Honestly, I get annoyed when the women are on the line. They weren’t horrible this go around though. But I think now that there’s been successful relationships and even a possible marriage out of this, people will see that it can actually help them in their search
My thoughts that no one asked for: - 1st man has feminine energy that can lead women to think he’s gay/bisexual - 3rd guy went on looks. Soon as he saw orange dress, she was gonna get chosen unless she popped her balloon, regardless of what came out her mouth. - the men did not find the woman with the black dress and long lashes attractive. They just didn’t want to say it. That’s all.
@@Hisnameistruth quality referí g to the respect, reasoning, and well put together. matched doesn’t mean success. as many matches there’s been in previous episodes only like 3 couples made it. If you watch those catch ups there’s a lot of pettiness and I believe it’s due to quality of people
I thought I was the only one thinking he was giving off gay/feminine vibes. Actually shocked the ladies stayed so long for him. The way he held the pick. The arch in the back. The way he spoke. Just all feminine movements.
The first episode that I’ve watched where I feel like everyone was generally & genuinely there for the right reasons. No characters, just mature & respectful conversation.
Having an 18 month old and just getting out of a 11 year marriage and coming on this show is crazy. Waiting until the very end to say that is INSANE. My mouth flew open 😭
@@ImDirtyDaniright like... He's gonna be written off by many, irregardless of when it was mentioned. But he could catch a few flyers if he was putting his kid first and saying that he & baby were a package deal.
Immediately Antoine and Jordan started their basketball convo, the chemistry was glittering like diamond. They were made for each other. Jordan's voice is soothing too. Congrats Antoine.
I agree. Not sure how their conflicting religions would work through. Especially getting married, raising children and what they would teach them etc. I think that would be a huge issue tbh. It’s a shame, cos otherwise I think it could work!
Girl in Red is TOP TIER WIFEY!!! She didn’t even show any skin and she was still shining as bright as a diamond. Imagine if she showed skin. Lol And the way she speaks. Wheww. @Arlette you need to bring her back.
Agreed. This was miles better than a lot of these “pop for love” shows. And the tall brother with the tight pants, he handled himself very well. Didn’t seem fake or having some ulterior motives. The pretty girl that said she didn’t want to work or do nothing, she might run into a few problems by her forties if all that beauty starts to recede. But hey, maybe she’ll figure out that song by Billie Holiday has a real meaning, God bless the child that has its own!
I really didn't care for some of the answers. Like I do understand not everyone has the ability to reason with information with intelligence but some of the girls were pissing me off. But not as much as some of the ladies on past episodes lol
@@keithknox5829 Honestly, I think she may want to be a stay at home mom which I understand. I currently work , but once I have a child, my dream would be to be home with them . I don’t want them to go to daycare( nothing wrong with daycare if needed) but I really want that time with my child and to pour into them exclusively .
The woman with the pink colorful dress and the locs was so beautiful and the lady in RED was top tier! They stood out alot. Personality wise with the beauty to match!
The first guy was so worried about what animal each woman resembles but failed to tell them he has an 18-month kid😂 that should’ve been one of the first questions he asked
Omg!!! I was soo invested in this one. I really wanted a match. This is the first time I've seen real level headed ppl who answered the question smartly. He had some real good choices and he was together himself.
@@derrickwilson957 How is that her downfall? She clearly wants to be a traditional housewife. You can tell she's nurturing, working does not put women in our feminine. So if you're not looking for a traditional woman, she's not for you
I like this channel's 'Pop the Balloon' because the contestants are genuinely trying to find their match. The different answers they give can really help viewers understand what to pay attention to in relationships and it gives insight into the opposite gender and what makes a healthy relationship. Love it!
Notice how the 3rd lady with braids allowed the tall attractive dude to be indecisive on his selection of the final 2, but popped on the earlier guy? Women will definitely make exceptions for who they really want
Listen i am gladly paying Arlette & BM's bills by clicking on every episode and liking everything they produce. This is some wholesome black entertainment.
Wow! Almost every comment, especially those giving Arlette & BM their flowers, received a lot of likes and yours only had 1 when I first saw it. Now 4 (including mine). Hmmm! Either we are dealing with a sinister algorithm that don't like exclusion or perceived unity. Maybe, our people are just exhausted with the whole B-Love, or B-entertainment for us by us. Hell, it may just be too early to assume. Who knows?
Right love the version of T too, almost better then this one but.... i stay loyal to Arlette she is a great host.... Go Arlette💃 big up and grtz from Europe
I just wanna say, the woman in red is so beautiful like I just kept staring at her like the braids, the makeup, the glow, the melanin are all just chef's kiss! I need to know what style of braids that is because they look amazing!
This was a great group of ladies. 90% were emotionally intelligent which made them even more attractive. I've only watched 3 shows, but this one is the best so far.
These ladies are women of substance with great internal beauty. Deep in thought and not gullible. Kudos to you ladies. Wishing you the best in finding men with internal beauty.
they on here popping for an earrings and jean types. lady said because he plays video games its a deal breaker, but she don't want to work. This is comedy relief lolol
It’s soo refreshing to see a host/couple so invested and excited into making and seeing people happy … Arlette and BM doing amazing work. I for one appreciate watching
I think the wording should be the inverse. It's not that their standards are low, it's that their standards are high. But an earring is an uncommon fashion choice for men. So I wouldn't say that it's a high standard to prefer no earrings on a guy.
This is, by far, the most mature and respectful group of single women on this show! Kudos to this beautiful group of young ladies. Wishing them all the best.
The therapist lady? In love with her! She’s so grounded and you can tell that she’s a woman who has worked on herself and is very assertive and kind. Such an amazing person!!
If only nerds would seek us out. I watch Anime, play chess, enjoy adventure and outdoors, a novelist, and I'm into learning more about the world and different cultures. I'm a black female nerd and my life is really awesome!!!! Just waiting on a nerd to appear and bring my heart a big ole smile.
The girl in orange is absolutely one in a million. Her questions, her answers, the eye contact, her articulation. She is self aware and gave the best answers .
@@daequannamathis2780 All I know is that the woman said that she's a traditional woman, then that she's a driven woman, and then that she's nomadic. I just feel there's a contradiction somewhere in there. Traveling and seeing different places is nothing wrong with that but a woman that's looking to settle down that's not going to be difficult I have a hard time believing a nomadic woman is a good option. Just seems like a woman like her is out the door if anything goes wrong in your life. Those are three key things that pretty much spelled it out for me on her I didn't even have to hear anything else.
@@daequannamathis2780What morals did she have that you think she gave up for him?? She was just very headstrong and articulate. They also had something in common which was basketball.
The girl in the black two piece is so beautiful I hated that she had her head down a lot. Confidence is KEY boo keep that head up KNOW you that girl 🤏🏽
Black dress at the end was just mad homeboy popped and went right to talking about his pants. Baby you saw the pants and was still holding the balloon though. 😂
She blew me when she said she’s allergic to latex insinuating she doesn’t wear protection. so you mean to tell me every man she’s had s*x with was unprotected? 😩 and why did she think that was ok to say for the world to hear
“i care too much” or “i love too much” is never an acceptable answer to “what are your red flags” imo. thats like going to a job interview and when they ask for your flaws you say “i work too hard”
The last lady in black is not bad looking, she needs some modification. THE LASHES ARE TOO LONG for your facial features. A brighter colored dress to make her complexion and figure stand out.
The woman in the orange dress is so intense and scaring tf out of me lmao her answers are awesome but it seems like she would be in 100% professional mode at all times
The girl with the locked pony tail and colorful dress is my favorite. She’s well spoken, direct, holds eye contact, works out, is clearly well educated... I would’ve snatched her up immediately 👀
@@cookingwithcountry9262 yea i peeped that. they really only matched cause everyone else popped i dont think he was attracted to her and didnt want to say. and she was low key weird. idk something off about her forsure
yeah but that same girl started drooling and applying for jobs on indeed the moment the school crossing guard came out. Only the beta gotta work like a donkey for her. If you are good looking she will happily take that double shift. This is why men no longer want to marry.
The way I HOLLERED when the first bachelor said he had a child. Then the way I SHITTED when he said 18mos. Lord hammercy then had the nerve to be married for 11 years CRYING!
All of them are beautiful but red jumpsuit is GORGEOUS. Perfect outfit and color and hair on point. I haven’t finished watching but if she didn’t get a match she deserves one. Loved her energy
These ladies are SUCCESSFUL and FIT. I feel like, people will literally find anything to complain about. I’ve never seen such a pleasant, competent, normal line up
The way he got weird after Arlette didn’t want him to ask another question grossed me out 😭 and the fact that it was a big thing “I have an 18 month old and was married for ELEVEN years” lol
The holding the child back til the end was a red flag but everyone calling him bi or whatever is something he'd find very offensive with his strong spiritual conviction..
18months is crazy!! Boy needs to focus on his baby rather than finding another relationship to jump in. Girl in the peach colored dress is so intelligent and can articulate herself very well! Love her down
One of my FAVORITE moments in all the episodes is that GOLDEN moment when WE can’t see the person walking up…BUT WE SEE THE 1st NATURAL REACTIONS & BODY LANGUAGE from the line up & can kinda guess what’s coming 😂😅 I love it, you see some trying not to make eye contact, or chuckle and side eye, OR you see em mouth that “Ooo🙂↕️” / immediate eye contact & putting that Queen or King energy in the way they stand… GOLDEN moments! Shout out to the camera men/women AND THE WHOLE SHOW! I’ve learned stuff about MYSELF as a black woman that are CURRENTLY causing healthy growth in my daily lifestyle. Thank you for serving us a healthy melanated competition that will ABSOLUTELY age well. God bless
Congrats Arlette with Pop the Balloon going Nation wide and being on Tamron Hall!!! Your show is the best around!! With your class and beautiful personality ,You are shinning & winning🧡
Jordan is giving …she has attitude problem …like she really didn’t want to be there…it’s giving she going to be combative in the future.. it’s giving resting B. Face
To anyone dealing with depression or feeling low, don’t give up on life, no matter what bad things happened in your past, don’t let them define you or control your destiny, you are all important and loved!, there is hope for all of us! Jesus loves you all ✝️, get to know God through Christ 📖
I like # 1 she's honest and knows how to be open, venerable, respectful. She's not afraid to be honest about her negative side and continue to grow & go forward
The girl with the black dress on the end... yeah, the last guy was not feeling her and it was awkward to watch and she just kept talking like she had it in the bag 😩
Stop, you know d@mn well y'all be trying to trap dudes as soon as you're sensing they're on their way out because they couldn't deal with you any longer. Trying to prolong the disaster by keeping him high off that baby powder. That is your work.
Naa literally everything she said was full of wisdom. She probably just a bit shy!! I rather think that the guy has something arrogant on him. I don’t feel that relationship will last
i thought opposite i feel as if she's assertive analytical & articulate. i think she would get me going intellectually very easily. i like how she acknowledged the unnatural environment to the second guy as well who was getting cooked for being timid or whatever
Now I see what people are talking about, the level of class in this episode is a breath of fresh air. All the ladies seem well educated, carried themselves very well besides the skinny lady in black (too aggressive with her words). A few of the men were impressive as well........ New subscriber here ❤
As the show grows older, more serious contestants apply. This is one of the best female contestants the show has ever have.
Agreed!!
They were trash.. That's why there was only one match.
Honestly, I get annoyed when the women are on the line. They weren’t horrible this go around though. But I think now that there’s been successful relationships and even a possible marriage out of this, people will see that it can actually help them in their search
In the past it seemed more of a treasure hunt. This one feels more like hashing out particulars.
@@RexBanner_🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Married for 11 years then having an 18month old child and WAITING UNTIL THE END to mention that… is crazy.
Extremelyyy
The comment I was looking for. Wish him all the best though.
It’s giving red flags
I agree...he should have said something in the be
Yesss cause how are you married for that long, but you knock her before you left 😅
The cameraman definitely deserves a raise. Never keeping us in the dark. You can always trust him to zoom in to give us the details 😂😂
Facts….. bro don’t miss
Those shady pan zooms 🤣
They be looking crazy as hell when it zooms in
ESPECIALLY if your toes are hanging over the edge of your high heels!😂
That’s what a good camera man is supposed to be though lol
The gal in red is hands down the best and appropriately dressed with class 👌 Well spoken and articulate. Love her voice and the way she holds herself.
Got that right
My thoughts that no one asked for:
- 1st man has feminine energy that can lead women to think he’s gay/bisexual
- 3rd guy went on looks. Soon as he saw orange dress, she was gonna get chosen unless she popped her balloon, regardless of what came out her mouth.
- the men did not find the woman with the black dress and long lashes attractive. They just didn’t want to say it.
That’s all.
The girl in black dress gives off lazy and she kept putting her head down and her shoes were outta date.
For the last point; especially the second to last one. Bro was tryna find any reason not to leave with her 💀
@@kennethmosley8421lol
Solid analysis. All true
The lady with the lashes is actually very beautiful but the lashes and lipstick combo didn’t do her justice 😭
Can we just admire that the batch of people are quality people this time around. I hope this level of maturity continues
Yess
I don’t get why people keep saying this but this episode only got one match
@@Hisnameistruth quality referí g to the respect, reasoning, and well put together. matched doesn’t mean success. as many matches there’s been in previous episodes only like 3 couples made it. If you watch those catch ups there’s a lot of pettiness and I believe it’s due to quality of people
@@Reallythere54321 i definitely think there’s more than 3 by now. There was 2 on the season 2 reunion alone. Engaged couple and Reggie
First man respectfully seemed a little metrosexual
The girl in the red jumpsuit is GIVING! So beautiful, calm and well-spoken. Overall, the line up is great
She is definitely GIVING!! Absolutely beautiful! 😍
Give me a younger Naomi Campbell vibe.
She looks like Maia Campbell 😍
She definitely was my favorite joint in the lineup.
Yes I couldn’t stop staring at her. The skin, the hairs her smile..like dang
It's like people have now become more respectful and not treating this show just for clout. Good to see
Can’t wait to see this!
Called himself "babyface" but forgot he had a whole baby is diabolical
😂😂
😂😂😂
hilarious
Lmaoo
😂😂😂😂😂😂
the first guy gave off bisexual vibes not saying that’s a bad thing though. the arch in his back is killing me 😂😂😂
I thought I was the only one thinking he was giving off gay/feminine vibes. Actually shocked the ladies stayed so long for him. The way he held the pick. The arch in the back. The way he spoke. Just all feminine movements.
@@rickymorty511yep
@@rickymorty511 his former in-law is in the comments letting it be known the ex wife’s family been knew he was 🌈
I noticed that too lol.
@@Divadoll-f2d oh lawd let me get to scrolling
“I’m not a hard worker, I don’t want a job”. I felt that. DEEPLY.
Me too like that’s crazy
I respect her saying that and having that mindset honestly
You "felt" admitting you're lazy ?
@@wha-whereyomamastayatvlad1642 having other aspirations that dont involve capitalism or exploitation is not considered laziness. hope this helps
@@robertstanley9633yeas!!!
I love how Arlette enjoys laughing and having fun. It’s quite endearing. ♥️
LADY in the red jumpsuit is a gem. Beauty, brains, emotional intelligence, speak so eloquently, self assured- confident. I wish her the best!
For real. Her IG gets a pass too
Love her
Me too! I want happiness for her and the whole time I was hoping none of these guys would match with her because she deserves better.
100% & her smile is just so beautiful.. She was my favorite ❤
💯 she seem sweet , polite and matured woman.
The ladies here are much better dressed than the ones on previous episodes.
I think they got the memo after watching a few episodes
Weigh much better.
100000% better quality. This show is very mature.
Don’t matter, same mindset.
@@naomiroc725 i agree. I just feel that some of the shoe choices with the church dresses was not vibing well🤣
had notes on his phone and none of them mentioned “how do you feel about dating a man with kids?” 😭😭
😂😂😂
He probably barely sees the child. It seems like an out of sight out of mind situation.
Asking what animal they'd be but not asking anything about his child smh
SCREAMING 😭😭😭
stop lol
The women in this line up are *chefs kiss* they’re beautiful, emotionally intelligent and successful🤌🏻
Beautiful array !
The first episode that I’ve watched where I feel like everyone was generally & genuinely there for the right reasons. No characters, just mature & respectful conversation.
First batch of mature women
That isn't going to make for a good reunion tho so hoping ARLETTE and BM bring the drama!!🎉
@@MambacitaSelenaThat people are looking for love and not drama!?!?
@@kingtchala6832 FIGHTFIGHTFIGHT
Exactly this!!!!!!
The girl that goes to the gym 5-6 times a week is so pretty. She has a nice and toned gym bod goals
And seems to have a great personality unlike the chick beside her lol
I thought it was just me she is BEAUTIFUL I’ve been staring at her the whole episode
Right!! The dress, hair and confidence is everything.
She fine af and thick
The first 3 ladies are 🔥
Having an 18 month old and just getting out of a 11 year marriage and coming on this show is crazy. Waiting until the very end to say that is INSANE. My mouth flew open 😭
Yeah that was a dishonest move. I understand him not wanting to mention because of fear of being written off due to the child...but still mention it😂
I flipped out 😂😂
@@ImDirtyDaniright like... He's gonna be written off by many, irregardless of when it was mentioned. But he could catch a few flyers if he was putting his kid first and saying that he & baby were a package deal.
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
😅😅😅
Immediately Antoine and Jordan started their basketball convo, the chemistry was glittering like diamond.
They were made for each other.
Jordan's voice is soothing too. Congrats Antoine.
I agree
Waiting patiently for the catch up! She seems serious and no nonsense, though
I agree. Not sure how their conflicting religions would work through. Especially getting married, raising children and what they would teach them etc. I think that would be a huge issue tbh.
It’s a shame, cos otherwise I think it could work!
Jordan seems like a trans😢😂😂😂
I feel like Jordan was always giving serious face to every guy and bringing her professional work to the show and just always looking so serious.
“Dressed so nice”
*pans down to red socks and heart loafers😂😂
Lol
😂
😂😂 stop!
😂 I said “oh noooo”
It was giving the queen from Alice in wonderland
First man waited until the end to mention his 18 MONTH old son?? Wild work!🤯🤯
Yea that was crazy work lol
And that he was married for 11 years. I wonder how long ago was the divorce
Red flag man y'all he was trolling all women best believe he doesn't know his type for real🤣🤣🤣💔
wasted all their time with some dumbass spirit animal questions and then tried to slide in his red flags at the end 😭
Right!!!! I was waiting for the shoe to drop I hate to say it but
Girl in Red is TOP TIER WIFEY!!! She didn’t even show any skin and she was still shining as bright as a diamond. Imagine if she showed skin. Lol And the way she speaks. Wheww. @Arlette you need to bring her back.
yesss i thought the same! she’s wife materialll
She had zero sex appeal. A woman can be covered up but still be sexy. It's a dating show but she gave school principal energy.
My sentiments exactly. Very poised, articulate, and exuded femininity.
BIG FACTS!
#blessed
Her arms were showing, as well as her tattoo.
last girl is a flat out NO! The longer this went the more annoying she got
Why? Because she wouldn’t stop talking 🙄🤣
@@diamondlanier4937exactly that 😂😂😂
What she said about the baby mom was nuts
I was looking for this comment because mannnn she was soooo annoying to me.
She was salty she got popped by the tall guy for sure.
The first 4 ladies were some of the best to appear on here! Very well spoken, aware, genuine, and beautiful!👌🏾
Especially the 2nd drkskin lady with breads that workout. She got it.
I mean TUFF jack, I wouldn't be able to choose😂 last question wouldn't been who open to poly 😂
@@jeremye.3911 ainn it mane 🤣😭
That first lady is on the edge...she can snap on you in a hot second...
1st guy has 💅🏾 vibe… the way he talks, stands, walks, his whole outfit. Can’t hide it. 😅
You guys are obsessed with homosexuality.....
My immediate thought lmao
Keep looking for a thug.
Came out talking about “I have a baby face” 😩 chilllleee please!!!
@@natashaharris4750we’re not looking for thugs, but we also don’t want zesty men. Hush.
A reunion and an new episode in the same week gone have us spoiled 😂😂😂.keep em coming though ❤❤
Who you telln💯💪🏾💪🏾
I second that
We want moreeeew
Yep
Yes!!! They gone stop doing it!
The one in the red is super beautiful. Doll baby face. ❤❤❤ the one with the locs is beautifully made. I love their complexion.
Pink dress, i respect that she answered the "tough" questions and didn't back away from it.
But she popped on the cyber guy because he told the 3rd girl in line that her dress is nice 😂.
@@olaaaaaaaaaa1gotta respect it ...she was the only one left n he was still giving out compliments.
@@King_Marzz Indeed
Yes! Loved her responses and she’s so gorgeous!
That’s my cousin 😆
arlette is such a natural/unintentional comedian. she be having me in tears with her mannerisms 😂💀
she really is her facial expressions is so ruthless lmao
Yep she’s hilarious😂
I think it's Intentional 😂she never misses😂
She don't play about holding that mic the right way.
I don’t like how she extend the sound of her words.
This was one of the best line ups I’ve ever seen. These ladies were ON POINTTT
Agreed. This was miles better than a lot of these “pop for love” shows. And the tall brother with the tight pants, he handled himself very well. Didn’t seem fake or having some ulterior motives. The pretty girl that said she didn’t want to work or do nothing, she might run into a few problems by her forties if all that beauty starts to recede. But hey, maybe she’ll figure out that song by Billie Holiday has a real meaning, God bless the child that has its own!
I really didn't care for some of the answers. Like I do understand not everyone has the ability to reason with information with intelligence but some of the girls were pissing me off. But not as much as some of the ladies on past episodes lol
The ladies were just very receptive here and the men seemed easy to bounce off of. Good all around
@@keithknox5829
Honestly, I think she may want to be a stay at home mom which I understand. I currently work , but once I have a child, my dream would be to be home with them . I don’t want them to go to daycare( nothing wrong with daycare if needed) but I really want that time with my child and to pour into them exclusively .
Every single person that came on this episode has some substance to them, I love that. This is probably one of my favorite episodes
The woman with the pink colorful dress and the locs was so beautiful and the lady in RED was top tier! They stood out alot. Personality wise with the beauty to match!
It's the girl with the locs for me❤
@@PanasheSamuell- she was my favorite!
I like the woman with the red outfit. She’s very soft-spoken and nice and sweet similar to me.
@arlette bring her back on… the fellas missed out on her. She’s a gem!!!!
Absolutely 💯 most definitely have to come back 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰 the lady in the red jumpsuit.
First man seems to be a very nice person but the fact that he waited until the end to mention he has a kid is a red flag.
He for sure set them up lmao. Set the bait. By the way the way before we finish I do have an 11 year old. Do whatever with that info you will.
Not the church man 😅
First guy troy definitely double dipping in bussy 🍆🍑
Agreed. Very annoying. 😅 like dude- what the ???
Yep. They don't like women with them and vice versa I guess
The first guy was so worried about what animal each woman resembles but failed to tell them he has an 18-month kid😂 that should’ve been one of the first questions he asked
😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
A phone full of notes and no questions about motherhood etc
@@Meccaone17 Lmaoo facts that's nasty work
😂😂😂😂 right weird ass question😂
LMAOOOOOOO
Omg!!! I was soo invested in this one. I really wanted a match. This is the first time I've seen real level headed ppl who answered the question smartly. He had some real good choices and he was together himself.
The second girl is just oozing confidence, femininity and humility. Beautiful smile was lit up almost the entire show and also super fit and fine.
right she bad asf
Yeah she just needed a better dress. That one made her look like a streetwalker
I hope she finds someone who sees all of that and appreciates it
Her only downfall is the fact, she said, she didn't want to work smh
@@derrickwilson957 How is that her downfall? She clearly wants to be a traditional housewife. You can tell she's nurturing, working does not put women in our feminine. So if you're not looking for a traditional woman, she's not for you
I love it when the ladies throw the questions back at the men. Them stumbling over the same questions tickles me 🙃
So when are you going on the show during male panel day so you can show us how it's done?
Talmot, "EASY!" Boy what?! 😆 🤣 😂
Loool sammeee 😂
Because women can't make up their own questions 😮
Because they be tryna get fake deep
1:51 Troy
20:47 Joc
34:56 Antoine
54:02 Thomas
1:06:18 LaRon
1:11:37 she said what we were all thinking
thank you!
This is the comment I needed I'll get distracted at work and forget where i was lol
He definitely said he like the girl in the red pants suit and the girl in the white outfit.
Do this every episode this is your new ministry
🤣🤣🎯
I like this channel's 'Pop the Balloon' because the contestants are genuinely trying to find their match. The different answers they give can really help viewers understand what to pay attention to in relationships and it gives insight into the opposite gender and what makes a healthy relationship. Love it!
Well said.. Here, here!
This is the original
Totally agree because I've learned on this show is a lot of relationship tips what I can work on also ways to better a relationship
Notice how the 3rd lady with braids allowed the tall attractive dude to be indecisive on his selection of the final 2, but popped on the earlier guy? Women will definitely make exceptions for who they really want
Great point..I notice that a lot on here
Yep, being attractive means you get way more leeway.
She popped earlier for a completely different reasons…
I noticed that too
Always😉
Listen i am gladly paying Arlette & BM's bills by clicking on every episode and liking everything they produce. This is some wholesome black entertainment.
Wow! Almost every comment, especially those giving Arlette & BM their flowers, received a lot of likes and yours only had 1 when I first saw it. Now 4 (including mine). Hmmm! Either we are dealing with a sinister algorithm that don't like exclusion or perceived unity. Maybe, our people are just exhausted with the whole B-Love, or B-entertainment for us by us. Hell, it may just be too early to assume. Who knows?
Same
Right love the version of T too, almost better then this one but.... i stay loyal to Arlette she is a great host.... Go Arlette💃 big up and grtz from Europe
I so love Serena
I just said the same thing on FB!
I just wanna say, the woman in red is so beautiful like I just kept staring at her like the braids, the makeup, the glow, the melanin are all just chef's kiss! I need to know what style of braids that is because they look amazing!
I think she's a gem. Loved everything about her except the tattoo. Bur what a beauty she is
She kept grabbing my attention too! What a queen. Those look like Fulani braids. Hope that helps 😊
Thank you love! Yes, these are Fulani and knotless boho on the second half! 💕
Yes. She has a glow to her. Her face is mesmerizing. She’s like a life size Barbie doll. ❤
For me it was the Ari Lennox clone with the short multicolored dress she just looks down to earth. Red is beautiful but possibly more self absorbed.
This was a great group of ladies. 90% were emotionally intelligent which made them even more attractive. I've only watched 3 shows, but this one is the best so far.
The dark skinned girl with the multicolor dress and locs pulled up hairstyle is stunning.
U prolly look like her to bc she is not attractive lol
My fav!
Shes beautiful
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She's trying to get wifed up. Good for her. She's adorable
Tie dye dress with the locs is SERVING 😍 classy group overall.
She straight like a mf too.
Sheee isss absolutely gorgeous !!!
She’s absolutely beautiful! Came to say the same thing.
Let's give it up to Arlette who is a phenomenal host. Very genuine, always respectful and well spoken.
When her face becomes distorted it definitely tells you what she's thinking about some of the guests while comparing them to her African culture.
And a beauty. 😊
Hands down the best lineup of women they’ve ever put together. Beautiful and well spoken individuals
These ladies are women of substance with great internal beauty. Deep in thought and not gullible. Kudos to you ladies. Wishing you the best in finding men with internal beauty.
100%
@@ESKAIELOS 99%
😂😂😂😂😂
Internal beauty ???? Dude just called them unappealing in the most diplomatic manner 😂
they on here popping for an earrings and jean types. lady said because he plays video games its a deal breaker, but she don't want to work. This is comedy relief lolol
It’s soo refreshing to see a host/couple so invested and excited into making and seeing people happy … Arlette and BM doing amazing work.
I for one appreciate watching
My man said “If an earring is what turns you off i know you’re not looking for much”
I felt that
Fr man. That goes to all the people who pop for immediately replaceable/removable things like shoes, earrings , glasses etc
Naw naw...earrings are very telling. You can tell exactly how tacky a guy is by his choice of earring too! 🤷🏾♀️
@@Alleycat1111and if being “tacky” is that big of a deal to you ain’t looking for much. 🤷🏿♂️Points still stands
I think the wording should be the inverse. It's not that their standards are low, it's that their standards are high. But an earring is an uncommon fashion choice for men. So I wouldn't say that it's a high standard to prefer no earrings on a guy.
Earrings are not manly. They're for ladies.
This is the classiest most mature and respectable POP THE BALLOON I’ve ever seen. THANK YOU
This is, by far, the most mature and respectful group of single women on this show! Kudos to this beautiful group of young ladies. Wishing them all the best.
Majority of her lineup is always mature. Arlette sets the tone 👏🏽
The therapist lady? In love with her! She’s so grounded and you can tell that she’s a woman who has worked on herself and is very assertive and kind. Such an amazing person!!
100%
Yes she’s serious but confident as well, also I love the eye contact that she gives to everyone
She looks so stern
I loved her
@@khadijah2860. I do think she suffers from depression.
There’s something so endearing about when Arlette is all excited, “we got a match!!!” lol it’s so wholesome 😩
It’s contagious!❤
She only got to say it one time and it was a nearly missed one cause they kept asking last minute questions before saying yes
w African women
I call it bullshit. Because alot of these matches I see, they never click instantly, but it will do for them
If only nerds would seek us out. I watch Anime, play chess, enjoy adventure and outdoors, a novelist, and I'm into learning more about the world and different cultures. I'm a black female nerd and my life is really awesome!!!! Just waiting on a nerd to appear and bring my heart a big ole smile.
The girl in orange is absolutely one in a million. Her questions, her answers, the eye contact, her articulation. She is self aware and gave the best answers .
Yeah right. she threw all her morals out the window for the 3rd guy 😂
She was throwing herself at the third guy I kinda lost respect for her. She’s a Christian and still didn’t pop when the guy say he’s Muslim.😂😂😂
@@daequannamathis2780 All I know is that the woman said that she's a traditional woman, then that she's a driven woman, and then that she's nomadic. I just feel there's a contradiction somewhere in there. Traveling and seeing different places is nothing wrong with that but a woman that's looking to settle down that's not going to be difficult I have a hard time believing a nomadic woman is a good option. Just seems like a woman like her is out the door if anything goes wrong in your life. Those are three key things that pretty much spelled it out for me on her I didn't even have to hear anything else.
@@daequannamathis2780What morals did she have that you think she gave up for him?? She was just very headstrong and articulate. They also had something in common which was basketball.
@@daequannamathis2780always a negative response to a positive comment yall can’t help yourselves it’s so sad
The girl in the black two piece is so beautiful I hated that she had her head down a lot. Confidence is KEY boo keep that head up KNOW you that girl 🤏🏽
Some of the better dressed candidates I have seen. Very well put together. Jordan was my favorite though
I agree, you could tell she lack some confidence
Same thing I noticed, she lacked confidence 😢
She is not attractive. Looks like she had a few kids and out of shape with a wig on.
She seems like she was in her own world lol when they asked what’s her ambition she blanked out after saying a house💀
Black dress at the end was just mad homeboy popped and went right to talking about his pants. Baby you saw the pants and was still holding the balloon though. 😂
@@brittneyholmes3807 Right!! She was just combative because the men on the show kept popping the ballots first chance at her
Facts
And he mentioned that lol
She blew me when she said she’s allergic to latex insinuating she doesn’t wear protection. so you mean to tell me every man she’s had s*x with was unprotected? 😩 and why did she think that was ok to say for the world to hear
She was the weakest link 😂
My God! The first four women are absolutely stunning and well spoken! 😍 Not to say that they all aren’t beautiful because they are.
“i care too much” or “i love too much” is never an acceptable answer to “what are your red flags” imo. thats like going to a job interview and when they ask for your flaws you say “i work too hard”
I think a better response would be "I tend to put others before myself often"
It's so cringey
Exactly!!! It wasn’t thoughtful or reflective at all.
I was actually surprised the therapist fell for him. She should be able to see right through him but maybe she thinks she can fix him 🤦🏾♀️
@@Asinrad99 attraction trumps 😂
The 2nd girl with the locks is sooooo beautiful 😍😍😍
She is gorgeous. Are her front edges locs missing?
Yes she so sweet I thought the guy would of pick her
She’s not very smart though…in pre-nursing and doesn’t plan on working hard…what does she think nurses do?
@Ringdingdong206 maybe she was already turned off and thinking the man was going to have her support him at some point on purpose
Fine as a mf
Woman with locs is gorgeous😍 and seems respectful . I can picture her being a great wife and mother one day to a beautiful family .
Absolutely
Yeah ryt,I thought I was the only one thinking about that
Best choice of the group imo. Peach is the worst for me. I can smell her drama through the screen 😂
She wants to be taken care of, she wants the old style of a relationship the man leads the man works and she maintains the home.
Yessss..I love her!
Brown skin girls with the multi color dress and locs is giving Ari Lenox
Arlette, Never ever ever let the mic twirl go! We always look for it with the intro! It’s definitely your signature move!
@arletteamuli pin this !!
Yes🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 love.
Definitely...its her call for action. Keep twirling.
The last lady in black is not bad looking, she needs some modification. THE LASHES ARE TOO LONG for your facial features. A brighter colored dress to make her complexion and figure stand out.
Lol that last guy does not hike....😂😂😂😂
The woman in the orange dress is so intense and scaring tf out of me lmao her answers are awesome but it seems like she would be in 100% professional mode at all times
Terrified lol.
Exactly what I was saying! Does she ever smile or be playful 😩
I feel like she was just trying to stay composed lol. Equivalent to a man trying t maintain his masculine frame.
Yes. Gorgeous, but so stiff.
That's just a barrier, she's really hurting inside that's why that wall is up
The girl with the locked pony tail and colorful dress is my favorite. She’s well spoken, direct, holds eye contact, works out, is clearly well educated... I would’ve snatched her up immediately 👀
Yea she was dope
#blessed
I liked her and the dark bone in the pink. They both was nice,
Facto
@almalik8413 you might be color blind because she's in red.
@@Lola-rn2jjthere’s one with red and another in pink I think he means the one in pink
The woman in the black dress who likes anime is so pretty, she just needed more confidence in herself :( she seems so timid and uncomfortable
Ngl i think the last girl over talked her way out of a match. Even Arlette was like okay girl...😂
AT LEAST 3-4 times she tried to move the mic from her mouth lol
I think he didn’t wanna match her at all. He asked her the same question twice so she can say something to disqualify her
Yeah I was like I would pop her balloon and the reason I would give is she talked too much made me just black out just senseless rambling.
@@cookingwithcountry9262 yea i peeped that. they really only matched cause everyone else popped i dont think he was attracted to her and didnt want to say. and she was low key weird. idk something off about her forsure
He just wasn’t attracted to her but didn’t wanna say it outright
My girl said she ain’t trying to work at all! 😂
yeah but that same girl started drooling and applying for jobs on indeed the moment the school crossing guard came out. Only the beta gotta work like a donkey for her. If you are good looking she will happily take that double shift. This is why men no longer want to marry.
Like seriously 🙄😂😂
She's in the health care field..I think she may mean she prefers just to be rich😂😂😭
@@organziedconfusion3699 she said she’s no hard worker 🤣, at least she admit it. She’s about that soft life
Me every morning
The way I HOLLERED when the first bachelor said he had a child. Then the way I SHITTED when he said 18mos. Lord hammercy then had the nerve to be married for 11 years CRYING!
It just kept getting worse 😅
@@toddrogers6971 😭😭😭
I literally looked like layla elise i was shook
Doesn’t even add up.
Married that dang long just to have a brand new baby and a divorce towards the end.
All of them are beautiful but red jumpsuit is GORGEOUS. Perfect outfit and color and hair on point. I haven’t finished watching but if she didn’t get a match she deserves one. Loved her energy
The last lady wasn't anybody's type or cup of tea.. But she has a lot to say.. Its called defensive confidence 😅😂
She’s annoying eyelashes are too long
Because tbh nothing about her is attractive 🤷🏾♀️💯🥴
She was very annoying and those lashes made it worse lol
When the guy said no to her and she asked WHY??, I thought ‘bc you talk too damn much, ain’t nobody ask you all that’ 💀
She thinks her appearance is a 10 but it's a 4.5 tops
When the man said “I’m not gone disrespect a black woman on tv” i wish everyone would adhere to that
To bad the women don't
No one should be disrespected lol, unfortunately these ladies don’t do the same
That was so masculine to say. He really has game that’s rare nowadays
He's said he's not trying to go viral for disrespecting a female.
he said for disrespecting a female
The girl in the red jumpsuit seems like such a catch/sweetheart. I loved her responses to everything 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 bravo sis.
Thank you gorgeous! 💕
Too big
These ladies represented us veryyyyy well!!! Best I've seen yet!
These ladies are SUCCESSFUL and FIT. I feel like, people will literally find anything to complain about.
I’ve never seen such a pleasant, competent, normal line up
You are right indeed
You must not watch a lot of episodes. That chocolate chick has one of the coldest bodies that I've seen.
Everyone in the whole world is damn picky though
They are toptier ❤
Successful and Fit doesn’t mean they are what these men are looking for.
The first guy is a prime example of if something seems too good to be true, It usually is.. DAAAMN!!! I love this show! 😅😅😅😅😅
Too good to be true…. Shsssh what you looking at, he was zesty ash.. 😒
The way he got weird after Arlette didn’t want him to ask another question grossed me out 😭 and the fact that it was a big thing “I have an 18 month old and was married for ELEVEN years” lol
It was weird that he waited til the end to announce he had a kid 🤣🤣🤣
cause he gay
The holding the child back til the end was a red flag but everyone calling him bi or whatever is something he'd find very offensive with his strong spiritual conviction..
I love that with each episode we are seeing more intentional daters and less clout chasers! Great job Arlette and BM!
Based on how far I’ve watched , this episode is wholesome. I admire the group of women that were picked.
18months is crazy!! Boy needs to focus on his baby rather than finding another relationship to jump in.
Girl in the peach colored dress is so intelligent and can articulate herself very well! Love her down
If he was a girl you wouldn't say this.
And you girls need to grow up, GIRL!!!!
i dont want to hear that lol there are women who begin dating again while still pregnant.
@@Mccarter1000Both aint right!!
@@Mccarter1000Was looking for this comment 🎯
One of my FAVORITE moments in all the episodes is that GOLDEN moment when WE can’t see the person walking up…BUT WE SEE THE 1st NATURAL REACTIONS & BODY LANGUAGE from the line up & can kinda guess what’s coming 😂😅 I love it, you see some trying not to make eye contact, or chuckle and side eye, OR you see em mouth that “Ooo🙂↕️” / immediate eye contact & putting that Queen or King energy in the way they stand… GOLDEN moments!
Shout out to the camera men/women AND THE WHOLE SHOW!
I’ve learned stuff about MYSELF as a black woman that are CURRENTLY causing healthy growth in my daily lifestyle. Thank you for serving us a healthy melanated competition that will ABSOLUTELY age well. God bless
First guy SUGARED his way out of a match with those last min questions lmaoooooo
@wombomsaucedamn gang that’s crazy! 😂 I’m sorry I’m a handsome ass ni99a! The hair nd beard is a cheat code out hea!
@wombomsauceyou wrong lol😂
Too much zest in that step😭
@wombomsauceYou definitely hating gang 😂! But I glad a dude don’t find me attractive tho.
Deadass lmaoo
“I don’t think any of us are his type” screaming!!!
i literally watch this show to dissect the psychology behind everything.
Same
No doubt about that
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GIRL SAME.
And what have you concluded?
Congrats Arlette with Pop the Balloon going Nation wide and being on Tamron Hall!!! Your show is the best around!! With your class and beautiful personality ,You are shinning & winning🧡
YES! SHE'S THE BEST.
This show getting more views than network television
Just another show that exposes women's delusion.
i love how kendra made sure to make time to get her nails and toes done this time 😭😂 she said ain’t nobody coming for my unpainted nails no more
I laughed when I saw her fresh French pedi!
I was literally searching for this comment to see if anyone noticed😂❤
But she said it wasn’t a big deal last time
Literally came to see if anyone caught that
@@bjmcintyre5080 It probably wasn't at first....until she got feedback
Red dress and shawty with the dreads look amaaaaazing, so beautiful 😍
40:00 ...therapist acknowledging her own mental health challenges...that level of self-awareness and transparency is wife and goddess energy ❤❤❤
Jordan is giving …she has attitude problem …like she really didn’t want to be there…it’s giving she going to be combative in the future.. it’s giving resting B. Face
My mentor says every therapist has a therapist
From her Voice to her Answers, She's a WOMAN. Fully flushed out, knows exactly who she is and what she wants. Her Voice alone was something to behold.
I thought she matched wrong!!
First guy seems like he’s got a pinch of sugar in the tank
Can’t understand why nobody has picked that up yet I GUESS THE 🌈dar isn’t working today.SOON as he spoke ear
shid that was i was thinking
😭😭😭
Bro definitely a lil sweet 😂😂
Bruh I wasn't trynna be the guy to say it .. but im like damn no pops. Maybe I need to carry myself a little Zesty 😂😂😂
That 2nd dude totally lied about the last girl being his type. 😂😂😂😂
HE DID!!! lol it was to risky for him to give a no I guess.😂😂😂
His pause was crazy lol. Realized he should just say yes and avoid any disturbances
@@dantern6168Arlette saved his ahh 😂
He’s not feeling her cause it doesn’t take that long to answer
He didn't give eye contact
The level of intelligence is off the chain...so proud of these sisters...many blessings
To anyone dealing with depression or feeling low, don’t give up on life, no matter what bad things happened in your past, don’t let them define you or control your destiny, you are all important and loved!, there is hope for all of us!
Jesus loves you all ✝️, get to know God through Christ 📖
Amen❤❤❤
Amen!!
Amen 🙏🏽
Yes sir 🙏🏽✝️
WOW!!!!❤❤❤❤
I like # 1 she's honest and knows how to be open, venerable, respectful. She's not afraid to be honest about her negative side and continue to grow & go forward
She fine too
@@westplace2001 😂😂😂
And she's gorgeous 😍
Lets not overlook that!@westplace2001
The girl with the black dress on the end... yeah, the last guy was not feeling her and it was awkward to watch and she just kept talking like she had it in the bag 😩
And then to be the last one standing but not necessarily his choice was...cringe a little
😂😂
Lol yes. And she kept talking and talking and talking... 🙄
She was literally the least put together person on the lineup
She was so annoying. When she made it up there it was embarrassing to watch. Like all the rambling was just too much
I love this channel you really get an insight into the way women/men think
Wait he was married for 11 years and is divorced now but has a one year old?? Yeah no sir. Get back with your wife.
@ashleychamon6446 Chile he was a rollercoaster and a pirate ship all into one. 😮💨😮💨
right, like what? 😂 Being divorced after 11 years and just recently had a baby seems a lil off
Stop, you know d@mn well y'all be trying to trap dudes as soon as you're sensing they're on their way out because they couldn't deal with you any longer.
Trying to prolong the disaster by keeping him high off that baby powder.
That is your work.
Agreed
@@rewbi2196This is tp funny 😂😂😂😂
Arlette has me in tears when she says “We did have a few popped balloons” when it was the whole row 😭 😭
😂😂😂
It’s always hilarious!
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The "licensed therapist" gives me weird energy. Her aura feels serious and judgemental. I would feel so insecure to have her as a therapist
exactly, she is beautiful but she prolly smiled once, that will be one crazy bird to deal with
@@SamsonAdeyinka-n6dmaybe nervousness
I noticed that
Naa literally everything she said was full of wisdom. She probably just a bit shy!! I rather think that the guy has something arrogant on him. I don’t feel that relationship will last
i thought opposite i feel as if she's assertive analytical & articulate. i think she would get me going intellectually very easily. i like how she acknowledged the unnatural environment to the second guy as well who was getting cooked for being timid or whatever
Now I see what people are talking about, the level of class in this episode is a breath of fresh air. All the ladies seem well educated, carried themselves very well besides the skinny lady in black (too aggressive with her words). A few of the men were impressive as well........ New subscriber here ❤