it’s been a moody time: adventures in emotional regulation

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  • @handitover.
    @handitover. ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I really love your hair these days, and that vest + bandana combination??? so good????? I mean this in the kindest most supportive way possible, to me these looks make me feel like you'd be a super cute character in the 2003 strawberry shortcake series??? Like your name would be like Cranberry Crisp or something and you'd pull up to strawberry's house on your little bike and help her decorate her house haha

    • @allyson--
      @allyson-- ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰 omg so cute 🍓

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      the way that my last name is literally Berry too like i have to agree i'd be perfect. when olivia wilde makes the live adaption i would like to be up for casting

  • @sylviaodhner
    @sylviaodhner ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I want to hear about your crushes.

    • @K_Rae_Bee
      @K_Rae_Bee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @beezeisacommunist8205
      @beezeisacommunist8205 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i have maybe talked too much about them on my patreon where i am sheltered from the assuming gaze of the public

  • @OG2NV92
    @OG2NV92 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ur new hair style looks great 😊

  • @NFSMAN50
    @NFSMAN50 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When Katherine uploads, the world becomes a happier and calmer place!! It has been a wild summer for many!! Sorry for what you have experienced friend, hope you feel better soon!!

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OK ENCOURAGEMENTTTT

  • @mosssaecker4895
    @mosssaecker4895 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm in my feeling bad state of life right now too. This video came at the perfect time!

  • @WormOnARock
    @WormOnARock ปีที่แล้ว +5

    heavily relate, sometimes i know pretty much exactly what i need to do in order to get out of a funk but still just don't feel like doing it and end up putting it off for no great reason:'))

  • @prernavinod
    @prernavinod ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Every single time you post a vlog and are feeling things, I'm somehow feeling the same things?? Your videos always make me feel comforted and understood!

  • @astridrojass
    @astridrojass ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ty for this

  • @heartquaked
    @heartquaked ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I quit my job in April (largely inspired by you… thank you) and starting the job search is actually soul crushing

  • @swedishfolkrap3175
    @swedishfolkrap3175 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I rlly love that feeling of emotional deja vu bc (as an enneagram 4) it's an opportunity to rlly introspect and continue growing an understanding of myself, sometimes as a reminder that I'm not an enigma-- life feels simple, cyclical in a relieving way.
    been in quite the slump lately so rlly glad to have seen this! ❤

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      emotional deja vu has been HITTINGGGG lately especially as i enter a similar stage as i was in 2 years ago with moving. i think it opened up a familiar emotional loop

  • @lilahrosenbaum
    @lilahrosenbaum ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The editing is slaying so hard!

    • @allyson--
      @allyson-- ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen, agree, etc.

  • @LaurenLiz
    @LaurenLiz ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These videos are golden. ❤

  • @allyson--
    @allyson-- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eccentric night ramblings....YES, GO ON! Love sweet release for you & all irritable katherout viewers everywhere

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      irritable katherout viewers everywhere... i salute you 🫡

  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy Monday, Katherine!😊😊😊😊😊😊😎☀🌌💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇👍. You're the best of the best vlogger ever.💖⭐💖⭐💖⭐💖⭐💖⭐💖🎇👍

  • @LuLu-yp6ig
    @LuLu-yp6ig ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey i just found your channel through the " giving this City another shot" Video, as I am doing that exact thing atm, giving Berlin another shot after the last time where I failed sooo badly. But your video came at the exact right time 💕 i appreciate your openness so much and you make me feel more safe in my way of living :) thanku sm

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      omg welcome i'm glad to have you here!!!! "more safe in my way of living" is what i aim for when i shout into the void of youtube with my creations

  • @emilypleasance2782
    @emilypleasance2782 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are one of the only people online who processes things and communicates in the oversharing long-winded ways that I do. It was like, when I first watched one of your videos back in the day, I felt like I found some back door entrance to myself. I'm in such a busy and insane period of my life right now, but I have always wanted to try vlogging because I feel like we talkers need a space sometimes. And you literally give me permission to be myself online. One day, when I start making videos, I will think of you and really try not to hold back. So thank you

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "back door entrance to myself" is how i feel too when i find kinship with someone sharing themselves online!! opens up a portal to strangers like us

  • @austinsanchez3247
    @austinsanchez3247 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ive been feeling the same way, cidp is hard to live with

  • @emilyfakhoury1446
    @emilyfakhoury1446 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    katherine this new color on your hair looks seriously amazing. loved the video! might just start biking bc of it.

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you!! and YES BIKE BIKE BIKE

  • @strawberrymoon1906
    @strawberrymoon1906 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been drowning in work, so I'm so glad I found your channel...
    It's just what I needed weather the current storm of life...

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hope you find your way to shore soon

    • @strawberrymoon1906
      @strawberrymoon1906 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Katherout thank you, thank you❤️

  • @Faithyy2944
    @Faithyy2944 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl, I am currently dealing with some deep grief and dark night of the soul type shit. Thank you for being honest and real ♥️

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL!!!!

  • @sheridensmith
    @sheridensmith ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bestie does it again 🫶 another miss katherout masterpiece

  • @_janetta
    @_janetta ปีที่แล้ว

    kath. this is so random. but the vibe you have going at 9:54 😭❤️ you look so damn beautiful! in like the most effortless i didn’t even try hard kind of way. it’s like the hair the brows the everything. you’re glowing hunny ❤️❤️❤️ ok back to the vlog cause you’re onto something here about feelings 😘

  • @anne.margaret
    @anne.margaret ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Literally had the same thought 2 weeks ago. I was feeling exhausted for "no reason" like I was about to have my period when in fact I was only in my ovulatory phase. Since my mind can't comprehend why this is happening, I've turned into astrology gurus and pinned this moment to be an effect of the venus retrograde 😆 makes me feel better that way.

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAHAH EXACTLY like at least we have pseudoscience

  • @Ginger_snap1
    @Ginger_snap1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been using a fertility awareness method (Marquette method) for about a year now and I love the objectivity it provides in that I always know exactly where I am in my cycle on any given day. It’s been super helpful in getting to know my body! It’s also really nice being able to trust its accuracy (at least for Marquette, can’t speak for other FAMs) where the calendar method often falls short

  • @caileym
    @caileym ปีที่แล้ว

    you're literally such a beautiful person!! i love your videos sm

  • @curseofcontext
    @curseofcontext ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i also flip easy: think it's so hard to pinpoint which impulses offer an outlet and which impulses bring in more self-defeat sometimes? i think when anger is that energized it can be a kind of fight so i try to figure out who or what am i fighting
    a tarot card (my inner nerd gotta nerd) that comes to mind with this for me is the wheel of furtune: the seasonal wheel of this spherical planet is always turning. sometime's we're up and sometimes we're down, the turn to the next state will follow and there is a rhythm to it: to quote fiona apple if she didn't pickpocket the riddle "the idler wheel is wiser than the driver of the screw and whipping cords will serve you more than ropes will ever do" do not exactly understand but LOVE the album!!

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +++ to the outlet vs. self-defeat uncertainty

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and that fiona apple line holy shit??? will be thinking on that one

  • @ElizabethGilbert2
    @ElizabethGilbert2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg bikejoy yes Katherine! So happy for you, would highly recommend bike friends. This has been a delightful summer of group rides for me and I've made so many cool friends through it

  • @youmeteacofeee
    @youmeteacofeee ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please share about the crushes? I’m depressed too girl. God help us🌧️

    • @transsexual_computer_faery
      @transsexual_computer_faery ปีที่แล้ว +1

      in a few days (hopefully) i am uploading a video on the nature of god. well, audio....

  • @Aloho3mora
    @Aloho3mora 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It gets worse it gets better it gets worse it gets betttttterrrrr i hate this cycle sometimes

  • @mimicovers97
    @mimicovers97 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the idea of joining a club. I played volleyball for 12 weeks with people I’d never met and it was great!

  • @jodyb1095
    @jodyb1095 ปีที่แล้ว

    This frustration is so gd relatable😅

  • @ghosted1996
    @ghosted1996 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I get hysterical around ovulation too. And sometimes like a week beforehand. It’s the same days every month for me, so if you track it it might become predictable.

  • @cassiemyers6689
    @cassiemyers6689 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Same shit, different day, right? We really are creatures of habit

  • @linaestevenon
    @linaestevenon ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU

  • @MeanderingMeagan4
    @MeanderingMeagan4 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg that link bracelet you're wearing in the July clips! Loved mine

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      a nostalgic gift from a friend :')

  • @ntsikayomzimbebe2056
    @ntsikayomzimbebe2056 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I typically procrastinate watching your videos because it's often feels like I'm being directly addressed. See the whole "reversing my misfortunes" segment especially 6:20

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      in meeting ourselves deeply we often meet others...

    • @ntsikayomzimbebe2056
      @ntsikayomzimbebe2056 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Katherout after nearly two weeks of background processing this, I've realised for me it's very much the other way around "in meeting others deeply, I often meet myself"

  • @WonderlandAlicexo
    @WonderlandAlicexo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's fascinating to me how different we are. I would literally rather do anything than socialise, so interesting to see a perspective so vastly different to my own

    • @transsexual_computer_faery
      @transsexual_computer_faery ปีที่แล้ว

      truly!

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i recognize that it's the reverse for a lot of people, socializing can drain their social battery but for me it charges it!

    • @WonderlandAlicexo
      @WonderlandAlicexo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Katherout it's really interesting to hear from an extrovert and how they see the world!

  • @BadSloucher
    @BadSloucher ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your longwindedness, keep going queen

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i am long and tall and winded !!!!!

  • @anonanon7553
    @anonanon7553 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love your videos so much ! :)))))

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for receiving them

  • @iCeleste7
    @iCeleste7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude your eyebrows looks so good in that Keen ad.

  • @Melisssssa27
    @Melisssssa27 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOL I find meaning in the most insignificant things too

  • @lilacunderground
    @lilacunderground ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always get super moody around ovulation which is like mid way through my cycle. So my unfortunate boyfriend has to deal with my moodiness every 2 weeks 😂

  • @jackiemartin7276
    @jackiemartin7276 ปีที่แล้ว

    I, for one, and still interested in hearing about your crushes haha! I'm glad you made a friend (or more than one!)

  • @michellelao98
    @michellelao98 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why do we have the same exact thoughts 😅🤪🤗

  • @BelaCurcio
    @BelaCurcio ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw all those tweets as they happened lol I like getting the background context
    Also Kath I'm starting to feel the magic kick up a little bit... like I had this wave this week of sorta getting all mystical and romantic again... I know sometimes we align so maybe keep an eye out for that

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you got the lore... beloved twitter followers typically do... this footage is a little out of date and i can feel synchronicities popping up these last few days too!!

  • @erich7861
    @erich7861 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Non-outgoing extroverted pisces rise up lol.

    • @curseofcontext
      @curseofcontext ปีที่แล้ว

      happy piscean full moon!! 🌝

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      i'm trying to gather us all here

  • @introspection32
    @introspection32 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you do the bike thing again and dont want to feel awkward just get a jbl flip 6 and play either really awkward music or just good music really loud and maybe someone will be like hey thats a cool song 😊 either way its a vibe 🙃

  • @junyaiwase
    @junyaiwase ปีที่แล้ว

    man i remember i only subbed to your channel because of your 8 habits of 4.0 students video years ago when i was in high school, i did not follow that shit LOL

  • @rocknrao
    @rocknrao ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to that feeling of loving to ride bikes but not having “bike friends”.

  • @MrVikingsandra
    @MrVikingsandra ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just moved to Seattle and I need friends too 😅

  • @halihal7699
    @halihal7699 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol I feel like the Seattle freeze does not exist. Its mostly the tech people that are cold. I met people all the time in Seattle when I lived there.. These videos make me sad because I miss it so much!

  • @elliana5728
    @elliana5728 ปีที่แล้ว

    i need more luteal phase vlogs! this is so incredibly hilarious and at the same time unfortunately relatable . L O V E
    edit: holy shit never met another person who acknowledges the difference between being extroverted and being outgoing. hello from a fellow non-outgoing extrovert

  • @skatermomof5
    @skatermomof5 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:33 why did this make me start crying 🤪

  • @DavidLindes
    @DavidLindes ปีที่แล้ว

    4:51 - wait, woah, is that… is Pags gone from that corner?? Seattle, it be changing! Well, is Dos Chamucos good? :)
    Also, 6:21 is demonstrably false. 😂
    Also, badda bing badda boom. Kudos for having the turnarounds. And may Fall bring a calm comfort. Hugs if you want ‘em. 😊

  • @Mokeybutter
    @Mokeybutter ปีที่แล้ว +4

    me

  • @nopestoprightthere
    @nopestoprightthere ปีที่แล้ว

    "Remember...This God in whose hand are all creatures, is your Father, and He is much more tender of you than you are, or can be, of yourself."

  • @jubiterr
    @jubiterr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Emotional regulation, a piscean tale

  • @jenna08rae
    @jenna08rae ปีที่แล้ว

    The blonde looks great on you!

  • @schemarr
    @schemarr ปีที่แล้ว

    randomly found you today ... need to be your friend so bad i fear

    • @Katherout
      @Katherout  ปีที่แล้ว

      glad i came up in your youtube foraging 🍄 WELCOMEEEE

  • @Lion_McLionhead
    @Lion_McLionhead ปีที่แล้ว

    So her calling herself an extrovert is like Amerikans calling themselves liberal. It's not real.