HOW to STAND UP for YOURSELF without being rude
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- In this video, Daniel tells you how to stand up for yourself without being rude. We all have a sinful nature and it is easy to get on the offense when we need to defend ourselves. But, there are ways to stand up for yourself without being a jerk. Watch this men's self-improvement video to learn how to stand up for yourself the right way.
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In this men's self-improvement video, Daniel Maritz from DLM Men's Lifestyle gives you tips to stand up for yourself without being rude. Many guys go on the offensive when they are confronted or being bullied. But, is being rude the best way to stand up for yourself?
Daniel tells you how to stand up for yourself without being rude, and without being a jerk. These practical tips will help you to stand up for yourself the right way.
We all have a sinful nature and it is easy to be rude or overly assertive when we are confronted or bullied. Learn how to respectfully stand up for yourself in this important video.
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I am a new Christian since September and I have been wondering how I am going to share the gospel with other people since i am still struggling with social anxiety and can barely leave my house most days.. on top of that I have experienced years of verbal abuse from my husband and those words and memories still haunt me today..I keep praying the Lord will make me unafraid of people emotionally or physically!! Lord give me your strength and courage and teach me how to be an effective witness for you!!
Hi Sara, hope you're doing well, courage will come to you in its own time, it did for me, look after yourself, eat and sleep well, exercise (that's what helped my confidence anyway, I'm against antidepressants that they are so willing to pass over, going for a walk is just the best escape , and just having time for yourself, do what you want and what you like !)
And god bless of course!!!
I feel the exact same way about this. All I can do is pray to Jesus that I overcome this feeling. I know that He will help me. But it’s still a very hard thing to do
Show the world the fruits of the spirt Love Joy Peace Patience Kindness Goodness Faithfulness Gentleness Self-control. Your behavior is the best witness you can have family friend's coworkers whatever will see your change and then God will use you for his kingdom.
This is such a hard verse to live by but one we should all strive for I swear this world was designed to cripple us.
2 Timothy 1:7-8 - For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind. Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord.
Fear and anxiety are not of God.
Phil 4: 6-7
Mark 13: 11
Matt 10: 19
How crazy is this brother? I am from Argentina. I've been sharing my faith recently and for the first time I've been heavily mocked for the past 3 days, from people that I know which makes it worse.. Last night I couldn't sleep and been constantly thinking about this.. These days have been very though for me and this video came in the perfect moment. Thank God and you Daniel.
Matt 10: 22
Prov 9: 7-17
As spiritual warfare reaches a fever pitch, we who are one/ won, in Christ have a large target on our back.
Praise be to God
God bless you my brother. Don't give up and well done for sharing your faith in Jesus. Stay unshaken
As a woman recovering from spousal and religious abuse (EX Jehovah's Witness), this message was balm to my ❤
Same…❤
God bless you
Very wise words brother Daniel, I had a debate with a lost sister this week, I was so gentle with her and she was so rude and she kept mocking God, I listened to what God said to me and I understood that her anger came from her feeling convicted by the message I shared. I ended the debate even though she went on and on. I prayed for her and still do. ❤
I have struggled with bullies my entire life, most authority figures and also working in customer service. As an only child, I had to take the abuse and was never taught how to defend myself without being “rude”. Thank you so much for this video!
I wish you posted this earlier :( I have bad relationship with my parents and as I was staying over with my own family at their house last week they just provoked me and started fights to say this and that about me , mocked my faith and said horrible things about the Bible. Oh how much this troubles my heart, I’m not even angry or hold any grudges, no, I’m just so hurt that my relationship with my own parents is like that… they don’t know me as a person, they just have this image of who they think I am and when I tried to explain myself when we had the arguments they just kept interrupting me and wouldn’t stop talking badly … I tried my best to resolve this conflict but had no success.. normally I’d leave this behind but these are my parents … I know I was lead by the Spirit this whole time , so I truly don’t know what did I do wrong.. I’ve been praying about this but I’d still like to hear opinions from my brothers and sisters in Christ on what should I do.. I feel really hurt because of us having such relationship and just to add, it’s always been like this with my parents, my whole life. I just always hope for the best but it only gets worse with them
Luckily both my parents raised me as a follower of Christ, but I feel the only way I can relate is that when I’m on my own on the other side of the country, I look to the father as he is our true father, our parents are nothing more than people he placed in our life to lead us to him. No hate on our parents at all I love them unconditionally, but I hope you know what I’m trying to say, I find comfort and peace in the true father❤️
My friend, you keep praying continuously for your parents and hopefully God will touch their lives and open their eyes. Keep honoring and loving your parents, just remember, you can love them from a distance, it will save you the confrontational mocking of our Lord Jesus Christ and yourself. God be with you and Bless you and yours my friend. 🕊️✝️🙏
I recently went no contact with all my family.
Like yourself I was the scapegoat & all their projections . It never got better no matter how much I did for them.
I wasted so many years of time effort, resources trying to please them but it was never enough.
It makes no sense to treat your own kid so badly with harsh words unfounded accusations & plain disrespect, even when you have given nothing but the opposite back. That's why it's hard for your own self to believe & of course they will have others believing their bs too. I stayed so long because I'm an only child & your supposed to honour your mother and father.
I think in our cases we have to honour them from a distance, was they will drain you to a point that even your relationship with God will suffer.
Go make your own family, ❤
Just breathe Give it to the LORD ❤he will guide you and your family just pray and keep the faith brother 🙏❤️🙏
Remember, if your parents are not for Jesus Christ, then they are vulnerable to the Devil, to Satan, to Lucifer. Remember, he is a master manipulator and the ultimate deceiver. He is, “The Father of all lies.” If they have been this way all your life, not of faith, not having Christ in their life… then they ARE susceptible to Lucifer and the other Fallen Ones, Demons. Even I of powerful faith have had many many trials since I was Saved by Jesus 18 months ago. I was raised Presbyterian, but for 23 years I have been a witch, a Buddhist, and even a Taoist. The Devil will pull out all stops to turn a Christian back to evil. He will make you believe you’re expendable, you don’t matter. The devil wants you to believe this because then you will be indifferent, you will give up trying to be pure and good. Remember, Lucifer fought against God, in Heaven, with 10,000 Angels! They were all cast down to Earth for thousands and thousands of years. Now we call those fallen ones, Demons. They can Influence your parents to feel pure contempt toward you, they can possess your parents when they are in extreme anger, and they can even just inhabit your parents’ home and wait for your return. Lucifer already has them right where he wants them as unbelievers for most of their lives. He wants YOU. You piss him off. When he loses a Soul to Christ, he flips out like a psycho older brother or uncle that always smokes too much weed and gets drunk at every party. Lucifer HATES to lose. I know, I was not a Wiccan. I was a Witch. I served him directly. He is quite powerful, but nothing compared to Jesus Christ. Because your faith in Christ makes the lesser Demons Flee. Lucifer, on the other hand, “Roams the Earth like a roaring Lion looking for souls to devour.” …”like a hungry wolf in sheep’s clothing.” Lucifer unlike those other Demons, will NOT back down. Like his besties Azreal and Ba’el, Extremely powerful fallen ones. They won’t back away from Christ. They don’t give a shit about God’s wrath. They despise, loathe, and HATE everything that God stands for. They hate this world and ALL humans. They blame humans for God’s love shifting more to them than the angels. That is WHO’s attention YOU have gained. They want as many souls to take down to Hell with them as possible because they know that’s where they’re going and they want to prove Jehovah to be Fallible.
My fellow Daniel woke up today and decided to preach FACTS 🔥
For the first half of my life, I was surrounded by people trying to make me constantly look down and feel weak even though I never felt weak.
Today I won't tolerate it, try to rise up against me unjustly and you'll get crushed.
Don't even think about it.
Praise be to God
💪🔥🙏✨🕊️
I once was a people pleaser. It was fear. I was trying to fit in and I had a need for people to like me. The thing I found was some people were taking advantage and using me. I felt I couldn't say NO. I am not like that now. If I choose not to do something, then I say NO and not feel bad about it.
Your tongue is the "Rudder" of your ship 🙏🏻😇🇿🇦
I think and know and pray for all to live in this way. This will take hard work for most of us, but try each day. ❤
I agree with you, we need to see the situation with different eyes, as you said what is behind their speaking and acting
Yes DLM I totally agree that verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. I think verbal abuse hurts & does emotional & mental damage that lasts the reciever's whole lifetime. I know this may not be 100% easy but,as Christians need to treat others the way they themselves would like to be treated.
Such a great channel! I came first for model tips and advice but landed here learning from a real reborn Christian! Thank you for all the work you do!
Pray immediately when i feel something is not right there. Fight the evil immediately, don’t run away, stay back or sit down. Awsome!
Praying for your enemies doesn't mean taking L
To have faith like you...
Starting a new job today and having anxiety due to things I’ve gone through I deal with this a lot in work environments. so many different people in factories and no matter how nice and respectful you are or how much you stay to yourself some ppl do not care and may not like you and will make it hard and I was never taught how to stand up for myself my mom always used to say to ignore everything but that doesn’t always work some people will keep pushing and pushing your buttons or bullying indirectly it’s so hard to just ignore
I feel awful for children who grow/grew up with heavily physical, verbal, and psychological abusive parents. Ones who were never taught how to love, only hate.
Thank you brother
This was a very much needed video cause I couldn’t understand how I’m supposed to turn the other cheek for a bully
Dankie vir die Bybelstudie dit baie geniet, ek leer so baie uit jou videos.
Amen
God bless you, my dear brother!!
Same to you!
@@DLMMensLifestyle Amen! 🙂
Amen!
Great Channel!!
That is me am always kind to others that I never stand up for myself. I was in foster care my whole life and abused in every way you can think of I seen more by the time I was 5 then most people have their whole life and then after 14.5 years of marriage my ex told me she chetted on me with over 20+ guys over the whole marriage and she belittled me and talked to me in away that I felt like that foster kid all over again that I became a yes mama. I need to learn how to stand up for myself in a way that God wants me to and how the Bible says to
This is beautiful ❤
Excellent video. Thank you and God bless brother.
Amen Brother! I Struggle With Meekness & Zeal! Learning Daily! HalleluJah!
i love this channel ever☺️
Thank you brother for the video and thank you lord amen
I need this today. 🙏😇
I require it,each and every day
Thank you for sharing this. I know this channel is for men...but woman really can learn alot here. I have struggled with standing up for myself my whole life...something happened last night and I prayed and asked God is it even ok for me to stand up for myself because usually when I do I get even more blasted by the people I try to tell how what they did made me feel...I asked must I just roll over and allow people to continue have their way...am I even allowed to have a say...then I find this on my feed. Thank you. Blessings, from South Africa 🇿🇦 🙏
Love and prayerful blessings in CHRIST! ✝️🙏❤
God bless you brother 😇❤️
Amen 🙏
Thanks!
Thanks
Great video, thanks! 🙏🏾
Amen🔥
I’m glad that you posted this video, especially the part where you explained the meaning of “turn the other cheek.” I think that is one of the most misinterpreted by people if not THE most misinterpreted.
Amen 💖
A video def worth watching
Thanks very much for these productive words
❤ truth
Wonderful video. Gof bless
Thank you, Daniel, for allowing God to use you, Blessings 🕊🤍💛
Thank you so much! It’s so encouraging and powerful.
It open mind and really helpful for me to face the people that’s trying to control me with their own wrong thoughts, with my side that doesn’t really have any idea what should be my principles in this part. I believe God is always talking to us in many ways, and today God answers my prayer about my struggles through your video. May God bless you!
I found it! I’m watching!
AMEN ❤️🙏❤️
Thank you brother in our Lord jesus Christ and saviour
Very good that he explains the bible verse like what is meant by resist the devil, turn the other cheek. Most church pastors and teachers just simply quote the verses without explaining, like that even i also know how to preach by just quoting verses. Without clear understanding, we don't grow and will make mistakes when we misinterpret bible verses literally! I used to be kind, without understanding and was therefore taken advantage of, being bullied. Now i nolonger bother to walk in godly ways! No point being kind, patient at all just bec i wanted to live a godly life unto the Lord.
Merci beaucoup pour cette vidéo qui tombe à point. Je dois confronter mon employeur demain, car il m’a laissé travailler dans un local sans ventilation (je l’ignorais) et sans fenêtre jusqu’à affecter ma santé. Je vais demander l’aide de l’Esprit pour parler avec courage et garder mon sang froid.
Thank you brother... I need to hear this today so I may respond in Christlikeness. Still learning everyday how to navigate on my relationship. ❤
Amen :)
Thanks Daniel. This is just what I need. Encouragement because I get sad all the time when I can't share the gospel of Jesus Christ. TH-cam algorithms really work...all glory to God...
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This is great advice!👆🏼One of the things I also found very powerful and effective is praying for your enemies. There’s been times where I had to work with rude women. They were rude to me and to others for no reason! I sensed a darkness in them, so I prayed to God to help alleviate them from the darkness within and to give them peace and happiness. The next day they were a completely different person! This is real, powerful, effective stuff! Praise be to God❤️
understanding is one thing
But annoying is another thing
RIGHT AWAY I PRAY TO GOD AND PRAY TO GOD ABOUT EVERYTHING🙏👈even if God already know I still pray to God until I feel better🙏👈
Such a good Video🙏🏽🔥 Thank you Lord Yeshua Ha Mashiah ♥️♥️♥️
Great video 😢😢😢 I really needed this words from you because fear is making us lose the battle of war. But with God's wisdom we can win.
And God also gives us courage
My sister cancelled on her niece 4th b day. I was and still am very mad/upset with her. What’s the best way to let go of his anger I have? 🙏🏻❤️
Why when I pray I get attacked almost always right away? What can I do so I don't curse when that happens?
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Hey 👋 thanks for your encouraging and inspiring videos.l have a question l have been trying much in my studies despite of hardwork and commitment but I always not not my target l also do pray for my studies but my results always disappoints this makes me to be angry and not to pray please 🙏 advise me what can do to solve this problem 😢
I thank GOD for your video. He knows when you really need to hear things. I have had a lot of trauma, and still battle with things. This being one of them. Standing up for myself. But doing it with the Holy Spirit. Not letting my emotions overcome my mouth. I am in constant attack in my home so there are times I have to withdrawal and leave it to Jesus. There is only so much I can take and Jesus knows that. It is very hard when your dealing with family members. Any GODLY advice it great help. Thank youu
I paid for someone to do a job for me and she didn't it properly and her unprofessional task failed the whole project. I paid for someone to ruin my project and she didn't take any responsibility. Should I drop the case or collect all of the evidence and to bring to the court?
The problem I have is with my only sister in Christ . I don’t have any other woman of God on my life . The problem is she tried to make everyone feel stupid and gives a bad attitude I held it in for too long and now I couldn’t take it and sorta blew things up . We aren’t talking because she didn’t hear me out . I pray for her I’m hurt but she is prideful and talks to people in a rude
Manner I pray for her healing and I pray we can reconcile
Day of judgement is coming
❤❤❤🙏
What must I do,, I'm constantly being picked on talk like I'm rubbish by my sister son I don't matter and I don't have anything or money to be my own life
this us so true we chistian need to show love to others the way christ do it !!
It is so hard to not to anger for the beast like or snake like behaviors of those evil ones. When I scream to them, I can quickly realize that I have lost the spiritual war. Please pray for me! Too many troubles stirred up by the evil ones that I lose my temper!
May God bless all who has prayed for me! Today, I have changed into a peaceful and joy person from yesterday's anger and anxiety. Thanks again in Jesus!
let me make this clear to EVERYONE. if the person being rude to you or crossing your boundary is a narcissist (covert, overt, etc)..... do NOT confront them. Instead just go NO CONTACT. Trust me and thank me later. These people are sick and twisted and will make up lies about you, smear campaign, mess with your kids and more. Do not confront everyone. Just walk away and do not engage with them ever again.
What if that narcissist is your child’s father? Then what? 😕
@@kaylabarchuleta low contact. never confront
Proverbs 29 : 11
The fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control
as possible I hate talking eartly
with God and Heavenly everything light up🙏👈
Thank you, we all have this in our lives 🙏 in some way: family, friend, neighbors, co-workers...
Satan get behind me
Be kind, spread love, keep your eyes on Jesus Christ, our way to SALVATION ❤ 🕊 God bless 🙌 🙏
Daniel When I'm mad I stay quiet, so people think I'm weak at school when they see someone disrespect me scream at me or even slap me I do nothing back or scream back it feels like I'm the rubbish of the world and I know girls want tough guy that people respect and I can't be that man I try to be myself and people just act so tuff and get mad when I do a mistake man I'm just Gonnna forget about being myself if this is what it's like. But I don't want to pretend being something I'm not I don't really got anyone I can really call my friends to they just benefited off me never hit me up or invite me over it's always me my parents sometimes have mocked me for trying to speak of Jesus saying I don't know any better than anyone and that they went through my phase as well when in fact I didn't boast but was trying to speak of the bible. Anyways it feels nice spreading my pain but you have a good one man ty for this video.
So true. They don’t know Jesus but they swear they do. Pick bits and pieces from the scripture
If you could look into the private lives of all those you would like to punish, you would find in each, enough suffering, that you would not want to wish anything more on them. ❤
Bible study verses
Psalm 51:5
Ephesians 6:12
Luke 23:34
Mathew 12: 34-36
Mathew 10: 16
James 4:7
James 1:19-20
Colossians 4:6
Proverbs 18:21
Ephesians 4:29
Proverbs 18:2
Hebrews 13:6
1 Peter 3:15
Romans 12:18
Ephesians 4:17-20
1 Corinthians 9:20-22
Romans 2:11
Romans 1:16
Can you please talk about slavery from the Bible
Saying to someone "Let's talk like adults" is not loving. With saying this you act like you are supperiour and take the other one down, saying he's like a child. That will bring more anger. Unnecessary to say it like this. :)
If I had lools like his, I would do it also.
No matter how nice you can be
These world know nothing what nice or kind is all about
That is why I love love talking about God only to forget the whole evil things
It can be family👈aquiantance👈neighbors👈
it happened all the time
GOD I LOVE TALKING WITH HIM EVERYTHING BECOMES
PERFECT🙏👈
Islam is the truth i hope everyone goes on the true path
Isaiah 26
Is smoking weed a sin can I smoke when I have nothing going on?
Hello friend, I believe it's a sin because it affects your body and your thinking.
Remember Your Body is the temple of christ and its to be used to glorify Him. I doubt whether you can feel meek when you are high, do you?...
Ephesians 5:18 Amplified Bible (AMP)Do not get drunk with wine, for that is wickedness (corruption, stupidity), but be filled with the [Holy] Spirit and constantly guided by Him.
Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy that person; for God’s temple is sacred, and you together are that temple. ( 1 Corinthians 3:16-17)
May God bless you friend.
@paulmedia-techsolutions9264 thank you my spirit telling me this is true God Bless you and pray for my strength from Christ Jesus 🙏
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It is a sin cause it harms the tempel of God , your body.
I wish you made this video long time ago. Eh, better late than never
I was in an abusive situation with my dad where I told a white lie to keep him from doing anything else to me.
GOD FORGIVE ME FOR NOT KEEPING MY MOUTH SHUT WHEN I GET ANGRY 😠 GOD HELP ME PLEASE IN JESUS NAME AMEN 🙏
I think it's hard to be a Christian at least am studying it alittle bit
Her art is like the art found in Walmart. She just needs to stop being on camera for a while
We were all born with the evil disease of sin, but through the grace and love of our lord jesus christ he died on the cross to save us from our sins, so that we might have eternal life ✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am rude. Sometimes you need to be rude, cocky, arrogant it made me successful in real life…..When I was being polite it didn’t get me nothing from it, instead I get spewed on and used by people. I am proud that I am rude, arrogant, cocky they opened my eyes. I use to be submissive wimp….Now I am dominant, arrogant, rude. And I blame people who created me this way. I don’t take any responsibility for my actions at all, I blame people all the time not my fault. They created me this way so technically their fault that I engage like this not mine fault at all🤷♂️
Islam is almost like Christianity but we believe Jesus too but we think he was not god, but a prophet sent by god. And we believe in 1 god. No less no more. We hate war, we don't lie, we don't steal, we don't hate
Hi, May I share the most important news you will ever hear? God the Father sent His holy Son Jesus Christ(Y'shua Ha' Mashiach) from heaven to earth, to be born of a virgin. He grew up and died on the cross for our sins. He was put into a tomb for 3 days, and then Abba Father raised Jesus to life and He appeared to people and went back to Heaven. We must all sincerely receive Jesus to be a true child of God. It says in John 1:12 "But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name." Will you genuinely believe on Christ Jesus and truly receive Him today, before it is too late?
I think standing for yourself is incorrect. Stand for christ and the word of god. Stand for others and defend them from themselves when you recognize their mistakes. Often people wont take your advice or investigate what you said untl they fail some more. Its pride in them that prevents them from confession or becoming self-aware. Though some people are glad that you confronted them and they correct themselves sooner.
This is the good comment. Yes, its true, the right word for this video is STAND for CHRIST & the word of God.
They lied on Jesus, and smeared his holy name ,and so? will they lie, and smear you
This world is satanic