“What did you do to provoke him?” is what my mother said to me when she found out my father sexually abused me from the ages of 4 to 10. Those words she spoke hurt just as much as what my father did to me.
So sorry to hear what your mother said.😔 My second husband called my son a bad word one day. From that second on I despised him and filed for divorce. I could not live with a man(?) like that. Hope your life is better now.
I get it. You start to question if it's what you wore, said or did. Then, it's your fault you didn't fight back enough. Hugs and understanding sent your way. Telling a adult that another adult is hurting you should never lead back to you being the problem. Years of therapy and I still have small doubts come back from time to time, but in my right mind I know the adult was the problem
When you know a child is being abused and you report it, repeatedly, and social services does nothing...I can fully understand why the other parent “kidnaps” their own child and flees into hiding.
I was friends with a girl in middle school who, now that I look back, was in that situation. After we really bonded she confided to me that social services was after her family and she did not want to be taken from her mom and aunt who lived with my friend. We were in Tennessee and she talked about moving every year or so. We met in 7th grade and my naive friends and I assumed we would at least attend some of high school together with her. I think her family got nervous because by the end of our 8th grade school year she was moving to Pennsylvania. I spent the night at her home many times and it was a safe, happy, and healthy environment. We still keep up with each other and I noticed the moving around stopped once she turned 18 as she was youngest of her mom's 2 kids.
It became common in the U S for children to claim abuse when they had minor infractions of rules of the household that the children didn’t want to follow. Any time a child was angry about a punishment, something as simple as taking away a toy or sending them to their room for a brief TimeOut, the children would tell teachers or other adult that the parent was violent. Many parents either were or were close to being jailed on abuse charges. Far too many children actually are abused, but there is an other set of children who cry wolf to get their own way.
CPS is so badly broken and backlogged there is little hope. We must start educating our children very young about what abuse looks like and to tell everyone about it, all the time. And, Jehovahs Witnesses are a cult, secluded and exclusionary cults should not be foster parents, ever.
One of the children I taught was almost drowned in the bath. She disclosed this and the social workers sent her back. I don’t have much respect for them
I sat in jail with a woman who was accused of drowning her 2 year old. It was two months after my son passed away from sudden infant death syndrome. She showed no remorse. In fact, she watched me and seemed to copy the cycles I went through emotionally. She prayed on me. When guards checked our cell one night they found these note books. Filled with my exact words my regrets my prayers and thoughts. Only..... with her name and personal twist on it. She was convicted. But looking back, a teacher reported her for other issues and no one stepped in. And it costed a life. If you suspect, report. We need more people in this world who will.
It happens too often. When I ran away from home and told the authorities what my dad was doing to me they tried to send me back. I flat out refused to return, but the cycle of foster homes was awful.
Sometimes there's only so much social workers can do. It's absolutely frustrating which makes me want to become one to fully understand how this happens. A good family friend lost their grand baby to abuse. She was hospitalized on more than one occasion and the last time was 2 broken legs (18months old) she was sent back to the mother who's boyfriend was abusing the baby and I'm not sure the mother was fully there either. And then a short time later she died. Absolutely gut wrenching. They knew she was being abused and they couldn't give her to the real dad because of stupid reasons which I'm not totally sure. I think the dad was financially unstable. But the grandparents fought for custody and couldn't get it. 😔
What angers me most is that, to this day, people associated with my parents still say ignorant crap like "Oh, well they LOVED you SO much" or "why can't you focus on the good things they did instead?" I was adopted as a"'project ripe for 'saving'" into a cult family of sociopaths, and their friends and the rest of the 'family' continue to cover for them. If you talk about what they did, you're just being problematic and 'causing trouble' and embarrassing THEM, and shame on you for not showing gratitude. When a child tells you their parents are hurting them, do NOT add insult to injury and tell children "well that's just how they show love."
@@debralucas2224 It's hard to know the difference between people who are 'intentionally' monstrous and those who are just lazy/neglectful/hostile by habit. It's the fact that they can be nice when they want something from you, or to be 'seen' doing things 'for you' that gets really weird. But overall, I'm okay--they mostly just ignore me now. :) But thank you. Not being believed as a kid was the worst part of it. Now their fancy underwear and blindness feel almost like a novelty since i can observe from the outside... or not watch at all :)
lngrid Fong-Daley What a ridiculous thing to say to a child when they were the victim. There is no excuse in the book that could warrant this sick behavior. I wish them dead bcs they never can be cured, ever!!!!!
Two of them used those exact words. The fact that there are monsters like this out there... OMG it's terrifying. Bless these people, I hope they can get some help.
I have no doubt my mother was/is pure evil, yes it deeply effected me, the things that brings me great joy are children when they are happy, loved, but I can see those who have been, are being hurt, it hurts my soul so much, I try my best to give that child a smile, a kind word, a compliment if I can a hug, bc I no how much those simple things ment to me when I was a child , hoping they feel honest love, feel pretty, just feel good even if just for a moment , I ask God to look after them, pray they find true happiness & kindness. There really are quite a few horrendous parents, just bc they can have a child does not mean they should, doesn't mean they should be able to keep them either
@@cmont4064 It’s wonderful that you have such a kind heart after putting up with an evil mother. I do too. I would never tell anyone that they “should kill themselves” like the evil woman I had for a “mother “. No matter how much I disliked them. “Parents “ like mine should have been sterilized when they were young. The damage they cause can sometimes be irreparable.
That first one, Chris’s foster mother even looks evil!! You can see it in her eyes! I grew up with a loving caring mother and father…. It broke me when my mum died of cancer
my upbringing was horrific. time heals all wounds we are told. well at 58 now i become more and more angry over it. why. it cheated me from a whole life thinking everyone else is better than you. I have a grandaughter. i did not know i could even love another human this much. she is 4 and just plain wonderful.
I'm sorry for the pain you're still dealing with. I'm 45, and completely understand where you're coming from. My entire life before I got married, at 17, was pure misery. On every level of abuse possible. Both parents, are narcissistic monsters. Yet, with the love of my husband, my children, grandbabies and the unmeasurable love I have for them, I survive. 💕
My mother wasn't quite like these stories, but she never felt love and suffered mental abuse, some physical... She's never gotten over it... She hasn't ever really talked about it.... I'm 42 now, she met my dad when she was 16 and he's worshiped the ground she's walked ever since... They adore each other 50odd years later and I couldn't live and respect them more than I do... We know she finds it hard to this day to accept love and never wants to 'trouble' anyone... I honestly couldn't imagine a more perfect human than my mother, morally, she would take a secret anyone have her to the grave.. She's so trust worthy unusual honestly I wish I could be half the person she is... But my dad and I won't ever forgive her parents for what they did... At least she's been surrounded by love ever since they got engaged... And always will
Oh I meant to say. My mum feels like that too... That feeling if not wanting to trouble ppl comes from being made to feel less than... I'm sorry you suffered similar upbringing... You're better than they ever could be.
I had a foster mom, she’s just like Eunice. She still is till this day because of her facade. It’s taken me a long time to heal and begin to move past it. I’m 22 now, and I’ve accepted the fact she will never be sorry. She had such a hold over me, but not anymore. If justice won’t find her here on earth, it’ll find her somewhere else. She did everything to destroy my sisters and I. But she didn’t, she lost in the end.
I would like to come here and say that these stories alone have pushed me to look into filing a civil lawsuit against my abuser. It all happened over 20 years ago and I’m finally ready to take this step. To Daniel, if you ever see this, Thank you Sincerely A survivor ♥️
My dad passed away when I was 10. I’m 45 now and I still get tears when I think of him. My mom was very mean and abusive to us 3 older kids (there were 4 of us). He left my mom and took us away from her. After he died we had to go back to live with my mom and the abuse got worse and he wasn’t there to protect us anymore. When I was 14 my youngest sister was 5 and my mom hadn’t hurt yet. My little sister was in kindergarten and a bus picked her up for school. One morning my mom got upset because my sister wasn’t ready and was going to miss her bus. I was just leaving for school too. My mom yelled at my 5 year old sister to hurry up. She missed her bus and my mom picked her up and threw her on the floor. I told my mom I’ll walk her to school. I didn’t take her to school instead I ran away with her. No way was I going to let my mom abuse her the way she abused us. We hung out at the mall all day until I could think of what to do. I had no money and she was getting hungry so we went to a grocery store and I was going to steal something for her to eat. I stole a chocolate bar for her and I got caught for it. I told the security guard why I stole it. He called the police and I told the police everything that happened that day. I didn’t get charged and the police call child services and we were put in a foster home. The social workers went to my moms and picked up my brother and other sister that day. We were lucky that the foster homes we lived in were good homes with good and caring people. I miss my dad every day. I wish my kids could’ve known him.
My dad tried to protect me from my stepmother. She was evil. I do think she was a bit crazy too. I was v angry towards my father for years. Not now. Whereas i still loathe my stepmother. People think i am harsh and unforgiving. I am. Some things are not forgivable.
Daniel’s father is just as guilty as his step mother. What kind of father allows that stuff to happen- never mind participates in that? I don’t even have words. Each and every one of thee stories is horrendous. :(
@@gigig6021 society doesn’t take the subject seriously, this poor man who died covered in scars couldn’t get help obviously, society shames a man who’s abused by a woman to the point even police doesn’t take it seriously
I WISH nobody had to be subjected disgusting behaviour like child abuse. It's awful. These kids deserved to have a childhood with loving, caring and nurturing parents/guardians. My heart goes out to them. 💚
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I became a guardian, so not all foster parents are like this, however because of the abuse I endured I couldn't take this child anymore, she was and probably is very abusive, it was like she was a carbon copy of her great grandmother. I thought by me taking this child in, I might be able to save her from herself and give her the tools to be a better person, sadly the damage was done and unlike me she wanted to stay the victim, for her you dont have stories & lies to tell if you are not a victim. Her teacher said the same thing. Every 6 months she would cause such grief to her foster parents so she had to leave. This child was my great niece, probably too close to the situation. Our rules are that the child must keep in touch with their family, on this occasion it was the biggest mistake and it didnt matter what I did to help or protect this child I was constantly being undermined. Maybe she felt it strange that we didn't yell at her or beat her, but she was never going to get that from us. I would have loved to have someone be nice to me. Yep I felt guilty for sending her away, but I had to do it for myself and try to heal again, which I did with the support of my husband and daughters. I refuse to be a victim I am a survivor.
The system is a joke. I remember a teacher called about on my mother. The social worker said she didn't believe me. At the end of our conversation, she said we (the kids) did something to deserve it. I knew then it was no point in telling anymore. Even family members who found out did nothing. They only said "That's your mother." or "That's my sister." They were so proud of her compared to themselves. She was articulate, poised, successful career, appeared soft spoken, sweet, graceful, and well mannered kids. This is why I don't deal with any of them anymore. I learned family are those who have your best interest, not relatives.
This makes me appreciate my mom and dad so much . This is one of the horrific things so called human beings do to small innocent children that I will never understand.
@@beefstew4698 lol they will my mom and dad have both passed from cancer but they were both amazing, we were poor but so so loved. Don't worry we all get at an age where we think back on the good things and love our parents more for it!
It's sad how often abuse perpetrated by women isn't taken seriously. I was severely abused for years and many people in my community told me i probably deserved it and that i should try to get along better with my mother. She scoffed at the idea of having cops or cps called on her, knowing she'd get off scot free. We haven't spoken in 6 years and i still feel the effects of the trauma.
Me also, emotional, physical torture and sexual abuse, from a few sources. I can't understand how the teachers are not aware something is going on. In my case, my teachers also despised me for not ever having lunch or a coat, knowing I was spending all play time cowering in corners, the rags I wore etc...i can't have any kind of relationship with my mother either but it's OK we don't have to.
I'm sorry, but if I was the neighbor and knew these children was being harmed. I would do anything to help these children and I would probably be on the show fear thy neighbor when I got done with these evil witches!!
SAME!!!!! I don’t understand the thought process of encouraging the children to advocate for themselves, when they themselves were too spineless to do it. Those neighbors needed to step up and call the authorities and physically remove those children. Like WTF?!?!
Man... watching this as a father is horrendous. My son is at school right now but the second he gets home I'm going to give him an enormous hug and a cookie and tell him I'm proud of him.
Lol don't hug him too much, he will think you have cancer and you're just scared to tell. I never huh my son 🤭🤞🏿 no way, he would just get worried and start imagining things. Bt then again, I'm all African, we have our ways 🥰✊🏿
I couldn’t contain my tears for Katrina. The fact that she had a child that she could love like no one ever loved her and finally being loved back. May life keep giving them all strength to keep moving forward.
My mother sent me away to boarding school/home.when I told her I was being molested,I was,just about 6 years old. She wanted to kill me, and was extremely abusive. And blamed me. My childhood was horrible. But I'm a survivor now. She died 3 years ago . And I didn't cry. I forgave her and kiss her goodbye😢
Unlike you I will not ever forgive or truly forget the damage that was done to me. I didn't shed a tear when she died, but I had to see her to make sure she was gone, unfortunately I told her she cannot hurt me anymore, how wrong I was as she told all and sundry lies so they would believe her not me. I found out about three years ago, now I will not speak to or have anything to do with family except my own family I made. I was beaten because of something someone else did, had a huge bruise on my hip, yet when I told the teacher they phoned my mother only to be told that I must have done it myself and that I was lying. I have never trusted a teacher since, well except my daughter as she is a teacher. But she is so loving and caring without stepping over the mark. and will do anything to protect those kids
@@caralinehowden2951 it wasn't until recently that I started remembering things that I had blocked out or had simply forgotten after a serious head injuries I lost 75% of my memory because I smashed my hippocampus and had the top part of my head cut completely off so I had severe memory loss following many surgeries to come and lots of medication and rehabilitation.. but I'm starting to remember things mostly about my mother and I realized she was mentally ill to have put me through the things that she did and she often has done the same thing that you're talking about she told people lies she obviously had a secret life no one knew about and the abuse was extreme with me but not with my sister I'm getting ready to have a test done called 23 and me to determine whether she really is my mother or not and how to find the rest of my family because I want people to know the truth before I go to my grave that she was a horrible person she was mentally ill and yes I was abused I was what they call.. groomed,.. I have to pray everyday for forgiveness and to try to deal with the questions and the hate that I feel because that's not me I don't want to be a hateful angry person but it sure is hard to forgive someone when they've hurt you so very badly no matter who they are. But instead of helping me and teaching me to be motherly and loved and all the things that a mother is supposed to be to a daughter I can say like you it was only a nightmare.. I'm sorry you went through such awful stuff too 💔
I agree on long jail sentences for abusers, and for those who murder children, in jail for as long as they live. So they don't do it again because they are dangerous to society, and thus must be prevented.
Unfortunately, I relate. Adopted into a so called family where I had to endure sexual, physical and psychological abuse throughout my ENTIRE childhood...The fight to continue on every day is real even many years later....Parents please love your children!!
When I was a teenager, my younger brother and I were abused by our stepmother while our drug addict father watched on and occasionally participated. She would wake us up in the middle of the night after doing meth to interrogate us about things she had created in her own head. She beat me with a belt until I was black and blue from my back to my knees. She punched my ten-year-old brother in the face and gave him such a bad bruise they kept him home from school. She once told my father that she wished she could kill me, that she hated me and wanted me dead. The mental abuse was so much worse. I have a disability that makes it extremely difficult to get employment, and she once made me walk around a shopping center asking for job applications when I was too young legally to work anyway. When no one gave me an application, she sneered and told me how worthless my disability made me. She would haul off and backhand us in the face for anything-for misplacing something, for talking too loud. Finally we told social services, but my dad threatened us not to tell. I remember him punching the wall right next to my head in order to intimidate me. I still hate this woman. Sometimes I have dreams where I am choking her to death. I understand these people's anger too well.
I am so sorry you went through this: ( that is evil and the result of the enemy Satan in this fallen world.... But every one of us will stand before a just loving God and have to answer for the choices we made... Your parents will have to answer. I believe in grace and forgiveness but not everyone will accept it.... God can restore everything the enemy took from you and help you forgive in your heart for your own sake and not your parents...he has a plan and purpose and wants you to have peace and joy that only He can bring... He wants to set you free from the oppression that your childhood brought... Find a Christ-centered biblically sound Church where you see the fruit of love in the actions of its members....ask the Lord to heal your heart. He can and will....
I am so sorry to hear what was done to you and your siblings. Not everyone is supposed to be parents, and I send hugs and prayers for your ongoing recovery. Your worth it and it wasnt your fault honey
I have a great respect for people who share speaking about the abuses they endured. It is very, very brave. I don't know that I would be as strong in their place. I am sorry to all of you here who were harmed by people that you were supposed to be able to trust. Stories like these make me feel both guilty and blessed to have the incredible mum that I have. I'm heartbroken that not everyone gets to experience that for themselves. If you were hungry Mary would feed you. If you were cold she would give you warm clothes and blankets and a clean bed to sleep in. If you were upset she would hold you in her arms and listen to your problems. If you wanted to learn she would give you books and/or take you to the library. I wish I could invite you all to dinner at her house. Your bellies and hearts would be full when you left, and you'd be welcomed back anytime. I wish you all had grown up with the love a "Mary." She is hugging you all from afar.
What an absolutely beautiful sentiment Mary sounds like an angel and a blessing. Don't feel guilty for having such a blessing enjoy her and truly truly Relish in her nurturing.
I love your comment. It is so beautiful and compassionate. It is incredibly difficult to talk about past abuse. I have chosen to because I want both kids and adults that have experienced abuse to see and know that you can have an amazing and healthy life beyond the abuse and despite those past demons.
@@jackycook64 I thank you for your bravery and winning spirit. And I want to tell you how sorry I am personally for the pain you have experienced in your past. I think it is so important to share stories like this with others. There are so many preconceived notions about abuse : like the type of offenders who abuse, like only foster kids and kids who live in poverty get abused, like how we aren't informed when the system falls short of doing their due diligence to protect victims...People like me want to know the truth because we are compassionate and care about other human beings. I'd give everyone a hug that I met if I didn't think I'd get punched in the face. We all should learn lessons from each other. You and others here teach me valuable lessons. I thank you for that as well.
Daniels father disgusts me to the core! Tragic for Daniel. These children suffered and I really cannot understand. I watch these videos to look for clues as to why. I can never find one. My life was horrible and my father is serving life with another 10 to 12 years. I still have so much anger. I’m almost 50. It never goes away. Why? Why do they do this to their own kids? Any kid? Why? There is NO EXCUSE. NONE. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER AND WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HER. ANYTHING. My prayers to them for healing.
Katherine Leonard what? Seriously? Well did anything like this happen to you? How do you handle it? I hate to tell you but a smell, a sound, a word, can trigger a feeling inside that is involuntary. So please tell me how to not feel these things. I can’t believe you said that.
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Katherine Leonard Your statement is quite insulting & lacking in understanding & compassion. I would encourage you not to make hurtful comments like you did. Do some reading on how abuse affects many. Please don’t ever tell someone who’s been tortured HOW they should be feeling. Now’s your chance to rid yourself of ignorance.
@@omgXALYSSAXomg I'm so sorry you had to be at the mercy of a monster. Your feelings are completely valid. I hope for you continued healing and times of peace...
As a victim and survivor of "All childhood abuse", I say no thanks to my mother who allowed it to happen over and over. Who was suppose to protect me, but didn't. And because of the abuse, the child in me still lives on. Looking for an apology that will never happen. I'm very protective of my inner child. Many of us are shattered inside and damaged people.
OMG! I hear you. The invalidation, blaming rage and shaming that I had to experience is also haunting me. I tell myself that the apology that I'm looking for will never happen as well based on my mother's behavior.
I became exponentially more enraged at my mother's abuse once I became a mother. Because once I held my baby in my arms I couldn't fathom fathom how anyone could do this to their child. I couldn't understand how anyone could acuse their child of seducing a grown man. I can't even articulate what I would do to someone that hurt one of my babies like that.
My exact same experience, same feelings and thoughts! My heart goes to you, Sahar! My mother used to tell me I would stop judging her so harshly they day I had kids. The complete opposite happened. It's DEVASTATING to feel your own mother couldn't love you... mine neglected us and remained always loyal to our abuser, which is also abuse. But we broke the cycle. Sahar.We will love and protect our children and NEVER let anyone hurt them!
Why isn't Daniel's father in jail?! How can he still talk to him without wanting to kill him?! What a sick father to let that step mom touch him! He's just as much to blame!
Disturbing and pretty horrific. I really, really hope Christopher, Katrina and Daniel channel their feelings into a positive life. Edit: For anyone interested, Christopher`s foster mother, Eunice Spry, was gaoled for 14 years. She served only seven years, and was released in 2014. She is 76 as of 2020. Evil sow.
Eunice Spry is the most sadistic 'mother' in the world. I read the books of Christopher and his sisters Victoria and Alloma, I can't imagine the physical and mental pain these poor souls endured. Victoria committed suicide one year ago but it's all Eunice's fault. She destroyed 3 lives and got only 7 years in prison. I don't believe in humanity anymore
I surviver of these traumas as well, healing is extremely hard but possible. You can do it! ❤Im currently in twice weekly sessions with my PTSD/ childhood trauma therapist and at 26 now im finally just learning how to feel okay with day to day "normalcy" though its an uphill battle.
I have healed from parental abuse and have restarted my emotional growth. I have the following advice to those who feel healing is far away. It’s far closer than you imagine, even weeks away. In fact, the worse you feel the more it’s a revelation that your natural processes are trying to heal you. The degree of pain you feel directly matches the amount of energy you are actively putting into stifling this process trying to burst through. So it’s an otherwise strange thing to say, but the worse you feel the better the news. Imagine a deeply-embedded bullet being rejected from the body and is now close to the skin. Your hand is pressing tightly over the bullet poking through preventing it from popping out. Your hand doesn’t stop it from wanting to pop out and make you better, so you keep having to press harder and harder every day. You grow ever more panicked, fatigued and desperate. The bullet’s final push through the skin will hurt superficially, but were you finally allow it to naturally eject itself as it’s desperately fighting to do......you would never in a million years go back to the way you were before. To summarize this point - all the now-intolerable long-term pain you feel is all from your hand covering the migrating bullet. The bullet popping out is a very short-term pain and then you’re done forever. You go from walking around in 200lb concrete overshoes to running around in tennis shoes. So fast if you allow yourself to go through the process.
Ashley I identified strongly with aspects of all these. The use of religion without having recourse to question , the humiliation and disbelief I would receive from the outside world as a means of control, the need to silently protect the father you love and others you care about at the expense of your own welfare , leaving home two days after you turn 16 knowing you have no support ( i slipped through every crack and the system never knew I existed) surviving malignant sociopathic/psychopathic narcissism at its worst.
I completely understand. My mother was an alcoholic. She abused my siblings and I for years. As soon as we were old enough to leave we all did. I left my house at 16 and never looked back.
My child knows me as a cigarette smoker that darcy tried to poison and kill So ottawa dr mark Freedman made me do rat poison for 1.5yrs People I double that for you wen I rule all
Dear Lord in heaven bless each one of these abused humans & give them peace for the rest of their lives. They are so worthy of the love they did not receive as children. Please Lord bless them.
I'm nearly 42 and can attest that my trauma has increased instead of decreased over the years. Triggered by things that I would have never thought could trigger it.
I know this too. I never expected, how many things can trigger me so much, that I need professional help to come down again. And it gets more, as elder I get. The same with the flashbacks, they come more and more. I`m 61 now.
My mom kept us there. She finally left our biological monster when I was 14. But she WENT BACK!! Then she'd leave... but go back... leave & go back AGAIN & AGAIN. My little brother & I moved in with our aunt & uncle... they gave us HEAVEN!!! ✝️
Thank ~You! I didn't expect such kindness. When we were in High School I was a Senior before anyone asked, 'How come you two life with your Aunt & Uncle anyway?' We didn't have to see Social Workers or Counselors or even Court. It may be that we were so traumatize for having to live so long with the Monzter, no one expected us to follow our mother back & forth! God Bless YOU for RESPONDING ⚠️🥰✝️😇
So much of this goes on in foster care, they take the kids out of the frying pan and put them right in the fire. I’m so sorry you all went through this.
The first guy I swore he was telling my story, except it was a part of a plant stand and she didn't hit our feet, she hit where ever, and I remember confessing to stuff I didn't do just to make it stop.
Being a mother is such a gift. I can't imagine what has to be wrong in your head to hurt children, whether they are yours by birth, fostering or adoption. It's an absolute evil that stops a woman from being a nurterer and carer and turns her into a monster that hurts little people. I just can't wrap my head around it.😭 Every human being deserves to be loved and taken care of.
I cried all the way through this. Anyone who hasnt had to endure childhood abuse, whether sexual or physical, from those who were meant to be caring and nurturing us will just never understand the lifelong pain it leaves within us. I'm 60 now and thankfully I no longer wish I was dead. I still struggle with human relationships. Our abusers leave us with a life sentence, no getting out with good behaviour. That is how they should be sentenced by the courts. I'm appauled at the mother who got a 2 year suspended sentence. It makes a mockery of the abused!
Adam Eustace I was the scapegoat for my Nmother/incubator, but believe me, with the right therapy and guidance, you can be a amazing parent one day - if you want to.
Why didn't the police put her in jail when that man was found dead and he was cut and scarred and bloody and everything why did the police put her in jail or check what was going on in that house the police failed those children
People blamed innocent children Tried to blame me I proved I'm Lord God All-Powerfull I dont sin Pre meditate by people that have mental issues My opinion Dave mundy pretended and let my son go into a penatentury house prison he purchased from spade because Oh ya He on odsp I'm not a loser I'm a judge I worked and passed the bar exam at Fontaine and associates in Timmins Ontario canada in 2007 In Greg Fontaine's office
Police Officer Classon is from Scarborough Ontario Canada He said Lise had a disease Wtf His son Jason married Doris Joanne and Doris Rose and Darcy Tried to erase the only responsible caring girl She has nobody helping her Because Lise was shamed for being the best People are people I'm not comparable I'm Lord God All-Powerfull and I'm on earth Save my child Kids are always innocent Darcy posed my other 2year old And I figured it out all by myself Darcy posed my son as his girlfriend or wife Me I'm the real mom I follow the law Wen I rule Thanks internet It's easy to catch people that blame Shame ect..... My son will be saved it's in The Holy Bible My understanding
My help came in a form of self isolation and drug use. I learned young to keep secrets, and the anxieties they carried. Then, out of severe loneliness and sadness, I used drugs to feel something. Anything other then what I felt then. Processing now. I regret numbing the pain as it caused me to never actually face what had happened. And the isolation caused me to not trust, or to over trust men. Always the opposite of what was the safe option. Support love and understanding going out to all who know what it's like to become a adult while still a baby.
This makes me so sad and angry that people could cause pain to an innocent child, elderly or disabled person. Anyone who can’t defend themselves and how could you be such a person to do such horrific things. These kids are survivors who hopefully become protectors for other innocents.
Christina @ 27:00 you are looking at a photograph of yourself and say that you wish you could go back and hug that little four year old girl. Now I didn't suffer anywhere near the abuse that you did, but as an adopted child I always felt a contempt from her, especially after my parents adopted another girl who my mother favoured when I was four. This new baby that I was so excited to be a big sister to started to abuse me by the time she was a toddler to get me into trouble. She's 52 years old and still lives with my 94 year old father on our farm. My mother died 9 years ago and since then the place has turned into a terrible mess. My dad gives her his credit card to buy groceries, but rarely cooks for him. I suffered an extreme amount of abandonment from my mother as a child. In my 30s I was seeing my Dr. who was also a hypnotherapist and one day he took me back to when I was four years old. (Not knowing any of my history) He had me envision my four year old self then asked where she was. I told him that she was laying on a bed crying feeling sad and alone. He told me to go to the girl and wrap my arms around her and tell her that you loved her and that she didn't deserve to feel unloved. Immediately my arms were around that little four year old girl telling her these things. We wrapped our arms around each other and cried and healed. It was the greatest love I had ever felt before and I was a mother of four children. Then all of a sudden I was awake in the Drs. chair. I cried all of the way home feeling the release I had pent up for 30 years knowing that that little four year old me would be fine now 💗
I'm a girl Manson shamed my boy John Denton loved Lise Hello people I was labelled a rat because I'm filthy rich Men love me My walking is my other priority I dont share with people wen I have it all Because I don't care about your feelings Priority for 3years My son Save my helpless child that was shamed by smith falls Ontario police My opinion Wtf He a child posing as Darcy Darcy wtf
Chris wrote a book about his childhood. It's called Child C: Surviving a Foster Mother's Reign of Terror and it's truly an unbelievable story. I read it years ago and still have it.
Two more of the children wrote books as well Alloma Gilbert ‘’Deliver Me From Evil: A Sadistic Foster Mother, A Childhood Torn Apart’’ and Victoria Spry wrote ‘’Tortured: Abused and Neglected by Britain’s Most Sadistic Mum’’
I was abused, too. I carried it with me all my life and struggled to understand it. Later in life, I forgave my abusers. Now, it has little to no effect on me. Forgiving them freed my mind and my future.
Thank you for posting this. It makes me not feel so alone. I always felt as a kid that my mom was this way bc there was something wrong with me...it’s taken forever to get over it, I’m still not over it, I still struggle emotionally bc of the things she did to me
I can feel sorry for the child that was abused, but as an adult who abuses I have no sympathy. God almighty. Two minutes in and he’s talking about steak knives being shoved in his mouth
When you are the parent, your job is to protect your children. If your partner beats your child and (you do nothing), its wrong. Thats why they charge you with a crime, even if you are being abuse. That's the law. All that child has is You! There is no I in the word parent, mom or dad. You brought that child in that situation, whether you're the mom or dad. No one deserves it but if you let happen, whatever the reason you're part of it.
After all the abuse, these survivors are looking great. That girl’s relationship with her mom and the dialogue at the end was nothing short of beautiful.
I wish I could have been there for all these people. Especially when they were young and needed protection, but certainly now when they are needing to process the abuse to lift the weight from their lives.
@@gypsymermaid8098 There's an incredible man on Instagram who talks about childhood trauma @sheisnotyourrehab. It's mainly directed at men but I can apply so much of it to my childhood. He's done a tedtalk on TH-cam Matt Brown Christchurch. Again, it helps apart from any religious part as I don't believe. (There isn't much at all) I sincerely hope this helps a little. Please remember that this horror happened when you had no choice or control. Please don't let them ruin the rest of your life. You deserve love and happiness. Massive hugs 💙
I watch these and my spirit beaks. I'm so gutted to know children suffer so. How these children become adults and function is phenomenal. The strongest people are survivors who won't let their voice be taken and somehow find a way forward. Remarkable spirits they have
A 2 year suspended sentence for Cat's mom...bc she was ill....wth ! Her children were "ill" and will for always suffer the consequences of these mothers' selfish and evil hearts. I am 68 and still occasionally hurt and feel guilty over what 3 adults did to me and none of it was my fault !!! I forgave them and grabbed God's hand, gathered up my courage and went to work on walking away from the pain. The Lord takes away the sting of it. What God does not remove are some of the memories. We have a mind and so we deal with our past and use it as an awesome priviledge to minister to others with whom we share this awful but common perile. I can only hold on to the sweet things in my life when I freely share my past, but only with the sufferers. We cannot give away what we don't have but what we do have is POWERFUL and healing to others. Get up from the well earned alter full of pain and tears. Grab someone who is where you use to be and help them. I promise you the beginning of joy and healing !! Love and hugggsss to you all. This is an excellent documentary... Thank you...
I can relate somewhat to Daniel's situation. His father allowed the abuse. My mother didn't stop my step father either. You are beautiful inside and out Daniel. Live! That will make the abusers suffer. God Bless You
These mothers should be locked away at least. Same thing with bad fathers. It would be great if they had tests for individuals who are too high on the narcissistic spectrum and sterilization for all of them but society is run by these exact types so that won’t happen.
I cannot grasp why ANY parent would ever even THINK or contemplate EVER abusing their kids in ANY way, especially by physical, sexual or emotional abuse. Children are a GIFT. A true BLESSING. So whenever a parent takes that gift & stamps all over it, that's when someone, ANYONE, needs to go to the authorities & sound that alarm. And if they don't react to that, then go the next rung higher & tell that authority figure, & so on....until SOMEONE DOES SOMETHING. I think that there needs to be information handed out to the kids at all levels of schools, there needs to be bulletin boards set up in the grocery stores, Post Offices, anywhere that there's plenty of foot traffic, to get that message out there to children, letting them know that there's help out there if they need it. The fact that these kids who are in these horrible situations & feel that there's nowhere that they can go to get help, breaks my heart. These "parents" need to be treated the same exact way that they treated their children & let them see how it feels. Maybe then they'll realize just how badly their children feel & WHY they feel that way.
My therapist had my read “ The body keeps the score “ I have sever fibromyalgia PTSD from my abuse mental/physical it manifested itself 10 yrs ago I sure hope his doesn’t manifest itself in his life
Same situation. 31 with three autoimmune disorders and a neck injury. Escaped an Irish Catholic cult. Up watching TH-cam because I’m too hungry to sleep but at least I live my own life now. I left four years ago and haven’t been back.
Me too, a chronic pain doc in California noticed when he was taking patient histories, that a majority of his cases of chronic pain patients had experienced childhood abuse. So he thinks it is linked to chronic pain and fibromyalgia.
Read Louise Hay's "You Can Heal Your Life". She explains the correlation between many illnesses and life traumas. This book changed my life. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2002.
These survivors are incredible with their hard work toward healing. Seeing them raise their own children with so much love and compassion is truly beautiful. It doesn't always go that way. Thank you for sharing your stories. I'm so sorry for what you all went through. It doesn't define you. You are all beautiful people who deserve love and happiness.
My mother was sneaky mean to me.she constantly played the victim and as an adult, she kept her manipulation up.I remember vividly trying to tell dad about my mother's behavior. I watched a strong man become a jelly fish in his retirement years. It got so bad dealing with my mother that I had to leave home right after high school graduation and didn't talk to her for7 years. Finally after many years trying to figure out what I could have done better to have a relationship with her- I began to tell her how awful she was to me and ask her why. I waited for her to answer right up to her last few weeks in the nursing home. And two sisters and a brother continued her cruelty towards me,while dad looked on. So I didnt go to my dads death bed because as a teenager, I'd talk to him about mom and he'd always say, who said life's fair. Years after my mother's death ~ the truth came out of my own mouth, I said that I didn't think that the dad I grew up with was my real father. I then called a sister who was 8 yrs older and the executor of her estate. She confirmed that it was true- my mother had a secret affair w my dads best friend while stationed in Japan. My real father's name is William Bryan. He has dark wavy hair- I would love to find my real fathers family. I am sure I have similar physical features that my fathers family has because I have olive skin and very dark curly hair. I was born in 1959. As for the emotional scars- yes it takes many years to overcome. But the healing comes sooner if the abuser and adults who ALLOWED the abuse would tell the truth and OWN IT. My faith in God and constantly seeking answers and surrounding myself with only safe people whom I can trust helped move me forward. Want to say that what the abuser did to youbIS NOT YOUR FAULT.YOU'RE NOT CRAZY. AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO VALIDATE/ PROVE YOURSELF. YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YES! PRESS CHARGES! TELLING THE TRUTH REALLY SETS YOU FREE!
found out my real fathers name( my dad made up a fake last name) My real fathers name is Clyde William Huffman and he passed away in 1991 .His family members were in North Carolina.
God does not encourage people to discipline kids by hurting them physically and mentally. You discipline kids by being an EXAMPLE to your kids. Kids see what you do and they will see and learn.
@L L that is true. I myself do not use the bible or read the bible. I do believe in God. I only studied the Bible for like 2 years but i did not learn everything about it. I understand alot about it. I do believe there is a Creater God. Just like intricate cars have a creater so do we. I have 2 brothers who have kids. And they never read the bible and they are raising their kids by working very hard. So you are right you do not need the bible to raise kids. Being good is common sense.
Lord God All-Powerfull is the example Does not sin My son knew me as sober Technology people are guilty My opinion Watch people and they set people up My opinion
@@AUTOTUB3 I read The Holy Bible in 2018 I have read it 4 times in 2 years I'm catholic I already lived in Gods ways People are people Old people shamed me Old people shamed my son Oh well Suks to be people that believed liars I dont lie I Am Lord God All-Powerfull I'm in a human body 2 My opinion
To go from that type of abuse, to having your daughter saying you are a Good Mom, You Are A Survivor Katrina. Blessings to you and Madison for a Best rest of your lives, and your relationship! 💕
When you are the parent, your job is to protect your children. If your partner beats your child and (you do nothing), its wrong. Thats why they charge you with a crime, even if you are being abuse. That's the law. All that child has is You! There is no I in the word parent, mom or dad. You brought that child in that situation, whether you're the mom or dad. No one deserves it but if you let happen, whatever the reason you're part of it.
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Daniel's way of speaking when talking about his abuse is so childlike, it breaks my heart. It's as if he's having a sort of regression and you're watching that kid finally talking about what happened to him. All these stories are so heartbreaking.
what really annoys me is i’ve seen 300+ documentaries on Hollywood predators. Which is wonderful, i’m glad they get exposed but why is there literally no documentaries about specific religious predators. It’s weird
cato it is a cult of lies, manipulation and control, so nothing good can come out of it and eventually eternal death vs. Eternal Life unless you manage to climb out of the controlling system that you’ve been indoctrinated into and come to know The Truth The Creator and The Lord Jesus Christ. There’s no other way to recover from such lies and abuse, even if there is no physical abuse the mental spiritual abuse is too much without The Lord.
“A mother is someone you can go to at your weakest point at be cherished, be nourished, be accepted…. Whereas, Eunice used those weaknesses against us.” So beautiful and so sad. I want to give Christopher a hug!
I feel the pain 😞 from Katrina. I feel so bad for her having to go through that. Her poor father.....I wish I could hug her at that moment she broke down 🥺😢 poor soul. And poor Daniel.
Incredibly difficult to watch, these stories would have been horrific to live through. An outstanding documentary, thank you Real Stories . From the bottom of my heart through everything that is good in the world, I am SO VERY SORRY that each of you had to endure what you did. I wish you health and healing for the rest of your lives.
My dearest gentleman, I had to stop from the beginning. I don't mean any disrespect to your journey and what you went through, it was simply too hard to watch and my heart went out to you. I will NEVER understand how prospective foster parents or adoptive parents are not investigated to the utmost priority!! I blame them and of course this person, don't know what to call her. I hope and pray that you realize that none of this is your fault. It is their burden to carry, not yours at all!! May God lead you down your path of empowerment and LOVE!!
These are just terrible cases of abuse, just terrible! As far as Daniel, I am speechless. I wish I could have saved them from such horrors! I am a Mom of 5 and it is beyond my understanding how a mother could ever harm their children.
I grew up with soo much love, and happiness with my mother and grandmother. They are wonderful people. I just don’t know where I would be without them. I lost my grandma in 2014 My wonderful grandpa in 1991 they were wonderful. It’s just soo hard to imagine anyone harming a child, I know people like that exist but I just can’t understand it at all.
Geeze! This sounds like my childhood, but it was my mother and brother alliance against me. I was a well behaved, obedient child of a single mom, back in the 1950's.
Do you think your mother was either jealous of you or really disliked your father? Whatever it was, it was not your fault. You were the child. Much happiness to you.
I never married Darcy my ex boyfriend of 10years I had 1 pregnancy I'm the best I'm real I'm on earth People are scared because the Holy Bible states Do to others like they have done to you Wen I rule People should be trembling afraid Its reality I dont lie I dont have secrets True story
When Daniel and his friend were talking about what he wanted from his father, it sparked a memory from 20 years ago. The biggest epiphany I ever had in therapy was when I realized, deep down, that my father hadn't been the father I needed when I was a child, and he never would be because my childhood is long past. To know that, I mean really know it in the core of my being, I was set free. For 30 years, I'd had this longing, this hope, that my father would be the kind of father I needed. Without knowing it, my expectation was that someday he would change. After my epiphany, I knew those expectations and hopes would never come true and, for the first time in my life, I was able to accept my dad for who and what he was. It didn't heal the scars from my childhood, but it did help my future relationship with my dad. Maybe that's what Daniel wants, the father he needed and never had.
When Kathryn cried, I cried. When you think back on all the horrible memories of the abuse and neglect, it’s as if you are a sad and frightened child again reliving those awful experiences.
Demons that’s why I would never remarry or let my partner come around me kids if I were single not worth it kids should come first. Predators of the innocent are the worst of the worst unforgivable
I’m PROUD of y’all so courageous to stand up and tell what happened…. I’m sure it’s years to late for y’all but y’all have helped so many ppl just by telling your story … I’m sorry y’all had to endure pain it’s truly not fair…
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“What did you do to provoke him?” is what my mother said to me when she found out my father sexually abused me from the ages of 4 to 10. Those words she spoke hurt just as much as what my father did to me.
So sorry to hear what your mother said.😔 My second husband called my son a bad word one day. From that second on I despised him and filed for divorce. I could not live with a man(?) like that. Hope your life is better now.
I get it. You start to question if it's what you wore, said or did. Then, it's your fault you didn't fight back enough. Hugs and understanding sent your way. Telling a adult that another adult is hurting you should never lead back to you being the problem. Years of therapy and I still have small doubts come back from time to time, but in my right mind I know the adult was the problem
Mine said.. I'll never believe that and I'm still marrying him. I said if you do, you'll never see me again.
My mom said he didn't mean to he was drunk. Even though he was a charged sexual offender.
You keep on the road to recovery. It's inspiring to see someone able to speak the name of their pain.
When you know a child is being abused and you report it, repeatedly, and social services does nothing...I can fully understand why the other parent “kidnaps” their own child and flees into hiding.
I was friends with a girl in middle school who, now that I look back, was in that situation. After we really bonded she confided to me that social services was after her family and she did not want to be taken from her mom and aunt who lived with my friend. We were in Tennessee and she talked about moving every year or so. We met in 7th grade and my naive friends and I assumed we would at least attend some of high school together with her. I think her family got nervous because by the end of our 8th grade school year she was moving to Pennsylvania. I spent the night at her home many times and it was a safe, happy, and healthy environment. We still keep up with each other and I noticed the moving around stopped once she turned 18 as she was youngest of her mom's 2 kids.
Wtf
It became common in the U S for children to claim abuse when they had minor infractions of rules of the household that the children didn’t want to follow. Any time a child was angry about a punishment, something as simple as taking away a toy or sending them to their room for a brief TimeOut, the children would tell teachers or other adult that the parent was violent. Many parents either were or were close to being jailed on abuse charges. Far too many children actually are abused, but there is an other set of children who cry wolf to get their own way.
CPS is so badly broken and backlogged there is little hope. We must start educating our children very young about what abuse looks like and to tell everyone about it, all the time. And, Jehovahs Witnesses are a cult, secluded and exclusionary cults should not be foster parents, ever.
Cps is messed up. They ruin kids lives.
Childhood is what some people spend the rest of their lives trying to overcome
Amen.
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We all have our inner child full of hurt and confusion, trying to heal my inner child everyday 🥰
Yes we do
Agreed
One of the children I taught was almost drowned in the bath. She disclosed this and the social workers sent her back. I don’t have much respect for them
I sat in jail with a woman who was accused of drowning her 2 year old. It was two months after my son passed away from sudden infant death syndrome. She showed no remorse. In fact, she watched me and seemed to copy the cycles I went through emotionally. She prayed on me. When guards checked our cell one night they found these note books. Filled with my exact words my regrets my prayers and thoughts. Only..... with her name and personal twist on it. She was convicted. But looking back, a teacher reported her for other issues and no one stepped in. And it costed a life. If you suspect, report. We need more people in this world who will.
@@allygaffney962 Reporting is just allowing the same corrupt "authorities" to put kids with abusive foster parents.
@@LadyIarConnacht your right. My hope is that it at least opens the door to transparency. The child will be checked on. Reports made. Secrets not kept
It happens too often. When I ran away from home and told the authorities what my dad was doing to me they tried to send me back. I flat out refused to return, but the cycle of foster homes was awful.
Sometimes there's only so much social workers can do. It's absolutely frustrating which makes me want to become one to fully understand how this happens. A good family friend lost their grand baby to abuse. She was hospitalized on more than one occasion and the last time was 2 broken legs (18months old) she was sent back to the mother who's boyfriend was abusing the baby and I'm not sure the mother was fully there either. And then a short time later she died. Absolutely gut wrenching. They knew she was being abused and they couldn't give her to the real dad because of stupid reasons which I'm not totally sure. I think the dad was financially unstable. But the grandparents fought for custody and couldn't get it. 😔
What angers me most is that, to this day, people associated with my parents still say ignorant crap like "Oh, well they LOVED you SO much" or "why can't you focus on the good things they did instead?" I was adopted as a"'project ripe for 'saving'" into a cult family of sociopaths, and their friends and the rest of the 'family' continue to cover for them. If you talk about what they did, you're just being problematic and 'causing trouble' and embarrassing THEM, and shame on you for not showing gratitude.
When a child tells you their parents are hurting them, do NOT add insult to injury and tell children "well that's just how they show love."
Kabalarian girl x
Word to sister
They love me more
Parents involve with sexual escapade
Now she eh PROMISCUOUS girl i ever met..
Exactly
I am so sorry that happened to you. They sound like monsters.
@@debralucas2224 It's hard to know the difference between people who are 'intentionally' monstrous and those who are just lazy/neglectful/hostile by habit.
It's the fact that they can be nice when they want something from you, or to be 'seen' doing things 'for you' that gets really weird.
But overall, I'm okay--they mostly just ignore me now. :) But thank you.
Not being believed as a kid was the worst part of it. Now their fancy underwear and blindness feel almost like a novelty since i can observe from the outside... or not watch at all :)
lngrid Fong-Daley What a ridiculous thing to say to a child when they were the victim. There is no excuse in the book that could warrant this sick behavior. I wish them dead bcs they never can be cured, ever!!!!!
"I don't think she was insane, just pure evil" wow
Two of them used those exact words. The fact that there are monsters like this out there... OMG it's terrifying. Bless these people, I hope they can get some help.
I have no doubt my mother was/is pure evil, yes it deeply effected me, the things that brings me great joy are children when they are happy, loved, but I can see those who have been, are being hurt, it hurts my soul so much, I try my best to give that child a smile, a kind word, a compliment if I can a hug, bc I no how much those simple things ment to me when I was a child , hoping they feel honest love, feel pretty, just feel good even if just for a moment , I ask God to look after them, pray they find true happiness & kindness. There really are quite a few horrendous parents, just bc they can have a child does not mean they should, doesn't mean they should be able to keep them either
@@cmont4064 It’s wonderful that you have such a kind heart after putting up with an evil mother. I do too. I would never tell anyone that they “should kill themselves” like the evil woman I had for a “mother “. No matter how much I disliked them. “Parents “ like mine should have been sterilized when they were young. The damage they cause can sometimes be irreparable.
That first one, Chris’s foster mother even looks evil!! You can see it in her eyes! I grew up with a loving caring mother and father…. It broke me when my mum died of cancer
my upbringing was horrific. time heals all wounds we are told. well at 58 now i become more and more angry over it. why. it cheated me from a whole life thinking everyone else is better than you. I have a grandaughter. i did not know i could even love another human this much. she is 4 and just plain wonderful.
She's so blessed to have you! And your intimate understanding of that awful pain, will help you love and protect her even better.
I'm sorry for the pain you're still dealing with. I'm 45, and completely understand where you're coming from. My entire life before I got married, at 17, was pure misery. On every level of abuse possible. Both parents, are narcissistic monsters. Yet, with the love of my husband, my children, grandbabies and the unmeasurable love I have for them, I survive. 💕
My mother wasn't quite like these stories, but she never felt love and suffered mental abuse, some physical... She's never gotten over it... She hasn't ever really talked about it.... I'm 42 now, she met my dad when she was 16 and he's worshiped the ground she's walked ever since... They adore each other 50odd years later and I couldn't live and respect them more than I do... We know she finds it hard to this day to accept love and never wants to 'trouble' anyone... I honestly couldn't imagine a more perfect human than my mother, morally, she would take a secret anyone have her to the grave.. She's so trust worthy unusual honestly I wish I could be half the person she is... But my dad and I won't ever forgive her parents for what they did... At least she's been surrounded by love ever since they got engaged... And always will
Oh I meant to say. My mum feels like that too... That feeling if not wanting to trouble ppl comes from being made to feel less than... I'm sorry you suffered similar upbringing... You're better than they ever could be.
So sorry. I know it sounds crazy but I have been abused too and found healing in Jesus and the Bible 💛
I had a foster mom, she’s just like Eunice. She still is till this day because of her facade. It’s taken me a long time to heal and begin to move past it. I’m 22 now, and I’ve accepted the fact she will never be sorry. She had such a hold over me, but not anymore. If justice won’t find her here on earth, it’ll find her somewhere else. She did everything to destroy my sisters and I. But she didn’t, she lost in the end.
I'm glad she lost 💙 Much love to you 🌹
So sorry for what you went through❤️
You and your sisters are so lucky to escape.. Godspeed to you… 🙏❤️🇨🇦
Report her. She’s still doing it.
Prayers and love
I would like to come here and say that these stories alone have pushed me to look into filing a civil lawsuit against my abuser. It all happened over 20 years ago and I’m finally ready to take this step.
To Daniel, if you ever see this, Thank you
Sincerely
A survivor ♥️
Good for you!
Best wishes sweetie! I’ll be praying for you.....
Me I have proof of all
My son will be saved
That's a fact yes
Take it I stand by you. I know exactly how you fill. Stay strong and do it. I need to tell my self the same thing. I need to take that step.
Please do and good luck 👍🏽
I lost it when she broke down about her father.
So did I!🙁
I cried too. It made me think about losing my dad and I’m not ready for that to happen at all, I’ve found.
My dad passed away when I was 10. I’m 45 now and I still get tears when I think of him. My mom was very mean and abusive to us 3 older kids (there were 4 of us). He left my mom and took us away from her. After he died we had to go back to live with my mom and the abuse got worse and he wasn’t there to protect us anymore. When I was 14 my youngest sister was 5 and my mom hadn’t hurt yet. My little sister was in kindergarten and a bus picked her up for school. One morning my mom got upset because my sister wasn’t ready and was going to miss her bus. I was just leaving for school too. My mom yelled at my 5 year old sister to hurry up. She missed her bus and my mom picked her up and threw her on the floor. I told my mom I’ll walk her to school. I didn’t take her to school instead I ran away with her. No way was I going to let my mom abuse her the way she abused us. We hung out at the mall all day until I could think of what to do. I had no money and she was getting hungry so we went to a grocery store and I was going to steal something for her to eat. I stole a chocolate bar for her and I got caught for it. I told the security guard why I stole it. He called the police and I told the police everything that happened that day. I didn’t get charged and the police call child services and we were put in a foster home. The social workers went to my moms and picked up my brother and other sister that day. We were lucky that the foster homes we lived in were good homes with good and caring people. I miss my dad every day. I wish my kids could’ve known him.
My dad tried to protect me from my stepmother. She was evil. I do think she was a bit crazy too. I was v angry towards my father for years. Not now. Whereas i still loathe my stepmother. People think i am harsh and unforgiving. I am. Some things are not forgivable.
@@ArdenRadani you getting caught stealing that candy bar was such a huuuuugggeee blessing in disguise.
Daniel’s father is just as guilty as his step mother. What kind of father allows that stuff to happen- never mind participates in that? I don’t even have words. Each and every one of thee stories is horrendous. :(
Evil as sin. Both of them.
Completely agree.
I'm Lord God All-Powerfull
She posed as Lise
I'm Lise Laviolette I'm 40years old
She posed in court as me
My opinion
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Yes, his father is also an abuser. He is not innocent.
It’s so frustrating that women predators are not taken seriously.
Chase Renee agreed
In what ways specifically are they not taken seriously?
@@gigig6021 society doesn’t take the subject seriously, this poor man who died covered in scars couldn’t get help obviously, society shames a man who’s abused by a woman to the point even police doesn’t take it seriously
ikr? thats why i hate the fact that people see women as weak its not good for both the women and the people like this poor guy
Extremely
I WISH nobody had to be subjected disgusting behaviour like child abuse. It's awful. These kids deserved to have a childhood with loving, caring and nurturing parents/guardians. My heart goes out to them. 💚
Amen
My mother wasn’t the nicest to me , upmost I liked her for giving birth to me. NOw she passed away
Sorry to say
This will continue
Lust for young
With yoga sheer ican see DELITE in eyes of fantasy creator..
I know the damage it cause
Girl of kabalarian scandal of ste***** pass around at young age
With consent from parents
story is unreal
Hotels of love was normal
She so mess up Now
She went to visit long last cousin(denmark)
She phone drunk makin love to her ******
Back in kanada she totally forgot she call me to let me hear
Booze kill the pain
FOREVER mess up
You can see it in her eyes today.
Foster parents aren't checked out enough. These ppl do it for money not the love for kids. Social services should be charged too
there is way to many that r bad....foster system is worse than throwing them kids on the street
More of us need to foster. Lack of adults in the program is a big part of the problem.
I became a guardian, so not all foster parents are like this, however because of the abuse I endured I couldn't take this child anymore, she was and probably is very abusive, it was like she was a carbon copy of her great grandmother. I thought by me taking this child in, I might be able to save her from herself and give her the tools to be a better person, sadly the damage was done and unlike me she wanted to stay the victim, for her you dont have stories & lies to tell if you are not a victim. Her teacher said the same thing. Every 6 months she would cause such grief to her foster parents so she had to leave. This child was my great niece, probably too close to the situation. Our rules are that the child must keep in touch with their family, on this occasion it was the biggest mistake and it didnt matter what I did to help or protect this child I was constantly being undermined. Maybe she felt it strange that we didn't yell at her or beat her, but she was never going to get that from us. I would have loved to have someone be nice to me. Yep I felt guilty for sending her away, but I had to do it for myself and try to heal again, which I did with the support of my husband and daughters. I refuse to be a victim I am a survivor.
Not all are bad I'm a foster and adoptive mother and would never hurt one of my kids❤
Social services are really crowded
The system is a joke. I remember a teacher called about on my mother. The social worker said she didn't believe me. At the end of our conversation, she said we (the kids) did something to deserve it. I knew then it was no point in telling anymore. Even family members who found out did nothing. They only said "That's your mother." or "That's my sister." They were so proud of her compared to themselves. She was articulate, poised, successful career, appeared soft spoken, sweet, graceful, and well mannered kids. This is why I don't deal with any of them anymore. I learned family are those who have your best interest, not relatives.
Ditto
This makes me appreciate my mom and dad so much . This is one of the horrific things so called human beings do to small innocent children that I will never understand.
Me, too.
I love my kids so so much. I hope they one day appreciate me 😀
@@beefstew4698 lol they will my mom and dad have both passed from cancer but they were both amazing, we were poor but so so loved. Don't worry we all get at an age where we think back on the good things and love our parents more for it!
Michelle Lowe 👍🤗
and a huge number are horribly abused in the system thats supposed to rescue them!
Huh
It's sad how often abuse perpetrated by women isn't taken seriously. I was severely abused for years and many people in my community told me i probably deserved it and that i should try to get along better with my mother. She scoffed at the idea of having cops or cps called on her, knowing she'd get off scot free. We haven't spoken in 6 years and i still feel the effects of the trauma.
I had a similar experience. My mom would say and do horrible things cps did nothing. Of course this was in the 80s
It’s beyond awful what she did. I hope you have a good life now
How awful 😥
Me also, emotional, physical torture and sexual abuse, from a few sources. I can't understand how the teachers are not aware something is going on. In my case, my teachers also despised me for not ever having lunch or a coat, knowing I was spending all play time cowering in corners, the rags I wore etc...i can't have any kind of relationship with my mother either but it's OK we don't have to.
@FOOD PREPPERS Shame on both of them!!! I hope that you're safe and happy now. 💗
I'm sorry, but if I was the neighbor and knew these children was being harmed. I would do anything to help these children and I would probably be on the show fear thy neighbor when I got done with these evil witches!!
@one love facts ! !
@one love facts
Exactly
Same. Woulda called child services and rang the police every single day until they were removed.
SAME!!!!! I don’t understand the thought process of encouraging the children to advocate for themselves, when they themselves were too spineless to do it. Those neighbors needed to step up and call the authorities and physically remove those children. Like WTF?!?!
Man... watching this as a father is horrendous. My son is at school right now but the second he gets home I'm going to give him an enormous hug and a cookie and tell him I'm proud of him.
Lol don't hug him too much, he will think you have cancer and you're just scared to tell. I never huh my son 🤭🤞🏿 no way, he would just get worried and start imagining things. Bt then again, I'm all African, we have our ways 🥰✊🏿
I couldn’t contain my tears for Katrina. The fact that she had a child that she could love like no one ever loved her and finally being loved back. May life keep giving them all strength to keep moving forward.
No because the minute she brought up finding her dad with scars I lost it
Christopher has the saddest eyes I've ever seen :(
I just wanted to hug him and tell him that he was safe now 🥺🥺
@@bellerain381 same
My mother sent me away to boarding school/home.when I told her I was being molested,I was,just about 6 years old. She wanted to kill me, and was extremely abusive. And blamed me. My childhood was horrible. But I'm a survivor now. She died 3 years ago . And I didn't cry. I forgave her and kiss her goodbye😢
I’m so sorry... I’m glad you’re better now
@@nicolebarnett1477 thank you
😩 I’m glad you found it inside yourself to forgive her. You’re going to overcome this & strive! 🙏
Unlike you I will not ever forgive or truly forget the damage that was done to me. I didn't shed a tear when she died, but I had to see her to make sure she was gone, unfortunately I told her she cannot hurt me anymore, how wrong I was as she told all and sundry lies so they would believe her not me. I found out about three years ago, now I will not speak to or have anything to do with family except my own family I made. I was beaten because of something someone else did, had a huge bruise on my hip, yet when I told the teacher they phoned my mother only to be told that I must have done it myself and that I was lying. I have never trusted a teacher since, well except my daughter as she is a teacher. But she is so loving and caring without stepping over the mark. and will do anything to protect those kids
@@caralinehowden2951 it wasn't until recently that I started remembering things that I had blocked out or had simply forgotten after a serious head injuries I lost 75% of my memory because I smashed my hippocampus and had the top part of my head cut completely off so I had severe memory loss following many surgeries to come and lots of medication and rehabilitation.. but I'm starting to remember things mostly about my mother and I realized she was mentally ill to have put me through the things that she did and she often has done the same thing that you're talking about she told people lies she obviously had a secret life no one knew about and the abuse was extreme with me but not with my sister I'm getting ready to have a test done called 23 and me to determine whether she really is my mother or not and how to find the rest of my family because I want people to know the truth before I go to my grave that she was a horrible person she was mentally ill and yes I was abused I was what they call.. groomed,.. I have to pray everyday for forgiveness and to try to deal with the questions and the hate that I feel because that's not me I don't want to be a hateful angry person but it sure is hard to forgive someone when they've hurt you so very badly no matter who they are. But instead of helping me and teaching me to be motherly and loved and all the things that a mother is supposed to be to a daughter I can say like you it was only a nightmare.. I'm sorry you went through such awful stuff too 💔
His father’s excuses are pathetic
Any one who abuse's a child should be sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole!!! Abuse is beyond evil!!!!
I agree on long jail sentences for abusers, and for those who murder children, in jail for as long as they live. So they don't do it again because they are dangerous to society, and thus must be prevented.
Unfortunately, I relate. Adopted into a so called family where I had to endure sexual, physical and psychological abuse throughout my ENTIRE childhood...The fight to continue on every day is real even many years later....Parents please love your children!!
😢
When I was a teenager, my younger brother and I were abused by our stepmother while our drug addict father watched on and occasionally participated. She would wake us up in the middle of the night after doing meth to interrogate us about things she had created in her own head. She beat me with a belt until I was black and blue from my back to my knees. She punched my ten-year-old brother in the face and gave him such a bad bruise they kept him home from school. She once told my father that she wished she could kill me, that she hated me and wanted me dead. The mental abuse was so much worse. I have a disability that makes it extremely difficult to get employment, and she once made me walk around a shopping center asking for job applications when I was too young legally to work anyway. When no one gave me an application, she sneered and told me how worthless my disability made me. She would haul off and backhand us in the face for anything-for misplacing something, for talking too loud. Finally we told social services, but my dad threatened us not to tell. I remember him punching the wall right next to my head in order to intimidate me. I still hate this woman. Sometimes I have dreams where I am choking her to death. I understand these people's anger too well.
I am so sorry that you had to go through so much pain and suffering. I wish I could give you a hug. Lots of love!
I wonder if there is any trauma/PTSD therapy available to you...I’ve had to go. It was helpful.
I am so sorry you went through this: ( that is evil and the result of the enemy Satan in this fallen world.... But every one of us will stand before a just loving God and have to answer for the choices we made... Your parents will have to answer. I believe in grace and forgiveness but not everyone will accept it.... God can restore everything the enemy took from you and help you forgive in your heart for your own sake and not your parents...he has a plan and purpose and wants you to have peace and joy that only He can bring... He wants to set you free from the oppression that your childhood brought... Find a Christ-centered biblically sound Church where you see the fruit of love in the actions of its members....ask the Lord to heal your heart. He can and will....
I am so sorry to hear what was done to you and your siblings. Not everyone is supposed to be parents, and I send hugs and prayers for your ongoing recovery. Your worth it and it wasnt your fault honey
Did your father never do anything?
I have a great respect for people who share speaking about the abuses they endured. It is very, very brave. I don't know that I would be as strong in their place. I am sorry to all of you here who were harmed by people that you were supposed to be able to trust. Stories like these make me feel both guilty and blessed to have the incredible mum that I have. I'm heartbroken that not everyone gets to experience that for themselves. If you were hungry Mary would feed you. If you were cold she would give you warm clothes and blankets and a clean bed to sleep in. If you were upset she would hold you in her arms and listen to your problems. If you wanted to learn she would give you books and/or take you to the library. I wish I could invite you all to dinner at her house. Your bellies and hearts would be full when you left, and you'd be welcomed back anytime. I wish you all had grown up with the love a "Mary." She is hugging you all from afar.
💜
I have tears streaming down my face after reading your comment. Thank you for such compassion. I'm hugging Mary back!
What an absolutely beautiful sentiment Mary sounds like an angel and a blessing. Don't feel guilty for having such a blessing enjoy her and truly truly Relish in her nurturing.
I love your comment. It is so beautiful and compassionate. It is incredibly difficult to talk about past abuse. I have chosen to because I want both kids and adults that have experienced abuse to see and know that you can have an amazing and healthy life beyond the abuse and despite those past demons.
@@jackycook64 I thank you for your bravery and winning spirit. And I want to tell you how sorry I am personally for the pain you have experienced in your past. I think it is so important to share stories like this with others. There are so many preconceived notions about abuse : like the type of offenders who abuse, like only foster kids and kids who live in poverty get abused, like how we aren't informed when the system falls short of doing their due diligence to protect victims...People like me want to know the truth because we are compassionate and care about other human beings. I'd give everyone a hug that I met if I didn't think I'd get punched in the face. We all should learn lessons from each other. You and others here teach me valuable lessons. I thank you for that as well.
Daniels father disgusts me to the core! Tragic for Daniel. These children suffered and I really cannot understand. I watch these videos to look for clues as to why. I can never find one. My life was horrible and my father is serving life with another 10 to 12 years. I still have so much anger. I’m almost 50. It never goes away. Why? Why do they do this to their own kids? Any kid? Why? There is NO EXCUSE. NONE. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER AND WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HER. ANYTHING. My prayers to them for healing.
Katherine Leonard you really gotta blame the victim huh?
Katherine Leonard what? Seriously? Well did anything like this happen to you? How do you handle it? I hate to tell you but a smell, a sound, a word, can trigger a feeling inside that is involuntary. So please tell me how to not feel these things. I can’t believe you said that.
Katherine Leonard Your statement is quite insulting & lacking in understanding & compassion.
I would encourage you not to make hurtful comments like you did. Do some reading on how abuse affects many. Please don’t ever tell someone who’s been tortured HOW they should be feeling. Now’s your chance to rid yourself of ignorance.
Sycophants have no feelings....
@@omgXALYSSAXomg I'm so sorry you had to be at the mercy of a monster. Your feelings are completely valid. I hope for you continued healing and times of peace...
As a victim and survivor of "All childhood abuse", I say no thanks to my mother who allowed it to happen over and over. Who was suppose to protect me, but didn't. And because of the abuse, the child in me still lives on. Looking for an apology that will never happen. I'm very protective of my inner child. Many of us are shattered inside and damaged people.
Oh wow, that's a first. A person who labels themselves as 'damaged'.
OMG! I hear you. The invalidation, blaming rage and shaming that I had to experience is also haunting me. I tell myself that the apology that I'm looking for will never happen as well based on my mother's behavior.
I became exponentially more enraged at my mother's abuse once I became a mother. Because once I held my baby in my arms I couldn't fathom fathom how anyone could do this to their child. I couldn't understand how anyone could acuse their child of seducing a grown man. I can't even articulate what I would do to someone that hurt one of my babies like that.
My exact same experience, same feelings and thoughts! My heart goes to you, Sahar! My mother used to tell me I would stop judging her so harshly they day I had kids. The complete opposite happened. It's DEVASTATING to feel your own mother couldn't love you... mine neglected us and remained always loyal to our abuser, which is also abuse. But we broke the cycle. Sahar.We will love and protect our children and NEVER let anyone hurt them!
My heart goes out to everyone who struggles to overcome things like this. You deserve a life filled with love, purpose, fulfillment, and peace.
Why isn't Daniel's father in jail?! How can he still talk to him without wanting to kill him?! What a sick father to let that step mom touch him! He's just as much to blame!
He is in jail.
Daniel's father shows No Remorse whatsoever, that is very pathetic.
Disturbing and pretty horrific.
I really, really hope Christopher, Katrina and Daniel channel their feelings into a positive life.
Edit: For anyone interested, Christopher`s foster mother, Eunice Spry, was gaoled for 14 years. She served only seven years, and was released in 2014. She is 76 as of 2020. Evil sow.
Eunice Spry is the most sadistic 'mother' in the world.
I read the books of Christopher and his sisters Victoria and Alloma, I can't imagine the physical and mental pain these poor souls endured.
Victoria committed suicide one year ago but it's all Eunice's fault. She destroyed 3 lives and got only 7 years in prison. I don't believe in humanity anymore
The sentences were appallingly light for the crimes committed.
My heart goes out to anyone who was abused.
🙏✌🏼❤️
All of their sentences in the UK is to light!
14 years for the worst case?
As a survivor of a mixture of all three of these stories I will say that healing is long term and damned near impossible. :/
I surviver of these traumas as well, healing is extremely hard but possible. You can do it! ❤Im currently in twice weekly sessions with my PTSD/ childhood trauma therapist and at 26 now im finally just learning how to feel okay with day to day "normalcy" though its an uphill battle.
I have healed from parental abuse and have restarted my emotional growth.
I have the following advice to those who feel healing is far away. It’s far closer than you imagine, even weeks away. In fact, the worse you feel the more it’s a revelation that your natural processes are trying to heal you. The degree of pain you feel directly matches the amount of energy you are actively putting into stifling this process trying to burst through. So it’s an otherwise strange thing to say, but the worse you feel the better the news.
Imagine a deeply-embedded bullet being rejected from the body and is now close to the skin. Your hand is pressing tightly over the bullet poking through preventing it from popping out. Your hand doesn’t stop it from wanting to pop out and make you better, so you keep having to press harder and harder every day. You grow ever more panicked, fatigued and desperate. The bullet’s final push through the skin will hurt superficially, but were you finally allow it to naturally eject itself as it’s desperately fighting to do......you would never in a million years go back to the way you were before.
To summarize this point - all the now-intolerable long-term pain you feel is all from your hand covering the migrating bullet. The bullet popping out is a very short-term pain and then you’re done forever. You go from walking around in 200lb concrete overshoes to running around in tennis shoes. So fast if you allow yourself to go through the process.
Ashley I identified strongly with aspects of all these. The use of religion without having recourse to question , the humiliation and disbelief I would receive from the outside world as a means of control, the need to silently protect the father you love and others you care about at the expense of your own welfare , leaving home two days after you turn 16 knowing you have no support ( i slipped through every crack and the system never knew I existed) surviving malignant sociopathic/psychopathic narcissism at its worst.
With the right therapists, you can heal and thrive.
Bless your heart.
she should spend the rest of her life in prison not eight years cuz that's something that he's going to carry with him for the rest of his life
I completely understand. My mother was an alcoholic. She abused my siblings and I for years. As soon as we were old enough to leave we all did. I left my house at 16 and never looked back.
My child knows me as a cigarette smoker that darcy tried to poison and kill
So ottawa dr mark Freedman made me do rat poison for 1.5yrs
People I double that for you wen I rule all
Dear Lord in heaven bless each one of these abused humans & give them peace for the rest of their lives. They are so worthy of the love they did not receive as children. Please Lord bless them.
🙏🏼 may the lord act upon ur word, blessings your way as well
How about the Lord helping them before they were abused. If you think that he can help them after they're abused why not help before?
Religion is what caused this actually
@@wholesomekeanureeves9466 Yeah, religion did, but not Christ, Learn the difference!
@@dreasmom2789 the prayers are just a way for the people watching to make themselves feel better, it has nothing to do with the actual victims
I'm nearly 42 and can attest that my trauma has increased instead of decreased over the years. Triggered by things that I would have never thought could trigger it.
I know this too. I never expected, how many things can trigger me so much, that I need professional help to come down again. And it gets more, as elder I get. The same with the flashbacks, they come more and more. I`m 61 now.
I thought I could handle this. I can't :( children are a special gift. I can't bear thinking of them being abused. Just evil.
This is horrible
not the documentary, the foster moms
Agreed.
It is. I don't care what ever kind of mother it is how can you abuse a kid in anyway. I feel sick in my stomach.
My mom kept us there. She finally left our biological monster when I was 14. But she WENT BACK!! Then she'd leave... but go back... leave & go back AGAIN & AGAIN. My little brother & I moved in with our aunt & uncle... they gave us HEAVEN!!! ✝️
@@codijo-myalaskandog122 I'm glad you guys found a place to be comfortable, safe and BE KIDS for once. I wish you the best!!
Thank ~You! I didn't expect such kindness. When we were in High School I was a Senior before anyone asked, 'How come you two life with your Aunt & Uncle anyway?'
We didn't have to see Social Workers or Counselors or even Court. It may be that we were so traumatize for having to live so long with the Monzter, no one expected us to follow our mother back & forth!
God Bless YOU for RESPONDING ⚠️🥰✝️😇
So much of this goes on in foster care, they take the kids out of the frying pan and put them right in the fire. I’m so sorry you all went through this.
That a father would subject his son to such abuse at the hands of his wife’s wishes is just sickening.
The first guy I swore he was telling my story, except it was a part of a plant stand and she didn't hit our feet, she hit where ever, and I remember confessing to stuff I didn't do just to make it stop.
Same here except it was my mother’s husband that was the abuser, she just went along with it & blamed me for his behavior.
Being a mother is such a gift. I can't imagine what has to be wrong in your head to hurt children, whether they are yours by birth, fostering or adoption. It's an absolute evil that stops a woman from being a nurterer and carer and turns her into a monster that hurts little people. I just can't wrap my head around it.😭 Every human being deserves to be loved and taken care of.
very interesting to focus on female perpetrators. they often get away woth the cover of being a "caregiver".
I cried all the way through this. Anyone who hasnt had to endure childhood abuse, whether sexual or physical, from those who were meant to be caring and nurturing us will just never understand the lifelong pain it leaves within us. I'm 60 now and thankfully I no longer wish I was dead. I still struggle with human relationships. Our abusers leave us with a life sentence, no getting out with good behaviour. That is how they should be sentenced by the courts. I'm appauled at the mother who got a 2 year suspended sentence. It makes a mockery of the abused!
Brought me to tears, this happened to me 14 years ago and to this day im not the same. Made me not want to be a parent just encase im the same.
Adam Eustace I was the scapegoat for my Nmother/incubator, but believe me, with the right therapy and guidance, you can be a amazing parent one day - if you want to.
So sorry Adam.❤️❤️
I relate to this so much. 💔 Sending you strength and love.
@@scholbe ❤️
Adam lm a mom grandma and I life l decided to be better not bitter to be the parents l never had don’t give up on yourself! ❤️🙏
Why didn't the police put her in jail when that man was found dead and he was cut and scarred and bloody and everything why did the police put her in jail or check what was going on in that house the police failed those children
I have all paperwork proof
With names
Kyle major
Accident in 2018
People blamed innocent children
Tried to blame me
I proved I'm Lord God All-Powerfull
I dont sin
Pre meditate by people that have mental issues
My opinion
Dave mundy pretended and let my son go into a penatentury house prison he purchased from spade because
Oh ya
He on odsp
I'm not a loser
I'm a judge
I worked and passed the bar exam at Fontaine and associates in Timmins Ontario canada in 2007
In Greg Fontaine's office
Police
Officer Classon is from Scarborough Ontario Canada
He said Lise had a disease
Wtf
His son Jason married Doris
Joanne and Doris
Rose and Darcy
Tried to erase the only responsible caring girl
She has nobody helping her
Because Lise was shamed for being the best
People are people
I'm not comparable I'm Lord God All-Powerfull and I'm on earth
Save my child
Kids are always innocent
Darcy posed my other 2year old
And I figured it out all by myself
Darcy posed my son as his girlfriend or wife
Me I'm the real mom
I follow the law
Wen I rule
Thanks internet
It's easy to catch people that blame Shame ect.....
My son will be saved it's in The Holy Bible
My understanding
She claimed illness and was given a two year suspended sentence.
I read one of his fosters sisters books. Eunice was indeed a MONSTER
Do you have the name of the book perhaps?
@@annieannie2887 Delivery Me From. Evil (alloma spry/ gilbert), Tortured by Victoria Spry, Child C by Christopher Spry
Eunice
My help came in a form of self isolation and drug use. I learned young to keep secrets, and the anxieties they carried. Then, out of severe loneliness and sadness, I used drugs to feel something. Anything other then what I felt then. Processing now. I regret numbing the pain as it caused me to never actually face what had happened. And the isolation caused me to not trust, or to over trust men. Always the opposite of what was the safe option. Support love and understanding going out to all who know what it's like to become a adult while still a baby.
This makes me so sad and angry that people could cause pain to an innocent child, elderly or disabled person. Anyone who can’t defend themselves and how could you be such a person to do such horrific things. These kids are survivors who hopefully become protectors for other innocents.
Christina @ 27:00 you are looking at a photograph of yourself and say that you wish you could go back and hug that little four year old girl. Now I didn't suffer anywhere near the abuse that you did, but as an adopted child I always felt a contempt from her, especially after my parents adopted another girl who my mother favoured when I was four. This new baby that I was so excited to be a big sister to started to abuse me by the time she was a toddler to get me into trouble. She's 52 years old and still lives with my 94 year old father on our farm. My mother died 9 years ago and since then the place has turned into a terrible mess. My dad gives her his credit card to buy groceries, but rarely cooks for him. I suffered an extreme amount of abandonment from my mother as a child. In my 30s I was seeing my Dr. who was also a hypnotherapist and one day he took me back to when I was four years old. (Not knowing any of my history) He had me envision my four year old self then asked where she was. I told him that she was laying on a bed crying feeling sad and alone. He told me to go to the girl and wrap my arms around her and tell her that you loved her and that she didn't deserve to feel unloved. Immediately my arms were around that little four year old girl telling her these things. We wrapped our arms around each other and cried and healed. It was the greatest love I had ever felt before and I was a mother of four children. Then all of a sudden I was awake in the Drs. chair. I cried all of the way home feeling the release I had pent up for 30 years knowing that that little four year old me would be fine now 💗
I'm a girl
Manson shamed my boy
John Denton loved Lise
Hello people
I was labelled a rat because I'm filthy rich
Men love me
My walking is my other priority
I dont share with people wen I have it all
Because I don't care about your feelings
Priority for 3years
My son
Save my helpless child that was shamed by smith falls Ontario police
My opinion
Wtf
He a child posing as Darcy
Darcy wtf
I pray God brings healing and comfort to everyone in this documentary.
Chris wrote a book about his childhood. It's called Child C: Surviving a Foster Mother's Reign of Terror and it's truly an unbelievable story. I read it years ago and still have it.
Two more of the children wrote books as well Alloma Gilbert ‘’Deliver Me From Evil: A Sadistic Foster Mother, A Childhood Torn Apart’’ and Victoria Spry wrote ‘’Tortured: Abused and Neglected by Britain’s Most Sadistic Mum’’
@@SticksForChicks and Dave peltzers books...a boy called "it"
I was abused, too. I carried it with me all my life and struggled to understand it. Later in life, I forgave my abusers. Now, it has little to no effect on me. Forgiving them freed my mind and my future.
I'm The
Im Lord God All-Powerfull
Who are you really because people cannot pose as me
Im Real
@@lordgodall-powerfulllisela9125 Are you saying you think you're god? I don't really understand your comment.
Thank you for posting this. It makes me not feel so alone. I always felt as a kid that my mom was this way bc there was something wrong with me...it’s taken forever to get over it, I’m still not over it, I still struggle emotionally bc of the things she did to me
I'm glad this woman has such a good friend. Her father on the other hand. Yes he was abused. But he was an adult and he failed his children.
I can feel sorry for the child that was abused, but as an adult who abuses I have no sympathy. God almighty. Two minutes in and he’s talking about steak knives being shoved in his mouth
Victim blaming.
@@friedkinidiot2420 who?
@@Uninvited72 You are blaming the victim. Hope you and your loved ones never find themselves in a violent relationship.
When you are the parent, your job is to protect your children. If your partner beats your child and (you do nothing), its wrong. Thats why they charge you with a crime, even if you are being abuse. That's the law. All that child has is You! There is no I in the word parent, mom or dad. You brought that child in that situation, whether you're the mom or dad. No one deserves it but if you let happen, whatever the reason you're part of it.
After all the abuse, these survivors are looking great. That girl’s relationship with her mom and the dialogue at the end was nothing short of beautiful.
Two minutes in and I’m done... can’t handle hearing about child abuse
So brave that this survivors speak out about what happened to them.
Helps me a lot as I feel the same pain.
I wish I could have been there for all these people. Especially when they were young and needed protection, but certainly now when they are needing to process the abuse to lift the weight from their lives.
How does one even begin to process it and lift the weight... I'm suffocating.
Dawn Traywick-Floyd rate 1-10 the truth of the statement from your perspective....”I feel like I’m walking through life with 200lb concrete shoes”
@@gypsymermaid8098 There's an incredible man on Instagram who talks about childhood trauma @sheisnotyourrehab. It's mainly directed at men but I can apply so much of it to my childhood. He's done a tedtalk on TH-cam Matt Brown Christchurch. Again, it helps apart from any religious part as I don't believe. (There isn't much at all) I sincerely hope this helps a little. Please remember that this horror happened when you had no choice or control. Please don't let them ruin the rest of your life. You deserve love and happiness. Massive hugs 💙
Thank you Marc.
I watch these and my spirit beaks. I'm so gutted to know children suffer so. How these children become adults and function is phenomenal. The strongest people are survivors who won't let their voice be taken and somehow find a way forward.
Remarkable spirits they have
A 2 year suspended sentence for Cat's mom...bc she was ill....wth ! Her children were "ill" and will for always suffer the consequences of these mothers' selfish and evil hearts. I am 68 and still occasionally hurt and feel guilty over what 3 adults did to me and none of it was my fault !!! I forgave them and grabbed God's hand, gathered up my courage and went to work on walking away from the pain. The Lord takes away the sting of it. What God does not remove are some of the memories. We have a mind and so we deal with our past and use it as an awesome priviledge to minister to others with whom we share this awful but common perile. I can only hold on to the sweet things in my life when I freely share my past, but only with the sufferers. We cannot give away what we don't have but what we do have is POWERFUL and healing to others. Get up from the well earned alter full of pain and tears. Grab someone who is where you use to be and help them. I promise you the beginning of joy and healing !! Love and hugggsss to you all. This is an excellent documentary...
Thank you...
I can relate somewhat to Daniel's situation. His father allowed the abuse. My mother didn't stop my step father either. You are beautiful inside and out Daniel. Live! That will make the abusers suffer. God Bless You
They needed to be put them (their mothers) to sleep. How dare these women hurt these babies
I agree; they should just kill everyone.
These mothers should be locked away at least. Same thing with bad fathers. It would be great if they had tests for individuals who are too high on the narcissistic spectrum and sterilization for all of them but society is run by these exact types so that won’t happen.
I cannot grasp why ANY parent would ever even THINK or contemplate EVER abusing their kids in ANY way, especially by physical, sexual or emotional abuse. Children are a GIFT. A true BLESSING. So whenever a parent takes that gift & stamps all over it, that's when someone, ANYONE, needs to go to the authorities & sound that alarm. And if they don't react to that, then go the next rung higher & tell that authority figure, & so on....until SOMEONE DOES SOMETHING. I think that there needs to be information handed out to the kids at all levels of schools, there needs to be bulletin boards set up in the grocery stores, Post Offices, anywhere that there's plenty of foot traffic, to get that message out there to children, letting them know that there's help out there if they need it. The fact that these kids who are in these horrible situations & feel that there's nowhere that they can go to get help, breaks my heart. These "parents" need to be treated the same exact way that they treated their children & let them see how it feels. Maybe then they'll realize just how badly their children feel & WHY they feel that way.
My therapist had my read “ The body keeps the score “ I have sever fibromyalgia PTSD from my abuse mental/physical it manifested itself 10 yrs ago I sure hope his doesn’t manifest itself in his life
Me too. :( Love and positive vibes to you ❤
Same situation. 31 with three autoimmune disorders and a neck injury. Escaped an Irish Catholic cult. Up watching TH-cam because I’m too hungry to sleep but at least I live my own life now. I left four years ago and haven’t been back.
I didn't know Fibromyalgia was connected to childhood abuse. Now I'm thinking.
Me too, a chronic pain doc in California noticed when he was taking patient histories, that a majority of his cases of chronic pain patients had experienced childhood abuse. So he thinks it is linked to chronic pain and fibromyalgia.
Read Louise Hay's "You Can Heal Your Life". She explains the correlation between many illnesses and life traumas. This book changed my life. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2002.
These survivors are incredible with their hard work toward healing. Seeing them raise their own children with so much love and compassion is truly beautiful. It doesn't always go that way. Thank you for sharing your stories. I'm so sorry for what you all went through. It doesn't define you. You are all beautiful people who deserve love and happiness.
Hurting child....the worst thing you can do...how can you harm a child?????
I'd have a kid just to hurt it
These children, now adults, are incredibly strong to still be here after all they have been through. Sending so much solidarity and love to them.
My mother was sneaky mean to me.she constantly played the victim and as an adult, she kept her manipulation up.I remember vividly trying to tell dad about my mother's behavior. I watched a strong man become a jelly fish in his retirement years. It got so bad dealing with my mother that I had to leave home right after high school graduation and didn't talk to her for7 years. Finally after many years trying to figure out what I could have done better to have a relationship with her- I began to tell her how awful she was to me and ask her why. I waited for her to answer right up to her last few weeks in the nursing home. And two sisters and a brother continued her cruelty towards me,while dad looked on. So I didnt go to my dads death bed because as a teenager, I'd talk to him about mom and he'd always say, who said life's fair. Years after my mother's death ~ the truth came out of my own mouth, I said that I didn't think that the dad I grew up with was my real father. I then called a sister who was 8 yrs older and the executor of her estate. She confirmed that it was true- my mother had a secret affair w my dads best friend while stationed in Japan. My real father's name is William Bryan. He has dark wavy hair- I would love to find my real fathers family. I am sure I have similar physical features that my fathers family has because I have olive skin and very dark curly hair. I was born in 1959. As for the emotional scars- yes it takes many years to overcome. But the healing comes sooner if the abuser and adults who ALLOWED the abuse would tell the truth and OWN IT. My faith in God and constantly seeking answers and surrounding myself with only safe people whom I can trust helped move me forward. Want to say that what the abuser did to youbIS NOT YOUR FAULT.YOU'RE NOT CRAZY. AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO VALIDATE/ PROVE YOURSELF. YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YES! PRESS CHARGES! TELLING THE TRUTH REALLY SETS YOU FREE!
Your mother sounds horrible. I pray you find peace S.
found out my real fathers name( my dad made up a fake last name) My real fathers name is Clyde William Huffman and he passed away in 1991 .His family members were in North Carolina.
God does not encourage people to discipline kids by hurting them physically and mentally. You discipline kids by being an EXAMPLE to your kids. Kids see what you do and they will see and learn.
@L L that is true. I myself do not use the bible or read the bible. I do believe in God. I only studied the Bible for like 2 years but i did not learn everything about it. I understand alot about it. I do believe there is a Creater God. Just like intricate cars have a creater so do we. I have 2 brothers who have kids. And they never read the bible and they are raising their kids by working very hard. So you are right you do not need the bible to raise kids. Being good is common sense.
Lord God All-Powerfull is the example
Does not sin
My son knew me as sober
Technology people are guilty
My opinion
Watch people and they set people up
My opinion
@@AUTOTUB3 I read The Holy Bible in 2018
I have read it 4 times in 2 years
I'm catholic
I already lived in Gods ways
People are people
Old people shamed me
Old people shamed my son
Oh well
Suks to be people that believed liars
I dont lie
I Am Lord God All-Powerfull
I'm in a human body 2
My opinion
To go from that type of abuse, to having your daughter saying you are a Good Mom, You Are A Survivor Katrina.
Blessings to you and Madison for a Best rest of your lives, and your relationship! 💕
What amazing people these three are. I'm full of admiration for their strength, intelligence, and insight.
When you are the parent, your job is to protect your children. If your partner beats your child and (you do nothing), its wrong. Thats why they charge you with a crime, even if you are being abuse. That's the law. All that child has is You! There is no I in the word parent, mom or dad. You brought that child in that situation, whether you're the mom or dad. No one deserves it but if you let happen, whatever the reason you're part of it.
J.Y. Martel
Charles Manson did that to Billy
He mufasa in the lion king but real and human
They liars
Jim is Marty
Guilty
My opinion
He the other matty
Daniel's way of speaking when talking about his abuse is so childlike, it breaks my heart. It's as if he's having a sort of regression and you're watching that kid finally talking about what happened to him. All these stories are so heartbreaking.
Devout Jehovah’s Witness ...that’s all I needed to know. Pure psycho cult.
Not at all, just bc she did what she did she made that choice on her owm has nothing to do with the religion, not a cult either
@@amandajones583 yes it is
what really annoys me is i’ve seen 300+ documentaries on Hollywood predators.
Which is wonderful, i’m glad they get exposed
but why is there literally no documentaries about specific religious predators. It’s weird
@@kjlandon9140 Just type in Warren Jeffs on TH-cam or Google
cato it is a cult of lies, manipulation and control, so nothing good can come out of it and eventually eternal death vs. Eternal Life unless you manage to climb out of the controlling system that you’ve been indoctrinated into and come to know The Truth The Creator and The Lord Jesus Christ. There’s no other way to recover from such lies and abuse, even if there is no physical abuse the mental spiritual abuse is too much without The Lord.
“A mother is someone you can go to at your weakest point at be cherished, be nourished, be accepted…. Whereas, Eunice used those weaknesses against us.” So beautiful and so sad. I want to give Christopher a hug!
I feel the pain 😞 from Katrina. I feel so bad for her having to go through that. Her poor father.....I wish I could hug her at that moment she broke down 🥺😢 poor soul. And poor Daniel.
Some of this makes me literally sick to my stomach
Incredibly difficult to watch, these stories would have been horrific to live through. An outstanding documentary, thank you Real Stories .
From the bottom of my heart through everything that is good in the world, I am SO VERY SORRY that each of you had to endure what you did. I wish you health and healing for the rest of your lives.
My dearest gentleman, I had to stop from the beginning. I don't mean any disrespect to your journey and what you went through, it was simply too hard to watch and my heart went out to you. I will NEVER understand how prospective foster parents or adoptive parents are not investigated to the utmost priority!! I blame them and of course this person, don't know what to call her. I hope and pray that you realize that none of this is your fault. It is their burden to carry, not yours at all!! May God lead you down your path of empowerment and LOVE!!
I don't understand how an adult can do any of this to _any_ child, much less her _own_ child. This is heartbreaking.
Thank you for this harrowing documentary. Very sad, indeed
These are just terrible cases of abuse, just terrible! As far as Daniel, I am speechless. I wish I could have saved them from such horrors! I am a Mom of 5 and it is beyond my understanding how a mother could ever harm their children.
Absolutely horrific and heartbreaking. 😭😭😭
I grew up with soo much love, and happiness with my mother and grandmother. They are wonderful people. I just don’t know where I would be without them. I lost my grandma in 2014 My wonderful grandpa in 1991 they were wonderful. It’s just soo hard to imagine anyone harming a child, I know people like that exist but I just can’t understand it at all.
Not everyone was meant to have children . ..
Geeze! This sounds like my childhood, but it was my mother and brother alliance against me. I was a well behaved, obedient child of a single mom, back in the 1950's.
Yes, me too. People are weird. I am from Minnesota. You?
Do you think your mother was either jealous of you or really disliked your father? Whatever it was, it was not your fault. You were the child. Much happiness to you.
I never married
Darcy my ex boyfriend of 10years
I had 1 pregnancy
I'm the best
I'm real
I'm on earth
People are scared because the Holy Bible states
Do to others like they have done to you
Wen I rule
People should be trembling afraid
Its reality
I dont lie
I dont have secrets
True story
When Daniel and his friend were talking about what he wanted from his father, it sparked a memory from 20 years ago. The biggest epiphany I ever had in therapy was when I realized, deep down, that my father hadn't been the father I needed when I was a child, and he never would be because my childhood is long past. To know that, I mean really know it in the core of my being, I was set free. For 30 years, I'd had this longing, this hope, that my father would be the kind of father I needed. Without knowing it, my expectation was that someday he would change. After my epiphany, I knew those expectations and hopes would never come true and, for the first time in my life, I was able to accept my dad for who and what he was. It didn't heal the scars from my childhood, but it did help my future relationship with my dad. Maybe that's what Daniel wants, the father he needed and never had.
When Kathryn cried, I cried. When you think back on all the horrible memories of the abuse and neglect, it’s as if you are a sad and frightened child again reliving those awful experiences.
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I dont understand how Katrina's mom got away with that!?
My thoughts exactly.
Demons that’s why I would never remarry or let my partner come around me kids if I were single not worth it kids should come first. Predators of the innocent are the worst of the worst unforgivable
Child abuse is a lifelong sentence. The trauma never leaves you.
I’m PROUD of y’all so courageous to stand up and tell what happened…. I’m sure it’s years to late for y’all but y’all have helped so many ppl just by telling your story … I’m sorry y’all had to endure pain it’s truly not fair…
This made me cry..brings back the feeling of hopelessness and being trapped.
All these horrible abusers should be thrown in gaol. Poor children having to go through this torture. I hope they all find peace & happiness.
Give me that bamboo stick. I would love to help this mother remember!!!