Thank you both. I’m 37 and came out of a relationship with a man Satan planted in my life because I didn’t wait on God. Your relationship helps me to know I must keep the faith God has His best for me. Thank you. 💙❤️
It's nice to see you so calm about it at 37. I'm 23 and never been in a relationship I was too busy chasing different idols and stuck up "no girl was worthy of me" but since I've been saved I really want a relationship but it's easy to be impatient so it's nice to see you so calm about being older and still waiting with patience.
@@vivaeuropa Remember, its God's time, not our time. I always say this to my elders when they pressure me to find a girlfriend With that said, I'm still open with knowing more people and giving a chance to girl I come across as suitable partner. I try my best to avoid places sluts "roam" especially tinder, church is a great place to get to know new people and find your future partner
Don’t be afraid to have high standards and wait for God’s best 🙌🙌🙌 That was so refreshing to hear! Usually we’re encouraged to lower our expectations and standards but then are blamed for getting into relationships that go wrong. So thank you for sharing and encouraging us to trust that God has the best for us
I loved so much what you mentioned about being pure, the wrong people can make us feel guilty because we walk in righteousness and in light! The darkness cannot stand the light and it rejects it
Lots of people say they’re a Christian, but they practice sex outside of marriage , they use profanity, they don’t care at all to read the word and I don’t see any fruits. In general , a Christian truly follows Jesus and obeys him. 💙 And absolutely legalism is not Godly. Women have to be careful that a man isn’t reading the Bible just to impress her until he gets her. It has to be a genuine act, something he does willingly and not to impress a woman .
I think the Lord is getting me ready for marriage because he keeps introducing me to creators like you so I can learn more about AGAPE Love and how to Glorify Him in marriage. Thank you for your transparency. Practical examples are still important. 💛
Wow this was so good! As a single Christian woman, I feel so encouraged to continue my walk in purity with the Lord and to wait patiently for Him to send me my husband. Thank you for this 😭🙏🏻❤️ God bless you both.
It's very important to find a godly man. I have seen many Christians no longer going to church after marrying a non-Christian. Remember, its God's time, not our time. I have been single for all my life, my focus has been on self improvement and building my faith. Because while waiting for the right person to come, you have to be at your best to welcome that person. And just recently there is a new girl just started joining our church and the cell group I'm overseeing, even tho I'm not particularly attracted to her, we still chat and hangout some times. I certain can see a lot of positive responses from her in our interaction, tho she kinda hinted that she isn't attracted to me as well but we know if the only measurement is attraction, once that is gone, the relationship will fall apart. So we instead focus on something more fundamentals like our principles, values, chemistry, teamwork, faith...
I think that modesty is very important whether your married or not. As a Christian I do believe that my body is mine but also the Lord's. I also know that there are men out there that are struggling with lust/porn/etc. and I personally don't want to be the reason why they are struggling or a trigger. "How can I prepare myself to be the bride for Christ" was so good! Be your best self for God, for yourself, and your future spouse.
Adam point of view is so profound. Your content is so wholesome and I’m truly blessed by it. Thank you once again for the reminder that in our waiting,living for God should always be our number one priority ❤️
I remember recognizing that when I was very young. My womb is sacred. My child will come from here…. As women are vessels are precious! Everything about our hearts is precious and deserves protection
I m glad you found each other. I m waiting for my kingdome husband. I live in Greece and even when I say I m a believer people make fun of me. Since I m in my 35s and my image or body image does not resonate with what I believe or I have to be more earthly. Sometimes I pretend I dont expect for what I look for. Noone gets me. I feel like losing hope. I feel in a lot o pain for a lot of emotional hardships and the fact I grow older and all I meet is disbelievers. I pray and I pray 😞😔
It was nice to have Adam’s point of view about modesty. I used to dress very modestes but when i found myself at almost 30 not married i stopped and started to dress with shorter and tighter clothes as a way to attract my husband. It definitely enabled me to get a lot of attention from men but still no marriage, so now I’m back to being modest but it is challenging. thanks for this video 💝
@@TP-hu2yg As a Godly man personally it's the first thing I look for in a women is if she honors God with how she dresses. It's a very important first impression and dressing revealing is enough to completely write her off just to be safe because if she dresses to create lust in men then she probably is dealing with other problems like self worth, pornography addiction, still promiscuous etc.
Hi. I hope you already got married in these 2 years, but if not, the problem is not in modest clothes. And anyway, a more "attractive" style of clothing does not mean short and fitted clothes, but I think you already know that. I am in the same situation, we really live in a world that has lost its values, with the distance from God we become nothing more than rational animals, because we already subject our soul to superficiality. For a long time I thought that the reasons why I didn't get married were either physical, or that the world has degraded in many ways and it's hard to find a truly Christian man. But... actually I had many unresolved traumas from my childhood that programmed me to attract toxic people and full of emotional wounds, because I myself was full of wounds. I'm not saying it's your case, because I don't know you. But I leave this comment in case it will ever be useful to someone, we always attract what we are and often we block our own paths because we have an emotional baggage behind us that needs to be thrown away. We have to imagine what we want in a partner and first, be ourselves in this way. Otherwise, we will attract all kinds of people who either do not respect us, or cannot love, or are manipulative or simply inappropriate. When we accept and love ourselves, asking God to be able to accept us, as He accepts us, we hope that we will also meet that right partner. Moreover, if we tend to idolize people, we should know that God will never send us a man whom we will turn into an idol, into our god. That was my problem, the trauma programmed me to idolize people, and the "prize" was ... exactly, a narcissist. Good luck, all the best.
I absolutely loved this. Preparing yourself to be the bride of Christ is definitely something that I will be praying about and striving towards. Thank you for your wise words. Praise the Lord!!!
"I am not gonna bring you someone to destroy him". That really resonated with me. I've been dealing with self stem issues as long as I can remember, but I just realized how much I hurt an ex because of my insecurities... Gotta work on that. We have to lift up others ( partners, family, friends...) Not tear them down.
So happy to have found you both. I am healing after another failed relationship. Your experience and teachings of god has touched the core of my soul. It’s taken me to the age of 42 to finally realise even as a woman of faith why I kept going through failing and short term relationships. You have taught me the way to meet my godly husband and this time round I won’t settle for less. Sarah I thank you and your husband for the revelation. 💕💕🇬🇧🇦🇴
So so good. I have been single for many many years. As a couple, you are inspiring me. For some reason I do not see available men around me. I love jesus and growing in my relationship..He made me strong and healthy and still pretty at 62.
I was emotional at one point of this video, I had been dealing with a battle recently with modesty, like not just with what I wear but my motivations. And while watching your video I felt myself remember when I used to feel beautiful, and when I knew my value doesn’t come from anyone else’s approval. I finally felt that part of me come out again. Thank you. God bless you both!
Thank you Adam, that really helped me when you shared your age at finding Sarah. I am 40 and divorced for 5 years and my friends and coworkers think I am crazy for not using social media and turning down men that are not sent from God. It can be discouraging mentally but I know God hasnt forgotten me and he is telling me to be still and wait, I will know.
Hey, just to encourage you a little. Delay is not denial and if God kept you in a place he sure knows and will answer you in due time, try to use this period to serve him and develop yourself
I like the way Adam marketed your coaching business. It's not bad to put your business out there once in a while. It is the talent God had blessed you with to generate income sometimes while enriching lives. I love you guys. God bless and protect you both. Amen.
I started praying for my future husband intentionally and asked God to guide me and I randomly stumbled upon your page, what a blessing these videos have been. God bless you both greatly!
I have to say, Sarah, I love how gracious you are. You both have such a pure dynamic, and the way, Sarah, you listen to your husband and let him speak (and even at the end you asked, "Actually, can I add something to that?" without interrupting), is SO beautiful. Christ is truly in you, and it is so evident, and I aspire to be like this to be a perfectly compatible mate for my spouse soon
Thank you so much brother and sister. I loved everything that was said, but the one that stuck with me is when you mentioned that in your waiting and single stages, when people told you to date someone you say to them "No my wife's coming". Don't settle for less, wait for GOD's best. Thank you for this video and the prayer guys. May GOD Bless you more
This opened my eyes tremendously as to why God hasn’t allowed me to meet my husband yet. He has what’s best in store for me Jeremiah 29:11. Thank you both for your Godly wisdom!
The prayer at the end broke me down to tears. Thank you for this video. Thank you for that prayer. Thank you for your honesty and your humbleness. Thank you for your caring hearts.
Wow. Just wanted to let you guys know that this video really touched my heart. The part when Adam talked about his experience waiting for a godly woman is pretty much the process that I am going through. Thanks for giving me hope guys! God bless! Also, modesty is truely beautiful.
Thank you so much for doing this video,i'm so blessed.I'm 40 and single,here in Asia the pressure is real to get married at this age. I learn so much from your video. God bless both of you!
Wow love that - Eagle and seagulls! When I fight the fear and negative whispers of the enemy. "Your future husband will probably cheat on you" or "You know your love is too much, and you are going to scare him away." My usual reply to the enemy now is….. "yeah, you’re probably right. But then he’s not the man God has for me." I have found through this journey how God has really developed a deep understanding of unconditional love, seeing the value in a person, what stillness looks like, godly boundaries and a whollllllllllllllllllle heap of the p word…….. patience! 🙊 He has helped me to understand to look past what is presented to one’s character, then you can discern whether God is flying the red flags or it is something they are struggling with and just need someone to walk alongside them. However when it comes to a spouse forever is a very long time and we/you don’t want to mess that up. So waiting this side is so much easier than fighting the other side. I have done both! @Adam & Sarah Your content is so beautiful, I "stumbled" upon it last night when I couldn’t sleep. Then funnily enough today my mum randomly sent me two of your stories. 😮 needless to say I have bing watched you both today. Thank you for your honesty, integrity and transparency.
Thank you, Natalie, for your awesome message, and for sharing with us! What a great respond you say when the enemy tries to discourage you! We are agreeing with you that the man God has for you is coming! Its funny you said "Eagles and Seagulls" because in 5 mins I'm releasing a new video called "Eagles or Roosters" over on my channel @Nowsoar, check it out, you will like it! God bless you, and thank you for watching our videos and kind words! Adam & Sarah
I agree, I’d love to hear Sarah’s story about how she got to this stage. Especially after watching a video on the enemy whispering insecurities to her at a young age. How did you overcome all of this ?
Wow I love hearing the wisdom that the Lord has given you two. Sometimes God also just wants us to learn to wait on Him. It's like He is saying, If you never receive this relationship that you are praying for am I still enough for you? And Adam's comment about learning to wrestle with God is so true! When a relationship has depth there are real emotions involved and God wants us to take those to Him.
This video has helped me so much as a single mom, I’m going to trust God and just try my best into evolving and letting God redeem me to a better version that followed him and put him first.
@@harleighstringer I share the same fears! But I’m surrendering it to Jesus and just going to love what he gives me and just focuz on keeping him the center of my ♥️ he wants more for us than we are aware of at this moment
Such a great video ! I went through a tough time recently, i had to let go of a relationship that wasn't Godly at all and was making me depressed, anxious and made me cry and doubt everyday... I am so glad to have ended it even though it was difficult. But I am making the promise to myself that i am going to wait on the Lord, and i have faith that one day i will find a godly husband ! Until then I will better myself in every area, and grow spiritually! Thank you for this awesome video, may God bless you both abundantly !! And also all the people in the comment section
Video really inspired me to pray to God for my future husband. About to be 19, really enjoying my singleness, it took me a while to enjoy it but i finally enjoy it. Now I’m gonna fast and be the woman God calls me to be until he knows I’m ready for a husband🤍
Beautifully said and prime example of a Godly marriage. Love from the UK. Nice to see a British and American couple too. Very sweet and supportive of each other.
I love this message, thank you so much. God also put on my heart that He wasn't going to give me an idol. If my husband found me today I would be so distracted and put them in God's place and I need to get that out of my system first.
I just listened to the Mia Fieldes podcast that you spoke of and I'm so encouraged. I especially liked when she said to look for the evidence of what God said. Thanks to you and Adam for sharing. God bless you.
What a beautiful segment. You cant expect God to bless you with someone amazing, God-fearing when you don't even know where you stand with God. It is vital you ensure that you work on your relationship with God, then you will for sure see Him work in your life. That's why Mathew 6:33 "seek He's kingdom first and He's righteousness and all the other things will be added unto you" and as you seek him Proverbs 3:5-6 "trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In al your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight" This video, truly was a blessing 🙏
I thought I heard it all on being single and living in the season of singleness, but I learned a lot from this and the Holy Spirit was teaching and convicting me through it. Thank you and God bless!
With talking about sitting with sinners but not being unequally yoked, a great example of someone who didn’t listen to God’s conviction in this area is Solomon. We talked about this in my young adult group, and instead of bringing his wives to God, he began building temples for them to worship their own “gods.” I love that you touched on this, thank you for sharing a great message from God in this!
“It’s easier to say no now than it is to say no later” So true.. I ignored the Holy Spirit when I was dating my soon to be ex-husband. I got to a point where I was tired of waiting and I took matters into my own hands. I stopped trusting in God for my future. I married a counterfeit and it was the hardest 5 years of my adult life. It’s now ending in divorce. It was the hardest “no” I had to say. I encourage everyone, wait on the Lord. Don’t make marriage an idol. Don’t desire marriage over Gods will. Keep Jesus as Lord of your life. He knows what’s best and He is going to love you best by giving you His best.
Really thanks for your sharing, this video really touched my heart. I'm 38 years not marriged, I'm in China, it's very difficult for me with sigle life here, the others think I'm not normal or with very high standard with man, everyone here get marry in early age. I'm still waiting and keep good relationship with God, this video encorage me a lot, thank you for your word, and Adam said keep high standard, we deserve better from God, I'll keep this word in heart.❤
@@tvhead7074 Thanks for your caring. We can worship Jesus in China, so many church build up in China and so many christian these years. The public church is totally open, but the family church was controlled in China, the family church worship secretly. During the pandemic time, the public church was forbidden to open, but the family church still keep worship every sunday, and not let government knows, we have many ways to worship God even sometimes in the rough situation.Pls don't worry. 😄
@@tvhead7074 It's complicated, there're so many heresy in the name of Jesus here misleading people, our government try to make all people safe, maybe others feel bad for us, but sometimes God use this way to protest us the real christian and the people. It's really hard to explain, but I think our government also try their best to get the balance.
My life changed for the better when, out of desperation I surrendered my mind body and soul to the Lord. Daily surrender, shedding my ego, and exploring the love of the Father has been transformative! Press into God, ask the Holy Spirit for help and He will show up, every time.
Amen 🤍🙏🏻 this was sooooo helpful and encouraging! I just broke up with my boyfriend, God was giving me lots of red flags but I was so attached to him and I didn’t have the courage to say goodbye, now I can see clearly why it wasn’t meant to be!
Thank God he made me find your channel and when I follow your videos I always learn something because of our Lord for his blessings and may he continue to guide and bless you. He’s preparing something amazing for all of us, be still and full of faith. Greetings from Rome, Luca.
This was a great video. Encouraging and I’m 39 single male by choice. I’m encouraged by both of yall of how you both were patiently waiting and enjoying the single years while still having them. They are not a waste. Thanks for the video
Girl the way your husband look at you makes me smile 😭🫶🏼 I love how he responds to you when you want to add something! So cute. And so needed. I want to take a course now!
This is the first video of yours that was suggested to my feed, I most appreciated your talking points when it came to speaking on behalf of redemption. I feel inspired to heal my past, and become a godly man. Thank you.
Your video has definitely spoken into my life! Thank you for blessing me. We never know how God is working and answering ours and others prayers. Bless you.
Currently waiting..its getting hard and i feel like im going mad. Will be 35 this year and women... yall already know 😮💨🙃. So hard for me to not get discouraged. I petition your prayers on my behalf please. Thank you for this video 👋🏾
Find the lessons from your trials, tests (pass or fail) and blunders. They build character and help you see what to avoid and or change in the future. Previous failed marriage helped me focus more on God and learn about how I was choosing incorrectly (or entertaining).
Mia Fields story is so beautiful. It made me cry and I literally received a new song in my spirit by just listening to her. Thank you Sarah, for sharing.
I've been commenting on your videos for a few weeks now saying that I learned something or whatever. But I just want to say thank you for letting the Lord use you to talk to us! You have been such a blessing in my life and I thank God for you!
I'm glad Adam mentioned the bible highlighting part. My car got broken into and they stole my purse. The only thing that was in my purse was my Bible. It was very old and all highlighted, I knew where every verse was. I got a new Bible and I won't be highlighting it. At the end of the day what matters is that I have the scripture in mind and heart
Not on the topic but it’s refreshing seeing youtubers that are not all smiles. Both of you are looking serious and yet beam out much beauty. Yesterday discovered this channel and your content already blessed and redirected me, thank you!
Thank you for this video!❤😊 it was funny, I just wanted to type here my question "How old were you when you got married?" ad he just right away answered on the video...35yo😄 What has touched me: "Go and wrestle with the Lord!"....I tought I can't do this😂
This was incredible and I loved how the conversation was centred on glorifying God ultimately! This is going to bless me and my future marriage so thank you✨
This really was a beautiful video. You two are clearly on fire 🔥 for the Lord and there were so many pearls of wisdom. It is easier to say no in the beginning, and the red flags at the beginning are indication of more that are hidden. The Lord is so faithful to reveal them. We have to be wise with our time, because we cannot redeem the lost time, only God can. Thankfully it is His heart to ❤️. I also loved how Adam spoke highly of Sarah’s coaching business. It wasn’t a selling point but more of a genuine appreciation of Sarah’s work.
oh man the highlighting the Bible part, I resonate so much with that! I love to use the Bible app for high lighting and keep my physical Bible clean of markings!
Great job, guys. Jacob, I liked the way you honored your bride throughout the vidoe. And, how you reminded us to wrestle with God in prayer like Jacob did.
Wow! I always feel so at ease when watching your videos. 💖 I always feel the Holy Spirit move and speaking to me through you guys. You’re a beautiful couple and you help give me a peace about many things I worry about as I am new in pursuing my relationship with Christ and desire to be a wife someday. Thank you for your wise words both you and Adam are great examples of Christians who bearing good fruit.
That’s so encouraging to hear thank you for sharing! Really encourages us to keep making content, that’s amazing that you’re pursuing a relationship with Christ and I know He has someone amazing for you! 🙏💕
Yeah this a wonderful message, Catherine!! God definitely has a Godly husband for you, just keep doing what you are doing, stay close to the Lord and wait on Him!! ✝️🤗
I have been wrestling with God this year and he is really starting to speak to me and order my steps. I have avoided praying for marriage for years due to past hurt and in fact would not of been able to hear God even if he did speak as my heart was frozen. I have finally opened up after much healing and he really is starting to speak loudly and give me pictures, words and visions of marriage backed up by scripture. I believe in this season God has told me it’s close and to prepare myself to be submitted to a man’s covering. I have been single for many years so am very independent and it also ties into trust so this makes perfect sense to me 🙏🏽 Love your videos there part of my preparation for the good gift 🎁 God has for me ❤️💯🙏🏽
Wow your husband Adam had said some things that really hit my spirit! So grateful for this interview! It has been difficult reconciling God in the old testament. Focusing on how God was with Adam and Eve before sin blew my mind. Very helpful! And the seagull vs. eagle reference was great as well! Thanks to the both of you! 💗
This is really good information. It's important to know what to look for as well as red flags.Yes it is important to know how your significant other is loving the Lord because so many say they are Christian but they are not living the life!
You are so beautiful Sarah! And Adam seem to have a very calm spirit! IT IS TRUE that at the early point we should spot the redflags, it is really much easier to say NO early on. Thank you for uploading this video:)
Sarah, from the beginning of the video I loved the way your husband was looking at you💛💛💛 also I noticed your outfit, I can tell you are a classy and fashionable lady and you irradiate light and warmth and it is very curious that you guys highlighted the importance of the way of presenting one's self and right away thought of you as a great outfit inspo. I am single and started my walk with Christ a couple years ago, and am glad I just stumbled upon your video because I have learned that one of the most important decisions in your life is your career, friends circle and your partner. God bless you both 💛💛💛
Greets In Him Whom we serve! Just found this lovely video (and channel!) half an hour ago and felt so led to watch it immediately. Felt much spiritual warfare since hitting "play," and more so once I decided to leave a comment. Once I scrolled down anyway (despite the keyboard which suddenly broke, the light that fell over across the room, yada yada), I understood everything; the first comment revealed Brother Adam's last name, which I understand (my family speaks the same language :). The reason this is significant is because I was literally JUST (as in not an hour ago) praying with tears about the connection to my best friend, who is resistant to The Glorious Gospel. I've thought (and hoped...) for years that he would finally capitulate to the screamishly-loud Calls Of The Holy Spirit To him, and then was JUST THIS MORNING saying "I give that friendship up now" -- not the friend, but the close tie with my brother. (Not because he's dragging me down, but because it hurts too much to even admit how inoculated he currently seems To The Gospel. Just as both of you said about half-way through your great video!) Long story short, The Holy Spirit Asked me (again, JUST now, and before I saw dear brother Adam's name) "So, what would your ideal husband look like?" (and I started out with "Well, Thine Maker Is Thy Husband, O Lord!" hehe but then...) "Hmm, sold OUT To You, JC," I began. And then all the usual suspects, "Passionate about serving YOU, O AWESOME LORD, great at tech stuff so we can start a praise band, and... speaks Arabic." I added that last bit half-heartedly (my BFF is an American, and I was raised in Alex and also FL, unfortunately, lol), but then was like "where on the planet would I find a SAVED guy who's never been married and hopefully never even dated (I haven't) and over 40? AND with "akhla2" (don't know how to translate, but basically "morals")...who speaks my language?" Especially since most Christian Arabic-speakers I've ever met either married very young or are nominal Christians (or "ritualistic" rather than "relational"). (That I've met, btw. I know there are lots of people out there, and I haven't travelled heaps of late, but the steps and the stops of a righteous man are Well-Prepared By The Lord! Also, whether he or she marries a human in the first place, and praise Be To Him For His AWESOME And PERFECT micro-managingness Love!
Thank you both. I’m 37 and came out of a relationship with a man Satan planted in my life because I didn’t wait on God. Your relationship helps me to know I must keep the faith God has His best for me. Thank you. 💙❤️
It's nice to see you so calm about it at 37. I'm 23 and never been in a relationship I was too busy chasing different idols and stuck up "no girl was worthy of me" but since I've been saved I really want a relationship but it's easy to be impatient so it's nice to see you so calm about being older and still waiting with patience.
@@vivaeuropa Remember, its God's time, not our time. I always say this to my elders when they pressure me to find a girlfriend
With that said, I'm still open with knowing more people and giving a chance to girl I come across as suitable partner. I try my best to avoid places sluts "roam" especially tinder, church is a great place to get to know new people and find your future partner
Don’t be afraid to have high standards and wait for God’s best 🙌🙌🙌 That was so refreshing to hear! Usually we’re encouraged to lower our expectations and standards but then are blamed for getting into relationships that go wrong. So thank you for sharing and encouraging us to trust that God has the best for us
The love of a good man can be very healing and redemptive.
Beautifully put💛
"Prepare to be a bride for Christ!" I love that so much! Thank you for this word!
New subscriber btw! 😁
New gf btw!
Your husband's point on high standards is so important..this was golden.
Thank you! 🙏🙏
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@@NowBloom how old are you if I may ask
I loved so much what you mentioned about being pure, the wrong people can make us feel guilty because we walk in righteousness and in light! The darkness cannot stand the light and it rejects it
Lots of people say they’re a Christian, but they practice sex outside of marriage , they use profanity, they don’t care at all to read the word and I don’t see any fruits. In general , a Christian truly follows Jesus and obeys him. 💙 And absolutely legalism is not Godly. Women have to be careful that a man isn’t reading the Bible just to impress her until he gets her. It has to be a genuine act, something he does willingly and not to impress a woman .
It’s awesome to do life and build the kingdom with you! ✝️💜🤗
Love you honey 🍯💕🙏
Cute 🥰
I love you, too, Adam. 😘
@@aramisy.cajigas744 😂
@@NowBloom You kinda look like Dua Lipa the first time I saw you and the second too
I think the Lord is getting me ready for marriage because he keeps introducing me to creators like you so I can learn more about AGAPE Love and how to Glorify Him in marriage. Thank you for your transparency. Practical examples are still important. 💛
Wow this was so good! As a single Christian woman, I feel so encouraged to continue my walk in purity with the Lord and to wait patiently for Him to send me my husband. Thank you for this 😭🙏🏻❤️ God bless you both.
It's very important to find a godly man. I have seen many Christians no longer going to church after marrying a non-Christian. Remember, its God's time, not our time.
I have been single for all my life, my focus has been on self improvement and building my faith. Because while waiting for the right person to come, you have to be at your best to welcome that person.
And just recently there is a new girl just started joining our church and the cell group I'm overseeing, even tho I'm not particularly attracted to her, we still chat and hangout some times. I certain can see a lot of positive responses from her in our interaction, tho she kinda hinted that she isn't attracted to me as well but we know if the only measurement is attraction, once that is gone, the relationship will fall apart. So we instead focus on something more fundamentals like our principles, values, chemistry, teamwork, faith...
I am godly man..where are you from..
I think that modesty is very important whether your married or not. As a Christian I do believe that my body is mine but also the Lord's. I also know that there are men out there that are struggling with lust/porn/etc. and I personally don't want to be the reason why they are struggling or a trigger. "How can I prepare myself to be the bride for Christ" was so good! Be your best self for God, for yourself, and your future spouse.
Adam point of view is so profound. Your content is so wholesome and I’m truly blessed by it. Thank you once again for the reminder that in our waiting,living for God should always be our number one priority ❤️
Our pleasure, Veronica! We appreciate your kind words! Yes, keep waiting on Him, He's got you now until forever! God bless you!
I remember recognizing that when I was very young. My womb is sacred. My child will come from here…. As women are vessels are precious! Everything about our hearts is precious and deserves protection
I m glad you found each other. I m waiting for my kingdome husband. I live in Greece and even when I say I m a believer people make fun of me. Since I m in my 35s and my image or body image does not resonate with what I believe or I have to be more earthly. Sometimes I pretend I dont expect for what I look for. Noone gets me. I feel like losing hope. I feel in a lot o pain for a lot of emotional hardships and the fact I grow older and all I meet is disbelievers. I pray and I pray 😞😔
It was nice to have Adam’s point of view about modesty. I used to dress very modestes but when i found myself at almost 30 not married i stopped and started to dress with shorter and tighter clothes as a way to attract my husband. It definitely enabled me to get a lot of attention from men but still no marriage, so now I’m back to being modest but it is challenging. thanks for this video 💝
Yes this is so relatable! It would be lovely to have a video all about modesty and being firm and getting our self esteem from God and not other men.
I’m going to watch the modesty video!
@@TP-hu2yg As a Godly man personally it's the first thing I look for in a women is if she honors God with how she dresses. It's a very important first impression and dressing revealing is enough to completely write her off just to be safe because if she dresses to create lust in men then she probably is dealing with other problems like self worth, pornography addiction, still promiscuous etc.
@@vivaeuropa wow thank you for your response!
Hi.
I hope you already got married in these 2 years, but if not, the problem is not in modest clothes. And anyway, a more "attractive" style of clothing does not mean short and fitted clothes, but I think you already know that. I am in the same situation, we really live in a world that has lost its values, with the distance from God we become nothing more than rational animals, because we already subject our soul to superficiality. For a long time I thought that the reasons why I didn't get married were either physical, or that the world has degraded in many ways and it's hard to find a truly Christian man. But... actually I had many unresolved traumas from my childhood that programmed me to attract toxic people and full of emotional wounds, because I myself was full of wounds. I'm not saying it's your case, because I don't know you.
But I leave this comment in case it will ever be useful to someone, we always attract what we are and often we block our own paths because we have an emotional baggage behind us that needs to be thrown away. We have to imagine what we want in a partner and first, be ourselves in this way. Otherwise, we will attract all kinds of people who either do not respect us, or cannot love, or are manipulative or simply inappropriate.
When we accept and love ourselves, asking God to be able to accept us, as He accepts us, we hope that we will also meet that right partner.
Moreover, if we tend to idolize people, we should know that God will never send us a man whom we will turn into an idol, into our god. That was my problem, the trauma programmed me to idolize people, and the "prize" was ... exactly, a narcissist.
Good luck, all the best.
I absolutely loved this. Preparing yourself to be the bride of Christ is definitely something that I will be praying about and striving towards. Thank you for your wise words. Praise the Lord!!!
"I am not gonna bring you someone to destroy him". That really resonated with me. I've been dealing with self stem issues as long as I can remember, but I just realized how much I hurt an ex because of my insecurities... Gotta work on that. We have to lift up others ( partners, family, friends...) Not tear them down.
Good point
Why and how exactly did you tear him down if I can ask. I don't correlate how low self esteem = tearing down someone else in the mindset.
@@user-tk4qd8dj1p Because we project our insecurities on others. In my case, I brought the prejudices of my family into my relationship.
So happy to have found you both. I am healing after another failed relationship. Your experience and teachings of god has touched the core of my soul. It’s taken me to the age of 42 to finally realise even as a woman of faith why I kept going through failing and short term relationships. You have taught me the way to meet my godly husband and this time round I won’t settle for less. Sarah I thank you and your husband for the revelation. 💕💕🇬🇧🇦🇴
So so good. I have been single for many many years. As a couple, you are inspiring me. For some reason I do not see available men around me. I love jesus and growing in my relationship..He made me strong and healthy and still pretty at 62.
I was emotional at one point of this video, I had been dealing with a battle recently with modesty, like not just with what I wear but my motivations. And while watching your video I felt myself remember when I used to feel beautiful, and when I knew my value doesn’t come from anyone else’s approval. I finally felt that part of me come out again. Thank you. God bless you both!
Thank you Adam, that really helped me when you shared your age at finding Sarah. I am 40 and divorced for 5 years and my friends and coworkers think I am crazy for not using social media and turning down men that are not sent from God. It can be discouraging mentally but I know God hasnt forgotten me and he is telling me to be still and wait, I will know.
Hey, just to encourage you a little. Delay is not denial and if God kept you in a place he sure knows and will answer you in due time, try to use this period to serve him and develop yourself
Good for you! God is the way!
Where you look is very important! Church, ministries, missions, weekend church camps, and Christian apps are the best spots imo
I like the way Adam marketed your coaching business. It's not bad to put your business out there once in a while. It is the talent God had blessed you with to generate income sometimes while enriching lives. I love you guys. God bless and protect you both. Amen.
This is so good! "The bride of Christ"🙌♥️🔥
After having led homosexual lifestyle. God healed me I really pray daily that God will give me a wife who we will be able to help me grow in the Lord.
I started praying for my future husband intentionally and asked God to guide me and I randomly stumbled upon your page, what a blessing these videos have been. God bless you both greatly!
same heree!! :))
Am 20, not thinking about marriage but God and my passion. However thank you guys for these advice when choosing the right person.🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️
I have to say, Sarah, I love how gracious you are. You both have such a pure dynamic, and the way, Sarah, you listen to your husband and let him speak (and even at the end you asked, "Actually, can I add something to that?" without interrupting), is SO beautiful. Christ is truly in you, and it is so evident, and I aspire to be like this to be a perfectly compatible mate for my spouse soon
Thank you so much brother and sister. I loved everything that was said, but the one that stuck with me is when you mentioned that in your waiting and single stages, when people told you to date someone you say to them "No my wife's coming". Don't settle for less, wait for GOD's best. Thank you for this video and the prayer guys. May GOD Bless you more
This opened my eyes tremendously as to why God hasn’t allowed me to meet my husband yet. He has what’s best in store for me Jeremiah 29:11. Thank you both for your Godly wisdom!
The prayer at the end broke me down to tears. Thank you for this video. Thank you for that prayer. Thank you for your honesty and your humbleness. Thank you for your caring hearts.
Wow. Just wanted to let you guys know that this video really touched my heart. The part when Adam talked about his experience waiting for a godly woman is pretty much the process that I am going through. Thanks for giving me hope guys! God bless! Also, modesty is truely beautiful.
Thank you so much for doing this video,i'm so blessed.I'm 40 and single,here in Asia the pressure is real to get married at this age. I learn so much from your video. God bless both of you!
I trust in God's plan for my life and my future husband's.💗🙏🏼
This has moved my heart. Thank you for honesty and allowing me to know I am hearing from the Lord as he leads me to my husband this season.
Wow love that - Eagle and seagulls!
When I fight the fear and negative whispers of the enemy. "Your future husband will probably cheat on you" or "You know your love is too much, and you are going to scare him away." My usual reply to the enemy now is….. "yeah, you’re probably right. But then he’s not the man God has for me."
I have found through this journey how God has really developed a deep understanding of unconditional love, seeing the value in a person, what stillness looks like, godly boundaries and a whollllllllllllllllllle heap of the p word…….. patience! 🙊 He has helped me to understand to look past what is presented to one’s character, then you can discern whether God is flying the red flags or it is something they are struggling with and just need someone to walk alongside them. However when it comes to a spouse forever is a very long time and we/you don’t want to mess that up. So waiting this side is so much easier than fighting the other side. I have done both!
@Adam & Sarah Your content is so beautiful, I "stumbled" upon it last night when I couldn’t sleep. Then funnily enough today my mum randomly sent me two of your stories. 😮 needless to say I have bing watched you both today.
Thank you for your honesty, integrity and transparency.
Thank you, Natalie, for your awesome message, and for sharing with us! What a great respond you say when the enemy tries to discourage you! We are agreeing with you that the man God has for you is coming!
Its funny you said "Eagles and Seagulls" because in 5 mins I'm releasing a new video called "Eagles or Roosters" over on my channel @Nowsoar, check it out, you will like it!
God bless you, and thank you for watching our videos and kind words!
Adam & Sarah
I love you guys...you exude so much peace and Godliness..God bless your marriage
Aw thank you so much 😍🙏
Such a wonderful comment, thank you!!
I agree, I’d love to hear Sarah’s story about how she got to this stage. Especially after watching a video on the enemy whispering insecurities to her at a young age. How did you overcome all of this ?
Wow I love hearing the wisdom that the Lord has given you two. Sometimes God also just wants us to learn to wait on Him. It's like He is saying, If you never receive this relationship that you are praying for am I still enough for you? And Adam's comment about learning to wrestle with God is so true! When a relationship has depth there are real emotions involved and God wants us to take those to Him.
They’re beautiful
I really liked this. A lot resonated with me. I liked Sarah's transparency as well, it felt like the advice I needed.
i’m 18 and i’m so so happy to see such a healthy love like this. i’ve never ever met anyone like you or adam you guys are so amazing
This video has helped me so much as a single mom, I’m going to trust God and just try my best into evolving and letting God redeem me to a better version that followed him and put him first.
im a single mom too and the thought of a godly man wanting me seems so insane, but im trusting the Lord
@@harleighstringer I share the same fears! But I’m surrendering it to Jesus and just going to love what he gives me and just focuz on keeping him the center of my ♥️ he wants more for us than we are aware of at this moment
Such a great video ! I went through a tough time recently, i had to let go of a relationship that wasn't Godly at all and was making me depressed, anxious and made me cry and doubt everyday... I am so glad to have ended it even though it was difficult. But I am making the promise to myself that i am going to wait on the Lord, and i have faith that one day i will find a godly husband ! Until then I will better myself in every area, and grow spiritually! Thank you for this awesome video, may God bless you both abundantly !! And also all the people in the comment section
Video really inspired me to pray to God for my future husband. About to be 19, really enjoying my singleness, it took me a while to enjoy it but i finally enjoy it. Now I’m gonna fast and be the woman God calls me to be until he knows I’m ready for a husband🤍
Beautifully said and prime example of a Godly marriage. Love from the UK. Nice to see a British and American couple too. Very sweet and supportive of each other.
I love this message, thank you so much. God also put on my heart that He wasn't going to give me an idol. If my husband found me today I would be so distracted and put them in God's place and I need to get that out of my system first.
I just listened to the Mia Fieldes podcast that you spoke of and I'm so encouraged. I especially liked when she said to look for the evidence of what God said. Thanks to you and Adam for sharing. God bless you.
I love it when Adam prays for us! You guys are made for each other!
What a beautiful segment. You cant expect God to bless you with someone amazing, God-fearing when you don't even know where you stand with God. It is vital you ensure that you work on your relationship with God, then you will for sure see Him work in your life.
That's why Mathew 6:33 "seek He's kingdom first and He's righteousness and all the other things will be added unto you" and as you seek him Proverbs 3:5-6 "trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In al your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight"
This video, truly was a blessing 🙏
Wow this video spoke to me today DEEPLY! Thank you!
It’s good to remember gods best can also come in an imperfect form.
I thought I heard it all on being single and living in the season of singleness, but I learned a lot from this and the Holy Spirit was teaching and convicting me through it. Thank you and God bless!
The eagle and the seagull! Amazing! Beautiful video.
With talking about sitting with sinners but not being unequally yoked, a great example of someone who didn’t listen to God’s conviction in this area is Solomon. We talked about this in my young adult group, and instead of bringing his wives to God, he began building temples for them to worship their own “gods.” I love that you touched on this, thank you for sharing a great message from God in this!
loved the seagull vs eagle analogy. so so good
“It’s easier to say no now than it is to say no later”
So true.. I ignored the Holy Spirit when I was dating my soon to be ex-husband. I got to a point where I was tired of waiting and I took matters into my own hands. I stopped trusting in God for my future. I married a counterfeit and it was the hardest 5 years of my adult life. It’s now ending in divorce. It was the hardest “no” I had to say. I encourage everyone, wait on the Lord. Don’t make marriage an idol. Don’t desire marriage over Gods will. Keep Jesus as Lord of your life. He knows what’s best and He is going to love you best by giving you His best.
Really thanks for your sharing, this video really touched my heart. I'm 38 years not marriged, I'm in China, it's very difficult for me with sigle life here, the others think I'm not normal or with very high standard with man, everyone here get marry in early age. I'm still waiting and keep good relationship with God, this video encorage me a lot, thank you for your word, and Adam said keep high standard, we deserve better from God, I'll keep this word in heart.❤
I thought they didn’t let you guys worship Jesus over there?
@@tvhead7074 Thanks for your caring. We can worship Jesus in China, so many church build up in China and so many christian these years. The public church is totally open, but the family church was controlled in China, the family church worship secretly. During the pandemic time, the public church was forbidden to open, but the family church still keep worship every sunday, and not let government knows, we have many ways to worship God even sometimes in the rough situation.Pls don't worry. 😄
@@margaretjon3066 you’re welcome. I feel bad for you guys. Your population deserves a better government.
@@tvhead7074 It's complicated, there're so many heresy in the name of Jesus here misleading people, our government try to make all people safe, maybe others feel bad for us, but sometimes God use this way to protest us the real christian and the people. It's really hard to explain, but I think our government also try their best to get the balance.
@@margaretjon3066 I understand, you have to say what you have to say in order to be kept safe from CCP
My life changed for the better when, out of desperation I surrendered my mind body and soul to the Lord. Daily surrender, shedding my ego, and exploring the love of the Father has been transformative! Press into God, ask the Holy Spirit for help and He will show up, every time.
I love that.... he will rise to your expectations.
Dont be afraid to have high standards.
Thats precious. Thank you bro!!
Amen 🤍🙏🏻 this was sooooo helpful and encouraging! I just broke up with my boyfriend, God was giving me lots of red flags but I was so attached to him and I didn’t have the courage to say goodbye, now I can see clearly why it wasn’t meant to be!
Mia fields is awesome. An aussie triplet. She has a new beautiful song comfort. Shes such a bold woman of God. Love all her testimonies.
Thank God he made me find your channel and when I follow your videos I always learn something because of our Lord for his blessings and may he continue to guide and bless you. He’s preparing something amazing for all of us, be still and full of faith.
Greetings from Rome, Luca.
“Wait for GOD’S best.” That’s deep. Cuz god is the creator of all so GOD’s best is probably DAMN good. Great message.
This was a great video. Encouraging and I’m 39 single male by choice. I’m encouraged by both of yall of how you both were patiently waiting and enjoying the single years while still having them. They are not a waste. Thanks for the video
Girl the way your husband look at you makes me smile 😭🫶🏼 I love how he responds to you when you want to add something! So cute. And so needed. I want to take a course now!
This is the first video of yours that was suggested to my feed, I most appreciated your talking points when it came to speaking on behalf of redemption. I feel inspired to heal my past, and become a godly man. Thank you.
Although significantly older and divorced. I needed to hear this. My journey is with Jesus now.
I think you both suit very well!! I love your look especially in this video, Sarah! ☺
Oh my I just heard the Mia fields love story you put in the link, let me just say God is amazing. He works in mysterious ways🙏🏽🤩
Your video has definitely spoken into my life!
Thank you for blessing me.
We never know how God is working and answering ours and others prayers. Bless you.
Currently waiting..its getting hard and i feel like im going mad. Will be 35 this year and women... yall already know 😮💨🙃. So hard for me to not get discouraged. I petition your prayers on my behalf please. Thank you for this video 👋🏾
Wait patiently for God's best. While you wait, be good at it (season of singleness). Pursue purity but for the LORD ❤
Amen!
20 year old dude here this is so wise thank you both
You guys are so beautiful inside and out. You can see the presence of the Holy Spirit with you both
Find the lessons from your trials, tests (pass or fail) and blunders. They build character and help you see what to avoid and or change in the future. Previous failed marriage helped me focus more on God and learn about how I was choosing incorrectly (or entertaining).
Mia Fields story is so beautiful. It made me cry and I literally received a new song in my spirit by just listening to her. Thank you Sarah, for sharing.
I've been commenting on your videos for a few weeks now saying that I learned something or whatever. But I just want to say thank you for letting the Lord use you to talk to us! You have been such a blessing in my life and I thank God for you!
Thank you for your support and comments that means so much! It’s so encouraging to hear that you’re enjoying them! God bless you 😍💕🙏
I'm glad Adam mentioned the bible highlighting part. My car got broken into and they stole my purse. The only thing that was in my purse was my Bible. It was very old and all highlighted, I knew where every verse was. I got a new Bible and I won't be highlighting it. At the end of the day what matters is that I have the scripture in mind and heart
Not on the topic but it’s refreshing seeing youtubers that are not all smiles. Both of you are looking serious and yet beam out much beauty.
Yesterday discovered this channel and your content already blessed and redirected me, thank you!
Wife Academy with the Flowers?? Loved that course!🥰
Also, the quote is by Pastor Andy Stanley. 🙌🏾
Thank you for this video!❤😊 it was funny, I just wanted to type here my question "How old were you when you got married?" ad he just right away answered on the video...35yo😄 What has touched me: "Go and wrestle with the Lord!"....I tought I can't do this😂
This was incredible and I loved how the conversation was centred on glorifying God ultimately! This is going to bless me and my future marriage so thank you✨
You are a nice couple, making good spiritual and good common sense. Good video!
This really was a beautiful video. You two are clearly on fire 🔥 for the Lord and there were so many pearls of wisdom. It is easier to say no in the beginning, and the red flags at the beginning are indication of more that are hidden. The Lord is so faithful to reveal them. We have to be wise with our time, because we cannot redeem the lost time, only God can. Thankfully it is His heart to ❤️. I also loved how Adam spoke highly of Sarah’s coaching business. It wasn’t a selling point but more of a genuine appreciation of Sarah’s work.
oh man the highlighting the Bible part, I resonate so much with that! I love to use the Bible app for high lighting and keep my physical Bible clean of markings!
Great job, guys. Jacob, I liked the way you honored your bride throughout the vidoe. And, how you reminded us to wrestle with God in prayer like Jacob did.
This was a blessing...so blessed. Thank you guys for answering the call.
Wow! I always feel so at ease when watching your videos. 💖 I always feel the Holy Spirit move and speaking to me through you guys. You’re a beautiful couple and you help give me a peace about many things I worry about as I am new in pursuing my relationship with Christ and desire to be a wife someday. Thank you for your wise words both you and Adam are great examples of Christians who bearing good fruit.
That’s so encouraging to hear thank you for sharing! Really encourages us to keep making content, that’s amazing that you’re pursuing a relationship with Christ and I know He has someone amazing for you! 🙏💕
Yeah this a wonderful message, Catherine!! God definitely has a Godly husband for you, just keep doing what you are doing, stay close to the Lord and wait on Him!! ✝️🤗
I have been wrestling with God this year and he is really starting to speak to me and order my steps. I have avoided praying for marriage for years due to past hurt and in fact would not of been able to hear God even if he did speak as my heart was frozen. I have finally opened up after much healing and he really is starting to speak loudly and give me pictures, words and visions of marriage backed up by scripture.
I believe in this season God has told me it’s close and to prepare myself to be submitted to a man’s covering. I have been single for many years so am very independent and it also ties into trust so this makes perfect sense to me 🙏🏽
Love your videos there part of my preparation for the good gift 🎁 God has for me ❤️💯🙏🏽
Wow your husband Adam had said some things that really hit my spirit! So grateful for this interview! It has been difficult reconciling God in the old testament. Focusing on how God was with Adam and Eve before sin blew my mind. Very helpful! And the seagull vs. eagle reference was great as well! Thanks to the both of you! 💗
I appreciate you,Sarah.
Your godly spirit is refreshing.
This is really good information. It's important to know what to look for as well as red flags.Yes it is important to know how your significant other is loving the Lord because so many say they are Christian but they are not living the life!
This video was the answer to a lot of the questions I’ve had a single young woman. Bless you both. 🌻
God is still working. Thanks for sharing this beautiful content.
Truly enjoyed this video! This truly spoke to me.. may God bless you both abundantly! 💕
We are so glad it helped you, thanks for letting us know! May God bless you too!!
You are so beautiful Sarah! And Adam seem to have a very calm spirit! IT IS TRUE that at the early point we should spot the redflags, it is really much easier to say NO early on. Thank you for uploading this video:)
Sarah, from the beginning of the video I loved the way your husband was looking at you💛💛💛 also I noticed your outfit, I can tell you are a classy and fashionable lady and you irradiate light and warmth and it is very curious that you guys highlighted the importance of the way of presenting one's self and right away thought of you as a great outfit inspo. I am single and started my walk with Christ a couple years ago, and am glad I just stumbled upon your video because I have learned that one of the most important decisions in your life is your career, friends circle and your partner. God bless you both 💛💛💛
“It’s in the knowing that God reveals.”
Thanks guys for your Godly example. This is so necessary and important.
Oooh just the way he looks at her😍😍😍😍😍😍
Greets In Him Whom we serve! Just found this lovely video (and channel!) half an hour ago and felt so led to watch it immediately. Felt much spiritual warfare since hitting "play," and more so once I decided to leave a comment. Once I scrolled down anyway (despite the keyboard which suddenly broke, the light that fell over across the room, yada yada), I understood everything; the first comment revealed Brother Adam's last name, which I understand (my family speaks the same language :). The reason this is significant is because I was literally JUST (as in not an hour ago) praying with tears about the connection to my best friend, who is resistant to The Glorious Gospel. I've thought (and hoped...) for years that he would finally capitulate to the screamishly-loud Calls Of The Holy Spirit To him, and then was JUST THIS MORNING saying "I give that friendship up now" -- not the friend, but the close tie with my brother.
(Not because he's dragging me down, but because it hurts too much to even admit how inoculated he currently seems To The Gospel. Just as both of you said about half-way through your great video!) Long story short, The Holy Spirit Asked me (again, JUST now, and before I saw dear brother Adam's name) "So, what would your ideal husband look like?" (and I started out with "Well, Thine Maker Is Thy Husband, O Lord!" hehe but then...) "Hmm, sold OUT To You, JC," I began. And then all the usual suspects, "Passionate about serving YOU, O AWESOME LORD, great at tech stuff so we can start a praise band, and... speaks Arabic." I added that last bit half-heartedly (my BFF is an American, and I was raised in Alex and also FL, unfortunately, lol), but then was like "where on the planet would I find a SAVED guy who's never been married and hopefully never even dated (I haven't) and over 40? AND with "akhla2" (don't know how to translate, but basically "morals")...who speaks my language?" Especially since most Christian Arabic-speakers I've ever met either married very young or are nominal Christians (or "ritualistic" rather than "relational"). (That I've met, btw. I know there are lots of people out there, and I haven't travelled heaps of late, but the steps and the stops of a righteous man are Well-Prepared By The Lord! Also, whether he or she marries a human in the first place, and praise Be To Him For His AWESOME And PERFECT micro-managingness Love!
Thank you both for being an inspiration! May God bless your union.
Thanks from Brazil, I liked this video and urderstood at all.