To all mothers… please don’t allow a new boyfriend to babysit your children from a previous relationship! Especially if they are babies and can’t talk yet. Of course not all men will be abusive but you are taking a huge risk by doing that
If they are young and can’t talk, one has to question what kind of mother is the person? Why is she not with the father? And even if there’s a good reason for that - why would she even be making a man a priority when her priority should be her child, not more p-en-is.
Facts. I dated a guy for 5 and half years and he rarely ever watched my daughter and he definitely never watched her in the beginning. We was well into 3+ years before I would leave her with him to go to the store. He’s still in her life today bc he came in at 1 years old and she’s 9 now. Idk how these people be so comfortable
Right?! Plus she said that he watched her kids while she worked and he said she would drop him off when they argued. Like, what he good for you beside D and making babies?! Smh
@@meeksluvspink9047 when she said drop him off I was like oh he had no car. He said they moved in together after 2 month, he probably moved into her place smh
Every man, after the woman leaves the childs father starts off as a stranger unless it's the father himself, a family member or close friend who knew the child which is wrong so I'm confused? They had a child together themselves so what are y'all talking about?
@@motivation-hd7mw um no. A good mother does not bring some dude around her kids with only 2 months of meeting him. I did not let my now fiance MEET my kids until after 6 months of us dating and he never babysat them. And then she let him watch them??! I never let him babysit untill 2 years later. I had to specify for the dummies who can't read proper English. That's not normal at all to have dudes u don't know looking after ur children..it's weird and dangerous.
@@candicemirisha912 yes girl! And how about moving him into your place WITH YOUR CHILDREN, so quickly. That was mistake number one. Then a domino effect to follow 🤦🏾♀️
He has a manipulative mindset. He wanted her to take him back to forgive a loan. He played his part in adding to her responsibility and does not want to pay for his own shoes. Shame, shame, shame...
Okay so she is 25 with two kids and their dad is not in the picture so she thinks it's a good idea to move in a stranger, basically, after knowing him for only 2 months to have him watch her kids. Then decide it's a great idea to have a third child? Baby girl you need to find another habit and focus on yourself and the kids instead of a relationship
No they don’t calm down after 35 judge Mathis ! I work with a man who is in his 40s and still plays the field and brags about being a playa ! So no some of them do not calm down! 😢
No just no. 😢 this is distressing. Women getting pregnant after only knowing a man a few months. Him smoking with her grandmother. Him watching her kids. Her giving him money. Him asking for money from a woman with children.
Not just black youth. The white kids in my school area are extremely troubled. I've had to help two of the girls get through secret pregnancies and both the young fathers were on drugs.
I wonder how many kids she has now with other men besides these baby daddies. And she looks young and old at the same time. She looks 45 and 65. Maybe it’s the wig
Both made terrible decisions. A man should never ask a women who has kids for money. I give her credit for having him sign a promissory note, but she has to be smarter!
the audacity they are young and both immature he talking about her like she a stalker side chick that's the mother of his child talking about he took her back then dumped her a few days later
When I saw the defendant's name, I started singing...."I was looking at you, you was looking at me and I was thinking...woowoo woo woo woo... Go Demarkis Go Demarkis! Go! Go!..."🤣🤣🤣 🎵🎶🎵
As my Mom would say ALL this Birth control & women still getting pregnant & living in unnecessary poverty because they think the be all & end all is having a Man SMMFGDH...It's crazy to see sooooo many people don't want anything outta life I mean absolutely NADA...Just struggling & not thriving generation after generation!!!
He had to borrow money for shoes but he had money in an account that you don’t know how much is in there🙄, yeah right there isn’t any account………..you should’ve known when he asked to borrow money! 🤷🏽♂️
What kind of male spends $500 on sneakers, when they have kids to support. It's different if they're financially able to do both but defendant doesn't strike me like that.
Wow!!!!! The definition of a Pick Me. He embarrassed him he F outta her you can tell she was embarrassed looks like she wanted to take off running. He knew she was a goofy these man get these females pregnant to when they know you a weak goofy and they see it beneficial to keep you around.
I say don't "loan" out anything! First of all, she's got children to care for. She doesn't have it to loan. Secondly, these "nen" need to stand on their own feet and quit relying on anyone else to put their finances on the line for them.
2Corinthians 10:3-5 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
I highly doubt that any adult with a real life has time to party every week especially with kids that’s why he owe her money his priorities are not in order partying every week but having to borrow from your woman is insane
Amazing she found someone to watch her kids but the way i was raised i could never, anit that much trust in the world i dont play about my kids. My kids go to daycare n my “new man” could pay for that if he wanted to be helpful.
Something's got to be in the water to the point where you're having more children you're not in a stable situation you already have two children before this due to feed and take care of I just don't get it it's irresponsible to me lack of accountability on both ends I'm 39 and I have no children on purpose because the responsibility the severity of bringing another life into this world scares the hell out of me and then people wonder why we're having a generation of traumatized children that's trying to commit suicide among other things SMH
In my Kanye voice: She gives me money when I'm n need, like one comment said if u can't afford them u don't need them...those shoes must be gonna do a whole lot of stuff 😂😂
@2:00 you met him partying & then tried to change him/ control him. That’s who you wanted. You liked it. He helped you get your groove back at 25. Dude was 22.
First of all, if you're 25 years old, you don't have a groove to get back lol! And second of all, how does becoming a mother to yet another child without the security of their father in the household getting your groove back? You just let that fool manipulate you
@@sheliapea1387 I didn’t say it did or didn’t. I was just getting the lady up to date on the difference between a wig and a weave- a wig takes 3 seconds to put on.
I think that they make a beautiful couple. I think that they both have some growing and learning to do, but there's nothing too negative in their history that should prevent them. Marriage is in their future !!!
Most guys name Demarcus and Marcus are hell, let him go....they are only good for f*cking and that will get old quick. Do yourself a favor and let him be free cuz he is not going to sit in that house with you
I know sometimes these guys come on here and say some crazy shyyyt bout women mad cause they won't be with them and that's the reason why she suing. In many cases, I believe it. Women will support grown azz men, pay their bills, buy them cars and clothes and get mad when she catches him cheating. Yess I believe she told him exactly what he said! 🙄🙄
To all mothers… please don’t allow a new boyfriend to babysit your children from a previous relationship! Especially if they are babies and can’t talk yet. Of course not all men will be abusive but you are taking a huge risk by doing that
These mothers need to stop procreating with men that they are going to break up with.
They have to choose men better
If they are young and can’t talk, one has to question what kind of mother is the person? Why is she not with the father? And even if there’s a good reason for that - why would she even be making a man a priority when her priority should be her child, not more p-en-is.
Facts. I dated a guy for 5 and half years and he rarely ever watched my daughter and he definitely never watched her in the beginning. We was well into 3+ years before I would leave her with him to go to the store. He’s still in her life today bc he came in at 1 years old and she’s 9 now. Idk how these people be so comfortable
@@Proverbspsalms -💯
Like Stella got her groove back
Girl you did not get your groove back...you got a new baby daddy who like to wear over priced Jordans. SMDH
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Facts
Right?! Plus she said that he watched her kids while she worked and he said she would drop him off when they argued. Like, what he good for you beside D and making babies?! Smh
And young AF
@@meeksluvspink9047 when she said drop him off I was like oh he had no car. He said they moved in together after 2 month, he probably moved into her place smh
Girl you had a stranger watching your children? Absolutely not!
Sadly it’s a lot of moms like this
That’s what I came here to say!!! So dangerous 😮
First thing I thought. She's silly as fck. Baby momma bull sh
Every man, after the woman leaves the childs father starts off as a stranger unless it's the father himself, a family member or close friend who knew the child which is wrong so I'm confused? They had a child together themselves so what are y'all talking about?
@@motivation-hd7mw um no. A good mother does not bring some dude around her kids with only 2 months of meeting him. I did not let my now fiance MEET my kids until after 6 months of us dating and he never babysat them. And then she let him watch them??! I never let him babysit untill 2 years later. I had to specify for the dummies who can't read proper English. That's not normal at all to have dudes u don't know looking after ur children..it's weird and dangerous.
She believes he has a bank account for the babies college fund 🥴🤣🤣😂😂
I see a number of poor decisions in this case! 😕
That’s pretty much every case
Yes like leaving him to babysit her kids some random dude from a gas station
@@candicemirisha912 yes girl! And how about moving him into your place WITH YOUR CHILDREN, so quickly. That was mistake number one. Then a domino effect to follow 🤦🏾♀️
Ain’t no way I would leave my kids with a strange man
Being a single mother of 2 getting a third baby is not getting your groove back !
She makes poor choices
He has a manipulative mindset. He wanted her to take him back to forgive a loan. He played his part in adding to her responsibility and does not want to pay for his own shoes. Shame, shame, shame...
I think i lost a bunch of brain cells watching this episode
Embarrassing and they're both goofy ASF 🙄🤔
Why have a third baby, when you already have two? Why let a man watch your kids, while YOU work?
Too large a population of women make irreversible mistakes early in life and never recover
Thats what im thinking
Different strokes for different folks
Chile my cousin the same person. Smfh. Pray for us all🙏🏾
@@KAWTELENUH Nah not all her kids by him. That's no good
She seems like a sweet lady. I can see why he liked her
Sweet or slow ? I got slow out of her
Stupid you mean.
She’s not sweet. She’s slow 🤣
@@brandonbest5880 after getting her groove back she went back into time to get pregnant Lmfaooo lmfaooo
@@Orlandoloc83 exactly lol. She made the same thing she did the first time but people like this will always give them the benefit of the doubt.
He trifling
The defendant looks just like THE GAME from G-Unit 😂😂😂😂😂
The EPIC eye roll in the back (in pink) on the "got pregnant" floored me
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
🙄🙄🙄🤣
Okay so she is 25 with two kids and their dad is not in the picture so she thinks it's a good idea to move in a stranger, basically, after knowing him for only 2 months to have him watch her kids. Then decide it's a great idea to have a third child? Baby girl you need to find another habit and focus on yourself and the kids instead of a relationship
Ladies ladies ladies y'all stop having babies by men after 2-3 months you don't even know a person wow
I thoughtcshe she she was pregnant 2 WEEKS after meeting him! I don't even cars ti go back and watch to verify. This is just case is just numbing.
That's why so many women have children with multiple different fathers. They act like they have to have a child with every man they get involved with.
@@blackpowerpuff6155 sad but true
What
This is not getting your "groove back". This is getting your "fool back". SMDH
More like “being a fool jack” lol
@@SexyJoPlai 🤣🤣🤣 Yes!
If you don’t know the definition of prior, you shouldn’t be having sex.
😂facts
Chile
Stop leaving your kids with anybody.
2 kids and getting knocked up a few mos later with a different guy ?smh
3 yrs younger and she got her groove back? She already had 2 kids, that's all she can get.
Preach
No they don’t calm down after 35 judge Mathis ! I work with a man who is in his 40s and still plays the field and brags about being a playa ! So no some of them do not calm down! 😢
Some men are just starting at that age.......gain finances and such they didn't have as a young man
Correct!!!!
Many dont even calm down at 60! Sad but true!!
Some people are pieces of shit regardless of age.
I started to see a guy 50 who played childish ass games it doesn’t stop
There is no fool, like an old fool.
She end up with a extra child and now she has to sue him. Whew child this episode gave a headache 🤕
Upload on Sunday!?! Thanks JM Crew 😍
No just no. 😢 this is distressing. Women getting pregnant after only knowing a man a few months. Him smoking with her grandmother. Him watching her kids. Her giving him money. Him asking for money from a woman with children.
What's the issue 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣
pitiful...look at this ..asking for money
I can see why so many black youth are so troubled.
Having parents like this are the reason.
As a teachers aide I see it every day..... kids are so angry now
Yelp and the fathers should have got their kids 🤦🏾♀️
Blk men don't know how to properly lead their communities. They just tear it down
@@Forsaken860 They have to want their kids in order to get them
Not just black youth. The white kids in my school area are extremely troubled. I've had to help two of the girls get through secret pregnancies and both the young fathers were on drugs.
Two kids already. More babies an more babies!!! No man!!
Jordan's and weaves are like crack in some communities.
😂😂😂
He’s so right about them Jordan’s I’ve never had a pair, that’s a whole vacation no thank you
Baby a whole carnival cruise 🚢 at that.
Thats why you use afterpay to get a pair 😁
$500 is a whole vacation?
@@SRT_DRE I balled out in Jamaica with $500. Not including airfare
@@mrsir4315 how much was airfare? And did you rent a vehicle?
She was really sweet. I hate when men take advantage of kind hearted women. It really hurts 😢
Bruh - light bill or Jordans? Light bill or Jordans ? I’m gonna go with light bill
People, if you don't have any money in savings, you can't afford no Jordans.
Yikes I’m embarrassed for both these knickers
Wtf u say?
He should've paid her.
I wonder how many kids she has now with other men besides these baby daddies. And she looks young and old at the same time. She looks 45 and 65. Maybe it’s the wig
Both made terrible decisions. A man should never ask a women who has kids for money. I give her credit for having him sign a promissory note, but she has to be smarter!
the audacity they are young and both immature he talking about her like she a stalker side chick that's the mother of his child talking about he took her back then dumped her a few days later
When I saw the defendant's name, I started singing...."I was looking at you, you was looking at me and I was thinking...woowoo woo woo woo... Go Demarkis Go Demarkis! Go! Go!..."🤣🤣🤣 🎵🎶🎵
😂😂😂😂
As my Mom would say ALL this Birth control & women still getting pregnant & living in unnecessary poverty because they think the be all & end all is having a Man SMMFGDH...It's crazy to see sooooo many people don't want anything outta life I mean absolutely NADA...Just struggling & not thriving generation after generation!!!
Your mother is correct, however, it is not a generational thing. Somebody in a family, will break the cycle of poverty. I've seen it done MANY TIMES.
“Agreed to take her back “ 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
She did not know the meaning of prior just thought it sounds cute..
I’m not giving no man money for shoes 😂
He had to borrow money for shoes but he had money in an account that you don’t know how much is in there🙄, yeah right there isn’t any account………..you should’ve known when he asked to borrow money! 🤷🏽♂️
Moving your kids in w/ a dude you knew 2 MONTHS ???
Adulting is hard. Once a week is far too often to go out when you have kids. Fathers should participate equally.
If he has to borrow money for Jordans ma’am he does not have money put away for nobody’s college tuition.
Try another lie😂
I'm almost 50! Never bought a pair of Jordan's ... Maybe two pairs for my 22 year old daughter.
She got pregnant by a man after only knowing him for 2mnths wtf frfr
Shid its men in their 50s acting like they are 18. But baby they thumb print on the promissory note was perfect for the income tax reason lol.
What kind of male spends $500 on sneakers, when they have kids to support. It's different if they're financially able to do both but defendant doesn't strike me like that.
Wow!!!!! The definition of a Pick Me. He embarrassed him he F outta her you can tell she was embarrassed looks like she wanted to take off running. He knew she was a goofy these man get these females pregnant to when they know you a weak goofy and they see it beneficial to keep you around.
She was smart enough to get that finger print
To bum off of them yep
Message!!!! Jordan kids good for life what about yours !
$250 for shoes that cost $15 to make in China!
Our people are LOST!!!👎👎
$1.00 in China.
2 TIMOTHY 3:6-7 KJV....
SILLY WOMAN...
Yes get a promissory note for these menz they don't like to pay you back because you are a woman.
I say don't "loan" out anything! First of all, she's got children to care for. She doesn't have it to loan. Secondly, these "nen" need to stand on their own feet and quit relying on anyone else to put their finances on the line for them.
How does 1 have a baby with 1who can't afford his own shoes 👟👟? Get with it people, PLEASE!!!
Jm low key be trying to get this girls to put dudes on child support
Ummm yea not low key at all wtf not he gives the basis of why they should… because the arrearage could wreak havoc years down the line
2Corinthians 10:3-5 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:
(For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
JM knows him wanting to go out every week is excessive she said partying
Mutt maybe not too him
I highly doubt that any adult with a real life has time to party every week especially with kids that’s why he owe her money his priorities are not in order partying every week but having to borrow from your woman is insane
The sheer dustiness of this man.
Amazing she found someone to watch her kids but the way i was raised i could never, anit that much trust in the world i dont play about my kids. My kids go to daycare n my “new man” could pay for that if he wanted to be helpful.
Something's got to be in the water to the point where you're having more children you're not in a stable situation you already have two children before this due to feed and take care of I just don't get it it's irresponsible to me lack of accountability on both ends I'm 39 and I have no children on purpose because the responsibility the severity of bringing another life into this world scares the hell out of me and then people wonder why we're having a generation of traumatized children that's trying to commit suicide among other things SMH
WITH KIDS AN ADMIT TO SMOKING WEED ON TV..SUCH A DISGRACE
In my Kanye voice: She gives me money when I'm n need, like one comment said if u can't afford them u don't need them...those shoes must be gonna do a whole lot of stuff 😂😂
Go Damarkis!! Go Damarkis!!! - sorry fam, I had to😂
He comes off as a good father and guy. But DUDE enough with the shoes. My man wears NB and I love him for it!
New Balance is an excellent brand.
I would give Doyle all the air he needs-(blows) Hey Doyle❤️!!
I'm going to tell my hubby I need some air
Is she tilting her head or is her wig tilted?
😂😂😂😂
She seems like a bright young lady...too bad she let these men saddle her down with all these kids.
Bright?
Air Jordans = Tennis Shoes
She gone look back at ths n be very thankful that HE didn’t take her back 🙏🏽
Does he really thinks he’s worth $500
😂😂
Gas Station groove! Then a baby makes gravy! .
I'm here My Beloved Favorite Judge ***ASHAY ***
He ain’t got no money put away she lied that quick woww
He helps provides for her a her 3 kids and he can't get any jordans?
Why women why yo have men watch their children when they start to date!!!!!! What were they doing before they met them???????? Makes me really upset
@2:00 you met him partying & then tried to change him/ control him. That’s who you wanted. You liked it. He helped you get your groove back at 25. Dude was 22.
What’s with the obsession for branded names for black people🤦♀️instead of building wealth in the community?
No life insurance or real estate but buying these stupid expensive shoes
Ninjas and our Jordans lol 😂
First of all, if you're 25 years old, you don't have a groove to get back lol! And second of all, how does becoming a mother to yet another child without the security of their father in the household getting your groove back? You just let that fool manipulate you
her hair is the bomb! yes that's how you wear a weave..
A wig
@@Proverbspsalms it look good
@@sheliapea1387 I didn’t say it did or didn’t. I was just getting the lady up to date on the difference between a wig and a weave- a wig takes 3 seconds to put on.
TERRIBLE FORNICATING MOTHER... SMH... HOSEA 4:6 KJV
They don’t need kids . Some wires aren’t connecting
I think that they make a beautiful couple. I think that they both have some growing and learning to do, but there's nothing too negative in their history that should prevent them. Marriage is in their future !!!
Three children +smoking weed + moving him in after 2 months... "Marriage is in their future.!!" If you put her brain in a bird it would fly backwards.
He broke no
@@davicool9958 As they say.....................birds of a feather. Flock together.
@@davicool9958 or fly to a hawk's nest.
@@Imissyoulou I never heard that before 😂
She's just all the way ratchet
These sorry men make me 🤮, always borrowing money from their women (and in effect their kids) and saying it was a gift. SMH
It said shes a single mother that likes to stay at home. How? How much uncle sam paying. How much CS hitting for
Exactly
She could have a stay at job but either way. She fumbled having another baby.smh.
@@Forsaken860 she say she stay home and be bored. The only thing she workin is that mouth and that remote
Did you not hear she said she filed her taxes? Means she has a job smh
@@FaithandNova nah i aint hear that ty
Jordans? I have never bought a pair of jordans.
It's like watching two adolescent children. 🥺
So he only took her back as he say so he didn’t have to pay
Most guys name Demarcus and Marcus are hell, let him go....they are only good for f*cking and that will get old quick. Do yourself a favor and let him be free cuz he is not going to sit in that house with you
LaTanya Hood I did read your comments..Yes you do take a very nice photo 🏆
Drop you off at your moms 😮where is your own car ?
Aye y'all is that a wig IDK? It's looks crooked
😂😂
Babe I don’t think you know what the word “prior” means just stop using it for now
Girl some damn Jordan’s……smh
I know sometimes these guys come on here and say some crazy shyyyt bout women mad cause they won't be with them and that's the reason why she suing. In many cases, I believe it. Women will support grown azz men, pay their bills, buy them cars and clothes and get mad when she catches him cheating. Yess I believe she told him exactly what he said! 🙄🙄