i’m finally prioritizing self-care and it’s changing my life 🌼
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Hello friends! I really hope you enjoy this self care day in my life type video. This summer has taught me that self-care, love and healing happens from within. I've made it a goal to do one thing every day that makes me feel most like myself. As someone who is currently dealing with anxiety and stress, I've been really focusing on ways I can improve my mental health. Romanticizing life and enjoying the little things makes such a big difference. I hope any of you who might be struggling, will remember that even if it's something as little as watching a comfort movie or making yourself a meal, that's self-care, and it's so so important.
Also, thank you for being so patient with me these past few weeks! I just shared on my Instagram stories why there has been a lack of videos recently. I've been dealing with some mental health stuff but I'm working my way back to my normal self. I couldn't force myself to make the videos when I was working through and processing so much as once.
I especially want to thank my Patrons in Honeywood Hollow for their amazing support! Without you friends, I wouldn't have made it through this past month. I love you my bosom friends, you do so much more for me than you could ever imagine! 💞
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It’s so funny that we’re so concerned about what people will think of us when we dress up/dress for ourselves, but most of the time people are really positive and even inspired by seeing someone comfortable enough in their own skin to express themselves so uniquely.
Agreed. From personal experience every time I go out and dress however I want and feel that day, unabashed by how odd it might be (imagine going to Walgreens with a wooden basket and yellow sundress) people have not only complimented me, but somehow seemed more...Im not good with words but, joyus to talk to me? Maybe it's just my own feels projecting but the world feels brighter and so do others when you live for you (with consideration to other of course).
A couple of days I run into the kitchen and when I see my sister with "odd" shoes I giggled and she automatically said "this is something you'd wear". It's just so aesthetically pleasing to see people wearing unique clothes.
Nobody cares about what other people think!
exactly and if someone is judging you you don't want them around you anyways.
Yes! We need more people that think this way:D I really love this channel and this community😊❤️🙏
“Self care is doing the things that make you feel more like yourself”
Desi I don't quite know why but I started crying just before the halfway point of this video. You are truly a beautiful person inside and out. You shine so bright and give that light that has touched so many people. Thank you for your work and growth to be honest about self care. Its mean so much to so many.
And now I’M crying 🥺 Thank YOU for such sweet words. My heart is full 🥺🤍
That's a nice comment today.
I almost teared up when she was in the car eating tiramisu and listening to that song. The caption was "my heart" ahhhhh I melted. I whole heatedly felt her joy ❤
Funny, my eyes teared at this moment too 😀
@@DarlingDesi I want you to know that you’re so loved 💗 no matter how big anxiety gets,there is someone bigger than this. Someone who is always there ,who wants to heal you from all the burden you carry 💕. It is Jesus :). He invites you to follow him,and deny yourself (means to give up your will,surrender yourself and pick up your cross to follow him). He loves you so much,that he was willing to die for all of your mistakes on the cross. 💗 be blessed wonderful sister ,I love you so much ,you really remind me in somethings of myself. You are wonderfully and fearfully made. God has given you a great gift ,the only thing u need to do is to discover it. If you want to have eternal life ,the only thing you need to do is to to repent,and turn away from your sins (like lying,being very angry and aggressiv ,lusting, idolizing, etc),trust and believe in Jesus , like you trust a parachute to save you when you jump out of the plane. He really cares about your precious life ,he has given you so wonderful things 💗 thanks if you read my message,it would mean a lot to me🥺. Much love from Austria 🤗♥️ stay safe & healthy!
I have been making my own flower crowns and wearing them everywhere everyday and I love it! It was kind of awkward at first, but now I feel so amazing and confident in them. I got my dream reaction the other day when a little girl (probably 3) stared at me and half whispered "She's a flower girl!" 😍😍😍
Awwwww…. That’s so cute!
I love that! 💛
I love your sending off the message that everyone should not care what other people think and just do what makes you happy .That just makes my little heart glow with happiness.
It’s so much easier said than done (coming from someone who still sometimes struggles with filming in public places) but it’s truly one of the most freeing things! 🤍
mine too!That was such a powerful line she mentioned in the starting and followed through with it!
You apologized for the buzzing bees, but that just adds to the cottagecore princess aesthetic ☺️💖
You are an enchantress! Shine on sweet soul!
Awww! You don't just look like a fairy princess---you ARE a fairy princess!!!🦄😊💕🌸🌼💐🥀👑
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I cried so hard. This life is the one I want. Everyone just seems to be against everything I do that makes me happy. Saying it's childish and being judgemental and giving me those looks that i hate so much. I can't do the things i love cause I'm always anxious and afraid of being harassed by doing what i love. And now I'm so broken and dead inside. I just wanna live like this. But i feel like my life is not mine. I can't control it. I can't live it. I don't belong to anything, not even to myself. They take me and throw me after using me. It sucks. I'm so tired and exhausted. I just wanna be free and happy. This video feels like home. Thank you so much for this Dessi💜
I resonate with this... Sending you a warm hug. You’re amazing ❤️
I hope you find the way to be yourself 💜
@@BambiKiller99 thank you, back to you too 💜
@@tajat866 I really hope so... thank you for replying 💜 have a good one :))
This comment made me cry 😭♥️
Self-care is absolutely first and foremost for being the most true versions of ourselves, and looks different to us all. Be kind to yourself and take it as easy as you need 💚
ur so beautiful as is desi
You couldn’t be more right! 🤍 Also this is a side note but just the other day I saved your “vintage hairstyles for summer” (i don’t remember the exact title) video to my Watch Later playlist because they all looked SO cute! I can’t wait to watch it ☺️
@@DarlingDesi aw thanks so much! 💚 Hope you enjoy, I'd love to see if you try any!
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Great to see you here too Salinda! Haha :)
Desi, I just want to say from one creator to another I understand what it takes to create. A lot of people might get confused as to why breaks and mental health are necessary for creators, but the huge amount of energy and pressure it takes to deliver consistently is hard. Especially when you deal with health issues or family-related issues (I watched your Insta story) Not to mention that people can be hateful towards your creations and it takes a whole deal of bravery to post in the first place. This video was beautiful. Thank you for creating it and thank you for taking the time to heal to let it surface.
Why am I crying 😭 It’s like you pulled the words right out of my soul. What you said is so true. I felt so guilty for not having videos up week after week, but it’s also so hard to put your entire self into something when you’re hurting and broken on the inside. Thank you for making me feel so seen 😭💗🤍
@@DarlingDesi sweet and beautiful lady, you have brightened up my days. I have generalized anxiety disorder and I’ve fell into catatonic depressions throughout my life after some traumatic events that ensued.
Your videos bring me joy and they remind me to take care of my heart and my soul and that I am worthy and enough to do what makes me happy. I’ve broken the cycle in my family that chained me to believing I wasn’t good enough to do what I loved or could fulfill.
You’re an inspiration, a light and truly one of a kind. I adore you and we are so grateful that you graced us with such amazing content, this is not an easy job and it takes a lot of time and effort. Please know as a viewer I appreciate you.
I would literally watch this video 1000+ times
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Same I would watch this whenever I wanted to feel warm and cozy:)
@@DarlingDesi what's the name of the song at 10:38 princess?
Did I watch the entire video even though I helped film parts of it? Yes, yes I did. This was so well put together and just absolutely amazing! Nice work Desi 😍👍
Thanks babe 🥺 This video wouldn’t have been made without you!! 🤍
Y'all are a amazing team, its lovely to witness a little bit of it! Indeed a great video both in filming and editing 😊
@@DarlingDesi aaaawww what a sweet love of both of you!🤩🥰❤
Blessings!😃🤍
Duuuude🥰
@Cozy Girl With A Cup of Tea yes 😁👍
I hope more people have the guts to do this because everytime people dress the way they like, it makes them look sooo beautiful, regardless of style. It's like the person is finally in the style they were made to have, it's always a glow up.
Self-care is so important not just for body but for the mind and the heart. 😌Thank you for taking over 40 hours to make this work of art for us!❤
You’re 100% right! And thank YOU for watching! 💗🥺
THIS IS SO CINEMATIC... "Darling Desi's Day Off"
You're legit the most adorable person ever. I died at the part when you got dizzy in the grass and when you put the flowers in your pocket with the water. Also SO GENIUS
Everything about this video is beautiful but you make it the most beautiful. Your energy and aura is absolutely incredible and contagious.
You are so kind 😭 thank you!! 🥺🙏🏻😭💗
I can’t even begin to describe how your videos help me out so much. Last night I started taking antidepressants which I feel super afraid due to the side effects. But I love how I watch this video which instantly calms me down. Thank you so much for your beautiful spirit and lovely, lovely videos! ✨
Aww sending you all the good vibes!! Feeling stressed or nervous is the worst and definitely something I can relate to. Thank YOU for such a kind comment 🥺🙏🏻💗🤍 I hope you’re feeling better!
Best wishes to you. Be yourself every day, with joy or not. Sometimes it's hard, but every man has a power inside himself. I hope you see the beauty and uniqueness of your life!
I wish you best of luck on your journey 💖🍀 I recently finished taking my antidepressants and I can tell that they gave me the strength to start healing myself which imo is the most important thing. The side effects were not fun, but they were a small price to pay for that! And watching soothing, wholesome content like Desi's videos is a great addition to meds, that's for sure!
@@mononoke8015 Thank you so much for these incredibly kind words ❤️ This is what I plan to do: to cherish my life in the way that makes me happy. I hope you’re doing well too darling ❤️❤️
@@alinashirinian2485 Thank you so much for your words of wisdom ☺️ I’m not gonna lie I was so afraid and hesitant to start taking them but I also want to get back on healing myself. Best of luck of you too! It must feel so big to be coming off of them. ❤️
There are a few things I wish i could tell my younger self... One is this. Just like you dont care how people dress and what they dream about and do, no one cares how you dress and what you dream about and do. They may ne curious why or how, but at the end of the day, you have to do what makes your heart, mind, body and soul sing.
I type this as I sit at my antique vanity, fixing my hair into a neat Gibson tuck, and then admire my handiwork in my vintage hand mirror, while wearing a floor length 6 gore skirt I sewed myself. Preparing to go let my goats and chickens out for the day, while dreaming of all the eggs i will soon gather (my chickens are all pretty young right now) I will chatter to my roosters and chit chat with my hens. I will hugs all the goats and pet them and croon to them. I will then fluff up my puppy and tell her what a dreamcake she is, so smart and pretty, and silly, then i will check in on my daughters ducks and the baby chicks and then back into the house to can banana pepper pickles, dry seeds for next year, and get to making dried jalapeño powder for seasoning future dishes.
Create the life you wish to live, no apologies, no excuses. Love yourself so deeply and so wildly that nothing and no one can alter your path to self thriving beyond your wildest dreams. Be authentic to yourself
I definitely just got emotional while reading your words 🥺 You couldn’t be more right! I especially love at the beginning how you said that really no one cares what you do and how you dress and what your dreams are. They’re too worried about themself, and if anything, they might be inspired to see someone just unabashedly being themselves. Thank you so much for your thoughts! I took a screenshot so I can refer to it again 🤍
@@DarlingDesi keep being you!
Most mental health issues today are caused by beautiful unique beings attempting to fit their triangle selves into round and square holes.... We are created special, we dont need labels and boxes and hole a. We need time to develop our wings and learn to breathe deeply and space to blossom.
I'll never forget. I was showing my grandma your channel and she said "she seems sorta ditzy!" I was so upset at her. I told her that your not ditzy. Your happy! I still stand by that! 🌼🌱🌿🌹🌷⚘
Desi is such a JOY GERM and just what the World needs xx
Joy is so foreign to a lot of people🤔
Well it doesnt matter what grandma thinks only what Desi thinks..she is just inspiring others to be themselves
The the pearly braids and the voluminous bangs, you look like an elf or fairy!
Protect this girl at all cost! I aspire to live like this, fully embracing myself and enjoying life to the fullest :)
I’m so in love with this video, this year has been difficult for me, I started my year with in of the worst depressive episodes I’ve had since high school and I quit a toxic job. This has reminded me that I can do things for me and I don’t need to worry about what others think, time to break out the cool maxi skirt I bought and swoosh around !
That Fleetwood Mac song worked perfectly! SO CUTE.
Thank you!!! For some reason whenever I hear it, I think of skating and just enjoying life and going with the flow 😌 🛼
Love starting a day with desi serotonin. I’ve been in SUCH an anxious headspace this past week and with work I know I haven’t been prioritizing myself. This is such a wake up call to do just that 🌻🪴
You dressing up in your favorite dress, with a flower crown and a glittered face just made my morning! This makes me so happy for you! And everyone of us here :)
Wow Desi. When I think you can't do any better you surprise me. This was pure magic. And just what I needed. And the soundtrack was just 👌👏👍🙌 no words.
Oh my gosh thank you so much 😭😭💗
Wow!!! So many powerful messages in this video! A couple that stood out…”If it’s out of my hands then it should be out of my head.” “Self care is doing things that make us feel more like ourselves.” I’m 47 and it took me until age 40 or 41 to truly stop caring what others think about me. It’s absolutely so freeing! I’m still working on letting anxiety get the best of me which is why the first quote resonates with me so much. Thank you for such an inspirational video❤️
The best and most comforting thing to wake up and drink my coffee to!!💕 I would definitely be wishing I were as regal-looking and fabulous as you if you walked into my bookstore🥰😇
Omg ahhh you’re so sweet 😭 A bookstore is such a great place to go dressed up because I feel like book people just get it ☺️
I totally understand your feelings about the rain. I cherish every drop and love to hear the rain at night. I come from Louisiana where we would get an over abundance of rain 🌧 but since leaving my country in 2001 to live with my hubby in Australia, rain is a a precious thing that comes only once in a while . Lately we’ve been getting more rain which has been so delightful! 🥰🌧😃🏡 Perfect for a cuppa and a nice book 📖. 😁
Thank you for this. Honestly, I've really been struggling these past few months because my grandma passed away and there's also a lot of other things that happened, so I haven't really been taking care of myself much. This video helps brighten my thoughts and motivates me to care for myself more, so thank you! 💖🌼
Oh my gosh i’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine how hard that much be. I know it can be difficult when you’re feeling so down, but please take care of yourself 🤍 Even if it’s just putting on one of your comfort movies, making yourself a nutritious meal or drinking extra water. Sending you a virtual hug! 🤗🤍
@@DarlingDesi thank you so much! I really appreciate it. 💖
the trick with putting flowers in a bag with water into your pocket is the cutest thing I've seen in a while! :D
The length of the videos and the high quality (movie like) proves how much work desi puts into the video. And I loooovvveee it.!!!! Please keep making videos like these
Adding details to a painting using a blade of grass??? BRILLIANT! 🤩🙌🏻
This was so magical to watch. To me, watching your videos is a part of self care because they make me so happy.
Oh My goodness, you have encouraged me so much to be who I want to be, and to dress how I want!
I don’t know if it’s just me, but she the aesthetic that I want to emulate so bad. The gorgeous dresses, sitting in a field of flowers reading 🥺🥰
Beautiful creation 🤲🏻🥰 thanks for nurturing my soul with an inspiring spirit, joy and purposeful project that influences me to become my best self and love me the way God intended me to do. Glory to God!! I am subscribing now🙌🏻 thank you so much
Oh my gosh, thank YOU! 🥺🙏🏻💗 I’m so happy you enjoyed it 💗
Desi this video is EXACTLY what I needed this week!! I’m so excited to watch your journey, learn some new things and no doubt see a GORGEOUS video. Thank you for putting so much love and time into these videos! The reminder that it is not selfish to love yourself literally brought me to tears. I struggle so much with that concept. Thanks so much for the reminder that self love does not have to be expensive, or unattainable it can be simple, warm, cozy and easy. Sending love you you des, thank you.
So, I have a personality of a solitary black cat with Morticia Addams aesthetics, and I found your channel through the dark academia video; that being said, I am absolutely living for this content, the flowers, the fairies, the giddiness, to the point, I almost made myself a flower crown today. This is the polar opposite of who I usually am, and I'm subscribing, thank you for the magic
Today--my self care was watching this beautiful video created by this beautiful team of Desi and Jared (!!
I find myself smiling to the screen like a silly kid when I watch your videos.
I used to love life so much and see the world like a fairytail... But then, 13 years ago, depression came... And all i've ever tried just failed miserably in my life. I've turned myself into nothing but a sad failure... I'm so sorry for this outflow.
At least i'm happy to see that there are people like you that didn't fail their path. You're a real inspiration. And i'm even glad to see that you're keep trying to get out of your confort zone and being who you really are despite what others might think. You are the bravest 💖
Ps.: The daisy chains... O M G 😍
we know you're going through a hard time Desi, but I'm going to continually keep you in my thoughts and send you and Jared so much love. Things will be okay and you are okay ❤️ stay strong through this hard period of time girl :)
Your message is so short and sweet but it brought tears to my eyes 🥺 Thank you so much 🥺
If you walked into a bookstore and I was there, I would think you were soooo cool. It is inspiring to see you be so authentic.
I love that people have looked back at the past in this chaotic world in which we live. I know I certainly do taking the best of the period and using it
Yay! Desi, do you even realize how happy you make me every time I see a notification that you posted? ✨❤
ikr !!!!!!
And especially because right now I’m suffering from a heart break and depression so watching your videos makes me happy
This was such a beautiful video and now one of my favorites, especially knowing you are going through some tough times in your life and still brought all your energy and magic! I am all about finding and doing things to nurture my soul! Thanks for the reminder.
You have made a permanent fan. You are the true modern day version of Anne of Green Gables. Beautiful filming and editing too. Thank you, kindred spirit!
This is the best news ever 🥺❤️ I'm so happy for you Desi! You have no idea how much you've inspired so many others to romanticise life with your videos, so it's really nice to know that you're also taking care of yourself❤️❤️
when i was 12 i went to the library to pick up a poetry book i had to do a report on for school. on my way home i stopped by a really beautiful park and nearly read the entire book whilst sitting on a bench. but when i arrived home i was scolded for going to the park and reading; not for staying longer outside than i was supposed to. ever since that have i felt discouraged to do such things.
only now, in my mid twenties, i have found courage to do it again, thanks to your videos and similar youtube channels. thank you < 3
DESI! I can't wait to watch, Self Care is something I need to implement more in my life! Thank you
Hi, I just wanted to share that your videos have provided me with some calm and comfort. I am experiencing a lot of change and scary health-related things and your videos have put my mind at ease. Thank you.
Completely relate! Hope you have a great day.
I was actually having a rough week and this video makes me have a sign to make me look out for myself more. Thank you so much for this wonderful video. I appreciate this one. Anyway, you're like a real disney princess! I love your looks Desi! ❤
Aw you’re so so kind! Thank you 🥺🙏🏻
There is something magic about reading when it rains! I don't mind this time of year when it's warm out and the sun is shining and I can sit outside all day and read but it's not the same as reading when it rains ( and when it's a bit gloomy outside too).
The beauty of the final moments of this video nearly brought me to tears. Thank you so much for this!!! 💖
I’m so happy you enjoyed it! I was editing that part at 3am and my brain was on its final brain cell 😂 I wanted to word it more elequantely but i’m happy with how simple it turned out ☺️🤍
"If it makes you happy, it doesn't have to make sense with anybody else" this quote literally made me cry :(( i needed that thank you 😭
Omg this sounds like a perfect day! I love listening to my audio books baking but I've been too anxious and stressed finishing this degree while working full time and going on military duty. I spend all day go go go go to anxious to go to sleep. I study to cottage core playlists and dark academia!! Your videos are exactly what I need more of in my life! After this last class I am dressing up like a cottage core princess going to the bookstore, grabbing a hot tea and finding a spot outside! I'd love to find that version of grimm tales!
CHARMING IN YOUR CHILDLIKE SPIRIT OF BEING FREE TO BE WHO YOU ARE...AND THEN THE CLOSING COMMENTS WERE SO UPLIFTING AND I'M SURE VERY ENCOURAGING ESPECIALLY TO YOUNG WOMEN WHO FACE MANY CHALLENGES IN TODAY'S WORLD. I'VE SAID IT BEFORE AND I'LL SAY IT AGAIN, YOU REMIND ME OF MY SPIRIT AT YOUR AGE...LOVING THE BEAUTY ALL AROUND US...LOVING ROMANCE MOVIES, POETRY...BAKING AND THE WARMTH OF HOME. I CAN SAFELY SAY, THAT NEVER LEAVES...WE HAVE IT ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS AND SOULS.
Skating Advice from a roller derby girl: bend your knees, point your hips where you want to go, and DEFINITELY get pads. They also make shorts with padding for your butt too (they look dorky but trust me, they save you lots of pain)
Wearing pads is a far better plan than eventually wearing a cast or bandage wrap.
yes! wore pads and still broke my foot. good luck to you all 😭
you give me so much Anne of Green Gables vibes, your personality is just ✨✨
I started my self care morning and evening routine too a few days ago
But because of this video I *literally* got a paper and pen and planned out a bunch of fun stuff for the rest of my week.
I wrote down
- an afternoon tea party in my garden
- I live in the countryside, so actually exploring some places to walk!
- Working on my blog that I've thrown away
- Practicing the piano
- Trying origami
- And creating a night routine for myself!
I actually want to treat myself like a princess. Thanks for the reminder Desi
This channel is such a nice calm place, I love these videos so much
Lately I have been getting into the cottagecore aesthetic, which is how I stumbled across you and your videos. Subscribed, because you are a beautiful quirky inspiring soul.
I came here to say, thank you.
After years of truama, I've found it difficult to remember my magick, and how to love myself.
The end of this video moved me to tears. You my darling helped break the thick ice that covered the portal to my self love and reawakening journey. I am still crying. But I'm crying because I realize I love myself, my magick isnt gone, and as you said, I am enough. Thank you so much. ❣️
Darling desi, I am so happy that I've founded you in youtube. You're one of the people who really warms me up, and inspire me. I used to feel very sad all the all the time, until I found u. Thankyou so much you re a wonderful person inside and out.
Have a nice day love you😊
I relate to you so much. My husband and I enjoy the outdoors so much. We kayak once a week to hidden waterfall and it is glorious. I decorate my home in such a way tht reminds me of living in a cottage and kind of Marie Antoinette-ish. I was an English major before I switched my major and became a Medical Assistant; which has been a hard profession during COVID. I love watching your videos because they inspire me and they help me stay calm bc I suffer from PTSD and anxiety. Thank you so much for your videos and making us strange flower-hippie girls feel normal.
I do lots of self care especially for my GA (general anxiety)
That’s so good and so so important 👏🏻
I struggle with loving myself and giving myself permission to enjoy things. I enjoy moments but they are fast ones, I don't get to linger in them, because of mom life. I need to find a way to manage that. This video was so beautiful. Thank you for making it.
This was all so achingly beautiful, Desi...picture perfect 🐦💜
Just wanna say you are not weird at all for wanting to dress up like a princess, I feel that way all of the time! Summer makes me just want to put on a long dress and run endless in an empty field. Keep living your best life 🌸🌺🌼
OOOOOOMMMMGGGG DESIIII I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT BUYING ROLLER SKATES RECENTLY AND YOU DID IT I-
OHMYGOD IS THIS A SIGN FROM THE UNIVERSE THAT I SHOULD START SKATING??
IT’S A SIGN 🛼✨
Turned on TH-cam wanting to watch a video about negative thinking, but clicked on this video instead. I had a bad day today. This video made me realize I need to have compassion and be patient with myself and that bad days are okay. It also bolstered me with encouragement to dive into my closet and pull out some of my favourite skirts and dresses and go read in a flower meadow ;) Thank you, Desi!
Somehow this video felt like the best time before a goodbye and my heart is so wildly renched for it and the knowing that in every goodbye there is something new ❤
I honestly don't know why I can't hold my tears when I watch ur videos😔🤍
I love you, you're endearing and sweet, you're like a living Pinterest board, and your content is beautiful and relaxing. 💚💚💚
This isn’t any old TH-cam video, this is pure art ❤
You uploaded on my birthday! It’s been kind of a sad day and this really helped brighten it. Thank you Desi ❤️
I have only watched a few of your videos but they are amazing! You put so much time and thought into your videos! I absolutely love your videos they are so calming and really inspires me to be who I want to be. Thank you ! ♥️♥️♥️
Me, 22 seconds into the video: IT'S SO LOVELY I WANT TO CRY 🥺
I want to say thank you because lately I have been losing myself and watching you just made me want to do be better and I think I can finally improve and put me first for once in my life. Thank you so much again!
Absolutely loved this video so calming and it encouraged me to also get out and try new things
had to stop the video for a minute just so that I could comment about how I'm OBSESSED with the way this whole video was filmed . I mean , this was one of the very few times in which I don't feel the need to skip the AD/ paid partnership because it was so beautifully filmed
I saw your Instagram story, I’m so sorry you’re going through so much right now, I hope you’re okay :)
Hi, Desi. I'm here to thank you.
My name is Karol and I'm from Brazil.
I really would like to say that I'm grateful you exist.
I'm coming back to this video, after one year, because this is the video that introduced you to me. I'm so glad I found it back then.
I found it when I needed the most. And now, I need it again, so I'm here.
Thank you for your words and advices.
I'm glad I live at the same time and world as you. Your work matters more than you think.
I wish you all the best in the world.
Love.
So happy to see you! ❤️ Self-care is the bold act of loving yourself and being your own nurse, and I'm glad we get to take that journey along side you!
Hello,
My name is Jeff Finch, I am a trans FTM. And I have to say you are truly an inspiration of how to teach people about overcoming personal demons and emotions. I have a lot of anxiety and depression and even if I'm transitioning at my pace, it happens a lot. I tend to be playing the big brother a lot and I never get time for self-care because I feel I don't deserve it or I just don't know how. Your videos truly pure and hopeful for me and my future. How you take self-love to a whole whimsical level, no matter how feminine it is. I hope to one day to reach at your level self-love and self-care. When I watch your videos it makes feel calm, almost like reading Anne of Green Gables but it called Darling Desi of Self Happiness or something even more magical then that (as well deserving). I hope to soon buy books again and read, to play video games like I use to, and be able to be healthier (mind, body, and soul). Thank you so much for sharing your life and giving me a moment to breathe and feel human again. To feel the love and self-love I forgotten while growing up in challenging times.
Maybe I can help with the tiramisù :) . I'm from Treviso, Italy, where tiramisu originated. Let me pass on the original recipe!
Ladyfingers 11 oz (300 g)
Eggs 4 (220 g) - very fresh (medium sized)
Mascarpone cheese 2 ¼ cups (500 g)
Sugar ½ cup (100 g)
Coffee 1 ⅓ cup (300 g) - strong, freshly brewed on the stove (and sweetened to taste)
Unsweetened cocoa powder to taste - for the top layer
To prepare tiramisù, start with very fresh eggs: carefully separate the egg whites from the yolks, remembering that to whip the egg whites well they must not contain any trace of yolk. Then whip the egg yolks with a hand mixer, pouring in only half of the sugar . As soon as the mixture has become clear and frothy and with the mixer still running, you can add mascarpone cheese, little by little . When all the cheese is incorporated, you will have obtained a thick and compact cream; set it aside . Clean the mixer attachments very well and beat the egg whites, pouring in the remaining sugar a little at a time .
Whisk them into stiff peaks; you will know they're ready if the mixture does not move when you overturn the bowl. Take a spoonful of egg whites and pour it into the bowl with egg yolks and sugar and stir vigorously with a spatula, to thin the mixture . Then proceed to add the remaining egg whites, little by little, stirring very gently from bottom to top.
Once ready, place a generous spoonful of cream on the bottom of a 12x8in baking pan and spread it evenly. Then soak the ladyfingers for a few moments in the cooled coffee, which you will have sweetened to your liking ,
first on one side and then the other. Arrange the soaked ladyfingers on top of the cream , side by side, to create the first layer, over which you will spread part of the mascarpone cheese cream.
Make sure to level it carefully so that you have a smooth surface 16. Continue to arrange the coffee-soaked ladyfingers . then add another layer of cream .
Level the surface, sprinkle it with unsweetened cocoa powder, and allow it to set in the fridge for a couple of hours . Your Tiramisù is ready to be enjoyed!
Alternatively for a lighter version you can substitute the coffee with fruit juice ( orange is the best ) and add strawberries in the mascarpone 😊😊
Ahhh!! This video is exactly what i've been needing 🧡
I feel you sister.
The journey of self Love is the most beautiful journey of all
Thank you for all your sharing.
Your amazing and an ancient one
Also, your videos are so perfect. You really take your time to create something, I will always cherish this beautiful quality over quantity! I clicked on it, not expecting much, I just like your vibe. This video was so much more enjoyable than I could have ever thought! So many fun things in one video. Thank you for doing this 💜
Stumbled on your video while scrolling & awesome video,self care should be a top priority,I'm struggling with it after the loss of my spouse ( 26 years) & father a year later,for me my dog & a walk in the mountains is healing,the best walks are when it's a light rain or snow or a freshly fall'n snow so quiet & peaceful 🤙
This is one of the most inspirational videos I’ve watched in a long time, thank you! 🌞🌼
You look so beautiful!! You are right we should not give a freak what others think of us! Have a nice day!
It’s so much easier said than done but SO worth it! 🙌🏻
I needed that ending message today. Thank you so much for posting. You truly make the loveliest videos that never cease to inspire me.
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That pearl hair idea is an adorable. Would be amazing for a wedding day look
The 2 dislikes are the toxic thoughts we've all pushed away :)
I like to think they're just some moms who disapprove of roller skating without knee and elbow pads
@@elliebrooks329 lolllll
I’ve been taking a break from Desi’s content lately, not for any particular reason aside from tuning into other interests/TH-camrs focused on discipline, exercise, nutrition, etc.
To be fair, I’m interested in all of these things but watching Desi again made me realize I was putting off enjoyment for the sake of enjoyment in favor of productivity.
So, barely halfway into this video, I’m taking a break to have tea and Biscoff while watching a movie I’ve been meaning to watch forever (Howl’s Moving Castle) with people I love :)
I am expierencing a lot of change in my life this year and you’re videos have made my days so special and all my worry’s have gone away. This video definitely speaks to me. Thank you fairy princess!
The song 'Ivy' by Taylor Swift (a cover of it was played during the rainy reading scene) is the perfect autumnal song. In fact, a lot of evermore's songs give me true autumnal vibes. So cosy. It is one of my favourite songs so it was nice to hear it in the video.