What's Your Strict Parents' Most Absurd Rule? (r/AskReddit)

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  • AskReddit People who grew up with strict parents, what was the most absurd rule you had to live by? Leave a Like if u liked the video, also SUBSCRIBE for more of the best NEW r/AskReddit Stories! Thanks for watching! ;d

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  • @pretendihaveacoolname1597
    @pretendihaveacoolname1597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1214

    These aren't parents strict, these are abusive control - freaks

    • @goodpastadoggo7665
      @goodpastadoggo7665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      except the sims one, those were strict

    • @orestisx
      @orestisx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @Barak Dosunmu and many of them were abusive
      Not so physically but mostly mentally
      For example the guy has depression and his fucking stupid parents said it wasn't allowed
      And then his parents are going to wonder why isn't their kid visiting them

    • @mageshgopi3594
      @mageshgopi3594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@orestisx that guy's story hit me like a brick. Worst thing in the world is letting your parents give yu schizophrenia as a gift for growing up

    • @orestisx
      @orestisx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mageshgopi3594 ikr
      Worst thing is that some will act like they don't know anything and like they are innocent

    • @dxsolate
      @dxsolate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Barak Dosunmu some of them were

  • @aidenfrost7008
    @aidenfrost7008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5697

    These parents aren’t strict they’re just abusive

    • @ThatFadedAsian
      @ThatFadedAsian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Road to tell is paved with good intentions, none more so than parenting.

    • @bobthemonkey7313
      @bobthemonkey7313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      The first one about sims is kinda funny

    • @Minokumi
      @Minokumi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That's not rlly abusive

    • @christineoneal666
      @christineoneal666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @Rubens D. Both abusive and stupid

    • @user-lk7zs8ts7f
      @user-lk7zs8ts7f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      some arent that bad

  • @finnquitno9917
    @finnquitno9917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Who else just wished they were in these kids shoes for a day so you could retaliate. Like Bruh I was raging after every story.

    • @panzerpack9208
      @panzerpack9208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, I thought at almost every story how hard I should slap/punch these parents.

    • @Dirigo244
      @Dirigo244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      if I could have lived as them For a day I would have given the parents a piece of my mind

    • @paulfuray8557
      @paulfuray8557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea, nearly every story enough to piss anyone off 😡. Parents are super strict, borderline control freaks.
      Feel sorry for the kids, and you wonder why some kids run away from home.

    • @bukkitt2725
      @bukkitt2725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This happens to me everyday, and i always retaliate and I always get grounded for it but I don't care.

    • @96_stars22
      @96_stars22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It must be worth it to be honest

  • @Alex-go8mf
    @Alex-go8mf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    The most absurd rule I could think my parents ever did was “No phones at the table”. Why was it absurd you may ask? Because they used their phones. At. The. Table. They gave up on that rule though after me and my siblings did it so much.

    • @DavidZakuzaRyutashi
      @DavidZakuzaRyutashi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is very tame compared to everything else in this comment section and the video.

    • @l-3832
      @l-3832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s just hypocrisy. It’s not as bad as the stuff in the video or in the comments. It’s very mild tbh.

    • @RandomHandleLol1738
      @RandomHandleLol1738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Honey Bee I can’t tell if you’re being serious or not, can you please clarify?

    • @parryhotter8717
      @parryhotter8717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Honey Bee well, is this sarcasm? Please tell me it is.

    • @Pr0pheceye
      @Pr0pheceye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol my parents have that rule. When I tell them no phones at the table and they laugh and put their phones away.

  • @kyledonnelly1521
    @kyledonnelly1521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2119

    These people are bullies, trust me if someone was watching them, they would stop. Its because no one can watch them, total cowards.

    • @corpsecove5792
      @corpsecove5792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yea but my parents didnt give a shit and did half the shit in front of people

    • @kusogaki_shion
      @kusogaki_shion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ha! You called them "people"😂

    • @kyledonnelly1521
      @kyledonnelly1521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@corpsecove5792 then you were surrounded by assholes

    • @jimmycarter8129
      @jimmycarter8129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mean to be real for once the reason why we have them is because. They here to protect us and make sure we are safe. But don’t get me wrong there some that are pretty stupid, and some of them don’t make any sense but we should show respect for people who grew up on scrict

    • @jimmycarter8129
      @jimmycarter8129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Parents because they raised us in this world also I couldn’t spell scrict right

  • @dillabong1897
    @dillabong1897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    Should be called “how not to raise children” my god some of these people should be in jail

    • @marvelcjp-inactive3285
      @marvelcjp-inactive3285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      dllon hill Ikr! I think the mom that thinks not having a good day isn't allowed should be in jail.

    • @astroturtle6855
      @astroturtle6855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just jail isint good enough for some people

    • @thegreatdestiny
      @thegreatdestiny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Plot twist: he meant the kids should go to jail

    • @remiliasca
      @remiliasca 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      especially the bus one

  • @deadmeme4058
    @deadmeme4058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    I wish my parents are not like:
    "If you don't work hard, you will end up like a trash picker on the street!"
    And more like:
    "If you work hard, you might one day be the one to help the life of that trash picker :)"

    • @dasyoutubeklohauschen
      @dasyoutubeklohauschen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ...Same here, bro.

    • @margaritamikalauskaite9875
      @margaritamikalauskaite9875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exact same but only my mum says this

    • @averagecheeseenjoyer5430
      @averagecheeseenjoyer5430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Srsly, it doesnt matter about what job, it matters of how you serve the others with heart.

    • @Rr444rrrwwwww
      @Rr444rrrwwwww 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally if they hear what those parents say
      They might even have a Harvard degree but they're doing it cus they have a good heart
      They shouldn't be used as an example of "dO tHiS oR yOu'Ll EnD uP lIkE tHaT pErSoN oVeR tHerE"

    • @yaboythepizzaboi
      @yaboythepizzaboi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always hated it when my parents did that because I would think to myself "well some one has to do it."

  • @jerrypressley4424
    @jerrypressley4424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Me: “ what chapter of the book do you want me to get to? “
    Mom: “ chapter 4 “
    Me: *reads to chapter 5 just because*
    Mom: yOURE SUPPOSED TO GET TO CHAPTER 6
    Me: but you texted me to get to chapter 4-
    Mom: YOURE gRROUNDED FOR UNTIL I THINK YOURE RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH
    Me: . . .

    • @codygaming181
      @codygaming181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jerry Pressley exactly

    • @redthered279
      @redthered279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I REALLY HATE WHEN THEY SOLVE THIER MISTAKES BY PUNISHING US

  • @darkdjinniumbrage7798
    @darkdjinniumbrage7798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7213

    Parents do stuff like this then wonder why their kids won't talk to them

    • @gryffonrider2591
      @gryffonrider2591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Yeah. This hasn’t happened to me yet. Very nice parents. Just get mad if I’m playing something in the middle of going to bed or needing to eat dinner. Other then that very understanding. Since my family are ALL GAMERS ( YES!! )
      But yeah. You go and pass on these strict rules or costume made rules that they have to follow. Then when they are older they complain and bitch to you about why your so rude to them. Honestly if parents are like that. Once you have stable income and a good home to live in. You can just lose all contact with them at that point.

    • @spookykitty72
      @spookykitty72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      We👏dont👏have👏the👏balls

    • @chevyfan7930
      @chevyfan7930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @KristapsJJ thats a nes clone

    • @jasonfaber1463
      @jasonfaber1463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lucas Watkins correct but both my parents have passed but I did my best to move but once I left I laid down the law with me. Only language both my parents seemed to know was brutal knock em did fight and I hate to use the word violence.

    • @jasonfaber1463
      @jasonfaber1463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      When I was home my parents tried to control me by saying they would call the police on me. Continued into my early twenties till one day I literally threw punches and fought back. Oh since my dad knew the police he did call them...they did nothing to me. Seemed they knew how abusive they were and they wanted to cover it all up from getting public because he held public office.

  • @LatinMiracle
    @LatinMiracle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4965

    And yet the parents wonder why their children dump them in a retirement home and never visit.

    • @krankerspast769
      @krankerspast769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      That one had some impact

    • @user-uz2qz6wu9c
      @user-uz2qz6wu9c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Damn. Never had tought about that

    • @ANDELLARIA
      @ANDELLARIA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      The second one was sad

    • @jesga0
      @jesga0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      this is exactly what i am going to do with my parents, especially my dad, i hate them so much

    • @kyro1094
      @kyro1094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Bin Laden farofeiro care to explain what they did to make you hate them so much?

  • @emilyjoy4623
    @emilyjoy4623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Parents: Let's cure my child's depression by taking away the things that make them happy!

    • @pxrcivxl
      @pxrcivxl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True!

    • @marisleong8725
      @marisleong8725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      "my kid says he is depressed. i already took his phone away. is there anything else i can do to get him out of this pHaSe?"

    • @WonderThunder20
      @WonderThunder20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Relatable 100

    • @mrmaaf1443
      @mrmaaf1443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marisleong8725 bruh depression is a phase in most cases

    • @marisleong8725
      @marisleong8725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mrmaaf1443 yeah but it usually doesn't just wear off after a while which is what i think a phase would be, like it's not as if you suddenly were like nah i don't like depression and you weren't depressed, u had to do something to get out of that stage

  • @woahitskani303
    @woahitskani303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    These are my parents rules: I’m not allowed to have any social media until 18 I’m not allowed to wear shorts or skirts out of the house, I’m not allowed to go to any of my friends house I’m not allowed to have friends that are guys, I broke all of these rules lmao

    • @seekerrekees
      @seekerrekees 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Brilliant job breaking those rules xD I was never allowed to go outside of my house to play with my friends which turned me into an introvert and then they go, "Why are you always in your room?"
      Bruh moment

    • @glendeaton4470
      @glendeaton4470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Some rules are meant to be broken

    • @giantcafe7040
      @giantcafe7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolute Truthseeker wow..that opened my eyes

    • @minecraftroksiak3306
      @minecraftroksiak3306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, I DON'T LIKE GIRLS ( i'm an one). I have only guyz friends

    • @legrandliseurtri7495
      @legrandliseurtri7495 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@minecraftroksiak3306 Are you aware that people under 13 technically don't have the right to use youtube?

  • @yoshifan2334
    @yoshifan2334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2813

    These kinds of stories are why people say a parenting license should exist

    • @sapphirestar3978
      @sapphirestar3978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Agreed

    • @Hobo_Knight
      @Hobo_Knight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      like Eugenics?

    • @hubbcap18
      @hubbcap18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      literally no way to enforce that. You think you can keep kids and/or stupid people from fucking? Not a chance. Think the government should just steal babies from kids/stupid people having them? Now you're asking for more problems than it would solve. Who's gonna pay for it? Who's going to decide which people aren't fit enough to be parents? Who's going to keep the people having their children stolen from them from rising up and revolting? Think cops/military people aren't going to be strict parents and come off a bit like these people?
      Everyone gets to mess up their kids in whatever they end up getting messed up in. As a general rule of thumb, so long as you tried to do your best and kept them from becoming dead till they are 18, you have succeeded.

    • @cloudanimal5209
      @cloudanimal5209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If this was a thing, that means government would be regulating something extremely essential to the survival and evolution of our species. Any way that people would decide whether people are allowed to be parents or not would be biased and case-by-case, which would basically be artificial selection for humans. It’s super fucked up.

    • @Hobo_Knight
      @Hobo_Knight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@cloudanimal5209 But wouldn't the end justify the means? to end the suffering of millions by making sure that only the elite and worthy exist? to have quality over quantity could help in the long run and to say no would also be wrong, as we are enabling man to keep in it's animal state and not to be the overman.

  • @Dudevizz3
    @Dudevizz3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1048

    And these people wonder why their children grow up to resent them.

    • @somedude4392
      @somedude4392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      fuck that, they’re going into a retirement home.

    • @Flappybirdys
      @Flappybirdys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Some Dude yeah. If that was my parents been that abusive they’d pay for their own retirement home too. But luckily my parents are the best parents every and I plan to earn enough money to allow my parents to retire a lot earlier because they’ve done so much for me. I can never pay them back enough. I am so grateful after watching this video.

    • @EthanTheGamer77
      @EthanTheGamer77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Flappybirdys luckily my parents are good. Yeah I get told off every once in a while but my parents are very kind to me and my sister

    • @Sgt_Glory
      @Sgt_Glory 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Flappybirdys Same, I feel the ones of us who got stable, non-abusive parents won a lottery. The least we can do is our best to ensure they have a comfortable life when elderly.

    • @HoChiMango
      @HoChiMango 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glory I wish I was as lucky as you. My parents are always invading my privacy and don’t respect my opinion. After 2 years of asking to go see a therapist the finally let me go but then threaten to cancel meetings when I don’t listen to them. I don’t like talking to people and my parents don’t seem to understand that. They are constantly going through my text, search history, and watch history. They pressure me way too much to do good in school and have caused many mental problems. I have anxiety about my weight and how people see me. I have trust issues because I bottle up my emotions because I don’t feel like I can trust anyone. I barely talk to anybody anymore cause I feel like they are going to judge me. You are so lucky. They still love me, but I don’t know how to accept their love because I don’t trust you them.

  • @minecrash101
    @minecrash101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "Don't be in any way sad, and here's every reason to be sad about"

  • @jotarosans7540
    @jotarosans7540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    My friend (from another school) has a classmate we will call him John. His parents beat him to study his homework, even though he always gets 20/20 (high school) at tests. One day, he got 19/20. He cried a lot

    • @melonysyrup5975
      @melonysyrup5975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My parents. Exactly my parents.

    • @curtisg8399
      @curtisg8399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Misty Roses stfu you fucking idiot

    • @jotarosans7540
      @jotarosans7540 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@curtisg8399 ...

    • @jotarosans7540
      @jotarosans7540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@curtisg8399 calm down

    • @curtisg8399
      @curtisg8399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SansTVYT ok but the reason I got so mad at misty roses was because she is probably in 5th grade and her parents tell her to get off to roblox and she asks like her parents are as bad as the ones your friend has

  • @kylejohnson5179
    @kylejohnson5179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +814

    God, a lot of parents on here are so hypocritical. They don’t know what logic is.

    • @cloudanimal5209
      @cloudanimal5209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Kyle Johnson yeah it’s like they’ve never even watched star trek

    • @benbelt5849
      @benbelt5849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cloudanimal5209 I think you mean Richard and Mortimer

    • @mollyfromacnh9973
      @mollyfromacnh9973 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly.

    • @mixalhspapadopoulos6421
      @mixalhspapadopoulos6421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oh i see you have a terraria icon maybe you meant to say *re-logic*

    • @ClintRayJohnson
      @ClintRayJohnson 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your profile picture gives me WoF PTSD.

  • @hannahmonflippt10
    @hannahmonflippt10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    It would be great if (going forward) people refer to these kinds of parents as 'toxic' or 'abusive' (if they are). A lot of these parents are extremely toxic and are, frankly, just treating their kids like shit because they can. That isn't 'strict'.

    • @mardy3732
      @mardy3732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah, strict doesn't mean bad parenting.

    • @artificerdrachen6908
      @artificerdrachen6908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Practically just borderline legal slavery, minors practically almost only have animal rights until they turn 18.

    • @JustFun-eq2kz
      @JustFun-eq2kz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OK smart-ass

    • @Chris-vd5sz
      @Chris-vd5sz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JustFun-eq2kz ok, boomer

  • @oAura7
    @oAura7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    My strict parents:
    *insult me*
    *Almost 1000000 rules*
    Me:
    *accidenatally isults mum*
    My mum: *runs behind me with flipflop*

    • @rx-7enjoyer893
      @rx-7enjoyer893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      F

    • @marranin007
      @marranin007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Idiot its not a flipflop its *_l a c h a n c l a_*

    • @ongodnowayfrongod
      @ongodnowayfrongod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you got thonged

    • @Cereal0606
      @Cereal0606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Asian parents, lol I can relate

    • @oAura7
      @oAura7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marranin007 yes XD

  • @unsettled3943
    @unsettled3943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My mom used reads and snoops through my phone all the time. It’s caused a lot of paranoia and insecurities. It also caused me to be suspiciously overprotective of my electronic devices.

    • @Stereo6400
      @Stereo6400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @gregoryg.402
      @gregoryg.402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same. I'm not a bad kid but she makes me feel like I'm constantly doing something wrong. . .

    • @Sunshine-eo2sp
      @Sunshine-eo2sp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Depends on age imo. If my kid was 13 or 14 id prob check their phone too. Especially if I'm paying for it. If they're paying for they're own then it's on them imo

    • @infernalsunflower8435
      @infernalsunflower8435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Sunshine-eo2sp but kids, especially teenagers, deserve and need privacy. What if they're in the closet or have things they don't feel comfortable talking to their parents about? Would you read they're diaries? Parents who give children no privacy end up fucking that kid up in the head.

    • @sofiaaa3120
      @sofiaaa3120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ur mom is probably reading this. Hi random person’s mom! U sound like a helicopter mom

  • @Jonpro10012
    @Jonpro10012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    I would cut contact with at keast 90% of these parents.

    • @Anoffexample
      @Anoffexample 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Margin of error: 10%

    • @dethkruzer
      @dethkruzer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Pretty sure some of those people deserve to have their house burned down

    • @Anoffexample
      @Anoffexample 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Matthew Beck Yh but being forced to wash feet under scolding lava isnt exactly a luxurious experience

    • @everybodyeverything7997
      @everybodyeverything7997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      90%? Best an believe it's gonna be 💯%

    • @justaguy4081
      @justaguy4081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@everybodyeverything7997 Well no... Me as someone who experienced a hypocrite mum, knows why it's hard to cut contact with your parents. I hate my mother more than any other person on earth but my dad is kinda nice. The only thing I can blame him for is for not doing enough against my mum but besides that he was OK. To this day I don't understand why he stayed with my mum. I never spoked with him about that but he seemed like he hate her too or at least doesn't love her anymore. For my dad I even tried to forgive my mum but she hasn't changed at all and doesn't even realize how bad of a person she is. That would be the bare minimum I could live with her. My family lives in Germany... at the time I live in Paris for a year and I have enough time and distance to think about it.

  • @LittleMissDeath
    @LittleMissDeath 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1439

    “That’s not how real life works”
    Meanwhile, male Sims get pregnant during alien abdication, cowplants, zombies, become president in like a week, etc.
    Ok.

    • @_.laartje._6790
      @_.laartje._6790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      IAmDeath *don’t forget the rodents who take a rocket ship to outer space and bring back a post card for you!

    • @Sss12698
      @Sss12698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      IAmDeath you forgot boomer

    • @fyra_cat2119
      @fyra_cat2119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And after you meet a girl in sims, you can be married and with her pregnant in the next day

    • @LittleMissDeath
      @LittleMissDeath 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Liam da blanket woomy The next hour, if your play your cards right.

    • @fyra_cat2119
      @fyra_cat2119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LittleMissDeath true, true

  • @juliahnarose3385
    @juliahnarose3385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That one with the severe depression and anxiety is so sad. I feel so bad for them, I know what it’s like for people to say stuff like “why are you sad your life is so prefect”. It sucks

  • @Russia_Moscow_countryhuman
    @Russia_Moscow_countryhuman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    "9: 30 lights out!" That's *_generous._* I had lights out at 7: 00, in the *_Summer_*

    • @backspaced
      @backspaced 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel sorry for you.

    • @Sunshine-eo2sp
      @Sunshine-eo2sp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've heard of parents like that. Like dude it's not possible for a high schooler to get a job at that point.

    • @kalyansinha100
      @kalyansinha100 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      depends on where u live

    • @AustinWTchoi
      @AustinWTchoi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I could only stay up to 11pm, and they'd watch tv on the pc all the way to 10:40 and expect me to be happy about 20 mins of time.

  • @K0890
    @K0890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1131

    my mom said we had to be home when the streetlight came on regardless of the time. That rule backfired when the light malfunctioned and would stay on 24/7.
    mom: why the hell arent you at school?
    me: streetlights on, I had to be home.

    • @georgek4416
      @georgek4416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh

    • @genericname4206
      @genericname4206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      gg

    • @gryffonrider2591
      @gryffonrider2591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      God that’s silly. Have to be home when the street lights are on even during daytime. Then complain why your not at school then complain about why your not at home. Parents are such idiots 🤦‍♂️

    • @christineoneal666
      @christineoneal666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      well played K, well played

    • @jasonfaber1463
      @jasonfaber1463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      My day kids would take BB guns and shoot the street lights out.

  • @spikegilfer1997
    @spikegilfer1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    These are the kinds of people who act surprised when their kids come into their nursing home with a sledgehammer.

    • @NoName-ms8jb
      @NoName-ms8jb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did that actually happen?

    • @awesomekingakathe66bro36
      @awesomekingakathe66bro36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ok, don’t think that’s what the kids should do, think they should just avoid their parents for the rest of their lives

    • @randysmith4852
      @randysmith4852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LMAO

    • @PITMGN7
      @PITMGN7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@awesomekingakathe66bro36 I think you should get that this is a fucking joke lmao

    • @Heburntmyshake
      @Heburntmyshake 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@awesomekingakathe66bro36 no if I was abused like some of the worse cases here, they wouldn't be alive past my 18th birthday

  • @lasagnachan7540
    @lasagnachan7540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I have a friend who is 14 and HAS to go to sleep at 7:00PM. On top of that he can only be friends with certain people that the parents approve of depending on the parents. Poor kid...
    Edit: I have far more points to prove he's mistreated but I don't think he'd like it very much if I spoke of his personal life without him knowing, please bare that in mind.

    • @camelpenguin
      @camelpenguin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sad

    • @dannyabel1585
      @dannyabel1585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      if my parents were like that then I would have no friends at all

    • @MikfinityPog
      @MikfinityPog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      poor kid when there are thousands of children getting beaten with metal rods, bats, whipped, spanked, punched and are just supposed to take it without complaining, maybe it sucks that he has to go to bed at 7 pm but how strict are they on that rule? It's too easy to just stay up, turn the volume of your phone down, brightness down, turn so that the parents don't see the phone if they walk in and just pretend to sleep and drop your phone under your bed or something. Honestly what if the parents of one his friends are druggies? I assume they wouldn't let him not go to their house if the parents were druggies.

    • @lasagnachan7540
      @lasagnachan7540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MikfinityPog he's 13 and treated like a 5 year old..? So yeah, he is a poor kid.

    • @MikfinityPog
      @MikfinityPog 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lasagnachan7540 If you talked to some other children in different situations you would also realize his life isn't that hard, not that it's a bad thing but wake up. I realized that I have a very fortunate life to have some internet it may not be good per say but I have internet and can do activities that some kids my age can't.

  • @gabatnibac3676
    @gabatnibac3676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Parent when I won't talk: You are so talkative here and there, why won't you talk now?
    Parents after I talk: Are you talking back?
    Me: My head hurts.
    Parents: Because you're always on that phone

  • @noralovesgatos
    @noralovesgatos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    My mom : doesn’t talk to me much, lowkey kinda dislikes me, adores brother, calls me a disappointment if I don’t get good grades, never gives me hugs, talks about “wrong” stuff I do behind my back to my other family members, and yells at me all the time
    Also my mom : why doesn’t she talk to me?

    • @Dipstick402
      @Dipstick402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ßoring Räinbøw Might as well cut her off, she’s toxic.

    • @yesthosearemythighs.3312
      @yesthosearemythighs.3312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Ikr? And she even question me why I hate her do much. I mean do you think beating up your own children, cheating on your husband and have a child with a different man and being a person that broke her own family apart would not make me hate her? Those she really think I'm stupid and naive like her? Bitch what the fuck?.

    • @dhoubt7071
      @dhoubt7071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bruh

    • @melonysyrup5975
      @melonysyrup5975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Have an idea: record EVERY SINGLE THING and when she asks again, give her the WHOLE video, even better, show the whole family!

    • @lexxy6305
      @lexxy6305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@melonysyrup5975 ehhh its not that easy
      she would probably just get grounded or yelled at by the mother

  • @Suavesttt
    @Suavesttt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    Strict is a parent setting strong rules to discipline their child. It may seem harsh but it will change the upbringing of their child. The parents in this video are paranoid and insane and extremely controlling, not strict.

    • @argumengenichyperloquaciou4115
      @argumengenichyperloquaciou4115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes but it's still strict. Too much strict is still strict. Too much fire is still fire.

    • @AmadisLFE
      @AmadisLFE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@argumengenichyperloquaciou4115 yeah. But the strictness here is more mental illness too. Like, god damn.

    • @cat1312.
      @cat1312. 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes my parents are like these, it’s annoying as hell

    • @Suavesttt
      @Suavesttt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i am trash I feel for you my friend.

    • @cat1312.
      @cat1312. 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Danald thanks dude

  • @golden_leader9227
    @golden_leader9227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    It's with videos like this that i always think how lucky i've been.
    My parents are the total opposite of these mentally ill/psycho parents.
    Me and my younger brother were always raised equally and thanks to my parents we never badly competed against each other. On the contrary, we always helped each other and the other family members/friends too.
    We grew up in a general catholic environment (not strictly so, just kind of traditional) but when i had confirmations on myself being an atheist i talked about it with mom and dad and they totally supported me, saying that being religious or not is a personal thing and everyone should have the right to be or not to be so.
    My younger brother is an atheist as well, same discussion.
    Even if they didn't go to university, my parents always supported me and my brother with everything they could.
    We both went to university (bro is still taking his second degree) and i have two degrees and a PhD in physics. Bro's studying chemistry.
    We had a lot of experiences, like going out with friends, go on short and long trips to study other languages and make new friends (when we could of course, money doesn't grow on trees) and when they told us 'no' for something they always shared the reasons and it would be a 'no' for the both of us.
    I was always an introvert and someone prone to be bullied, my parents taught me to defend and stand up for myself (not with my hands because violence is generally not allowed for them, but with my brain usually) and when i had stressful periods they always cheered for me and opened me to life.
    They're the most important people in the world for me, my door is always open for them, my brother and best friends.

    • @kin3441
      @kin3441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I watch these videos to feel like I'm not the only one

    • @laurenmtz7014
      @laurenmtz7014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That sounds amazing. Congrats to you and your brother. And well done to your parents for raising you properly💙

    • @golden_leader9227
      @golden_leader9227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@laurenmtz7014 Thank you.
      Tbh, as i said before, a lot of my accomplishments are thanks to my parents.
      I'm really, really lucky to have been born as their daughter.
      And i also love my brother as well, he's a really good person :)

    • @golden_leader9227
      @golden_leader9227 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kin3441 if yours is a case similar to the ones in the video, i'm really sorry for you, really.

    • @Pr0pheceye
      @Pr0pheceye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s awesome, my parents are like that, too.

  • @RandomN0ah07
    @RandomN0ah07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    My toxic friends mothers rule was ‘NO CRYING AT ALLLLL’

    • @nameunlisted002
      @nameunlisted002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      thats just wrong really, why do they do that?

    • @nelo_data4940
      @nelo_data4940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loui Rivera they dont want to hear it duh

    • @RandomN0ah07
      @RandomN0ah07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Loui Rivera apparently “it’s for babbies” but I know it’s not

    • @RandomN0ah07
      @RandomN0ah07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NELO_DATA yea, so? Apparently “crying is for babbies”

    • @nameunlisted002
      @nameunlisted002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Galaxy wolf Girl well that just sucks :/

  • @jarvisfamily3837
    @jarvisfamily3837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    Dear "Screamed At For Doing The Dishes Without Being Reminded" - when I was about 9 years old I got up extra early on a Saturday morning. Both my parents were sound asleep. So I thought, "I know Mom always grumbles about cleaning the floor. I've done it before with her supervising. I've got a great idea! I'll clean the kitchen floor for her - THAT will make her happy!". Did the floor. Parents get up. I tell my mother proudly, "I cleaned and waxed the kitchen floor for you!". Did I hear, "What a thoughtful son. Thank you!". NOPE! I got, "WHAT DID YOU BREAK?!? DON'T LIE TO ME!! I KNOW YOU BROKE SOMETHING!!!!". You're welcome. Last time I ever went out of my for them...
    Cult dude - JW's?

    • @athan13590
      @athan13590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      911 Hello I've got a live case of a man lying to his parents about his motives of hiding something he broke.

    • @maryla3046
      @maryla3046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Same, but i made breakfast for my parents and my dad screamed at my why I am wasting food
      I was like 6 y o and wanted to make them happy

    • @jarvisfamily3837
      @jarvisfamily3837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@athan13590 when I was younger and I did something "bad" I always fessed up. I was told it would go "much worse" if I didn't. However, I noticed that I still got screamed at, got my butt blistered, grounded, etc. Older-but-wiser me realized that if I *didn't* fess up they A) didn't know what had happened, B) would probably take days/weeks/months to find out, and if/when they did C) I could look at them with a look of clueless surprise, say, "Huh?", and they'd figure I was too toopid to have done anything. Moral: if the kids tell you they did something, go easy on them. If kids ask for something and it's reasonable, say "Yes". My parents rule (explained to me years later) was to always say "No" because that would teach me to stand up for what I wanted. Well, NO - it taught me to A) never ask for anything because at best there'd be a major argument/screaming match before I could get it, and (usually) I'd be barred from having/doing whatever I asked about "on general principle", and B) keep my parents in the dark about anything I was doing, good or bad. With my kids, I *want* them to ask for and things, so our rule was to always say "Yes" - *unless* we had a really good reason (like the time fourteen year old daughter said, "Dad, can I go off alone with a bunch of senior boys?" THAT got a big fat NO - and (I'm told) an explanation by my wife as to "why", but in general "Yes" has been the operative word.

    • @DavidNikkiZane
      @DavidNikkiZane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@maryla3046 my fault here.
      I wanted to make my dad a drink because he always had a rockstar when he woke up. I was about 5. So what did I do? I mixed lemon juice (yes, I saw juice and thought it was for drinking) with Rockstar energy drink and placed it upon his chest. Proceeded to JERK HIM AWAKE, so he bolted up and lime juice- Rockstar concoction spewed on the sheets, bedframe, mattress, walls, tv, blinds, and of course him. Oh, I got yelled at. We NEVER could remove the drink from the walls and blinds, so it will be there, rock-hard, FOREVER.

    • @oliwiermikoajczyk9464
      @oliwiermikoajczyk9464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh god is this so true. Except my parents just tell me to start doing something without a reminder, and when i do, my dad always screamed at me like "what did you do? You're grounded!"
      That guy was one hell of a hypocrite.

  • @BlackChanal
    @BlackChanal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    imagine having to go through testing with a psychologist before being legally able to have a child?
    Less overpopulation AND a healthier society!

    • @BlackChanal
      @BlackChanal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @RadTheLad yes, that is true, but to solve that "problem" which isnt a problem yet due to massive space, you just need to introduce how to proper contracept.
      In countries like india and china they are running out of space and the one child rule hasnt really worked out so the ressources are getting to an end.

    • @BlackChanal
      @BlackChanal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @RadTheLad im from germany i know what too many elders really means lol

    • @luanaa.2248
      @luanaa.2248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @RadTheLad The fact that there are more boys than girls, I believe, is because of the priviledge of having a male son over female in chinese culture. Meaning: they kill their newborns in case they're female, the same way they kill 2nd child so they don't face harsh consequences of their policies (unless they flee the country). For me that is not a real solution. I'm not Chinese but this is what I gathered from their situation over the years so I can be wrong.

    • @kavky
      @kavky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luanaa.2248 Not privilege but necessity. In those years when hard labor ensured survival a son could support the family better.

    • @ICEBUNNo
      @ICEBUNNo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Luana Marisa Pereira Almeida Wait... why even have a second child if they just plan on killing them??? Very small brain move.

  • @Daniel-fq8dj
    @Daniel-fq8dj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    7:16 my dad is 40 years old and still watches cartoons, sometimes I will watch them with him.

  • @ebonyharrison9636
    @ebonyharrison9636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My mum made me tell her I wasn't pregnant everyday and when I said no she would not talk to me until the next time she asked.
    This started when I turned 5. Back then I didn't even know what it was

  • @Zeldroids
    @Zeldroids 4 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    As an eight-year-old, whenever I disobeyed, my parents locked me inside a tiny storage closet beneath the stairs for 2 hours. I wasn't allowed to turn on the lights or move at all, and if I left the closet or even as much as open the door a sliver, another hour was added onto my "sentence." Didn't matter who was present at the time either - be it friend, family or the plumber.
    Edit: Brief background: This was at the suggestion of a therapist I had started seeing a month prior, and who later on choked me during a session for refusing to answer her questions while my parents stood in plain view, smiling. 7 years later and I was forced to go to the wedding of that therapist.
    I'm 32 now, a recluse, and have an absolute disdain for people.

    • @dapperdapper3902
      @dapperdapper3902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Wait... Your therapist choked you?

    • @Zeldroids
      @Zeldroids 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@dapperdapper3902 That's correct. All because I wouldn't answer her questions.
      Edit: My parents continued to downplay the incident years after, which is fine. I haven't spoken to them in 12 years. But there's no forgetting trauma like that.

    • @Zeldroids
      @Zeldroids 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@user-sd7ms3sy9q If only my parents shared your sentiment back then...

    • @mangozzz4487
      @mangozzz4487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And I thought my dad was bad, but like torture pure torture so sorry

    • @minyoongi3659
      @minyoongi3659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Fuck your parents, sorry but fuck them

  • @tigorbattalion4889
    @tigorbattalion4889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I felt like i was losing neurons hearing some of these

    • @case3270
      @case3270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not sure if the word is neurons but I get ze point

    • @mr.mcnuggies
      @mr.mcnuggies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You mean braincells

    • @comradedyatlov4143
      @comradedyatlov4143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dumbass, Brain Cells are called Neurons.

  • @onecrazybacon7949
    @onecrazybacon7949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Don’t mind me I’m just taking notes on how not to be a parent.

    • @ootfan7882
      @ootfan7882 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same lowkey

    • @kryoruleroftheninthcircleo4151
      @kryoruleroftheninthcircleo4151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I genuinely got angry at some of these. Some of them seem like health hazards to these kids.

  • @zero_prfctn
    @zero_prfctn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Stupid-ology:parents edition
    Side effects may vary:
    Your child will hate you
    Your child won’t talk to you
    You’ll be a complete idiot
    Author:Karens,stupidly strict parents,and stereotypical parents
    Enjoy!

  • @dakotacollins3818
    @dakotacollins3818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    "You cooked dinner, you have to clean up all of this mess."
    "I just cooked for you, I get a break. Go clean the kitchen."
    We had a small sink with a small strainer, and we used so many dishes during the day plus cooking... I wasnt allowed to let anything soak, I wasnt allowed to fill the drainer and wait to do the rest, I'd get complaints of taking too long to do them, but if I sped up my progress I'd get complaints that they weren't clean enough. Wasnt allowed to use anything but a sponge.
    Came up with the idea of using the (broken) dishwasher as a glorified drainer. My dad came home pissed off and said that's not what that's for and I'm not allowed to do it again. Fast forward two weeks, he asked me why I wasnt using the dishwasher as a drying rack. I reminded him he told me not to. He said "Yeah, but as long as they're dry and put away before I get home, I'll never know."
    LIKE??????
    And that's just the dishes, dont get my started on everything else. I still use dishwashers for this purpose because then at least I know they're 100% clean, and have a place to put them to dry that's not in my way

    • @angelofdeath8739
      @angelofdeath8739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @M J he was an example. Example of a good parent

    • @mgp4447
      @mgp4447 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dakota Collins Exactly what I have to go through doing dishes

    • @kevooo1250
      @kevooo1250 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow you're dad's a fucking dumbass

    • @emu7782
      @emu7782 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My moms bf used to make my sister do this similar thing, but instead when she left the dishes on the drying place, he used to shout at her for not putting them on the oven because the sink gets stained but the oven doesnt?..... Logic.

    • @dakotacollins3818
      @dakotacollins3818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @The Man With No Name I feel this.... during big dinners, I'd have no part in cooking the meal, but i was the only one left to clean the kitchen while everyone else played. Whether I was the youngest one there or not, it always fell to me. And god forbid I call them out for it too

  • @MrTmenzo
    @MrTmenzo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +746

    I wasn't allowed to watch the Simpsons. Because they were yellow, my parents would say the Simpsons are the devil.

    • @RekzysTheTitan
      @RekzysTheTitan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      im glad your parents didn't meet anyone with Jaundice.

    • @xman9354
      @xman9354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      what's next? minions work for satan?

    • @skyhunter2k
      @skyhunter2k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Was football the devil as well

    • @nicholasnguyen5181
      @nicholasnguyen5181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      the doge blame the simpsons premonitions of 9/11 and Donald trump. Not your parents.

    • @littlemeloncoli3017
      @littlemeloncoli3017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I wasn't allowed to watch family guy or south park, normal kinda cause I was 9, but I was allowed to watch the Simpson's, American dad, and other shows like that, just not family guy or south park because they were "inappropriate"

  • @chada.3351
    @chada.3351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    And I thought my parents were strict....

  • @devil_town8544
    @devil_town8544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We all know one of those parents who when their child asks if they need help and they say no but then they go on a whole rant about how they do everything around the house 😑

  • @Whyushady
    @Whyushady 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Just seems like these people’s parents are using them as an outlet for their failures in live

    • @clouds_are_strange1615
      @clouds_are_strange1615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that explains a bit, neither of my parents made it through or to college

    • @neon-kitty2281
      @neon-kitty2281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Clouds_Are_Strange my mom went throught college but landed in a job she hates and with a lower salary than she had before. I basically get the blame for her failures beacuse apparently she decided it was my fault she got pregnant with me when she was 21 and couldnt make a career...im like dafuq i never asked to be born....

    • @bolouxshetnfouk2741
      @bolouxshetnfouk2741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      90% of children born these days are to try to fix a broken marriage.

    • @T4ore.
      @T4ore. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ngl the stepdad not letting his kid in the living room prolly wants to watch pron in peace

  • @walkover-cc1dm
    @walkover-cc1dm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    "Why does my child never contact me?"
    Bruh

    • @Someone-yb2xp
      @Someone-yb2xp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Cuz ur kids hate u dumbass"

    • @astherielleloella-ximena402
      @astherielleloella-ximena402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      After this video, I love my dad and I’m so sorry for every time I was a brat.

  • @evanfelice9166
    @evanfelice9166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Watching this makes me feel soooooo lucky to have my parents who's only rule is no swearing

  • @nhusam9080
    @nhusam9080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Parents : “call us sir and ma’am!”
    Kid : yes ma’am
    Few years later
    Parents : how was you day?
    Kid : It’s was great ma’am!”
    Parents : “
    WE ARE YOUR PARENTS NOT YOUR TEACHER
    OR BOSS”
    Kid : I-

  • @neyster007
    @neyster007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I wasn’t allowed to have female friends, have friends over, go to friends houses, go anywhere with friends and my parents wonder why I have social anxiety.

    • @neyster007
      @neyster007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      SomeGacha Boi YO WHAT THE FUCK

    • @backspaced
      @backspaced 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@stevefan69 I think you said you're trans on another comment. I feel like that may be possibly the reason why your parents did that.( I personally think your parents are being overprotective)

    • @melonysyrup5975
      @melonysyrup5975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES EXACTLY BUT IM THE OPPOSITE GENDER-

    • @laurenmtz7014
      @laurenmtz7014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. I have been isolated for most of my life (they had me in homeschool until 3rd grade). But when I want to hangout with friends, they don't let me. I can't go anywhere without my parents (yet they complain that I'm always indoors). They barely even let me have male friends, but they ask a crap ton of questions about them😑

    • @Rr444rrrwwwww
      @Rr444rrrwwwww 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I never could have had friends over because of family issues and my parents wonder why i don't talk to them or why i act different than them ¬-¬

  • @966aAad
    @966aAad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    0:12 accually cheating is a part of "how the real world works"

  • @iSayDewawa
    @iSayDewawa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My most strict rule was not being able to explain myself and would always get in trouble

    • @pxrcivxl
      @pxrcivxl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same! 100%

    • @kryoruleroftheninthcircleo4151
      @kryoruleroftheninthcircleo4151 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That just sounds like they could do whatever the fuck they wanted and treat you how they wanted to.

  • @andreatorres7728
    @andreatorres7728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a junior in high school and my parents don’t let me have privacy, they take my phone at night and read my messages, I don’t have a door to my bedroom or a lock to my bathroom, they also make me have my location on at all times,this has caused me to feel paranoid and anxious 24/7 and my friends tell me to loosen up but I can’t, I’m literally being watched at all times

  • @hewas3363
    @hewas3363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I don’t cry often at sad things, but this video genuinely made me want to cry for some of those poor kids. I thought I had a crappy childhood, but hearing these make me feel horrible.

  • @eri-qw3ll
    @eri-qw3ll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I wasn’t allowed to use markers because my dad didn’t like the smell. Even the unscented crayola markers for kids. As long as it’s a marker, even if he couldn’t smell it, I wasn’t allowed to use it

    • @Anthony-ug5rj
      @Anthony-ug5rj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Potato Potato honestly the smell of markers satisfy me

    • @arina71997
      @arina71997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Potato Potato substitute markers for colored and scented pens and dad for Literature teacher and you got my main beef during my school life (yeah, I get that when parents do it it hurts 1000 times worse)

    • @InferiorSerperior
      @InferiorSerperior 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My step mother does not allow me to use my laptop in the living room, even if the internet in my room barely hits 3mbps.
      Only my step mother dont' allowed me, my dad is fine with it.

    • @YesDudeNoMan
      @YesDudeNoMan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Does he have MCS?

    • @eri-qw3ll
      @eri-qw3ll 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Χρηστος Σταμοσ nope

  • @krazykroww5400
    @krazykroww5400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    10:04 Looks like a former Jehovah's Witness member. Damn must've been hard. I knew a kid who was part of that cult, he couldn't have any cupcakes either. Not allowed to eat anything at the class parties, and his mum said he didn't want to eat any anyways, but you could see in his face that he really wanted to.

    • @Sunshine-eo2sp
      @Sunshine-eo2sp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      KrazyKroww I literally said the same thing! As soon as it hit no bdays or Christmas I knew it was JW.
      JW fams have always been so hit or miss. Either like this person's family or some of the chillest people I've ever met.

    • @jaroldinho3923
      @jaroldinho3923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I dont mind these rules tbh im a JW

  • @ladyfoxwf1075
    @ladyfoxwf1075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just think the statement “You will respect me I am your elder!”
    But also: I had to plan meeting a friend weeks before seeing them until I was 16.
    I wasn’t even allowed down to the shops on my own until 16. I wasn’t allowed to walk to the house that was only a few houses from my own at 15 years old bc it was night. I wasn’t allowed to order online and my Dad wouldn’t either. My Dad used to check my search history everyday until I was about 14 and 1/2. I was told I wasn’t allowed to speak to my best friend at the time bc she jokingly texted whore at about 13/14 years old. They also blocked her on MY phone.

  • @EvOLvEDT3RROR
    @EvOLvEDT3RROR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    I got one. Mom went through my phone every night as a kid to make sure I wasn't using words I shouldn't in texts or talking about anything deviant. When I finally found out about the lock screen feature, I was woken up at 2 in the morning to screaming that ended with my phone thrown into the wall beside my head. If I didn't dodge it, my little 7th grade head might have been seriously damaged.

    • @user-wv5yt6qp5w
      @user-wv5yt6qp5w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      EvoLando35
      Holy fuck.

    • @meganmularz4939
      @meganmularz4939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Oh my goodness I am so sorry! Hopefully you dodged it!

    • @katelyng1019
      @katelyng1019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I hate how parents will do this and act like they have the right to invade your privacy just because they "put you on this earth and raised you" because that's their fault that they did that, but also just because you're under their roof doesn't mean you shouldn't get treated like a human being with rights.

    • @HExtraordinaire
      @HExtraordinaire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @K-Teasley nice b8

    • @axxne6068
      @axxne6068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      K-Teasley Yep, absolutely correct! After 5 women and a mother, I found MGTOW and realized the only men who understand women, are the ones who stay single and avoid them.

  • @notsafef0rlife
    @notsafef0rlife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Half of these are literally abusive parents but ok.

  • @melenaitemariah
    @melenaitemariah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol “9:30 LIGHTS OUT!!”
    My parents: sleep 3:00 pm.

  • @taehyvnqii
    @taehyvnqii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My parents, every time I come back from school, would take my phone and check everything I’ve been doing.
    Usually, while I’m on my way to school, I change my wallpaper to Taehyung (Yes I love BTS, my parents would get mad if they knew)
    I log into my TH-cam channel account, they’d get mad if they saw it, as I upload videos without them knowing, and my history is full of BTS and Gacha stuff.
    I go on Safari and log into my Instagram, they don’t know I have it which is why I use the online version.
    When I’m on my way home, I have to:
    • Clear my Safari search History
    • Close that one private tab with Instagram on it
    • Log out of my TH-cam
    •Change my wallpaper
    And I can’t charge my phone under my pillow cause my parents think I watch it (which I do sometimes, rarely at 2 in the morning)
    *whew, i love my parents-*

    • @camelpenguin
      @camelpenguin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wtf! Why would your parents forbid you from having BTS Wallpaper and looking at Gacha Stuffs! It's not like it's bad or something

    • @taehyvnqii
      @taehyvnqii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Daniel Stormz •
      In my religion I’m not allowed to have a preference in music, and I’m pretty sure the Gacha is fine as long as I don’t make those gross s** videos, which I don’t-

    • @phobos2076
      @phobos2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      • lemøn • in your religion or what your parents want your religion to be?

    • @taehyvnqii
      @taehyvnqii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      xMiyokox
      It’s the way my religion is, they just follow the way the religion should be followed.

    • @taehyvnqii
      @taehyvnqii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nguyễn Viết Nam
      Yeah, it’s sad 😔

  • @viscera9579
    @viscera9579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    watching this makes my parents look like saints with how little my parents are strict with me

  • @SaundraLee
    @SaundraLee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I got CPS called on me when my kid was having anxiety issues preventing her from going to school YET these poor kids, now adults, were practically raised by every other form of beelzebub and no one said boo?! WTF?! Why CPS don't know who these parents are yet, I'm clocked, is beyond me.

    • @spencerlockery1565
      @spencerlockery1565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have a similar situation. Everything in my school is anxiety inducing and I frequently have anxiety attacks. I haven't been going to school because of it, and I've been threatened with suspension and my mum has been threatened with CPS.

    • @plush3106
      @plush3106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      For real, my mother had cps called on her because my little brother decided to write in his elementary school journal about how he wants to die and hates his mom, then had the nerve to waltz home and jump on the playstation, not take out the trash(the ONLY chore he has), and wonder why he's verbally scolded for a few minutes when my mom comes home to see that. The children who truly need help are too scared to say anything and get no help, and good parents are hurt by things that are out of their control. Its ridiculous...

  • @celiap4122
    @celiap4122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Our house was like a low key prison. We had cameras called “baby monitors” in our rooms, the bathroom, the kitchen, the schoolroom (we were homeschooled) so mom could keep an eye on us at all times. We had motion sensor detectors in the kitchen and living room so it would go off if it saw us downstairs at night. Not allowed to have any food or snack unless mom gave it to us. Not allowed to stay up past 6:30 reading books (because we had no electronic so we read books all the time) We had checklists of our morning routine along with the times we were supposed to do them (brush your teeth at 6:00 a.m etc) We got up at 4:30 a.m and went to bed at 5:30 or 6:00 p.m) No going outside without an adult. No sleeping during the day. If you got in trouble you slept on the floor in the bathroom downstairs with a blanket and pillow. Fruit was considered junk food. Punishments were haircuts, getting up at 3 am and going to bed at 4:30 p.m), dragging bags of mulch around the yard in the sun, only plain oatmeal for meals, thousands of pushups yes thousands, and much more. So glad Mom divorced and left the family because she was literally crazy.

    • @langleyrehorn5101
      @langleyrehorn5101 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And I thought my parents were strict

    • @phobos2076
      @phobos2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so glad you are out of that place oh my lord

    • @marranin007
      @marranin007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope she is in prison to experience it

  • @ari7961
    @ari7961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whenever I agree to something, I can't say, "okay, sure, no problem," or even "yes". I have to strictly say "yes mom" or "yes dad" or I get yelled at for it.

  • @cerebralwolf666
    @cerebralwolf666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1109

    These karens and beckies and .. why are sociopaths allowed to breed.. wtf

    • @nicholasoneal1521
      @nicholasoneal1521 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Francis Galton

    • @Bruh-og7mh
      @Bruh-og7mh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't think they became a sociopath because they want it. It's okay for them to have children, but at least maybe they need psychologist or rehabilitated first

    • @sovietunion7643
      @sovietunion7643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      the line between strict and abusive is so thin you may have not even realized you crossed it

    • @cloudanimal5209
      @cloudanimal5209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      RYAN JIANG there are plenty of Asian parents who aren’t that strict, it sounds like you’re in an abusive situation :(

    • @zanikusari1008
      @zanikusari1008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @RYAN JIANG Thats why you dont grow tall because they fuck ur spine up look at us Europeans our average height is like 6'3

  • @milespennington5255
    @milespennington5255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    A lot of people do not know how to raise hard working happy well balanced adults sad. A lot of them seem like they are just projecting there obsessive or controlling behaviors on to their kids.

    • @RedNomad395
      @RedNomad395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It's because they are. This whole video was just abusive parents projecting shit onto their kids. Realistically these people *shouldn't* have kids.

    • @nicholasnguyen5181
      @nicholasnguyen5181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      miles pennington my parents are mostly obsessive and protective than controlling

    • @awesomekingakathe66bro36
      @awesomekingakathe66bro36 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      miles pennington my parents aren’t like that, tbh pretty sure strict parents are a minority

    • @mgp4447
      @mgp4447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My Dad is a control freak, tries to control every tiny aspect of my life, me and my brother will be having a conversation and he'll get mad and yell why are you talking about stupid shit, and then give us a short list of things we were allowed to talk about. If it didn't have anything to do with Ranching, it was stupud and not to be talked about. We Literally couldnt even talk about our homework.

  • @Camelballs
    @Camelballs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And parents say "what's a matter with you?". In these cases, IT'S YOU.

    • @notyourpetmonkey2709
      @notyourpetmonkey2709 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just an average Cuber whenever my parents ask I say “your genes.”

  • @joaanhaa2815
    @joaanhaa2815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video just makes me realize how laid back my parents actually are. they pretty much just make me study a lot, even on weekends and summer vacay, but nothing too bad.

  • @arno557
    @arno557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    My dad wouldn't let me kill people in gta san andreas and i have to follow traffic rules in the game.

    • @roadkillpotato3468
      @roadkillpotato3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I think it would make more sense if they just didn't let you play it at all.

    • @arno557
      @arno557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@roadkillpotato3468 😅😅

    • @roadkillpotato3468
      @roadkillpotato3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lil Kito that sounds boring.

    • @marvelcjp-inactive3285
      @marvelcjp-inactive3285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Roadkill Potato I was about to say that lmao

  • @manuelmirandawtf8345
    @manuelmirandawtf8345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    My parents are the complete opposite: My mom (being from a Christian strict house) really is my best friend, she never judged me, she even took me to a Heavy Metal Festival I wanted to go and always trusted me about everything.
    My dad was out of the picture the mayority of my life, but when we hang out together, he lets me smoke and drink beer with him, the strict one is my Stepdad, he has a very volatile Rage problem so i always argue with him.

  • @urmom_69
    @urmom_69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bru my mom: you're gonna get a job at EXACTLY 16 and it can't be fastfood. You should be accepted into Harvard by 17. You should be the CEO of Amazon at 18. And be married with three kids at 24.
    my dad: dude i'm gonna spawn a bunch of creepers in your house

  • @the101stgec3
    @the101stgec3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    6:12 ok that whole thing is actually the only normal one here, the rest of the stories scare me

  • @JJSharp
    @JJSharp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    My mom has this app on her phone called Qustodio and it can see EVERYTHING I do, she can make time limits and she can see where I am at all times. But I only get 30 minutes a day on the internet then it locks my phone so I can't get on it. I have to leave EVERY SINGLE electronic downstairs, like I can never have my phone or a tv upstairs. I have to leave my door open at ALL times except for when i'm getting dressed. I go to bed at 9 on weekdays and at 10:30 on weekends. There's also 6 camera inside my house and one in front of my room and we have a security system that alerts her phone when anyone steps on the grass. Oh yeah i'm also almost 17 years old. Also i've never vaped, smoked, or drank. I think my life is shit. lmao thx for reading it all if you did. lmaoooo

    • @Goatisch
      @Goatisch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      She saw you comment this

    • @panda_the_noob2337
      @panda_the_noob2337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Why are people like this

    • @colloquia9835
      @colloquia9835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have qustodio too and it sucks

    • @loweffortspeedster
      @loweffortspeedster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yo op, she see you comment this?

    • @colloquia9835
      @colloquia9835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@loweffortspeedster nope

  • @yanahristova5794
    @yanahristova5794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    My grandparents were taking care of me while my parents were divorcing. They made me sleep in their room, monitored everything I did, had to go to bed at 8 p.m. every day, had to study with them every night, when my friends came to my house to call me out they said I wasn’t home even if I was, my grandma would come to pick me up from school. No one of my classmates was getting picked up and I lived one minute from the school. They would constantly follow me, didn’t give me any privacy and didn’t let me have any friends. Basically made me a complete weirdo

    • @roadkillpotato3468
      @roadkillpotato3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My parents were never able to help me study or help me with my homework even if I wanted it because they never learned algebra/trigonometry. My dad was a high school dropout and my mom never went to college.

    • @HeyItsJubu
      @HeyItsJubu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Roadkill Potato this isn’t strict or bizarre

    • @HeyItsJubu
      @HeyItsJubu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Roadkill Potato but I’m sorry

    • @roadkillpotato3468
      @roadkillpotato3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@HeyItsJubu I didn't say it was dumbass I was just commenting on what this person said.

    • @RefreshingKoolaid
      @RefreshingKoolaid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Out of curiosity, how old were you then?

  • @maddyhatter3646
    @maddyhatter3646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My mom took away all my gadgets at 6:00 pm, even if I was doing homework or finishing an essay

  • @g0ddish434
    @g0ddish434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    5:35
    That is literally this entire video in a nutshell.

  • @beans9766
    @beans9766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    my father won’t let me eat with my fork in my right hand. he’s a control freak when it comes to manners and will yell at me if i don’t eat in the way he wants me to eat. 6-7 years ago, i dislocated my left arm, specifically around my wrist and it’s been significantly weaker than my right arm ever since, to the point it hurts if i use it (i think something went wrong when they were putting my arm back in place but i don’t really remember it that well. it also might be due to the fact he used to drag me around by my left arm, even after the incident and since i’m a thin kid it’s taken a toll but idk). the constant yelling at me doesn’t help during mealtimes and i literally can’t do anything to help it because i have to eat with my fork in my right hand or it’ll hurt. it’s caused me a lot of anxiety around eating and i often skip meals, which doesn’t help with me trying to deal with anorexia.
    my father yells at me like 17 times a day, and i’m aspergers so the yelling and my sensitivity to noise really doesn’t work because it hurts my ears.
    that’s just a small amount of what my father’s done and idk what to do about it since i’m too young to move out and he has had 50% custody of me since i was 5 (my parents got divorced when i was 4-5) so i can’t just stay with my mother (she’s not as bad as him but she’s still extremely strict and aggressive)

    • @megaparsec7910
      @megaparsec7910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      block of cheese oh my goodness! This is horrible. How old are you? Are you old enough to move out or almost be able to move out? I’m so sorry this is happening to you! I had a similar situation being dragged around as a child, but this is horrific! Or could you talk to someone like a school counselor to help you get out of that situation? Here is some love for you :( 💛

    • @duckpanther6768
      @duckpanther6768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dude when you move out you need to just cut contact with at least your dad ( preferably both) for like Idk 5-10 years let them mellow out beg and cry asking what they did wrong ( during this time plan your speech to what they did wrong so you can truly explain yourself) and during this time period of no parent contact preferably get hitched and have a kid so they feel worse about it (not that you should get married and have a kid to guilt trip someone). Yeah pretty much they don't deserve you and cutting contact might mellow them out.

    • @Kris.krisis
      @Kris.krisis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have a virtual hug :( 💕💕💕💕💕💛💚💙💛

    • @phobos2076
      @phobos2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel so damn bad for you, I’m so sorry you have to deal with that

  • @aoliravioli
    @aoliravioli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    does anyone else’s parents NEED to get confirmation from your friends parents when you wanna hang out, even though their parents told you that you can go

    • @Twonkae
      @Twonkae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lucky you, I can’t go over my friends’ houses at all, and I also can’t get in their car either

    • @lifeofgruzhyy6487
      @lifeofgruzhyy6487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes. For example, when I went to my first girlfriend’s house (ex now and lived around 200 kilometers away from where I lived), my mom requested to call her mother and such. At that time I felt a bit embarresed, but now tbh I understand why, after all it was far away and she wanted to know who I am going to visit.

    • @existentialrookie5432
      @existentialrookie5432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Twonkae yes, my mom was so strict. She wouldn't let me stay over a friend's (college classmate) house, mind you, I am already 21, I planned on staying over to study or refresh myself for a licensure exam the day after.

    • @annana6098
      @annana6098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That can be responsible parenting if you're young enough, knowing what adults will be around your children, confirming you actually have permission, confirming your destination. It could be weird if you often visit that house, or if you're 18 and don't have a history of lying about where you're going. Teens do lie about where they're going and then try to get into bars and such. That's not a thing I would worry about until it happened once though.

    • @Rylan_Korpi
      @Rylan_Korpi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This happened to me sometimes, but honestly this isn't that bad. Good to know where your child is. If your parents still need this when your in late high school or college.....geez I'm sorry.

  • @imracistandhomophobic2998
    @imracistandhomophobic2998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That last guy with the church thing, that isnt strict thats good, if my parents would drive me to church i would be happy i really wanna go to church but its to far away and you should be gratefull because now you are going to go to heaven there is these 10 christian secrets and because you probably did them you are going to heaven and i dont get it why dont you like church its so fricking cool man.

    • @strwberryjim6403
      @strwberryjim6403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because he was forced to go, and probably didnt have any interest in it

    • @Ady06
      @Ady06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tbh church is so boring you sit and listen all day and have to remember ever single name in the bible, if I went there they would 'fix me of my sin' cuz I'm not straight

    • @Sunshine-eo2sp
      @Sunshine-eo2sp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      XXGacha NaomiXX church can be boring, depending on what the topic of the day is and who is speaking that day. But I can think back to some talks given that have stuck to my chest even 4 if not more years ago. The idea of going to church is not to "fix sin". It's for 2 things: to partake of the sacrament, and show God your willingness to sacrifice your time to show him you care and are grateful.

    • @Ady06
      @Ady06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Sunshine-eo2sp
      I know that, the church I go to every Wednesday is fun and it teaches you a fun way to learn cretin things in the bible and the people who runs the group knows me and my bestie are bi and she says there noting wrong with it but my bestie went to a church like the one I said before so I took it from her words.

    • @Sunshine-eo2sp
      @Sunshine-eo2sp 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      XXGacha NaomiXX oh ok. Well at least you know now.

  • @patrickbenson2067
    @patrickbenson2067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom used to try and control a lot of things in my life, always pry for information into anything, namely girls in grade school and i would get teased excessively to where I became explosive over the topic until I was out of high school. I learned pretty quickly to just shut her and my father out completely, to where they became used to me essentially just being an emotionless body that they called their son. Years later I started to tell them things about my life, they dont pry anymore, they now appreciate the things that I tell them.

  • @amirarif420
    @amirarif420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I don't have reddit so, my parent basically say no whenever I wanted to hangout with my friends. Reason? They will carry drug and make you convicted to drug. Now they flaming me why I don't have friend and consistently stay indoors.

    • @mr.mcnuggies
      @mr.mcnuggies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My parents always told me to turn down any offers of drugs even if it was my closest friend, but they let me have friends so

    • @k.m7658
      @k.m7658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

  • @dangergoose3861
    @dangergoose3861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I cussed once at school. My mom starts screaming, acting like i just beat the brains out if a kid. I said f*** once.

    • @brianblankenship3085
      @brianblankenship3085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My parents actually allowed me to curse because they did too and they didn't really believe in double standards they thought theyre just going to do it anyways so we might as well teach them what the words mean so they can at least use them correctly

    • @DiscontinuedChannelOne
      @DiscontinuedChannelOne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My mom don’t if I cuss for something reasonable. My teacher got mad for stepping on dirt I got suspended. My mom said. Cuss the s**t out of that teacher. But in Spanish because she’s Mexican. I did and I got expelled. My mom was so happy because some parents sued the school and the school shut down.

    • @DiscontinuedChannelOne
      @DiscontinuedChannelOne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brian Blankenship same. But they cuss in Spanish because there Mexican. My mom lets me cuss for protection even tho I get confused on that.

    • @mgp4447
      @mgp4447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me: Crap
      My Mom: What the F**k did you just say
      Me: 👀
      Actaully happened

    • @dangergoose3861
      @dangergoose3861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom curses after sentence and im the same way. Writing this its hard not to curse because it adds emotion. Im going to a different school for this and ill get a referral for the same reason.

  • @cynniethia
    @cynniethia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly, I feel so much more thankful for having sane parents.

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We have a living room with really good couches and I used to love to read there from time to time. Sometimes my dad would come in and go, “Joelle, what are you doing?” And I’d say, “Reading.” And he’d say, “Why aren’t you doing it in the TV room? It’s right there.” Keep in mind the couch over there is made of leather and this one is soft and comfortable to sit on. “Because I’m reading in here?” I’d answer. He’d say, “Go read somewhere else.” And he wonders why I’m in my room all the time. I don’t even red anymore. My beds not as comfortable. Also, my dad is obsessed with having a clean house, so no shoes on the carpet, which I’ve broken so many times. No sitting in the living room, no drawing near the couches with pen or marker or you’ll somehow be stupid and get onto the couch even thought we’re all 14, 16, and 21 years old and know how to clean up after ourselves and know how to stay clean, he still doesn’t trust us. FOR NO REASON. He’ll take things away from my sisters that they kind of they “misbehave” in a way he doesn’t like. I feel like there’s a lot of things from their childhood past my parent have passed onto us, and I’m the only one who’s woken up and realized it’s wrong. Hopefully my sisters will follow suit, because whether my parents car or not (I didn’t say this to get them to care) I’m moving the hell out and _never_ looking back.

  • @ppslayergod69xd96
    @ppslayergod69xd96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    4:54
    Do the dishes after being reminded=Get grounded
    Do the dishes without being reminded=Get grounded
    Wtf is that logic

    • @gerayugacha
      @gerayugacha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You forgot the "Don't do dishes get grounded"

    • @doctoreggman7308
      @doctoreggman7308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

    • @clarkefarechild1997
      @clarkefarechild1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe the mom just felt lonly... but in all seriousness that is no way to treat anyone

  • @Pikachu0542
    @Pikachu0542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    I feel so bad for the person whose parents gave away their dog

    • @k.m7658
      @k.m7658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John wick adopted their doggo 🐶

    • @nhusam9080
      @nhusam9080 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      KingPikachu 542 my mom sold by already given birth dog I was so devastated

    • @sarahcochran5503
      @sarahcochran5503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom went on a trip for 2 weeks to visit my brother in a different state who had moved for college. I was in elementary school at the time. My dad gave two of my dogs to a kill shelter. When I got home I started crying because my dogs were gone. Then it carried into the next day at school. My principal saw me crying and told me to keep home stuff at home and to stop crying because I was at school, she then called my dad saying that I was crying because he gave my dogs away. I still kept crying though, I had one of those dogs for as long as I could remember. My teacher saw me crying and she called my mom and told her what had happened, my mom then called my dad about it. When I got home my dad slammed open my door and started yelling at me to not be an embarrassment and that I shouldn't have been crying, ext. It was a very tough time because my mom couldn't come back for at least a week. When she finally got back my dogs were gone and were in New homes, I don't know where they are or even if they're dead or not.

    • @asifrahman60
      @asifrahman60 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have to say I find the mum who told off their child for doing the dishes without being reminded, one of ty dumbest things I've ever heard of.

    • @rainadatkween7959
      @rainadatkween7959 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bishhh my parents won’t let me have a dog

  • @Priapismpain
    @Priapismpain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had friends whose parents grinded them until they moved out: once they got that first taste of freedom, they went bonkers. They didn't have the social acumen or agility of most young adults, and thus, were like, "Hey look - cocaine!"

  • @sunny_chime
    @sunny_chime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My parents:
    -My parents don't let me go anywhere without them.
    -Go through my phone whenever they like
    -I'm not allowed to listen to music that is not Christian
    -I have to sleep no later than 9
    -Whenever I try talking about my problems (I don't anymore because it's useless) they always turn it religious and lecture me for like 3 hours
    -Don't let me have any guy friends
    -Automatically think that all my friends who aren't Christian are "bad" and they "have a bad influence on me"
    -Don't let me wear shorts in public
    -Get mad if I don't get good grades and lecture me no less than an hour
    -Go through my texts sometimes
    -I can't even go outside without my parents
    Also my parents:
    "Why doesn't she talk to us that much?"

    • @phobos2076
      @phobos2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What would the religious lectures be like? If you don’t wanna talk ab it that’s ok haha

    • @sunny_chime
      @sunny_chime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@phobos2076 I would tell them something like "I don't have friends anymore they all left me" and they'd be like "Why do you need friends? God can be your friend! Why can't you just be friends with him? Why are you so difficult!?"

    • @phobos2076
      @phobos2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      imyoursinshine bxch oh my god that sounds annoying af, hope you can get out of there as soon as possible. k but fr I can’t just be friends with that random dude idek him, besides he might not want to be my friend either- are you Christian or do your parents just assume you are because they are, i was gonna make die atheist remarks but I don’t wanna offend you-

    • @sunny_chime
      @sunny_chime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@phobos2076 My parents assume I am Christian. But they can be pretty chill. An example is my dad works from the afternoon until 11 p.m. so I asked if he can buy ice cream and he agreed. Then I had ice cream at midnight last night. They just have a few annoying rules.

    • @phobos2076
      @phobos2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      imyoursinshine bxch Oh, that’s fine then-

  • @JamesTheTurnbull
    @JamesTheTurnbull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    How this people even find a mate?!

    • @laszu7137
      @laszu7137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Bullies always gang up on their victims.

    • @milesyoungblood7173
      @milesyoungblood7173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Malcolm Fitzpatrick because their mates are just like them

    • @slowrollytbff1560
      @slowrollytbff1560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@milesyoungblood7173 or one of the parents are the type to say they were abused by their mate

    • @roseside7192
      @roseside7192 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laszu7137 yep. lived it. shit will traumatize you.

    • @mrprescription4153
      @mrprescription4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Degenerates always flock together

  • @murphy1825
    @murphy1825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I got an ad " get rid of the words I and me"
    My mind: communism

    • @mr.mcnuggies
      @mr.mcnuggies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s not The Motherland
      *IT’S O U R MOTHERLAND*

    • @hyalophora
      @hyalophora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's exactly what I thought too when I got that ad

    • @juniiibee
      @juniiibee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude same

  • @yunagamerz7336
    @yunagamerz7336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think my parents are control freaks because I genuinely thought a few of these were absolutely normal

  • @spooknuggets
    @spooknuggets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After watching this, I'm really thankful my parents aren't like this. I feel really sorry for everyone that had parents like that.

  • @Lugo428
    @Lugo428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    For those wondering, Jehovah's Witnesses was the cult.

    • @jlewis4441
      @jlewis4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We just have generally different beliefs than the rest of the populis.

    • @jlewis4441
      @jlewis4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wouldn't call it a cult however.

    • @Lugo428
      @Lugo428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@jlewis4441 except, when looking at the BITE model, JW's tick off a lot of boxes.

    • @jlewis4441
      @jlewis4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately, I don't know what that is.

    • @jlewis4441
      @jlewis4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok, quick Google search later and I found some results:
      Restrict or control sexuality:
      We don't believe in being Gay, we think it's not right, but to each there own
      Control clothing and hairstyle:
      In a more, don't look crazy, or "you actually want to get this job at an interview" kinda way
      Regulate what and how much you eat and drink:
      Really just how much alcohol you have (I.e: Don't get super drunk)
      Those are the only similarities that I could find. And even then they aren't 100% matches. I also tried to be as unbiased as possible.

  • @ronipletikosa
    @ronipletikosa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    11:48 when it comes to these "my mom looks through my messages" type stuff, you sould call child protective services. invasion of privacy is illegal and UNICEF verified that every child has the right to privacy

  • @CDJAM-webm
    @CDJAM-webm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    heres a short thing:
    rarely once a week i would not get up from bed for school because i didn't had a well sleep. my mother beat me up just to get up and say some rude things to me. i think thats strict to beat someone up just to get up for school while theyre ACTUALLY TIRED OR SICK. on the way, i cried a bit.
    The next thing is that my whole family keeps me away from the internet. even tho im old enough to be on the internet, my family still keeps me away from it. "Dont talk to strangers or you might be in trouble!" i know. but the thing is i already know my internet friends a lil.
    Parents need to grow more up sometimes. Like mine h

  • @zamn7937
    @zamn7937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I can imagine how bad it is to have a mom like " your not allowed to be sad " and continuously scream at you every day

    • @langleyrehorn5101
      @langleyrehorn5101 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah my dad yells at me if I ever shed a tear.

  • @kingswagii1607
    @kingswagii1607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “WHy 1S mY s0n a Cr1MiNAl?!”
    ~these parents

    • @checkYVELLUAP
      @checkYVELLUAP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mY 50n H4s dePR35siOn aND H3'5 h4V1n9 a BaD t1Me? *T1mE t0 dIs0wN H1m!*

  • @XYZdude00
    @XYZdude00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to the person about depression, even though I probably don't have it as bad. Basically my mother wants to help but whenever I ask for actual medication (not fancy herbs) or want to talk about how I am feeling she gets mad and starts going off on me. It's better to just be depressed then to also get berated for it as well.

  • @Someone-yb2xp
    @Someone-yb2xp 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know, for every one of you guys, hope that u are living a good life without any hardships. And also for the parents to get the karma they deserved ( obviously not the good ones). Respect ya'll for being strong, holding until ur free from these abusive control freaks.

  • @reineeira9127
    @reineeira9127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    This whole video made me want to punch a wall in frustration...

    • @bloodyvetements
      @bloodyvetements 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Reine Eira at least i’m not the only one

    • @jdawg3074
      @jdawg3074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If ur name is Kyle you can find the nearest drywall and punch it