I lost my daughter in 2021. I am still so broken, there are days when I feel my heart will literally break. Grief counseling has helped and I give myself 15 minutes a day to cry or scream if I need it. I don’t know where I’m trying to go with this post other than to say you are not alone ❤ I’m glad you found your purpose Sending you love 💗
Yesterday I cleaned his thombstone, pulled the grass from his foot stone and placed a bouquet on top. It’s been 15 years and you still think of them every single day.
Thank you for this. My soul mate was murdered in 2004, and I still have these moments. It never gets easier. You just get better at hiding the pain and putting the feelings aside for a better time to feel them...
@@adamosantonio1499Kindly- That's a really personal question, wouldnt recommend asking ppl that when they express a great trauma theyve endured...Your curiosity doesnt justify pressing for more info..
Omg. I have this feeling about my brother every. single. day. It was June 21, 2011, and it feels the exact same as it did then. It’s like a realization over and over and over again that he’s gone. It’s weird, but I wouldn’t change it for anything, except seeing him walk in the room. Ugh, my heart
I just lost my Dad on April 6th. I know that he's waiting for me on the other side for as long as it takes for me to get there. Knowing this gives me comfort. 🤗
Coping with grief as an atheist must hit very differently at some level, the knowing part you mentioned from which they can't gain any comfort and peace.. I'm in a situation where I truly don't know how long my mom has to live and knowing I'll meet her again is what keeps me afloat
I’m not much of a hugger, but I crave his hugs so much. Every time I can physically feel the need for a hug, I only can imagine his. My emotions turn into a physical longing. My bf and I were talking about our wedding the night before he passed. I ache from my new reality knowing allll the plans we had, he had, and I had are now impossible. I am so sorry you have gone through this hurt of losing your person. xx
He was a beautiful young man. My heart breaks for you, but I can see you’re working very hard on pushing through, and helping others along the way! You’re a blessing girl❤️
I lost my only son 2 years ago on March 23, 2021 in a motorcycle accident. My baby boy was 21 years old and he died 2 days before my birthday. We have always had such a strong mother/son bond and my grief is so unbearable and I am barely hanging on. I feel physically sick all the time now. This is really really bad and I’m so stuck. I’ve tried talking to a professional but it didn’t help me. It’s kind of difficult for anyone to even begin to understand unless they themselves have lost a child. This is hell on earth. It’s a life sentence and it’s killing me
My heart hurts to read this. I am so very sorry. You were so lucky to be his mama. Have you heard of EMDR therapy? I don’t really know how to explain how it’s done, so look it up on the internet/TH-cam video. It’s a therapy specifically for trauma. If you decide to do it, make sure you go to someone who specializes in it. I have my first appointment tomorrow.
My mum was exactly the same after losing my sister 12yrs ago, 2 weeks after my mums birthday and 1 week off her own 32nd bday, over those years my mum has blown me away with her resilience, she now celebrates my sisters life on her commemorative day and thanks her for the 2 precious gifts my sister left my, her 2 kids which my mum is raising. I truly hope you can 1 day do the same, you just need to remember the good times and thank the lord that you had the time that you did with your precious boy
I lost my best friend of 25yrs in October, and this really hit home. I can be feeling fine, & then just out of nowhere I’m sobbing again. Grief is overwhelming me…..
I lost my younger brother to a drug overdose 3 years ago March 12th. I feel this every single day. I dont imagine it will ever stop. It is my only and sincerest hope that i will see him in heaven one day. It will never not hurt to know every single day of my life from march 12th 2020 ill never hug my little bear again.
@@Hey-its-Cait ummm....so am I. If you don't believe you will see your loved ones again when you die, I feel very sorry for you. Regardless of what you believe, she will have an incredible reunion when it's her time.
Recovery from loss is possible. My husband was ill for 10 yrs. 2 really rough ones and I cared for him. Knowing doesn’t make it easier. It will be 4 yrs Nov 1. First year was hell aa Covid kept me secluded. I grieved per phone with kids and Mother. I prayed. Everyone prayed. GODs promise to heal my heart was true. I read my Bible in a year. Played Christian Music. I still miss him. It isnt painful as before. As Christians of strong faith I know we will see each other again. ✝️♥️🙏
I lost my dad in COVID it's been two years and I don't think it's getting any easier grief is getting even tougher to deal with every day it's a fight to get up and live 💔
I'm experiencing this. Last night something happened and my first thought was I need to call mom. It hit me so hard I started crying😢 I know this will be with me forever but the pain and hurt is really unbearable. I can't go to her house bc I expect to see her there.😢😢💔
@@peonymagenta5139 I try everything to not think about her and yet she is on my mind all the time... I think I can’t even remember what she looked like... i don’t know what’s happening... but I get you
It's been a few months since this was posted...but hope this helps. My mom passed away in June 2020 and it's the hardest thing I've ever experienced. Yes I cried every day but without realizing it I also would journal every day and would talk to her thru my journaling. Having a close friend/cousin/sister/sibling..etc helps a ton. Talk to them every day and keep busy. It'll help and eventually it gets easier. I'm so so sorry for your loss ❤
My husband of 20 years passed last August to an aggressive throat cancer. Here it is 9 months later, and it feels like I'm just now beginning to realize he's gone. Everyone assumes I got over it - worked thru it - but I feel like the sadness and heaviness of what happened is finally starting to hit me. I need their support, but feel strange asking after they all were so "there for me" in the beginning... But I wasn't needing their support then - - how do I maneuver this?
Its been 22 months for me. I understand exactly what you are saying. Its like the reality gets more real every day. I think I was in a fog (I call it a coma) the whole first year. I dont remember much of it except the pain. Now~ in the second year, reality is hitting like a ton of bricks. No body wants to hear it anymore~ they’ve gotten past it so I guess they assume I have. I dont ask for comfort anymore because I dont want to hear the lectures. I have a grief therapist and God. Other than that~ I am grieving alone. Its hard, lonely, hollow but what choice do we have but to keep going til we get to die and see them again. Its what I pray for. Prayers for you💜
These moments hurt so bad. Every thought is like a stab. Well, I pray you know you can go to Jesus. He not only has salvation, but He can give you the Holy Spirit, the comforter 🩷
WOW! SO VERY 4:16AM... WOW, SO IRONIC that I happened to come across this video! My father passed away and I can't sleep... I miss him, and I can't stop thinking of him😢
This hit hard...lost my great grandpa a few years back..i was still a small kid but i held his hand while he passed, will never forget that feeling. I just know He's happy in Heaven with God now and I'll see him again. My other grandpa has cancer in his spine marrow (think that's what you call it) and I've watched him become sick, better, healed, 4 years remission, back to the doctors and the cancer is back. Its been 6/7 months now since it's been back and he has been in and out of the hospital. My grandma is dying inside seeing her husband like this, but at least they are spending his last few years....months....days...together. only the Lord knows how long we still have with him. I will never forget the day they came back from the doctors with the news that its back. Haven't cried that much in a while. But God knows the plans and I trust Him. He knows what's best. I know most people don't believe in Him and it's fine. But He saved me and I know that whatever He does. Whether He takes my grandpa with Him to paradise or keeps him on earth, that's His choice. He knows what's best. You're in my prayers and thoughts. It never will get easier, but with every step you grow stronger. ❤
I lost my best friend to a fentanyl overdose, and it’s hard to miss somebody and wish that you could call them or give them a hug or when pictures pop up that you didn’t even think you had any more it never gets easier it just gets more manageable keep your head up I’m sorry for your loss like someone said in the comments lean on Jesus❤
If every you need prayers ❤ reach out If only to know you are not alone. ✝ Your video rain . Crushed my 💔 I freakin love & hate rain 😢. If this makes sense
You not alone, I lost my mom a month ago and is so hard and painful. I miss her everyday. But you know something my mom and your brother doesn't want to see us suffering. I'll be praying for you, because now we have to learn to live without them, even though they always live in our hearts 💕.
I lost my husband 10yrs ago in September..we had been married for 22 yrs. We had 4 yr old twin boys.. I'm still struggling so damn hard. I miss my husband every day. I hate that our boys will never know how amazing their Daddy was first hand...they will always hear stories of him but never know him themselves. I was 9 when my father was shot and killed in "West Germany" at the time... December 3, 1980... I don't know what music he liked, his favorite color, his favorite food...so many little things people take for granted... If you don't like your parent (I have cut my mother out of my life because of the toxicity) at least you know the parent and have a choice. Not fair not having a choice to know a parent.
My beloved husband Gerald passed away in August of 2022. I have been lost, numb and scatterbrained ever since. Please help me learn how to do what you're doing. I feel it could really help me get through this
The one who only knows the level of that pain you’re experiencing right now is GOD. And he never takes his eyes of you. He’ll heal that unexplainable pain! Till then tho thru all the process you’ll know him better than you do now. Keep pushing my sis I was in similar situation in 2016, I still don’t have any word enough form me to explain the hurt … it took a huge part of me, n still …. But as for my relationship with God, I got benefited from that season of my life. Cuz I wouldn’t let God coming in to my life if i wasn’t in that kinda time. So He got you! Just trust me! God has plans for you! He still watches all those tears … There will come another season that he’ll dry’em n gives you a beautiful smile! Some day you’ll be testifying how you survived this to others… someday you’ll be a strength to others who’ll walk on the same path. Keep lifting your head up❤🙏🏾🙌
I'm so sorry to ask but was (is) he your brother? Or son? Or even husband? I'm so sorry to ask. To me it looked like your son at first now I wonder if he's your brother? I'm so sorry babygirl. You are so so strong. Idk if I ever could be... I hope so. Xoxo
You are not alone. Song's are what is bad for me. I hear a line in a song and automatically think of my son who passed of colon cancer in 2021 and I end up crying. He was 37 and I was his main care giver, we had a lot of wonderful conversations. I still talk to him everyday. Also I have always believe that a good cry is good for you. I said to him once that I just wanted to crawl into his bed and just hug him but I know I would never get up. We laughed, then a few weeks later he said "remember that thing we talked about," I didn't remember what he meant, he said "about you crawling into the bed and hugging me". I crawled into his King size bed and we slept for about 4 hours, which was good for him.
you really call yourself a grief counselor and then proceed to upload a short with something “relatable” like “hey you remember this person/pet? you’ll never hug them again” I hope your degree gets revoked.
I am truly sorry for the heartbreak you endure. I lost my mom Nov 2020. As the time passes, most days I'm fine and then there's days it just hits me and it's hard. Miss her terribly. I know our losses are different in heart, but I ask the universal guides to bring you more days of peace than heartache. So many don't understand true loss until its something that breaks the heart and only time can kind of heal. Sending love to you
Yes I feel you 😢 my mother past away year ago but I just can’t believe that 😢 I can’t go to her grave and can’t stop to think about what else I can do for her when she was sick 😢
I Lost my brother in 2022 he inspired me to be a chef because he was a chef he cooked beautiful food every now and then I think of him when I'm cooking that's how I keep my memories of my brother
To my best friend who passed away. we really were sisters grief sucks but those memories can never be erased and to my mother in law I'll always protect your son just like how you would love you
I lost my nephew wish I loved like my own so. In 2005 he was only 15 car accident they guy just came from the war in Irak my nephew was riding a bike day light Brooklyn NY is hard out here I had bury many that I love am now 54 and I know that I know that that once they were alive like me now and then they die like once I will be.. dead. We have to all love each other no matter what at least the one that knows truth and will prevail standing strong !
You will when u reunite on the other side. Until then, he will be your watcher and every now and then he will gently kiss your neck with the whisper of a breeze on a beautiful day. God bless.
Me and my sons mother split up a few years ago, she broke up with me and still never got a real answer as to what went wrong, i know its not the same as someone passing but i am stuck with a continuance reminder that i will never be able to tell her how much i love her or to just have her by my side again. Everyday is a battle on the inside
I know you are not asking me, but when it gets that bad for me I lay down in my bed, close my eyes and remember my mommy until I can hear her voice in my head. And I let myself cry and weep. And then I thank God for allowing me to have such an incredibly strong, loving relationship with my mommy that I am able to feel pain this severe. It is a gift to have experienced love so immense that the loss of it is incomprehensible. Luckily Jesus gave his life for us all, so that my mom can live in a painless eternity. I will pray for you. I'm so sorry.
Are you in the UK? If so please call The Samaritans. It does get better believe me, it takes time but you will get there. Take care of yourself, grief can make you feel exhausted so its important to get lots of rest but also exercise, fresh air and a healthy diet. The person/people you have lost would not wish for you to be unhappy- imagine if it were the other way around- you would want your loved one to be happy and healthy ❤
@@gillianm9367 first of all thanks for acknowledging, I never thought anyone would ever notice my comment. I am not in UK. It has been a year and I have tried almost everything. It feels like I am just breathing and there is not much left inside. I am trying until I give up.
@@readingintheshade9478 How beautiful it is that you are lifting me up when you yourself going through a lot. I feel you. Thanks for caring. I won't forget this.
@@cyaasoon is there an equivalent to the Samaritans where you live ? I think they are also in U.S and other countries. Have you spoken to a doctor? You may benefit from a course of anti depressants in addition to counselling. Many people get stuck following a bereavement and a year isn't actually all that long- I would say it was a full 2 years before I stopped feeling emotional after my mother died. I've since lost my sister and most recently my father and the worst thing is when you want to tell them something and then you suddenly remember they are gone. Your doctor may be able to refer you to a self- help group where you could speak to people who have gone through similar experiences. Something which has helped me tremendously was reading Anita Moorjani's book about her near death experience. There are also lots of interviews on TH-cam with people who have had NDEs and I think watching these may help also. Please don't give up on yourself- your grief is proof of how deeply you loved your lost one. Please confide in someone that you trust💗
Sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in August 2021. I didn’t make it in time to the hospital to say goodbye. I miss him dearly and have many fond memories. R.I.P ❤❤❤❤❤
God bless all of you in these comments who lost your loves. I don't know any of you but I know the pain. I don't think it gets better honestly, I think we just do better pushing through ❤❤
I know this grief. My bf passed away in 2008. I even find comfort in a sentence of Queen Elizabeth II: grief is the price we pay for love.
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I lost my daughter in 2021. I am still so broken, there are days when I feel my heart will literally break. Grief counseling has helped and I give myself 15 minutes a day to cry or scream if I need it. I don’t know where I’m trying to go with this post other than to say you are not alone ❤
I’m glad you found your purpose
Sending you love 💗
My deepest condolences for your loss. I lost my niece 2017 and her mom/my sister in 2020.
@@Grimmarox I’m so sorry 😢
My heart goes out to you ❤️
I’m sorry. I can’t imagine. We lost my brother, and I will never understand how our mom gets through a single minute.
Ohhh no… 😢 what happened, if I may ask… parents should never outlive their children.
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Yesterday I cleaned his thombstone, pulled the grass from his foot stone and placed a bouquet on top. It’s been 15 years and you still think of them every single day.
Thank you for this. My soul mate was murdered in 2004, and I still have these moments. It never gets easier. You just get better at hiding the pain and putting the feelings aside for a better time to feel them...
hi, can i ask what heppend to this woman?
@@adamosantonio1499Kindly- That's a really personal question, wouldnt recommend asking ppl that when they express a great trauma theyve endured...Your curiosity doesnt justify pressing for more info..
Omg. I have this feeling about my brother every. single. day. It was June 21, 2011, and it feels the exact same as it did then. It’s like a realization over and over and over again that he’s gone. It’s weird, but I wouldn’t change it for anything, except seeing him walk in the room. Ugh, my heart
Lean on Jesus❤️
Jesus doesn’t do shit. You have to do all the work.
I just lost my Dad on April 6th. I know that he's waiting for me on the other side for as long as it takes for me to get there. Knowing this gives me comfort. 🤗
Coping with grief as an atheist must hit very differently at some level, the knowing part you mentioned from which they can't gain any comfort and peace.. I'm in a situation where I truly don't know how long my mom has to live and knowing I'll meet her again is what keeps me afloat
I’m not much of a hugger, but I crave his hugs so much. Every time I can physically feel the need for a hug, I only can imagine his. My emotions turn into a physical longing. My bf and I were talking about our wedding the night before he passed. I ache from my new reality knowing allll the plans we had, he had, and I had are now impossible. I am so sorry you have gone through this hurt of losing your person. xx
He was a beautiful young man. My heart breaks for you, but I can see you’re working very hard on pushing through, and helping others along the way! You’re a blessing girl❤️
I lost my only son 2 years ago on March 23, 2021 in a motorcycle accident. My baby boy was 21 years old and he died 2 days before my birthday. We have always had such a strong mother/son bond and my grief is so unbearable and I am barely hanging on. I feel physically sick all the time now. This is really really bad and I’m so stuck. I’ve tried talking to a professional but it didn’t help me. It’s kind of difficult for anyone to even begin to understand unless they themselves have lost a child. This is hell on earth. It’s a life sentence and it’s killing me
My heart hurts to read this. I am so very sorry. You were so lucky to be his mama. Have you heard of EMDR therapy? I don’t really know how to explain how it’s done, so look it up on the internet/TH-cam video. It’s a therapy specifically for trauma. If you decide to do it, make sure you go to someone who specializes in it. I have my first appointment tomorrow.
My mum was exactly the same after losing my sister 12yrs ago, 2 weeks after my mums birthday and 1 week off her own 32nd bday, over those years my mum has blown me away with her resilience, she now celebrates my sisters life on her commemorative day and thanks her for the 2 precious gifts my sister left my, her 2 kids which my mum is raising.
I truly hope you can 1 day do the same, you just need to remember the good times and thank the lord that you had the time that you did with your precious boy
You will only feel relief that you will see him once again when you talk to God heart to heart
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Ur son so lucky to have mother like u
I lost my best friend of 25yrs in October, and this really hit home. I can be feeling fine, & then just out of nowhere I’m sobbing again. Grief is overwhelming me…..
I'm so sorry ❤❤❤❤
Hugs 😢❤ (kathy)
Ive never experienced this yet i felt all the pain and cried. Im so sorry.
You did not feel “all the pain”
I lost my younger brother to a drug overdose 3 years ago March 12th. I feel this every single day. I dont imagine it will ever stop. It is my only and sincerest hope that i will see him in heaven one day. It will never not hurt to know every single day of my life from march 12th 2020 ill never hug my little bear again.
It’s hard to want to go on when you know they’ll never be here to see..
you will absolutely be able to hug them again. It will be a joyous reunion, and you'll cry a river of happy tears.
She’s talking about someone that died😢 😔
@@Hey-its-Cait ummm....so am I. If you don't believe you will see your loved ones again when you die, I feel very sorry for you. Regardless of what you believe, she will have an incredible reunion when it's her time.
Recovery from loss is possible. My husband was ill for 10 yrs. 2 really rough ones and I cared for him. Knowing doesn’t make it easier. It will be 4 yrs Nov 1. First year was hell aa Covid kept me secluded. I grieved per phone with kids and Mother. I prayed. Everyone prayed. GODs promise to heal my heart was true. I read my Bible in a year. Played Christian Music. I still miss him. It isnt painful as before. As Christians of strong faith I know we will see each other again. ✝️♥️🙏
I lost my dad in COVID it's been two years and I don't think it's getting any easier grief is getting even tougher to deal with every day it's a fight to get up and live 💔
I'm experiencing this. Last night something happened and my first thought was I need to call mom. It hit me so hard I started crying😢 I know this will be with me forever but the pain and hurt is really unbearable. I can't go to her house bc I expect to see her there.😢😢💔
I would love to hear your testimony...Love and light
Baby girl,it does get better ,,don't forget the great times and know you will LIVE and LOVE AGAIN ,my sweet girl ❤❤❤❤❤🇺🇸
I’m grieving now and it’s been 17 months since both parents died!!! I’m not okay and not sure if I ever will be!!!
Stumbled on your account..... Sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss .
& you true pain ❤
My heart understands
Every time car passes, I remember I still kind of think like: ‘I’d jump in front of it just for my mom to be alive again, even without me’.
I understand that completely.
She wouldn’t want you to do that or trade places with you, but I understand 😢
@@London2258 that feeling sucked, it’s slowly getting away, but it’s still not completely disappear like her on a warm sunday night.
@@kristinbaird3851 tysm for your kind words, I was around 17/18 that time so my mind just went the extra miles trying to express how much I love her.
@@peonymagenta5139 I try everything to not think about her and yet she is on my mind all the time... I think I can’t even remember what she looked like... i don’t know what’s happening... but I get you
With a saving faith in Jesus we will have hugs forever. Don't wait .
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It's been a few months since this was posted...but hope this helps.
My mom passed away in June 2020 and it's the hardest thing I've ever experienced.
Yes I cried every day but without realizing it I also would journal every day and would talk to her thru my journaling.
Having a close friend/cousin/sister/sibling..etc helps a ton. Talk to them every day and keep busy. It'll help and eventually it gets easier.
I'm so so sorry for your loss ❤
My husband of 20 years passed last August to an aggressive throat cancer. Here it is 9 months later, and it feels like I'm just now beginning to realize he's gone. Everyone assumes I got over it - worked thru it - but I feel like the sadness and heaviness of what happened is finally starting to hit me. I need their support, but feel strange asking after they all were so "there for me" in the beginning... But I wasn't needing their support then - - how do I maneuver this?
Its been 22 months for me. I understand exactly what you are saying. Its like the reality gets more real every day. I think I was in a fog (I call it a coma) the whole first year. I dont remember much of it except the pain. Now~ in the second year, reality is hitting like a ton of bricks. No body wants to hear it anymore~ they’ve gotten past it so I guess they assume I have. I dont ask for comfort anymore because I dont want to hear the lectures. I have a grief therapist and God. Other than that~ I am grieving alone. Its hard, lonely, hollow but what choice do we have but to keep going til we get to die and see them again. Its what I pray for. Prayers for you💜
@@lokilover5897 I agree. The loneliness is so much that it feels like it's enveloping you.
So sorry 😢 I don't know you but sending a big Hug...
These moments hurt so bad. Every thought is like a stab. Well, I pray you know you can go to Jesus. He not only has salvation, but He can give you the Holy Spirit, the comforter 🩷
If they were right with God they're waiting in heaven to give you the most amazing hug ever in eternity ❤
WOW! SO VERY 4:16AM... WOW, SO IRONIC that I happened to come across this video! My father passed away and I can't sleep... I miss him, and I can't stop thinking of him😢
This hit hard...lost my great grandpa a few years back..i was still a small kid but i held his hand while he passed, will never forget that feeling. I just know He's happy in Heaven with God now and I'll see him again.
My other grandpa has cancer in his spine marrow (think that's what you call it) and I've watched him become sick, better, healed, 4 years remission, back to the doctors and the cancer is back. Its been 6/7 months now since it's been back and he has been in and out of the hospital. My grandma is dying inside seeing her husband like this, but at least they are spending his last few years....months....days...together. only the Lord knows how long we still have with him. I will never forget the day they came back from the doctors with the news that its back. Haven't cried that much in a while. But God knows the plans and I trust Him. He knows what's best. I know most people don't believe in Him and it's fine. But He saved me and I know that whatever He does. Whether He takes my grandpa with Him to paradise or keeps him on earth, that's His choice. He knows what's best.
You're in my prayers and thoughts. It never will get easier, but with every step you grow stronger. ❤
1 million percent!!! ALL THE TIME!
How did she lose him?
That is so true - I lost my husband three years ago and it has never been the same since then!😪
I lost my best friend to a fentanyl overdose, and it’s hard to miss somebody and wish that you could call them or give them a hug or when pictures pop up that you didn’t even think you had any more it never gets easier it just gets more manageable keep your head up I’m sorry for your loss like someone said in the comments lean on Jesus❤
I will always love them no matter what
grief is love with nowhere to go
Yup 6 years since i lost my dad and i still say to myself.... Hey whats that called.... Ill call dad he'll remember.... Wait. CNt do that
If every you need prayers ❤ reach out
If only to know you are not alone. ✝
Your video rain .
Crushed my 💔
I freakin love & hate rain 😢. If this makes sense
Please share with us how your beautiful husband came to pass so young?
You not alone, I lost my mom a month ago and is so hard and painful. I miss her everyday. But you know something my mom and your brother doesn't want to see us suffering. I'll be praying for you, because now we have to learn to live without them, even though they always live in our hearts 💕.
Yes perspective is everything… I like when you said they don’t want to see us suffering… it shifts your mindset a bit x
What happened, love? So very young. 😢 SO TRULY, TRULY SORRY for your loss.
Wait right before you had that moment you preemptively new and filmed yourself? Gtfo
Not in the physical life honey. But there is a forever life after this one
My dad died when I was 18. I’m 21 now. This feeling/realization hits often.
I can't enjoy wine anymore. I can't enjoy a lot of things anymore.
What things can you enjoy? Let’s get your mind thinking about those instead 💝
This is sooo true😞
That’s the sneakiness of grief. You think you’re kinda doing “ok” for the moment at hand, and then BAM! It hits .. when you weren’t expecting it😞
I lost my husband 10yrs ago in September..we had been married for 22 yrs. We had 4 yr old twin boys..
I'm still struggling so damn hard. I miss my husband every day. I hate that our boys will never know how amazing their Daddy was first hand...they will always hear stories of him but never know him themselves.
I was 9 when my father was shot and killed in "West Germany" at the time... December 3, 1980...
I don't know what music he liked, his favorite color, his favorite food...so many little things people take for granted... If you don't like your parent (I have cut my mother out of my life because of the toxicity) at least you know the parent and have a choice. Not fair not having a choice to know a parent.
My beloved husband Gerald passed away in August of 2022. I have been lost, numb and scatterbrained ever since. Please help me learn how to do what you're doing. I feel it could really help me get through this
The one who only knows the level of that pain you’re experiencing right now is GOD. And he never takes his eyes of you. He’ll heal that unexplainable pain! Till then tho thru all the process you’ll know him better than you do now.
Keep pushing my sis
I was in similar situation in 2016, I still don’t have any word enough form me to explain the hurt … it took a huge part of me, n still …. But as for my relationship with God, I got benefited from that season of my life. Cuz I wouldn’t let God coming in to my life if i wasn’t in that kinda time.
So He got you! Just trust me!
God has plans for you!
He still watches all those tears … There will come another season that he’ll dry’em n gives you a beautiful smile!
Some day you’ll be testifying how you survived this to others… someday you’ll be a strength to others who’ll walk on the same path.
Keep lifting your head up❤🙏🏾🙌
My soul mate passed away last year... I've been struggling too
I'm so sorry to ask but was (is) he your brother? Or son? Or even husband? I'm so sorry to ask. To me it looked like your son at first now I wonder if he's your brother? I'm so sorry babygirl. You are so so strong. Idk if I ever could be... I hope so. Xoxo
This is where grieving in the spiritual and physical realms can get a little confusing... But let's do it right, nonetheless.
You are not alone. Song's are what is bad for me. I hear a line in a song and automatically think of my son who passed of colon cancer in 2021 and I end up crying. He was 37 and I was his main care giver, we had a lot of wonderful conversations. I still talk to him everyday. Also I have always believe that a good cry is good for you. I said to him once that I just wanted to crawl into his bed and just hug him but I know I would never get up. We laughed, then a few weeks later he said "remember that thing we talked about," I didn't remember what he meant, he said "about you crawling into the bed and hugging me". I crawled into his King size bed and we slept for about 4 hours, which was good for him.
Which company does she work for ?
you really call yourself a grief counselor and then proceed to upload a short with something “relatable” like “hey you remember this person/pet? you’ll never hug them again”
I hope your degree gets revoked.
I lost my mama in September and my niece in March I work from from and do this several times a week.
I am truly sorry for the heartbreak you endure. I lost my mom Nov 2020. As the time passes, most days I'm fine and then there's days it just hits me and it's hard. Miss her terribly. I know our losses are different in heart, but I ask the universal guides to bring you more days of peace than heartache. So many don't understand true loss until its something that breaks the heart and only time can kind of heal. Sending love to you
Yes I feel you 😢 my mother past away year ago but I just can’t believe that 😢 I can’t go to her grave and can’t stop to think about what else I can do for her when she was sick 😢
I Lost my brother in 2022 he inspired me to be a chef because he was a chef he cooked beautiful food every now and then I think of him when I'm cooking that's how I keep my memories of my brother
To my best friend who passed away. we really were sisters grief sucks but those memories can never be erased and to my mother in law I'll always protect your son just like how you would love you
I lost my nephew wish I loved like my own so. In 2005 he was only 15 car accident they guy just came from the war in Irak my nephew was riding a bike day light Brooklyn NY is hard out here I had bury many that I love am now 54 and I know that I know that that once they were alive like me now and then they die like once I will be.. dead. We have to all love each other no matter what at least the one that knows truth and will prevail standing strong !
Hits out of nowhere sometimes. A grief counselor might help.
You will when u reunite on the other side. Until then, he will be your watcher and every now and then he will gently kiss your neck with the whisper of a breeze on a beautiful day. God bless.
it's very coincidental, the camera was at the right time to record the sadness that came suddenly. 😟
I've lost so many people the one that hurt the most is my girlfriend
I know how your feeling it's so hard to know you can never see or touch smell or hold them ever again
Sending you love my love. ❤❤
Me and my sons mother split up a few years ago, she broke up with me and still never got a real answer as to what went wrong, i know its not the same as someone passing but i am stuck with a continuance reminder that i will never be able to tell her how much i love her or to just have her by my side again. Everyday is a battle on the inside
Sorry who is it that passed for this young lady? God bless
Breathe for you & him.
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You never forget,but your heart never fully heals
I miss my pop, wish i could show him the man ive become. Its all bc of him.
Go to a Thanatologist, it will super help y'all ❤
I lost my little brother a year ago. I fell so lost and angry
Ohhhhh Soooo True! And heart wrenching😞
Grief can hit so randomly. 😢
I’ve never seen some one with so many subs from three shorts
yes this is the worst part wishing just one more hug
My grandma died a year ago and I still can hear her voice in my head
Waaaah waaaaaah! I need everyone to pity me😢
Are you taking new clients.
Biggest hugs to anyone reading this ❤
Omg yes this is the worst when it hits from nowhere
Super relatable ❤
Tell your story!
What to do if you're in so much grief that you're suicidal?
I know you are not asking me, but when it gets that bad for me I lay down in my bed, close my eyes and remember my mommy until I can hear her voice in my head. And I let myself cry and weep. And then I thank God for allowing me to have such an incredibly strong, loving relationship with my mommy that I am able to feel pain this severe. It is a gift to have experienced love so immense that the loss of it is incomprehensible. Luckily Jesus gave his life for us all, so that my mom can live in a painless eternity. I will pray for you. I'm so sorry.
Are you in the UK? If so please call The Samaritans. It does get better believe me, it takes time but you will get there. Take care of yourself, grief can make you feel exhausted so its important to get lots of rest but also exercise, fresh air and a healthy diet.
The person/people you have lost would not wish for you to be unhappy- imagine if it were the other way around- you would want your loved one to be happy and healthy ❤
@@gillianm9367 first of all thanks for acknowledging, I never thought anyone would ever notice my comment. I am not in UK. It has been a year and I have tried almost everything. It feels like I am just breathing and there is not much left inside. I am trying until I give up.
@@readingintheshade9478 How beautiful it is that you are lifting me up when you yourself going through a lot. I feel you. Thanks for caring. I won't forget this.
@@cyaasoon is there an equivalent to the Samaritans where you live ? I think they are also in U.S and other countries.
Have you spoken to a doctor? You may benefit from a course of anti depressants in addition to counselling.
Many people get stuck following a bereavement and a year isn't actually all that long- I would say it was a full 2 years before I stopped feeling emotional after my mother died.
I've since lost my sister and most recently my father and the worst thing is when you want to tell them something and then you suddenly remember they are gone.
Your doctor may be able to refer you to a self- help group where you could speak to people who have gone through similar experiences.
Something which has helped me tremendously was reading Anita Moorjani's book about her near death experience. There are also lots of interviews on TH-cam with people who have had NDEs and I think watching these may help also.
Please don't give up on yourself- your grief is proof of how deeply you loved your lost one. Please confide in someone that you trust💗
I’m sorry for your loss beauty 😢❤
When it hits it hits like a truck.
Well…you can.. in heaven❤
I feel your pain i know how hard it is..😔😢
This definitely is needed. Sometimes, we get stuck I'm life when we are severely grieving. I lost my Dad in July.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in August 2021. I didn’t make it in time to the hospital to say goodbye. I miss him dearly and have many fond memories.
R.I.P ❤❤❤❤❤
@@nataliamiaomiaos1205 💙💙💙💙
...mmmm I know this pain.
I lost the love of my life, my soul mate, my husband in 2017. I still cry almost every day. 💔😭
It is hard. 12 yrs.
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I understand this
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God bless all of you in these comments who lost your loves. I don't know any of you but I know the pain. I don't think it gets better honestly, I think we just do better pushing through ❤❤
Ugh 😢all too well