Are Americans Obsessed with Race and Gender? | Middle Ground

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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    Thank you to Netflix for sponsoring our Black History Month Playlist! If you enjoyed this conversation, make sure to tune-in to Amend: The Fight For America - an incredible new show that examines the revolutions and counter revolutions that have shaped our country, starting with race. Watch it only on Netflix! Check out the trailer: th-cam.com/video/1h9gmJxvZU0/w-d-xo.html

    • @RobertZemeckis2025
      @RobertZemeckis2025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      aoc is pos

    • @brendonsinger9859
      @brendonsinger9859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree mostly with Damani, the others made some good points also. He is the most logical and realistic in his evaluations.

    • @thornspitfire3977
      @thornspitfire3977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo what's up with calling it "middle ground", yet one can only be pro or contra identity politics? That's messed up.

    • @ragnarok7976
      @ragnarok7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Spirit123 Try stronger bait, you'll get a bite.

    • @sabbirahmed2974
      @sabbirahmed2974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WE don't have blacks in my country so why would we need that playlist for?

  • @alanys_ts
    @alanys_ts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8328

    “just because you have a common trait, doesn’t mean you have the same experience.”
    dang that really hit me...

    • @AL-mm4vq
      @AL-mm4vq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Ben Carson popped into my mind

    • @DirtGod145
      @DirtGod145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +233

      It’s called intersectionality. Different identities interact with one another to create an entirely unique experience. For example, the experiences of a black women isn’t comparable to the experience of a black man, because one is a women and one is a man. Their experience of being a person of color is entirely unique.

    • @thesmartone8149
      @thesmartone8149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wow right when I decided to look at this comment, he said that. This seems to always happen to people doesnt it?

    • @jjw3046
      @jjw3046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +284

      @@DirtGod145 To me that quote reads more like a critique of intersectional politics. Even two able-bodied cis hetero black women of the same socioeconomic class, for instance, might have radically different life experiences. Therefore the idea of intersectionality doesn't take you very far, because the only meaningful categorization that you can construct that is adequately multifactorial is on the level of the individual person; otherwise you run the risk of making unfounded generalizations about even a very specific group of people. In my opinion that sort of logic makes intersectionality itself a kind of stereotyping. Born of good intentions, I'm sure, but detrimental nonetheless.

    • @TheMFStudios
      @TheMFStudios 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Exactly. A poor African American can't relate to me because I grew up well off. And I experience that separation EVERYDAY

  • @josephtang227
    @josephtang227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5656

    Why do I feel like the line between "pro" and "anti" identity politics are so blurred between these people...

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      two of them , the lady gal reared her head on feminism then switched sides on racism. so did the dark skinned arab dude.

    • @miaharvey9609
      @miaharvey9609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +313

      I believe that people rationalize their beliefs however they want to. I think that the question should be asked who here thinks that their identity is important and if they would trade with a more marginalized person, or less marginalized identity, and if they would be okay with how they are then treated.

    • @borihenna2014
      @borihenna2014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      Yeah but I think that’s realistic to real life

    • @wuziq
      @wuziq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      cuz that's probably how most people are in real life

    • @jalepenopvp2300
      @jalepenopvp2300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I think it’s because they are trying to have respectful conversation. It’s hard to have one that doesn’t get heated if you are extremely opposed to their views

  • @roseknowsall7629
    @roseknowsall7629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5231

    A wise woman once told me, “Society is too focused on who to blame rather than how to find a solution”.

    • @sorcerykid
      @sorcerykid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      Exactly, and this is one of my big issues as an LGBTQ person (or perhaps not LGBTQ because I've so often been alienated by gatekeepers for not being queer enough). There's this hyper obsession with dividing people into two polar extremes, while blaming the "opposing" group for everyone's grievances. And it's neither healthy nor productive.

    • @superkamiguru6856
      @superkamiguru6856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      @@sorcerykid
      I Am Bisexual and I don't identify with LGBTQ, partly because of this and partly because of cishet hate. It feels like the identity of LGBTQ is more geared toward hating the common enemy rather than finding similarities and supporting each other.

    • @smorgasbordbipples8106
      @smorgasbordbipples8106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Hard to find a solution when many refuse to see the problem

    • @aaronlandry3934
      @aaronlandry3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@smorgasbordbipples8106 It’s also difficult to fix a real problem when you’re constantly being distracted by non-problems that idiots refuse to acknowledge as non-problems. This happens a lot in the LGBTQ+ community, because everything is “homophobic” if one gay guy doesn’t like it.
      I’m Bi myself, but Jesus, get a grip!

    • @getschwifty7413
      @getschwifty7413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I recently was having a discussion about this and came to the realization that our idea of justice mirrors superheroes. Sadly, We don’t appreciate the hero for saving people and doing good as much as we appreciate the hero’s for epically beating the bad guy.... very sad.

  • @dragonsgorawr302
    @dragonsgorawr302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1451

    “What’s wrong if we’re different?” “It’s okay”
    “What’s wrong if we’re the same?”
    “It’s Okay”
    *That hit me in the most comforting way*

  • @SirKnasher
    @SirKnasher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11444

    "are Americans obsessed with identity politics?"
    Yes. Saved you 21 minutes.

    • @elenabob4953
      @elenabob4953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Exactly

    • @redexpizza1657
      @redexpizza1657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      only democrats and liberals and communists

    • @K.aylarenae
      @K.aylarenae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SirKnasher
      Right

    • @funny.gon-12
      @funny.gon-12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      I dont like the idea of identity politics I would want people voting for me because of me being ( redacted) I want people to support me because they believe I will create a better nation for blithe next generation of Americans.

    • @GarethWareth
      @GarethWareth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Yep. Whether they're obsessed with forcing identity politics on others or obsessed with shutting identity politics down, Americans are obsessed with it

  • @nightingale4786
    @nightingale4786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3467

    I just wanna tip my hat to whoever was in charge of casting this episode: you guys did a great job finding intelligent, well-articulated people on both sides of the issue!

    • @madipitkin
      @madipitkin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Why are people like this^

    • @wsmokr
      @wsmokr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@madipitkin Attention seekers,ignore and they disappear.

    • @terrylovesyogurt5983
      @terrylovesyogurt5983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I think there could have been more than one woman’s opinion represented, but other than that I agree, they had people who I didn’t expect to say what they did.

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      megatron Universe
      Same

    • @99jewelz
      @99jewelz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @treeko 10k thanks for sharing that in such an articulate and interesting way - i bet everybody wanted to know about your stance on that specific topic - maybe it helps you to know that youre not alone...

  • @seancoakley9640
    @seancoakley9640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1387

    I loved how they disagree a lot, but never get mad or make a face and they just talked.

    • @dannygelbart6827
      @dannygelbart6827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      And never interrupted either. Agree, this group was amazing.

    • @dannygelbart6827
      @dannygelbart6827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@rao3704 Sadly not something that many people prescribe to these days.

    • @ginihall1234
      @ginihall1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Making a face is natural. It’s a response doesn’t mean they aren’t listening. It’s just breaking some barriers for them.

    • @ivandusakdiks3658
      @ivandusakdiks3658 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dannygelbart6827 like A LOT.

    • @korpakukac
      @korpakukac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, thats pretty rare nowadays when it comes to this topic

  • @afkgreg
    @afkgreg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    this is a perfect group for middle ground, I find like every single person here learned and added to a civil discussion. Other episodes are much more of a point scoring debate. THIS WAS BEATIFUL

  • @ilikemusic2726
    @ilikemusic2726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3842

    A middle ground where one person wasn’t awful and every single one of them were extremely intelligent and respectful? Never thought I’d see it

    • @aisha5156
      @aisha5156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I like Music
      Honestly

    • @thomasklecker2721
      @thomasklecker2721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@mooseontheloose-2531 📠 no 🖨️

    • @morihol8951
      @morihol8951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I like Music lol the vegan odd man out

    • @treybrown9296
      @treybrown9296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That guy with blue hat came off incredibly dishonest and misinformed.

    • @rustincohle2135
      @rustincohle2135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Damani doesn't believe that privilege exists in the world. Either that men have more advantages in certain career fields than woman nor with race. Damani is exceedingly unintelligent.

  • @Book_Dragon2562
    @Book_Dragon2562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6986

    This was a great episode. This felt like a genuine “middle ground,” no pandering or bias. No shying away from controversy. Everyone was respectful and thoughtful in their answers. This is the content that made me love you guys.

    • @jadenbroadway173
      @jadenbroadway173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      TheCjma88 I agree. Love seeing all these different people coming together and creating this dialog, creations like this will start breaking down the WALLS of xenophobia

    • @NibbleNips88
      @NibbleNips88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Me tree. As a kid, it feels nice to see at least some people in this country can have a conversation and not a debate or having to hear ‘grown ups’ scream at each other about politics all the time. I’m just watching them thinking “How am I able to have a civilized conversation with a another human being, but you guys can’t talk to each other without pointing fingers at each other?” This world is wack

    • @RS-pr6ic
      @RS-pr6ic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Indeed! This was the best episode so far! I believe these kind of civil and rational conversations are exactly what Middle Ground is created for. Both sides were calm, kind, open, well educated on the topic, but also emotional and passionate. This episode gives me a bit of hope for the human race.

    • @NibbleNips88
      @NibbleNips88 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Laugh it Off Me infinite ♾

    • @darklordsauron3415
      @darklordsauron3415 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr I quickly clicked on this video excited to see some people verbally abusing one another but it was along great

  • @alexaf.3158
    @alexaf.3158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10528

    Jubilee is killing the game. They're challenging the viewer's thinking, but in an entertaining way.

    • @blueshells5275
      @blueshells5275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      so well put :)

    • @Amanda-ms1si
      @Amanda-ms1si 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      edutainment

    • @30061999pg
      @30061999pg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      I feel they're stopping the conversations too early, or leaving out the spicy parts. They discussed protecting their participants in one of the vids, while to an extent, an Erin type should be excluded, anything below that goes. These people are willingly joinning this conversation and sharing their views, protecting them from their own discussion is ridiculous. They should still guide the conversations, but right now, they're always only scratching the surface.

    • @MarshyDitch
      @MarshyDitch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Painmaker even better put. I always leave these videos unsatisfied because I don’t get to hear, what I would consider the reasonable and educated person, go in depth about there thoughts and beliefs and try to explain it to other people. Like you said, scratching the surface.

    • @wisemafalda
      @wisemafalda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn't agree more. I am not an American nor do I live in America and still I find many of the issues discussed extremely educating in a global perspective!

  • @holygraehl4009
    @holygraehl4009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    "Identity Politics is playing team sports based on traits about yourself that you cannot change." I love that quote so much.

    • @Viewable11
      @Viewable11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A synonym is "institutionalized bigotry".

    • @spinekingjrgensen5779
      @spinekingjrgensen5779 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Viewable11 we love that 😍😍😍😎

  • @bishbosh4815
    @bishbosh4815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6801

    "Just because you have a common trait, doesn't mean you have a shared experience." 👌

    • @cassandrawright5202
      @cassandrawright5202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I’ve said this for a long time .

    • @basundharachaudhuri700
      @basundharachaudhuri700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      OMG FACTS

    • @baconoverlord7982
      @baconoverlord7982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      People don't have anything to do with the people they LIVE WITH and share DNA with, much less people across the world that have the same skin color. It's amazing how racists think things like "white privilege" is somehow a real thing. But, of course racists aren't too smart.

    • @jckart
      @jckart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a shame that wasn’t the point....

    • @mysweetp1ano
      @mysweetp1ano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      @@baconoverlord7982 White privilege is objectively real. It's statistically provable, and college sociology professors could teach you all about it. Also acknowledging privilege isn't racist.

  • @joshrelf2790
    @joshrelf2790 5 ปีที่แล้ว +896

    "more pre occupied with being angry than finding a solution" that quote speaks volumes

    • @polatzaa
      @polatzaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      9:03

    • @noobslayer6915
      @noobslayer6915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sadly it's a somewhat true.

    • @noobslayer6915
      @noobslayer6915 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Under Doggg If only we could, how wonderful things would be.

    • @noreoz1024
      @noreoz1024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my favorite was: "for a group that claims to champion tolerance and true diversity, what I have seen overwhelmingly, is a lack of willingness to accept what other people think"

  • @jacksonhenry7049
    @jacksonhenry7049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1513

    This was one of the more respectful “Middle Ground” videos.
    Wow that’s a good amount of likes.

  • @alanalan2732
    @alanalan2732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    hello an italian here. I would really like to understand, without being offensive, some things. For example, one thing here in Europe we sometimes fail to grasp about the American problem with racism is how this can still go on in the media. Racist people have always existed and will always exist because someone will always be afraid of what is different from him / her. But for example one thing I don't understand is why do you still use the word RACE? Why, for example, when you hear some political programs you hear about the people of the United States always divided into groups? For example, politicians talk about the votes of Latinos, Asians and Africans. What does it mean? you are all American citizens, aren't you? It sounds so offensive to me.
    I have many friends around Europe (so different countries and different cultures) and we are very concerned about some habits that are coming from the United States. One example above all is the politically correct. it is something that is taking away the dialectic and the confrontation as soon as one feels offended defines the other person with very heavy accusations: racist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, misogynist and many others. All this is the end of the evolution of society because it does not create freedom but friction.
    I read sometimes people that speak of forgiveness or not forgiveness. They have to act in certain way because their ancestors were destroy.
    It's a very interesting thing because sometimes I think it's family related.
    Sometimes in the eyes of Europeans it is strange to see news that still speak of frictions linked to the american civil war of the south against the north. In our eyes it is as if the strength to leave the past behind us is really lacking. This does not mean forgetting because it would be the biggest mistake but building a better future on that. Because if I were to see Europe from a perspective of this type, I as an Italian would have problems with the Germans, the French, the Spaniards, and so many other European countries among them. I should have problems with my other Italian compatriots because half of Italy was fascist and later with other Italians because between the 60s and 80s we had "the years of lead" where the communist extremists carried out attacks.
    Sometimes families transmit hatred or fear towards the other, but also the feeling of being less and with fewer privileges. I think the most accurate comment, seen from the outside, is precisely the privilege of money. Who has the money can have everything the others trudge behind. I hope you can change the discourse of health and education in USA (make them pay less) so as to be able to start smoothing out differences and contrasts.
    I am really interested in your comments to try to understand better because we are far away and we do not understand all the nuances we have little informations. Thanks and sorry for my english.

    • @fabianmarcetic3232
      @fabianmarcetic3232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Very true. “Race” is not a thing. Simply adapted different colors for the climate we used to live in.

    • @masterchiefiii
      @masterchiefiii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      bella pezzo amico

    • @blakeleeberggren5335
      @blakeleeberggren5335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Your so completely right when it comes money. It's the great equalizer and most issues that someone experiences due to their races can be negated with enough wealth. As an American I can say with much confidence that this country is going to crumble and burn before anything gets better. Our " representatives" dont represent us and they dont care about real issues as long as they get votes. I wish I could be more optimistic, but people focus so heavily on race that they ignore the real enemy. The real big bad in the untied states isnt rasicm it's the federal reserve and their scummy corporate cronies. If the majority of Americans knew just how much we were being fucked over by centralized banking we could have a the revolution over and done with by the end of the week.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Because we treat each other differently based on skin color and class.

    • @AJ-lm5dl
      @AJ-lm5dl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We have these things called "democrats" here in America. And in order for democrats to stay in power and stay relevant, they need to put on a false face of being "anti-racist". However, racism is practically dead in America, which would mean that democrats wouldn't get elected. Because of that, democrats need to create racism out of thin air to keep themselves relevant and continue to emotionally manipulate people into voting for them. Democrats of today are more detrimental to the health of America than covid-19 can ever be. Democrats are Anti-Americans, which is why they hate the American flag and burn it at their rallies.

  • @pixmma9627
    @pixmma9627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3185

    This has got to be the most nuanced and diverse group of opinions I have seen on a middle ground episode. I quickly lost track of who was supporting which side of the debate because they all constantly surprised me with how they answered the questions. It was honestly quite refreshing to watch.

    • @nathangaspacio6128
      @nathangaspacio6128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I feel like its ironic considering the topic of identity politics and their opinions ae so diverse between the two groups

    • @jasoncg2956
      @jasoncg2956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      By far one of the most productive videos to come out of this series. Props to Jubilee for actually picking out some reasonable, nuanced individuals this time.

    • @MrEvldreamr
      @MrEvldreamr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@nathangaspacio6128 well i believe its more like a pro- or anti- identity broken down into "strongly agree, moderately agree and somewhat agree" which is why there was so much nuance

    • @avivavogelgabriel5482
      @avivavogelgabriel5482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pixmma ~ I wholeheartedly agree … found sufficient complexity accompanied by smart, articulate expression, elevated this discussion quite a few notches above many of the others.

    • @dylanburns8759
      @dylanburns8759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      seriously a great group of people

  • @vue945
    @vue945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2724

    Can we just congratulate all of these people for having such a civil discussion? It was really refreshing.

    • @trailerhero
      @trailerhero 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @Odysseas G yeah it is pretty sad. Admittedly hits its peak with election years.

    • @ramneekmathur
      @ramneekmathur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you 🙏

    • @neostar63
      @neostar63 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Really good!

    • @korona1102
      @korona1102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't think there a feminist there so that is why.

    • @sunshinemama2325
      @sunshinemama2325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@DTB1995 truly from what I've seen, people face to face usually can hold an incredible conversation, but over the phone or internet, it's just different because we are all dehumanized and dehumanize others.

  • @miniminerva
    @miniminerva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11780

    Asian dude straight up has main character hair.

    • @octopusmime
      @octopusmime 5 ปีที่แล้ว +323

      hes so handsome!

    • @Zeeno
      @Zeeno 5 ปีที่แล้ว +487

      He got that YuGiOh Action going

    • @ee8546
      @ee8546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +247

      He looks like a cliche protagonist

    • @shacourbrissett9625
      @shacourbrissett9625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @Black Ally to Protect White Men's Rights Seriously, how *insecure* are you that you felt the need to insult a stranger just because they received a compliment?

    • @annmariebusu9924
      @annmariebusu9924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      NotYourAvgGamer Goku 😅

  • @RWtubb
    @RWtubb ปีที่แล้ว +409

    The idea of identity politics has got to be the most privileged and 1st-world idea I’ve ever known

    • @hushdolll5112
      @hushdolll5112 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Bro fr.

    • @hemangmathur2823
      @hemangmathur2823 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Its here in India too lmao. And I'd say it's actually as bad as it is in the USA. Not just first world.

    • @amk210
      @amk210 ปีที่แล้ว

      100%

    • @pffpffovich2398
      @pffpffovich2398 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@hemangmathur2823 In India it's caste system, a bit different thing.

    • @captainpainal1971
      @captainpainal1971 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @melbookeriii20
    @melbookeriii20 5 ปีที่แล้ว +978

    This is one of the few middle grounds where I’d love to see the entire group come back in another episode

    • @ramneekmathur
      @ramneekmathur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!!

    • @diegonelli9872
      @diegonelli9872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the girl Natali i think she was in the video 6 trump supporters vs 1 hater

    • @Laura-Yu
      @Laura-Yu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mel Booker III Except for the Asian one, he has cool hair but not really into him

    • @melbookeriii20
      @melbookeriii20 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      로라 [Laura] personally i thought he contributed a lot to the conversation. I need to watch again but i liked him

    • @angeliparraguirre7329
      @angeliparraguirre7329 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Part two... the retcon

  • @pietergalesloot
    @pietergalesloot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14278

    This has to be the most well-educated group ever in this series.

    • @samnielsen7114
      @samnielsen7114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      VoidX what?

    • @jinjunliu2401
      @jinjunliu2401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +293

      my small brain couldn't comprehend the conversation

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sam Nielsen I’m asking why the individual feels so uninformed?

    • @samnielsen7114
      @samnielsen7114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      VoidX I think he was saying that compared to other topics these people had a better grasp of what they were talking about unlike other videos where people just yell at each other

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sam Nielsen Makes sense. But then McOinkey said he couldn’t understand what was going on, so maybe some people are confused XD

  • @saxyman1365
    @saxyman1365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5669

    "You're more occupied about being angry, than finding a solution"
    *Truer words have never been said*

    • @Car-i4e
      @Car-i4e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Unite for the UNSC, hoorah!

    • @dereklong7757
      @dereklong7757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      the thing is why is it that us black people have to be bad because we are angry... if yuh go to a restaurant and they spit on your food aren’t yuh going to be angry.... hell yes... we have gave the entire world solutions like lets be equal.... and how about looking at us as human and not animals.... it gets old that people tell us there’s no privilege and all kinds of excuses to move away from the fact that we are treated wrong.... We will continue to peacefully to find a solution ... but why is it that its so hard to just say yuh are just as important as the next.... instead our govern on both sides have created so many legislative road block for black people.... if yuh deny it then yuh are sitting among the privilege of not having to look from our level where we look from the dirt and mud and everyone else from their recliner watching tv....

    • @captainred3781
      @captainred3781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @derek long if people are spitting in your food you can sue them

    • @dereklong7757
      @dereklong7757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@captainred3781 yuh took the wrong thing out of wat i said ....it was an example.... and the fact that it stood out the most over everything else....

    • @john-doemcalias4759
      @john-doemcalias4759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      @@dereklong7757 so you are angry? You feel resentment? So you go out and "be bad" right? Whats next? Cuz so far you've managed to equate a cultural revolution to a dennis the menace comic. If you dont know what the next step is, you probably shouldnt be involved. We get it: BLM activists are mad. Now stop breaking things and PLEASE go do something productive for our communities. And for yourselves.

  • @marcuswpIV
    @marcuswpIV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    This group of people are insanely intelligent and intellectual. Best video I’ve seen from this series yet.

    • @benireges
      @benireges ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol intelligent....

    • @spinekingjrgensen5779
      @spinekingjrgensen5779 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@benireges Hard to fathom for one such as yourself.

    • @benireges
      @benireges ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spinekingjrgensen5779 boy if this is america's standard for "intelligent" ur screwed big time

    • @timm8998
      @timm8998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I honestly have a hard time seeing any pro identity polics person as being intelligent.

    • @benireges
      @benireges ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@timm8998 👏👏👏 identity politics should not exist!

  • @mrsoshadabaadman
    @mrsoshadabaadman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1494

    I was so confused. I didn't know who was pro or anti. Maybe cause everyone was so civil.

    • @victoriaandrade9657
      @victoriaandrade9657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Mr Sosha Da baad Man I think they were so civil because they understand that opinions are nuanced and no one is truly 100% pro or anti anything. If you get that you’re not going to 100% agree with specific ideas within a movement it makes you more tolerant to the other side

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      right, they all seemed to agree with parts of eachother's arguments

    • @JacquelynKay
      @JacquelynKay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

    • @Bradley_Lute
      @Bradley_Lute 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When they talk, their affiliation pops up under their name. But that's the important thing, conversation should ideally be civil like this all the time. We shouldn't get mad when others hold an opinion we don't like. We should drill down to find out more nuance, assert that we think about it and our belief and then let them decide what they think. It's as simple as that. People, especially liberals, are becoming increasingly intolerant to others opinions. There is some good reason for this and a lot of bad. Intolerance to opinions seems mostly to be a discomfort with our own ideology. A lack of willingness to engage can be a sign of bad character. Like you don't have your facts straight.

    • @Achilles053
      @Achilles053 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      brad Lute if only everyone else thought like you

  • @andrewquesada4883
    @andrewquesada4883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    This was ACTUALLY a good conversation. Everyone seemed fairly open and willing to discuss the topic and hear the other side.

    • @zero2105
      @zero2105 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mono_o I’m asking myself why you had to give him attention, lmao

  • @ogechikaesedebe4086
    @ogechikaesedebe4086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    I love how they’re able to articulate themselves .

    • @Tima-oz5te
      @Tima-oz5te 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Fr if the flat earthers in that other episode had been able to communicate their ideas this well just to some degree I probably would've been able to take them more seriously

  • @mandyruth6313
    @mandyruth6313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This is by far the best Middle Ground debate by far. Everyone was articulate, respectful and all raised valid points

  • @Synchrodicate
    @Synchrodicate 5 ปีที่แล้ว +621

    Wow, can we all commend everyone here though? This was one of the chillest conversations ever. I enjoyed this episode a lot. Everyone waa so open and willing listen to each other without ridicule or animosity.

  • @kassadeejarrett432
    @kassadeejarrett432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    This was probably one of the best episodes because everyone listened to each other, they didn't get angry. This is the kind of debates we need to have more of. Really enjoyed this!!

    • @EsotericElle
      @EsotericElle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kassadee jarrett you guys only “don’t get angry” because you don’t care enough. Anger is a valid emotion.

    • @stina263
      @stina263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      L. Just because you don’t get angry when debating does not mean you don’t care. It means you’re a civil human being and are able to control your emotions

    • @kassadeejarrett432
      @kassadeejarrett432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stina exactly this is why I enjoyed this episode so much because everyone acted civil and genuinely wanted to hear what others said!

    • @kassadeejarrett432
      @kassadeejarrett432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      L. This is exactly what I was talking about, how do you know how I feel or who/what I care about. You try to start stuff out of nothing. All because I said I enjoyed this episode because everyone genuinely got along and respected and wanted to hear about others opinions.

    • @whyistherehandlesnow
      @whyistherehandlesnow 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      "THATS A FALLACY"

  • @itseggsie
    @itseggsie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1285

    "identity" is such a broad topic - I feel like this was like 5 different discussions in one

    • @RockslideTreeClan
      @RockslideTreeClan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      yeah i feel like any number of the topics touched on could use a video on their own

    • @isaiahsilverstein4412
      @isaiahsilverstein4412 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You want to feel that way because as an Asian, you are intensely privileged. It is gross and you should pay reparations to PoC.

    • @allyson4483
      @allyson4483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Isaiah Silverstein ....

    • @alliedeleon2209
      @alliedeleon2209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Isaiah Silverstein hUH LOL

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@isaiahsilverstein4412 aS A JEW YOU'RE EXTREMELY PRIVILEGED AND SHOULD PAY REPARATION TO EVERYONE lol

  • @Swaymus
    @Swaymus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Would be interesting to have Americans and Non-Americans discuss this. Very nice though :) I love using your episodes to spark conversation in my classroom. Thanks for that!

  • @jonnny_
    @jonnny_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1712

    This video was so much more refreshing than the,' "Flat Earth vs Round Earth" conversation. My blood pressure was much much lower in comparison... "that's a FaLLacY"

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      you are too young to be having this.

    • @giovanniherrera6037
      @giovanniherrera6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      He looks like a grown ass man to me fym

    • @angelcake2278
      @angelcake2278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lechiffresix six what age are you supposed to be to talk about the problems in your society??

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@angelcake2278 i was talking about his escalating blood pressure

    • @angelcake2278
      @angelcake2278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lechiffresix six oh okay carry on

  • @AB-sr4xd
    @AB-sr4xd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +461

    "Do All Stay-at-home Parents Think The Same?" Please include women and men if you do this.

  • @jcucuta7
    @jcucuta7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1111

    "What is the most important part of your identity?"
    *"Human Being."*

    • @fritzjackson4336
      @fritzjackson4336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Ironic coming from the one who was for identity politics too

    • @victoriaque601
      @victoriaque601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Fritz Jackson actually when you think about it, no it isn’t.

    • @chicagoliightsx
      @chicagoliightsx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@victoriaque601 lol right

    • @jamesbedichek6106
      @jamesbedichek6106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Big facts

    • @trorisk
      @trorisk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Notice that none of them said the identity of beeing an english speaker. Whereas language is the first social construct that allows you to understand the world.

  • @TheWizardGamez
    @TheWizardGamez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Identity politics is bad for everyone. There’s no problem with having an identity and making that a part of being yourself. But when you add that to the divisive nature of politics it leads to bad things.

    • @Rizen-mu6nx
      @Rizen-mu6nx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hate identity politics because my experience with it is when women say that I can’t have an opinion on killing human life because I’m male.

    • @LaurynAli27
      @LaurynAli27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@Rizen-mu6nx why would you have an opinion on women's reproductive rights when you arent a woman or you dont have a uterus yourself? Does that make sense to you?

    • @crimsonblob
      @crimsonblob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@LaurynAli27 well, if a woman gets pregnant the guy is also responsible for it, right? So why then when it comes to decide what's the future of that baby that guy suddenly can't be a part of that decision?

    • @LaurynAli27
      @LaurynAli27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@crimsonblob is the guy the one risking his life giving birth? it’s so simple to stay out of women’s bodies but you men just can’t let it tf go for some reason

    • @JustinQREYES
      @JustinQREYES 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dont like dabbling with these types of things but well just this once I just want to show my take on this type of thing

  • @Ryanator
    @Ryanator 5 ปีที่แล้ว +873

    This is how discussions are suppose to go. These people are really mature and intelligent

    • @toresagen7346
      @toresagen7346 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm trying to help you critically think here. Just ask yourself why didn't they include a straight white male when talking about identity politics? It's almost as if all non whites want to abolish only one identity, white identity. They hate us. There is a war on white men.

    • @Drizzylaflair
      @Drizzylaflair 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tore Sagen you are right about that, but ever time I bring that up as a problem to people they look at me sideways because I’m supposed to hate white people. I feel like it’s a war on everything because it’s just a big disconnect grime white, black, rich, poor, men and women

    • @DJ-hi6oc
      @DJ-hi6oc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@toresagen7346 Not sure if that's the reason - the video overall was pretty geared towards anti identity politics, so the editing and supposed 'hate for white men' don't align in my eyes.
      Plus I felt the conservative Damani was perfectly placed there. Every line he spoke was to to the point, and he really got the point across. As someone who doesn't believe in identity politics, I don't give a damn that he isn't white.
      Objectively speaking though, it's much easier to convince people who ARE into identity politics using people who are 'immune' to such built-in hate (aka black people, LGBT etc).

    • @ke2075
      @ke2075 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@toresagen7346 Jesse was a straight white guy?

    • @Groganee
      @Groganee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@toresagen7346 Hum did you even watch the video, Jesse is a white man, he even says so himself...

  • @codycao7868
    @codycao7868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3413

    everyone : "man all these people seem like intelligent human beings"
    me : how does this guy dan do his hair like that?

  • @horneybadger86
    @horneybadger86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    This episode just proved to me that there is an actual middle ground

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how is Michelle doing these days

  • @adrii6147
    @adrii6147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This honestly felt like a group of friends were just having a discussion. Very well done

  • @jacobbriers7863
    @jacobbriers7863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    1:11 "what is the most important part of your identity?"
    "human being"
    we should all think like that

    • @sebastianpoto
      @sebastianpoto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Take it another step even- living being.

    • @samanthajade1942
      @samanthajade1942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @Neillionaire
      @Neillionaire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Speciesist!

    • @kimjongtrump3493
      @kimjongtrump3493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the feminist going to get offended for having MAN in huMAN🤣

    • @robocop6573
      @robocop6573 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      God

  • @peepmam
    @peepmam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4498

    "What is the most important part of your identity?"
    - being an american
    *this is the most american thing i've ever heard*

    • @madlad5555
      @madlad5555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @Brian T he's saying it in a positive connotation

    • @anaa9245
      @anaa9245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lmao

    • @7svn.
      @7svn. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      @Brian T can be, american tourist think other countries owe them due to them being american.
      There is no issue with being proud of who you are and your country, but it becomes a problem when you think you are better than everyone else

    • @Tarubro
      @Tarubro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Makes me jealous as a non American because India aint nothing to be proud of 😭

    • @fuckoffgoogle9747
      @fuckoffgoogle9747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@Tarubro why not? Huge problems but come a long way since independence and one of the oldest civilisations in the world. Home to 3 of the worlds most practiced and oldest religions. Chess, yoga, mathematics, one of the most effective space agencies in the world despite how low its budget is. Liberated Bangladesh from genocide and has made huge strides in cutting poverty since independence. Brilliant food and people.
      Again, tonnes of problems, but tonnes to love too

  • @lydiatwa8723
    @lydiatwa8723 5 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    this was the first middle round that I agreed with almost everyones perspectives, they're all so intelligent and respectful I loved it

    • @MaouxDaBoYYY55
      @MaouxDaBoYYY55 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @treeko 10k haahahaahhahaaahahahah so uncalled for

    • @monkiram
      @monkiram 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, I think this is my favourite episode so far

  • @sarahpitman2966
    @sarahpitman2966 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love the fact that despite having different thoughts and opinions, they could all hug at the end. Respect and appreciate each other’s thoughts and opinions, as it should be ❤️

  • @amandeepsandhu9052
    @amandeepsandhu9052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    This was honestly one of my favorite conversations, everyone had clear points and argued them well. No one was rude or angry at anyone for their opinion.
    This was a genuine discussion

    • @jsav4269
      @jsav4269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's Amanda duh..... it didn’t take place on Twitter, that’s the difference between real world and faux outrage from the mainstream media and Twitter

    • @jelly4129
      @jelly4129 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jsav4269 fr a lot of these videos people argue this one went smoothly

    • @alansands256
      @alansands256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think because, unlike other divisions this video series has explored, there isnt a clear cut philosophical divide between what makes someone pro or anti identity politics. They each seemed to be on their respective side for different reasons.

  • @teamrainbow7674
    @teamrainbow7674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3324

    “Green privilege is real”
    Alien stuck in Area 51: Allow me to disagree..

    • @GC-yw1mn
      @GC-yw1mn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      There a serious cultural conflict between green aliens and grey aliens. Green privilege is real.

    • @lancomepotatoes5753
      @lancomepotatoes5753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@GC-yw1mn you mean green and pink aliens?

    • @barnismyname915
      @barnismyname915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@lancomepotatoes5753 no it's green and grey the pink aliens are like 40 billion light years away

    • @openthinker6562
      @openthinker6562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@GC-yw1mn Nah, Green and Purple. Have you seen GTA 5? The Green Alien Vs Purple Alien war has waged for some time.

    • @scott8833
      @scott8833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what if they're purple

  • @marciaosullivan3200
    @marciaosullivan3200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +553

    "pro identity politics on the left and anti identity politics on the right" I see what you did.

    • @SAMIE2011ify1
      @SAMIE2011ify1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      They do this with every video. Pro-life on the right, pro-choice on the left. Police on the right , BLM on the left.

    • @Sonic_emperor
      @Sonic_emperor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I'm a left wing guy and my opposition to identity politics is at the core of my being.

    • @AyeshaRabab
      @AyeshaRabab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Sonic_emperor Marxist here. Also not a fan of identity politics

    • @JoseRojas-ns1dp
      @JoseRojas-ns1dp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Left wing ideas are in fundamental contradiction with identity politics. Identity politics are based on individualism and are largely used as a tool to avoid talking about left wing economic ideas. Corporate centrists are not left wingers, even if many americans falsely believe so.

    • @yourfriendlyneighborhoodsm4708
      @yourfriendlyneighborhoodsm4708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Marcia Osullivan The thing was, not everyone who was anti identity politics was right leaning and not everyone on the pro identity politics side were left leaning

  • @Viewable11
    @Viewable11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    The big black guy is brilliant. He always articulates poignantly what the problem is. His first sentence was pure gold, _"Identity Politics is playing team sports based on traits about yourself that you cannot change."_

    • @horsman47
      @horsman47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It is kinda weird of him to talk over the actual transgender person in the room about trans identity, though.

    • @Sleezy5711
      @Sleezy5711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh I think he has a name.

  • @Don2006
    @Don2006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    The entire cast of this episode was so damn educated, well-spoken, and level-headed that it could get this video demonetized. Would've been nice to see your average TH-cam commenter in the discussion so that he could get ripped to shreds.

    • @user-nv9vn8fm1d
      @user-nv9vn8fm1d 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Might want to rethink that. The desire to see people get ripped to shreds is why these conversations usually devolve.

    • @kennethreichelt
      @kennethreichelt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I thought it was by far the brightest members that have ever been on.

    • @ramneekmathur
      @ramneekmathur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I appreciate you Don! 🙌

  • @ascnd
    @ascnd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3622

    Everyone: *actual constructive comments*
    Me: YO DAN GOT THAT PHYSICS DEFYING ANIME HAIR WTF IS GOING ON

    • @mohamedbahaa5084
      @mohamedbahaa5084 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      why is no one talking abt that ?

    • @Sombre_gd
      @Sombre_gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      I was waiting the entire if he throw KAMEHAMEHA towards somebody.

    • @NobodySingsAlong
      @NobodySingsAlong 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      My hair used to do that. I would condition it in the shower before bed with mane n tail horse conditioner and let it dry while I slept. In the morning it would stick up just like that and return to the same position no matter how much I jerked my head around. It was glorious. Throw some decent hairspray on it, and it'd last all day.

    • @MegaShinobi2011
      @MegaShinobi2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Excuse me, the main character of series is never pointed out as being the main character by side characters.

    • @serenityq26
      @serenityq26 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yep. so goku lol thats all i saw

  • @atsuyak768
    @atsuyak768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2854

    As a non-american everything about America is so racialized it's crazy.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 5 ปีที่แล้ว +236

      It’s due to propaganda and the media; but even before that, there were many radical organizations in the 60s and 70s.

    • @beyonceschild
      @beyonceschild 5 ปีที่แล้ว +393

      Yeah cause unfortunately that's the way the country started out. Laws of racial segregation only ended in the late 60s ... and it still takes a while for it to ware off.
      A good segment of the population was born during and before that time so it's still fresh and ingrained in their heads.

    • @h3llboyyy407
      @h3llboyyy407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      ^ yeah but I'd say that it isn't as crazy as the media makes it out to be lol

    • @P0k3D0nd3M4cG
      @P0k3D0nd3M4cG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@beyonceschild dejure, not defacto

    • @TheFuschiaDragonfly
      @TheFuschiaDragonfly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      atsuya k I totally agree with you

  • @wassupbud1232
    @wassupbud1232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    If everyone just treated each other as human beings with decency and respect the world would be a much better place.

  • @mac4951
    @mac4951 5 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    When Xavier answered “human being” to the question of what his most important identity was...chillls, dude.

    • @thisaccount3411
      @thisaccount3411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Honestly kind of preferred the "empathy" answer but agree. Definitely meant to be a chills moment, and I still appreciated his (I think) answer.

    • @Piecesoftheshadow
      @Piecesoftheshadow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mac I liked the empathy answer better, but human being was good, too.

    • @h3llboyyy407
      @h3llboyyy407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I liked the American answer tbh. It's a good balance between all of their identities and realistic ideas. Each country differs with mindsets and claiming American human is the best fit. We can't speak for other countries.

    • @Piecesoftheshadow
      @Piecesoftheshadow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mitchellthe senpai Nah, answering that your identity is based on being American or any other nationality, is part of the problem that puts us in these categories that separate us and convince us were too different. Yes, your culture and country have an effect on you, but it is NOT your identity. Take that away and who are you? You're still a human being and empathetic and a thinker (hopefully).

    • @h3llboyyy407
      @h3llboyyy407 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Piecesoftheshadow nope bruh in the end we all should represent the countries or places we are from and then learn to coexist with the rest of the world with our differences. If Russia decided to rage war right now on american grounds , guess what , no one in Russia nor the U.S is going to want to support each other just because we are all the same specimen.

  • @davis3909
    @davis3909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3701

    Scientists that are Christian vs scientists that are atheists

    • @raychill2005
      @raychill2005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      would be so cool

    • @퀴수스케세수스
      @퀴수스케세수스 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      Indeed, both my friend and I are biology researchers, but she is a fundamentalist and I am an atheist. One day I asked her how does she deal with the scientific teachings that challenge her beliefs and she told me that for certain scientific beliefs like evolution and the big bang, that go against the adam and eve origins of the bible, she just laughs at them and ignores it and moves on.

    • @rudigerrudiger6436
      @rudigerrudiger6436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      senseless

    • @Roman-oe4rg
      @Roman-oe4rg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      퀴수스케세수스 That’s what i do too 😂

    • @yerma6149
      @yerma6149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, that is interesting!

  • @ericrossoni
    @ericrossoni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +550

    It’s almost you can’t tell who is on the other side. They all seem to agree with each other and respected each other. Everyone listened. Great conversation.

    • @lizmowrey9866
      @lizmowrey9866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I love how these discussions are respectful

    • @caroa8
      @caroa8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@lizmowrey9866 minus the flat Earth one ://

    • @lizmowrey9866
      @lizmowrey9866 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caroa8 yeah

    • @ChatsWithChris
      @ChatsWithChris 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was a nonsense conversation.

  • @petersaysthings
    @petersaysthings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is without a doubt one of my favorite and most important Middle Ground episodes. So much of what was said is important and illuminating in ways the mainstream media wouldn't dare ever share. Thank you, Jubilee.

  • @Elsi-Music
    @Elsi-Music 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1796

    Americans are also obsessed with the two part system. Just Bc you’re not a liberal doesn’t automatically mean you’re a Republican or vice Versa. The political spectrum is so vast. You don’t have to be one or the other. There is libertarians, the Green Party, constitutionalists, the labor party. Not everything is black and white. I am a libertarian and I feel very excluded from the modern political stage.

    • @V1RotateRotate
      @V1RotateRotate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      not only americans

    • @Elsi-Music
      @Elsi-Music 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@V1RotateRotate facts

    • @juicebx283
      @juicebx283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Libertarians usually tend to agree a lot with republicans so it makes sense to be considered one
      Same for constitutionalists
      People in the labour party I believe are socialists or close to it so they're pretty easy to differentiate

    • @Elsi-Music
      @Elsi-Music 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@juicebx283 libertarians believe in freedom above all else. Freedom socially, economically, and politically. Republicans don’t believe in freedom socially and liberals don’t belive in freedom politically or economically. So it’s half and half. Whether or not you lean more towards one side would mean you are more moderate

    • @autumntaco8722
      @autumntaco8722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@juicebx283 I don't think that libertarians agree with Republicans as much as they disagree with with democrats, which means people assume we're more republican leaning. Republicans are a lot more authoritarian than we're comfortable with, and even the points Republicans try and buy our votes with (2A rights, antiwar w/ Trump's treaties he signed before election day 2020) they are very flip floppy and unreliable.

  • @EA-mc6xb
    @EA-mc6xb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2433

    Are Americans obsessed with race and gender?
    *Yes, most definitely yes*

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Elmin Alić have you been to america?

    • @starman275
      @starman275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@ivyrainbitch I have been in amercia, and he's right

    • @aceofspades2808
      @aceofspades2808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@ivyrainbitch I've live in America and yes, yes we are. Reason why the country is more divided than it should be.
      Edit: Met to say "live in" instead of "been to" sorry

    • @SiobhanS1868
      @SiobhanS1868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed.

    • @alaaaziz3565
      @alaaaziz3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes I remember one time someone made my friend cry and people were yelling at the dude for making a girl cry like if she was a guy it would have made it right

  • @pinkclogs
    @pinkclogs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2421

    xavier: i want to be a holistic nutritionist
    erin: that’s not vegan
    shelley: that’s fallacy

    • @j.j.7666
      @j.j.7666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      cece i feel like erin and shelley are gonna be in every videos comment now🥦🥬🏖🌎

    • @kaylenejantjes8113
      @kaylenejantjes8113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I knew this would happen! 😂

    • @yourmum9591
      @yourmum9591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @kimbo7044
      @kimbo7044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      OH WHOS SHELLY??? Ik about erin tho 😂

    • @clementinejr5884
      @clementinejr5884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@kimbo7044 watch flat earth vs globe earth

  • @TheJtyork420
    @TheJtyork420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    IDK how America went such the opposite way of how I thought race relations would go. In high school racism was not a big deal and the racist kids were the ones getting beat up. We even had shows like the Boondocks who used racism for comedy. Everyone I knew at least thought it was the stupidest thing in the world to judge people by the amount of melanin in their skin, and people who did should be mocked, ridiculed, and maybe a ass kicking.

  • @kendallschmidt9214
    @kendallschmidt9214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +554

    I didn’t know this many intelligent and graceful people existed this was the best ep yet

    • @kendallschmidt9214
      @kendallschmidt9214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      treeko 10k my mom is dead

    • @mrscar60sbro
      @mrscar60sbro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kendallschmidt9214 F

    • @xelle1649
      @xelle1649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @treeko 10k Too far

    • @helmetboy431
      @helmetboy431 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not really that smart

    • @alexanderjackson8389
      @alexanderjackson8389 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because you've never gone outside a day in your life..

  • @nova-11
    @nova-11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3085

    it would be so interesting if there was video like this but “conservative feminist vs liberal feminists”

    • @acemarshals3211
      @acemarshals3211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +298

      The only problem would to find conservative feminists because they're quite rare and they'll get canceled if they voice their opinions

    • @nova-11
      @nova-11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      @@acemarshals3211 i mena they kinda don’t make any sense, especially trump supporters that call themselves feminists but that why i want to see a video like that, it would be really interesting.

    • @dustin802
      @dustin802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      @@nova-11 Trump loves women. Just not the ones who scream straight white male privilege, racist, bigot, etc....

    • @nova-11
      @nova-11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

      @@dustin802 yeah he loves women so much that he commites crimes against them and dosen't want them to have rights over their body :)

    • @dustin802
      @dustin802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@nova-11 what specifically?

  • @juanpablorobayo9891
    @juanpablorobayo9891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1807

    First line of the episode
    Me: "OoOoOoOoOoOo spicy video today"

  • @janesigabaro7593
    @janesigabaro7593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m very impressed with this video. They hands down have been the most intelligent group I’ve seen. They didn’t become frustrated or angry. They listened and acknowledged differences. They truly understand being human in my opinion They didn’t try to tear each other down but instead built on top of each other. If they made up most of America we would get things done..

  • @jamesongaertner9416
    @jamesongaertner9416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1371

    “Seems like you’re more preoccupied with being angry than finding a solution.”
    That so perfectly sums up our culture.

    • @lucasbrunoz
      @lucasbrunoz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      But can you blame people for being angry?

    • @snowrewhite
      @snowrewhite 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Yes but then again what if being angry is a part of the process of getting a solution

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@lucasbrunoz no you can't blame people for being angry but just being angry doesn't solve anything and depending on how people use their anger, it can almost destroy their argument. I go to faculty meetings where people just complain and are angry about situations occurring in schools for the entire hour and nothing is resolved. It's great that people vent but you need to vent and then start working toward a solution. Just angry and venting with no ways to make the situations better doesn't help anybody.

    • @gianniclaud
      @gianniclaud 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah, but guess what? That anger is valid.

    • @mari_7225
      @mari_7225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@gianniclaud No one is saying it's not valid.😗 Of course it's valid 100% but anger won't get you anywhere in trying to find a solution.

  • @JB-fs3cq
    @JB-fs3cq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +612

    Damani I seriously like the fact that he goes against the grain in some instances but calmly explains his point of view. First person I've really gotten behind in these videos.

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      J B Same. He is awesome. So logical and his responses are so well thought out. It’s obvious he’s his own person, and not a product of some group he identifies as

    • @JB-fs3cq
      @JB-fs3cq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@AK-jt7kh exactly right!! It's becoming less common nowadays to say what you believe in rather than some ideologically driven response!

    • @shungite8240
      @shungite8240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He’s probably the person that represents me the most

    • @starpoweredstudios7622
      @starpoweredstudios7622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He's a contrarian

    • @thevis5465
      @thevis5465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@starpoweredstudios7622 Hurr durr, someone disagrees he contrarian so he not worth listening to.

  • @XxPureKhaosxX
    @XxPureKhaosxX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    For a country that's supposed to be one big melting pot, people sure do like grouping themselves, labeling things, and standing out.

    • @hinahinananoha7783
      @hinahinananoha7783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Pure_Khaos Well there is a term salad bowl as opposed to all melting, so to speak:)

    • @dc3011
      @dc3011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Pure_Khaos I completely agree! I live in the south and blacks people segregate themselves but cry when they don’t get awarded something or what have you

    • @XxPureKhaosxX
      @XxPureKhaosxX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      D C Not sure what you’re talking about or trying to say but identity politics apply just as much to you as they do the people you like to criticize. Republicans are just as annoying as the “libtards” they hate so much. White people group themselves just as much as black people do. Women group themselves just as much as men do. And each side always has something to say about the opposing side instead of just minding their own business.

    • @XxPureKhaosxX
      @XxPureKhaosxX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hinahina Nanoha Yes but all the individual components start fighting over who’s the bigger victim and who is the most entitled when the only thing that should matter is that we are Americans and our differences should help us come together instead of people getting offended by other people’s business. It’s true of everybody in America regardless of race, religion, sexuality, etc. everybody gives way too much of a crap over other people’s lives that don’t affect their own

    • @Asf-bj4rw
      @Asf-bj4rw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      People around the world self segregate from people who don’t look like them. It’s normal human behavior

  • @whasianguy655
    @whasianguy655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was a very articulate and thought provoking group. If people were to listen and speak their perspective like this more often, there wouldn’t be such a huge divide among groups of people.

  • @Iloverandomness100
    @Iloverandomness100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    “You’re more preoccupied with being angry than finding a solution” absolutely

    • @momox8133
      @momox8133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s very sad that that’s the line that stood out the most to you.

    • @Iloverandomness100
      @Iloverandomness100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Momo X there’s a lot that stood out but that quote is very real. People are so quit to yell and fight and being right than finding a solution to fix the issue in the first place. I don’t understand how you’re bent about it. And you are bent, don’t say you aren’t, or you wouldn’t have said anything

    • @momox8133
      @momox8133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kelsey Goebel No one dealing with real problems would rather argue than find a solution.

    • @Iloverandomness100
      @Iloverandomness100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Momo X you’d be surprised what angry people do. If you think that then step outside for a second in a different city or town or state that isn’t typically “calm” for you.

    • @momox8133
      @momox8133 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      red x17 or people not being racist and supporting racists

  • @isares8870
    @isares8870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    Amidst all this, I just want to say one thing:
    Can we have the questions written in a more readable colour? Grey on Black tedious to read

    • @judemorgan1798
      @judemorgan1798 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      RIGHT!! I had to go into full mode just to read it. And I'm not even wearing my glasses. Any more straining and I'll get an even bigger headache. RIP eyes. 😂😂😂😂

    • @jessicaaa.e
      @jessicaaa.e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OMG yes I was literally thinking this

    • @shishkebab6473
      @shishkebab6473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How bout Black on Pink

    • @moriah4272
      @moriah4272 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Or they record the audio so we can actually hear it and don’t need to read it! But I still agree

    • @haiiithereee30
      @haiiithereee30 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      is it normally this hard to read? i can't remember if it's always been this colour, but I don't recall ever struggling to read the text in the past like i did with this video

  • @jeniflor5379
    @jeniflor5379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +673

    I love how freely everyone was able to articulate their thoughts😊

    • @lord_cobi
      @lord_cobi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah females tend not to do that lol

    • @siamhyde9692
      @siamhyde9692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      lord cobi you’re the problem

    • @lord_cobi
      @lord_cobi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siamhyde9692 proving my point 😂

    • @everythingmadi5612
      @everythingmadi5612 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jennifer García-Israel right, they didn’t cut eachother off

    • @danielntemuse5653
      @danielntemuse5653 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      treeko 10k was that really necessary

  • @UsAsiansEatRice
    @UsAsiansEatRice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "For a group that claims to champion tolerance and true diversity, what I have seen overwhelmingly is a lack of willingness to accept what other people think"

  • @dyslexicdarling898
    @dyslexicdarling898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1712

    *Chill parents vs strict parents*
    I really want to know where this discussion would go ^_^

  • @noway464
    @noway464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1007

    I believe the solution is not to become identity blind, rather it’s to acknowledge , respect, and appreciation our differences.

    • @RootedinClarity
      @RootedinClarity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      100 percent agree

    • @yerma6149
      @yerma6149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree

    • @squashbanana5146
      @squashbanana5146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So you plan on positive discrimination. Because you're still setting people into seperate groups rather than one species which should be the only valuable category we fall into.

    • @noway464
      @noway464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Unoriginal Name there’s no such thing as positive discrimination.
      Our differences should be something that brings us together. Learning from each other, combining out strengths, and having people from different backgrounds, and different cultures entering our homes, and us entering their homes and celebrating their cultures. Rather that using our differences to divide ourselves.

    • @squashbanana5146
      @squashbanana5146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@noway464 It doesn't exist, yet you're proposing an idea that is essentially that.

  • @IncredibleIceCastle
    @IncredibleIceCastle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1977

    “Do all Schizophrenic individuals think alike?” Would be an enriching episode.

    • @bookfan22
      @bookfan22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Or "do all those with a mental health diagnosis think the same?"

    • @IncredibleIceCastle
      @IncredibleIceCastle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Nina Cass except that would be a little less interesting, because mental health diagnoses range from mild anxiety to severe multiple concurrent diagnoses of things like DID or bipolar disorder. I think it’s more interesting to here from people with one particular condition. Although some of them would inevitably have additional diagnoses, because schizophrenia tends to coexist with depression, anxiety, and many times personality disorders.

    • @bookfan22
      @bookfan22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@IncredibleIceCastle I actually didn't think if it that way. I guess they could do two segments - One on schizophrenia and another on mental health/diagnoses. Thank you for your insight. You have a great night.

    • @IncredibleIceCastle
      @IncredibleIceCastle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nina Cass absolutely! Thanks for commenting.

    • @RealVedicAstrology
      @RealVedicAstrology 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL Sign me up i'd be in that video

  • @wassupbud1232
    @wassupbud1232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    A wise man once said "Identity politics is playing team sports based on traits you cannot change".

    • @RestrictedHades
      @RestrictedHades 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can change your gender

    • @GuillaumeT96
      @GuillaumeT96 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RestrictedHades only if you're mentally ill, otherwise he's true

  • @TheMissingLink2
    @TheMissingLink2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1138

    Its kinda unavoidable living in the society we live in.
    The issue isn't recognizing differences but stereotyping because of those differences. And that's something this country's population loves to do about one another.

    • @utisti4976
      @utisti4976 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly.

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea

    • @kasperknutsen8283
      @kasperknutsen8283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      America is fucked up.
      The stereo types.
      Some "black" blaming a unspecific white colour group of people, white people stero typing saying about all black people. It's like you live in 1940 with all these norms.

    • @sweettae754
      @sweettae754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kasperknutsen8283 um..i wouldn't say that but I agree with the person lmao

    • @ThahnG413
      @ThahnG413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kasperknutsen8283 nah its one of the best country's

  • @technojunkie123
    @technojunkie123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    Jubilee can y'all stop having the questions so opaque and blending into the background? I can barely read what the question is sometimes

    • @coconut4you360
      @coconut4you360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      technojunkie123 and leave it up while they talk cause sometimes they just talk about random stuff and you forget the question

    • @lizmowrey9866
      @lizmowrey9866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish they made it bright

    • @stellannie86
      @stellannie86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm surprised they don't have closed captions. :/

    • @cayteer
      @cayteer 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stella Annie I know. But the auto generated captions are usually good on these.

  • @OrganicFreedom
    @OrganicFreedom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    “Algorithms help us get into our trenches even deeper encouraging identity politics” So true. The Middle Ground series should be everyone’s home feed.

  • @Bruhhhhhke
    @Bruhhhhhke 5 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    Even people who were the “extremes” we still respectful, well articulated, and caring

    • @justanotherweirdo11
      @justanotherweirdo11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      That's cause they weren't extremes.

    • @stephenbennett5240
      @stephenbennett5240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      None of them were extremes on either sides trust me. Far rights are usually racist and nasty, far leftists are violent and dishonest. They would probably have killed each other at some point

    • @necromax13
      @necromax13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Damani and Xavier weren't extremes, nowhere near it, and you can see it when they talk about pronouns.

    • @samsev
      @samsev 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think none of these people were actually extreme

    • @cole1396
      @cole1396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stephen Bennett Well, all leftists are dishonest. Far lefts are violent and manipulative.

  • @courtneyschatz4271
    @courtneyschatz4271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    This was by far one of jubilees best episodes. Everyone was so respectful and well spoken. Thank you for this one!

  • @purvab1683
    @purvab1683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    Jubilee coming in clutch with these dictionary terms.

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dictionary terms are subjective

    • @babushkalol
      @babushkalol 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@etf42 Words and terms do have objective meaning.

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alystxo no they don’t

    • @babushkalol
      @babushkalol 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@etf42 So green is blue and water is milk in your opinion? Ofc there are words and terms with objective meaning that is recognized unanimously by the people of that language/culture.

    • @SelcraigClimbs
      @SelcraigClimbs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@babushkalol dictionaries define common usage, which obviously mutates over time. If you were to take dictionaries as your standard for defining words then you could argue they are objective, but only in that sense, drastically reducing effective communication with other people as a by-product. Words themselves have no meaning until interpreted subjectively.

  • @lalibelardo1706
    @lalibelardo1706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love these discussions so much it’s not heated, very understanding and mature

  • @dicks.and.clicks.6509
    @dicks.and.clicks.6509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1753

    “Human being, I think”
    Alien confirmed

    • @N2Deep00
      @N2Deep00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Don't sell that alien out. He left Mars to live here on Earth

    • @todo870
      @todo870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dawei Zhao But we would always have conflicts.

    • @todo870
      @todo870 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dawei Zhao I guess, but I don’t want to accept a racist or homophobic person or someone who doesn’t believe ALL law abiding citizens deserve true equality in society, there’s a line that needs to be drawn between right and wrong, and if it comes to war then so be it. It’s a sad part of life.

    • @dicks.and.clicks.6509
      @dicks.and.clicks.6509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ?ガッツ yes I have taste

    • @alvallac2171
      @alvallac2171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello, friends. I am a perfectly normal human worm baby. You have nothing, absolutely nothing, to fear from me. Just pay no attention to me and we'll get along just fine.
      And on an unrelated note: in the event of, say, a full-scale alien invasion, how prepared do you think this planet's defenses would be? _Tell me!_

  • @bethany-b2pkfilms792
    @bethany-b2pkfilms792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    This is such a good discussion
    Like they all are so respectful and empathetic. I love it

    • @taejo4975
      @taejo4975 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bethany - B2pk films I’m pretty sure if this is off the camera, it’s a war

  • @emma-di5ly
    @emma-di5ly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Xavier is so well spoken and I have so much respect for him. He's really cool and made awesome points. Same with Jesse.

    • @TBx46
      @TBx46 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emma lol no

    • @4everelman
      @4everelman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree, but I think it was obvious that Ramnek and Dan had a more nuanced view of things while these two and Damani had more of a recycled narrative

  • @eduardoprieto5267
    @eduardoprieto5267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Beautiful people having a conversation listening to each with a positive attitude. Please more amazing Americans like them needed. God bless them all.

  • @mmatshepomodiba7367
    @mmatshepomodiba7367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2222

    I would love to see a, "Do Africans and African Americans think the same!"

    • @Islam_Enjoyer
      @Islam_Enjoyer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      Africans don't identify with Black, they identify with their tribe.

    • @delvyntrinidad7131
      @delvyntrinidad7131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Mr Abdi خالد عبدالرحمن when they come to America they definitely do because we have hella Africans where I live and ALL of them identify as black

    • @aplsauceluver
      @aplsauceluver 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      We already know the answer to that question

    • @LongLiveSierraLeone
      @LongLiveSierraLeone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Lots of generalizations and anecdotes from people who arent African lol

    • @OnAComeUpChea
      @OnAComeUpChea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mmatshepo Modiba the african born American from Africans parents do

  • @Christian-id1is
    @Christian-id1is 5 ปีที่แล้ว +903

    this was the most productive middle ground I've seen yet

    • @brianacherry776
      @brianacherry776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      right

    • @irrelevantideology9640
      @irrelevantideology9640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It's because there's only one female....yeah I said it.

    • @mayac.w.3039
      @mayac.w.3039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The gang member one?

    • @tmmss5533
      @tmmss5533 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christian oh I SO agree

    • @Christian-id1is
      @Christian-id1is 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mayac.w.3039 I had watched that one after I believe

  • @Camilingue3
    @Camilingue3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    This needed to be unedited, the topics were not addressed enough I needed more they all had such interesting things to say. Part 2 please!

    • @sirmel11
      @sirmel11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      part 2 would be great!

    • @sophialiu4236
      @sophialiu4236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!!!! I felt like a lot of the discussions were cut short by the editing so an unedited version would be great!

  • @austinflake3938
    @austinflake3938 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This collaboration was heartening to watch. I believe people have more in common than they do different. Differences should not inherently mean conflict. It’s our differences that make the tapestry of a community rich and beautiful.

  • @zee6909
    @zee6909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    “how many names do you think is reasonable to learn?” this question was brushed off too quickly

    • @erauprcwa
      @erauprcwa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup

    • @theobnoxiousgamer9624
      @theobnoxiousgamer9624 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You’re supposed to magically know which on of the socially constructed made up genders you’re supposed to use by looking at someone... duh ez pz.

    • @shoulders-of-giants
      @shoulders-of-giants 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes

    • @christophersterling836
      @christophersterling836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If I am feeling generous, and I mean very generous, I will learn genders that are only realistic and possible for a human to be.

    • @zee6909
      @zee6909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      The Obnoxious Gamer no ones asking you to magically detect someone’s preferred pronoun, you’re just expected to use the pronoun after you’ve been informed.

  • @itssellz2645
    @itssellz2645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    "What's wrong if we're different?... It's ok. What's wrong if we're the same?... It's ok".
    This hit me

    • @Bbouy1HD
      @Bbouy1HD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well if we keep talking about race they'll always be divided, that's the underlining factor. Racism will never go away cus in the end its almost just like name calling or teasing (for example I don't like you cus you have red hair), and theyll always be people who don't like black people or white people.

    • @tacticalcrime3431
      @tacticalcrime3431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dawg I read your comment as he said this. Fucked my head up

  • @clairek8651
    @clairek8651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    Dan’s hair looks like a flower that only blooms once a year at night.

  • @tesshagensieker1700
    @tesshagensieker1700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This discussion is one of my favorites, everyone was more on the central side rather than pro and anti. I love that because that's where most Americans are at

  • @LNibal
    @LNibal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    The trans man handled the opposing side's comments about the pronouns so well. He was so composed and understanding

    • @crystalpyu
      @crystalpyu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      treeko 10k 💀

    • @thumpertx1
      @thumpertx1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      One of the few. Most would have popped off and thrown a fit... atleast the ones I know would have... the guy from San Antonio said it best. For a side that champions tolerance and true diversity, they have no willingness to accept what other people think and believe. For them it is either their way, or you are an evil bigot.

    • @crazynats367
      @crazynats367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @treeko 10k stop trolling. You were in other comments commenting the same yo mama jokes, looking like a clown

    • @helmetboy431
      @helmetboy431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      treeko 10k I love this😂

    • @10NobodyElse
      @10NobodyElse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      treeko 10k I’m genuinely laughing my ass off so loud after reading all these

  • @itseggsie
    @itseggsie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +697

    Dan's hair is straight up out of an anime

    • @zxra6xx821
      @zxra6xx821 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      창연 Clara Park he’s gorgeous

    • @currently7886
      @currently7886 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's racist

    • @shawnhall3849
      @shawnhall3849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      창연 Clara Park
      Looks like he was in a wind tunnel

    • @eliask5217
      @eliask5217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Currently no

    • @currently7886
      @currently7886 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eliask5217
      Anime=Asian
      So it is either cultural appropriation or racism. Because you can't wear something like that, and since he is Asian, it cannot be cultural appropriation, so it must be racist.

  • @maiyatrujillo4248
    @maiyatrujillo4248 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    It was amazing to hear Xavier just casually say "I'm trans". It blows my mind that something that huge can just be a part of your life, that it's completely possible to move on from it and just.... Live your life. It gives me so much hope

  • @nachoursdez5874
    @nachoursdez5874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love when everyone feels confident enough to express their views, especially in a way that's respectful and mindful of other opinions. Don't see enough of this on Middle Ground.