritualist who can help you manifest whoever and whatever you wish within 48hrs.

    • @stephanie-nl6ud
      @stephanie-nl6ud ปีที่แล้ว

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      @stephanie-nl6ud ปีที่แล้ว

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      @stephanie-nl6ud ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @easygrs8745
    @easygrs8745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @sylvier333
    @sylvier333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 💐❤️

  • @martita833
    @martita833 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great 👍💯

  • @xmeerzx
    @xmeerzx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Visualize the journey instead of the destination. In other words, chase feelings instead of chasing goals

  • @jlib7389
    @jlib7389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very very interesting

  • @meshap.8713
    @meshap.8713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear this. Thank you Mel!

  • @LittleTut
    @LittleTut 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just can't just sit and look at the vision board, you have to make physical and mental moves to get those things on that vision board or what have you; i.e.., registering that new business, opening open a business banking account, learning that new skill, etc. 😊

  • @justbeegreen
    @justbeegreen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    An honest look into The Secret will show you it's just a regurgitation of the book, Think and Grow Rich. I understand that MLMs support this, and some encourage this kind of thinking and spiritual bypassing so they can sell as much product as possible. In fact, that kind of "business" model (which is protected, but it really it should be the consumers that are protected from such predatory practices) and the culture it resides in (a.k.a. the broader culture that we live in) will shame people for their current situation (hence the studio and dirty litterbox reference). We need to take an honest look at our culture that demands that people pull themselves up by their bootstraps (focus on the individual and "survival of the fittest" - which has been debunked) rather than cultivating emotional intelligence and maturity and a healthier group think - the foundation to success.