Paying for IVF (In Vitro Fertilization)

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  • #smbc #blacksmbc #IVF #Fibroids
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  • @annierichter8250
    @annierichter8250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Your makeup is giving me Persephone vibes and I am here for it.
    I just got paid today so I'll send you a paypal after I pay my bills. Your channel is my go to for making the work day faster and I am always happy to support creators I enjoy.

  • @rammsterdamm020
    @rammsterdamm020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Worked a full time job and a (awesome) part time job and caretaker for years for my parents, was, as you, saving up for my "old age". When my parents passed away, I worked more until I worked, ate, slept and worked. And on my days of I slept.
    Then, 4 months into being without my parents, I suffered a stroke.
    Don't burn your candle on both ends. You have your ducks in a row for most of your journey and I am 100% sure you will succeed !! Never forget to enjoy life as it's happening.

    • @cobainbride
      @cobainbride 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry to hear that Rammsterdam. Thanks for sharing this perspective as well x

    • @xxbellajasmina
      @xxbellajasmina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This ♥️♥️♥️💯💯💯💯💯

  • @TheRadicalRevert
    @TheRadicalRevert 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The lashes are great! Get all the colours!

  • @OlGalJess
    @OlGalJess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love the lashes. I am 33 and thinking of freezing my eggs in the next few years if I don't find a partner. I am so glad that you are going on this journey. It gives me hope.

    • @xxbellajasmina
      @xxbellajasmina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 36 and just had a baby who is mine mine mine. Donor doesn’t want him.... we got this, Mama! This was not “planned”, but having a kid by myself was my plan B if I didn’t find a decent partner :( I got my little miracle sooner than I planned and it’s so hard, but I’m getting through. Prayers up for all of us. 😙😙😙😙😙💜💜💜💜 I’ll also add that I don’t have family to help... reason for sharing is to state that we all face challenges, but God will see us through!

  • @MzMJ77
    @MzMJ77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing your journey. No judgement. The lashes are so you. They look nice on you, especially with your lip color and the head wrap. Most people can not pull it off. I like it.

  • @cobainbride
    @cobainbride 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please don't feel bad about passing around the collection plate. I was actually sad that you no longer had your patreon as now that I am gainfully employed full time I am in a better position to support ya girl. Patreon is a great option for those who wanna do so on a monthly basis without effort. Unless I happen to catch you on a live and can do a super chat, the thought slips my mind otherwise.

  • @everythingiseverything9920
    @everythingiseverything9920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lashes are looking festive! Why not!

  • @xxbellajasmina
    @xxbellajasmina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was beautiful. Also, please be proud that you’re helping people like me have the confidence to ask for what they need even though you say you don’t want to ask for.... you’re doing what you need to do to get to where you wanna be in life. I am proud proud proud of you! 💛 Thanks so much for sharing with us and for allowing us to pop in along with you for this journey.

  • @ambular0504ut
    @ambular0504ut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing Wahima. I am on a similar journey to freeze my eggs and am your age. This is hard to do alone so I hear you. You're amazing. Wishing you a speedy recovery. My fibroid surgery is next month

  • @AbenaaTriesBeauty
    @AbenaaTriesBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Starbucks has ivf coverage

  • @SimplyTanika
    @SimplyTanika 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m here for the colors! I like the lashes, so playful and flirty.
    Not sure if you are open to using credit to paying for any of this. Care credit (Synchrony Bank) offers 24 months of interest free credit, if you pay the balance before the 25th month. That may be worth considering to offset things, like maybe put some savings in a high interest CD for 18 months and then drop that on the Care. I’m so random, but hopefully that makes sense.
    So excited for your journey! I love your practical, thoughtful approach.

  • @jessyj5114
    @jessyj5114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll be on the budget train with you! Not for IUI purposes, but I need to reel some of my spending back in. $150 a month we got this!

  • @Tiffany_C_
    @Tiffany_C_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Wah! Saw you on Instagram, glad you’re safe and recovering. The lashes are a cute color, maybe could be improved with mascara, maybe? Thank you for sharing your journey with us 😊

  • @monicat5912
    @monicat5912 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi I just found your video recently. I had 4 surgeries myomectomy and still have one more to go. I recently did 2x IVF cycle which I believe it was not best to do for women that has fibroid history. I had 7cm fibroid that grew from about 2 cm within 8 months because of IVF caused estrogen level goes up super high especially. I didn’t know fibroid’s growth triggered by estrogen and IVF process is injecting these additional hormones to our body to ensure our body ovulate more than one egg at a time. So be careful with your decision. Just sharing my experience. Hope you are well and if you already did IVF hopefully it results the way you want it to be and no side effect to fibroid growth. Sending hugs

  • @natlock7592
    @natlock7592 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do what makes you happy...Just save up. Good luck and God Bless

  • @The_Real_Black_Jesus
    @The_Real_Black_Jesus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1. The eyelashes are 🔥(accept that judgement)
    2. Panera has definitely been one of my vices over the years and no it is definitely "not worth it for what it is." Still... I can't help myself sometimes, I don't want to face the truth.
    3. Keep it up! Best wishes to you.

  • @cobainbride
    @cobainbride 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember when you showcased this look on your insta story & now I see whag video you were filming for ! Haha. It's fun ❤️😘

  • @estherauguste4480
    @estherauguste4480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m extremely invested in your story and will definitely subscribe to your patreon

  • @AbenaaTriesBeauty
    @AbenaaTriesBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s not a guarantee that it’s going to work , so curious have you thought about what’s your plan in that case ?

  • @filmmefatale1714
    @filmmefatale1714 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now I want purple lashes :)

  • @tamanresa
    @tamanresa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How much vacation days do you have? You can't use your vacation days for your days off?

  • @chenicerand2551
    @chenicerand2551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the lashes

  • @nelc521
    @nelc521 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Wah !

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you do for a living at your day job?

  • @everlynonditi5535
    @everlynonditi5535 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Wah😊

  • @elizabethcross8372
    @elizabethcross8372 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any updates?

  • @jenniferbrock7284
    @jenniferbrock7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have you tried IVF through CNY Fertility?? Ivf is $3995 with them and they have multiple locations.

    • @AbenaaTriesBeauty
      @AbenaaTriesBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mentioned this on another one of her videos. I hope she looks into it because I think that can help her get more cycles for her money

    • @jenniferbrock7284
      @jenniferbrock7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AbenaaTriesBeauty I hope so as well. I am currently using CNY while going down the path of single mother by choice.

  • @000elis
    @000elis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Health Insurance in the USA sucks! beyond just suck it horrible.

  • @ciaras.w8945
    @ciaras.w8945 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it

  • @xxbellajasmina
    @xxbellajasmina 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey gorgeous. 💜

  • @ritalev7538
    @ritalev7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is your family able to help cover some expenses?

  • @eshabeck755
    @eshabeck755 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤1❤

  • @zeldak718
    @zeldak718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im curious, do you still hold out hope that you will meet someone? I just can't imagine that a beautiful, smart, confident woman, can't meet someone. I am the same age as you, and It took me a long time to meet someone too, but that was because I was super insecure and I think men could see that and that turned them off, and the ones who weren't completely turned off, used my lack of self esteem to their advantage. I guess I am curious how you would navigate dating and going through this journey? I know its a cliche, but sometimes you do meet your person, when you least expect it.

    • @teeroo96
      @teeroo96 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you trying to imply that she is doing something wrong ?

    • @zeldak718
      @zeldak718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@teeroo96 I don’t understand how my question can make you think, I’m implying she is doing something wrong. It’s like you’re asking this to start some sort of drama in this comment section. I’m not here for that.

    • @teeroo96
      @teeroo96 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      M not hear for drama either ...dude ..but if you say to someone I couldn't meet someone becoz I was insecure...+ which is something you were doing wrong until you got it right and then you met someone and then you go on to give her advice ...on how to correct her behaviour so that she meets someone what exactly are you doing ?

    • @zeldak718
      @zeldak718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@teeroo96 I am not giving her advice. I simply shared my dating experience. I was insecure and it took me a while to meet a good guy. To me Wah isn’t insecure, she’s beautiful and confident, which makes me believe she could find someone. And my question to her was how she would navigate her meeting someone while on this journey. That’s it. Why are you turning my comment into something it isn’t?

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zeldak718 a woman's motherhood got nothing to do with her relationship status. There are women who aren't interested in relationship and only want to be a mother. So curb your silly assumption about SMBC going through because they couldn't find someone

  • @foodsthatstartwiththelette1745
    @foodsthatstartwiththelette1745 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think Target has some infertility coverage.

  • @pauli7457
    @pauli7457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the whole look, but the eyelashes look like they're poking you in the eye. Ouch!😰

  • @jazzysview981
    @jazzysview981 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey wah

  • @anniesmolkin7685
    @anniesmolkin7685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Panera is too expensive

  • @kellyjones5462
    @kellyjones5462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Having a kid is expensive , What are going to do when that kid is here and wants to go to school?how you going to pay all that. Having a baby is your choice and I Hate iT when ppl make choices and ansking others to help. If you knew you wanted this you should have started yrs ago with putting money away. Sorry to say all this but I See iT as Lets aks and See Who I can get money from with all those emotions! Stop iT !!!

    • @eoa363
      @eoa363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      1) Public school is free.
      2) There's a significant cost difference between IUI and IVF and she only found out recently that IVF would be the best option for her. "Years ago" she (like most people) assumed she would be able to find a mate and go about getting pregnant the standard way.
      3) People fundraise for lots of things, including medical procedures that insurance doesn't cover. If you don't want to contribute, no one is twisting your arm.

    • @deandrarobinson2156
      @deandrarobinson2156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just wish she would wait. Only cause I was a single mom. I will never go through that. I'm gonna be married and do it God way. I would hate to see her come out of all that money. I wonder if adoption would be an option for her? I love Wah take care

    • @kellyjones5462
      @kellyjones5462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@deandrarobinson2156 Im glad you Saïd that About How hard iT is to be a single mom, is not About school alone but About mental health for that kid. Ppl should try to be strong on both legs before having a child. Money is not all andwhat About life with a kid iT self!!!

    • @eoa363
      @eoa363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@deandrarobinson2156 She's 38 now, she'll be 39 before she can even try to get pregnant, and probably 40+ by the time she delivers (assuming she's successful in getting pregnant). How long is she supposed to wait? Adoption would still make her a single mother.

    • @AdaBabiee829
      @AdaBabiee829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is an extremely rude comment. if you don't support it then that's fine. btw she's mentioned that she has support from her family and it's not like she's gonna have a kid (hopefully) and then stop working. stop being so ignorant.