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- By age 13, 80% of girls distort the way they look online.* Let’s change that.
Social media is a big part of young people’s lives -- but retouching apps and the pressure to post the ‘perfect selfie’ are hurting their self-esteem and confidence. Have the selfie talk with a girl you love to reverse the damage and celebrate real beauty. The Dove Self-Esteem Project can show you how.
👉 Get the Confidence Kit at Dove.com/TheSelfieTalk
Let’s Change Beauty 💪💙
* Based on the research results from the U.S. surveying girls who use social media; US n-556 age 10-17. - ภาพยนตร์และแอนิเมชัน
This made me cry. I’m 19 years old and I wish so badly I hadn’t grown up with social media. It ruined my self esteem and I became so good at editing pictures and doing makeup and loosing weight. as women we are diminished to our appearance and only our appearance. I wish I could go back and time and take my phone away.
I’m 19 too , I didn’t get a phone till 2015 but it’s screwed me up too. I edit every single thing.. pandemic made it 10x worse too. But for the last 4 weeks I’ve had instagram deleted which has helped a lot
Just delete your social media. I did it 2 years ago. No regrets
Exactly. I've personally chosen to relinquish every sense of what society has taught us is feminine, so I could feel like my true feminine self and it's truest sense. I no longer wear skirts, nor tight pants, I have short manageable hair for once, where no makeup, no earrings, no no polish, nothing frilly or tight
I’m transgender and the beauty standards hurt me a lot because I’ll never be able to reach them.
@@_Anna_Nass_ Good for you! You really aren't missing anything.
As a mother of a 12 year old, who looks very much like this girl, I cried. The pressure on young girls to look a certain way is so scary and unrealistic. Amazing add, very powerful
Same with boys too
@@kingdigletteverythingpokem2136 yes, absolutely.
Ugly men should be accepted and wanted by women too
Just have the conversation
@@lukklm6076 it completely comes down to your perception of 'ugly' I believe a person is only ugly from within, and has nothing to do with how someone looks. You can have the most beautiful person to look at, and they can be truly ugly within....I take a kind person over looks any day!
This is brilliant Dove. I'm.not sure who your PR or media agency are, but you need to get some budget behind this and share it with millions, not thousands. Very powerful piece.
Totally agree with you
@The Mindful Mum of London I totally agree absolutely it needs to be shown world wide too many lives destroyed by social media and the pressure they face in 2022 is far to much
I believe their media agency is Ogilvy. They make some really great ads.
@@ThePurpleKiss101 Yeah, Ogilvy and Mindshare.
1 year later and over 1.8 million views!
I have huge respect for Dove doing this! This needs talking about, parents need to realise the dangers of smart phones and social media. We all do.
I personally think social media should be 18 and up. Just like certain films used to be, it's not healthy to be exposed to these things at such young ages.
What’s crazy is we do know as a society what we are doing! Yet, we don’t stop. We are not smarter but the opposite. We are not more social but the opposite. Whhhy?
Remember, they’re ultimately a company trying to sell you something
The same parents that won’t let their kids play outside or walk to school because “it’s too dangerous” are the same parents who will open their kids social media account so they can interact with “friends” from the “safety” of their own homes.
Definitely
As a mother to an adolescent 12 year old daughter this made me feel teary when I saw her beautiful fresh young face at the end 💗
me too x
My daughter’s almost four... I’m scared for her futur and this is no joke
Exactly the same with me
I cried
Same here just a really lovely fabulous advert that young lass face just reminds me of my young 11 year old niece she is into social media and I think it's too young too soon I really do.
Social media had created many insecurities which caused me to have low self esteem at times. I feel like we need to stop having these high expectations of ourselves to look certain ways
Yh same here and I couldn’t feel more happier coming off it
you should at least have some pride in how you look though
As an adolescent, I really appreciate you guys doing this, it's really getting out of hand now...everyone just feels that they're obligated to be "pretty" and "handsome" which they naturally are, but their appearances aren't enough for society's insanely high beauty standards...it's very sad :(
Yup-it really is
Well said. There is hope. Here is a glimpse at what were doing. th-cam.com/video/I8USShnwOOA/w-d-xo.html
if anything its the other way around
Amazing how I got this ad when I was feeling down about myself and searched for a makeup tutorial to cover eye bags 🤣 I immediately closed the video and told myself I’m beautiful just the way I am :), Thankyou dove
This commercial is beautiful. Thank you for putting it out there for us teenagers. With social media, it’s hard to remember that things online are not reality.
Well said. We're trying are best to bring a little bit more reality online. This video may interest you :) th-cam.com/video/I8USShnwOOA/w-d-xo.html
as a teenager, i learnt nothing from this video nor did this make an impact in my lifestyle
One of the greatest advertisements I have ever seen. As a father of 2 teenage daughters who dislike social media for what it has become. This is perfect. Congratulations DOVE for doing this. ❤🙏
Ew
@@carlivasquez6840 why are you saying ew
Been learning about marketing in school these past few weeks, and it was proposed for us to analyse a commercial. I've been looking all over the Internet yet no other company could make ads that truly touched and captivated me. Especially as a teenager, who's going to show my presentation to other teenagers who I'm sure are just as media-obsessed and manipulated by the unrealistic beauty standards as me! It's not a one or two time thing either, every single project is unique and well-thought! The marketing team and PR definitely deserve a standing ovation!
This makes me cry a bit, I once posted a picture of myself freshfaced with no makeup and someone commented I looked bad and should take it down- I was so embarrassed. We need to be kinder to each other, glam selfies are great but so are natural ones too.
Social media is the thing ur on rn..
I'm sorry they were so thoughtless. I deliberately worked to counteract this messaging with my daughter and my two sons. They are all wonderful people who accept others at true face value - and look deeper for the person behind the face.
Ashley Fitz
Can i ask why you posted a picture of yourself on social media?
Glad i grew up as a teen through the 1980's. There was no social media for me to go on back then. So there were no problems. Maybe parents today should be keeping kids off social media. Then there would be no problems. The world is full of good people, horrible people, crazy people and evil people. Many of those people are on social media. So there will always be problems on there, just like there are out in the real world.
thats the internet you should know this could happen before posting
This is brilliant. I did not grow up with social media, yet this still effects me. I cannot imagine what young girls go through today, but it has got to be incredibly difficult and often painful. I hope that girls and women of all ages see this and the importance of the message it delivers.
I am very thankful that dove recognizes the truth about the harm that social media causes and is raising awareness.
None of my friends really understand, but I have respect for this self esteem project too! Thanks for making people aware dove 🕊
I am 40.
These are/were the thoughts of most young girls in every era BUT social media just makes it even harder 😢
Even adults still struggle with this…
Much respect for choosing to use your power to make a difference in the lives of children.
I’m 40 too it’s hard to see your own young face fade away in a world that values beauty. But I can’t imagine the mental health issues augmentation we’ll see in 5 to 10 years as the ‘never known life without social media’ s hit this life stage.
I feel so grateful to have spent most of my formative years before social media we are the final generation who has.
seriously Dove, your PR and marketing team really knock it out of the park... great work
I am a 14year old & I never did makeup in my entire life nor do I intend to. I am happy about how I look- because our distinct looks make us unique. Don't care what people say about your looks - just believe in yourself - always remember you ARE BEUTIFUL IN YOUR OWN UNIQUE WAY!!!
I am 15 and neither do I!! SO glad to find someone like me ❤️
Beauty is not and will not ever be what YOU want it to be. Beauty is defined by the consumer not the producer.
Same here thank god I wasnt at internet social media growing up i never wore make up always had my hair up in pony tail and was a tom boy I'm now 41 and still tomboy ish never wore any makeup in my life I am who I am never been happier to much pressure now on young people to look and act be a certain way just have confidence and self esteem in yourself be happy with who you are what you are and you wont go wrong in life. Every one is beautiful and unique in every way be yourself and be happy content
I’m glad but you have a long way to go. Stay the course.
You likely don’t need make-up
Love the girl and how she trully looked, I have respect for Dove for doing this it was long needed.
I really feel for kids and teens now. We always had pressure to look attractive, but never the insane pressure to self-engineer our images like this. And in the 70’s and 80’s, we didn’t have the means. The technology and social media didn’t exist to be able to. What hurts most is that truly, you are beautiful as you are, but it’s easy to forget that.
Exactly
They are just photos. The amount of pressure is exactly the same as always. But the people have gotten so snively and soft they can't handle any unpleasantness.
The only decent advert with a positive message I've seen in a very, very long time.
When I was 13 and I posted a photo on Instagram where I was without makeup, girls and even boys laughed at me because I had acne, thick eyebrows and a big nose. After that, I began to makeup a lot and process photos, and then everyone immediately began to write that I had become so prettier and, in general, I had a model face. But my face was absolutely the same. Now I am 20 and I, despite the fact that I still sometimes makeup for different looks, I fell in love with myself for who I am and now I calmly go out into the street without makeup without being ashamed of it. Girls, we know we are beautiful! 💕 And if someone tells you that you are ugly, then most likely they themselves are hiding behind thousands of filters and layers of makeup, or just toxic people.
Your comment inspired me
way before I become transgender and I was a boy I had big nose to that maybe why I got badly pick on now iam transgender try my best the best transgender Lady I can be what makes it hard for me I'd not fully transgender woman only half transgender because the rest cots lots for me get me down at times but at this time I do have the inds centre link lady pick me help me out in my life they ok with me been have some but in saying that I still have up and Downs they try best pick up from time to time now how to that what I love about them wish I could give you a big hug knowing that it will not all your pain away so sorry what you had to deal with 😶🙁😣😒🤧💔
you should know the risks before using social media
Saw this today, I cried. I remember when I was young my mother taught manners to preserve your youth. She taught you will have plenty of time to be an adult, enjoy your youth.
No Selfie Needed. There's a whole world out there to look at, listen to, and share. Scenery, art, architecture, animals, objects (even a colorful pile of dishes soaking in the sink can look beautiful photographed in the right way).
Thank you Dove for doing this, creating this masterpiece. I’m in awe and I will share it world wide.
Best and most powerful advert I've seen in years! Absolutely brilliant. Everyone needs to see this advert!
I think every girl and woman needed to see this and possibly boys and men too. Too much pressure is on people now with society and social media. The song Try by Colbie Caillat does a great job too. Applause to Dove for such an important message.
This is a good one , to the point (when you get the 10 sec ad on a TH-cam video with no skip), realistic, and will grab the attention of both adults n adolescents. Yay dove
THANKS VERY MUCH SOCIAL MEDIA!
This girl is a natural beauty and should remain so. Stay true to yourself sweetheart, you’re gorgeous just the way you are.
Nailed it. Well played, Dove.
Phenomenal add .. this should be how ads should be done to help us feel better not fit a box. Amazing ad loved the message.
This advert made me cry then and still does to this day x
WOW it gave me chills. I talk about this all the time. I'm a grown woman and struggled with feeling good enough and my own self esteem. Let along being a teenager. Thank you for talking about this and keeping it relevent. THANK YOU!
This made me so emotional everyone is beautiful in their own way 😢
This made me cry, she is so beautiful and it’s so sad because I’ve been in that position so many times like I know most young women and girls have….thank you dove ❤️
And boys too
This isn’t about men.
This ad touched my heart in an insanely way , It was well-thought and produced. I wish so badly that all the girls left behind those worries about their bodies and understand that we are not diminished to our physical images , we are beyond that. I wish I could go back and time and tell to my younger inner self not to concern about it . The problem is getting out of hand but is our duty to have the self steem talk.
Thank you so much for this, it is actually so brave to step up and start spreading awareness about the harm caused by social media these days. So many people are just ignoring it, and it is so sad how it has become the new elephant in the room at a global scale.
Well said. We're working on bringing more awareness around this issue and also bringing a solution to the table. th-cam.com/video/I8USShnwOOA/w-d-xo.html
This whole campaign is uplifting and refreshing, it's certainly long overdue. I'm so glad that this issue is being addressed as young girls struggle to fit in due to the pressures created on social and mass media. Great job Dove!!
Love this. SO powerful. Thank you for being a force for good.
Your Dove Men + Care deodorants are the best, truly. I may be able to get less expensive deodorant elsewhere, but the way your deodorant makes me feel... absolutely amazing! Never would I switch.
As someone who struggles with trichotillomania (the intense desire to pull out body hair, such as eyebrows.) I appreciate the ad! Well done Dove!! ❤️❤️
I'm a 42 year old guy with a 5 year old daughter. This hit me hard. Good work Dove.
i’m only fifteen. i feel so insecure about things i never would’ve noticed had it not been for the influence of social media :/
This is the best advert Iv ever seen for our young girls of today. It gave me a lump in my throat and I needed to search to comment. I’m a young persons Therapist and I see so many young girls struggling with just being them. So thank you for putting something so powerful and relive the out there
This video is powerful. As a parent, it has made me realize that I need to monitor what my daughter does on her phone more. I cannot imagine the body image issues these kids are experiencing in this social media era where everyone only posts perfection online.
I love how dove isn’t just selling products. Their making a difference.
This is a beautiful message.
Dove, Im a 43 year old male from Canada.
I was writing a review for a friend.
Had Smurfs 2, playing on the TV in the background for some background noise.
Out of the blue, something I heard on the TV made me stop typing and watch the Television. It was a cartoon commercial and the cartoon was a young woman talking to herself (seemingly having an epiphany) about how she didnt need thumbs ups or followers, Etc. to be happy. When the commercial ended I literally clapped, with tears in my eyes and I seen that it was a Dove commercial.
I have to say, AMAZING the job you guys are doing.
Honestly, Ive been using Ivory soap for years, its scent is not too strong and it is affordable. But next time out, just based on your marketing campaign regards helping young woman. Im going to try some Dove soap (promise made) and maybe Ill like it so much Ill stick to it.
Just, Bravo to your Marketing/Advertising/Writing people. I know you guys have been doing these type of things for a while now, but today's commercial hit me different.
Please dont stop. Please.
OMG, she is beautiful without any Photoshop app, ALL OF OUR YOUNG CHILDREN ARE (BOYS, GIRLS, MEN & WOMEN).
LOVE!!!!!! Hit the mark. Yes Dove!
Dove always got me crying by the end of their ads
Fantastic - I remember the impact of your first 'campaign for real beauty video' had when I showed it to my then young teenage niece. This is another excellent and needed piece
You may also like the short film produced by our found many years ago. You can watch it here: th-cam.com/video/tHzesEOJfTw/w-d-xo.html
The music! And the last shot of her is so sad but beautiful at the same time. Fantastic ad.
I love this ad it speaks to me on a much more personal level than most ads, I'm 14 and I deal with this dysphoria every day, I am male and i deal with this every day, I wish we could cure these sort of things in an instant 🥰
What a beautiful and important advert. Congratulations Dove on recognising and reacting to the toxicity that surrounds young people and social media.
Just saw this on TV. A really good advert! Well done Dove 👏
thank you for this. Im 20 and i wish i never touched social media, its like a drug.
Props to the girl being filmed! 💖💖💖
Thank you Dove - this is about time - I will teach my daughter that she doesn't need android type faces to dictate beauty and try and keep as far away from Social Media as I humanly can. I've managed it with my teen son I hope I can with my daughter. Its an empty way of wasting your best years. I love this ad - please keep campaigning and helping promote positive image messages. The kid in the video never needed any help to look beautiful she was perfect at the start.
having lost my wife age 50 November 2021 and being a father to our 5 girls this advert is so needed and so hard hitting. I'm fortunate that mom raised the girls brilliant but this is so thought provoking I've shared it with everyone I know 👏👏👏
An amazing powerful and hard hitting advert! Made me cry. Well done Dove!
ias a teenager i really dont plan on this having a impact in my life
Makes me cry every time I see this
This is an amazing and very powerful commercial, Always one that stood out to me and still does. Respect to Dove for doing this
Blown away by this Bravo 👏🏼
At 52 I have found the liberation of a true 'don't give a s#*t' attitude. My daughter is 10, how do I get to survive long enough to know better? How do we get this message to every young person on the planet? The pressure really comes from the insecurities of others and social media has amplified that. Thank you for this powerful 60 seconds.
Wow! Hats off to Dove... Hard hitting ad.....
It was very much needed... Social media has gone too too far!
This is an amazing ad. Well done Dove!
First commercial ever that I actually shared. This is so refreshing and so important!
So important indeed! This may be even more refreshing for you :) th-cam.com/video/I8USShnwOOA/w-d-xo.html
LOVE this!!
Fantastic ad, well needed, well done Dove
This is so powerful, this is amazing!
this is amazing. ive learnt a lot from this and now i know a lot about self-love and im now kind to myself. but why would she change herself? she is beautiful inside and out! she is even prettier than me!
I absolutely love the message in this advert ❤️ be yourself be happy be true to yourself ❤️
I cried when I saw this. Great commercial.
Your beautiful just the way you are don’t be someone else just be you and remember that
She’s so pretty
I felt such emotion at the end , her sweet little face, just as she she be! Thank you for creating this touching video, may it impact the lives of many girls and women #doveus
I'm a big fan of natural beauty every one is beautiful the young girl in the tv advert is simply fabulous very model like and she will go far in life I hope she will follow her dreams and have the confidence to stand up and be who ever she wants to be do what she wants to do I would be very proud of her and that she will go very very very far
We have to learn to love ourselves the way we are
Next time, look in the mirror, and instead of wishing how you could change something that you deem as imperfect, look at something you love and that you admire, and tell yourself, “I’m perfect the way I am.”
Best commercial ever put out by a big brand name company 👏 amazing work
Lovely advert well done to dove who is tackling this self esteem problem fantastic and what a beautiful young lady this person is she is beautiful and I hope she goes very far in life and fulfills her dreams and desires to. All the best to her and her family
I sincerely agree with this. They don't have to be pretty or beautiful. We should compliment their abilities not appearance
Shes looks 10x better at the end. Natural.
We are all beautiful the way we are ❤️
This campaign has a powerful message.
Practicing body neutrality it emphasizes that regardless of how our bodies look appreciating what they can do for us is amazing sometimes you may not love your body and that's ok in fact those feelings are valid too no one is going to love their bodies all the time
it may take time to accept your body as it is. I say love is patient
- To whoever may be reading this a determined and kind soul.
She looks way better without editing to be honest… i dont know why people prefer looking at their “edited” self instead of natural self.
And that’s the very point of this video! Because social media is complicit in setting and projecting beauty standards that are so impossibly high that women (and men!) simply feel ugly and inadequate if they don’t come close to these ultra edited/plastic/Kardashian-esque images of ‘beauty’ that we’re force fed every single time we open Instagram. It’s creating a generation that has never been more insecure, and it’s so heartbreaking
@@mayakessler1141 definitely. I live somewhere with lots of social media addicts that sometimes i question whether or not thats really how they look or if thats all makeup…
Yes she’s so beautiful makeup is ugly af
@@escapefr0mslender it really is it should only be used for special occasions or holidays
A very important message. Although the captions identifying that there is music, this video is not accessible to anyone with a vison disability. Only once was there a description of what was on the screen (hair swooshing). Adding a video description file would make this message available to more people.
you cant expect every video to be accesible to people with disabilities
This is not for just girls I think it will help how our boys look at each other also. Especially the app you can put on your phone about how your speaking about others affects how they feel about themselves!
Good job Dove. Very clever and strategic. Play on human emotions to sell your own beauty products. By the look of the comments I see it's working quite well. However it in no way takes away from the message, but still great marketing. Someone deserves a promotion.
Notice how on the computer it looks like a woman yet in reality it looks like a kid. Dove is being underhanded, they clearly are different people and Dove is trying to make out kids are making themselves look older to fit in to be able to look beautiful then are groomed online by men. This is a pack of lies.
Girls love being at the centre of all and many actually suffer from HPD at the expense of there families encouraging there daughters, Nieces, Cousin's to be like this. They closely observe there accounts and get them ready for OF just a few years down the line.
A lot of normal girls on normal platforms who aren't models might say they're not beautiful but it's a ploy for men to keep away from asking them out but still to receive over flattering remarks because they LIKE IT.
It comes from themselves and you can't blame men or social pressures from causing this. This Advert is Evil and I don't like it one bit. The Music, The grown woman at the end of a particular version of this AD shown in the UK who might be masquerading as a kid. It's all creepy.
It interrupts you unexpectedly in the most inappropriate times of the day and is usually on REALLY knowing people are watching Ghost Stuff. What is this implying?
It's as bad as the baby adverts of being born. I feel like muting the sound when I see this stuff but unfortunately the family is around then watching there rubbish usually hugging the remote. I can't keep doing it either I can't pretend I haven't saw it.
I hope OFCOM decide to pull it once it receives complaints. I hope you write.... 😅
W dove, stay safe guys❤
I love that u say “our girls” 🤧
Dove campaigns are always good. ❤. It’s the story behind it. I can’t wait to see the next one
What a powerful message.
Well done Dove!
very easy to understand and the best it works
EXCELLENT
Thank you for making a difference
🌹
This is the best Commercial I've seen in a while. ... thank you #Dove
God bless you all for making this commercial. As a live streamer I know how it can be, and for the past couple years ive made a point to wear no makeup on camera about 90% of the time. Wearing makeup ages your skin!! I'm 42 next month and still smooth. Thank you Dove!
Happy birthday I turned 41 last month your only young as you feel just keep healthy and happy happiness is key to a healthy life
sadly I have to because I could not become fully transgender woman still have shave my face to put make-up on to make my self look like a lady as best I can and to me it kind of sucks and hurts me and sucks being in the wrong body to wish I was never a boy wish I was born Girl and just try my best to deal with life to knowing it can be painful and hurtful and stressful and judgemental people and dubble standers stuff 😶🙁😣😒😏PS just a sad world we live in now
Well done Dove! Proving the modern beauty standards girls + women want + want to project is all about make-up, hair styling, hair + lash extensions for some people and clever work with lighting, filters and simply taking a selfie in the right room with the right lighting and space. Real women + girls won’t automatically wake up looking like a selfie taken on IG - I occasionally post a “lift selfie,” and it involves hair styling, make-up and selecting an outfit I have a good body image in - say it’s an optical illusion
So well done. It is painful to watch and understand the pressures on our young girls and women.