Charlamagne is on point: "if you're always constantly seeking outside validation the way we all do in this social media age you'll never truly be happy." WORD.
Exactly to balance things out! She is human! Watch my video Ayesha Curry isn’t Wrong About Wanting Male Attention! Let me break it down for you Bro Bro! th-cam.com/video/od4FtUEr-H4/w-d-xo.html
@@NaturalLotusFarm so are the men who she uses for validation then curves humans too? Or are they necessary sacrifices for her ego. Gynocentrism at its finest. You women can only win if somebody loses. Like a succubus. Cant just be happy with the attention from your man.
Married to a multi million dollar man w/ 3 beautiful and healthy kids and still looking for outside attention and validation...wow..just wow..she needs to be humbled big time!
@@junaldinho100 I am divorced. You should get married, and divorce after 3 years. Honestly. Marriage is fun. But people get bored. I think a short marriage and then an amicable divorce would teach people a lot and they would enjoy it.
But it doesn't start and stop with Ayesha Currys request for Male attention. It goes for any actor who wants to be validated by the Academy, it goes for every musician who seeks validation from the Grammys, for every rapper who seeks validation from groupies and so on. While there are different reasons one might chase those professional accolades (career development) undoubtedly many of us increase our self worth through external means.
Hell na Ye , you wrong , CTG called it right there is no reason Ayesha needs to get on a public platform and disrespect her husband saying she needs validation from other men.. period!
Man it would seem she's living her best life!🤔 Seems she couldn't help it tho, expressing how she really feels. It was bound to come out of her in one way or another. It makes you wonder
It's NOT DISRESPECT TO THE HUSBAND. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM. It's just about her and her own needs for external validation..WHICH every mf here also desires at one point or another.
30 year old mother of 3 married to a basketball super star and you’re jealous of women throwing themselves at your faithful husband and you’re worried about other men and women not sliding in your dms? Smdh
People are missing this one...lol. It's all about Sonya. Ayesha isn't dumb, she sees how attractive her mother-in-law is and it makes her feel insecure.
I don't usually agree with Charlamagne da God but he hot the nail on this one. This whole Validation era is going to make alot of people go crazy and we need to stop worrying about that and love ourselves instead.
@@paintedpony2935 truth from what standpoint ? she was expressing herself but C-God is right. The whole idea of trying to get attention from other men because your insecure needs to be worked on. You don't need validation.
@@smileykid18 she never said that what she was feeling was right. everyone is assuming that she said all that stuff and isn't trying to improve herself.
@@leiamccampbell9238 no ones said dont feel insecure, dont blare you insecurities out to the world and talk to your partner..... no the whole fucking world
Her only mistake was saying this on tv, without a shadow of a doubt plenty other women have said/thought this before - cuz u didnt hear it dont mean it don’t happen 🤣
As a guy, the way I took Ayesha's statement was "well my husband is getting all this attention, I wish I had the same energy coming my way from men." Sort of like if all these women are throwing themselves (figuratively) at my husband, I wish I had men doing the same for me. She did say it was an insecurity, but we all have them in one form or another. Outside validation is something we shouldn't look for, but I get what she was saying to an extent. I feel like that is like playing with a box of matches though because you might get too much attention and that could cause a disruption of peace in the home. Not my relationship so what does it matter what I think right?
LOL trust me not everyone gets what she meant. I talked with a couple other people on this and yeah...they just didn't get the point -_- I mean it is cool to get a genuine compliment sometimes but there's a difference between that and just being a dog lol but I mean for me and other guys it's like if we know a girl is married then why spend attention on someone NOT interested/available? But it is an interesting subject just depends on what angle you go at it
The Haves and the Have Nots Review I think that as a mom and house wife she just doesn’t feel sexy anymore. Steph isn’t making her feel sexy enough. That’s all. It’s such a normal problem that people go through in relationships. I think that instead of people owning up to their own insecurities they decide bash her and it’s really disgusting. Men do it all the time...wonder if they still have “it” Steph just needs to make her feel super sexy again and she will be fine.
What does her being lightskin has to do with it. I can t stand comments like this. Lightskin this lightskin that so what darkskin girls feel the same way.
As a woman, I would’ve disclosed this to close friends behind closed doors if I shared it at all. Then, I would figure out steps that I can take to stop feeling/thinking/seeking the outside attention.
Seeking Him daily 💯. That’s how it should be handled. People act as if men don’t have feelings. Just bc he responded supporting his wife does not mean it didn’t bother him.
@Meemee Lovely 👏👏👏 Yes ma'am everything you said is spot on. I believe it struck a nerve for some of these men that have fragile male egos. It's hypocritical honestly... They say a bunch of sexist biased opinions, because they refuse to look at the situation from her perspective because men can do and say whatever they want but a woman can't because she'll be labeled a whore.. They are so vocal about it like it directly affects their personal life. I don't get why some of these men are so passionate about bashing her..
Eddie, Ayesha is that individual who is always seeking, yet will never be satisfied is what she has! A loving husband, healty children and a entire family that loves unconditionally.
Its all being taken out of context. She basically... to me gave a cause and effect situation. They were having an honest/open conversation and she expressed insecurities that come from the THOTS literally disrespecting her and her marriage. Let's not twist her words
joanne mercer as I woman I can agree we are never satisfied however, not speaking for other women but for myself, when it comes to men once I find the one u can bet I would be satisfied especially if that man were one such as steph curry like cmon idk wth she is seeking attention for what other man is better than him?! He’s kind, respectable, loyal, sexy as hell, and he has money what more could a woman want?!
It should be enough, maybe he is not masculine or doesn't give her enough attention. I think her husband needs to step his game up thats all. Money is not attention either.
Mario Cee it might be destructive but that’s what she actually felt, you can’t deny her that. And also only women a certain age and status know what she meant, C don’t get it either.
Meme Cakes not everything a person feels should be said or acted. emotions need to be checked. its a fact and a lost emphasis now a days. everybody walkin around, actin/talkin really reckless and being told its cool if its your truth. dafuq...
Envy still trying to make things right with his woman for cheating on her, Angela clearly suffers from insecurities herself and Charlemagne is 100% right.
Dayum idk... I have my insecurities but all I need is my husband to compliment me n I'm happy. Is it bc they're famous maybe? This new social media era crazy...
What if your validation came from somewhere other than the approval of flawed men and women... The worth and dignity/validation of a soul is measured by what it delights in! And delight/happiness is our highest desire. Men have killed to have it. Kings have gone mad trying to find it. Wars have served it. Affairs have worshiped it. We all seek it. Sadly, billions have died without discovering its secret... namely, that joy is not an it, but a He. The Gospel is the good news that sinners can delight in a Holy God. It's the good news that all of our deepest desires are satisfied in the ONE who sent His Son to bring us to Him. God is so valuable and so satisfying that the most loving thing he could do for us is to make Himself gloriously indispensable. He is the only being in the universe for whom self-exaltation is the highest virtue. Therefore, God's commitment to be glorified and our goal to be satisfied are not at odds but come to simultaneous consumation in the worship of His Son... who took upon Himself the Wrath that God had towards us in our sinful disregard of Him. A wrath that could never be appeased through man-made religion. Jesus didn't die to turn the world into a paradise, he died so that we could stop seeking paradise in the world... Temporal things such as beauty, popularity, money, sex, racial identity, gender reassignment... can never truly satisfy. BECAUSE WE WERE MADE FOR SO MUCH MORE! We were made to gaze intently into the Eternal Beauty of a majestic King, Father, and God... meet Jesus the Christ. Life is hard, God is good, Glory is coming God Bless!
You're satisfied with that for now but let's be real here daily compliments from your husband will never be enough. What most women really want is to feel desired by multiple men (and speaking from experience here) is when this nonsense happens. Look at what Instagram turned into, basically thirst trap central with girls fishing for attention and validation.
I would say yes to the fame. She was trying to explain that it was connected to how much attention Steph receives. Since no one realized it would be a big deal in that moment, they quickly moved to the next topic, so she didn't get to explain more.
Even if Ayesha doesn’t want to receive the attention, her desiring it could still open a door that should stay closed, and she might have a hard time closing it. She might get that attention from the wrong type of person and it could go downhill real quick. Don’t ask for something that you ain’t willing to receive.
Exactly, then insecure girls are the ones that you got to worry about. They’re the ones that would drop their panties at a drop of a hat if you give them attention
1Leggo9my9Eggo2 Not even just that; with all these crazy mf’s out here that can’t take rejection, she might get stalked. It could turn ugly if she ain’t got protection, but hey she got the attention she asked for 🤦🏾♂️.
Lucky Sport: I’m 26 and single and wouldn’t listen to pretty much anything Yee says because her opinions are rooted in backwards, immature feminism. She has a young mentality, like that if a teenage girl. She is in support of many backwards ideologies. No thanks.
@@kemoblue4u was right after they got engaged at a dealership saying an guy was sweating her and they need stop #offthemarket lol was n like 2011 if I'm not mistaken
Breezeme105 Because it wasn’t a NBA player or Rapper! All her friends talk about fucking these dudes and she secretly regretted getting married so young! She married Steph and realized she missed a chance to consistently get her pussy stretched out by DL’s and narcissistic players. Poor her she missed her thot groupie opportunity! These chicks are crazy
Mrs. Curry needs therapy. After being with a man for years, marriage, 3 children, fame, etc. She has become insecure and has low self esteem to the point where he husbands validation and admiration is not enough. After everything she said I saw a woman who simply needs to love herself and see her worth.
isthis myrealname I know many people therapy has worked for married and single. I think therapy doesn’t work for people who go in and truly don’t want to be there. People who come in welling to do the work and get the tools they need to better themselves, their lives, and their relationships with others often do. How would sitting with a professional to express how you feel make a person suppress things? You go to therapy to release.
Ayesha Curry played herself, and her family. She gave everyone with an opinion a reason to criticize her, and everyone she loves. If she really feels that way, then she should’ve handled that in private instead of being self centered enough to seek public validation. Her low self esteem, and selfishness brought negative attention to her whole family during a time when her husband is trying to achieve something that builds his legacy as 1 of the greatest to ever play in the NBA. If she feels that comfortable enough to speak like that publicly imagine the type of nonsense that comes out of her mouth in private 🤦🏾♂️
TheNYBully she a ungrateful and unappreciative ass female tired of these attention seekers your married you want dudes to holla at you just for you to curve them and Steph don’t defend that dumb shit weak ass You posed to check her you not even posed to defend that and she not posed to put y’all business out there smh
Look at most of the women in the comments that defend Ayesha that are avoiding the simple "How would you feel if Steph had been the one to come out and say this?"
You cant satisfy no broad with the hoe urges. You bring nothing to the table. Your last name is Curry. They know u because u got a man of stature. Let these tramps walk on by...
Truth, not bullshit!! You shouldn't say WHATEVER comes to mind. Tell HIM THAT, not THE WHOLE DAMN WORLD!!!! We don't need to hear that! She should have kept that between her and Steph.
If you marry a person, and you still crave validation afterwards, then you didn't marry the right person. Marriage is meant to quench the thirst, not be a +1 to it.
@Kessa R Nope. But I've been in a relationship for nearly 7 years. And even with a long term relationship, if both parties aren't satisfied with each other, then it's an abject failure. Seeking compliments is one thing. Seeking validation as a person in relation to one's self-worth is another.
@Kessa R strange. I didn't know that questioning one's worth and feelings were inherently restricted to just women... Also, I'm not implying that being in a relationship or actually being married means that you should just be happy and not seek outside opinions. But if you are looking directly at your spouse's validation, and seeking similar validation, well, then what are you doing in that relationship? You are married. Have you talked to your husband about how you feel? what did he say? What steps are you both willing to take to make sure no one feels inferior by comparison? Is it self-doubt, as in an image issue? or is it a matter of equality within the fabric of the marriage itself? It has absolutely _nothing_ to do with it being a "women's issue" or a "man's issue". These are universal gestures that placate one's emotions, and they are not mutually exclusive, by any stretch of the imagination.
You can't blame social media because there would be no social media aspect if SHE HAD NOT RAN HER MOUTH IN PUBLIC! PERIOD! She literally invited the dragging. Even if you think she's right, here is a wild idea: Keep private thoughts at home.
this woman is fake: 1. First she says she hates that groupies show steph a lot of attention and that she feels insecure about it. Then 2. She says she wants male attention in the same line, hypocrite. 3. Steph is not popular coz of looks, rather he is talented in basketball, hence the source of all his success, fame and wealth. The groupies are not what he is actively seeking, for they came as a result of attained championships and individual accolades. 4. She has open numerous restaurants because of the wealth earned stated in #3. Add to that the she is on you tube, showcasing her talent for cooking + the restaurants opened she has attracted plenty of attention, not only of men, but women as well. Add to that the attention of her own husband. 5. All that steph curry does is ball, focus on his brand, shoe deals and his family. He did not ask for any attention from women, for he has responsibilities that no woman will assume responsible for. Ayesha on the other hand, craves it, for the attention she receives from her husband is clearly not enough, keeping in mind, she did not say anything about steph not fulfilling his responsibilities, this is an insecurity ( apparently) Question. what is a wife going to do with attention from a specific group of people? What is it that the husband cannot fulfill here? For there is only one that craves attention from the opposite sex and is actively seeking it. Cheating does not fall from the sky or appears randomly, for she has just put herself out there as available. What ever attention she is looking for, it cannot be found in her you tube channel or established restaurants, for she is looking for other men.
Exactly. Charlemagne was the only person speaking sense. He even pointed out the hypocrisy in Envy and Yee's statements, SEVERAL TIMES but they ignored it of course.
If he loves his wife he has to defend her no matter how wrong she is and how bad she made him look. That's a pitfall of marriage. She could have talked to a therapist about it and kept it moving
@@LordZevv um no if you're wrong (generally speaking, not talking about ayesha) im not defending you 😂 you won't make me look like a fool too lol. I'd probably stay quiet and keep it moving after I address my husband in private
Steph had no other choice BUT to protect his wife in (PUBLIC). Quickest way to get people out your business because people want the issues to continue. You already know Steph felt some type of way for her disrespecting him like that. No 🧢
Tell U The Truth That's A Opinion 🤷 We Really don't Kno How Hes Feeling. It Really Matters How He's Handling It N From That Mighty Defeat Against The Houston Rockets Without Kevin Durant Explains It All 🤷💁
Junior Stil Facts!! She is married to one of the best basketball players to ever played the sport and has a kid with him and worrying about men that don’t look at her in that way. Well most men know that she’s married and tries to respect her as a married woman but she’s worrying about the opposite response 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
She is simply saying that she wants to know that she still has it. So many women are in the same boat. She use to be a model, and now has 3 kids and is in the background. Plus she is now 30, alot has changed and she is trying to adjust. That is normal.
T.J. Gregory that’s not a good reason. If it was the other way around they would be killing Steph on social media right now saying he doesn’t deserve a “Strong Independent Woman” like Ayesha.
You sound stupid. So a man with a loving family who steps out on his wife isn't clout chasing for validation from other women? But y'all trash asses will blame the woman for not doing something at home for the reason y'all go & cheat
Imagine a man seeking validation from other women NOT his wife.......still as understanding? He would be given Donkey of the Day for sure....but a women says it and the narrative is one of understanding and sympathy. Let a married man say, I feel insecure because my male friends have more attention from women than me.
so basically she wants men to holler at her and tell her that she looks good just so she can carve them that's sick and she should get counseling let's not just dismiss this
Ace Hall What she said indicates that: 1. She’s not getting what she needs from her husband and that’s validation, otherwise, like most women, she feels less wanted and attractive. 2. These hoes don’t care about her being married to him. 3. She’s just like the rest of the women of the world who needs to feel wanted and needs to be seen attractive to their significant other.
You hate her? Steph loves her...She made a mistake and isn't perfect...They're both young and will both make even more mistakes. That's how humans learn....
She got issues. At the end of the day, u shouldnt look to other men for validation or higher self esteem/ attention if u married. What do u need other men to look at u for if u married??? Look at Steph for that. Not a good look. If she need other men to look at her for her to feel good what she with Steph for??? And using him getting attention he cant help as an excuse for her inappropriate feelings. I think shes wrong in this situation
She said whatever she said in the wrong way. What she said is easily understandable. The human species wants attention. We need attention. Imagine being the wife of a man who gets that much attention, and you’re just with him. She loves him and all, and she could’ve phrased what she said differently, but her statement makes plenty of sense
Man I get insecure of ordinary ass guy gets a lot of attention from girls. Imagine the kind of women steph gets attention from. Imagine the woman he could get attention from. Compliments and atrention arent the soltuin for such feelings but they sure are a bandaid that most would crave.
@RealBlessed Not at all. If I am married, which I once was, I would not want attention from other women. During my time being married to my ex wife, all I cared about was her. I only needed HER attention. NOBODY ELSE. It is NOT automatically human's nature to want attention from other people because I don't function that way. I strongly believe she is with Curry for worldy attention sake rather than for genuine love. YES, I am aware she dated him before he became a star and that they met in the church. However, that does not eliminate the FACT she got with him for the wrong reason. My wife was JUST like her. She wanted attention from other men while simultaneously claiming to love me. It wasn't long after before she jumped on my best friend's D***K. So you need to understand that it is NOT healthy for a man or woman to desire attention from other people while they are married. If you MUST desire others attention, then at all means remain single and enjoy the attention like a monkey branch individual.
I don’t care what no one says but what Ayesha said was something that should have been said in private between her and Steph. She knew what would happen. She chose to go forward and say it cause she knew it’ll blow up and get her the attention she’s craving
She Said That Shit Because She Has No Respect For Her Husband, If My Wife Told Me She Wanted Attention From Other Men I Would Divorce Her Ass,Then She Can Go Get All The Attention She Needs.
@@hfr8343 Thing is, the Manosphere uses MGTOW and the red-pill synonymously, but are in fact exclusive. Red pill is understanding female nature while MGTOW is more so avoiding women. It's hard to know who associates with which idealism. To say that they are weirdos is kinda ignorant
@@domjohnson2762 nah they'd say "he's a cheater", "he's only there for her money" etc. What you're saying doesn't even make sense. Nobody would call him soft for wanting female attention outside his marriage.
@BMode32 why bring up Michael Jordan's first wife? Is the an attempt to deflect? All the examples I gave (as well as Steph) are those of husbands that by all accounts have been faithful... Good try though
I’m sorry but Ayesha shows what’s wrong with a lot of women (and men but more prominent in women) and today’s culture in general. But Charlemagne said it best “you give people the power to build you up, they have the power to break you”
Divine Strength a lot of girls are making a living off sending half nude pictures of themselves to horny weirdos on Snapchat. With modern technology comes modern solutions...
Most modern day woman can have it all! And still never satisfied.. it's only a matter of time, she will cheat. I honestly feel bad for Steph, because he a good dude with the wrong one!
Women will be women. Their beauty is their currency, and it only lasts for so long, that's why the anxiety when they're not getting attention from men. It's really messed up, but it is what it is!
Hey now, dudes do that shit too but with muscles n shit. Why all want attention from the opposite sex(or the same, do you.) We just seek it different ways.
@@savannawilliams1955 why? What's that going to accomplish? Her ego should be on top of the world just because shes married to steph, she doesn't need anything else from any other man.
Charla is right...Validation is a heck of a drug...You would think ppl get paid in likes, hearts, &dms..You would constantly be a chameleon with changing yourself in order to get the approval of folks who do not know you or have your best interest at heart.
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@@Einnor084 You're right ! I can see where it's going and I'm on the outside looking in cause social media has no place for me. I have issues as a FB user and will soon delete so.... Yeah I totally get ya
So you want guys to come get at you just so you can tell them no.... Naw So you don't want attention but you noticed you aren't getting attention and it's affecting you...... So Ayesha wants this: Me: *sees* Steph's wife: Let me RESPECT their marriage and not holla Me: *sees* Steph's wife: Let me DISRESPECT their marriage and holla at her So Ayesha wants RESPECT and DISRESPECT at the same time
@@jasminevaliente96 She's a married woman, the only person that should be coming from and matter is from her husband.... I'm pretty sure people know she exist.... didn't she get her own cooking show without Steph's fame? Before Steph got chips and mvps etc, I bet no females was really checking for him, now he's the one of the faces of the NBA, they on his jock like never before and the amount of attention he's getting is more than what she's getting and she's feeling some type of way about it.... In a world where if you're a man and you have a woman and you flirt with another woman, your woman would consider that cheating..... If you're a woman and you have a man that handles his business when it comes to making her happy, being a provider and ignores/turns down other women throwing themselves at him and the woman knows it, still wants attention from other men..... What's that called? Is that mental cheating?
Jasmine Valiente then she should freaking grow a pair of balls, be productive and go and develop her own brand to surpass her husband instead of blaming other people for her own flaws 🤦♂️
There's a difference between speaking your truth and airing out personal, intimate stuff. This was not wise of her. She should have calculated how this would be revived. This sounds to me like she thinks Steph's love and affection is not enough 🤷🏾♀️ If it were truly enough, why would she look elsewhere to feel good?
I don't disagree with her, I just think she could have articulated it better. But there is a double standard with saying it period. If it were a man to say it first, he'd be dragged through the mud.
She said what she meant. I don't get why people believe she "didn't say it right" or "didn't mean it". She said it right there in front of Steph's mom.. you could tell the way Steph mom was tapping her hand she wasn't feeling that crap.
The problem isn't that she said she feels insecure when other women throw themselves at Steph. That's understandable. The problem is she said she wants attention too. She just kept on talking. Should have shut up.
I agree. I'd be tight if my girl were to say that too. But I don't wanna jump to conclusions. But there's no woman that would come to the defense of any man that would say anything close, and they know it.
*Lmao she shouldn't have said that on camera, on a national platform. That shit was dumb as hell. It makes her look crazy and by that, also makes Steph look crazy.*
I'm not mad at her because it's in her nature to feel the way she does it's Steph choice to deal with it and at least she said it and didn't act on it because eventually if she had not got it off her chest she probably would've been cheated on Steph. Real niggaz know She can get it all day everyday and ain't too many men gone turn her down neither. Just because your married don't mean your not allowed to find other people attractive, she was just being honest and it was too raw for tv
But she is getting shamed so your point isn't valid.. why can't people just respect other people's feelings and opinions. I guess respect is only earned if you agree but if you disagree it's an open invitation to directly disregard that person's feelings and disrespect them?.. help me understand cause I'm not getting it
19 about go go in this sht.... but i found this girl who is a couple years of me treats me like a king... after only 2 month of her talking to her sexy asf on looks and deeper spirital level.... to bring this back to curry a night after talking to her she posted steph family she followed my twitter she kno dmn well i retweet about steph all the time she did it on purpose.... im a little nervous i know imma be successful very soon i want her but its like i gotta have my fun first
Well that's actually what she did lol... she just did it publicly. When we acknowledge and take responsibility, I believe you have to say it outloud and depending to someone. No shame, and I applaud her. As she said, she is not alone in the feeling... she never said she wanted to cheat
Ayesha said what she said because she sees everyone gushing over her mother-in-law. That's what this is all really about. Imagine if your mother in law or father in law was more attractive than you...that would make most people feel very jealous and insecure about themselves.
I’m all for him being understanding...but they need to work on this. I wouldn’t dare say these things publicly if I were married. I would also check myself to see why I am feeling like this. Ayesha is human, she just needs to do some searching and correction.
Charlamagne is on point: "if you're always constantly seeking outside validation the way we all do in this social media age you'll never truly be happy." WORD.
So she basically just wants dudes to holler at her, so she can curve them. Smh
Ultra Instinct Shaggy that is right. Men Are getting smarter.
She wants a good ole ego boost...she game goofy!😒
Exactly
Exactly to balance things out! She is human! Watch my video Ayesha Curry isn’t Wrong About Wanting Male Attention! Let me break it down for you Bro Bro! th-cam.com/video/od4FtUEr-H4/w-d-xo.html
@@NaturalLotusFarm so are the men who she uses for validation then curves humans too? Or are they necessary sacrifices for her ego. Gynocentrism at its finest. You women can only win if somebody loses. Like a succubus. Cant just be happy with the attention from your man.
Married to a multi million dollar man w/ 3 beautiful and healthy kids and still looking for outside attention and validation...wow..just wow..she needs to be humbled big time!
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Pretty sure she's in pain right now...embarrassed and probably kicking herself ....Her pain is pleasure to many....
The more Angela yee speaks her mind about different situations the more I get why she still single..
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😂😂 factz bro
Women gone ride for women rather right or wrong 😂
preach it
💯...she sounds dumb
I wonder would Angela give Steph a pass if he had said the exact same thing about women. Angela, stop giving women a pass for everything.
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I agree with charlamaine on this one, Angela, you’re not listening what he was saying. Needing validation from outside sources will tear you down
Yes dear, so correct 💕 😘
Yes! Angela never been married she don’t get
Exactly needed outside validation is like telling a lie becuz once you start your going to have to continue to do or want it
not true, its human nature to want to be validated. no one walks around not wanted to be told their pretty, smart or whatever.
I agree Taryn Tatum. Charla gets my vote on this one.
They really tried to justify what she said smh. "People"??? No, she was talking about men!! Charlamagne only one with a brain.
Totally agree with CTG, the world will build u up and literally 25 minutes later break you down you have to learn to validate yourself...
Akina Helaire facts ctg got it right she went to far wanting attention from outside people
Hella facts
Amen.
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She’s a married woman why does she care if other dudes are LUSTING after her? What the hell
Female nature bro. Take the red pill
It’s in women’s nature. That is why you should never get married and follow the MGTOW lifestyle
Mgtow
You clearly didn't understand what she said.
@@junaldinho100 I am divorced. You should get married, and divorce after 3 years. Honestly. Marriage is fun. But people get bored. I think a short marriage and then an amicable divorce would teach people a lot and they would enjoy it.
Charlamagne is correct if you give people the power to build you up they have that same power to tell you down
FACTS
And Angela not trying to hear it. All she could say was. "Well her husband SUPPORTS her.
Agreed
But it doesn't start and stop with Ayesha Currys request for Male attention. It goes for any actor who wants to be validated by the Academy, it goes for every musician who seeks validation from the Grammys, for every rapper who seeks validation from groupies and so on. While there are different reasons one might chase those professional accolades (career development) undoubtedly many of us increase our self worth through external means.
don't worry he learned that in therapy
Hell na Ye , you wrong , CTG called it right there is no reason Ayesha needs to get on a public platform and disrespect her husband saying she needs validation from other men.. period!
Man it would seem she's living her best life!🤔 Seems she couldn't help it tho, expressing how she really feels. It was bound to come out of her in one way or another. It makes you wonder
AngelA yee is a got damn social justice warrior
CTG... is on point... why are you seeking outside validation? That is how things happen and third parties are inserting into relationships.
It's NOT DISRESPECT TO THE HUSBAND. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM. It's just about her and her own needs for external validation..WHICH every mf here also desires at one point or another.
Period!!!!!
Angela Stfu 😒
30 year old mother of 3 married to a basketball super star and you’re jealous of women throwing themselves at your faithful husband and you’re worried about other men and women not sliding in your dms? Smdh
Mr Silent Storm 17’ faithful husband? Ok 😂😂😂
People are missing this one...lol. It's all about Sonya. Ayesha isn't dumb, she sees how attractive her mother-in-law is and it makes her feel insecure.
I mean being jealous of other women throwing at your man can upset you but come on...have some trust
@@africanfufu huh? Why you say that?!? Unless you have proof that he out here wildin, chill out. You actin like a female bruh.
Q. What do women want
A. More
😆
women don’t know what they want
they just know they want MOREEEE 😂
A. She really doesn’t know
LMAO
lmaoo i'm stealing this
STEPH GON BE LIKE "BABE GET DRESSED I THINK YOU SHOULD GO OUT AND GET SOME MALE ATTENTION TONIGHT WITH YOUR FRIENDS. TAKE MY CARD"
😂😂😂😂
Can you imagine smh she is acting up man...
😂😂😂
😂🤣😂🤣💀
She hurt his masculinity with her antics, he obviously got hen pecked into saying that.
I don't usually agree with Charlamagne da God but he hot the nail on this one. This whole Validation era is going to make alot of people go crazy and we need to stop worrying about that and love ourselves instead.
She wasn't looking for validation. She was speaking her truth. Respect.
Laurie Cloonan her “truth” has consequences when you’re in her position. Don’t air it out publicly and expect roses 🤷🏾♂️
@@paintedpony2935 truth from what standpoint ? she was expressing herself but C-God is right. The whole idea of trying to get attention from other men because your insecure needs to be worked on. You don't need validation.
@@smileykid18 she never said that what she was feeling was right. everyone is assuming that she said all that stuff and isn't trying to improve herself.
I Agree With Him Too
CTG is absolutely on point!
Seeking outside validation from strangers who dgaf about you doesn't end well.
Charlamagne keeping it 100, i just dont think a married woman should be saying that cause it kind of means that her husband is not enough
Right!
Nothing is wrong with feeling insecure. We all do, married or single
Tammy mac If Steph said that, you wouldn’t say this.
@@leiamccampbell9238 no ones said dont feel insecure, dont blare you insecurities out to the world and talk to your partner..... no the whole fucking world
Christian James it’s not a matter of male or female all the time. Get over yourself
Her only mistake was saying this on tv, without a shadow of a doubt plenty other women have said/thought this before - cuz u didnt hear it dont mean it don’t happen 🤣
Yeah, cause women ain’t shit
Midlife Imagine if Curry complained at all about his wife, everyone would be throwing mad shade his way.
Agreed
@Cheerio Cheerio Because men are seen as bullies and instigator's.
This is unlikely to have been a mistake.
As a guy, the way I took Ayesha's statement was "well my husband is getting all this attention, I wish I had the same energy coming my way from men." Sort of like if all these women are throwing themselves (figuratively) at my husband, I wish I had men doing the same for me.
She did say it was an insecurity, but we all have them in one form or another. Outside validation is something we shouldn't look for, but I get what she was saying to an extent. I feel like that is like playing with a box of matches though because you might get too much attention and that could cause a disruption of peace in the home.
Not my relationship so what does it matter what I think right?
We all get what she means its just....idk guys respectful about her, and respect her husband maybe?
LOL trust me not everyone gets what she meant. I talked with a couple other people on this and yeah...they just didn't get the point -_- I mean it is cool to get a genuine compliment sometimes but there's a difference between that and just being a dog lol but I mean for me and other guys it's like if we know a girl is married then why spend attention on someone NOT interested/available? But it is an interesting subject just depends on what angle you go at it
The Haves and the Have Nots Review I think that as a mom and house wife she just doesn’t feel sexy anymore. Steph isn’t making her feel sexy enough. That’s all. It’s such a normal problem that people go through in relationships. I think that instead of people owning up to their own insecurities they decide bash her and it’s really disgusting. Men do it all the time...wonder if they still have “it” Steph just needs to make her feel super sexy again and she will be fine.
Most reasonable, cogent comment award goes to...
@@Nevertoyoung20 that is a GREAT point!
A light skin woman not getting attention must be devastating
😂
She should try being dark skin😂😂😂
Exactly
What does her being lightskin has to do with it. I can t stand comments like this. Lightskin this lightskin that so what darkskin girls feel the same way.
Michelle White if you don’t get it then it clearly went over your head . Sorry sis .
For the females who see nothing wrong, Imagine your husband telling the world he doesn’t have any female attention How u feel as a female?
Meemee Lovely What is he supposed to say? Idk why my wife feels like that and it hurts?
Meemee Lovely typical female response. Now it doesn’t matter lol.
As a woman, I would’ve disclosed this to close friends behind closed doors if I shared it at all. Then, I would figure out steps that I can take to stop feeling/thinking/seeking the outside attention.
Seeking Him daily 💯. That’s how it should be handled. People act as if men don’t have feelings. Just bc he responded supporting his wife does not mean it didn’t bother him.
@Meemee Lovely 👏👏👏 Yes ma'am everything you said is spot on. I believe it struck a nerve for some of these men that have fragile male egos. It's hypocritical honestly... They say a bunch of sexist biased opinions, because they refuse to look at the situation from her perspective because men can do and say whatever they want but a woman can't because she'll be labeled a whore.. They are so vocal about it like it directly affects their personal life. I don't get why some of these men are so passionate about bashing her..
If DJ Envy's wife go to the red table there marriage will be over lmao.
😂😂😂
Lololol
Desus and mero would have a field day for sure and get that "beige rage" meter up again
Factsss
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Charlamagne thank you for being real and bringing it back on topic
Facts! Yee was getting heated 😂😂! Ctg kept it real AF!
Angela is trash feminist
Um Angela Yee brought it back up.
jdubb0113 hell yea bra yee ain't like that shit lol
Mr Fantastic facts ✊💯😂
Charlemagne speaking facts about seeking outside validation, and they try to throw it to the side like he's speaking nonsense. Smh
Didn’t Envy cheat on his wife after seeking validation 🤔
Baby C yep
That’s why he playing super simp.....don’t you hear the music he just put his cape on👀👀👀
😂😂
@Esl Professional but he actually learned from His mistake... well seemingly based on his response.
Angela missing Charlemagne point lol 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah.....that was hard to listen to. I think Yee is willfully naive about many things.
She a woman , lot of em never understand shit anyway
Seeking Him daily right exactly she was pissing me off
Right
Angela’s only agenda is to mislead women and ruin relationships it seems. She’s always directing women to “just break up” 😉
jealousy of your husband is not good for marriage and vice versa
Why isn't her husband's validation enough???? Seek and you shall find!🤔
Eddie, Ayesha is that individual who is always seeking, yet will never be satisfied is what she has! A loving husband, healty children and a entire family that loves unconditionally.
Its all being taken out of context. She basically... to me gave a cause and effect situation. They were having an honest/open conversation and she expressed insecurities that come from the THOTS literally disrespecting her and her marriage. Let's not twist her words
joanne mercer as I woman I can agree we are never satisfied however, not speaking for other women but for myself, when it comes to men once I find the one u can bet I would be satisfied especially if that man were one such as steph curry like cmon idk wth she is seeking attention for what other man is better than him?! He’s kind, respectable, loyal, sexy as hell, and he has money what more could a woman want?!
Damn fam she still fine 😂😂😂😂foo pit bull head my lungs bout collapsed
It should be enough, maybe he is not masculine or doesn't give her enough attention. I think her husband needs to step his game up thats all. Money is not attention either.
C the god is 1000% right! Looking for Outside validation is a destructive road.
Mario Cee #facts... some people don’t know how to get off that road and not need the validation though. Any tips? (Asking for a friend 😅😜)
Mario Cee it might be destructive but that’s what she actually felt, you can’t deny her that. And also only women a certain age and status know what she meant, C don’t get it either.
Meme Cakes not everything a person feels should be said or acted. emotions need to be checked. its a fact and a lost emphasis now a days. everybody walkin around, actin/talkin really reckless and being told its cool if its your truth. dafuq...
He has a point but it's easy to say. We all human and on some level we all seek some sort of validation from someone.
Mario Cee I agree I didn’t see it like that at first
Envy still trying to make things right with his woman for cheating on her, Angela clearly suffers from insecurities herself and Charlemagne is 100% right.
August25Reese 2016JR 😂😂😂😂😂
Bingo! You hit the nail on the head for all of them.
That’s it.
We ALL suffer from insecurities so you said that to say what???
August25Reese 2016JR lol facts💯💯
Char is not always right but, I'm with him on this one👌🏽
The women trying to justify what ayesha said. She's really pushing it
Apparently he’s had a lot of therapy
“Ayesha loves dem Steph Curry checks tho....” - Desus
lmao!
#bodegahive
😂
Of course Steph is going to defend his wife in PUBLIC.
Rik Savage24 Exactly. What do they expect him to do? I bet he was giving it to her about how she’s disrespecting him in private
Rik Savage24 Lmao right
He is protecting her even now.....BUT SHE STILL NEEDS ANOTHER MAN'S ENERGY!!!!!!!! She's nuts
In private trust he done checked her for that shyt. Now hes just tryna clean up the mess
Well she didn't respect him in public. Damn cant believe him mom stood there and approved her message
Dayum idk... I have my insecurities but all I need is my husband to compliment me n I'm happy. Is it bc they're famous maybe? This new social media era crazy...
She sounds stupid
@Mr. V. thank you!
What if your validation came from somewhere other than the approval of flawed men and women...
The worth and dignity/validation of a soul is measured by what it delights in!
And delight/happiness is our highest desire. Men have killed to have it. Kings have gone mad trying to find it. Wars have served it. Affairs have worshiped it. We all seek it.
Sadly, billions have died without discovering its secret... namely, that joy is not an it, but a He.
The Gospel is the good news that sinners can delight in a Holy God. It's the good news that all of our deepest desires are satisfied in the ONE who sent His Son to bring us to Him.
God is so valuable and so satisfying that the most loving thing he could do for us is to make Himself gloriously indispensable. He is the only being in the universe for whom self-exaltation is the highest virtue.
Therefore, God's commitment to be glorified and our goal to be satisfied are not at odds but come to simultaneous consumation in the worship of His Son... who took upon Himself the Wrath that God had towards us in our sinful disregard of Him. A wrath that could never be appeased through man-made religion.
Jesus didn't die to turn the world into a paradise, he died so that we could stop seeking paradise in the world...
Temporal things such as beauty, popularity, money, sex, racial identity, gender reassignment... can never truly satisfy. BECAUSE WE WERE MADE FOR SO MUCH MORE!
We were made to gaze intently into the Eternal Beauty of a majestic King, Father, and God... meet Jesus the Christ.
Life is hard, God is good, Glory is coming
God Bless!
You're satisfied with that for now but let's be real here daily compliments from your husband will never be enough. What most women really want is to feel desired by multiple men (and speaking from experience here) is when this nonsense happens. Look at what Instagram turned into, basically thirst trap central with girls fishing for attention and validation.
I would say yes to the fame. She was trying to explain that it was connected to how much attention Steph receives. Since no one realized it would be a big deal in that moment, they quickly moved to the next topic, so she didn't get to explain more.
Even if Ayesha doesn’t want to receive the attention, her desiring it could still open a door that should stay closed, and she might have a hard time closing it. She might get that attention from the wrong type of person and it could go downhill real quick.
Don’t ask for something that you ain’t willing to receive.
Exactly, then insecure girls are the ones that you got to worry about. They’re the ones that would drop their panties at a drop of a hat if you give them attention
1Leggo9my9Eggo2 Not even just that; with all these crazy mf’s out here that can’t take rejection, she might get stalked. It could turn ugly if she ain’t got protection, but hey she got the attention she asked for 🤦🏾♂️.
Projection is crazy. She basically told the world that her man ain’t shit because she’s “insecure” about men not laying eyes on her. Smfh.
Charlemagne is right and they're just brushing everything he's saying off. Smh. Love yourself! Geez.
Ladies if you ever want to get married dont listen to Yee.
FACTS!
As a woman, I absolutely agree. 👍🏿
Lucky Sport: I’m 26 and single and wouldn’t listen to pretty much anything Yee says because her opinions are rooted in backwards, immature feminism. She has a young mentality, like that if a teenage girl. She is in support of many backwards ideologies. No thanks.
Exactly. Yee out here 43 with no children or ring but giving relationship advice? Yeah, Okay. It's topics like this that constantly reminds me on why.
Been married for 10 plus with 5 kids and the same mindset of Ayesha so what are you talking about?
*Remember when Ayesha was on Twitter complaining about men hitting on her now the tables turned* 🤣
Bruh when was this. I need to see that post 😂
@@kemoblue4u was right after they got engaged at a dealership saying an guy was sweating her and they need stop #offthemarket lol was n like 2011 if I'm not mistaken
@James
Hypocrites* not contrary
@James
Regardless, these bitches some hypocrites
Breezeme105 Because it wasn’t a NBA player or Rapper! All her friends talk about fucking these dudes and she secretly regretted getting married so young! She married Steph and realized she missed a chance to consistently get her pussy stretched out by DL’s and narcissistic players. Poor her she missed her thot groupie opportunity! These chicks are crazy
Mrs. Curry needs therapy. After being with a man for years, marriage, 3 children, fame, etc. She has become insecure and has low self esteem to the point where he husbands validation and admiration is not enough. After everything she said I saw a woman who simply needs to love herself and see her worth.
Therapy won't fix it. Only suppress it. She's gonna take half in the end
isthis myrealname
Lol when has therapy fixed anything?
@@peridozq9390 lol it hasnt 😂😂😂 its a ego stroker
isthis myrealname I know many people therapy has worked for married and single. I think therapy doesn’t work for people who go in and truly don’t want to be there. People who come in welling to do the work and get the tools they need to better themselves, their lives, and their relationships with others often do. How would sitting with a professional to express how you feel make a person suppress things? You go to therapy to release.
@@CHill-ko9fj then they wouldn't need therapy if they want to change just change. Stop being selfish
Ayesha Curry played herself, and her family. She gave everyone with an opinion a reason to criticize her, and everyone she loves. If she really feels that way, then she should’ve handled that in private instead of being self centered enough to seek public validation. Her low self esteem, and selfishness brought negative attention to her whole family during a time when her husband is trying to achieve something that builds his legacy as 1 of the greatest to ever play in the NBA. If she feels that comfortable enough to speak like that publicly imagine the type of nonsense that comes out of her mouth in private 🤦🏾♂️
Too many fax 💯
TheNYBully she a ungrateful and unappreciative ass female tired of these attention seekers your married you want dudes to holla at you just for you to curve them and Steph don’t defend that dumb shit weak ass You posed to check her you not even posed to defend that and she not posed to put y’all business out there smh
@T0PSECRET nigga i was trying not to laugh, but you fucked it up
I like the way Yee totally missed Charlamagne’s point repeatedly and talked over him in an attempt to change the focus of his statement. 👌🏾😂
Her fat ass does that a lot
MSUILLEST Lol wasn’t that predictable 😂😂
@@thee_morpheus lmfao idk why i lost it on your comment im dying
Look at most of the women in the comments that defend Ayesha that are avoiding the simple "How would you feel if Steph had been the one to come out and say this?"
Those same women are being weeded out of marriage by men as we speak.
Every woman supporting Ayesha Curry is just proving that the word hypocrite has a menstrual cycle
im dead!
LMFAO!!!
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Facts of it was vice versa they be telling her get half and go....he a cheater
Dre Jay 🙌🏾 keep preaching the gospel
You cant satisfy no broad with the hoe urges. You bring nothing to the table. Your last name is Curry. They know u because u got a man of stature. Let these tramps walk on by...
*Sorry Ayesha, we're too busy looking at Steph's mom and his sister. Especially the mom. lmao*
Perv lol
Right 🤤
Creux His mom fine AF
Ayesha look like a pie face baby sumo wrestler got the nerve to be tripping🤔🤔🤔🤔
Steph got a sister?
Truth, not bullshit!! You shouldn't say WHATEVER comes to mind. Tell HIM THAT, not THE WHOLE DAMN WORLD!!!! We don't need to hear that! She should have kept that between her and Steph.
If you marry a person, and you still crave validation afterwards, then you didn't marry the right person. Marriage is meant to quench the thirst, not be a +1 to it.
Oh My Gandhi yessss
That sounds nice but it ain't true
@@lifestraight how so?
@Kessa R Nope. But I've been in a relationship for nearly 7 years. And even with a long term relationship, if both parties aren't satisfied with each other, then it's an abject failure.
Seeking compliments is one thing. Seeking validation as a person in relation to one's self-worth is another.
@Kessa R strange. I didn't know that questioning one's worth and feelings were inherently restricted to just women...
Also, I'm not implying that being in a relationship or actually being married means that you should just be happy and not seek outside opinions. But if you are looking directly at your spouse's validation, and seeking similar validation, well, then what are you doing in that relationship?
You are married. Have you talked to your husband about how you feel? what did he say? What steps are you both willing to take to make sure no one feels inferior by comparison? Is it self-doubt, as in an image issue? or is it a matter of equality within the fabric of the marriage itself?
It has absolutely _nothing_ to do with it being a "women's issue" or a "man's issue". These are universal gestures that placate one's emotions, and they are not mutually exclusive, by any stretch of the imagination.
Envy will say anything to be on the women side since he got caught up with Mena
W. V. Chileeeee
True
That nigga traumatized
Or maybe that's his opinion
Big facts. Wish he’d just be silent some time
Social media taking over and make it hard for the good men and women in relationships
You Doing 2 Much TV no she isn’t relax.
Lol soft
People care too much about other acceptance
TheSuperNats stop being butthurt Ayesha ain’t paying your bills 😂
Sippin Water facts . Validation doesn’t matter
You can't blame social media because there would be no social media aspect if SHE HAD NOT RAN HER MOUTH IN PUBLIC! PERIOD! She literally invited the dragging. Even if you think she's right, here is a wild idea: Keep private thoughts at home.
this woman is fake:
1. First she says she hates that groupies show steph a lot of attention and that she feels insecure about it. Then
2. She says she wants male attention in the same line, hypocrite.
3. Steph is not popular coz of looks, rather he is talented in basketball, hence the source of all his success, fame and wealth. The groupies are not what he is actively seeking, for they came as a result of attained championships and individual accolades.
4. She has open numerous restaurants because of the wealth earned stated in #3. Add to that the she is on you tube, showcasing her talent for cooking + the restaurants opened she has attracted plenty of attention, not only of men, but women as well. Add to that the attention of her own husband.
5. All that steph curry does is ball, focus on his brand, shoe deals and his family. He did not ask for any attention from women, for he has responsibilities that no woman will assume responsible for. Ayesha on the other hand, craves it, for the attention she receives from her husband is clearly not enough, keeping in mind, she did not say anything about steph not fulfilling his responsibilities, this is an insecurity ( apparently)
Question. what is a wife going to do with attention from a specific group of people? What is it that the husband cannot fulfill here? For there is only one that craves attention from the opposite sex and is actively seeking it. Cheating does not fall from the sky or appears randomly, for she has just put herself out there as available. What ever attention she is looking for, it cannot be found in her you tube channel or established restaurants, for she is looking for other men.
Mecurial Loki exactly
And she's doing this while he's in the playoffs
@@megae859 desires are above family at this point.
plenty of females thirst over steph because of his looks... he is 6 foot 3 lightskin athletic pretty boy with strikin eyes
MLS RISE ight but if he didn’t play basket ball no one would of cared about his looks
Thank You Charlamagne🙄💯 They Over There Fronting Being PC
Exactly. Charlemagne was the only person speaking sense. He even pointed out the hypocrisy in Envy and Yee's statements, SEVERAL TIMES but they ignored it of course.
Facts
Low be make me mad when he got them but they just ignore him smh please listen then speak yee and envy 😔
True... enough with the PC crap.
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Charlemagne couldn’t have said it any better. Yee is stuck in defense mode and couldn’t even agree that depending on outside validation can be bad.
Facts
Right. Her husband "supporting" her doesn't make her actions right. She shouldnt be seeking external validation.
Aright Angela you kept tryna force your opinion in it and everything Charlemagne said was ACTUAL FACTS! Stop talking and listen sometimes!!
Bartender!!!! Get this woman a drink on me.
For real. Yee is a dam idiot. No wonder she's single
Why is Steph curry and his wife talking to each other in open comment sections on instagram when they live in the same house?!
Maybe cause they're not? She's out getting attention
To let everyone know he support his wife and understood her cause apparently many didn't......
It’s scripted to make her popular.. she a nobody
What else was he supposed to do...that’s why we clowned her for him
Excatly 🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂
If he loves his wife he has to defend her no matter how wrong she is and how bad she made him look. That's a pitfall of marriage. She could have talked to a therapist about it and kept it moving
I’m not clownin no more I’m hitting them DMs because this divorce settlement about to be lit than a mufucka
@@LordZevv um no if you're wrong (generally speaking, not talking about ayesha) im not defending you 😂 you won't make me look like a fool too lol. I'd probably stay quiet and keep it moving after I address my husband in private
Steph had no other choice BUT to protect his wife in (PUBLIC). Quickest way to get people out your business because people want the issues to continue. You already know Steph felt some type of way for her disrespecting him like that. No 🧢
Fax
Tell U The Truth That's A Opinion 🤷 We Really don't Kno How Hes Feeling. It Really Matters How He's Handling It N From That Mighty Defeat Against The Houston Rockets Without Kevin Durant Explains It All 🤷💁
Yes it was embarrassing
FACTS!!
Exactly
Lmao she said “I don’t want it”..... Then why you complaining?!!!!
Junior Stil Facts!! She is married to one of the best basketball players to ever played the sport and has a kid with him and worrying about men that don’t look at her in that way. Well most men know that she’s married and tries to respect her as a married woman but she’s worrying about the opposite response 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
She is simply saying that she wants to know that she still has it. So many women are in the same boat. She use to be a model, and now has 3 kids and is in the background. Plus she is now 30, alot has changed and she is trying to adjust. That is normal.
It's pathetic
T.J. Gregory that’s not a good reason. If it was the other way around they would be killing Steph on social media right now saying he doesn’t deserve a “Strong Independent Woman” like Ayesha.
@@t.j.gregory5928 she still has her Marraige right? Then she still got it. There nutty sistaz just wanna smut around with no judgment.
I never ever ever agree with CTG, but on this issue, he's DEAD ON!!!
Charlemagne hats off to you for speaking the truth. Clout and VALIDATION are more addicting then nicotine flavored crack.
How is a compliment considered clout and validation? Yall just want to drag this woman plain and simple
You sound stupid. So a man with a loving family who steps out on his wife isn't clout chasing for validation from other women? But y'all trash asses will blame the woman for not doing something at home for the reason y'all go & cheat
God is the validation. You can’t attach emotional value to things and people or you’ll be on a roller coaster. Charla is right!
Keys.
God Maybe The "Validation". But He Doesn't Exist Period.
The Ultimate Duelist your opinion
Sean Alexander as long as you understand that you thinking there is a god is also your opinion 😉
@@R2TheM Nah
Yes Charlemagne is 💯 percent right. Seeking validation outside of her marriage. Self-esteem.
CTG is the only one with common sense on this issue
Charlemagne wins the topic of Ayesha...why is DJ Envy and Angela Yee dancing over the fact that social media makes ppl feel entitled to validation!?
Mearl Lee big facts
Imagine a man seeking validation from other women NOT his wife.......still as understanding? He would be given Donkey of the Day for sure....but a women says it and the narrative is one of understanding and sympathy. Let a married man say, I feel insecure because my male friends have more attention from women than me.
Right....yee wouldn't have that energy if her man said that
LIFE IN ENGLAND but they do seek it. They buy flashy cars and flex their muscles for validation. They do things to be noticed
Men cheat everyday for that exact reason 🤷♀️
so basically she wants men to holler at her and tell her that she looks good just so she can carve them that's sick and she should get counseling let's not just dismiss this
Thank You its weird actually its like saying love me so I can Hate You😆😆😆😭😭😂😂
Lolllllllll Ctfuuuu Stop Tha Presss
@prettyboyfromci exactly
But that’s almost every single girl in this instant validation age 🤨
I agree with Charlamagne. why is she even worried about other guys. You got a 3 time NBA champion on your team, worry about dat!!!!
Her Dm lit right now 😂😊
@CLEAN HEART 🤣🤣
The realist shit 🤣 she know wtf she doing
Malik Smith lol, they’re tenacious.
@Dats a paddlin facts 😂😂
And blocking every damn message she getting to
Mad props to CTG you are completely correct all she should care about is her husband's attention not any others man's.
Ace Hall That’s not the point.
@@kingdavid8870 how's that
This is also coming from a guy CTG that cheated on his wife lol.
@@piercevincent5854 that's besides the point
Ace Hall What she said indicates that:
1. She’s not getting what she needs from her husband and that’s validation, otherwise, like most women, she feels less wanted and attractive.
2. These hoes don’t care about her being married to him.
3. She’s just like the rest of the women of the world who needs to feel wanted and needs to be seen attractive to their significant other.
FACTS CHARLA IS SPEAKING! ANGELA YEE IS CLEARLY INSECURE TOO😭
Why tho, she's beautiful. These women, smh
Most women are. Its normal.
Insecure whores
@bigwoods That's like trying to fill a Black hole.
Word, she’s 40 + never been married and no kids. Shit doesn’t add up.
I hate Ayesha for disrespecting Steph like this. I don't care what his flaws may be, he deserves far far better this this
Funkslave suck him up then
You wasn't saying that months ago before she said it. But now you care get your fake ass outta here
You hate her? Steph loves her...She made a mistake and isn't perfect...They're both young and will both make even more mistakes. That's how humans learn....
Ina Cook young? Nah G
No loyalty
She got issues. At the end of the day, u shouldnt look to other men for validation or higher self esteem/ attention if u married. What do u need other men to look at u for if u married??? Look at Steph for that. Not a good look. If she need other men to look at her for her to feel good what she with Steph for??? And using him getting attention he cant help as an excuse for her inappropriate feelings. I think shes wrong in this situation
She said whatever she said in the wrong way. What she said is easily understandable. The human species wants attention. We need attention. Imagine being the wife of a man who gets that much attention, and you’re just with him. She loves him and all, and she could’ve phrased what she said differently, but her statement makes plenty of sense
But that’s what she said. She said that it was an issue and she connected it to mental health issues.
@@slim_mck3486 I agree with you. She was being real.
Man I get insecure of ordinary ass guy gets a lot of attention from girls. Imagine the kind of women steph gets attention from. Imagine the woman he could get attention from. Compliments and atrention arent the soltuin for such feelings but they sure are a bandaid that most would crave.
@RealBlessed Not at all. If I am married, which I once was, I would not want attention from other women. During my time being married to my ex wife, all I cared about was her. I only needed HER attention. NOBODY ELSE. It is NOT automatically human's nature to want attention from other people because I don't function that way. I strongly believe she is with Curry for worldy attention sake rather than for genuine love. YES, I am aware she dated him before he became a star and that they met in the church. However, that does not eliminate the FACT she got with him for the wrong reason. My wife was JUST like her. She wanted attention from other men while simultaneously claiming to love me. It wasn't long after before she jumped on my best friend's D***K. So you need to understand that it is NOT healthy for a man or woman to desire attention from other people while they are married. If you MUST desire others attention, then at all means remain single and enjoy the attention like a monkey branch individual.
I don’t care what no one says but what Ayesha said was something that should have been said in private between her and Steph. She knew what would happen. She chose to go forward and say it cause she knew it’ll blow up and get her the attention she’s craving
She Said That Shit Because She Has No Respect For Her Husband, If My Wife Told Me She Wanted Attention From Other Men I Would Divorce Her Ass,Then She Can Go Get All The Attention She Needs.
Me mccan that’s what she would have done if he said that!!!!
@@Mr.McCann978 lmao
Mr. McCann
Your wife ( assuming you have one lol) is prolly thinking it so do yourself a favor and divorce her ASAP. That’s what I’d do.#mgtow🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@hfr8343 Thing is, the Manosphere uses MGTOW and the red-pill synonymously, but are in fact exclusive. Red pill is understanding female nature while MGTOW is more so avoiding women. It's hard to know who associates with which idealism. To say that they are weirdos is kinda ignorant
Imagine if Serena's husband said what Ayesha said.. Kelly Rowland's etc. The same women giving it a pass would be LIVID.
jpkp012345 no they wouldn’t they would say he’s soft and how that’s why she needs a “strong man” in her life.
@jpkp012345 lol you're probably right. I have to use another example.. maybe Kelly Rowland's then. Imagine if Russell Wilson said it
@@domjohnson2762 nah they'd say "he's a cheater", "he's only there for her money" etc. What you're saying doesn't even make sense. Nobody would call him soft for wanting female attention outside his marriage.
if steph or any man said it they would get hung by their nuts, double standard. would angela yee be so defensive in those cases, nope!!
@BMode32 why bring up Michael Jordan's first wife? Is the an attempt to deflect? All the examples I gave (as well as Steph) are those of husbands that by all accounts have been faithful... Good try though
Ayesha must have never seen the Tyler Perry movie temptation
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lol!
Ikr!!😂😂 that movie really teaches you something
Charlemagne was on fire 🔥 today “how you gone say don’t worry about what people say when she said she wanted attention from other people”.
That's exactly what I thought.
If steph curry can't keep her happy, no one will. Next!!!!!
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Agree. And if she can’t keep herself happy no one will either
@@adelmoricardo7745 thats the key 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@adelmoricardo7745 that's the #1 thing
I’m sorry but Ayesha shows what’s wrong with a lot of women (and men but more prominent in women) and today’s culture in general. But Charlemagne said it best “you give people the power to build you up, they have the power to break you”
Im Veillin Exactly! A deep statement that went right over Envy’s head. Smh
Im Veillin yes, and every women on that table support Ayesha
Its 2019...likes..hearts..and dm's do generate income now!! I know it's hard to accept but it is now a sad truth!
Right after Envy replied with, “I’ll break you.” Gay ass.
Divine Strength a lot of girls are making a living off sending half nude pictures of themselves to horny weirdos on Snapchat. With modern technology comes modern solutions...
Most modern day woman can have it all! And still never satisfied.. it's only a matter of time, she will cheat. I honestly feel bad for Steph, because he a good dude with the wrong one!
Women will be women. Their beauty is their currency, and it only lasts for so long, that's why the anxiety when they're not getting attention from men. It's really messed up, but it is what it is!
Gordon Phillips agree
So true! Women love attention
Sound like hoes to me
Hey now, dudes do that shit too but with muscles n shit. Why all want attention from the opposite sex(or the same, do you.) We just seek it different ways.
Muscles smh that’s called being healthy in shape you hoes kill me
I adamantly concur with CTG on this one. She only needs the valadation from her husband, God, herself, and maybe family.
@RedRose7997 😂
@bigkris entertainment 💯 Facts. Women cannot stick together
Y’all men are full of shit. Charlemagne has cheated on his wife before and y’all have the audacity to find this appalling lmao ookay
Which makes sense but let's not forget that most of us are not perfect🤷🏾♀️
@marcus howard ok dude.
There’s a difference between being insecure & wanting to get attention from men who aren’t your husband
She wanted attention so she could reject them like steph does to women who hit on him. Let her curve dudes like her man curves females.
@@savannawilliams1955 why? What's that going to accomplish? Her ego should be on top of the world just because shes married to steph, she doesn't need anything else from any other man.
So true J. Will If Steph said something about wanting more female attention then marriage in danger.
Man I'm so sick of this double standard. If a man said that shit he would've been dragged.
Hell yeah. I felt that what she said was a slap in Steph's face.
Y'all CTG is right about this situation
Hi_ Tamera factz
"Why are you worried about other men's attention when you married?"
Charla is right...Validation is a heck of a drug...You would think ppl get paid in likes, hearts, &dms..You would constantly be a chameleon with changing yourself in order to get the approval of folks who do not know you or have your best interest at heart.
Now days people do get paid for likes hearts and DM's! A very sad truth!
Divine Strength
YUPPERZ!!!
Dis, iz da wave of DUH future. Dis iz da chipped, credit based shitstem, datz gonna cum n2 xistance. Social credit shitstem, iz probably whut it will b called.
Which is what so many are doing now so sad. Being a unique individual is a thing of the past SMH
jaycitay
Well - if u will notice - ur masterz, were never BIG, on ur ndividuality. Datz y they have u march jackbooted, n uni4m. If they wanted ndividuality, there would b a buncha muggafuggaz, doin a buncha different thangz. Da masterz, seek CONtrol. If u will not submit, ur life will b !tihs Datz pretty much, whut it cumz down 2. So MOST peephole, choose 2 b whorez o babble-on. Data way, they r safe!
YUPPERZ!!!
Thru DUH magic of computerz, ur very life, mayb sucked out of u, azz u strive 2 keep up wit DUH dmandz placed upon u, 2 earn social currency. Da masterz xhibit so much CONtrol, bcause peephole can't even wheel & deal successfully, when there iz much freedom. They alwayz haveta cum out on top, or just rob u blind. So da social currency era, iz gonna b a real doozy! Don't rage against da machine then, bcause da machine will just sop-up all ur FUNdz. It will b 2 late, then! BUTT, azz u can c, peephole don't need much ncouragement 2 b slavez, whorez, & jack-booted Fascist thugz. MOST will fit n well, n da cummin social order. Probably won't live 2 long, BUTT they will fit n, @ least.
@@Einnor084 You're right ! I can see where it's going and I'm on the outside looking in cause social media has no place for me. I have issues as a FB user and will soon delete so.... Yeah I totally get ya
The only person Ayesha should be concerned with is her husband telling her how fine she is not outside men
I agree, with your comment.
joanne mercer Yesssssssss!!!
Spoken like a real women. Sounds like she's in competition with her husband
Charlamagne is on point on the Ayesha topic
Facts and angela yee making excuses for her
Angela missing the point by a mile made me cringe ...
Ayesha Curry 🤦♂️... Charlemagne was on point
So you want guys to come get at you just so you can tell them no.... Naw
So you don't want attention but you noticed you aren't getting attention and it's affecting you......
So Ayesha wants this:
Me: *sees* Steph's wife: Let me RESPECT their marriage and not holla
Me: *sees* Steph's wife: Let me DISRESPECT their marriage and holla at her
So Ayesha wants RESPECT and DISRESPECT at the same time
No she wants people to call her beautiful and let her know that she exists and isnt just steph's shadow to be disrespected as unimportant
@@jasminevaliente96 She's a married woman, the only person that should be coming from and matter is from her husband.... I'm pretty sure people know she exist.... didn't she get her own cooking show without Steph's fame? Before Steph got chips and mvps etc, I bet no females was really checking for him, now he's the one of the faces of the NBA, they on his jock like never before and the amount of attention he's getting is more than what she's getting and she's feeling some type of way about it....
In a world where if you're a man and you have a woman and you flirt with another woman, your woman would consider that cheating.....
If you're a woman and you have a man that handles his business when it comes to making her happy, being a provider and ignores/turns down other women throwing themselves at him and the woman knows it, still wants attention from other men..... What's that called? Is that mental cheating?
Nailed it bruh😂😂😂😂
Jasmine Valiente then she should freaking grow a pair of balls, be productive and go and develop her own brand to surpass her husband instead of blaming other people for her own flaws 🤦♂️
Rant Radio💯💯💯
There's a difference between speaking your truth and airing out personal, intimate stuff. This was not wise of her. She should have calculated how this would be revived. This sounds to me like she thinks Steph's love and affection is not enough 🤷🏾♀️
If it were truly enough, why would she look elsewhere to feel good?
Thank you Uncle Charla for keeping it real. Consistent from the Brilliant Idiots podcast - thats why we love you.
I don't disagree with her, I just think she could have articulated it better. But there is a double standard with saying it period. If it were a man to say it first, he'd be dragged through the mud.
She said what she meant. I don't get why people believe she "didn't say it right" or "didn't mean it". She said it right there in front of Steph's mom.. you could tell the way Steph mom was tapping her hand she wasn't feeling that crap.
The problem isn't that she said she feels insecure when other women throw themselves at Steph. That's understandable. The problem is she said she wants attention too. She just kept on talking. Should have shut up.
I agree. I'd be tight if my girl were to say that too. But I don't wanna jump to conclusions. But there's no woman that would come to the defense of any man that would say anything close, and they know it.
*Lmao she shouldn't have said that on camera, on a national platform. That shit was dumb as hell. It makes her look crazy and by that, also makes Steph look crazy.*
I'm not mad at her because it's in her nature to feel the way she does it's Steph choice to deal with it and at least she said it and didn't act on it because eventually if she had not got it off her chest she probably would've been cheated on Steph. Real niggaz know She can get it all day everyday and ain't too many men gone turn her down neither. Just because your married don't mean your not allowed to find other people attractive, she was just being honest and it was too raw for tv
If this was a married man who said he doesn't get attention from women, he would get shamed. #facts
But she is getting shamed so your point isn't valid.. why can't people just respect other people's feelings and opinions. I guess respect is only earned if you agree but if you disagree it's an open invitation to directly disregard that person's feelings and disrespect them?.. help me understand cause I'm not getting it
K Sultana look at Captain Simp
This is why fellas.. you stay single between 21-29. Golden years 😎
24 and right in the middle of all that
Yea and end up alone 😂
19 about go go in this sht.... but i found this girl who is a couple years of me treats me like a king... after only 2 month of her talking to her sexy asf on looks and deeper spirital level.... to bring this back to curry a night after talking to her she posted steph family she followed my twitter she kno dmn well i retweet about steph all the time she did it on purpose.... im a little nervous i know imma be successful very soon i want her but its like i gotta have my fun first
16-65 then split the retirement checks
Pun intended ???
I don’t care what Angela envy said that was disrespectful to her husband
Very
She’s getting all the attention she wanted now. Just not the good kind.
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Future somewhere in a maybach right now speeding to her house
@@CloudTribe nah, Derek Fischer is 😂
Ace of Games yo chill man lol
Esharido
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Dats a paddlin
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People have insecurities it's normal but acknowledging those insecurities and checking them is your responsibility.
How do we know she doesn't?
Well that's actually what she did lol... she just did it publicly. When we acknowledge and take responsibility, I believe you have to say it outloud and depending to someone. No shame, and I applaud her. As she said, she is not alone in the feeling... she never said she wanted to cheat
Ayesha said what she said because she sees everyone gushing over her mother-in-law. That's what this is all really about. Imagine if your mother in law or father in law was more attractive than you...that would make most people feel very jealous and insecure about themselves.
basically ayesha said steph aint fckn her right
@@loganmurdock4679 😂😂😂 no hesy step back put it in the booty splash
@@sonitekk 😂😂😂😂
Mr RightNow after all these years now?
Exactly.....
Ayesha regrets going on Red Table Talk now.
That was her first mistake
krisj827
I’m happy she did tho, some men need to hear what she said
@@peridozq9390 Uhhh why?
krisj827 I don’t think she regrets it this what she wants
Doppelganger D so you can see HER truth you mean?
Other Red Table Women: “your not looking”
Ayesha’s Eyes: 👀
Other Men: 🙈
Steph: You know I support you 🙋♂️
Mr Conscience lol
Wow
😂😂so true lol
How can you support your wife’s need for random males validation? 🤦🏾♂️
He’s low on testosterone & high on estrogen
Well said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m all for him being understanding...but they need to work on this. I wouldn’t dare say these things publicly if I were married. I would also check myself to see why I am feeling like this. Ayesha is human, she just needs to do some searching and correction.
@tavi elli he's going full Beta.
He’s been with her since high school. She hasn’t left and we haven’t heard of her cheating. He obviously knows what he’s doing.
@Zuko you just don't understand what @tavi is saying.
People should not be defending her because she's married. She's under contract