why chads are lonely

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  • @AustinWayneOfficial
    @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +13

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  • @visheshpruthix3125
    @visheshpruthix3125 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    bro is getting better day by day

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Appreciate you king

    • @CaribbeanMenaceOficial
      @CaribbeanMenaceOficial หลายเดือนก่อน +5

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  • @vffgaming491
    @vffgaming491 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    I'm not gonna lie, as soon as I went on self improvement, I lost all my friends. It felt like they didn't like me anymore, they stopped calling me to hang outs and fucking disrespected me in front of others. That was really sad seeing your brothers for life make you feel like you are no one.

    • @vffgaming491
      @vffgaming491 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I like the way I am right now but sometimes I wish I could go back to the way it was 😢

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Keep leveling up the friend group

    • @johannameless4405
      @johannameless4405 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What if you are better than everybody? In theroy obviously you cant have male friends right .Ofc for girls its different for girls .Btw i litterally got manipulated by 6 + people backstabbed by who i think I trusted . At first i just listened to you but now i 100 % believe you i lived everything you said.

    • @jaylen76
      @jaylen76 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Chad isn't about self improvement. It's just genetics

    • @timiadewusi5891
      @timiadewusi5891 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@jaylen76 Heard of looksmaxxing?

  • @HXwolf83
    @HXwolf83 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    100% about seeing the worst of people! I have some many knifes on my back, it’s extremely hard trusting people. I’ve learned to be comfortable on my own and forgive those who hate. I appreciate this video, I don’t feel like im alone in this struggle.

  • @sam1323123
    @sam1323123 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    By definition of being Exceptional in any area, you're going to find yourself isolated from pretty much everyone else. This goes for looks, intelligence, talent etc.

  • @mydisease2you
    @mydisease2you หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    This is so true. I had to deal with all kinds of BS through high school and even workplaces!
    I think men's jealousy is much more toxic than women's.

    • @TcGroenestege
      @TcGroenestege หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This last sentence actually surprises me quite a bit. Maybe for women, they'd say women's jealousy is worse instead, as it's their own gender? I wonder

    • @detodounpocodominguez753
      @detodounpocodominguez753 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@TcGroenestegethe life man is very,very competitive.

    • @BigAllan95
      @BigAllan95 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Men's jealousy is fucking wicked Just spot haters and change environment brothas

  • @lobostriker85
    @lobostriker85 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    Bro you've kinda saved my mental health..I've been attacked and hated on for so long and I thought there was legitimately something wrong with me. You've put alot in perspective...and yes, I'm a pretty handsome dude! People stare at me all the time! It made me self conscious but now it makes me confident and proud!

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Glad I could help you bro 💯

    • @xaestar.
      @xaestar. หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      real

    • @shukailin8233
      @shukailin8233 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Same. You especially get shit on when you go to the top school in your country while being model level good looking at the same time.
      It's a bit sad people like us have to find comfort in videos like these. It's really good, but sometimes I wish I can share these kind of stuffs with real people and real friends.

    • @lobostriker85
      @lobostriker85 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @shukailin8233 totally...it's hard to talk to people about this stuff because most people don't understand what it's like to walk in our shoes! They will assume you did something disrespectful or rude and you deserved it! Bro, I've had to leave multiple gyms and jiu jitsu dojos because of this goofy stuff. People having strong feelings towards you and banding together to trash talk and make others lose respect for you! It hurts but I finally see things clearer now! Embrace the rare gift you've been given!

    • @BXXD_GXXRL666
      @BXXD_GXXRL666 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts when your more higher quality people get jealous to even if your a humble human can sucks sometimes like I know I'm blessed and look it but seriously why people gotta bring us down

  • @chingchingbling2145
    @chingchingbling2145 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Chad (legit Chad, not some HTN) and Inkwells are two groups of people that become jaded with the superficiality of people. Ironically, Chad is the one that can really empathize and understand inkwells, meanwhile normies are often bullies, contrary to popular belief and memes

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      True brother

    • @nonenothing4412
      @nonenothing4412 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This. Perfectly said.

    • @harrykinnear2592
      @harrykinnear2592 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What is an inkwell

    • @chc2650
      @chc2650 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Chad actually has to deal with these horrible women

    • @Jaapst
      @Jaapst หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@chc2650If you’re Chad women treat you better. I’m good looking women never treated me bad.

  • @gameon2000
    @gameon2000 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    When I was in college, my (female) dean gave me hell for literally being too hot 😂 in her own words "Boy, you wouldn't get good grades just because of your good looks, you have to study harder!" - so I had no choice, but to prove, I'm more than meets the eye and finish my school as #1 top student of the year.
    In the hindsight I'm even thankful to her, as I overcame my struggles, learned to work hard and outgrow myself in my self-improvement.

  • @Krelian4400
    @Krelian4400 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Chads no doubt have their own unique challenges, but they are still playing on easy mode compared to sub5's.
    I'd argue Chadlites have it the best. They get most of the life access that Chads have but aren't constantly bombarded with attention and expectations the way Chads are.

    • @HorribleWeather
      @HorribleWeather หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Are you sure about that buddy? Try working a regular as a chad. Not all Chads desire to be models/influencers

    • @Diversetop
      @Diversetop หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@HorribleWeatherEven though! 🤔

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Krelian4400 I guess I'm a " Chadlite ". I kinda get your idea 💡 I just don't lump all good looking people into one box . I don't see myself as higher than anyone. I like when people I like do well. I want them to. a friend who gets jealous of your success ain't a friend bruh 💯

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@HorribleWeather " Chad lite " lol okayyy Jesus Christ ...ya know I'm...I'm out of words and thoughts. I'm officially stupid if I wasn't stupid already.

  • @guardiabreak2958
    @guardiabreak2958 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The more attractive you are, the more theses people nit pick your looks and personality; they are bothered by your presence and looking for any excuse to throw shade at you

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Couldn’t be more true bro

    • @universalredguard
      @universalredguard หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup right on the money

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @guardiabreak2958 obviously they're bothered by my presence lol " homoerotic ohhh "😢 . they ain't got no reason to be afraid of gay people unless they go to prison. then they'll definitely get hit on loud and clear and aggressively. they ain't nothin. I hear their concerns lol but I wouldn't move anywhere if I'm in the room lol they'll need the police

  • @jnew7622
    @jnew7622 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Bro it’s like your speaking right to me. Never understood my situation until I stumbled upon your channel.

  • @boeingfan2479
    @boeingfan2479 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Also if one of your friends has a gf they sometimes don’t want you to hang with them even if you don’t have any intentions

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Always bro

    • @-hawkeditz12-
      @-hawkeditz12- หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I know two guys in school and from the way their gf's look at me I know I could have them, though I'd never do that to them🤣

    • @Blinkers2007GameDev
      @Blinkers2007GameDev หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@-hawkeditz12- It's just sad their girl look at other guys like that.

    • @Neutron311
      @Neutron311 หลายเดือนก่อน

      us moment

    • @burbskur4821
      @burbskur4821 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yess! And when i told him that i have a gf now he suddenly invites me over bruhh

  • @sonrogumer4705
    @sonrogumer4705 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    9:25 Dude, I feel like, subconsciously I had been doing that for so long, making myself smaller and as less notorious as possible so other people wouldn't be "intimidated" by me. For many years I've had a hard time making friends, especially guys because it always seems like most of them don't like me without even knowing me. You're absolutely right, you shouldn't let other people's insecurities bring you down or make you try to be less, if they can't deal with your presence (especially if you worked hard to get it) that's their problem

  • @otiugeid1497
    @otiugeid1497 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    People don’t generally like perfection, because as humans, we are inherently imperfect. It’s those imperfections that make us relatable and allow us to truly connect with each other. You may come across as unrelatable and that's why a lot of people won't find you appealing or approachable.
    Physical appearance is fleeting and not the essence of who we are. Character, confidence, courage, having heart, integrity, humility... those traits are what truly define a man. How you think and, most importantly, how you act, is what truly shapes you, and not your looks. Now, having the looks is a great asset!
    Still, dude, you have videos of yourself "mogging" other people by your looks. That's, like it or not, narcissistic and superficial behaviour. What I want to transmit with this is, are you sure you come across as narcissistic to people that don't know you only because your looks, or could it be that you actually unconsciously transmit that feeling to others? I guess that's something you could ask yourself because at the end of the day you are the only one that truly knows yourself.

  • @TruecriBge
    @TruecriBge 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    SUFFEREING FROM SUCCESS
    (JFL)

  • @DioBrando_2177
    @DioBrando_2177 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    It’s also because when u are a chad you rarely meet someone, like really that special someone from your league

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      💯💯

    • @amalrajpr6800
      @amalrajpr6800 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Finding an Ideal person is an insecurity problem, people are different you cannot make them tailor made

    • @magicmarcell
      @magicmarcell หลายเดือนก่อน

      Scroll up and find my comment. I don’t miss

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @DioBrando_2177 the narcissism stinks like p U $$ y up in here lol. terrible way of viewing the world.

  • @_Brutal_
    @_Brutal_ หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My girlfriend just brokeup with me this morning man, everything you said is incredibly accurate. I'm absolutely devastated by this since I truly believed she was the one. Appreciate your honesty and keeping it real bro

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You’ve got this g 🖤

    • @Noname-u5h9e
      @Noname-u5h9e หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did she left you for another man?

  • @alexanderw.z3382
    @alexanderw.z3382 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thanks bro for talking out these topics..only a very few yt creators like you discuss these..it's a great relief..❤ keep on posting

  • @TopG_1111
    @TopG_1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Thank you I needdd this. I get approached at parties, social media and stuff but irl it’s like everyone’s scared of me. We’re just unapproachable especially cuz chads have a lot of aggressive features

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Definitely my g 🤝

    • @FrostyFreya
      @FrostyFreya หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The same goes for women. Men in particular are scared of me, they won’t strike up a conversation . They will stare at me but that’s it.
      People will try to put you down on purpose because they are intimidated so they need to bring you down to their level. They will be not very nice or standoffish because they think you have a massive ego and high self esteem which is not always the case.

    • @TopG_1111
      @TopG_1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@FrostyFreya fs my gf had the same experience. Hot people are their own species fr lol

    • @faizissa8617
      @faizissa8617 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TopG_1111 you don't need to be approached anymore since you have a partner

    • @TopG_1111
      @TopG_1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@faizissa8617 having a partner won’t stop girls from hitting on you. If anything it makes it even more cuz there’s pre selection. Girls approach me right in front of her sometimes lol

  • @Aisha_Davis
    @Aisha_Davis หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m tall and thin. I can relate. I have to work through the introversion and the anxiety because it’s part of why I’m single.

  • @PassionateSpirit88
    @PassionateSpirit88 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It is lonely and I have turned down sex from a few hundred women and choose to barely have a sexual history because it all just feels shallow nowadays and nothing deep

  • @maxdutra9267
    @maxdutra9267 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Not going to lie when I first saw the title I was thinking this was stupid but I have never understood better the things happening to me. Like some friends of mine just stopped hanging out with me now that I look back on it they were really toxic they were always calling me ugly and other types of comments now I know it is because they were insecure. My Umax score is 90.

  • @epops5
    @epops5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Another reason is that they don't want a friend that makes them feel inferior.

  • @Ананасик-й9д
    @Ананасик-й9д หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The tough truth

  • @chadlift6723
    @chadlift6723 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Damn I relate to this as a Chad on the pretty boy archetype. The workplace stuff is true; people just shit test the fuck out of you, both men and women. The whole getting stares in public is also definitely true, which is why I don’t really like dining in public alone due to the sheer amount of eye balls I’ll get.
    But I’ve found a good way to prevent the negatives of being a Chad is just to have a very tough and disagreeable personality. Amping up certain aspects of psychopathy can really help, where you are just detached from all that petty comments and shit tests that people make. Also you NEED to be very attuned to the 48 Laws of Power to prevent yourself from getting fucked by jealous people (bosses, friends, women, etc).
    If you are a Chad, especially as a more pretty boy type of Chad, despite the advantages of being handsome, your life success is gonna be limited if you aren’t attuned to power games because everyone is subconsciously trying to fuck with you.

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯🖤

    • @bob2k375
      @bob2k375 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This, I also get weird stares from men aswell, like some of these guys are DL af

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm good looking but always was a runt . I don't stick out like you guys . I wouldn't stare at anyone because it's rude. u into guys at all? smaller guys ? wish more guys at the gym were into me . I talk to a lot of them but know they don't swing that way. not something i automatically bring up unless we hung out more. I been tested growing up and still happens at times . you wouldn't guess i was from talking with me. that part is always awkward. I was outed at 13 by a " friend " and that got me the label " booty warrior " as an insult 😂kinda funny now but still was demeaning then and like a...uh vilification. and it was a buncha hood rats too. so their parents taught them all that and to be afraid...and to hate. and I got in trouble because i went off . one thing I learned not to do was be a hater.

    • @HorribleWeather
      @HorribleWeather หลายเดือนก่อน

      This comprehensive breakdown should be pinned 📍. This exactly what most of my life consisted of in the workplace. In my experience, people genuinely fear people who read 48 Laws Of Power because that persons can’t be f*cked with and they know it.

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Fontanat that's why people don't respect you bro. that's narcissistic . I don't use my negative experiences to be a douchebag on purpose. as a young gay " twink " ..which is just a word ..yeah that's not cool. seen plenty like that at the gym I go to but ran into plenty of awesome people who fit " Chad" ...6'4"...blah blah and all that. they wouldn't last at my job which is kinda slowing down. team work. because it's hard.

  • @ViperStrikesAgain0160
    @ViperStrikesAgain0160 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    A 5'2 Indian balding Janitor will ascend And become a Chad.

    • @staybased9320
      @staybased9320 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      last but not least he'd finna get bob n vegena pics from israeli women

  • @FrickinCCDeVileV
    @FrickinCCDeVileV หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Some people completely avoid eye contact and conversation, beyond what they would do to a below average dude. It ends up being on you to break the ice, but it gets old, sometimes the hate can't be overcome.

  • @nathansamson8215
    @nathansamson8215 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sometimes it’s how you’re raised and conditioned coming up. Some families are fun and outgoing, some are strict and conservative

  • @OnDaAiRadar
    @OnDaAiRadar หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I deadass I like how Austin replies to almost every comment shows how much he appreciates his fans. We are like a fam low-key the boys .....all chillin up in this b❤️no cappy

  • @silentspy21
    @silentspy21 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Fr even tho I’m not a Chad I relate to some of this . Like many people men especially call me gay even tho I’m not.

  • @ThaddäusTentakel-v2n
    @ThaddäusTentakel-v2n หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Truth and nothing but truth 💯 one of your best videos yet, keep it up my dude. Your walking videos are sort of a social experiment and thatts exactly how I always viewed them from the very beginning 🖤

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Appreciate you king 🖤

    • @ThaddäusTentakel-v2n
      @ThaddäusTentakel-v2n หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AustinWayneOfficial Appreciate you too King, keep it up 👍👊

  • @MichaelNOLeary
    @MichaelNOLeary หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bro honestly ur right. Ive seen majority of people see someone whose pretty and immediately think they have a shallow personality and their looks make up for it

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s crazy bro

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm pretty ...not big or tall . and I sound like I'm 300 pounds on the phone . so you'd laugh if you met me expecting some huge dude tatted up with a bald head 😂

  • @di4ablo_
    @di4ablo_ หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    LONELY=MORE FOCUS
    MORE FOCUS=MORE GRIND
    MORE GRIND=MORE MONEY
    RLY SIMPLE

  • @gameon2000
    @gameon2000 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    When I was your age, I played in a band and every time after our concerts local guys wanted to beat me up - so I had to learn combat and became a fierce opponent.
    In the hindsight, I recon, it was because I was - what now is known as Chad.
    Even now at me, being old and overweight, women of all ages still are hitting on me - due to me still being 6'3 and looking easily 15-20 years younger, still having a towering frame from former weight lifting, full hair (fashionably styled), barely greyed, almost no wrinkles and good teeth. Good genetics, healthy diet, stress avoidance, lots of sleep, good healthcare, good styling, no kids, no wife make a difference. 😂

  • @hardmaxgaming724
    @hardmaxgaming724 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Also applies if you are handsome and have good intelligence as well, cos personally i feel dull when i talk to people who only talks about materialistic stuffs etc etc
    PS: im not saying im very smart or genius whatever but this is my observation till now

  • @bob2k375
    @bob2k375 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The one about getting a seggsual vibe from some people is true(especially other men), very weird and hidden parts of life that ppl don’t acknowledge

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @bob2k375 what's weird tho? lol I don't get what's wrong with it. I'm good looking too and I don't feel like it's weird if someone gives a seggsual vibe. they shouldn't be made to feel humiliated because they're attracted to you. I hate that part about being gay. it's like being threat that doesn't exist while you're being threatened among certain people. that among a million other things that are annoying. I try to not focus on it. yeah it's irritating " you're weird " ..glad the guy at my gym i hit on didn't go off and kept chilling actually. I tried not to say anything but I did lol. we talked a few times before in the gym when I saw him there. so it wasn't i just started talking to him. I asked if he had a gf and he sure wasn't into me . but he was cool and didn't get scared . he handled it perfectly lol just not the way I wanted it to end. lol jeez ...like we can't look and talk to people without being " weird " . that's the direction lots of people want the country to go into. they want gay people isolated. so definitely not cool...bad stuff. " weird" pssft wtfe

  • @Andrew-ci1dg
    @Andrew-ci1dg หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I thought that everyone knew who I was and was staring at me like "look there's that guy, that did that thing" I have no friends.

  • @michaelazariah73
    @michaelazariah73 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    People be crazy some women hate me because im prettier than them they know they have no chance with me ❤❤❤

  • @thijsde1110
    @thijsde1110 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I always been lonely even as an average guy…so now I wanna become a Chad more lmao

  • @greenyweeny1146
    @greenyweeny1146 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Bro, i heavily relate to the socially anxious part. I feel like i'm getting started at everywhere dude

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely brother

    • @faizissa8617
      @faizissa8617 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bro, you are a chad

    • @greenyweeny1146
      @greenyweeny1146 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@faizissa8617 thank you bro, but i'm still a bit socially anxious xd

    • @Drunkmonk2122
      @Drunkmonk2122 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ya your a Chad lite that’s 5,9-5,11 height and good build and a 7 in looks …. You will still get mixed as a “F boy” to by woman if your above average looks

    • @greenyweeny1146
      @greenyweeny1146 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Drunkmonk2122 hey, i'll take that. I'm 6'1 tho

  • @ampagitt89M
    @ampagitt89M หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am glad I do not deal with this but I do feel bad for those who do. I am grateful for anything I have and grateful for others having their blessings. Sorry to hear you deal with that homie. Be blessed

  • @nosascha4795
    @nosascha4795 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    finally someone stating the cons of being Handsome

  • @drewashington5001
    @drewashington5001 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank god we’re not alone , can make you self conscious even though you get affirmed all the time still sucks , especially with other men your trying to be a friend and their insecurities eat them alive

  • @mysty0
    @mysty0 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good brief summary, I could add a crap tonne more to this but still having my morning coffee. Yes, everyone wants to put stumbling blocks in your way so they feel like they are levelling the playing field

  • @immortalOnee
    @immortalOnee หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Austin Wayne with another banger yessir yessir!! 🌝The goat of looks maxing advice out hereeee killen it! All about self belief

  • @ericc400
    @ericc400 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    more people are afraid to open a conversation to avoid rejection
    when you do talk to people as a chad, they like to talk back 😊

  • @tonyromano8337
    @tonyromano8337 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Bro imagine a normie or average guy next to you like your friend, he would get ZERO attention and You would get all the girls i think after some time he would just give up on hanging out with you because he’s invisible and it’s depressing no ??

    • @yvesalya3914
      @yvesalya3914 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is exactly what happens to me, to the point that I noticed that people at my level do not play Ego games at all. They take the initiative, help willingly, are comfortable, and contact me a lot.
      ...
      As for the rest, I feel with them as if I am with a hidden narcissist, everything he does is a facade.

    • @PatrickCody-b7x
      @PatrickCody-b7x หลายเดือนก่อน

      In Nature the only thing that matters is genetics. People only romantically love you for your looks. Your personality is not valid. Anyone who likes you likes you for what you look like. Personality is not something that nature values. Not now or in nature

    • @PatrickCody-b7x
      @PatrickCody-b7x หลายเดือนก่อน

      If they desire you they love you. Love is biological and friendships are socially created based on physical first impressions. I would pick being hated by an inkwell or normie then be hated by most

  • @Berserk-ig1ok
    @Berserk-ig1ok หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video helped me a lot. Things you said are very relatable irl, im from india 6 ft1 with 7.5 face(by an indian standard). My cousins are jealous of me and they say im gay bc i shave my beard, i do skincare. Few days ago i got a new haircut which suits on my face. Ik i look good in that, but my friends and cousin still makes fun of it, But now i learned that stay away from toxic person in your life because they will just try to make you feel insecure

  • @gameon2000
    @gameon2000 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yeah, wanting Chad is #1 lie women tell to make average men to spend more on them to overcompensate - they actually don't want Chad, especially a good hearted, integer, caring, family-oriented, nice guy, high-value man Chad for long-term, cause he would set boundaries and demand her to be a better woman and she'd have lots of competition nonetheless - it's like men wanting a hot woman - we actually don't want one, cause we know, we couldn't let her alone for 5 mins without hordes of thirsty men hitting on her in our absence and can't keep her for ourselves or it would ruin our finances and self-esteem in the long run.

  • @seannn90
    @seannn90 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You can be attractive and have the social skills to be around anyone and make then feel comfortable.

  • @salvopalermo4743
    @salvopalermo4743 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I experienced a similar thing, I was in a club with a friend of mine and he told me that he wanted to stay away from me in there, because otherwise the women he would approach would pay attention to me and not to him.😅😅

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      nobody has to worry about me 😂 all my friends are straight 💯 guys. not straight females

    • @salvopalermo4743
      @salvopalermo4743 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Biserbalkanski 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @salvopalermo4743
      @salvopalermo4743 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

  • @agricultor6743
    @agricultor6743 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude just described my whole life...
    As I grow up, I’m becoming more and more attractive, but I’m also getting a lot of hate for no reason, man. Even attractive girls feel uncomfortable around me; sometimes they can barely speak normally. But as we keep talking, they start to feel more comfortable.
    I don't make friends with normal or average-looking people anymore; I'm tired of dealing with envy and people stabbing me. I only surround myself with people who look as good as or better than me

  • @ManuelGrossi
    @ManuelGrossi หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    "They're ropemaxxing" cracked me up

  • @AlCraze_TheGod
    @AlCraze_TheGod หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Austin Wayne looks good in a middle part hairstyle that's his signature best look imo

  • @burbskur4821
    @burbskur4821 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had people following me around men and women and university or on the street... And you cant even tell others because they think you are bragging. Like its a good thing when you are a man. It makes me super uncomfortable even if im not a girl. Its things like that...

  • @williamwright4678
    @williamwright4678 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve always got hated on by other men because of my looks. I just want a group of fellow chads to mog with

  • @Aditya1962Singh
    @Aditya1962Singh หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    False I disagree Chads are never lonely in terms of dating and relationships then can get girl even without trying .their looks play huge role

  • @pixelhand9421
    @pixelhand9421 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Growing up certain circles can push you out at certain times so their odds are better. My housemates don't wanna bring me to parties because some girls showed attraction. Some girls have said they don't wanna date a guy prettier than them. All this and I'm only 5'8. I've dated and hooked up with girls taller than me. I imagine it worse if I was over 6 feet. Would have nothing but enemies. Only guys that ever liked me were the super tall ones, or at least a couple inches taller than me.

  • @Blinkers2007GameDev
    @Blinkers2007GameDev หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'll still try to become a chad. Im on my way to clearing my skin and teeth and have taken care of my hair, eyebrows and lips. I'm either gonna go clean shaven or get facial hair. Currently bulking to gain muscle as well so after the bulk I will go down to 10 percent bodyfat. Things are going well so far!

  • @Shan21.
    @Shan21. หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also how they have crazy expectations about you and get disappointed when you don't live up to them

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely brother

    • @Shan21.
      @Shan21. หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@AustinWayneOfficial and also how they will target your flaws
      Or tell everyone about your vulnerable moments OR call u sensitive when you stand up for yourself

  • @mileshamblen9982
    @mileshamblen9982 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The social anxiety part is true.

  • @graviton.3925
    @graviton.3925 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s so over for me

  • @hydraV1-c7d
    @hydraV1-c7d หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    will also say , and this is brutal ... if you are an attractive dude and you go out with normie friend s... it actually can HURT your smv . I tested it out , went to places with friends. Then went without , people are way chattier , getting on dancefloor with girls , instant dancing with them making out etc ... its brutal because when with normie friends its legit like they think "hmm there must be something wrong with him-why is he not with other attractive guys"

  • @DirtyJamesUK
    @DirtyJamesUK หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been alone in thinking this for a while.
    I dont relate to most manosphere content because it's about Chads and Tyrones having all the fun.
    I'm not amazing looking, but I'm likely considered a Chad/Tyrone by others that witness me with women.
    The online approach doesn’t work as well, as you can't elicit physical chemistry. And all of their bad traits are immediately on display.

  • @mr.tiptoe4634
    @mr.tiptoe4634 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Bro it really isn’t that bad compared to a normie or sub5

  • @GoddessCoded
    @GoddessCoded หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guys, your insecurities don’t go away just because you “got hotter”. As a woman I find men who are into this stuff as not masculine or attractive regardless of how they look. Historically masculinity has never been measured by how you look, that is a feminine quality. I hope that instead of basing your masculinity on how many women you sleep with, you instead find your TRUE masculine potential which is measured by what you build in the world and how well you provide for and pursue a meaningful relationship. Everything else is a distraction from your destiny. Good luck guys 🫡

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GoddessCoded finally the most intelligent post here! takes a smart woman to talk sense to these douchebags. they're the last ones to be aware of how irritating they truly are.

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @GoddessCoded some of them are setting themselves up to get beat up if that's how they act . 🫡 of course you didn't get a heart or like. but u got it from me.

    • @elasticharmony
      @elasticharmony หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      History is not doing much anymore, men have had to compete , and being a provider , loses.

  • @MadMax-cg6gh
    @MadMax-cg6gh หลายเดือนก่อน

    Only have sekks with plenty of people and no one to care or pay for. Only fun, money and sekks.
    What bliss 👌

  • @lucascarranco-moss693
    @lucascarranco-moss693 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    As a chad autistic guy here are some life tips that will make your life better and will save you from dangerous situations….
    1. Are your friends chads but they, take advantage of you, abuse you, manipulate, aggressive, can’t handle your feelings. Leave right now…
    2. Only be friends with nice and like minded people, just because he is handsome and you are handsome and both of you like to workout does not mean you should be friends…
    3. Be careful who you sleep with they will take advantage of you the moment you are vulnerable.
    4. Don’t be a people pleaser and don’t be to nice…narcissist are attracted to empahts. And people will take advantage of you.
    5. If your loved ones or friend are a narcissist and abuse you and break your boundaries all the time. Leave it’s dangerous it can get you killed.
    6. Know your worth don’t let people fack with your mind. “It was just a joke you are to sensitive“. No it’s disrespect don’t let people do that they are assholes.
    7. If people never say sorry, do things against you and never take responsibility. Red flag they will watch you bleed to death on the street while they walk away smiling…
    8. Remove every toxic person from your life I don’t care if he’s your gym bro.
    9. “Chads can’t like nerdy stuff it’s bad being a nerd” absurdly stupid saying this…it’s not bad liking many strange things you might find people that are exactly like you…
    10. Only be friends with people that treat you with kindness, respect and loyalty this needs to go both ways.
    11. Sometimes It’s not your fault, but the people you hangout with. Is it bad for your health is okey leaving you don’t loose anything…
    12. Get a different network that are healthy does not matter if they are chads like you..
    Maybe it’s time for you to also remove trash from your life 🚮

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great tips

    • @MarkSven888
      @MarkSven888 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah im autistic and chad. I feel ive almost limited my true potential as well feeling guilty that I am a chad.

    • @lucascarranco-moss693
      @lucascarranco-moss693 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@MarkSven888 Don’t let the neurotypical society limit you

    • @Yujiro945
      @Yujiro945 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lucascarranco-moss693hello bro what should I do if I suspect my self different from others where it affected me with not having a social life for the whole school times?

    • @lucascarranco-moss693
      @lucascarranco-moss693 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Yujiro945 This is what I learned by being different. (If you think you are different)
      Don’t let people treat you bad for being different from others. The moment you let them step on you and they know they can use you…(YOU ARE ALREADY FACKED) But if you are fast you can shift the tables and they will respect you. Be brutal don’t let people make jokes that they use to put you down, they are supposed to be loyal if they are your friends…
      You need to take control and show that you are not Someone people can fack with, I needed to punch down my friend because he’s lack of loyalty and asshole behavior he actually deserved it because of abusing me for a long time…He is 89kg with muscles but that does not help with anything…I am not friends with him anymore because he is so dangerous and manipulative.
      Start working out, be disciplined become a warrior. Many will start disliking you but they are probably men with double standards and some fucked up Disney princess mindset (they are not men but boys). Make allies with people that you know are nice people, it will help you if people betray you I swear it will backfire on them…
      And if you know your “friends“ are like this..don’t share your personal information and feelings if they can’t be trusted.
      1. Manipulative
      2. Always lying
      3. Speaking you down
      4. Uses silent treatment
      5. Social terror
      6. Gossip
      7. Threatening
      8. No empathy
      9. Narcissistic
      10. Gaslighting
      Run fast those are not created by God but rather…some twisted entity…
      You will have a social life if you find the right people and cut of the bad ones you will save years of misery and suffering. I wish I said NO earlier now my mental are broken I needed to pay for that.. so I hope it does not happen to you.

  • @UncrownedAsura
    @UncrownedAsura หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is one thing that kind of made me bitter, I was talking to a girl and thought she wanted to go out and have something serious, but she was like can we just be friends and fuck. I was like wtf, it caught me off guard. Mind you this was 6 or 7 years ago when I was 21 / 22. But I understand now that I'm older and almost in my 30's. Looks play a huge role and sometimes the only role, but don't be put off and keep working on yourself and continuing to grow mentally. The moment you stop you will only get worse, especially if you're older.
    P.s. I'm 28 5 ft 10 and objectively an 8 - 8.5 in the face from facial analysis with regards to looks. I am also LEAN AF, cause god forbid if I got any fat on my face, which softens my features.

  • @kossibwaya
    @kossibwaya หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All my teenagers i have been lonely especially at school. A lot of older women and even friends of mine told me how handsome i look. One friends told me that i have that unspoken rizz. I remember in highschool. A lot of girls would stare at me smiling. But no one was really close to me. Maybe i was Lonely cuz i was actually attractive idk

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Could’ve been my brother

    • @paulsharma9002
      @paulsharma9002 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you are attractive but socially awakwarrd at same time i think. I've never attractive peolple in my school life lonely , they always have large social circle, very good social life. I don't know about chad's life after his school years but in school life you definetly have very good social life. You must have weird personality.

  • @MayaHendsenmayajs19442
    @MayaHendsenmayajs19442 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Longer hair suits you better and. Makes you look 100x times more handsome.
    Hope you don't take offense in this. Much love. ❤

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The hairs the same length

    • @MayaHendsenmayajs19442
      @MayaHendsenmayajs19442 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AustinWayneOfficial oh so you put gel? I see.
      Please do not cut your hair. I'm sure your fiancé loves it 😅

    • @ThaddäusTentakel-v2n
      @ThaddäusTentakel-v2n หลายเดือนก่อน

      If anything it looks shorter, not longer. He simply put on a different style and combed/gelled his hair back (maybe just still wet after a wash or mask).

  • @anhstanislawski5640
    @anhstanislawski5640 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this guy makes great content ngl

  • @pitajibanana8344
    @pitajibanana8344 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro you r getting relatable day by day haha keep posting like this....

  • @josephcieplak8920
    @josephcieplak8920 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think that at the very end of the day, the average man will certainly find an average girl who accepts him, but it's more likely than a beautiful person, regardless of his/her sex will end up lonely maybe because his/her environment.

  • @YankeYonk
    @YankeYonk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im a very competitive guy so I have to look at least the 80 % of people that state at me

  • @Lionel212001
    @Lionel212001 หลายเดือนก่อน

    True. I find it difficult to find a good boss. If it's a chick then she hits on me and is very whimsical and moody - makes it difficult to work (not all). The only good male boss that I had was as good looking as me. I am starting my social media channel soon. It's the only way to make a living.

  • @cryptoisey4246
    @cryptoisey4246 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "ropemaxxing" these terms are getting out of hand lol 💀

    • @FrickinCCDeVileV
      @FrickinCCDeVileV หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cryptoisey4246 🤣🤣

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Can’t exactly say the real words on TH-cam

    • @Matthew_Ssali
      @Matthew_Ssali 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Whats rope maxing?

    • @cryptoisey4246
      @cryptoisey4246 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Matthew_Ssali another term for committing suicide

  • @ahbe9232
    @ahbe9232 หลายเดือนก่อน

    can relate, guys get insecure and don’t invite you as an attractive guy.
    they probably think their girlfriend won’t be able to resist the unspoken RIZZ🤫

  • @MikeOhearn4Real
    @MikeOhearn4Real หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is spot on.

  • @amirmahdimohammadzade8551
    @amirmahdimohammadzade8551 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for the video G❤

  • @eriksomkitchen
    @eriksomkitchen หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alright bro I lowkey respect you after this video

  • @jeffk4710
    @jeffk4710 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah i found out about the nutrition part and kept growing at 19… but at that point it was too late to grow the pp😢

  • @humanbeing4945
    @humanbeing4945 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100%. I am a 8/10 probably. Men Show Aggression, females harass me but are not able to communicate with me noormally. I changed 2 Jobs because of this in the Last year.

  • @EL_N0IR_2201
    @EL_N0IR_2201 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    5,7 Chad here lol, guys hate me because they girl look at me and crush on me at work, it’s not hard when every guy at work is a twig or over weight…. Women will automatically label you a player and being genuinely nice to anybody is automatically “flirting” so now the rumors spread that you just wanna sleep with all the women, when in reality I’m just a simple guy and pretty loyal 😅

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't like the term " Chad " as an label but I'm 5'10 and good looking...I wouldn't hate u 😂 trust me...❤

    • @EL_N0IR_2201
      @EL_N0IR_2201 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Biserbalkanski agreed, I mean it’s just in general term, we’re just good looking in general but hey a lot of hate, thanks man.

  • @-Tj2049
    @-Tj2049 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a 6’5 guy I know what you mean 😅😅 the other biggest problem I have is that I seem to aggravate shorter guys into wanting to fight me

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s crazy brother

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @-Tj2049 nah lol a friendly match in mercy for fun or arm wrestling...but for fun win or loose lol. no way i wanna fight unless someone cornered me .

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      if anything I'd rather be friends with people. I just am physical and like to rough house with people. I challenge myself with bigger people. it's fun.

    • @-Tj2049
      @-Tj2049 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Biserbalkanski it’s not even that I wanna fight, people just pick fights with me because I’m taller than them

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski หลายเดือนก่อน

      @-Tj2049 they're insecure . I know exactly the type you mean. they're dumber than a box of rocks .

  • @Handsomemangame
    @Handsomemangame หลายเดือนก่อน

    As the chad of my town i can say this is so true .

  • @ghost-sh8qd
    @ghost-sh8qd หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This hairstyle suits u more bruv tbh

  • @Zak.CO04
    @Zak.CO04 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is hiding something in the closet that shit hit me made me die 😂😂😂

  • @magicmarcell
    @magicmarcell หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pray for chads🖤
    lol in all seriousness I personally believe legit chads and and 10 women struggle with developing depth.
    Having majority of people be nice to you, help you, encourage you and be happy to be in your presence since a child seems to create a complex that naturally forms a very thick cloud of delusion on what rhe human experience is for most
    In real life I’m what most would consider level 9 out of 10 social skills . Across a VERY diverse network of extremely interesting, attractive and unique people the 10 chads and 10 women are the only people ive never been able to connect with.
    Judging by feedback from everyone else it’s not me
    In some ways i imagine it to be a unique hell-realm where the inhabitants are only capable of seeing 10% of the beauty in life, leading to a fun theory on why people may later choose to reincarnate as butt ugly

  • @michaelazariah73
    @michaelazariah73 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dudes austin give the creepier looks than women bro I don't feel safe in a male bathroom im just in and out like speedy Gonzalez bro 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @Dollygirl23
    @Dollygirl23 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sorry to tell you but the second guy in the video after Chico is William levy and he is fr my country Cuba actually Cuban men the majority are Chad and they not single and are with equal beautiful women maybe in America they single but a Cuban woman or men single they will think some thing is wrong with us 😅

  • @grant.-.4899
    @grant.-.4899 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chads are not lonely, that’s the whole point of being a chad

  • @Rainer125
    @Rainer125 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Female nature masterclass: just be a 6'6ft giga Chad jfl

  • @zaetherr
    @zaetherr หลายเดือนก่อน

    relatable on all levels

  • @mamatadey3454
    @mamatadey3454 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Glad you mentioned about the ropemaxxing part i remember vasily stepanov tried to kill himself after a manic depression. Also the japanese dude at 4:51 committed suicide on 2020 its sad how people as handsome and amazing as him are ruined by depression

    • @AustinWayneOfficial
      @AustinWayneOfficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s sad bro

    • @mamatadey3454
      @mamatadey3454 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @AustinWayneOfficial yeah and incels still say that "good-looking people have zero problems in life bro"

  • @AbrahamLincoln-s5z
    @AbrahamLincoln-s5z หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video ❤👌. Am a big fan from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @outstanding00
    @outstanding00 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    W advice as always

  • @wadejakobs2179
    @wadejakobs2179 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not a chad but more Chad-lite. Think I’m missing the height to be a chad but I definitely get the ego thing. At work I’m known as the egotistical douche who keeps to himself. But the low tier normie? He’s shy and quiet. Double standards

  • @aightdude-k7n
    @aightdude-k7n หลายเดือนก่อน

    Austin, about what you said at the end... If people around you,are not interested in finding a girlfriend, I think you can be friends.After all, they don't care