I've also watched Constance on The View and Seth Myers. I cried each time. Thank you Constance for sharing your story, and I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm glad you are here with us today. Blessings to you...
I can't call her a liar but I've seen her give this same interview and say the same thing word for word, and cry on cue at the same moment. I don't like it when people seem too...rehearsed like that. Thats just my opinion. I don't need judgement or admonishments for it.
I'm glad Constance Wu shared her story. Storytelling is an effective way to heal and help others who experience the same struggles heal and feel heard, noticed, recognized, acknowledge, and not alone. I learned recently that FINE stands for (Fucked up, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional). So when someone says they're fine, know they're struggling.
Grateful for the conversation and the openness. Each interview is a chance to model how to normalize these conversations to address the stigma. The continual healing is resonant and genuine--it was felt in the conversation. Thank you Constance and GMA for the piece.
It seemed so out of character at the time when Constance tweeted about the Fresh Off the Boat renewal. It makes sense now. Thank you for sharing Constance.
What does it mean when just saying how you feel is deemed "out of character"? Like, it seems more like she just changed her opinion. Her character didn't change; she didn't do anything wrong.
She sounds like a very nice person, well done Constance for speaking out about mental health that takes a lot and I hugely respect you for that ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love her,l'm happy that the world didn't loose your bright smile,just keep doing what you do best and don't let anyone negative words pull you down,love life 😊😎
Cancel or un-cancel, it doesn't matter. You make your on path and keep moving. The ones who judged you the most are your very own kind. You know who I'm talking about, not going to mention their names. Them Clowns have hypocritically spew their venom on every platform they can get on. The sad thing is that, it just proves their very own insecurities about their own lives. Stay up and Stay Strong lady...free yourself and "F" all that Noise.
Too many compassionless East Asians still coming after her. I genuinely didn't see anything wrong with the comments she made. She doesn't owe the viewers anything (I am a FOTB fan btw). It is very common in East Asian culture to not believe in paying attention to mental health.
Being in the public eye is such a double edged sword. People want to relate to you on the big screen but you can't have a regular human moment??! I mean she's an artist with different projects who was on a series for 6 years. Why was it a mistake to share her honest opinion in those tweets? Obviously there was something deeper that made her express her desire to not go back to that show gee, perhaps because she had been harassed and threatened....?! Mamma Mia! I'm so glad I left that industry, one minute you're riding high and everyone's happy with you and you're on top of the world and the next minute they want to cut you down and take you out and you'll see the true nature of human beings during that time, believe me, it's not pretty. And quite honestly it's one of the most painful things you can go through because you realize just how selfish and cruel most people are inside. They only appear to be nice when you are feeding their agenda, serving their needs and fulfilling your part of the dynamic. They act like they are your friends, claim to be your "family" but when you have a normal, down moment, or go through something rough, they turn on you. Been there done that and not in any way as large as the status she had... so yep ..glad I am outta that world of entertainment. I wish ladies would have been less competitive and more supportive when I was in the industry. We could have shared about all the "me too" harassments we each encountered regularly instead of hiding them and pretending it didn't bother us. Women need to be taught and believe they have VALUE just as they are...not only when the outside world validates them.
@Crack Shot honestly, why not both? She could be telling a true painful experience but also selling her book at the same time. There is no conflict in that. Maybe the producer thought they were flirting but took it too far? who knows? If you have saw her other interviews, you could at least tell that the emotions were real.
I know it's a completely different morning show n' network, but consider this: T. J. Holmes basically has the exact same job, that Matt Lauer had, on the Today show! Just think on that for a second. I am astonished by the deft kindness, human empathy and true, deep compassion he is able to manifest, despite reaching to the heart of some very hurtful experiences n' moments in Constance's life. Yet, at no time does he ever shrink back from asking the pointed questions that get to the root of 'the why's and how's' or the aftermath, of the harassment Constance went thru. Hats off to both of the GMA hosts in this video, and the entire team behind them! (part of my brain cannot help but wonder what twisted n' somehow 'victim blaming' path Matt Lauer would of managed to twist this interview down!) His infamous interviews with the likes of Tom Cruise among many others, so strange to look back on, with the revealing light that hindsight gives us. Maybe, fingers crossed, time will bury our memory of abusers like Matt who lorded so much power over colleagues, while at the same time jealously hogging the glory that the anchor position on influential news shows afford (not to mention the 7 figure salary it afforded him!)
She's missing the point of not naming the perpetrator that there could be other victims. I"m ok with her not naming which actress told her to go kill herself, i'm not ok with her not naming the one who sexually harassed her.
4 simple words, it is her choice. Some may consider it selfish, but also sometimes it's time to be a little selfish. Healing is selfish. Does that mean we should stop healing? (Rhetorical question, the answer is No.)
At the end of the day, that's her personal decision, not ours. The person should be lucky Constance didn't reveal their name tho perhaps one could put two and two together as to who it may have been; maybe she wants to move on and I don't blame her. It's her trauma and we should appreciate the fact that she shared her story, as my understanding is that she wasn't originally planning to write about it, it was the last essay she wrote in her book.
I’m not saying that she is doing this but, she could actually be lying to curry sympathy, but she doesn’t want to open herself to a lawsuit by naming names. She has to protect herself. She also has a child to think about as well.
@@milesmayhem5440 To be honest, if she were Black (or Amber Heard ijs), that very much would likely be the conversation right now... "Is she lying for sympathy" But it really does seem like she's just seeking healing and to move forward, not get bogged down in someone else's legal proclivity toward liability
After seeing some of her rounds of interviews, I think she'd soon be gone from Hollywood. Unless she got the MeToo people back her. But if not, now she's just become a problematic actor and producers frown upon that. Sad.
I understand she wants to get the message out, but look at how she dresses. As a Chinese man, I cannot take her seriously and feel it is act for all Asian man to be suddenly attracted to her by creating sexual fantasies in their minds.
The fact she never admitted her comments were wrong about Fresh of the Boat holding her back from real work, just makes me a bit suspicious. I don’t doubt she was harassed, but she might be embellishing to rehabilitate her image by gaining sympathy.
She is so articulate and logical. I could listen to her sharing things all day
I've also watched Constance on The View and Seth Myers. I cried each time. Thank you Constance for sharing your story, and I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm glad you are here with us today. Blessings to you...
She cried each time too I reckon, on cue even.
@@eddierascalhaskell4954 you think she's lying?
You cried each time from watching TV interviews? You might want to look into some therapy. Not judging.
I can't call her a liar but I've seen her give this same interview and say the same thing word for word, and cry on cue at the same moment. I don't like it when people seem too...rehearsed like that. Thats just my opinion. I don't need judgement or admonishments for it.
She wouldn't even give you a bite of her candy bar, if you were dying of hunger.
I'm glad Constance Wu shared her story. Storytelling is an effective way to heal and help others who experience the same struggles heal and feel heard, noticed, recognized, acknowledge, and not alone. I learned recently that FINE stands for (Fucked up, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional). So when someone says they're fine, know they're struggling.
Total money making fiction, in her case.
Grateful for the conversation and the openness. Each interview is a chance to model how to normalize these conversations to address the stigma. The continual healing is resonant and genuine--it was felt in the conversation. Thank you Constance and GMA for the piece.
She’s my heroine!!! Wow, thanks for being raw and real!!!! Much love!!!! ❤❤❤❤
It seemed so out of character at the time when Constance tweeted about the Fresh Off the Boat renewal. It makes sense now. Thank you for sharing Constance.
What does it mean when just saying how you feel is deemed "out of character"?
Like, it seems more like she just changed her opinion. Her character didn't change; she didn't do anything wrong.
Strong woman. It takes courage to show our vulnerability.
Bravo you brave & strong woman of integrity! A true gift of inspiration to many women of all ages
She sounds like a very nice person, well done Constance for speaking out about mental health that takes a lot and I hugely respect you for that ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love her,l'm happy that the world didn't loose your bright smile,just keep doing what you do best and don't let anyone negative words pull you down,love life 😊😎
Cancel or un-cancel, it doesn't matter. You make your on path and keep moving. The ones who judged you the most are your very own kind. You know who I'm talking about, not going to mention their names. Them Clowns have hypocritically spew their venom on every platform they can get on. The sad thing is that, it just proves their very own insecurities about their own lives. Stay up and Stay Strong lady...free yourself and "F" all that Noise.
she looks so much younger than her actual age.
I've always loved her
Just go, talk, be honest. YES
Too many compassionless East Asians still coming after her. I genuinely didn't see anything wrong with the comments she made. She doesn't owe the viewers anything (I am a FOTB fan btw). It is very common in East Asian culture to not believe in paying attention to mental health.
Being in the public eye is such a double edged sword. People want to relate to you on the big screen but you can't have a regular human moment??! I mean she's an artist with different projects who was on a series for 6 years. Why was it a mistake to share her honest opinion in those tweets? Obviously there was something deeper that made her express her desire to not go back to that show gee, perhaps because she had been harassed and threatened....?! Mamma Mia! I'm so glad I left that industry, one minute you're riding high and everyone's happy with you and you're on top of the world and the next minute they want to cut you down and take you out and you'll see the true nature of human beings during that time, believe me, it's not pretty. And quite honestly it's one of the most painful things you can go through because you realize just how selfish and cruel most people are inside. They only appear to be nice when you are feeding their agenda, serving their needs and fulfilling your part of the dynamic. They act like they are your friends, claim to be your "family" but when you have a normal, down moment, or go through something rough, they turn on you. Been there done that and not in any way as large as the status she had... so yep ..glad I am outta that world of entertainment. I wish ladies would have been less competitive and more supportive when I was in the industry. We could have shared about all the "me too" harassments we each encountered regularly instead of hiding them and pretending it didn't bother us. Women need to be taught and believe they have VALUE just as they are...not only when the outside world validates them.
Yeah… lesson learned. Stay off social media if you can’t stand criticism.
Salute to you Constance! ❤❤❤❤❤
Someone needs to hold this producer accountable
@Crack Shot more wrong has done to her than her promoting her story.
@Crack Shot sure, why not. Too many victims are silenced. It’s about time more victims come forward to share their story. #MeToo
@Crack Shot how do you know for a fact her experience is untrue?
@Crack Shotthat’s like saying you don’t believe in atoms and gravity because you can’t see them.
@Crack Shot honestly, why not both? She could be telling a true painful experience but also selling her book at the same time. There is no conflict in that. Maybe the producer thought they were flirting but took it too far? who knows? If you have saw her other interviews, you could at least tell that the emotions were real.
TJ looks especially hot today DANG
Honestly didn’t know she had been canceled.
She did. After that tweet, she disappeared until now. Literally, she disappeared from the spotlight for years.
she has been treated very unfairly. So sad that hollywood won't cast her anymore.
I know it's a completely different morning show n' network, but consider this: T. J. Holmes basically has the exact same job, that Matt Lauer had, on the Today show! Just think on that for a second.
I am astonished by the deft kindness, human empathy and true, deep compassion he is able to manifest, despite reaching to the heart of some very hurtful experiences n' moments in Constance's life. Yet, at no time does he ever shrink back from asking the pointed questions that get to the root of 'the why's and how's' or the aftermath, of the harassment Constance went thru.
Hats off to both of the GMA hosts in this video, and the entire team behind them! (part of my brain cannot help but wonder what twisted n' somehow 'victim blaming' path Matt Lauer would of managed to twist this interview down!) His infamous interviews with the likes of Tom Cruise among many others, so strange to look back on, with the revealing light that hindsight gives us.
Maybe, fingers crossed, time will bury our memory of abusers like Matt who lorded so much power over colleagues, while at the same time jealously hogging the glory that the anchor position on influential news shows afford (not to mention the 7 figure salary it afforded him!)
So many years ago. Say the name of the abuser so other girls can be aware and be protected.
She is doing great promoting her book.
❤
👏👏👏👏👏👏
Wondering who is the alleged Producer. Shall we dig into Peres Hilton , Deux Moi, or Entertainment Lawyer Enty internet to know who he is?
Woo Hustler
Oh, a book AND a movie coming out...🤔
Why would you feel guilty if you were being harassed on set?
You cannot chalk up sexual abuse or assault to “we all screw up sometimes” THAT is why you would be cancelled…
Family choice hustler
🇨🇳🇨🇦
still dont know why make plenty of money and then still suicide?? Jesus
The book has no karate action.
I would love to know who was that actress that bullied her like that!
She's missing the point of not naming the perpetrator that there could be other victims. I"m ok with her not naming which actress told her to go kill herself, i'm not ok with her not naming the one who sexually harassed her.
4 simple words, it is her choice. Some may consider it selfish, but also sometimes it's time to be a little selfish.
Healing is selfish. Does that mean we should stop healing? (Rhetorical question, the answer is No.)
At the end of the day, that's her personal decision, not ours. The person should be lucky Constance didn't reveal their name tho perhaps one could put two and two together as to who it may have been; maybe she wants to move on and I don't blame her. It's her trauma and we should appreciate the fact that she shared her story, as my understanding is that she wasn't originally planning to write about it, it was the last essay she wrote in her book.
Amen!
I’m not saying that she is doing this but, she could actually be lying to curry sympathy, but she doesn’t want to open herself to a lawsuit by naming names. She has to protect herself. She also has a child to think about as well.
@@milesmayhem5440 To be honest, if she were Black (or Amber Heard ijs), that very much would likely be the conversation right now... "Is she lying for sympathy"
But it really does seem like she's just seeking healing and to move forward, not get bogged down in someone else's legal proclivity toward liability
Crazy rich Asians ???
After seeing some of her rounds of interviews, I think she'd soon be gone from Hollywood. Unless she got the MeToo people back her. But if not, now she's just become a problematic actor and producers frown upon that. Sad.
I understand she wants to get the message out, but look at how she dresses. As a Chinese man, I cannot take her seriously and feel it is act for all Asian man to be suddenly attracted to her by creating sexual fantasies in their minds.
you can't be serious 🤡
don't blame a beautiful woman for how she dresses just because you can't handle your sexually twisted mind.
you need help
No, she always belonged to white dudes...
Wtf that’s messed up.
I hope this doesn't turn into Amber Heard 2.0
Yes, because she named someone and there’s a court case. You sound stupid. You people sound gay for Johnny depp btw.
The fact she never admitted her comments were wrong about Fresh of the Boat holding her back from real work, just makes me a bit suspicious. I don’t doubt she was harassed, but she might be embellishing to rehabilitate her image by gaining sympathy.
@@majorlazor5058 ditto. lowkey feel like this was just to rescue her image
This is image rehab...plain and simple
This woman is all about self-promotion.
Way to shame someone who almost committed suicide. Dick.
Very true.
Fame is a drug. Could you resist it?