2:48 speak or say with no outcome in mind, ask yourself, am I asking to get an outcome? if you do you can be manipulative with language. 4:10 what do you feel? I feel nervous, I feel anxious, and I feel happy, instead of What am I thinking? pay attention to your feeling. what will make me feel cozy, or Warm, all about finding out your feeling, what what did i just think before i had that feeling 6:52 No one owes you anything. everything is a work of wonderful compassion or kindness. you ultimately take care of yourself. when you are not controlling the outcome, you will not be disappointed by what men do and don't do. 8:28 drop "thank you," "i am sorry", (women say i am sorry way more than men) men like to know they are making us happy. and they like to know they are pleasing us. he likes that you are happy. instead of saying thank you, tell him how you feel. when he does an action then you can say" thank you". he wants a trip inside of you. the more you share how good you feel in your body, the more you get him hooked 10:48 to get out of his mind, and get into yours. and get into your body. he might have all the problems, you are not here to fix him. he is not your project 12:45 re cap or conclusion 14:12 Q&A
1. Have NO OUTCOME in mind. 2. What do you FEEL? 3. Noone OWES you anything. 4. Drop THANK YOU (mostly)and I'M SORRY and I UNDERSTAND (when you don't) .. from your vocabulary. 5. Get out of HIS mind and get in to YOURS. All great suggestions to practice. #1 was something that I didn't even realize I did, until I heard him drop the word "agenda", a ways back. I had absolutely NO idea why and how I was coming across that way.
She’s right. Get out of his head and his problems. Men don’t like to talk about it anyways let alone with woman they care about and want to fix problems for! Lol they are not like us in wanting to talk about our issues all the time. It’s the truth 😂 I’m in a LDR and he tells me all the time he likes to just listen to me talk. Talk about my life, myself, and all the positive funny moments I have. He doesn’t talk much about himself cause he’s going thru stuff and he says he just enjoys hearing me talk cause it brings him peace. I’ve never been told that before. I can hear how much it does bring him peace and that...makes me feel so happy, special, needed, and even appreciated.
Many men don't like to talk about their problems only because most of the time women themselves have said they find it unattractive when men get vulnerable and show their emotional side to them. Its not because we don't like to. Society looks down on men who shows their soft side.
Youve taught me to appreciate that men really are just as sensitive and worthy of being treated considerately as us. And we must in order for things to work.
What I love about your philosophy is that it really is about empowering yourself, and not "chasing" guys. I'm going through the most difficult time of my life so far, and I really strongly believe that when you focus on getting things right for you, things will be okay no matter what. So I'm actually watching your videos to help me regain my inner power, instead of focussing on "getting him back". HE IS THE SYMPTOM, GIRLS, NOT THE CORE OF THE MATTER.
You are so funny! "He lives in the outside man's world all day long. He just wants a trip inside you." Sooo true. Provide a comforting, warm felt place for men
Eveytime I hear you say “feel what’s inside your body and tell him how you feel inside” I feel something in my hearth, warmness and just what I have never felt before. Lol it’s so weird, because I never do that. I’m so used to like not showing feeling and blocking to say what I feel. Thank you!
For the longest time I was frustrated with this and couldn’t make it work after being in boy mode for so long and feeling stupid saying feels statements. I can finally be in the comments saying ... this works. Adrienne is the queen of tying up hearts. Date your non-applicable men so you can get comfortable with how dicky it feels to use feeling statements. All of a sudden it becomes natural. I have a relationship with my dream man, in the correct polarities and I couldn’t be happier. So glad I found Adrienne... my friends are like “what would adrienne say about this ...” . Queen 👑
This makes me so happy to hear! 💕 Yes, it will feel so weird and fake when you first start using feeling statements, but as you practice you will notice how natural it becomes and how men start to react to you! bit.ly/femmtools
I don’t know how I found you but I’m blessed that I did. I get stuck in wanting the attention from my husband, now I understand (really lol) he doesn’t owe that to me. I owe it to myself to start giving myself the attention/self-love I need 💕 and to stop being “sorry” queen 👑 thank you.
I can relate to a lot of this and my masculine energy was my go to I’ve done a 180 I’m doing the feminine energy technique and my life has changed for the better dramatically. I’m happy to say I’m dating and it is going really well. I even catch myself before I start to get into my masculine energy so now I can just catch it and shut it off before it causes problems. And that just feels really good so good. I’m happier in this relationship than I’ve ever been
God I wish I could send this to my mother. She’s been in masculine mode for a long time which constantly conflicts with my father. I feel like it’s tearing our family apart and I don’t know what to do, masculine energy is not always receptive to advice even when it’s needed. The constant arguments make me feel scared and unsafe. Thank you Adrienne, what you’re teaching is helping me recognize areas I can be more feminine and break the cycle, and is applicable to all the men in my life ❤️❤️❤️
Adrienne I have to tell you this! Your advice has been working wonders for my femme confidence and your voice is my guilty pleasure in the times of despair... In fact your work has been a huge inspiration for me to start my own TH-cam channel on Positive Living and Health advice.💕 Appreciate you and what you're creating in this world xoxox
The most beautiful thing that adriennes teaches is she brings it back to women internal peace. What a gift she teaches to the world! The most vital piece of information she gives is her current husband pursued her and began doing things for her. That is so important!!!! We as women need to give ourselves grace to understand our psychology and our female counterparts. Her teaches has affirm that I was always right, to not compromise my morals!!! She also taught me to embrace being girly!!!! I really enjoy it now :)
Thank you for what you do and for who you are! You’ve awakened me and millions of women who need to be reminded that feminine energy heals and it is once we become “locked within our heads” which no real divine feminine is there- that is true distortion and serves nothing! It’s the deep inner knowing that our divine female energy heals loves soothes and creates. This idea that I have to “chase” the man that might love me? No I walk away! I never starve myself of inner love! That is when the disconnect really shows up as a form of “Lack” from distorted male energy! An insecure male will and can just string you along, bread crumbing out of his own insecurities confusing all things in reality, and I no longer desire that type of male who needs constant validation that is a true sign of weakness and a total turn off. That’s it. No more no less no lies no manipulation! You have helped me uncover a swept over piece of myself that makes me understand my place In the world. Which is to not be toyed with by an distorted masculine energy! That is false creates pain fear rejection and I’m unable to entertain anything involving that type of lower vibration! You have helped me rise to my truth and inner power my inner being knows and never wobbled on my truth of who I am what I deserve and why I’m here today! Biggest thank you and I know everyday more and more women are waking up taking notice and going towards the feel good. Not grasping not chasing and ReLeaf he bread crumbed half ass men that cannot show up fully masculine! I’m so happy that I’ve been part of your community for that past 2 years!! Very eye opening experience ❤️🙏🏻❤️ you’ve awakened my Sacred sexuality as a divine feminine. Thank you so much. 💕🙏🏻💕♥️🙏🏻💕
You are so welcome. You bring up a very good pair of words, "toyed with." Feminine energy women are playful, not overly serious, stern or laser focused. The man in this case then becomes the toy, and I mean this in that we can observe him, his words, his actions, the show he puts on and in all mannerisms. When we let go off controlling the man and making creation happen while also staying TRUE to our boundaries & values, YET relaxing and floating along just observing what happens, opening ourselves to vulnerability and unzipping our heart yet no expectations THIS is when the magic happens. Keep up the good work!
Oh my goddess. You actually have described me to a TEE, especially about getting into the man’s mind. I LITERALLY live in the mind of my husband and it’s EXHAUSTING. Wanting to know everything, wanting to control everything - which is completely being in my masculine. NO wonder why I’m having so many issues in my marriage!! 😂 Adrienne, what you are teaching us is a GAME CHANGER for me. I’ve never looked at it this way, and I’m now seeing how ALL of this behavior is energetically pushing my husband away. I am SO excited to shift and begin LEANING back into my feminine energy more. Thank you so much for your teachings!! I’m a new life long fan of yours now! 🙏🏼❤️
This is by fat the best advice I have received. For too long I have tried to control and change my man and all it did was make us drift apart. And I was always constantly worried about why the advice I got from other women was not helping. So I decided to focus on myself and get busy with my own self development. I spent less and less time winging and complaining about what he was not doing right and focused on myself. Doing that drew him closer to me although he still had his own problems he had to battle. And I was wondering what I was doing that made things change in my relationship with my partner and then I came across Adrienne Everheart's youtube videos and confirmed some of the things I did right and I learnt alot about what i needed to do in my feminine energy. It's true, my partner is not my project. The more we treat men as our projects we push them away. Thank you Adrienne for your wonderful teachings about getting into our feminine energy as females.
You blow my mind. I'm so grateful for every video. I used to be so into my feminine energy, but lost it until an intervention by the Holy Spirit through counsel from my God fearing son, and my daughter, a nurse. Your videos along with a Dr.s (So and so. . can't remember her name just now he - Senior moment, lol), have helped me so much. I'm so amazed!
Good stuff! Everytime I tune in I learn so much!!! Get in your body, tell him how you feel, no one owes you anything and get out of his mind and into yours!
You're awesome. 🤗 Sometimes, i get ready for work in the morning while listening to your videos and it truly makes me act sweeter and more caring with my coworkers. Even my bosses are starting to joke around and be warmer with me, because everyone is sensing the warmth and approachability. So, i have you to thank for that. And, with my man, I've been able to bring up troublesome feelings in a way that doesn't escalate into arguments and awkwardness. So, thank you again. Relationships with a man are the harder ones of all, I find.
i have a second date today with a guy i really like so far! He makes me feel really special! Not being connected to an outcome is the hardest one for me because I always invest too much too early! Listening to you and Helena have really opened a whole new amazing world for me. I've learned to love myself and set boundaries and be super warm and vulnerable at the same time. It was so hard at first but it gets easier and easier! I've been dating recently and have passed on many men that I normally would have put way too much energy into. I am listening to as much as I can today because of my date later lol your videos absolutely put me in my feminine energy.. and your 500 ways book is AMAZING!! I can't even tell you how many times I've referred to it! I just wanted to say thank you! eeeek i'm so nervous!!! But you're like a foundation..i can't even explain it. Anyway..THANK YOU and I hope you're doing amazing!!
Oh my gracious!! Number 4 blew my mind!! I didn't realize that I was raised to say either 'thank you' or 'I'm sorry' for just about everything. 😳 The implications of what has been expected of me my whole life are ground breaking. This will be, by far, one of the most difficult habits for me to break (I'm crying as I type this) because it has been so deeply programmed into me from such a young age. I'm going to have to think long and hard about what that means. I listen to this video once a week, just to remind myself of all of this
Great practical tips, thank-you. Yes, feminine energy is about feeling, intuition, and being in your body, enjoying life and finding your own personal happiness, and then sharing that with your man. Better to live in appreciation and not expectation.
I struggle a lot to remember to be in my femenine energy, bit day by day i am more in my body and for sure when i am, things change drasticly for good. Thank you Adrienne. You rock!!
After a long stressful day at work I love to tune into your programs it makes me feel very comfortable knowing that my feminine energy is being released and I feel at peace with myself
I watch a few women about energy and how to acknowledge our inner power. But no one explains things as well as you do. I could watch you all day thanks for having this channel. Xoxo
Everhart I really learn when you share personal married stories as examples I can really connect to that. I can really Visualize myself in your shoes in that same situation and learn really good thank you
Fantastic video. I have recently had absolutely magical results using feminine energy, which I have mostly learned from you and Helena. I can’t thank you enough. Do you know what feminine energy does ? Makes you feel loved. When you stop stepping in for the man and allowing him to do things for you, that is the hugest reassurance of their love for you. I won’t be lying if I contribute my feeling loved to being able to use the feminine skills you teach.
U have been doing such an amazing work here. Thank you so much Adrienne. I just noticed my guy started pulling away... We are just 3months in, but he has already introduced me to his family(parents and siblings), I also have my boundaries of no sex for now. I wanted to surprise him when he was on his way back home from work yesterday, but he ruined it by telling me, he can't be on call for 5mins with me because he wants to watch a program... A program on his way back!!.. I tried to convince him but he declined. I felt worthless and used... Seriously, I've never felt this bad before. I know sometimes he derives Joy when he upset me, but the one of yesterday made me shed tears, the way he even shouted on me was humiliating. That was what brought me to your channel. He later called after about 2hours that yesterday, but I didn't take the call, and he hasn't called till now. Is it wise to ghost him for about 2days, in order to regain my self worth? Or to just use the femm tools on him and act as if nothing happened. Pls help me, because I love him. Thank you so much
1) Don’t talk with an agenda in mind... 2) Know what you are feeling and then know, what you want to feel. 3) No one owes you anything... if they are doing anything then be appreciative. 4) Drop Saying - Thank-you / Sorry / I understand... Instead tell him how you feel. 5) Get out of his mind and get into yours. He may have all the problems... be supportive but don’t fix him.
Hello Adrienne and the community. Adrienne, I came accross your videos in the past and I dismissed your teaching believing it is important I am myself, strong, independent. Well ... I had issues with men in my life and I couldnt understand what I was doing that was pushing them away. Im learning that I can be strong independent yet soft, feminine. Its a journey for me, its challenging to unlearn old habits. However, I noticed positive and wonderful results in my career, other personal relationships and I know Ill be better equiped when a significant other enters my life. Thank you ❤
Hugs to you! 💕It takes time and practice to feel comfortable in your feminine energy, but you will start to notice how people respond to you. Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools
Thank you so much for your videos! They have really helped me to put a break to my masculine energy! Yuck I can see now how non-feminine I was being! I am a woman it is a blessing I will embrace my feminine energy! Thank you thank you!
Hugs to you! 💕 It takes time and practice to learn to be feminine. Once you learn how feminine energy makes you feel and how men respond to it, you will realize just how masculine you have been. bit.ly/femmtools
The message about him being stable was so important for me, thank you! My guy has been rebuilding his life after divorce and this was like a light bulb going on. I can see as he becomes more and more stable, our relationship is progressing more and more as well.
Hugs to you! 💕 A man needs to be able to have his life in order so that he can truly provide for you. Keep up the good work! Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools
I absolutely love you, you saved my relationship. I have been in counseling with my fiancee for 2 years and it almost broke us. Thank-you for existing your a goddess and the most beautiful powerful woman. I need to get your e book. Blessings
I just had a very nice first date with a cute guy from church (yay for a Christian man, finally!). At the end, I did not say thank you. He asked if we could do this again, I said "yeah. this felt fun." And left to go to my running group. I didn't even think about it until now, but I not only used a feeling statement (not a great one but I'm still working on it!) I also did not say Thank you! :) Adrienne is slowly reprogramming my mind.
When you say to shift our thoughts to what might make us feel cozy or warm wouldn’t that make us seek out attention if that is the cause of our loneliness (I.e, we’re unhappy with someone, I’d feel warm if they showed more attention, which would lead to action to manipulate the outcome). Thank you for the clarification!
This will help me in so many areas of my life, I love your approach of self love and acceptance as the way to find love. This is the best thing I have seen on relationships. I immediately subscribed. Thank you! You are a breath of fresh air!
Looks like you hit 100 likes per hour since this video was uploaded 6 hours ago and your already at 500+ you go girl! Love your energy it’s genuine and comforting
I absolutely love your content. You make so much sense. I am continually trying to improve myself to be a better person and understand the mans mind. Thank you 🙏❤️❤️
Thank you for all of your beautiful feminine energy. You’ve taught and helped me so much. I can listen all day and take it all in patiently. We appreciate you!
I have saved this video.... Thank you so much, this video came at the right time. I'm awake now, can't sleep because I'm constantly having problems with my boyfriend. But I will stay for 2weeks without criticizing him as u just advised. I will try... I love him so much. Thank u so much for this video
Really love what you have to say, Adrienne! I found you through my suggested videos and subscribed! I also just made a TH-cam channel recently, and seeing you as an example is really inspiring - thank you for all of your help! Please keep the great content coming!
Awh 💕 I am so happy to have you here! I am glad that you found me and are starting to learn more about feminine energy. It will change your life! This is a good place to start. bit.ly/femmtools
#1 was kinda short. Why should we not speak with a propose? If I ask a question, it's bc I want to know more about his thoughts or actions. Conversation always lead somewhere. Where do you want to go?
Great video! These tips work not only with men, but with anyone! I also love that you always wear beautiful earrings. After finding your videos, and especially the one you talk about your reminder bracelet, I got myself a rose quarts bracelet. I also started wearing pink. I always loved the color, but avoided it because I thought it makes me look too feminine and weak. Now that I practise your advise, and feel more confident from inside, I'm not scared to look soft outside anymore. Thank you always and much love❤️
You are correct. ❤️ FEMM can heal all relationships. I truly love reading your post!!! 🥰 I enjoy being a girl and everything that it entails. I’m glad you discovered the power of pink too. I hope you’re dating? In this program I teach you everything about feminine energy dating. bit.ly/femmtools
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy Thank you for the link! I'm married, but thanks to your lessons, I now feel like I'm dating my husband every day. I had already signed up for your FEMM for marriage and relationships, which got me out of the dark side of our marriage recently. If I hadn't found you, I would have still be in that dark circle, so thank you so much.🥰
Great video! Sometimes it just gets to me that I am the only one responsible for picking myself up. It hurts not to be able to share my emotions with anyone. Yes I'm single.
Hugs to you! 💕 If you are feeling that lonely and don’t have a close friend to talk to, you might want to find a good counselor to help you get through everything.
The things you say are so very interesting, you would be so cool to talk to. I would love a video on you discussing some of your favourite books and movies!
Hi , my name is Erica and I watch most of your videos on TH-cam.. I'm subscribed but I want to reach out personally for a little advice.. I know your a busy woman so your advice would be much appreciated. Okay so I dont want to tell this story but this is my current story right now.. I've been single for 2-3 years now.. I am a single mom who is still lving with my current ex. we are still lving together due to financial reasons and I guess you can say were both just comfortable with the lving arrangement s anyways.. my ex loved on he has a gf that he has been with for a year now. I dont want my ex back. I have my eyes set on a new person. but this new person I have never met in real life.. I saw him through Instagram and my heart and mind felt like he is the man that i have created in my head my dream man.. i dont know him personally.. he lives in a completely different state then I.. from following him on Instagram and watching his videos I just feel like he is my dream man
My guy (well now ex) is real sensitive too. I think it's a part of the reason why he broke up with me, although he didn't admit that. Cuz the week before we broke up I was being super critical over how he wasn't paying attention to me, among other ugly things. Thanks for this Adrienne! Very insightful.
OK so I'm new to this channel and femininity in general but I happen to be what others consider as beautiful. Adrienne says to not say thank you when a man does a non physical thing for us, like saying "Wow honey, you look beautiful tonight." Instead of saying thank you, what do I say back? I hope someone that has studied Adrienne's stuff can maybe help me with this one question please 🙏
Adriene u are realy queen of my heart. Alot your face and warmth resembles me of my childhood best friend. i found u on internet in my most despair time and i liked u the moment i saw ur first video. I have been working on my feminine energy and want to tel u this, it realy works.thank u so much ❤❤ lots of love
2 years ago I listened to this as a woman new to dating and now I am married listening to it again!🌺🌸 Thank you Adrienne xx
So cool,hope i will be too 🙏
“U are not here to fix him” I love this.
What do we say when a guy starts venting about his life.. like his ex, his job , bills etc and we’re just barley talking?
@@cdejoelie tell him to find a good therapist and not put this emotional burden on you, since its killing your attraction for him.
2:48 speak or say with no outcome in mind, ask yourself, am I asking to get an outcome? if you do you can be manipulative with language.
4:10 what do you feel? I feel nervous, I feel anxious, and I feel happy, instead of What am I thinking? pay attention to your feeling. what will make me feel cozy, or Warm, all about finding out your feeling, what what did i just think before i had that feeling
6:52 No one owes you anything. everything is a work of wonderful compassion or kindness. you ultimately take care of yourself. when you are not controlling the outcome, you will not be disappointed by what men do and don't do.
8:28 drop "thank you," "i am sorry", (women say i am sorry way more than men) men like to know they are making us happy. and they like to know they are pleasing us. he likes that you are happy. instead of saying thank you, tell him how you feel. when he does an action then you can say" thank you". he wants a trip inside of you. the more you share how good you feel in your body, the more you get him hooked
10:48 to get out of his mind, and get into yours. and get into your body. he might have all the problems, you are not here to fix him. he is not your project
12:45 re cap or conclusion
14:12 Q&A
Thank you so much! Sending you love!
Thank you so much!!
🌸 Thank you for taking the time to do this, because when I rewatch it I can go to exactly what I needed refresher on 👍🏼
1. Have NO OUTCOME in mind.
2. What do you FEEL?
3. Noone OWES you anything.
4. Drop THANK YOU (mostly)and I'M SORRY and I UNDERSTAND (when you don't) .. from your vocabulary.
5. Get out of HIS mind and get in to YOURS.
All great suggestions to practice.
#1 was something that I didn't even realize I did, until I heard him drop the word "agenda", a ways back.
I had absolutely NO idea why and how I was coming across that way.
I thought the thank you and I'm sorry one was really good. I do that a lot!🤪
Keep up the good work!
Judy Jack-Burton ❤️
My default is ‘It’s okay’ ... when it’s NOT okay. I am working very hard to overcome that and of course ‘I’m sorry’ and ‘I understand’ ... ugh!
She’s right. Get out of his head and his problems. Men don’t like to talk about it anyways let alone with woman they care about and want to fix problems for! Lol they are not like us in wanting to talk about our issues all the time. It’s the truth 😂 I’m in a LDR and he tells me all the time he likes to just listen to me talk. Talk about my life, myself, and all the positive funny moments I have. He doesn’t talk much about himself cause he’s going thru stuff and he says he just enjoys hearing me talk cause it brings him peace. I’ve never been told that before. I can hear how much it does bring him peace and that...makes me feel so happy, special, needed, and even appreciated.
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 It sounds like you are on the right path. Keep up the good work! bit.ly/femmtools
Many men don't like to talk about their problems only because most of the time women themselves have said they find it unattractive when men get vulnerable and show their emotional side to them. Its not because we don't like to. Society looks down on men who shows their soft side.
Youve taught me to appreciate that men really are just as sensitive and worthy of being treated considerately as us. And we must in order for things to work.
Hugs to you! 🥰 Yes. Men are much more sensitive than most people realize. They just are not as free to express emotions like women can.
What I love about your philosophy is that it really is about empowering yourself, and not "chasing" guys. I'm going through the most difficult time of my life so far, and I really strongly believe that when you focus on getting things right for you, things will be okay no matter what. So I'm actually watching your videos to help me regain my inner power, instead of focussing on "getting him back". HE IS THE SYMPTOM, GIRLS, NOT THE CORE OF THE MATTER.
Sending you so much love! 💕 This makes me so happy to hear! Keep up the good work! bit.ly/femmtools
I think having no outcome in mind is a more sexy, mysterious way to live.
As always, you have the best comments to read. xoxo!
(@MsActor so true!)
You are so funny! "He lives in the outside man's world all day long. He just wants a trip inside you." Sooo true. Provide a comforting, warm felt place for men
Eveytime I hear you say “feel what’s inside your body and tell him how you feel inside” I feel something in my hearth, warmness and just what I have never felt before. Lol it’s so weird, because I never do that. I’m so used to like not showing feeling and blocking to say what I feel. Thank you!
Hugs to you! 💕 So many women have pushed their feelings aside for so many years, it can take awhile to truly know how we are feeling. bit.ly/femmtools
For the longest time I was frustrated with this and couldn’t make it work after being in boy mode for so long and feeling stupid saying feels statements. I can finally be in the comments saying ... this works. Adrienne is the queen of tying up hearts. Date your non-applicable men so you can get comfortable with how dicky it feels to use feeling statements. All of a sudden it becomes natural. I have a relationship with my dream man, in the correct polarities and I couldn’t be happier. So glad I found Adrienne... my friends are like “what would adrienne say about this ...” . Queen 👑
This makes me so happy to hear! 💕 Yes, it will feel so weird and fake when you first start using feeling statements, but as you practice you will notice how natural it becomes and how men start to react to you! bit.ly/femmtools
I don’t know how I found you but I’m blessed that I did. I get stuck in wanting the attention from my husband, now I understand (really lol) he doesn’t owe that to me. I owe it to myself to start giving myself the attention/self-love I need 💕 and to stop being “sorry” queen 👑 thank you.
So much love to you, honey! 💕 You are a Diamond 💍 Girl!
Yes, "don't explain, don't defend" needs more discussion! I have a sensitive, defensive man too.
Youre like a virtual Fairy Godmother. Thank you for your guidance on balancing matters of the heart (and mind) in love🧚🏾♀️
Hugs to you! 🥰 Thank you for your sweet words!
I can relate to a lot of this and my masculine energy was my go to I’ve done a 180 I’m doing the feminine energy technique and my life has changed for the better dramatically. I’m happy to say I’m dating and it is going really well. I even catch myself before I start to get into my masculine energy so now I can just catch it and shut it off before it causes problems. And that just feels really good so good. I’m happier in this relationship than I’ve ever been
This makes me so happy to hear! 🥰 Keep up the good work. Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools
God I wish I could send this to my mother. She’s been in masculine mode for a long time which constantly conflicts with my father. I feel like it’s tearing our family apart and I don’t know what to do, masculine energy is not always receptive to advice even when it’s needed. The constant arguments make me feel scared and unsafe. Thank you Adrienne, what you’re teaching is helping me recognize areas I can be more feminine and break the cycle, and is applicable to all the men in my life ❤️❤️❤️
Adrienne I have to tell you this! Your advice has been working wonders for my femme confidence and your voice is my guilty pleasure in the times of despair...
In fact your work has been a huge inspiration for me to start my own TH-cam channel on Positive Living and Health advice.💕
Appreciate you and what you're creating in this world xoxox
Keep up the good work.
@@AdrienneEverheart Thanks Adrienne 💕
Mandy J Ross.
You have the best teaching style for this subject Adrienne, truly life changing.
Thank you so much. Your kind words mean so much to me. I'm happy to be part of your life.
Agreed! Just found your channel this week Adrienne❣️
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Get out of his mind, and get into your mind - WHEW, I relisten and I relearn something every single time. Priceless!
The most beautiful thing that adriennes teaches is she brings it back to women internal peace. What a gift she teaches to the world! The most vital piece of information she gives is her current husband pursued her and began doing things for her. That is so important!!!! We as women need to give ourselves grace to understand our psychology and our female counterparts. Her teaches has affirm that I was always right, to not compromise my morals!!! She also taught me to embrace being girly!!!! I really enjoy it now :)
Hugs to you! 💕 This makes me so happy to hear! Keep up the good work! bit.ly/femmtools
@@AdrienneEverheart I bought 500 ways .
I'm so happy I found this woman on TH-cam. Especially at the time I was ready to receive the message!!
Can you do a whole video on “don’t explain “ in a disagreement. I could use a lot more clarity and examples.
Thanks!
Thank you for what you do and for who you are! You’ve awakened me and millions of women who need to be reminded that feminine energy heals and it is once we become “locked within our heads” which no real divine feminine is there- that is true distortion and serves nothing! It’s the deep inner knowing that our divine female energy heals loves soothes and creates. This idea that I have to “chase” the man that might love me? No I walk away! I never starve myself of inner love! That is when the disconnect really shows up as a form of “Lack” from distorted male energy! An insecure male will and can just string you along, bread crumbing out of his own insecurities confusing all things in reality, and I no longer desire that type of male who needs constant validation that is a true sign of weakness and a total turn off. That’s it. No more no less no lies no manipulation! You have helped me uncover a swept over piece of myself that makes me understand my place In the world. Which is to not be toyed with by an distorted masculine energy! That is false creates pain fear rejection and I’m unable to entertain anything involving that type of lower vibration! You have helped me rise to my truth and inner power my inner being knows and never wobbled on my truth of who I am what I deserve and why I’m here today! Biggest thank you and I know everyday more and more women are waking up taking notice and going towards the feel good. Not grasping not chasing and ReLeaf he bread crumbed half ass men that cannot show up fully masculine! I’m so happy that I’ve been part of your community for that past 2 years!! Very eye opening experience ❤️🙏🏻❤️ you’ve awakened my Sacred sexuality as a divine feminine. Thank you so much. 💕🙏🏻💕♥️🙏🏻💕
You are so welcome. You bring up a very good pair of words, "toyed with." Feminine energy women are playful, not overly serious, stern or laser focused. The man in this case then becomes the toy, and I mean this in that we can observe him, his words, his actions, the show he puts on and in all mannerisms. When we let go off controlling the man and making creation happen while also staying TRUE to our boundaries & values, YET relaxing and floating along just observing what happens, opening ourselves to vulnerability and unzipping our heart yet no expectations THIS is when the magic happens. Keep up the good work!
Oh my goddess. You actually have described me to a TEE, especially about getting into the man’s mind. I LITERALLY live in the mind of my husband and it’s EXHAUSTING. Wanting to know everything, wanting to control everything - which is completely being in my masculine. NO wonder why I’m having so many issues in my marriage!! 😂 Adrienne, what you are teaching us is a GAME CHANGER for me. I’ve never looked at it this way, and I’m now seeing how ALL of this behavior is energetically pushing my husband away. I am SO excited to shift and begin LEANING back into my feminine energy more. Thank you so much for your teachings!! I’m a new life long fan of yours now! 🙏🏼❤️
This is by fat the best advice I have received. For too long I have tried to control and change my man and all it did was make us drift apart.
And I was always constantly worried about why the advice I got from other women was not helping. So I decided to focus on myself and get busy with my own self development. I spent less and less time winging and complaining about what he was not doing right and focused on myself. Doing that drew him closer to me although he still had his own problems he had to battle. And I was wondering what I was doing that made things change in my relationship with my partner and then I came across Adrienne Everheart's youtube videos and confirmed some of the things I did right and I learnt alot about what i needed to do in my feminine energy.
It's true, my partner is not my project. The more we treat men as our projects we push them away.
Thank you Adrienne for your wonderful teachings about getting into our feminine energy as females.
Love to you Jolyne.
You blow my mind. I'm so grateful for every video. I used to be so into my feminine energy, but lost it until an intervention by the Holy Spirit through counsel from my God fearing son, and my daughter, a nurse. Your videos along with a Dr.s (So and so. . can't remember her name just now he - Senior moment, lol), have helped me so much. I'm so amazed!
Hugs. 😀😀
Good stuff! Everytime I tune in I learn so much!!! Get in your body, tell him how you feel, no one owes you anything and get out of his mind and into yours!
Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to help! bit.ly/femmtools
You're awesome. 🤗
Sometimes, i get ready for work in the morning while listening to your videos and it truly makes me act sweeter and more caring with my coworkers. Even my bosses are starting to joke around and be warmer with me, because everyone is sensing the warmth and approachability. So, i have you to thank for that.
And, with my man, I've been able to bring up troublesome feelings in a way that doesn't escalate into arguments and awkwardness. So, thank you again. Relationships with a man are the harder ones of all, I find.
Hugs to you! 💕 Everyone loves a feminine energy woman! It will help in all areas of your life. Keep up the good work! bit.ly/femmtools
i have a second date today with a guy i really like so far! He makes me feel really special! Not being connected to an outcome is the hardest one for me because I always invest too much too early! Listening to you and Helena have really opened a whole new amazing world for me. I've learned to love myself and set boundaries and be super warm and vulnerable at the same time. It was so hard at first but it gets easier and easier! I've been dating recently and have passed on many men that I normally would have put way too much energy into. I am listening to as much as I can today because of my date later lol your videos absolutely put me in my feminine energy.. and your 500 ways book is AMAZING!! I can't even tell you how many times I've referred to it! I just wanted to say thank you! eeeek i'm so nervous!!! But you're like a foundation..i can't even explain it. Anyway..THANK YOU and I hope you're doing amazing!!
Keep up the good work! You’re learning all the secrets now. 🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart and for that I feel so blessed!!
Who is Helen ?
Swop “outcome” with expectations , for me that word is more understandable. Life changing advice 🤩🙏🏼
Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to help!
Oh my gracious!! Number 4 blew my mind!! I didn't realize that I was raised to say either 'thank you' or 'I'm sorry' for just about everything. 😳 The implications of what has been expected of me my whole life are ground breaking. This will be, by far, one of the most difficult habits for me to break (I'm crying as I type this) because it has been so deeply programmed into me from such a young age. I'm going to have to think long and hard about what that means.
I listen to this video once a week, just to remind myself of all of this
I just love your garden girl! Love the hardscapes and hear the birds chirping. It also has a nice rustic feel.
Thank you! 🥰 I’ve been spending a lot of time gardening lately!
Great practical tips, thank-you. Yes, feminine energy is about feeling, intuition, and being in your body, enjoying life and finding your own personal happiness, and then sharing that with your man. Better to live in appreciation and not expectation.
☀️❤️☀️ I love the ‘no one owes you’ ... the weight of false expectations lifts ...
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One of the best videos out there for everyone, who wants to live an independent and happy life. Thank you, Adrienne. 💞
You are so welcome! 🥰 I am so happy to help!
I struggle a lot to remember to be in my femenine energy, bit day by day i am more in my body and for sure when i am, things change drasticly for good. Thank you Adrienne. You rock!!
Hugs to you! 💕 This makes me so happy to hear! bit.ly/femmtools
Thank you! I am really trying to work on myself, loose my victim-mentality and start to love myself. Your videos help me tremendously. Lots of Love ❤️
Hugs to you! 💕 FEMM Tools would be a great place for you to start! bit.ly/femmtools
After a long stressful day at work I love to tune into your programs it makes me feel very comfortable knowing that my feminine energy is being released and I feel at peace with myself
Awh you are so sweet. I’m happy to be there for you. Keep up the good work. ❤️🥰
Thanks ☺ it's not that easy having feminine feelings and wondering if it is okay!
I was in my masculine energy for my entire marriage (34 years),,,am widowed now & dating~Adrienne your videos are so helpful, game changing!❤️
I am so happy to help! 💕 FEMM Tools is a wonderful program for you to start learning about feminine energy. bit.ly/femmtools
your voice is so comforting
I watch a few women about energy and how to acknowledge our inner power. But no one explains things as well as you do. I could watch you all day thanks for having this channel. Xoxo
Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to help! FEMM Tools is a great way to start learning about feminine energy. bit.ly/femmtools
I say " I appreciate -----" whatever he did or does
This is true. We are masterminds, we always do or say stuff to get something out of him. We should start admitting and work on it.❤
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As always, I love your authenticity.
Thank you!
Everhart I really learn when you share personal married stories as examples I can really connect to that. I can really Visualize myself in your shoes in that same situation and learn really good thank you
Ah! You must love a sensitive man too ;-)
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy a libra painter/musician artist, I feel like I’m gonna need a private session with you sometime 😻
We are very similar! 🥰
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy No doubt😎
All your advices are very helpful and transformative. Thank you Adriane
I'm so honored to be part of your life! xoxo!
Fantastic video. I have recently had absolutely magical results using feminine energy, which I have mostly learned from you and Helena. I can’t thank you enough. Do you know what feminine energy does ? Makes you feel loved. When you stop stepping in for the man and allowing him to do things for you, that is the hugest reassurance of their love for you. I won’t be lying if I contribute my feeling loved to being able to use the feminine skills you teach.
U have been doing such an amazing work here. Thank you so much Adrienne. I just noticed my guy started pulling away... We are just 3months in, but he has already introduced me to his family(parents and siblings), I also have my boundaries of no sex for now.
I wanted to surprise him when he was on his way back home from work yesterday, but he ruined it by telling me, he can't be on call for 5mins with me because he wants to watch a program... A program on his way back!!.. I tried to convince him but he declined. I felt worthless and used... Seriously, I've never felt this bad before. I know sometimes he derives Joy when he upset me, but the one of yesterday made me shed tears, the way he even shouted on me was humiliating. That was what brought me to your channel. He later called after about 2hours that yesterday, but I didn't take the call, and he hasn't called till now. Is it wise to ghost him for about 2days, in order to regain my self worth? Or to just use the femm tools on him and act as if nothing happened. Pls help me, because I love him. Thank you so much
Hugs to you! 💕 I am so sorry that he hurt you. If he reaches out, stay warm. I would definitely suggest using the techniques in FEMM Tools.
@@AdrienneEverheart ohhh thank u so much. I will stay warm when he calls as u have suggested.
really needed to hear this, feels like I just had a software upgrade, thanks
1) Don’t talk with an agenda in mind...
2) Know what you are feeling and then know, what you want to feel.
3) No one owes you anything... if they are doing anything then be appreciative.
4) Drop Saying - Thank-you / Sorry / I understand... Instead tell him how you feel.
5) Get out of his mind and get into yours. He may have all the problems... be supportive but don’t fix him.
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I’m so glad I found you.
You are so welcome and sending you much love.
Hello Adrienne and the community. Adrienne, I came accross your videos in the past and I dismissed your teaching believing it is important I am myself, strong, independent. Well ... I had issues with men in my life and I couldnt understand what I was doing that was pushing them away. Im learning that I can be strong independent yet soft, feminine. Its a journey for me, its challenging to unlearn old habits. However, I noticed positive and wonderful results in my career, other personal relationships and I know Ill be better equiped when a significant other enters my life. Thank you ❤
Hugs to you! 💕It takes time and practice to feel comfortable in your feminine energy, but you will start to notice how people respond to you. Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools
Thank you so much for your videos! They have really helped me to put a break to my masculine energy! Yuck I can see now how non-feminine I was being! I am a woman it is a blessing I will embrace my feminine energy! Thank you thank you!
Hugs to you! 💕 It takes time and practice to learn to be feminine. Once you learn how feminine energy makes you feel and how men respond to it, you will realize just how masculine you have been. bit.ly/femmtools
The message about him being stable was so important for me, thank you! My guy has been rebuilding his life after divorce and this was like a light bulb going on. I can see as he becomes more and more stable, our relationship is progressing more and more as well.
Hugs to you! 💕 A man needs to be able to have his life in order so that he can truly provide for you. Keep up the good work! Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools
You're a blessing; thank you for what you do! 💕
Honey thank you so much! Keep up the good work.
I absolutely love you, you saved my relationship. I have been in counseling with my fiancee for 2 years and it almost broke us. Thank-you for existing your a goddess and the most beautiful powerful woman. I need to get your e book. Blessings
I just had a very nice first date with a cute guy from church (yay for a Christian man, finally!). At the end, I did not say thank you. He asked if we could do this again, I said "yeah. this felt fun." And left to go to my running group. I didn't even think about it until now, but I not only used a feeling statement (not a great one but I'm still working on it!) I also did not say Thank you! :) Adrienne is slowly reprogramming my mind.
When you say to shift our thoughts to what might make us feel cozy or warm wouldn’t that make us seek out attention if that is the cause of our loneliness (I.e, we’re unhappy with someone, I’d feel warm if they showed more attention, which would lead to action to manipulate the outcome). Thank you for the clarification!
It makes me feel so good watching your videos 😊 this one in particular is very peaceful. I need to practice a softer voice. Its very impactful 💛
This will help me in so many areas of my life, I love your approach of self love and acceptance as the way to find love. This is the best thing I have seen on relationships. I immediately subscribed. Thank you! You are a breath of fresh air!
Hugs to you! I am so happy to help! My ebook “500 Ways” is a great place to start bit.ly/500waysbook
Looks like you hit 100 likes per hour since this video was uploaded 6 hours ago and your already at 500+ you go girl! Love your energy it’s genuine and comforting
Awh 🥰 thank you so much!
OMG everytime I say something to him I always have something in mind and now he knows he starts looking around to see what's wrong 😅 . Thanks for this
Hugs to you! 💕 Yes, it is so true! Men can really feel our energy.
Instead of nobody owes you anything I want to say everyone is free to make there own choices and so am I
A man will do what he wants to do. They owe us nothing, and we shouldn’t try and control them. 💕
Your voice is so soothing! It calms me :)
Awh 🥰 Thank you for your sweet words!
I loved the very last comment about living him with the bag situation. I’m excited to hear more about it! ♥️.
Thank you! 🥰 I am glad you enjoyed it!
You are amazing! I realised I've been watching this with a smile on my face the whole time :')
This makes me so happy to hear!
Going deeper into feeling........
I absolutely love your content. You make so much sense. I am continually trying to improve myself to be a better person and understand the mans mind. Thank you 🙏❤️❤️
I feel so honored to be a part of your life! 🥰
I’m so glad I found this video! These tips are the best!
This was the best video! I will work on these! Thanks for this!
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Thank you for all of your beautiful feminine energy. You’ve taught and helped me so much. I can listen all day and take it all in patiently. We appreciate you!
I'm so glad I found you, Adrienne! 😍
Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to help! Make sure you subscribe to my channel.
@@AdrienneEverheart Believe me, I hit that subscribe button so fast! ;)
I have saved this video.... Thank you so much, this video came at the right time. I'm awake now, can't sleep because I'm constantly having problems with my boyfriend. But I will stay for 2weeks without criticizing him as u just advised. I will try... I love him so much. Thank u so much for this video
Hugs to you! 💕 This makes me so happy to hear! My ABC program would be good for you to work through. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
hi Adrienne, thank you so much for this. Really good reminders even though I am in a good relationship with a good man, some old fears creep back up.
Really love what you have to say, Adrienne! I found you through my suggested videos and subscribed! I also just made a TH-cam channel recently, and seeing you as an example is really inspiring - thank you for all of your help! Please keep the great content coming!
Awh 💕 I am so happy to have you here! I am glad that you found me and are starting to learn more about feminine energy. It will change your life! This is a good place to start. bit.ly/femmtools
I wonder what would be a proper answer to a compliment?
Love love love her voice.
#1 was kinda short. Why should we not speak with a propose? If I ask a question, it's bc I want to know more about his thoughts or actions. Conversation always lead somewhere. Where do you want to go?
Great video! These tips work not only with men, but with anyone! I also love that you always wear beautiful earrings. After finding your videos, and especially the one you talk about your reminder bracelet, I got myself a rose quarts bracelet. I also started wearing pink. I always loved the color, but avoided it because I thought it makes me look too feminine and weak. Now that I practise your advise, and feel more confident from inside, I'm not scared to look soft outside anymore. Thank you always and much love❤️
You are correct. ❤️ FEMM can heal all relationships. I truly love reading your post!!! 🥰 I enjoy being a girl and everything that it entails. I’m glad you discovered the power of pink too. I hope you’re dating? In this program I teach you everything about feminine energy dating. bit.ly/femmtools
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy Thank you for the link! I'm married, but thanks to your lessons, I now feel like I'm dating my husband every day. I had already signed up for your FEMM for marriage and relationships, which got me out of the dark side of our marriage recently. If I hadn't found you, I would have still be in that dark circle, so thank you so much.🥰
I'm realizing that I say "sorry" and "thank you" way too much and need to work on that
Beautiful and enlightening. Thank you for teaching!
You are so welcome! 🥰 I am so happy to help!
This is so wonderful and so helpful and so fun 😍😍😍😍 You made me feel really curious about men and life in general ❤❤❤ thank You
You are so welcome! 🥰 I am so happy to help!
I could just listen to you all day. besides the helpful information - your voice and energy is so soothing V and relaxing ❤️
Thank you for your sweet words! 💕
You seem so authentic and kind!!
Thank you for your sweet words! 💕
Great video! Sometimes it just gets to me that I am the only one responsible for picking myself up. It hurts not to be able to share my emotions with anyone. Yes I'm single.
Hugs to you! 💕 If you are feeling that lonely and don’t have a close friend to talk to, you might want to find a good counselor to help you get through everything.
@@AdrienneEverheart thank you for replying. You are sweet. But it's just somedays not everyday.
The things you say are so very interesting, you would be so cool to talk to. I would love a video on you discussing some of your favourite books and movies!
Your smile is infectious. I couldn't stop smiling for the entire video. Thank you for the incredible tips😊
Thank you for your sweet words! 🥰
You're right, us men, we love to make you girls happy 😉
Just bumped into your videos by accident.. great work Adrienne!
Greetings from Europe 🙂
Number 3 hit home ... got me some tears 😢
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 Tears are so healing! Sending you so many positive vibes!
I just adore you Adrienne!!! Thank you for all of your incredible insight and Femininity!!!!!💜💪🏾
Thank you for your sweet words! 🥰 I’m so happy to help!
Thank you so much, this is truly helpful.
Hearing your calm voice just puts me at ease! Thanks for the tips😊
So happy to help you sweetie.
No one owes me anything. That is Godly.
So glad I found you!!! I already tried some of your tips and amazed by the effects of it🥰
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Sometimes doing this makes me feel selfish
Your voice is soothing in sense. Your deep heartfelt connection is what this world reflects 🥰Thankyou
Hi , my name is Erica and I watch most of your videos on TH-cam.. I'm subscribed but I want to reach out personally for a little advice.. I know your a busy woman so your advice would be much appreciated. Okay so I dont want to tell this story but this is my current story right now.. I've been single for 2-3 years now.. I am a single mom who is still lving with my current ex. we are still lving together due to financial reasons and I guess you can say were both just comfortable with the lving arrangement s anyways.. my ex loved on he has a gf that he has been with for a year now. I dont want my ex back. I have my eyes set on a new person. but this new person I have never met in real life.. I saw him through Instagram and my heart and mind felt like he is the man that i have created in my head my dream man.. i dont know him personally.. he lives in a completely different state then I.. from following him on Instagram and watching his videos I just feel like he is my dream man
During low times of being love starved we will create fantasy relationships to survive. Go for what is real. bit.ly/femmtools
I absolutely love this video and also the bell tolling in the background! How charming! Is this in NC?
My guy (well now ex) is real sensitive too. I think it's a part of the reason why he broke up with me, although he didn't admit that. Cuz the week before we broke up I was being super critical over how he wasn't paying attention to me, among other ugly things.
Thanks for this Adrienne! Very insightful.
Hugs to you! 🥰 I am so happy to help!
OK so I'm new to this channel and femininity in general but I happen to be what others consider as beautiful. Adrienne says to not say thank you when a man does a non physical thing for us, like saying "Wow honey, you look beautiful tonight."
Instead of saying thank you, what do I say back? I hope someone that has studied Adrienne's stuff can maybe help me with this one question please 🙏
I love this. You really helping lots of woman.
Adriene u are realy queen of my heart. Alot your face and warmth resembles me of my childhood best friend. i found u on internet in my most despair time and i liked u the moment i saw ur first video. I have been working on my feminine energy and want to tel u this, it realy works.thank u so much ❤❤ lots of love
Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to have you here. Learn more about feminine energy here bit.ly/femmtools