Millionaire Reacts: How To Tell If You're A Low Value Man
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Oh, she says 'he's a loser if he's manipulating you' but finishes off with 'how to make him beg for your attention' - which is manipulation in it's pure form!
so true, good for thee, not for me...
MaNiPUlaTiOn iS OkeY wHeN i dO iT!!
You should do one of these with Macy! I’d love to hear her opinion being a woman and see if you guys agree on most points
I’ve never heard of Macy. I might look this person up to see what they are saying.
@@HH-xj8nh Macy is his fiancé!
I actually really like her videos about how to dress and act in different situations. I grew up "white trash" or "ghetto" so I didn't learn anything from my parents in that sense and my sister tried to teach me in high school but I wasn't interested at all lol
Same.
Yes, she helped me organize my closet and I shop differently
I don’t understand why people get angry at a woman who wants a successful man in her life. It doesn’t mean she’s a gold digger. She just doesn’t want a bum who lives poorly and couldn’t bother taking actions to better his life. A successful man is also a secure man and reliable. It’s a character thing. There’s nothing wrong with having high standards in life.
In reference to her first point (splitting 50/50), from my perspective a man brings value by providing while a women brings value by nurturing. What I would bring to the table is taking care of the home, cleaning, cooking, stewarding our money well, taking care of the children etc. I don’t like the idea that the only way to bring value is through an income. Most married women who split the bills also do the majority of house work and child care. That doesn’t sound 50/50 to me!
As a man point of view here, your point of nurturing and taking care of kids is after the fact! Meaning that man has to be "locked in" to you, translating that if it turns out you are not nurturing and taking care of the kids well, there's no way we can back out without a woman asking for compensation! While a man has to prove it at the start, and throughout the relationship without even a woman can actually do what the woman thinks it is her value such as nurturing and able to properly take care of kids! To me your comment is all dandy in face value, but still not 50/50 because the man has to prove throughout the relationship by providing and women had to prove later in the relationship. The point is there's a chance that you as a woman turn out to be not what you promised to be as a nurturer while as men have to provide at the very start. if that's your metric of 50/50 it's a lost battle for a man. Did you see it?
@@slothypunk yeah so what’s your solution to this issue?
@@jd8184 there's no solution that can make woman satisfied. As a man you just have to gamble it out and be smart about it. The best advice is to leave early when you as a man feel she's not what she says she is... Find out the proof she is a "nurturer" before you lock it in! Because you are the one holding the bag as a man if she turns out all talking at the end!
@@slothypunk I agree with both of y’all. There are multiple ways to add value (not just money), and at EVERY point in the relationship, things should be fair. Splitting bills early on makes sense, but once a partner (woman or man) starts taking on more household/child raising responsibilities, the other should make up for it either financially or by sharing a full half of the burden.
@@voidfroze "at every point of relation ship things should be fair" maybe you should tell that to US family court justice system then I believe it! The issue we are facing in family law is the law is not advancing as society in viewing relationships and marriages! The law is still using conservative, archaic system!
So she wants to help you find a "rich" person that will fall in line and pay for your lifestyle.
She is selling misery to all.
Found the gamer! lol jk you're right
So like Andrew tate. (Selling misery)
yes but she wants you to leave when he calls you materialistic and a gold digger. lol
@@jd8184 Tate is already rich and he is not teaching man how to find a rich woman ,.
@@jd8184 Tate doesn't teach how to find women, he teaches how to become a competent man lmao
Graham Stephan dating advice is exactly the content I subscribed for. Alternative title for the original video: “You are entitled if…”
Thanks for watching!
Update: Later tips got a bit better but are based in the completely wrong frame of reference. Respect is never something you negotiate in a relationship. It’s there or you leave. Period. Also the closing comment is trash and emotional manipulation is the lowest quality human behavior someone can exhibit. If you’re incapable of extending mutual respect in a relationship, you should stay single.
@@TheGrahamStephanShow yes sir, great video per usual!
I’m broke but according to this I’m a high value man in my relationship
High value doesn’t equal rich!
@@thepeaceigive Exactly! Graham interpretation is wrong. Mu husband is no millionaire but he is hell of hight value !
@@MariaCarattini I think you're the one interpreting it wrong.
@@Jumpman67 No, i am not! High value doesn't mean rich!
@@MariaCarattini yes it doesn't mean rich, but the girl making the videos, she says that instead of rich, her videos used to say rich, she changed it to not get hate probably.
She shouldn't be hurt by being called a gold-digger, she made her entire career around being a gold-digger lol
True story
I disagree
I’ve been following Anna for years. She has really changed her message after getting married. I feel like she has a lot to offer women, albeit she speaks a lot to finding a “high value man”
If a man invites a woman out, he should pay the tab. A good woman will contribute further into a relationship by buying tickets, cooking dinner and other ways.
Woman should also initiate dates, not just the man! Whoever initiates the date I think should pay for it.
People should pay for their own food and expenses.
I agree. To me, 50/50 is about effort. Doesn't always mean splitting bills
If you say "I invite you..." - then you should pay. But if you say "How about we went..." - then each should pay for themselves.
Women never ask guys out so they would never pay
I have watched a couple of her videos and she is definitely only in it for the money/status! She basically called me a loser because I wear jeans 🤣
Even though people who are billionaires prefer to wear jeans. People value things differently. For her, the girl in the video, she probably doesn't mind being viewed as an object if it gets what she wants.
Sweetie your making yourself feel that way, she still wears jeans just not blue jeans and jeans with rips in them. She just showing ways to stand out from the rest of the world and look beautiful and classy with it.
I guess that crosses off Mark Zuckerberg, Tim Cook, Bill Gates and Warren Buffett they dress pretty bland like they shop at Walmart even though they're literally billionaires.
A man, even jeans!?
She's a top gold digger
If you are a man just don't focus on any of these things the lady says, just raise your value (financially and physically) and be a good human being. The good women will find you, they always do. You are the prize.
Finally someone gets it!! The rest are simps.
I agree on this!
@@grahamstefaan I can't wait till that word dies.
So still bend to what women want
Don’t really see a change
Rich doesn’t mean high value. There are a lot of rich low value men.
you are such a charismatic humble guy. the fact that you got nervous, says a lot about you.
I think this calls for Macy to chime in with her reaction alongside Graham's so that she can provide the female perspective.
The 50/50 split is more nuanced and not so much about being equal all the time. For example, let's say one orders a cheaper meal and the other one a more expensive one, splitting the bill 50/50 is not really fair. And sometimes, there is nothing wrong in footing the bill if the man can and wants to. The woman can reciprocate next time by cooking a meal for him if she can and wants to.
Omg I enjoy both yours and Anna’s videos and this is the crossover I never knew I needed!!! 😂
You are crazy if you enjoy her videos
@@ilqnd_9356 have an open-mind and actually watch her videos before forming an inaccurate answer. I agree with Kristan !
If you watch her you’re going to be single AF
@@LifeWithRilla nopeee :) I'm married. Anna has some amazing videos for us ladies, you can't relate
@@ImenBen12 Lmfao, yeah we know that’s cap
Great video it'd be nice to see them both react to something like this together cause I feel like Macy would give us a bit of the female perspective of the female targetted content
This is the equivalent of a man having a goal to marry a woman who looks like a supermodel. Its the same thing. I doubt he would have a problem with men trying to obtain the most physically attractive spouse possible.
I do watch Anna's video She is hilarious
I thought Graham gonna roast her but then he start agreeing with her🤭😂 hilarious
"leave...if that's an option..." 😂 For these kind of women I think not because they solely rely on these "high value" men 😜
Sorry I couldn't watch the video, I was too distracted by Graham's giant muscles.
oops
She’s actually helped me as a young woman just learning how to carry myself better. We weren’t all taught the simple things ❤
since i watch her videos my relationship with my boyfriend improved a lot and now i give him what he wants which is support nourishment, cook for him and help him relax and show him love and support him in every way and he pays more often for me or buys me gifts sometimes we both are so happy. a lot more than before. So stop judging just because u don’t like to pay for ur girl at all. And it’s not his money that i care about. I love him so much but it makes me happy that i’m important to him enough that he doesn’t hesitate to spend money on me. And i also put up with his crzy work schedule and make our time together the best for him.
I don't think you saying graham doesn't like paying for Macy is right. Not long ago he helped her paying the repairs for her car, he also takes her out on dates and such. We don't see everything about their life.
I'm a girl, and I don't agree with you, but it doesn't mean I'm judging you. You should do the same.
If he suddenly decide to dumb ur ass , u would be in deep trouble , I think u should get a job and at least save some money for later , u are not married .
Men should have a self worth. But there are women who like losers over successful men because they like fixer uppers. They want to fix him.
yeah, definitely goes both ways!
You think woman can just choose to be with a successful guy , are u dumb or crazy ?
Success attract more success and failure attract more failure
The concept of a man providing for his wife and children, rather than being a "partner" with her is a very traditional value and I think has great merit. I think that's where she is coming from. It's good for both men and women to know what they want in a relationship and obviously if their ideas are too different, they are better off not being together. Unfortunately, her style is a bit "in your face"!
Her style is wrong , her ideas are wrong , her thinking is wrong
@@ilqnd_9356 Ok. Would you like to prove that?
@@ilqnd_9356 Her existence is wrong
I agree with your message. I think the issue nowadays with the Male and Female dynamics is that Females want to be "equals" and independent but in reality they're dependent on the Male counterpart to take care of them. Most (modern) females aren't responsible or don't want to be traditional, which in reality a traditional woman (whos husband is the breadwinner or only source of income) pretty much has to take care of the house, run errands, cook, watch the kids and etc. But like you said it really just falls into what you're looking in a relationship.
There's nothing wrong if both people want "traditional" roles but there has to be an understanding that with traditional roles, the woman is always beneath the man and never his equal. If he is to be a provider she must submit fully and follow him. If you want traditional, that's the dynamic. Otherwise, you're just trying to leech
I loathe this woman. Red flags everywhere. Want want want. And your job is to shut up and pay for it all. Then when she leaves you anyways, she takes half of your stuff. Because she “earned” it.
Men should pay BUT you can have cheap dates, the movies, going for coffee, bike ride, go out for a walk , invite her to ice cream . The point of dating is getting to know her and she to know you. If you are trying to impress her with things in a way you are trying to buy her affection, something that most women find a turnoff.
so if he manipulates you he`s low value (agree), now the next video is how you can manipulate him. i`m seeing a hole in this logic lol
I caught that too 😂
When telling the story of your life never let anyone else hold the pen.
I think what she meant by the "expenses of a woman" vs "expenses of a man" was that for women, it is NECESSARY for these expenses. Psychology studies have shown all genders prefer women with makeup in the workplace, with nails done, hair fixed, etc.; for most women, a purse is a necessity; and things like this. Whereas for men, maybe the only NECESSITY only beard grooming if you have a beard. Not to mention that, traditionally, women have more requirements for BASIC hygiene as well (think eyebrows, shaving/waxing, lotion, period products, a haircut is more expensive for women). Graham points out this fundamental difference when he says "men have expenses too" and details out OPTIONAL spending on a fish tank and upgrades to a vehicle. I believe that Anna was just trying to point out that difference.
If he calls you a gold digger then leave him… but also sign up for my Materclass on how to be a gold digger 😂 her videos always make me cringe.
Get yourself a Graham instead. He's a Great Value Man™ Walmart
The woman hasn't realized she already hit the wall.
I do agree with some of her points (even if her channel looks like the most materialistic page) but women do spend more than men. Taking into account shopping and so on but also pain medication, pads/tampon/contraceptive, beauty products (deodorant...). Even just comparing prices for those targeted to men or women you can see a huge difference
She cares the woman looking for a rich man. She's not trying to help people just find love she's only trying to help you find Rich love. I wish she would say that instead of pretending like a man should be these things when not every man could be everything
Why are people so stupid ?
Paying 50/50 when you are spending 80 means the man is overpaying , u should be glad , getting a job and pay for your own tampons
@@ilqnd_9356 what's the link with my comment? I didn't refer to paying 50/50. All I said is that Graham doesn't realise that daily costs for mewn and women on similar products are not the same...
Why is Stephan so stressed 😂😂
😂 breaking into sweat 😅
LOL. These are types of women you should spend 0 dollar on.
Look let's be honest here, there are alot of 40 year old men that still live with mom and dad looking for 10s.
But that's a different thing entirely.
Facts tho. We don’t even have to stretch it that far. Men in their 20’s who are 5’s all want 10’s and they will insult you for not going out with them when they can’t compare to the woman. For many women, they want a man with resources, much in the same way that many men, want a beautiful woman and will refuse to take less. If you’re a man who’s a 5, get a girl who’s a 5 then, if we’re talking about equality here right?? Except wait, that’s not what most men do. It’s the same type of dynamic and yet we’re called gold diggers for it
It cuts both ways. There are tons of average to below average girls, especially on dating apps, who think they're entitled to professional athletes, celebrities, and other super rich men. These girls consistently overestimate their value.
@@tykeboy16 how?
@@joshspiker absolutely!
I love her. She's got great advice that will also help one in business because most of her videos are about how people treat one another and cary oneself with class, and make sure people are comfortable around you by not being rude or vulgar. Or, how to dress in an elegant way and show off your best self. She's even done videos on how to dress elegantly on a budget. So yes, her videos titles might be about "landing a rich guy", she encourages people to improve themselves and set higher expectations on how they should be treated.
For someone who grew up low class didn't learn all the manors, I really appreciate her sharing what she knows. It's helped me a lot in business too.
You should definitely take some of these tips with a grain of salt. Some of them will make you seem tremendously shallow and like you're more interested in finding a parent or a piggy bank rather than a partner who respects you as an equal.
3:25 totally agree.. while my gf maybe spends around 3-5k a year on clothing, I spend it on technology etc. for the house.
+ Investing ofc ;)
Same I spend on tech, investing, etc. Probably why I have more guy friends than girl friends
My husband doesn’t spend much money on anything but he does spend on good supplements/vitamins and I can’t be mad at the that when he’s trying to stay healthy.
So the majority of her talking points deals with the man providing for her...mainly in the finance department. She puts a high priority over that one talking point and yet when the man calls her out for being a gold-digger that's a red flag? Her overall attitude is very condescending and belittles the man. It's no wonder that after a certain amount of time with her, perhaps her man should do a video, "How to tell if you're with a spoiled little brat."
changing video titles like how to tell if you're dating someone poor (get out!) hah gotcha graham
Graham put on his adult shirt for this video 😅😅
You mean Macy's shirt.
I'm 23 and have been watching you for a couple years, nice to be early for an upload! Nice vid
Awesome! Thank you!
Why should a woman date a broke man? That’s the most pathetic arrangement ever.
It's crazy to me that there's not that many disagreements but if this was flipped and were talking about low value women y'all would have a panic attack smh
Isnt this that trans dude who is getting heat for all those surgeries to look Korean?
I've learnt some good stuff from Anna about dressing elegantly.
The 90's called and they want their archaic advice back. Of course don't let a guy or girl treat you badly, disrespectfully or have scant regard for your feelings. Regarding money and the expectation for the man to "provide" surely, we are teaching our daughters not to rely on a partner for money but have the ability to generate their own independent income. That's what we've taught our daughter and she wears the clothes, make up and such for herself, not for another person. Good grief......
Meanwhile if a man made a video like this woman people would be pissed and calling them every bad word in the book smh the double standards these days.
Graham isn’t broke but he probably splits the bills. Low value alert
Lol last one "if he calls you gold digger" , if she is watching "how to find elite guy(rich guy) " Type video and believing all this, doesn't it mean that she is really a gold digger?
Pretty Meta with that title change.
It’s so interesting to me that women can demand so much from men but cry when we ask for more
Just came to say Hi! to Graham.
Watching your videos and loving them.
I love her videos her videos changed my view on everything
NOT THESE TWO WORLDS CROSSING. 💀💀💀💀
Only reason why I clicked on the video🤣
My advice. If she has tattoos, short hair, unnatural colored hair, or has a high body count you should leave her alone. Do not mess with females like this because they will only cause trouble in your life. If you only attract females like this you need to become higher in value and no that doesn’t mean earn more money. Create a future for yourself. Bring true value to the world. High value women are ONLY attracted to men that act like men.
Her list only works under the assumption that all women have good intentions and don't have ulterior motives to dating a man. I can guarantee a high value man didn't get to where he's at by being played. A man can treat different women differently based on what value he sees in them.
Red flag: if he manipulates you
Next video: how to manipulate a man to chase after you
👍
I am a woman but after watching this video I'm questioning myself, do I like losers or is something wrong with her?
My hubby and I love you Graham! I am in the process of creating a "how much I spend in a week as an occupational therapist living in MIAMI"!! I hope you get to watch it...Not expecting a reaction video...Though, not gonna lie; I would be very honored if you were to react to it...Especially since I see you do a lot of reaction videos to people living in NYC and LA! You need to have Miami in there! Just my opinion.
Anyway, Hope you're well and thanks for being a light and bringing great energy to my day... Been out of the youtube thing for a while and have inspired me to go back to it!
The real question that come to mind when listening to her is “who hurt you?”
No one, she's literally married to a rich man
@@FIREcrochethairstyles And you have met him or seen him are you just painting?..the guy is an old banker also she she gets rich from these sad women who watch her vedios
Love how so many people hate on gaming these days and then proceed to binge netflix and reality shows, and scroll social media for hours on end lol
If she is married, take the advice if she’s not married, don’t take it.
A materialistic gold digger without any depth who doesn't want to be called materialistic, a gold digger, or a b****.
Find the irony.
This is a whole different kinda video I'm used to from you! Love it!! you are full of surprises! lol
If a guy truly thinks she's a gold-digger or someone who's materialistic he continues to date him, he has just as big a problem as she does.
How to find high value (rich) men... but dump him if he calls you a gold digger?
Truth
High value doesn’t mean rich! That’s why😅
I heard the term high value and low value man from The Female Dating Strategy, thanks to Danny Polishchuk. Men's advice videos are make your bed, go to the gym, get a job.
I’m very lucky to have just a loving caring husband
:)
I love Ana’s Channel. Mostly for the style tips. I already got an amazing husband but her content is great.
really?? so I should start a channel about how to detect low value women of size??
@@boystobusiness You should.
No one is safe from graham. lol 😂 not even femininity coaches 😂
We love you Graham. Lol
If graham has daughters, I believe this will change 😅
She's right.
That's why I moved to Japan.
Now I'm right.
I always enjoy watching Graham reacting to Anna’s videos.
I love watching both of you.
Hopefully you watch the ladder as entertainment, you don't need a man to build your wealth. There's nothing more attractive than an independent woman.
She has a video where she emphasizes a classy woman as gracious and kind, that doesn't always try to be the center of attention but lets others shine. Now that I can get behind, but yeah the dating content can be 🙄
Sweet shirt, G
thanks!
I hate the whole “high value man” trend on Tiktok. It’s so stupid.
Soooooo if she's actively searching for "elite" men and even making videos on how to find them how does that NOT make her a gold digger? Another woman who doesn't like to hear the truth about herself and clearly has no logic.
MORE reactions to different type of videos besides finance and still finance videos' but your opinion is interesting on these things.
Graham was definitely clutching at straws with his first point. You know damn well women generally have to spend more than men on their physical appearance/beauty. Our hair cost more than mens, nails, make up, skin care, feminine (no choice) products, shaving/waxing, even clothes. Y’all men just get a haircut. I do agree the lady is basically giving golddigga vibes 😂 saying don’t mess with broke guys but objectively, it does generally cost more to be a female. You know damn well it does Graham! 🙄😅
While it may cost more to keep up maintenance on physical looks for females you’re wrong if you think it costs more to be a female and are delusional af. Men have just as expensive tastes & hobbies as women do. Men will waste money on expensive cars, motorcycles, etc while women will splurge on rip off designer purses, shoes, hats, etc. It doesn’t cost more to be one gender than the other generally speaking.
'It costs more to be female' I think there's some choice in there.... + All the stuff that's BOUGHT for gals.
The problem is men won't admit it, but they do want women to look beautiful and smell nice even in the workplace. This is the expected basic hygiene for women. It is not a hobby but an expectation so men talking of expensive tastes and hobbies on this thread digress. Now, if women are not expected to look good at work and can be accepted without makeup and not mocked for not shaving their legs, thin moustache, armpits, and eyebrows, then, women don't need to spend that much. It is a different story altogether when women just want to look like a doll when it is not expected of them.
i think she would faint if she spent a day in my lifestyle and hanging out with my partner lol. couldn't be more opposite
I will give her props on the lead magnet and promoting it during the video very smart
Nah a bmw, home, woman and kids way more expensive then clothes, nails and make up eventually you pay for those too..
Maybe we need a video titled 'How to avoid gold digging bit**es'. Given it is one of the points she has raised she probably met a few men who worked her out.
It was inevitable that you would enter this space 😂
I mean if she wants to go back to where men had to be the sole household provider to show their masculinity then I guess we can go back to where the woman had to shut her mouth, look how I wanted, take care of my house and children on their own & have dinner cooked for me when I got home?
I have a decent amount of money, but I’ve suffered so much for it its absurd to assume it’s owed to anyone, even in a relationship. I don’t even much discuss finances with my partner, we each pay our parts we have already pre determined and as a man yes you usually pick up the bill for dinner but that’s certainly not exclusive or any sort of requirement. You teach young women to be purely after money & security and view love as a transactional trade off rather than a life partnership and you continue to destroy any meaning of connection in the world. To this day the happiest couples you ever see are usually ones with not much money but a hell of a lot of experience and closeness with one another.
Honestly these videos are fine, Now hear me out guys. If they are looking for all of this they won't come near us and they won't find real love... so whos the real winner hereee
2:30 Graham, based on the opening statement. I don't think people that watch these video want to contribute
-if you spend 50/50in the relationship:
Lol looks like my type is a loser
Love the videos Graham! Keep it up, you are doing a great job!
What’s the brand of the shirt you have on in this video Graham? It’s lit 🔥👕
I don’t need to make a video to show how to spot a low value woman, she makes a lot of videos of herself already.
What's the timestamp for when she trots out her man?
Graham....those little round things on your shirt....they are called buttons....maybe try them sometime lol.
My comment about questioning Graham supporting her super conservative and stereotyped gender roles got removed? This comment section seems to be more censored than the Russian press.
Not Graham being the chill rich guy she describes dating the more plain Jane that she describes aka Macy. Lol
Like this comment if Graham doesn’t realize he’s one of the ELITE she’s talking about lol
She should have just titled it "How to Tell Why I'm Still Single" lol.
She actually is married to a Muslim Middle Eastern businessman. Brown men pay a pretty penny for a dumb blonde with a bunch of plastic surgery.
She's married.
@@hilo6487 poor guy.
@@iamrichlol Men who enjoy spending thousands of $$$ on their wives/gf's just because they can, do exist. Chances are the husband knows exactly what he got himself into.
@@hilo6487 She likely planned the divorce prior to getting married. She knows how long she needs to stay in the marriage to maximize the cash and prizes she gets when decides that "she's not feeling it anymore" and wants to eject from the marriage.