My First Day as a Full-time Youtuber | making cottagecore & romanticizing life videos
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024
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Ahhhh I can't believe I'm actually posting this video! I am still in shock! 💓 I hope you enjoy this more vlog style video where I take you with me as I begin this new chapter of my life as a full-time youtuber making cottagecore, romanticizing life and slow living videos (as I'm typing that, I still can't believe it.) I seriously can't thank you guys enough for believing in me and supporting my channel so much so to get me to this point. Truly wouldn't be here with you, friends. Hope you enjoy the video :)
your friend, Desi 🌷
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I always feel so honored when you allow us a look into yours and Jared’s relationship because it’s so special and genuine and there are so many sweet moments between you two. It feels like being given a glimpse into a great love story. When I think of true love, yours is the kind that I hope to find for myself one day 💛
I feel the same! After having some not so great relationships it's amazing to see how great it can be!
They are so cute!!! Every time we get to see them together it feels so special
It's perfect to have the same liking.
Okay seriously, I think this is one of the most beautiful and happy channels on TH-cam!! WOW!! 💕💕💕
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Totally agree with you!! 🤗💕💕💕
siii me encantan tus videos
YES! Something we really need, these days!!
yes! i feel like i'm watching a princess movie!
I'm convinced if Anne Shirley lived today she'd be you. X
She’s literally my idol 🙌🏻💗
@@DarlingDesi Have you seen the series 'Anne with an e'. The main character is Anne Shirley-Cuthbert. It's an amazing show. Wish I could watch it over and over again as if my first time!
@@simplykass I have! It’s one of my favorite shows ☺️
@@DarlingDesi I'M SO ANGRY THAT THE CANCELLED THE SHOW!
@@simplykass the books are lovely, have you read them?
“Oh she sees us 😱” made me giggle I can’t lie
Really enjoyed this video. Best part - Jared filming you as a Desi in her natural habitat "she's making stacks of books", and Jared reading to you and your pup. My hubby is lovely, but oh, if he would read to me. Sigh. :)
Haha he’s a fun one 😂💗 After we got married I asked Jared to read to me because dyslexia makes it hard for me to read books physically, so now it’s become part of our nightly routine 🤍
The Jared cam part was so wholesome 😭 it may sound silly, but I started crying when you said you had forgotten a scene you had wanted to shoot and Jared's reaction being so loving and understanding. My ex would make me feel horrible if I had forgotten anything and I had so much anxiety around asking for anything and just to see that kind of reaction is such a lovely standard to keep in my mind, it felt like genuine respect and love and seeing it makes it seem possible for me to find it as well haha. I love you Desi thank you for all the effort and beauty you put into everything 😭🌙🌹
I had the same thoughts when I heard Jared saying "No it's fine, where do you want me to go?". It's so loving and caring and somehow alien as I wasn't treated like that in my past relationship either. My brain therefore forecasts a totally different trajectory of reaction under such circumstances. My heart goes out to you❤ You are worthy of love, care, respect, and belonging❤
Jared saying "No it's fine, where do you want me to go?" was so loving and caring❤ His documentary of you as a species is hilarious. And your excitement in this video is so cute!
I’m so excited for you to have the opportunity to start this new chapter of your life!! Thanks to you, I’ve started to appreciate the slower moments of life and get back into reading (I’m actually reading I Capture The Castle right now and I love it!!). Thank you so much for all that you do and all of the joy that you give your subscribers 🥰
Ohh yay!! I need to take more of my own advice and slow down a bit more myself. I’m so happy you’re enjoying I Capture The Castle ☺️💗 it’s such a good one!
I agree with Jane Marie! You inspire me to see and appreciate more the beauty in the small things. Your enthusiasm for life is infectious!
I normally get annoyed when TH-camr put their boring partners in vids, Jared is actually a delightful addition to Desi’s vids, love them as a couple ❤️
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! If you need **any** advice on anything, big or small, i’m more than happy to help out where i can :) i’m so excited to see your career blossom
So sweet to see youtubers help each other out!
A little trick I always use when pouring hot water over the teabag in my mug is to wrap the string around the handle of the mug! So it doesn’t get lost in the tea and you just unwrap it when it’s done steeping ☕️ 🫖
It’s not a privilege. It’s hard work. Privilege is getting something for nothing. Hard work is self sufficiency. Lol. Congratulations. Your hard work has paid off.
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Yes! 🌷
It is a privilege. And hard work. It can be both, and it is. ❤️
Desi and Jared's relationship is goals. They're so sweet and loving and care so much for each other! I'm so glad you have each other, and I hope I end up having someone like that in my life.
I am not a person to comment much. I think this is my 2nd time commenting in a TH-cam channel. But I had to do it. When I watch your videos it makes me scape from my own life my own problems. It makes me dream while awake. Please keep going. It will be hard like everything in life but it can be possible. 💚 I am happy that I found this channel, it really does make me love the world and brings my hopeless self believe that the world is not as cruel and bad as i thought, I just need to look in different ways. Thank you !
I'm a new subscriber. I just wanted to say that your videos are really cool and I love them. From what I've seen, you have a real passion and talent for filming and editing, and the insight that you provide on your life (which I think many fantasize about having, who wouldn't want to live by the mountains and spend tons of time in nature?) is beyond phenomenal. So glad you are accomplishing your dreams!!
I’m still in shock, it doesn’t seem real. But thank you so much! I wish I could spend more time in nature, it seems that recently I’m only out there to film but never to relax, hopefully I’ll come up with a better schedule soon. Thank you so much for your support and kind words 💗
I'm just so excited for you, but mostly for me because this means more Desi!
This! :D
Okay, right !!!!! I feel the same way . I’m obsessed with her content
You have no idea how much your positive view on life has inspired so many, I started watching a little while back and genuinely it changed my view on life and helped me live life to the fullest even with all the hell ive been through. I also started actively reading, painting and spending more time outside thanks to you!
I really love the antique furnitures and old Times,but I can't live a life like that because of school etc. I am just really hopeless about it. I want to live my life however I want. Sooo can u give me some tips ??💃💘
I didn’t get this furniture and create my dream bedroom until I was 28. At university I just tried to decorate my dorm room the best that I could :) maybe try making small changes like hanging some fairy lights, getting a new blanket or duvet cover and some pretty candles :)
@@DarlingDesi thank you so much
I also think that it can make a huge difference to replace your drawer and furniture handles with more vintage looking ones, dry flowers and put them in thrifted vases, put aesthetically pleasing pictures in cheap frames from yard sales or the dollar store, utilize natural lighting or candles when you can, and play ambiance playlists to make your space feel cozy! I’m a student too, and it’s a little hard to find time, but you can romanticize studying and learning too, and going on walks or spending time outside is always a calming mood booster! Oh, and I like to spend time reading, writing, or drawing instead of on my phone, and when I am online, I like to watch videos that are cozy, educational, or beautiful, like Desi’s!
@@ansleyvangorkom9491 Such an inspirational speech.. I am going to try these. Thanks for commenting and tell your ideas. That means a lot
@@DarlingDesi wow, I didn't have my dream room until 25! Slowly decorating mine now. 😊 Glad I'm not the only one.
Can we just talk about how aesthetic Darling Desi’s videos are though 🕊🌷
If only you could see my kitchen or bedroom after I get done filming 😂🌪
As you continue, don’t feel overwhelmed. We’re watching your life , so that means , we’re on your time . We love watching who you are , growing and learning!
I literally squealed when I saw the title of this video. I’m so happy for you! Congratulations living the dream!
Aww thank you Devin!! 💗 I truly can’t believe it. I started baking videos about books 2 years ago and now I’m here 🥺
Can you do like a relationship type of vid? Like what do you and Jared do to keep the spark alive. You two seem like an amazing couple. 💕
Congratulations, that's so wonderful! As someone who is self employed, I would urge you to set your own routines and boundaries as soon as you can though because you need to be able to separate work from day to day life - I learned the hard way!
Tips:
+Set fixed start and finish times
+Plan your week and your days as much as possible
+Batch tasks to make the most of time
+Don't just 'quickly do something' after your work day ends
+Do something like go for a walk before/after you work - it helps to segregate the activity in your mind
+Meditate befor eyou start your working day (and after if you feel able) - it definitely helps with the anxious brain too!
Wishing you all the luck in the world!
So proud of you!! Congrats on being able to be a full time you tuber love. ALSO as per usual this video is gorgeous 😍😍😍
THANKS FRIEND! 😭😭😭 also so sorry I didn’t respond to your text message, I saw it when I woke up but then forgot to respond! Responding soon! 💗💗💗
Honestly I can’t even imagine what life is like making money doing something you love and making a hobby as a job. So so proud of you. This makes my heart so happy 🌸
I love Victorian design.You have a beautiful home.
Thank you!! I love vintage and antique furniture. The older the better 🙌🏻💗
And I understand exactly why people want to send you a gift, because small things make you so happy and you have such a nice taste of everythinggggggggggg
Jared's footage was hilarious ! Lots of love from Belgium
Hi fellow Belgian 😊
I thought that Anne and Gilbert was the biggest relationship goals BUT Desi and Jared just hits different. I'm so happy that you are so happy. Also so excited for the new chapter in your life 💕☀️
Being compared to one of the greatest literary couples is such an honor 🥺 they are #relationshipgoals 🙌🏻
@@DarlingDesi indeed but so you are ❤
I cried with you because you deserve this. Just stay true to YOU my dear beautiful gracious lady. Everyone grows and changes so just take us with you and everything will work out for you. Do what YOU love and what feeds YOUR soul, because that’s what drew us to you. If it stops being fun for YOU it will no longer be the community you hoped to gather. So just continue to do the magic thing you do. Much love and gratitude for all you bring.
Just wanted to say congratulations on 100k! 🥳(I know I am a little late). I've been subscribed since you had 22k, so glad to see you reach 100k! 🥳 I hope you keep making videos Desi! 🧡
Thank you friend!!! 😭💗 can’t believe you’ve been around for so long 😭
You two are the very best!!!! A beautiful, fun, eloquent, whimsical, vintage version of Barbie and Ken! Love you videos so much!!!! 🥰
First! Btw I love Desi sooo much!! She is soo inspiring
Thank you so much for being here, Nabah!! 💗💗💗
Seriously Desi. You are helping me through a really dark time. I watch and rewatch! Thank you for being exactly who you are!
Omg the Jared cam 😂 “she sees us!”
I love how you are so open and honest with your emotions and the fact that you do forget to shoot the vidio that you need for your youtube clip.
I feel so enthralled with your youtube channels that I can not wait for the next one to pop up on my suggestion box when I log on to youtube. Never forget you are a strong yet loving person and I'm ecstatic that you have managed to become a full-time youtube, spread your wings and sore like the wonderful person you are.
I was literally thinking, when will she upload one of her beautiful videos again, and boom! ⭐ HERE YOU ARE! Best Sunday surprise EVER! 💕
CONGRATULATIONS DESI! 🥳 You deserve to be a full time TH-camr! Your videos are all works of art & I know so many great things are in store for you! Never let anxiety or fear cripple your creativity! ✨💐
ahhh so exciting 💕💕
I’m still in shock!! 💗🙈
You are the best person I've ever found in TH-cam, and you make the kind of videos that make me feel like I've been missing this piece of the puzzle all my life. Kindred spirit.
Your hair at the end of this video is AMAZING. Tutorial asap.
I had just woken up 😭🙏🏻 it was just two French braids that turned into pigtails 🙈💗
I am so happy for you Desi. Your videos are so sweet and calming. The book videos have helped me love to read all over again, so thank you for your artistry.
I first saw you on your bedroom makeover. I thought, wooow, this lady is living the my cottagecore dream! and as I watch further, you became my life inspo! I am also a small creator and just uploaded because I enjoy my art and I love editing videos. But this desire in my heart to be a full time boss of myself grew. Now I'm opening my small sticker shop! I know I'm way way far from sustaining myself full time through my passion, but seeing people like you makes me dream more 💕💕💕
Dear desi this is to wish you all the best. Yr channel is amazing and takes me away from the dull everyday. Though I live in a small village in England that overlooks Morcombe bay. I’m very blessed. At 66 yrs old I’ve finally let go of wants. Each day we are alive we are blessed. Your channel brings 🤩 and kindness to us all. Long may you reign. Hugs. Carole 🧚
Your content is absolutely gorgeous! A cinematic experience. Your eye for beauty is impressive. This whole channel is balm for my soul. I presume there are a lot of younger viewers, but I'm 46 and I adore everything you do. When I've had a tough day, content like this is what I need in my life. Thank you for making things more beautiful, calm and cheerful - or should I say, thank you for drawing our attention to the beauty in the world that is really there, and that can sometimes escape us when everyday stress takes over...? Thank you, you wonderful soul, and I wish you a great week! Much love from the UK 💝💝💝
Oh my, I love you guys and your channel, Desi! I feel so much joy and happiness and peace watching your videos.
Absolutely liked this video! Jared is hilariously fun and funny. I like that you have mountains near by to frolic in, Desi. But I love that your subscribers are so giving as well!! Loved this style of video. Thank you for sharing it.
"*I* knew it would happen to you" Jared is the sweetest 😭😊
Biggest congratulations to you Desi 💖💖💖 you deserve it!!!
You bring such happiness and peace to my soul! Thank you for existing, thank you for YouTubing this type of beauty 🥰
Just by watching you open your gifts, I’m really so happy for you, Desi! 💓
I been watching your videos non stop since I discovered your channel... I love them all but this one is one of the most wholesome videos you have made, is just so you... 💗 happy and grateful and funny I will continue watching because you are setting an example of how i want to live my life thank you Desi!!
Ahhhhhh I’m so happy to be here 🙏🏽 Thank You So Much! 🙏🏽
1st you are so beautiful in and out.
2nd it's so beautiful that you talked about your fear and knew it's just the fear talking,not the truth,it will inspire many people to follow what their heart wants even though it feels fearful,you are a beautiful ,inspiring person,the way you live inspire people and i mean common who doesn't like people who live just in their world and are authentic,do whatever they want and like ?!everybody!even the haters that's why they hate you!
I have never been so excited & proud for someone I don’t personally know. Congratulations on being a self employed ARTIST because you are an AMAZING creator ❤️
I love this channel, working life's loss is our and youtube's gain. The road to 1 million is on. Jared's look when she jumped on the trunk lmao
It is such a life changing thing, making something you're not sure will work out (im positive it will) your full time job. To be honest, I think you are doing a great job! Keep going and dont let anybody stop you!
Your hair at 6:53 is GORGEOUS I love the way your bangs are curled! Please do a tutorial!
Hi! I just wanted to let you know that I love your videos. Even though this was a year ago, I am sooooooo happy for you!!! You are the reason the world goes round, and the sole reason I come home everyday with a smile. Thank you for bring bundles of joy to this channel!! I wish you all the best!
You are magical. Never ever ever let that go. Never let outside forces take away your radiance. I come here when I want to feel at peace inside.. when I want to feel at home within myself. You make me feel held.
I swear you have some sort of power that makes me wanna change my entire life for the better I love your videos and hope to be more like you some day
I have loved binge watching your videos since I found you about a week ago! You are full of ideas and joy and inspiration that make me live my life more joyfully!! Quickly an avid fan ♥️
🤣 I just loved Jared and when he was filming you. Obsessed with you guys. Mental health is a real thing and I know that coming to your channel is a feel good moment guaranteed. New and blessed to have found your channel ♥️❤️🥰🥰🌞🌞🌞🥰🥰🥰
Congratulations! I am so happy for you! I loved the Jared Cam. That was so sweet!
You have the sweetest, most loving and supportive husband and puppy! You are blessed. I love your videos! 😊😊😴💙💙
too precious. don't be pressured we love you raw and real
so happy for you! thank you for your amazing content, desi! 💗
Thank you!! 🥺🤍
IT TOOK ME LIKE 30 WHOLE SECONDS TO REALIZE WHAT THE TITLE MEANS. Congratulations my dear, wow wow wow is all I can say! You deserve every bit of beauty this new chapter in your life brings.
What would you title this chapter in your life?
I promise I'll watch your videos everyday to make sure that u are receiving your money and will keep making this perfect videos. You and your channel are amazing. So much love for you, hugs from Brazil! ❤
So happy for you and for us cause you are going to improve your content more and more and I CAN'T WAIT
That’s what I’m hoping for as well! The more videos I make, the more I’ll (hopefully) improve ☺️🙏🏻
Clanlands is SO good!!! Read it several months ago when it first came out!!!
All of us love your channel and everything you share with us. You are amazing, entertaining and lovely💕💐
I’ve been feeling so depressed and drained the past few days and seeing you uploaded really made me feel better. You deserve this new position. Lots of love in a sisterly way! ❤️
May your journey be wonderful ! From France i absolutely love your vidéos, background, music, tips and your personality. You re a real sunshine.
Came across you lastnight and have been watching since .❤️ you !! I hope my son finds a lady like you , you are such a doll❤️
Darling desi brings so much happiness into people’s lives ❤️🕊🌷
So happy for you. I love your love between you and Jared. So happy you have that🌸🌸🌸🌸
I think we need Jared cam of you even more often 😍😂... love ur channel and have loved watching it grow too
Girl, let's face it, you don't just make youtube videos, you make full blown FEATURE FILMS every week and it's pure magic, congratulations!!!
My God, your videos are life. I'm still watching it, but I had to stop and leave a comment about the Jared Secret Footage of the Wild Desi moment, because I laughed so hard my dog startled and came to see what was happening (the nosy sweetie that he is).
I adore you both. You always manage to put a smile on my face, no matter how hard or stressful the day was.
BTW I'll be binge-watching all of your videos from the beggining the next weeks, including the ones I've already watched, because they are all sooooo beautiful and cozy. Have I said yet that I love yor channel? I love your channel. Thank your for creating it.
I'm so glad TH-cam recommended me your videos. And congrats on becoming a Full-time TH-camr! I'm so happy for you (and me both, because that means continued content)!
Yay! (No pressure, though. Never that. Stress is not good for anyone).
A big virtual hug from Spain. I'll leave all the ads playing to the end just because it's you, and one day I hope I can be one of your Patrons
I'm so happy for you! You are the first Kindred Spirit I've found on TH-cam. 🍄🌼🥰
You are so pure, lovely and funny Desi! Please keep making this video’s. You goooooo girl🙏🏻❤️✨
I watch all your videos and I enjoy it so much, I don't think words could explain to you, how much I love it and also you're so amazing
I always love your videos so much, especially when we get to see a glimpse into your relationship, it's so sweet and cute. I had just started a stressful new job myself shortly before this was posted, so I'm only now getting to watch it, but it was exactly what I needed to make me smile and feel cozy and comforted.
Aloha Desi. I've happened upon your channel before; about a week ago, and watched a previous video ('Victorian Morning Routine' I believe)..I didn't quite understand what your content was about, but I DID enjoy what you shared. Then, I watched THIS video yesterday (June 15, 2021) and felt how "Glowing/Radiant" your Energy truly is! I am compelled to share with you a "message" I received after watching this particular video three times. Your "Light" shines bright for MANY (who watch your videos) either cannot, or doesn't NOT know how to! MANY are drawn to you because of this "Light!" MANY more will BE drawn & connected to you! Your decision to share your videos with others IS the right decision! Success (,YOUR definition of success) will be yours because of this channel and your content. I'm led to encourage you to "just be you; Just be Desi" because THAT'S what drawns others to you! I believe (sense) all this "attention" (and the emotions that come with it) is new to you, BUT, you'll fit into it just fine like you would your favorite dress (if that makes sense). With all this said, I'm NOT sure how you'll "take" this,message, but, as an Empathic Energy Intuitive, I received this message yesterday, but was reluctant to send it. Hopefully, I haven't offended you Desi! But, I felt like if I didn't relay this message, I wouldn't be doing you any justice, and honestly, I believe you may have "wanted" confirmation in your decision to be a full time 'Tuber.' So, I'm a NEW fan & Newest Sub! I'm excited to watch your growth! Much Aloha! -Luka🤙
I had a hard day today and watching this video in the evening made me feel so happy and I was smiling throughout. So thank you 💕 and congrats on becoming a full time youtuber!
Congrats! You are so sweet and bring so much joy to every video you make. Thank you for reminding to slow down and enjoy the simple moments.
Thanks for mentioning "Last summer at the Golden Hotel" Desi. I'm currently listening to the book on Audible & enjoying it so very much. It def has that Dirty Dancing and Marvelous Mrs. Maisel vibe to it.
You're a person inside and out and also have a wonderful hubby too 💞 I just find your channel not too long ago 💞
Happy Birthday to you 🎂 🎉💞
i love you with my whole heart Desi!!! youre videos have cultivated so much peace in my life:)
Live your life desi♥️😊😁 i am so happy for you!
Your channel is so much fun to watch! It's relaxing, wholesome, & entertaining1 You are a talented decorator & your love for books is inspiring! I have a kindle & order many books per month & especially like Christian romance stories set in the 1800's. Your book recommendations are great!
Desi, you are just precious. Thank you.
You’re so sweet! 🥺💗 thank YOU!!
Shannon Hale got my reading-hating sister into reading when we were younger. "Goose Girl" and "Enna Burning" were two of her favorites. :)
I am sooo happy for you desi!❤️❤️❤️ I have been watching you videos for almost a year and you are such an inspiration to me!
The Jerod Cam had me in STICHES! 🤧
Princess Academy is one of my favs! I've reread it like 3 times now
Congratulations on your You Tube award!
I’m so excited to hear that we’ll be seeing more of your videos now ❤️
I am SO EXCITED AND PROUD OF YOU!!! Way to go!!! 👏🙌👍💖💖💖💖💖
Awww so much love. I love this. Congratulations on your new full-timer. Love. I’m excited for what’s to come. Thank you for the message at the end too.
In love with vintage vibe and contents from this channel!!!💜🥰😍