Grief Doesn’t Have to Control Your Life

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  • @ceceliadavis471
    @ceceliadavis471 ปีที่แล้ว +20669

    "Grief is just love with no place to go" That is a line from a short poem that was given to me after the death of my son. You still have that love in your heart, it's for them but you can' t put your arms around them and tell them how much you wish they were still here.

    • @cyng6393
      @cyng6393 ปีที่แล้ว +284

      Im sorry you have had to experience grief like that. I too lost 2 kids! Its so hard to bear! And like love it never leaves! Bless their souls! Peace and love in our hearts! ❤

    • @diannedelledera3096
      @diannedelledera3096 ปีที่แล้ว +261

      So true. My first born committed suicide. 6 years ago. Cry every day.

    • @raycanavan5363
      @raycanavan5363 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Wow. That has struck me

    • @cyng6393
      @cyng6393 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      @@diannedelledera3096 so sorry for you and your family, I know, I cry everyday too and it's been over 20 years! It's the worse pain I think any parent will ever know! 😕 And I wish they never knew! My prayers to all that have loss!

    • @steph6337
      @steph6337 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      My 7 year old went to be with the Lord March 12th. I genuinely feel like I'll never be ok again here on earth... But I know when I step on Heaven's shores and see my little boy I'll be complete again.
      I'm going to look up that poem. I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @carrie1114
    @carrie1114 ปีที่แล้ว +2439

    That smile… wow. You can tell he was a great person ❤

    • @monahoms6898
      @monahoms6898 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      399 likes and no replies lemme fix that

    • @carrie1114
      @carrie1114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@monahoms6898 I don’t get it

    • @grahamscott1547
      @grahamscott1547 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carrie1114 me either ❤

    • @grahamscott1547
      @grahamscott1547 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@monahoms6898 Such a kind thing to do ❤

    • @carrie1114
      @carrie1114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@grahamscott1547 oh. He expected several replies w that many likes, so he fixed it. Duh, Carrie. Now I get it

  • @DMK48906
    @DMK48906 ปีที่แล้ว +5129

    Ive lost my dad, mom, step dad, brother, newphew and husband. I know nothing but grief. I so sorry for your loss. You are an incredibly strong woman.

    • @enilrashenilrash8888
      @enilrashenilrash8888 ปีที่แล้ว +333

      I am very sorry for the Pain youve must felt. Wish you all the best - you are strong! 🕯️

    • @nad.eichler4378
      @nad.eichler4378 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Oh mein Gott, mein Beileid für deinen unendlichen Verlust.😢 Viel Liebe aus Deutschland 💗

    • @diamondroyaltarotheals
      @diamondroyaltarotheals ปีที่แล้ว +101

      As well as you - You are an incredibly strong woman 🤍

    • @0becca0
      @0becca0 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    • @Joy-em7vz
      @Joy-em7vz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg.i cannot ss

  • @deannmilk9596
    @deannmilk9596 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    God bless the broken hearted. It’s been 2 yrs since I lost my husband n feel like I’ll never get over the grief. My heart goes out to all of you grieving a loved one or a pet. Hug you❤

    • @pepsicolla123
      @pepsicolla123 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am so sorry 😢 . My biggest condolences 💔

    • @deannmilk9596
      @deannmilk9596 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@pepsicolla123 thank u so much I needed this today so much. Rough one. Your sweetest thank u❤️‍🩹

    • @sonyavincent7450
      @sonyavincent7450 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just hit the five year mark. For me it definitely softened after the two year anniversary.

    • @xbLTz-ru2pi
      @xbLTz-ru2pi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss

    • @xbLTz-ru2pi
      @xbLTz-ru2pi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sonyavincent7450I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @Mevans694
    @Mevans694 ปีที่แล้ว +3829

    My daughter Avery. I can’t wait for the day I hear her excitedly say “Daddy!” as she runs into my arms.

    • @dr.amruthagk4176
      @dr.amruthagk4176 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine something like that. Wish you all the strength to bear a pain like that 💞

    • @sanobermalhotra6895
      @sanobermalhotra6895 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      And she will. She will be there to hold your hand when you pass over. God Bless you All. 🙏

    • @vuyanisibisi495
      @vuyanisibisi495 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      She’s looking down on you and smiling❤

    • @moniquemannaert3468
      @moniquemannaert3468 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That choked me up.. 🌿🙏🐦

    • @SMA1mommy
      @SMA1mommy ปีที่แล้ว +31

      🥲 one day she will do exactly that for eternity 🕊🙏🙏🙏🕊.
      I have a terminally ill child my heart goes out to you.

  • @BillyBobBeauBenson
    @BillyBobBeauBenson ปีที่แล้ว +2233

    My wife died in my arms five months ago at the age of 28. She told me once that if anything ever happened to her that I should move on and find somebody else and be happy. That is simply not an option for me. I'd rather be alone and miserable for the rest of my days than move on from her. When I see her again she'll still be the only love I ever had.

    • @Repogirl
      @Repogirl ปีที่แล้ว +72

      💝sie wird immer bei dir sein💝

    • @sandradewith3094
      @sandradewith3094 ปีที่แล้ว +481

      Please honour her by living the best life you can, and yes, that means moving on.

    • @73cidalia
      @73cidalia ปีที่แล้ว +365

      Moving on does not mean moving away from her. Love doesn’t die. Moving on is just moving forward through life. It’s far too soon to even fathom loving anyone else and only time will tell if another beautiful soul finds yours. The heart is infinitely capable of loving. It’s like a flame lighting candles. It’s shared but never divided, never diminished.

    • @Joy-em7vz
      @Joy-em7vz ปีที่แล้ว +40

      You are a beautiful soul and you deserve to spend your life being loved and loving again.i my family everyone behaved like you and no woman found a new one in their life..they have all be wating to see their love aagain in etrnl⁶al

    • @Limitedonathios
      @Limitedonathios ปีที่แล้ว +71

      As someone who went though extremely difficult medical experiences, trust that she wanted better for you because you had given better to her. Don’t short her on the deal, go on and live happy with a beautiful memory of her in your heart and excitement for the future that you get to live with her loving blessing.

  • @patriciawagstaff6302
    @patriciawagstaff6302 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    It has been 19 months since the passing of my loving husband after 47 years of marriage. I love and miss him so very much .
    Nights are thee most painful as he is not there to kiss me goodnight and hold me in his arms .
    I sleep with his picture next to me on my bed stand or on my bad nights when I miss him so...I hold his picture next to my heart
    Richard, I miss you
    May you now be at peace.❤

    • @ifra99
      @ifra99 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I hope and pray God eases your pain. Not everyone is blessed with a love like that in their lives, I’m so happy that you got to experience that.

    • @dianajmm9088
      @dianajmm9088 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am so sorry Patricia, I can't imagine the pain you are feeling every day. I pray you find peace and strength ❤

    • @CM-ux8uq
      @CM-ux8uq ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So soery for your loss. My Husband of 43 years passed. I sleep with his pic on my night stand. It's so hard.

    • @terridrake9555
      @terridrake9555 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My mom too. Soo sad. Dont worry the lord will hold you up

    • @peaceout.
      @peaceout. ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️🙏

  • @janaabreu
    @janaabreu ปีที่แล้ว +509

    Wow. His smile still can light up a room! ❤

    • @jules-marcdavis6843
      @jules-marcdavis6843 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The looks and smiles said everything about his Love for her, he lit up the universe 💞

    • @jules-marcdavis6843
      @jules-marcdavis6843 ปีที่แล้ว

      The looks and smiles said everything about his Love for her, he lit up the universe 💞

    • @jules-marcdavis6843
      @jules-marcdavis6843 ปีที่แล้ว

      The looks and smiles said everything about his Love for her, he lit up the universe 💞

    • @jules-marcdavis6843
      @jules-marcdavis6843 ปีที่แล้ว

      The looks and smiles said everything about his Love for her, he lit up the universe 💞

    • @jules-marcdavis6843
      @jules-marcdavis6843 ปีที่แล้ว

      The looks and smiles said everything about his Love for her, he lit up the universe 💞

  • @charlenegenther5317
    @charlenegenther5317 ปีที่แล้ว +1917

    I don’t even know you but lots of tears are in my eyes. I look forward to seeing my mom, dad, brother and grandparents 💙💙💙

    • @theresebortzfield188
      @theresebortzfield188 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Keep the wonderful memories. Then, when you are ready, do something positive to honor their life and yours

    • @LaurenJayx0
      @LaurenJayx0 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      No rush, they'll be there to greet you when time comes ❤

    • @realmseeker814
      @realmseeker814 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mine too😢😢😢

    • @aprilMichelleXJRL
      @aprilMichelleXJRL ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Omg me too I'm like balling and I dunno why. This hits different

    • @Me.123.
      @Me.123. ปีที่แล้ว

      YOUR NEVER GONNA SEE YOUR PARENTS, BROTHERS OR GRANDPARENTS BECAUSE HEAVEN IS FAKE ‘GOD’ WONT BE THERE NO ONE WILL ITS ALL FAKE AND YOU FOOLS BELIEVE SHIT

  • @jaydensoro2821
    @jaydensoro2821 ปีที่แล้ว +1834

    My brother recently took his own life at 19 years old bright young man amazing person. When I read his note and when I read the part that mentioned being worried he'd be turned away from heaven because of his action I lost it. If anyone deserves heaven if it's there its that boy. He was so kind. He always cared about me no matter what. RIP Theodore Ray Clarkson III (TC)

    • @aaliaasim1617
      @aaliaasim1617 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      I did not need to cry today 😢 I am so sorry for your loss... suicide is such a sad thing. I've been down that route before and was hours away from deaths door before someone took me to the hospital. I hope that you and your family recover from your loss ❤ May Allah grant him Jannat al firdous, Ameen 🙏🕊

    • @collettewhosthatgirl1330
      @collettewhosthatgirl1330 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'm so sorry 😞 was he suffering with depression?

    • @justincase1919
      @justincase1919 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      I don't want to get into a theological debate with anyone, but suicide is absolutely NOT the " unforgivable sin ".
      You don't need to worry, he is not suffering, he is resting.
      ( that's where the " rest in peace " comes from )
      Without a doubt, you will see him at the ressurection when all who are in their graves will hear His voice and come forth.

    • @FrothyRIP
      @FrothyRIP ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I’m so sorry mate.

    • @danil.9083
      @danil.9083 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      You NEED to know this, if Hitler gets to go to Heaven, don't you think your brother will be going there too ? If killing oneself is a sin, which I think it is, that's why Jesus died for our sins, ALL sins are forgiven, even Hitler's, so are your brothers. So YESSSS 100% your brother IS in Heaven waiting for you, so be ready to have a lot to talk to him about, when you get there❤❤❤

  • @tarasundeen3628
    @tarasundeen3628 ปีที่แล้ว +895

    My daughter waits for me. She was just 20. I lost her six months ago just after her birthday. My best friend in this world. I miss hearing her say "momma" I miss saying her name. I can't wait to see that beautiful girl again.
    Love y'all ❤️🙏🏻

    • @evakal9293
      @evakal9293 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      May God give you courage 🙏 and strength to move on, love.I know loss😢... lost my sister, my dad,my best friend and my best cousin.Noone to talk to anymore.

    • @tarasundeen3628
      @tarasundeen3628 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@evakal9293 thank you for your kind words❤️ I am sorry you know loss that way. You can message me if you need a friendly shoulder.

    • @evakal9293
      @evakal9293 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tarasundeen3628 Thank you Tara

    • @ItalicusHammer
      @ItalicusHammer ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The bible says to be absent with the body is to be present with the Lord.
      So the most important thing to do is learn about what kind of Lord our maker and gatherer really is.
      He also says about himself He is "rich to all who call in Him" abounding in KHESED, Ancient Hebrew for unshakable Love, and the only ORIGINAL source of forgiveness mercy and compassion.
      Isnt it interesting that only with age and loss we begin to realize how absolutely vital these things are as we lose the delusion of our invincibility of youth. Our lives hang on a thread and when they end are like a vapor, so it behooves to become familiar with the One we came from, whom the book of Job telks us "holds in His hand the life and breath of every living creature and every man" while Daniel says he "holds in His hands all our ways". Psalmist wrote "All my days ordained for me were written in His book before 1 of them came to be."
      With our newfound perspective surely we have more reason and advantage to seek out our relationship to and with the One who claims He "will wipe all tears from all faces". Isaiah 25

    • @The-Portland-Daily-Blink
      @The-Portland-Daily-Blink ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so sorry… I’m so very sorry…

  • @nancyc4146
    @nancyc4146 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I'm counting on those exact words. Happy to be with my grown sons here on earth but my heart is yearning to be with their father again.

    • @bluebutterfly0825
      @bluebutterfly0825 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here; my husband passed away a year and a half ago and I can’t wait to be reunited with him again! My condolences to you!

    • @meddinaheeleen7618
      @meddinaheeleen7618 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💕

  • @christeneadams4248
    @christeneadams4248 ปีที่แล้ว +1085

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @Reelchild
    @Reelchild ปีที่แล้ว +513

    I lost my dad, mom, and brother, I’m the surviving member of my family and there isn’t a single day that goes by that I don’t think about them and wish they were here. I know your pain, and I think it’s wonderful you will be helping people get through it when you know the pain so well yourself.

    • @veronicamendoza2284
      @veronicamendoza2284 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😭😭😭

    • @carleigh2good
      @carleigh2good ปีที่แล้ว +10

      im so sorry for your loss. im praying for you and i hope you know the lord has a plan for you, you just have to know what he has planned is what is best for you. have a blessed day/night.

    • @vanessamariposalove
      @vanessamariposalove ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️✝️🙏

    • @miss.columbita3616
      @miss.columbita3616 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We just learn to live with the pain and omg how it hurts. I lost My sweet girl she was going to be 25. Then my sister in law then my Mommy and Papi and now my forever Love My boyfriend. A big hug 🫂 to all out their that fight this feeling everyday. Pls god give us strength 🙏🙏 to continue.

    • @amoomercy8178
      @amoomercy8178 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Lord uphold you and be your peace and consolation at all times in Jesus name
      It is well with you.

  • @graceelliott5327
    @graceelliott5327 ปีที่แล้ว +921

    Wow it’s incredible to see someone use their own painful experience to help better others. Thank you

  • @hsjndjejjd
    @hsjndjejjd ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I am so sorry for everyone who has lost someone important to them. I wish you all the best. May they rest in peace. You are all so strong.

  • @hughgrubbs3191
    @hughgrubbs3191 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    I came across this at random. I needed to see this.
    I lost my wife May 13th. We were together for 35 years. I cry at the drop of a hat. My heart hurts. I miss her so much. It's been beyond rough. I took her back home to be laid to rest with her parents and her eldest son last week. I went to places special to us, but I kept returning to her grave to talk. It was very sad to leave her - she's in Massachusetts and I'm in Texas. I know she'll be in my heart forever, but it doesn't soften the blow. I really love what @Cecelia Davis said. It's right on the money.

    • @tiffmoni82
      @tiffmoni82 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    • @happytraveller2122
      @happytraveller2122 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Deepest sympathy…. Hope your heart can heal

    • @crickett4877
      @crickett4877 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You have my deepest sympathies. I wish I could hug you. Please know you are not alone.

    • @butterfliesandsilkflorals3716
      @butterfliesandsilkflorals3716 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry for your loss of your wife.🙏🏼🌹

    • @A83-A83
      @A83-A83 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry to hear about your loss. I can imagine how your heart hurts and the hole that has been left in your heart over losing your beloved wife. Thats the worst pain to feel is losing someone and literally having a pain in your heart from it. 🥺. Just remember grief is love with no where to go. I hope you find peace, comfort, and happiness in due time. ❤

  • @djnoneofyourbusiness525
    @djnoneofyourbusiness525 ปีที่แล้ว +806

    I lost my mom last year and one thing that has always astonished me about grief is forgetting they’re gone. Every milestone is a painful reminder- moving into a new house, getting a promotion, birthdays, holidays, bad days… they all make me want to message or call her to talk about it, and I’m brought back to the reality that she’s no longer around. I will always look forward to that reunion someday in heaven, but I’ll have to cope in the meantime without her. My condolences for the loss of your special someone.

    • @tfromt.o.9774
      @tfromt.o.9774 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I lost my mom one month ago Today
      We just honoured her memory today at church. It’s still all so raw, and the weight is just beginning to slowly settle in and it’s crushing. I miss her so much, and the hurt that follows those moments of forgetting she’s gone when I think to call her or get excited that I want to share something with her, is so painful.
      I hope she’s experiencing such freedom, peace and joy on the other side, and I wish the same for your mom.
      I’m sending you strength, love and light for all your days! ❤❤❤

    • @lorimedalis5254
      @lorimedalis5254 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I’m right there with you my Mom passed in March and it’s been extremely difficult for me. I miss her so much. The grief can become overwhelming at times 😢

    • @lb6902
      @lb6902 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@lorimedalis5254 I'm there with you. 😢

    • @stacibayles2085
      @stacibayles2085 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I don't know how my dad did what he did, but 2 days after he was killed in a car crash, he walked into my room. I was sitting up on my bed watching Opera when my door swung open. I jumped up and looked around, but didn't see anything. I sat back down and then felt someone sit down on the end of my bed. Then i could feel someone crawling across my bed. I threw the covers up looking for something, but didn't see anything. Then i could feel someone was right in front of me. I heard a loud popping sound. I ran out of the room because it scared me, but i returned and told my dad i was sorry. I felt him with me for a couple of days and then he was gone.

    • @ASH_ketchum_99
      @ASH_ketchum_99 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yup, even going to store reminded me of my mom. I swear I saw her once, I know it’s just grief🥲

  • @jacknkikilafleur1155
    @jacknkikilafleur1155 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I just lost my husband 3 days ago and the pain is unbearable. I sure hope it gets better

    • @musteepa
      @musteepa ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I pray that the Lord comforts, protects and blesses you during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.

    • @lauraorefice2488
      @lauraorefice2488 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am so very sorry for your loss

    • @lindajane235
      @lindajane235 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Pain gets tolerable....try to surround yourself with family and friends and take good care as he is coaching you from heaven❤❤

    • @Lili_Kay
      @Lili_Kay ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I lost my dog last year. Many people will say that it isn't the same because that's an animal, but I beg to differ. You can't compare grief. That "animal" was like my child. I grew up with her and she grew old with me. I didn't give birth to have her, but I did adopt her and I loved her unconditionally everyday. Grief doesn't get better, it just becomes less and less a part of your life, it becomes sidelined, but it's always there. The first day, you bawl your eyes out. After that, you cry every night. Then, you cry once in a while. There will always be moments when you think about that loved one and that grief comes back out, but with time comes a sense of peace. In the beginning, shock and sadness hits you, but at some point you find peace because you don't have a choice, life goes on either way.

    • @chigurl4667
      @chigurl4667 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so very sorry for your loss…

  • @lilyb4229
    @lilyb4229 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I just lost my cat, she was good to me. A close friend when it felt like I had none. Nothing compared to a spouse though, let alone a human loss, I can’t even imagine what that’s like. But when you’re in a place like that and you’re really sad and alone, animals make all the difference. It’s good to know she’s in the arms of Jesus now, and to be honest there’s no one I trust more than Him. ❤

    • @MissDominicaStrong
      @MissDominicaStrong ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for sharing this. I miss my puppy she was amazing

    • @josi4251
      @josi4251 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved pet. I've lost both a spouse and several pets, and they're all hard in their own way. We get them all back in heaven, which is why I so look forward to seeing them all again! You'll see your kitty again; she's waiting patiently for you.

    • @SharonWard-dx1sv
      @SharonWard-dx1sv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen ☁️🎺👼💒🙏🌹✨

    • @lilyb4229
      @lilyb4229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josi4251Thank you! I am sorry for your losses as well. It’s comforting to know that we’ll see these animals again and loved ones. I hope you know that too. Sometimes as humans we don’t take our own advice and we’d rather help others during their grief. I appreciate your response and taking the time to make such a simple and beautiful reply. Means a lot. Lots of love! 💗

    • @lilyb4229
      @lilyb4229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ⁠@@MissDominicaStrongI am so sorry for your loss. I can tell you really loved her, and I bet you gave her such a nice life even though it was for such a short time. And even though we miss our animals we can also be happy for them because they’re in the best place possible. In the arms of Jesus. The one and only sinless man to ever walk the earth. They have a place in Heaven with no more pain and no more suffering. And I hope to meet you there also one day! ❤

  • @bch4688
    @bch4688 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I lost my first sister at 12 my second at 27, my dad at 29 an my mum at 33 grief is horrible but i find peace in knowing the only thing keeping us appart is time.. til we meet again my angels

  • @zaplito3023
    @zaplito3023 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    My parents died three days apart. We buried them on the same day. Today is my Dad’s birthday and I came across this. I cried. Thank you for posting this and sharing your grief with us.

    • @noname-xh3vg
      @noname-xh3vg ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Goodkarma36_
      @Goodkarma36_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's tough. Sorry for your loss 🙏🏿

    • @miranda3
      @miranda3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine losing my parents. I wish to die before them. That must have been really tough for you to lose both your parents 3 days apart.

    • @zaplito3023
      @zaplito3023 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was but my journey through that has allowed me to help a lot of other people in their grief.

    • @zmurffyz-overwatch6851
      @zmurffyz-overwatch6851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss💔❤️

  • @jomas1676
    @jomas1676 ปีที่แล้ว +852

    You never stop grieving it just changes but it will always stay. I lost my daughter 16 years ago and still sometimes get woken up remembering she's gone and I cry for her. We're all one more day closer to being with loved ones again.❤

    • @jenuwinerisk
      @jenuwinerisk ปีที่แล้ว +29

      This must have been the most painful thing a mom can endure, I can't imagine having to go through that I'm in tears thinking about you and your daughter 16 years ago. I have two adult children they have elected to keep me out of their lives. It is been so difficult and painful for me and continues on a daily basis. For me is like having two deaths but not being able to work through it sometimes I feel that it is worse because there is no closure but is there ever? I don't know why I wanted to share that I just felt your grief you wanted to say how sorry I am for you but it must have been a trigger. It happens all the time.... hard to explain my unending unrelenting sadness within my cocoon o grief........

    • @Saintm-lk5iu
      @Saintm-lk5iu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@jenuwinerisk did something happen or did you argue? Sorry for you hope one day you can talk again

    • @goldenlamb777
      @goldenlamb777 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ужас какой . Царствие небесное.

    • @jomas1676
      @jomas1676 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Dakotah Girl It's not mine or anyone else's business what occurred between you and your children but I'm sorry for your pain none the less. I can relate to you're situation too with the alienating behavior but with my brother and sister and their certain addictions. Sometimes there isn't always a reason like maybe depression? I hope it works out for the best..for you. Take care.

    • @mikepatania1375
      @mikepatania1375 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      5 years ago I lost my son some days I still can't stop crying

  • @d34dw0od5
    @d34dw0od5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    We are only on this planet for a short period - if you can show compassion you win the world. Sorry for your loss and love that you are a shining beacon of light for others

  • @NongNueyandNon
    @NongNueyandNon ปีที่แล้ว +264

    I recently lost my dad right before the new year. He was my rock. I brought him home on hospice and I took care of him 24/7 by myself for 3 months. I’m only 27 years old and the grief I feel knowing I have so much life left to live without him is unbearable

    • @maemae1752
      @maemae1752 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At least you had him to love, not everyone is so lucky.

    • @that80sblackchick
      @that80sblackchick ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m praying for you Jennifer. God sees you and is blessing you.❤

    • @Emma-dt5tg
      @Emma-dt5tg ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m 27 too and have just been through a very similar experience. He died in April. I haven’t slept a full night since and it’s making me physically ill. It’s hard to imagine it ever getting any easier. It’s so strange when I’m expected to go back to work, or when people ask if I’m ok and if I want to meet up or something because I feel like I’ve been disemboweled and am still walking around with half my organs hanging out, which should be pretty visible to people. What a weird time to be asked out for a coffee or to work an extra shift. I also desperately want my brother around but I feel our relationship is strained because he left me to handle the whole situation virtually alone. Very hard to find meaning when the most important person in your life is gone. I really wish he could have been a grandfather.

    • @ruthie1803
      @ruthie1803 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @kaylacarpenter272
      @kaylacarpenter272 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same.

  • @PsylentGhost
    @PsylentGhost ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I’m convinced death is easier than living. I try to remember that when I think about those I’ve lost. They’re chilling. Free spirits. Free as birds. They’re the lucky ones.

  • @inaramir7600
    @inaramir7600 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Can’t read the comments without crying… i hope you all are doing well and that we all will reunite with our loved ones in Heaven🙏🏼♥️

  • @justdenise8847
    @justdenise8847 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I watch this more than once! His smile was so sweet and warming. I am so sorry you lost your brother to suicide. 😢 I watch this when I feel alone. My heart goes out to you. I picture God welcoming him in a loving embrace and saying, " I love you my son. You are home now and at peace in my arms" ❤

    • @anna-mariatervonen2379
      @anna-mariatervonen2379 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢

    • @barbarahazut3245
      @barbarahazut3245 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I lost my only sister to suicide in February. My elderly father found her and even tried cpr to save her. I don't think one can get beyond that not for want of trying. We are quite broken but trying to put our lives back together. I shared a birthday with her. That's going to be tough.❤

    • @Fee.1
      @Fee.1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh I thought it was her husband

    • @justdenise8847
      @justdenise8847 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@barbarahazut3245 I'm so very sorry for your loss 😢

    • @barbarahazut3245
      @barbarahazut3245 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @justdenise8847 thank you.

  • @glendagonzalez6334
    @glendagonzalez6334 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I lost my 24 year old daughter in a tragic accident 5 months ago.I don't recognize this world anymore,the pain is unbearable. I was ready to go first.And I have to be strong for my son,he's 20 and still needs me.

    • @o.w.796
      @o.w.796 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so sorry for your loss 🫂

    • @mholmes838
      @mholmes838 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My heart breaks for you. I pray God gives you the strength and peace you need to carry on. ❤

  • @soflogrl2195
    @soflogrl2195 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I needed to hear this. The level of grief is real. It has made me an angry person and isolated. I don't want to be this person. I just miss them so.

    • @AprilReigns18
      @AprilReigns18 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. Sending you healing energy. We'll see our loved ones again. I know this because my boyfriend was dead for 20 minutes and then he came back.

    • @bendoverjudy
      @bendoverjudy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope you find peace and I hope your pain can ease. I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @wlhansen2068
      @wlhansen2068 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand this so well. God bless 🙏

    • @annabelclarke2347
      @annabelclarke2347 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too llost my beautiful son 2 years ago Reuben...this pain of not having him in my life never goes...but l know he is waiting for me..❤ your son is such a beautiful soul. 🤍🙏🏻

    • @biswasswapnadeepa7537
      @biswasswapnadeepa7537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel the same the same always.

  • @wilsonlee6819
    @wilsonlee6819 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Some one told me, " as long as you think about them every day" their never gone.. my wife was a good woman,...was a blessing to have her in my life, even for a short time..🙏

  • @SanjayJain07
    @SanjayJain07 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I am so sorry for your loss! I pray to God to give you strength to bear it for the rest of your days.

  • @MS-sf1wc
    @MS-sf1wc ปีที่แล้ว +182

    "Grief is the price we pay for love."
    It's been 6 years since I lost my husband. We need people like you to help those who will survive their loved ones.

    • @sandamaliworld2633
      @sandamaliworld2633 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤god bless you

    • @kluv420
      @kluv420 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost my daughters father 6/16/2016 rip Scott and my brother and sister in law 8-3-2018 and my BFF 12-26-2019 etc on and on

  • @thehealthreframe
    @thehealthreframe ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Two beautiful souls that were parted too soon. My heart goes out to you. ❤

    • @rosemarie-dj4bn
      @rosemarie-dj4bn ปีที่แล้ว +5

      just give to god, he will guide you,you be 💪 strong,

  • @Juneebug18
    @Juneebug18 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    "Grief never ends.... but it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness nor a lack of faith, but the price of love."
    It's a wonderful reminder

    • @micheleguillemette4148
      @micheleguillemette4148 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Grief never ends...but it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay!!! Seriously unless you have lost a child you can't even comprehend what that grief is!!!

    • @MsHendrix5
      @MsHendrix5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    • @TheOodledoodle
      @TheOodledoodle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These are great words!

    • @dawnapm
      @dawnapm ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn't have said it better myself!

    • @amoyjoyce1117
      @amoyjoyce1117 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are not to grieve as if there is no hope .we will meet out love ones again if we choose to follow Jesus , it’s absent from the body present with the Lord , or away from him like the man in luke 16:19-31 after two thousand years , he is still very thirsty

  • @ymyol98
    @ymyol98 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “One hug every day” The words my Pap wrote in my last Christmas card before he passed. I got it tattooed on my right shoulder❣️ I miss him more than words could tell, but I know he’s always watching over me

  • @ponygirlusa
    @ponygirlusa ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I lost my man 11 years ago this July, but dream about him nearly every night. In my dreams I'm thrilled to have finally found him again and to learn he was never dead and continually ask him where he was all that time and just cry and hang on to him, so grateful to be able to hold him again and he just smiles and says "What are you talking about, I never left." 💔😭
    R.I.P Dan 1954-2012 🙏❤️😔

  • @raquele2390
    @raquele2390 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    I ‘m deeply sorry for your loss. I lost my amazing Mother than 3 months later, my only son. It’s been 2 years and it feels like yesterday. I didn’t get to grieve my Mom before being hit with my son. I cling to The Lord in the midst of life’s storms. He gets me through. Can’t wait to hug my Mom & son. I long to hear my son say, love you Mom. I’m thankful you’re helping counsel those who are hurt. Someday when I retire, I hope to comfort those in hospice. God bless you and all you do. ❤

    • @Pechyblushhy
      @Pechyblushhy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong beautiful human

    • @raquele2390
      @raquele2390 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Pechyblushhy ❤️

    • @vanessamariposalove
      @vanessamariposalove ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️✝️🙏

    • @raquele2390
      @raquele2390 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vanessamariposalove He’s pulled me out of the darkest time in my life. 🙏🏼

    • @Daqueri22
      @Daqueri22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you for that lovely desire to work in hospice. What a gift to the world. I'm so so sorry for your pain. God bless you.

  • @KaoStarrBellydance
    @KaoStarrBellydance ปีที่แล้ว +65

    A beautiful smile. He looked so happy to be with you that day.

  • @VaniCactii
    @VaniCactii ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is relatable. I honestly want to see my dad again 😢

  • @timwiebe1453
    @timwiebe1453 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Her expression tells all. We all wish to be loved that deeply. So sorry for your loss.

  • @steelmagnolia7000
    @steelmagnolia7000 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    When my little boy Will (12)passed ...I felt my whole heart break..an actual feeling..I could not think nor move. I could not function and I couldn't fathom that this reality was my reality. All the hospitals all the treatments all the surgeries, meds,infusions,scopes..all the begging to God to help my little boy were lost. Why would someone be born to die so young? When you know ur child knows that they are dying...but then I think in the beauty of Will and the advocate he was, the strength he had, the courage he had, the compassion for others and children like him and his smile..and I think of his smile and his freckles that danced across his nose and his hugs...and it's been 5 years and it never feels different...it's a stone that I carry always in my pocket I feel the weight I know it's there but I carry it always. But I'm smart enough to know my child is a peace from the agony of his illness but he brought so much to this world. The only thing I can do is be thankful and wait patiently to see him again...helping others the way he would have wanted.

    • @lillyrose1077
      @lillyrose1077 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ❤🌹

    • @gracegonzales-yg2bi
      @gracegonzales-yg2bi ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here..i lost my son..12.. and i always think of him each day.. praying hard that God sustains me strenght to fight this horrible feeling..

    • @steelmagnolia7000
      @steelmagnolia7000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gracegonzales-yg2bi So sorry for your loss....I wish we never had to know it ♥

    • @Socceristhebestfrfr
      @Socceristhebestfrfr ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This made me cry!! Omg I'm so sorry😢😢

    • @Socceristhebestfrfr
      @Socceristhebestfrfr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gracegonzales-yg2bi I'm so sorry for ur loss

  • @teleishamber
    @teleishamber ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Look at his smile you can tell he was a beautiful human being, life is unfair

  • @IxAMxSQUISHY
    @IxAMxSQUISHY ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am so sorry for your loss and I think it’s wonderful you are using your pain to help others. It’s a beautiful heart to be able to do that. God bless 💜

  • @izzycruz1200
    @izzycruz1200 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I immediately bursted in tears. I watched my mom go through this at 35, loosing my dad to ALS. He was only 40. They were so young.💔

    • @christawilson5298
      @christawilson5298 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      so sorry for your loss!

    • @mariayannou4086
      @mariayannou4086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am going to loose my brother in a few months from ALS. He is married and he has three young children 9, 5 and 4. They will never know what it means to grow up having a father. So sorry for your loss😢

  • @timpearce5586
    @timpearce5586 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Reminds me what my great grandmother used to say about her husband. “He’s just waiting in heaven for me”. She lived about 75 years longer than him to never know another man and raised 5 children by herself. Now that’s about as a true faithful Christian,wife and mother as one can be. RIP to her Ada Merritt. Love ya great grandmama.

    • @danielhantari4589
      @danielhantari4589 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take her as an example for your life! Follow Christ with all your heart!

    • @adqata
      @adqata ปีที่แล้ว

      She could had another love. She should feel love always and forever, god never want to be alone, if she where my mother, i would helped her find a new love. Still with the old love also in her heart.

  • @libra11426
    @libra11426 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    I lost my Mom in 2017 when I was 37. I don't know that I have completely processed it yet. Had my first child at 17 and she was his second Mom. Now I have a 19mo old girl and it makes me so sad that she's not here to share in her. I like to think she's watching from above, because I do believe in an afterlife. Thank you for sharing.

    • @juniperbanerjee5755
      @juniperbanerjee5755 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I too lost my mom in 2017 and it's terrible since then. I donot hv children and husband.

    • @libra11426
      @libra11426 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@juniperbanerjee5755 I'm sorry to hear that. Especially about not having family. I talk to my mom in my head a lot when people are around and out loud when I'm alone. Do you have a place that reminds you of her that you could go to to talk to her or activities you could do that remind you of her? I neglected my flower garden for 2 or 3 years because it just reminded me of her and made me sad. Now I know that would make her sad and she would like to see me in the garden. Now I can look at pictures too. Maybe you're not there yet?

    • @claudiag.3036
      @claudiag.3036 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I lost my dad in 2017 also. He never met my now 4 year old, but I’m glad my oldest got to know and love him. I don’t think I’ve ever processed it either. I just let the waves of grief hit me, and move on.

    • @m.miller3903
      @m.miller3903 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I lost my husband 4 months ago... I was 5 months pregnant at the time...our baby has finally arrived..if the afterlife truly exists, I just want us to be a family again, because our baby hasn't met him

    • @josiemize4822
      @josiemize4822 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @junesammy-robidoux2305
    @junesammy-robidoux2305 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I don't know you I don't know him, but his smile tells me he was and still is a beautiful soul. No words can comfort but knowing his love remains with you and that you will see him again offers some hope.

  • @samiyaaftab1
    @samiyaaftab1 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I cried instantly when I saw this I don’t know why this just hit me I got so emotionally and your face has such true emotions sending you love blessings and healing

  • @deedee7733
    @deedee7733 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    They are always with us. Love doesn't die.

    • @Liz-vm7xq
      @Liz-vm7xq ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Psalms 34:18
      The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
      Matthew 11:28-30
      Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
      Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
      For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
      ❤❤❤✝️🙏 I’m so sorry for your loss, may God comfort you and may you know His unending, unconditional, unfathomable love towards you❤️

    • @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298
      @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298 ปีที่แล้ว

      🌬🌻That's just how I feel.
      No one can take them out of our hearts.
      They are always with us in spirit 😇🙏❣🦋🧚‍♀️

  • @theresaflores6039
    @theresaflores6039 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Agree 💯
    Lost my son in 2016 .. still hurts to this day 😢💔

  • @johninsf1984
    @johninsf1984 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Thank you for this. I’ve been struggling so much with grief and loss. Seeing everyone’s comments here has shined a light for and the feeling aloneness doesn’t hurt as much. The many times I’ve been told to “get over my grief” has hurt and caused bigger problems. I’m working through it all right now with counseling and forgiving myself. It’s tough. I Admire you all who have posted. Remember You are Love and You are Loved.

    • @TraciFix
      @TraciFix ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nobody has any right to tell anyone to get over their grief. I lost my first hubby in 2004 and that about killed me. Everyone grieves differently and some grieve their entire lives. I'm so sorry someone said that to you.

    • @4lalaKitty
      @4lalaKitty ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your pain 💚We aren't meant to go through all this. Plz find comfort +reasons + hope that this will Soon be fixed +we will be reunited with our lost ones +all the pain + violence +death
      Removed + Healed +made the way it was originally supposed to be. @JW/Jehovah's Witnesses

    • @Liz-vm7xq
      @Liz-vm7xq ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Psalms 34:18
      The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
      Matthew 11:28-30
      Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
      Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
      For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
      ❤❤❤✝️🙏 I’m so sorry for your loss, may God comfort you and may you know His unending, unconditional, unfathomable love towards you❤️

  • @arlenecuenco5025
    @arlenecuenco5025 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Lost my husband when I was 32, that was 1996, and I made a promised not to marry again nor go into other relationship. And I kept that promised, our wonderful memory keep me going, thou I’m still in grief but when I remmber that he is waiting for me up there it made me feel so good🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @janebeckmann3971
      @janebeckmann3971 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I lost my fiancé just before our wedding date in 2008. My heart still grieves his presence on earth, but I know he’s never far from me. 15 yrs of missing…OH how great our reunion will be. He took the best part of me with him. He didn’t want to leave us, but God had other plans for him. I feel like my heart was pulled out of my chest.

    • @ayiti4009
      @ayiti4009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @arlene my sincere condolences. I hope that you're still happy in a way 🙏🏾❤

    • @ayiti4009
      @ayiti4009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@janebeckmann3971wow Im so sorry about you're lost 😫🙏🏾. What happened, if it not to personnel??

    • @aliciaholm9848
      @aliciaholm9848 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janebeckmann3971 oh my!😳😭if you don’t mind me asking?, what happened😢

    • @bozhidarpetrov
      @bozhidarpetrov ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Real madam here. Applause to this lady

  • @Custom_Crochet_Works
    @Custom_Crochet_Works ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I know my brother is in high heavens and watching over me and waiting to hug me again ❤😢 RIP Porter and happy 15th birthday big bro❤❤
    ⚠️Suicide is never the correct answer to anything⚠️

    • @carolynloughran5450
      @carolynloughran5450 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi there…👋🏼
      You should strongly consider changing your profile name. There are WAY too many creeps seeking out young girls your age….you’re making it too easy for them…practically an advertisement of your age.
      I’m truly not trying to sound like a mouthy jerk. An unfortunate scenario happened recently that showed me the terrifying number of predators that are online…just waiting for a target.
      And I’m sorry Porter isn’t with you any longer. He sounds like an awesome big brother.
      😊😊😊

    • @Custom_Crochet_Works
      @Custom_Crochet_Works ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Carolyn loughran I was considering changing it idk what to change it to yet ty for letting me know in a kind way because there are a ton of creeps out there and I didn't even think of this when making it ty for your kind words about my big brother❤️

    • @that_cosmic_witch
      @that_cosmic_witch ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I was gonna say the same thing. As well as, constantly Talk to your bro, he listens to it all, ask him to visit you in a dream. Some spirit take a while to adjust to their new "life's" if he doesn't visit you the first time or two keep trying, ask him to move a certain object, you'll soon see he's there with you ❤❤❤ and happy heavenly birthday Porter 🌈🎉🥳🎈❤❤❤

    • @Custom_Crochet_Works
      @Custom_Crochet_Works ปีที่แล้ว

      @@that_cosmic_witch tysm❤️

  • @darrenturner8035
    @darrenturner8035 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Someone once told me grief is the price you pay for loving someone.

  • @MegaDarksyd
    @MegaDarksyd ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I've got a beautiful story for you. While grieving in January over the loss of my dad...I'd go through bouts of 15 minutes of grief and 5 minutes of peace. Mind you, I was building his memorial video during this time. Then, I felt a presence in the room. I said out loud..."Not today Satan. I rebuke you in the name of the Father and Jesus." Then I felt a hand on my right shoulder. My heart stopped. Then I felt another on my left shoulder and a voice call out to me. "Do not grieve." Then the hands were lifted and I could see a vision behind me of the two figures walking towards a small door that was lit up. Then at that moment, Jesus turned to me on the right hand side (from standing on my left) and said, "For he walks with Me."
    I was the only dry eye in the funeral home during the service. I've held onto that ever since and would like to give reassurance to ANYONE that trust in Jesus. He WILL come through and He WILL lead you home.

    • @kjoboz
      @kjoboz ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Beautiful story!

    • @catross740
      @catross740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @carolynloughran5450
      @carolynloughran5450 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well, it’s definitely a story.
      Where the heck do you live?!….you knew immediately that the presence was satan??! That’s actually pretty hilarious. So thanks for the story time😂😂😂 (you’ve gotta stop making shit up😳…you’re not good at it).

    • @carolynloughran5450
      @carolynloughran5450 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      …and your handle is “Dark Side?!? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can see why you’d be spreading the word of jesus 😂😂😂

    • @camilin5031997
      @camilin5031997 ปีที่แล้ว

      💖💖💖

  • @lilytjandra1020
    @lilytjandra1020 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I lost my mom two years ago and am still not over the grief now. I think it is a grief I would never be over for the rest of my life. I share your sentiments. I envision my dad and mom waiting and smiling lovingly at me at the gate one day when it is time for me to go where they are right now.

    • @gillianm9367
      @gillianm9367 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Watching near death experience videos on TH-cam has helped me cope with the loss of loved ones.
      Two years is not that long but please believe me that the pain does ease gradually and that your mum would love for you to be happy❤
      Lost my mum 11 years ago, my sister 5 years ago and my dad 4 weeks ago.
      I miss them all so much but I know they are at peace and want me to be happy.
      I think what helps is being grateful for the gifts they passed on to me- my love of nature, gardens, flowers, history, art and design. These things keep me happy and remind me of them every day ❤

    • @deedee2218
      @deedee2218 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same! ♥️

    • @melissa0378
      @melissa0378 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost my mum 9 years ago and I still sometimes wake up and for a split second forget she isnt here anymore.

  • @tomtom-zp1kn
    @tomtom-zp1kn ปีที่แล้ว +127

    This made me so emotional. I'm so sorry for your loss. Stay strong ❤️

  • @Marissa_loves_Jesus
    @Marissa_loves_Jesus ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God bless you sweet girl, you will see him again in glory! 💖🙏 praying for you

  • @mirandalopez2640
    @mirandalopez2640 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    Still hits hard after my mom died about 4 years ago. Glad God has been with me though my grief and being pregnant and having first baby. 😊

  • @mckenzieeleah
    @mckenzieeleah ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Instantly bawled my eyes out, I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @Ulkavyn
    @Ulkavyn ปีที่แล้ว +260

    If I lost my big sister, I don’t think I’d be able to go on. She’s the one thing in this world I can’t afford to lose

    • @catasherodrigues8716
      @catasherodrigues8716 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m pretty sure you’re the same to her ❤ so make every moment count with each other and always remember to apologize in the exact moment, don’t wait , remember don’t wait.

    • @NikaK23
      @NikaK23 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏿💞

    • @lisadanae7752
      @lisadanae7752 ปีที่แล้ว

      My childs and my dad

    • @psychocolonelsanders1788
      @psychocolonelsanders1788 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @jeanaparham8708
      @jeanaparham8708 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I used to feel that way until GOD helped me get my priorities straight.
      1. No one loves any of us more than him
      2we must put him first in all things, even death.
      3 we are all " on loan " to each other in life, til we're united in heaven
      4 our love ones are now safe
      and made whole in the loving arms and heart of the very we pray protect us in our coming and going. A far better place than this world
      5we need to take all the positive and negative lessons we learned from GOD having placed them in our lives for the time we had them ,and apply those lessons to our lives and others. So we can make each better while we're here.

  • @dariahughes5564
    @dariahughes5564 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May I ask what happened to this beautiful, loved, young man? Sorry for your infinite loss.

  • @catmandu6434
    @catmandu6434 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    He only left your eyes but not your heart...he lives there and it's where you will always find him...your sense of peace and acceptance lives there too.🙏

    • @jnmarshmello2728
      @jnmarshmello2728 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Imagine needing a religion to cope

    • @KayleeRichardson-wk2vu
      @KayleeRichardson-wk2vu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jnmarshmello2728 imagine there was nothing stated about religion in this comment. Leave people alone

    • @jnmarshmello2728
      @jnmarshmello2728 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KayleeRichardson-wk2vu no

    • @ecanet
      @ecanet ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jnmarshmello2728imagine having no faith or belief in your creator and even beginning to cope such a loss

    • @jnmarshmello2728
      @jnmarshmello2728 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ecanet you don't believe in your mom?

  • @ferhles
    @ferhles ปีที่แล้ว +259

    "Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened."

    • @aprilconrad7054
      @aprilconrad7054 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is beautiful ❤

    • @lauraclaudia8159
      @lauraclaudia8159 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It is beautiful but probably impossible!!!!😪

    • @sanviatre8356
      @sanviatre8356 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Uhh...dont say that to someone who has lost a loved one.

    • @yogadedecker6446
      @yogadedecker6446 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That is not really fitting for situations concerning death. Honestly, the more i think about it, the angrier I get

    • @MaulanaBanana69
      @MaulanaBanana69 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know you mean well, but this isn’t the place for this fuckery.

  • @pluvio5
    @pluvio5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The last hike I ever did with my Papa we saw an armidillo, the armidillo saw us and ran away of course. My Papa and his wife were so happy when we got home and kept remarking how they’re feet were sore and they hadn’t felt that way in a long time. That hike was in September of 2020, my Papa passed away November 11, 2020. The night before his viewing I couldn’t sleep, and I had a panic attack. I didn’t want to wake my parents so I went outside to cry. As I was crying on the patio I heard something. The biggest armidillo I have ever seen came from around the corner of the hotel we were staying in, walked right up to me, and stood up in front of me-it’s nose just twitching. It went back on all fours and walked back around the corner. When I got over my disbelief and followed it, it had already disappeared behind the fence. That’s when I knew my Papa had made it and I know he’s still watching over me. He is still living and changing with me; when I get to heaven I know he will be there too and it will be as if he had never left.

    • @sophie22676
      @sophie22676 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww I read that whole thing and that’s the cutest thing ever about the armadillo. Your papa will show up in ways that you may not understand or see, but he is always there. I am so sorry for you loss but just know that he is still watching over you daily and just can’t wait till the day he sees you again ❤

  • @lauraclarke139
    @lauraclarke139 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My heart, gosh I actually needed this so badly!!!

  • @lovey_charm
    @lovey_charm ปีที่แล้ว +40

    His smile is everything, thinking of that alone will rip me apart. Sorry for your loss!

  • @throughfrankieseyeznow
    @throughfrankieseyeznow ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jesus helps with grief. I just lost my dad 3 months it will make to his battle of cancer. Jesus holds my hand EVERYDAY! ITS A PEACE I just can't explain. I got my days, but Jesus holds all my pain. Thank-you Jesus🥺❤️ if anyone is reading this just call on the Name of Jesus and say "Jesus, I need you, please help me( tell Him what), He WILL ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Jess-lw3vv
    @Jess-lw3vv ปีที่แล้ว +51

    His legacy lives on in you. You are using the gift to help others and that is beautiful. Thank you for sharing this and I hope that you are at peace in the quiet moments and have joy in the memories.

  • @christinalaw6367
    @christinalaw6367 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want so many people to be waiting, especially my husband. Miss you.

  • @deloreslate4028
    @deloreslate4028 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I can tell he had a sweet soul and loved you. I’m so sorry you are having to go through this. Sending hugs❤️

  • @josieshoxx
    @josieshoxx ปีที่แล้ว +63

    He looked SO happy to be marrying the love of his life ❤ So deeply sorry for your loss.

    • @josephinehrahsel5831
      @josephinehrahsel5831 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I believe this is her brother

    • @selinagonza1186
      @selinagonza1186 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It is her brother

    • @josieshoxx
      @josieshoxx ปีที่แล้ว

      @@selinagonza1186 oh, oops 😁

    • @jenniferzorob2490
      @jenniferzorob2490 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so sad so young and handsome that smile may he my heart breaks watching theses videos r.i .p.

    • @jenniferphillips4765
      @jenniferphillips4765 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oh I thought son. but ya maybe brother...

  • @baskarsubramaniam7557
    @baskarsubramaniam7557 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    It's so heartbreaking to find love, to find your soulmate but lose them. Just shatters my heart.

    • @izzy8674
      @izzy8674 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's her brother

  • @zombilicafied
    @zombilicafied ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I lost my partner and it hasn't been the same. Girl, we will see our partners when our time is near and here. Stay strong. He's watching over you.

  • @williamlabar8335
    @williamlabar8335 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I lost my dad in September 2012 and I still cry when I think about him every day. The grieving process never ends. I hope that I make it to heaven one day so I can see my dad and my grandfather and my best friend BJ and my brother-in-law Tony ,I know they will be there with open arms waiting.

  • @me.martin1711
    @me.martin1711 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is why I don't fear death. The best people in my life are up there. But then again, I fear of leaving my son because I don't want him to feel the grief I felt when my parents passed away.

  • @jodycolin3530
    @jodycolin3530 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Wow, your one strong woman. So sorry for your loss. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @lindacolandrea9752
    @lindacolandrea9752 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm praying I hear those words in Heaven, & be reunited to those we dearly loved!❤

  • @soulcandyalmadulce5885
    @soulcandyalmadulce5885 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    May the memories embrace you with peace and comfort your heart. Sending love, sweet soul.

  • @Sezables
    @Sezables ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I imagine this all the time… my nephew went to heaven at 3.5 years old, it’s been ten years since we lost him. I can’t wait until I get to cuddle him again ❤

  • @carolinedimezza1547
    @carolinedimezza1547 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Both my parents and my 26 y/o son. I won’t rush it because my daughter needs me but I’m ready when God calls me. My condolences on your loss. Sending hugs.

    • @Liz-vm7xq
      @Liz-vm7xq ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Psalms 34:18
      The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
      Matthew 11:28-30
      Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
      Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
      For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
      ❤❤❤✝️🙏 I’m so sorry for your loss, may God comfort you and may you know His unending, unconditional, unfathomable love towards you❤️

  • @noahstoddard9735
    @noahstoddard9735 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your angel in heaven is watching over his angel on earth. Bless you.

  • @wanderingsoul2931
    @wanderingsoul2931 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I miss my brother so much. He’s been gone 4 months it feels like yesterday he was sitting next to us

  • @connievansant3943
    @connievansant3943 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Some people spend their whole life looking for a love this sincere and genuine. You are blessed even though it doesn't feel like it. Keep moving forward, even if you have to crawl.

  • @homie1134
    @homie1134 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Lost my wife as well. Thinking of seeing her again is what helps me make it every day. Sorry for your lost.

  • @carriepriegel6477
    @carriepriegel6477 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my gosh, just your opening quote about God greeting you😢💗💔💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @tvdlover99
    @tvdlover99 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I lost my fiance on 4/20/23. He was 22. I can't wait to see him again. Sending love ❤️

  • @carlablizard8514
    @carlablizard8514 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I am waiting for that day as well. It's so hard, I know. You got this.

    • @April-xq4ll
      @April-xq4ll ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Keep your faith in JESUS CHRIST and you will most definitely will see them again. I love you my dear sister in CHRIST. JESUS CHRIST Is The WAY. The TRUTH. The LIFE.

  • @katiek3396
    @katiek3396 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I lost my husband in September of last year. It has single handedly changed me, my children, my family utterly and completely forever. I have never felt this kind of grief before and it sits on my chest like the heaviest of weights. I am still learning how to be a parent all on my own. Learning how to live without him is the hardest lesson I've ever had to learn. And I'm not going to lie I still am.

    • @sweetfreeze5528
      @sweetfreeze5528 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so sorry to hear this 😞 You'll be in my prayers even though i don't know you.

    • @Liz-vm7xq
      @Liz-vm7xq ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am so sorry for your loss❤️ I pray God will be your comfort in this time and that you will know His constant love towards you. I offer these verses in hopes they will minister to your spirit. Life is full of the greatest joys and deepest pains, but through Jesus we can have peace in every situation, not that we will feel good, but that we will know no matter how painful our situation is, this life is not for forever, but life after death is. I’m so sorry for your loss my sister, you can do it, you are strong, and when you are too weak, Jesus is there to carry you.
      Psalms 34:18
      The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
      Matthew 11:28-30
      Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
      Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
      For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."

    • @mandiemcdevitt6262
      @mandiemcdevitt6262 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤ god bless 🙏 stay strong and watch your children grow x you have got this 👍

    • @JaymeHEOGA
      @JaymeHEOGA ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ll pray for you

    • @barbaramasters2537
      @barbaramasters2537 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way I still cry at the thought of not having my grandma here after her death in 2016......I may benefit from grief recovery....I also cry over people who are not dead....just gone from my life or they've changed due to addiction and will never be the same. Never new GR waa a thing 🤯🤯🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕

  • @marlaclark2121
    @marlaclark2121 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Met my soul mate in 2002, love at 1st sight married in 06! Lost my mom in 07 from a 3 month cancer battle. 2010 our world opened up when our grandson ( my hubby had no children , I had 1) was born at 2lbs5oz he made my soul smile! Baby has had many many medical issues starting with becoming paraplegic by 2 years but he was our world! In 2014 while visiting my best friend 2000 miles away for the 1st time (she was our maid of honor also) called my hubby to check in after 6 rings he picks up, having a heart attack he passed right then. Waiting for confirmation that he was gonna be OK, I saw him walking towards me in his fav summer shorts, shirt and silly sandles, it was snow and ice there but 80 degrees where I was. It was then I knew he was gone. That year our precious grandson was taken by his mother and her child abusive new husband who is now in prison for torture of my grandson. I have not seen that precious angel who made my soul smile since he begged me to let him live with me saying he would tell police everything he was 4 and I was already trying to move heaven and hell to keep him safe but that was the last time we were together she has us blocked out of his life he is now 12 and my son has seen him once but talks to him every 2 years when the mother let's him but she hates me for trying to protect him from the child abuse and sexual abuse she brought into his life and my son gets to talk to him more if I'm not involved with him at all. So after loosing my mother, my soul mate then grandson and son...my father who I share a birthday with was unexpectedly admitted to the hospital and I stayed with him his last 3 days on earth he passed away after my brother left and it was the 2 of us. My daddy who could never become close to his only daughter choose me to be with him and when he took his last breath I laid my.head on his chest giving him the physical love that we never ever shared until those last 3 days it was then when I saw.a hundred or more white pearl-ish opalescent butterflies come from his torso and disappear into the ceiling....in our 54years 10 1/2 months of father daughter those 3 days were the most love ever shared and it ended magical like only God could do it. Grief compounded with more grief and alone. I did reconnect with someone I dated twice when I was 18, he was the cousin of my other best friend he had no children never married but God put us together after my husband passed. I was shown love, laughter, companionship and it was OK to have some happiness in widowhood to be human again but God had other plans.
    .my "male friend, old friend, boyfriend from the past who became the present" he passed away exactly 30 days after my father did. I always knew my dad wanted Elvis singing I did it my way at his service but thot I may pass out when a month later frank Sinatra is singing the same song at my old/new boyfriend's funeral.
    You can't make this stuff up its all too much my brain doesn't think of any of it because it knows my heart can't handle it all.. numb and going thru the emotions of daily whatever, trying to keep up with what's been left and at 61 my body has new chronic pains from diagnosis 20 + years ago. One day at a time, I have loved with all my heart and soul and now my best days are after mowing and weed eatng my almost 2 acres being one with nature and lol its a plus when I don't have to wear a bra.
    Thank you for.letting me tell my story it's all mine and can only share with.strangers. here's to show you don't make your plans, God does. May we all know love and peace

    • @belindabriones7678
      @belindabriones7678 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My goodness , I am left paralyzed after reading your life experiences. My heart feels heavy and still wouldn't be able to understand how you surviving such pain. I'm so sorry for all the pain you have dealt with and carry. I hope you continue to stay strong and thank you for sharing your story. It impacted my thoughts and know it will always be with me and give me strength.

    • @johnnybridges4795
      @johnnybridges4795 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Letting you know someone read your story my perdon waiting for me is my mom haven't seen her since i was 2 shes there waiting .heres one for ya.. remeber this moment and.... see you later

    • @marlaclark2121
      @marlaclark2121 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@belindabriones7678 please don't let this bring you down.. You don't know how strong you are until that's all you got and with all that I'm a survivor. To grieve hard I must of loved hard and for that I am thankful
      God bless

    • @marlaclark2121
      @marlaclark2121 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnnybridges4795 thank you. I am so sorry for your loss, as a mom I can't imagine having to "let go" you were so tiny but I hope you know your mama has been wiith you all this time, watching over you, at times standing right next to you. Hope you found happiness and love, she would want that for you I wish that for you too. God bless

    • @camilin5031997
      @camilin5031997 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so strong 🥺 I am so sorry about all you loses. Sometimes we don’t know why The Almighty Creator of the universe, our Heavenly Father lets certain things happen but please just keep trusting in Him, and loving Him. He will give you the long-awaited peace. He is our rock. Without Him we couldn’t even support half of the things that happen to us. Take care of yourself 💖

  • @carolkerylow1586
    @carolkerylow1586 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This video made me cry.I hope to see my 2 husband's and my mother and brother.God Bless you.

    • @doreenwalden4918
      @doreenwalden4918 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Two husbands? Dam I lost one. Painful xx

    • @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz
      @JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2 husbands???? 😮 lol I can’t.

    • @cara8121
      @cara8121 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gzThats a really insensitive and disrespectful comment you’ve just made.

    • @kirstylouisexxx4838
      @kirstylouisexxx4838 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz she obviously lost a husband and remarried later on in life.

  • @VC0598
    @VC0598 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I lost my beautiful baby sweet William to CML. When we celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary, we renewed our vows. My 3 children in the picture stood up there with us. Looking at pictures, my son had left an open space as if William was there with us. I cry because my friends noticed it too and asked me if it was planned that way. I’m sure it was but not by us. Rest in heaven my sweet William you are forever in our hearts. 💗

    • @Liz-vm7xq
      @Liz-vm7xq ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Psalms 34:18
      The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
      Matthew 11:28-30
      Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
      Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
      For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
      ❤❤❤✝️🙏 I’m so sorry for your loss, may God comfort you and may you know His unending, unconditional, unfathomable love towards you❤️

  • @JohnWasinger
    @JohnWasinger ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please don’t go too soon; your story isn’t over.

  • @garrett8073
    @garrett8073 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I feel you. Stay strong, we all have to. Lost my Dad recently and damn it hurts. No preparation for that. Pray for you.

    • @ichuze7312
      @ichuze7312 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss. May God bless you with the peace that passes all understanding in Jesus’s name.

    • @garrett8073
      @garrett8073 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ichuze7312 Thank you for your kind and uplifting words, and of course, your prayers to sweet Jesus for all those suffering in grief. 🙏

    • @garrett8073
      @garrett8073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ichuze7312 I'm keeping a good thought and a prayer for you, as well.

  • @MrsAA-zn4yj
    @MrsAA-zn4yj ปีที่แล้ว +41

    What a gift you have to be able to work in grief recovery! Because you’re stronger than you know, you were helping other people out in so many ways that will come back to you and bless you richly and many other ways until you meet him again in the heavens

    • @lisakatz9437
      @lisakatz9437 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for making this comment.
      Beautifully said. Heart hurts so much.

  • @naturalbeauty51508
    @naturalbeauty51508 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    That statement literally gave me chills, keep living for the ones that have past.

    • @thejulianas_
      @thejulianas_ ปีที่แล้ว

      Honey, there is no point. All I want is to go see them. There’s nothing here anymore.

    • @RAE-dt7mp
      @RAE-dt7mp ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@thejulianas_ Understand how you feel... but if it was the other way around you would wish for them to move on and live the life God has given. Stay strong!

  • @paulaanthis4031
    @paulaanthis4031 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your words brought chills all over my body and tears to my eyes as I imagine again seeing the one person on earth that showed me what true love really is. May God bless you and all you work with to become able to smile again when those words are spoken!

  • @Autumn.love237
    @Autumn.love237 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I lost two of my grandparents within a year just recently. I loved them both so much. Thank you for giving me this to look forward to