When my mom separated from my step dad she had only a part time job as a project manager. We had no where to go so her boss (a lovely older lady) told us to move into her office. We lived at my moms work office for 1.5 month as she saved enough to move my sisters and i into a 2 bedroom apartment. We were 3 teenage girls and she gave the eldest her own room while my other sister and i shared and my mom slept in the living room. Those kids dont know real love.
@@Alorajones19your mom sounds amazing. I’m so glad you all got through that time, and the fact that her boss made that offer speaks even more volumes to the woman that your mom is. ❤
Once cps get involved they will be required to have a bed for each child and a separate room males and females .....idk personally what they do for large groups
@ I almost never think CPS should get involved bc a lot of times they make things worse simply bc a family is low income. THIS?? This needs someone to intervene
@@Sarahkara1313 former foster kid here: they each need beds, separate rooms from genders, and drawers/furniture for the children to put clothes away. That's living requirements
@@Sarahkara1313 also each home needs to be clean in the sense that the children are not in active danger of sickness or harm. And no drugs, guns or weapons can be present or available to the children
It's not about them living in a one-bedroom apartment or having a gaming system! It’s the kids sleeping on mats the lack of cleanliness to the point that the kids have lice, pets have fleas, and their clothes being moldy! It’s their breeder kink and lazin it’s him being a deadbeat dad!
Right I have a family member that is down on her luck with three daughters at one point she had to sleep on the floor while her girls sleep in the only bed available when you have kids you sacrifice she has had three heart attacks and is blind in one eye and she is still trying to work bums like these two piss me off and what pisses me off more is the idiots that send them money and send them gifts
I actually grew up this way, my mom never had a place to go or a job so we were always staying with someone and 4 or 5 of us crammed into 1 bedroom. Our environment was so damaging to our health we missed so much schooling because we were constantly sick and need antibiotics. Had scabies at 2 points in my life from lack of clean bedding and clothing. Mentally it's incredibly damaging. It limits your social life, it ruins your self esteem, your physical health is declining so mentally you'll feel drained all the time from fighting the sickness, you'll have anger and resentment towards your parents/guardians for allowing an environment. In school i was the first one called to the principals office if there was a lice outbreak and everyone knew that, that type of stuff is so damaging for kids. I dont care if you wanna cram 10 kids into an RV at this point, but make sure your standards of living stay normal, including hygiene. You can be poor and be hygienic, i am currently struggling to even buy TP but i find ways to make sure I'm clean and have clean clothes, these parents need CPS to step in. Im not sure parenting classes will help them understand this isnt okay, for a lot it doesn't make any difference because they are stubborn and think its fine. I hope they can talk to an adult like me that did grow up quite similarly so they can see how damaging all of that can be.
@wailamirza1084 It's not wrong in and of itself. My children will always be my babies. What's concerning is that people like this tend to love the cute baby phase and see them more as accessories. As they grow up and have their own unique personalities and preferences, these parents begin to neglect them (emotionally mostly) because they are no longer those cute babies that they can fully control. It's a crazy concept for anyone who truly loves their child at every stage of life!
@@jessicagomez1600 naah that makes sense and it’s genuinely concerning seeing the circumstances because I know my parents ain’t even gonna think twice before giving there room to us which makes me feel more grateful and I think it’s a lesson for all of us that no matter how much money you have in the end what matters is your family and the memories you share with them
I will never understand people like this. You can't even provide for the kids you have. Stop having kids and focus on providing for the kids you already have.
There's literally family assistance for this reason . Yes it's unfortunate to have to use it but it's more unfortunate to have all of your kids in a one bedroom on the floor !?
Well I think the charm of babies and they don't think about it because they think that's "what ur supposed to do"... well societal pressure anyway. I don't have children I made that decision a long time ago bC I can never fully commit to it, and I don't think that's fair for a child. It's sad that not everyone thinks that way. They just say "f*ck it I'll have as many as I want" & everyone else gets to provide for them. Also, u can walk into any Planned Parenthood & get condoms FOR FREE and u can also make an appointment to get birth control. Its . That. Easy.
Peoples instinct is to want to "rescue" the children (& puppies & kitties 2 ;) these deadbeats are counting on this cuz it means they hafta do Even LESS They can continue to use his non-work income & 'their' gov't benefit money for more toys & dr*gs For THEM Simple As.
At first I was kinda thinking, maybe if they actually listen to the criticism and change the sleeping arrangements, people would see them in a better light. But nah as soon as she talked about the new pets and the fact that people are sending them gift, I know damn well they are never gunna change. They are basically being rewarded for their bad decisions. Why change at that point. Ugh sorry about the mini rant.
Paying child support through garnishment is NOT paying child support!!!! The wages are being garnished because the child support isnt being paid!!!! Like??? Its so baffling to me
Huh? Garnishment or not it's child support. Every person that has their check garnished wasn't bc they weren't paying. I've met men who went through the court to have their checks garnished bc of the petty moms.
@@misspbrown1219 Correct, you can either pay child support yourself online, or you can have it taken from your paychecks instead. Majority of working people who owe child support have it taken from their check as it's easier. People who don't pay at all though, they'll come for your income taxes for back pay, and send you reminders in the mail to pay it. I know that guy probably owes THOUSANDS in back pay child support lol
The audacity of this woman basically asking people online to help her with her life and have more children to get to stay home I don't think that's right why would we help you when people are struggling they damn self
His first child is 12 years old and here the dad is complaining that the state garnished $9k-10k over the past DECADE??! Clearly he has no idea what it costs to raise a child because he can’t even provide the bare minimum. This is insanity.
Same. Dad is lazy and doesn’t wanna pay child support. Mom doesn’t wanna do shit either. I grew up very poor and my mom made sure I was well taken care of. She also worked her ass off. I also have severe health issues and was advised by my drs not to work(heart failure, brain disorders that have lead to brain surgeries, have a feeding tube plus other things), and still.. I work. My husband works his ass off and I help our family out, despite being told not to! They are just despicable.
I hope CPS does the right thing and get involved. So many times CPS takes kids from family’s that are fine and leave the ones actually suffering. People need to keep making calls on them
I honestly don't understand why people watch family channels in the first place....stop making these people famous and incentivizing them to exploit their kids.
Yup agreed... People try to expose their kids to get money and oh poor me.I'm too lazy to work.I just want to make money off the internet and exploit my kids in my living situations.It's disgusting it's disgraceful and it's heartbreaking😢
my grandmother raised my mother with little to no money and in a one bedroom apartment. she slept ok the couch and allowed my mom the bedroom and sacrificed meals and luxuries to allow my mom opportunities. THATS a REAL parent. nothing wrong with being poor. but this is clearly bad parenting. point blank.
People shouldn't post their lives online if they can't handle the criticism. "Judgement comes from not having experience." M'am, we don't have to have experience to know your children are in a horrendous living situation.
Right. Like, miss girl, we don’t need experience to know it’s an awful idea to pump out more kids into a home where both parents are making ZERO money and everyone is squeezed into a small apartment on the FLOOOOR!
No fr, let's bring back shaming. Like not over petty stuff but if they are doing the most outrageous out of touch things and claiming to not be, while people are actively advising them kindly and they still chose to act ignorant, SHAME.
Wow, my family was below the poverty line for the longest time with not enough rooms for parents + 2 kids. You know what my parents did? They bought a murphy bed for themselves in the living room and let my sibling and I have the extra room with proper beds. IF THEY WANTED TO, THEY WOULD CARE ABOUT THEIR KIDS.
My dad got hurt when I was younger and didn't work for a while and he had a lot of financial issues but somehow my mom sacrificed a lot of things even eating sometimes so her kids didn't go without. Sold a car, worked 2 jobs, etc. When you're a parent you do that. These people are extremely selfish and don't deserve any children honestly imo
@@driley5004 I'm sorry that you had to struggle through so much. Your mom is a real one ♥ And yeah, selfish is a fitting word. And instead of getting their priorities straight they get even more pets? And thinking about having more kids? How about living in the present and trying your best for the kids you DO have right here right now. It's heartbreaking know these kids go through this... AND have it broadcasted to the internet on top of it. They deserve so much better than this. Every kid does.
I really hope CPS takes these kids away because this is ridiculous. She acts like everyone’s upset with her about living in a one bedroom! Please, the issue is the fact that they are sleeping on the floor and you are on the bed. What’s not clicking? Acting so remedial and beating around the bush because they know what they’re doing is wrong! I hope mom and dad are investigated soon… free those pets too… someone call animal control!
When they both stated they used to both work W2 jobs... like hello, that's everyone adulting doing what they gotta do to not be bums both irl and online. Some people are working jobs they hate but they continue to because that's what an adult does. 😂
Okay. No. I'm a disabled single parent on a fixed income. My toddler and I moved into the only apartment available right before covid hit, and it was a one bedroom. There was never a question about who gets the bedroom. My child got the bedroom. Period. I divided the living room so that I had enough space to safely get out of my bed and a few feet from the bottom of my bed, was a desk where I could work from home. That section was very tight but it only took over about 1/4 of the living room because I wanted a living room that connected to a space that was a playroom were I could watch my child play from my desk. I built a wall out of a secured bookshelf, plywood that was painted and drilled into the back of my couch. There's no reason they can't tough it while giving their children more space. Like bunkbeds are a no-brainer. These parents are selfish and delusional. I feel so bad for those kids, and the child he just abandoned and tries making excuses for why.
That situation lasted about 2 years, and now we live in a 3 bedroom home, I've found someone that loves both me and my child, and now we have 3 pets. They could save if they really wanted to.
@@madilenasmystery do you have any idea how much worse it would be for those kids to be taken? All you people who think CPS is the answer haven't looked into what happens to the kids after CPS takes them. But that's not YOUR problem though, right?
@@weloveangel509CPS will only “take the kids” if there is an immediate threat to their health or safety. They would likely only open a case on these “parents” and set some parameters so they DON’T lose custody. Also, CPS first tries to place children with other family members before foster care w/strangers. Grandparents, Aunts/Uncles etc. We must not allow bad parenting because of the boogeyman of foster care.
the children did not ask to be brought into this world. the children should not have to suffer from what their parents " choose ". this also goes for the cats.
I saw someone say they lived through the same living conditions when they were younger and it was a very hard life that they hate seeing these kids live how they did. I hate that these people treat having kids like nothing like it’s content for them which absolutely disgusts me. I hope those kids get help from these people.
"I think quite a lot before I do anything... we thought about the hate we'd receive for our living situation." Glad you thought of the hate and not the compromised safety of your children or the possible future psychological damages to them from posting this online and making them live like this long term and relying on tik tok for clout/money instead of getting actual help. Btw having more kids when you are already living in a fire hazard 24/7 with your current children isn't "making the best of the situation." It's making a bad situation WORSE. Yikes.
5 toddler beds. Ikea exists. Heck those cardboard Olympics beds are better than nothing. She just doesn't care. I'm mormon. I have met plenty of poor families with too many kids. They are not up to being parents. She could get a bed from ikea for 120 dollars. But that requires work to set it up.
@@Tiniestwombat yep I agree. I was just trying to be generous at that. I came from poor parents and have been in fostercare so I've seen it too. And now that I'm a mom, I've cut off friends who I realized shouldn't and can't be parents. It's sad. I hope the internet gives these people no fame, and only consequences
@grimmick9446 Being a bad selfish parent should not be something that can be monetized or rewarded. I'm glad they passed those laws to try and protect kids in family channels. It isn't enough. She is getting too much attention. No one should have bought her anything. She is going to get worse with money like the parents of child stars. I have a bad feeling about this story.
When I got my toddlers bed it was $99 and the mattress was $50 that was a few years ago. I got her a bunk bed this year and that plus two mattresses? $350 So yeah they can def afford multiple beds for their kids, they just don't care
I said this on another video but my fiance sold his DJ board and I sold my Switch because we needed the money to support our sons vs hold onto items we weren't using regularly. We both work everyday and my fiance works Saturdays. The fact that they don't try harder to get the resources that are out there to help them vs beg online is so upsetting. I've sat in an office for hours letting them look at every transaction in my bank account because they were going to help with my rent. They are NOT doing the most they can to provide for their children, they're just being lazy.
What I don’t understand is why you wouldn’t want more for your kids and just want more kids? This is insanity. And the dangers of those children being by the front door. Smh
the fact that people are actually sending them gifts and encouraging this behavior is beyond disgusting. cps or dcfs needs to take their children away and they need to get evicted. clearly they have a breeding kink and the father is evading his child support responsibilities
Also I’m from Portland. U can live in the outskirts and get a house or apartment for like $1200 with at least 3 rooms. You can also get on financial assistance there are tons of resources. I literally had to do rental assistance and they paid for 75% of my rent until I made too much money for their help. Portland is literally full of resources and places to go if you need financial assistance or housing assistance
I grew up in a mom who was a hoarder. Stuff got lost all the time and would never be found again. Now 24 years old i have a panic attack everytime i loose something. I hope child services get involved
Y’all, I hope this family never gets the fame they so desperately crave. From depriving your children of a safe sleeping space to actively working to make sure that your husband doesn’t have a normal job so that he does not need to pay child support, this family belongs in the landfill. These kids deserve better than parents who see them as accessories.
I live in the same county as these people and know for a fact that there are occupancy laws that ban this many people from living in a one bedroom apartment.
Sadly this is pretty normal in Oregon, I know lots of families who live 8+ people in 1-2 bedroom apartments. One of my closest friends actually shared her living room with her sister up until a couple months ago when her aunts and cousins finally moved out
I’m far from a perfect parent, but you could never catch me having a bed room, A BED and an expensive game console before my kids have a bed and proper privacy. This is sick.
At 10:11 regarding child support, he says in that clip - "they've taken out 9, 10 grand...& I let 'em, I didn't fight any of it..." There is NO "letting" - there is NO choice when you owe child support & the state comes in & garnishes your wages!!! The fact that your wages had to be garnished in the first place says it all!!
My mom slept on the couch her whole life. My dad was dying of cancer, we were flat broke. She bought herself nothing and was still wearing clothes from her early 20s. I had my room, my brother had the attic and my dad had the front room (he was so sick they couldn’t share a bed , he was disabled) we were crippled by medical debt trying to save him. Flat broke. Not a family member in sight to help, and she did EVERYTHING she could to better our situation. These people aren’t doing a thing, but continuing to pop out babies, I guarantee you? If they got bunk beds, or if they can’t afford those, they could makeshift it so those babies could all fit in that one bedroom. There is so much wrong with this, living with pets and rehoming them when they get sick to get another cat, probably to do the same when that cat gets sick. The dad will never have a job because he doesn’t want to take responsibility for his previous child. They’re selfish and those kids deserve better.
This is so hard to see. I come from lower income and a family of seven. This ain't it. The parents don't deserve to be rewarded for this, but those kids absolutely deserve better. ETA: sure sure the internets opinion doesn't matter, but you know who should have a say?? The sacrifice you make for having so many kids in one space is giving up intimacy until you can financially support the children you have and give them the space/privacy. SELFISH AND GROSS.
@@sweet2sunshine At least where I live, if you are trying to keep your children or foster children, sleep arrangements are huge deal. They expect you to at least have beds for your children. But they also prefer there being a separation between male and female children.
For example if its a 1 bedroom and you have a majority daughters the daughters might get a the whole room to themselves. And the 1 or two male kids could have a bunk bed in the living room with their parents. That isn't an ideal living situation, but still more acceptable then making your kids sleep on the floor in the living room.
@@rachelooyama-searls3316that's only a real issue for a single parent. Couples can work opposite shifts or different days. I work a night weekend shift so we don't have daycare for our daughter. She could at least work part time during times he's home. It's not like they both have careers that prevent them from working odd shifts.
most mothers i know who are also mostly single sleep in the living room for their kids to have their own bedroom or rooms including my mom and they want to bring more babies just to have them sleep in the living room? wtf then there is that anxiety like if there was a break in or anything they are right up at the door while these parents are on live explaining and excusing themselves like he could do anything he could make his own business so could she you have no excuse to sit on live while ur kids watch ur hubby play on his playstation and then say ur worth more than a job??? hope when those kids get out of there that their parents won’t leech off of them cause like you haven’t heard of remote at home jobs STOP HAVING KIDS if ur just gonna hold them back stop trying to explain ur bum shit to working class ppl
Everyone is missing the fact that he isnt paying at all, he admits he pays through garnishments and agrees he wont work a w2 job. Meaning there is no wage to be garnished and is not paying child support. He literally calls himself out
I was hoping you would cover this! I’m flabbergasted by their living situation I can’t imagine going to bed knowing my kids are sleeping right next to the front door 🙁😟
This is the reason I don't want kids while living in a 1 bedroom apartment. Kids deserve to have a space of their own. They have no place to escape. They have just the living room and kitchen and bathroom. I bet those kids will be dealing with the judgement in college. "I slept on a mat all my life" they would say. "That's horrible, abuse" their roommates might say.
he Could. IF he Actually wanted to. he's PROVEN he Doesn't want to (+) why provide for them when you can count on gov't benefits & public desires to help the children thru Amazon wishlists
Coming from a big family I can garauntee the oldest kids will be parenting the younger. They will have no childhood or autonomy, being subject to their parent's poverty and want for babies
When I was in elementary school my family 1 mom 4 kids was living in a 1 bedroom appt and my mom gave us kids the bedroom she slept in the living room and at this time she was a Heroine addict and still put us kids safely 1st
She genuinely thinks her man is her saviour but his entitlement of what kind of work he wants to do to avoid child support is incredibly disgusting all around. All the people and animals in that house need serious help
People do not understand that just because you CAN or WANT to have kids does NOT mean you should. As someone who grew up in financial instability, those kids are not going to forgive them for the shit they’re unnecessarily putting them through
It’s the fact that even in zac and Cody , the MOM SLEPT IN THE LIVING ROOM
This.
When my mom separated from my step dad she had only a part time job as a project manager. We had no where to go so her boss (a lovely older lady) told us to move into her office. We lived at my moms work office for 1.5 month as she saved enough to move my sisters and i into a 2 bedroom apartment. We were 3 teenage girls and she gave the eldest her own room while my other sister and i shared and my mom slept in the living room. Those kids dont know real love.
Poor people always pop out the most babies...
@@Alorajones19your mom sounds amazing. I’m so glad you all got through that time, and the fact that her boss made that offer speaks even more volumes to the woman that your mom is. ❤
Period.
She has a pregnancy fetish and he is a deadbeat dad.
Nope it's a welfare check fetish I think
The worst combo
More kids equals more assistance from the gov
I hope CPS actually gets involved. I’m sure it’s not even legal to have that many people in one apartment.
It’s not legal whatsoever
Once cps get involved they will be required to have a bed for each child and a separate room males and females .....idk personally what they do for large groups
@ I almost never think CPS should get involved bc a lot of times they make things worse simply bc a family is low income. THIS?? This needs someone to intervene
@@Sarahkara1313 former foster kid here: they each need beds, separate rooms from genders, and drawers/furniture for the children to put clothes away. That's living requirements
@@Sarahkara1313 also each home needs to be clean in the sense that the children are not in active danger of sickness or harm. And no drugs, guns or weapons can be present or available to the children
It's not about them living in a one-bedroom apartment or having a gaming system! It’s the kids sleeping on mats the lack of cleanliness to the point that the kids have lice, pets have fleas, and their clothes being moldy! It’s their breeder kink and lazin it’s him being a deadbeat dad!
Right I have a family member that is down on her luck with three daughters at one point she had to sleep on the floor while her girls sleep in the only bed available when you have kids you sacrifice she has had three heart attacks and is blind in one eye and she is still trying to work bums like these two piss me off and what pisses me off more is the idiots that send them money and send them gifts
Yeah I feel like she just thinks it's funny to be cattle and breed
I actually grew up this way, my mom never had a place to go or a job so we were always staying with someone and 4 or 5 of us crammed into 1 bedroom. Our environment was so damaging to our health we missed so much schooling because we were constantly sick and need antibiotics. Had scabies at 2 points in my life from lack of clean bedding and clothing.
Mentally it's incredibly damaging. It limits your social life, it ruins your self esteem, your physical health is declining so mentally you'll feel drained all the time from fighting the sickness, you'll have anger and resentment towards your parents/guardians for allowing an environment.
In school i was the first one called to the principals office if there was a lice outbreak and everyone knew that, that type of stuff is so damaging for kids.
I dont care if you wanna cram 10 kids into an RV at this point, but make sure your standards of living stay normal, including hygiene.
You can be poor and be hygienic, i am currently struggling to even buy TP but i find ways to make sure I'm clean and have clean clothes, these parents need CPS to step in.
Im not sure parenting classes will help them understand this isnt okay, for a lot it doesn't make any difference because they are stubborn and think its fine.
I hope they can talk to an adult like me that did grow up quite similarly so they can see how damaging all of that can be.
Yes for small children eating all over that floor all day everyday it's got to be crawling with everything!!!
@@jordynniccole7434
I’m sorry you had to grow up like that. I hope you are doing well now and are happy and healthy 🙏💙🙏
Also it's always really telling when they say " I want more babies " instead of more "children".
True. They just want to stay pregnant and have newborns. After that they are useless and can take care of themselves/the elder kids take over.
Could you please tell me why not being rude or anything my brain can just not get it
It could mean she wants babies like when people want puppies but will forget them when they turn into dogs. Does this make sense sorry if it doesn’t 💀
@wailamirza1084 It's not wrong in and of itself. My children will always be my babies. What's concerning is that people like this tend to love the cute baby phase and see them more as accessories. As they grow up and have their own unique personalities and preferences, these parents begin to neglect them (emotionally mostly) because they are no longer those cute babies that they can fully control. It's a crazy concept for anyone who truly loves their child at every stage of life!
@@jessicagomez1600 naah that makes sense and it’s genuinely concerning seeing the circumstances because I know my parents ain’t even gonna think twice before giving there room to us which makes me feel more grateful and I think it’s a lesson for all of us that no matter how much money you have in the end what matters is your family and the memories you share with them
I will never understand people like this. You can't even provide for the kids you have. Stop having kids and focus on providing for the kids you already have.
literalllllyyyyyy 😭
Heartily agree 💯. I won't say more because I won't be nice, so I'll just leave it at that SMFH.
There's literally family assistance for this reason . Yes it's unfortunate to have to use it but it's more unfortunate to have all of your kids in a one bedroom on the floor !?
They want babies like kids want puppies
Well I think the charm of babies and they don't think about it because they think that's "what ur supposed to do"... well societal pressure anyway. I don't have children I made that decision a long time ago bC I can never fully commit to it, and I don't think that's fair for a child. It's sad that not everyone thinks that way. They just say "f*ck it I'll have as many as I want" & everyone else gets to provide for them. Also, u can walk into any Planned Parenthood & get condoms FOR FREE and u can also make an appointment to get birth control. Its . That. Easy.
If you can’t afford kids, don’t have them.
I know those kids will eventually want their own space. 7 people in one bedroom is not the business
I feel the same but unfortunately everyone else doesn't think like that. I say to myself everyday I don't know how people afford kids lol
What you mean eventually? I bet they already do!!
the dad doesn't want to provide, he just wants to play his video games
Why are ppl sending them gifts, when they have no plans on changing their situation.... This kinda stuff just burns me up
Makes me so mad. There are people that have NOTHING and would be grateful for anything.
@driley5004 absolutely
Peoples instinct is to want to "rescue" the children (& puppies & kitties 2 ;) these deadbeats are counting on this cuz it means they hafta do Even LESS
They can continue to use his non-work income & 'their' gov't benefit money for more toys & dr*gs For THEM
Simple As.
At first I was kinda thinking, maybe if they actually listen to the criticism and change the sleeping arrangements, people would see them in a better light. But nah as soon as she talked about the new pets and the fact that people are sending them gift, I know damn well they are never gunna change. They are basically being rewarded for their bad decisions. Why change at that point. Ugh sorry about the mini rant.
@SunakoNakaharaGirl I get what you mean for sure!
Paying child support through garnishment is NOT paying child support!!!! The wages are being garnished because the child support isnt being paid!!!! Like??? Its so baffling to me
Huh? Garnishment or not it's child support. Every person that has their check garnished wasn't bc they weren't paying. I've met men who went through the court to have their checks garnished bc of the petty moms.
Right!? The audacity. Garnishment means you👏 didn’t 👏 pay👏 it👏
It’s a punishment by the courts!
@@misspbrown1219 Correct, you can either pay child support yourself online, or you can have it taken from your paychecks instead. Majority of working people who owe child support have it taken from their check as it's easier. People who don't pay at all though, they'll come for your income taxes for back pay, and send you reminders in the mail to pay it. I know that guy probably owes THOUSANDS in back pay child support lol
But he already said he wont work a W2 job. So he isnt payint child support because he has no wage for them to garnish..@misspbrown1219
@@callmecourtney244 apparently he owes 6k and counting.
This man needs judge Judy to yell at him
I was thinking same😂
I know that's right!!!!
HahHhha
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The audacity of this woman basically asking people online to help her with her life and have more children to get to stay home I don't think that's right why would we help you when people are struggling they damn self
The fact that she wants MORE is just ………..
@SpillSesh omfg I can't believe you replied too me 💖💖..... But this woman is giving very delusional
@2:55 “hump away” that’s such a gross way to describe having more kids…
Sounds like he's already humping away
I literally screeched ewe when I heard that 🤢
Literally my thoughts!
@@mariasato2884 gave me the ick on levels I didn't know possible
My mom slept in the living room on the couch when my sisters & I were kids. We always got a bedroom. These parents are selfish.
My grandma slept on the couch every night when I was a kid. If you care, your kids always come first.
Yep, my mom fixed up the bedroom for me and my little brother and bought a sofa pullout for the living room for her to sleep on.
Yes! Same for my brother and I
His first child is 12 years old and here the dad is complaining that the state garnished $9k-10k over the past DECADE??! Clearly he has no idea what it costs to raise a child because he can’t even provide the bare minimum. This is insanity.
As soon as I read “This TikTok Family is the Worst” I knew exactly which bums you were referring to 😂😂
😭😭😭😭😭
Me to🤦♀️
Same. Dad is lazy and doesn’t wanna pay child support. Mom doesn’t wanna do shit either. I grew up very poor and my mom made sure I was well taken care of. She also worked her ass off. I also have severe health issues and was advised by my drs not to work(heart failure, brain disorders that have lead to brain surgeries, have a feeding tube plus other things), and still.. I work. My husband works his ass off and I help our family out, despite being told not to! They are just despicable.
Same 🤦♀️😂
Same!!!
And people call me selfish for not wanting kids, this is selfish... I hope the children are well taken cared of and loved
I hope CPS does the right thing and get involved. So many times CPS takes kids from family’s that are fine and leave the ones actually suffering. People need to keep making calls on them
I honestly don't understand why people watch family channels in the first place....stop making these people famous and incentivizing them to exploit their kids.
That’s all she wants.
Enough little caramel babies in a band to make the next Jackson 5
@maryperry6573 the messed up part is that she totally can...and steal their money. It's shameful.
@@Petty_mayonnaise we’ll see her again online in s few years
I agree.Even the hate and all the questions and stuff is still encouraging them, because they're getting views
Yup agreed... People try to expose their kids to get money and oh poor me.I'm too lazy to work.I just want to make money off the internet and exploit my kids in my living situations.It's disgusting it's disgraceful and it's heartbreaking😢
"I've been paying via garnishments"!!!😮😂😂😂😂😂 what in the hell....sir that literally means you've not paid. You can not "fight it" if it is your child.
my grandmother raised my mother with little to no money and in a one bedroom apartment. she slept ok the couch and allowed my mom the bedroom and sacrificed meals and luxuries to allow my mom opportunities. THATS a REAL parent. nothing wrong with being poor. but this is clearly bad parenting. point blank.
Thats bc ur grandmother was not selfish. Most people who gaf about thier kids don't do what these ppl do. They are horrible.
The fact they don’t even have there own beds is crazyyyyy sell the PlayStation and get everyone a bed.
She decided to have kids with a guy that refuses to pay anything for his first child. What makes her think he wont do the same to her and their child?
Right, if they break up she ain't gonna get child support either lmao
No one is more confident than new gf of deadbeat dad
"Fools gonna be fools. So I couldn't blame Tammy."
Right. She really acting like he won’t leave her with all them kids she’s tryna give him
”we choose this lifestyle” …. Ok?? And what about what your kids want/choose?
Groose.
Such a silly groose! 🪿
@ haha I knew I spelled it wrong 🫣🫣 english isn’t my first language and I didn’t take the time to google and spell-check
People shouldn't post their lives online if they can't handle the criticism. "Judgement comes from not having experience." M'am, we don't have to have experience to know your children are in a horrendous living situation.
And people that have experienced this still don’t approve of this situation
Right. Like, miss girl, we don’t need experience to know it’s an awful idea to pump out more kids into a home where both parents are making ZERO money and everyone is squeezed into a small apartment on the FLOOOOR!
Omg she's not a mom doing her absolute best. Every once in a while mom shaming is justified.
No fr, let's bring back shaming. Like not over petty stuff but if they are doing the most outrageous out of touch things and claiming to not be, while people are actively advising them kindly and they still chose to act ignorant, SHAME.
Wow, my family was below the poverty line for the longest time with not enough rooms for parents + 2 kids. You know what my parents did? They bought a murphy bed for themselves in the living room and let my sibling and I have the extra room with proper beds.
IF THEY WANTED TO, THEY WOULD CARE ABOUT THEIR KIDS.
My dad got hurt when I was younger and didn't work for a while and he had a lot of financial issues but somehow my mom sacrificed a lot of things even eating sometimes so her kids didn't go without. Sold a car, worked 2 jobs, etc. When you're a parent you do that. These people are extremely selfish and don't deserve any children honestly imo
@@driley5004 I'm sorry that you had to struggle through so much. Your mom is a real one ♥
And yeah, selfish is a fitting word. And instead of getting their priorities straight they get even more pets? And thinking about having more kids? How about living in the present and trying your best for the kids you DO have right here right now. It's heartbreaking know these kids go through this... AND have it broadcasted to the internet on top of it. They deserve so much better than this. Every kid does.
“I’ve been paying child support via garnishment”that’s not a flex ☠️
I really hope CPS takes these kids away because this is ridiculous. She acts like everyone’s upset with her about living in a one bedroom! Please, the issue is the fact that they are sleeping on the floor and you are on the bed. What’s not clicking? Acting so remedial and beating around the bush because they know what they’re doing is wrong! I hope mom and dad are investigated soon… free those pets too… someone call animal control!
“I let them” take the money out of my taxes hahahahaah they were going to take that anyways buddy
Right lol acting like he did it out of his own good heart of his 🤣
“DoorDash is like having a W2” yeah and a W2 means you have income😭which is what you clearly need this is ignorant parenting/adult-ing
W-2 means Traceable, Taxable income with the ability to Garnishee & withhold tax refunds
He said it like it was a bad thing?!!! “Aw man that’s W2”…. Yeah like every one else …..?
He's avoiding paying child support like a dead beat dad he is
When they both stated they used to both work W2 jobs... like hello, that's everyone adulting doing what they gotta do to not be bums both irl and online. Some people are working jobs they hate but they continue to because that's what an adult does. 😂
The fact that she knew was a dead beat dad and still married him and kids with him is UNHINGED
Okay. No.
I'm a disabled single parent on a fixed income. My toddler and I moved into the only apartment available right before covid hit, and it was a one bedroom. There was never a question about who gets the bedroom. My child got the bedroom. Period. I divided the living room so that I had enough space to safely get out of my bed and a few feet from the bottom of my bed, was a desk where I could work from home. That section was very tight but it only took over about 1/4 of the living room because I wanted a living room that connected to a space that was a playroom were I could watch my child play from my desk. I built a wall out of a secured bookshelf, plywood that was painted and drilled into the back of my couch.
There's no reason they can't tough it while giving their children more space. Like bunkbeds are a no-brainer. These parents are selfish and delusional. I feel so bad for those kids, and the child he just abandoned and tries making excuses for why.
That situation lasted about 2 years, and now we live in a 3 bedroom home, I've found someone that loves both me and my child, and now we have 3 pets. They could save if they really wanted to.
❤ Proud of you.
When you have children you are obligated to support them both emotionally and especially financially.
I’m from Portland and gay and have seen the dad on Grindr and at our local dispensary in their black Jetta on multiple occasions.
That "dad" is ridiculous!! And he's on Grindr of all places??😂🤣
@@madilenasmystery do you have any idea how much worse it would be for those kids to be taken? All you people who think CPS is the answer haven't looked into what happens to the kids after CPS takes them. But that's not YOUR problem though, right?
@weloveangel509 you don't really know what happens to these kids now at home...
@@weloveangel509CPS will only “take the kids” if there is an immediate threat to their health or safety. They would likely only open a case on these “parents” and set some parameters so they DON’T lose custody. Also, CPS first tries to place children with other family members before foster care w/strangers. Grandparents, Aunts/Uncles etc.
We must not allow bad parenting because of the boogeyman of foster care.
Whaaaaaast 😂
the children did not ask to be brought into this world. the children should not have to suffer from what their parents " choose ". this also goes for the cats.
Within the first 30 seconds I’m hooked. What do you mean they ALSO have pets??
I was shocked … especially after admitting she had to rehome one
They have 2 cats. And the mom has mentioned flea problems. So they can't take care of their kids or their cats properly. Just sad all the way around.
@@brookeswapp5871flea and lice problem
I saw someone say they lived through the same living conditions when they were younger and it was a very hard life that they hate seeing these kids live how they did. I hate that these people treat having kids like nothing like it’s content for them which absolutely disgusts me. I hope those kids get help from these people.
"I think quite a lot before I do anything... we thought about the hate we'd receive for our living situation." Glad you thought of the hate and not the compromised safety of your children or the possible future psychological damages to them from posting this online and making them live like this long term and relying on tik tok for clout/money instead of getting actual help. Btw having more kids when you are already living in a fire hazard 24/7 with your current children isn't "making the best of the situation." It's making a bad situation WORSE. Yikes.
Apparently they need to do some more thinking about the living situation itself! Like?!?!?!
You need to have money if you want a damn breading fetish
Lolll right
Breeding but yes.
Breading fetish. 🥯🍞🥖🥐 🥵
Nah ps5s are 500 bucks. I've got two kids and I love to game. 500 bucks is at least 2 fully set up toddler beds . At LEAST
5 toddler beds. Ikea exists. Heck those cardboard Olympics beds are better than nothing. She just doesn't care.
I'm mormon. I have met plenty of poor families with too many kids. They are not up to being parents. She could get a bed from ikea for 120 dollars. But that requires work to set it up.
@@grimmick9446 Amazon has them for around 100, So at least 3 with tax. Disgusting.
@@Tiniestwombat yep I agree. I was just trying to be generous at that. I came from poor parents and have been in fostercare so I've seen it too. And now that I'm a mom, I've cut off friends who I realized shouldn't and can't be parents. It's sad. I hope the internet gives these people no fame, and only consequences
@grimmick9446 Being a bad selfish parent should not be something that can be monetized or rewarded. I'm glad they passed those laws to try and protect kids in family channels. It isn't enough. She is getting too much attention. No one should have bought her anything. She is going to get worse with money like the parents of child stars.
I have a bad feeling about this story.
When I got my toddlers bed it was $99 and the mattress was $50 that was a few years ago. I got her a bunk bed this year and that plus two mattresses? $350
So yeah they can def afford multiple beds for their kids, they just don't care
I said this on another video but my fiance sold his DJ board and I sold my Switch because we needed the money to support our sons vs hold onto items we weren't using regularly. We both work everyday and my fiance works Saturdays. The fact that they don't try harder to get the resources that are out there to help them vs beg online is so upsetting. I've sat in an office for hours letting them look at every transaction in my bank account because they were going to help with my rent. They are NOT doing the most they can to provide for their children, they're just being lazy.
“if you don’t agree with our lifestyle”… what a crazy way to not call it abuse & neglect. i’m sure the law doesn’t agree with your lifestyle either
Drew doesn't work.
The mother is all hygienic, but the house and kids are not, even the cats😢
They have animals in that house too??? Shame on them!
What I don’t understand is why you wouldn’t want more for your kids and just want more kids? This is insanity. And the dangers of those children being by the front door. Smh
the fact that people are actually sending them gifts and encouraging this behavior is beyond disgusting. cps or dcfs needs to take their children away and they need to get evicted. clearly they have a breeding kink and the father is evading his child support responsibilities
Also I’m from Portland. U can live in the outskirts and get a house or apartment for like $1200 with at least 3 rooms. You can also get on financial assistance there are tons of resources. I literally had to do rental assistance and they paid for 75% of my rent until I made too much money for their help. Portland is literally full of resources and places to go if you need financial assistance or housing assistance
They should pay for themselves
I’d turn the bedroom into a kids room with bunk beds that have desk for studying and I’d glaaaadly sleep in the living room, KIDS COME FIRST!!!
She wants more kids so she can continue to smoke weed while pregnant? Smart.
It’s gotta be a fetish because she does not care about those kids
I grew up in a mom who was a hoarder. Stuff got lost all the time and would never be found again. Now 24 years old i have a panic attack everytime i loose something. I hope child services get involved
Thats room looked just as messy as my childhood home. Urgh trauma
I am disgusted to know that they live in my area. Just the thought of running into them makes me cringe poor children.
Call cps. It should be illegal to have all those kids and themselves in such a tiny apartment.
It is illegal! CPS has rules on how many children to one bedroom. This is waaay over that
6 kids in a NO BEDROOM?! WHAT THE ACTUAL F!
it is looks like the mom is the appliance. she does all the household labor
4 kids, it’s a family of 6 going on 7
Y’all, I hope this family never gets the fame they so desperately crave. From depriving your children of a safe sleeping space to actively working to make sure that your husband doesn’t have a normal job so that he does not need to pay child support, this family belongs in the landfill. These kids deserve better than parents who see them as accessories.
People send them money every day on lives 💔💔💔💔 it’s so disgusting what they’re doing
I live in the same county as these people and know for a fact that there are occupancy laws that ban this many people from living in a one bedroom apartment.
A one bedroom with 4 kids 😱😱 I have a three bedroom with 3 kids I can’t imagine !!
Sadly this is pretty normal in Oregon, I know lots of families who live 8+ people in 1-2 bedroom apartments. One of my closest friends actually shared her living room with her sister up until a couple months ago when her aunts and cousins finally moved out
For me it's the fact the dad makes an effort to get a W2 job so he can avoid paying child support to his other children
I’m far from a perfect parent, but you could never catch me having a bed room, A BED and an expensive game console before my kids have a bed and proper privacy. This is sick.
At 10:11 regarding child support, he says in that clip - "they've taken out 9, 10 grand...& I let 'em, I didn't fight any of it..." There is NO "letting" - there is NO choice when you owe child support & the state comes in & garnishes your wages!!! The fact that your wages had to be garnished in the first place says it all!!
My mom slept on the couch her whole life. My dad was dying of cancer, we were flat broke. She bought herself nothing and was still wearing clothes from her early 20s. I had my room, my brother had the attic and my dad had the front room (he was so sick they couldn’t share a bed , he was disabled) we were crippled by medical debt trying to save him. Flat broke. Not a family member in sight to help, and she did EVERYTHING she could to better our situation. These people aren’t doing a thing, but continuing to pop out babies, I guarantee you? If they got bunk beds, or if they can’t afford those, they could makeshift it so those babies could all fit in that one bedroom. There is so much wrong with this, living with pets and rehoming them when they get sick to get another cat, probably to do the same when that cat gets sick. The dad will never have a job because he doesn’t want to take responsibility for his previous child. They’re selfish and those kids deserve better.
Enter CPS, the IRS and the AG......🤔🧐
this is why i’ll never stop believing that there should be requirements to be a parent. good god
Imo people need to take an iQ test lmao
@ not even - some of the most intelligent people are cruel and unfit parents. CPS needs to be more active in peoples lives
And mental health checks 😬
So everyone in Africa and other countries who room share shouldn't have children? Wiw so judgmental.
@ are you implying people in africa wouldn’t be able to meet requirements? kinda racist 😕
This is so hard to see. I come from lower income and a family of seven. This ain't it. The parents don't deserve to be rewarded for this, but those kids absolutely deserve better.
ETA: sure sure the internets opinion doesn't matter, but you know who should have a say??
The sacrifice you make for having so many kids in one space is giving up intimacy until you can financially support the children you have and give them the space/privacy. SELFISH AND GROSS.
Ya'll if CPS saw this they'd be foaming at the mouth. The children need atleast a room each per gender.
Is that an actual CPS rule? I don’t think so. But in general you’re right that lack of sleeping arrangements is a problem
@@sweet2sunshine At least where I live, if you are trying to keep your children or foster children, sleep arrangements are huge deal. They expect you to at least have beds for your children. But they also prefer there being a separation between male and female children.
For example if its a 1 bedroom and you have a majority daughters the daughters might get a the whole room to themselves. And the 1 or two male kids could have a bunk bed in the living room with their parents. That isn't an ideal living situation, but still more acceptable then making your kids sleep on the floor in the living room.
@@sweet2sunshinethere is a square footage per child that’s set! It’s different in different areas
someone had commented even the Gallaghers had their own rooms and I can't stop thinking about it
"People don't think before they comment"
How about you think before you procreate
Legally, they can't have that many in an apartment that size. That's too many per room. The fire Marshall will have something to say about that
Lol she says she wouldn't criticize a mom who's just doing her best. As if she's doing her best 💀
it should be considered child abuse to have kids when you don’t have the means to support the ones you already have
They're using the rage bait trend of how much people hate poor mothers and getting rich from it, they're not influencers. They're playing you all.
"so I can make this man a father of 7"
As a child of 7 who's "bedroom" was the living room, stop
Why is she a stay at home mom is they clearly can't afford it
Full time day care for 1 kid costs like 400 a week. Can you imagine for 5 kids?
@@rachelooyama-searls3316 I agree but lol stop having them jfc
@driley5004 no yeah I agree.
@@rachelooyama-searls3316that's only a real issue for a single parent. Couples can work opposite shifts or different days. I work a night weekend shift so we don't have daycare for our daughter. She could at least work part time during times he's home. It's not like they both have careers that prevent them from working odd shifts.
most mothers i know who are also mostly single sleep in the living room for their kids to have their own bedroom or rooms including my mom and they want to bring more babies just to have them sleep in the living room? wtf then there is that anxiety like if there was a break in or anything they are right up at the door while these parents are on live explaining and excusing themselves like he could do anything he could make his own business so could she you have no excuse to sit on live while ur kids watch ur hubby play on his playstation and then say ur worth more than a job??? hope when those kids get out of there that their parents won’t leech off of them cause like you haven’t heard of remote at home jobs STOP HAVING KIDS if ur just gonna hold them back stop trying to explain ur bum shit to working class ppl
Everyone is missing the fact that he isnt paying at all, he admits he pays through garnishments and agrees he wont work a w2 job. Meaning there is no wage to be garnished and is not paying child support. He literally calls himself out
I was hoping you would cover this! I’m flabbergasted by their living situation I can’t imagine going to bed knowing my kids are sleeping right next to the front door 🙁😟
Not these people in my hometown 🫣🫣
This is the reason I don't want kids while living in a 1 bedroom apartment. Kids deserve to have a space of their own. They have no place to escape. They have just the living room and kitchen and bathroom. I bet those kids will be dealing with the judgement in college. "I slept on a mat all my life" they would say. "That's horrible, abuse" their roommates might say.
she wants a tiny home with 7 family members and 2 pets??????? what the heck!
Don't have kids if you can't provide for them properly!!!!! Period !!!!!!
does this man not know what birth control is, and how he can contribute to contraception? because clearly he cant provide for these kids
he Could. IF he Actually wanted to.
he's PROVEN he Doesn't want to
(+) why provide for them when you can count on gov't benefits & public desires to help the children thru Amazon wishlists
Those poor kids. She says something like “always adapting for their privacy as they age” but doesn’t show how??
If he won't take care of his last kids why did she think he was gonna change for their kids??
Seems like the woman would rather be pregnant than be a mom
"Give me as maby babies as i want,"
YOU DONT NEED MORE CHILDREN. OR BABIES. THEYRE NOT COLLECTABLE TOYS. GET A BETTER HOUSE.
Their kids don't come first, that's crystal clear.
Coming from a big family I can garauntee the oldest kids will be parenting the younger. They will have no childhood or autonomy, being subject to their parent's poverty and want for babies
The audacity of this man to want MORE kids after abandoning his first child 🤦♀️
This breaks my heart
“this man has done everything he can to provide” while talking about being too broke. STOP MAKING BABIES HOLY SHIT
I didn’t know this family had pets as well. How can they subject everybody in that household to this? No one is receiving proper care.
being addicted to having kids (despite circumstances) is absolutely a sign of mental illness, unhealed trauma, etc.
So they’re living off the state, and he doesn’t want to pay taxes. That tells me all I need to know.
Poor does not mean dirty…….
This couple is unbearable
This is child abuse. The minute one goes through puberty its gonna be horrid.
When I was in elementary school my family 1 mom 4 kids was living in a 1 bedroom appt and my mom gave us kids the bedroom she slept in the living room and at this time she was a Heroine addict and still put us kids safely 1st
I just cannot understand this selfish mentality. I would give the clothes off my back to my daughter if she needed it
She genuinely thinks her man is her saviour but his entitlement of what kind of work he wants to do to avoid child support is incredibly disgusting all around. All the people and animals in that house need serious help
4:09 not her using the Nara smith voice lol
People do not understand that just because you CAN or WANT to have kids does NOT mean you should. As someone who grew up in financial instability, those kids are not going to forgive them for the shit they’re unnecessarily putting them through
“Paying via garnish” sir that means you never paid voluntarily and you are avoiding any job that will garnish 🤦♀️
This mood in this vid is everything!
I’m
Pretty sure they are smoking weed under that bedroom with their kids so sad so sad
Both parents act under the influence
*Having multiple kids at this economy yet can’t afford them is crazy work*