Secrets of Successful Wives conference - OG Wives give MAD advice!

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  • @mahaalotaibi8352
    @mahaalotaibi8352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Number one is lots and lots and lots of sabr patience! Never give your ears or gossip about your marriage to anyone unless under one condition he is very abusive and you need help to get out.

  • @abbeyroche2983
    @abbeyroche2983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s so true what sister Ruby shared, when you take no responsibility for your feelings and throw them around at yourself and others. When you hold yourself accountable, you can still give validity to your feelings but you don’t have to lose control and let them rule over the situation. This also protects you when someone else is directing negative emotion at you, it allows you to not internalize that as something YOU did or something YOU earned. Sometimes people are just generally upset, no need for you to make it your own fault.

  • @hameedabello2069
    @hameedabello2069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love that aspect of intention by ummu isah,solidifying your intention for the seek of Allah,I found so much peace with that.

  • @deeqaabdullahi5777
    @deeqaabdullahi5777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Patience and respect are the key success to be healthy and happy marriage

  • @nanajama4537
    @nanajama4537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is such a beautiful dialogue. Mansha’Allah ❤ May Allah bless these beautiful women for sharing such gems. And May Allah put mercy, love, understanding, and compassion between husbands and wives! For those looking to get married, May Allah bless you with a righteous partner. And May we all meet in Jenna. Ameen!

  • @yaisatoujohn3477
    @yaisatoujohn3477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such An amazing conversation I’ve been married for 4 years and I really appreciate this thank Allah for you beautiful souls Mashallah

  • @aijahmoran373
    @aijahmoran373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu❤️ loved this. I was definitely triggered by the words submissive and obey. I have a lot of growing to do SubhanAllah May Allah make this journey we are on successful Ameen JazakAllahu khairan for this talk. Right on time♥️

  • @hajiantafida1
    @hajiantafida1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha Allah, it's been educative program. May Allah bless you all.

  • @doreenkennie1714
    @doreenkennie1714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The panel was great. May Allah bless you all for sharing with us. shukran

  • @abmamun3145
    @abmamun3145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ramadan Mubarak

  • @fatimatusaddique9207
    @fatimatusaddique9207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just found channel....masha Allah

  • @lalala8082
    @lalala8082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Obedience to the husband is more pleasant with a pleasant, easy-going man. What will you do if your husband doesn't want you to give your sick child tylanol because he thinks it's dangerous? What will you do if your husband doesn't want you to wash your baby's nose because he can't stand to hear her cry? And even if you explain to him that it's a need, he argues with you? What will you do if your husband wants to make love now while your 2-year-old won't let go of you for a second? What will you do if your husband forbids you to have social relations when you need them for your mental health because you don't meet any other human since 6 years? Obedience is not just about cooking, everything is relative. If a man wants to be treated like a king, he should treat his wife like a queen. I remember a hadith where Hind went to see the prophet (saws) saying that her husband was avaricious and did not want to give his money to her, the prophet (saws) replied "take what you need in secret for you and your children". Islam is a middle ground religion. You don't know all these things when you are young because you are inexperienced, but older sisters need to advice you about that, because otherwise you will be shocked. I don't talk about abusive relationships, I talk about healthy relationships but with special needs. On the other hand, we raise children to be polite, and children see us, parents as exemples, so if the father ask something without "please", if he say no for almost everything, the mother will feel resentment towards him and the child, when he become adult, he will reproduce the mistakes of their parents.

  • @theodorkrafting9716
    @theodorkrafting9716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Subhanallah! We need more OG Sisters and OG Brothers. Too bad I dont know where to find pure muslimahs subhanallah! our community is not so helpful subhanallah!

  • @TIRONA963
    @TIRONA963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah this is a very good program

  • @arinahsinrajh5801
    @arinahsinrajh5801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    assalamu alaikum! These are some very inspiring stories, thank you all for sharing. May Allah (SWT) reward you for your goodness

  • @zentimes3
    @zentimes3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Understanding me… very powerful

  • @leillahluttakome4340
    @leillahluttakome4340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    asalam aleikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh ..love from Coventry,UK

  • @azmerayohannes24
    @azmerayohannes24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Umm eesa I love you lol 😂 the way you talk is spot on

  • @fakhriaalam5519
    @fakhriaalam5519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sister Ruby we are happy that you have got to know yourself…in whole conversation that was your msg.. 😜
    Tbh thats a very deep thing to gain, but thats not the only solution of everything. Then why you are getting married? Ofcourse to feel calmness happiness where you find no where but with your spouse or from your spouse only. But thanks to all other sister we have got very good advices from everyone. Jazakallah.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have no actual clue what she meant by that.

  • @azmerayohannes24
    @azmerayohannes24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true this is very rewarding

  • @mahaalotaibi8352
    @mahaalotaibi8352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wallahi most of us are great wives alhamdullah when its about cooking cleaning being amazing moms and so much more, except when it comes to sex! We just can't do it anymore especially after kids?? We really need advice and help on this major issue that can really break a marriage!

    • @jahangirhabib
      @jahangirhabib 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🖤

    • @hamzahdomeih7750
      @hamzahdomeih7750 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @The Truth Hurts For God's sake! 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @khummitkeshinro246
      @khummitkeshinro246 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Truthhurts u r something else

    • @cleartrueblue66
      @cleartrueblue66 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you think polygamy would be a solution in this case? There is no other halal option for a husband if his wife is refusing him

  • @Adl...lChoyce
    @Adl...lChoyce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Masha Allah

  • @najjembayasser3934
    @najjembayasser3934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maa shaa Allah

  • @YasminBaa
    @YasminBaa ปีที่แล้ว

    Salaam sisters I hv married for 32yrs bt I don't no my husband he is so deep I discover new characters in him plz I need ur advice

  • @hadijahnakibirango
    @hadijahnakibirango 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hello asalam alaikum

  • @ikram-ulhuq9377
    @ikram-ulhuq9377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ASSALAMU ALAIKUM .

  • @afnanuddinafnanuddin4423
    @afnanuddinafnanuddin4423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Assalamualaikum

  • @doreenkennie1714
    @doreenkennie1714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdullilah

  • @kotharkarim
    @kotharkarim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man like quite understand woman's

  • @jeje4042
    @jeje4042 ปีที่แล้ว

    OG wives……so demeaning.
    I’m sure when Prophet Muhammad struggled in his dawah and established the State he did not use ‘coloquial/ of the moment’ demeaning terms for the Sahabah……so why do you/we?

  • @Western.war_editz
    @Western.war_editz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤲🏽☪️

  • @kotharkarim
    @kotharkarim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like traditional lady who cook her husband KKK

  • @kotharkarim
    @kotharkarim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kkkk sister don't ask money 💰💰🤑 bed time every time her call on bed doing ever lf you busy mum

  • @laylachaaban5651
    @laylachaaban5651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Forgive me if I curse all of you

  • @SativaSeanLasVegas
    @SativaSeanLasVegas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I ever catch my future wife watching any of these videos - she's going to be sleeping on the couch for 3 days. I need "peace and quiet" I am not the Beta Male that needs to "tolerate, accommodate or improvise" for his wife. I am a Muslim Man that wants children, - Allah, my chldren, my mother - and my wife's mother, my companies and then my wife as she is their to support me. Women like you guys are weights around Mens necks, like an anchor - may no Muslim Man have to put up with any of you.

    • @khummitkeshinro246
      @khummitkeshinro246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      is this post suppose to be taken as comedy? It certainly comes across as a Comedy Central piece. Nice humour (sarcasm)

    • @SativaSeanLasVegas
      @SativaSeanLasVegas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@khummitkeshinro246 oh yes - I forgot women love SIMPS. This won't look like comedy when you have your Simp Husband.

    • @sarahnovella4971
      @sarahnovella4971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😆😆😆😆 I'm already pitying that non existent woman that (let's hope not) will be your wife 😆😆😆😆 just leave this channel lmao and go cry in the corner lol
      and may no Muslim men have to put up with you? all of them are freaking married!! and for more than 10 years!! says a lot than you lulzzzzzz

    • @chick1800
      @chick1800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      May No Muslim sisters ever marry you too akhi. Insha’Allah 🤲🏽 Masalaam

    • @Varietygarden
      @Varietygarden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Absolutely ,may no Muslim sister suffer this by being your wife

  • @aminatumusah5135
    @aminatumusah5135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Assalaamu ALaikum Hello