Sex tips that every man should learn: how to pleasure your partner to orgasm

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  • Men who are aware of female sexual anatomy relax more around sex and enjoy their sexual pleasure more. Why? Because they don’t have to work so hard (no pun intended) to “give” their partner an orgasm.
    Research shows that even in relationships, 85% of men will orgasm during sex while only 65% of women will orgasm during sex. Only 4% of women experience orgasm from only penetration, and a lot of women don’t have their first orgasm until they try a vibrator.
    While the entertainment industry has culturally taught us that men only orgasm from thrusting fast and hard, there are more pleasurable experiences to be discovered. There’s so much sexual freedom that comes from learning about female sexual anatomy!
    We cover topics like:
    2:14: Why women have fewer orgasms than men and how it’s not your job to give your partner an orgasm (but tips to help you do it!)
    4:30 How men can understand female anatomy to have mutual orgasms during sex
    9:40 Introducing vibrators and sex toys for sex with a partner
    12:30 Why vibration can cause men to orgasm too
    15:00 What makes women orgasm and does penis size matter?
    20:00 How to contact Dr. Laurie Mintz
    *Dr. Laurie Mintz* is a Professor at the University of Florida where she teaches Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduates yearly. She has published over 55 academic works. She is the author of two popular press books-both with published studies demonstrating their effectiveness: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex. Mintz has a private practice, working with clients on general and sexual issues. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology.
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    Disclaimer:
    This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.

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  • @empowermothers
    @empowermothers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I have been suffering from PE for all my life, now 48. The impact on my lives and others have been massive including a seperation. I have never heard this comment which would have helped me relax, not get so anxious in yhe bedroom. I just want to thank you guys for bringing this to us. In a world where we constantly hear the message to be a man you have to be able to satisfy your woman with your penis, and if you cant how much that invalidates you as a man. I felt such a relief when i heard you guys say most woman do not care about that. Focus on the way to give pleasure and they will love you forever. Opened my world. Thankyou

    • @marcjames8313
      @marcjames8313 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      PE is an evolutionary thing, for the reproduction of the species. One couldnt spend the time to ensure pleasure for a woman, when another man or worst predatory creature was about to i nterfere! Take time to enjoy your own sensual feelings, use cannabis , smoking has helped, nlt too much but await the buzz, and proceed. As someone who has survived a m/cycle accident in my 40s , (now 71) being able to enjoy the sex has been a major ènjoyable factor in a marriage. "Slow down, you move too fast, got to make the moment last....feeling groovy...dah da dah...etc

  • @Markrdc8827
    @Markrdc8827 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +157

    That's such a good video and everything you have said I agree with completely, in my personal experience i needed to make some changes and i did. That was quitting porn and also read a book on this topic called hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest, lowkey i recommend, and keep up with the the good work

  • @genome616
    @genome616 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm 50 yrs old, I know now what I knew then at 18 luckily, I always make sure the female orgasms before me, I personally get off on that, I get them out of their discomfort zone and share a mutual experience, I have ex partners that all say they miss me sexually because I put their needs first, I adapt to the different psychologies of my ex partners and have had very different experiences but the fundamental rule is making them feel secure about their body regardless, insecurity in women is statistically high and when you can push past that you can have an amazing time, this video talks about the biological arousal a lot but forgets the psychological barriers that can make sex mundane, frightening or even scary.
    My current partner does not like fingers inside but love oral on her, she gets about 4 or 5 before I have mine, the biggest lesson I can give is learn each other and break the insecurity barriers if they exist and always make them feel good about their bodies.

    • @sumanbhargav1357
      @sumanbhargav1357 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is it safe to give oral sex without the risk of STIs?

  • @Comicsluvr
    @Comicsluvr ปีที่แล้ว +22

    As a society, we really need to work on our communication. If a man is going down on a woman and she's more sensitive than most, she might be reluctant to ask him to lighten up. On the flip side, men often don't learn to ask about things like pressure and sensitivity. These two ladies talked straight about stuff that we all need to hear. The fact that they both had great personalities and could laugh while describing the topics at hand is important because it helps break the stigma.

  • @boblafroscia2040
    @boblafroscia2040 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Thank you, Dr Laurie, for sharing your practical and realistic approach to human physiology and sexuality. I appreciate all you had to say.

  • @steveanthony4695
    @steveanthony4695 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Im 65 and have been hearing, this since the beginning of time. I could write several books, on why men cant be bothered. Good presentation, ignoring the man shaming.

    • @CCEASER2002
      @CCEASER2002 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think the point to the video was there was no need for man shaming when we learn how it all works. They basically said it’s not our fault that women can be a little difficult even if we’re smaller/quicker or softer than we prefer. This was literally about a complete work around to all of those issues so we can get over it and enjoy sex again without relying on any of the above issues being resolved. The worst is having one or more of those problems and the woman wants nothing to do with sex if it’s not entirely the old fashioned way. That sucks. At 46, it would be helpful if my partner would be more alright with some outside help to make up for some of what age is doing to me. Not even a conversation has helped us.

  • @richmac918
    @richmac918 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Being a 65 year old guy that has had a fair number of partners, I can state, unequivocally, that I know far more about women's sexual anatomy than they do. Too many women treat their vulva as "that thing down there". I've been shocked how many women thought they urinated out of their vagina or that they were surprised to learn that every vagina/vulva feels and looks different. During my teen years I was clueless as to where things were or how they worked (and probably too self absorbed to care) but as I gained some experience I did my best to learn what made each woman tick and was never afraid to ask what they liked or suggest new things that might feel good. This video should be entitled "what everyone needs to know about how to pleasure your partner". Women need to watch this as much or more than men.

    • @alsalazar6502
      @alsalazar6502 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Agreed👍 💯
      I'm a also a 65 year old Man, in excellent shape and very active, in and outside of the bedroom, with tons of experience NOT just sexually, but mainly taking care of the women mentally and emotionally, and I do agree that sometimes US MEN, know their bodies much better that they do their own. They need as much educational material as we do...

    • @joanmckinnon2368
      @joanmckinnon2368 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Well guys I am a 67 year old woman and I know alot of men aren't interested in communicating you have to have both partners willing to be honest and communicate their needs
      You have to care

    • @joanmckinnon2368
      @joanmckinnon2368 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Also both women and men need to know their own bodies which I do. Woman do take longer just need to take time and enjoy each others bodies

    • @ffggddss
      @ffggddss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      76-yo man, and I can endorse all of the above remarks. Favorite is, "take time." That can be amazing to the max!
      Also, don't forget to ask what your partner likes, or to ask for what you would like.
      Fred

    • @robertwalton5381
      @robertwalton5381 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@joanmckinnon2368no

  • @wallacelambert9308
    @wallacelambert9308 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    Please tell me why every sex tip video I've ever seen is all about what THE MAN should learn or know about women??? Why is the responsibility to know everything and do everything right always put on us men??? Love you girls but DAMN! It wouldn't kill you to make an effort to learn a thing or two about us men as well . Modern men are not as simple as you all think we are. You want a good love life try putting some of your own effort into it and stop expecting men to know everything and do everything right. Trust me ladies, you can all learn a thing or two yourselves

    • @janetrobinson2699
      @janetrobinson2699 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I agree! I think it’s important for both sexes to know as much as they can to be able to best please and bless their partners.

    • @bke3634
      @bke3634 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      True. Some women just lie there more or less like a log. Women need to be more communicative in bed instead of just expecting their partners to know everything about their body beforehand. Every woman is different and the mood/ arousal level is different every time too. Clear communication could take the guess work out of it as most men (including me) are bad with signals and guessing the intentions of women anyway.

    • @maryjostreator5093
      @maryjostreator5093 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I, can't imagine I am alone here, but put every effort into learning not everything I can about my partner. I understand that like women sex is not only anatomical. My partner and I were separated by distance but grew only closer and more intimate during that period. He was 65 and under a lot of stress, but he told me " I have been walking around for weeks and can't get anything done." He too took up space in my mind rent free. We hadn't touched each other for months. However, it does help if each partner knows each other and his/her anatomy as well as what works for the pair together.

    • @mauricejoseph977
      @mauricejoseph977 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😢🎉😅

    • @anthonymiller3728
      @anthonymiller3728 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because most men don’t know their a$$ from a knothole about how to please a woman!

  • @billmoran3812
    @billmoran3812 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    As a man, I learned at an early age what women really want from sex. My very first partner was an older woman who told me exactly what to do.
    Now as an old man, age 71, I continue to enjoy great sex with women despite the fact that my “equipment” doesn’t perform like it once did.
    I’ve found most women don’t care about that.

  • @Rockingruvin
    @Rockingruvin ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I've always strived to make sure my partner is having orgasms and not feeling neglected in that way. Sadly, my wife of 25 years cut our sex to the bare minimum within a year of getting married. Traumatic abuse from her father during teen years turned her into a covert narcissist. Low self esteem and compulsive body image issues crippled our sex life. There's nothing wrong with her body. She always blamed it on me somehow.
    Like a fool, I held on and kept hoping she would come around. Never happened. Three children... it took me 25 years to figure it all out. She couldn't, and it drove me to be very resentful and angry.

    • @gardensoundrecords3598
      @gardensoundrecords3598 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow that’s very intense. Hope all is well and you are both healing from it.

    • @jimlelan4906
      @jimlelan4906 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      BTDT. Took a long time to heal from her abusive behavior.

    • @fungshui4850
      @fungshui4850 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Rockingruvin I think you should get out. It won't change and you deserve happiness. Regards.

  • @mikekenney1947
    @mikekenney1947 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Really articulate guest. Well meaning men still often miss their newfound goal. They need their partner to be vocal about what helps get the wave going. Once that happens, that wave will get you where you want to go. Mostly, going slow and being verbal helps the kick start

  • @edwardmylnychuk5774
    @edwardmylnychuk5774 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    lol as a 76 year old male, i found oral sex for most women once you did some foreplay like a massage and other things was something that drove them crazy, lol, penetration was more for me after they got to the point of exploding from any touch down there, if you do things right you dont even need to penetrate much to get a women off and then you can do things to get yourself off but the foreplay i found to be more exciting than the actual act itself and most women responded greatly to this experience.

    • @lydialove382
      @lydialove382 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a woman who very much desires penetrative sex I find the foreplay you describe is merely an entree to the main course that can be enjoyed very much mutually

    • @khanyingosi9229
      @khanyingosi9229 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oral sex is the best, but men focus on penetration, sometimes my boyfriend didn't make r.

    • @neohermitist
      @neohermitist ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, extended foreplay, sensual touch, teasing, oral sex all build a woman up.
      Secondly, it may depend on the woman but being verbal is often a good help too. Telling her how good it feels, asking her how it feels, telling her how much she loves sex, maybe what kind of bad girl she is.
      You know you did it right when she is practically begging for you to stick it in her.
      Though when the f****** starts I pay attention to her response still because you can find a sensitive spot and just stop there and it drives them wild.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m just jealous you’re getting head. I’ll be married 32 years next month. I really miss getting head from my wife and give her pleasure. I tell her I have needs

    • @Nesrine_Latiri
      @Nesrine_Latiri ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree that a good oral and clitorial stimulation done right like you said is fantastic and essential to bring an intense amount of pleasure followed by an explosive wonderful orgasm (or orgasms) but most of the time I personally find penetration when done right as important for instance doggy style comes with a very deep intense penetration followed by another level and flavor of addictivly amazing and extreme pleasure...I also love clitorial stimulation with wild penetration....it's very beautifully orgasmic.

  • @abdo77066
    @abdo77066 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The best advice I got is
    "your duty is not to make her come but to help her come"

    • @CCEASER2002
      @CCEASER2002 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ooooh, I like that!! Beautiful

    • @williamcunningham1586
      @williamcunningham1586 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Always my goal and done very slowly

  • @brandonjohnson1968
    @brandonjohnson1968 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Women's Anatomy of Arousal" By Sheri Winston is a fantastic book and Easy read. Turns out I was actually doing a lot of things right, but this was the icing on the cake so to speak.

  • @Zahir244820
    @Zahir244820 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    As a man, I can say that men should not disengage from a sex session without ensuring their female partner getting adequate pleasure and orgasm.

    • @lean4real_11
      @lean4real_11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      just talk normal

    • @arthurmurfitt7698
      @arthurmurfitt7698 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "shoulds" argue with reality

    • @justintindall9515
      @justintindall9515 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You have a long way to go dude....sometimes it's best to leave well enough alone. (Like your intent though).

    • @sneezyfido
      @sneezyfido ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pleasure - yes. But frankly, you shouldn't even begin if there's no pleasure.
      Orgasm is another thing entirely. That is also very much in her mind, not just a physical thing.
      Going by my current gf, she takes between orgasm from mostly looks and a light touch to nothing gets her entirely there even if we take an hour.
      The difference is whether or not she has something else on her mind. That is not for me to fix.

    • @TheBazino
      @TheBazino ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah nice theory, but there are A LOT of women who can''t even get themselves to O because they can't relax, how high do you think your chances are to make it happen? Zero. This "O-Gap" is the same BS as the wage gap. An injustice made out of choices women make and need to solve themselves.

  • @Bluetooth_ez
    @Bluetooth_ez ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Thanks ladies! I've been married for 20 years. Prior to being married I'd never had sex before. Rather than fall into a category of being 'inexperienced' in sexual intimacy, my wife and I went on a journey of sexual exploration together, with one another. I can categorically say that out of all the relationships of my mates and circle of friends, my wife and I are consistently orgasming regularly. Sadly, I'm not hearing this from younger couples these days, who've had multiple sexual experiences. Being experienced in something doesn't always mean you've got it right.

  • @shahidmufti795
    @shahidmufti795 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thanks Dr. Gronski for posting and thanks for bringing on Dr. Mintz. Great information. Sadly, I think most of our society is too uptight and nervous to discuss very important sexual topics that you cover in your videos. Really appreciate your work.

    • @Arwaa.M.Jarrin
      @Arwaa.M.Jarrin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😩Why a Woman Should be Celibate:
      Since being homosexual has become a norm in this century, women should be wary in choosing a sexual partner in life, especially if they wish to be saved from great perils. It is this pending danger that could completely erase sanity from a woman because if she accidentally gets into a romantic relationship with a man who has a male lover, then her life would be a living hell, as that man would try to humiliate and torture her if she even indirectly seduces or tries to speak with the young male lover of her husband or boyfriend. Men who publicly declare themselves to be homosexual are generally soft-hearted and harmless, and do little to hurt or vex womankind, but the most vindictive and fierce stalkers of young men are those male characters who pretend to be violently straight and always remain in fulltime relationship with women in order to exude a macho force about their persona, but inside their heart, they are bitterly in love with a young man or young men in general, and would be prepared to destroy the world to secure the romantic affection or approval of a young man of their liking.
      For women, the advice in this century is simple. If you must marry, marry an openly homosexual men because they are generally kind and sweet, and almost effeminate in their mercy, so if you have to marry, then marry those official homosexual men and you will be far safer. Openly gay men are angelic in their sweetness, as many of my close associates are homosexual in public, but women must be very watchful around openly straight men who act very tough and proud and become offended with the slightest suggestion of homosexuality, when in reality, they are dying in love with a young male and is prepared to annihilate the womenkind to ensure the young lover of his remains single.
      For thousands of years, or at least, for centuries, homosexuality had existed in the world, but never had it been so socially prevalent and accepted as a way of life, and while sexuality is an individual’s choice, the real problem occurs when women get trapped into a relationship with a man they believe to be straight, but in reality, he is woefully attracted to men, but is only pretending to love her. Those brave and arrogant men who love other men sexually had not always been homosexual, but they had faced horrifying torment from a young age, and became broken emotionally, and when a young man behaved decent with them, they became overly emotional and decided to pursue the man and inadvertently fell in love, and their suffering caused them to become totally dependent on the young man and become the enemy of all women who could potentially take away his lover from him.
      Had that suffering turned their hearts away from humans and towards God, then indeed they would have become the greatest saints, the prophets and angels of God. But their suffering made them weak. Their suffering made them broken hearted and their suffering made them hopeless and their suffering made them heartless and selfish, and their suffering made them lose trust in every single human being in the world, and their suffering made them so sensitive that they ended up hating women and children and ended up stalking and worshiping a young weak man hopelessly for the next 25 years until they died, and in the meanwhile, they tortured unimaginably every single woman who came near him, because they thought that woman was hired and she was evil and she came to destroy him or hurt him or his weak male lover or seduce the youth away from him.
      This reminds me of a man of my acquaintance. He was the most soft-hearted, brilliant, intelligent, and caring men I have ever come across. He has prematurely grown old because of all the pain and suffering that he faced in his life.
      The story of his life is not even thinkable, even for the worst nightmare.
      The man was of Russian origin, but did not look Russian at all. His facial features looked extremely German. He might have had mixed blood in his ancestry, but nonetheless his father was a very high-ranking official of the Russian Soviet Union. He had an older brother, who was in the army fighting for Russia in Afghanistan.
      He was the younger brother and the favourite of the family, soft-hearted, handsome and womaniser, and he courted the most beautiful Russian girls near his house, and fell madly in love with a young woman.
      As usual, when a second born son, who is handsome and soft-hearted, fall in love with a woman, almost immediately, a man who is extremely depressed and a crazy stalker falls in love with him and destroys his life for the next 20 to 30 years, as we had established in the earlier chapters.
      This older stalker man immediately framed the young beautiful girl for the murder of her father. Her husband’s stalker came and stabbed and killed her father, most brutally, and framed her for the murder.

  • @thetjdman
    @thetjdman ปีที่แล้ว +19

    A study by Garcia, Lloyd, Wallen, and Fisher (2014) surveyed a nationally representative sample of 6,151 women and men. The study demonstrated that for women, the rate of orgasm varied by sexual orientation. The mean occurrence rate (or how often sexual encounters with other people led to orgasm) was 61.6 percent for heterosexual women, 58 percent for bisexual women, and 74.4 percent for lesbian women.

    • @chrigra4140
      @chrigra4140 ปีที่แล้ว

      Surely because lebian women concentrate to oral sex and stimulation by their fingers. That fits to that interview.

    • @stevejenson2161
      @stevejenson2161 ปีที่แล้ว

      most lesbians are not taking sex drive destroying birth control.

    • @troydean5702
      @troydean5702 ปีที่แล้ว

      My wife would have multiple O's unfortunately after our son was born naturally. Multiple O's have been so rare that'd they wouldnt even skew a very small survey.
      I do try to get her to wait, it's because once she has one then I feel a certian amount of pressure to get mine so to speak. At that point I get into my brain because we are getting older and I don't want to beat up our bodies because we both will be sore as heck the following few days.
      Could you tell me if a women has an anal orgasm is she then ready to have a O's through her vagina? I am aware of how different all the women are. Just wondering what any surveys if any have said? Thank you.

  • @williameldridge5991
    @williameldridge5991 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I wish all this information was available when I was a young man. Thanks Bill (age 87)

  • @theotherfoot
    @theotherfoot ปีที่แล้ว +60

    "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner was a life-changer for me. Great topic! Glad there's shows like this online! Great work!

    • @xiaonanw6374
      @xiaonanw6374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He owns her is the only thing u need to know

    • @desertrat7634
      @desertrat7634 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My motto, 100%!!!

    • @stevenroshni1228
      @stevenroshni1228 ปีที่แล้ว

      what he said didn't work

  • @samengler539
    @samengler539 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Great Video Drs. Keep up the great work. I’ve have learned so much from your videos in the last year. It’s awesome. I wish men would get rid of the stereotypes about men needing to be Big hard fast all the time. Or about using toys. Men need to listen and thro that stereotype out the window. Cheers Dr.

  • @RobertMorgan
    @RobertMorgan ปีที่แล้ว +7

    More women need to know male ejaculation and male orgasm are not the same thing, and sometimes don't happen concurrently.
    Just because he shoots doesn't mean you hit the target.
    If you remember nothing else, keep that in mind.

    • @catherinewilson1079
      @catherinewilson1079 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ?!?!? Wha???

    • @johnbernacki6155
      @johnbernacki6155 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s saying that just because a man cums doesn’t mean it was that good

    • @streetzwaatchinn
      @streetzwaatchinn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah man they selfish

    • @skkrtskkrt-5210
      @skkrtskkrt-5210 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@catherinewilson1079ejaculation doesn't mean orgasm...you can even google it...a man can ejaculate but just because he ejaculated doesn't mean he orgasmd which is the pleasure side of things ejaculation is just the spraying of semen

  • @mohamedhamza3039
    @mohamedhamza3039 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    What a relief! Thanks for this valuable and informative video and for providing men with assurance, guidance, comfort, safe space and encouragement ❤ These issues have caused me a lot of anxiety and made me sometimes hate who i am as a man but i'm still trying to find my peace and be comfortable in the body god gave me.

    • @antonalv4562
      @antonalv4562 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sex is mainly in the brain!

    • @cuchulain1647
      @cuchulain1647 ปีที่แล้ว

      I used to be a beautiful young man, and I’m generally charismatic.
      Because of these traits I have been able to have intercourse with lots of women. I’ve had 4 long term girlfriends and
      I’ve been married twice.
      Here’s what I know.
      As far as YOU as a man is concerned, you only need a few things.
      1- an average sized penis is usually enough.
      2- time!! You can’t be a two pump chump, ( don’t worry, I have been a few times before)
      3- a willingness to pay attention to what she wants and do what pleases her.
      -
      After you do those things the REST IS UP TO THE WOMAN!!!
      All of this expectation is put upon men to “be good in bed” for the sake of the women.
      And it IS true that you should be there for her and try to please her, But……
      A lot of times women fail to take responsibility for their own “orgasm gap”, they need to know what they like, they need to show up to the bedroom, ( or wherever), ready and willing and in the right mindset.
      A woman has some responsibility in the bedroom too!!!
      In all…men aren’t responsible for the whole show!!!!
      Pax Vobiscum.

    • @siphonkwanyana1962
      @siphonkwanyana1962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤❤

    • @larrywillis7579
      @larrywillis7579 ปีที่แล้ว

      ,

  • @Gnostic_Plague
    @Gnostic_Plague ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Regarding the man’s size: You’re downplaying how much women care. They don’t care as long as the man is large enough, but they will definitely not be satisfied with a partner that does not meet their size needs.

  • @avtech1845
    @avtech1845 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are really good at what you are saying and how you are explaining this. You are very detailed and I love the info you are telling us .

  • @davetaylor890
    @davetaylor890 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very nicely done video and well appreciated by us guys. I think Dr. Laurie should start her own media site. You know what she should call it? Clitter! I just love bad puns...
    * Also a 65 year old guy 😁

  • @CheckOnTheHomies
    @CheckOnTheHomies ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Thank you for this video, ladies!
    I wish sexual education was drastically more prevalent than it is. The orgasm gap is such BS and I sympathize with women. I have to say that the pressure to perform for men is ASTRONOMICAL, and we're left to our own devices (literally and figuratively) to figure it out. In my experience, 1/10 women will actually speak up/coach you. Unfortunately, that's usually because they're anxious or may not even know themselves, so it's very understandable.

    • @gailfagan7579
      @gailfagan7579 ปีที่แล้ว

      Married 44 yrs, do yourself a HUGE favour and get a vibrator or 2. Nothing big, kinky or weird. Just a waterproof one, quietest available. And some Astroglide lube. Best thing you can do for her. 👍🔥🔥💕

    • @DeadlyPlatypus
      @DeadlyPlatypus ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Apologizing for biology and the fact that women expect you to read their minds. Mind blowing.

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, we have tons of sex Ed, which is useless without the 'How to get TO sex' Ed lol.
      Sex is easy, I'd just like more instruction on how to get there first lol.

    • @AghaKHKhan
      @AghaKHKhan ปีที่แล้ว

      I hate sex

    • @felixmidas2020
      @felixmidas2020 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In my experience 1 in 100.

  • @tomwallace3103
    @tomwallace3103 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Constantly focusing on what women want and need is what drives American men to Asian women. Asian women are not hung up on assigning what they do and what men have to do. If they like something they will tell their partner so both people can enjoy sex. Just having a video proves my point. We have to have other people to tell us to communicate with our partners to satisfy each other sexually?

  • @happyhome41
    @happyhome41 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    While it is never too late to learn, and learning should be a lifelong passion, where were y'all forty years ago ?? Thank you.

  • @gratefulone6046
    @gratefulone6046 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I so appreciate you both for sharing these Truths about intimacy. I have behaved the way you explained it since I was a teenager because of the old premature E. I always knew that I was right, but always felt wrong because you learn false beliefs as a young boy of what women want. Thx ladies!!

  • @adamparker9765
    @adamparker9765 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The orgasm gap is as credible as the wage gap. The whole premise is that orgasm equates to satisfaction. Any man will tell you that a woman can lay there like a starfish and do nothing and the man can achieve orgasm , but orgasm like that is about half a step above masterbation . If the female partner is constantly disengaged , faking , or having sex out of duty or obligation , then masterbation is actually preferable. I'm also surprised with the figures because there is today a massive pressure for men to perform or the woman will move onto another partner. When it comes to oral sex , if a man wont go down on his female partner there is no question she will go else where , but a woman can blush and say she isn't that kind of woman and get out of it entirely . When it comes to swallowing the man has no choice but to take her fluid into his mouth . You either drink it or drown in it. Women at least have the choice as any respectable man will let her know he's close and give her the choice.
    Lets face it nothing has been written about more in the last 60 years than the female orgasm and everything has leaned towards how to achieve it , putting all the pressure on men to get her over the line . What extra effort does the woman have to go to to get him over the line ? If you are a woman and having trouble getting your man to get you there, maybe you should tell him instead of faking , or expecting him to be a mind reader. Where's the information for women on how to properly make love to their man ?

  • @Braveheartman123
    @Braveheartman123 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel pretty good about myself as a guy because I already figured out and know all of this information. Of course it took several decades to learn. I wish I knew it 35 years ago - it would have changed my thinking and experiences back then when I felt unsure and therefore often had “performance anxiety”

    • @felixmidas2020
      @felixmidas2020 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Make that I wish I HAD known that 35 years ago. I wish I knew is present tense like in: I don't know what you are thinking. I wish I knew. Your sentence relates to the past, so you have to use the past perfect.

  • @ReptilianAnusWizzard
    @ReptilianAnusWizzard 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    She is talking like she is explaining this to a 8 year old🙈

    • @douglaidlaw740
      @douglaidlaw740 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And only an 8 year old cares. Sex is not about reaching an orgasm; it is about feeling closer together afterwards. Don't concentrate selfishly on your organs. See your partner as somebody you would like to know better. Do the loving thing. Strong societies begin with strong relationships.

  • @braedenmoses
    @braedenmoses ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Great interview, smiles all abound!
    Read a few times here and there that a lot vibration can possibly desensitize a women’s nervous system to lighter forms of sensation down there 👇
    Love to hear your take whether this has any validity.
    Thanks again, cheers!!

    • @ydorri2460
      @ydorri2460 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not an expert but vibration can help reduce sensitivity, making stimulation more comfortable and easier to climax with, during the session. It doesn't last long, so next time you're together, she will be just as sensitive as before.

    • @gailfagan7579
      @gailfagan7579 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m 71 yrs, hubby is 67. We’ve been married 44 yrs, he bought me a vibrator when we were around 28-30. Best thing that’s ever happened to our sex life. I’d say no, it has not desensitized me at all. That said, I’ve used Rx plant based estrogen patches for years since menopause, to keep my libido up and my vagina healthy…very big issues for women as we age.

  • @JvmCassandra
    @JvmCassandra ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The biggest challenge is female getting into the mood. It takes half an hour to an hour. If you rush it, sex hurts them. So be slow and take a book with you since it is gonna take a while.

  • @heraldocisco1197
    @heraldocisco1197 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Doctors, I did new information, here, and I do feel a bit less pressure to perform, now that I have confirmation from you the other efforts I make are some of the correct practices. I have always wanted to please my lady more than be pleased. I'll read the books and view more of your videos. Many thanks!🙂

  • @Ira_Ross
    @Ira_Ross ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Only 4% reliably orgasm from penetration? Makes evolutionary sense. Unfortunately, female pleasure is much less necessary for reproduction, so female anatomy did not develop in a way to maintain or foster their pleasure levels equal to males.
    That said, I'm more than happy to get up close and personal with it.

    • @CytherX
      @CytherX ปีที่แล้ว

      Apparently the clitorus used to be closer to the enterance of the vagina. So women used to orgasm way more in primitive times. The sound would attract more males who would then mate with her too. The tip of the penis is actually shovel shaped not only to penetrate but to scoops the previous sperm out to increase his chances of the offspring to be his. Women were made to be promiscuous in sex and it act meant having multiple mates ensured that her baby had more protection because none of the men knew if the baby was his or not so it actually lessened the chances of him killing the child. This is also why native Americans follow the mothers line in family tracing rather than the mens because you always knew who the mother was but it was not guaranteed that the male line was totally for sure. This is why often men raised their sisters children as his own because then he definitely knew they were related to him through his sister. I think marriage must have changed womens pleasure, because I doubt men wanted a loud wife during sex in the village. So they may have preferred women being more quiet and probably thought womens pleasure made them less loyal in marriage if they went away to hunt or do business away from home.

  • @abchappell01
    @abchappell01 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, that was an excellent discussion 😊
    This is my first time ever hearing /viewing your content. It was very interesting, and very educational.

  • @ghostbeetle2950
    @ghostbeetle2950 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well, Spinoza basically said that better understanding of the causes of things makes us more powerful, as it increases our abillities of influencing the world and being influenced by it in turn. This is how he defines "freedom", too. Thank you, ladies, for making us all more powerful and free!

  • @cdavey7654
    @cdavey7654 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I know, a lot of women really enjoy their toys/vibrators. But one important thing that is usually dismissed or not even discussed is the desensitization that can often happen for women after using them. I know, at least from my experience when I was married, after my wife starting using one (she bought when I was out of town for a couple weeks) it became much more difficult for her to orgasm without it. Before that it was fairly easy and common for her to have at least two (or more) orgasms during sex and after she started using her vibrator that became noticeably more difficult.. So, of course, then she wanted to use it during sex too.
    At first using toys during sex was a little new and exciting, but after the first couple times it was more distracting than anything for me. It was also (more than a little) annoying/frustrating to me that I felt like I was not enough anymore. - I'm personally not a fan of using vibrators(etc.) during sex, or other times either if they cause desensitization.

  • @102wingnut
    @102wingnut 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really great explanations and tips! Thx Erin 💪

  • @ZackeryHurtz
    @ZackeryHurtz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The guest talking like we’re all a bunch of preschoolers is making it difficult to take this seriously. This vid is aimed at adults, so ease up on the yall are idiots tone.😂

  • @dogood63
    @dogood63 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great advice in video. The best book I read that helped me the most with women was "Attract and Succeed with Women, Essential Info for Men".

  • @gulee
    @gulee ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very well done! This kind of open and honest discussion and knowledge are very helpful to maintaining beautiful relationships! Thank you!

  • @matthewbonner2261
    @matthewbonner2261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Dr. Susie , with you Dr. Mintz and Dr. Aaron Spitz , I think answers ALL ! the questions and FEARS any man could have thought or felt !!!

  • @PurposefulThinkers
    @PurposefulThinkers ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you ladies this was so helpful!!

  • @queen.in.the.country
    @queen.in.the.country ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Excellent info. Wish this was available years ago. We never had sex ed in school (guess I'm dating myself). Dr. Gronski, would it be possible to do a video on the detrimental effects of porn on meaningful male/female relationships? I'm sure it would be helpful for both sexes.

    • @rickroberts3610
      @rickroberts3610 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We had sex only two days a week, because we needed the car for drivers education the other three days a week..

    • @felixmidas2020
      @felixmidas2020 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This actually was available years ago. Books who deal with these subjects have been published for more than 50 years now. Seek and you shall find. Also your sentence should read: I wish this HAD been available. I wish this was available is present tense like in: It's not available right now. I wish it was. Your sentence relates to the past, so you have to use the past perfect.

  • @benjaminsinger6564
    @benjaminsinger6564 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Spot on! Really welcomed the education and insights. Best to both of you. ❤

  • @hookjames5761
    @hookjames5761 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Truly an enlightened talk. Blessings to you both.

  • @kirkwilliams5740
    @kirkwilliams5740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Positive teaching Doctor Laurie. And Doctor Suzette

  • @goodredman
    @goodredman ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Was going to ask where we can get one of those stylish, hooded hats. The doctor was holding up. But, seriously, this information was quite accurate and well presented.
    Well done! Most often get a bit annoyed after a few minutes with videos like this when it’s someone either a comedian or porn star presenting the information.
    As a penis owner have found it’s super helpful being empathic. Psychology plays a huge role especially for women. One other misconception to Point out is some studies related to orgasm percentages based men’s orgasm on ejaculation. Personally, and I’ve heard this from others aswell not all men have an orgasm when they ejaculate.
    Maybe I lean a bit more towards what gives women the most pleasure, as I recall all the way back to high school have found oral sex to be more pleasurable for me than vaginal. And I’m a guy.
    Having the understanding of the anatomy is excellent, but also remembering communication is so important. Not everyone enjoys exactly the same way, and there’s no shame in communicating with your partner verbally and otherwise, while enjoying quality time.

  • @nerdynits5226
    @nerdynits5226 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The kind of knowledge which should have been taught in our school days ❤️

  • @chrisklimek1613
    @chrisklimek1613 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you ladies for educating us 😇👏
    I would like to hear your opinion on yoni eggs 😀

    • @xiaonanw6374
      @xiaonanw6374 ปีที่แล้ว

      Saddest thing is u lil sister. I can not even call u bro. No shame and no balls

  • @wowster-so8sx
    @wowster-so8sx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WoW, it's so important that we know the human body, certain parts have been taboos but they must not be neglected for health reasons

  • @anneboyer6359
    @anneboyer6359 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Thank you Susie, I will show this to my boyfriend.

    • @Maqsoodkhan284
      @Maqsoodkhan284 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @psylence101
      @psylence101 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oouf hope he doesn't see this comment 😂

    • @pmscalisi
      @pmscalisi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just make sure you don’t get him arrested for sexual harassment.

    • @nikita-dh5je
      @nikita-dh5je ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good for you, all girlfriends should show this to their boyfriends, then we will have a lot more satisfied women, more confident men, and more happy couples who stay together. Guys don't realize that if they are not satisfying their girlfriends in bed then after awhile she will look elsewhere.

    • @xiaonanw6374
      @xiaonanw6374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Poor bro. Hope he left ya for that

  • @celwilson
    @celwilson ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video.. it's NOT a competition with the toys fellas.. more like a teammate.

  • @joezakowicz3739
    @joezakowicz3739 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve always thought I was cliterate...even before I heard the word cliterate. I love this....

  • @soselfish4374
    @soselfish4374 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, I have just come across your presentations. I was searching about presentations of autofellatio. I am an autofellator and I wonder why so little information of this is presented by educators like yourselves and others.

  • @joseguerrero6701
    @joseguerrero6701 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep the vids coming !

  • @josequiroz3030
    @josequiroz3030 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you Dr. Great lesson and very very important ❤

  • @louisgrant4388
    @louisgrant4388 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great show. Thank you, thank you. Your show tells us why sex education should be taught in school. Your show has shed light on the lack of knowledge of the female sexual parts.

  • @ronjoseph7973
    @ronjoseph7973 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One caveat as an ENT surgeon, there has been an explosion in throat cancer in the USA due to HPV (human papilloma virus) which now exists in up to 80% of the adult population in certain areas of the country. HPV is the leading cause of cervical dysplasia and/or neoplasia and malignancy in women. In the absence of smoking or other known causes of throat cancer, HPV transmitted through oral sex seems to be the most likely cause. There has been a vaccine for HPV for several decades, Gardasil by Merck Pharmaceuticals, that has been effective in preventing HPV in non-sexually active young people. In HPV negative individuals, the FDA is now recommending immunization up to age 45. While there has been several lawsuits and political controversy over the use of Gardasil, the therapeutic index remain high for prevention of cancers caused by HPV.

  • @claudiacarley4050
    @claudiacarley4050 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very cool...I am originally from Germany and sex education is early on, however it's always great to know more... Thanks for sharing ❤🎉

  • @papapepe2232
    @papapepe2232 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you Dr Gronski for your work and efforts to educate men on these kind of matters.
    Though I am 66 and learned thru my own life's experiences much of what you and Dr Mintz discussed, thanks also in part to the sexual revolution back in the 60's. I believe and have said it myself for a long time now, you are never to old to learn as Dr. Mintz said.

    • @xiaonanw6374
      @xiaonanw6374 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women r to be educated by men not the other way around ESPECIALLY in matters of sex unless your like 18 and she is a practiced whore then she gonna teach u. 😂

  • @dubs3400
    @dubs3400 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ‘The Art Of The Female Orgasm’ is a great book to read and learn from. It is full of helpful illustrations to help both men and women better understand female anatomy and the female orgasm.

  • @bobxbaker
    @bobxbaker ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i will just point out that it's not always as easy as it seems even if you have full understanding of where all the erogenous zones are.
    also kinda missed a big one, the G-spot.
    it's not exactly like scratching a lottery ticket and it will pay off, there is escalation and variation and rythm and speed and different type of force application depending on the person and spot on it and arousal state.
    and most of the time it's very dependent from one person to the next, but typically there are some commonalities between person to person but it's not an exact science.
    however there is a very interesting fact about orgasm and that is you don't have to be in the mood to be able to get one, not for men or for women, sure it makes it easier and more pleasurable but you can get an orgasm against your own will because it reacts to the right kind of stimuli wether you like it or not as it's a purely physical reaction to it.
    and then there's also the performance anxiety part of all this where a man can be too eager to try and please a woman that will have the opposite effect mood wise for a woman.
    but we should not forget that it's a two way street, women will also sometimes go too quickly or not communicate her wants for foreplay or also lack the understanding of how to get an orgasm herself so they forego a lot of pleasure just wanting to satiate their partner instead of trying to reach climax herself.
    so it's not just "play with her vagina and make woman happy" it's a very complicated subject on many levels.
    but anyways as a man do not stake your entire ego behind it that she must have an orgasm, the thing you should be more concerned about is that she had a good time and from there things will be a lot better overall because it removes a lot of pressure from her feeling forced to get an orgasm and she can be more at ease and that will make it easier for her to get into the mood and still be pleasurable even if an orgasm doesn't happen.

  • @timothytaylor211
    @timothytaylor211 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic video! Learned a good lot .. thanks

  • @kellyfontes7757
    @kellyfontes7757 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    So guys.. you need to do all the work in a relationship to make it work.

    • @jeffreyrusselljr7713
      @jeffreyrusselljr7713 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pretty much 😂

    • @joezakowicz3739
      @joezakowicz3739 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not new news lol

    • @mwco79
      @mwco79 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂that's a summary of almost 99% of the "relationship coaching" social media my wife shares with me. As a guy, I've always been interested in doing well with sex. There is almost no relationship coaching content that teaches women to be respectful and accountable for her behaviors or words, or to put equal effort into his feelings, desires and needs in the relationship. Does anyone really talk about sexual equality in terms of, if he provides her multiple orgasms during a single session, though he's normally not capable of that... for equality, she should give him orgasms over multiple sessions? I've never heard of that. Just a "pleasure gap" as measured by women's pleasure only.

    • @brothercaleb
      @brothercaleb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ALL THE WORK? While you just lay around? Hell no!

  • @sandeepneb777
    @sandeepneb777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks doc for making me get rid of the baggage I was carrying for almost forty odd years. I wish if I would have known this before but thanks it’s still not late 😜

  • @davidscott8400
    @davidscott8400 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    For some reason I love your glasses

  • @dannyfreitas2120
    @dannyfreitas2120 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You two are amazing

  • @TaiChiWithMe
    @TaiChiWithMe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As any magician will tell you, "It's not the size of your wand that counts, it's the magic that's in it!
    Love, David

  • @alwayspete
    @alwayspete ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think, once you bring toys into the act, natural methods of stimulation start to feel less powerful and underwhelming. And couples will use less of their bodies and go directly for toys. I say what people need to properly learn is to use their bodies effectively. If one knows that, toys are unnecessary. Just my opinion.
    Pete :”)

  • @colinmccarthy7921
    @colinmccarthy7921 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have studied Psychology and
    Philosophy.
    Human Relationships,Sex and Love
    play an Important Part in our Life’s.
    Personality,Character,Behaviour,
    Interests,Traits,Emotions,Feelings,
    Etc.,play an Important Part as well.
    Sexual Love,is both Physical
    and Mind/Cognition.
    It is when Mind and Body join
    together,you will have the
    Most Pleasurable Experience
    between a Man and Woman.
    I have had experience.I have
    satisfied Women,and they
    have satisfied me.
    We have five senses.
    Let your Inner-Self guide
    you through your Life.
    Be Happy and Enjoy Life.
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.

  • @jimberry9664
    @jimberry9664 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great stuff ladies

  • @srda97
    @srda97 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yo this was really good. Thank you!!

    • @DrSusieGTeam
      @DrSusieGTeam  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you liked it!

  • @patk8417
    @patk8417 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Used to give her O's every time. Fourteen years ago they stopped cuz she can't do anything anymore. Menopause and arthritis took over 😢 Now I'm the only one having O's cuz I look after that myself. No participation from her at all. She doesn't do anything with me at all. Now, if she were to decide to want it, I probably won't know how to anymore 😭 The love is still there, the lust has left the building.
    If you don't use it, you lose it.

  • @dustinquinton
    @dustinquinton ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video. She should of have also talked about the G spot.

  • @lcross7943
    @lcross7943 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love it great 👍 show lady ingrate for having Dr. D

  • @trevorwalker3058
    @trevorwalker3058 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I got a lot learn but learning is fun 🤩 thank you for this video it really helps ❤

  • @thomasfreund7509
    @thomasfreund7509 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dr. Dear, the basic of all misunderstanding is that couples do not exchange wishes and hopes.....

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome stuff

  • @belayhaile3589
    @belayhaile3589 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Dr It is a big lesson for me but I am suffering from ED and addiction of sex movie due to my sex ability. How could I cure from this proy

  • @robbiegibson4112
    @robbiegibson4112 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I haven't watched the entire video yet but, don't forget about simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation for orgasm. It works every time with spouse. It is so much fun getting her off first. Sometimes as many as 7 times..

  • @benjaminRexsaurus
    @benjaminRexsaurus ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent! Essential viewing. Finally I can stop endorsing diminishing myths about self esteem in regard to sexuality.

  • @stoicexcellencepath
    @stoicexcellencepath 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's interesting how most sex advice videos seem to center on what men need to do or know about women. Why is the pressure always on us to get everything perfect? Ladies, we love you, but seriously-it wouldn't hurt to invest some effort into understanding men as well. We're not as straightforward as some of you might think. If you want a fulfilling love life, try balancing the responsibility-learn, explore, and put in some effort too. Trust me, there's a lot for everyone to discover!

  • @larrygruber1261
    @larrygruber1261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the Doctors I am learning alot about women there is nothing more presses than a women they have so much to give 😊

  • @keernhaslem1845
    @keernhaslem1845 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Vicarious vibes… also, such a cute “yay!”

  • @magnetix-zk6mq
    @magnetix-zk6mq ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s weird that at 11:35 the discussion basically devolves into an argument that every relationship needs a vibrator and justification for this. People have been having intimate relations for much longer than these toys have existed. Too bad lol…

  • @831miguel
    @831miguel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I couldn’t help but laugh when you said “Now when you peek under the hood”. You know most guys get car references 😂

  • @nunyabitnezz2802
    @nunyabitnezz2802 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr. Susie, I need a full examination.

  • @felixmidas2020
    @felixmidas2020 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    15:36 Men don't know this? It's not taught or dealt with in movies??? I don't know which stone that woman has been under for the last five decades but the information that women usually don't come through vaginal penetration alone has been distributed in thousands of sex education classes, articles and books. Dr. Ruth Westheimer mentioned this in her programs 40 years ago.

  • @Buckshot99
    @Buckshot99 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The causes for the “orgasm gap” is because one orgasm is species dependent, one is not.

  • @dannyfreitas2120
    @dannyfreitas2120 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to learn more you two thank you

  • @williamtolliv3549
    @williamtolliv3549 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so freeing and very informative

  • @BH195829
    @BH195829 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The advice is excellent….

  • @cowgirldepot1234
    @cowgirldepot1234 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why doesn't the puppet have the entire clitorus to scale? Please fix this, ladies! Some great info, thank you! Bees! Wow!

    • @richardpauly1635
      @richardpauly1635 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you show your man to please you

  • @sanjoychakrabarty6464
    @sanjoychakrabarty6464 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very well described and educating.

  • @44Bdogg
    @44Bdogg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this message

  • @GL-GildedLining
    @GL-GildedLining ปีที่แล้ว +3

    14:04 "And you wouldn't call your friend and say _'Oh! Me and my raft had the BEST day!_ ...And my boyfriend was there too.'"
    On one hand, I love that metaphor. _On the other hand,_ if we think from a guy's perspective: If a guy has a boat or motorcycle or fishing pole or surf board that he loves -- you know, one that he probably already refers to as a "she" anyway -- he really sincerely could think that he had the best day with his favorite toy, and, secondarily, that maybe his girlfriend was there too.
    There's a country song from Brad Paisley that goes:
    "today she met me at the door / said that I would have to choose:
    If I hit that fishin' hole today / she'd be packin' all her things
    and she'd / be gone by noon.
    _Well I'm gonna miss her._
    When I get home.
    But right now / I'm on this lakeshore
    And I'm / sittin in the sunnn!"
    So even though it's right and righteous to dispel the notion that toys mean men are failing in bed, there's still a Men Are From Mars aspect to communicating the idea in a way that more guys will understand.
    Still: Thank you for the podcast, as a dude, I learned something. I didn't realize that stimulation in the latter third of the canal was almost totally reliant on pressure-sensitivity.