Wow, that guy who showed up after 3 years, the way he spoke to her... Sounds like a classic abuser trying to rope someone back in to his abuse cycle. Yikes 👿
Ngl I was worried for her safety. Someone crazy enough to just show up after 3 years may be crazy enough to react really badly when she tells him to gtfo. :(
As an introvert, how the heck do people have the the ability to have 2 relationships at once? I can’t stand being around my FAMILY for more than 2 hours at a time, how do people “hang out” with one person and then “hang out” with someone else?!?! I NEED TIME BY MYSELF AND THEY DON’T HAVE TIME FOR *ACTUAL* ALONE TIME!!!!
That poor girl who’s husband cheated on her while he was deployed - well played, dear. Very well played. She went in with a plan and followed through. Respect. 👌
It's mostly the other way around and the one at home is cheating. Back in the day my nephew came back from being deployed and was greeted at the airport with 2 more kids than what he had when he left.
@@Diffidentone Whew 😳…that’s a whole handful of “hell nah” right there. So sorry that happened to him! And I would agree, I think it’s more common the other way around as well. Really unfortunate either way of course. ☹️
@@leannarose8433 Yea really do not know what went on there and never asked. They are still together some 20+ odd years later. Maybe they had some kind of arrangement where he wanted a set number of kids and they were getting up in child bearing age so he said continue on without me. Heck maybe he was sending sperm home in a ziploc bag I've no clue or maybe it was like I implied in my first comment. Bottom line is I do not know the true story and maybe should not have even commented on it in my first reply. Too late to delete my comments now and have it look like you are talking to yourself. 🤣
I once had a boyfriend who cheated on me the entire time we were together with one of his exs. So we broke up. My feelings were hurt but I got over it pretty quickly. Which I guess made him mad because one night after I came home from a date he was just hanging out outside of my place. He was screaming that I went out with another guy to soon after breaking up with him (he moved in with his ex the day we broke up) and that he wasn’t ready for me to move on. He didn’t want me back he just didn’t want me to find someone new. After that I had to block him and his new/old gf on everything because she kept sending me rude messages because she was mad that he wouldn’t stop talking about how amazing I was and how she was nothing like me. I just decided that I didn’t want or need any of their drama. I even moved to another state so I wouldn’t have them showing up at my house at 2 am to scream at each other on my lawn anymore. I seriously hope they both got the therapy they desperately needed.
Yeeeeaaaaaah those two seem like psychos. Glad you went out with someone after the break up quickly. I think you got over him quickly because deep down you knew something was off.
My husband of 29 years came home one day with my nephew’s estranged wife, who wasn’t even born when we got married, and wanted her to move in, having us become a polygamous relationship. I said no, & he moved out. They ended up being homeless for the next 6 years and at one point during that time, he asked if they could pitch a tent in my back yard & live there. He wasn’t happy & didn’t understand why I said no. Didn’t think I deserved that torment.
In the lead up to the final months to me finally breaking up with my ex-fiance, I finally admitted to him that I didn't want to marry him until he treated me better and we started couples counseling. We hadn't made any wedding plans up until that moment, but after I told him that he wanted to start wedding planning. After a disastrous weekend of having all my needs and concerns dismissed I told him I didn't want to do wedding planning until we finished counseling. Fast forward to a few months later when I learned from one of my students that he had been planning our wedding for later on in the year. Yes, that's right, he was planning our wedding in secret but also telling everyone. He made excuses, saying he was trying to reduce my stress, etc. I continued trying to work through counseling with him and the counselor finally got him to agree to postpone the wedding when he admitted the only reason he wanted to marry me was because he wanted to get married before he turned 30. Later on we got into a huge fight while trying to call his mom to tell her and I left. I realized he had access to all my social media accounts when I had read messages from my friends that I never received that night. I caught him logging onto my Facebook and ended it. His big thing was that I didn't trust him enough but he was a hypocrite. I found out my parents had put down a $2000 deposit for a wedding venue that I never saw and never agreed to. A few months after the break-up I received an email from a wedding planner to discuss our wedding date at the venue being moved TO THE NEXT YEAR. I politely informed her there would be no wedding and she apologized. He never said anything to me about it. Less than a year later he married someone else, so he got his wish to be married before 30. I hope he learned a lot of lessons about compromising and treating his partner better before he married that poor girl. There was a lot of behavior following that though that makes me believe otherwise. Fortunately for me, patience has paid off and I am dating a very wonderful, caring man who asks about my needs and is willing to compromise!
SCARY crazy ex! I wouldn't speak to anyone who knocked on my door in the middle of the night for non-emergency reasons, that's like the classic start of a horror film or true crime documentary 😱
I heard that one of my exes was calling me a crazy ex girlfriend for a little while, at the point in time when I was calling him out on some of his bullshit. Stopped being a crazy ex when I stopped wasting the energy on him. It never bothered me though, I’ve met some of them and they’re cool women. Hilarious to watch him squirm a little the time he saw his ex-wife, ex-girlfriend (me), and the current girlfriend all having a laugh and getting along at a Halloween party. When ALL their exes are crazy, they’re the common denominator. 😏
BOOM! Absolutely. My ex husband STILL tells people how crazy I am, but I stay pretty quiet. Turns out when you (generally speaking) don't play into it, people start to see the truth instead of blindly believing.
Exactly!! What do they all have in common, you? Listen to the song psycho by maisie peters. Its such a good song to rock out to whilst getting over an ex who calls you crazy 😂
Had an ex who followed me around for a long time after the breakup… Like, creepy follow. This was before the internet, so it was more of him LITERALLY physically following me. I thought it was LONG over and like 5 or so years later, I was walking through a local store and I hear a woman yelling my name. It is a very uncommon name in my small town, so of course, I look. It was my ex’s mother. She was calling out to her GRANDDAUGHTER. Yes, my ex had a kid with someone else and named it after me.
That’s seriously messed up!! I wonder how your ex’s baby mama felt about that?? Or didn’t she know? There’s no freakin way I would let that happen! That’s next level crazy!! 🤪
A little late to the party but My husband's ex-wife did the same thing. She cheated on him with a guy and afterward when they divorced etc. remarried and gave the kid she had with that man the exact same name as the guy she cheated on dh with. Yes, it is really messed up!
I had the opposite happen; my ex's new girlfriend (the one he cheated on me with) kept randomly showing up wherever I was, wanting to fight me because apparently finding out she had been the "other woman" offended her and she wanted to establish some sort of dominance over me by kicking my ass. The even more hilarious part was she was terrified of me and eventually convinced her best friend to take over the random appearances with similar results. Ah high school, good times!!!
That entire relationship was next level drama, the first time we broke up (also because he cheated) the girl he started seeing was a serious "single white female" she told everyone that my best friend was her best friend, even bought a matching friendship ring to ours, first she dated the boyfriend I had before this one, then him, they showed up at my work, tried to start a fight. He even showed up at my new boyfriend's house and tried to start a fight with him. Small towns are insane!!!! I also have no idea where I got the reputation for being a fighter, I'd never been in a single fight. I've had one physical altercation in the entirety of my life and that was a crazy (I don't say this in jest, she was later locked up in an institution) roommate that tried to punch my stomach when I was 5 months pregnant and all I did was pin her to the floor until she calmed down. I think I just attract crazy or something.
@@danipoet5702 f-ing hell girl you've been through some sh1t. I hope you're well and happy now. I seem to attract crazy too: I had an ex push me down a flight of stairs where I was knocked out and he stole my phone to see if I was cheating (I wasn't). His new girlfriend is an old friend of mine and is absolutely gorgeous, both inside and out. I've heard he's treating her poorly too and that pisses me off. Another ex had a m3th binge (ugh) and out of nowhere picked me up by the throat, smashed me into the mirror on my wall and chocked me until I passed out. I'm sorry those things happened to you lovely. People are crazy. But not all... Sending love to you 💖💖💖
My exs ex showed up at my work place...6 months pregnant! (With a different man's child) wanting to fight me. I was a server. My coworker came in the kitchen saying "hey you got a friend looking for you out in the dining room" I'm like ok and carrying peoples food, turn the corner and BAM she's there in my face threatening me followed me all thru the dining room yelling like a Damm fool😅🤣
@@gingeminge wow, that's not okay, glad you got away and I hope your friend does too. And yup those days are long gone for me, I'm an old lady now with grown children.
I think my favorite ex story was my bff's grandma. She found out that her husband was cheating on her for over a year, so she left him and refused to divorce him. She then pulled money out from his air force retirement fund (all legally btw). I can't remember if he had just retired or if they have been retired for a little while at that point? Unfortunately, I don't know all the legal mumbo jumbo because I'm not part of the military, but since they're still legally married, she gets a good chunk of money every month from his retirement. She even found a really nice man and settle down with him, and all her grandkids know him as their actual grandpa (and all of them are aware of the story). I don't really call it a crazy ex story, but I do call it awesome Petty revenge xD
Honestly, not that different than divorcing and collecting alimony then refusing to remarry and losing the pay check. If gramps really cared, he could start the divorce proceedings too
@@Lill2895 He won't lose anything at that point - he's no longer active duty and she's been living with another person; there's no penalty since he's retired. Also, depending on how long they've been apart he wouldn't even need her approval for a divorce in some states.
I had an ex who got mad at me at dinner, so she went to the bartender and told him I was buying a round for the entire, packed bar. She went to the bathroom, and the bartender came over to tell me, since I knew him. I left. She got stuck with an over $1000 tab. I still laugh about it.
... soooo many cheaters. This is why I've never had any relationships. No exes, and I'm not an ex. What's so difficult about staying faithful? Why cheat? Why? It's so selfish and disrespectful.
Yes it is selfish amd disrespectful. This is why one waits and learns who someone is, building trust before emmeshing lives together. If you wouldn't give them access to your bank account, do not give them access to your brain or body. Its simple, just takes time and we want everything this minute.
I can't imagine trying to date in society today but I also hope you don't miss out on anything life. You're going to hear ppls stories about the bad things. Not a lot of interest in the story of 'I've been dating, married to a partner that's never done xyz'. To an extent, some hurt in life makes you wiser. Would any of us know joy without also knowing the opposite? The absolute worst ppl are usually the ones who never experienced any consequences in life.
I think it's because people simply have forgotten what a relationship is. In old time if something needed repair, did you repair it, today do we just replace it. I think people treat relationships in the same way. There is a really great reason for why we say "this is my partner" it is because you are partners, maybe people should try to act like it! :-)
@@dalpz205 You are right, but sometimes do one just have to decide if the experience and lesson is worth the troubles. I decided to get a girl, and we have been together for over 16 years but before that, do I have to admit that the "expenses" were nowhere near worth the few benefits and if I could redo it, had I dropped 99% of it all from before my current GF. :-)
@@friedmule5403 Everyone's circumstances are different at any given time. I was making a very general statement. I just hate seeing anyone missing out on any potential great joys in life.
I had low self-esteem when I was in my early twenties, so I put up with a lot of behaviors that I shouldn't have from women. One of the more memorable ones was this girl I met on campus through just running into her in the hall. We found that we had a bit in common, and I was completely flattered that another woman found me attractive. We had only started exclusively dating for like a week or two, and I had just met one of her male friends. Well, I get a message from her saying that she wanted to date this guy friend I had just met AS WELL as me. I immediately said, 'No. That's not what I entered into this relationship for. If you want to date him, go ahead. But I'm not going to be a part of it.'. She had the audacity to get mad at me. 'You knew I was bisexual,' she said, 'so that means that I need to date both a guy and a girl'. No, no, that's not how that works. I ended things there. The next semester rolls around, and I started dating another girl. We hadn't been together long, so there was some friction that we needed to work out. My then-girl friend was a tutor for the school, and what do you know. One of the people she was helping was my ex. My ex proceeded to tell me how she was now 'the jealous ex-girlfriend' and started whispering in both of our ears in an effort to break us up. We both ended up stopping communication with her eventually. While I understand that I learned some valuable lessons from the relationships I was in, I really wish that I had not tried to fill the void inside of myself by pursuing romantic interests.
It still amazes me when someone posts a confession for multiple federal crimes to get internet points. Do NOT access accounts that aren't yours. It's the stupidest way to end up in prison.
@@angr3819 Using a VPN won't eliminate the evidence on the device used and that would be all that's needed for a conviction. They will have no problem getting a warrant for the devices if there is other harassment going on. I've watched fellow IT professionals get pinched for "helping" someone access an SO's accounts they think are cheating. I personally have read people the riot act for even asking me to do it. This is not an crime that amateurs should attempt. Prisons are full of dipshits that thought they were smarter than forensic engineers.
The UCMJ does, yes, but that's only if charges are preferred by the command. It very much depends on the leadership & what proof is given. I've seen commanders do nothing unless there was photo/video of them doing the deed, even tho they had emails/texts of the member talking about it or admitting to it. Other commanders throw the book at you w/little proof. It all depends. They have the option to do a lot or do nothing. I've seen a lot of adultery since being in the military but very few repercussions
My friend got married and ended up separating from her husband 6 months later , he told her he wanted kids so she would marry him then went back on it just months after the wedding, he accused her of having 7 affairs at once. Turns out he was cheating on her, she kicked him out of her house and the day before she changed the locks he went in and stole her engagement and wedding rings to pawn.
Wow. What a POS. I've had that happen to me somewhat before though. Crazy ex constantly accused me of cheating even though I was long distance and loyal for all 6 years, while he cheated on me TWICE, I found out, and FORGAVE HIS ASS, and still cheated, AGAIN. Gaslit me and blamed me for all if it in the meantime. Bye bye asshole LOL. Now I'm with a loyal man who takes care of me. 🥰
Classic tactic. My grandfather would accuse his wife of cheating on him constantly. She didn't but we have no idea how many half siblings my father has...
That's typical of a cheater to accuse the partner who has done nothing wrong. They like to project to make you feel like you are the reason they are distant, acting weird, or cheated (if they tell you); but either way, they act weird and out themselves all on their own.
I had a crazy ex. Dude used to smoke cannabis, grew his own plants (still does I believe), used to blame everything on me (even stuff that was from BEFORE we started dating), and would self-prescribe his own medication saying he couldn't trust doctors and that he knew better - he didn't have any kind of medical degree whatsoever. Contacted me out of the blue after I left him (he cheated on me ¬w¬), and said that he believed that I was bipolar and that I should start taking this medication and that medication. Again, had no medical degree at all.
I had an ex who gave himself the title Dr. Talked about himself in the third person... Had useful idiots in his life that fed his delusion... including his Mother... Would nag me to get prescription pain pills from my doctor ....for his....lol... Doctors bag... No degree....took first aid... Koo Koo for coco puffs.
I’ve noticed a trend of people lying that they’re doctors because they think that’ll make people believe whatever they say. The quit your bs subreddit has a number of stories like the following. Liar: As someone who has been a practicing doctor for fifteen years, I can’t be silent anymore! (Insert debunked conspiracy theory here) Person who actually investigates things instead of believing everything they hear: Your profile says you’re twenty-six, so are you lying about your age or are we supposed to believe you became a practicing doctor at eleven years old? What, are you Doogie Howser? Second person who actually investigates: Also, you claimed in a previous post that you dropped out of high school at age 17, became some super elite Army Ranger, and now work as a bounty hunter. You’re saying you became a doctor at age eleven, and then you continued regular school until age 17, went on top secret international missions, and decided to work as a bounty hunter all while still practicing medicine? The post will often have a note in the comments section about the faker dirty deleting their post instead of providing any evidence for their claims.
What do you mean he self prescribed his own medication? Where did he get the prescriptions? You can't just show up at a pharmacy and tell them you'll be need 100 tabs of Zoloft.
I found out a couple of years back that my ex told his girlfriend (the girl he left me for) that I was a crazy ex and he told her to block me on all social media as I was apparently a stalker. Dear reader, I was not. It was in fact because he told her we had broken up much earlier than we had and was effectively cheating on both of us and he didn't want her to find out. How did I find this out? Well a mutual friend went to their wedding and night before groom had gotten very drunk and confessed to his best man (and husband of the mutual friend) who then told me. So um.....good luck to them, I guess?
The potatoes that were put in the yard & then it rained 😂 This is just too much fun to watch! Thank you, Charlotte! These people are on point! Lots of great thinkers put it into action. They keep getting better 😉
Ooph! I’m torn. On the one hand, crazy exes cause me serious trauma. On the other hand, other people’s crazy exes are popcorn worthy. In this case, I’m here for it! Bring on the popcorn! And the tea.
I like to say "sorry, do I know you?" when approached by an ex after we've broken up. There's nothing as satisfying as making them feel like they never even existed 😂
One time, I broke up w my live-in BF and was moving my stuff out day by day while he was at work. In an attempt to stop me leaving, he locked me out of the place where I paid majority rent. I crowbarred the window open, opened the door, got my stuff, and took the doorknob with me until I was totally moved out. Then I reinstalled the knob. 😎
I had an ex contact me after ten years. When we were together he was always suspicious that me and his friend were cheating together on him. I Never cheated. SO ten years later he messages me a totally insane message (HE was blocked so it was a 2nd account) talking about how I had to have been cheating and what a ***** I was. I blocked him again and haven't heard from him since. SO Crazy.
I wholeheartedly believe that if you find out your S/O is cheating on you, do not give them ANY inkling you know. Just pack your stuff and secretly move it. When all your stuff is gone, leave while they are gone or say you are going to go get something and don't come back. That way they aren't becoming more sly on what they do so they don't get caught.
Doing that would really screw them up mentally. Cheaters are usually at least covert narcissists who can't bear to be ignored and ghosted. They dwell on it for the rest of their lives.
Had an Aunt that did that. Moved every scrap out of the house while he was at work. EVERYTHING. even the ice cube trays. He came home and no, wife, no kids, and the house was totally empty. Not sure what she did with all his stuff, but he told the rest of the family that she was crazy. Um. Yeah. You had three kids with her, she stayed with you even though your a ****, and she’s the crazy one???
About the abusive ex showing up after 3 years:After I saw him through the window/peep hole theough the door, I would have just yelled “OH HELL NO!” and left him standing there. If there’s any kind of harassment or PFA, I would have just called the police and let them deal with him.
I _thought_ I was the crazy ex for many years.... This ended up being the result of all of them shit-talking me behind my back and convincing everyone _else_ that I was crazy, which trickled down to me and my shitty self-worth at the time. It took several years of looking at Facebook memories with my roommate to realize I was actually _waaayyyyy_ chiller than I'd been convinced I was. (The one fucker using _other_ people's accounts to tell me how proud my abusive father would be of who I became from the only one of them violent enough to actually hit _me_ was pretty telling as well.)
Oof. I am so sorry you got subjected to all of that. My experience was a relatively short (like 3-4 months worth) that involved him and the person he ran off with hardcore subjecting me to a load of psychological shit until I'd lash out so they could say I was psycho. :( Like he caused me to lose my already thin relationship with my father in the process.
that happened to me too!! my ex went around calling me the crazy ex to all my friends to try to push them away from me. And trying to say upsetting stuff around me, if I got upset he could call me the psycho ex, if I didn't get upset he would just leave cause then there was nothing in it anymore. My shitty self esteem convinced me he was right, it really messes with your memories. It took me way too long to realise how untrue and unfair it was. I'm so glad you reached that point as well!
That got me thinking about my ex. He staked me, the first's month's after our breakup. He even called me, 10 Years later "just to talk" - I asked about his child! Apparently he still talks about me... his biggest regret. It's been16 year's. What happened? He cheated & he had to pay for the sex, literally!
I successfully did the “crazy ex” thing, got him back, had a baby, and spent 28 years with an abusive narcissist (he wasn’t, before). Be careful WTF you wish for. You just might get it. (To be fair, I got the daughter I’d wanted since second grade.) I am now retired from relationships, and strictly celibate.
Yeah, it's amazing isn't it? The relationships we go nuts and fight the hardest for- end up being for people who were NO GOOD for us to begin with. The worst thing you could do is "win" those people back, but yet, they have such a grip on you..I let a guy drive me to almost committing a crime because his "crazy ez" just wouldn't leave us alone for the first six months of our relationship. Turns out, the reason she wouldn't go away is because he was still messing with her that whole time. So guess what- if your partner has a "crazy ex" that will NOT go away .. I'd put money on it that the reason they won't go away is because the person is STILL messing with thier ex, still leading THEM on behind your back. So if you've got a messy ex situation- WALK AWAY. People surrounded by "crazy people" are NOT WORTH IT. Anyone who's got that drama going on is NOT WORTH IT!!
@A H Got that right. I went into “Refuse to lose” mode. He was still occasionally messing with me, leading me to believe he really did love me. Society, and women themselves have to stop basing a woman’s worth on whether or not there’s a man in her life. Ancient, outdated philosophy
My crazy ex kept telling everyone around him that I was still “his woman” months after I made it clear that we were not together anymore and kept calling me to tell me about other women he was talking to and asking who I was fkn, before I blocked him on everything, those were some interesting voicemails
It's the same situation my sister is going through. They were due to get married, he messed up big time, she broke it off. He never told his family, his sister was shocked to find out they broke up the month prior. When she, (his sister), confronted him about the situation, he got big mad and went off on his family. He didn't speak to her for a while cause she exposed him. They were disappointed because people were still putting in money for a wedding that no longer existed. He has been creating multiple accounts sending no less than 60 messages per "chance" interaction, *IG's block option doesn't do sh*t*... It's uncomfortable at this point. P.S: my sister still gets texts from his co-workers asking about their relationship, he hasn't told them they broke up, it has been a year now.
Phew I feel it. My most recent one was insanely mentally abusive, financially exploited me, posted pics of me in various states of undress (she owes some poor souls some therapy after having to see that), shared every intimate detail about my personal life/convos to all her friends, and tried to guilt me into helping support her and her children (she was making a lot of money from her baby daddies cus they were financially well off). The deal breaker was I figured out she quit taking her birth control (cus I found a few and when I asked her about it she said it was none of my business) After I got out of that relationship, moved, and changed jobs. She sent me over 50 texts a day, sent me my address, got to know some of my coworkers, slashed my tires, tried to have me beat up,and followed me. Took many many police reports, snitching on her to the text now app (if anyone you know is abusing you using that contact the text now app and give them the person's name and email), and eventually sending all this proof to her mother and best friend to which it finally stopped after 6 months of that lol. Being alone is safer than being in a toxic/abusive relationship. Not all abuse is physical. Take time to get to know your partner crazy is easy to hide but it can't stay hidden forever. (Steps off of soap box) have a blessed day folks.
I went out with a guy who tried to stalk me after we broke up by calling my parents (who lived in Missouri while I was living in Louisiana) and my work (wtaf?!) and also called me to find out when I was coming back to Florida (where he lived…”uh, never.”) I worked offshore in the oilfield, so that was the best he could do as far as stalking went. That lasted for maybe a year and I guess he gave up…then 6 years later he calls my parents asking them to have me call him, and gives them his number…AND THEY GIVE IT TO ME! (My parents were actually very smart, neuropharmacologist and math professor, but MAN did they not have a clue!) Yeah. I did not call him. I did have loads of “the dumbest guy I ever dated” stories, which I share with our girls (I got hitched to a sane person.) I am hoping that these stories will help them look for red flags during a first date…this guy and I went out for a couple of months…
My husband and a laughed till we cried. I used to tease my husband I would loud everything he owned into his dump truck and set it on fire and send the ashes to his sister if he cheated. I emptied ashes from the wood stove ( that had been standing in a covered bucket in the snow for a week) into the garden. About two hours later my daughter comes running out of her room yelling green house is on fire!. Suffice to say, "I burned the greenhouse down" with my husband's motorcycle in it and all our camping gear. I had to call him at work .He worked remotely. His first words were...is everyone OK? then the famous...does this mean I get a free one? We both laughed about that, it just took me about a year before I felt the humor in it.
4:34 for those who haven't seen then complete video, the reason he "legally tried to talk to her" was simply to try to get back together. Lmao he. Built it up to make it seem as of there was some big important reason for him showing up but there wasn't. Literally just drunk and thought that after 3 yrs his mistakes disappear and she just must take him back. 🤣🤣
I wanna publicly apologize to Dave for sitting on the bench at the park in front of his house everyday for 2 weeks when I was 9. I hope I didn't traumatize you I just thought you were super cute 🤣
I only have one ex. I had been with my now-boyfriend for a few years when my ex messaged me. Basically, he told me multiple times that he tried to find someone to replace me, but he never found anyone who loved him like I did. I didn't block him, but I stopped responding. A few more years go by. He messaged me again to tell me his father had passed away. I offered my condolences, and he comes back with, "Yeah, I'm sitting with my mom right now. She would love to talk to you." I didn't respond to that, and I blocked him. Not too crazy, but I could feel it getting there if I continued to allow him to message me.
I've just had one of those days at work today where everything goes wrong, didn't get a break and by the time my 'lunch' rolled around I wasn't hungry anymore just stressed and tired. As always Charlotte, your video cheered me up. Thanks so much for the hard work and content you create. Much love, stay well. X
8:00 Please, please, please do NOT throw food out of your car windows so it lands on the road. So many starving animals die trying to get the discarded food that humans dump on busy road ways.
I went on a single date with a guy I talked a lot with in school, after the date I realized I didn't feel the same way, but didn't know how to tell him. One of his friends heard, walked into clas practically yelling "Blank she's breaking up with you!" Very rude, class hadn't started yet so there weren't many people there but still so wrong! He ended up being an ass to me a few years later, calling me horrible things while I was trying new mental health meds (so I already was in a bad mental space). I told one of my friends what he did and the next day between class she walked up and slapped him across the face! I love you girl 😍 made my year
My son's father broke into our house after we broke up and stole all the kids Christmas presents. In February. 3 kids were his, we shared one kid. He stole EVERYTHING. So I moved his best friend in. We dated for a year and a half after that.
Don't forget that you are so pretty also, and thanks for being my filter for all the social media I don't do. I am 66 yrs. old and do only Facebook, occasionally. You help me laugh and my dog recognizes your voice. Keep up the excellent work. You have blossomed so much this last year.✌️ out girlscout ❣️
Hi Charlotte! I just wanted to say I have severe anxiety, and when I feel anxious I get so teary and it feels like the end of the world. When I feel like this, I love watching your videos as a distraction, and they cheer me up! Hope you are doing well!
When a relationship ends I cut them out of my life with surgical precision. I have no energy to be carrying the past on my back or letting someone live rent free in my head.
@@tracey7241 I would bet that he had just been served a summons/subpoena/support/alimony/child support papers and she had waited years to screw up his life.
@@markbernier8434 three years is about the length of time between child support reviews so you’re probably spot on. He probably got served with notice of one and is blaming her when it is actually done by the state’s attorney general automatically. I hope she presented this video as evidence.
Thank you for making these videos Charlotte. My mom and uncle died 2 weeks ago within 12 hours of each other and on really bad days I just put on your videos and do art. ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss. I’m glad our Potato Queen helps on the really bad days. She posts pretty much every day (same time) so maybe she can help you avoid bad days and not just ease them? Sending you prayers from San Antonio.
My sis was this one dude who, after their breakup, got a full back tattoo of her... I only got to see the outline already done until unfriended him... He was crazy!
Hi lovely! I got a crappy diagnosis a few days ago and although I'll be ok after treatment, your videos are helping keep my mind off it all. Thank you Charlotte! Love from the UK 💗
I’m sorry to hear about your crappy diagnosis. Feel free to take in as much Miss Charlotte as you can; no fear of overdoing it. Sending you prayers and healing from San Antonio, USA.
girl! love your channel, getting caught up on all the petty awesomeness while covid wreaks havoc in my sinuses, dont want to know what itd be like unvaxed -_- i live for your pettiness 💜💜💜 it gives me life
My craziest ex stalked me for 8-9 years after I broke up with him in 2012! I moved to different cities, and never stayed in the same place for as long as the lease was, for fear he would find out what area I lived in. but I have finally gone a full calendar year without hearing from him 10years after the breakup. I would get random messages from throw away accounts, he wouldn’t hide that it was him but would tell me the places I had been that day and once sent a picture of me when I was out with my best friend and cousin. I’ve had to block 15+ social media accounts, including throw always and legit accounts. His sister tried to follow me online and tell me that he only does this because “he loves me” uhhh no your brother is a psychopath and I cannot tell you how happy I am that I haven’t heard from him! But tbh I was really freaked out because I hadn’t heard from him in so long that I thought he had something extra extra crazy/ scary planned for the 10 year anniversary of our breakup, but luckily nothing has happened!
Omg…. Is a restraining order an option, or do you think it wouldn’t make a difference? I hope you have protection, I’m so sorry he’s been doing this to you, that sounds absolutely miserable and terrifying 😢
@@meaganbastos the thing about restraining orders is you have to give the stalker your address so they know where to stay away from! It’s absolutely ridiculous! I had one previously, but since I try to move often, updating the address is a hassle so the order of protection I had expired. But I also don’t want to give this psycho my address willingly.
I’m a total weirdo, I’m actually friends with 3 exes, one came to my wedding and I did the catering for two of their weddings. When it’s over, it’s over, walk away with respect and dignity and as time goes on you can see the good but calmly realise you’re not right for each other in a relationship. I’ve never cheated on anyone though. If you pressure someone to be in a relationship neither of you will ever be happy.
@@angr3819 Totally agree, as I said I’ve never been cheated on and sometimes you realise things aren’t right for you. It took a few years of me being sober before my first wife and I became true friends, she was totally right to divorce a drunk. Even then it was because we share two daughters and we both took coparenting seriously. Luckily I've been in a position to help her and her husband (that was one of the weddings I did the catering for).
The song that keeps playing/you were singing is one of my favorites! I actually sang a solo of Crazy in a concert once. 😂😅 I honestly think you should sing it. You’re amazing and your videos really helped when I was quarantined💜
My ex cheated on me habitually for years but would nonstop talk about me to his cheating partners like I was dead or his ex. He'd tell them things like "She's the one that taught me how to love" and stuff like that while we were still together. I kicked him out once I had proof and he wouldn't leave me alone for years. I'd block him and he'd make a new account to tell me how much he missed me and how much he screwed up. He was silent for a year until he suddenly popped up and sent me a message saying he kept dreaming about me and since "You are a dream walker/wizard" that I was going into his dreams to see him. This happened while I was literally in bed with my current SO. He got blocked again lol
Found out my fiancé was cheating I broke up with him and then he stalked me all on social media and my streaming channel. Every time I would block him he would just reach out another way. Then years later he contacted me on another fb messenger account and got mad at ME because I didn’t want to be friends.
And this is why I'm thankful my ex is behind bars, none of that drama that comes with and an easier split even if it broke my heart deeply to realise I never really knew him just the facade he presented.
My crazy/creepy ex turned up at my house (when I was still with my parents) a yr after we broke up asking for me back I told him no way then I had to sit through the awkwardness because my mum insisted on inviting him in for a cup of tea because it was cold outside. I was pissed because I missed my favourite show at the time because I was busy trying to get rid of him
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Next stop (inserts Lil Wayne’s A Milli)… A milli a milli! A milli a milli! 💃💃💃
yay! So happy for you 🥲
Wow, that guy who showed up after 3 years, the way he spoke to her... Sounds like a classic abuser trying to rope someone back in to his abuse cycle. Yikes 👿
Ngl I was worried for her safety. Someone crazy enough to just show up after 3 years may be crazy enough to react really badly when she tells him to gtfo. :(
I found this super worrying too, you don't open the door to those people. You call the police, poor girl
I would have said I don’t even think about you. I’m not mad at you.
@@eiralinnea Same; I sincerely hope she is safe and doing well now.
I want the part 2!!
As an introvert, how the heck do people have the the ability to have 2 relationships at once? I can’t stand being around my FAMILY for more than 2 hours at a time, how do people “hang out” with one person and then “hang out” with someone else?!?! I NEED TIME BY MYSELF AND THEY DON’T HAVE TIME FOR *ACTUAL* ALONE TIME!!!!
Amen
Ugh. Straight facts right there.
Right??? Fellow introvert I agree👍🏼
Girl, same!
RIGHT???!!
That poor girl who’s husband cheated on her while he was deployed - well played, dear. Very well played. She went in with a plan and followed through. Respect. 👌
It's mostly the other way around and the one at home is cheating. Back in the day my nephew came back from being deployed and was greeted at the airport with 2 more kids than what he had when he left.
@@Diffidentone Whew 😳…that’s a whole handful of “hell nah” right there. So sorry that happened to him! And I would agree, I think it’s more common the other way around as well. Really unfortunate either way of course. ☹️
@@leannarose8433 Yea really do not know what went on there and never asked. They are still together some 20+ odd years later. Maybe they had some kind of arrangement where he wanted a set number of kids and they were getting up in child bearing age so he said continue on without me. Heck maybe he was sending sperm home in a ziploc bag I've no clue or maybe it was like I implied in my first comment. Bottom line is I do not know the true story and maybe should not have even commented on it in my first reply. Too late to delete my comments now and have it look like you are talking to yourself. 🤣
Sadly this is common in the military. My mom has stories.
@@tamarrartis2918 yes, very unfortunate!
I once had a boyfriend who cheated on me the entire time we were together with one of his exs. So we broke up. My feelings were hurt but I got over it pretty quickly. Which I guess made him mad because one night after I came home from a date he was just hanging out outside of my place. He was screaming that I went out with another guy to soon after breaking up with him (he moved in with his ex the day we broke up) and that he wasn’t ready for me to move on. He didn’t want me back he just didn’t want me to find someone new. After that I had to block him and his new/old gf on everything because she kept sending me rude messages because she was mad that he wouldn’t stop talking about how amazing I was and how she was nothing like me. I just decided that I didn’t want or need any of their drama. I even moved to another state so I wouldn’t have them showing up at my house at 2 am to scream at each other on my lawn anymore. I seriously hope they both got the therapy they desperately needed.
Yeeeeaaaaaah those two seem like psychos. Glad you went out with someone after the break up quickly. I think you got over him quickly because deep down you knew something was off.
They sound like a match made in hell…
My husband of 29 years came home one day with my nephew’s estranged wife, who wasn’t even born when we got married, and wanted her to move in, having us become a polygamous relationship. I said no, & he moved out. They ended up being homeless for the next 6 years and at one point during that time, he asked if they could pitch a tent in my back yard & live there. He wasn’t happy & didn’t understand why I said no. Didn’t think I deserved that torment.
Sounds like your nephew was better off without her.
Im glad you stood up for yourself! Focus on you, cause you deserve much better
These cheaters have nothing but THE AUDACITY! Sorry that you went through that, but good for you knowing your worth and saying no 🙂
That is some messed up life decision on his part!
He lost his marbles
In the lead up to the final months to me finally breaking up with my ex-fiance, I finally admitted to him that I didn't want to marry him until he treated me better and we started couples counseling. We hadn't made any wedding plans up until that moment, but after I told him that he wanted to start wedding planning. After a disastrous weekend of having all my needs and concerns dismissed I told him I didn't want to do wedding planning until we finished counseling. Fast forward to a few months later when I learned from one of my students that he had been planning our wedding for later on in the year. Yes, that's right, he was planning our wedding in secret but also telling everyone. He made excuses, saying he was trying to reduce my stress, etc. I continued trying to work through counseling with him and the counselor finally got him to agree to postpone the wedding when he admitted the only reason he wanted to marry me was because he wanted to get married before he turned 30. Later on we got into a huge fight while trying to call his mom to tell her and I left. I realized he had access to all my social media accounts when I had read messages from my friends that I never received that night. I caught him logging onto my Facebook and ended it. His big thing was that I didn't trust him enough but he was a hypocrite.
I found out my parents had put down a $2000 deposit for a wedding venue that I never saw and never agreed to. A few months after the break-up I received an email from a wedding planner to discuss our wedding date at the venue being moved TO THE NEXT YEAR. I politely informed her there would be no wedding and she apologized. He never said anything to me about it. Less than a year later he married someone else, so he got his wish to be married before 30. I hope he learned a lot of lessons about compromising and treating his partner better before he married that poor girl. There was a lot of behavior following that though that makes me believe otherwise.
Fortunately for me, patience has paid off and I am dating a very wonderful, caring man who asks about my needs and is willing to compromise!
łnvest Gułde ✅.
Bro, the way he 100% just wanted to "lock you in" once you wisened up to his BS....
Knocking on the door after THREE YEARS?!? I think he was mad 😡 because she didn’t read his mind about what he wanted…? Yep he’s definitely crazy ex.
SCARY crazy ex! I wouldn't speak to anyone who knocked on my door in the middle of the night for non-emergency reasons, that's like the classic start of a horror film or true crime documentary 😱
@@DrT0705 For real! I would have called the cops. Not even going to open the door
He’s an abusive ex that’s trying to drag her back in to him and his abuse
"I made an attempt, legally, I made an attempt." What the actual 🦆!?! He is obviously a 🤡!
I heard that one of my exes was calling me a crazy ex girlfriend for a little while, at the point in time when I was calling him out on some of his bullshit. Stopped being a crazy ex when I stopped wasting the energy on him. It never bothered me though, I’ve met some of them and they’re cool women. Hilarious to watch him squirm a little the time he saw his ex-wife, ex-girlfriend (me), and the current girlfriend all having a laugh and getting along at a Halloween party.
When ALL their exes are crazy, they’re the common denominator. 😏
BOOM! Absolutely. My ex husband STILL tells people how crazy I am, but I stay pretty quiet. Turns out when you (generally speaking) don't play into it, people start to see the truth instead of blindly believing.
Exactly!! What do they all have in common, you?
Listen to the song psycho by maisie peters. Its such a good song to rock out to whilst getting over an ex who calls you crazy 😂
I had to use that "common denominator" quote.
HE'S the common denominator.
My ex only told me he had one ex, I found out about the others after we broke up and we all have a group chat.
The girl “playing” in the flowers on his doorstep was searching for the house key! 🤭😅
Had an ex who followed me around for a long time after the breakup… Like, creepy follow. This was before the internet, so it was more of him LITERALLY physically following me. I thought it was LONG over and like 5 or so years later, I was walking through a local store and I hear a woman yelling my name. It is a very uncommon name in my small town, so of course, I look. It was my ex’s mother. She was calling out to her GRANDDAUGHTER. Yes, my ex had a kid with someone else and named it after me.
That’s seriously messed up!! I wonder how your ex’s baby mama felt about that?? Or didn’t she know? There’s no freakin way I would let that happen! That’s next level crazy!! 🤪
A little late to the party but My husband's ex-wife did the same thing. She cheated on him with a guy and afterward when they divorced etc. remarried and gave the kid she had with that man the exact same name as the guy she cheated on dh with. Yes, it is really messed up!
I spite named my child after my ex favorite thing. Waited until baby was born and name on the birth certificate to drop the relevance.
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@@somerandomperson5521 that sounds like a horrible plan. Your poor child & partner
I had the opposite happen; my ex's new girlfriend (the one he cheated on me with) kept randomly showing up wherever I was, wanting to fight me because apparently finding out she had been the "other woman" offended her and she wanted to establish some sort of dominance over me by kicking my ass. The even more hilarious part was she was terrified of me and eventually convinced her best friend to take over the random appearances with similar results. Ah high school, good times!!!
Omg that's next level 😂😂😂 you don't even need revenge girl, he's now with a crazy biatch
That entire relationship was next level drama, the first time we broke up (also because he cheated) the girl he started seeing was a serious "single white female" she told everyone that my best friend was her best friend, even bought a matching friendship ring to ours, first she dated the boyfriend I had before this one, then him, they showed up at my work, tried to start a fight. He even showed up at my new boyfriend's house and tried to start a fight with him. Small towns are insane!!!! I also have no idea where I got the reputation for being a fighter, I'd never been in a single fight. I've had one physical altercation in the entirety of my life and that was a crazy (I don't say this in jest, she was later locked up in an institution) roommate that tried to punch my stomach when I was 5 months pregnant and all I did was pin her to the floor until she calmed down. I think I just attract crazy or something.
@@danipoet5702 f-ing hell girl you've been through some sh1t. I hope you're well and happy now.
I seem to attract crazy too: I had an ex push me down a flight of stairs where I was knocked out and he stole my phone to see if I was cheating (I wasn't). His new girlfriend is an old friend of mine and is absolutely gorgeous, both inside and out. I've heard he's treating her poorly too and that pisses me off.
Another ex had a m3th binge (ugh) and out of nowhere picked me up by the throat, smashed me into the mirror on my wall and chocked me until I passed out.
I'm sorry those things happened to you lovely. People are crazy. But not all... Sending love to you 💖💖💖
My exs ex showed up at my work place...6 months pregnant! (With a different man's child) wanting to fight me. I was a server. My coworker came in the kitchen saying "hey you got a friend looking for you out in the dining room" I'm like ok and carrying peoples food, turn the corner and BAM she's there in my face threatening me followed me all thru the dining room yelling like a Damm fool😅🤣
@@gingeminge wow, that's not okay, glad you got away and I hope your friend does too. And yup those days are long gone for me, I'm an old lady now with grown children.
I think my favorite ex story was my bff's grandma. She found out that her husband was cheating on her for over a year, so she left him and refused to divorce him. She then pulled money out from his air force retirement fund (all legally btw). I can't remember if he had just retired or if they have been retired for a little while at that point? Unfortunately, I don't know all the legal mumbo jumbo because I'm not part of the military, but since they're still legally married, she gets a good chunk of money every month from his retirement. She even found a really nice man and settle down with him, and all her grandkids know him as their actual grandpa (and all of them are aware of the story).
I don't really call it a crazy ex story, but I do call it awesome Petty revenge xD
Honestly, not that different than divorcing and collecting alimony then refusing to remarry and losing the pay check. If gramps really cared, he could start the divorce proceedings too
@@UnicornsPoopRainbows well, he would lose his money for cheating lol So, no. He can't start the divorce unless he wants to lose that paycheck.
@@Lill2895 He won't lose anything at that point - he's no longer active duty and she's been living with another person; there's no penalty since he's retired. Also, depending on how long they've been apart he wouldn't even need her approval for a divorce in some states.
I had an ex who got mad at me at dinner, so she went to the bartender and told him I was buying a round for the entire, packed bar. She went to the bathroom, and the bartender came over to tell me, since I knew him. I left. She got stuck with an over $1000 tab. I still laugh about it.
Karma us a truly wonderful, beautiful thing
That 3 year one is a stalker. That's terrifying
... soooo many cheaters. This is why I've never had any relationships. No exes, and I'm not an ex. What's so difficult about staying faithful? Why cheat? Why? It's so selfish and disrespectful.
Yes it is selfish amd disrespectful. This is why one waits and learns who someone is, building trust before emmeshing lives together. If you wouldn't give them access to your bank account, do not give them access to your brain or body. Its simple, just takes time and we want everything this minute.
I can't imagine trying to date in society today but I also hope you don't miss out on anything life. You're going to hear ppls stories about the bad things. Not a lot of interest in the story of 'I've been dating, married to a partner that's never done xyz'. To an extent, some hurt in life makes you wiser. Would any of us know joy without also knowing the opposite? The absolute worst ppl are usually the ones who never experienced any consequences in life.
I think it's because people simply have forgotten what a relationship is. In old time if something needed repair, did you repair it, today do we just replace it. I think people treat relationships in the same way.
There is a really great reason for why we say "this is my partner" it is because you are partners, maybe people should try to act like it! :-)
@@dalpz205 You are right, but sometimes do one just have to decide if the experience and lesson is worth the troubles.
I decided to get a girl, and we have been together for over 16 years but before that, do I have to admit that the "expenses" were nowhere near worth the few benefits and if I could redo it, had I dropped 99% of it all from before my current GF. :-)
@@friedmule5403 Everyone's circumstances are different at any given time. I was making a very general statement. I just hate seeing anyone missing out on any potential great joys in life.
I had low self-esteem when I was in my early twenties, so I put up with a lot of behaviors that I shouldn't have from women. One of the more memorable ones was this girl I met on campus through just running into her in the hall. We found that we had a bit in common, and I was completely flattered that another woman found me attractive. We had only started exclusively dating for like a week or two, and I had just met one of her male friends. Well, I get a message from her saying that she wanted to date this guy friend I had just met AS WELL as me. I immediately said, 'No. That's not what I entered into this relationship for. If you want to date him, go ahead. But I'm not going to be a part of it.'. She had the audacity to get mad at me. 'You knew I was bisexual,' she said, 'so that means that I need to date both a guy and a girl'. No, no, that's not how that works. I ended things there.
The next semester rolls around, and I started dating another girl. We hadn't been together long, so there was some friction that we needed to work out. My then-girl friend was a tutor for the school, and what do you know. One of the people she was helping was my ex. My ex proceeded to tell me how she was now 'the jealous ex-girlfriend' and started whispering in both of our ears in an effort to break us up.
We both ended up stopping communication with her eventually. While I understand that I learned some valuable lessons from the relationships I was in, I really wish that I had not tried to fill the void inside of myself by pursuing romantic interests.
Hey. I’m so sorry about that. That’s so wrong.
It still amazes me when someone posts a confession for multiple federal crimes to get internet points. Do NOT access accounts that aren't yours. It's the stupidest way to end up in prison.
OR use a VPN and never make an admission to anyone anywhere 😉
@@angr3819 Using a VPN won't eliminate the evidence on the device used and that would be all that's needed for a conviction. They will have no problem getting a warrant for the devices if there is other harassment going on. I've watched fellow IT professionals get pinched for "helping" someone access an SO's accounts they think are cheating. I personally have read people the riot act for even asking me to do it. This is not an crime that amateurs should attempt. Prisons are full of dipshits that thought they were smarter than forensic engineers.
@@DeathStarKitty Besides, there are other ways to track people without putting your own bod at risk
Sending evidence of cheating on a marriage to someone’s chain of command is no joke. The UCMJ takes adultery of all types very seriously.
They should
The UCMJ does, yes, but that's only if charges are preferred by the command. It very much depends on the leadership & what proof is given. I've seen commanders do nothing unless there was photo/video of them doing the deed, even tho they had emails/texts of the member talking about it or admitting to it. Other commanders throw the book at you w/little proof. It all depends. They have the option to do a lot or do nothing. I've seen a lot of adultery since being in the military but very few repercussions
My friend got married and ended up separating from her husband 6 months later , he told her he wanted kids so she would marry him then went back on it just months after the wedding, he accused her of having 7 affairs at once. Turns out he was cheating on her, she kicked him out of her house and the day before she changed the locks he went in and stole her engagement and wedding rings to pawn.
Wow. What a POS. I've had that happen to me somewhat before though. Crazy ex constantly accused me of cheating even though I was long distance and loyal for all 6 years, while he cheated on me TWICE, I found out, and FORGAVE HIS ASS, and still cheated, AGAIN. Gaslit me and blamed me for all if it in the meantime. Bye bye asshole LOL. Now I'm with a loyal man who takes care of me. 🥰
Classic tactic. My grandfather would accuse his wife of cheating on him constantly. She didn't but we have no idea how many half siblings my father has...
That's typical of a cheater to accuse the partner who has done nothing wrong. They like to project to make you feel like you are the reason they are distant, acting weird, or cheated (if they tell you); but either way, they act weird and out themselves all on their own.
Normally if they accuse you of cheating, they are the ones cheating.
I had a crazy ex. Dude used to smoke cannabis, grew his own plants (still does I believe), used to blame everything on me (even stuff that was from BEFORE we started dating), and would self-prescribe his own medication saying he couldn't trust doctors and that he knew better - he didn't have any kind of medical degree whatsoever.
Contacted me out of the blue after I left him (he cheated on me ¬w¬), and said that he believed that I was bipolar and that I should start taking this medication and that medication.
Again, had no medical degree at all.
Crazy people tend to feel like they know better than everyone tho...
I had an ex who gave himself the title Dr.
Talked about himself in the third person...
Had useful idiots in his life that fed his delusion... including his Mother...
Would nag me to get prescription pain pills from my doctor ....for his....lol... Doctors bag...
No degree....took first aid...
Koo Koo for coco puffs.
I’ve noticed a trend of people lying that they’re doctors because they think that’ll make people believe whatever they say. The quit your bs subreddit has a number of stories like the following.
Liar: As someone who has been a practicing doctor for fifteen years, I can’t be silent anymore! (Insert debunked conspiracy theory here)
Person who actually investigates things instead of believing everything they hear: Your profile says you’re twenty-six, so are you lying about your age or are we supposed to believe you became a practicing doctor at eleven years old? What, are you Doogie Howser?
Second person who actually investigates: Also, you claimed in a previous post that you dropped out of high school at age 17, became some super elite Army Ranger, and now work as a bounty hunter. You’re saying you became a doctor at age eleven, and then you continued regular school until age 17, went on top secret international missions, and decided to work as a bounty hunter all while still practicing medicine?
The post will often have a note in the comments section about the faker dirty deleting their post instead of providing any evidence for their claims.
What do you mean he self prescribed his own medication? Where did he get the prescriptions? You can't just show up at a pharmacy and tell them you'll be need 100 tabs of Zoloft.
Misery loves company!! It's a good thing you got out!!
The chick on the porch was probably digging in the flower pot looking for a key 😬😬 Noooooooo!!
I found out a couple of years back that my ex told his girlfriend (the girl he left me for) that I was a crazy ex and he told her to block me on all social media as I was apparently a stalker. Dear reader, I was not. It was in fact because he told her we had broken up much earlier than we had and was effectively cheating on both of us and he didn't want her to find out. How did I find this out? Well a mutual friend went to their wedding and night before groom had gotten very drunk and confessed to his best man (and husband of the mutual friend) who then told me. So um.....good luck to them, I guess?
Who else would love to hear Charlotte belt out the whole song, "Crazy"? I think she would make Patsy Cline proud!
I agree! Would pay for that.
@@davidguidry657 Especially if she sings it as Jessica Rabbit! 😍
Me
@@LazyIRanch oh my!
Yes, please!
The potatoes that were put in the yard & then it rained 😂 This is just too much fun to watch! Thank you, Charlotte! These people are on point! Lots of great thinkers put it into action. They keep getting better 😉
Ooph! I’m torn. On the one hand, crazy exes cause me serious trauma. On the other hand, other people’s crazy exes are popcorn worthy. In this case, I’m here for it! Bring on the popcorn! And the tea.
I like to say "sorry, do I know you?" when approached by an ex after we've broken up. There's nothing as satisfying as making them feel like they never even existed 😂
900k subscribers, congrats Charlotte! Can't wait to watch ur channel grow to 1M! U deserve it.
0:07 omg Charlotte, you should sing Crazy!! It’d be absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!!!
The best part of my lunch break every day. Helps get me through the rest of my shift. Much love, Charlotte! 😍
OMG ME TOO!!! Literally on my lunch break rn. 😂
Ditto
Same I’m in my break right now hah
Me too 😂
Same!!
One time, I broke up w my live-in BF and was moving my stuff out day by day while he was at work. In an attempt to stop me leaving, he locked me out of the place where I paid majority rent. I crowbarred the window open, opened the door, got my stuff, and took the doorknob with me until I was totally moved out. Then I reinstalled the knob. 😎
That’s awesome!!!
I had an ex contact me after ten years. When we were together he was always suspicious that me and his friend were cheating together on him. I Never cheated. SO ten years later he messages me a totally insane message (HE was blocked so it was a 2nd account) talking about how I had to have been cheating and what a ***** I was. I blocked him again and haven't heard from him since. SO Crazy.
I wholeheartedly believe that if you find out your S/O is cheating on you, do not give them ANY inkling you know. Just pack your stuff and secretly move it. When all your stuff is gone, leave while they are gone or say you are going to go get something and don't come back. That way they aren't becoming more sly on what they do so they don't get caught.
Doing that would really screw them up mentally. Cheaters are usually at least covert narcissists who can't bear to be ignored and ghosted. They dwell on it for the rest of their lives.
Had an Aunt that did that. Moved every scrap out of the house while he was at work. EVERYTHING. even the ice cube trays. He came home and no, wife, no kids, and the house was totally empty. Not sure what she did with all his stuff, but he told the rest of the family that she was crazy. Um. Yeah. You had three kids with her, she stayed with you even though your a ****, and she’s the crazy one???
I’m totally on board for a *full length* Potato Queen cover of Patsy Cline’s “Crazy” !
We need a singing video!!!
About the abusive ex showing up after 3 years:After I saw him through the window/peep hole theough the door, I would have just yelled “OH HELL NO!” and left him standing there. If there’s any kind of harassment or PFA, I would have just called the police and let them deal with him.
I _thought_ I was the crazy ex for many years.... This ended up being the result of all of them shit-talking me behind my back and convincing everyone _else_ that I was crazy, which trickled down to me and my shitty self-worth at the time. It took several years of looking at Facebook memories with my roommate to realize I was actually _waaayyyyy_ chiller than I'd been convinced I was. (The one fucker using _other_ people's accounts to tell me how proud my abusive father would be of who I became from the only one of them violent enough to actually hit _me_ was pretty telling as well.)
Oof. I am so sorry you got subjected to all of that. My experience was a relatively short (like 3-4 months worth) that involved him and the person he ran off with hardcore subjecting me to a load of psychological shit until I'd lash out so they could say I was psycho. :( Like he caused me to lose my already thin relationship with my father in the process.
I used to think I was the crazy ex too.
that happened to me too!! my ex went around calling me the crazy ex to all my friends to try to push them away from me. And trying to say upsetting stuff around me, if I got upset he could call me the psycho ex, if I didn't get upset he would just leave cause then there was nothing in it anymore. My shitty self esteem convinced me he was right, it really messes with your memories. It took me way too long to realise how untrue and unfair it was. I'm so glad you reached that point as well!
@@evie-rd8tc Yay for losing the influence of crazies! High five!
That got me thinking about my ex.
He staked me, the first's month's after our breakup. He even called me, 10 Years later "just to talk" - I asked about his child!
Apparently he still talks about me... his biggest regret.
It's been16 year's.
What happened? He cheated & he had to pay for the sex, literally!
😮
I successfully did the “crazy ex” thing, got him back, had a baby, and spent 28 years with an abusive narcissist (he wasn’t, before).
Be careful WTF you wish for.
You just might get it.
(To be fair, I got the daughter I’d wanted since second grade.)
I am now retired from relationships, and strictly celibate.
yes i will be careful ma,am .i promise
I hope your daughter is ok
Yeah, it's amazing isn't it? The relationships we go nuts and fight the hardest for- end up being for people who were NO GOOD for us to begin with. The worst thing you could do is "win" those people back, but yet, they have such a grip on you..I let a guy drive me to almost committing a crime because his "crazy ez" just wouldn't leave us alone for the first six months of our relationship. Turns out, the reason she wouldn't go away is because he was still messing with her that whole time. So guess what- if your partner has a "crazy ex" that will NOT go away .. I'd put money on it that the reason they won't go away is because the person is STILL messing with thier ex, still leading THEM on behind your back. So if you've got a messy ex situation- WALK AWAY. People surrounded by "crazy people" are NOT WORTH IT. Anyone who's got that drama going on is NOT WORTH IT!!
@@scarlet16moons5 She’s great. She’s an adult now.
@A H Got that right.
I went into “Refuse to lose” mode. He was still occasionally messing with me, leading me to believe he really did love me.
Society, and women themselves have to stop basing a woman’s worth on whether or not there’s a man in her life.
Ancient, outdated philosophy
My crazy ex kept telling everyone around him that I was still “his woman” months after I made it clear that we were not together anymore and kept calling me to tell me about other women he was talking to and asking who I was fkn, before I blocked him on everything, those were some interesting voicemails
It's the same situation my sister is going through. They were due to get married, he messed up big time, she broke it off. He never told his family, his sister was shocked to find out they broke up the month prior. When she, (his sister), confronted him about the situation, he got big mad and went off on his family. He didn't speak to her for a while cause she exposed him.
They were disappointed because people were still putting in money for a wedding that no longer existed.
He has been creating multiple accounts sending no less than 60 messages per "chance" interaction, *IG's block option doesn't do sh*t*... It's uncomfortable at this point.
P.S: my sister still gets texts from his co-workers asking about their relationship, he hasn't told them they broke up, it has been a year now.
Phew I feel it. My most recent one was insanely mentally abusive, financially exploited me, posted pics of me in various states of undress (she owes some poor souls some therapy after having to see that), shared every intimate detail about my personal life/convos to all her friends, and tried to guilt me into helping support her and her children (she was making a lot of money from her baby daddies cus they were financially well off). The deal breaker was I figured out she quit taking her birth control (cus I found a few and when I asked her about it she said it was none of my business)
After I got out of that relationship, moved, and changed jobs. She sent me over 50 texts a day, sent me my address, got to know some of my coworkers, slashed my tires, tried to have me beat up,and followed me.
Took many many police reports, snitching on her to the text now app (if anyone you know is abusing you using that contact the text now app and give them the person's name and email), and eventually sending all this proof to her mother and best friend to which it finally stopped after 6 months of that lol.
Being alone is safer than being in a toxic/abusive relationship. Not all abuse is physical. Take time to get to know your partner crazy is easy to hide but it can't stay hidden forever.
(Steps off of soap box) have a blessed day folks.
I 100% needed some Charlotte today! Thanks girl, you’re the best!
I went out with a guy who tried to stalk me after we broke up by calling my parents (who lived in Missouri while I was living in Louisiana) and my work (wtaf?!) and also called me to find out when I was coming back to Florida (where he lived…”uh, never.”)
I worked offshore in the oilfield, so that was the best he could do as far as stalking went. That lasted for maybe a year and I guess he gave up…then 6 years later he calls my parents asking them to have me call him, and gives them his number…AND THEY GIVE IT TO ME! (My parents were actually very smart, neuropharmacologist and math professor, but MAN did they not have a clue!)
Yeah. I did not call him.
I did have loads of “the dumbest guy I ever dated” stories, which I share with our girls (I got hitched to a sane person.) I am hoping that these stories will help them look for red flags during a first date…this guy and I went out for a couple of months…
Love this channel, Charlotte you really do give a lot of us something to look forward too. Thank you for giving us sooooo much
My husband and a laughed till we cried. I used to tease my husband I would loud everything he owned into his dump truck and set it on fire and send the ashes to his sister if he cheated. I emptied ashes from the wood stove ( that had been standing in a covered bucket in the snow for a week) into the garden. About two hours later my daughter comes running out of her room yelling green house is on fire!. Suffice to say, "I burned the greenhouse down" with my husband's motorcycle in it and all our camping gear. I had to call him at work .He worked remotely. His first words were...is everyone OK? then the famous...does this mean I get a free one?
We both laughed about that, it just took me about a year before I felt the humor in it.
Charlotte and I on the same wavelength about the cinnamon roll-don’t waste a good pastry!
4:34 for those who haven't seen then complete video, the reason he "legally tried to talk to her" was simply to try to get back together. Lmao he. Built it up to make it seem as of there was some big important reason for him showing up but there wasn't. Literally just drunk and thought that after 3 yrs his mistakes disappear and she just must take him back. 🤣🤣
Where the full video? I wanna seeee lol
Seeing your videos always makes my day a little bit better. Thank you, Charlotte!
The one with the ex that showed up at her door was ridiculous. She was silly for even going outside to talk to him.
Charlotte, always bringing us the tea... and helping us laugh it off.
I wanna publicly apologize to Dave for sitting on the bench at the park in front of his house everyday for 2 weeks when I was 9. I hope I didn't traumatize you I just thought you were super cute 🤣
Love it!🤣🤣🤣🤣
I feel like Charlotte can talk about everything and it's ALWAYS so funny. She's really the queen of laughs. Hahahaha😂
Tell her not us😆.
Congrats on 900K! 1M soon! You deserve it girlie! This was a hilarious vid.
I only have one ex. I had been with my now-boyfriend for a few years when my ex messaged me. Basically, he told me multiple times that he tried to find someone to replace me, but he never found anyone who loved him like I did. I didn't block him, but I stopped responding. A few more years go by. He messaged me again to tell me his father had passed away. I offered my condolences, and he comes back with, "Yeah, I'm sitting with my mom right now. She would love to talk to you." I didn't respond to that, and I blocked him. Not too crazy, but I could feel it getting there if I continued to allow him to message me.
Sounds like he was controlling. Tried to guilt trip you.
I've just had one of those days at work today where everything goes wrong, didn't get a break and by the time my 'lunch' rolled around I wasn't hungry anymore just stressed and tired. As always Charlotte, your video cheered me up. Thanks so much for the hard work and content you create. Much love, stay well. X
8:00 Please, please, please do NOT throw food out of your car windows so it lands on the road. So many starving animals die trying to get the discarded food that humans dump on busy road ways.
I went on a single date with a guy I talked a lot with in school, after the date I realized I didn't feel the same way, but didn't know how to tell him. One of his friends heard, walked into clas practically yelling "Blank she's breaking up with you!"
Very rude, class hadn't started yet so there weren't many people there but still so wrong!
He ended up being an ass to me a few years later, calling me horrible things while I was trying new mental health meds (so I already was in a bad mental space). I told one of my friends what he did and the next day between class she walked up and slapped him across the face! I love you girl 😍 made my year
My son's father broke into our house after we broke up and stole all the kids Christmas presents. In February. 3 kids were his, we shared one kid. He stole EVERYTHING. So I moved his best friend in. We dated for a year and a half after that.
Don't forget that you are so pretty also, and thanks for being my filter for all the social media I don't do. I am 66 yrs. old and do only Facebook, occasionally. You help me laugh and my dog recognizes your voice. Keep up the excellent work. You have blossomed so much this last year.✌️ out girlscout ❣️
It is a felony to log into someone's email without permission.
Sounds stupid, but its jail time.
I mean I can see why. it's the same as opening someone else's physical mail
Only illegal if you get caught😉
@@Neverendingstory78 so is trespassing and dumping a bunch of potatoes on somebody's lawn, doesn't make it wrong or any less funny.🙃😛😏
Just 'illegal'
@@diimidosemineral9261 real quick way to get caught? film a video admitting it and post it on social media.
@@jilliansmaniotto2326 who needs rats and snitches these days, when idiots will self-snitch on social media for Internet points 🙄
Hi Charlotte! I just wanted to say I have severe anxiety, and when I feel anxious I get so teary and it feels like the end of the world. When I feel like this, I love watching your videos as a distraction, and they cheer me up! Hope you are doing well!
reacнoυт тo ѕcoтт ғor мore ιnveѕт gυιde, leт нιм ĸnow cнarloттe recoммended yoυ тo нιм..👋
As someone who got out of a 3 year long relationship 2 days ago, I pray to the heavens that I don't act this crazy.
keep watching Charlotte and you will forget the ex a.s.a.p.🤗 you got this 👍
Wtf... Then just don't.
You are amazing and don't ever forget it Charlotte. You are the best.
łnvest Gułde ✅.
Charlotte thank you for today's update. You always make my day so much better. 💕
THIS IS MY FAVOURITE NEW SEGMENT. MORE OF THIS PLEASE.
łnvest Gułde ✅.
i love how much effort you put in and how you post everyday, it’s really amazing and i hope your mental health is getting better/ is better
When a relationship ends I cut them out of my life with surgical precision. I have no energy to be carrying the past on my back or letting someone live rent free in my head.
omg, 4:19 is actually scary. He waited 3 YEARS then randomly came to her house to 'talk'. Yikes!
I was about to say that. This is how women get hurt/killed.
@@tracey7241 I would bet that he had just been served a summons/subpoena/support/alimony/child support papers and she had waited years to screw up his life.
In the middle of the night no less!!!
@@markbernier8434 three years is about the length of time between child support reviews so you’re probably spot on. He probably got served with notice of one and is blaming her when it is actually done by the state’s attorney general automatically. I hope she presented this video as evidence.
@@davidguidry657 Likely for a kid he didn't know existed.
The conversation as a lock screen is a good one!!!
I ran here so fast 😂 I'm always here for the sweet songs of Petty LaBelle
Thank you for the laughs!! This was a great videos
Thank you for making these videos Charlotte. My mom and uncle died 2 weeks ago within 12 hours of each other and on really bad days I just put on your videos and do art. ❤️
My sincerest condolences on your loss. Take your time in your grieving and healing!💖
Laughter can't fix everything but it really helps. Love to you at this difficult time 💞
I am so sorry for your loss. I’m glad our Potato Queen helps on the really bad days. She posts pretty much every day (same time) so maybe she can help you avoid bad days and not just ease them? Sending you prayers from San Antonio.
My deepest condolences.
Sorry for loss ❤
My sis was this one dude who, after their breakup, got a full back tattoo of her... I only got to see the outline already done until unfriended him... He was crazy!
I've trained myself to wake up right before 9am so I can watch your videos first thing in the morning 😍 thank you!
Ahhh mine is straight after work
"Trained" Yourself?? Why not use an alarm like most normally functioning folks... You're welcome....
@@mikespicer4827 also you don’t need alarms if you have notifications on ... so you are welcome too
Potato pit! 🤣🤣🤣
This would make a good April's Fool day prank. So perfect.
That instant mashed potato trick is GOLD
THE HANGMAN STORY. BROOOO. GENIUS.
Thank you for the great content as always. Can’t wait for the petty merch.
This is why I love being single.
Hi lovely! I got a crappy diagnosis a few days ago and although I'll be ok after treatment, your videos are helping keep my mind off it all. Thank you Charlotte! Love from the UK 💗
awe i’m sorry about your crappy diagnosis love that you also use her videos to find some peace!
I’m sorry to hear about your crappy diagnosis. Feel free to take in as much Miss Charlotte as you can; no fear of overdoing it. Sending you prayers and healing from San Antonio, USA.
Sending you lots of love and healing 💕
Wishing you all the best Maddy ❤
Awe! Charlotte can def help with that! Stay strong, beautiful 💕
girl! love your channel, getting caught up on all the petty awesomeness while covid wreaks havoc in my sinuses, dont want to know what itd be like unvaxed -_- i live for your pettiness 💜💜💜 it gives me life
I love the creativity that people have 😄
I'm not patient enough to do anything smart lol
please keep doing these. grats on 900k!!!!
My craziest ex stalked me for 8-9 years after I broke up with him in 2012! I moved to different cities, and never stayed in the same place for as long as the lease was, for fear he would find out what area I lived in. but I have finally gone a full calendar year without hearing from him 10years after the breakup. I would get random messages from throw away accounts, he wouldn’t hide that it was him but would tell me the places I had been that day and once sent a picture of me when I was out with my best friend and cousin. I’ve had to block 15+ social media accounts, including throw always and legit accounts. His sister tried to follow me online and tell me that he only does this because “he loves me” uhhh no your brother is a psychopath and I cannot tell you how happy I am that I haven’t heard from him! But tbh I was really freaked out because I hadn’t heard from him in so long that I thought he had something extra extra crazy/ scary planned for the 10 year anniversary of our breakup, but luckily nothing has happened!
Omg…. Is a restraining order an option, or do you think it wouldn’t make a difference? I hope you have protection, I’m so sorry he’s been doing this to you, that sounds absolutely miserable and terrifying 😢
@@meaganbastos the thing about restraining orders is you have to give the stalker your address so they know where to stay away from! It’s absolutely ridiculous! I had one previously, but since I try to move often, updating the address is a hassle so the order of protection I had expired. But I also don’t want to give this psycho my address willingly.
Even in my 20’s I didn’t have the energy or time so do any of this kinda of crap ! But it fun watch! Thanks for the laughs ! Love your channel
I’m a total weirdo, I’m actually friends with 3 exes, one came to my wedding and I did the catering for two of their weddings. When it’s over, it’s over, walk away with respect and dignity and as time goes on you can see the good but calmly realise you’re not right for each other in a relationship. I’ve never cheated on anyone though. If you pressure someone to be in a relationship neither of you will ever be happy.
Depends on WHY they are exes.
@@angr3819 Totally agree, as I said I’ve never been cheated on and sometimes you realise things aren’t right for you. It took a few years of me being sober before my first wife and I became true friends, she was totally right to divorce a drunk. Even then it was because we share two daughters and we both took coparenting seriously. Luckily I've been in a position to help her and her husband (that was one of the weddings I did the catering for).
the turn around when the cops walked up was priceless.
The absolute best fling I've ever had... And still having... Is with the hot girl I married. Just don't tell her husband because he's nuts!
The best flings!
This is how some horror movies start...😉
Better make sure kids don't find out, they'll rat you out in a second lol
😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻
Sounds like something my husband would say. 😂
The song that keeps playing/you were singing is one of my favorites! I actually sang a solo of Crazy in a concert once. 😂😅 I honestly think you should sing it. You’re amazing and your videos really helped when I was quarantined💜
I've never understood chasing after your ex. Why would you still want to be in a relationship with someone who clearly doesn't love you back?
The lock screen one is soooo smart I love that petty inspiration
If my ex showed up at my front door I wouldn't even come out I'd just get the police tbh
Love your look in this. Its fun that you change things up. You always do a nice job getting ready for your show
My ex cheated on me habitually for years but would nonstop talk about me to his cheating partners like I was dead or his ex. He'd tell them things like "She's the one that taught me how to love" and stuff like that while we were still together. I kicked him out once I had proof and he wouldn't leave me alone for years. I'd block him and he'd make a new account to tell me how much he missed me and how much he screwed up. He was silent for a year until he suddenly popped up and sent me a message saying he kept dreaming about me and since "You are a dream walker/wizard" that I was going into his dreams to see him. This happened while I was literally in bed with my current SO. He got blocked again lol
Missed opportunity to send him a picture of you and your SO in bed before blocking him lol
@@Bane_Amesta That kind of thing can make stalking behavior escalate though. It's best not to engage at all.
@@Bane_Amesta Unfortunately responding in any form would be considered feeding the troll. I blocked him again and haven't heard a peep since
Mad props to the girl who played hangman with her boyfriend's side chick's name. Well played, ma'am. Well played.
łnvest Gułde ✅.
Found out my fiancé was cheating I broke up with him and then he stalked me all on social media and my streaming channel. Every time I would block him he would just reach out another way. Then years later he contacted me on another fb messenger account and got mad at ME because I didn’t want to be friends.
And this is why I'm thankful my ex is behind bars, none of that drama that comes with and an easier split even if it broke my heart deeply to realise I never really knew him just the facade he presented.
My crazy/creepy ex turned up at my house (when I was still with my parents) a yr after we broke up asking for me back I told him no way then I had to sit through the awkwardness because my mum insisted on inviting him in for a cup of tea because it was cold outside. I was pissed because I missed my favourite show at the time because I was busy trying to get rid of him
The military one happens A LOT 😂
Happy Tuesday!! Love to you all!! 💗
Right back at you, Love!💞
I don’t think this is all crazy ex’s. It’s more a mix of cray ex and petty revenge and I’m here for it! This needs to be a major series!