Self love is the most difficult to attain, important trait a man can secure in this world. Before he can even think of loving another - this must happen first and be cultivated.
I used to think so. Every relationship that I allowed myself to open up and recieve love I was fucked over, cheated on, taken advantage of mistreated etc..... 5 serious relationships to include one 8 year relationship 2 of which we were married and a 7 year relationship with my child's mother. After all said and done looking back I don't know if love is worth the disruption in peace. I've been single for coming up on 5 years now and I've never been happier by myself. I put the work in, fixed myself learned to love myself. Once that all clicked I realized I don't want anything to do with a relationship and I began the journey to heal myself to become a better partner for someone later on. Peace is the most important quality in my life and I refuse to interrupt it for anyone. YES!! Love someone in such a way that they feel free!! Has been my motto for many years!! Much love brother and glad to see your continued success!!
I was in love yes. I then proceeded to lose my mind, like a state of psychosis lose my mind and messed 12:44 everything up more and more, drove her into no contact, tried to get her back for 2 years, never stopped trying. Tomorrow is 9 months since she passed away. The last time I messaged her was 3 days before she passed away. From the day of our breakup my life has never been the same, and since she passed away I am simply a shell of a human who has no excitement or happiness in regards to amything anymore.
No I don’t think it is, I came off a relationship where I thought we were solid. Possibly into marriage she had certain expectations and I met all of them and all it took was one small blowup and now I never did anything or I was just doing the bare minimum. Imagine spending every other night talking to this person on the phone, visiting them and checking on them when their own friends and family did not always taking them out, etc and you hear those words. It’s always when they want to go they just ghost but when you want to go it’s “please don’t leave me” It’s soul crushing to be in love honestly.
Loyalty is worth more than love because love is just a feeling. People in your life, whether it's your family or your friends or your extended family members or whoever is in your life, may buy you gifts, cook for you, etc. but they still stab you in the back. No matter how much they do for you, they still provoke you, regardless. Loyalty is the opposite. People in your life can love you or be pissed off at you and still have your back. That's why I say that loyalty is better than love.
It's is circumstantially necessary. Especially after spending time building, and loving yourself. As most things you will gain in abundance, you will also, eventually want to share the love you've built as well. Peace Coach. I hope you've found it,and if so, peace and Blessings. ✌️
The problem is men want to be in relationship with these women. Marriage is a thing of past. Just date and hook up, but keep it between you two. No living together, no planning future together, no kids together, no facebook status, no nothing. Just meet up 2 times a week to go out on a date and smash after. And thats it. If she wants to clown around and mess around with other dudes then thats fine, its her life she xan do whatever. Just dont get attached to her and focus on yourself. Dont let her to ruin your reputation along with hers
The thing is you can't control someone but you do reflect each other in a relationship so to some extent you do have to see what a person is doing, if they're going clubbing etc and that's something you don't like you have to address it immediately if you see that as a boundary.
Hi, Shaun Zachary, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your TH-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend 👍💯👍!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
Depends the circumstances can be,I'm using what's been done to me as an example at 42 after 20 years of graft and control and strategic encounters and the game they been playing with my life no experience ambition getting that bag is priority I wood think ???
I done everything and they fk me over every every time. Never appreciated me not care n i had worst life n they do worst . All they care of is looks or to destroy me. No loyalty idgaf anymore even my shoe got missing all everyone just fuck with me whole life. I give my all always my all but they just let even their friends hurt n fk with me the awnser is its worth it depending on who you love... 💯 i got my crows and i got love but it all depends on who your loving
We're here to love God and be the best person you can be. Then enter his Kingdom again and leave this world of misery. When you know this you don't attach yourself to anything or anyone
I think the negativity comes from infatuation and not love. You need to move through the infatuation stage as quickly as possible as its a drain on every aspect of your life, and is also unattractive.
Self love is the most difficult to attain, important trait a man can secure in this world. Before he can even think of loving another - this must happen first and be cultivated.
I used to think so. Every relationship that I allowed myself to open up and recieve love I was fucked over, cheated on, taken advantage of mistreated etc..... 5 serious relationships to include one 8 year relationship 2 of which we were married and a 7 year relationship with my child's mother. After all said and done looking back I don't know if love is worth the disruption in peace. I've been single for coming up on 5 years now and I've never been happier by myself. I put the work in, fixed myself learned to love myself. Once that all clicked I realized I don't want anything to do with a relationship and I began the journey to heal myself to become a better partner for someone later on. Peace is the most important quality in my life and I refuse to interrupt it for anyone. YES!! Love someone in such a way that they feel free!! Has been my motto for many years!! Much love brother and glad to see your continued success!!
I was in love yes. I then proceeded to lose my mind, like a state of psychosis lose my mind and messed 12:44 everything up more and more, drove her into no contact, tried to get her back for 2 years, never stopped trying. Tomorrow is 9 months since she passed away. The last time I messaged her was 3 days before she passed away. From the day of our breakup my life has never been the same, and since she passed away I am simply a shell of a human who has no excitement or happiness in regards to amything anymore.
Not when it comes to a woman. You have to remind yourself what you’re dealing with and adjust your space accordingly.
No I don’t think it is, I came off a relationship where I thought we were solid. Possibly into marriage she had certain expectations and I met all of them and all it took was one small blowup and now I never did anything or I was just doing the bare minimum. Imagine spending every other night talking to this person on the phone, visiting them and checking on them when their own friends and family did not always taking them out, etc and you hear those words. It’s always when they want to go they just ghost but when you want to go it’s “please don’t leave me” It’s soul crushing to be in love honestly.
Loyalty is worth more than love because love is just a feeling. People in your life, whether it's your family or your friends or your extended family members or whoever is in your life, may buy you gifts, cook for you, etc. but they still stab you in the back. No matter how much they do for you, they still provoke you, regardless. Loyalty is the opposite. People in your life can love you or be pissed off at you and still have your back. That's why I say that loyalty is better than love.
It's is circumstantially necessary.
Especially after spending time building, and loving yourself. As most things you will gain in abundance, you will also, eventually want to share the love you've built as well.
Peace Coach. I hope you've found it,and if so, peace and Blessings.
✌️
The problem is men want to be in relationship with these women. Marriage is a thing of past. Just date and hook up, but keep it between you two. No living together, no planning future together, no kids together, no facebook status, no nothing. Just meet up 2 times a week to go out on a date and smash after. And thats it. If she wants to clown around and mess around with other dudes then thats fine, its her life she xan do whatever. Just dont get attached to her and focus on yourself. Dont let her to ruin your reputation along with hers
This shit right here
The thing is you can't control someone but you do reflect each other in a relationship so to some extent you do have to see what a person is doing, if they're going clubbing etc and that's something you don't like you have to address it immediately if you see that as a boundary.
Nope, I stopped years ago. Abundance is the only way.
Hi, Shaun Zachary, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your TH-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend 👍💯👍!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
That right there brother 🎯
I heard every word you said.
In this day and age love is not worth it.. it shouldn’t be a priority only a man’s purpose and leveling up is
Depends the circumstances can be,I'm using what's been done to me as an example at 42 after 20 years of graft and control and strategic encounters and the game they been playing with my life no experience ambition getting that bag is priority I wood think ???
You up next bro for real and in from Joliet
Good stuff
I'm too messed up
Thank you for not becoming a “handsome man’s game” ahh dude. Respect
I done everything and they fk me over every every time. Never appreciated me not care n i had worst life n they do worst . All they care of is looks or to destroy me. No loyalty idgaf anymore even my shoe got missing all everyone just fuck with me whole life. I give my all always my all but they just let even their friends hurt n fk with me the awnser is its worth it depending on who you love... 💯 i got my crows and i got love but it all depends on who your loving
Let's go
Ain’t no such thing. It’s a transaction
We're here to love God and be the best person you can be. Then enter his Kingdom again and leave this world of misery. When you know this you don't attach yourself to anything or anyone
Not worth it!!!!!!
Nah
I respect your views here but give a break. You are still just a baby. Have some real life experiences then come see me.
Calm down
I think the negativity comes from infatuation and not love.
You need to move through the infatuation stage as quickly as possible as its a drain on every aspect of your life, and is also unattractive.
*poor people marry for “love”*