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Message I needed today around dismantling black excellence. I offered something publicly recently and although it turned out okay, it was not what I envisioned. I was being too hard on myself because of high-expectations. Black excellence is a trap!!!
I have been a Tarot reader professionally for 10 years this year, and everything you are saying in my experience has been true. I have had business cards and marketing materials and websites but none of that did a thing like doing those reading and serving those clients has.
68° in January😮 that's perfect weather with a low of 46° sounds wonderful as long as the wind isn't blowing🥶.. I know what it feels like being closer to the sun... sunburn and it's only 74° outside in Seattle 😂😂
My branding and website brought me clients. People could see my work, share my website and so on. I'm pro branding, but I agree with you on many points Stephanie. Branding isn't everything, but it helps.
Geesh, this was so good! I wish I'd caught it live! I'm actually still making my way through it but have stopped it a few times to really absorb what was being said. Thank you, Stephanie for calling out black excellence and highlighting how perfectionism implies that we are less-than and unworthy. It IS anti-black and your words shook me differently today. Also, speaking on the fear of failure. I can understand the logic of the child who is praised for doing something so well the first time that they are afraid to do it again for fear of failing/coming up short - that's interesting. I know that I (while growing up) was never encouraged to keep trying nor was given any validation when I attempted to do things when they fell short of my expectations... And so, my fear (and hence, my procrastination in putting things out there) stemmed from me not believing in myself and being afraid that no one would care about or support my efforts. Watching a great video like this helps me analyze myself - so thank you for holding up mirrors and for giving pep/truth talks!
The sacrificing wants for going after shoulds really hit me. Anyway the information here and what I’ve been absorbing through binge watching your content lately😂 is really life changing. Excited to get into the work. Going through a coaching program at the moment and can’t wait to start working with clients. I might be a last minute sign up for this challenge 😅 Also - for the bite that keeps opening - next time it reopens get some tegaderm for it just like for a tattoo. It helps me not pick at mine while healing fast.
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Message I needed today around dismantling black excellence. I offered something publicly recently and although it turned out okay, it was not what I envisioned. I was being too hard on myself because of high-expectations. Black excellence is a trap!!!
Did all this last year. Rebranded ... spending money without clients cuz "it's a business expense" ... *sigh. Girl, preach.
This is pure gold. Thank you so much 💛
Black excellence thing is so stifling and hard to detox from. I'm still working through my unlearning process.
I have been a Tarot reader professionally for 10 years this year, and everything you are saying in my experience has been true. I have had business cards and marketing materials and websites but none of that did a thing like doing those reading and serving those clients has.
How do we find you?
❤❤ thank you in advance...
Greetings and salutations from Hawaii 🌈! Stephanie, I hope you do some videos on you chose Bogota, Colombia 🇨🇴 over Costa Rica 🇨🇷 🥹 ♊️ 👩🏽 🌟 🌍 👽 🛸
Such EXCELLENT content in this video. Thank you, Stephanie.
Waitttt! You're thinking about living in Bogota!? That my next stop in Colombia
Found your other channel. Hi! New subscriber 😊
Great video. ALL the parts. 😁
Thank you! 💗
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Your network is your net worth! 😏 ♊️ 👩🏽 🌟 🌍 👽 🛸
My Goodness Stephanie! All in my business!
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68° in January😮 that's perfect weather with a low of 46° sounds wonderful as long as the wind isn't blowing🥶..
I know what it feels like being closer to the sun... sunburn and it's only 74° outside in Seattle 😂😂
My branding and website brought me clients. People could see my work, share my website and so on. I'm pro branding, but I agree with you on many points Stephanie. Branding isn't everything, but it helps.
Geesh, this was so good! I wish I'd caught it live! I'm actually still making my way through it but have stopped it a few times to really absorb what was being said. Thank you, Stephanie for calling out black excellence and highlighting how perfectionism implies that we are less-than and unworthy. It IS anti-black and your words shook me differently today. Also, speaking on the fear of failure. I can understand the logic of the child who is praised for doing something so well the first time that they are afraid to do it again for fear of failing/coming up short - that's interesting. I know that I (while growing up) was never encouraged to keep trying nor was given any validation when I attempted to do things when they fell short of my expectations... And so, my fear (and hence, my procrastination in putting things out there) stemmed from me not believing in myself and being afraid that no one would care about or support my efforts. Watching a great video like this helps me analyze myself - so thank you for holding up mirrors and for giving pep/truth talks!
The best roller skaters were the ones who fell and got right back up again.
Hi from the future.☀ This was so helpful! Thank you!
I'm glad! You're welcome. 💗
Greetings
I’ve been to Cartagena and Pallimino Columbia. Now I want to visit there and Cali Columbia!
The sacrificing wants for going after shoulds really hit me. Anyway the information here and what I’ve been absorbing through binge watching your content lately😂 is really life changing. Excited to get into the work. Going through a coaching program at the moment and can’t wait to start working with clients. I might be a last minute sign up for this challenge 😅
Also - for the bite that keeps opening - next time it reopens get some tegaderm for it just like for a tattoo. It helps me not pick at mine while healing fast.
Also I didn’t realize bogota was like 3000ft higher altitude than Denver! Whaaat 😮
Hey Stephanie! Your comment about the faceless 15 year old got me to switch from my faceless account to the channel I actually use lol.
I think "social proof" would be a better word that validation 🤔
When you’re having hot flashes like me, those temperatures sound glorious to me. 🥹🥰