The marriage expert is right, men have now to redefine what a man is since its no longer just being a provider. Damn! We must be supportive to our men it can't be easy to redefine what's been for centuries.
The skit is playing out a real life event that people go through, I actually enjoy this show, it goes beyond just talk they role play to bring in an element of reality.
A joint account is important. A percentage of money goes in there and the rest is your own. That money I’m the joint account goes towards big purchases and fees
If i get married to a man with a voice like that I swear! I will never in my life give him trouble, for he will be king and he shall use that voice to put me in my place. Aaa!
Owami's ex husband yooooh lol 🤣. Im glad she decided not to try to change him or change for him because she was going to be left crying anyway. I think he would have probably cheated or would have done so anyway when he asked her to quite being a TH-camr. People cheat ultimately because they want to.
Absolutely, I definitely handle finances differently from my single mom and I think this is, to great extent, due to our different temperaments (personality traits). So I think understanding your partners temperament is vital because this speaks to how they react to things and situations, what is likely to excite them, etc and that can give you indications of how they are most likely to handle/deal with finances. That's my personal take on the matter.
She's right somehow. Your being a saver is a reaction and contrast to your background. For others like me, my finances is a response... Most importantly, it is better to marry someone who is filled with the Holy Spirit because he is the perfect mediator who inspires each person in the relationship to grow towards the perfect image of Christ... So yeah, being born again gives you a new beginning! I'm working with God towards a new and better financial story and wellbeing.
I think couples should open a joint account for only savings. Once the Budgeted expenses have been paid, have equal spending allowance in each of your own accounts for whatever
I once dated a guy who paid R10000 instalment for a Ford Ranger and he was always broke, his card declined 2 days after pay day at Pizza Hut and I knew i was not ready for that.
Openness to the level of Finances in marriage its a MUST. When we met he wasn't working. When he got the job we earned the same with time and change at my work I earned more. Then we were on and off, complaining about everything. Long story short we parted ways cause our fiance's was in shambles...
Eish it's so conflicting,? I think men have a bit of a hard time accepting women making more, it just causes chaos... Don't even understand why bcz if all the household expenses are taken care of (50/50 or 60/40)whatever is agreed upon, why are we fighting?...
Talked about Finances pre marriage.Marriage began and completely different story only his priorities mattered.So split the finances and it works out just fine.We both get our priorities done.
This thing also looks like it depends on the kind of person you're dealing with, ga e batle bo kleva, it just needs fairness, discipline and some maturity...
Starting early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth,investing remains the priority. Forex trading has plenty of opportunities to earn a decent payout,with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works
Great show. Money and marriage 🤑. Different strokes for different people. What works for one couple will not work for the next. Interesting show indeed. Ninja I'm here!
I think she is talking about her experiences. Unfortunately, he was a LARGE part of her adult life and the nature of their relationship meant they were together ALL the time. So he will unforturnately always come up when she talks about her life.
My husband and I wanted to have a joint account but it really didn’t work, I have 6 streams of income, he also has. Money doesn’t come in in one day. I think it works better with people who have just one income. It’s really not a bad idea afterall
Men definitely have to redefine themselves and their roles for this generation and generations to come instead of trying to force women to live like their elders before them!!!
Wooo guys if you are married and think that you have to do things secretly... hai and from experience those that say heeeeee I want to "surprise" you for sure they will always surprise you and not in a good way Hehehehe. There's a way around it. You can withdraw money and just lie about what it is for or even lie that your friend needs to borrow money and surprise me. Unfortunately, most who have secret money are up to no good with it heheehe
It's a lot of Admin to be monitoring my partners spending habits tjo! Hai I can't. We have a goal, we have responsibilities, meet those goals and we are happy, what you do with your money is your business, as long as the basics and goals are addressed. Imagine having to monitor transactions, I'll go mad😂😂😂. Again I say it's different for different people and I totally get the men's view on the element of surprise.
@@modileshikoane8174 for unforseen situations there can be an account that both parties will agree to. It is not everything that has to be joint. I doubt banks offer joint accounts anymore. Either way, my principle is trust and communication. Until that is broken, I'll stick to keeping things as simple as can be. I don't want to be micro managed and I don't want to micro manage.
@@swazi4769 I totally get it, micro managing each other's finances is a sure way to suffocate individuality, as long as the household/ dual expenses are taken care of, can we just spar in our individuality
Black men always afraid of commitment. Can you just be great. You don’t Always have to operate on the bare minimum. It’s a result of father-less models of models of marriage
@@lethabomarota7414 we actually do. Its bigger than 'black men" ita abt our herirage and race as blck ppl. U woulf never hear other race( s) uttering such , because they are comfortable alone while we always think dating outside is' better'. Forgeting the exterior of the black man's being due to resideu of racism/imperialism same with black woman. As a black woman i pride myself in my heritage thus i will never acknowledge ' mixed race ' love bcz I am conscious enough to know our problems as q black nation.Also very telling how its always black ppl at the forefront of dating outside topics more than any other race claiming black women are easy to love....
Great convo but I feel like the presenter was cutting their answers short. .. even before they could finish making a point he was already moving on to the next question or interjecting 🙁
I honestly understand the guy who say “allow me to have my independence” it doesn’t mean when you don’t have a joint bank account then the marriage won’t work
Prayer and honesty is very important in marriage if you want an open relationship or polygamy tell the person when you ask them out ,be honest to them rather lose that 1 because she is not your one and find your one she is out there.Infidelity is disgusting and it's hurtful and ruins so many lives and relationship and you can lose all your money and never have what you had financially forever ,you can lose your kids .Why cheat when you can have a happy polygomous marriage a happy polygomous family .A Happy open relationship it all starts in the beginning Madoda ibani Honest menishela .I also don't like dishonest cheating women don't abuse our brothers .
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I'm here for Owamie!!❤
I'm here for my Ninja
Hey Ninjass😍😍💃
I love the woman owami is becoming ❤️❤️❤️
Wow wow *clap for yourselves* I’m so proud of this especially Africans talking about money. Financial literacy 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The marriage expert is right, men have now to redefine what a man is since its no longer just being a provider. Damn! We must be supportive to our men it can't be easy to redefine what's been for centuries.
Lol when its the same men who constructed what it is to be men ( money) now they cant provide, who must change it, us women🙄
@@houseofentertainment7243 😂🤣😂😂😂🤣man😭😭
@@houseofentertainment7243 as if we were all there when that was defined?
Who is supporting woman? We've come a long way as woman with all the struggles we've had to endure.
@@houseofentertainment7243 doesn't make sense. They come across one small hurdle and we must come running and save them. Ha aaaah...
Malome Mdu's voice👌👌👌👌🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I thought I was the only one hearing it. Whooooo🥵
Yuuuh🙆🏻♀️🥺🥺
It’s that “baby do you trust me “ 😂😂😂💔
Ninja signing in🤣
Beautiful show dealing with real issues. Owamie couldn't have unpacked the financial struggles and solutions better.
Well done Ninja!!😘✌♥️
The skit is playing out a real life event that people go through, I actually enjoy this show, it goes beyond just talk they role play to bring in an element of reality.
A joint account is important. A percentage of money goes in there and the rest is your own. That money I’m the joint account goes towards big purchases and fees
If i get married to a man with a voice like that I swear! I will never in my life give him trouble, for he will be king and he shall use that voice to put me in my place. Aaa!
😂😂😂😂😂😂 please behave yourself. Dead
🤣🤣🤣🤣bathong
😂😂😂😂 the Thirst is real 😂😂🤣🤣
Haike haike 🤣
@@afro-fairydezigns2780 its not thirst, i'm just being honest. I cant marry someone whose voice is gonna annoy me.
"Not about the broke life" Dankie Ninja !😄😄
I am here for my ninja Owamie.
Love the way Mpho pops is doing this thing
Mduduzi’s voice tone bathong😌
Rhali rhali😜😜
Yenzama wololo😛
I’m here for Owamie😊❤️
Owami's ex husband yooooh lol 🤣. Im glad she decided not to try to change him or change for him because she was going to be left crying anyway.
I think he would have probably cheated or would have done so anyway when he asked her to quite being a TH-camr.
People cheat ultimately because they want to.
Thank God for the TH-cam upload because I didn't catch it on sabc 2
GOSHIIIIII SAY THAT AGAIN 👊👊👊
Please don't look at my family to ascertain my posture on finances. I'm a saver and my family isn't. It's really an individual thing.
Exactly! She should have rather said what kind of goals you have, what you deem important etc
Absolutely, I definitely handle finances differently from my single mom and I think this is, to great extent, due to our different temperaments (personality traits). So I think understanding your partners temperament is vital because this speaks to how they react to things and situations, what is likely to excite them, etc and that can give you indications of how they are most likely to handle/deal with finances.
That's my personal take on the matter.
She's right somehow. Your being a saver is a reaction and contrast to your background. For others like me, my finances is a response...
Most importantly, it is better to marry someone who is filled with the Holy Spirit because he is the perfect mediator who inspires each person in the relationship to grow towards the perfect image of Christ...
So yeah, being born again gives you a new beginning! I'm working with God towards a new and better financial story and wellbeing.
@@ngreat4390 beautiful comment. The Holy Spirit is the best financial advisor❤
Ninja nation kindly Invite our ninja again. Subscribed because of Owamie.
I think couples should open a joint account for only savings. Once the Budgeted expenses have been paid, have equal spending allowance in each of your own accounts for whatever
I came here for Owamie and then I'm seeing my favret Asanda and Mahlodi from the other show whatcumacalit😃 I love this ! Just subscribed
I was so happy to see Asanda and Mahlodi❤️❤️, iv been watching them from other show
@@bulelwabulie9013 😁they have grown hey and look happy
Here for Owamie honestly,,, I've learnt something from all the other guests as well and it's safe to say I'm not ready for marriage
Thank you my Ninjas 🥷 for your endless support ❤️
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They must invite you again, didn't get enough... you look amazing Girl! 👏
Always Wami❤️❤️❤️
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Nagana! Move back into the backroom?! Mr B was insane
Dude, imagine 😳yoh. That man was insane, who wants to go backwards
Why on earth should you have a joint account? You can discuss and share but individuality and indepence is key.
A very fruitful session, thank you 🙌
The lady in black is thinking like I have to be brave enough to walk away like owamie
My thoughts exactly
They already went to save our marriage on sabc 3.
@@Refimonde I hope his working now
But then again the case of Owami is a little bit different Big guy cheated
Asanda,l and Mathodi, good to see you here guys. You looking great, blessed couple you are💕❤️
Woww this show is actually very helpful!! Good for us the singles!👌🏾💯
We are just here for Owami
I could listen to Mdu all day
How come I never watched this show, Wow I love the energy in the room and all advices given , Il definitely stay tuned on Sunday
Ninja nation’ I’m here for Owami
Hello Ninjas 😁😁😁
An honest struggle in marriage indeed 😩... I've learnt alot even from the comments.
When Mdu started talking... Omg😍
Me looking at owami's dress 🔥❤️and checking what wrong about it and on what exactly the ex husband complained 👀👀👀🥴🥴
😂🤣
It's just jealous why the hell is he still watching her
@@sbaniominathi8803 i wonder
@Queen Dorcas so mo guy is still watching her things? 🤔😂😂😂😂
@@GodsFavourite2024 i am telling 1st viewer secret fan 😂
A very beautiful version of owami you look stunning 🥰🥰🥰
I once dated a guy who paid R10000 instalment for a Ford Ranger and he was always broke, his card declined 2 days after pay day at Pizza Hut and I knew i was not ready for that.
Openness to the level of Finances in marriage its a MUST.
When we met he wasn't working. When he got the job we earned the same with time and change at my work I earned more.
Then we were on and off, complaining about everything.
Long story short we parted ways cause our fiance's was in shambles...
Eish it's so conflicting,? I think men have a bit of a hard time accepting women making more, it just causes chaos... Don't even understand why bcz if all the household expenses are taken care of (50/50 or 60/40)whatever is agreed upon, why are we fighting?...
Talked about Finances pre marriage.Marriage began and completely different story only his priorities mattered.So split the finances and it works out just fine.We both get our priorities done.
Ey this chat agh
This thing also looks like it depends on the kind of person you're dealing with, ga e batle bo kleva, it just needs fairness, discipline and some maturity...
"Llena ke tla ba huz-b" ay lantssssss!!! Love it!
I feel like a part 2 is needed with malume Mdu talking more.
His voice🔥😍😍
@@MissOndela 😂😂 Iss too much. I think there is/was more he could have shared
@@MissOndela I will borrow his voice then kkkkkkkkkkkkk
*Life is Easy, it becomes hard when living better than our neighbors becomes our Goal*
Starting early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth,investing remains the priority. Forex trading has plenty of opportunities to earn a decent payout,with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works
Not sure how i found this, but i love it x
I'm here for the voice bathong. He has a very soothing voice ubhuti.
U guys made us wait too long for this please
Great show. Money and marriage 🤑.
Different strokes for different people. What works for one couple will not work for the next.
Interesting show indeed. Ninja I'm here!
Looking beautiful Ninja 😍🔥
As for tsupnaiza😂😂😂😂😭
That's why big guy is dragging the divorce owamie is always talking about him
**rolls eyes ** she can't avoid that. They asking how their marriage was finanually. Uyaphapha
I think she is talking about her experiences. Unfortunately, he was a LARGE part of her adult life and the nature of their relationship meant they were together ALL the time. So he will unforturnately always come up when she talks about her life.
Hau! Ninjas always follow their Ninja kae kapa kae🤣🤣🤔
Dammmmm the financial advisor ur voice Sir....I'm gonna come😭😅😅😅
This is interesting wow
Good show🎉
Not praying at 3am for the woman to bring more money instead of praying to find a job?!
🤣🤣🤣
Imagine!!!!
I thought I was the only one who heard that. I was baffled 😂😂😂
😅😂🤣Hé even said"If she brings money I'm good"
He shocked me this guy ehh 😂😂🤣😖😖😖 like why is he not praying for himself
😂😂🤭 I’m glad Owamie left . He was going to slow down her success
Owamie sent me here😀💃🏾!!
My husband and I wanted to have a joint account but it really didn’t work, I have 6 streams of income, he also has. Money doesn’t come in in one day. I think it works better with people who have just one income. It’s really not a bad idea afterall
Here for Owamie aka Queen Ninja❤
I wish Molome Mdu can speak more sheeesh🔥🔥
Here for my Ninja 😍
Men definitely have to redefine themselves and their roles for this generation and generations to come instead of trying to force women to live like their elders before them!!!
A ninja 🥷🏿 President
This show should at least play for an hour
The couple was on a show ko Sabc 3 last year
Interesting content!
I’m here for owamie 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m going to enjoy this 🥺😭
Amazing episode!! very informative!
I don't think the issue is redefining what being a man is but the issue is dealing with the loss of power and control that being a provider gave men
🇿🇲 this show is good
Wooo guys if you are married and think that you have to do things secretly... hai and from experience those that say heeeeee I want to "surprise" you for sure they will always surprise you and not in a good way Hehehehe. There's a way around it. You can withdraw money and just lie about what it is for or even lie that your friend needs to borrow money and surprise me. Unfortunately, most who have secret money are up to no good with it heheehe
Thank you!!!
im for Owamie the ninja
It's a lot of Admin to be monitoring my partners spending habits tjo! Hai I can't. We have a goal, we have responsibilities, meet those goals and we are happy, what you do with your money is your business, as long as the basics and goals are addressed.
Imagine having to monitor transactions, I'll go mad😂😂😂. Again I say it's different for different people and I totally get the men's view on the element of surprise.
Different strokes, my thing is what happens with unforseen expenses? Do we have a normal household acc and another for unforeseen / emergencies?..
@@modileshikoane8174 for unforseen situations there can be an account that both parties will agree to. It is not everything that has to be joint. I doubt banks offer joint accounts anymore.
Either way, my principle is trust and communication. Until that is broken, I'll stick to keeping things as simple as can be. I don't want to be micro managed and I don't want to micro manage.
@@swazi4769 I totally get it, micro managing each other's finances is a sure way to suffocate individuality, as long as the household/ dual expenses are taken care of, can we just spar in our individuality
Black men always afraid of commitment. Can you just be great. You don’t Always have to operate on the bare minimum. It’s a result of father-less models of models of marriage
@@lethabomarota7414 we actually do. Its bigger than 'black men" ita abt our herirage and race as blck ppl. U woulf never hear other race( s) uttering such , because they are comfortable alone while we always think dating outside is' better'. Forgeting the exterior of the black man's being due to resideu of racism/imperialism same with black woman. As a black woman i pride myself in my heritage thus i will never acknowledge ' mixed race ' love bcz I am conscious enough to know our problems as q black nation.Also very telling how its always black ppl at the forefront of dating outside topics more than any other race claiming black women are easy to love....
Great convo but I feel like the presenter was cutting their answers short. .. even before they could finish making a point he was already moving on to the next question or interjecting 🙁
The experts voice.. Ohh My My My... mhmm..
Hawu Remi Ma, is that you?
The interviewer need to give the guest to air the complete thought, stop cutting them off
Ninja 💃
I'm here for Owami# Ninjanation
Just turned 18 yrs this month and I just realized soon I'll have to make decisions in what I'll put myself into ⚠️
Can I have an hour of this show please
I honestly understand the guy who say “allow me to have my independence” it doesn’t mean when you don’t have a joint bank account then the marriage won’t work
I wish this was longer
The struggle between "do" and "make". In vernac the same word is used but in English... It irks me so much 🤔😅🙄
I don’t like a joint account 📌📌, ae ke sharp
I’m here as a ninja♥️🔥🙂
Ladies I can relate 🤕💔
Malome Mdu👌
Is it me but why are you buying beer when you are unemployed
Lack of priorities.
Stress
A woman will rub it in and make it known that "she earns more"!
A man can also do the same.
Wen did this air?
Hola, Bitso!
Ninjas 💗💗
Prayer and honesty is very important in marriage if you want an open relationship or polygamy tell the person when you ask them out ,be honest to them rather lose that 1 because she is not your one and find your one she is out there.Infidelity is disgusting and it's hurtful and ruins so many lives and relationship and you can lose all your money and never have what you had financially forever ,you can lose your kids .Why cheat when you can have a happy polygomous marriage a happy polygomous family .A Happy open relationship it all starts in the beginning Madoda ibani Honest menishela .I also don't like dishonest cheating women don't abuse our brothers .
In my first 5years of marriage, we had common account, later I realise women are spenders, we were without cash by 15th day of the month
Bruh
No, your wife is a spender and you guys didnt stick to your budget if you did have a budget!!!!
This programmer is supposed to be on catchup so that most of the people can have access to it.