As a freelance filmmaker/film editor, every year or so I find myself trying odd jobs (fitness associate, working in a warehouse, etc.) for the same exact reason of not only having extra income but just to switch up my environment and try something new. Being a creative full time is fulfilling, but exhausting. Not making art my full income allowed me be more selective and pursue projects based on passion vs. desperation.
TLDL: I enjoy part time creating over full-time. Full-time "influencing" requires the delusion to assume people actually care about knowing my every move. (I don't even care about my every move LOL.) I will continue to pop on both channels when I have a storytime, experience to share or something educational. I genuinely cannot bring myself to make errand lists, record myself crying trying to be "raw" and relatable or showing my bedroom doing tours. It's weird LOL. Also I'm forcing myself to attend community college classes in person starting in summer!! I have time for a part time job or I can do one or the other.
Granted it i only listened to the first 5, but do the part time jobs or college classes have any sort of goal or purpose or is it just filling space to buffer some boredom?
Hey Kelly. Joined the stampede last year. It was one of the best decisions my life🤭🙃 This is my suggestion? Why don't you finally start the podcast you've always talked about ? So you can shift the focus a little from yourself and your privacy to other fun things and topics Just saying :)
Get a job on campus in a fun/chill spot like the library or being a TA for a cute prof or a cafe omg cute right It’ll keep you anchored to finish the semester.
i don't think glamorizing the struggle is going to fix the issue - i just think you need to find purpose elsewhere. having a job isn't fun! i think you could find purpose in school, volunteering, classes and learning new hobbies, going to different types of social events etc. but wishing you well either way :)
Well, it’s a good thing I specifically said in the beginning I rebuke struggling with a 40 hour work week! This is not The Simple Life with Paris and Nicole Richie 😂 I am mathematically inclined, but also have clown in my DNA. I would like to exercise both parts of my brain. My purpose is creating, but the 20s seem like a lifelong battle of trying to fulfill one’s ability to the maximum before it’s too late.
I’m not sure if you’re responding to my comment for the original commentor. But yeah, I enjoyed working as a host and never felt bad about it. I made the most in those jobs. It’s silly to undermine service people, blue collar, stay at home moms etc and assume they don’t matter. There are so many over educated people of my generation with used to work these jobs because they think they are better. They’d rather be unemployed.
Have you conducted a reality audit? This does include spiritual, historical, ancestral curses, financial, things, inputs, possibility of current spirit residencies / stow aways (DEMONS!)
whatever you feel like you need at this point in time - give yourself that. who cares how others define success or whether they think it’s a “downgrade” or anything along the lines of “why would you do that”. it’s your life. i think it’s inevitable that you’re feeling this way about being a full-time influencer as someone who always reflects on her experiences and learns from them. i really do believe that you’ve got a lot more to offer to the world than what social media would ever allow you to do
Agreed. Someone already left a comment saying I'm glamorizing work LOL. Have you ever felt like you could do more in your day? Or that you have various strengths and just want to try it all? I agree it's commendable to try other things and start over late in life. I was a server, worked in sales 9-5 and had a military stint even. We should be changing otherwise we'd be miserable wondering what if?
I get it. Purpose, discipline, and structure are really fulfilling. I’m currently on the opposite side of the fence. I do hair twice a week in nursing homes and senior communities (outside of my own salon suite) but I have this urge to really create content to share my knowledge and make money on my own terms. But imagining it from your perspective, being bored and wanting to feel furiously or valuable is real. You’ll find what you’re missing soon! Good luck!
The thing I respect most about you is you honesty! So many influencers act like they’re doing the hardest job in the world, and I don’t doubt that there are busy days and many challenges. But, ultimately, compared to most people, they are living GOOD and EASY. And getting paid at least double for it! Thank you for acknowledging that privilege and being realistic!
This is absolutely true… I remember when you made a post about going back to school 3-4 years ago at [Boston School] and how much it meant to you to get a degree. Because of you, I ended up thinking about going back to college, too… Fast forward to today and not only did I finish undergrad, but I completed my MBA last month as well. I was financially successful before I went back to finish my degree, however, I'm personally more fulfilled having completed my undergraduate degree. I genuinely recommend you do the same. It was a gift you originally passed to me, and hopefully this post returns the favor back to you…. Peace and blessings
Not religious anymore, but when I used to go to church I volunteered as a Sunday school "teacher" aka daycare for the 3-4 year olds. Just a once a week commitment for just a few hours and it could offer good opportunity to find aligned friends/community. Or volunteer work with special needs, or maybe work at a flower shop/planet nursery. Since money isn't an object, definitely lean toward something that will bring you fulfillment/peace♡
This is exactly what I was thinking about today! Working with the kids at a church. I’m not sure what the requirements are, but I think if I attend long enough and just ask somebody it’s possible. I went on a few dates with a guy who did this, and he found it very fulfilling. He works from home and got completely bored as a programmer, and it filled that natural void for intimacy.
Kelly, have you considered doing volunteer work? It would put you in immediate contact with people (if you’re doing it in person) you’d get to be of service (to whatever community calls your heart) would probably bring a lot of joy and connection into your life 💕
I am such a fan, and I love what you do here on TH-cam. However, I do believe that we all need to do something that fulfills us. Face-to-face. Something rewarding. Find that. Find the balance. We have faith you will find your true calling and feel content with whatever it is you choose to do part time!
@@KellyStamps Volunteer work could also be so rewarding. I'm a teacher. During lockdown--at first--I was enjoying teaching from home. Just the idea of not having to commute, having more time to just exist, etc. Picked up enjoyable hobbies. But it got old after a few months. Coming back to seeing the students face to face, there was nothing like it. I realized for myself that I need that personal, human interaction. I needed that feeling of doing something rewarding. You are doing something incredible, but gosh, how lonely when your entire job is virtual. We are all completely unique, but deep down, I think we all need to feel that human connection with others. Truly wishing you all the best!
Went back and forth about writing this comment. Can’t finish this video. Fan typically but right now when I can’t afford to buy groceries this kind of content is pissing me off. Everyone has their struggles and maybe that’s your point and if I finished the video I would get this but I can’t. After I heard $4k for 2 minutes when I would be excited if I was given $400 this minute to take care of basics! I need off the planet. Hope you find what you are looking for Ms.Stamps.
I absolutely understand where you're coming from, but Kelly is also a human with very human experiences and as she has referenced had to work really hard to where she is while also healing from years of trauma. Sure she may seem privileged, but she puts on her pants one leg at a time like we all do.
You know productive work doesn’t always have to be tied to earning money. Have you thought about doing volunteer work in a space that’s meaningful for you?
Yeah, many people left this comment! I’ve always done volunteer work around the holidays, but there are certainly organizations I can get involved with throughout the week.
@@KellyStamps Besides other influencers, maybe you could talk to people who are retired and have found satisfaction in their lives for ideas on what to do. Their situations might not be so dissimilar to yours (solved the money problem, but now have a problem of what to do with your time).
"i need to do math for fun" hahahahaha youre built different i love u the transparency is amazing we must protect kellz at all costs!!! also the bangs messing up the face id 🥵
You shared some of the things I have been feeling internally as well. Im actually going back to school to finish (since I dropped out at 21 back in 2020) my business degree and go back to 9-5. I know its an unpopular in todays time since the new wave is to become a boss business owner or influencer/content creator of some sort. But I dont mind working a 9-5 in a corporate world doing a job I love. Content creating has become.... something. It is surely not for everyone. I would enjoy it part time, but things are getting weird. Since 2020, all I want is to live my best peaceful life adjusting to this new age or normalcy we are in now. I just want to contribute to society in a massive way, I do enjoying being of service to others. Im happy for you and I am excited for you in your new journey Ms Stamps :)
I had an Air Force moment, a college moment, a serving food moment, and a salesgirl corporate moment. I can conclude that no job is going to make you fully happy, but it is so fulfilling finishing what you started! That’s why I’m also in school part time and now I can afford to go full-time. I’m happy for you and it’s going to feel great when you finally get your degree! (Whether you use it or not)
Congratulations on your billboard! So dope! 🎉🍾….And, no…you don’t want to work a job 15 hours a week either. Trust me. 😂😂😂 I’m kidding…do what makes you happy.
A hobby definitely can be a “full time job” and fill up those bored hours! I’m a clay artist and it’s a week full of work 4/5 days of finishing a clay piece and then 1/2 days of editing 😭 but just chose a path that makes your heart warm the most!
Completely unrelated to this topic, but I thought I would share; I have been binge watching your channel lately to catch up, dozed off to your videos last night, and had a dream that you asked me on a date. You pulled up, looked me up and down, and then hopped back in your car and drove off. So I sat alone and ate tiramisu. Just thought that was kinda funny. Lol
"Fifteen hours of labor would reset my brain to be grateful again." I get what you're saying with this. Being an "influencer" can be isolating. I appreciate your honesty and wish you all the best figuring it out. P.S. - As you already know, any social media management team will have their own best interests at heart and will not want you to get a regular job - even if it's part time.
Honestly Kelly I think you're bored and stuck on the regrets of your decisions you close yourself off to growth. You are not happy about having too much time so why not travel and explore the earth and try dating in Europe instead. You're in your 20s, and you have the access to make them legendary so DREAM BIGGER! Give yourself a Kelly in London series and try pursuing a career there once you're tired of globe trotting.
Such an amazing idea, she has the chance to do whatever she wants and yet she chooses to fit into the status quo. Great point. Most people would love to be in her position. I know I would. I do understand her boredom though, loneliness is horrible.
@@Curlyhairgirl4LifeYou are entitled to your own opinion, just as I am. And it is just my opinion. Anyone who is part of the status quo would defend it. Kelly became famous coz she wasn't part of it and resonated with so many people who are not part of it (or who want to escape it, or even just love watching her different life to us). Those of us who are different don't need to "fit in" as long as we accept ourselves and do good things in this world. She can try anything she wants to, I'm not telling her what not to do (or what to do), I'm just stating what I see. (BTW: I have curly hair too and I love it).
Good points, but it I don’t want to run from the boredom! I’m gonna try volunteer work and a part time job. I’ve had my traveling stint. I talked about it in a recent podcast, but I had a very vivid dream where I swear it was God telling me to rest. And that was to settle down in one way or another. A job may not be permanent, but it would help me feel grounded and actually be around people. I haven’t had any interaction throughout the day for five years now and it’s really weird. If I knew how isolating this was, I would’ve at least tried to formed a group channel.
@@KellyStampsI know exactly how you feel, I have been isolated for over a decade and am doing everything possible to be around people. But then when I do I attract all narcs/ toxic people and I go back into my shell. You can do whatever your heart and dreams tell you, I wish you the best of luck. I wish you lived in Oz, we could have met in person. xx
@@KellyStampsI deliver mail. I walked about 13 miles a day on a city route. I now walk around 8 per day. One three day weekend a month. I thought it was amazing at first. Like bootcamp. I changed my body. I left my etsy business of ten years in the dust and dedicated my life to this in 2022. I made about 4000 a month selling art. * worked nonstop for that. I now make about 3000 a month after taxes, dues, allotments for benefits and retirement. 😂 WTH am I doing? I think it is a sign that I am randomly watching this.
I always wondered about people who influenced full time. I can see how it can get boring doing the same thing. Like opening pr packages and filming grwm and things as such. Thanks for being transparent! Praying that The Lord continues to lead you 🤎
Kelly , I love you but you've brought up this exact flavor of topic so many times only during these specific times it's almost a little cruel. We get it! You can spend thousands to fly first class to buy yourself a pretzel while the only carbs we can even afford is plain white Jasmine rice... Any other notes? Like goddamn have some mercy, at least until inflation is over!! -Your neighborhood PR team
Someone is *always* going to have more than you. It hurts. As mentioned, I’ve worked plenty of undesirable jobs. I earned my way out of a toxic home and I’m glad. So no, I will not wait until it’s convenient for YOU, a stranger, to start applying for a part-time or full-time jobs or go back to college and collect as many degrees as I want, sorry.
let's break this down. $4000 for a 1 to 2 minute spot. that spot brings brand awareness and customers to said brand. said brand makes sales and a profit. which is good because said brand has employees to pay (employees feeding their families). said brand might ship items, so now the economy at large is benefitting (truckers, warehouses, packaging manufacturers). said brand pays taxes which goes into public services. influencers need to get over their imposter syndrome. it's important work and those who think it's silly don't understand economics. you've made quite a few of these "existential crisis" videos over the past 18 months. here's a quote that might give some clarity. "every where you go, there you are" the call might be coming from inside the room.
I’m going through this now. 25 and have been a self employed at home with no one to see and no where to be, sitting around, for 5 years. Lol! (I’m not a career women either, which is why I chose a job from home with my own schedule) I always think about the times where I was never on the phone and I was going to school, always with friends. Now I go online because I’m so bored all the time and it’s so unfulfilling. I want to be busy with work and friends and forget the phone again!!! It’s funny because I just applied to Panera 5 days ago and I am SOOOO excited to work a part time job too Im going to quite this job where I’m sitting at home, work part time at Panera and go to school for a career. I want a job with people, stress, goals etc. I want to be excited again!!
I've loved your channel since I found it a year ago!! I do see your point - having a job does give some type of structure and a different purpose outside of ourselves, a feeling like we are contributing to a community. You will have a unique perspective going back into the job force, and you may very well treat it like a hobby you get paid for! Which is a dream in and of itself :) You don't need to work a 9-5, you *want* to. Cheers Kelly!
That’s a great way to look at it. It’s the same reason why I wish all influencers would work a serving job or have some type of responsibility before living the lavish life. I feel like I’m the only one without rich parents backing them up. Being in the service industry showed me that most of humanity sucks, but you can draw inspiration from it lol. If I was an actress, I would see it as method acting.
For those of us on the other end of the TH-cam game trying to get 1k we don't understand all these big influencers just quitting without explaining to us. Well some say they are stressed and I'm like are you serious. Do you mean you need a vacation, lol.
I understand your perspective. Initially, I believed I was a highly creative individual who found fulfillment solely in creating art or music. However, I gradually came to realize that creation wasn't my primary motivation; rather, it was fueled by curiosity and a commitment to learning new skills. While I deeply enjoy being a musician, I also feel drawn to more analytical pursuits.
This is exactly why I made my content about the people and not about myself I realize my followers know nothing about me, because I tell them about them and share experiences that circle back to them ♥️
Just a suggestion: go to Europe and make some videos there, I think that should entertain you for a while lol and I think your TH-cam audience would like videos like that
Amen sis we have so much incommonend! lol... I do both "TH-cam influencer & I work in the health care field as a supervisor & I am HAPPY=)" . I did electronics for 5yrs I never went to college for it was trained on the job for a very BIG company back in the day (I am 51yrs young now) ,and it came very naturally for me. I am HAPPY! FOLLOW YOUR HEART & WHAT GIVES YOU PEACE xoxo THIS VEDIO IS PERFECT FOR EVERYONE TO DIVE DEEP W/IN, THANK YOU=)
You are the epitome of the ideal and best energy of womanhood: creative, nourishing, and VARIABLE. Change your mind at will and wont, Babe. YOU are your OWN "fulltime influencer." 😘
I’m currently a sahm and I’m dying to just go back to work and have some normalcy and structure in my life 😂 I actually just interviewed to work at a local nursing home for 15 hours a week!
Overheard one of my training managers calling a coworker the n word on my third shift at my new job and I got sexually harassed by a different manager on the same day. I think you just need another hobby and some purpose, a “normal” job is not really it 😓
I work in corporate America and I truly do miss my coffee shop days. I wanted “more” in those days, and yet every time I look back I miss the freedom, low stress environment. Sometimes people want the simpler life. I encourage you to find other ways to fulfill yourself (sell your art! Start doing freelance work, etc.) I don’t think TH-cam should be anyone’s end goals. You’ll figure it out, I promise. Maybe you could give painting lessons ? Open Ana art gallery? Idk
Why not create an actual Stampede University 😭 that would be so cool. Maybe you can teach courses or something like that and help others also achieve their dream 🤔 Just something I was thinking about when I was watching! Hope you find what works for you! ❤️
I totally get this. I read something today that really put life into perspective. In the Bible before Adam got a wife, he had a job. We were meant to work. The accomplishments we have die with us. Work isn't the way to achieve the goal. It is the goal. You just need to find what it is you'd rather be doing, and do that. And for me that was giving up making other people money and watching my own kids. I"ll get back to "work" when they're older. Love this Kelly! I hope you find something cool!
Kelly, will you talk about the bts of being an influencer, for instance, preferring an agent vs a manager or management team for your career? That is the kind of info that is intriguing and will definitely bring in views. Thanks for this video. ❤
Kelly, why don't you start interviewing people on this channel since you already have a following and it won't be so isolating. Talk about life with different people (not only TH-camrs but normal people too) and let us see the juxtaposition between your life and normal people. Just an idea.
Become a teachers assistant! You don't need much aside from graduating high school and be enrolled in some college classes, it's part time, from what I know people work 4-6 hrs a day mon-Fri it made me feel fulfilled and needed the kids are adorable. I could be having a bad day and one of those kids makes my day by giving me a flower they picked and saying I love you miss!
Ooh the part time cheer leading /ice girls roles sound like it would be so much fun! I think if you did that and volunteered or worked as a TA or library assistant it would satisfy both parts of your brain. Cheerleading could lead to more notoriety though, just something to think about as I know you want a private life x
Community college is a great idea. I made so many friends there. Saved money too. Kelly, I 'm glad you acknowledged that you're bored but I think you might need fullfillment (and recognition). The good thing is that you have enough capital to take risks. Find a 'part time career'- build a community somewhere and document that experience.
I could never be bored lol. I constantly find new hobbies or activities that I want to try. Once I have more time and money my interests will be my fulltime job. 😄 🏃🏾♀️
Wow how real. Thanks for sharing! Nothing is wrong with a part time job to stay occupied even if you don’t need it. Especially if you saved up enough money to quit when you’re ready too.
Girl, I feel you! I got tired of it and super burnt out. After doing it full time for years I chose to work part time jobs. In the past two years, I have been a server, a weed budtender, smoothie maker, receptionist, bartender, and an optometric assistant. And now I’m back in university after dropping out 5 years ago so I can find a full time job after and make TH-cam my hobby again. Views have gone soo low ever since I stopped posting as much but I have more peace and can enjoy it more now. Best of luck! Looking forward to seeing your journey! 🫶🏽
I think you would be a really good teacher like a theatre teacher specifically. If you have your associates degree, you can usually become a substitute teacher while you get your teaching license. Regardless, I hope you find something satisfying for you :)
I think I’m about the same age as Kelly. I graduated college in 2019 and have been an electrical engineer since I worked really hard to get this career and it did provide me a lot of life changing moments and money, but I also feel like it’s not my purpose A lot of times I fantasize about being a cashier or being a tutor like I was during college. Because right now I just feel constantly stressed about deadlines and mind numbing engineering work. Having an easier job sounds like it would be kind of fun
Tbh working part time at airport (with flight benefits, dental, etc) and doing beauty video sponsorships was one of the best experiences in my life. You don't have the pressure when it's a slow month on adsense or contracts, because of the part-time cushion. When I had a good month on TH-cam, I felt like I was earning str*pper money.
I’m not a content creator, but I work about 1-2 hours a day & I make great & fast money in my career. I experienced the same feelings you have rn, so I decided to get a part-time waitressing job on the weekends. I quit after my 1st day. So I get what you’re saying, but a hosting job is most likely not what’s gonna make you happy. You just need to be around your friends, especially your old friends & have fun with them. Introduce them to your life & share your wealth with them 🤷🏽♀️ that’s what I did. & then now, I have a bf & just have fun with him.
@kellystamps maybe you should be a flight attendant. Based on some of the things you voiced I can truly see that for you. It may spark that excitement, “servitude” and fun you’ve been looking for.
When I was flying back from New York, I was actually seriously thinking about that. You know I like to move around a lot, and I constantly am on planes for the Biscoff cookies and the thrill of taking off. I literally just enjoy it because it’s like a roller coaster ride, and I like turbulence LOL.
I have so many thoughts... I understand where you're coming from but also I think you've definitely squandered away the good that your influencing job has brought you. You could've created something more- a business, a podcast, a more produced skit channel, a book, music, art, ANYTHING with that free time. You could've become a pilot! People love watching pilots on TikTok now. You could've purchased a house and started renovating it for content! Or done more travel stuff... IDK the possibilities are literally endless. I'm sorry but the jealousy in me is leaping out as I'm sitting here, listening to you wanting a job while working my full-time job that I don't like but am still grateful to have an easy remote job. (Also 4k for one sponsor......... kms. Almost twice my month's salary.) I'm trying to build up my own channels on top of learning programming so I can get a better full-time position, but listening to this rant made me a bit irked lol. Love you, hope you find what fulfills you since I agree that I don't think influencing is 100% fulfilling. Just wish I were in your shoes of being able to chaotically make your life harder lol.
*face ID lifts bangs* quality content! you get a part time job if that makes you happy. no matter your age, it's never too late to go after what you want xx
Let’s switch😫I hate working. It’s the get up when they say for me. Don’t invite Chaos into your life. Just go back to school and do videos around that! I would watch!
I understand you completely. We are highly intelligent beings. The power of our brains is indescribable.. so being in this world where we are barely creating new synaptic connections that comes with the feeling of empowerment can make you feel empty and genuinely useless. I feel this way currently. We are told our whole lives that money is the upmost importance and it IS.. but nothing is more rewarding than feeling like you're putting something brilliant out in this world.
I have a part-time retail job right now and I can't stand it. It's not the worst job ever, but I know I could and should be doing something else. I don't want the chaos of a toxic work environment, disrespectful customers with no home training, and poor management. Maybe it's not the job, maybe it's just me being depressed, ungrateful, or something. I'm also mathematically inclined and I like structure and feeling like I belong somewhere which is why I also want to go back to school. But again I don't dream of going to college for the traditional reasoning of getting a 9-5 or going to grad school.
With all your risks in the past, this is the wildest proposition you proposed. This is a time of change...always go for it. Looking forward to watch your first days of work.
you know you are rich rich, when you start cosplay poor people lifes, like marie antoinette did. But I also get your point. I quit my 4day workweek, remote world office IT job, because life was more comfy, but actually not happier at all. I felt super lonely and there was no sense.
"Real" jobs can suck though lol. I actually applied for a wfh job cause I'm sick of the rat race and commuting in a city where people are maniacs on the road 😒 My future goal is to one day only work part time. The only downside is that I may never be a homeowner but which is better a house or being able to retire younger? 🤔 My former coworker retired at 60 and he's enjoying his life! Regardless, best of luck in whatever you want to do. You're right about the Internet getting more weird.
I think it’s good to build something outside of content creation. Recently a few creators had their channels randomly deleted and some of them spiraled because they didn’t have anything outside of talking about themselves online. Luckily some of them were able to get their channel back. I’ve followed you from the beginning and I was excited to witness you chase after your dreams of becoming a pilot, or going back to school, or going into acting. So if you feel pulled to get back into the workforce do it!
Reasons why I tell people I'm going to stay doing this part time. I am too grateful for my full time job and doing TH-cam full time is not all people think it is.
I think it’s good to re-evaluate what we’re doing every few years to see if it’s working for us or not. Good luck on whatever you decide to do in the future! ❤
Humans are problems solvers, naturally. So we get bored when we can't solve problems that allow the best of our skills or NEW skills to be utilized and/or developed. I think asking yourself whats something you want to learn or whats a problem you want to help solve, and WITH people, not just on your own? Community building outside of people who are just like you is soooo important. Think these things through, Kelly! You got this.
You should get a job as a part time preschool teacher at a quaint little Christian preschool. A half day place (ours runs 8-11:30) you are the ultimate entertainer, you’re a great teacher, and it will scratch the baby itch. I love going into our 3 year old rooms and playing with them during center time.
I think you should make a list of 5 things you're most scared of and go do those. I think commitment, consistency and patience with something that is challenging for you to do is gonna bring the balance you need.
As a freelance filmmaker/film editor, every year or so I find myself trying odd jobs (fitness associate, working in a warehouse, etc.) for the same exact reason of not only having extra income but just to switch up my environment and try something new. Being a creative full time is fulfilling, but exhausting. Not making art my full income allowed me be more selective and pursue projects based on passion vs. desperation.
I have had the same experience as a painter. Sometimes it's great to lean on something more stable
Exactly why I keep my 9 to 5 even though I dream of being a full time artist.
I have a similar experience I work as a software engineer for my 9-5 but my dream is acting.
TLDL: I enjoy part time creating over full-time. Full-time "influencing" requires the delusion to assume people actually care about knowing my every move. (I don't even care about my every move LOL.) I will continue to pop on both channels when I have a storytime, experience to share or something educational. I genuinely cannot bring myself to make errand lists, record myself crying trying to be "raw" and relatable or showing my bedroom doing tours. It's weird LOL.
Also I'm forcing myself to attend community college classes in person starting in summer!! I have time for a part time job or I can do one or the other.
Granted it i only listened to the first 5, but do the part time jobs or college classes have any sort of goal or purpose or is it just filling space to buffer some boredom?
@@Austin6403wow this is really good
introspective question Austin 😭
Hey Kelly.
Joined the stampede last year. It was one of the best decisions my life🤭🙃
This is my suggestion?
Why don't you finally start the podcast you've always talked about ?
So you can shift the focus a little from yourself and your privacy to other fun things and topics
Just saying :)
This is so real. The luxury is doing what youuuu want with your time. I love this chapter
Get a job on campus in a fun/chill spot like the library or being a TA for a cute prof or a cafe omg cute right
It’ll keep you anchored to finish the semester.
Kelly Stamps as a part time flight attendant would be such good content and story times!
Ooooo I second thissss
Yasssss! And sis can fly free too lol
this !
i wish there was such thing as a part time FA .. it’s only like 10 years in that you can get part time 😢
Private Jets? Maybe?
One of my favorite quotes is “you’re always only one decision away from a totally different life”
i don't think glamorizing the struggle is going to fix the issue - i just think you need to find purpose elsewhere. having a job isn't fun! i think you could find purpose in school, volunteering, classes and learning new hobbies, going to different types of social events etc. but wishing you well either way :)
Having a purpose is key. A lack of purpose makes you flounder.
Well, it’s a good thing I specifically said in the beginning I rebuke struggling with a 40 hour work week! This is not The Simple Life with Paris and Nicole Richie 😂 I am mathematically inclined, but also have clown in my DNA. I would like to exercise both parts of my brain. My purpose is creating, but the 20s seem like a lifelong battle of trying to fulfill one’s ability to the maximum before it’s too late.
I’m not sure if you’re responding to my comment for the original commentor. But yeah, I enjoyed working as a host and never felt bad about it. I made the most in those jobs. It’s silly to undermine service people, blue collar, stay at home moms etc and assume they don’t matter. There are so many over educated people of my generation with used to work these jobs because they think they are better. They’d rather be unemployed.
I made a typo. I meant to say they refused to work these jobs.
Have you conducted a reality audit? This does include spiritual, historical, ancestral curses, financial, things, inputs, possibility of current spirit residencies / stow aways (DEMONS!)
The grass isn't greener on that side, I hate to tell you
volunteering being involved in community helps so much.
Agreed!
whatever you feel like you need at this point in time - give yourself that. who cares how others define success or whether they think it’s a “downgrade” or anything along the lines of “why would you do that”. it’s your life. i think it’s inevitable that you’re feeling this way about being a full-time influencer as someone who always reflects on her experiences and learns from them. i really do believe that you’ve got a lot more to offer to the world than what social media would ever allow you to do
Agreed. Someone already left a comment saying I'm glamorizing work LOL. Have you ever felt like you could do more in your day? Or that you have various strengths and just want to try it all? I agree it's commendable to try other things and start over late in life. I was a server, worked in sales 9-5 and had a military stint even. We should be changing otherwise we'd be miserable wondering what if?
I get it. Purpose, discipline, and structure are really fulfilling. I’m currently on the opposite side of the fence. I do hair twice a week in nursing homes and senior communities (outside of my own salon suite) but I have this urge to really create content to share my knowledge and make money on my own terms. But imagining it from your perspective, being bored and wanting to feel furiously or valuable is real. You’ll find what you’re missing soon! Good luck!
The thing I respect most about you is you honesty! So many influencers act like they’re doing the hardest job in the world, and I don’t doubt that there are busy days and many challenges. But, ultimately, compared to most people, they are living GOOD and EASY. And getting paid at least double for it! Thank you for acknowledging that privilege and being realistic!
Heavy on good and easy!!!
And thanks for always coming back, Dena!!
This is absolutely true… I remember when you made a post about going back to school 3-4 years ago at [Boston School] and how much it meant to you to get a degree. Because of you, I ended up thinking about going back to college, too…
Fast forward to today and not only did I finish undergrad, but I completed my MBA last month as well.
I was financially successful before I went back to finish my degree, however, I'm personally more fulfilled having completed my undergraduate degree. I genuinely recommend you do the same. It was a gift you originally passed to me, and hopefully this post returns the favor back to you….
Peace and blessings
Congratulations 🎊
It's not easy. Great work and hopefully more success to you!
Not religious anymore, but when I used to go to church I volunteered as a Sunday school "teacher" aka daycare for the 3-4 year olds. Just a once a week commitment for just a few hours and it could offer good opportunity to find aligned friends/community. Or volunteer work with special needs, or maybe work at a flower shop/planet nursery. Since money isn't an object, definitely lean toward something that will bring you fulfillment/peace♡
Also, when you talked about dogs....you smiled at my cavapoo once in MDR a few months back so naturally we're both rooting for you now sis
This is exactly what I was thinking about today! Working with the kids at a church. I’m not sure what the requirements are, but I think if I attend long enough and just ask somebody it’s possible. I went on a few dates with a guy who did this, and he found it very fulfilling. He works from home and got completely bored as a programmer, and it filled that natural void for intimacy.
Cute! @@Sophia-tk2qp
Kelly, have you considered doing volunteer work? It would put you in immediate contact with people (if you’re doing it in person) you’d get to be of service (to whatever community calls your heart) would probably bring a lot of joy and connection into your life 💕
Great Idea.
I am such a fan, and I love what you do here on TH-cam. However, I do believe that we all need to do something that fulfills us. Face-to-face. Something rewarding. Find that. Find the balance. We have faith you will find your true calling and feel content with whatever it is you choose to do part time!
Agreed. Someone said even just do volunteer work!
@@KellyStamps Volunteer work could also be so rewarding. I'm a teacher. During lockdown--at first--I was enjoying teaching from home. Just the idea of not having to commute, having more time to just exist, etc. Picked up enjoyable hobbies. But it got old after a few months. Coming back to seeing the students face to face, there was nothing like it. I realized for myself that I need that personal, human interaction. I needed that feeling of doing something rewarding. You are doing something incredible, but gosh, how lonely when your entire job is virtual. We are all completely unique, but deep down, I think we all need to feel that human connection with others. Truly wishing you all the best!
Went back and forth about writing this comment. Can’t finish this video. Fan typically but right now when I can’t afford to buy groceries this kind of content is pissing me off. Everyone has their struggles and maybe that’s your point and if I finished the video I would get this but I can’t. After I heard $4k for 2 minutes when I would be excited if I was given $400 this minute to take care of basics! I need off the planet. Hope you find what you are looking for Ms.Stamps.
The whole world doesn’t need to create relatable content that’s sensitive to your world
Maybe you need to step off of SM. It's not the content creator's responsibility to curate their content around your sensitivities...
I absolutely understand where you're coming from, but Kelly is also a human with very human experiences and as she has referenced had to work really hard to where she is while also healing from years of trauma. Sure she may seem privileged, but she puts on her pants one leg at a time like we all do.
Well maybe this is your sign start social media and get that $4000 advertisement! Why haven't you?
@@KellyStamps Oop🫢
I’ve thought about this a lot. Content creation can be so isolating. I would do it for the social factor.
You know productive work doesn’t always have to be tied to earning money. Have you thought about doing volunteer work in a space that’s meaningful for you?
Yeah, many people left this comment! I’ve always done volunteer work around the holidays, but there are certainly organizations I can get involved with throughout the week.
@@KellyStamps Besides other influencers, maybe you could talk to people who are retired and have found satisfaction in their lives for ideas on what to do. Their situations might not be so dissimilar to yours (solved the money problem, but now have a problem of what to do with your time).
"i need to do math for fun" hahahahaha youre built different i love u the transparency is amazing we must protect kellz at all costs!!! also the bangs messing up the face id 🥵
Someone left a genius comment saying to just be a TA for a professor at the community college. Or volunteer work!
@@KellyStamps whatever it is i kno u will excel
You shouldn’t have to apologize for doing what makes *you* feel content. I think it’s wonderful to rediscover things about ourselves that we miss.
Like my gma says some ppl just gave ants in the pants.
We love a multifaceted multitalented and free spirited woman 💖✨ you can literally do all or none of those things. That’s the beauty of life
Yes! The duality of women. We can it all and change our minds whenever we want.
15-20 hours of labor will make me more appreciative again. yesss girl! Look at the accountability!!!
Miss stamps is givingggggg!!!!
15-20 hours UNDERPAID labor 🤮🤮
You shared some of the things I have been feeling internally as well. Im actually going back to school to finish (since I dropped out at 21 back in 2020) my business degree and go back to 9-5. I know its an unpopular in todays time since the new wave is to become a boss business owner or influencer/content creator of some sort. But I dont mind working a 9-5 in a corporate world doing a job I love. Content creating has become.... something. It is surely not for everyone. I would enjoy it part time, but things are getting weird. Since 2020, all I want is to live my best peaceful life adjusting to this new age or normalcy we are in now. I just want to contribute to society in a massive way, I do enjoying being of service to others.
Im happy for you and I am excited for you in your new journey Ms Stamps :)
I had an Air Force moment, a college moment, a serving food moment, and a salesgirl corporate moment. I can conclude that no job is going to make you fully happy, but it is so fulfilling finishing what you started! That’s why I’m also in school part time and now I can afford to go full-time. I’m happy for you and it’s going to feel great when you finally get your degree! (Whether you use it or not)
Congratulations on your billboard! So dope! 🎉🍾….And, no…you don’t want to work a job 15 hours a week either. Trust me. 😂😂😂 I’m kidding…do what makes you happy.
Thank you, it was a fun experience!
A hobby definitely can be a “full time job” and fill up those bored hours! I’m a clay artist and it’s a week full of work 4/5 days of finishing a clay piece and then 1/2 days of editing 😭 but just chose a path that makes your heart warm the most!
Completely unrelated to this topic, but I thought I would share; I have been binge watching your channel lately to catch up, dozed off to your videos last night, and had a dream that you asked me on a date. You pulled up, looked me up and down, and then hopped back in your car and drove off. So I sat alone and ate tiramisu. Just thought that was kinda funny. Lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Fifteen hours of labor would reset my brain to be grateful again." I get what you're saying with this. Being an "influencer" can be isolating. I appreciate your honesty and wish you all the best figuring it out. P.S. - As you already know, any social media management team will have their own best interests at heart and will not want you to get a regular job - even if it's part time.
I’m so glad you get it. Too much of anything is annoying!
Honestly Kelly I think you're bored and stuck on the regrets of your decisions you close yourself off to growth. You are not happy about having too much time so why not travel and explore the earth and try dating in Europe instead. You're in your 20s, and you have the access to make them legendary so DREAM BIGGER!
Give yourself a Kelly in London series and try pursuing a career there once you're tired of globe trotting.
Such an amazing idea, she has the chance to do whatever she wants and yet she chooses to fit into the status quo. Great point. Most people would love to be in her position. I know I would. I do understand her boredom though, loneliness is horrible.
@@Curlyhairgirl4LifeYou are entitled to your own opinion, just as I am. And it is just my opinion. Anyone who is part of the status quo would defend it. Kelly became famous coz she wasn't part of it and resonated with so many people who are not part of it (or who want to escape it, or even just love watching her different life to us). Those of us who are different don't need to "fit in" as long as we accept ourselves and do good things in this world. She can try anything she wants to, I'm not telling her what not to do (or what to do), I'm just stating what I see. (BTW: I have curly hair too and I love it).
Good points, but it I don’t want to run from the boredom! I’m gonna try volunteer work and a part time job. I’ve had my traveling stint. I talked about it in a recent podcast, but I had a very vivid dream where I swear it was God telling me to rest. And that was to settle down in one way or another. A job may not be permanent, but it would help me feel grounded and actually be around people. I haven’t had any interaction throughout the day for five years now and it’s really weird. If I knew how isolating this was, I would’ve at least tried to formed a group channel.
@@KellyStampsI know exactly how you feel, I have been isolated for over a decade and am doing everything possible to be around people. But then when I do I attract all narcs/ toxic people and I go back into my shell. You can do whatever your heart and dreams tell you, I wish you the best of luck. I wish you lived in Oz, we could have met in person. xx
solo travel is often very lonely. Being comfortable financially can also induce boredom. Gratitude and plan is a good place to start.
$4k MINIMUM for a two minute spot? I’m in the WRONG profession. 😂
reason 101 of why I'm going all in on content creation. Filmmakers barely make that
Yeah typically for channels 400k subs or with my type of engagement
@@KellyStampsI deliver mail. I walked about 13 miles a day on a city route. I now walk around 8 per day. One three day weekend a month. I thought it was amazing at first. Like bootcamp. I changed my body. I left my etsy business of ten years in the dust and dedicated my life to this in 2022. I made about 4000 a month selling art. * worked nonstop for that. I now make about 3000 a month after taxes, dues, allotments for benefits and retirement. 😂 WTH am I doing? I think it is a sign that I am randomly watching this.
Thank you for your transparency Kelly you’re a pioneer for us just beginning ❤
@@KellyStampsteaching people to be financially successful online doing content might be something to consider doing 🤷🏾♀️.
17:04 Be careful what you wish for, at least just say you want things to do but not problems
I always wondered about people who influenced full time. I can see how it can get boring doing the same thing. Like opening pr packages and filming grwm and things as such. Thanks for being transparent! Praying that The Lord continues to lead you 🤎
Kelly , I love you but you've brought up this exact flavor of topic so many times only during these specific times it's almost a little cruel. We get it! You can spend thousands to fly first class to buy yourself a pretzel while the only carbs we can even afford is plain white Jasmine rice...
Any other notes?
Like goddamn have some mercy, at least until inflation is over!!
-Your neighborhood PR team
Someone is *always* going to have more than you. It hurts. As mentioned, I’ve worked plenty of undesirable jobs. I earned my way out of a toxic home and I’m glad. So no, I will not wait until it’s convenient for YOU, a stranger, to start applying for a part-time or full-time jobs or go back to college and collect as many degrees as I want, sorry.
@@KellyStamps You are literally rude
let's break this down. $4000 for a 1 to 2 minute spot. that spot brings brand awareness and customers to said brand. said brand makes sales and a profit. which is good because said brand has employees to pay (employees feeding their families). said brand might ship items, so now the economy at large is benefitting (truckers, warehouses, packaging manufacturers). said brand pays taxes which goes into public services.
influencers need to get over their imposter syndrome. it's important work and those who think it's silly don't understand economics.
you've made quite a few of these "existential crisis" videos over the past 18 months. here's a quote that might give some clarity.
"every where you go, there you are"
the call might be coming from inside the room.
I’m going through this now. 25 and have been a self employed at home with no one to see and no where to be, sitting around, for 5 years. Lol! (I’m not a career women either, which is why I chose a job from home with my own schedule) I always think about the times where I was never on the phone and I was going to school, always with friends. Now I go online because I’m so bored all the time and it’s so unfulfilling. I want to be busy with work and friends and forget the phone again!!! It’s funny because I just applied to Panera 5 days ago and I am SOOOO excited to work a part time job too
Im going to quite this job where I’m sitting at home, work part time at Panera and go to school for a career. I want a job with people, stress, goals etc. I want to be excited again!!
I've loved your channel since I found it a year ago!! I do see your point - having a job does give some type of structure and a different purpose outside of ourselves, a feeling like we are contributing to a community.
You will have a unique perspective going back into the job force, and you may very well treat it like a hobby you get paid for! Which is a dream in and of itself :) You don't need to work a 9-5, you *want* to. Cheers Kelly!
That’s a great way to look at it. It’s the same reason why I wish all influencers would work a serving job or have some type of responsibility before living the lavish life. I feel like I’m the only one without rich parents backing them up. Being in the service industry showed me that most of humanity sucks, but you can draw inspiration from it lol. If I was an actress, I would see it as method acting.
You can start again whatever you want, job, study, and film it as vlog
For those of us on the other end of the TH-cam game trying to get 1k we don't understand all these big influencers just quitting without explaining to us. Well some say they are stressed and I'm like are you serious. Do you mean you need a vacation, lol.
🙏🏾💚🌱Congratulations 🎊 on your bill board! Also the growth and continued exploration 🌱
I understand your perspective. Initially, I believed I was a highly creative individual who found fulfillment solely in creating art or music. However, I gradually came to realize that creation wasn't my primary motivation; rather, it was fueled by curiosity and a commitment to learning new skills. While I deeply enjoy being a musician, I also feel drawn to more analytical pursuits.
This is exactly why I made my content about the people and not about myself I realize my followers know nothing about me, because I tell them about them and share experiences that circle back to them ♥️
Just a suggestion: go to Europe and make some videos there, I think that should entertain you for a while lol and I think your TH-cam audience would like videos like that
Such a great video. How about volunteering? No paycheck but somewhere you really feel needed and a serious purpose? Love all your videos.
Amen sis we have so much incommonend! lol... I do both "TH-cam influencer & I work in the health care field as a supervisor & I am HAPPY=)" . I did electronics for 5yrs I never went to college for it was trained on the job for a very BIG company back in the day (I am 51yrs young now) ,and it came very naturally for me. I am HAPPY! FOLLOW YOUR HEART & WHAT GIVES YOU PEACE xoxo THIS VEDIO IS PERFECT FOR EVERYONE TO DIVE DEEP W/IN, THANK YOU=)
You are the epitome of the ideal and best energy of womanhood: creative, nourishing, and VARIABLE. Change your mind at will and wont, Babe. YOU are your OWN "fulltime influencer." 😘
How about doing your editing etc from a coworking space? You get some semblance of being in a job environment whilst doing your own thing.
I’m currently a sahm and I’m dying to just go back to work and have some normalcy and structure in my life 😂 I actually just interviewed to work at a local nursing home for 15 hours a week!
Overheard one of my training managers calling a coworker the n word on my third shift at my new job and I got sexually harassed by a different manager on the same day.
I think you just need another hobby and some purpose, a “normal” job is not really it 😓
Did you report them?
I work in corporate America and I truly do miss my coffee shop days. I wanted “more” in those days, and yet every time I look back I miss the freedom, low stress environment. Sometimes people want the simpler life. I encourage you to find other ways to fulfill yourself (sell your art! Start doing freelance work, etc.) I don’t think TH-cam should be anyone’s end goals. You’ll figure it out, I promise. Maybe you could give painting lessons ? Open Ana art gallery? Idk
I’ve been seeing a lot of long term full time content creators say this. There’s a new wave going on. Excited to see your next steps Kelly! ❤
Why not create an actual Stampede University 😭 that would be so cool. Maybe you can teach courses or something like that and help others also achieve their dream 🤔 Just something I was thinking about when I was watching! Hope you find what works for you! ❤️
Where I am in life, I would have to work 235 hours at my job to make 4k, that in 2 minutes is really something!
Trust me you don’t want a real job lol. The people with real jobs want what you have 😂 seek happiness elsewhere
Exactly!
She has a blessed life not having a job
But being a TH-camr/ content creator is also a job.
@@YPM498it is some sort of work, for sure. But this ain't a job girl
Always on time for lecture!!! I hope you’re well Professor Stamps❤
I totally get this. I read something today that really put life into perspective. In the Bible before Adam got a wife, he had a job. We were meant to work. The accomplishments we have die with us. Work isn't the way to achieve the goal. It is the goal. You just need to find what it is you'd rather be doing, and do that. And for me that was giving up making other people money and watching my own kids. I"ll get back to "work" when they're older. Love this Kelly! I hope you find something cool!
I am really excited for this next part of your journey!
Kelly, will you talk about the bts of being an influencer, for instance, preferring an agent vs a manager or management team for your career? That is the kind of info that is intriguing and will definitely bring in views. Thanks for this video. ❤
Kelly, why don't you start interviewing people on this channel since you already have a following and it won't be so isolating.
Talk about life with different people (not only TH-camrs but normal people too) and let us see the juxtaposition between your life and normal people. Just an idea.
Exactly! So many opportunities! Like start a podcast even!
@@Wavves83 Yes, a podcast with people from all over the world. Don't limit yourself.
This is such a down to earth video. 🙏
Become a teachers assistant! You don't need much aside from graduating high school and be enrolled in some college classes, it's part time, from what I know people work 4-6 hrs a day mon-Fri it made me feel fulfilled and needed the kids are adorable. I could be having a bad day and one of those kids makes my day by giving me a flower they picked and saying I love you miss!
You’re a joy to watch. You always lift up my spirits 🧜🏾♀️😄
Just start a business and you can serve the people and give employment to others who need a chance
Ooh the part time cheer leading /ice girls roles sound like it would be so much fun! I think if you did that and volunteered or worked as a TA or library assistant it would satisfy both parts of your brain. Cheerleading could lead to more notoriety though, just something to think about as I know you want a private life x
Community college is a great idea. I made so many friends there. Saved money too. Kelly, I 'm glad you acknowledged that you're bored but I think you might need fullfillment (and recognition).
The good thing is that you have enough capital to take risks. Find a 'part time career'- build a community somewhere and document that experience.
I LITERALLY LOVE YOUR VIDEOS YOUR SO REALLL❤❤❤
I could never be bored lol. I constantly find new hobbies or activities that I want to try. Once I have more time and money my interests will be my fulltime job. 😄 🏃🏾♀️
U dont want a boss and a job right now it’s brutal Things hve changed
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...you'll change your mind in 3 weeks and be onto the next thing like you always do.
Ikr lol
A blessing to be able to do that. Figuring life out.
Wow how real. Thanks for sharing! Nothing is wrong with a part time job to stay occupied even if you don’t need it. Especially if you saved up enough money to quit when you’re ready too.
Girl, I feel you! I got tired of it and super burnt out. After doing it full time for years I chose to work part time jobs. In the past two years, I have been a server, a weed budtender, smoothie maker, receptionist, bartender, and an optometric assistant. And now I’m back in university after dropping out 5 years ago so I can find a full time job after and make TH-cam my hobby again. Views have gone soo low ever since I stopped posting as much but I have more peace and can enjoy it more now. Best of luck! Looking forward to seeing your journey! 🫶🏽
Trust me sis, you don’t want a “real job”. Please enjoy 😭 why not volunteer ? Much better than a part time job! Try to find “stress” in other ways
I think you would be a really good teacher like a theatre teacher specifically. If you have your associates degree, you can usually become a substitute teacher while you get your teaching license. Regardless, I hope you find something satisfying for you :)
I think I’m about the same age as Kelly. I graduated college in 2019 and have been an electrical engineer since
I worked really hard to get this career and it did provide me a lot of life changing moments and money, but I also feel like it’s not my purpose
A lot of times I fantasize about being a cashier or being a tutor like I was during college. Because right now I just feel constantly stressed about deadlines and mind numbing engineering work. Having an easier job sounds like it would be kind of fun
Tbh working part time at airport (with flight benefits, dental, etc) and doing beauty video sponsorships was one of the best experiences in my life. You don't have the pressure when it's a slow month on adsense or contracts, because of the part-time cushion. When I had a good month on TH-cam, I felt like I was earning str*pper money.
I’m not a content creator, but I work about 1-2 hours a day & I make great & fast money in my career. I experienced the same feelings you have rn, so I decided to get a part-time waitressing job on the weekends. I quit after my 1st day. So I get what you’re saying, but a hosting job is most likely not what’s gonna make you happy. You just need to be around your friends, especially your old friends & have fun with them. Introduce them to your life & share your wealth with them 🤷🏽♀️ that’s what I did. & then now, I have a bf & just have fun with him.
@kellystamps maybe you should be a flight attendant. Based on some of the things you voiced I can truly see that for you. It may spark that excitement, “servitude” and fun you’ve been looking for.
When I was flying back from New York, I was actually seriously thinking about that. You know I like to move around a lot, and I constantly am on planes for the Biscoff cookies and the thrill of taking off. I literally just enjoy it because it’s like a roller coaster ride, and I like turbulence LOL.
And I do enjoy serving others. I could literally serve drinks and make people laugh over the speaker thing.
I have so many thoughts... I understand where you're coming from but also I think you've definitely squandered away the good that your influencing job has brought you. You could've created something more- a business, a podcast, a more produced skit channel, a book, music, art, ANYTHING with that free time. You could've become a pilot! People love watching pilots on TikTok now. You could've purchased a house and started renovating it for content! Or done more travel stuff... IDK the possibilities are literally endless.
I'm sorry but the jealousy in me is leaping out as I'm sitting here, listening to you wanting a job while working my full-time job that I don't like but am still grateful to have an easy remote job. (Also 4k for one sponsor......... kms. Almost twice my month's salary.) I'm trying to build up my own channels on top of learning programming so I can get a better full-time position, but listening to this rant made me a bit irked lol. Love you, hope you find what fulfills you since I agree that I don't think influencing is 100% fulfilling. Just wish I were in your shoes of being able to chaotically make your life harder lol.
*face ID
lifts bangs*
quality content!
you get a part time job if that makes you happy. no matter your age, it's never too late to go after what you want xx
Let’s switch😫I hate working. It’s the get up when they say for me. Don’t invite Chaos into your life. Just go back to school and do videos around that! I would watch!
I understand you completely. We are highly intelligent beings. The power of our brains is indescribable.. so being in this world where we are barely creating new synaptic connections that comes with the feeling of empowerment can make you feel empty and genuinely useless. I feel this way currently. We are told our whole lives that money is the upmost importance and it IS.. but nothing is more rewarding than feeling like you're putting something brilliant out in this world.
I rebuke being normal.😜
You don’t need to ‘make sense’.
God bless this new adventure!🙏🏻
And thank you for always coming back to comment!!
@@KellyStamps ☺️🫶🏻🥰
It’s been so lovely to watch you evolve and also come into yourself more❤ I’m glad you’ve found what works for you and a healthy balance!!!
I have a part-time retail job right now and I can't stand it. It's not the worst job ever, but I know I could and should be doing something else. I don't want the chaos of a toxic work environment, disrespectful customers with no home training, and poor management. Maybe it's not the job, maybe it's just me being depressed, ungrateful, or something. I'm also mathematically inclined and I like structure and feeling like I belong somewhere which is why I also want to go back to school. But again I don't dream of going to college for the traditional reasoning of getting a 9-5 or going to grad school.
I also think doing online math worksheets would be helpful. I try to do daily sudoku puzzles lol
Host at fancy restaurant + 1 = so many stories to tell omg!
With all your risks in the past, this is the wildest proposition you proposed. This is a time of change...always go for it. Looking forward to watch your first days of work.
you know you are rich rich, when you start cosplay poor people lifes, like marie antoinette did.
But I also get your point. I quit my 4day workweek, remote world office IT job, because life was more comfy, but actually not happier at all. I felt super lonely and there was no sense.
"Real" jobs can suck though lol. I actually applied for a wfh job cause I'm sick of the rat race and commuting in a city where people are maniacs on the road 😒 My future goal is to one day only work part time. The only downside is that I may never be a homeowner but which is better a house or being able to retire younger? 🤔 My former coworker retired at 60 and he's enjoying his life!
Regardless, best of luck in whatever you want to do. You're right about the Internet getting more weird.
Just came from your TT vid, damn you have over 700K subs over here! Wow! This is awesome
Hope youre well! Love the top❤❤
Thank you I can’t breathe!
@@KellyStamps omg you replied!! I can't breath too!
I think it’s good to build something outside of content creation. Recently a few creators had their channels randomly deleted and some of them spiraled because they didn’t have anything outside of talking about themselves online. Luckily some of them were able to get their channel back. I’ve followed you from the beginning and I was excited to witness you chase after your dreams of becoming a pilot, or going back to school, or going into acting. So if you feel pulled to get back into the workforce do it!
Reasons why I tell people I'm going to stay doing this part time. I am too grateful for my full time job and doing TH-cam full time is not all people think it is.
What ever direction you take. It's been a blast.
Been watching your content for years.
I think it’s good to re-evaluate what we’re doing every few years to see if it’s working for us or not.
Good luck on whatever you decide to do in the future! ❤
Kelly said let me go touch some grass😂😂
Humans are problems solvers, naturally. So we get bored when we can't solve problems that allow the best of our skills or NEW skills to be utilized and/or developed. I think asking yourself whats something you want to learn or whats a problem you want to help solve, and WITH people, not just on your own? Community building outside of people who are just like you is soooo important. Think these things through, Kelly! You got this.
Nothing wrong with getting a side job, especially if its to improve oneself GL
I'm sorry for your loss Kelly ❤ I love your new Channel!
I really love that you do what you know is good for you, you are so inspiring!
You should get a job as a part time preschool teacher at a quaint little Christian preschool. A half day place (ours runs 8-11:30) you are the ultimate entertainer, you’re a great teacher, and it will scratch the baby itch. I love going into our 3 year old rooms and playing with them during center time.
The Bible says that we are never satisfied lol But serving is fulfilling.
I think you should make a list of 5 things you're most scared of and go do those. I think commitment, consistency and patience with something that is challenging for you to do is gonna bring the balance you need.