I'm Back- and We Need to Talk.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- An honest chat. Please be kind xx
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You have several thousand ‘family members’, in some sense, that have always been hoping you were ok. What a wonderful feeling to see you back with Nick and us…
Welcome back Terysa. Your personal well-being and your relationship with Nick is far more important than TH-cam productions. Take time to ease yourself back into your sailing routine, and ENJOY.
Back when I used to practice martial arts our sensei told us “You can’t judge another person’s pain” - I’ve found this to be a useful touch point in my own experience with mental and physical health.
Please don’t ever feel that you have to downplay how you feel, and the challenges you’ve been dealing with.
{hug}
You do get a "feel" for it though.
Welcome back. Nick tried his best. We all felt your pain with Seawind. We all missed you
Seeing this and then Nikki and Jason’s latest it’s just so clear just how difficult it is to be so unsettled. It takes a toll. Praying for all the wonderful things for both of you!
Also Billie and Sierra have talked a bit about the unsettled time waiting for their new boat. And from Ran Sailing and MJ Sailing you can and even Sampson boat Company, you can see that folks building boats themselves need a break from the "slow process" of getting a new boat.
I am also reminded of Maya from Sailing Magic Carpet. She's mentioned a few times now how hard the rebuild of their Cape George is because it has left her little time for her creative pursuits.
I’m glad you took the time to do what is right for you and hope you enjoy the start of your new adventure!
Ditto on that:) Hope the new boat is a good fit (looks fantastic). Weirdly I prefer the phone footage to the dedicated camera footage.
We missed you. Nick kept us posted and anticipating the changes to come. We're ready to go cruising with you two again soon. Welcome home.
We miss you and glad to see you. Can’t wait to go cruising with you guy again.
I enjoyed Nick's posts on the boat build and life in Vietnam. He did a great job. His enthusiasm was so genuine and so refreshing in contrast to other channels I watch where the strain of waiting for the new boat and the struggle to generate content is clearly taking its toll. I agree that towards the last few months as delivery was delayed I kept wondering how he maintained his enthusiasm. Maybe the beautiful woodwork and craftsmanship was enough. I'm really looking forward to you both being back on board and seeing the boat in all her glory.
We definitely missed your smiling face and are glad you're back. You're not the only one who was less than enthusiastic about the never ending boat building content. I also understand that the heat & humidity of summer in Vietnam is almost unbearable. Lets go sailing :)
I was fine with the boat building content at first. It was an excellent counterpoint to Tally Ho and Leo's traditional build. Yet while Leo's build continues to fascinate, I found myself not so interested in this build as the episodes continued to pile up. I'm glad I watched. I'm glad its over.
Time for some adventure. Time for some sailing.
boat building was painful. quickly stopped watching.
@@FeelItRising I dutifully watched each and every episode. Perhaps not with the degree of attention one might expect. 😉
Just wanting to say: TEREYSA: What a powerful gift you have given us with this video. Thank you for that, for your honesty, your vulnerability, For sharing your raw truth, and equally your gratitude for the privilege you find yourself in. Tears fell, listening to you speak. I think it's hard to overestimate the impact of the pandemic on us all, of our habit to isolate, and our difficulty finding stride since then. May the new boat be everything you dream of, and may it bring you and Nick together into the same joyful realm, where you can explore and discover the world together in this next new chapter.
I, too, got teary. We love you, and look forward to seeing you each week. Happy sailing!
Thank you for your honesty Therysa. I feel we are honoured to have been taken into your confidence.
I don't underestimate the toll that feeding a weekly content machine would take on you and your relationship. Good on you for taking time out when you felt you needed to. Wishing you and Nick all the best for what comes next.
Thrilled for you Therysa, I too was completely uninterested in the boat build technicalities but nevertheless enjoyed seeing the progress and glimpses of life in Vietnam. Now let’s get sailing cruising exploring and enjoying the sundowners 🎉
Burnout is a real thing. I can't imagine being without my home and a firm base for that long. I'm so, so glad that you two were able to navigate that without losing hold of one another and your dream. Your man loves you, Ms Terysa. We could see that every time he spoke of you but the day he spoke of having you home... well, Nick does brusque. And Nick does technical and brainy and energetic. But we don't see tender out of him. That day, we saw tender. He's so happy to have you back and have a home together with you, on the water and adventuring again. Who knew he was a closet mush? lol I know it's been a few days since this, so I hope she's all you both ever dreamed of. Welcome home!
😂🎈 brusque 👀 I’m a damn pendant 🎸
@@robinspat autocorrect is a meanie. LOL
Stress is stress and we all suffer from life's stresses in different ways. Whatever you need to do to take care of yourself and what life throws at you is up to you ( and Nick ) Look after yourself and do whatever you need to make life good and happy for yourself. Nice to see you back on cam again. 😀
Hey Therysa, you don’t owe us any apologies or any explanations. Nevertheless I was relieved to hear you didn’t find the boat build exciting because neither did I!
Very much looking forward to the next chapter of RR2 and taking us on the journey.
Being in a privileged position does not mean that you are immune from life's stresses. Look after yourselves and I hope moving onto the new boat goes well
Took a huge amount of courage to step up and say that...saying what you experienced and what you feel. You are one incredibly strong woman. The good thing is...that chapter is over, and the boat is ready, and so...I imagine...are you.
Go live the live you have worked so hard for and waited so long for. You certainly have earned it...and thanks for sharing this with us.
It is a pleasure to have you back. I agree with you regarding the build. I did check in most weeks but it really was not the content that I was interested in. I am excited to see you two as a partnership again and to be at sea!! I would bet that the vast majority of people are just happy to see you back!!
We're glad all is ok and you are home with Nick. Now! Let's get the party started and show us your new boat!! I'm so excited to see her all decked out and on the water. Welcome home Terysa.
Glad you’re back! Just remember that you invited us into your life - we’re the privileged ones. You don’t owe us anything. No explanation is necessary. We’re just thankful to have you back and to be able to follow you once again on your journey.
Welcome back Tyresa, it's lovely to see you again. I'm sorry that you felt the way you did, and I hope that is all behind you now, but incase it isn't, please look after yourself and take your time, enjoy the next few months with your new home getting to know her and put the camera away a little more often, we'll survive! Remember, quality over quantity. Stay Safe & Fair Winds!!
So happy to see you back in front of the camera Teresa. No need to apologize for needing to re-charge your batteries, so to speak. Looking forward to the new content on your beautiful new cat.
Welcome back, it's great to reconnect. Honestly, I've also found myself less immersed in the building process lately. What truly excites me is envisioning you two embarking on your dream voyage, sailing the world in that impressive vessel. The fact that this lifestyle can lead to burnout doesn't surprise me - I'm no stranger to it myself and often need to switch gears, just like you've done by returning to your Australian roots. Australia is truly an amazing country.
Your candid reflections resonate with me, and this juncture feels special - a pivotal point where you're faced with a choice. These moments, when you tread the less-traveled path, are the ones I cherish most in life. So, go ahead and forge those unforgettable memories. You have my support and admiration. Much love to both of you.
Glad to see you on camera and back with the boat. Thanks for sharing your story. You didn't owe us anything, glad you found a way to take care of your self. Will be so happy to see you and Nick sailing again on your new home. Cheers
So happy to see you back Terysa!! I love the dynamic you and Nick have (you are adorable and hilarious together), and it hasn't been the same without you. Super excited for the new chapter!
Thanks for the update. The channel is not the same without you whether sailing, travel, construction or whatever. I often wondered how Nick survived the ordeal there. I think your decision to be home made wonderful sense. The next chapter seems to be back to what we all enjoy and is worthy of celebration for your return and for Nick’s endurance. May you both enjoy this dream!.... Lots of work, fun and experiences to have and share.
So glad for your honesty, it must have been a tough few years, with COVID and the seemingly never ending delays in the boat build up to this point. Now you and Nick are back together about to start this new chapter of your lives together. Wishing you a very happy reunion, with fair winds and following seas. ⛵️
I think it's great he waited to go on board for you together!
Sometimes we all need a break from this crazy life and it's circumstances! Glad you are back and looking forward to you all enjoying the new boat!
We all need a break now and again. Hopefully, this next chapter will be awesome. I'm looking forward to seeing you and Nick showing us the world from Ruby Rose 2
It's wonderful to see you back! We were getting ever so slightly bored with listening to the dentist's paroxysms of delight over bits of well executed joinery. Now that you're back, we can look forward to proper sailing lifestyle content!👍
Great comment lol.
Honest and understandable, as a fellow Aussie I get that and I admire those traits - you're brave for being so open and candid and I hope this next chapter is fulfilling, adventurous and fun.Bon voyage 🙂
The last two years have been a F'd-up time warp for just about everybody. Thank goodness you had a place to go and the strength of your relationship with Nick to go there and not lose any ground with him or with your sea crew. I can't imagine it has been a day-at-the-beach for either of you. I'm so glad to see your face and I anticipate seeing you in the light of Nick's eye as you sail together again (as it should be)
Well, I have to say that it is amazing to see you again! Thank you for the clarity and update. I am with you, I am ready to see the purpose of the boat, Sailing, and definitrly looking forward to your travels. The great thing is that the vessel is floating and oh so close to letting loose of land. Fair Winds and Following Seas to you and Nick when you are released to start sailing again. Can't wait!!
We’re so happy to have you back and for you and Nick to finally have a home again! I can only imagine how unsettling and stressful that these last few years have been. Just want to give you a hug!
Lovely to see you back, I kind of dropped off the channel when the actual sailing adventures stopped and the boat building started. Keep well 😊⛵️⛵️⛵️
Welcome back. It’s good to hear you made your well being a priority. Thank you for sharing.
We are so happy you are back. We have to take care of our minds, hearts, and souls first in order to move forward. Thank you for sharing! You did an amazing job editing! Safe travels!
Terysa, you are a fantastic lady! Welcome back. You have been greatly missed! And so looking forward to seeing you and Nick back out on the water... Congratulations on Ruby Rose 2 being ready for the countries you two will be sailing her to. Sending big hugs. GOD Bless You both.
Bless you Terysa. That was brave of you to be so candid, I hope you heal well, and all of us out here in the Ruby Rose multiverse will be watching out for you.. xx
Welcome back Terysa, absolutely you makes this channel special. As much as i am sure we all appreciate Nicks amazing boating knowledge and skills, your smile an commentary is the cream on top. 😎
I live in the Mojave Desert and will never live the sailing life. Your channel has given me a fun way to peer into another life, thank you guys. You both make incredible content. It's off to sailing again! Your channel is great entertainment and I'm looking forward to new episodes.
It’s nice to have you back girl. It was a long build. We’ve seen every glue joint and shelf in the galley, every bulk head, water tank, water maker and light being installed and all the electrical gages. Then they sanded everything nine times and painted all of it ten times. So, let’s go sailing. I think Nick missed you. I know we did. See you next week.
stumbling across your channel during covid was an absolute life saver for me. the two of you allowed me aboard your incredible life and gave me hope for all the adventures that awaited me when life got back to normal. I am so glad you got the time you needed to heal. welcome back… and thank you for reminding me how amazing life can be.
Good to have you back. Everyone needs a break, and now we can finally have a break from Nick... 😉
Enjoy your new home.
You sold your boat and were displaced for two years! Who wouldn’t be affected? so happy for the new adventure you’re starting out on with the new boat!enjoy!
Oh my god you're human welcome back
Sending you so much love. Thank you for your authenticity. Your hindsight can be our foresight. May joy, happiness and gratitude fill your heart again. ❤
Just happy to see you back Terysa and excited to see this new chapter begin.
So happy to see you back.. Teresa … can’t wait to see your new adventures on your brand new home! ⛵️
You are the primary reason for watching the channel. It hasn't been the same without you. Burnout I understand, believe you me. My thoughts were much darker and I stand relieved you are back and "restless". Congratulations on the next chapter.
Sending big hugs, its always important to look after your mental health. Enjoy your first footsteps on Ruby Rose 2, I'm looking forward to seeing the two of you sailing again soon.
Glad to see your lovely face and looking forward to your new adventures. Sailing videos were escapism for many of us during the pandemic. I have gotten tired of all the sailing channels becoming boat builds, repairs and fluff nonsense.
So lovely to see you Terysa. Like many here, we missed you. Sounds like you made some brave choices and for all the right reasons.
Bring on the new chapter of Ruby Rose 2. We cannot wait!
Glad you are back! Ruby Rose 2 needs you! Enjoy your new beautiful boat!😊
Great to see you back. I stopped watching quite some time ago, I was bored with the boat building content. I just happened to see you here. Look forward to watching your usual fantastic cruising content👍
HIIIIIIiIIIIIII!!!!!!!!!!
We missed you, we love you!
I’m just back too! I wasn’t passionate as a viewer watching a boat build so this is my first vlog I’m watching in I don’t know how long. Welcome back, it may take a little time for you to adjust I’m sure you know that. I look forward to watching you both cruising on RR2 xx
So very glad to see you back… I hope Ruby Rose 2 is all that You and Nick could possibly want!
I can see your pain on your face still, and I know I would have struggled to cope too. I am wishing you every happiness moving forward. Love to you,
Nice to see you back
Thank you for your insights, welcome back on screen, and much love to you! ❤
WHATEVER YOU HAVE BEEN DOING, YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL ‼️ YOUR HUSBAND IS A VERY LUCKY MAN ‼️ STAY SAFE, THRILLED YOU ARE BACK‼️⛵️ Vinny 🇺🇸
Welcome back 😊, and wish you both fair winds and following seas.
Great to have you back and looking forward to seeing you both on RR2. Just a note about stress/burnout: take it from someone who ignored the signs and ended up in a very bad place - you have to do what you've gotta do to make things right for you. So well done you for working it out and realising what you needed to do. Nick has done a grand job for the channel - I certainly know a lot more about cats now! Well done, good luck for the handover and best of all - ENJOY! 👍
Well said!! Up through my '50s I never thought stress caused any health issues. Then in one day I found out the horrible truth. So good on you taking time.
Glad you are doing well and can continue your adventure. Stay well and enjoy this next chapter:)) John 5:24
Hi Terysa thanks for being vulnerable and going there first. By doing so you give others the opportunity to follow. Burn out is a real thing and if not managed can lead to real depression. Take care of your self and I hope the passion and joy of being on the water helps heal your soul.
To be honest, if I never see another boat building video in my life, it'll still be too soon. Sorry friends , I had to tune out quite a while ago, Im glad this one caught my attention as Im ready to rejoin your journeys.
Same
Agree
look at this shelf and this locker! it can hold stuff
Epic
Same for me, tuning in again
Terysa. Thank you for sharing. You have been missed. I truly hope you are well and looking forward to see you back on the water and in a good place. Be well and take care.
I am glad you are back, thank your for your honesty. I know what you been. I am happy you are back. very best wishes to you both Safe Sailing.
I've lived in a van traveling Europe for two years with a husband and two dogs. It's not always easy not having a traditional home. The limbo feeling is real and needs addressed. Sharing your experience is helpful to many! Welcome back!
Great to see you back! We are all ready for the next chapter. Apology accepted 😉😎
I understand the situation you were in and I think you did the right things. Now is the time to enjoy the fruit of your patience and labour. Cheers
Terysa, I’ve always believed life is meant to be enjoyed. And if you’re not enjoying it, you’re maybe doing something wrong. Sounds like you took the right path. You did what you needed to do to enjoy life during a major transition in life, which is pretty impressive. Looking forward to seeing RR2 splash and yours and Nicks adventures on her. Nick has done a great job documenting the build, now time to get back to documenting life.
Well done Teresa! But I personally think you don't owe anyone explanation. Nice to see that you're back, enjoy the new boat.
🙌🙌🙌🙌 start of the RR2 chapter! Limbo isn't a good place to be, especially when you have plans, but, it's very nearly over!
Great to see you again , I think most would be able to relate to all you have said..The next chapter should be fantastic. Have fun
I'm so glad to see you back! You and Nick are the first sailors I followed, and I can't wait to watch your next adventures!
I can understand how you would feel. Very happy you’re back!
Go home find a new man, and start a family. and have a new life.
First Ruby Rose video I have watched in a while,
Welcome back!
Glad you're back. Enjoy the posts. Enjoy your new home.
You have been missed. So glad you are back. I know Nick has missed you as well as many others. Congratulations on Ruby Rose 2 and just keep smiling. You are amazing.....happy reunion you two.
Well done Terysa! it's great that you are back filming again, and putting some difficult times behind you. The silence and calm of that first anchor on RR2 will be a wonderful start to a new chapter! Take care.
All you can do is try it and see. You will know. Good luck to you both!
13 minutes in and you've said nothing.
Noone is immune from stress ,it's a horrible thing, good to see you back,you've been missed greatly, hope the new vessel and adventures will rekindle your spirits
Good luck ,Fair Winds and take care
Great to see you back and I reckon some of us have been on that restless journey too. Good reflection on identifying what wasn't working and took a break to reset but the time has come to get out on the big blue again. Just as excited as you guys are for your next adventures, which I'm sure is echoed throughout the comments.
It is clear that Nick became very focussed on the build. In the nicest way (i am subscribed and did watch them all) he produced the worlds longest seawind advert!. It is good to see you back. Please make some sailing content soon. The boat tour etc can wait. .
It’s great to have you back. I have enjoyed watching the new build but that is the engineer in me. I’m sure there are many subscribers that prefer the sailing content. I look forward to seeing you in front of the camera and watching you and Nick explore the world in your new home.
Good to see you back. I enjoy your channel and have missed your contributions.
i unsubscribed. ugh
I totally get it. The last 12 months have been "the perfect storm" for you: emerging from the isolation of the pandemic into the isolation of the delayed boat build, the isolation of an apartment in HCM city, the tinged feelings of personal isolation when one's partner's track diverges some.. after running parallel for so long, not feeling attuned with your product and thus isolated from your audience. You did the right thing returning to Australia, reconnecting with something else, so that you have recharged the batteries for the next chapter. The start will not be easy. Handovers of a new build , especially of a newish design, never go quite as planned. But you will get there. Best from everyone on S/V Uhuru
What I didn’t hear was how much she missed Nik.
I can empathize with the feelings of needing the stability of a home base, being in a place where you feel you belong and are loved and having a fulfilling sense of purpose. Glad you are back, be kind to yourself. We are cheering you both (and RR2) on! 🎉
I watched the first 8 minutes but i still had no idea what you were talking about other than First world problems, Man Up!
Nice seeing you back, hope you’re doing good. Take care of Nick he’s a good guy.
Many thanks for your videos you make us happy
Abdulla
Any growth of Children or Channels, Gardens, Trees, or business or Relationships come with challenges and uncertainties. As Ruby Rose was the first Sailing Vlog/ Channel I began to follow shortly before my Retirement....and as a Retiree, (Yes, following even before Saling La Vagabond AND SV Delos) I often wondered where is Terysa has got off to, also mindful if it was us, viewers and followers business or concern, it will be shared. I am not one to pry into the personal life of Creators so I never inquired as to where Terysa has gone, knowing that someday all will be revealed. Words can not express my happiness that this day has come to be brought up to date. Look forward immensely to watching this new chapter of Ruby Rose unfold! GOOD ON YA! You, Nick and Ruby Rose 2! Much Love!
Meh.
Welcome back! Let the new adventure begin 🎉
Yea!! I can’t wait either. Great to see you once again.