1. Respect feelings. 2. Acknowledge their feelings. 3. Speak in kids language (Fantasy language that kid understands ) 4. Negative emotions - Distract or vent out their energy in some way. Tell the names of each emotion so that the kid knows and feels it. Share your negative emotions with kid so they understand. 5. Kid wants to buy things - Acknowledge their wants, donot turn off. 6. How to make them co operate- Just describe the issue, without blaming. Give some information. Donot lecture. Use one word , without blaming or ordering. 7. Kids have more empathy naturally - Tell I am hurt, mom is hurt etc. 8. Shaping up a kid - Donot accuse kid, Give choices without ordering. Choices make them co-operate them well. 9. Self satisfaction , self respect, understanding about self is important. 10. Donot label kids. Point out good things they do and repeat it to them at times. 11. Compliment them when they do good.
This is what I wanted today...i was brimming with guilt for scolding and hurting my kids .i ve been doing everything wro . thank you so much for the information..I'm definitely going to read it ..And d way u delivered the talk was simply superb..great .. keep rocking...
Correct Nanum chinna vayasula ethavathu nenachu kashta pattu azhutha “amma ivan Periya ivan ivaru feel panni azhuguraram periya aalu maathiri pannatha’ apadi nu solluvaanga. Chinna pasangalukku romba maturity irukkathu nu avangala nenachukkuraanga ithukku lama chinna pasanga Feel pannuvaanga nu avangala nenachukkuraanga. Athu kandippa hurt aagum namma feelings purunjukka maatenguranga nu. I am 32 now I still remember those moments.
LOL !!! What a timely book !!! And I love the selection of books you make, and I tell you what ? You can take a commission from all the authors you have so far been doing, cos I am one of them who has purchased many just after listening to your review...LOL....Even if I dont get some books, your reviews just lift me up and I am all smiles - Just be yourself the free spirited way you are now !!! Sending you lots of love and light ..just keep going...
Great info..i have made lots of mistake all these years . how much I have hurt the feelings of my children .I feel I have wasted all these years by wrong parenting .thank you so much for this book explanation.
This is something i needed today.. growing up i always loved children and recently i joined as a helper for LKG.. most of the time, i just admire how kids speak and act.. but when we have to control them, i knew only shouting (as a silent person this behaviour was so weird to me). I think, now i learnt how to talk to children :)
Just completed this book last week... Its useful... We need to practice it consciously on daily basis.. Same author has written How to talk to Teens so Teens will listen book too.... Struggling Parents of teens too can read that...
Thats such an amzing video anandhi.. 💕 I am gonna repeat this video again and again.. Being away from family in a different country, we r struggling to deal with kids tantrums..
I read this book 2 years back. It’s an amazing book. I just loved it. Was definitely an eye opener for me as an adult and it’s a very important book for moms and mom to be to read it.
Very important videos for parents who can't read parenting books.. Although some parents may not take this video very seriously I want to let you know it all works... It will certainly not spoil your kids but rather you will have a very well behaved and empathetic children
4yrs munadiye indha video vandhruntha i would have been a better mom.. i did all the mistakes and my 4.5yr old son is not at all listening to my words.! I hope here after i will try to be a better parent.. thanks for the video 💯
Really useful and awesome video.. Aanandi neenga sonathu enakagave sonna mari irunduchu.. I usually do these things and i have to try to change like ur wordings.. Thanks for waking me from my foolishness.. Keep going..
Thanks alot, mam. Iam struggling with my children they were two different characters. I got stressed as I was not enough in parenting skills.ur points more help full to me
Hi mam, unga parents kids video pathe, romba useful a irunthuchu, unga pecchum activities m kekumpothu nane kuzhanthai a mari santhosathula sirichute, first kuzhanthainga purinchukurathuku munna oru Normal parent ke joliya puriya vacchathuku thank you so much, na Santhosama follow panre
Akka you are amazing..... 17 mins 54 secs la one sec kuda bore adikama... Oru 10 secs forward polam aptinu think pana vidama... Full conscious oda kekura mari content full ah unganalatha pesa mudiyu...
Mam, soft speaking and better development of positivity and silent in behavior develop pannra mathiri books solunga... And parenting kaana vera books kuda suggest pannunga mam... This vedios is awesome and wish to get more like this... Thank you so much mam
Ananthi.. Take a breath. I am feeling breathlessness ❤️❤️ So timely for me. We are undergoing a tough time as my son is showing school refusal. Will get this book. Thank you so mucj
unga speech listen panni enaku unga speech ketu ennoda 2 pasanga la feel panni tears are coming from my eyes.hereafter i respect my children and hearing what they say.
1. Respect feelings.
2. Acknowledge their feelings.
3. Speak in kids language (Fantasy language that kid understands )
4. Negative emotions - Distract or vent out their energy in some way. Tell the names of each emotion so that the kid knows and feels it. Share your negative emotions with kid so they understand.
5. Kid wants to buy things - Acknowledge their wants, donot turn off.
6. How to make them co operate- Just describe the issue, without blaming. Give some information. Donot lecture. Use one word , without blaming or ordering.
7. Kids have more empathy naturally - Tell I am hurt, mom is hurt etc.
8. Shaping up a kid - Donot accuse kid, Give choices without ordering. Choices make them co-operate them well.
9. Self satisfaction , self respect, understanding about self is important.
10. Donot label kids. Point out good things they do and repeat it to them at times.
11. Compliment them when they do good.
Kk
Very nice 👍
Thank you🙏
Thank you ❤
Neenga easy ya solringa but evlo bp akum teriyuma. Evlovo porumaya irupen. But sothipanga teriyuma
Correcta sonninga same prblm enakkum
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Bp aagum pothu, neengalum oru drawing pannunga or oru 5 second calm ah irunga. All soluntion in our hand. Think that we are kids.
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Vera level la tamizh pesuringa..ketutae irukanum pola iruku.. what a flow.. and I am getting this book today
4:45 - 4:53 Rubber expression extraordinary sis..😊
This is what I wanted today...i was brimming with guilt for scolding and hurting my kids .i ve been doing everything wro . thank you so much for the information..I'm definitely going to read it ..And d way u delivered the talk was simply superb..great .. keep rocking...
Correct Nanum chinna vayasula ethavathu nenachu kashta pattu azhutha “amma ivan Periya ivan ivaru feel panni azhuguraram periya aalu maathiri pannatha’ apadi nu solluvaanga. Chinna pasangalukku romba maturity irukkathu nu avangala nenachukkuraanga ithukku lama chinna pasanga Feel pannuvaanga nu avangala nenachukkuraanga. Athu kandippa hurt aagum namma feelings purunjukka maatenguranga nu. I am 32 now I still remember those moments.
As a mother I feel happy to hear that.. Suggest more like this mam
I need in tamil language mam.
4:07 rubber kaanum pencil la kaanum nu 😂
Exact imitation of Indian parents 🤧 Much needed video ka! Thank you💛
I'm new parent from srilanka .....Neega idhe madriyana nalla wishayangala innam innam share pannina enaku romba help a irukum... Akka ....
LOL !!! What a timely book !!! And I love the selection of books you make, and I tell you what ? You can take a commission from all the authors you have so far been doing, cos I am one of them who has purchased many just after listening to your review...LOL....Even if I dont get some books, your reviews just lift me up and I am all smiles - Just be yourself the free spirited way you are now !!! Sending you lots of love and light ..just keep going...
Great info..i have made lots of mistake all these years . how much I have hurt the feelings of my children .I feel I have wasted all these years by wrong parenting .thank you so much for this book explanation.
This is something i needed today.. growing up i always loved children and recently i joined as a helper for LKG.. most of the time, i just admire how kids speak and act.. but when we have to control them, i knew only shouting (as a silent person this behaviour was so weird to me). I think, now i learnt how to talk to children :)
Very nice
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"Namaku rubber eubber,avangaluku rubber rubbbeerr"..samma cute ka neenga
Sis plzzzzz do (your are yours child's first teacher book ) plzzzzz
Same feeling
Just completed this book last week...
Its useful... We need to practice it consciously on daily basis.. Same author has written How to talk to Teens so Teens will listen book too.... Struggling Parents of teens too can read that...
Can u pls post book link again
Each and every word and that towel matter daily I am saying to my son and daughter. This is superb video sure I will buy that book
Thats such an amzing video anandhi.. 💕 I am gonna repeat this video again and again.. Being away from family in a different country, we r struggling to deal with kids tantrums..
Wow.. superb explanation of the book. The book gets so real when you explain with your smile...Love you Ananthi... Thank you 💝
I read this book 2 years back. It’s an amazing book. I just loved it. Was definitely an eye opener for me as an adult and it’s a very important book for moms and mom to be to read it.
Pls book da name sollungale.. english book or tamil??
Thank you, yenaku romba useful video, intha video paakum pothu, yennoda thappa sari pannika yenaku oru vaaipa iruku, thank you sister
Useful points to follow.. Expecting more like this
Amazingly explained dear. Antha book ah padichiruntha kooda ivlo intresting ah irukadhu nu nenaikiren. Thanks a Lot
Indha book epdi irukum nu idea illa.. but ur way of expressing those tips are awesome...
Very important videos for parents who can't read parenting books.. Although some parents may not take this video very seriously I want to let you know it all works... It will certainly not spoil your kids but rather you will have a very well behaved and empathetic children
Excellent tips in a humour way ! Your detailed explanation will reach everyone ! Your casual talk will be liked by all!
Timely video.. for my child psychology exam am reading tis book.. well explained.. thanku
Have a nice speech I I appreciate you sister very speed and sweet speech excellent thanking you
Unga face expression semmaiya iruku..... I like it akka...
4yrs munadiye indha video vandhruntha i would have been a better mom.. i did all the mistakes and my 4.5yr old son is not at all listening to my words.! I hope here after i will try to be a better parent.. thanks for the video 💯
ரொம்ப ரொம்பவே இக்காலத்தின் சரியான புத்தகம் ஆனந்தி அவர்களே
Good one sister...I follow this method my child...she is so addament..I will follow this methodical
Hi ananthi...Also review the book unconditional parenting by Alfie kohn...It's also a good book for parenting
Thanks Aanandhi for this topic, I need like this many videos from your speech... to be a better parenting
Great ❤❤❤enga mummy ipdi tha 25 years engala guide pannanga superrrr🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉vedio very motivation
சூப்பர் மேடம்,நல்ல அர்த்தமுள்ள informations. நன்றி வாழ்க வளமுடன் 🙏🙏.
The way u explain make it feel like every book is interesting 🙂...
Waiting for part 2.This is ur best
Really useful and awesome video.. Aanandi neenga sonathu enakagave sonna mari irunduchu.. I usually do these things and i have to try to change like ur wordings.. Thanks for waking me from my foolishness.. Keep going..
Thankyou so much mam.. All r 100%true ..As a toddler's mom, these r wat I needed nowadays
அருமை அருமை வாழ்த்துக்கள் தாயே வாழ்க வளமுடன்🙏
Super. Nan expect Panna video. Thanks ananthi
Super. I change my character listen this information.
That rubber - rubber modulation and example was humorous and super
Thank you so much for your way of explanation. It's very nice to see..
Thanks alot, mam. Iam struggling with my children they were two different characters. I got stressed as I was not enough in parenting skills.ur points more help full to me
So much of useful things video.thank u sister because i am a first time parent.so i say lot of thank you.
Kubbeeer laugh moment. Namakku rubber - rubber. Kolandhangalku rubber - rubbbbbbbberrrr.... 🤣🤣
super speech mam..and cute haa solliringa,🥰😍
Hi mam, unga parents kids video pathe, romba useful a irunthuchu, unga pecchum activities m kekumpothu nane kuzhanthai a mari santhosathula sirichute, first kuzhanthainga purinchukurathuku munna oru Normal parent ke joliya puriya vacchathuku thank you so much, na Santhosama follow panre
உங்கள் பேச்சு எனக்கு மிகவும் பயன் உள்ளதாக இருக்கிறது ❤❤❤❤
Parenting is nothing but mind reading of kid and react in positive polite way...
I like the way you said the 'rubber'😊
Akka, unga voice kku naa theevira fan.
I addicted to ur catchy tone.
I am happy for this video antha book fulla paduchu innum oru video poduga ananthi
👌 👍Very Good Presentation with Explanation, most needed information . Thank you.
Super akka.... Cleara sonninga...... Thank you so much......
Great Anandii such a wonderful exp 🎉❤ goooooood keep going on
Yaru ma ne un video ippo tha pakura super ma ♥️ ❤️ 💖 💕 💙 🎉upload for more video's ma super ma your speech
I started reading this book a while back but you have expressed it so well. Loved the way you explain it with real life scenarios.
Tho most xpcted... we want more videos in this topic.. well done
. Great job. Thank you
Thank you very much siss... Thanks a lot
Thank you somuch sis I am very confused to handle my second child ,will try these ideas to my son.thanl you once again
Super information thanks mam
Thanks for a such a sweet book review!! ❤️👨👩👦
Vera level content...thank u sister
I luv ur Speach Mam, but I really Tq Very much Mam
Oh my so fast talk, nice smile but your talks are really impressive
Next part please..it is most needed to today parents..bcoz they are used to manage child by giving phone
Ur tone n presentation is very appealing. This video is very informative. Stay blessed.
Thank you madam very very informative video
Akka you are amazing..... 17 mins 54 secs la one sec kuda bore adikama... Oru 10 secs forward polam aptinu think pana vidama... Full conscious oda kekura mari content full ah unganalatha pesa mudiyu...
I am surprised that i am following these things, also doing many mistakes,should learn more to make my son cool .that's for this video
By far better book you ve explained so far.
👌👌👌👌super sister 😊இந்த மாதிரி நிறைய video போடுங்க 👍🙏
Totally emotional.. very well speech..
Mam, soft speaking and better development of positivity and silent in behavior develop pannra mathiri books solunga... And parenting kaana vera books kuda suggest pannunga mam... This vedios is awesome and wish to get more like this... Thank you so much mam
Vera level concept of the book
Ithu ellaam ok RJA AKKA. BUT IPPO IRRUKKA BYSY LIFE LA ITHUKKU PARENT KKU TIME ILLAAYEA🤷🤷
Ananthi.. Take a breath. I am feeling breathlessness ❤️❤️
So timely for me. We are undergoing a tough time as my son is showing school refusal. Will get this book. Thank you so mucj
Very much happy to know many information .thank you
I am also 90's kids this is very useful for me and I learn it more.like this video
Beautifully explained ❤ love it.. thank u for ur sharing..😊
Apo avanga thapu pana...ena panrathu....
Nala pesringa mam en papaku useful ah irukum
Beautifully explained. Hats off to you!!
Happy to c this..and also knowing tht we r going in crct way
unga speech listen panni enaku unga speech ketu ennoda 2 pasanga la feel panni tears are coming from my eyes.hereafter i respect my children and hearing what they say.
Super ra iruku unga speech then voice
When you are saying about these book points rather than my kid.. my husband is coming to my mind😊
thanks madam, very use ful,,. Today, my bethi born at 0445 h pm
Super good msg convey to all
Your way of speech is more attractive..keep it up
Loved the way of narration. Let me try to apply.
நல்ல பேசறீங்க சிஸ்டர்.. அருமை....❤
Now a days am very feel about this tanq so much
Thank you mam for your wonderful speech 🙏🙏its very useful to me
Sariyaana pathil paa thanking you very much paa
Kozhandhaiku solanumna.... Amma ku theriyanum.... So hw to mend 30+ yrs amma to place the towel in outside hanger after use
Unga speech very sweet.
Thanks ananthi 👍🙏
Nice modulation.. Good message
Wow excellent way of saying superb❤❤❤
Semmaya erukku unkada advice😏😏😏😏😋😋😋