I feel people reject you only when you have rejected parts of yourself by way of doubt. And doubt, much like faith, is illogical. So I feel the point is to start accepting yourself again bit by bit all over again. Colouring books, photography and cooking help me accept myself back again because I like how good I am at these things.
No joke, ten years ago I was hung up on a guy for 9 months. One day I signed and collapsed on my bed as I released the attachment. That moment he messaged.
What Dylan says is true. It works when you’re stable and confident and let go of the attachment. I see people changing their mind so fast in my reality when some undesirable circumstance happens I’m just so confident that idgaf I know I’m worthy and the person will change their mind and they do ! It’s funny 😂 also my ex came after 4 years he was my first love it was very toxic! He came back totally different loving and wanting comittment....it’s like a different person he even wants me to live with him ! Also before I was a lil girl to him and now the first thing he said was that “you’re a bad bitch” in a good way ;) he said he’s so happy I’m back in his life all that sweet stuff!it’s like who is this person lol haha. but I don’t want him. I have my main sp. also every guy wants me. Even famous people are going crazy for me. I took the approach that I’m gonna date other people so it helps me let go I did that and it helped me. But I always made sure I told the person I’m not looking for a relationship (btw they all wanted a relationship with me what never happened in my old sc ) 😄
@@Spoiled_dio_33333 its obvious guys. her commitment with herself and letting go made him come back. she wasn't looking for him but her energy and her stability make people surrounding you realize how precious you are. if you are still asking how to make your SP come back, you are in the needy position. don't ask how. just work on yourself like every dylan video's says and everything is going to happen. you first!
@@ishjyotsingh9991 also i need to add that her ex is not her SP anymore as you can see. don't get confused by the "ex" word, because exes are not Specific persons always.
This morning for the first time I had a thought and I realised how much power we have on our thought. Every morning I've woken up disappointed and looking for a positive "sign", from him, agry for his hot and cold behaviour and feeling unwanted , disappointed and desperate...but then I understood that it's not him (who I know is living hard times himself) but it's be giving power to those negative thought... now I know I can decide not to give power to those negative thoughts any more because it's me and only me to decide it and take a step to another direction. I've probably always been scared of dopping those thoughts of fear and disappointment and gave them power to keep me in a state of depression. Now I know I Have to power over my thoughts...I can have it! Thanks Dylan for your helps!!!❤❤❤
@@christytube1111 you've so sweet to answer me and your story is so alike mine!!I felt the same way when we stayed together for one year we were so in love but tons of times I said it couldn't be possible that something so amazing so like " I had always wanted" had happened to me ... the problem was that he moved for work reasons and we've kept staying in touch and he should have come back but there's always something between and I know that part of this is also my resistence and attachment because in July he told me he wanted to stay with me but wasn't ready to come back to Italy and I cannot move... I'm starting to build my confidence with Dylan's help because I know that everything outside is a projection of something we have inside!!! Let's go on .... and thank you soooo much for your answer... I wanna believe we can get anything we want....we deserve it...why should true love be wasted??? Keep believe and still thank you❤❤
@@christytube1111 Alright - let's buckle you in because my story better shake you up: I have a very similar situation and after 2 months of virtually no contact - save for his birthday message to me (which was beautiful and lovely) in the middle of that 2 month stretch - we are now together and in it to win it. My old story was absurd - I even had 3D reality knocking me in the face with good things but my story was so strong that I would talk myself out of my own worthiness and good fortune. What a waste! Core beliefs can be a real bitch if they aren't good ones. You're doing all the right things and exactly what I did. So take this next month and enjoy it. It's on it's way and relish in the fact that you don't have to do anything but find ways to have fun and feel good. Let your brain go to Disneyland because it's done. I'm already so happy for you because I see your entire comment in myself and it's just the perfect mirror.
@@christytube1111 honestly, I’ve been kinda the same way for the last few weeks! I know I manifested the 3p away from my sp that was there for months, and I manifested him into that situation to begin with which caused us to break up..ive come to terms with all of that at the moment, but lately with her now being single again, it’s honestly been harder on me because she’s told me that she’s not looking for a relationship right now (she’s contradicted that a few times though with her actions), and I’ve been letting my thoughts run my life as a result of those things she’s been saying..it’s been a noticeable change too..I haven’t been my full confident self like I was the last few months, Ive been feeling like I’m having to force convos because I haven’t been confident enough to just be myself, I’ve been waiting for responses, watching her stories more often, and things like that which I know are counterproductive to what I’m trying to manifest back…I think a lot of it has to do with the old story that happened to break us up the first time..even though I keep telling myself that’s in the past, I’ve been having trouble with actually dropping it, and feeling like she will be talking to other guys, and picking them…but that’s been changing over the last few days! I’m starting to detach myself again, and letting it happen..I’ll admit, I got off my routine, and that played a big part in it I’m sure!
5:00 relationship is a friendship with a deep connection and intimacy ✨ Most of us already have what we want but it’s the label and the attachment we have You’re already in one . It’s going in that direction 🙌 6:05 ground yourself in that it’s already happening 6:45 you want to align to the feeling state before you enter what you want 10:50 don’t for a second think you’re doing something wrong. 🙌 you have to believe in yourself and the ability whatever you want NO MATTER WHAT IS PRESENTED TO YOU
My SP basically said I'm too good for him and that he's not ready to be in a relationship because of his mental state rn....he said he does care about me and does have feelings for me tho...but the thing is, I never talked about being in a relationship with him yet, so I guess it's good he's thought of it all on his own
I realised recently how much I'm into the manifestaton and how it might be affecting my results in a bad way. Focusing way too much on finding and trying all the different techniques of manifestation creates exactly that - more finding and trying all the different techniques of manifestation, and it isn't really my goal even if I enjoy it. Another reason to just say it's done and let it go
Less than a week watching you, and I've manifested a free Louis Vuitton pocket organizer wallet and some special edition Oreos. Next up my sp! First working on my new beliefs so I want to say keep up the positive energy and great content it truly helps out!
Your feelings are created from your thoughts, your thoughts are created from your beliefs. What beliefs do you need to change about you and your world to be the version of yourself desired? Dylan has a lot of resources on his channel. If you’re serious about a new life and new results, he’s made it available to you.
When my SP said he didn't want to be in a relationship. Lol I said the same thing as you. "Ok but you know we are already in one right!"....i just told him to chill out and go with the flow. We don't have to make plans let's just enjoy each other.
Everything Dylan says is so true guys! I was dealing with someone for 5 years, once covid happened in 2020 they moved back home which was about 7 hours from me. I felt so insecure and was so attached because they were so far from me. That person ended up ghosting me and acting so cold to me. This happened in April. September was when I finally started to let go of the situation and stop thinking so negatively. Fast forward to yesterday, I received a text message from them apologizing and taking the blame from how they acting. They said they were praying for me and wish me success in life. The relationship was very toxic but I was really excited to see that they actually took the time to apologize to me. I am now trusting that we will start a loving, harmonious relationship together ❤️ do the work you guys. Let go and believe
How to let go? I find I am needing to let go of an unrequited love. I really, really like a colleague of mine. Been a very long time since I have felt this way for a woman. I thought she may have feelings for me or at least be open to it. She said she doesn’t have feelings for me or anyone. She is only interested in having a friendship with me. How do I let go of her or the potential intimate relationship I wish I had?
How long did it take for you to see change from the tapes? Im 5 weeks in and I can’t say im seeing positive change… no more than I did before I started the tape , by just doing daily long meditations… I don’t doubt it works but it’s def taking longer than it seems to take for most folks on here…? Any advice?
@@gabegonzales1386 honestly I was the same but I realized that I was still attached to the person. You literally have to let go of the desire of the outcome and trust that it’s going to come back to you.
@@jed88 it’s a mind thing. I suggest reading “The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle, I’m only on chapter 4 but I have learned so much on how to control my mind. Once you get your mind controlled everything will fall into place
So my SP came back to me 5 months ago and we’ve been talking everyday since yesterday… he told me that he don’t want to be in a relationship with me and that it’s better if we take some time apart (he also said “maybe I will regret this in the future” and I was like.. “of course you will, I’m the best you can get)… But you know I said that it’s okay. I want to be in a relationship with him it’s just that he needs to understand what he really wants… but for now, I got to move on, let this thing go, let him go and focus on me with the knowing that he will come back again with clearer intentions. I’m so sure about this… but for now, I don’t care and I don’t need to… I will get what I want but now I just have to put the focus on me and let the attachement go!
@@bethy1979 Hi sweetie!!! Yes of course I have a very big update! And guess what? we're together now, we are officially a couple and we are back together! First of all, when I let go the fact that He didn't want a relationship with me, He came back the day after🤣 so he knew what he was going to lose! That's why back in January we decided (or even better, he told me "I love you" for the first time) to get back together and try to be better people and give us another chance to be better! I am so happy with him and now, whenever there is a problem we try to speak and understand each other! And I found out something amazing... while we were apart he tried to know other people, he talked with other girls but he told me "I couldn't even hang out with them because I couldn't stop thinking about You, You were always on my mind and I realized that nobody was like You!! ((of course baby😂🤪)) so I decided to go back to You and be the guy you have always looking for" So baby, Imma tell you.. BELIEVE AND LIVE WITH CONFIDENCE!! YOU. CAN. GET. WHAT. YOU. WANT.!!! be patient and enjoy the show! believe in the fact that nobody except from you, can link with your person! your connection with him/her is unique! love yourself always! and when they see you shining, they always miss your beautiful light, trust me!! lot of love... very good luck❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I needed this video because this am I got up happy feeling free but a party of me did feel sad because I said “ I give up”. I lost my sp again he is ignoring me and I am exhausted. I am amazing and deserving of an amazing person love and consistency .. I won’t give up .. I won’t give up on ME or us!! Tightening up my boot straps on my Beliefs. That man is my husband and loves and sees me and only me damn it!!!
Dylan you are glowing ❤️ 😊 You always give me confidence and boost... You really changed my life. Thank you. I got my SP back in my life and more deeper loving connection.
@Audrina, follow Dylan's advise try to listen the Limitless affirmation when you are sleeping. I normally listen to the Limitless Love every night. Then when I wake up in the morning I do my breath work and meditation and work out before I go on my day. When I started last July 18, I watched Dylan's video everyday that time but right now I watch it sometimes. If I feel not okay in a day I played Dylan's affirmation during the day just to stabilize myself. Just keep on persisting. You'll get there eventually. My life totally changed from the very day I watched Dylan's video.
Dylan!! My book was supposed to come next week and I thought nah..I want it today. Boom! Got the notification my book came in today! I want it, I got it.
Hey dylan I made the best coffee today 😋 i was so depressed before where i couldn't even enjoy my coffee it was more i need a coffee instead i wanted it and i made it perfectly. Sounds silly maybe but it was so good i wish i could share it with everyone because i felt so good and happy 😊
Defintely not silly!! I look forward to my coffee every morning! 😊 If it makes you happy, thats the most important part! How do you make your coffee? ☺
You’re honesty the best on TH-cam in this topic area. Its so obvious that you genuinely care about us and want us to be living our confident dream lives! I love everything you’ve taught me, it’s life changing ❤️❤️ thank you Dylan!
Dylan, your videos are more effective than any therapy session because you explain these complicated situations so thoroughly along with providing more realistic solutions. You make things make so much more sense and a little easier to deal with. Thank you Dylan!🙏💗
My SP told me she didn't want to be in a relationship with me. Even though we were lovers for months and had wonderful times together. I reacted negatively and harshly driving her away. This all stems from abandonment issues. I am working on my self concept now to have her back in my life and end up in a loving, committed relationship with her
I wish I would have met you months ago ...to avoid creating that relationship mess! Anyway, loads of lesson and finally I am here!! Creating my amazing life and love story!! Thank You!!❤💓❤💓
I only use/ view youtube of all social media. I just prefer to use my time on one outlet rather than multiple sites...otherwise I'd never get anything done. Don't know if others can relate.
I don't think I would be able to accept behavior like bread crumbing, intermittent reinforcement, lack of communication, player tendencies (which is all rejection to me). For ex: "ok" I'll settle because I know you will be everything I want... because I said so!!! Instead, what I feel needs to happen is that I need to change my "picker" so I can attract someone better from the start. The solution seems to be that I change myself so I don't fall into shitty situations in the first place. Once I do that, I will no longer want these types of men. Looking forward to your sleep videos... That is step 1 for me!! Thank you :)
I’ve been watching your videos since 2pm. I put my phone on DND because I was constantly checking my phone for his texts. I checked my phone at 5pm and what do you know…he texted me at 3pm. This was sort 3 days of not talking. Then when I had my phone on DND I went to drop my daughter off at school for an event and as she walked up she was greeted by a group of 7 friends that all yelled her name and hugged her. This was a reminder that i manifested this exact moment for her early this year before she started public high school after homeschooling since elementary. I manifested a friend group that would accept her. These kids are a copy paste of her 😂😂. Manifesting works.
Oh I’m def that person hahah. I fill my days up and i feel great and not even thinking my person isn’t around. But then I do stop and wonder “we’ll why haven’t I heard from him” and then I start to let the doubts creep in he’ll even be back since we dated for such a short time and we haven’t spoke in over 2 weeks after he said he’s not ready for a relationship. So thanks for giving me the slap of reality I needed 😎
Ya but I can’t keep talking to them after a no. Because then the hot and cold continues. They keep thinking that I’m still available and I will do all the heavy lifting
Same! And not only he rejected me for the nth time, I also lost my tutoring job because I made the mistake by helping my student in an exercise for school (I shouldn't). For both I'm like "Ok whatever 😎". I'm gonna persist and find a better job and let him miss me because Im not accepting zero effort anymore
Thank you Dylan for making this video, even if you didn't see my specific comment, I really needed this. "A friendship is a relationship, you're are already in the relationship" PERFECT 💫
i've been doing the tapes like for a week and its incredible how the mind resist the change thinking about how its possible to believe in something you cannot see and the rational mind tries to boycott your growing. but i have to say that i've been feeling different. I have extreme sensitive ears so i can't listen the whole tape for all night long, but i do listen to it in a sleepy state trying to go into the deep sleep and that has been working a lot. i've been having some interesting dreams and feelings in the morning. just keeping the hard work to install the new beliefs in my system. Also the tapes and the feelings involved are making me question myself if i really want my SP back. thats amazing because i feel that even if i love her so much, im detaching myself from the needy feelings and im wanting my peace first
When I forget my self-concept just listen to 11:32 to 11:42 to remind me of the "Big Dylan 5!" And memorize so I can whip em out on command just like Daddy Dylan lolllllllll
Hey Dylan.. Kisses from the other side of the planet ! This is Seb from Brittany, France. It's 7:30am over here. It is so great waking up to find you talking live on here after a whole night of you wispering affirmations into my ears 😀❣️💐🌻
Hey trop cool de voir qu’on est quelques français ! Si vous êtes up pour monter une petite communauté d’entraide pour manifester entre frenchies je suis mega partante !
Dylan as you said once everything is a mirror, so if I forgive myself for a mistake I've done in the past in terms of my SP, does that mean my SP will forgive me as well?
When you change your self concept its irrelevant what you did in the past. Your sp is mirror of your relationship with yourself. You need to drop the focus on the circumstances. Also drop the focus on him since you’re still coming from fear doubt worry self concept. It doesn’t matter what you did or your sp did in the past.
I experienced something so beautiful. It was like lightning when we first saw each other, it was so different than anything else I’d experienced, a following of destiny. He has disappeared from my life and my therapist says he’s just not the right one, once again. I almost feel like I shouldn’t talk to my therapist while on this path, that I have to protect it and me from him, because his limiting beliefs bring me down. I’m glad I found you but I wish it had been before he disappeared from my life because I’ve been doing this for 3 weeks now, listening here, not letting myself get sucked into despair, but when I stop and think, especially when I’m vulnerable in the middle of the night, I realize he’s just gone, like everybody else I’ve lost. No amount of believing is going to let me have him back. I thought he was the catalyst for complete change in me but I’m just going to have to let him fade from my life, just like all the others. Feeling very thrown off the path and trying not to give up.
One "funny" thing for me that I just discovered is that I have been manifesting my SP for like 8 months now. I was in another relationship when I started to manifest, and my SP is still in hes relationship. Anyway I was thinking all the time "why isn't he leaving hes relationship? Why isn't he with me? Bla bla bla". But now I realize its not up tp him, its up to me when hes suppose to leave is relationship. I realize I'm not even ready for my SP, I don't wanna be with my SP right now, Im not ready for relationship. And I have been walking around for long time wondering "when is mu SP gonna commit to me". Oh lord. I know its done, my SP is ready when Im. LOL. Thank you Dylan for all help you giving me
Can you please have a video essentially focusing on “break ups”? And how to overcome it? And take back your power… and have your Ex or Sp to get back together… Because let’s face it, it’s kinda hard to jump from video to video from different coaches perspective just to get a clear answer to this topic… That’s where manifestation becomes so hard to follow if you watch tons of videos finding answers how to feel better and what to do if you’re in such break up scenario… Thank you in advance.. love you 😘
Hi! I think i can help with this question as i have been in this position. I know it's hard to jump from video to video and endlessly scroll but stick with Dylan's advice. Become stable within yourself and commit to loving and being the best version of yourself. Watch dylan's older videos as he says manifesting isn't a trying process.
I think the biggest thing getting in my way of feeling it real is my insecurity that this is working. It’s hard for me to believe my SP will conform. It also doesn’t help that I’m heartbroken. I’m not wondering when it will happen because I’m fine with waiting, I just need to know it’s working and WILL happen lol.
I hope you are having a wonderful holiday, Dylan! You have tremendously helped me to be centered and emotionally mature no matter what happens. I no longer feel like I am just meandering through life. Thank you for sharing your gift!
Can you plz make more rejection videos? All my friends say never take a guy back if he rejected you in the past even if it is years later ... because you will always feel like second choice
Hey there Dylan, thank you for all the great advice on your videos. It's been a little hard for me though. I care for my elderly mother full time without the help of my siblings, it's just getting a little too overwhelming for me taking care of my mother on my own. My mom has dementia, high blood pressure, kidney failure and so many other things. I've just been feeling a little depressed lately because I just can't the kind of help I need to take care of my mother financially. It's getting so hard lately! I just feel like my life is in chaos. I don't know how to change the circumstances where I can have the financial means to take care of my mother full time, maybe find a partner, have lots of love and attract money into my life. I'm sorry but I've just been feeling a little burned out by taking care of my mother. My siblings always had a choice, they always walked away. Thats what they did when my dad was sick and I took care of him and now I'm caring for our mother. I have no ill regard for my siblings or my family, I've forgiven them. I just want to be able to have the ability to serve and take care of my mother financially. Thank You! God Bless!
Ayeeee. 3 hrs after I just see this video and I feel so happy to see you (you truly feel like a friend who has one back!) and I Luuuuvv Sunrises (sunsets!) and your sweater funnily enough states so, it’s life! Hah
Hi dylan please make a video on this. I read a facebook story that a wife left the husband when he was diagnosed with stage 4 illness. he she was supportive of him and comforted him in the beginning, but finally left telling him " i am too young to be with someone sick". he recovered anyways but was deeply depressed and his mother said she was not worthy of him and he tried to think that way to make peace with life. So my question is was it his limiting belief that let her go away and should he focus on self concept and get her back? and is she not to blame? it is just a humble doubt. So can you make a video regarding this topic when to give up and find someone else or should we never give up on the ones we love even in this case. Please clarify this topic through a video. Thank you Dylan.
I loved this presentation. Great motivator to refer back to. So much valuable information in this one. This will go in my top reference videos from you. Thank You 🙏🏻💖💖
Hey dylan I love your videos I just started watching them like 3 days ago! And it helped me a lot. Can you please make a video on how to get ride of a third party especially when you've seen them together in front of you? It's like the picture doesn't want to be erased of my mind even though I tried so hard to do it. and this is blocking my manifestations I think. :(
I kinda understand how affirmations and being in the state helps manifesting relations stuff bcoz the neediness,or victim mentality gives off the vibe and naturally repels people (even if you wanna look at it in a logical perspective and not in terms of "manifesting and LOA") But does this stuff also work incase we are trying to manifest acceptance to university with computer generated results of exams or if people are in No contact. does it still manifest ?
My SP today rejected any idea of feelings towards me or any relationship for 3 time. I tried to let him go and erase him for more than 2 years but he is lile a mushroom. We were fwb 2 years ago. I know he is attracted, he said he is obssesed but he does not give what I truly desire even thought I appreciate him. I immediatly went to affirmation mode "I am lovable", "Everything is working for my sake", "everything turns out to be better". I thought about just being casual but I know that I will feel used and wprse so I can't compromise my worth like this. I am confused as what to do coz internally I want to give up.
@@anjalipandey8454 I gave on him, but we did met recently. He kept his promise about book, bought wine and was gentle, but from that day we don't speak again 😂 I don't mind. This year I am focusing on being my best version and enjoying my life what I am doing ^^ SP is not a priority or on my list anymore
Your teachings are always very very perfect....I would also love to hear about manifesting sp from long distance because no one can explain things like you....hopefully you will and thank you for everything
I’m new to your channel. I broke up with him & im still in love with him. We were boyfriend & girlfriend been together 5 months. He told this girl at this shop a few weeks ago that I was his friend and I found out he was messaging women on Instagram I pulled back from him. Then 3 weeks ago we apologized to each other but I couldn’t get over the situation. He’s skitzo & bi polar. I finally ended it 2 days ago. But I still want him smh. Help 😢
Build yourself up, sweetie. check out some of the other content on my channel, I would really look into some nervous system regulation and shifting some beliefs. Get selfish and focus on you.
If my sp will take too long to show up yes i prefer "distract" myself. Like going to the restaurant hungry and be impatient for the main course... My sp is the main course all the other are appetizers that kill the waiting 😂
My SP told me twice he's not getting married, now he bought me a ring and we are engaged ☺🤗
Wow. Congrats. That's beautiful.
Perioooodddddd 💍
Congratulations 🎉 you deserve that and more
how did you do this? my bf’s parents are not accepting of us and our marriage bc of caste difference and society etc they’re backward minded
Yaasss!!!!! Get it!!!! ❤️
I feel people reject you only when you have rejected parts of yourself by way of doubt. And doubt, much like faith, is illogical. So I feel the point is to start accepting yourself again bit by bit all over again. Colouring books, photography and cooking help me accept myself back again because I like how good I am at these things.
That's very sweet
This is very true
No joke, ten years ago I was hung up on a guy for 9 months. One day I signed and collapsed on my bed as I released the attachment. That moment he messaged.
how are all us winners doing today!? 👑👑👑
I got insecure so idk … I just remove all social media and I instantly feel better I don’t think social media has ever been like the best for me.
What Dylan says is true. It works when you’re stable and confident and let go of the attachment. I see people changing their mind so fast in my reality when some undesirable circumstance happens I’m just so confident that idgaf I know I’m worthy and the person will change their mind and they do ! It’s funny 😂 also my ex came after 4 years he was my first love it was very toxic! He came back totally different loving and wanting comittment....it’s like a different person he even wants me to live with him ! Also before I was a lil girl to him and now the first thing he said was that “you’re a bad bitch” in a good way ;) he said he’s so happy I’m back in his life all that sweet stuff!it’s like who is this person lol haha. but I don’t want him. I have my main sp. also every guy wants me. Even famous people are going crazy for me. I took the approach that I’m gonna date other people so it helps me let go I did that and it helped me. But I always made sure I told the person I’m not looking for a relationship (btw they all wanted a relationship with me what never happened in my old sc ) 😄
How did you make your SP come back?
@@Spoiled_dio_33333 its obvious guys. her commitment with herself and letting go made him come back. she wasn't looking for him but her energy and her stability make people surrounding you realize how precious you are. if you are still asking how to make your SP come back, you are in the needy position. don't ask how. just work on yourself like every dylan video's says and everything is going to happen. you first!
@@reiherreracl3459 Very well said👍👍
@@ishjyotsingh9991 also i need to add that her ex is not her SP anymore as you can see. don't get confused by the "ex" word, because exes are not Specific persons always.
@@reiherreracl3459 it works for me with everyone not just with this one ex :) and you said it perfectly. You need to focus on yourself and let go.
This morning for the first time I had a thought and I realised how much power we have on our thought. Every morning I've woken up disappointed and looking for a positive "sign", from him, agry for his hot and cold behaviour and feeling unwanted , disappointed and desperate...but then I understood that it's not him (who I know is living hard times himself) but it's be giving power to those negative thought... now I know I can decide not to give power to those negative thoughts any more because it's me and only me to decide it and take a step to another direction. I've probably always been scared of dopping those thoughts of fear and disappointment and gave them power to keep me in a state of depression. Now I know I Have to power over my thoughts...I can have it! Thanks Dylan for your helps!!!❤❤❤
Good for you, honey! Awesome that you recognize and what you want to change. Get it!
Yaaasss!!
@@christytube1111 you've so sweet to answer me and your story is so alike mine!!I felt the same way when we stayed together for one year we were so in love but tons of times I said it couldn't be possible that something so amazing so like " I had always wanted" had happened to me ... the problem was that he moved for work reasons and we've kept staying in touch and he should have come back but there's always something between and I know that part of this is also my resistence and attachment because in July he told me he wanted to stay with me but wasn't ready to come back to Italy and I cannot move... I'm starting to build my confidence with Dylan's help because I know that everything outside is a projection of something we have inside!!! Let's go on .... and thank you soooo much for your answer... I wanna believe we can get anything we want....we deserve it...why should true love be wasted???
Keep believe and still thank you❤❤
@@christytube1111 Alright - let's buckle you in because my story better shake you up: I have a very similar situation and after 2 months of virtually no contact - save for his birthday message to me (which was beautiful and lovely) in the middle of that 2 month stretch - we are now together and in it to win it. My old story was absurd - I even had 3D reality knocking me in the face with good things but my story was so strong that I would talk myself out of my own worthiness and good fortune. What a waste! Core beliefs can be a real bitch if they aren't good ones. You're doing all the right things and exactly what I did. So take this next month and enjoy it. It's on it's way and relish in the fact that you don't have to do anything but find ways to have fun and feel good. Let your brain go to Disneyland because it's done. I'm already so happy for you because I see your entire comment in myself and it's just the perfect mirror.
@@christytube1111 honestly, I’ve been kinda the same way for the last few weeks! I know I manifested the 3p away from my sp that was there for months, and I manifested him into that situation to begin with which caused us to break up..ive come to terms with all of that at the moment, but lately with her now being single again, it’s honestly been harder on me because she’s told me that she’s not looking for a relationship right now (she’s contradicted that a few times though with her actions), and I’ve been letting my thoughts run my life as a result of those things she’s been saying..it’s been a noticeable change too..I haven’t been my full confident self like I was the last few months, Ive been feeling like I’m having to force convos because I haven’t been confident enough to just be myself, I’ve been waiting for responses, watching her stories more often, and things like that which I know are counterproductive to what I’m trying to manifest back…I think a lot of it has to do with the old story that happened to break us up the first time..even though I keep telling myself that’s in the past, I’ve been having trouble with actually dropping it, and feeling like she will be talking to other guys, and picking them…but that’s been changing over the last few days! I’m starting to detach myself again, and letting it happen..I’ll admit, I got off my routine, and that played a big part in it I’m sure!
“i break up with you..“
“mhh, nope.“
- “ok. Whats for dinner?“
Love this🤣❤
5:00 relationship is a friendship with a deep connection and intimacy ✨
Most of us already have what we want but it’s the label and the attachment we have
You’re already in one . It’s going in that direction 🙌
6:05 ground yourself in that it’s already happening
6:45 you want to align to the feeling state before you enter what you want
10:50 don’t for a second think you’re doing something wrong. 🙌 you have to believe in yourself and the ability whatever you want NO MATTER WHAT IS PRESENTED TO YOU
Why do I blush when he says intimate tf
My SP basically said I'm too good for him and that he's not ready to be in a relationship because of his mental state rn....he said he does care about me and does have feelings for me tho...but the thing is, I never talked about being in a relationship with him yet, so I guess it's good he's thought of it all on his own
I realised recently how much I'm into the manifestaton and how it might be affecting my results in a bad way. Focusing way too much on finding and trying all the different techniques of manifestation creates exactly that - more finding and trying all the different techniques of manifestation, and it isn't really my goal even if I enjoy it. Another reason to just say it's done and let it go
Less than a week watching you, and I've manifested a free Louis Vuitton pocket organizer wallet and some special edition Oreos. Next up my sp! First working on my new beliefs so I want to say keep up the positive energy and great content it truly helps out!
This has to be the funniest comment I have ever seen in my life 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is perfect. I’m PMSing so these mood swings are making me overthink and get emotional about dumb shit
Your feelings are created from your thoughts, your thoughts are created from your beliefs. What beliefs do you need to change about you and your world to be the version of yourself desired? Dylan has a lot of resources on his channel. If you’re serious about a new life and new results, he’s made it available to you.
Is : she doesn’t love me and it will newer work out a belief or a thought ?
@@jadonmuller1576 both
When my SP said he didn't want to be in a relationship. Lol I said the same thing as you. "Ok but you know we are already in one right!"....i just told him to chill out and go with the flow. We don't have to make plans let's just enjoy each other.
Never where is it. Always I AM IT.
Everything Dylan says is so true guys! I was dealing with someone for 5 years, once covid happened in 2020 they moved back home which was about 7 hours from me. I felt so insecure and was so attached because they were so far from me. That person ended up ghosting me and acting so cold to me. This happened in April. September was when I finally started to let go of the situation and stop thinking so negatively. Fast forward to yesterday, I received a text message from them apologizing and taking the blame from how they acting. They said they were praying for me and wish me success in life. The relationship was very toxic but I was really excited to see that they actually took the time to apologize to me. I am now trusting that we will start a loving, harmonious relationship together ❤️ do the work you guys. Let go and believe
How to let go? I find I am needing to let go of an unrequited love. I really, really like a colleague of mine. Been a very long time since I have felt this way for a woman. I thought she may have feelings for me or at least be open to it. She said she doesn’t have feelings for me or anyone. She is only interested in having a friendship with me. How do I let go of her or the potential intimate relationship I wish I had?
Know that you are worth it first…if you knew you were worth it, she wouldn’t be able to deny you
How long did it take for you to see change from the tapes? Im 5 weeks in and I can’t say im seeing positive change… no more than I did before I started the tape , by just doing daily long meditations… I don’t doubt it works but it’s def taking longer than it seems to take for most folks on here…? Any advice?
@@gabegonzales1386 honestly I was the same but I realized that I was still attached to the person. You literally have to let go of the desire of the outcome and trust that it’s going to come back to you.
@@jed88 it’s a mind thing. I suggest reading “The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle, I’m only on chapter 4 but I have learned so much on how to control my mind. Once you get your mind controlled everything will fall into place
So my SP came back to me 5 months ago and we’ve been talking everyday since yesterday… he told me that he don’t want to be in a relationship with me and that it’s better if we take some time apart (he also said “maybe I will regret this in the future” and I was like.. “of course you will, I’m the best you can get)… But you know I said that it’s okay. I want to be in a relationship with him it’s just that he needs to understand what he really wants… but for now, I got to move on, let this thing go, let him go and focus on me with the knowing that he will come back again with clearer intentions. I’m so sure about this… but for now, I don’t care and I don’t need to… I will get what I want but now I just have to put the focus on me and let the attachement go!
Any update?
@@bethy1979 Hi sweetie!!! Yes of course I have a very big update! And guess what? we're together now, we are officially a couple and we are back together!
First of all, when I let go the fact that He didn't want a relationship with me, He came back the day after🤣 so he knew what he was going to lose! That's why back in January we decided (or even better, he told me "I love you" for the first time) to get back together and try to be better people and give us another chance to be better! I am so happy with him and now, whenever there is a problem we try to speak and understand each other!
And I found out something amazing... while we were apart he tried to know other people, he talked with other girls but he told me "I couldn't even hang out with them because I couldn't stop thinking about You, You were always on my mind and I realized that nobody was like You!! ((of course baby😂🤪)) so I decided to go back to You and be the guy you have always looking for"
So baby, Imma tell you.. BELIEVE AND LIVE WITH CONFIDENCE!! YOU. CAN. GET. WHAT. YOU. WANT.!!! be patient and enjoy the show! believe in the fact that nobody except from you, can link with your person! your connection with him/her is unique! love yourself always!
and when they see you shining, they always miss your beautiful light, trust me!!
lot of love... very good luck❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
? Hope it went well.
You look so good! You’re glowing
Yeah i noticed that too
I needed this video because this am I got up happy feeling free but a party of me did feel sad because I said “ I give up”. I lost my sp again he is ignoring me and I am exhausted. I am amazing and deserving of an amazing person love and consistency .. I won’t give up .. I won’t give up on ME or us!! Tightening up my boot straps on my
Beliefs. That man is my husband and loves and sees me and only me damn it!!!
YESSS
Any update?
Dylan you are glowing ❤️ 😊 You always give me confidence and boost... You really changed my life. Thank you. I got my SP back in my life and more deeper loving connection.
How did you drop the old story? Im really hurt by mine and struggling to let it go and not feel so angry and hurt
@Audrina, follow Dylan's advise try to listen the Limitless affirmation when you are sleeping. I normally listen to the Limitless Love every night. Then when I wake up in the morning I do my breath work and meditation and work out before I go on my day. When I started last July 18, I watched Dylan's video everyday that time but right now I watch it sometimes. If I feel not okay in a day I played Dylan's affirmation during the day just to stabilize myself. Just keep on persisting. You'll get there eventually. My life totally changed from the very day I watched Dylan's video.
Lips all shinin' mwah! :)
@@maedegracia404 thank you
Dylan!! My book was supposed to come next week and I thought nah..I want it today. Boom! Got the notification my book came in today! I want it, I got it.
Yayy gurll. Keep manifesting !!
Hey dylan I made the best coffee today 😋 i was so depressed before where i couldn't even enjoy my coffee it was more i need a coffee instead i wanted it and i made it perfectly. Sounds silly maybe but it was so good i wish i could share it with everyone because i felt so good and happy 😊
You go girl.
A good cup of coffee really makes me happy too😌☕ cheers
Proud of youuu xx
Defintely not silly!! I look forward to my coffee every morning! 😊 If it makes you happy, thats the most important part! How do you make your coffee? ☺
Ya yep, that’s exactly where we need to start, with the little stuff! Enjoying those first prepared us for what’s coming in physical form
I am knowing trusting and believing RIGHT now that I AM GETTING WHAT I WANT PERIOD IF I WANT IT I GOT IT ITS done!!! 💪🏼
4:03 it certainly doesn’t help that the general idea around this is that other coaches say it’s because you’re doing something wrong.
You are literally GLOWING Dylan! Obsessed with your content! 😍
You’re honesty the best on TH-cam in this topic area. Its so obvious that you genuinely care about us and want us to be living our confident dream lives! I love everything you’ve taught me, it’s life changing ❤️❤️ thank you Dylan!
Dylan, your videos are more effective than any therapy session because you explain these complicated situations so thoroughly along with providing more realistic solutions. You make things make so much more sense and a little easier to deal with.
Thank you Dylan!🙏💗
My SP told me she didn't want to be in a relationship with me. Even though we were lovers for months and had wonderful times together. I reacted negatively and harshly driving her away. This all stems from abandonment issues. I am working on my self concept now to have her back in my life and end up in a loving, committed relationship with her
any updates?
I wish I would have met you months ago ...to avoid creating that relationship mess! Anyway, loads of lesson and finally I am here!! Creating my amazing life and love story!! Thank You!!❤💓❤💓
I only use/ view youtube of all social media.
I just prefer to use my time on one outlet rather than multiple sites...otherwise I'd never get anything done.
Don't know if others can relate.
I don't think I would be able to accept behavior like bread crumbing, intermittent reinforcement, lack of communication, player tendencies (which is all rejection to me). For ex: "ok" I'll settle because I know you will be everything I want... because I said so!!! Instead, what I feel needs to happen is that I need to change my "picker" so I can attract someone better from the start. The solution seems to be that I change myself so I don't fall into shitty situations in the first place. Once I do that, I will no longer want these types of men. Looking forward to your sleep videos... That is step 1 for me!! Thank you :)
Manifesting lots of effortless money and consistent happiness in my relationship!!
I’ve been watching your videos since 2pm. I put my phone on DND because I was constantly checking my phone for his texts. I checked my phone at 5pm and what do you know…he texted me at 3pm. This was sort 3 days of not talking. Then when I had my phone on DND I went to drop my daughter off at school for an event and as she walked up she was greeted by a group of 7 friends that all yelled her name and hugged her. This was a reminder that i manifested this exact moment for her early this year before she started public high school after homeschooling since elementary. I manifested a friend group that would accept her. These kids are a copy paste of her 😂😂. Manifesting works.
Stability is SOOOO KEY
Oh I’m def that person hahah. I fill my days up and i feel great and not even thinking my person isn’t around. But then I do stop and wonder “we’ll why haven’t I heard from him” and then I start to let the doubts creep in he’ll even be back since we dated for such a short time and we haven’t spoke in over 2 weeks after he said he’s not ready for a relationship. So thanks for giving me the slap of reality I needed 😎
Ya but I can’t keep talking to them after a no. Because then the hot and cold continues. They keep thinking that I’m still available and I will do all the heavy lifting
Hahahaha, you posted this at the exact time I got rejected. Then you said, "We're going to turn this around." This is amazing!
Same! And not only he rejected me for the nth time, I also lost my tutoring job because I made the mistake by helping my student in an exercise for school (I shouldn't). For both I'm like "Ok whatever 😎". I'm gonna persist and find a better job and let him miss me because Im not accepting zero effort anymore
It's hard to believe when someone doesn't want you in his lif at all.
"all you can get is million no's, but one yes" i love this
Thank you Dylan for making this video, even if you didn't see my specific comment, I really needed this.
"A friendship is a relationship, you're are already in the relationship" PERFECT 💫
This video makes me go harder on my self-concept and stabilizing my state of being!!!! Thank you Dylan for your free help!! 💖💗🌸💘💜🙏🏽
Vibration precedes manifestation 🗝✨
It's the 22:22 minute video for meeeee!!!!! 222 is following me HARD AF lol but love the video!
i saw that 👀
i've been doing the tapes like for a week and its incredible how the mind resist the change thinking about how its possible to believe in something you cannot see and the rational mind tries to boycott your growing. but i have to say that i've been feeling different. I have extreme sensitive ears so i can't listen the whole tape for all night long, but i do listen to it in a sleepy state trying to go into the deep sleep and that has been working a lot. i've been having some interesting dreams and feelings in the morning. just keeping the hard work to install the new beliefs in my system. Also the tapes and the feelings involved are making me question myself if i really want my SP back. thats amazing because i feel that even if i love her so much, im detaching myself from the needy feelings and im wanting my peace first
When I forget my self-concept just listen to 11:32 to 11:42 to remind me of the "Big Dylan 5!" And memorize so I can whip em out on command just like Daddy Dylan lolllllllll
Hey Dylan.. Kisses from the other side of the planet ! This is Seb from Brittany, France. It's 7:30am over here. It is so great waking up to find you talking live on here after a whole night of you wispering affirmations into my ears 😀❣️💐🌻
Things are completely reorganizing and rearranging themselves around me here... I'm loving every bit of the process ❤️🌻💐❣️🤪😘😘😘
Salut de Dordogne 😂☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️✨✨✨
Incredible! I lived there for one year, and I loved it! Great people, and ocean🌊😍 bonne journée !
@@spruumee8067 visit South West of France is gorgeous too. 😍🌍
Hey trop cool de voir qu’on est quelques français ! Si vous êtes up pour monter une petite communauté d’entraide pour manifester entre frenchies je suis mega partante !
Don’t get intimidated by the challenges
An internal shift, got it ✨
I actually told a guy on bumble and he said I’m here for casual when you are up for it 😉😹
Dylan as you said once everything is a mirror, so if I forgive myself for a mistake I've done in the past in terms of my SP, does that mean my SP will forgive me as well?
Yes
When you change your self concept its irrelevant what you did in the past. Your sp is mirror of your relationship with yourself. You need to drop the focus on the circumstances. Also drop the focus on him since you’re still coming from fear doubt worry self concept. It doesn’t matter what you did or your sp did in the past.
Dylan you always come at the right time in my life. You are the best friend I always needed. Really wish I can hug you. I have tears of joy!
#ItsDone
I do have this feeling with him sometimes too❤
Nops ... I love him and only him and his no doesn't matter ... I love u coach sir ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Actually, the thing is IF I'M NOT OKAY WITH IT, ITS NOT HAPPENING ANYMORE....IN ANY REALITY..ITS JUST NOT THERE. 😌🦋
You are helping so many people REALLY helping us ❤️
That last part really hit home!!
You are glowing
Lovely as always🥰 Thanks Dylan. Today it’s my birthday 🥳 hope u wish me luck and happiness with my sp. 🙌🏻
Happy birthday ! All the best with your SP! 💫
Mine too! Good luck and happy birthday!
Happy Birthday 🎁
@@lillianchen7239 Thanks a lot!
@@DarshanaMo thanks 😊 and happy Birthday to you too 😘
I experienced something so beautiful. It was like lightning when we first saw each other, it was so different than anything else I’d experienced, a following of destiny. He has disappeared from my life and my therapist says he’s just not the right one, once again. I almost feel like I shouldn’t talk to my therapist while on this path, that I have to protect it and me from him, because his limiting beliefs bring me down. I’m glad I found you but I wish it had been before he disappeared from my life because I’ve been doing this for 3 weeks now, listening here, not letting myself get sucked into despair, but when I stop and think, especially when I’m vulnerable in the middle of the night, I realize he’s just gone, like everybody else I’ve lost. No amount of believing is going to let me have him back. I thought he was the catalyst for complete change in me but I’m just going to have to let him fade from my life, just like all the others. Feeling very thrown off the path and trying not to give up.
The minute I felt I completely had him i lost him
One "funny" thing for me that I just discovered is that I have been manifesting my SP for like 8 months now.
I was in another relationship when I started to manifest, and my SP is still in hes relationship. Anyway I was thinking all the time "why isn't he leaving hes relationship? Why isn't he with me? Bla bla bla". But now I realize its not up tp him, its up to me when hes suppose to leave is relationship. I realize I'm not even ready for my SP, I don't wanna be with my SP right now, Im not ready for relationship. And I have been walking around for long time wondering "when is mu SP gonna commit to me". Oh lord. I know its done, my SP is ready when Im. LOL. Thank you Dylan for all help you giving me
When do you open coaching session booking?
Can you please have a video essentially focusing on “break ups”? And how to overcome it? And take back your power… and have your Ex or Sp to get back together…
Because let’s face it, it’s kinda hard to jump from video to video from different coaches perspective just to get a clear answer to this topic…
That’s where manifestation becomes so hard to follow if you watch tons of videos finding answers how to feel better and what to do if you’re in such break up scenario…
Thank you in advance.. love you 😘
Hi! I think i can help with this question as i have been in this position. I know it's hard to jump from video to video and endlessly scroll but stick with Dylan's advice. Become stable within yourself and commit to loving and being the best version of yourself. Watch dylan's older videos as he says manifesting isn't a trying process.
Sunrise club gang gang!! 💙 🌞 ☀️
Seeing a video alert from Dylan James made my night!! 💫✌🏼
I think the biggest thing getting in my way of feeling it real is my insecurity that this is working. It’s hard for me to believe my SP will conform. It also doesn’t help that I’m heartbroken. I’m not wondering when it will happen because I’m fine with waiting, I just need to know it’s working and WILL happen lol.
Deal with the heartbreak first love
How th is Dylan aging backwards.... i've gotta hit the gym!
I hope you are having a wonderful holiday, Dylan! You have tremendously helped me to be centered and emotionally mature no matter what happens. I no longer feel like I am just meandering through life. Thank you for sharing your gift!
You are really different from the rest... Great content most of the time..Love from Sri Lanka 🙏
Can you plz make more rejection videos? All my friends say never take a guy back if he rejected you in the past even if it is years later ... because you will always feel like second choice
I’m good by myself I’m happier than a guy ❤️
“Some sass in it” lol love it! Thanks, Dylan
Hey there Dylan, thank you for all the great advice on your videos. It's been a little hard for me though. I care for my elderly mother full time without the help of my siblings, it's just getting a little too overwhelming for me taking care of my mother on my own. My mom has dementia, high blood pressure, kidney failure and so many other things. I've just been feeling a little depressed lately because I just can't the kind of help I need to take care of my mother financially. It's getting so hard lately! I just feel like my life is in chaos. I don't know how to change the circumstances where I can have the financial means to take care of my mother full time, maybe find a partner, have lots of love and attract money into my life. I'm sorry but I've just been feeling a little burned out by taking care of my mother. My siblings always had a choice, they always walked away. Thats what they did when my dad was sick and I took care of him and now I'm caring for our mother. I have no ill regard for my siblings or my family, I've forgiven them. I just want to be able to have the ability to serve and take care of my mother financially. Thank You! God Bless!
Ayeeee. 3 hrs after I just see this video and I feel so happy to see you (you truly feel like a friend who has one back!) and I Luuuuvv Sunrises (sunsets!) and your sweater funnily enough states so, it’s life! Hah
Pleasant expectation
DYLAN! You’re glowing! ❤️🔥
Thank you! Watching keeps me focused
So amazing how you explain everything that always goes through my head! You are amazing
I really needed to hear this today….
I get it. I totally get it!
thank you so much Dylan you have helped me so much throug a LOT of situations.. God bless you
Oh man I wish I found your channel earlier 🙈 But still happy I found it either way 😄🙌🏻
Love the Fall themed setup in the back !!
Hey Dylan, this was supper helpful! Thank you, and for real you glow and I love your look, its so clean. :)
Please I really want your one to one coaching ! I honestly need to hear this so much
Hi dylan please make a video on this. I read a facebook story that a wife left the husband when he was diagnosed with stage 4 illness. he she was supportive of him and comforted him in the beginning, but finally left telling him " i am too young to be with someone sick". he recovered anyways but was deeply depressed and his mother said she was not worthy of him and he tried to think that way to make peace with life. So my question is was it his limiting belief that let her go away and should he focus on self concept and get her back? and is she not to blame? it is just a humble doubt. So can you make a video regarding this topic when to give up and find someone else or should we never give up on the ones we love even in this case. Please clarify this topic through a video. Thank you Dylan.
We missed ya!!!!!!!!
Lip gloss looks great on you
Fuck-Yeah!!! Thank you 😊😉😉😁😇😘
I loved this presentation. Great motivator to refer back to. So much valuable information in this one. This will go in my top reference videos from you. Thank You 🙏🏻💖💖
1st of all your lips are poppin 💅🏽
Hey dylan I love your videos I just started watching them like 3 days ago! And it helped me a lot. Can you please make a video on how to get ride of a third party especially when you've seen them together in front of you? It's like the picture doesn't want to be erased of my mind even though I tried so hard to do it. and this is blocking my manifestations I think. :(
I kinda understand how affirmations and being in the state helps manifesting relations stuff bcoz the neediness,or victim mentality gives off the vibe and naturally repels people (even if you wanna look at it in a logical perspective and not in terms of "manifesting and LOA")
But does this stuff also work incase we are trying to manifest acceptance to university with computer generated results of exams or if people are in No contact. does it still manifest ?
Yes! Keep watching Dylan’s content on this page. He talks about this all the time. Nothing is impossible!
I’m hanging with this other guy he’s chill and my husband is literally obsessed with me
Love you boo ❤️
My SP today rejected any idea of feelings towards me or any relationship for 3 time. I tried to let him go and erase him for more than 2 years but he is lile a mushroom.
We were fwb 2 years ago. I know he is attracted, he said he is obssesed but he does not give what I truly desire even thought I appreciate him.
I immediatly went to affirmation mode "I am lovable", "Everything is working for my sake", "everything turns out to be better".
I thought about just being casual but I know that I will feel used and wprse so I can't compromise my worth like this.
I am confused as what to do coz internally I want to give up.
Any update?
@@anjalipandey8454 I gave on him, but we did met recently. He kept his promise about book, bought wine and was gentle, but from that day we don't speak again 😂
I don't mind. This year I am focusing on being my best version and enjoying my life what I am doing ^^ SP is not a priority or on my list anymore
Your teachings are always very very perfect....I would also love to hear about manifesting sp from long distance because no one can explain things like you....hopefully you will and thank you for everything
I’m new to your channel. I broke up with him & im still in love with him. We were boyfriend & girlfriend been together 5 months. He told this girl at this shop a few weeks ago that I was his friend and I found out he was messaging women on Instagram I pulled back from him. Then 3 weeks ago we apologized to each other but I couldn’t get over the situation. He’s skitzo & bi polar. I finally ended it 2 days ago. But I still want him smh. Help 😢
Build yourself up, sweetie. check out some of the other content on my channel, I would really look into some nervous system regulation and shifting some beliefs. Get selfish and focus on you.
💯💯💯 so good 👌
What's your skincare routine??your skin is perfect mannnnn✨✨
If my sp will take too long to show up yes i prefer "distract" myself. Like going to the restaurant hungry and be impatient for the main course... My sp is the main course all the other are appetizers that kill the waiting 😂