Thank you Fumi for the voice of reasoning. I don't understand why she would smear Stephen name or treat his family with such disrespect. Why didn't she think of the children. When l divorced my husband, l never said anything negative about him to my boys. I am now 73 and still feel that protecting my sons from hurt was the right choice.
I would have gone nuts if I was told to sign an NDA to attend my son`s funeral. What an insult! Like really?! The mother would have been devasted to loose her son. What exactly did she think that the mum would do at her son`s funeral to have an NDA?! That just crushed my soul. The mum didn`t deserve that. 😞😓
Stephen? Connie? She’s referring to her stepfather and stepgrandmother by their first names?!?! Na wa oh! That’s the height of disrespect in ANY black household. No ma’am. She needs to stay off social media and let the adults in this situation hash things out. It’s not her place.
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Mum wanted privacy but....WROTE A BOOK AND HAD INTERVIEWS WITH NATIONAL OUTLETS!! 😳. Let's not also forget how quickly she moved on/ in with the next man! It's not a good look
Autopsy clearly said there were no drugs..why would someone say he had a plethora of drugs in a shoebox. The journal was private, why expose him that way? It is wrong on all levels. But he chose her.
I have seen a pattern that most daughters will disrespect their father the way the mother does, even biological dads. The mother has a huge influence on how (usually the daughter) treats the dad
AND EVERY OTHER ADULT OF THE LAND🤔UNLESS THE ADULT BROUGHT THE DIS-RESPECT UPON THEMSELVES BUT WHILE TWITCH WAS ALIVE AND SEEMING WELL..(HER) DAUGHTER ACTED AS IF HE WAS THE BEST STEP.DAD THAT EVER HAPPENED TO HER AND HER MOTHER🥺🫣WHENEVER THEY WERE PUBLIC 🧐PERHAPS TAUGHT AND PROMOTED 🤔🥺BUT IF THEY FELT ILL ABOUT HIM🫣I WOULD NOT DARE🧐 TRUST THEM🫢AROUND HIS OTHER TWO CHILDREN😏UUUUUHNT😏UHN🤔THAT 😉😏NEEDS TO BE LOOKED INTO 💌📧📨📇☎️📟📱MEN OF MELANIN...WHEN WILL YALL GET IT 🗞️📰NEVER I WOULD SUPPOSE 📇🕛🕧IT's BEEN SOME CENTURIES NOW🕐🕜
We are also responsible for global warming, all the world wars, corruption, economic decline, inflation and off course mind control of our children. Ridiculous
We need to let go of this man. He chose this family. He chose this life. If she was wicked, he should have been the FIRST to know. Unless we know that the wife caused his demise, we need to move on. And we don't know that!! I refuse to believe he didn't know what kind of family he had. Move on!!
I just said the same thing. He chose her. He knew her. He made personal and career choices for himself and his family. I'm disappointed by her handling of his death but again...he chose her. Men and women need to pay attention to the red flags before getting deeply intertwined.
I look at their in sync dancing and now know there was an emotional disconnect between them because of how he died and the aftermath. He took his life within days of “celebrating” his 9th wedding anniversary. But he chose her and they chose to live with superficiality until he couldn’t. It’s sad all around. But, this is what family dysfunction looks like and how it manifests. We should learn the lessons we can and pray he rests in peace🙏🕊️. We should also pray for the peace of those whose lives he touched and left behind🙏🕊️.
She protected Stephen by putting his private pain out on the streets.She needed to sell books and make money off of this very positive dead man. She needed to dirty twitch up to make money!
The wife is petty for even exposing his issues !! Seems like she only did the nda because she wanted to make sure she got her story out first!! Her mom is the one that caused the problem!!
Another prespective is she wrote the book so it could shine a light on mental illness. Maybe if he had shared the pain he was experiencing his wife could have gotten him help....and he would still be here. Maybe if someone hears his story or reads the book it will trigger them to reach out for help
I think the key factor we are all missing is the cultural background; as an African we all would not address Twitch or his mum by their first names, but this is a common occurrence in other cultures. I when people are hurting or have chosen sides the other parties become the enemy camp, in order to build a hard exterior she has detached herself. That book should not have been released at this time; due to the circumstances surrounding his death it was just to early. No matter how unified interracial couples appear to be in the US; when trouble begins race will always become an issue and cultural backgrounds will rise to the surface.
This child does not even know what she is talking about...argh. This is rubbing me the wrong way...funny thing is some women love black men but not necessarily black people. And I think this is what happened here they loved Stephen but not his black family...
Very true. A lot of times, they don't even respect their Black spouse. The thing is European American culture, beliefs, and history is steeped in anti Blackness. I have been to Black family events where the white wives sat off by themselves and ignored their husband's Black relatives.
Stephen was with this child's mother for 13 years- so since she was 1 years old. It is very odd that she now calls him Stephen. Also, her mother should work harder to protect her kids from adult business. She clearly allows her teenage daughter to be her confidante, which is far from healthy. And I don't take her word for it on what happened- she's a child. I am not going to indict his family when they did not speak a negative word against his wife until she just came out with this book. We truly have no idea what actually happened. Just very odd situation.
I agree. Like I said in another video, I think Allison thought having her daughter make that video will make the public feel differently about her, & maybe even buy her book. Imo, the video actually made things worse for her. Why put your daughter, who's a minor in a situation where the public can possibly attack her. That's not protecting your child, which is what a parent is supposed to do.
She needs to stay in a child's place. When did she start calling him Stephen? Those kids are getting brainwashed by their Mum so that she can feel comfortable dating her "alleged married boyfriend." She didn't know he did drugs, but he "coped by medicating." Get an autopsy; she has skeletons. I do not know them, but I have known Stephen since he was 10 and I was 6. We both danced at Aitkens Best and TAPS/Camp 3T. This just breaks my heart.
Thank you! 🙏🏽 I was just typing she needs to stay in a child’s place. Say what you want to YOUR MOM BUT!!!!! Never should she be online speaking about a man who she is trying to justify how she’s he’s daughter you are calling these family members by their first names and saying HIS family!?? Make it make sense
No drugs and her Gun was used. I believe after fighting him maybe verbaly she probably gave him her Gun and told him go off yourself. She knew he was going to unalive himself and waited to NeXT day. she had a defence lawyer.
Ey Fumi, I was also feeling irked at how she kept saying Conny Conny, talking about an old mama. And by right, her granny, I said wow, in Africa we don't do it that way hey
In America, we don't do it either. My Grandmother is 101 and she has 5 generations of respectful children, grandchildren, and great, great grand children. Not even in a joke would we call her Eloise.
What I find interesting is that she mentioned her uncles but couldn't call Steven, dad, or step dad or respectful enough to call her grandmother by that title or minimum step-grandmother or Ms. Connie. Alison had every right to bury her husband BUT was he an orphan? No! Let the woman also bury and mourn her child!!! At times like this, take off your Karen hat and do the decent thing for yourself,children, and the family as a whole
I said it in the other video I will say it here, we need to pray for this children. If the wife is so good and right why is this daughter in social media trying to defend her? If this wife allows her daughter to behave this way, what will she teach the rest of the children? Let's pray for these kids, for their little hearts.
@@Mitzymorrisyeah heard that too she was the first to make the 1st move and she never even denied it she backed up that theory in a video she was like I literally made sure that when he was there I was there
Fumi, Allison is not you… she lost dignity when she dropped his last name shortly after, when shared his private journal…. She do not care about his dignity, legacy
….maybe because she didn’t consider him her father or dad. He may have considered himself her father but unless her mother established and encouraged that relationship then it seems like it was just a shoulder shrug for this kid.
The mother shouldn’t have to step aside, and who cares if she’s the wife because now we see that Alison didn’t love him for real for real. But one thing we know is that a Mother’s love is always and forever. 💯
Indeed when you love a man you keep his dignity and integrity. Many a times we fail to realize that what we say today might come back tomorrow to hunt our children. I pray they all heal from this and move on.
You are exactly correct and it goes beyond it being your deceased husband, it's really is when you truly love and respect this now deceased person you keep their dignity and integrity in tack, yes ma'am because what are you to gain by now "exposing" what the person did not talk about in life
I think it's so disrespectful for his oldest adopted daughter to be calling him Stephen and his mom Connie!! Praying for the hearts of the family especially those children ❤❤
That tribute at the end was the most thoughtful thing I’ve seen connected to Stephen. God bless you for doing that. As someone who only knew Stephen from tv, this is how I want to remember him. Love is an action and is to be shown to everyone.
Lol! She forgot her lines. Smh. She needs to stay out of grown folks business. How can she not see why they would be upset about her saying the things she did in her book. Her mother brought this on herself.
why is his daughter calling him by his name why don't she say my dad he adopted her when she was 3 years old and raised her and now she calling him steven really girl
Outstanding video Fumi!Great take on the situation and the ending with the Song and all the pictures of Twitch and his people was so beautifully and tastefully done,very touching!He would have loved that it shows a great deal of respect and dignity as you said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
How could you say his family's behaviour was wrong! You don't know how to be in their situation. A lot was going on behind closed doors! His step daughter just spilled the beans by saying they hardly socialised with his family. Living in another state is absolutely no excuse! Being made to sign an NDA as if it's a party! 😢
Agree. June 2024 my niece was murdered…. You would not believe how her husband and his family behaved….We did everything to make sure my niece funeral was right…. But dealing with her wicked husband and family and how they handled My sister and niece and nephew was hurtful…..not allowing my deceased niece children who was always with us to come to repast…..so Walk in those shoes then tell me how you would handle it. … btw we handled the funeral with dignity…. But until you walk through that battlefield and tell his family what they should have done… all due respect that is wrong… don’t speak on it.
So let's get this straight. Her mum is mum, the man who adopted her when her biological dad is doing God's knows what is referred to as Stephen? And oh her mum changed her IG while she, the (adopted daughter) also dropped Boss from her name is not only diabolical but very telling
We have to remember he chose his wife, who is also the mother of his children(including non biological). I am sure she is shocked by the negative feedback of her oversharing because people only want to remember the joy he brought to so many lives. He seemed to have a sweet spirit and delicate nature. We don't always choose who is best for us, who are supposed to protect us and our wishes when we are on this earth and beyond. It feels like betrayal in so many levels from the book to her treatment of his mother. Love your content Fumi!
She told on herself in everything she said in that phone call…people always tell on themselves in the end. It’s clear from this that he possibly left to go to the hotel to be by himself to getaway from her,not his family or home but her.Behind closed doors,something wasn’t right between them and I will take a guess that the negative energy was coming from her and maybe that’s why he was acting the way he did,depressed,taking allegedly ‘drugs’ etc though as we know nothing was found in his system so you figure that one out….something isn’t right and she knows the truth about what happened that night!
I am so sorry for his mother, what a wicked woman to deny a mother seeing her sons body unless she signs an NDA I feel that this is tragic, the mother birthed this man my god this is more than sad. 😢
As a mother, why do you want to see your child’s dead body that bad? Does saying goodbye require you to see the corpse and have this pale look as the last remembrance of your loved one ? So weird
Absolutely! I know no one wants to touch on this subject, but I find it hard to believe that an African woman or anyone of black decent would have done this. Its not to say she didn't love him, we're just raised very differently. You can see that in the respect her daughter is lacking in calling the grandmother Connie and the Dad Stephen.
This child needs to stay quiet. I always thought she was odd anyhow, even before Stephen passed. She changed her whole appearance to appear biracial. She permed (curled) her hair and darkened her skin. I assume it was to fit in with her biracial siblings.
But is she really trying? I've looked at the roots of Allison's hair in some photos. Makes me think Latina (along with some other features)---and the shape of the daughter's nose 14:43. I'm willing to admit that I could be wrong.
He adopted her and raised her as his own. He was dad when he was alive taking care of her and her mother. Now he's Stephen an ungrateful little twerp. She better go somewhere and sit down.
Who is that kids biological father? What young white child has to press its hair? That little girl looks blacker than me, blacker than Fuji’s child, so how is she white? Another Allison secret?
I understand what you are saying, but as a Black American, you do NOT DISRESPECT THE MOTHER! Making the mother sign a NDA at a funeral burned the bridge down and putting out his private information for sale , burned the house down. There’s no coming back from this with his family. This book the wife put out will always be a reminder to his mother. His death is such a tragedy for all.
Auntie Fumi is fired up! Great advice around to both sides of the family. If nothing else we know he was hurting.... from what we may never know, but he's resting now and the families need to find a way to heal. My condolences to all. ❤RIP Stephen
OMG, your laugh and smile are beautifully contagious. It gives me joy to hear you laugh out loud after your welcome after the opening. I hope you and everyone here in the comments are doing well.
Thank you Aunty's Fumi for doing this FAMILY & DEATH IS SOOOO STRANGE PEOPLE GO LEFT SO QUICKLY! YOU HONOURED Stephen "TWITCH" Legacy❤😢 God bless you! You helped me in healing process from my Father's death & funeral Today! THANKS Much
It’s so sad, twitch raised her since she was 3, now she is calling him by his name…. How sad….Not dad…. I am sorry Allison is the devil…. If she can write a book on her husband about his drug intake…absolutely disgusting…. Funmi there is no excuse….. let’s be real……
Fumi i really like the way you advice to resolve issues. You are always fair, compassionate and very passionate. It shows how authentic and genuine you are. Bless you.
She is wicked.. She is trying to gaslight and deflect… She’s must be self-medicating.. This woman lost her son and was denied being there all the way to the end, by this wicked witch… That his his MOTHER… This just goes to show you not only the type of person but the type of wife and mother she is It all about HER!!!
SHE needed to sign an NDA. SHE has Not protected him. SHE doesn’t see the difference between a party and a Funeral???!!!! (Side Eye👀) You thought his Mother was going to take a picture???? 👀You see why we’re looking at you side eye 👀. I KNOW when my mate is going through something!!! I might not know WHAT but I know it’s Something!!! SMH .. Sad, sad, 😢😢. JUSTICE FOR TWITCH!!
The family was quiet for all these years but know they are speaking out because Allison is lying and smearing his name and legacy. Unfortunately the daughter is her mother’s child. She speaks loving about Twitch but her calling him Steven and his mother Connie tells me all I need to know. Also, her boyfriend she’s so proud of is married w/ three boys. His poor wife had to see a pic of him and her on social media and now has to get a divorce she didn’t want.
Fumey you’re absolutely right his legacy…..is what’s more important. The wife sounded so callous though when she was speaking about the mother. I wasn’t there in the lives, but it definitely gave me a little insight into what must have been happening between Allison and Stephen. Something just ain’t right, that’s the vibe I feel from the beginning…….something is just not right. A mother should never have been put through something like having to sign off on being able to see her child for the last time in life……never…..ever……period!the way Allison referred to Stephen’s mother was very cold, she showed no compassion for her in that recording, non…..! Praying for them!❤️🙏🏾💐
This whole situation is giving someone who unalived someone and trying to move focus from themselves. I could be wrong but something smells fishy here.
Dear Fumi, thank you for the PERFECT Video! I'm of a mature age as well and I agree with you whole heartily. This is the BESt Tribute to Twitch that I have ever seen, it brought me to tears. Thank you Fumi and GOD Bless you Truly❤
Thank you for truth! Truth may hurt but it heals where lies keep the pain going. Thank you, Fumi. This blessed me. I pray that both families will hear truth.
Powerful, heartwarming tribute at the end. Can you please tell me the name of the song you so fittingly played at the end? (Oh, it moved me to tears.) Thank You very much!
Lady Fumi, love your youthful skin. I'm also 56, turning 57 in May. And all I need to do is lose the weight. Menopause and thyroid issues are challenging my health. But by God's grace I'm managing. Have a blessed day lady Fumi. From your 🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🇯🇲/ 🇨🇦 🍁 🇨🇦 🍁 fan.
It appears, Allison behavior is unacceptable. There is no reason for Steve' Mom to sign any document to attend her son funeral. Why didn't Allison include Steven's Mom with the planing of his funeral?
She has resentment for Stephen. And Allison must be accountable for bringing all this to the public forum. Her story shouldn’t have included his PRIVATE JOURNAL in her Book......Nooooooooooooooooooooooo
Fumi, she said exactly how she felt Connie and Stephen. She disrespect them to the highest she knew what she was saying again I am always there with your videos, but this I absolutely does not agree with and like everything else some of us will agree some of us disagree. Just disagree with respect and I’m doing that with high respect that young lady if you watch that video from the beginning there was someone coaching her take a good look at it immediate beginning There was someone was it her mom or whoever I don’t know OK that young lady was coached right and calling his mother and her adopted father supposedly is her father by their name that tells me a lot a lot a lot because if she was if it was something that she was used to like dad and my grandmother grandma whatever that would’ve come out very easy, but as you see the absolute disrespect and she called the family less thanI did not I looked at that that did not go with me and I absolutely did not like how his wife Alison how it was labeled like if he was a drug addict. The autopsy for me said there was no drugs in his system. It said there was no drugs no alcohol why would you think?
Thank you Fumi for the voice of reasoning. I don't understand why she would smear Stephen name or treat his family with such disrespect. Why didn't she think of the children. When l divorced my husband, l never said anything negative about him to my boys. I am now 73 and still feel that protecting my sons from hurt was the right choice.
I would have gone nuts if I was told to sign an NDA to attend my son`s funeral. What an insult! Like really?! The mother would have been devasted to loose her son. What exactly did she think that the mum would do at her son`s funeral to have an NDA?! That just crushed my soul. The mum didn`t deserve that. 😞😓
Different breed, different greed!
She's wicked! She knows she's wrong. Smh smh. I hope no one buys her book.
People actually buy some books FOR the trash.
I was thinking the same thing!
I will not buy that ugly book to support her!
I think it is very disrespectful, the way she is trying to destroy this man's image in death.
The argument of protecting him by having the mother sign a NDA goes out of the window since the wife is now airing his “dirty laundry 🧺.”
Making sure she's the only one who is able to control the narrative.
@@deniseganey6890 Although I don't agree with the NDA for a funeral. I don't think as the wife she reserves the right to control the narrative.
Exactly!
Exactly.
Stephen? Connie? She’s referring to her stepfather and stepgrandmother by their first names?!?! Na wa oh! That’s the height of disrespect in ANY black household. No ma’am. She needs to stay off social media and let the adults in this situation hash things out. It’s not her place.
Amen!!
Welp, that's the problem with marrying someone from a different culture who may have different beliefs and values.
@@tinastardust7793 It really is.
@@tinastardust7793exactly. You hit the nail on the head.
Are you surprised..😂
a child should stay in a child's place..what her mother did is soooo wrong. Imagine you have to sign a NDA so you can go to your sons funeral .🤦♀️
How do you know the daughter didn't get premission from mom to speak? You assume a lot here. The older daughter is not a child.
Shame on the Mom if she was behind that. Daughter came off as Bo Bo the Fool!
She is not an Adult either!!!!
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Am very elated seeing you talk about me here on your Channel, the very channel I love so much and have been watching for years🤗🤗💃🎉
The way I appreciate you and what you just did can not really be expressed by words🥺
All I can sum up is that may our good God Jehovah continue to bless you and all that concerns you❤🙏🏼. Keep being the great women’s woman that you are🥺. I have NEVER won anything that has to do with a shout out or a giveaway, EVER in my life! Now getting this just at this exact moment in my life is divine and certainly a gesture I will forever remember🥰😌🤗 Am living and loving it already🤗💃💃Thank you🥺🙏🏼❤️❤️
Fumi maybe it could be that at home was the issue why he killed himself.
@being_lenora hear hear! Here's to Lenora the young lady of the moment!
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Mum wanted privacy but....WROTE A BOOK AND HAD INTERVIEWS WITH NATIONAL OUTLETS!! 😳. Let's not also forget how quickly she moved on/ in with the next man! It's not a good look
Autopsy clearly said there were no drugs..why would someone say he had a plethora of drugs in a shoebox. The journal was private, why expose him that way? It is wrong on all levels. But he chose her.
I have seen a pattern that most daughters will disrespect their father the way the mother does, even biological dads. The mother has a huge influence on how (usually the daughter) treats the dad
So true.
AND EVERY OTHER ADULT OF THE LAND🤔UNLESS THE ADULT BROUGHT THE DIS-RESPECT UPON THEMSELVES
BUT WHILE TWITCH WAS ALIVE AND SEEMING WELL..(HER) DAUGHTER ACTED AS IF HE WAS THE BEST STEP.DAD THAT EVER HAPPENED TO HER AND HER MOTHER🥺🫣WHENEVER THEY WERE PUBLIC 🧐PERHAPS TAUGHT AND PROMOTED
🤔🥺BUT IF THEY FELT ILL ABOUT HIM🫣I WOULD NOT DARE🧐 TRUST THEM🫢AROUND HIS OTHER TWO CHILDREN😏UUUUUHNT😏UHN🤔THAT 😉😏NEEDS TO BE LOOKED INTO
💌📧📨📇☎️📟📱MEN OF MELANIN...WHEN WILL YALL GET IT 🗞️📰NEVER I WOULD SUPPOSE 📇🕛🕧IT's BEEN SOME CENTURIES NOW🕐🕜
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Very true
We are also responsible for global warming, all the world wars, corruption, economic decline, inflation and off course mind control of our children.
Ridiculous
Couldn't Allison just have collected phones to avoid photos?
Exactly
We need to let go of this man. He chose this family. He chose this life. If she was wicked, he should have been the FIRST to know. Unless we know that the wife caused his demise, we need to move on. And we don't know that!! I refuse to believe he didn't know what kind of family he had. Move on!!
You have a good point..we need to fall back
I just said the same thing. He chose her. He knew her. He made personal and career choices for himself and his family. I'm disappointed by her handling of his death but again...he chose her. Men and women need to pay attention to the red flags before getting deeply intertwined.
☝🏽 Fall ALLLL the way back.
My sentiments exactly! He knew who he married! Not our problem
I look at their in sync dancing and now know there was an emotional disconnect between them because of how he died and the aftermath. He took his life within days of “celebrating” his 9th wedding anniversary. But he chose her and they chose to live with superficiality until he couldn’t. It’s sad all around. But, this is what family dysfunction looks like and how it manifests. We should learn the lessons we can and pray he rests in peace🙏🕊️. We should also pray for the peace of those whose lives he touched and left behind🙏🕊️.
As a mom, Fumi, I feel the hurt of his mother. I'm still not convinced of what the wife has said.....
She protected Stephen by putting his private pain out on the streets.She needed to sell books and make money off of this very positive dead man. She needed to dirty twitch up to make money!
agreed
The wife is petty for even exposing his issues !! Seems like she only did the nda because she wanted to make sure she got her story out first!! Her mom is the one that caused the problem!!
Another prespective is she wrote the book so it could shine a light on mental illness. Maybe if he had shared the pain he was experiencing his wife could have gotten him help....and he would still be here. Maybe if someone hears his story or reads the book it will trigger them to reach out for help
I do not see many people interested in buying her book and with her interview most are quite put off .
No body’s gonna buy a book with crazy content. She messed up big time .
This whole situation is extremely sad and tragic. May God wrap His hands around the entire family and heal them all🙏🏽
I think the key factor we are all missing is the cultural background; as an African we all would not address Twitch or his mum by their first names, but this is a common occurrence in other cultures. I when people are hurting or have chosen sides the other parties become the enemy camp, in order to build a hard exterior she has detached herself. That book should not have been released at this time; due to the circumstances surrounding his death it was just to early. No matter how unified interracial couples appear to be in the US; when trouble begins race will always become an issue and cultural backgrounds will rise to the surface.
Even between black people of the same race can have serious cultural issues. I think he did marry the wrong person.
I think it’s cultural too and not quick to pass judgement. Black, white, and other cultures all have different nuances.
This child does not even know what she is talking about...argh. This is rubbing me the wrong way...funny thing is some women love black men but not necessarily black people. And I think this is what happened here they loved Stephen but not his black family...
Facts
Sad but true!
Facts! They love the wood that's what it is. But what do I know.
I doubt they even loved Stephen. How can you love someone and not protect their secrets.
Very true. A lot of times, they don't even respect their Black spouse. The thing is European American culture, beliefs, and history is steeped in anti Blackness. I have been to Black family events where the white wives sat off by themselves and ignored their husband's Black relatives.
May his soul rest in peace and may his family find healing.🙏🏽❤️
DOES ALLISON THINK WE ARE STUPID!?!?!
Calling his mother Connie, just like that 🙆🏾 and him by his name while claiming he was daddy, ai no .
the awkward way 15:28 she said "taking on that fatherly role" through gritted teeth 😮
Changing her name within 48hrs is really telling.
It was so tasteless of her and a violation of his privacy
That' who he married. His mom deserved respect.
Stephen was with this child's mother for 13 years- so since she was 1 years old. It is very odd that she now calls him Stephen. Also, her mother should work harder to protect her kids from adult business. She clearly allows her teenage daughter to be her confidante, which is far from healthy. And I don't take her word for it on what happened- she's a child. I am not going to indict his family when they did not speak a negative word against his wife until she just came out with this book. We truly have no idea what actually happened. Just very odd situation.
I agree. Like I said in another video, I think Allison thought having her daughter make that video will make the public feel differently about her, & maybe even buy her book. Imo, the video actually made things worse for her. Why put your daughter, who's a minor in a situation where the public can possibly attack her. That's not protecting your child, which is what a parent is supposed to do.
She needs to stay in a child's place. When did she start calling him Stephen? Those kids are getting brainwashed by their Mum so that she can feel comfortable dating her "alleged married boyfriend." She didn't know he did drugs, but he "coped by medicating." Get an autopsy; she has skeletons. I do not know them, but I have known Stephen since he was 10 and I was 6. We both danced at Aitkens Best and TAPS/Camp 3T. This just breaks my heart.
he that knows it feels it, well said my luv x
Thank you! 🙏🏽 I was just typing she needs to stay in a child’s place. Say what you want to YOUR MOM BUT!!!!! Never should she be online speaking about a man who she is trying to justify how she’s he’s daughter you are calling these family members by their first names and saying HIS family!?? Make it make sense
The autopsy said there were NO drugs in his body! I’m trying to figure out how she’s getting away with that BS!
No drugs and her Gun was used. I believe after fighting him maybe verbaly she probably gave him her Gun and told him go off yourself. She knew he was going to unalive himself and waited to NeXT day. she had a defence lawyer.
Did she ever call him dad?
Ey Fumi, I was also feeling irked at how she kept saying Conny Conny, talking about an old mama. And by right, her granny, I said wow, in Africa we don't do it that way hey
In America, we don't do it either. My Grandmother is 101 and she has 5 generations of respectful children, grandchildren, and great, great grand children. Not even in a joke would we call her Eloise.
What I find interesting is that she mentioned her uncles but couldn't call Steven, dad, or step dad or respectful enough to call her grandmother by that title or minimum step-grandmother or Ms. Connie. Alison had every right to bury her husband BUT was he an orphan? No! Let the woman also bury and mourn her child!!! At times like this, take off your Karen hat and do the decent thing for yourself,children, and the family as a whole
But she's not in Africa and she's not African American either so don't judge her by those standards.
I said it in the other video I will say it here, we need to pray for this children. If the wife is so good and right why is this daughter in social media trying to defend her? If this wife allows her daughter to behave this way, what will she teach the rest of the children? Let's pray for these kids, for their little hearts.
Too late..!! They will have to sign NDA when they turn 18 lol
I agree.👏🏿
I know everyone is sad in this situation but Twitch chose her to be his wife. She was the one with him daily. Hopefully everyone heals from this.
Read how they met. She stalked him. He was not interested. She was relentless
@@Mitzymorrisyeah heard that too she was the first to make the 1st move and she never even denied it she backed up that theory in a video she was like I literally made sure that when he was there I was there
Fumi, Allison is not you… she lost dignity when she dropped his last name shortly after, when shared his private journal…. She do not care about his dignity, legacy
The daughter calls the mother mum, but calls her father Stephen....... hmmmmmm interesting. And she says it VERY naturally.
He was her step- father, and is from her mother's previous relationship- hence calling him Stephen.
….maybe because she didn’t consider him her father or dad. He may have considered himself her father but unless her mother established and encouraged that relationship then it seems like it was just a shoulder shrug for this kid.
Well that’s not her biological father.
Right?! Raised her from a toddler smh. The disrespect is appalling.
I can't take her seriously
This case needs to be reopened again, I smell fishy fishy everywhere
The mother shouldn’t have to step aside, and who cares if she’s the wife because now we see that Alison didn’t love him for real for real. But one thing we know is that a Mother’s love is always and forever. 💯
Indeed when you love a man you keep his dignity and integrity. Many a times we fail to realize that what we say today might come back tomorrow to hunt our children. I pray they all heal from this and move on.
You are exactly correct and it goes beyond it being your deceased husband, it's really is when you truly love and respect this now deceased person you keep their dignity and integrity in tack, yes ma'am because what are you to gain by now "exposing" what the person did not talk about in life
The daughter should have stayed in her lane 🤨, she was very disrespectful calling twitch and his mom by their first names
Fumi even the dead have a right to privacy .HOW DARE YOU CHASTISE THAT GRIEVING BLACK FAMILY
I think it's so disrespectful for his oldest adopted daughter to be calling him Stephen and his mom Connie!! Praying for the hearts of the family especially those children ❤❤
So disrespectful!! Shameful 😡
Highly disrespectful. I personally feel like it's cultural, she is her mother's child.
What a beautiful picture montage!❤ Family 1st! I hope they heal!
That tribute at the end was the most thoughtful thing I’ve seen connected to Stephen. God bless you for doing that. As someone who only knew Stephen from tv, this is how I want to remember him. Love is an action and is to be shown to everyone.
As always you, Fumi provide light to a dark and sad situation!
Lol! She forgot her lines. Smh. She needs to stay out of grown folks business. How can she not see why they would be upset about her saying the things she did in her book. Her mother brought this on herself.
why is his daughter calling him by his name why don't she say my dad he adopted her when she was 3 years old and raised her and now she calling him steven really girl
Never adopted but did raise.
Fumi, thank you!! You said what was needed to be said respectfully.
Outstanding video Fumi!Great take on the situation and the ending with the Song and all the pictures of Twitch and his people was so beautifully and tastefully done,very touching!He would have loved that it shows a great deal of respect and dignity as you said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
My thoughts exactly…do you know the title of the song and who sang it?
Remember, if the mother didn’t give birth to him, the wife could never have him for a husband. Respect his mother.
How could you say his family's behaviour was wrong! You don't know how to be in their situation. A lot was going on behind closed doors! His step daughter just spilled the beans by saying they hardly socialised with his family. Living in another state is absolutely no excuse! Being made to sign an NDA as if it's a party! 😢
Agree. June 2024 my niece was murdered…. You would not believe how her husband and his family behaved….We did everything to make sure my niece funeral was right…. But dealing with her wicked husband and family and how they handled My sister and niece and nephew was hurtful…..not allowing my deceased niece children who was always with us to come to repast…..so Walk in those shoes then tell me how you would handle it. … btw we handled the funeral with dignity…. But until you walk through that battlefield and tell his family what they should have done… all due respect that is wrong… don’t speak on it.
Sad. So much disrespect and confusion in this whole situation. Prayers for all
Right, God is not about Confusion 😢
So let's get this straight. Her mum is mum, the man who adopted her when her biological dad is doing God's knows what is referred to as Stephen? And oh her mum changed her IG while she, the (adopted daughter) also dropped Boss from her name is not only diabolical but very telling
She's not his daughter, she's his stepdaughter. She's here to defend her mother.
I was wondering. Why she said daughter he didn’t even adopt her!
Dearest Fumi, you always speak the Truth from your heart! I could feel your emotions about the respect and dignity that Allyson owes her husband
How sad that his wife would uncover him like this😥
Beautifully said, thank you Fumi. Praying for his soul 🙏🏽
We have to remember he chose his wife, who is also the mother of his children(including non biological). I am sure she is shocked by the negative feedback of her oversharing because people only want to remember the joy he brought to so many lives. He seemed to have a sweet spirit and delicate nature. We don't always choose who is best for us, who are supposed to protect us and our wishes when we are on this earth and beyond. It feels like betrayal in so many levels from the book to her treatment of his mother. Love your content Fumi!
Where there's Confusion and self seeking there's confusion and every evil work 😢. Something is wrong with this Situation 😮
I'm in tears, Stephen "Twitch" does not deserves this.
he should have chose better
She told on herself in everything she said in that phone call…people always tell on themselves in the end.
It’s clear from this that he possibly left to go to the hotel to be by himself to getaway from her,not his family or home but her.Behind closed doors,something wasn’t right between them and I will take a guess that the negative energy was coming from her and maybe that’s why he was acting the way he did,depressed,taking allegedly ‘drugs’ etc though as we know nothing was found in his system so you figure that one out….something isn’t right and she knows the truth about what happened that night!
I am so sorry for his mother, what a wicked woman to deny a mother seeing her sons body unless she signs an NDA I feel that this is tragic, the mother birthed this man my god this is more than sad. 😢
As a mother, why do you want to see your child’s dead body that bad? Does saying goodbye require you to see the corpse and have this pale look as the last remembrance of your loved one ? So weird
Ok but do you have afamous son who with anything you say could be sold to tabloid? She was trying to protect him and their family.
Everybody grieves in different ways so at the end of the day she has a right to see her son if that’s her wish
She looks soooo young to be doing this video. Her mom should probably pull her closer and advise her not to make these types of videos
I think it's a cultural difference that plays a role. In this case, it's true, regarding the nda and more.
Absolutely! I know no one wants to touch on this subject, but I find it hard to believe that an African woman or anyone of black decent would have done this. Its not to say she didn't love him, we're just raised very differently. You can see that in the respect her daughter is lacking in calling the grandmother Connie and the Dad Stephen.
This child needs to stay quiet. I always thought she was odd anyhow, even before Stephen passed. She changed her whole appearance to appear biracial. She permed (curled) her hair and darkened her skin. I assume it was to fit in with her biracial siblings.
She’s his step daughter who’s trying to pass as bi-racial when she’s fully a white child. I’ve got concepts of thoughts and prayers with this child.
yeah i don't understand , why is she trying to look biracial.
Sorry I but for your age those nails says it all
But is she really trying? I've looked at the roots of Allison's hair in some photos. Makes me think Latina (along with some other features)---and the shape of the daughter's nose 14:43. I'm willing to admit that I could be wrong.
He adopted her and raised her as his own. He was dad when he was alive taking care of her and her mother. Now he's Stephen an ungrateful little twerp. She better go somewhere and sit down.
Who is that kids biological father? What young white child has to press its hair? That little girl looks blacker than me, blacker than Fuji’s child, so how is she white? Another Allison secret?
She wanted to punish his mother because she was angry at Twitch.
Allisons new boyfriend is STILL Married.... and she been messing with him
Whaaaat!!!! Omg 😂
Thank you for showing love to us nurses. Will follow her.🥰
I understand what you are saying, but as a Black American, you do NOT DISRESPECT THE MOTHER! Making the mother sign a NDA at a funeral burned the bridge down and putting out his private information for sale , burned the house down. There’s no coming back from this with his family. This book the wife put out will always be a reminder to his mother. His death is such a tragedy for all.
Notification gang gang from Durban South Africa 🇿🇦
Hello beautiful people 😘
Auntie Fumi is fired up! Great advice around to both sides of the family. If nothing else we know he was hurting.... from what we may never know, but he's resting now and the families need to find a way to heal. My condolences to all. ❤RIP Stephen
16:30 shes a child period. I dont pay kids no mind. Her mama should protect her and keep her out of it.
May he rip fr
OMG, your laugh and smile are beautifully contagious. It gives me joy to hear you laugh out loud after your welcome after the opening. I hope you and everyone here in the comments are doing well.
Thank you Aunty's Fumi for doing this FAMILY & DEATH IS SOOOO STRANGE PEOPLE GO LEFT SO QUICKLY! YOU HONOURED Stephen "TWITCH" Legacy❤😢 God bless you! You helped me in healing process from my Father's death & funeral Today! THANKS Much
This lady is evil! If he killed himself to hide what he was going through then why would you make it public?? OMG so his life went in vain 😢
Stephen was a very talented dancer and performer, there's nothing to see or read. She needs to find another stream of income.
She's a Snapped episode.
Thank you Fumi, outstanding 👏🏾
Praying for this family
Rest in Power king, Twitch we'll never forget your charisma and the joy you shared ❤💔🙏🏾🕊
They not like us !!!!!
It’s so sad, twitch raised her since she was 3, now she is calling him by his name…. How sad….Not dad…. I am sorry Allison is the devil…. If she can write a book on her husband about his drug intake…absolutely disgusting…. Funmi there is no excuse….. let’s be real……
She knew!! Just waiting to capitalize on his death and didn’t want his family to get to it first.
That’s it 1000%
Fumi i really like the way you advice to resolve issues. You are always fair, compassionate and very passionate. It shows how authentic and genuine you are. Bless you.
She is wicked.. She is trying to gaslight and deflect… She’s must be self-medicating.. This woman lost her son and was denied being there all the way to the end, by this wicked witch… That his his MOTHER… This just goes to show you not only the type of person but the type of wife and mother she is It all about HER!!!
SHE needed to sign an NDA. SHE has Not protected him. SHE doesn’t see the difference between a party and a Funeral???!!!! (Side Eye👀) You thought his Mother was going to take a picture???? 👀You see why we’re looking at you side eye 👀. I KNOW when my mate is going through something!!! I might not know WHAT but I know it’s Something!!! SMH .. Sad, sad, 😢😢. JUSTICE FOR TWITCH!!
The family was quiet for all these years but know they are speaking out because Allison is lying and smearing his name and legacy. Unfortunately the daughter is her mother’s child. She speaks loving about Twitch but her calling him Steven and his mother Connie tells me all I need to know. Also, her boyfriend she’s so proud of is married w/ three boys. His poor wife had to see a pic of him and her on social media and now has to get a divorce she didn’t want.
Fumey you’re absolutely right his legacy…..is what’s more important. The wife sounded so callous though when she was speaking about the mother. I wasn’t there in the lives, but it definitely gave me a little insight into what must have been happening between Allison and Stephen. Something just ain’t right, that’s the vibe I feel from the beginning…….something is just not right. A mother should never have been put through something like having to sign off on being able to see her child for the last time in life……never…..ever……period!the way Allison referred to Stephen’s mother was very cold, she showed no compassion for her in that recording, non…..! Praying for them!❤️🙏🏾💐
Instead of 'He was Hiding so Much." Allison could have entitled the book, "the part of my life with Stephen."
This whole situation is giving someone who unalived someone and trying to move focus from themselves. I could be wrong but something smells fishy here.
You can tell she has been brainwashed by her mom that is really sad.
Heart breaking. You make the mother sign NDA and put his business out there. Very sad. The daughter needs to sit down and be humbled.
Auntie Fumi, well said all around! 100%!!!!
Dear Fumi, thank you for the PERFECT Video! I'm of a mature age as well and I agree with you whole heartily. This is the BESt Tribute to Twitch that I have ever seen, it brought me to tears. Thank you Fumi and GOD Bless you Truly❤
Thank you for truth! Truth may hurt but it heals where lies keep the pain going. Thank you, Fumi. This blessed me. I pray that both families will hear truth.
Powerful, heartwarming tribute at the end.
Can you please tell me the name of the song you so fittingly played at the end? (Oh, it moved me to tears.) Thank You very much!
She did it.
Did what?
@@ebyd2756offed him.
Life is sacred. She needs to take RIP literally. Let the man rest in peace 🕊️
Oh my! Allison is not a very good listener. Very sad, confusing and lack of empathy.
Auntie Fumi is the sweetest. I love how she comforted Wesley
Imagine a granddaughter calling her grandmother by her first name. Shameless.
Oh Fumi I've been waiting for you to do a video on this.
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It appears, Allison behavior is unacceptable. There is no reason for Steve' Mom to sign any document to attend her son funeral.
Why didn't Allison include Steven's Mom with the planing of his funeral?
She has resentment for Stephen. And Allison must be accountable for bringing all this to the public forum. Her story shouldn’t have included his PRIVATE JOURNAL in her Book......Nooooooooooooooooooooooo
You've taken this very personal Fumi.
She always does.
She always does, Fumi is passionate about helping others.
Allison speaks over the person trying to talk to her. She is hearing but NOT listening.
Fumi, she said exactly how she felt Connie and Stephen. She disrespect them to the highest she knew what she was saying again I am always there with your videos, but this I absolutely does not agree with and like everything else some of us will agree some of us disagree. Just disagree with respect and I’m doing that with high respect that young lady if you watch that video from the beginning there was someone coaching her take a good look at it immediate beginning There was someone was it her mom or whoever I don’t know OK that young lady was coached right and calling his mother and her adopted father supposedly is her father by their name that tells me a lot a lot a lot because if she was if it was something that she was used to like dad and my grandmother grandma whatever that would’ve come out very easy, but as you see the absolute disrespect and she called the family less thanI did not I looked at that that did not go with me and I absolutely did not like how his wife Alison how it was labeled like if he was a drug addict. The autopsy for me said there was no drugs in his system. It said there was no drugs no alcohol why would you think?