How to talk so kids will listen & Listen so kids will Talk - Adele Faber & Elaine mazlish Your voice too good and way of speaking too good. Thanks Dear
1. Respect feelings. 2. Acknowledge their feelings. 3. Speak in kids language (Fantasy language that kid understands ) 4. Negative emotions - Distract or vent out their energy in some way. Tell the names of each emotion so that the kid knows and feels it. Share your negative emotions with kid so they understand. 5. Kid wants to buy things - Acknowledge their wants, donot turn off. 6. How to make them co operate- Just describe the issue, without blaming. Give some information. Donot lecture. Use one word , without blaming or ordering. 7. Kids have more empathy naturally - Tell I am hurt, mom is hurt etc. 8. Shaping up a kid - Donot accuse kid, Give choices without ordering. Choices make them co-operate them well. 9. Self satisfaction , self respect, understanding about self is important. 10. Donot label kids. Point out good things they do and repeat it to them at times. 11. Compliment them when they do good.
LOL !!! What a timely book !!! And I love the selection of books you make, and I tell you what ? You can take a commission from all the authors you have so far been doing, cos I am one of them who has purchased many just after listening to your review...LOL....Even if I dont get some books, your reviews just lift me up and I am all smiles - Just be yourself the free spirited way you are now !!! Sending you lots of love and light ..just keep going...
Akkow this is good for kids but what abt teenagers who really play with our emotions and being carelessness e1 though they understand family struggles make a vid on this topic ka plz
This is what I wanted today...i was brimming with guilt for scolding and hurting my kids .i ve been doing everything wro . thank you so much for the information..I'm definitely going to read it ..And d way u delivered the talk was simply superb..great .. keep rocking...
பிறந்த ஐந்து வருடம் ங்களுக்குள் குழந்தைகள் கற்றுக் கொடுப்பது போதுமானது பள்ளியில் சேர்ப்பது பத்து வயதுக்குள் அனைத்தையும் கொடுத்துவிடும் பாடம் அதற்கு அப்புறம் பள்ளிக்கு செல்வது பணம் சம்பாதிப்பது விடாமல் இருப்பதற்கு இது போன்ற செயல்களில் ஈடுபட்டு செயல்படுகின்றனர் இது மிகப்பெரிய சாதித்திட்டம்
Thats such an amzing video anandhi.. 💕 I am gonna repeat this video again and again.. Being away from family in a different country, we r struggling to deal with kids tantrums..
How to talk with teenagers nu sollunga akka. Because en thambi ipo teenager dha , I Don't know how to handle .when I was teenagers I had come across many things , I don't want him to be like that . Teenagers really don't know what is realistic and which is not ...this is the age where there get easily distracted.....so I just wanted him to not go out of something good . Pls help how to manage the teenagers akka
I'm also in your situation sister just listen to this what i follow what ever he does wrong just be calm don't allow their bad action to affect your good manner.
Important thing you have to Rob his heart ♥ first that's the key ingredient to make him good person in the future what i mean is that you have to make him trust you How to make him trust you: 1. Show your LOVE openly[ tell him that you like him every much] 2. CARE him in all the aspects and in all the situations 3. Make him realise what is good and bad for that you have to talk to him don't be lazy to talk 4. Praise him and call him by beautiful names
Enoda 2.5 vayasu piyanuku enna vida en thangachiya tha pidikum itha avane solran. Epovum chithi ta ponum nu solran. Pakathu veetla irukom..so angaye irukanum nu solran .na enna panna
This is something i needed today.. growing up i always loved children and recently i joined as a helper for LKG.. most of the time, i just admire how kids speak and act.. but when we have to control them, i knew only shouting (as a silent person this behaviour was so weird to me). I think, now i learnt how to talk to children :)
Ananthi RJ, Cartoon is for Kids or Parents ? Not only they will ask the parents to read for them, but they will also start instructing Parents to follow what is said in this book, as it's so beneficial for them !
Akka, 2nd baby pirandha piragu I take care of him so much bcoz of his pre matured one.And 1st paiyan 10 years old 2nd one 2 years old. I concentrate him in each and everything but he nowadays not respecting and consid ering and loving me . 😭😭😭😭😭 1st paiyan mela romba anbaa irindhen and eppavum dhaan but ippo just giving guidance for his better growth. We are spending more money for him and thinking about him. But purinjikka maattendraan. I teach him good behaviours only but he hates me . And he shows his love to my machaan wife . I panic . Bcoz avan avanga pechu ketkiraan. Engala avanga munnaadi insult pandraan. Already they r very arrogant and dangerous people . So I feel worry about him a lot. Pls tell me solution akka.
Hi sisy...you are speaking in a jet speed..so that im not able to listen it calmy...n concentrate on what you speak..just like watching English movie but reading the subtitles coming below it..
Great info..i have made lots of mistake all these years . how much I have hurt the feelings of my children .I feel I have wasted all these years by wrong parenting .thank you so much for this book explanation.
If me Son/daughter want something i ain't goona give it for free rather i ask them to do chores work for it so they can start getting the money from me for the work and they'll get what they want if you just give it for free they goona struggle in real world
Mam please...... En paiyan neighbours kita relatives and school mam kita elm sariyave pesa matren Bt veetla matum nalla vilaiyaduren pesuren mam ithuku yana panurathu
Mam, soft speaking and better development of positivity and silent in behavior develop pannra mathiri books solunga... And parenting kaana vera books kuda suggest pannunga mam... This vedios is awesome and wish to get more like this... Thank you so much mam
Sister manasu romba kastama erunchu appatha you tube pakkalanu patha pothu unga video va pathatum manuse lasachu you are great ma odane subscribe panniten
Ippo enaku age 28 ...evunga solra ellathaium pakum podhu than thryudhu na matured ahh vae illa oru kiddish than innum en amma kitta evunga solra ellam expect pannitu irkn even though im a mom of 2 yr old kid😂
Please ye magaluku ava school a yella students m English nallave padikuranga, ivaluku konjham kashtama iruku so yarathu questions mattumathu purinthu answer easy a padika, yezhutha online class yedutha please sollunga, padika Aasa avaluku, Aana puriyama azhugiral.
Just completed this book last week... Its useful... We need to practice it consciously on daily basis.. Same author has written How to talk to Teens so Teens will listen book too.... Struggling Parents of teens too can read that...
Neenga easy ya solringa but evlo bp akum teriyuma. Evlovo porumaya irupen. But sothipanga teriyuma
Correcta sonninga same prblm enakkum
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Bp aagum pothu, neengalum oru drawing pannunga or oru 5 second calm ah irunga. All soluntion in our hand. Think that we are kids.
"Namaku rubber eubber,avangaluku rubber rubbbeerr"..samma cute ka neenga
Sis plzzzzz do (your are yours child's first teacher book ) plzzzzz
Same feeling
Excellent tips in a humour way ! Your detailed explanation will reach everyone ! Your casual talk will be liked by all!
How to talk so kids will listen
& Listen so kids will Talk - Adele Faber & Elaine mazlish
Your voice too good and way of speaking too good. Thanks Dear
ரொம்ப ரொம்பவே இக்காலத்தின் சரியான புத்தகம் ஆனந்தி அவர்களே
By far better book you ve explained so far.
Super information thanks mam
வாழ்த்துகள் 👌 அருமையான விரிவுரை
Amazing... Thank you
Thank u 👍🏻
Hello sis,,,, superb review,,, in my home daily that'Thundu' and brushing happened.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣my 8yrs son doing ...😂😂😍😍💕💞💓💞
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Super sis
Athu ok nga again again annaiku list potingala atha yeppo vaangi tharinga kekkuranga ennoda baby
2 or 3 kids kitta irukum podhu wela awangada wela ipidi neram tention aakura pola wela senja kowam warudhu ewalo control a irundhalum onda rendo eartha thiiti than padadhu nt awanga thoongura podhu paakakule ayyo thittitome du aluwa warudhu plz perants adhu thaniya 2 pullaihala walakura perants stress tention angry attitude epdi illamalakuradhu practical a advice panga pls
Apo avanga thapu pana...ena panrathu....
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1. Respect feelings.
2. Acknowledge their feelings.
3. Speak in kids language (Fantasy language that kid understands )
4. Negative emotions - Distract or vent out their energy in some way. Tell the names of each emotion so that the kid knows and feels it. Share your negative emotions with kid so they understand.
5. Kid wants to buy things - Acknowledge their wants, donot turn off.
6. How to make them co operate- Just describe the issue, without blaming. Give some information. Donot lecture. Use one word , without blaming or ordering.
7. Kids have more empathy naturally - Tell I am hurt, mom is hurt etc.
8. Shaping up a kid - Donot accuse kid, Give choices without ordering. Choices make them co-operate them well.
9. Self satisfaction , self respect, understanding about self is important.
10. Donot label kids. Point out good things they do and repeat it to them at times.
11. Compliment them when they do good.
Kk
Very nice 👍
Thank you🙏
4:07 rubber kaanum pencil la kaanum nu 😂
Exact imitation of Indian parents 🤧 Much needed video ka! Thank you💛
LOL !!! What a timely book !!! And I love the selection of books you make, and I tell you what ? You can take a commission from all the authors you have so far been doing, cos I am one of them who has purchased many just after listening to your review...LOL....Even if I dont get some books, your reviews just lift me up and I am all smiles - Just be yourself the free spirited way you are now !!! Sending you lots of love and light ..just keep going...
Kubbeeer laugh moment. Namakku rubber - rubber. Kolandhangalku rubber - rubbbbbbbberrrr.... 🤣🤣
Akkow this is good for kids but what abt teenagers who really play with our emotions and being carelessness e1 though they understand family struggles make a vid on this topic ka plz
You are reading many books why can't you try AL QURAN???
Hi ananthi...Also review the book unconditional parenting by Alfie kohn...It's also a good book for parenting
Maamiyara yeppadi handle pannanum nu podunga....
This is what I wanted today...i was brimming with guilt for scolding and hurting my kids .i ve been doing everything wro . thank you so much for the information..I'm definitely going to read it ..And d way u delivered the talk was simply superb..great .. keep rocking...
Namaku rubber, rubber😏 avangalukku rubber, RUBBERR🤩!! Ultimate intonation
As a mother I feel happy to hear that.. Suggest more like this mam
I need in tamil language mam.
Ananthi RJ, Why Supper Man ? Why not Spider Man, Heman, Sakthimaan, Bat Man Etc ?
Kozhandhaiku solanumna.... Amma ku theriyanum.... So hw to mend 30+ yrs amma to place the towel in outside hanger after use
பிறந்த ஐந்து வருடம் ங்களுக்குள் குழந்தைகள் கற்றுக் கொடுப்பது போதுமானது பள்ளியில் சேர்ப்பது பத்து வயதுக்குள் அனைத்தையும் கொடுத்துவிடும் பாடம் அதற்கு அப்புறம் பள்ளிக்கு செல்வது பணம் சம்பாதிப்பது விடாமல் இருப்பதற்கு இது போன்ற செயல்களில் ஈடுபட்டு செயல்படுகின்றனர் இது மிகப்பெரிய சாதித்திட்டம்
4:45 - 4:53 Rubber expression extraordinary sis..😊
Thats such an amzing video anandhi.. 💕 I am gonna repeat this video again and again.. Being away from family in a different country, we r struggling to deal with kids tantrums..
Exactly the rubber scenario. But I used to say RUBBER! Ma kid ll say, rubber thana ma, buy me another one🤦♀️
Vera level la tamizh pesuringa..ketutae irukanum pola iruku.. what a flow.. and I am getting this book today
Ithellam panarathuku veetula ullavankalum support pannanum joint familyla ithellam saathiyam illa 😭😭😭😭
You nailed it on mother portion dialogues 😂😂
Thank u so much mam.
அக்கா கைகளை அசைக்க வேண்டாம் freeya விடுங்கோ
Wow.. superb explanation of the book. The book gets so real when you explain with your smile...Love you Ananthi... Thank you 💝
How to talk with teenagers nu sollunga akka. Because en thambi ipo teenager dha , I Don't know how to handle .when I was teenagers I had come across many things , I don't want him to be like that . Teenagers really don't know what is realistic and which is not ...this is the age where there get easily distracted.....so I just wanted him to not go out of something good . Pls help how to manage the teenagers akka
I'm also in your situation sister just listen to this what i follow what ever he does wrong just be calm don't allow their bad action to affect your good manner.
Important thing you have to Rob his heart ♥ first that's the key ingredient to make him good person in the future what i mean is that you have to make him trust you
How to make him trust you:
1. Show your LOVE openly[ tell him that you like him every much]
2. CARE him in all the aspects and in all the situations
3. Make him realise what is good and bad for that you have to talk to him don't be lazy to talk
4. Praise him and call him by beautiful names
Enoda 2.5 vayasu piyanuku enna vida en thangachiya tha pidikum itha avane solran. Epovum chithi ta ponum nu solran. Pakathu veetla irukom..so angaye irukanum nu solran .na enna panna
This is something i needed today.. growing up i always loved children and recently i joined as a helper for LKG.. most of the time, i just admire how kids speak and act.. but when we have to control them, i knew only shouting (as a silent person this behaviour was so weird to me). I think, now i learnt how to talk to children :)
Very nice
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Ananthi RJ, Cartoon is for Kids or Parents ? Not only they will ask the parents to read for them, but they will also start instructing Parents to follow what is said in this book, as it's so beneficial for them !
I am surprised that i am following these things, also doing many mistakes,should learn more to make my son cool .that's for this video
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Like minded people always think about the same things nah?
Theveppadure books lam epd than time Ku podurelo therila
Love you akka 😘
The way u explain make it feel like every book is interesting 🙂...
Waiting for part 2.This is ur best
Hyper kid. Child epdi balance pandrathu.... Low siting tolence😢
Akka, 2nd baby pirandha piragu I take care of him so much bcoz of his pre matured one.And 1st paiyan 10 years old 2nd one 2 years old. I concentrate him in each and everything but he nowadays not respecting and consid
ering and loving me . 😭😭😭😭😭
1st paiyan mela romba anbaa irindhen and eppavum dhaan but ippo just giving guidance for his better growth. We are spending more money for him and thinking about him. But purinjikka maattendraan. I teach him good behaviours only but he hates me . And he shows his love to my machaan wife . I panic . Bcoz avan avanga pechu ketkiraan. Engala avanga munnaadi insult pandraan. Already they r very arrogant and dangerous people .
So I feel worry about him a lot. Pls tell me solution akka.
Pls review lot of parenting book. It's amazing to hear
Hi sisy...you are speaking in a jet speed..so that im not able to listen it calmy...n concentrate on what you speak..just like watching English movie but reading the subtitles coming below it..
Unga face expression semmaiya iruku..... I like it akka...
ஆங்கில மொழிக் கலப்பால் தமிழ் மொழி அழிந்துவிடும். தயவுசெய்து புரிந்து நடந்து கொள்ளுங்கள். முழுமையான தமிழில் பேச முயற்சி செய்யுங்கள்.
Nice Saree Ananthi
பாப்பா ஜி மனசு என்ற குழந்தை முதல்ல சொல் பேச்சை கேடகமல் பச்சாதாபப்படுகிறது.அந்த குழந்தைய சரி செய்ய வழி கூறுங்கள் தாயே
Parents ellam than vangitharom.but they dnt care. Sometimes they understand.
I like the way you said the 'rubber'😊
வணக்கம் மேம்
குழந்தைகளை பேச விடுங்கள் அவர்களிடமிருந்து எழும் கேள்விகளுக்கு பதில் சொல்ல நாம் இன்னொரு பிறவி எடுக்க வேண்டும் !!!
Thanks for a such a sweet book review!! ❤️👨👩👦
Kovam vantha controll panamudiyithula??
Hyper ah sound poduraanga miss unwant ah... 4yr boy
Great info..i have made lots of mistake all these years . how much I have hurt the feelings of my children .I feel I have wasted all these years by wrong parenting .thank you so much for this book explanation.
Pls read enjoy your life book that’s amazing mam
How to handle wife, pls put video.90s men's pavam.
If me Son/daughter want something i ain't goona give it for free rather i ask them to do chores work for it so they can start getting the money from me for the work and they'll get what they want if you just give it for free they goona struggle in real world
Mam children who remember previous lives indha book review podunka mam
Happy to see these comments 😊but made me feel like why my parents didn't know any of the upsaid 😔 anyhow nice video 👍
Mam please......
En paiyan neighbours kita relatives and school mam kita elm sariyave pesa matren
Bt veetla matum nalla vilaiyaduren pesuren mam ithuku yana panurathu
💯 correct akka thank you so much
Yaruma nee. Unnodaya pechchum thudippum unna romba azhaga kaattuthu. Nan ungala label pannala 🤗. Your lovely.
Mam, soft speaking and better development of positivity and silent in behavior develop pannra mathiri books solunga... And parenting kaana vera books kuda suggest pannunga mam... This vedios is awesome and wish to get more like this... Thank you so much mam
Mam a kulanthaikku 4 vayathu aguthu...ava setta ovara seyira enna seyivathu mam pls solu ga.....ennala kanrol panna mudiyala......🙏🙏🙏
Sister manasu romba kastama erunchu appatha you tube pakkalanu patha pothu unga video va pathatum manuse lasachu you are great ma odane subscribe panniten
unexpected book review....loved it...thanks a lot Anandhi❤️
Entha book enga kidaikum enakum venum enga pappavuku 2 years age aaga pothu so na enoda pappava etha mathri growth plz soluga
Diagramaticala express pannalam..🤩🥳bcoz avangaluku starting la letters kathukamatangala😅
Ippo enaku age 28 ...evunga solra ellathaium pakum podhu than thryudhu na matured ahh vae illa oru kiddish than innum en amma kitta evunga solra ellam expect pannitu irkn even though im a mom of 2 yr old kid😂
Please ye magaluku ava school a yella students m English nallave padikuranga, ivaluku konjham kashtama iruku so yarathu questions mattumathu purinthu answer easy a padika, yezhutha online class yedutha please sollunga, padika Aasa avaluku, Aana puriyama azhugiral.
அதோட meaning தமிழ் ல சொள்ளுங்கமா
Sema sema...very useful
Thanku
please post 1000 videos about wife management.
Sis ennoda girl baby ku 3 years asguthu ..adikadi things ku cry panraa..koodavae irukananum.alunthutae irukaa adikadi ..na epadi maathalam .adikaran.thitran .onnum pana mudiyala
onga vedio paath mudichadhume male ninna madre aachi ...muuchi enga tha podho therele....huf but gud information ....I liked it
Timely video.. for my child psychology exam am reading tis book.. well explained.. thanku
But when they keep going on postponing all works and reading i loose patience
இந்த கமெண்ட்ல எல்லாம் இங்கிலீஷ்ல டைப் பண்ணி இருக்காங்க. இந்த புக் தமிழ்ல இருக்குமா தமிழ் புக் கிடைக்குமா.
Swid mis
Books on parenting and philosophy about life plsss
Sister content super,but say slow,bcs it's gonna
Daily sonalum kekala what we do. Tension kovam varuthu
Over advertisement amma thaye please reduce it it's irritating
Just completed this book last week...
Its useful... We need to practice it consciously on daily basis.. Same author has written How to talk to Teens so Teens will listen book too.... Struggling Parents of teens too can read that...
Can u pls post book link again
Namakku rubber..rubber..Avungalukku rubber... RUBBBBER...😄👍
I luv ur Speach Mam, but I really Tq Very much Mam
Useful points to follow.. Expecting more like this
This explains why I don’t like my name
Vera level content...thank u sister
All super sister then thank you change the my mind
Neega pesaradhu kekkum podhu enaku evlow happya irukkunu vaarthaiyala solla mudiyala neega ellame en veettula nadakudhu but ennala edhaium sari panna mudiyala manasu romba kastama iruku mam enaku 3 pen pillaigal avanga kitta mallu katti enaku nenju vali vandhadhu dhan micham kandippa seekkiram poiduvenu nenakiren enaku age 31
Adutha parenting book yeppo madam
Hi sister ippothan unga video parthean romba nalla irunthuchu subscribe pannitean