Fumi I want to speak to the last few minutes of your video where you said having a man or a husband changes the game!!! FACTS!!!!! How many times have I had to say mention my imaginary husband or boyfriend because I KNOW it will change the way I’m perceived or treated??? How many times!!!!! Truer words have never been spoken!!!! It’s a man’s world!! SAD TRUTH!!!
This is too sad and the longer she is kept isolated she will become depressed and lose her ability to communicate how does this happen in the twenty first century This can't be real
I spent 7 years taking care of my mother,who had dementia, her dementia was a mild form. Some people in my family tried to place her in a nursing home against her will. I volunteered to take care of her. You are right, the quality of life is what is so important, it was not easy for me to take care of her full time but I'm so glad I did. They came to realize what they tried to do was wrong. One family member held a grudge for years. It was he who lost out on wonderful memories he could have shared. I hope Wendy is able to get out of there. She has some much life in her. She should be with her family.
Being confined in that place is enough to depress her further like she is not going through enough. This is the first world nation and does not provide respect and dignity to patients!!
She is incapacitated and it was brought on by her alcohol issues, but she should have never been in this outside Conservatorship. Something went wrong with her family unit. This should have never happened.
It's criminal, How can this happen to someone, who are these people, this has to stop, that poor woman, Wendy we love you. Give her her life back. They are after her money. I will pray for her,🙏🏾
Her family need to fight this with everything in them,no sane judge should allow this to continue and I’m surprised that this was even allowed to happen. What is different from Bruce Willis and Wendy ??…the answer is family! Bruce’s family are very united and close and very well together ….whereas as you pointed out Wendy’s was confusion at that time. Family strength is everything….because you never know what’s around the corner.
Everyone should watch the movie on Prime “I care a lot” the moment I saw this, that’s what I thought of. It was my eye opener to make sure nothing of the sort would happen to my parents. This is extremely sad, what’s happening to Wendy. She’s in my prayers.
It's great to hear her voice and that she is cognitively alert ,God loves her and so do I no one should be treated this way,l pray she can win her independence back ❤
These people who have conservatorship of Wendy needs education. Because a person has dementia, it doesn't mean they don't understand abuse. Dementia has stages. Is she really at the stage where she needs to be institutionalized? How is it she only has $15? Staying in such facilities is quite costly. I am sure her money is paying for this facility. Why couldn't she stay in her home and they pay the bills. Something is not adding up
They don't care. It's a money grab. Her Conservator has donated to the same Judges campaign for their seat. They don't care about Wendy. She was an opportunity and she has money. They get a salary from dictating her life.
People truly dont understand how damaging emotional abuse can be because its hidden behind closed doors and there are no physical marks as evidence as with physical abuse. And that makes it all the more dangerous. Having witnessed a father trapped in an emotionally abusive marriage for 40+ years, your words about being careful about who you marry and have children with Aunty Fumes, are so apt. Men (and women) really check the background of the people you marry. Make sure they are innately good people. Demi Moore and Bruce Willis are a perfect example of i still have your back no matter what.
It makes no sense that they say she has a deteriorated mental state but she is still being given legal consequences if she discloses her guardianship. If she is impaired, why does it matter what she says? You can't have your cake and eat it too. The same thing happened with Kanye West, they say he is mentally ill and must be hospitalised but they still put consequences on his actions and words. This is fishy behaviour to me. Wendy doesn't have enough love around her to be going through this. The comparison to Bruce Willis made me think. 😢
She is American and needs permission to go see her father in Miami for his birthday?!! That is just not right. God gives us these families so as to support each other.
That name reminds me of that kid show Sabrina the teenage witch. But if you really look at this “woman “ does “she “ not look like a man???? Does to me.
Wendy please don't take any more pills or medication that they are giving you it may not be good for your health. Wendy start to pray a lot. Prayers answer all things let God be in total control of your life. I will be praying for you my sister ❤❤
Oh poor sweet Wendy. My heart was heartimg me just listening to her familiar voice talking. I.wish i could teleport myself to her everyday and vidit her. This world is NOT FAIR AT ALL! My thoughts and prayers to her and may justice be done!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
I'm so sorry this is happening to Wendy. No one deserves that. She has the right to be with her family PERIOD! I'm glad the family is standing behind her and I hope they continue to stand on busines and stop all this. This sounds like a prison 😕 and I'm sorry she is going through this. My prayers to her and her family ❤️
What is being done to Wendy is cruel and inhumane. Inmates in prison have more rights than Wendy. They have access to computers, they get a tablet, and they're allowed time outside for exercise. Why do they get more rights than Wendy? She didn't break any laws. Shameful!
This right here ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾This is the reason ALL why we need to allocate a Power (or Powers because you can have more than one) of Attorney to make decisions for us, so the state stays out of our family/ and personal affairs
Wendy needs to be somewhere where there's therapy and constant activity to keep her mind stimulated. I wish Ms Wendy the very best and hope she's placed with family who can truly care for her 🙏🏽❤
Very important to marry right. Her niece Alex bless her used to watch the after show chats on TH-cam with Wendy and Alex would visit. Wish Wendy all the very best hopefully makes it out ok.
Fumi you are quite right women doesn't get the respect we deserved when there isn't a Man to represent us example A Son ,ABrother A male Family member, or A very good male friend that's how we will be respected and dignified. ❤❤❤love You Fumi the best outspoken person 🤝.
I just don't understand WHY Wendy went back to this "facility" after KJ's graduation!!! She's grown & obviously competent (@ least seemingly), so why didn't her ppl snatch her up then & there? This STILL MAKES NO SENSE! Control over the money, altho unreasonable, yes. But, holding her "hostage", NO! And to give her cats away was straight FOUL! That heffa could've easily given them to Wendy's ppl. 🤬
I don’t understand that part either. Maybe it’s because she doesn’t have access to her money so she has to do what the criminal conservator says? Conservatorship is not just one person as doctors, lawyers, judges, nurses, banks and funeral homes are all involved in scamming people out of their hard earned money.
Wendy needs her village right now because they are wicked and it’s the village that will stand and demand this conservaship just like Brittneys ‘village’ stood up and fought for her.
I listened to that BCS interview; they handled it well. With regards to Ms Wendy, she sounded better than before and that was good to here. Did I sense that she has cognitive impairment? Yes, most probable mild. Did she sound like she is being abused? A BIGG YES. Minor or major cogntive impairment doesn't necessarily mean you can't make any decision, unless advanced. She may have had signs that showed advanced dementia, however.... if she's off substances and her thyroid is controlled, that can improve her cognitive symptoms. It seems her conservator doesn't have Wendy's best interest at heart. Why not allow her to live with her family, then portion out an allowance ? She may have cognitive impairment, but that doesn't mean she think for herself.
Love your take on this very sad situation.❤Where’s the humanity? Let’s pray that there will be some sort of positive intervention for Wendy. BTW, his name is Charlamange( char-la-main) not Charmaine.
As we all say these things and really feeling sad for Wendy, my heart goes out to Kevin Jnr. May he be strong through it all, I wish Wendy all the best, I love her I loved her show, I can't imagine her being helpless
Let's be careful about commenting on capacity of a person. A person can be incapacitated for various reasons and yet have moments or periods where they seem fully functional and you could not tell you are dealing with a person with diminished capacity. For example, after the phone call or at specific times of day it may be more pronounced for Wendy. There are capacity tests and brain scans that need to be done to make a determination in these scenarios. And it can always be revisited by the court on petition by others if folks think her condition has changed. I'm sharing this as a lawyer who has some familiarity with the concept of capacity plus having my own mother with alzheimers which is quite advanced - if you get my mom on a good day she sounds and behaves like her old self pre illness. So, it may be possible that she needs a new guardian and a more suitable home for comfort (like if family become guardians and take her in). Also note that a guardian may need to limit access of others to the person under guardianship so they are not exploited or seen by the public in a vulnerable state that they would have never wanted others to see them in. Wendy is decribing what the Alzheimers floors typically look like in nursing home settings in terms of age and security on floors - that's what the reality is. Most folks with dementia are older and there will be people at different stages there (in other words there is not typically a floor for younger patients with dementia - not sure there would be enough). On these floors they need to make sure units are secure so people don't go wandering off and lost and in danger because dementia patients do get lost (you see them in the news) and then they have to give answers. So for me I can't go on how she sounds in a phone call or how she looks because that doesn't determine if she should not be under guardianship or not - maybe her guardian needs to change to another professional guardian or a family member if there is a suitable one who wants to take on the role. If the dementia is somehow gone or improved and she doesn't need to be under guraduanship then that can be litigated and if impartial doctors will certify this, then ok. We have these laws in place protect people from others and even themselves because they do get taken advantage of. You can't just listen to someone and say obviously they don't have dementia or they are not incapacitated - this has to be certified independently. And rights are not taken away lightly. If she's not protected and all her money is gone she will end up in a public/ state owned nursing home and trust me that will be far, far worse. Finally, I think it is bad advice to say don't take your meds - maybe she needs them and they do help to delay disease progression. Maybe a different placement with more engagement would also help. My mom is not in a home and being with family and having that engagement certainly helps with her quality of life. Just some things to consider fam. Love to Wendy ❤ PS this sad story is a reminder that we should do advanced planning for decison makers for ourselves should we need to have them (short term or long term). I encourage everyone to explore learning about the laws where you live - you can't assume that your married or common law spouse or siblings will automatically be able to make certain care and financial decisions for you - you may need to execute documentation to make that happen while you have capacity. Do the research to make sure the person(s) of your choice will take over your care or affairs should you be incapacitated for a short or long term period.
@@sophielifanda1495That's correct. Agree with you. And then there is a process to go to court to challenge the guardian in that situation. The family can do that - the family can easily consult with any lawyer in that space to get advice on how to do that process. So the bigger question to me is why can't they or why aren't they doing that. Maybe there's a history there that we're not aware of.
Why can't her family be her guardian? It doesn't make sense! They shld fight hard for her, all of her friends shld join in and help!🙄🙄🙄🙄 God have mercy on Wendy! 🤗🤗😢😢🤲🤲
Fumi, you should listen to the second part of Don Lemon‘s interview that he had yesterday about 5 PM with a former attorney who talks about guardianship. You should listen to that Fumi very enlightening. She hit the nail on the head.
Let's be honest. Wherever she has been has done her the world of good. She was a absolute mess before. But now it's time for a reevaluation and probable release of her personal rights. She is now capable and needs her independence and sense of respect back.
Who decides that a person should be under conservertorship anyway?! What will happen if that building that Wendy now resides in should catch afire, locked down like Fort Knox?? Please, pray for Ms. Wendy, Iand others like her who have been stripped of much of their decision-making Power, pray also to remain in good health, and to be able to, always, have the power to make one's own decisions.
Fumi I want to speak to the last few minutes of your video where you said having a man or a husband changes the game!!! FACTS!!!!! How many times have I had to say mention my imaginary husband or boyfriend because I KNOW it will change the way I’m perceived or treated??? How many times!!!!! Truer words have never been spoken!!!! It’s a man’s world!! SAD TRUTH!!!
This is too sad and the longer she is kept isolated she will become depressed and lose her ability to communicate how does this happen in the twenty first century This can't be real
@@ingridfletcher9094 It will actually make come true what these evil people wish for her. Isolation is horrible.
Girl I did for 10 years to prevent unwanted attention and the perception of me until I got married
Oh no I need to buy myself a ring
Not only that he saw a man but……. Because he was prepared to take it up with you based on who he perceived you to be. Sad but true 😢😢😢😢😢
Holding Wendy hostage like this should be illegal 😡
It's crazy
AGREED 100%.......THAT'S SICK!!
So why can’t we fight for her the way everyone fought for Britney Spears?!! Let’s do a free-Wendy campaign for her and do prayers for her!
Exactly!
I spent 7 years taking care of my mother,who had dementia, her dementia was a mild form. Some people in my family tried to place her in a nursing home against her will. I volunteered to take care of her. You are right, the quality of life is what is so important, it was not easy for me to take care of her full time but I'm so glad I did. They came to realize what they tried to do was wrong. One family member held a grudge for years. It was he who lost out on wonderful memories he could have shared. I hope Wendy is able to get out of there. She has some much life in her. She should be with her family.
Being confined in that place is enough to depress her further like she is not going through enough. This is the first world nation and does not provide respect and dignity to patients!!
Can someone get a court order for her to go see her dad for his birthday 😮😊
This whole thing is truly sad because I knew when the story about her being incapacitated was not true.
Free Wendy Williams!!!
She is incapacitated and it was brought on by her alcohol issues, but she should have never been in this outside Conservatorship. Something went wrong with her family unit. This should have never happened.
It's criminal, How can this happen to someone, who are these people, this has to stop, that poor woman, Wendy we love you. Give her her life back. They are after her money. I will pray for her,🙏🏾
ARE THEY TRYING TO WIPE HER OUT, SO THEY CAN GET HER MONEY😮
Hell yes! Thts their plan!
This is very heartbreaking. I am very sad for Wendy.
Fumi Sis! I am forever proud of you and grateful to you for using your platform to serve the greater good. You are generous and amazing!
WENDY HAS A FAMILY. WHY IS IT EVEN THIS WOMAN ?? OHH BLESS HER
Her family need to fight this with everything in them,no sane judge should allow this to continue and I’m surprised that this was even allowed to happen.
What is different from Bruce Willis and Wendy ??…the answer is family! Bruce’s family are very united and close and very well together ….whereas as you pointed out Wendy’s was confusion at that time. Family strength is everything….because you never know what’s around the corner.
This is heartbreaking 💔💔💔💔 😢 😢😢😢 A whole freaking THE WENDY WILLIAMS. Her RIGHTS NEEDS TO BE RESTORED.
Wendy was probably not doing well and she needed care but now she has recovered and no longer needs to be in locked psych unit. Free Wendy❤
She has family, they didn't need to do all that. Something about all this eiry.
Exactly
I believe they were druging her and that made her sound and look crazy
I don’t understand why she can’t be in her own place with family with her cats and have a nurse check on her.
That is wickedness in high places, the way they are treating wendy😮
I honestly cannot believe they brought Wendy Williams to this! I am beyond shocked! 😮
Prayers up for Wendy. 🙏 🤲 ❤✨️
I love how our spoken Wendy is. Get her out of that place now🙏
Everyone should watch the movie on Prime “I care a lot” the moment I saw this, that’s what I thought of. It was my eye opener to make sure nothing of the sort would happen to my parents. This is extremely sad, what’s happening to Wendy. She’s in my prayers.
It's great to hear her voice and that she is cognitively alert ,God loves her and so do I no one should be treated this way,l pray she can win her independence back ❤
These people who have conservatorship of Wendy needs education. Because a person has dementia, it doesn't mean they don't understand abuse. Dementia has stages. Is she really at the stage where she needs to be institutionalized? How is it she only has $15? Staying in such facilities is quite costly. I am sure her money is paying for this facility. Why couldn't she stay in her home and they pay the bills. Something is not adding up
They don't care. It's a money grab. Her Conservator has donated to the same Judges campaign for their seat. They don't care about Wendy. She was an opportunity and she has money. They get a salary from dictating her life.
Wendy has a beautiful voice for radio....she can still work and do her thing even from where she is ...sending love and hugs all the way from Africa❤
When her money is gone from the conservatory people being in charge then they will send her family then. The court is not protecting her.
That's so heartbreaking. She has brought so much joy to people.
I feel so sorry for Wendy, dear Fumi!!!
People truly dont understand how damaging emotional abuse can be because its hidden behind closed doors and there are no physical marks as evidence as with physical abuse. And that makes it all the more dangerous. Having witnessed a father trapped in an emotionally abusive marriage for 40+ years, your words about being careful about who you marry and have children with Aunty Fumes, are so apt. Men (and women) really check the background of the people you marry. Make sure they are innately good people. Demi Moore and Bruce Willis are a perfect example of i still have your back no matter what.
So true.
Even if some people ses it, they won't intervene.
A child that goes through that from both parents feels like an orphan.
It makes no sense that they say she has a deteriorated mental state but she is still being given legal consequences if she discloses her guardianship. If she is impaired, why does it matter what she says? You can't have your cake and eat it too. The same thing happened with Kanye West, they say he is mentally ill and must be hospitalised but they still put consequences on his actions and words. This is fishy behaviour to me. Wendy doesn't have enough love around her to be going through this. The comparison to Bruce Willis made me think. 😢
She can't say because she is in a legal battle so she's trying not to hurt her case.
Isnt Wendy's sister a lawyer? What is she doing to help her. Why is her niece by her side but her sister isnt there?
I love wendy we need to know what we can do to help her and stop Sabrina the teenage witch. Thank you shining the light on this
Fumi, your hair is growing fabulously darling ❤❤❤
The dress too is very classy.
She sounds real good. She remembers every dates and numbers. This is crazy!!
May God keep us away from opportunistic people😢💔this is a heartbreaking story about Wendy
She is American and needs permission to go see her father in Miami for his birthday?!! That is just not right. God gives us these families so as to support each other.
Ikr😥💔@@nyakanga
Stay close by your aunt Wendy, she deserves it❤😊
God will repay you, Sabrina! Hold the judge accountable that put Sabrina in charge. He should have had her watch as well!
That name reminds me of that kid show Sabrina the teenage witch. But if you really look at this “woman “ does “she “ not look like a man???? Does to me.
They are holding her against her will😮
It breaks my heart to see her suffering 💔 😢
Prayers up FOR WENDY UP UP UP - THIS IS RIDICULOUS
I'm the same. I care about humanity.
Wendy please don't take any more pills or medication that they are giving you it may not be good for your health.
Wendy start to pray a lot.
Prayers answer all things let God be in total control of your life.
I will be praying for you my sister ❤❤
Justice for Wendy! Free her from this cruel conservatorship!!
Dear, WENDY prayers you find your peace and happiness soon. xxoo ... Amen💐💐💐💐💐❤❤❤❤
This is again the Law .Help this lady 🙏
The family od Wendy Williams need to mobilize and go to court on her behalf!
Auntie Fumi. This situation reminds me of the Netflix movie called "I Care A Lot"
I pray the awareness outs Wendy in a better situation.
Aunty Fumi charlemane is pronounced shar-la-mane ❤
Oh poor sweet Wendy. My heart was heartimg me just listening to her familiar voice talking. I.wish i could teleport myself to her everyday and vidit her. This world is NOT FAIR AT ALL! My thoughts and prayers to her and may justice be done!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
So Sad indeed!
I'm so sorry this is happening to Wendy. No one deserves that. She has the right to be with her family PERIOD! I'm glad the family is standing behind her and I hope they continue to stand on busines and stop all this. This sounds like a prison 😕 and I'm sorry she is going through this. My prayers to her and her family ❤️
What is being done to Wendy is cruel and inhumane. Inmates in prison have more rights than Wendy. They have access to computers, they get a tablet, and they're allowed time outside for exercise. Why do they get more rights than Wendy? She didn't break any laws. Shameful!
This is crazy how is it legal...why are they holding her? Who has this power omg ...free Wendy NOW!!!!
When I saw it last night I was wondering if you saw it Fumi.. . Great news right. Hope they gets all sorted out. 🙏🙏🙏
MAN TO MAN IS UNJUST, DONT KNOW WHO TO TRUST😮
My mother used to say this when life situations were unfair to people. God rest her soul!
I can’t believe it’s legally allowed to treat someone this way in the name of conservatorship! This is so sad!
Please get Wendy out of there?!So heartbreaking.
This right here ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾This is the reason ALL why we need to allocate a Power (or Powers because you can have more than one) of Attorney to make decisions for us, so the state stays out of our family/ and personal affairs
WENDY IS ABUSED.SAD😮😊
This will NEVER happen to any of my loved ones. I cared for my elderly parents until they passed, no nursing home for them!!
I don’t understand why anyone would or could keep anyone away from their family. This is disgraceful.
This can happen to anyone. Once the state steps in, it's a wrap.
Wendy needs to be somewhere where there's therapy and constant activity to keep her mind stimulated. I wish Ms Wendy the very best and hope she's placed with family who can truly care for her 🙏🏽❤
Your hair is THRIVING Fumes 🎉👏🏾
Not even a luxury prison, just a plain prison.
She did not commit any crime. They should release her immediately😡😡😡
❤ Justice must be served
Loving family care makes all the difference. What is she doing in an old people's home...sad
Don't know why that neice can't be her guardian
Exercise is important as well.
I love you Wendy ❤❤❤❤.
We ❤ u Wendy an we have 2 fight for her this is crazy this 2025 not 1825 slavery is over an she has to much money for this 2 to happening....
Good ??? Wendy has a family😮
It’s basically worse than prison. At least prisoners can have visits.
Her niece is so well spoken, I wish she could be Wendy's lawyer.
Um...but she s NOT a lawyer 😮
Very important to marry right. Her niece Alex bless her used to watch the after show chats on TH-cam with Wendy and Alex would visit. Wish Wendy all the very best hopefully makes it out ok.
There should be a protest to free wendy Williams 😮
Fumi you are quite right women doesn't get the respect we deserved when there isn't a Man to represent us example A Son ,ABrother A male Family member, or A very good male friend that's how we will be respected and dignified. ❤❤❤love You Fumi the best outspoken person 🤝.
I just don't understand WHY Wendy went back to this "facility" after KJ's graduation!!! She's grown & obviously competent (@ least seemingly), so why didn't her ppl snatch her up then & there? This STILL MAKES NO SENSE! Control over the money, altho unreasonable, yes. But, holding her "hostage", NO! And to give her cats away was straight FOUL! That heffa could've easily given them to Wendy's ppl. 🤬
I don’t understand that part either. Maybe it’s because she doesn’t have access to her money so she has to do what the criminal conservator says? Conservatorship is not just one person as doctors, lawyers, judges, nurses, banks and funeral homes are all involved in scamming people out of their hard earned money.
Your hair has grown beautiful ❤️❤️
Wendy needs her village right now because they are wicked and it’s the village that will stand and demand this conservaship just like Brittneys ‘village’ stood up and fought for her.
I listened to that BCS interview; they handled it well.
With regards to Ms Wendy, she sounded better than before and that was good to here.
Did I sense that she has cognitive impairment? Yes, most probable mild. Did she sound like she is being abused? A BIGG YES. Minor or major cogntive impairment doesn't necessarily mean you can't make any decision, unless advanced. She may have had signs that showed advanced dementia, however.... if she's off substances and her thyroid is controlled, that can improve her cognitive symptoms.
It seems her conservator doesn't have Wendy's best interest at heart. Why not allow her to live with her family, then portion out an allowance ? She may have cognitive impairment, but that doesn't mean she think for herself.
I always enjoyed Wendy's show, she went thru a lot with that so called husband.
Love your take on this very sad situation.❤Where’s the humanity?
Let’s pray that there will be some sort of positive intervention for Wendy.
BTW, his name is Charlamange( char-la-main) not Charmaine.
The court has more power than her own child and her own family..it's just horrible at all level
As we all say these things and really feeling sad for Wendy, my heart goes out to Kevin Jnr. May he be strong through it all, I wish Wendy all the best, I love her I loved her show, I can't imagine her being helpless
I wish funmi could be beside wedys side cause she said before she meat her black sisters together
Let's be careful about commenting on capacity of a person. A person can be incapacitated for various reasons and yet have moments or periods where they seem fully functional and you could not tell you are dealing with a person with diminished capacity. For example, after the phone call or at specific times of day it may be more pronounced for Wendy. There are capacity tests and brain scans that need to be done to make a determination in these scenarios. And it can always be revisited by the court on petition by others if folks think her condition has changed. I'm sharing this as a lawyer who has some familiarity with the concept of capacity plus having my own mother with alzheimers which is quite advanced - if you get my mom on a good day she sounds and behaves like her old self pre illness. So, it may be possible that she needs a new guardian and a more suitable home for comfort (like if family become guardians and take her in). Also note that a guardian may need to limit access of others to the person under guardianship so they are not exploited or seen by the public in a vulnerable state that they would have never wanted others to see them in. Wendy is decribing what the Alzheimers floors typically look like in nursing home settings in terms of age and security on floors - that's what the reality is. Most folks with dementia are older and there will be people at different stages there (in other words there is not typically a floor for younger patients with dementia - not sure there would be enough). On these floors they need to make sure units are secure so people don't go wandering off and lost and in danger because dementia patients do get lost (you see them in the news) and then they have to give answers. So for me I can't go on how she sounds in a phone call or how she looks because that doesn't determine if she should not be under guardianship or not - maybe her guardian needs to change to another professional guardian or a family member if there is a suitable one who wants to take on the role. If the dementia is somehow gone or improved and she doesn't need to be under guraduanship then that can be litigated and if impartial doctors will certify this, then ok. We have these laws in place protect people from others and even themselves because they do get taken advantage of. You can't just listen to someone and say obviously they don't have dementia or they are not incapacitated - this has to be certified independently. And rights are not taken away lightly. If she's not protected and all her money is gone she will end up in a public/ state owned nursing home and trust me that will be far, far worse. Finally, I think it is bad advice to say don't take your meds - maybe she needs them and they do help to delay disease progression. Maybe a different placement with more engagement would also help. My mom is not in a home and being with family and having that engagement certainly helps with her quality of life. Just some things to consider fam. Love to Wendy ❤
PS this sad story is a reminder that we should do advanced planning for decison makers for ourselves should we need to have them (short term or long term). I encourage everyone to explore learning about the laws where you live - you can't assume that your married or common law spouse or siblings will automatically be able to make certain care and financial decisions for you - you may need to execute documentation to make that happen while you have capacity. Do the research to make sure the person(s) of your choice will take over your care or affairs should you be incapacitated for a short or long term period.
But some guardians can be exploitative.
It was quite a long phone call to say she is incapacitated, don't you think 🤔. I say this as a RN who has nursed these people.
@@sophielifanda1495That's correct. Agree with you. And then there is a process to go to court to challenge the guardian in that situation. The family can do that - the family can easily consult with any lawyer in that space to get advice on how to do that process. So the bigger question to me is why can't they or why aren't they doing that. Maybe there's a history there that we're not aware of.
Why can't her family be her guardian? It doesn't make sense! They shld fight hard for her, all of her friends shld join in and help!🙄🙄🙄🙄 God have mercy on Wendy! 🤗🤗😢😢🤲🤲
Wendy's situation is heartbreaking to say the least.. I wasn't a huge fan but I don't wish this on my worst enemy.
Yes will be better for her I hope she moves
Fumi, you should listen to the second part of Don Lemon‘s interview that he had yesterday about 5 PM with a former attorney who talks about guardianship. You should listen to that Fumi very enlightening. She hit the nail on the head.
I’m here Fumi!!! Listening In
BLESSINGS! Your hair is growing.
"careful who you marry" is my take home.thanks fumi
I love this video Fumi Desalu vold amen🙏💖💖🤗
I have took care of my parents until they passed away over 20 years ago 😊😊😊❤❤
Now I am a senior 63 years old and I am taking care of myself 😊
This is so sad and unfair
Let's be honest. Wherever she has been has done her the world of good. She was a absolute mess before. But now it's time for a reevaluation and probable release of her personal rights. She is now capable and needs her independence and sense of respect back.
Wow!!!! This is so sad and heartbreaking
The conservator is trying to break Wendy's mind so she can benefit from her money 💰.
Who decides that a person should be under conservertorship anyway?!
What will happen if that building that Wendy now resides in should catch afire, locked down like Fort Knox??
Please, pray for Ms. Wendy, Iand others like her who have been stripped of much of their decision-making Power, pray also to remain in good health, and to be able to, always, have the power to make one's own decisions.