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I’d be concerned about having her around my kids and her influence upon them. I’d like to think as a dancer, men are not only looking but touching, feeling and grabbing her. Was he really willing to settle for someone like her?
A man is not insecure when he prefers his woman not to perform sexual gratification to other men. To men in society an exotic dancer is an immoral act. Men in the community will be motivated to visualize your woman as a sex object and not as a respectable woman. Men will not respect him as a respectable man having a woman as a exotic dancer. Therefore disrespecting men in the community will not respect him or household and will show him and his woman disrespect which can get someone hurt or killed.
A secure man is not worried about the judgement of others. Especially not the judgement other's have for his woman. Regardless, people are allowed to have their preferences.
The black community fell for the colorism scam. Colorism only applies to dark skin women. When it comes to light skin men. Suddenly skin tone is paramount.
It’s not colorism, the same way someone can not like the shape of your nose, is the same way someone can not like the color of your skin. Skin color is exactly the same as Any other physical feature.
@@RodneyDevoss That's how I look at it, at least in this case. Yes some people are ignorant with their skin tone bias but most of the time, it's just a physical preference like big breast, big butt, wide hips, etc
@@thosekickswerefastaslightn7593 yea like I’m not attracted to people too light or too dark And white people typically aren’t my type. Nothing to do with colorism just aren’t interested romanticly
This guy has no standards, he eliminated and picked for no reason at all. He has kids but no real family orientation or goals. He sounds more like a high-school boy who just want to hangout and let accidents happen.
That was a honest yet respectful assessment, everyone is quick to judge the ladies but sometimes the fellas are just lacking something that doesn't turn them on
I think people, especially women like this dancer mix up the meaning of SECURE and DISINTEREST. A secure man will have standards and morals but a man who's simply disinterested as in, he's just with you for a good time or a short ride has not concern about what you're doing in these streets! Plenty of secure men still have an issue with dating a stripper and it's not because they "can't" handle it, they're choosing for good reasons to simply avoid it!
And they should! I damn sure wouldn’t want my sons to bring a stripper home as a potential wife or girlfriend. I would be wondering what my husband taught them about their manhood!!!!😮
Is is just me or does it seem like the more well rounded a guy is, the worst he appears on shows like this? Maybe it's the quality of women on the show but the really decent guys seem to get the short end of the stick.
Women gravitate more towards men with rebellious/dark/narcissistic energy.It's the forbidden fruit/story of Eve.That spirit still possesses a lot of them.
in my youth I dated a few dancers and it never worked out. Relationships can already be challenging but throw in all the various nuances that happens due to that dancer life and it's even more challenging and often times impossible to end up with a good result. So I wouldn't go there myself....has nothing to do with insecurity whatsoever.
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq it's way more than being worried about that.... Those women can be extremely cutthroat and literally fight and possibly kill over money. Example: one girl danced for another girls regular while he was in the club or someone stole money. Just stuff you normally wouldn't have to worry about in a more typical relationship and it happens allot.... It's just not worth all the headaches.
Colorism is just like Racism, there has to be more than just a preference attached to it. For example, saying you only date dark skinned black women is not racist, that is your preference but saying you're only dating Black women because you think every other woman is out to get you is racist. She didn't elude to him being weak, a square, or lame simply because of his skin tone so I'm not mad at her since we all have our personal preferences that are sometimes based on nothing more than our own superficial taste 💯
Girl in the green dress is a baddie! She is MY type. lol But dismissing someone just because of their skin tone and a tattoo you can cover up, is pretty shallow. Now I will say, he seemed to lack direction. Someone that doesn’t have any deal breakers typically does not have healthy boundaries either. They go with the flow and see where they land. That’s a recipe for a lotta time wasting. You must have determined for yourself what type of lifestyle you wish to have and what qualities in a woman won’t align with that. Pleasant personality but he‘s a floater.
Grow up, it’s a physical feature like anything else. Same way you can find someone unattractive because their eyes are too far apart or their nose is shaped weird. Stop being so sensitive.
Ok, I must be very honest. Took me a while to learn this but as well-groomed and well-rounded as this guy was, his only area of weakness was his not having the masculine presence and energy that commands the feminine response from women. The girl he linked up with winded up back on the show and if I had to guess, she probably lost attraction quickly because of this issue
That light skinned brother on that dating show app that's looking for love I don't know why that girl pop her balloon because he is a good looking fine looking man and he is light skin that is my type I don't know what's her type is but he ain't ugly though he's a good-looking man and he's a fine-looking light skinned brother I like that
Up to the first question, he acts like he has never seen this show before. How he not have an answer to “ what is your type/ what are you looking for, what are your dislikes”. This is painful. And the show should make sure there’s not that big of an age difference.
I've started watching this as entertainment. To date, I haven't seen anyone looking for substative personal traits. Loyalty, honesty, commitment, or traits necessary for long-term meaningful relationships. It's still entertainment.
Men having standards is insecure, women having standards is knowing their value. Also, why would you want attention from other men when you're committed?
How can a man not have a type? I’d like to think we ALL have a type--maybe not aware of what he wants or like. Will he accept anyone that moves his way? Maybe he just looking for a warm body. As a dad he should insist on having a more meaningful relationship with someone who will add value to his home and family sop that his kids can learn from. He needs to find himself first. He needs to realize that he has been entrusted with the shaping of the minds of his children. But he needs to first have a firm set of values for himself that he will also want for his kids. Then look for a woman who embodies and supports his values, who will support him in raising his kids.
H has a two year old child but the last ladies did not pop or consider it an issue. This has been an issue in the past for ladies. When a lady is into you she is into you
He seems like a genuinely good guy, but based upon my initial impression of him, he doesn't seem to have any rock-solid, foundational standards when it comes to picking his mate. He seemed as if he was caught off guard with the initial questions that the host asked him. If he's been following the show, he should have already had prepared answers or at least a general idea of what he would say. When it comes to dealing with modern black women (or any women in general), a man needs to have a solid understanding and foundation of what he demands and what he will not tolerate -- the woman needs to know very early what is expected of her. A man should not be generic and ambiguous with what he says he wants -- he should be straight to the point, resolute, and unapologetic with his standards and values. She can either accept or reject.
She really don’t want to be with him. See how she answered it. You got to look at her body language. She’s not thrilled when people are miserable. It’s hard to please them. Lol
A man that doesn’t want a stripper as a girl is label as insecure wow.. I don’t understand why men are still dating at this point it’s not worth the stress let these women be single
He should have anticipated being asked what does he look for in a woman and, what are his deal breakers. Doesn’t he watch the show? Seems like he didn’t want to offend anyone, so he ended up looking like he was willing to deal with just about anything or, just not being honest about what he really feels.
Actually women in their 30s can do very well with older men 45 and up. Besides they can find the security and stability they're looking for. As long as they understand that those Men don't play games and don't tolerate women that love social media attention. Just got to mature.
For the dancer lady. I don't feel like her insecure comment was wrong in the context that she used it. If a man meets her already working in that industry and proceeds to Daye her. It could be insecurity as well as control. On another had if she goes into that industry after she meets a man and he decides not to continue the relationship then I would say preference, because he did not agree and parted ways. The word just has to be used in the right context in my opinion. She did well and he did too.
The last girl in the line is fake feminine and fake sweet 🤔 i can tell she'll spaz out on the first situation that doesn't go her way. I know those types i can see them from a mile away.
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She's already back looking for love again
I agree with y'all
Nope! She probably tired of standing in the line
She’s been on the show a few times and will probably be back again
She's been around the block too many times, even on the show
Revealing you have kids should be one of the first things anyone looking for love should do. 💯
And their ages, fo sho!
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@@anopeninvitationwithsheila4348they be holding onto that info like a secret weapon 😂
Yup the age says how selfish you really are .. (under 5 , you just wanna have em and not settle!) 🚩
He was too clean cut and well spoken for these women
Glazing
He messed up by being vague on what he wants and deal breakers tho.
How?? @@RodneyDevoss
@@RodneyDevosswhy
@@djsalteenutswhy
He does not know what he wants and he does not have a deal breaker. We must know who we are to know what we want.
At 28 he should have this figured out, unless he's lived a very sheltered life.
Right, everybody has a deal breaker
The lady in the green dress is stunning
She looks exotic AF to me, love it
And she knows it too
stunningly big
Really? I think the other women looking way better than her
@@JuJu1546-s8nNaa she's the best
So, a man who doesn't want to be in a relationship with an exotic dancer is insecure? Unbelievable.
I'm telling you, bruh. Talk about delusional. 😂😂😂
It's called having standards.
I’d be concerned about having her around my kids and her influence upon them. I’d like to think as a dancer, men are not only looking but touching, feeling and grabbing her. Was he really willing to settle for someone like her?
@@TM-ys8dyall "dancers" have a price to break the rule of the champaigne room
Exotic dancer??? Isn’t that like a fake professional way of saying stripper?
A man is not insecure when he prefers his woman not to perform sexual gratification to other men. To men in society an exotic dancer is an immoral act. Men in the community will be motivated to visualize your woman as a sex object and not as a respectable woman. Men will not respect him as a respectable man having a woman as a exotic dancer. Therefore disrespecting men in the community will not respect him or household and will show him and his woman disrespect which can get someone hurt or killed.
Extremely secure men actually reject things like that so never let a woman try to trick you into accepting anything less than what you want!
@@topfiveclips4997 we can't stop simping bro. There's generally a chain to it as well.
Simp > Single Mother > Absent Father
A secure man is not worried about the judgement of others. Especially not the judgement other's have for his woman. Regardless, people are allowed to have their preferences.
The little Shorty was the prettiest one, but the other one he didn’t want because she was an exotic dancer. He just didn’t want to say so.
You got that right
For all the people who complain about finding matches in person on shows like this, if you think this is wild, stay away from all dating apps 😆
They both a waste of time and these broads look like something you find at the bunny ranch.
Thought you was in jail Pdiddy
@@caseypierre-louis6725 He probably slid through cells after lubing up with all the oil
😂😂😂😂😂😅
@@caseypierre-louis6725wow😅😅😅😅😅😅
my first impression is that he is a respectful and sunny personality type of man.
"sunny personality" haha, I like that statement!
@@etmreactsI haven’t heard that in a while 😅
And women today don’t appreciate men with sunny personalities.
Would pop the long nails .. just me
These women have no clue why they're single and most likely will remain single. Wow!
I really don’t understand how people can say someone is too light skin when dark skin people experience colorism consistently
Nah, it’s just a preference for dating and she’s very direct.
The black community fell for the colorism scam. Colorism only applies to dark skin women. When it comes to light skin men. Suddenly skin tone is paramount.
It’s not colorism, the same way someone can not like the shape of your nose, is the same way someone can not like the color of your skin.
Skin color is exactly the same as Any other physical feature.
@@RodneyDevoss That's how I look at it, at least in this case. Yes some people are ignorant with their skin tone bias but most of the time, it's just a physical preference like big breast, big butt, wide hips, etc
@@thosekickswerefastaslightn7593 yea like I’m not attracted to people too light or too dark And white people typically aren’t my type. Nothing to do with colorism just aren’t interested romanticly
This guy has no standards, he eliminated and picked for no reason at all. He has kids but no real family orientation or goals. He sounds more like a high-school boy who just want to hangout and let accidents happen.
The fact that it’s a2 yr old😂
Your last sentence was gold.
haters
@@NeamenYemane you are hating on the haters
He will find someone worth his time and energy
Ole girl was like, "Damn this my 2oth nicca from Ft WhyChukka Army Base." LOL🤣🤣
Having Standards in 2024 = Insecure 🤷🏼♂
Word! The word " insecure" has been a detriment in women's psyche!
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@@jayp3687right
The word INSECURE has been misused and abused. 😂😂😂😂😂
Nah, men having standards is insecure, women having standards is knowing their value.
This brother had no real choices and the women who probably had some potential with him weren't really feeling him. Love is definitely a battlefield!
They were too old. They need to divide these couples by age. No woman nearing 40 wants a man 10-15 years younger!!!!
@@Mimi-ht6xrSome of them do or, won’t mind.
The girl he marched up with got a season pass to pop the balloon or find love 😂
😅😅😅😅😅😅
I think he did pop her balloon because of the exotic dancing but didn't want to "look" insecure
Hes too soft.
@@thadevilzadvocate Hes soft for not wanting an exotic dancer
You’re right
first impression: He got his stuff together but he lacks command presence.
That was a honest yet respectful assessment, everyone is quick to judge the ladies but sometimes the fellas are just lacking something that doesn't turn them on
Hmm
Don't Try To GUILT Someone, because they have STANDARDS 😇... Congratulations to the Lovely Couple ❣️👍🏾
I think people, especially women like this dancer mix up the meaning of SECURE and DISINTEREST. A secure man will have standards and morals but a man who's simply disinterested as in, he's just with you for a good time or a short ride has not concern about what you're doing in these streets! Plenty of secure men still have an issue with dating a stripper and it's not because they "can't" handle it, they're choosing for good reasons to simply avoid it!
DING DING DING! 👍🏽👍🏾
And they should! I damn sure wouldn’t want my sons to bring a stripper home as a potential wife or girlfriend. I would be wondering what my husband taught them about their manhood!!!!😮
Is is just me or does it seem like the more well rounded a guy is, the worst he appears on shows like this? Maybe it's the quality of women on the show but the really decent guys seem to get the short end of the stick.
Standard don't make good tv
Women gravitate more towards men with rebellious/dark/narcissistic energy.It's the forbidden fruit/story of Eve.That spirit still possesses a lot of them.
12:29 "she said yes as if her heels were killing her." 🤣😂😊
A man or woman MUST know what his or her likes and dislikes are when looking for a mate.
in my youth I dated a few dancers and it never worked out. Relationships can already be challenging but throw in all the various nuances that happens due to that dancer life and it's even more challenging and often times impossible to end up with a good result. So I wouldn't go there myself....has nothing to do with insecurity whatsoever.
aka you always had nightmares of them doing things with johns and they most likely did
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq it's way more than being worried about that.... Those women can be extremely cutthroat and literally fight and possibly kill over money. Example: one girl danced for another girls regular while he was in the club or someone stole money. Just stuff you normally wouldn't have to worry about in a more typical relationship and it happens allot.... It's just not worth all the headaches.
he's a nice guy, women are not the prize, the one in green can go
Colorism is just like Racism, there has to be more than just a preference attached to it. For example, saying you only date dark skinned black women is not racist, that is your preference but saying you're only dating Black women because you think every other woman is out to get you is racist. She didn't elude to him being weak, a square, or lame simply because of his skin tone so I'm not mad at her since we all have our personal preferences that are sometimes based on nothing more than our own superficial taste 💯
but if he had sad the thr girl in the green was too dark for him, he would be instantly vilified and, colorist/racist are always hypocrites
I’m going into the weave business. Apparently it’s just as good as the funeral business.
Lol! Yes, or running close to it. Weave is big business. 😊
That Girl in green is beautiful
I LOVE THAT YOU GUYS ARE IN LOVE , MATURE & LOGICAL!🔥🥰👏
This guy's definitely MTR's twin 😂
Lol definitely
Who is MTR?
its not even about insecurity... i dont want my woman getting naked for other men =/
There's someone for everyone.
Girl in the green dress is a baddie! She is MY type. lol But dismissing someone just because of their skin tone and a tattoo you can cover up, is pretty shallow. Now I will say, he seemed to lack direction. Someone that doesn’t have any deal breakers typically does not have healthy boundaries either. They go with the flow and see where they land. That’s a recipe for a lotta time wasting. You must have determined for yourself what type of lifestyle you wish to have and what qualities in a woman won’t align with that. Pleasant personality but he‘s a floater.
Thank u for timing ur first impressions
I'll take him. These ladies are tripping!!!
It’s weird he didn’t choose red , she clearly was ready to go! After that fist pump ohh I’m taking you home.. be like R’Kelly seems like ya ready 😂
Why is Danielle mad? According to her, this guy is a super lame!!!
Danielle was the most oldest and still the most attractive
@@v-campsportsleague6263no she isn’t Alexis and the others were Great looking as well
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I want to know what they mean by having fun with somebody, because usually having fun with somebody means them spending their money on them.
Yep now if he played in the NBA or the NFL this guy would have no problems
She’s back
That’s my boy. He got my pick from the beginning at the line up. JMO
He lied. The exotic dancing was the reason.
Guy tried his best and still had to settle for less
It's about respect not insecurity.
I swear kids should always be mentioned out the gate. That’s not a light factor or something that could be left on the back burner 😮
Light /Dark comment it's so superficial i wish people left it in their head when they are over 18 y. o
Grow up, it’s a physical feature like anything else. Same way you can find someone unattractive because their eyes are too far apart or their nose is shaped weird. Stop being so sensitive.
Well at least he admitted he has a child as well
She was on the recent episode, so was Tiffany. They ain't looking for love at all lol.
That’s true. I knew I seen her somewhere before
If you have kids, that should be shared IMMEDIATELY!
My first impression was very clean cut, nothing wrong with him but he was not giving enough masculine energy.
Wahala
I have a question. What really happens with someone having children or a child with someone and is going around looking for a wife or a husband?
Ok, I must be very honest. Took me a while to learn this but as well-groomed and well-rounded as this guy was, his only area of weakness was his not having the masculine presence and energy that commands the feminine response from women. The girl he linked up with winded up back on the show and if I had to guess, she probably lost attraction quickly because of this issue
Light skin brothers were killing shxt throughout the 80s and early 90s now women want Idris Alba and Djimon Hounsou on steroids 😂
Lightskin men and women are still the shxt. The African brothers are for the African sisters but many of them prefer white women 🤷🏻♀️
hence why their single moms😂
Lmao
He made a great choice.
He found his fun.
Perfect match!!! good luck to them.
He's young and inexperienced and naive. Edit: this is not necessarily a bad thing but the game might destroy him.
He’s chillin 😎
First Impression: he doesn’t know what he wants, which isn’t bad. He’s somewhat young.
That light skinned brother on that dating show app that's looking for love I don't know why that girl pop her balloon because he is a good looking fine looking man and he is light skin that is my type I don't know what's her type is but he ain't ugly though he's a good-looking man and he's a fine-looking light skinned brother I like that
Wooow didn't expect this match
He said family, does that mean he has children? He doesn’t seem to want much from a woman he would be interested in? Everyone has a deal breaker!
Only true love is from the one and only Jesus Christ. His love is unconditional and everlasting. "Love" on earth is temporary.
Up to the first question, he acts like he has never seen this show before. How he not have an answer to “ what is your type/ what are you looking for, what are your dislikes”. This is painful. And the show should make sure there’s not that big of an age difference.
I've started watching this as entertainment. To date, I haven't seen anyone looking for substative personal traits. Loyalty, honesty, commitment, or traits necessary for long-term meaningful relationships. It's still entertainment.
Now that’s an adorable couple❤❤🎉🎉
He’s handsome
Men having standards is insecure, women having standards is knowing their value. Also, why would you want attention from other men when you're committed?
Same line of time wasters 😂
Hey you two, I've been following you
Hey there! Thanks for the support! 🙏🏼🙏🏽
I like it when they have a match
She'll be back on the next show
We all know he just trying to hit
fine group of looking ladies !!!
He pick the write one. GOD Bless🎉🎉🎉
Solid dude
Tiffany the one!
Oh nvm
How can a man not have a type? I’d like to think we ALL have a type--maybe not aware of what he wants or like. Will he accept anyone that moves his way? Maybe he just looking for a warm body. As a dad he should insist on having a more meaningful relationship with someone who will add value to his home and family sop that his kids can learn from.
He needs to find himself first. He needs to realize that he has been entrusted with the shaping of the minds of his children. But he needs to first have a firm set of values for himself that he will also want for his kids. Then look for a woman who embodies and supports his values, who will support him in raising his kids.
H has a two year old child but the last ladies did not pop or consider it an issue. This has been an issue in the past for ladies. When a lady is into you she is into you
Which episode is this
He seems like a genuinely good guy, but based upon my initial impression of him, he doesn't seem to have any rock-solid, foundational standards when it comes to picking his mate. He seemed as if he was caught off guard with the initial questions that the host asked him. If he's been following the show, he should have already had prepared answers or at least a general idea of what he would say.
When it comes to dealing with modern black women (or any women in general), a man needs to have a solid understanding and foundation of what he demands and what he will not tolerate -- the woman needs to know very early what is expected of her.
A man should not be generic and ambiguous with what he says he wants -- he should be straight to the point, resolute, and unapologetic with his standards and values. She can either accept or reject.
Wow, so sad what men have to deal with
She really don’t want to be with him. See how she answered it. You got to look at her body language. She’s not thrilled when people are miserable. It’s hard to please them. Lol
Within a 1 min of this video I knew he didn’t know what he wanted lol 🤣😂 she just needs to be able to do her own thang lol what dude lmao 🤣🤣😂
At least he got a match but the girl looks familiar so I'm guessing it didn't last long
My only worry is the total of 4 kids between them. That's huge! I fear they'll not be able to focus on each other that much
There were no suitable mates for this guy
Man!!! You sound like my uncle Wendell
nice young man, they looking for drama
You guys did not comment much… TY.
Haha, well at least you stuck around to see some adjustments and had enough courtesy to say something about it as well. Appreciate that! 👍🏼👍🏽
A man that doesn’t want a stripper as a girl is label as insecure wow.. I don’t understand why men are still dating at this point it’s not worth the stress let these women be single
Too Complicated Now! in 1970! people would get together in 2 Seconds! and be together for 45 Years!.
He should have anticipated being asked what does he look for in a woman and, what are his deal breakers. Doesn’t he watch the show? Seems like he didn’t want to offend anyone, so he ended up looking like he was willing to deal with just about anything or, just not being honest about what he really feels.
Actually women in their 30s can do very well with older men 45 and up.
Besides they can find the security and stability they're looking for. As long as they understand that those Men don't play games and don't tolerate women that love social media attention.
Just got to mature.
There iz no ❤ just hook ups mostly for money
Insecure is her defense mechanism!
For the dancer lady. I don't feel like her insecure comment was wrong in the context that she used it. If a man meets her already working in that industry and proceeds to Daye her. It could be insecurity as well as control. On another had if she goes into that industry after she meets a man and he decides not to continue the relationship then I would say preference, because he did not agree and parted ways. The word just has to be used in the right context in my opinion. She did well and he did too.
these women look great for having children hahahahah
The last girl in the line is fake feminine and fake sweet 🤔 i can tell she'll spaz out on the first situation that doesn't go her way. I know those types i can see them from a mile away.
She gorgeous