Robin Williams said it best….I use to think the worst thing in the world was being alone, its not, the worst thing in the world is being with someone who makes you feel alone.
Absolutely. Nowadays, women are exactly like that. Its much better, to stay alone. And have peace of mind. Get yourself a good hobby - get some good male friends, to hang along with, or just be happy onto your own. You don't need a entitled, toxic drama freak show into your life.
I legit have been single for so long that I really don’t know anything else other than doing what I want every second of my life lol. When I was in the navy I of course couldn’t do that but other than that every second of my adulthood life, I’m 33, has been doing what I choose every second. Of course I want a lifelong companion but I ain’t gonna spend my time out there filtering through it lol.
Living with a female will teach you that HER problems are your problems however YOUR problems are only yours. Why would you take on someone else's problems if they wouldnt lift a finger to help you when you need assistance?
With my American wife everything was a battle and nothing was appreciated. With my Filipina she appreciates everything I do. She helps me when I am reparing things, brings me water, helps, learns, but most importantly is thankful and proud.
kind of. even if you are the ''love of her life'' it will be hard or annoying or both. peace? maybe here and there. if you like drama marriage is perfect for you..
My 12 year marriage ended 34 years ago. I decided that I would live alone, and stay out of relationships for two years. And here I am 34 years later, still living alone, retired on a nice pension, enjoying my many toys, spending times with good friends, traveling, and positively loving life. Living alone is addictive guys. Peace, serenity, self sufficiency, security, and most of all FREEDOM, are highly addictive!
💯Agreed, I ended up alone too. I was married twice. I have 2 grown kids from the second marriage so at least we did something good together. Now I'm about the age of this man in the video and feel happy enough being single. One example is that when I'm home NOBODY tells me what to do. It's as simple as that.
Guys as married man with 3 children. I have to agree. The bedroom fun drys up. No one cares how much you do. Only what you didn’t do or if you messed up. Stay single young men. Don’t give up who you are. Enjoy your freedom gentlemen.
That's the problem with men though.. Y'all are a bunch of little b!tches. You always towing the line. Women suck. Are overly emotional, manipulative and by the gods are they selfish. Specially if they don't want you like Chad and Tyrone. If you want peace. Then she needs to suffer. If women suffer, then there will be peace
Same, 3 kids. Bedroom dies off some. Best thing I've done is drop 20-25 lbs. Buy some decent fitting clothes. Work out the beach muscles (biceps, chest). Get a little hint of attention from another woman or two, it seems to drag her back into sex. Have to be confident and not be a speed bump, I finally ditched happy wife happy life mentality. I am just fine alone so I don't sweat her leaving and I make that evident. My days aren't perfect but I think I turned this franchise around a bit
@@tractorback76 sounds exhausting though bro.. Like life is hard enough as is. Imagine having to put in all that effort and lose interest just for her to do what she is supposed to do.. Like sex is the simplest thing in the world. It literally cost you nothing but abit of time and some fluids
The Bible actually encourages more singleness than marriage. Paul encouraged that if you're not married, don't look for it and don't force it on your life. Not everyone is called to be married
lol,... I remember when I used to go to church and I commented during "Bible Study" and sited a scripture where Paul said,... "if you receive God's message when you are single it would be better for you to stay single." Man that didn't go over well!!! They HATE that scripture and scriptures that support SINGLENESS!!! lol... I'm still a Christian (but no longer attend Organized Religious Meetings) but let me tell you,... Christians HATE living "The Christian way/life!!!" and they HATE Single People and Single People that stay SINGLE!!! LOL... All Religions want and walk Young Men to the Guillotine called Marriage!!! lol...
True. Also, in the Genesis 2:18 "It is not "good" for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." God make woman for a man to be GOOD. Under the term of GOOD, men go married. No GOOD woman now. So stay away from marriage.
Let me explain even more. The entire point of the Bible is to get into heaven. Marriage is not needed to get in. So Paul said to stay single to best do the gospel work as you do have to worry about someone else. He himself didn't marry to even set the example. Marry or not do gods will brothers 🙏
I mean they pretty much are very early adopters of monkhood and celibacy . The church itself is just business. No one needs preachers, mega churches and stuff.
Life is better when you’re single, because you have less responsibilities, which means you can focus more on building yourself. Being single may mean less drama. You’re not having to deal with someone else’s BS.
Single 33. Male. Live in b.c. canada. Mortgage paid off. Car paid off. Career in trucking. Make 3k every two weeks. Investing in stocks. Home gym. Workout every morning. Building wealth. I never chase women. I let them come to me. Raw attraction is key. Play the game smart gents.
How tf did you buy a house (in BC) let alone pay it off at 33 making 70k a year lol. I make twice as much as you in Vancouver and I’m a peasant in this city.
Totally agree. Personally I'm 41, single, have never been married, have no kids and it's staying like that. I love saving, peace and quiet, freedom, my morning coffee, cooking, playing video games when I want, learning, creativity, no bs, complaining, doing my own thing. The list goes on and on. I enjoy life a lot ☺️
While i was married it was like this, 100% duties 24/7, i was like a slave in the relationship, if i sat with a cup of coffee my ex was sitting and looking at me, and when i put down the cup she got up, took the cup and run out to the kitchen with it, as a accusation against me, i was not doing enough, now, as a single/(divorced) i do everything when it suits me, i clean the kitchen while the dinner get ready, i clean the bathroom while the coffee are brewing, i wash clothes in the evening when i am relaxing, i do things when it suits me, and not being a slave
@@proseyootoob - I guess thousands and millions of men have such marriages, born before social media, everyone expected us to establish family, work and raise children, young men not yet established have the change for a better life, plus also, society are not pressurised them the same way either, its nice to know
That's the issue, isn't it. A slave in marriage and an indentured servant in divorce. The rules need to change but they won't. The dirty little secret... The state profits from the current system. Women profit. We are stooges. The state makes hundreds of millions through the women's court system via Title IV D reimbursement at .666 per dollar per month from the feds. If custody was 50/50 no support the state earns nothing. If the state secured a backdoor alimony payment of $1,000 it generates a revenue stream of $666 per month.
Was married for 8 years. Known her for 2 years prior to marriage. Been divorced now for 8 years. What this guy says is accurate. All of it. Men, get married at your own peril.
Married for 7 years but together for 16 years. Honestly, being married is a nightmare. Yesterday I had a bad day at work and when arrived home my wife were complaining about everything and anything for the entire night. For real guys, don't fall for this trap and go enjoy your freedom and silence. You guys have no idea the joy it's to get to a weekend and do whatever the f you want.
Exactly our parents never supplied us with information. I blame baby boomers and gen x for selling us this Romeo and Juliet bs lie. This whole woman are superficial thing is still new. In its infancy, this stuff didn’t exist a few years ago in the internet. It might one day get deleted from TH-cam because big brother doesn’t want men to know.
He is a good man. He is just the guy you can sail the channel with. His wife my have lost interest in him which might be just what naturally happens. But: She was selfish towards her own children. This is the real awful part about his wife.
Sorry to hear that. Nothing worse than not having respect for your old man. Just know no matter how pathetic he may be I'm sure he loves you. Just make sure you learn from his mistakes and don't repeat them.
You are probably an Adult Child, and I don't mean that as an attack. It is a result of growing up in an unhealthy household and it will effect your adult life.
John Griffin video is spot-on. I left a lengthy comment on his TH-cam channel. After being widowed for 7 years and getting through the grieving process, one would be surprised how much freedom you now have. This is MY house, MY truck, MY Magnum SRT8, MY boat, and MY food in MY refrigerator.
I like Johnny Depp 's quote, " The worst prison in the world is a home without peace. " Man do I agree. Man. I dated a girl yes she was a single mother with two kids from different fathers and a dog and a hamster and a ton of friends. She revelled in Chaos. It hurt my soul being in that maelstrom of emotions. Some people are just tuned into disorder and others are just not in tune to it. Im one of those people that needs peace. People yelling, kids yelling, dogs yelling, baby fathers yelling, friends yelling, neighbours, bailiffs etc etc. We mustn't be too self reliant and too isolated but im still to this day detoxifying from all that drama. My body and mind just lets me know its not for constant stress, noise and drama. Even, the mother couldn't bare it and was constantly going on little breaks and holidays everywhere. Palming off the kid onto friends and myself.
I believe the Bible says something similar to Depp: It’s better to live on the corner of a roof than in the home with a quarrelsome woman……..or something like that
@@mikey92362 Marriage CAN make your life better. BUT, in today's moral atmosphere, the probabilities have been greatly reduced in comparison to previous history. God bless
Once when I was married my wife told me I was sleeping on the couch. I saod I bought the f'ing bed of anyone is going to sleep on the couch it ain't be me. I'm divorced,not just because of that but this guy is right. It was a tough time & I still have 4 years & 10 months to go with child support but I have learned the fastest way to shut her up is just say thank you for divorcing me.
Child support is nothing more than backdoor alimony. Dirty little secret is Title IV D reimbursement. Whatever you are paying her the state is making .666 per dollar per month. The OAG didn't mention that, did they.
My wife tried to tell me to sleep on the couch. I told her I liked my bed just fine, and that she could sleep on the couch if she is so childish as to not be able to sleep next to me because she's angry. I then proceeded to immediately fall into a deep sleep while she seethed. We have been married a long time now, and are past most of the dumb crap. Don't give in to their stupid tests.
There is no reason even left to be in relationship with today's gen women most of the women have unrealistic expectations, high bodycount, still in love with ex's, talking to multiple guys like finding new target for their emotional traps
So many people are scared of dying alone and think that getting married is going to change that. We all are born alone and die alone. You can be married for 75 years and one of you will have to go through the passing of the other and the pain of all the memories you had with your partner that is gone forever. That's even more horrible than never been married and avoiding forming that attachment. Your sons and daughters, more than likely, forget about you and leave you in a nursing home. Kids that take care of aging parents are a rarity. Let's not forget about the fear on the back of your head about your partner leaving and taking your money and kids away. Keep single, travel the world, meet a lot of people, build a brotherhood, train yourself, build a business empire, do a lot of reading and seek the truth of all things, that's a good life.
Yes this is me. I decided at 14 that I'm not interested in living a traditional life. I'm now 46. I'm on a different path. My mum always used to ask when am I to get a girlfriend and get married? I hated that. And I refused to do the traditional life things. I tried dating very briefly. About one month. And it was as I suspected. A waste of time. And I wasn't doing it for me. I was doing it just so my mum would shut up about it. And I was curious to see what its like. The girls I dated were dumb as a bag of rocks. Or they talked about the most boring bullshit. Nope I'm MGTOW. I always was. I just didn't know it until I was older.
I have been divorced now for 2 1/2 years and the biggest difference I have seen…. The peace and quiet plus how much she didnt bring to the marriage. I’m still doing the same things I did when married. I still work out, I still cook for myself (meal prep) I smoke steaks, fish, chicken on my Traeger. I still wash my own clothes, I still work on cars, I still do yard work, I still go to work… and my sons came with me after the divorce.. so I do all these things with them. Joking I always tell friends when I got married I gained 130lbs and after the divorce I lost 195lbs….. I don’t know what shes doing today but I wish her well.
100 percent correct. My ex was never happy or content. There was always something. I have never been happier living alone. Happy wife, happy life is complete BS.
I completely agree with him. I'm 51 and have had more than enough long relationships to know that they aren't worth it anymore. Life is too short to put up with women's drama, games, and other BS. When you get older, your priorities change and you get wiser. My priorities are my career, and most importantly, help my sister in taking care of our elderly parents. Everything else is superficial.
Same thing here I'm 52 was married 22 years and been divorced for 10 years now and never going to commit to a life like that again. And today I'm going to pick up my dad and take him to a couple appointments because he's 78 now and needs help. Take care be smart brother ❤
I am 63. If you are single, life just gets better as long as your are healthy and have enough money to live the way you want. I have lived with 5 women. They are the same no matter their age. I do not miss any of them and was glad when they were gone. I only see them on my terms and living by myself is so peaceful and easy.
@@GBU61 Working on my health is my #1 priority. Loosing weight and eating healthily while doing interesting physical projects outside the home. Women? No thanks. Had my fill.
“I think I spent the last 15 years of our marriage trying to make her happy and she’s still unhappy!” This is what I notice quite often. I don’t think most women can be happy or content for longer than 5 minutes. No way I’m going to try and appease someone like that. Nope.
If they were adults and acted responsibly, they would take responsibility for their own happiness. It's never your responsibility to "make them happy". That's a death march.
@@brianmeen2158 And there is your answer to your other comment about why young men are saying "the juice isn't worth the squeeze". Because they've already figured out that most women aren't capable of being happy for more than a few minutes at a time, and those young guys have decided that it's not worth the effort to find the vanishingly small few who can. Because even if they do find a unicorn who can be happy for more than a few minutes at a time, they've realized that they'll STILL spend the rest of their lives trying to make an inherently discontented creature "happy" which is an obvious fool's errand to any man with more than 2 brain cells to rub together.
30, live in the midwest, lucky with good genes, take good care of myself, 6'1. I've dated and hooked up with quite a few chicks at this point. Most of them are the exact same, with subtle differences. I could talk for hours on what to avoid, but my main advice is... if it's not obvious that she looks up to you/appreciates you, you're screwed in the long run. Things don't get better the longer you date or when you get married, they can only stay the same or get worse.
I respect the fact that you admitted your looks got the chick's and that you suggested that if she doesn't have that aura of "looking up to you" when she speaks to you then it's a doomed situation,I felt that
men instinctually think "I will make up for this by working hard and being emotionally available and building a successful marriage" nope, for whatever reason that will make her hate you beyond imagination
Pre selection is real. I ride the same bike path and see the same people every day. No one says hi and looks away. But when I am doing same path with a girl next to me, it changes everything. 90% say hi and look at me/ us. Its fucked up but facts
Bro sidenote I jog the same trail almost every day and I’ve started exclaiming loudly with a smile “GOOD MORNING! 😃 “ at these motherfuckets 😂 😂 😂 mind you I’m a 40 year old jacked dude with a full beard and a shaved head. Sometimes you just gotta force it on these mfers 😂
Until I find GENUINE DESIRE or Pure Raw attraction from a woman, I will just stay single. Ive had that a couple times and dating them was 100x easier than a woman who is just kinda into you enough to stay.
@@Whatreally123even if it lasts, no emotion women have is constant. Their emotions are fickle. Red pill is incorrect to claim that a woman's emotions can be "gamed" long term. That isn't the way to have a long term relationship.
@@independentstrongman The statement" There is nothing permanent in nature IS a permanent statement IN NATURE. Therefore, the statement is self refuting. God bless.
Amen to that. I got bored of having sex with my still attractive long term girlfriend and mother of my kids. It’s not her fault but it not mine either. Im one of those dudes that needs variety. I don’t stay in the toxic relationship for sex, I stay in it for the sake of my children, with the eventual plan to split once they are old enough.
Is true being single lol, I only been working for 4 years and I bought 2 cobra mustang, fully build pc worth 6k , 3 dirt bike with full cash pay off , and yes I pay bills too. My secret is that I don't chase girls , waste money on cigarettes, weed, fast food , beer, or go to party
@@FerJitsu8Beer and weed help you to enjoy life too. You don't need to live like a monk in your personal habits. I don't really like the whole "got to live a Spartan life" stuff
Bo, your words are wisdom. "It's hard to put yourself first when you've been trained to put everybody else before you". This was a very hard lesson I had to learn before I began truly growing as a man.
Most men I know seem to be incapable of being alone. I tell them all the time to get alone, get busy, find purpose and excel. Nah, they get on FB dating, Tinder, etc and buy dinner for different women every weekend. Maybe get laid here and there. They ask, "Why don't you date?" I explain and point them to these vids and others that deliver RP wisdom. They tell me I have a problem. I hate w*men, blah blah blah. I remind them of their failed marriage (s), lost treasure and life energy, and they then get upset with me. They don't like it that I never married, no kids, no debt, no history on the family court docket. These are grown men who still can't "see".
His description of marriage is exactly my description of marriage. The commander no longer has a man slave to do her bidding, no body to bully, no body to give lists of things to do but herself. All she had to do is be nice and have occasional bedroom fun. Don't listen to the overseas nonsense. It's the same regardless. Once married, women have the power.
@@WilliamHolden-t5gmy "greener pasture", is ME. Wherever I choose be there I am and I'm JOYFUL, truly joyful. The Bahamas was amazing in solitude. God was EVERYWHERE. 😁
Women are the same overseas, sure, but the environment isn't. They are punished and shamed outside of the US. You are also more rare and attractive. That gives you leverage in the relationship. Obviously that is ruined if you bring her to the states and expose her to this toxic climate. Don't ever let your guard down with a woman, that is stupid. It's not correct to say things are the same overseas though. I am Polish and have family in Poland. Things are extremely different there, culturally. Family is way more important than in the West.
Every one of my male married neighbors when we have a get together and the guys are having a beer in the corner look at me and say that if they had to do it over again they would not have gotten married. They've all been married for over 20 years with adult children, and so far have beaten the odds.
Married is sexy is not the best, that is true.. having children and seeing your kids grow, being a responsible dad is one of the best things in the world.
I was dating a wonderful woman, she was perfect. Drop dead gorgeous, sweet, feminine, supportive, loving, very sexual. What I've always been looking for. For the first time since my divorce (7 years ago), I thought I've found a good one. I've been careful with who I love, but i felt safe with her. We moved in together. Instant change. 3 months later, I'm single and poorer. And mad asf at myself for being so stupid. Never again. I'm not even going to try and take time to recover. What's the point? To be "happy" for the next relationship? Nah. I'm already rebuilding a flock of fwb's. I still need sex, I just don't need a serious relationship. I was the nice guy, but I'm purging him now. He's an idiot.
@@ajhill5094 ah I see. Yeah, you basically paid for everything right? I don't understand why women think men can pay for everything and then still want equal say on things.
@wuy4 I can't really blame them for that. Guys are paying them, why wouldn't they take it? This girl wasn't asking for my money, one of her good qualities. I gave up my former living situation, loaded up, moved, and no w I have to replace what I gave up. It's a huge pia. I'm not blaming her entirely. I did it to myself. The part I do blame her for is not trying to work out the issues we had and to jump straight to this.
Like the commenter at the end, my wife had a heart attack in 2013. Met a lady a year later that was a delusional narcissist. I abruptly ended that when it became apparent. After that I started a relationship with a lady from work I had known for 35 years. Took longer to realize she was a narcissist too. I guess I have a type. Once I got educated about narcissism I broke that mold. She up and started girl trips. Been single about 10 months and finally I’m at peace. I ain’t going back 😄
Oh god, the thermostat one resonates so much. My ex would have the thermostat at 56F in winter which pissed me off no end. Trust me to find the only woman that didn't want the house burning hot at 70-80F when it's snowing outside.
@@johnsmith-ht3sy Of course. In my case I asked her whether we can't afford to have the house warm enough for actual humans? She would then scrunch her face up and start whining about how she was always too hot. Never gave one $hit about my comfort, there was never a middle ground. Obviously in summer both central air units would run 24/7. Stay single.
As a woman, I love your channel! I used to wonder why my husband wouldn't give me my way or just do what I say when it comes to marriage; I thought that's what marriage was. My husband showed me your channel and told me, "I'm the husband; I make the money that allows you stay home with the kids, I make the final decisions, and you will respect me." It's been a work in progress, but our marriage has been so much better, and our boys will grow up seeing how they should be respected as men.
This is mind blowing. You thought marriage is expecting spouse to follow your orders? How does that even make sense. No one likes being told what to do. Everyone knows that. To assume and impose that authority on oneself is utter insanity! If this is what is expected when a woman marries and man then it's no surprise men are totally fed up!
Well said. Men just want peace and respect. We don’t work all day just to come home to be bossed by the wife. We aren’t asking much nor demanding women to do ridiculous things. We just don’t want to fight or argue. It’s amazing how women don’t realize that. But I’ve learned that women start drama to test men. The smart men will leave the women. Enjoy the wall for those that don’t learn.
No lies detected from this brother. I'm 51, single, happy and having better sex with women than I did when I was married. No more spinning plates for a quarrelsome wife. Never had or did what I wanted while married, it was mostly pleasing her. Today I focus on doing what I want because that makes me happy.
I’m in the same boat except didn’t have to deal with the divorce cause we never tied the knot. She had a kind soul but was crazy when it came to relationships. She had no hobbies and created so much drama. So much more peace now and I look forward to so many things. Previously, everything i wanted out of life she would not want nor enjoy. Hoping to find one that actually wants to live and enjoy life with me. Learned that only😊 date someone who listens and supports your goals.
Im not married but my dad and granddad both got married young. They both had long marriages and good lives. The key is frame. Both of them were the alpha in the household. Both married women that understood they were the submissive ones in the household. Both had hobbies. Yeah my dad dragged me along to alot of them but he didnt end his whole life to appease my mom or us kids. We SHARED his life and though I wasnt always a happy camper back then, I wouldnt change anything for the world. As for sex, im not gonna ask about that but he had three of us kids...including one when my mom was 40. If you are gonna be single, thats fine...but live life with a purpose. My dad did sacrifice a little bit but he now has a family and a legacy. I wont have that same kind of legacy...but I live life with a purpose
Good luck finding a woman in America that acts like your mother! I had to accept reality about women and I finally understood that women, as a gender, are not wives. The 5% that still are, they got scooped up a long time ago.
@@90sshuffle you are exactly right my friend. I don’t understand Bo and his contradicting videos. I am confident he does it for the views , because most males are wandering around effeminate, weak and without purpose, whining about their life. Stay on your path. The greatest blessing in life is a good spouse and children.
@@Cbd_7ohm Its not irrelevant at all. The women have changed, yes. The path for a man who either gets married or stays single to have a fulfilling life hasnt changed.
Women will normally pick a cute car. Even though the car may be an unreliable piece of junk, if it's cute they want it. Of course, in the future, when the car breaks down, it will be you who needs to come to her rescue. The guy will regularly have to sacrifice his time, upset his schedule, just to deal with this lemon.
You're right about the fact you get ignored when you're alone but they all want you when you have someone,i had a gf in highschool but before i was making a move on another girl but she didn't want me and as soon as i started dating the other she was always after me. I wasn't in the same school as her but had some friends at that school and everytime i went there she was jumping around hugging me and almost screaming of excitement. I haven't trust a woman since,they dont know what they want and will cheat on you for no reason other than she was bored or felt like he was special
If women can choose to get an abortion because having a child would negatively impact their life, you have every right to walk away because being a father will impact yours. And you don't even have to destroy a fetus and live with that guilt. Even if the state forces you to pay child support, it's still better than marriage.
Married 16 years, knew her for 20, divorced 9 years. The last 6 years of my life the happiest of my entire life. I now live full time in Asia. Travel all the time, have more sex in a week than in a year of marriage. And it’s with much younger, hotter and more enthusiastic lovers. (Not girls for cash, but girls for cash is fun too).
What I learned is that it is not your job to make someone happy. You can't make your spouse happy. They have to find happiness for themselves. You can do so much in an attempt to make your spouse happy. If they don't know how to regulate their own emotions, how in the world can you make them happy? I believe it is impossible. Don't let your spouse make you feel like it is your job to make her happy. If your spouse is showing very bad behavior and crossing your boundaries, you may have to stay away from them for a time. Don't do it because you are trying to be mean. Do it because you want peace. Don't go toe to toe with your spouse when it concerns speaking negatively to each other. Don't be combative in that nature. Refrain from calling your spouse vulgar names. Walk away if you need to. Continue doing what is right even when your spouse is doing what is wrong. Don't do evil because your spouse is doing evil. Will you do what is right? You will eventually be repaid for it. Look out for it. It shall happen.
Very true! I am 58 years old and blissfully happy, but I wouldn’t dream of starting a TH-cam channel and telling the world what a great life I’ve got. It’s nobody else’s business.
Even relationships with raw attraction fades after years of marriage and kids. The bottom line is that you either have to adapt to it or not get married.
I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.
In the 50's my Dad worked a modest job, Mom stayed at home and raised the kids, and they lived a nice middle class lifestyle including owning a home. Nowadays both I and my partner works and can barely afford to make ends meet. Soon the kids and family dog will need to work to keep this household going. It's the destruction of the American dream right before our eyes.
I feel your pain mate, as a fellow retiree, I'd suggest you look into passive index fund investing and learn some more. For me, I had my share of ups and downs when I first started looking for a consistent passive income so I hired an expert advisor for aid, and following her advice, I poured $30k in value stocks and digital assets, Up to 200k so far and pretty sure I'm ready for whatever comes.
If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation
I was a late bloomer, but Tracy Britt Cool Consulting, my financial advisor helped me bring it all together and got me into crypto. Now retired for 6 years at 72, my managed portfolio with Tracy generates about 9k a month on average more than my RMD on my retirement accounts. Not real big, but together with SS we're able to live reasonably with 160k a year. While being mortgage free.
Solomon said it best. Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome, contentious wife proverbs ~ 25: 24 A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones. Proverbs 12:4
This guy is 100% correct. He isn't jaded, he's justified. I'm divorced once and widowed once. I'm happier now being alone than I ever was married. My second wife was a good woman. But I can't imagine finding another good one.
I have known more men destroyed by the desire for a wife and child and to keep them in comfort than I have seen destroyed by drink and harlots. -William Butler Yeats (1865 - 1939)
most women in the west will treat marriage like its a finish line and considering how little effort was being put in prior to the finish its just basic logic that tells you its a raw deal for men until theyre at the top of their game
Have you all heard of them saying “starter husbands.” Our society is really pathetic. The faster feminism gets flushed down the toilet the better for us all.
Initially when we say submissive women it sounds terrible. But what it really means is a woman that's not argumentative with everything and doesn't resent settling with you.
I’m 49yrs old and have been 12 years divorced, I have absolutely no desire to get into a relationship at all, everything this man said is on point, and I have lived it, but also this is not for everyone, the adjustment time/period is 2/3 years, once You surpass this You are good, if You try and don’t work for You do what he said last, pick a good woman and make sure she offers more then just good Head..😂😂😂😂
Have your standards and boundaries. If those boundaries are crossed and she does not sincerely apologize and or she repeats crossing the boundary. Cut your losses and move on to the next woman
When I was younger ( 18 ). I always wanted to get a woman and raise a family. Now that I'm much older ( 33 ). I'm having a different views on trying to find a woman. I'm not completely against marrying a woman. but it has to the right woman. but finding one like that is like hitting the lottery. I've only had two come after me. Hoping I would sweep them off their feet and marry them. The first one was in her early 20's. She had lots of emotional issues and the other woman was in her mid 40's and a user. Kind of a big age gap. and here's I shocking part. I work with both of these women at my job.
The problem you will face is you are not marrying her. You are marrying the state. A state that takes the opportunity to destroy you if it can. Your only hope is to live in a state without common law marriage and just live together after you sign a co habitation agreement. This is the only leverage you have left.
@@GBU61 when you put it that way. Then maybe I should just stay single. It'll be much better for my health in the long run. without all of the headaches 😳. I've never heard of a Co - Habitation agreement. didn't even know such a thing existed.
Men are expected to do most of the labor and work in a relationship. As you get older, that doesn't change all the way until you pass. So for most men, being single is actually easier than being in a relationship. You can live in a much smaller place because your partner doesn't need to live in a huge house to brag to her family. You will still need to do all of the things that you would otherwise do in the relationship, only less of it because you are alone like cooking, cleaning, shopping, driving to doctor's appointments, doing laundry, etc. Women don't do those things these days anyway, so there's no tradeoff there.
Interesting that he leads off with sex. I had a LTR with my ex which ended 15 years ago. Until we started living together there was sex, once she was in that dried up to zero. Thankfully I live in a state that doesn't recognize common law unmarried couples, however, it still cost me a huge amount to get rid of her. My first red pill was my female attorney complaining that I took steps to protect myself in case the cohabitation came to an end. Been single ever since and I'm not really interested in the drama and the risks. Do not cohabitate and keep it wrapped if you chose to partake.
same here, 5 year relationship. Started like rabbits, then we moved in and it went from many times a week, to 3 times, 2 times, once and now been dried up for 3 months (I'm 24 btw). All while I'm scaling my own startup, going gym regularly and do the cooking & washing up in the house (as well as heavy physical labour). I was prohibited from initiating because she "didn't like to feel pressured" and now its dead in the water. I've already made my decision on next steps.
@@callak_9974 Honestly, I think it was more sisterhood bs. Years later my ex says to me that I was a good person that never mistreated her. Why she had this epiphany I will never know.
@@callak_9974 She complained about it in her office when we all sat down for my ex to sign a quit claim on my house and I had to write the ex a massive check for her to leave and not darken my doors ever again.
One of the biggest issues men have in dealing with women and meeting them or getting to know them is shyness. The sooner you can get rid of your shyness the better off you will be in life, but then you are confronted with the paradox of what you have to deal with when you start meeting them because they can't be trusted. You ALWAYS have to keep your guard up and be smart. Don't fall into their traps. Teach yourself to be the best man you can be constantly improving on who you can be and live with God as your soul mate. 🙏
It is DEFINITELY easier. If you've married once, had kids and been spit out by the system? Do NOT do it again. He is telling you the 100% TRUTH!!! Far easier to keep your money and bang new ones.
I absolutely prefer to be single. I love having my own place, having my own money, and making my own decisions. Independence is freedom to me, as it is for many men and women alike.
Unwittingly pandered to!! That's me!! 2 exs, living in the projects, they have my houses!! I was a complete simp. I make 70k in Idaho. That's a good income here and I am living with the losers of society in a crappy apartment. No more. 30k saved in 2 years for a down payment. Gonna finally succeed and I know I can only do that alone..
Every relationship I’ve been in, I always put me first and they couldn’t stand it. I would tell them, “Don’t get upset when I’m continuously doing things that attract you to me in the first place.” Keep tying care of yourself guys. Self love and positivity will keep you going and elevate you.
My next door neighbor passed away today, She was 100 years old. It really has me thinking right now as a 34 year man. I don't wanna spend my whole life chasing women if i find love great, if I don't i don't. Im totally at peace living single. The more you live the more you be in a relationship with your life and not somebody else. I mean that's how it should be but that is changing as years go by.
58 and single, gave up dating over 10yrs ago after running into nothing but feminised boss babes. I can only be thankful that I have the stoicism of a slab of granite. Now just looking to a nice retirement out in the country somewhere doing what I want to.
I'm 54 been single 13 years, always worked in manufacturing, retired 6 months ago no debts small savings and absolutely living the dream, coworkers always belitled my fun loving non commitment attitude to life, their attitudes changed when i retired at 54 and they're working to nearly 70 years old, life is shorter than you think it is when you're in your 20's, life should be fun and hopefully when taking your last breath you can think yup, i enjoyed my life. 🤷👍❤️🇬🇧
You don’t have that special someone who waits till you’re sat watching the big game before standing in front of the TV and says “so I was thinking.” Or “we need to talk.”
This is honestly one of the best videos I’ve ever seen in my whole effing life !!!! Every young man should have to watch this before. He gets married then watch it 10 more times !!!!
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Remember guys, there is no woman that is as beautiful as your freedom !
My life is far more peaceful. I'll probably never date again..
Beautiful work ❤
Well said, thank you.
Lady liberty's the only lady for me😂
Your freedom lasts a lifetime, her beauty, if she's not toxic, 15 years, maybe if sh'e lucky?
Robin Williams said it best….I use to think the worst thing in the world was being alone, its not, the worst thing in the world is being with someone who makes you feel alone.
Absolutely. Nowadays, women are exactly like that. Its much better, to stay alone. And have peace of mind. Get yourself a good hobby - get some good male friends, to hang along with, or just be happy onto your own. You don't need a entitled, toxic drama freak show into your life.
So true
He had a family. He took his advice
Himself?
Is Robin Williams the guy who deleted himself?
The greatest thing about being single is the freedom.
Both physical and mental.
Or take the path of Passport Bros get out from western countries don't bring her home to be westernized stay there life is cheaper !!!
Peace of mind - absolutely. Priceless.
I legit have been single for so long that I really don’t know anything else other than doing what I want every second of my life lol. When I was in the navy I of course couldn’t do that but other than that every second of my adulthood life, I’m 33, has been doing what I choose every second. Of course I want a lifelong companion but I ain’t gonna spend my time out there filtering through it lol.
I wonder in 50 years if the female robot companion will be the ultimate, and at
managing our libidos too.
You are lazy. Too many men these days are butt lazy. Or what they call lames.
“Being in a relationship is about solving problems together…..problems you wouldnt have if you were single”
💯 most definitely wouldn’t have those problems
True
Thanks for this comment.
Living with a female will teach you that HER problems are your problems however YOUR problems are only yours.
Why would you take on someone else's problems if they wouldnt lift a finger to help you when you need assistance?
Nice.
Single male at 70. I have never been married. I am always amazed to know how many married men are unhappy and whipped.
Right, exactly but Bo keeps promoting marriage and relationships at his young age to men 20, 30, 40 years older than he is.
@WilliamHolden-t5g because bo the grifter wants you to pay for his consultations if you go mgtow he makes nothing .
Same for me but I am 71.
52 I have never been married.
I’m 26. No kids. Two jobs. Two TH-cam channels. Stand up guy. Any wisdom to give to me?
With my American wife everything was a battle and nothing was appreciated.
With my Filipina she appreciates everything I do. She helps me when I am reparing things, brings me water, helps, learns, but most importantly is thankful and proud.
Can I ask if you live in the US?
@@sweetbeep no
@@barryj3266 smart
🛫✈️.....passports...😎
Smart man. Just remember the old saying from Horace Greely: "Go East young man,"😂 ...and never bring your woman to the West!!
@5:12 “Why is marriage so hard? Because you weren’t her first choice” - Chris Rock
Somebody needs to tell that to Hillary Clinton. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
kind of. even if you are the ''love of her life'' it will be hard or annoying or both. peace? maybe here and there. if you like drama marriage is perfect for you..
She would still get bored if the guy was her first choice.
💯. The harder it is, the less you’re loved & respected.
That’s just a cope… fact is there is no first “choice”
Tell Tom Brady that 😂
1. Error: I need a woman to be happy.
2. Error: I can make a woman happy.
Result: Hell on earth.
I wonder in 50 years if the female robot companion will be the ultimate, and at
managing our libidos too.
😁🤔
3. Catastrophic Failure: Marriage.
@@miggy9260 Incompatable people that rolled the dice. Well get separated and divorced and then they're okay.
Lock your wife and your dog in the truck of your car for about an hour when you let them out and see which one is happy to see you 😅
@@JamesDavis-jq2ex 💯
Coach Greg Adams says: "Men are in love, women are in business."
Love the coach!
Coach gang 🙌
CGA!! 😂 CGA!! 😂 CGA!! 😂
🗣PROTECT🗣YOUR🗣M.E.A.T.
📢Money📢Energy📢Attention📢Time
this is the best title for new book who ever wants to write a book.
Shout out to the coach gang!
My 12 year marriage ended 34 years ago. I decided that I would live alone, and stay out of relationships for two years. And here I am 34 years later, still living alone, retired on a nice pension, enjoying my many toys, spending times with good friends, traveling, and positively loving life. Living alone is addictive guys. Peace, serenity, self sufficiency, security, and most of all FREEDOM, are highly addictive!
Facts!
Bravo indeed!!
💯Agreed, I ended up alone too. I was married twice. I have 2 grown kids from the second marriage so at least we did something good together. Now I'm about the age of this man in the video and feel happy enough being single. One example is that when I'm home NOBODY tells me what to do. It's as simple as that.
Many toys? sex toys?
@@HarryKamal-c4d Right a robot chick!!
Guys as married man with 3 children. I have to agree. The bedroom fun drys up. No one cares how much you do. Only what you didn’t do or if you messed up. Stay single young men. Don’t give up who you are. Enjoy your freedom gentlemen.
What's your advice then If I wanna have kids but don't want to end up in a botomless pit that is marriage for the mayority of men nowdays? 🫠
That's the problem with men though..
Y'all are a bunch of little b!tches. You always towing the line.
Women suck. Are overly emotional, manipulative and by the gods are they selfish. Specially if they don't want you like Chad and Tyrone.
If you want peace. Then she needs to suffer. If women suffer, then there will be peace
The sex dries up but you got to keep paying the Mortgage and all the bills, Fix teh car , Cut the grass, Empty the trash ect
Same, 3 kids. Bedroom dies off some. Best thing I've done is drop 20-25 lbs. Buy some decent fitting clothes. Work out the beach muscles (biceps, chest). Get a little hint of attention from another woman or two, it seems to drag her back into sex. Have to be confident and not be a speed bump, I finally ditched happy wife happy life mentality. I am just fine alone so I don't sweat her leaving and I make that evident. My days aren't perfect but I think I turned this franchise around a bit
@@tractorback76 sounds exhausting though bro..
Like life is hard enough as is. Imagine having to put in all that effort and lose interest just for her to do what she is supposed to do..
Like sex is the simplest thing in the world. It literally cost you nothing but abit of time and some fluids
The Bible actually encourages more singleness than marriage. Paul encouraged that if you're not married, don't look for it and don't force it on your life. Not everyone is called to be married
lol,... I remember when I used to go to church and I commented during "Bible Study" and sited a scripture where Paul said,... "if you receive God's message when you are single it would be better for you to stay single." Man that didn't go over well!!! They HATE that scripture and scriptures that support SINGLENESS!!! lol... I'm still a Christian (but no longer attend Organized Religious Meetings) but let me tell you,... Christians HATE living "The Christian way/life!!!" and they HATE Single People and Single People that stay SINGLE!!! LOL... All Religions want and walk Young Men to the Guillotine called Marriage!!! lol...
True. Also, in the Genesis 2:18 "It is not "good" for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."
God make woman for a man to be GOOD. Under the term of GOOD, men go married.
No GOOD woman now. So stay away from marriage.
Let me explain even more. The entire point of the Bible is to get into heaven. Marriage is not needed to get in. So Paul said to stay single to best do the gospel work as you do have to worry about someone else. He himself didn't marry to even set the example. Marry or not do gods will brothers 🙏
I mean they pretty much are very early adopters of monkhood and celibacy . The church itself is just business. No one needs preachers, mega churches and stuff.
True, my grandma told us the same thing. "Better to be alone than in bad company."
Life is better when you’re single, because you have less responsibilities, which means you can focus more on building yourself. Being single may mean less drama. You’re not having to deal with someone else’s BS.
hahahahah how about happy wife happy life thing
Foreign wife ...happy life
@@eternalbluesky6802 happy spouse, happy house. Don't put her on a pedestal. You are worth something.
Not exactly, but sure...
I’m staying single for life
"A mans first flowers are at his funeral" .
Single 33. Male. Live in b.c. canada. Mortgage paid off. Car paid off. Career in trucking. Make 3k every two weeks. Investing in stocks. Home gym. Workout every morning. Building wealth. I never chase women. I let them come to me. Raw attraction is key. Play the game smart gents.
True but don't rawdog them 😂
👏🏼 well done
How tf did you buy a house (in BC) let alone pay it off at 33 making 70k a year lol. I make twice as much as you in Vancouver and I’m a peasant in this city.
Great policy. If she's not attracted to you, first, don't even bother.
@@johntherecluse5121 baught in 12 years ago for 79k.
Totally agree.
Personally I'm 41, single, have never been married, have no kids and it's staying like that.
I love saving, peace and quiet, freedom, my morning coffee, cooking, playing video games when I want, learning, creativity, no bs, complaining, doing my own thing.
The list goes on and on. I enjoy life a lot ☺️
Good man...im 62...never married....had 49 marraige counselors in firehouse
Thanks man😊
Same here!!!
We're just responding to harsh climate conditions.*
While i was married it was like this, 100% duties 24/7, i was like a slave in the relationship, if i sat with a cup of coffee my ex was sitting and looking at me, and when i put down the cup she got up, took the cup and run out to the kitchen with it, as a accusation against me, i was not doing enough, now, as a single/(divorced) i do everything when it suits me, i clean the kitchen while the dinner get ready, i clean the bathroom while the coffee are brewing, i wash clothes in the evening when i am relaxing, i do things when it suits me, and not being a slave
You accepted being a slave.
Yeah, she definitely felt like she was the prize in the relationship.
Thanks for the story
@@proseyootoob - I guess thousands and millions of men have such marriages, born before social media, everyone expected us to establish family, work and raise children, young men not yet established have the change for a better life, plus also, society are not pressurised them the same way either, its nice to know
That's the issue, isn't it. A slave in marriage and an indentured servant in divorce. The rules need to change but they won't. The dirty little secret... The state profits from the current system. Women profit. We are stooges. The state makes hundreds of millions through the women's court system via Title IV D reimbursement at .666 per dollar per month from the feds. If custody was 50/50 no support the state earns nothing. If the state secured a backdoor alimony payment of $1,000 it generates a revenue stream of $666 per month.
Was married for 8 years. Known her for 2 years prior to marriage. Been divorced now for 8 years. What this guy says is accurate. All of it. Men, get married at your own peril.
Married for 7 years but together for 16 years. Honestly, being married is a nightmare. Yesterday I had a bad day at work and when arrived home my wife were complaining about everything and anything for the entire night. For real guys, don't fall for this trap and go enjoy your freedom and silence. You guys have no idea the joy it's to get to a weekend and do whatever the f you want.
Ditch Her. Or did she tell you that you can't do that. 😂
I've been there. Never again. There's nothing worse than being the punching bag for people who find it impossible to be happy.
Should’ve made a better choice in your woman. Nothing better than a traditional family with beautiful kids.
This is sad, sounds like your wife is the problem because my husband doesn’t deal with that 😂
If you don’t have kids, leave
im 67,single for last 12 years, Best life ive ever had,,,PEACE !!!
I have a similar story. Almost no stress now.
Our mothers never gave us what we needed and our fathers never told us the truth.....so here we are.
Ain't that the god damn truth 🤦♂️
I just learned from my brother's experiences. He dove in head-first.
Thank God the internet exists.
Exactly our parents never supplied us with information. I blame baby boomers and gen x for selling us this Romeo and Juliet bs lie. This whole woman are superficial thing is still new. In its infancy, this stuff didn’t exist a few years ago in the internet. It might one day get deleted from TH-cam because big brother doesn’t want men to know.
55yo Been debt free for 12 years, semi retired easy to stay single for a guy in Australia, the women here are toxic most of the time.
Bros got a full head of hair, looks awesome for 60.
He seems like he's healthy in mind and body. He's living the dream.
He didn't get drown by the succubus
Stress ages you - kills you.
He is a good man. He is just the guy you can sail the channel with.
His wife my have lost interest in him which might be just what naturally happens. But: She was selfish towards her own children. This is the real awful part about his wife.
Wig
Better to be single for sure. My dad is a pathetic simp. Id rather be dead than end up like him. My mom and sister are horrible people.
Sorry to hear that. Nothing worse than not having respect for your old man. Just know no matter how pathetic he may be I'm sure he loves you. Just make sure you learn from his mistakes and don't repeat them.
You are probably an Adult Child, and I don't mean that as an attack. It is a result of growing up in an unhealthy household and it will effect your adult life.
@@Red3f1ned He is too in love with his daughter to love me.
@@recoveryrider6183 Maybe, if so... I'll be a dead adult child very soon.
All married men are bets simps or end up she is in control if you do she will leave.
John Griffin video is spot-on. I left a lengthy comment on his TH-cam channel. After being widowed for 7 years and getting through the grieving process, one would be surprised how much freedom you now have. This is MY house, MY truck, MY Magnum SRT8, MY boat, and MY food in MY refrigerator.
I like Johnny Depp 's quote, " The worst prison in the world is a home without peace. " Man do I agree. Man. I dated a girl yes she was a single mother with two kids from different fathers and a dog and a hamster and a ton of friends. She revelled in Chaos. It hurt my soul being in that maelstrom of emotions. Some people are just tuned into disorder and others are just not in tune to it. Im one of those people that needs peace. People yelling, kids yelling, dogs yelling, baby fathers yelling, friends yelling, neighbours, bailiffs etc etc. We mustn't be too self reliant and too isolated but im still to this day detoxifying from all that drama. My body and mind just lets me know its not for constant stress, noise and drama. Even, the mother couldn't bare it and was constantly going on little breaks and holidays everywhere. Palming off the kid onto friends and myself.
Chaos Goblin.
I believe the Bible says something similar to Depp:
It’s better to live on the corner of a roof than in the home with a quarrelsome woman……..or something like that
I just stare in disbelief when a guy tries to tell me that marriage makes life better.
That's the craziest thing I've amber heard.
@@mikey92362 Marriage CAN make your life better. BUT, in today's moral atmosphere, the probabilities have been greatly reduced in comparison to previous history. God bless
@@Goodkidjr43 I feel like you may have possibly missed the humor. :)
I respect the honesty of this older man, let it be a warning for the younger men out there.
Once when I was married my wife told me I was sleeping on the couch. I saod I bought the f'ing bed of anyone is going to sleep on the couch it ain't be me. I'm divorced,not just because of that but this guy is right. It was a tough time & I still have 4 years & 10 months to go with child support but I have learned the fastest way to shut her up is just say thank you for divorcing me.
😂😂 the last part is great
Child support is nothing more than backdoor alimony. Dirty little secret is Title IV D reimbursement. Whatever you are paying her the state is making .666 per dollar per month. The OAG didn't mention that, did they.
My wife tried to tell me to sleep on the couch. I told her I liked my bed just fine, and that she could sleep on the couch if she is so childish as to not be able to sleep next to me because she's angry.
I then proceeded to immediately fall into a deep sleep while she seethed. We have been married a long time now, and are past most of the dumb crap.
Don't give in to their stupid tests.
That shit always happens!
@@stevescuba1978letting a woman kick you out of your own bed is an ultimate simp move!
If I wanted to take tests everyday, I would be in school, not a relationship.
I'd rather try the Philippines or Thailand.And get a vasectomy before I go there!!
There is no reason even left to be in relationship with today's gen women most of the women have unrealistic expectations, high bodycount, still in love with ex's, talking to multiple guys like finding new target for their emotional traps
Not only talking to other guys but expecting that a serious dude won't be talking to other women while they can do whatever they want. No thanks.
@@muhdiversity7409 Yup bro you can't understand women nature their choices change in sec's
Realist thing i've ever heard...I feel like most of them have BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and they're flying under the radar 🤯
Be a leader. Don't beg, Don't chase you will never win. Don't!
So many people are scared of dying alone and think that getting married is going to change that. We all are born alone and die alone. You can be married for 75 years and one of you will have to go through the passing of the other and the pain of all the memories you had with your partner that is gone forever. That's even more horrible than never been married and avoiding forming that attachment. Your sons and daughters, more than likely, forget about you and leave you in a nursing home. Kids that take care of aging parents are a rarity. Let's not forget about the fear on the back of your head about your partner leaving and taking your money and kids away. Keep single, travel the world, meet a lot of people, build a brotherhood, train yourself, build a business empire, do a lot of reading and seek the truth of all things, that's a good life.
Ok & observe Idiocracy expanding while contributing nothing to preventing it. If your IQ is over 110 you should make babies. One way or another
Yes this is me. I decided at 14 that I'm not interested in living a traditional life. I'm now 46. I'm on a different path. My mum always used to ask when am I to get a girlfriend and get married? I hated that. And I refused to do the traditional life things. I tried dating very briefly. About one month. And it was as I suspected. A waste of time. And I wasn't doing it for me. I was doing it just so my mum would shut up about it. And I was curious to see what its like. The girls I dated were dumb as a bag of rocks. Or they talked about the most boring bullshit.
Nope I'm MGTOW. I always was. I just didn't know it until I was older.
Amen
The point is having a legacy and people that care about you. Such as a family
@@HenrySimmons1225I had a kids and my wife alienated them from me , so there’s that
I have been divorced now for 2 1/2 years and the biggest difference I have seen…. The peace and quiet plus how much she didnt bring to the marriage. I’m still doing the same things I did when married.
I still work out, I still cook for myself (meal prep) I smoke steaks, fish, chicken on my Traeger. I still wash my own clothes, I still work on cars, I still do yard work, I still go to work… and my sons came with me after the divorce.. so I do all these things with them.
Joking I always tell friends when I got married I gained 130lbs and after the divorce I lost 195lbs….. I don’t know what shes doing today but I wish her well.
130/195 😂
Been divorced 16 yrs now.... the only person I deal with is myself and I love it that way.
130-195....that's a 50% ROI. Got any hot tips to share? 😄
She's looking out the window sipping box wine whilst the 17 cats reap havoc in the house
F her hope she ain't doing well
100 percent correct. My ex was never happy or content. There was always something. I have never been happier living alone. Happy wife, happy life is complete BS.
I have noticed many passages in the Bible warning men of female nature and “their jezebel spirit.”
@@WilliamHolden-t5g Jezebel means hypergamous now.
I completely agree with him. I'm 51 and have had more than enough long relationships to know that they aren't worth it anymore. Life is too short to put up with women's drama, games, and other BS.
When you get older, your priorities change and you get wiser. My priorities are my career, and most importantly, help my sister in taking care of our elderly parents. Everything else is superficial.
Same thing here I'm 52 was married 22 years and been divorced for 10 years now and never going to commit to a life like that again. And today I'm going to pick up my dad and take him to a couple appointments because he's 78 now and needs help. Take care be smart brother ❤
@@seaotter72Thanks brother. You too.
I am 63. If you are single, life just gets better as long as your are healthy and have enough money to live the way you want. I have lived with 5 women. They are the same no matter their age. I do not miss any of them and was glad when they were gone. I only see them on my terms and living by myself is so peaceful and easy.
@@GBU61 Working on my health is my #1 priority. Loosing weight and eating healthily while doing interesting physical projects outside the home. Women? No thanks. Had my fill.
“I think I spent the last 15 years of our marriage trying to make her happy and she’s still unhappy!”
This is what I notice quite often. I don’t think most women can be happy or content for longer than 5 minutes. No way I’m going to try and appease someone like that. Nope.
FOMO and hypergamy are their Achilles heel.
If they were adults and acted responsibly, they would take responsibility for their own happiness.
It's never your responsibility to "make them happy". That's a death march.
@@brianmeen2158 And there is your answer to your other comment about why young men are saying "the juice isn't worth the squeeze".
Because they've already figured out that most women aren't capable of being happy for more than a few minutes at a time, and those young guys have decided that it's not worth the effort to find the vanishingly small few who can.
Because even if they do find a unicorn who can be happy for more than a few minutes at a time, they've realized that they'll STILL spend the rest of their lives trying to make an inherently discontented creature "happy" which is an obvious fool's errand to any man with more than 2 brain cells to rub together.
30, live in the midwest, lucky with good genes, take good care of myself, 6'1. I've dated and hooked up with quite a few chicks at this point. Most of them are the exact same, with subtle differences. I could talk for hours on what to avoid, but my main advice is... if it's not obvious that she looks up to you/appreciates you, you're screwed in the long run. Things don't get better the longer you date or when you get married, they can only stay the same or get worse.
I respect the fact that you admitted your looks got the chick's and that you suggested that if she doesn't have that aura of "looking up to you" when she speaks to you then it's a doomed situation,I felt that
men instinctually think "I will make up for this by working hard and being emotionally available and building a successful marriage"
nope, for whatever reason that will make her hate you beyond imagination
Thats wisdom brother. Me 42 ,having been with more than a few...came to the same conclusion.
If she isn’t 100% in you’re 100% f’d
10 year more down the line, similar genetic setup etc. I can assure you, that they only get worse, they never stay the same.
I needed this today. Thanks! Being single is just being happy and free everyday with almost nothing to worry about.
I hear you brother. Some days I get lonely and down myself. These videos remind me how fortunate I am to be able to live life on my terms.
Of course it is better. The World has been turned insane.
And upside down.
Depends on the woman though. Sure most of them are ass nowadays but you can't deny there exist women who would make amazing wives
Unsocial Media sadly changed all the women behaviour worldwide, it's like a pandemic, all females between teenie to even late 50's.
@@marcp.1752 most are messed up not all but most I would agree
Beauty fades, but freedom is forever
Pre selection is real. I ride the same bike path and see the same people every day. No one says hi and looks away. But when I am doing same path with a girl next to me, it changes everything. 90% say hi and look at me/ us. Its fucked up but facts
Cities suck.
Problem is you're only rarely going to be with her.
Yes I realised that men don't hold much social value in society...it's only when you have a woman that people see value unfortunately
If they smell money it all changes...
Bro sidenote I jog the same trail almost every day and I’ve started exclaiming loudly with a smile “GOOD MORNING! 😃 “ at these motherfuckets 😂 😂 😂 mind you I’m a 40 year old jacked dude with a full beard and a shaved head.
Sometimes you just gotta force it on these mfers 😂
That's a 'joke' that's been around for ages. Q: How do you make a woman lose interest in sex? A: Marry her.
Filipinas?
They look it more than I do
Until I find GENUINE DESIRE or Pure Raw attraction from a woman, I will just stay single. Ive had that a couple times and dating them was 100x easier than a woman who is just kinda into you enough to stay.
Even that won't last. Genu8ne desire or not, 6 months to a year or maybe 2 years, itll be a platonic relationship anyway.
@@Whatreally123even if it lasts, no emotion women have is constant. Their emotions are fickle. Red pill is incorrect to claim that a woman's emotions can be "gamed" long term. That isn't the way to have a long term relationship.
@@independentstrongman The statement" There is nothing permanent in nature IS a permanent statement IN NATURE. Therefore, the statement is self refuting. God bless.
Facts! That’s what I’ve experienced
That was my marriage too. You know it’s over when you try to come home late so you don’t see her still awake, and YOU reject her for sex.
Amen to that. I got bored of having sex with my still attractive long term girlfriend and mother of my kids. It’s not her fault but it not mine either. Im one of those dudes that needs variety. I don’t stay in the toxic relationship for sex, I stay in it for the sake of my children, with the eventual plan to split once they are old enough.
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Is true being single lol, I only been working for 4 years and I bought 2 cobra mustang, fully build pc worth 6k , 3 dirt bike with full cash pay off , and yes I pay bills too. My secret is that I don't chase girls , waste money on cigarettes, weed, fast food , beer, or go to party
Ma man is single with 2 god damn cobra mustangs ❤ this one knows how to enjoy life.
@@FerJitsu8Beer and weed help you to enjoy life too. You don't need to live like a monk in your personal habits. I don't really like the whole "got to live a Spartan life" stuff
Stop buying toys, buy investments. You will thank me later
@@toddhellyar4167 Nobody needs multiple iterations of the same thing, ie 3 dirt bikes. Saying that, investments can go tits up too.
@garylancaster8612 It ain't that hard. Some investments go bad, but all toys waste money
Bo, your words are wisdom. "It's hard to put yourself first when you've been trained to put everybody else before you". This was a very hard lesson I had to learn before I began truly growing as a man.
Most men I know seem to be incapable of being alone. I tell them all the time to get alone, get busy, find purpose and excel. Nah, they get on FB dating, Tinder, etc and buy dinner for different women every weekend. Maybe get laid here and there. They ask, "Why don't you date?" I explain and point them to these vids and others that deliver RP wisdom. They tell me I have a problem. I hate w*men, blah blah blah. I remind them of their failed marriage (s), lost treasure and life energy, and they then get upset with me. They don't like it that I never married, no kids, no debt, no history on the family court docket. These are grown men who still can't "see".
Same situation , if your single these days some people would assume you are weird or gay or very selfish lol , crazy world!
Married men are jealous of single men and their freedom. Married women don’t like it that you are not suffering with some jezebel.
@CtrlAltDelite ya then they say you hate women!Then I say no I'm educated!Shuts them up every time.They never have a come back comment hahaha 😆
those are simps your talking to
What about sex? No longer interested?
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So true. Every word of it. Marriage isnt "Happily ever after". Its "till death do us part". Come on death.
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It's more like "till someone better do us part"
It' s cool to have one or two kids but that could be the best thing, and then that's it call
it a day.
You know a guy is married when he sees the "Grim Reaper" and says: "What took you so long."
@@makeyourlifeeasier5794 I guess the Grim Reaper has a sense of humor too.
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His description of marriage is exactly my description of marriage. The commander no longer has a man slave to do her bidding, no body to bully, no body to give lists of things to do but herself. All she had to do is be nice and have occasional bedroom fun.
Don't listen to the overseas nonsense. It's the same regardless. Once married, women have the power.
Exactly, Bo keeps selling the dream to these young guys the grass is greener on the other side nonsense.
@@WilliamHolden-t5gmy "greener pasture", is ME. Wherever I choose be there I am and I'm JOYFUL, truly joyful. The Bahamas was amazing in solitude. God was EVERYWHERE. 😁
Women are the same overseas, sure, but the environment isn't.
They are punished and shamed outside of the US. You are also more rare and attractive. That gives you leverage in the relationship.
Obviously that is ruined if you bring her to the states and expose her to this toxic climate.
Don't ever let your guard down with a woman, that is stupid. It's not correct to say things are the same overseas though.
I am Polish and have family in Poland. Things are extremely different there, culturally. Family is way more important than in the West.
Nah. Only guys who've never traveled say that. Stay broke.
Every one of my male married neighbors when we have a get together and the guys are having a beer in the corner look at me and say that if they had to do it over again they would not have gotten married. They've all been married for over 20 years with adult children, and so far have beaten the odds.
They're screwed & they know it.
Beaten the odds by staying in the prison.
You mean the divorce odds or the happiness odds?
I fired my "dishwasher" in 2015 when the divorce was final. Peace ever since.
Married is sexy is not the best, that is true..
having children and seeing your kids grow, being a responsible dad is one of the best things in the world.
I was dating a wonderful woman, she was perfect. Drop dead gorgeous, sweet, feminine, supportive, loving, very sexual. What I've always been looking for. For the first time since my divorce (7 years ago), I thought I've found a good one. I've been careful with who I love, but i felt safe with her. We moved in together. Instant change. 3 months later, I'm single and poorer. And mad asf at myself for being so stupid. Never again. I'm not even going to try and take time to recover. What's the point? To be "happy" for the next relationship? Nah. I'm already rebuilding a flock of fwb's. I still need sex, I just don't need a serious relationship. I was the nice guy, but I'm purging him now. He's an idiot.
can you expand on why you ended up poorer? You guys were just living together for a few months, how'd she end up taking your money?
@@wuy4 she didn't get my money. It cost me about 10k in wasted moving expenses.
@@ajhill5094 ah I see. Yeah, you basically paid for everything right? I don't understand why women think men can pay for everything and then still want equal say on things.
Never live with a woman. It removes the mystery of you from her mind
@wuy4 I can't really blame them for that. Guys are paying them, why wouldn't they take it? This girl wasn't asking for my money, one of her good qualities. I gave up my former living situation, loaded up, moved, and no w I have to replace what I gave up. It's a huge pia. I'm not blaming her entirely. I did it to myself. The part I do blame her for is not trying to work out the issues we had and to jump straight to this.
She put him through it! As a formerly married blue pill fool, i get it.
Like the commenter at the end, my wife had a heart attack in 2013. Met a lady a year later that was a delusional narcissist. I abruptly ended that when it became apparent. After that I started a relationship with a lady from work I had known for 35 years. Took longer to realize she was a narcissist too. I guess I have a type. Once I got educated about narcissism I broke that mold. She up and started girl trips. Been single about 10 months and finally I’m at peace. I ain’t going back 😄
Oh god, the thermostat one resonates so much. My ex would have the thermostat at 56F in winter which pissed me off no end. Trust me to find the only woman that didn't want the house burning hot at 70-80F when it's snowing outside.
She may have been born a man
True, in my case I have to always pay the electric and gas bills. Wife works and her money is her money, not ours.
@@johnsmith-ht3sy Of course. In my case I asked her whether we can't afford to have the house warm enough for actual humans? She would then scrunch her face up and start whining about how she was always too hot. Never gave one $hit about my comfort, there was never a middle ground. Obviously in summer both central air units would run 24/7. Stay single.
As a woman, I love your channel! I used to wonder why my husband wouldn't give me my way or just do what I say when it comes to marriage; I thought that's what marriage was. My husband showed me your channel and told me, "I'm the husband; I make the money that allows you stay home with the kids, I make the final decisions, and you will respect me." It's been a work in progress, but our marriage has been so much better, and our boys will grow up seeing how they should be respected as men.
You should know how to behave with out going to a channel lol
Did you think y'all couldn't compromise?
This is mind blowing. You thought marriage is expecting spouse to follow your orders? How does that even make sense. No one likes being told what to do. Everyone knows that. To assume and impose that authority on oneself is utter insanity! If this is what is expected when a woman marries and man then it's no surprise men are totally fed up!
Watch, The Happy Wife School. Karen has some good things to say if you want to understand your marriage better.
Well said. Men just want peace and respect. We don’t work all day just to come home to be bossed by the wife. We aren’t asking much nor demanding women to do ridiculous things. We just don’t want to fight or argue. It’s amazing how women don’t realize that. But I’ve learned that women start drama to test men. The smart men will leave the women. Enjoy the wall for those that don’t learn.
No lies detected from this brother. I'm 51, single, happy and having better sex with women than I did when I was married. No more spinning plates for a quarrelsome wife. Never had or did what I wanted while married, it was mostly pleasing her. Today I focus on doing what I want because that makes me happy.
I’m in the same boat except didn’t have to deal with the divorce cause we never tied the knot. She had a kind soul but was crazy when it came to relationships. She had no hobbies and created so much drama. So much more peace now and I look forward to so many things. Previously, everything i wanted out of life she would not want nor enjoy. Hoping to find one that actually wants to live and enjoy life with me. Learned that only😊 date someone who listens and supports your goals.
I'm 69, never married. This guy is great! Thanks for posting.
Im not married but my dad and granddad both got married young. They both had long marriages and good lives. The key is frame. Both of them were the alpha in the household. Both married women that understood they were the submissive ones in the household. Both had hobbies. Yeah my dad dragged me along to alot of them but he didnt end his whole life to appease my mom or us kids. We SHARED his life and though I wasnt always a happy camper back then, I wouldnt change anything for the world. As for sex, im not gonna ask about that but he had three of us kids...including one when my mom was 40. If you are gonna be single, thats fine...but live life with a purpose. My dad did sacrifice a little bit but he now has a family and a legacy. I wont have that same kind of legacy...but I live life with a purpose
Good luck finding a woman in America that acts like your mother! I had to accept reality about women and I finally understood that women, as a gender, are not wives. The 5% that still are, they got scooped up a long time ago.
@@90sshuffle you are exactly right my friend. I don’t understand Bo and his contradicting videos. I am confident he does it for the views , because most males are wandering around effeminate, weak and without purpose, whining about their life. Stay on your path. The greatest blessing in life is a good spouse and children.
Totally irrelevant comment. This isn't 1945 or 1995 anymore.
@@Kelly-pp1et I really dont think Bo is being contradictory. Id say he encourages men to have purpose and to find a good woman.
@@Cbd_7ohm Its not irrelevant at all. The women have changed, yes. The path for a man who either gets married or stays single to have a fulfilling life hasnt changed.
That guy is so right on the money. I couldn't have said it better myself.
Women will normally pick a cute car. Even though the car may be an unreliable piece of junk, if it's cute they want it. Of course, in the future, when the car breaks down, it will be you who needs to come to her rescue. The guy will regularly have to sacrifice his time, upset his schedule, just to deal with this lemon.
You're right about the fact you get ignored when you're alone but they all want you when you have someone,i had a gf in highschool but before i was making a move on another girl but she didn't want me and as soon as i started dating the other she was always after me. I wasn't in the same school as her but had some friends at that school and everytime i went there she was jumping around hugging me and almost screaming of excitement. I haven't trust a woman since,they dont know what they want and will cheat on you for no reason other than she was bored or felt like he was special
*Guys: go shirtless outside as much as possible. It’s the one thing left that they can’t do and we can 😂* You can see steam coming out of their ears 😂
Says the chovinista pig
I’m not even married but I just had a kid and moved in with my gf
I’m living this
If women can choose to get an abortion because having a child would negatively impact their life, you have every right to walk away because being a father will impact yours. And you don't even have to destroy a fetus and live with that guilt. Even if the state forces you to pay child support, it's still better than marriage.
Married 16 years, knew her for 20, divorced 9 years.
The last 6 years of my life the happiest of my entire life.
I now live full time in Asia. Travel all the time, have more sex in a week than in a year of marriage. And it’s with much younger, hotter and more enthusiastic lovers. (Not girls for cash, but girls for cash is fun too).
Going to hell for fornicating is not fun though
What I learned is that it is not your job to make someone happy. You can't make your spouse happy. They have to find happiness for themselves. You can do so much in an attempt to make your spouse happy. If they don't know how to regulate their own emotions, how in the world can you make them happy? I believe it is impossible. Don't let your spouse make you feel like it is your job to make her happy.
If your spouse is showing very bad behavior and crossing your boundaries, you may have to stay away from them for a time. Don't do it because you are trying to be mean. Do it because you want peace. Don't go toe to toe with your spouse when it concerns speaking negatively to each other. Don't be combative in that nature. Refrain from calling your spouse vulgar names. Walk away if you need to. Continue doing what is right even when your spouse is doing what is wrong. Don't do evil because your spouse is doing evil. Will you do what is right? You will eventually be repaid for it. Look out for it. It shall happen.
Very true! I am 58 years old and blissfully happy, but I wouldn’t dream of starting a TH-cam channel and telling the world what a great life I’ve got. It’s nobody else’s business.
Society has cradled women in a sense of entitlement. Men are standing against a whole generational mindset. And dating apps reinforce that energy.
Yes the number of young men walking away will force change, either they will finally adhere or there will ultimately be anarchy
And simps the army of simps are the enablers
"When the Man of the family isn't happy, then no one is happy." There I changed it and made it make sense.
Even relationships with raw attraction fades after years of marriage and kids. The bottom line is that you either have to adapt to it or not get married.
I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.
In the 50's my Dad worked a modest job, Mom stayed at home and raised the kids, and they lived a nice middle class lifestyle including owning a home. Nowadays both I and my partner works and can barely afford to make ends meet. Soon the kids and family dog will need to work to keep this household going. It's the destruction of the American dream right before our eyes.
I feel your pain mate, as a fellow retiree, I'd suggest you look into passive index fund investing and learn some more. For me, I had my share of ups and downs when I first started looking for a consistent passive income so I hired an expert advisor for aid, and following her advice, I poured $30k in value stocks and digital assets, Up to 200k so far and pretty sure I'm ready for whatever comes.
If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation
I was a late bloomer, but Tracy Britt Cool Consulting, my financial advisor helped me bring it all together and got me into crypto. Now retired for 6 years at 72, my managed portfolio with Tracy generates about 9k a month on average more than my RMD on my retirement accounts. Not real big, but together with SS we're able to live reasonably with 160k a year. While being mortgage free.
She is really a good investment advisor. Was privileged to attend some of her seminars.that's how I started my own crypto investment
Solomon said it best.
Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome, contentious wife proverbs ~ 25: 24
A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones. Proverbs 12:4
Bible is full of Red pills.
This guy is 100% correct. He isn't jaded, he's justified. I'm divorced once and widowed once. I'm happier now being alone than I ever was married. My second wife was a good woman. But I can't imagine finding another good one.
Damn! A whole video of saying the quiet things out loud and I’m here for it!
I have known more men destroyed by the desire for a wife and child and to keep them in comfort than I have seen destroyed by drink and harlots.
-William Butler Yeats (1865 - 1939)
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Coach Scott Adams says: "Just run away from them as fast as you can!!!"
most women in the west will treat marriage like its a finish line and considering how little effort was being put in prior to the finish its just basic logic that tells you its a raw deal for men until theyre at the top of their game
Have you all heard of them saying “starter husbands.” Our society is really pathetic. The faster feminism gets flushed down the toilet the better for us all.
I’m 40 been married, two kids.
This man is correct, I’m a much better father now I’m calm and happy.
Initially when we say submissive women it sounds terrible. But what it really means is a woman that's not argumentative with everything and doesn't resent settling with you.
I’m 49yrs old and have been 12 years divorced, I have absolutely no desire to get into a relationship at all, everything this man said is on point, and I have lived it, but also this is not for everyone, the adjustment time/period is 2/3 years, once You surpass this You are good, if You try and don’t work for You do what he said last, pick a good woman and make sure she offers more then just good Head..😂😂😂😂
The only thing women have ever added to my life was anxiety. I do not want more of that.
Have your standards and boundaries. If those boundaries are crossed and she does not sincerely apologize and or she repeats crossing the boundary. Cut your losses and move on to the next woman
When I was younger ( 18 ). I always wanted to get a woman and raise a family. Now that I'm much older ( 33 ). I'm having a different views on trying to find a woman. I'm not completely against marrying a woman. but it has to the right woman. but finding one like that is like hitting the lottery.
I've only had two come after me. Hoping I would sweep them off their feet and marry them. The first one was in her early 20's. She had lots of emotional issues and the other woman was in her mid 40's and a user. Kind of a big age gap. and here's I shocking part. I work with both of these women at my job.
The problem you will face is you are not marrying her. You are marrying the state. A state that takes the opportunity to destroy you if it can. Your only hope is to live in a state without common law marriage and just live together after you sign a co habitation agreement. This is the only leverage you have left.
@@GBU61 when you put it that way. Then maybe I should just stay single. It'll be much better for my health in the long run. without all of the headaches 😳. I've never heard of a Co - Habitation agreement. didn't even know such a thing existed.
@@tylerdouble8721I heard about someone doing something like that. Had her sign a rental agreement for one dollar.
Men are expected to do most of the labor and work in a relationship. As you get older, that doesn't change all the way until you pass. So for most men, being single is actually easier than being in a relationship. You can live in a much smaller place because your partner doesn't need to live in a huge house to brag to her family. You will still need to do all of the things that you would otherwise do in the relationship, only less of it because you are alone like cooking, cleaning, shopping, driving to doctor's appointments, doing laundry, etc. Women don't do those things these days anyway, so there's no tradeoff there.
Interesting that he leads off with sex. I had a LTR with my ex which ended 15 years ago. Until we started living together there was sex, once she was in that dried up to zero. Thankfully I live in a state that doesn't recognize common law unmarried couples, however, it still cost me a huge amount to get rid of her. My first red pill was my female attorney complaining that I took steps to protect myself in case the cohabitation came to an end. Been single ever since and I'm not really interested in the drama and the risks. Do not cohabitate and keep it wrapped if you chose to partake.
same here, 5 year relationship. Started like rabbits, then we moved in and it went from many times a week, to 3 times, 2 times, once and now been dried up for 3 months (I'm 24 btw).
All while I'm scaling my own startup, going gym regularly and do the cooking & washing up in the house (as well as heavy physical labour).
I was prohibited from initiating because she "didn't like to feel pressured" and now its dead in the water.
I've already made my decision on next steps.
Your attorney complained about you being somewhat pro-active? They just wanted to bill you for more hours if that's the case.
@@takiherosquires1372 Good for you. It just isn't worth trying to make someone who is profoundly unhappy happy while they use you for a better life.
@@callak_9974 Honestly, I think it was more sisterhood bs. Years later my ex says to me that I was a good person that never mistreated her. Why she had this epiphany I will never know.
@@callak_9974 She complained about it in her office when we all sat down for my ex to sign a quit claim on my house and I had to write the ex a massive check for her to leave and not darken my doors ever again.
One of the biggest issues men have in dealing with women and meeting them or getting to know them is shyness. The sooner you can get rid of your shyness the better off you will be in life, but then you are confronted with the paradox of what you have to deal with when you start meeting them because they can't be trusted. You ALWAYS have to keep your guard up and be smart. Don't fall into their traps. Teach yourself to be the best man you can be constantly improving on who you can be and live with God as your soul mate. 🙏
It is DEFINITELY easier. If you've married once, had kids and been spit out by the system? Do NOT do it again. He is telling you the 100% TRUTH!!! Far easier to keep your money and bang new ones.
I absolutely prefer to be single. I love having my own place, having my own money, and making my own decisions. Independence is freedom to me, as it is for many men and women alike.
Unwittingly pandered to!! That's me!! 2 exs, living in the projects, they have my houses!! I was a complete simp. I make 70k in Idaho. That's a good income here and I am living with the losers of society in a crappy apartment. No more. 30k saved in 2 years for a down payment. Gonna finally succeed and I know I can only do that alone..
Every relationship I’ve been in, I always put me first and they couldn’t stand it. I would tell them, “Don’t get upset when I’m continuously doing things that attract you to me in the first place.” Keep tying care of yourself guys. Self love and positivity will keep you going and elevate you.
🎉 Happy Friday Kings, what up BO 🫡😏😏😎
Even the alpha isn't safe. Tom Brady? Kaka?
Guys can appear alpha but have a simp mentality.
Brady’s wife was rich too, that’s a big no-no. Part of establishing the hierarchy is having the power- in this world the financial power- over her
Being Alpha is a mindset, not good looks, bank account balance or celebrity status.
Being Alpha is a mindset, not good looks, celebrity status, or bank account balance.
If Tim Brady isn’t the one, no man is. Happy comes from within. Told my wife just before I divorced her.
This man hanging out in the woods vlogging has lived a whole and full life, he knows.
My next door neighbor passed away today, She was 100 years old. It really has me thinking right now as a 34 year man. I
don't wanna spend my whole life chasing women if i find love great, if I don't i don't. Im totally at peace living single. The more you live the more you be in a relationship with your life and not somebody else. I mean that's how it should be but that is changing as years go by.
Sometimes I don't do dishes until I've dirtied every cup I own.
Freedom.
Suggestion- throw out the extras. Maybe lay off the weed too😂
Tried paper plates 30 years ago, as a stress-reducer. After a week, I was hooked.
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Laying off weed < Freedom
@geneadaway2671 I do use a decent amount of paper plates. Getting expensive nowadays though, thanks alot Obama
58 and single, gave up dating over 10yrs ago after running into nothing but feminised boss babes. I can only be thankful that I have the stoicism of a slab of granite. Now just looking to a nice retirement out in the country somewhere doing what I want to.
I'm 54 been single 13 years, always worked in manufacturing, retired 6 months ago no debts small savings and absolutely living the dream, coworkers always belitled my fun loving non commitment attitude to life, their attitudes changed when i retired at 54 and they're working to nearly 70 years old, life is shorter than you think it is when you're in your 20's, life should be fun and hopefully when taking your last breath you can think yup, i enjoyed my life. 🤷👍❤️🇬🇧
You don’t have that special someone who waits till you’re sat watching the big game before standing in front of the TV and says “so I was thinking.” Or “we need to talk.”
Big facts
I think of all my married friends frequently. I do it to remind myself I would not want to trade situations with a single one of them.
This is honestly one of the best videos I’ve ever seen in my whole effing life !!!! Every young man should have to watch this before. He gets married then watch it 10 more times !!!!