No offence to you Brother Ali, but what is the relevance of making a video about another man's affairs? of which you in your own words said that your are 'speculating' about what happened in his marriage. If you are someone who understands the Deen, then you would know, that which does not concern you, is not your business, yet you are here saying "i wish I know what happened in his marriage" and nor is this an Islamic work of Dawah, but is rather work of gossip. Unfortunately your work on this platform has become the likes of those who make baseless social media content to get petty likes and make pennies on TH-cam. Be a man and don't invade in private affairs of others, what your doing is what little boys do.
I agree. It’s Khaled’s business. He hasn’t publicized everything Hass he? So it’s not our business to dig and find out. If Khaled himself states tbings, then that means he is okay with allowing others to know.
Thank you brother for putting this up......soo many of these have been going around and especially taken the advantage of the situation in yemen. May Allah swt protect and help the people of yemen and may Allah swt deal those scammers using yemen as a way to take money from people
My sister's father-in-law never married again after the death of his wife shortly after giving birth to their youngest child. He was probably in his 30s when he became widower.
well, they had issues but decided to work it out a year before their divorce happened, it didnt work out. and yr sister's father in law is different, he still prob loved his dead wife, the people being talked about have prob started to resent each other, otherwise why would the marriage break?
Why are you speculating on what caused the end of their marriage? Do you know them personally? Thought this was an Islamic channel and not a gossip channel. You should know to leave matters that don’t concern you.
This is supposed to be an Islamic channel. Ali Dawah is instead digging into people's affairs (whom he doesn't even know personally) and speculating/gossiping about them online. Nothing Islamic about this. Shame on you
I used to subscribe to Ali Dawah and learnt so much from his videos but wallah this is the final straw. I will unsubscribe because here blatantly, Ali is shamelessly trying to JUSTIFY a man who "allegedly" MAY have had an affair and married a non muslim. And here he is BLAMING the woman! It seems that no matter what, it's always the woman's fault, no matter what a good wife she is and a good muslimah, men will have the excuse to cheat if they are unsatisfied with the relationship. And because they are not emotional like women (as Ali described in this video) this 100% means they made a rational decision??? I am sick and tired of being let down by not only my father, but also all these public dawah men who have been so much influenced by this "red pill" movement and claim they have not, and use their misogynistic ideas to spew nonsense FAR from the Qur'an and sunnah. I hate being made to feel like crap for being born a woman, and before anyone asks, no I'm not a feminist. I am a proud muslimah who tries my utmost best to follow the teachings of our beloved prophet Muhammad ﷺ and the mothers of the believers. But I can GUARANTEE that if the roles were reversed and Salamah moved on so quickly to get married again, no one would be saying that Khalid may not have been a good husband or try to JUSTIFY her behaviour?? Either way, there is never any excuse for affairs, end off. When you make these videos, you have no idea how difficult it is for the woman to bear emotionally whilst you just carry on speculating and causing gossip about their situation. Also, I never watch these muslim influencer couples because I find them cringe and don't agree with any of it, or showing any relationship online as it conflicts with my values of modesty and hayah. I only watched a couple of shorts that came into my feed once of salamah and khalid and it was very disturbing in my opinion. So I am not defending them because I never watched their videos. I just feel for the woman being subtly blamed for her ex-husband allegedly having an affair, clearly noted in the Qur'an as zinah, a major sin. I advise you Ali, to please refrain from posting such videos, and to choose your words wisely as you have no idea how much they can affect and hurt other young muslimahs like myself and make us not even want to get married. Ever since you started that 'bitter truth show' aswell, quite frankly I don't agree with the mixed setting of both men and women and the topics discussed. A lot of people have felt very uncomfortable and voiced their concerns which you have continued to ignore. I found a lot of views expressed to be very extreme, and like I said earlier, made me feel like crap about being a woman again Literally at 7:54 Ali says it's her fault for him moving on so fast in conclusion
Are you watching another video?! Ali had to remind us all the time that all we're doing here is assuming what may happened, he didn't blame anyone for anything, he's intentionally mentioning some scenarios that won't come to the mind of a feminist, that's all
Can’t agree more , All of the muslims men influencers/youtubers whatsoever are influenced by the red pill ideology, the funny thing is that they are not aware of it because they focus sooo much on women and feminism to the point they lost themselves
@@ziziprecious3124 depends what happened. We do not know what happened. But he definitely should not be marrying a Hindu woman, perhaps Salama knows things we do not about his unIslamic behavior.
@@freetranslate-u8e there isnt prove she's hindu, and he says religion is an important part of his life so another reason i dont think he would marry an hindu
@@likililo3224 Pagan = Idol worshipper/Hindu/polytheist... _Ppl are saying that (the new wife) she's not Muslim_ But Ali says that it is not proven that the new wife is a Hindu... so who knows... we must wait and see.
@@RibiniCalis. Hey fool ! Listen, jesus is not a Lord , Jesus is not son of Lord. Jesus is a prophet and His Lord is Allah, He will descend near end of time only for kil*ing of Dajjal and he will teach you that he is not son of God but he is son of marry (Marium)
What about the men who have anger sitting at the tip of their nose. Even the wife lifting a finger would make them roar. Isn’t that making decisions out of emotions instead of “rationality” ?
Yeah. Or where the wife has to walk on eggshells and think 'rationally' 100 times before saying or doing anything, lest she invites the wrath of her emotionally unstable husband. Physical/verbal/psychological abuse, in front of kids. Of course no-one will talk about that.
Seriously brother why do you go for these type of topics. I’ve met you in person. You are a good guy but about 35% of the topics you pick are not good like this imo.
What are you on? There's a huge crisis in Muslim marriage. Feminist liberal imaams have destroyed the male-female relationships and ruined masculinity. Many young men, including me, are afraid of women and marriage. Most women have made their permanent residence in hell. Dawah to Christians is absolutely useless when your own is on fire. Christian women embracing Islaam don't get saved but fall for ad-Dajjaal and hell by listening to these enticing feminist misandrist imaams they are already comfortable with.
Because you all love gossip, it gets clicks, he gets paid off adverts, he’s an opportunist, it’s not about anything other than income for Ali, always has been
sometimes i see overconfident people destroy their lives chasing fame and other things, and i think maybe my insecurities which are slowly turning into humility is a good thing. Alhamdulillah!
They are NOT overconfident don't get confused by these two different things these are called INSECURITIES also it is called a rebound he is moving too fast any man or woman that this they have poor self esteem NORMAL confident people take time to heal and they face their problems they don't run away from them
I think everyone who hated on salama owes her an apology. Khaled looks to be the one who ruined the relationship. Someone who commits such a big sin like this should not be trusted on their words. I hope she remarries and finds a man who is actually a slave to Allah, not an actor like Khaled.
To be honest no body "except their family and friends" knows their in's and outs of their marriage. The only thing we saw was that they were happy on social media
@@hamid6790 true but judging from how Khalid remarried a freaking Hindu, I’m going to have side with salama. She’s not perfect but she’s clearly the religious one here.
@Pintexx but apparently, it's her fault for not accepting him to have another wife.. even though he was sining behind salmas back. We women can't win because these men pick one verse and twist it to suit them.
@@Pintexx hmmm you do realize that Muslim men can marry outside of Islam, I think you still would have a problem if khalid would have been engaged to a another Muslim… his not married yet … again everything you have said like "salama is CLEARLY the religious one here" we don't really know their lifes other then they looked happy being married, which wasn't the case, well maybe for the past 3 years before getting divorced … and we don't know if khalid told salama I'm looking for a 2nd wife and that was half of their reason getting divorced
@@minnie2494no sister Allah clearly says look at the times and these days there is no need for a second wife if the first one is good to you and alive.
7:58 here he literally says if a woman is being "irrational and emotional" to her husband then if hes a "real man", he would go marry a second wife. What.the.actual.heck. What if this man has children?? What will his children think?what would his WIFE THINK?? Seriously wth. In islam we are taught to be empathetic and compassionate to one another, not heartless and selfish. A real man would turn to Allah when hes got problems with his wife, not women✊️
It's nauseating from the middle onwards. He calls women emotional and irrational for getting hurt by the betrayal of a horny goat husband and says that a man seggsualty is all that matters and that it's the womans reaction ( emotional and irrational), that breaks the family apart and not the mans betrayal because a man is lead by his private parts and a man must obey at all costs as long as he can offer to financially support 2 or more wives then emotional and mental abuse in the form of one sided poly amory is justified. Basically a misogynistic rant where women are too dumb to understand men,emotional and mentally unstable, always to blame whereas men can do no wrong even if they do great injury and injustice.
They’re is no way what you’re doing is halal brother, you’re making videos judging and commenting on other people’s lives not only in private but for the whole world to see. May Allah guide you, forgive you, and find a new way to make a living rather then off of backbiting and exposing other people lives.
Oooh I'm sorry i thought he was going to address something else what he's doing is total wrong. Part of perfecting one's deen is staying out of matters that doesn't concern him this is really terrible I can't believe he posted this
Why is this bothering you so much? these people are projecting there own personal private lives on the internet for everyone to see and judge or give their opinions about it, and this is his actual job on this channel to respectfully give us the bottom line of persons who relate to islam and give his own Islamic opinion about, so far i haven't seen said anything offensive or any thing that's not actually true or already projected on the internet for everyone
Man and women should not move on so fast when there's kids from the relationship , kids come before finding a new partner learning to be a separated family is hard work so that should be the foscus
@user-uu3xz2uv4y exactly. exactly right. Ali is trying to make it allllll about a man's desires, a man's needs etc. When you are a family man, it is all about your family. And like you said, in a divorce, esp whee kids are involved, making sure they are feeling secure physcially and mentally in their new arrangements.
I love you Ali Dawah, but we need to calm down a little bit with the judging and criticizing of others. Think of the message your sending to the good Muslims who follow your channel.
On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "Part of the perfection of one's Islam is his leaving that which does not concern him." "مِنْ حُسْنِ إسْلَامِ الْمَرْءِ تَرْكُهُ مَا لَا يَعْنِيهِ".
Brother . Please for Allah sake stick on Dawah and quit of talking about marriage cause you are not making any sense You always attack women like they are responsible of every divorce beside divorce is a gift from Allah to us. Allah knows us best.
*what a mistake in the Qur'an!* Allah himself testifies that he has a son and he is the son as Christians understand it! Only the Koran writer was too ignorant to know what Son of God means! Allah's word which created everything is Allah himself too! *The Word Allahs which created everything is the Son of God according to Christianity!*
He also blames women if their husbands commits zina because they don't want to be in polygamous marriage I'm so tired of all his emotional blackmail. Even a single man can't commit zina but according to Ali a married man can't control himself.
In this video all you’ve done is “speculate” about the reasons why the brother divorced his wife (which in itself is haram) - “leave off what does not concern you.” The second thing is, in this entire video you’ve listed reasons as to what could have happened but not once have you said it could be the man’s fault. It’s only the “women’s fault”… yet that brother went and married a HINDU?! A PAGAN?! But it’s the “woman’s” fault. I’m genuinely astonished. Fear ﷲ. Fear ﷲ. Fear ﷲ.
Please look at the big picture You'll find tens of sisters and brothers telling us how the man is at fault for everything happens in life because you know (feminism is a thing), Ali is intentionally mentioning scenarios that many women won't think about or (or even like) 😅 Someone has to say what he said, he explained in length why he do this somewhere in his channel 😅😅
I'm not a person who watch Islam related videos on TH-cam and any other platform. This is first time I'm watching your or my first dawah channel and I clicked on this channel just because of it's name, but the first video I saw is about someone's personal life and even I couldn't able to watch it whole. Being a Muslim how can you comment on someone's personal life, our religion doesn't allow us to do this. I thought this channel is all about Islam but I'm disappointed.
a man always moves on fast after the divorce, the woman gets into depression then the roles will be reversed. The woman recovers and the man gets into depression. Of course, it's always the woman's fault and it's ok to marry a pagan even though it's haram because he's a man and men are flawless and it's always the women's fault so humble yourselves sisters no matter what you do, you are wrong. He got engaged literally a month after his divorce from a 15 year marriage, Can you imagine a woman marrying after three months of her divorce? people would say she was cheating. Just saying, no matter what you do it is the women's fault. Men can marry pagans now, it's fine
Brother she has the right to be angry it’s her nature even if she’s can’t stop him. yet if she made that point clear before marriage and he agreed to it, it’s he to blame and she can divorce him there.either ways divorce will happen and he’ll marry the other woman . But please brother don’t till ppl that she must take it and she has no right to be angry ,it’s her right to leave him if she can’t stand her life with him after that , she doesn’t have to stand it if it’s like hell to her.
Ali Dawah’s analysis: Poor little innocent Khalid. So mistreated by his unloving cold cruel wife that he ran out of his door fell into a cab a plane Kerala, India and took a cute pagan for a wife. How can Muslim women be so cruel as to make their husbands divorce them. Why can’t Muslim women let their husbands marry pagan disbelievers and be submissive? Ali, do us all a favor, get a second wife, and for the love of God stop yapping.
One thing is for sure. DO NOT EVER glorify celebrities and influencers. Non of this is a surprise. This man has brought shame on his ex wife, children and family. I stay out of their lives. If not for people talking about it and would have never known.
@@shahid8545 I have no idea what are the circumstances of their divorce. I can’t judge him or say who is at fault. Divorce happens all the time, some relationships just don’t work out.
@@freetranslate-u8eI absolutely agree with you. Divorce is the most extreme option, couples should avoid it as much as they can! Inshallah may Allah make it easy for us.
@@WiseManOfZephyriaits not always true, this has nothing to do with khaled but for example my aunt who was married for over 20 years did not tell anyone that her husband was actually a terrible man until the kids grew up she then divorced
Hindu wife so I support my sister Salama she is on right path. A Muslim not allowed get married with a women who is not Muslim. Khalid sense of marriage is not on right path.
I am shocked and disgusted by this video. I fear for the young boys who will watch this and think it is facts. Our religion allowed polygamy to help women e.g. widows who needed support from husbands in those times. You have literally said that men will either cheat or have a second wife. I know many amazing men, such as my own father, who have always only been committed to one woman. This is insulting. I really hope you can reflect on this and rethink what you have said.
Prophet Mohamed peace be upon him was loyal to Khadijah in the longest monogamous marriage until her death. He was even loyal to her after her death. Peace be upon him. But you don’t see anyone speaking about his loyalty SubhanAllah.
@@t3ibt 100%. but khadija RA was a phenomenal wife, an amazing woman. a good relationship always goes both ways. they both treated each other with respect and love Subhanallah. i'm not super into this channel now tbh. it seems to be reviewing gossip, i initially subscribed for the street dawah stuff but now im kinda repelled by all the gossip that's been going on by the channel. Ik that's not his intent and he's probably just trying to draw islamic conclusions and reasoning behind real life problems but the thumbnails are clearly trying to attract ppl to the video for Gossip and drama, and ultimately that's kind of what they are getting
@mahinurrahman5745 Interesting you should say that. All members of UK's grooming gangs have been Pakistani and Bangladeshi Muslim men targeting our Christian girls. Wonder why? Is it because you have no respect for your own marraiges?
@@RibiniCalis that bad behavior is due to lack of religious commitment If you knew Islam, you would also knew that all of this stuff what happens in the streets is totally unacceptable and most times even forbidden in Islam
@@FA9082no it's not forbidden for a Muslim to marry a woman from the people of the book (Jewish or Christian) ;under the condition that she's a decent and God fearing woman but beyond these two religions is forbidden but God advices him to better mary a Muslim woman which also must be a decent and God fearing woman. BUT it's forbidden for any Muslim woman to marry a non Muslim man no matter what religion they practice.
If a man wants two wives, then he can go and get two wives. But if a woman doesn't agree with that she has the right to divorce. And no we shouldn’t have to put up with something we choose not to.. stop making it ok and the norm for men to take second wife. Would you be telling your daughter the same thing
I agree with your sentiment. the wording could be better though. we do not ostracize polygyny. it is GOOD to normalize Polygyny, it is halal and should be treated as normal. Only one wife is a christian thing, it is not islamic, so we shouldn't let Paul influence us. That said, you are correct that a wife has the right to stipulate "no more wives" in her Nikah Contract
@PuffleGlurp i feel like your just trying to make it ok for men to have more than one wives.. it did happen back in our prophets' days.. but you can not expect women to be second wife. Our prophet didn't marry women for sexual his desires he married women for other reasons. Men these days are so obsessed with sex and feel the need to have multiple wives just for their own selfish desires. But like i said, if he want’s more than one wife, then go ahead. But be willing to lose the one he is with. A man should be honest and let the women know that he wants more than one wife before ruining the first wife's life. You can disagree if you want, but i am speaking as a women
@@minnie2494 Yes I am, since it *is* okay. Polygyny is halal. The only reason we have such sqeamish attitudes towards is (like we do for Hijab) in society, is due to Western (christian) influence... Christianity was the first religion to BAN polygyny, due to St. Paul. When Christianity was exported through the European colonies, (along with the anti-sodomy laws and other Bible based rulings) Polygyny was outlawed too. and then after WW2 when the US became the per-eminent superpower. I spread the age of 18 and the ban on polygyny to its vassals like Japan. Hence why that attitude is present in Most of the secular, post-colonized and western world, whereas the muslim nations retain the allowance of polygyny, even though they too have been influenced by western attitudes, and that along with the economic uncertainty in the modern world, where even single wife marriages are difficult, polygyny has become uncommon. But it should NOT be uncommon. Just as it was hard and weird to normalize the hijabback into western society, we can make polygyny normal also. currently the west has a negative view of it due to the Mormons and illegal LDS cults, (the US banned polygyny, despite their 1st ammendment laws, to curb the growing Mormon movement in the early US history, since the govt. saw it as a growing threat to the federal govt.) But it shouldn't be weird for women who are best friends, love each other and enjoy each other's company to marry and share the same husband. The current view on "Harems" have been greatly distorted by western orientalists, who view it as one man laying on a couch, like a lion surrounded by his pride/harem like some king being fed grapes. Or as abusive fringe Mormon cults, with a crazy cult leader hypnotizing women into his thrall. both of which are not accurate depictions of a real "plural marriage", which too is not the islamic concept, but rather akin to polyamory free for all... Just because it is unfamiliar doesn't mean that we should give up on normalizing it. --------------------- That said, you are correct, that many people wanting multiple wives are driven by lust... but that's a larger conversation including the role of romance and love in single wife marriages also... do you marry for attraction or out of duty? Marriage shouldn't be done purely out of lust. but it should be fine for romantic attraction to exist between spouses... a loveless marriage is not recommended either. and finally, Yup, you are correct about a wife not wanting multiple wives for her husband, and one can include that in the nikah contract. but throwing that in afterwards is unfair and unjust... but I can see why this also concerns the ability of men to convey and explain things / talk to their wives. so it should be done with tact. ---- I would say, that is a man has urges, then he ought to try discuss with his wife, if he desires more intimacy, they can work on that to satisfy each other. and if that is difficult for her, perhaps they can try polygyny, if it's hard for the wife to provide and fulfull such an ask. but whatever happens, it should be done with tact and kindness.
@PuffleGlurp it's not unjust it's unjust for women. Yes, your right she can put it down on her contract. Most men want more than one wife for pleasure, not for the right reasons. i do feel like it's been twisted and interpreted in such a way that it only benefits the man. But put yourself in our shoes..
@PuffleGlurp those that accept their spouse having two wives is their choice, but those that don't does not mean that they are wrong, either it's personal choice. Your view is all from a males perspective, and it only benefits yourselves. Having multiple wives can cause diseases such as std etc..
Well that’s not true, I know a few men who didn’t remarry after their wife’s death and just focused on raising kids. A couple of them were quite young.
@@StoicPhilosophyyyy no it’s not at all, but women are shamed for marrying after their husbands die, actually women are shamed for marrying if they divorce. We all have sexual desires some scholars say women have more desires as for us it’s even words and how a man makes us feel when they look ( hence why women show themselves off ) sometimes it’s not always about desires but about what’s best for ur circumstance at that moment
@@StoicPhilosophyyyy What do u mean it doesn’t make sense. It’s not an opinion. I’m just telling what I saw in my neighbourhood and acquaintances. They might be exceptions, but saying that we can’t find a single man staying single is an exaggeration.
Brother Ali u need to reasses ur view on women. Not marriage related. Just women in general. The time u debated with a non Muslim girl u said men go to war while women cook biryani. U sound like red pill
Why did that couple display their marriage in the first place? Why are people getting so involved in their relationship even if it was their fault for putting it on display? Let's focus on helping the people of Palestine and other Muslims, where you'll get blessed, instead of a couple, who ONLY them and Almighty Allah know the truth of what happened. They are not the first or the last that this has happened with. We wish them the best..but it's nobody's business except theirs. Too bad they didn't know that from the start.
It's ABSOLUTELY useless to focus on Palestine when you can't even help yourselves. MUSLIM MARRIAGE is in a HUGE crisis. Soon we'll have no Muslims left to care about Palestine. Palestinians have been suffering for over 80 years. I bet you weren't this enthusiastic before the last 10 months.
@@AshrafAnam Your comment is disgusting and a complete disrespect to true Muslim people, and most of all, to the people of Palestine and other Muslims who are suffering. If you can't help yourself, then you SHOULD give sadaqa as that's what increases wealth. "Charity does not decrease wealth". Muslim marriages are dependent on those 2 individuals. The GENOCIDE in Palestine is not as a result of their own selves!! YOu just LOST that bet. Furthermore, get down on your knees and ask Allah for forgiveness as your comment and mentality is what is contributing to destroying the unity of the ummah. ONLY ALLAH CAN HELP U. n btw. I'm DONE responding to you. Salam
@@AshrafAnamno its not useless....just coz u are interested in muslim marriages does not mean other issues do not exist....pales needs our support n attention....u dont seem 2b in ur senses m sorry.....
@@AshrafAnampeople weren't so enthusiastic b4 the past 10months doesn't mean the issue doesn't exist.....n shame on us that we weren't so enthusiastic b4....have u any idea wat is even going on there.....many nons are far better then you concerning this issue.....you sound a lil selfish.....we should help ourselves as well as others .....
I don’t understand this video ali, where did it say he is leaving cause she won’t allow second wife ? Also why are u making this video and making about second wives and men’s desires, do you not think you have enough content about ur testosterone level? Women are made highly emotional maybe factor that in ???
@@emanaslam786 it’s just shocking how much he can talk about it either passion, like I think he has pushed it enough it’s embarrassing, why doesn’t he talk about men who marry for the second time and leave their second wives after a few months when they finished having their halal fix ?
@@Abz637 okay call me crazy but I get the feeling that’s he’s sort of signalling to his wife that he wants a second partner by mentioning it so often? She usually in the background of these videos 👀 Also Ali is VERY bias and he takes everything as an attack on him when it’s not e.g the ‘dawah guys’ issue. This isn’t a good approach especially as a Muslim educator as you need to be very patient and unbiased. Acknowledge both male and female struggles in society and not just men’s. Which is why He will never understand nor raise awareness about matters like ‘dawah guys’ taking advantage of single mums/revert women or how second marriage can affect women mentally and break-up families/cause instability to young children etc, what he will focus on is that men have been given the right of 4 marriages and that’s it. This is incredibly saddening because he should be more empathetic to women’s dilemmas as well considering he has daughters himself.
@@emanaslam786 I remember once he already mentioned he would love to have a second wife as it’s in his nature but is unable to but yes she is always there working in the background. You are completely perfect he is biased from what I can see this is why he always says it’s in a man’s nature but doesn’t say much about how in this day an age women are different and may have higher sexual desires too hence why women may not want to share her man. Also another brother who is a counsellor actually said he is getting more and more cases where women are saying they are not satisfied and men need to man up but society shames these women. Imagine a women saying I need to divorce my Huby even though I have kids cause I don’t get enough and it’s making me want to commit zina. They need to talk more about the current problem where men need to take leads first of all so boys need to pay attention in education to be able to provide etc when men are men then women may slip into their feminine side and may just accept a co-wife but not when women are doing the lions share of work and home stuff
Hahahaha you have seriously lost brother . Khalid married a hindu actress a polytheist , an idol worshipper and this marriage is not even valid as per islamic law. Who are you ?
I am asking myself that as well. Why is this guy talking over and over again about them? I listen to him the first few minutes and I can't continue, just can't.
You Dawah guys really focus on the trivial matters. Focus on the important parts of the deen that really concern people like how the Prophet upon whom be peace did. You focus on useless parts. Get serious.
@@endrikrashi Only those who want to be loose will look up to them. No decent couple would look up to them. Ali should have focused on urging Muslim parents to raise their daughters in the right manners of Islam rather than focusing on these pathetic two. Even if Khalid disappeared, you will have multiple Khalids appearing. It should come from within the Muslim household to take care of their children and not leave them to be preyed upon by the media. You have the chance to turn this topic into a good topic and we have multiple Hadiths where the Prophet upon whom be peace instructs people to raise their children well. We left that and now we focus on Khalid who is nothing, but a face from many faces. You are focusing on the surface and not the root.
Don’t you know Prophet PBUH didn’t want to marry an other women as long as Hazrat khadija lived ? He loved and respected her so much… what kind of wrong prospects are you spreading about Islam…
I agree. But it is not always the case a woman goes crazy when her husband wants a second wife. You only hear the crazy stories. Many just Divorce and move on. Just like how you men go crazy wanting more woman. Us woman go crazy seeying our man wanting another woman. Or even more crazy seeying him with another woman. You know.... Our feelings also matter not just the mans feelings. Allah made us more emotional but subhanallah we get to hear only that a man should do what he feels and the woman should swollow it. It stays a hard subject. And stop pretending that either the men will commit zina or have a second wife. Most men do not do both. I mean practicing Muslim men. I have only one uncle in our whole family in Morocco who has two wives... And is living in hell btw. In our community it is not common. although halal, it is not common and not farth.
@@scarlettkhan9667 Why do you question? It's known to all men. If you can't make one woman happy, surely you're going to make other woman sad and angry. That's not allowed by Allah Almighty. You become cry baby for women, women become angry finding no love or care in you. And this goes on. None has the love, care, wisdom like our prophet Muhammad SAW. Men always love one more,another less. They can't balance. Prophet Muhammad SAW said one woman is better for you. He's the most wise man ever.
Talking about polygamy over and over... Those who talk about it in reality, don't have a courage to do it. Justifying a man who put his privacy to whole world and relate their relationship with polygamy. What?! I would never associate a polygamy with their lifestyle at all. There is no point to blame anyone. They are responsible for their actions, and that's the price of sharing your life with other people.
Why are we concerning ourseleves with other people's lives? Such a huge platform to speculate and interfere in other people's lives? Whether someone divorces or gets married, how is it any of our concern? Just wish them well and focus on our lives, like they are concerned with theirs. Astagfirullah. May Allah help and guide us all. ❤
Ali you speculated a lot without trying to not speculate? The second marriage isn’t the problem… he married a pagan 😂 I don’t think Muslims care that he remarried… the fact he married a Hindu… says a lot about where his priority lie.
I think that a general dawah video would have been better than having them as an example. We never know what goes on behind closed doors, we can only judge from the apparent. And this is the issue, so its better that we remain silent on the affairs of others and give dawah without using these beloved pictures of our brothers and sisters. I hope their children don't come across these videos. We should have hadnul dhan for both sides and remain quiet. Would the prophet and the salaf us salih preach in this way? My dear brother forgive me if am wrong. We are one ummah and if your own brother had a situation like this would you publish a video about it, rather you would find a way around it but still give dawah... Allah knows best
What happened to you @Ali_dawah you mostly talking about who divorced whom and which brother falls in sin with which sister. One video is enough if you really care. Just stop it!
why are you digging into their personal affairs. you know you are being judgmental, and that is prohobited.. and to do it on a public platform and open this to your audience is even worse.
In marriages there are alot of men who refuse their wife's in bed or make excuses up. Millions of women are affected by this around the world. This is a narcissistic manner some men have to control and make their wife's lose their self esteem. Please talk about this issue and how it can be fixed. These men will not even listen to their wife's to even have a chat
Isn’t speculation haram? Would you like someone to make a video of a major event in your personal life speculating what could’ve happened? What’s wrong with you ?
What a clown this lad Ali has become. Unsubscribe for all of the reasons listed below 👍 If I want to see baseless speculation about other people's marriage and divorce, I can get that from Eastenders...
My dear brother Ali, I love you for the sake of Allah. You are a good Muslim calling others to Allah, what a noble thing you are doing. However brother one thing I advise, from one brother to another, is not to show non-mahram woman on the internet. Allah has commanded us to lower our gaze, and trust me, a lot of these woman are very beautiful and many of us young guys would be like 😯😯🤤🤤. So it’s best we avoid such things. May Allah reward you!!!❤❤❤
as a muslim you should mind your business and dont make assumptions on other peoples lives. dont forget its best,cus speculating on causes and something he didnt discuss with you can get you to sins
The fact people are justifying taking a second, third, fourth wife is crazy. This was done hundreds of years ago when there was a shortage of men, women were being widowed and then robbed or attacked. So it was allowed in order to protect the women. These days, it's justified by saying a mans not cheating if he's marrying the woman. It's basically an excuse for a man to be intimate with more than one woman. But what else did Allah teach both men and women? Do not give in to your desires.. do not sin.. be modest.. lower your gaze.. work hard on your marriage. All of this goes out of the window when a man can't keep it in his trousers. They then use the excuse that its permissible if a nikah is done. It's ridiculous. Look into the REAL reason why it was permissible back then. Those times are not relevant now. Men need to learn more self-discipline. And these brothers need to stop saying women should put up with it.. its their different wiring. BS!
It's not a sin and it's not really obligatory for there to be extenuating circumstances. Sorry that's just the truth of the matter don't let your emotions dictate what you believe and read and educate yourself
@beast1elsayeda I never said it was a sin. Read more carefully. And I do not need to educate myself in the matter. This is more to do with human behaviour rather than what is written in Islam. Neither did I say there has to be extenuating circumstances. I'll put it in plain English for you seeing as you are having trouble understanding... men want to sleep with more than one woman and to justify that it is OK, they are doing a nilkah..whether secret or not, and using a ruling from hundreds of years ago to legitimise it... "I can up to four wives...". There isn't a need or necessity for it. If a man wants to look at Islamic ruling.. then look to the part that says you should work on your marriage.. not go hunting for another woman.. and the men out there saying (including Brother Ali Dawah) that the men aren't getting the intimacy from their current wife and that's the reason.. well why isn't that happening? From a woman's point of view... the woman isn't happy.. because if she was, she would be intimate. So the husband clearly isn't working hard at the marriage and seeing to his wife's unhappiness, he's too busy looking for the next halal woman for him.. you say don't let emotions get involved.. that's ignorant.. every marriage carries emotions. And there wouldn't be 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives if there wasn't any issues. A marriage isn't a business agreement. You need to think with your brain..
Real reason? There is no real reason it was allowed and it is still allowed we don't worship women's feelings. If it's permitted it's our choice not some mulimahs choice. And to the point there were more women then men so by theat logic there are still more women than men in west
you got it all wrong, taking a second, third, forth wife is the DEFAULT, keeping just one for your whole life is against the norm. In surah nisa, it is mentioned that you should take 2, 3 or 4, and IF you can not treat them fairly, then "content" yourself with one. 4:3: ".......then marry other women of your choice-two, three, or four. But if you are afraid you will fail to maintain justice, then ˹content yourselves with˺ one....."
@ohmygash5102 that is the biggest load of bs I have ever heard. It is certainly NOT a default! And again you are forgetting the time of the Prophet, when there was enough battles/ wars going on, and thst is when it is recorded. And there was a valid reason behind it. Many scholars have spoke of this reason. And it is by far the norm and a default in this day and age. And it is advisable not to do so fkr many reasons, including financial stability and putting your family / families through unnecessary hardship. Plus that fact that no man can treat more than one woman equally. Even brother Ali atleast raised that point himself. Many men keep their second wives a secret.. so how are they treating both women equally? They aren't. Both financially not supoorting them the same, and by ways of having one wife involved with your actual family, ie parents, siblings and other relatives. Celebrating Eid together, birthdays, family weddings etc.. and the other wife always completely in the dark. Let alone spending equal amounts of time with them both which isn't possible. It HAS to be equal in all aspects of the marriage, and it just clearly won't be. Men who want to use unrealistic excuses to have many women, are clearly storing their brain somewhere else other than their skull. It is that simple. You can't use a situation that happened hundreds of years ago and apply the results to today. We are living in different times.
brother Ali no need to gossip about our brother khaled and his ex wife. this is unnecessary. its up to them if they want to talk about it. why all the speculation.
i dont get it brother why ur focus was on the divorce,second wife, desire etc, yet u literally named the video what u was actually supposed to speak about that his marriage is clearly as haram as muslim sister marrying non muslim!!! u shouldve call out his hypocrisy and call him out for crossing the line!! rarely do i disagree with u brother but theres always a first :D
Correction: As a woman we don't just consent intimacy whenever the husband wants or feels like. Depends how the day went , how the husband rolled down the day in terms of being affectionate, his approach before that part. We are very sensitive humans. We express ourselves outright that's us.
WHY ARE U DISCUSSING SOMEONE'S MATRIMONIAL MATTERS , BY POINTING A FINGER AT THEM DIRECTLY NAMING THEM??? THIS IS NOT THE WAY OF THE MUSLIM . WE CAN ALWAYS DISCUSS THESE MATTERS WITHOUT NAMING AND SHAMING A HUSBAND AND WIFE . EVEN THE QURAN IS VERY CAREFUL IN STATING THESE MATTERS .
Shutup. Their story is on the public platform and its known to everyone that they have divorced. It is not a private matter and referencing them is beneficial to make a point and for advice.
@@HAXHAXHIN what's wrong with naming them when he isn't saying anything which isn't already publicly available? There is nothing against the quran in this unless he backbited
Are you putting up random videos just for views and likes? As it's a ridiculous and a irrelevant video which is likely to cause more conflicts in marriages. Please put up things which will bring people closer to Allah and to our beautiful religion than these unnecessary controversial videos about other people which are not beneficial. I've unsubscribed from your channel as that is all you seem to put up these days - either gossip about other people or just trying to find faults in good respectful people, such as Nouman Ali Khan for an example. Please stop for a moment and just try to remember the purpose of your channel and the meaning of your name (dawah). May Allah SWT forgive us and guide us all, Ameen.
You say a woman would not think of another man if married to her dream man. But if the husband decides to have a second wife, how can you possibly blame the first wife for not understanding? She could never feel comfortable sharing. Infact its fair to call it cheating. You're kinda blackmailing the woman in accepting the situation. The sad reality is that because a woman doesn't have an equal exit to the relationship, some men exploit this and use religion in an unjustified way. What if a woman who cannot populate and has a high sex drive and desires multiple marital partners in today's time, should her individual needs be accepted like the man's with the same option?
Right! Many women i know says the same, but they dont speak openly bcz of their haya and men speak about it openly and often only about mans rights and desires..
This man know nothing about marriages and couples personal issues woman and men problems.😂 Sir plz you do only dawah don't interrupt in these types of content
🤷♀️Men are different. Even Ali bin Abi Talib (rAa) remarried relatively quickly, after Fatima (rAa) died. A lot of men do. Maybe their marriage was already in shambles long time ago and they kept their best to keep the fassade for their children‘s sake.
The difference is that he married a Hindu woman actress that doesn't wear hijab and displays her beauty to the whole world. They also promote hatred towards Islam in their Media industry where the actresses and actors are often involved in spreading falseness on Islam by acting.
@@RibiniCalis Sorry, in my language (German) it’s "Fassade" . I just germafied your language. When I wrote : “Maybe their marriage was already in shambles…“ I was talking about Khalid and Salama again. Of course, I was not talking about Ali inn Abi Talib and Fatima (rAa). I only took Ali (rAa) as an example, to make the point, that men move on very quickly. Even someone like Ali (rAa) , who was very pious and loved his late wife Fatima - the daughter of our beloved Prophet (sAaws) - very much.
Dear brother Ali Dawah, I rarely place comments. But this is gossip, the bigger problem is that you are doing it publicly. Please don’t lose your Baraka you have built over the years and trade it for the benefits of this Dunya. You did good works over the years, remove the wrong stone and everything can come tumbling down very easily. By the way, this has nothing to do with being a man like read in previous comments but being human and making mistakes. May Allah forgive us all. Every son of Adam makes mistakes!
MashaAllah you summed up my life. After 7 years of ranting divorce I gave up and that is how my marriage ended. Sad she's on a revenge spree since my 2.5 yr old son is with her, but yes I moved on fast and found the right fit and married her 11 months after my divorce
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Salam brother I have issues in my marriage and I have been trying to contact you since last year but unfortunately am not able to.
@@AliDawah And waste storage space? 😆
@@thebesttruth4659 If A hasn't freed you yet, he is most unlikely. Where I'd this place anyway? In Bradford? Or Bolton?
Has Muslim Dawah channels just become drama channels now? Set your priorities straight.
There's no law or registration he's breaking and it's his own youtube channel. Set your thinking straight
@@wavyly6151and what he shouldn’t do this stuff. It’s not his it’s all allahs. He owns this all and you should use it in a permissible manner
always been
man has to eat,
You right.. now it's all about drama and attention,
"Why do men move on so fast?" no no no no no no
"WHY DO MEN CHEAT?" That's what you wanted to say
No offence to you Brother Ali, but what is the relevance of making a video about another man's affairs? of which you in your own words said that your are 'speculating' about what happened in his marriage. If you are someone who understands the Deen, then you would know, that which does not concern you, is not your business, yet you are here saying "i wish I know what happened in his marriage" and nor is this an Islamic work of Dawah, but is rather work of gossip. Unfortunately your work on this platform has become the likes of those who make baseless social media content to get petty likes and make pennies on TH-cam. Be a man and don't invade in private affairs of others, what your doing is what little boys do.
I agree 100% speculating is just guessing without having enough information. So why is this ALI DAWAH, doing this? It's unislamic.
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Your dallil?
I agree. It’s Khaled’s business. He hasn’t publicized everything Hass he? So it’s not our business to dig and find out.
If Khaled himself states tbings, then that means he is okay with allowing others to know.
@@aaminahdiallo229 here is your dalil “Verily, from the perfection of Islam is that a person leaves what does not concern him.” (Sunan At-Tirmidhi)
Mariage is not about sex. polygamy should not be driven by sexual desires.
Says a muslim MAN.
I respect men like you. Stay blessed brother.
@muniaisworthit thank you sister. It is simply a matter of common sense. Stay blessed too
Exactly....
@@silkenstitch Its nature of men dont deny it
Thankyou. Here's someone speaking with true knowledge and intelligence.
I am your brother from Yemen please block your sister from Yemen thank you.
Why 😂😂😂
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You beat me to it. 😂
nice😂😂
Thank you brother for putting this up......soo many of these have been going around and especially taken the advantage of the situation in yemen. May Allah swt protect and help the people of yemen and may Allah swt deal those scammers using yemen as a way to take money from people
My sister's father-in-law never married again after the death of his wife shortly after giving birth to their youngest child. He was probably in his 30s when he became widower.
My grandad's cousin remarried with in the same year after her widow iddah. Ppl differ in their needs , INNII'
Good for him. Doesn’t apply to everybody
well, they had issues but decided to work it out a year before their divorce happened, it didnt work out. and yr sister's father in law is different, he still prob loved his dead wife, the people being talked about have prob started to resent each other, otherwise why would the marriage break?
Exactly. And the prophet saw married khadija for 20+ years lol
@@danielmohammed6535that’s the point she’s trying to make Daniel 🙄
Why are you speculating on what caused the end of their marriage? Do you know them personally? Thought this was an Islamic channel and not a gossip channel. You should know to leave matters that don’t concern you.
I agree sister loved your comment
This is supposed to be an Islamic channel. Ali Dawah is instead digging into people's affairs (whom he doesn't even know personally) and speculating/gossiping about them online. Nothing Islamic about this. Shame on you
The brother was only trying to add context to make a point which is totally Islamic and halal 😅
He can't he takes every opportunity to paint Muslim women in a negative light.
@@joefoe262 There was no context it was all speculation.
I used to subscribe to Ali Dawah and learnt so much from his videos but wallah this is the final straw. I will unsubscribe because here blatantly, Ali is shamelessly trying to JUSTIFY a man who "allegedly" MAY have had an affair and married a non muslim. And here he is BLAMING the woman! It seems that no matter what, it's always the woman's fault, no matter what a good wife she is and a good muslimah, men will have the excuse to cheat if they are unsatisfied with the relationship. And because they are not emotional like women (as Ali described in this video) this 100% means they made a rational decision???
I am sick and tired of being let down by not only my father, but also all these public dawah men who have been so much influenced by this "red pill" movement and claim they have not, and use their misogynistic ideas to spew nonsense FAR from the Qur'an and sunnah. I hate being made to feel like crap for being born a woman, and before anyone asks, no I'm not a feminist. I am a proud muslimah who tries my utmost best to follow the teachings of our beloved prophet Muhammad ﷺ and the mothers of the believers.
But I can GUARANTEE that if the roles were reversed and Salamah moved on so quickly to get married again, no one would be saying that Khalid may not have been a good husband or try to JUSTIFY her behaviour?? Either way, there is never any excuse for affairs, end off. When you make these videos, you have no idea how difficult it is for the woman to bear emotionally whilst you just carry on speculating and causing gossip about their situation.
Also, I never watch these muslim influencer couples because I find them cringe and don't agree with any of it, or showing any relationship online as it conflicts with my values of modesty and hayah. I only watched a couple of shorts that came into my feed once of salamah and khalid and it was very disturbing in my opinion. So I am not defending them because I never watched their videos. I just feel for the woman being subtly blamed for her ex-husband allegedly having an affair, clearly noted in the Qur'an as zinah, a major sin.
I advise you Ali, to please refrain from posting such videos, and to choose your words wisely as you have no idea how much they can affect and hurt other young muslimahs like myself and make us not even want to get married. Ever since you started that 'bitter truth show' aswell, quite frankly I don't agree with the mixed setting of both men and women and the topics discussed. A lot of people have felt very uncomfortable and voiced their concerns which you have continued to ignore. I found a lot of views expressed to be very extreme, and like I said earlier, made me feel like crap about being a woman again
Literally at 7:54 Ali says it's her fault for him moving on so fast in conclusion
Are you watching another video?!
Ali had to remind us all the time that all we're doing here is assuming what may happened, he didn't blame anyone for anything, he's intentionally mentioning some scenarios that won't come to the mind of a feminist, that's all
So on point.
Sister thank you , you just said all I thought.
I unsubscribed too
Can’t agree more , All of the muslims men influencers/youtubers whatsoever are influenced by the red pill ideology, the funny thing is that they are not aware of it because they focus sooo much on women and feminism to the point they lost themselves
7:54 so it's her fault that he moved on so fast 😂😅🤦🏾???
Always blame the woman, this is how it goes. Whatever he did, they will say it's not his fault and that she drove him to it.
@@ziziprecious3124 depends what happened. We do not know what happened. But he definitely should not be marrying a Hindu woman, perhaps Salama knows things we do not about his unIslamic behavior.
@@freetranslate-u8e Exactly, we dont know what happened yet there's people like Ali dawah here who's assuming that it's her fault.
A lot of women are bitchy to their husbands. That's why their husbands seek other women.
@@freetranslate-u8e there isnt prove she's hindu, and he says religion is an important part of his life so another reason i dont think he would marry an hindu
The marriage is haram and is not valid if she is pagan.
@@likililo3224 polytheists.
@@likililo3224 Pagan = Idol worshipper/Hindu/polytheist...
_Ppl are saying that (the new wife) she's not Muslim_
But Ali says that it is not proven that the new wife is a Hindu... so who knows... we must wait and see.
Watch the full video sir
Religion is peganism
Unless it is not a permanent marriage
Please pray for Bangladesh everyone. We need international support. May Allah save us. Ameen.
What happened there?
Ameen 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
@mdlokman4662 Why do you need international support? Embrace the Sweet Lord Jesus, the King of Kings.
@@RibiniCalis. Hey fool ! Listen, jesus is not a Lord , Jesus is not son of Lord.
Jesus is a prophet and His Lord is Allah, He will descend near end of time only for kil*ing of Dajjal and he will teach you that he is not son of God but he is son of marry (Marium)
May Allah help you guys
I heard from someone that in 9 out 10 cases the guy, not the woman, is to be blamed for the cause of any divorce.
Did you hear that from a woman
What about the men who have anger sitting at the tip of their nose. Even the wife lifting a finger would make them roar. Isn’t that making decisions out of emotions instead of “rationality” ?
Yeah. Or where the wife has to walk on eggshells and think 'rationally' 100 times before saying or doing anything, lest she invites the wrath of her emotionally unstable husband. Physical/verbal/psychological abuse, in front of kids. Of course no-one will talk about that.
Seriously brother why do you go for these type of topics. I’ve met you in person. You are a good guy but about 35% of the topics you pick are not good like this imo.
What are you on? There's a huge crisis in Muslim marriage. Feminist liberal imaams have destroyed the male-female relationships and ruined masculinity. Many young men, including me, are afraid of women and marriage. Most women have made their permanent residence in hell. Dawah to Christians is absolutely useless when your own is on fire. Christian women embracing Islaam don't get saved but fall for ad-Dajjaal and hell by listening to these enticing feminist misandrist imaams they are already comfortable with.
I get what you are saying, but these are problems that we cannot get away from so it is important to bring it up.
Because you all love gossip, it gets clicks, he gets paid off adverts, he’s an opportunist, it’s not about anything other than income for Ali, always has been
Don't imitate the non belivers ever. We have to protect our islam!
Brother Ali should give more beneficial content
sometimes i see overconfident people destroy their lives chasing fame and other things, and i think maybe my insecurities which are slowly turning into humility is a good thing. Alhamdulillah!
They are NOT overconfident don't get confused by these two different things these are called INSECURITIES also it is called a rebound he is moving too fast any man or woman that this they have poor self esteem NORMAL confident people take time to heal and they face their problems they don't run away from them
I think everyone who hated on salama owes her an apology. Khaled looks to be the one who ruined the relationship. Someone who commits such a big sin like this should not be trusted on their words. I hope she remarries and finds a man who is actually a slave to Allah, not an actor like Khaled.
To be honest no body "except their family and friends" knows their in's and outs of their marriage. The only thing we saw was that they were happy on social media
@@hamid6790 true but judging from how Khalid remarried a freaking Hindu, I’m going to have side with salama. She’s not perfect but she’s clearly the religious one here.
@Pintexx but apparently, it's her fault for not accepting him to have another wife.. even though he was sining behind salmas back. We women can't win because these men pick one verse and twist it to suit them.
@@Pintexx hmmm you do realize that Muslim men can marry outside of Islam, I think you still would have a problem if khalid would have been engaged to a another Muslim… his not married yet … again everything you have said like "salama is CLEARLY the religious one here" we don't really know their lifes other then they looked happy being married, which wasn't the case, well maybe for the past 3 years before getting divorced … and we don't know if khalid told salama I'm looking for a 2nd wife and that was half of their reason getting divorced
@@minnie2494no sister Allah clearly says look at the times and these days there is no need for a second wife if the first one is good to you and alive.
7:58 here he literally says if a woman is being "irrational and emotional" to her husband then if hes a "real man", he would go marry a second wife. What.the.actual.heck.
What if this man has children?? What will his children think?what would his WIFE THINK?? Seriously wth. In islam we are taught to be empathetic and compassionate to one another, not heartless and selfish. A real man would turn to Allah when hes got problems with his wife, not women✊️
He didn't move on fast.. He had this hindu girl lined up and locked in while he was in the marriage
Choose your content wisely. This stuff has literally become a real life soap opera. After a couple minutes I couldn’t watch any more.
It's nauseating from the middle onwards. He calls women emotional and irrational for getting hurt by the betrayal of a horny goat husband and says that a man seggsualty is all that matters and that it's the womans reaction ( emotional and irrational), that breaks the family apart and not the mans betrayal because a man is lead by his private parts and a man must obey at all costs as long as he can offer to financially support 2 or more wives then emotional and mental abuse in the form of one sided poly amory is justified.
Basically a misogynistic rant where women are too dumb to understand men,emotional and mentally unstable, always to blame whereas men can do no wrong even if they do great injury and injustice.
@@kitt7477 Exactly I thought this was a Muslim channel, give us some good podcasts on Islamic history not this soap opera
Stop complaining and make your own content 😂😂😂
What’s happening your hormones getting the better of you
if you don't like it leave. I for one like this type of content
Ali Dawah’s wife should have a contingency plan because he sounds like he dying to get married again! Really sad 💔
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It is permissible to marry more than one in Islam what is your problem?
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They’re is no way what you’re doing is halal brother, you’re making videos judging and commenting on other people’s lives not only in private but for the whole world to see. May Allah guide you, forgive you, and find a new way to make a living rather then off of backbiting and exposing other people lives.
Oooh I'm sorry i thought he was going to address something else what he's doing is total wrong. Part of perfecting one's deen is staying out of matters that doesn't concern him this is really terrible I can't believe he posted this
Why is this bothering you so much? these people are projecting there own personal private lives on the internet for everyone to see and judge or give their opinions about it, and this is his actual job on this channel to respectfully give us the bottom line of persons who relate to islam and give his own Islamic opinion about, so far i haven't seen said anything offensive or any thing that's not actually true or already projected on the internet for everyone
He just called women “immature”. Brother what
Man and women should not move on so fast when there's kids from the relationship , kids come before finding a new partner learning to be a separated family is hard work so that should be the foscus
@user-uu3xz2uv4y exactly. exactly right. Ali is trying to make it allllll about a man's desires, a man's needs etc. When you are a family man, it is all about your family. And like you said, in a divorce, esp whee kids are involved, making sure they are feeling secure physcially and mentally in their new arrangements.
I love you Ali Dawah, but we need to calm down a little bit with the judging and criticizing of others.
Think of the message your sending to the good Muslims who follow your channel.
I couldn't agree more. Makes me so angry when I see this video trying to justify a woman allegedly being cheated on by her husband
On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "Part of the perfection of one's Islam is his leaving that which does not concern him." "مِنْ حُسْنِ إسْلَامِ الْمَرْءِ تَرْكُهُ مَا لَا يَعْنِيهِ".
Brother . Please for Allah sake stick on Dawah and quit of talking about marriage cause you are not making any sense You always attack women like they are responsible of every divorce beside divorce is a gift from Allah to us. Allah knows us best.
Take off the aluminum hat
Son of God does not mean that God has a child in Christianity!
*what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
*what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
Allah himself testifies that he has a son and he is the son as Christians understand it! Only the Koran writer was too ignorant to know what Son of God means! Allah's word which created everything is Allah himself too! *The Word Allahs which created everything is the Son of God according to Christianity!*
@@bahaaar1000 i agree with you
He also blames women if their husbands commits zina because they don't want to be in polygamous marriage I'm so tired of all his emotional blackmail. Even a single man can't commit zina but according to Ali a married man can't control himself.
@@TS-zd2ud Oh put a sock in it!
In this video all you’ve done is “speculate” about the reasons why the brother divorced his wife (which in itself is haram) - “leave off what does not concern you.”
The second thing is, in this entire video you’ve listed reasons as to what could have happened but not once have you said it could be the man’s fault. It’s only the “women’s fault”… yet that brother went and married a HINDU?! A PAGAN?! But it’s the “woman’s” fault. I’m genuinely astonished.
Fear ﷲ.
Fear ﷲ.
Fear ﷲ.
Please look at the big picture
You'll find tens of sisters and brothers telling us how the man is at fault for everything happens in life because you know (feminism is a thing), Ali is intentionally mentioning scenarios that many women won't think about or (or even like) 😅
Someone has to say what he said, he explained in length why he do this somewhere in his channel 😅😅
I'm not a person who watch Islam related videos on TH-cam and any other platform. This is first time I'm watching your or my first dawah channel and I clicked on this channel just because of it's name, but the first video I saw is about someone's personal life and even I couldn't able to watch it whole. Being a Muslim how can you comment on someone's personal life, our religion doesn't allow us to do this. I thought this channel is all about Islam but I'm disappointed.
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Don't you think you dragging the salama and khalid thing too much for content, nobody knows what happen speculate about you know is it right.
Public domain. An youtuber. You will get talked about simple as
a man always moves on fast after the divorce, the woman gets into depression then the roles will be reversed. The woman recovers and the man gets into depression. Of course, it's always the woman's fault and it's ok to marry a pagan even though it's haram because he's a man and men are flawless and it's always the women's fault so humble yourselves sisters no matter what you do, you are wrong. He got engaged literally a month after his divorce from a 15 year marriage, Can you imagine a woman marrying after three months of her divorce? people would say she was cheating. Just saying, no matter what you do it is the women's fault. Men can marry pagans now, it's fine
Brother she has the right to be angry it’s her nature even if she’s can’t stop him. yet if she made that point clear before marriage and he agreed to it, it’s he to blame and she can divorce him there.either ways divorce will happen and he’ll marry the other woman . But please brother don’t till ppl that she must take it and she has no right to be angry ,it’s her right to leave him if she can’t stand her life with him after that , she doesn’t have to stand it if it’s like hell to her.
The fact that he married a person that he's not allowed to eat their food is enough for me. I mean, how desperate was he.
Ali Dawah’s analysis: Poor little innocent Khalid. So mistreated by his unloving cold cruel wife that he ran out of his door fell into a cab a plane Kerala, India and took a cute pagan for a wife.
How can Muslim women be so cruel as to make their husbands divorce them. Why can’t Muslim women let their husbands marry pagan disbelievers and be submissive?
Ali, do us all a favor, get a second wife, and for the love of God stop yapping.
One thing is for sure. DO NOT EVER glorify celebrities and influencers. Non of this is a surprise. This man has brought shame on his ex wife, children and family. I stay out of their lives. If not for people talking about it and would have never known.
How did he shame them?
@danielaramburo7648 well for one he divorced his wife. His now Ex Muslim wife for a Pagan Hindu woman is dreadful.
@@shahid8545 I have no idea what are the circumstances of their divorce. I can’t judge him or say who is at fault. Divorce happens all the time, some relationships just don’t work out.
@danielaramburo7648 Yea.. divorce happens I understand that but what he did after his divorce is an abomination
@@shahid8545 I’m sorry, I’m lost. Are you saying he getting a new wife after divorce was bad? Or did he slander his ex wife somehow?
Very sad to see divorce, it is a sickness. Not a good look, never.
Please divorce is not a sickness!!!! If you've never been in the situation...it's what Allah has written
@@naasihajamal2811 Allah SWT had written that a man and a woman are meant to love one another, divorce is painful and ultimately unnecessary
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@@freetranslate-u8eI absolutely agree with you.
Divorce is the most extreme option, couples should avoid it as much as they can!
Inshallah may Allah make it easy for us.
@@WiseManOfZephyriaits not always true, this has nothing to do with khaled but for example my aunt who was married for over 20 years did not tell anyone that her husband was actually a terrible man until the kids grew up she then divorced
Never promote your personal life on social media
it doesn't make sense to me loving his wife more than anything and still want another women
I think it's time to drop to drop this topic once and for all. There are far more important things to worry about right now.
No offence to Ali dawah but my mum passed away almost 3 years ago and my dad still doesn’t want to get married
That's true love.
May allah swt grant her firdaus.... but why would ali get offended? That's your father's choice, but islam permits it so why the issue
He’s not a young man. Trust me, if he was young, he would have
No offense to your dad though but u get what I’m trying to say
@@fozpringle1 lol I didn't mean it in that way I just say it a lot 😭
@@Doumbouya225 100% I kind of put the sentence “ no offence” in everything. That needs working on 😭🫸
Did Ali Dawah just called Beyonce and Kim Kardashian in his channel 😂?
Haha
Hindu wife so I support my sister Salama she is on right path. A Muslim not allowed get married with a women who is not Muslim. Khalid sense of marriage is not on right path.
I am shocked and disgusted by this video. I fear for the young boys who will watch this and think it is facts. Our religion allowed polygamy to help women e.g. widows who needed support from husbands in those times. You have literally said that men will either cheat or have a second wife. I know many amazing men, such as my own father, who have always only been committed to one woman. This is insulting. I really hope you can reflect on this and rethink what you have said.
Prophet Mohamed peace be upon him was loyal to Khadijah in the longest monogamous marriage until her death. He was even loyal to her after her death. Peace be upon him. But you don’t see anyone speaking about his loyalty SubhanAllah.
@@t3ibt 100%. but khadija RA was a phenomenal wife, an amazing woman. a good relationship always goes both ways. they both treated each other with respect and love Subhanallah.
i'm not super into this channel now tbh. it seems to be reviewing gossip, i initially subscribed for the street dawah stuff but now im kinda repelled by all the gossip that's been going on by the channel. Ik that's not his intent and he's probably just trying to draw islamic conclusions and reasoning behind real life problems but the thumbnails are clearly trying to attract ppl to the video for Gossip and drama, and ultimately that's kind of what they are getting
I will never marry any pagen worshipers
Doesn't matter how my wife is ,but i will try my best to make our relationship better
@mahinurrahman5745 Interesting you should say that. All members of UK's grooming gangs have been Pakistani and Bangladeshi Muslim men targeting our Christian girls. Wonder why? Is it because you have no respect for your own marraiges?
@@RibiniCalis that bad behavior is due to lack of religious commitment
If you knew Islam, you would also knew that all of this stuff what happens in the streets is totally unacceptable and most times even forbidden in Islam
Isn't it forbidden to marry woman who is not muslim, Christian or jew?
@@FA9082no it's not forbidden for a Muslim to marry a woman from the people of the book (Jewish or Christian) ;under the condition that she's a decent and God fearing woman but beyond these two religions is forbidden but God advices him to better mary a Muslim woman which also must be a decent and God fearing woman. BUT it's forbidden for any Muslim woman to marry a non Muslim man no matter what religion they practice.
@@FA9082 right, it is allowed for a man to marry a woman who is is a Christian or a Jew, but not Hindu, atheist etc.
A woman is not passionate about breaking her home brother
If a man wants two wives, then he can go and get two wives. But if a woman doesn't agree with that she has the right to divorce. And no we shouldn’t have to put up with something we choose not to.. stop making it ok and the norm for men to take second wife. Would you be telling your daughter the same thing
I agree with your sentiment. the wording could be better though. we do not ostracize polygyny. it is GOOD to normalize Polygyny, it is halal and should be treated as normal. Only one wife is a christian thing, it is not islamic, so we shouldn't let Paul influence us.
That said, you are correct that a wife has the right to stipulate "no more wives" in her Nikah Contract
@PuffleGlurp i feel like your just trying to make it ok for men to have more than one wives.. it did happen back in our prophets' days.. but you can not expect women to be second wife. Our prophet didn't marry women for sexual his desires he married women for other reasons. Men these days are so obsessed with sex and feel the need to have multiple wives just for their own selfish desires. But like i said, if he want’s more than one wife, then go ahead. But be willing to lose the one he is with. A man should be honest and let the women know that he wants more than one wife before ruining the first wife's life. You can disagree if you want, but i am speaking as a women
@@minnie2494 Yes I am, since it *is* okay.
Polygyny is halal.
The only reason we have such sqeamish attitudes towards is (like we do for Hijab) in society, is due to Western (christian) influence...
Christianity was the first religion to BAN polygyny, due to St. Paul.
When Christianity was exported through the European colonies, (along with the anti-sodomy laws and other Bible based rulings) Polygyny was outlawed too.
and then after WW2 when the US became the per-eminent superpower. I spread the age of 18 and the ban on polygyny to its vassals like Japan.
Hence why that attitude is present in Most of the secular, post-colonized and western world, whereas the muslim nations retain the allowance of polygyny, even though they too have been influenced by western attitudes, and that along with the economic uncertainty in the modern world, where even single wife marriages are difficult, polygyny has become uncommon.
But it should NOT be uncommon.
Just as it was hard and weird to normalize the hijabback into western society, we can make polygyny normal also.
currently the west has a negative view of it due to the Mormons and illegal LDS cults, (the US banned polygyny, despite their 1st ammendment laws, to curb the growing Mormon movement in the early US history, since the govt. saw it as a growing threat to the federal govt.)
But it shouldn't be weird for women who are best friends, love each other and enjoy each other's company to marry and share the same husband.
The current view on "Harems" have been greatly distorted by western orientalists, who view it as one man laying on a couch, like a lion surrounded by his pride/harem like some king being fed grapes.
Or as abusive fringe Mormon cults, with a crazy cult leader hypnotizing women into his thrall.
both of which are not accurate depictions of a real "plural marriage", which too is not the islamic concept, but rather akin to polyamory free for all...
Just because it is unfamiliar doesn't mean that we should give up on normalizing it.
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That said, you are correct, that many people wanting multiple wives are driven by lust... but that's a larger conversation including the role of romance and love in single wife marriages also... do you marry for attraction or out of duty? Marriage shouldn't be done purely out of lust. but it should be fine for romantic attraction to exist between spouses... a loveless marriage is not recommended either.
and finally, Yup, you are correct about a wife not wanting multiple wives for her husband, and one can include that in the nikah contract. but throwing that in afterwards is unfair and unjust... but I can see why this also concerns the ability of men to convey and explain things / talk to their wives. so it should be done with tact.
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I would say, that is a man has urges, then he ought to try discuss with his wife, if he desires more intimacy, they can work on that to satisfy each other. and if that is difficult for her, perhaps they can try polygyny, if it's hard for the wife to provide and fulfull such an ask. but whatever happens, it should be done with tact and kindness.
@PuffleGlurp it's not unjust it's unjust for women. Yes, your right she can put it down on her contract. Most men want more than one wife for pleasure, not for the right reasons. i do feel like it's been twisted and interpreted in such a way that it only benefits the man. But put yourself in our shoes..
@PuffleGlurp those that accept their spouse having two wives is their choice, but those that don't does not mean that they are wrong, either it's personal choice. Your view is all from a males perspective, and it only benefits yourselves. Having multiple wives can cause diseases such as std etc..
Well that’s not true, I know a few men who didn’t remarry after their wife’s death and just focused on raising kids. A couple of them were quite young.
Lol well, do u know what they do in secret ???
Just saying. 🤷🏽♂️
@@Doumbouya225we all have secrets but that’s amazing loyalty for their wives, it’s rare when men want to replace their wives whilst they are alive
This comment doesn't make sense. How are they gonna control their sexual desires. It is not a ideal situation
@@StoicPhilosophyyyy no it’s not at all, but women are shamed for marrying after their husbands die, actually women are shamed for marrying if they divorce. We all have sexual desires some scholars say women have more desires as for us it’s even words and how a man makes us feel when they look ( hence why women show themselves off ) sometimes it’s not always about desires but about what’s best for ur circumstance at that moment
@@StoicPhilosophyyyy What do u mean it doesn’t make sense. It’s not an opinion. I’m just telling what I saw in my neighbourhood and acquaintances. They might be exceptions, but saying that we can’t find a single man staying single is an exaggeration.
Brother Ali u need to reasses ur view on women. Not marriage related. Just women in general. The time u debated with a non Muslim girl u said men go to war while women cook biryani. U sound like red pill
Why did that couple display their marriage in the first place? Why are people getting so involved in their relationship even if it was their fault for putting it on display? Let's focus on helping the people of Palestine and other Muslims, where you'll get blessed, instead of a couple, who ONLY them and Almighty Allah know the truth of what happened. They are not the first or the last that this has happened with. We wish them the best..but it's nobody's business except theirs. Too bad they didn't know that from the start.
It's ABSOLUTELY useless to focus on Palestine when you can't even help yourselves. MUSLIM MARRIAGE is in a HUGE crisis. Soon we'll have no Muslims left to care about Palestine. Palestinians have been suffering for over 80 years. I bet you weren't this enthusiastic before the last 10 months.
@@AshrafAnam Your comment is disgusting and a complete disrespect to true Muslim people, and most of all, to the people of Palestine and other Muslims who are suffering. If you can't help yourself, then you SHOULD give sadaqa as that's what increases wealth. "Charity does not decrease wealth". Muslim marriages are dependent on those 2 individuals. The GENOCIDE in Palestine is not as a result of their own selves!! YOu just LOST that bet. Furthermore, get down on your knees and ask Allah for forgiveness as your comment and mentality is what is contributing to destroying the unity of the ummah. ONLY ALLAH CAN HELP U. n btw. I'm DONE responding to you. Salam
@@AshrafAnamstill palestine will be free no matter what
@@AshrafAnamno its not useless....just coz u are interested in muslim marriages does not mean other issues do not exist....pales needs our support n attention....u dont seem 2b in ur senses m sorry.....
@@AshrafAnampeople weren't so enthusiastic b4 the past 10months doesn't mean the issue doesn't exist.....n shame on us that we weren't so enthusiastic b4....have u any idea wat is even going on there.....many nons are far better then you concerning this issue.....you sound a lil selfish.....we should help ourselves as well as others .....
I don’t understand this video ali, where did it say he is leaving cause she won’t allow second wife ? Also why are u making this video and making about second wives and men’s desires, do you not think you have enough content about ur testosterone level? Women are made highly emotional maybe factor that in ???
This guy doesn’t need a reason to talk about multiple marriages - it’s his favourite hobby 😂
@@emanaslam786 it’s just shocking how much he can talk about it either passion, like I think he has pushed it enough it’s embarrassing, why doesn’t he talk about men who marry for the second time and leave their second wives after a few months when they finished having their halal fix ?
@@Abz637 okay call me crazy but I get the feeling that’s he’s sort of signalling to his wife that he wants a second partner by mentioning it so often? She usually in the background of these videos 👀
Also Ali is VERY bias and he takes everything as an attack on him when it’s not e.g the ‘dawah guys’ issue. This isn’t a good approach especially as a Muslim educator as you need to be very patient and unbiased. Acknowledge both male and female struggles in society and not just men’s. Which is why He will never understand nor raise awareness about matters like ‘dawah guys’ taking advantage of single mums/revert women or how second marriage can affect women mentally and break-up families/cause instability to young children etc, what he will focus on is that men have been given the right of 4 marriages and that’s it. This is incredibly saddening because he should be more empathetic to women’s dilemmas as well considering he has daughters himself.
@@emanaslam786💯💯
@@emanaslam786 I remember once he already mentioned he would love to have a second wife as it’s in his nature but is unable to but yes she is always there working in the background.
You are completely perfect he is biased from what I can see this is why he always says it’s in a man’s nature but doesn’t say much about how in this day an age women are different and may have higher sexual desires too hence why women may not want to share her man. Also another brother who is a counsellor actually said he is getting more and more cases where women are saying they are not satisfied and men need to man up but society shames these women. Imagine a women saying I need to divorce my Huby even though I have kids cause I don’t get enough and it’s making me want to commit zina. They need to talk more about the current problem where men need to take leads first of all so boys need to pay attention in education to be able to provide etc when men are men then women may slip into their feminine side and may just accept a co-wife but not when women are doing the lions share of work and home stuff
Also, secret second wife is haram. Lying by omission. Unequal treatment of wives because one knows and one doesn’t.
Hahahaha you have seriously lost brother . Khalid married a hindu actress a polytheist , an idol worshipper and this marriage is not even valid as per islamic law. Who are you ?
I am your brother from Canada. That's all I wanted to say as salaamu alaikum
Why are you commenting on someone else’s marriage??
Focus on your own and stop producing gossip content.
I am asking myself that as well. Why is this guy talking over and over again about them? I listen to him the first few minutes and I can't continue, just can't.
@@HA-vc5dl he think his marriage is flawless.. And get to advice and criticise others
You Dawah guys really focus on the trivial matters. Focus on the important parts of the deen that really concern people like how the Prophet upon whom be peace did. You focus on useless parts. Get serious.
bro they is very famus and has alot of infuence on people that look up to them, and who might do the same as them.
@@endrikrashi Only those who want to be loose will look up to them. No decent couple would look up to them. Ali should have focused on urging Muslim parents to raise their daughters in the right manners of Islam rather than focusing on these pathetic two. Even if Khalid disappeared, you will have multiple Khalids appearing. It should come from within the Muslim household to take care of their children and not leave them to be preyed upon by the media. You have the chance to turn this topic into a good topic and we have multiple Hadiths where the Prophet upon whom be peace instructs people to raise their children well. We left that and now we focus on Khalid who is nothing, but a face from many faces. You are focusing on the surface and not the root.
Create your own channel and do it, it's more beneficial than saying what other creators should do. I'll subscribe if you do it inshalla
Watch the Muslim lantern ❤
Don’t you know Prophet PBUH didn’t want to marry an other women as long as Hazrat khadija lived ? He loved and respected her so much… what kind of wrong prospects are you spreading about Islam…
That's why staying single is the real deal to stay sane, I genuinely liked that couple and though they are living their best life but ... sad story
What about wanting the urges to be with someone (closeness intimacy).
I agree. But it is not always the case a woman goes crazy when her husband wants a second wife. You only hear the crazy stories. Many just Divorce and move on.
Just like how you men go crazy wanting more woman. Us woman go crazy seeying our man wanting another woman. Or even more crazy seeying him with another woman.
You know.... Our feelings also matter not just the mans feelings.
Allah made us more emotional but subhanallah we get to hear only that a man should do what he feels and the woman should swollow it.
It stays a hard subject.
And stop pretending that either the men will commit zina or have a second wife. Most men do not do both.
I mean practicing Muslim men.
I have only one uncle in our whole family in Morocco who has two wives... And is living in hell btw.
In our community it is not common. although halal, it is not common and not farth.
So 2 wives is a headache then?
@@scarlettkhan9667 Why do you question? It's known to all men. If you can't make one woman happy, surely you're going to make other woman sad and angry. That's not allowed by Allah Almighty. You become cry baby for women, women become angry finding no love or care in you. And this goes on. None has the love, care, wisdom like our prophet Muhammad SAW. Men always love one more,another less. They can't balance. Prophet Muhammad SAW said one woman is better for you. He's the most wise man ever.
@@hadjokhan6576 i agree 👍
@@ServantOfAllah-007 men just feel so entitled and proud
@@ServantOfAllah-007 women are not headaches. We carry a new life. That comment kinda hurt.
Why do you put women on the thumbnail?
Talking about polygamy over and over... Those who talk about it in reality, don't have a courage to do it. Justifying a man who put his privacy to whole world and relate their relationship with polygamy. What?! I would never associate a polygamy with their lifestyle at all. There is no point to blame anyone. They are responsible for their actions, and that's the price of sharing your life with other people.
Why are we concerning ourseleves with other people's lives? Such a huge platform to speculate and interfere in other people's lives? Whether someone divorces or gets married, how is it any of our concern? Just wish them well and focus on our lives, like they are concerned with theirs. Astagfirullah. May Allah help and guide us all. ❤
Isn't keeping a random women's photo for clickbait haram right??
Also making videos with assumptions and then coming later with a apology video?
Ali you speculated a lot without trying to not speculate? The second marriage isn’t the problem… he married a pagan 😂 I don’t think Muslims care that he remarried… the fact he married a Hindu… says a lot about where his priority lie.
I think that a general dawah video would have been better than having them as an example. We never know what goes on behind closed doors, we can only judge from the apparent. And this is the issue, so its better that we remain silent on the affairs of others and give dawah without using these beloved pictures of our brothers and sisters. I hope their children don't come across these videos. We should have hadnul dhan for both sides and remain quiet. Would the prophet and the salaf us salih preach in this way? My dear brother forgive me if am wrong. We are one ummah and if your own brother had a situation like this would you publish a video about it, rather you would find a way around it but still give dawah... Allah knows best
Why even make a video based solely on speculation?? And, using the brother and sister's story.
What happened to you @Ali_dawah you mostly talking about who divorced whom and which brother falls in sin with which sister.
One video is enough if you really care.
Just stop it!
Who cares what he does it is between with him and Allah
I hope his action doesn't affect others in a negative way
He let millions of people into his life. It's nit just between him and Allah
It’s all public so we have every right to voice our opinions. If it was private then I would agree with you
@@shahid8545 you took him as your guidance it's your fault I take guidance from profits and sahaba's
So he cheated? The new woman was flirting with a married man? Hell has a special place for Khalid and Susaina?
If she's not ok with is, it is not her to blame. bro you're lost
why are you digging into their personal affairs. you know you are being judgmental, and that is prohobited.. and to do it on a public platform and open this to your audience is even worse.
In marriages there are alot of men who refuse their wife's in bed or make excuses up. Millions of women are affected by this around the world. This is a narcissistic manner some men have to control and make their wife's lose their self esteem. Please talk about this issue and how it can be fixed. These men will not even listen to their wife's to even have a chat
We men are not created for polygamy. Com'on bro, i wasn't expecting it from you.
Doesn’t it say in the Quran that , Muslim men aren’t allowed to marry polytheistic women?
Yeah Muslims regardless of gender are NOT allowed to marry polytheistic people.
Only the Christian and Jews and even then not really recommended
Beyonce and kim my aren't beautiful lmao
Isn’t speculation haram? Would you like someone to make a video of a major event in your personal life speculating what could’ve happened? What’s wrong with you ?
Brother Ali blames mostly women when a divorce happens. That's speculation and it's haram.
Why are we discussing other peoples lives on a public platform ?
What a clown this lad Ali has become. Unsubscribe for all of the reasons listed below 👍 If I want to see baseless speculation about other people's marriage and divorce, I can get that from Eastenders...
I unsubscribed several weeks ago. I want content on Islam and guidance.
My dear brother Ali, I love you for the sake of Allah. You are a good Muslim calling others to Allah, what a noble thing you are doing. However brother one thing I advise, from one brother to another, is not to show non-mahram woman on the internet. Allah has commanded us to lower our gaze, and trust me, a lot of these woman are very beautiful and many of us young guys would be like 😯😯🤤🤤. So it’s best we avoid such things. May Allah reward you!!!❤❤❤
Love is conditional from both parties. Someone wasn't keeping up their end of the bargain.
as a muslim you should mind your business and dont make assumptions on other peoples lives. dont forget its best,cus speculating on causes and something he didnt discuss with you can get you to sins
Most the guys i know are quite happy to skip the farz like salah…..and grab a second wife……its sunnah!! 😂
Ali you guys are getting into too much drama this days. Fear Allah and mind your business. much love brother
The fact people are justifying taking a second, third, fourth wife is crazy. This was done hundreds of years ago when there was a shortage of men, women were being widowed and then robbed or attacked. So it was allowed in order to protect the women. These days, it's justified by saying a mans not cheating if he's marrying the woman. It's basically an excuse for a man to be intimate with more than one woman. But what else did Allah teach both men and women? Do not give in to your desires.. do not sin.. be modest.. lower your gaze.. work hard on your marriage. All of this goes out of the window when a man can't keep it in his trousers. They then use the excuse that its permissible if a nikah is done. It's ridiculous. Look into the REAL reason why it was permissible back then. Those times are not relevant now. Men need to learn more self-discipline. And these brothers need to stop saying women should put up with it.. its their different wiring. BS!
It's not a sin and it's not really obligatory for there to be extenuating circumstances. Sorry that's just the truth of the matter don't let your emotions dictate what you believe and read and educate yourself
@beast1elsayeda I never said it was a sin. Read more carefully. And I do not need to educate myself in the matter. This is more to do with human behaviour rather than what is written in Islam. Neither did I say there has to be extenuating circumstances. I'll put it in plain English for you seeing as you are having trouble understanding... men want to sleep with more than one woman and to justify that it is OK, they are doing a nilkah..whether secret or not, and using a ruling from hundreds of years ago to legitimise it... "I can up to four wives...". There isn't a need or necessity for it. If a man wants to look at Islamic ruling.. then look to the part that says you should work on your marriage.. not go hunting for another woman.. and the men out there saying (including Brother Ali Dawah) that the men aren't getting the intimacy from their current wife and that's the reason.. well why isn't that happening? From a woman's point of view... the woman isn't happy.. because if she was, she would be intimate. So the husband clearly isn't working hard at the marriage and seeing to his wife's unhappiness, he's too busy looking for the next halal woman for him.. you say don't let emotions get involved.. that's ignorant.. every marriage carries emotions. And there wouldn't be 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives if there wasn't any issues. A marriage isn't a business agreement. You need to think with your brain..
Real reason? There is no real reason it was allowed and it is still allowed we don't worship women's feelings. If it's permitted it's our choice not some mulimahs choice. And to the point there were more women then men so by theat logic there are still more women than men in west
you got it all wrong, taking a second, third, forth wife is the DEFAULT, keeping just one for your whole life is against the norm. In surah nisa, it is mentioned that you should take 2, 3 or 4, and IF you can not treat them fairly, then "content" yourself with one.
4:3: ".......then marry other women of your choice-two, three, or four. But if you are afraid you will fail to maintain justice, then ˹content yourselves with˺ one....."
@ohmygash5102 that is the biggest load of bs I have ever heard. It is certainly NOT a default! And again you are forgetting the time of the Prophet, when there was enough battles/ wars going on, and thst is when it is recorded. And there was a valid reason behind it. Many scholars have spoke of this reason. And it is by far the norm and a default in this day and age. And it is advisable not to do so fkr many reasons, including financial stability and putting your family / families through unnecessary hardship. Plus that fact that no man can treat more than one woman equally. Even brother Ali atleast raised that point himself. Many men keep their second wives a secret.. so how are they treating both women equally? They aren't. Both financially not supoorting them the same, and by ways of having one wife involved with your actual family, ie parents, siblings and other relatives. Celebrating Eid together, birthdays, family weddings etc.. and the other wife always completely in the dark. Let alone spending equal amounts of time with them both which isn't possible. It HAS to be equal in all aspects of the marriage, and it just clearly won't be.
Men who want to use unrealistic excuses to have many women, are clearly storing their brain somewhere else other than their skull. It is that simple.
You can't use a situation that happened hundreds of years ago and apply the results to today. We are living in different times.
I respect for muslim lantern is increasing day by day....
@@user-dr3rs7pm6x I know that's a proper daiee not this joker
brother Ali no need to gossip about our brother khaled and his ex wife. this is unnecessary. its up to them if they want to talk about it. why all the speculation.
i dont get it brother why ur focus was on the divorce,second wife, desire etc, yet u literally named the video what u was actually supposed to speak about that his marriage is clearly as haram as muslim sister marrying non muslim!!! u shouldve call out his hypocrisy and call him out for crossing the line!! rarely do i disagree with u brother but theres always a first :D
Ali we get it, you want another wife.
Just get married bro
Correction: As a woman we don't just consent intimacy whenever the husband wants or feels like. Depends how the day went , how the husband rolled down the day in terms of being affectionate, his approach before that part. We are very sensitive humans. We express ourselves outright that's us.
What about self discipline? You don't need to give in to your desires!
What do u mean
Unfortunately, self discipline is never an options for Dawah bro types.
@@anjuma2676 generalisation based on no evidence just subjectivity. Probably a degenerate feminist.
@@hn1695 A man is a real man and more mature if he can control his desires and don' t let his desires control him.
@@anjuma2676it's important for everyone especially kids
WHY ARE U DISCUSSING SOMEONE'S MATRIMONIAL MATTERS , BY POINTING A FINGER AT THEM DIRECTLY NAMING THEM???
THIS IS NOT THE WAY OF THE MUSLIM .
WE CAN ALWAYS DISCUSS THESE MATTERS WITHOUT NAMING AND SHAMING A HUSBAND AND WIFE .
EVEN THE QURAN IS VERY CAREFUL IN STATING THESE MATTERS .
Shutup. Their story is on the public platform and its known to everyone that they have divorced. It is not a private matter and referencing them is beneficial to make a point and for advice.
@@hn1695 yeah, without naming anyone
@@HAXHAXHIN what's wrong with naming them when he isn't saying anything which isn't already publicly available? There is nothing against the quran in this unless he backbited
Bruh its public so it should be addressed publicly
@@suhulfx
We do not follow Public Opinion or Public precedence. We follow the Quran and Sunnah.
Ali’s reactions are always about bashing women in his interpretations and then saying ‘not all women are like that’ smh
Are you putting up random videos just for views and likes? As it's a ridiculous and a irrelevant video which is likely to cause more conflicts in marriages. Please put up things which will bring people closer to Allah and to our beautiful religion than these unnecessary controversial videos about other people which are not beneficial. I've unsubscribed from your channel as that is all you seem to put up these days - either gossip about other people or just trying to find faults in good respectful people, such as Nouman Ali Khan for an example. Please stop for a moment and just try to remember the purpose of your channel and the meaning of your name (dawah).
May Allah SWT forgive us and guide us all, Ameen.
KHALID NEW HINDU WIFE - MUSLIM DEFENDS 😂
She embraced Islam
YOUR EGOTISTICALY AGONISINGLY PATRONISING & YOUR WRONG, Women Keep Your Memes Alive, & we laugh until memories are made..YOU'LL NEVER EXPERIENCE 🤣
You say a woman would not think of another man if married to her dream man. But if the husband decides to have a second wife, how can you possibly blame the first wife for not understanding? She could never feel comfortable sharing. Infact its fair to call it cheating. You're kinda blackmailing the woman in accepting the situation.
The sad reality is that because a woman doesn't have an equal exit to the relationship, some men exploit this and use religion in an unjustified way.
What if a woman who cannot populate and has a high sex drive and desires multiple marital partners in today's time, should her individual needs be accepted like the man's with the same option?
I am married the love of my life..but i desire other men...not all women are the same bro
Right! Many women i know says the same, but they dont speak openly bcz of their haya and men speak about it openly and often only about mans rights and desires..
This man know nothing about marriages and couples personal issues woman and men problems.😂 Sir plz you do only dawah don't interrupt in these types of content
🤷♀️Men are different. Even Ali bin Abi Talib (rAa) remarried relatively quickly, after Fatima (rAa) died. A lot of men do. Maybe their marriage was already in shambles long time ago and they kept their best to keep the fassade for their children‘s sake.
Not maybe.. fact. Good men try hard to hold on for the sake of Allah, children but sometimes it's impossible.
The difference is that he married a Hindu woman actress that doesn't wear hijab and displays her beauty to the whole world. They also promote hatred towards Islam in their Media industry where the actresses and actors are often involved in spreading falseness on Islam by acting.
@@kikikoko607 The word is facade. Not fassade. And who are these two? Ali Bin and Fatima Bin? Are they content creators like Khalid and Salama?
@@RibiniCalis Sorry, in my language (German) it’s "Fassade" . I just germafied your language. When I wrote : “Maybe their marriage was already in shambles…“ I was talking about Khalid and Salama again. Of course, I was not talking about Ali inn Abi Talib and Fatima (rAa). I only took Ali (rAa) as an example, to make the point, that men move on very quickly. Even someone like Ali (rAa) , who was very pious and loved his late wife Fatima - the daughter of our beloved Prophet (sAaws) - very much.
@@kikikoko607It was Fatima's RA death request for Ali bin Abi Talib to marry again and marry quickly. You didn’t know that for sure.
Dear brother Ali Dawah, I rarely place comments. But this is gossip, the bigger problem is that you are doing it publicly. Please don’t lose your Baraka you have built over the years and trade it for the benefits of this Dunya. You did good works over the years, remove the wrong stone and everything can come tumbling down very easily. By the way, this has nothing to do with being a man like read in previous comments but being human and making mistakes. May Allah forgive us all. Every son of Adam makes mistakes!
MashaAllah you summed up my life. After 7 years of ranting divorce I gave up and that is how my marriage ended. Sad she's on a revenge spree since my 2.5 yr old son is with her, but yes I moved on fast and found the right fit and married her 11 months after my divorce