Ludicrous. The fact that this is people's first response...SMH. She's out of control and she's a danger to herself as much as she is to anyone else. Smashing glass bottles is no joke. I had a healthy amound of fear when it came to my parent's wrath growing up when it came to misbehaving, but this is out of control. Kids are no longer pushing boundaries; they're exploiting the fact that there aren't any to begin with.
You know something? I wonder if her parent didn’t just drop her off and leave to do something else. Literally anything else. Every time there’s been a rude or bratty kid in my recent experience, the parents are nowhere to be found. Thankfully, if you stand up to the kid, they usually go away or tattle to some other adult who saw the whole thing.
I don’t care how people say it’s abuse, it’s at this point where the child is destroying property, that you take responsibility, take back your car and give the ole backhand. Wouldn’t need to resort to hitting a child if they are disciplined in the first place.
It destroyed my self-worth more than anything. It’s especially confusing for children who HAD consistency from their parents and then one day it just stops and they don’t even care that their 13 yr old girl is walking the streets @2am.
@ I think neither one of them should have been parents. Mother was verbally and physically abusive to all of us since the start, but father was playing games about wanting children, period. In later years he confessed he only stayed because mom got pregnant the first time. So he never wanted any of us to begin with and he think he just up and one day decided to stop the facade.
Hell when I was a kid I would walk about 1 mile to school every day and walk home... most of the time by my self or with my neighborhood freinds. Even outside shool id walk to the strip mall near by and get snacks and stuff. It's not negligence
It all depends on the child's skin color. Some shades can do whatever they want with no consequences. We taught them that during the Summer of Love 2020.
As much as the parent should be held responsible. I think it's more likely the system and society that is responsible for this. What are the odds this girl comes from a single mother, divorced or unmarried couple? Basically 90% I bet.
@@Simplemalk How is society responsible for this child’s behavior? I’m not being a jerk. I just honestly want to know. I’m part of society. And what “system” are you talking about? Do you mean the government?
I’m a millennial raised by boomers also! And I’m glad too. We never would have done this as kids because we knew the consequences! I don’t hit my son but I have most certainly put my limits and he knows where they are. Kids need you to model the behaviour you expect from them it’s not rocket science.
I'm Gen X and raised by the generation before boomers (The 1950s teen generation). We never would've even thought about doing this because we knew we couldn't even TALK disrespectfully or even curse in the presence of adults, much less entertain the idea of doing this. This would have never even crossed our minds.
That lady doesn't give a crap about the girl. If the girl is actually distressed you need to calm her down. It makes me sick that the gentleman is the only one who cares enough to stop the girl from potential self harm or hurting someone else with glass shrapnel. One of those displays fell over near my sister, she got cut and she literally has a scar on her face for life.
Right I have two little kids they’d never do that if they did they’d be getting the consequences of those actions and with the glass bottles I’d be stepping in the way so she can’t get to those glass bottles that is sooo dangerous.
That used to be what would happen here until the woke mind virus started brainwashing people into thinking that children should make their own decisions and that no one should ever face consequences for their actions.
Same with the French. most Scandinavians would look at the kid like some one with braindamage, shaking their head while watching the meltdown. Dont know something is changing a few weeks ago a collegue was called in for an intervention at kindergarten. His 4 year old Girl had Decked a 5 year old and kicked him in the nuts. The local psykologist deemed it healthy child behaviour basically the girl just setting boundaries and the boy just fucking araound and finding out. I like how at least the psykologists are getting something right.
That lady telling people to stop needed to be disciplined too. If I stepped in and some lady tried to stop me I would have given her 3 seconds to step away or she would be the first one to get a spanking and go sit in time out. It wasn't too long ago that I saw a little boy in the next checkout lane spinning the bag holder like a merry-go-round. His mom was on her phone, completely ignoring him. All I had to do was look at him and shake my head no. He stopped immediately and took a step back. I smiled and mouthed thank you. He lit up like a Christmas tree. It almost broke my heart.
That... is both sweet and heartbreaking. Sweet in the sense that the child not only stopped with a simple command and even smiled at you. Heartbreaking because that child was probably trying to get the attention of his mother to no avail. The saying 'some people don't deserve children' rings truer than ever
I work in retail, and I've had to stop a kid being a kid here and there. It's kind of rewarding in its own way because you know the kids appreciate it.
My son was diagnosed with autism and developmental delay at almost 2 years old. He's 20 now. Not once has he EVER acted like this out in public, EVER. It's called PARENTING!!!
The reason why there’s a rise parents that are not strict And just let the kids do whatever they want It’s because they probably had extremely strict parents and don’t trust them selves to punish their kids appropriately so they don’t punish them at all Like I knew, a lot of my friends went through cruel and unusual punishments Because we’re the generation of kids that your parents could no longer legally hit you, but they found other ways to cause physical pain So now the current generation doesn’t want to torture their children psychologically or physically, so they just don’t parent them because they don’t trust themselves to punish them appropriately Because their parents punish them inappropriately Because no punishment should be physical torture No punishment should be mental torture. It should be for the purpose of teaching a lesson. Appropriate to the mistake Like, for example, one thing that my parents dead for a punishment, they took away my bed and all my belongings for about a week and all I could eat with bread and water and sleep on the floor They’re not bad parents, but they did psychologically torture me with that In the crime, I lied about gum I got my entire life taken away because I lied about chewing gum Stand at the wall and squat If timeout didn’t hurt, there was no point And that’s not an excuse for these lack of parenting you can still punish your children without physical or mental torture
yea cause having autism doesnt make you a little a$$hole... bad parenting does. - an autistic adult who was also raised right and wouldnt be caught dead acting like that in public. (to be fair ive broken my OWN things when having a meltdown lol but gotta respect other peoples stuff and try not to be a public nuisance)
On instagram so many people tried blaming autism or other disorders and it’s fucked because non educated people are going to see this and assume all are like that. And yes , you’re right it’s called ACTIVE parenting . Knowing when to intervene before things get heated.
Last year in Walmart me and my son saw 2 teenage boys knocking over a tower of toilet paper and laughing. So I told the boys to stop and then me and my son started picking up the toilet paper. But then the most amazing thing happened other shoppers came over and started helping us. I was so happy that my son was able to experience it. It was truly a god moment.
"Don't yell at her! Don't touch her! You don't know what she's been through!" Doesn't matter what you've been through you aren't allowed to vandalise anything you don't own. No matter what pent up aggression she's had, she needs to know this isn't the appropriate action to confront it or to even behave in public. She's breaking the law and though I don't know what she's been through, I know what she's going to go through. And I don't intend to stand aside and enable it.
It's almost like sometimes when I complain about my sister in law, everyone loses their minds. But when someone else says 'think of what you've been through' as a means as an end, it's all chill
I get why people did nothing, I wouldn't have either. I don't know who her parents are, maybe they're rich, maybe they're cops, or worse, lawyers. And with how things are now we could easily be accused of abuse or traumatizing her or something. Not my kid, not my store, so why would I risk that? I for one very much would stand aside and enable it.
Call CPS, find out the parents, hand them the bill for the damaged products, hand them the bill for cleaning, hand them a permanent ban to the store. Yea nobody made the kid like that except for her parents. As for the Karen essentially shouting that the girl did nothing wrong, send her a copy of the ban.
When I was that age my parents could leave me alone in the library for hours and I was content with a stack of books reading quietly. This is INSANITY.
Parents need to learn the difference between abuse and negligent parents Because I understand that a lot of these parents with kids now probably have zero authority over their children and treat them like a friend because they were abused by their parents, and they lived in an overly stressed household So they don’t punish their children because they don’t trust themselves to punish them the right way
I can definitely relate to the situation. I've been to Walmart stores in Maine. And all I keep hearing are kids SCREAMING and crying. It's as if I'm in a zoo instead of a department store. It's just INSANITY, I tell you! 😢😮
I showed the clip to my 6 year old and even he understood that you should not act that way and that someone should have stopped her. It was a great teaching moment.
@@sarahaltameemi Hell yeah, I'm 17 and I can second this. I can't say anything about you but I definitely needed this kinda thing growing up. It's like I started late in life just because I DIDN'T get this.
99% of six year olds know not to act that way without being taught It’s implied courtesy Like, maybe if you’re under the age of one, it is acceptable to grab things off the shelves and throw them But by the time you’re three years or older, you should know that that’s wrong And clearly this kid does know it’s wrong that’s why she’s doing it The longer you entertain a temper tantrum, the more likely they are to do it again And when they stop throwing temper tantrums, you might think that that’s good sign. That just means they’re now in entitled, and they throw different kind of temper tantrums It’s crazy that some thing that was common knowledge no longer 99%, but 90% of people now
I was a substitute, then accepted a job as a teacher. I knew the class was pretty challenging, but the trepidation and stress of taking over a class where the teacher had felt overwhelmed and quit caused me to have a shingles outbreak the first day I started teaching the class. I had a student that would talk back daily and scream at me, and another who’d have meltdowns every week. I finished out the year and switched to SPED. I’m still worn out and feel overworked and never have enough time to finish everything, but I love my students.
I remember a time when I used to be paddled with wooden boards with tape on the handle and air holes drilled in the middle. I wasn't really a bad kid, I honestly can't say that I deserved it, it might have just been because I was easy to anger which made me a prime target by other students or just a lack of disrespect because I didn't want to be there. I had a problem focusing in class because I was bored. But getting hit by those from teachers, principals and vice-principals so much that they broke them on my backside. Really put a deep hatred for any and all authority figures in me. I will never hear an apology from the schools or staff "Which might be dead by now." But the damage is done. I do have jealousy seeing everyone younger than me not getting reprimanded, burns me up inside. But you know what? The pain and torment that you teachers are getting is within itself justice for when you had power and abused it!
My kid became the "bad kid" in school. I was failing. I went to parenting classes and got her into behavioral therapy classes. I didn't realize how much I was HURTING her by trying to be her friend. Fast forward 2 years and my kid I doing so much better. Her new teachers and I came up with a plan to keep her on the straight and narrow and we communicate openly about the changes. IT WAS HARD! and it still is. But it's rewarding if you put in the work
Good job. As a parent your job is to parent your kid. You can, and should be "friendly" to your kid but yeah you're not their friend. And when they mess up, gotta put on the parent boots and lay down the law.
A lot of parents nowadays don’t discipline their children because they don’t trust themselves to do it the right way, because their parents did it the wrong way, with psychological abuse and torture Because most punishments, I got a child, would be considered, cruel and unusual Only a handful of them would be considered actually a good punishment Like one time I got my bed, my toys, my books, and all I could eat with bread and water for a week because I lied about chewing gum I literally got everything taken away because I lied about chewing gum I don’t remember why I was punished most of the time I just remember the punishment and that’s the problem with the last generation of parents because the current generation of young adults to not trust themselves to punish their kids Because they don’t want to psychologically, abused, or torture their children, like their parents did to them So they don’t trust them selves to punish the kids at all
@@Helfirehydratrans And yet there are great parents, who do discipline their children, who came out of terrible childhoods, it's not an excuse to fail to teach their children and sometimes punish them, it's neglectful. It's understandable that it is harder for victims of child abuse,to use discipline but to fail to do something, for the child's sake, it is not excusable. I am very sorry for anyone who was abused as a child, child abuse is terribly heartbreaking.
it takes two minutes to google that the little girl is not mentally sound, shes autistic and nonverbal, she can't even talk so yes she's been through a lot
As a teacher, I stopped reporting bad behavior because I got tired of being yelled at for not controlling the behavior by both parents and administrators
@@aliciai.9150 That may be always try reasoning with them clearly she’s disturbed something had to have made her become so unhinged of course if they persist apply force and place them in a more stable environment with stern tone and command them to listen/obey proceed to offer them a choice and what it’ll entail and convey to them the severity/consequences of their actions that they must be punished accordingly everyone will be judged and must atone even if they are not willing because it’s right and just responsibility and things and such you know what I mean
I texted my mom and asked her what she would’ve done if I was behaving like this kid. Here’s her answer: “You wouldn’t have because I trained you to behave better. AND I was not afraid to leave a grocery cart of stuff in the store while I carried you kids out before it got that far” I have nothing to add. She’s right.
The rule for us in stores was my daughter's hand on the cart at all times. If she ever acted up, we would leave the store right then and there without buying anything. Honestly, you can't take any crap with kids, because if you give them an inch, they'll be throwing grape juice all over Walmart.
I wasn't like that but when i was a toddler i was acting up pretty badly in the store and got belted by my mum and everyone clapped. This was in the early 2000s.
I worked at Walmart for 18 years(I quit 3 years ago) you wouldn't believe the way kids act in the store. Their parents are to busy on their phones. I have enough stories to write a book.
The employees saying don't touch her is self interest. It's not about being "canceled" it's about corporations avoiding potential litigation. Since they are an agent of the walmart company if and walmart employee touches her and her parents sue the company due to it... the employee is definitely losing their job... in a world where accountability of your child behavior is nearly absent and can sue for anything. They didn't want to risk their livelyhood. They had to wait for contracted security to step in.
That's my first thought sadly. In more of an ideal world if a parent isn't stepping in then the LP would be able to step in, drag the girl and the parent/guardian outside, and get the adults charged with property damages. Whatever the child breaks or steals the adults need to be held accountable for.
7:25 My wife is a teacher, and she used to work with special ed students. This is her first year teaching middle school science. She's stating that after this year, she's going back to working with the special ed students. Let that sink in. The _special ed_ students, students who need extra help and attention, students who have cognitive challenges they have no control over, are more agreeable to look after than non-special ed students.
Whatever people picture when you say special ed students, whoever/whatever you picture, GUARANTEED every single one of them are more stable and fun to be around than kids that act like the one in the video! I prefer to be around what people call "special" people because they are ALL cooler, funnier, and more stable than "normal" people nowadays!
I remember a time where I was maybe 4-5 years old in Target with my mom, and I had witnessed another kid have a tantrum over not getting a toy. His mom eventually gave in and got it for him, well, I decided to try that and my mother dropped everything she was doing (full buggy and all) and put me under her and carried my sorry ass out of the store. She then took me home and put me in my room saying, "Don't you leave this room until I come get you!" Suffice to say, I didn't do it again.
Noah? Is that you? 😂 The one and only time I snatched one of my boys up and left a full cart of groceries was at a Target. Their grandparents commented frequently that our boys never ask for things when they go out to the store and they were thankful for that.
"You don't know what she's going through"? If she needs it, get her help. But there is NO reason to allow a child to do this. My parents would NEVER have allowed this.
I have never been smacked, beaten or remotely screamed or yelled at my entire life by either of my parents. I never needed to because I always behaved and just did my own thing. My parents never had to do any of that, ofcourse I'm sure when I was much much younger I had been spanked or whatnot, I don't remember that far back but I never had to be disciplined because I always behaved in any situation I was in. For the record, I was born in the year 2000, so I swear, it is not all of us that are crazy. There are people my age that are logical thinking humans that don't act this way or will never allow our children to act this way.
I would have been dead. Legit, my mom wouldn't have even just beat my ass.. she would have put it into extinction and me along with it.. would have smacked so hard that the shear pressure of it would have collapsed the universe into itself. 10 dimensions of pain. The heat radiation from my smacked butt would have made everything from the store all the way to the Blockbuster across the street into ground zero. It would burn with the power of 70,942 suns. And this is probably a leading reason why I never did that..
There was a woman who killed a bride on her wedding night because she was drunk driving. An overwhelming response was "she's just a girl! You don't know what she's been through! You can't judge unless you're perfect!" Those people raise these kids.
@@SuperBaccaPlayz sadly, you are an outlier. That just means somewhere down the line you gained common decency and manners. Most people don't find those things on their own, and our generation wasn't *taught* those things by the people who needed to be teaching them.
When I worked in childcare about a year ago, I had a kid like this. Little girl, defiant, walked all over her mother, screamed insults, etc. One day, I simply held her by the arms, looked into her face, and said, "No. We do not act like that," or something like that. I kept her from acting out. Going forward, she was completely different in our room. The truly revelatory part is that she didn't just respect me from that point forward. I would say, based on my observation, that she at least liked, if not loved, me. She seemed to trust me. It is heartbreaking when a child doesn't have adults around who are willing to love them by setting boundaries.
@@Helfirehydratrans I doubt it's that much, but yeah, they need to have them pay for the damage bill and then fine them lot of money, so every other parents thinks twice. Sometimes you just have to make example out of people. However I am not really gonna shit on parents here, it's just byproduct of incredibly stupid laws over last decade or so. I once heard incredibly funny interaction between husband and wife, he was (jokingly saying) he would spank her. She replies that she will call the cops on him and he'll got to jail for five years. He then shoot back saying he's gonna kill her, get 10, get out in 2 for good behavior and then get remarried, all while not having to go through expensive divorce process. They were obviously just joking and having funny banter, but It perfectly sums up the absurdity of laws in last decade or so.
About 20 years ago at Walmart, my 18 month grandson was picking up items from the cart and throwing them on the floor while I was attempting to check out. I told him “no” and popped him on the leg. The cashier told me that I was a “bad grandma” and that I should be ashamed of myself. I asked her if I should have just let him throw everything on the floor and just leave it there for her to pick up? She finished checking me out and we left, no more said. Should people be shamed for correcting their kids and grandkids?
No. You stop it at point of incident. You're acting out, I don't care, I will embarrass you wherever. No f's given. I'm raising kids that need to be functional in society. Also, tell them to eff off when they have kids, IF they have kids, they can raise them as brats and in the mean time do not tell others how to raise theirs. Enough disfuncional people in this world.
Nein, auf keinen Fall. Hätte ich auch nur ein wenig von dem Verhalten an den Tag gelegt was das Kind in diesem Markt getan hat, mein Vater hätte mir noch vor Ort und Stelle den Arsch versohlt. Davon hätte Ihn auch bei Gott keiner von abgebracht.
As a former supermarket employee, customers do get away with a lot of bad behaviours from taking the small pack of gum without paying to eating half a bag of grapes or any other weigh and scan item before weighing it to my personal favourite eating a whole cooked BBQ chicken and leaving the empty packet (with bones) behind your absorbents (flour, rice, pasta, laundry detergents). The loss prevention team are always under scrutiny and many of these people leaving are sad stories, one was arrested cause he just had enough of stopping people and starting stealing himself, another left when his son was caught stealing in his store and another was left on medical cause of the beating he received.
Probably a singular parent. But I am just dumbfounded at how this child is just running around alone with the parent nowhere around at all. And if somehow both parents are in the picture this is twice as insane.
This is not an excuse, put an explanation A lot of parents in the current generation of young adults don’t punish their kids at all because they don’t trust them selves to do it the right way Because when they got punished, it was psychological abuse or torture most of their punishments. They don’t remember why they were punished in the first place. The current parents are the first generation of kids that could not be legally hit by their parents So parents figured out different ways to punish their kids, not involve, psychological abuse and torture You may not be able to hit your kids, but you can force them into uncomfortable positions for hours You can psychologically torture them And that’s what happened to a lot of young adults when they were kids because their parents couldn’t hit them anymore they figured out other ways to punish them So now those kids grew up, had kids of their own, and don’t trust themselves to punish their children appropriately Because the only punishment they learned with psychological abuse and torture This is not an excuse But how do you learn to appropriately discipline your children if all you experienced was torture as discipline Like what’s the difference between psychological manipulation and telling your kid that they’re doing something wrong? Like I genuinely don’t know how to appropriately punish children, because of my psychological torture that I went through Because if you punish your kids too much, they will literally have no self-control or boundaries because it doesn’t matter what they do because they’re always bad Everything I ever did I got punished for, so I just stop trying Parents need to learn to balance punishment and non-punishment and treat the children as they should be, but there is a lot of people who are just giving the kids absolutely no punishment or not following through with their punishment The kids nowadays act like it’s the end of the world if they get their iPad taken away for five minutes Like the amount of parents that I see, give him when they do, some thing just shows that the word is meaningless
Former teacher here 🙋🏼♀️ the amount of gaslighting from admin about students misbehaving and the refusal from parents to discipline was unreal. Left and am so glad I did. NEVER want to go back.
My youngest sister just got her teaching degree and is about to finish up her student teaching. She just finished with second graders, and right now she's with kindergarteners. She comes home a stressed out frazzled mess every day because these kids are so ill-behaved, and because of current sensibilities she can't do anything about it. She's literally not allowed to even lay a hand on them to pull them away from fighting with each other. She's told me it feels more like working at an asylum than she ever expected.
You should have formed a stronger relationship with the kids. What did you do to trigger them to throw that chair at you? (Just kidding! Teacher myself here and almost quit multiple times! The gaslighting from admin is unreal!).
I’m now in middle school and just realized the kids at my schools immaturity and how sad it is for teachers getting paid so little and dealing with these types of kids, also my school has had a lot of sub teachers quit and now we’re on a need of subs because they are refusing to work.
As a current senior in high school this problem of lack of discipline is not only prevalent among gen alpha but also gen z. I go to a charter school and you would expect better behaved students but nope. There’s literally a senior in my school who goes out of his to be an annoyance that when they leave the room everyone breaths a sigh of relief including the teachers. Majority of the students have an attitude problem for absolutely no good reason. These students are so unqualified both intellectually and behaviorally it’s ridiculous. I fear for the future of this country if this non-disciplining keeps going on. I thank god every day for letting me be born in an Asian household that taught me to self-discipline
This isn't new. It happened when I was in school in the 80s and 90s. There was always one or two kids who was badly abused and neglected at home who would do anything for attention. In sixth grade, my teacher sat me behind a 14 y/o kid with major attitude problems because I was unreactive (due to my own trauma at home.) Whenever she (the teacher) wasn't looking or had her back to us, the bully would turn around and slug me. He would also crumple up paper and throw it at me all day. No one liked him and eventually one of the other kids from a broken home stood up to him, though that didn't change anything for me. The bully mellowed out a bit through the course of the year because I never gave him the satisfaction of a reaction, but I'm sure this screwed me up deeply. I've been passive and afraid of conflict ever since. Yay public school.
sophomore in college here. we had 1 or 2 kids my age who were an annoyance that never learned how to shut the fuck up. there is always a good amount of parental ass whoopin and bullying from other kids that helps you be a normal person.
@@brushstroke3733 It was was a problem for my gen too. Always a few bad apples, but it was more accepted for the kids to deal with it. Today is a strange combination of total lack of fear from authority and the emotional fortitude of a wet noodle.
I think the lack of discipline comes down to that their parents are mostly younger generation. That was the first generation that could not legally be hit. So their parents torture them and psychologically tortured them, and now that they had kids with their own they don’t trust them self to punish their kids appropriately because they were never punished appropriately Their parents were too tough in too hard on them so now they’re way too easy and laid-back on their children because they do not trust them selves to punish them the right way
Younger Gen Z maybe, but not us older Gen Zers. I'm (2002 Gen Zer meaning I'm 22 currently) and I turned out just fine with the correct amount of discipline from my single mother. Me and my brother both turned out ok. I think it's more so the generation of today who acts more like this but it could be because the parents are neglecting them and letting technology and iPads raise them instead of doing it themselves and giving them attention and love like they need. Us older Gen Z peeps had a healthy balance of digital and natural stuff in our life so therefore we weren't iPad babies glued to the screen and learned better than these kids do. It's not really their fault but moreso the parents who raise them and what they allow, the technology they're given at certain ages that prevents them from learning simple basic manners and other stuff because they learn bad behavior from what they see on social media and the like because nobody acts good on social media platforms let's be honest here, so not really a great example to learn from, and their environment of where they live and what they see around them. Kids mirror their parents behavior and how they act or other people's as well, they don't just pull this stuff out of their butt cracks. Maybe this little girl learned this kinda behavior from her parents and assumed it was a normal way to act in public because she isn't aware it's wrong when no one punishes her for it. Perhaps many other parents these days do this as well and just let their kids walk all over them like a doormat simply because they see it as wrong to punish their kids or too mean and hurtful and will make their children cry. Maybe people these days are too sensitive to discipline their children and actually parent them. Back when I was a child my mother simply did one of these few examples. She either spanked me and my brother for being naughty, she threatened to take our stuff away or throw it away and scared us into being good (which btw worked), she embarrassed us in stores in front of strangers/other customers when we were being cheeky because she wasn't afraid to yell out loud even if others looked at us. All of those tactics were pretty useful and usually worked 99% of the time. There was definitely one time the spanking didn't work on my older brother though because he had such a big fat booty it didn't even hurt him like at all and he's a millennial I think? He's almost 27 or 28 I honestly can't remember because time keeps moving by so quickly in the blink of eye. Anyways my point I was trying to make was we were both raised right so not all of gen z is this bad, mostly just the youngins and ones that lucked out on getting graced with good parents like I did well "parent" technically. This is more of a Gen alpha problem and maybe some select few younger Gen zers but for the most part Gen Z is usually fine. 😅
I’m sixty and have seen this childhood bad behavior my whole life. But years ago someone would have just grabbed the child and escorted both the parent and the child out of the store.
@@dave3657 I saw a young mother at the doctor's office recently. Her kids were off the rails misbehaving. She just ignored them, on her phone the whole time. At one point she told them Shhh but literally nothing else. They were absolute terrors, into everything and being loud. I was in absolute shock. We need to bring back the right to publicly discipline our children.
Anyone who saw what was happening was probably afraid to even touch her because they don't want to get sued for touching someone else's child. I would have looked for the parent, but I understand why no one wants to physically stop her.
Indeed... and by the way our justice system works, you might, as well, get charged with assault on the child if you stop her and neutralize the parent that will undoubtedly hit you for neutralizing their precious child.
Exactly. I'm shocked Brett didn't mention this because in this day and age there would 100% be legal repercussions for an adult touching a child that is not their own in a way that even bordered on violent.
By the SAME token, the parent should be afraid to be sued for her child touching (and destroying) someone else's merchandise. It can't work in only one direction.
@@kevinpankanin6222 You don't have kids, do you? When a kid is THAT out of control, saying "stop" won't do a thing, especially when it comes from a stranger. That's the problem with "gentle parenting"... the kids laugh at them and just go on with their destructive behavior because hearing "no" is NOT a real consequence.
I was raised by quite loving and protective parents but they also taught me discipline and the importance of hardwork so I don't become spoiled and behave like this.
@@BrynnLee-s9lDEI stands for diversity equity inclusion it’s where you hire people from minority groups (race/belifs aka LGBTQIA) even if they aren’t the most qualified choice
@BrynnLee-s9l The letters mean Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. This isn't really a DEI issue in today's video, but it does need to Stop. It is an ideology that is extremely racist, the EXACT OPPOSITE of what MLK Jr preached. It rewards people for being any race but white, any gender but cis male, any sexual preference but monogamous heterosexual. It does not reward people based on merit. It is an unfair ideology, and everyone who knows what it is agrees even if they support it. Don't believe me? Call someone a DEI hire. Even people who support DEI know that it's a racist comment.
I've been teaching for 25 years. It is an epidemic now, full on. Thank you for this. Teachers have been the scapegoats for everything for far too long. We go to work now and have to endure abuse from students-mental, emotional, and physical. Our hands are tied and the expectations are completely unrealistic. The stress is enormous.
When I was a teen, the group I ran with may have been thugs and and we did bad stuff all the time like fight and drink and stuff. But we would never talk back or hit a teacher like these kids do these days
I can ONLY imagine what teachers go throw, l teach Sunday school and lm only with for that small time during church and one a week and it's crazy , you cnt talk they wnt keep quite and it's only a handful of kids causing the disruption for now but l was told l couldn't displine ,couldn't do time outs ( l mean the most gentle thing ) the head leadership women told me the children aren't bad they got no bad kids ,we mustn't shout or correct them and if we correct them as gentle and possible and they dnt listen then we must just leave them ,to do whatever they want run around be wild not participate in the programs it's is fine
Right kids have been bad for generations they may have been unfriendly or rude with a lot of good people but nothing compared to this or what been going on for the last 10 years.
This is exactly why I left teaching. I thought it was my calling, but when I entered into it, there were so many leftist, woke principals and parents involved that they drove me BANANAS. I had kids mock me and tease me daily, and had them almost DARE ME to punish them, because guess what? Any punishment I dished out to them was immediately a massive friggin issue catastrophe with the kids' parents, and more often than not, what I did, from "talking too harshly to the kids" to simply sending them to the principal's office, was seen as "too mean" and "overstressing for the kids". After I was suspended without pay for sending a bunch of boys to the office, I quit. I could not take the education system anymore. Now? There is a massive shortage of teachers in my home Canadian province (gee, WONDER WHY), and I can't go back because of my unwarranted track record. Thanks, Woke World. You've screwed yourselves by making schools too soft on discipline and giving parents too much power
Same here. Sometimes I miss the nice parts about teaching, but they were so far and few between that it just wasn’t worth it anymore. I’ll never understand why so many parents want their kids to never face consequences and be an absolute menace to society.
I worked at a camp over the summer with kids ages 5-10ish and by the end of it I was about ready to lose my mind. On one of the last days, I was lecturing this one kid about what he’d done wrong and his response was to yell back and mock me to my face, laughing the whole time. I marched his tail directly to my boss with no hesitation cuz screw that. I was baffled by his nerve to do something like that and months later I’m still mad whenever I think about it
You make me almost feel grateful for going to a private high school. I could only imagine the agony for some teachers. Liberals who live in fear of everything are the cause of this
I feel you as a fellow educator . Establishment is afraid of the parents and lawsuits and teachers are normally left to take the blame. When a child does something wrong it no longer focuses on the wrong act but focuses on the way the teacher handles it was wrong, the tone is wrong, the teacher is unfair....
An assistant principal in a local school, tried to stop a fight and got seriously injured and quit the school. Not just that person, other employees have gotten seriously injured because of these fights! It’s horrible!
We got paddled at school, and our biggest fear is that our dads would find out we misbehaved. We didn't dare tell our parents we got paddled. We learned our place.
The passage that reads: *spare the rod* , *spoil the child* does not mean to *beat the child* . The *ROD* is a tool that was used to *guide sheep* . it was not used to *beat the sheep or in this case use on a child* . We as parents are to *GUIDE* our children not make them fearful of you. I am not OK with using one's hands on a kid esp. It doesn't teach them anything but to fear you.
@@Jaisee14Wrong. Someone who doesn't have physical repercusions for their actions turn into uncontrollable individuals who are more likely to end up in prison or dead.
I texted my mother and asked what she would have done if I had behaved like this youngster. Here's her response: "You wouldn't have because I had taught you to behave better. AND I wasn't afraid to leave a grocery cart full of items in the store while I carried your kids out before it got that far." I don't have anything to offer. She's correct.
When I was in my 20’s I was going into Best Buy. A mother came out with 3 kids, sat them down, and LAID into these kids for their behavior. I didn’t see it, but those kids messed up. I wanted to laugh but I was afraid she would start in on me. If I behaved that way, I would have been flayed in the store.
I used to live in a terraced house, that's where you share walls with your neighbours, those walls weren't very thick so noise travelled through. At night my neighbour's daughter played loud music that wouldn't let me sleep. I politely asked her mother to do something about it, at first she promised to do so but the problem wouldn't stop so I had to go ask a few more times. At one point her mother told me her daughter needed the music to calm her down because she was a victim of abuse. Of course I expressed my sympathy but asked if listening on earphones wouldn't have the same soothing effect. She got angry at me shouting nonsense that I'm going after her kids. Whatever is going on with your family shouldn't be my problem, I get up at 5am to go to work but can't sleep till 2am because of your daughter's behaviour. I'm half awake driving and could cause an accident. Whatever you're going through it shouldn't be an excuse to disrupt other people's lives. We all go through crap!
I would have made sure they were all up with me the next morning till the shit stopped and when asked why I'd do that at 4:30 am well I was abused and it's the only way I can cope with my mornings
I am so grateful that I cannot relate. I have two sons. One is 20 and a productive member of society, and the other is 13. Both are respectful young men. They have their days like everyone else. But this young lady needs therapy and her guardian needs a firmer hand❤
My father, who passed away 2 years ago, was a substitute teacher in our town and had a student who was causing an issue with another student and when he intervened, he pushed the aggresive student to separate the two. The aggresive student told their parents and it was brought to the school administration which lead to my father not being able to substitute teach. There was no discussion or "hearing" to see what actually happened. It was a teacher put hands on a student and the teacher was wrong. This is the problem nowadays, kids can do what they want because adults are afraid of discipline. If I had done anything like this growing up, my parents would have been all for the teacher's response.
You are right I worked in a school for 30 years and they get away with murder in so many words. We were told to call them FRIENDS THAT IS BS!!!!!!!!! WECARE THE ADULT NOT THEM!!!!!!
I'm a teacher. I can't touch a child. I can try to protect myself if they start hitting or kicking but that is it. behaviors are horrible. Not only are they hurting us, but the students are being abused in classrooms by violent students and they won't remove them. A fellow teacher has lost students from her classroom because of the violence. She is losing good students and is left with the violent one and there is nothing she can do to get this child removed. We both teach kindergarten.
It's not just parenting. I work in a pre k classroom when I just finished an online training course . One of the things I remember in the course is when a child is misbehaving, you don't tell them what they did wrong, I was told to redirect them to something else so they are not learning.
Did anyone check the electronic department? Gangs of thieves used to go into stores and cause distraction while their partners were cleaning out high end merchandise. They would often use young children for distractions. I always wonder about ridiculous behavior like this from a former retail back ground.
I would bet money that this is what was happening. Didn’t realize it until I saw other commenters suggesting it but it makes the most sense. Regardless, that child is absolutely SCREWED. Whether she was told to do this by her parents as a decoy, or she was truly having a meltdown. Such a shame. She will be a product of her environment one day.
As a former teacher, I get heck from people for staying home to homeschool my children. Videos like this serve as excellent reminders of the behavior my children will have limited exposure to, and I have zero regrets. Children don’t just learn from their teachers, they learn from their peers. I will not allow my children to be taught to act in such a way, nor have it reinforced 5/7 days a week.
I used to think people who homeschool their kids were doomsday fanatics with a bunker in their backyard. Now, seeing this generation, I know if I had kids I would find a way to homeschool them too.
@@hoyamayo3642oh sweetheart....how old are you? Remember backnin the 70s and 80s thst there was a " naughty table" where 4 or 5 kids would sit as they were naughty and distracted the rest of the class, a class of up to 40 kids, well now its the reverse. You get a small group of kids who behave and want to learn, maybe 5 to 10 kids..... the rest are the "naughty table" kids. So if yr lucky out of 40 kids there are 10 who behave and want to learn. You have no idea or yr not paying attention.. Giving 3 year old ipads or phones means these children dont even have a 3 minute concentration ability. How can a teacher teach a child who CANT concentrate. The stories i could tell you but i doubt you would believe and take it on board that these poor childrens minds have been destroyed by aged 7 and look at the result.
There is no way i would ever let anyone's child act like that in a store. Who suffers the consequences of those actions? - the workers/cleaners who have to break their backs for even longer now to sort out that mess on top of their regular duties. I would probably get charged, but I simply do not care - this entire situation would only happen in america.
My dad would have beat my ass skinless, made me mow lawns until I paid back the damage and then beat my ass skinless again. I was born in 1964 where this crap didn't fly.
Did she have some kind of disability? I have worked with autistic and behavioral disordered kids. I have seen this kind of destructive behavior in the classroom. It’s so sad!
I have ASD and I was raised to behave right. My mother would never have let me get away anything like that. Saying that these misbehaving kids are Autistic just gives people who hate people on the spectrum.
Ya I understand normal Walmart workers not doing anything but if a parent isn't stepping in security or someone that deals with kicking people out should @roningt would have a great take on this
@@BillyReb Sadly, I can easily seeing some single mom sending the kid to do this to distract people from her stuffing things in her pockets and walking out.
That video is a great analogy… we are literally standing around like those adults watching the collapse of society in front of our eyes and doing nothing about it
but we did do something about it........we voted Trump back as president!!!!!!! That was the first step. But, I do agree, we should have done something sooner for sure.
1:34 That Kedem grape juice is very expensive and appears to be of the carbonated variety. I hope she knows the damage she is doing by destroying those bottles.
This imbalance of giving children too much authority, too much say actually creates very angry children. It’s a burden they’re not meant to carry, they are asked to make all the decisions because their thoughts, feelings and approval of even small decisions matters above everything. Parents, by not stepping into their role as a figure of authority and stability do more damage than anything they were trying to avoid in the first place. Objectively it’s a worse outcome than stereotypical spankings. What I’ve found is that they lash out, and the most pitiful part is that they don’t even understand themselves why they are a ball of rude, disrespectful rage.
@@mackenzieraye 100%, there are so many instances of parents coming to pick up their kids and they just stand there smiling as their kid is actively disobeying us or being a nuisance to the other kids because it’s “cute”. What kind of lesson does that teach the kid?
my sister and I were at our local park. She saw her neighbours child trying to climb the newly planted trees and breaking the branches. She called out to him and shook her finger " no" to him. He stopped, but later the dad came over to talk to my sister about embarrassing his child when she told him to stop destroying the tree. Apparently his son's feeling mattered more than the newly planted trees.
Oh I wasn't even thinking you were leading to the new tree being harmed I thought you were going to say she was telling the kid that because the kid could get hurt trying to climb a tree that they obviously can't lol but yea either way. Now that doesn't bother me too much just waving a finger but I don't agree with strangers coming up to my kid to tell them or speak to them for any reasons if my kid is not doing something right I expect them to address me the parent because my kids know not to speak to a stranger and an adult has no business speaking to them as children so my kids would not speak back and will walk away from them not to be rude but for their own safety, but my kids would never be out of my eye sight anyways and if they did something wrong I would be the first to handle it anyways before anyone else even gets a chance to try and say something.
@@TheRepublican777 my community has spent thousands of dollars replacing trees that the kids keep killing by breaking off all the branches. Our park has very little shade because most of the trees were destroyed and now the community isn't bothering to replace the trees anymore. As for this kid, he was old enough to be at the park without parents. His parent should have backed up my sister and affirmed to his son that destroying the trees are a form of vandalism.
Look i was born in the 80’s/90’s if i did this the security would have pulled me in the back room my parents would have had to pay for all the thing’s BROKEN and DESTROYED (being they were not paid for and the store still was the owner of them aka destruction of property) I might have had the cops called on me too. But worst of all the beating I would have gotten from my parents (that was scary enough to make me not want to do it). I say we take back parenting and spare the rod not the child.
I have kids. I don't understand. My kids tried tantrums in public once or twice. We left the store and went home. They learned that tantrums don't work.
This is not one of those moments 😂 I have three kids, and they would absolutely never behave like this. It is absolutely unacceptable and I feel for this little girl. She clearly has no boundaries.
I would have called police and cps. Unfit parents. I should also add that this kid made that Walmart a hazardous environment. Someone could get injured because of her.
My mom was a in person teacher for 20+ years, never had an issue with being attacked. In 2021 she was bit by a little girl who was being "gentle-parented" by her Grandparents. Her arm bruised, thankfully she had on a pretty thick sweater at the time so there was no punters but you could clearly see teeth marks for two days afterwards. The Grandparents said "oh, she's going through things. Be gentle, be kind. Blah blah blah" and the administration said it was a "personal matter", like wtf. Anyway, she's a virtual teacher now, has her own mini school and help start a charter school for our state!
My state has public online schooling and if I can't afford private school for my kids (once I have some lol) and there aren't any homeschool groups in my area, that's the way I will go for them 100%. They don't need to be bullied or struggle to learn because their peers are disruptive. I know of some parents that started a school for homeschooled kids essentially; a couple of the parents are teachers and they use a closed school building to have class for all their kids, allowing them to have personalized time when needed. I hope I'm able to find or put together a group like that because that sounds like the best way to handle children's education these days, but online schooling seems second-best.
My daughter quit teaching and started homeschooling her children for a while. She now homeschools the two youngest and the three older ones are now in a no-BS, no-DEI, no-CRT private school. She said she couldn't deal with the parents as much as the children. The parents take no responsibility for the actions of their children.
Today a kindergartener was wandering barefoot in the middle school halls, a 6th grader hit a locker and the walls so loudly I thought there was an earthquake, and a 10-year-old was hanging out 'alone' in the halls the whole day when I heard a teacher say 'come on now, you haven't been in class all day'...another day subbing in a K-8 Seattle Public School. Have to say this was in the top three worst ones, actually feels unsafe. Other ones are lovely. Who is to blame? The parents, full-stop. And a school system too fearful of parents, must take the kids, and just trying to survive.
These children are very sick. This has nothing to do with discipline. They probably are on the autism spectrum. Easy to judge the parents. Often the medical field has no answers either.
Naw, just remember these moments and raise your own kids to know the difference between right and wrong. Sometimes it feels like those with common sense are the last Centurions on the wall, holding back the barbarians.
The first time I behaved that way in the store, I got my butt smacked. The second time... mom asked them to hold her cart, immediately took me home, dropped me off with my brother, then went back to the store without me. For the rest of the summer, I was not allowed to go anywhere, not even next door. I was GROUNDED. No TV, no dessert, no popsicles, no running through the sprinklers... NO POPSICLES for the rest of the summer! I never did it again. The cost was too high.
My mom did something similar. Except it was just the store I wasn't allowed to go to. For 6 months every time I asked to go to the store with her, she said "little girls who don't know how to behave don't get to go to the store" and left me with my grandma. Needless to say I never acted up at the store again after that
Yep, there are many ways to discipline a child in order to get the point across. My son was testing the boundaries big time when he was young, and he made it to six weeks grounding that summer, before he decided to stop. I did warn him that every time he continued with his stupidity another week was coming. He served his time, and never did it again. He tried to get me to reduce his time, but I said no. I told him that you were warned several times and you kept chosing this, so time will be fully served. His friends kept stopping by every week, and I kept saying to them "Sorry boys, your friend chose unwisely over and over again, the sentence will not be reduced." He is a fully grown man now, and we have a close relationship. I always explained WHY things were wrong, and always gave him a chance first to choose wisely. When he didn't, then he learned that consequences will follow, and that I meant what I said. Never cave once you make the discipline decision, otherwise your kid will play you like a fiddle. They need to know consequences will follow, wether it be good or bad, so choose wisely. My kids got rewarded when they chose wisely. In the bible it says that God disciplines those whom he loves. No discipline is pleasant for the time being, but later will yield the fruit of righteousness. That is so true. God Bless.
“I’m not going to be touching no one’s kids. I’m not going to be the one going to jail.” My feelings exactly. It's every man for himself in this brave new world and my life is more important than smashed juice bottles.
You just take the item from their hands. It's not touching the child because the item doesn't belong to them. If they pick up another, take it away, another take it away and so on.
@@lorieakin5771 What if the bottle gets broken in the prosses and severe bodily harm is done before you even notice it? You go to jai, no pass go, no collect 200$ 👍 Walmart doesn't pay enough for that.
I blame the parents! I raised 2 boys now 24 yo & 22yo and a girl 21yo without any of this crap. My husband & I worked (my job I did part time. I went into work days he was off as a fireman) we managed things at malls and had our own things in malls around the South. Our kids never went to daycares, we took them with us when we had to clean, collect $ & make deposits They were in a couple sports a year so yeah, we were busy. What we didn’t have time for was bad behavior. I am very proud of my kids and the adults they have become.
I’m a boomer and raised my kids like most of us did. Not one of my 3 would have ever thought to do something like this…EVER! They were corrected well before any behavior got even close to this level. I have to end with saying all 3 of them love their dad very much because they know how much I love them.
My father is a boomer and we would have gotten endless beltings for that kind of crap. Usually, as collective punishment for not keeping each other in line. We know he loves us, too, somewhat informed by how we saw other kids turn out.
This child would look at the response of those around her before taking yet another action. As a medically-retired educator, I know that approximately 50% of teachers quit within their first five years of teaching. Many cite lack of support from administrators and parents, as well as disrespectful and out of control student conduct/behavior. I’ve held other jobs, before I became an educator, demanding careers, but no job was as taxing as the roles I held, while working in education. This girl needs help… extensive help… and a lot of discipline and structure. She needs it ASAP.
I noticed that too. She was, as Brett put it, desperately looking for someone, or anyone who would just tell her where the boundaries were. As it happened the one person who tried was told not to.
Preschool teacher here-I had an almost four year old kid come up behind me and start beating me three weeks into the year. He continued to scream at me and it’s my first year teaching. I have another kid who spit on me and told me he was going to burn my house down. Another kid refuses to listen and destroys toys and other items in the classroom. The first child’s parent said that he had a strict childhood and he did not want the same for his kid, and also said that his family is “just loud when they talk”. Please parent your children. It shouldn’t have to suck or be hazardous to be a teacher.
There is relevence. I dont agree with some other things that lady says or her trying to stop the man from making the girl throw glass bottles, but there being a reason to the behavior such as an autistic meltdown, mental breakdown, or cry for attention is not impossible. Like in the case of an autistic meltdown or history of physical trauma, touching her could trigger a more volatile response, we dont know her so we dont know. It just doesnt excuse what the girl is doing. The parents need to be found and need to stop their kid. Then they need to either pay for the damages or be banned from the store. And of course the kid should be disciplined at home, by her parents.
So here’s the thing: I’m a parent of two neurodivergent kiddos, and I’ve seen some epic meltdowns. But I would NEVER allow one of my children to destroy property in this manner. I would pick her up and carry her out so darn fast, so other people are not negatively affected by her situation. That parent needs to held accountable.
I was wondering if this could be a child with some sort of special needs, but I would hope if that was the case their parent or caregiver wouldn’t let them be throwing glass containers on the ground. That’s the point where someone NEEDS to step in to prevent imminent harm.
@@JaneDoe-fn8ni exactly. I work with disabled people with such behaviors and we are trained to restrain them if they are in imminent harm or are bringing harm to those around them... and we avoid restraint if possible... Literally in our training they use stories like people throwing pickle jars in a walmart.
I also wondered about neurodivergence (we’re a whole family of it!), but a) when you actually raise an ND kid you learn the warning signs and know when it’s time to go, and b) I’ve seen meltdowns and that isn’t a meltdown. That was deliberate.
Genuinely considering homeschooling my future children. I remember being in middle school and begging my mom to switch me to online school because of kids like this. Literally fights everyday at my school and it was always mostly girls. I’ve lived 20 years without getting into a single fight or laying a hand on anyone. Parents need to start teaching their children to just remove themselves from environments that aren’t benefitting them. I’ve witnessed teachers get cured out, things thrown at them, and parents ridiculing the teachers for disciplinary action.
In VA they let one kid bully a teacher and he ended up shooting her in the stomach… the school ignored her cries for help and her worries of what the kid was doing. He’s 6 years old.. the mother was sentenced 21 months I believe? But all this due to the parents ignoring all the worries the teacher told them about the kid, and how aggressive and mean he was
@@eBrunoro you don’t need to believe me, please look it up and you will see the news as well as the sentence and court hearings. Do your research please. It was a big case in Va, now all students have clear backpacks, metal detectors and police officers, all the way down to pre-K
how is damaging products Not treated the same as theft?!!?? where is the store security, off duty law enforcement moonlighting, to collect and detain this criminally destructive child
If we treated the same way they treat theft in California, the kid would need to destroy several thousands dollars more in goods before anything would happen.
You want security involved? Fine, here's how that will turn out. Security will approach this hell spawn, then he/she will be fired and/or sued for interfering. Security guards are not allowed to do shit.
This is our classrooms in New Zealand also. There's a girl in my son's class where she holds the class hostage, destroys the class, throws sissors, and hurts other children. She has even punched the DP on the throat and threatened a teacher assistant with a box cutter. She still hasn't been removed from the school. Her education and rights are more important than the majority of the classes right to safety and education.
I was a substitute teacher in the US a for a few years leading up to Covid. I experienced one of these kinds of blow ups and how they evacuate all the other students. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ In the US, the law says that special education students should be placed in the least restrictive classroom according to their capacity. That doesn't mean put them in a class environment they can't handle without harming others. Many times I witnessed special needs kids harming other students and the student remaining in the classroom. Their educational rights do not exceed the rights of others' welfare! Doing this, just teaches kids that the rules can be broken when there are no consequences or that they can't trust adults for their safety.
@dawnmitchell11 what they're supposed to do or used to do is have them in special classes for the subjects they struggle with and mainstream the classes they do ok with.. if they are unable to control themselves and are putting other children and/or staff at risk, the state is supposed to accommodate them to go to a special school for them to get an education in a safe and equipped environment!!
Yep, we get that stateside too. It’s like the Joker entering the classroom and everyone’s sense of justice is absolutely violated. I would recommend homeschooling, it is purposefully being done now where they send kids to certain schools to diversify it. All it does is ensure that the kids don’t get an education.
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"Don't yell at her, you don't know what she's been through!!".... well I know what she has NOT been through, consistant discipline.
Ludicrous. The fact that this is people's first response...SMH. She's out of control and she's a danger to herself as much as she is to anyone else. Smashing glass bottles is no joke. I had a healthy amound of fear when it came to my parent's wrath growing up when it came to misbehaving, but this is out of control. Kids are no longer pushing boundaries; they're exploiting the fact that there aren't any to begin with.
Any discipline
I can’t imagine what my mom would’ve done to me if I behaved like that.
The only good one is “don’t record her”
@@BeeHash I doubt they have presidents at juvenile detention centers...
Send the bill for all damaged goods to her parents/guardians.
They be robbing they will not pay
“How dare you send me this bill? My daughter was just expressing how awful your store is. You should do better.”
You know something? I wonder if her parent didn’t just drop her off and leave to do something else. Literally anything else.
Every time there’s been a rude or bratty kid in my recent experience, the parents are nowhere to be found. Thankfully, if you stand up to the kid, they usually go away or tattle to some other adult who saw the whole thing.
I don’t care how people say it’s abuse, it’s at this point where the child is destroying property, that you take responsibility, take back your car and give the ole backhand.
Wouldn’t need to resort to hitting a child if they are disciplined in the first place.
Disagree. Give HER the bill and have her do community service until she pays off the damages.
Not disciplining your children is a form of neglect and abuse.
1000000% this
It destroyed my self-worth more than anything. It’s especially confusing for children who HAD consistency from their parents and then one day it just stops and they don’t even care that their 13 yr old girl is walking the streets @2am.
@DHARK1873 I'm so sorry what do you think happened to cause that?
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I think neither one of them should have been parents. Mother was verbally and physically abusive to all of us since the start, but father was playing games about wanting children, period. In later years he confessed he only stayed because mom got pregnant the first time. So he never wanted any of us to begin with and he think he just up and one day decided to stop the facade.
Exactly!
Little girl was throwing glass which is a danger to others and herself.
Yup
Cleary that doesn't matter because mom (or the stranger) is more concerned about what this child's mental health and feelings.
Meanwhile parents are getting arrested for letting 11 year olds walk to the corner store by themselves. It's pure insanity.
That story is INFURIATING. I don’t think anything of letting my 12yo ride his bike to the library then to Dollar General in our small town.
Or not affirming their child's "gender"
Hell when I was a kid I would walk about 1 mile to school every day and walk home... most of the time by my self or with my neighborhood freinds. Even outside shool id walk to the strip mall near by and get snacks and stuff. It's not negligence
It all depends on the child's skin color. Some shades can do whatever they want with no consequences. We taught them that during the Summer of Love 2020.
*white parents
Discipline your children.
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@@elitaylor109 lol And go to jail
@cggc5871 Lol you have never had an original thought
yeah ur best brett
no thats mean
Mom needs to be held responsible and charged for vandalism. More and more, our judicial system is holding the parents responsible. AS SHOULD BE!!!!!
Perhaps banning mom from the store, as well.
As much as the parent should be held responsible. I think it's more likely the system and society that is responsible for this. What are the odds this girl comes from a single mother, divorced or unmarried couple? Basically 90% I bet.
...what about dad?
Child protective services should investigate
@@Simplemalk How is society responsible for this child’s behavior? I’m not being a jerk. I just honestly want to know. I’m part of society. And what “system” are you talking about? Do you mean the government?
I am a millenial raised by boomers and I am So Thankful for it! My kids have respect!
I’m a millennial raised by boomers also! And I’m glad too. We never would have done this as kids because we knew the consequences! I don’t hit my son but I have most certainly put my limits and he knows where they are. Kids need you to model the behaviour you expect from them it’s not rocket science.
Same here! I was also raised by boomers!
I'm Gen X and raised by the generation before boomers (The 1950s teen generation). We never would've even thought about doing this because we knew we couldn't even TALK disrespectfully or even curse in the presence of adults, much less entertain the idea of doing this. This would have never even crossed our minds.
Thanks to my millennial parents for putting a belt on me for acting right.
Same here, I was raised by Boomers as well.
“Don’t touch that little girl, you don’t know what she’s going through”
Lady she abouta go through you
Yeah, what does she think the kid will do? Have a PTSD meltdown worse than the tantrum she's already having? 🙄
That lady doesn't give a crap about the girl. If the girl is actually distressed you need to calm her down. It makes me sick that the gentleman is the only one who cares enough to stop the girl from potential self harm or hurting someone else with glass shrapnel. One of those displays fell over near my sister, she got cut and she literally has a scar on her face for life.
She's just projecting
Right I have two little kids they’d never do that if they did they’d be getting the consequences of those actions and with the glass bottles I’d be stepping in the way so she can’t get to those glass bottles that is sooo dangerous.
She needs to pay for all the damaged goods and show that she is the best person in the room and is willing to take responsibility.
“In our household, we don’t negotiate with terrorists.”
Preach
Yes!!! 😂
TRUTH!!
Damm skippy
Underrated comment 😂
Try that in Nigeria,
Belt(S) from total strangers are being drawn
SIMULTANEOUSLY
That used to be what would happen here until the woke mind virus started brainwashing people into thinking that children should make their own decisions and that no one should ever face consequences for their actions.
They have supermarketts
Kamen Rider belt, it's much painful
Same with the French. most Scandinavians would look at the kid like some one with braindamage, shaking their head while watching the meltdown.
Dont know something is changing a few weeks ago a collegue was called in for an intervention at kindergarten. His 4 year old Girl had Decked a 5 year old and kicked him in the nuts. The local psykologist deemed it healthy child behaviour basically the girl just setting boundaries and the boy just fucking araound and finding out.
I like how at least the psykologists are getting something right.
@@cggc5871 the fucks wrong with you
"She could be the next president!"
The way she's acting, she's going to be on her way to juvie.
For me that about becoming president was in sarcastic meaning.
@@ZivanovaableI agree
@@Zivanovaable you would be surprises how stupid people are xd
Yeah, the democrats would run her, sans primary too
"She could be your next president"
Has to be the dumbest response I've could imagine on so many levels.
And all the little Emperors of Chyna can be their country's next Glorious Leader!
I know! She won't be old enough in 2028!
Everyone knows presidents are above the law!
@@ladymacbethofmtensk896 China? She could be the leader of North Korea!
@@Finity_twenty_ten She's not a Kim.
That lady telling people to stop needed to be disciplined too. If I stepped in and some lady tried to stop me I would have given her 3 seconds to step away or she would be the first one to get a spanking and go sit in time out.
It wasn't too long ago that I saw a little boy in the next checkout lane spinning the bag holder like a merry-go-round. His mom was on her phone, completely ignoring him.
All I had to do was look at him and shake my head no. He stopped immediately and took a step back. I smiled and mouthed thank you. He lit up like a Christmas tree. It almost broke my heart.
Thank you. ❤
That... is both sweet and heartbreaking. Sweet in the sense that the child not only stopped with a simple command and even smiled at you. Heartbreaking because that child was probably trying to get the attention of his mother to no avail. The saying 'some people don't deserve children' rings truer than ever
I'm not sure how common it is, but I've heard lots of kids acting out are due to neglectful parenting.
I work in retail, and I've had to stop a kid being a kid here and there. It's kind of rewarding in its own way because you know the kids appreciate it.
Hey all I can say is stay away when you can, this is going to keep going for a while
My son was diagnosed with autism and developmental delay at almost 2 years old. He's 20 now. Not once has he EVER acted like this out in public, EVER. It's called PARENTING!!!
The reason why there’s a rise parents that are not strict
And just let the kids do whatever they want
It’s because they probably had extremely strict parents and don’t trust them selves to punish their kids appropriately so they don’t punish them at all
Like I knew, a lot of my friends went through cruel and unusual punishments
Because we’re the generation of kids that your parents could no longer legally hit you, but they found other ways to cause physical pain
So now the current generation doesn’t want to torture their children psychologically or physically, so they just don’t parent them because they don’t trust themselves to punish them appropriately
Because their parents punish them inappropriately
Because no punishment should be physical torture
No punishment should be mental torture. It should be for the purpose of teaching a lesson.
Appropriate to the mistake
Like, for example, one thing that my parents dead for a punishment, they took away my bed and all my belongings for about a week and all I could eat with bread and water and sleep on the floor
They’re not bad parents, but they did psychologically torture me with that
In the crime, I lied about gum
I got my entire life taken away because I lied about chewing gum
Stand at the wall and squat
If timeout didn’t hurt, there was no point
And that’s not an excuse for these lack of parenting you can still punish your children without physical or mental torture
@@HelfirehydratransTHIS ☝🏼
yea cause having autism doesnt make you a little a$$hole... bad parenting does. - an autistic adult who was also raised right and wouldnt be caught dead acting like that in public. (to be fair ive broken my OWN things when having a meltdown lol but gotta respect other peoples stuff and try not to be a public nuisance)
My autistic son tried it a few times. It never worked
On instagram so many people tried blaming autism or other disorders and it’s fucked because non educated people are going to see this and assume all are like that. And yes , you’re right it’s called ACTIVE parenting . Knowing when to intervene before things get heated.
Last year in Walmart me and my son saw 2 teenage boys knocking over a tower of toilet paper and laughing. So I told the boys to stop and then me and my son started picking up the toilet paper. But then the most amazing thing happened other shoppers came over and started helping us. I was so happy that my son was able to experience it. It was truly a god moment.
Cute
Cap
"Don't yell at her! Don't touch her! You don't know what she's been through!"
Doesn't matter what you've been through you aren't allowed to vandalise anything you don't own. No matter what pent up aggression she's had, she needs to know this isn't the appropriate action to confront it or to even behave in public.
She's breaking the law and though I don't know what she's been through, I know what she's going to go through. And I don't intend to stand aside and enable it.
It's almost like sometimes when I complain about my sister in law, everyone loses their minds.
But when someone else says 'think of what you've been through' as a means as an end, it's all chill
Then wallmart should give the bills to the one who shouting like that. I wonder they still act though or simply runaway and shut their mouth quietly😂😂
You would probably catch a case for touching her.
I get why people did nothing, I wouldn't have either. I don't know who her parents are, maybe they're rich, maybe they're cops, or worse, lawyers. And with how things are now we could easily be accused of abuse or traumatizing her or something. Not my kid, not my store, so why would I risk that? I for one very much would stand aside and enable it.
Call CPS, find out the parents, hand them the bill for the damaged products, hand them the bill for cleaning, hand them a permanent ban to the store. Yea nobody made the kid like that except for her parents. As for the Karen essentially shouting that the girl did nothing wrong, send her a copy of the ban.
When I was that age my parents could leave me alone in the library for hours and I was content with a stack of books reading quietly. This is INSANITY.
Me too. If I even started to act out, all I had to do was get the look from one of my parents and I knew to behave
Haha I know what look that means
@@heatherfeather1293 I'm familiar with that look👀
Not everyone is you….? Delinquents always existed
Oh yeah, I was very familiar with that look.
It’s time that parents learn that you are not a friend, you are a PARENT!
Did you see the parent? No friend, no parent, just the Democrat absentee ballot. Welcome to the 2020s!
If this is how ur planning on being a parent then i hope u never become one
@@TheQuietKid748 You raise them with loving, firm boundaries and THEN when they’re all grown up, you get to be best friends.
Parents need to learn the difference between abuse and negligent parents
Because I understand that a lot of these parents with kids now probably have zero authority over their children and treat them like a friend because they were abused by their parents, and they lived in an overly stressed household
So they don’t punish their children because they don’t trust themselves to punish them the right way
Ill bet you shes raised by a single mom 😂 didnt see no dad anywhere in that video
I can definitely relate to the situation. I've been to Walmart stores in Maine. And all I keep hearing are kids SCREAMING and crying. It's as if I'm in a zoo instead of a department store. It's just INSANITY, I tell you! 😢😮
Walmart is not a department store. Nordstrom, Bloomingdale's, Saks are department stores. Walmart is a haven for trash.
Hope her parents pay for this bullshit.
I hope they pay for all the stuff she broke😂
She’s probably the distraction why her parents steal tbh
Her parents will have to pay their whole wallets to fix all the damage
Probably sneaking out the door with a TV while their daughter distracts everyone.
HAH! "Parent(s)". There is no father in that scenario. He went for cigarettes 6 years ago.
I showed the clip to my 6 year old and even he understood that you should not act that way and that someone should have stopped her. It was a great teaching moment.
You raised him right mama! I’m 14 and would never act that way!
@@sarahaltameemi Hell yeah, I'm 17 and I can second this. I can't say anything about you but I definitely needed this kinda thing growing up. It's like I started late in life just because I DIDN'T get this.
When a 6 year old is smarter than the adults in that situation...smh...
@@josephjoestar95324 and my mother would still beat my hands with a wooden spoon if I did this 😭
99% of six year olds know not to act that way without being taught
It’s implied courtesy
Like, maybe if you’re under the age of one, it is acceptable to grab things off the shelves and throw them
But by the time you’re three years or older, you should know that that’s wrong
And clearly this kid does know it’s wrong that’s why she’s doing it
The longer you entertain a temper tantrum, the more likely they are to do it again
And when they stop throwing temper tantrums, you might think that that’s good sign. That just means they’re now in entitled, and they throw different kind of temper tantrums
It’s crazy that some thing that was common knowledge no longer 99%, but 90% of people now
It was almost normal for people over thirty to be frightened of their own children.
- George Orwell, 1984
craaazzzyyyy
That was my thought as well.
They’ll report you to the thought police.
Not my husband
Yes! Exactly
I was a substitute, then accepted a job as a teacher. I knew the class was pretty challenging, but the trepidation and stress of taking over a class where the teacher had felt overwhelmed and quit caused me to have a shingles outbreak the first day I started teaching the class. I had a student that would talk back daily and scream at me, and another who’d have meltdowns every week. I finished out the year and switched to SPED. I’m still worn out and feel overworked and never have enough time to finish everything, but I love my students.
I remember a time when I used to be paddled with wooden boards with tape on the handle and air holes drilled in the middle. I wasn't really a bad kid, I honestly can't say that I deserved it, it might have just been because I was easy to anger which made me a prime target by other students or just a lack of disrespect because I didn't want to be there. I had a problem focusing in class because I was bored. But getting hit by those from teachers, principals and vice-principals so much that they broke them on my backside. Really put a deep hatred for any and all authority figures in me.
I will never hear an apology from the schools or staff "Which might be dead by now." But the damage is done. I do have jealousy seeing everyone younger than me not getting reprimanded, burns me up inside. But you know what? The pain and torment that you teachers are getting is within itself justice for when you had power and abused it!
Something about this seems like a scam, like the woman wants Walmart security to put hands on her kids so she can sue or something
Great point!
Or she’s being a distraction while her parents steal something at the other side of the store
@@jordanalmond3458 another great possibility.
I wondered about that too!!
@@jordanalmond3458 that's it.
My kid became the "bad kid" in school.
I was failing.
I went to parenting classes and got her into behavioral therapy classes.
I didn't realize how much I was HURTING her by trying to be her friend. Fast forward 2 years and my kid I doing so much better. Her new teachers and I came up with a plan to keep her on the straight and narrow and we communicate openly about the changes.
IT WAS HARD! and it still is.
But it's rewarding if you put in the work
W parent
Good job. This is how you ought to discipline your child!
Good job. As a parent your job is to parent your kid. You can, and should be "friendly" to your kid but yeah you're not their friend. And when they mess up, gotta put on the parent boots and lay down the law.
Well done Mom 👏
God bless you. Stay strong in The Lord.🙏💕
Doesn’t matter what you’ve been through, you need discipline regardless of circumstances.
Same goes for adults. Even if you have PTSD you need to be locked up first before you hurt yourself or others, then they can try to take care of you.
A lot of parents nowadays don’t discipline their children because they don’t trust themselves to do it the right way, because their parents did it the wrong way, with psychological abuse and torture
Because most punishments, I got a child, would be considered, cruel and unusual
Only a handful of them would be considered actually a good punishment
Like one time I got my bed, my toys, my books, and all I could eat with bread and water for a week because I lied about chewing gum
I literally got everything taken away because I lied about chewing gum
I don’t remember why I was punished most of the time I just remember the punishment and that’s the problem with the last generation of parents because the current generation of young adults to not trust themselves to punish their kids
Because they don’t want to psychologically, abused, or torture their children, like their parents did to them
So they don’t trust them selves to punish the kids at all
@@Helfirehydratrans And yet there are great parents, who do discipline their children, who came out of terrible childhoods, it's not an excuse to fail to teach their children and sometimes punish them, it's neglectful. It's understandable that it is harder for victims of child abuse,to use discipline but to fail to do something, for the child's sake, it is not excusable. I am very sorry for anyone who was abused as a child, child abuse is terribly heartbreaking.
it takes two minutes to google that the little girl is not mentally sound, shes autistic and nonverbal, she can't even talk so yes she's been through a lot
As a teacher, I stopped reporting bad behavior because I got tired of being yelled at for not controlling the behavior by both parents and administrators
the little girl is autistic and nonverbal, that wasn't a normal everyday tantrum from a neurotypical child, she needed help
What we are witnessing is a total mental breakdown. The fact that the parents are not immediately intervening is a red flag.
Mental breakdown because she probably hasn't been disciplined her whole life and is crying out for structure and guidance.
This happened in Georgia and I found out on Hindustan times ~ not even joking . Lordy
@@aliciai.9150 That may be always try reasoning with them clearly she’s disturbed something had to have made her become so unhinged of course if they persist apply force and place them in a more stable environment with stern tone and command them to listen/obey proceed to offer them a choice and what it’ll entail and convey to them the severity/consequences of their actions that they must be punished accordingly everyone will be judged and must atone even if they are not willing because it’s right and just responsibility and things and such you know what I mean
Were the parents in the video?
her mom would make 10 times more money from this video, than she wasted on those walmart products... hence the video
I texted my mom and asked her what she would’ve done if I was behaving like this kid. Here’s her answer:
“You wouldn’t have because I trained you to behave better. AND I was not afraid to leave a grocery cart of stuff in the store while I carried you kids out before it got that far”
I have nothing to add. She’s right.
The rule for us in stores was my daughter's hand on the cart at all times. If she ever acted up, we would leave the store right then and there without buying anything. Honestly, you can't take any crap with kids, because if you give them an inch, they'll be throwing grape juice all over Walmart.
Your mum's a legend
I wasn't like that but when i was a toddler i was acting up pretty badly in the store and got belted by my mum and everyone clapped.
This was in the early 2000s.
We need more people like your mom.
@ my mom’s the fuckin goat, she raised three kids by herself on a middle school teacher’s salary
I worked at Walmart for 18 years(I quit 3 years ago) you wouldn't believe the way kids act in the store. Their parents are to busy on their phones. I have enough stories to write a book.
Ooh, please write the book 😂
Yes, you should write a book!
Write the book! Write the book! I think there are ghost writers out there that could help you.
Do it! Maybe people will learn how to discipline their kids by it.
PLEASE WRITE THE BOOK!!!
The employees saying don't touch her is self interest. It's not about being "canceled" it's about corporations avoiding potential litigation. Since they are an agent of the walmart company if and walmart employee touches her and her parents sue the company due to it... the employee is definitely losing their job... in a world where accountability of your child behavior is nearly absent and can sue for anything. They didn't want to risk their livelyhood. They had to wait for contracted security to step in.
Those parents weren't afraid of hurting a child, they're afraid of getting arrested for it.
That's my first thought sadly. In more of an ideal world if a parent isn't stepping in then the LP would be able to step in, drag the girl and the parent/guardian outside, and get the adults charged with property damages. Whatever the child breaks or steals the adults need to be held accountable for.
Yes.. this comment
🎯
7:25 My wife is a teacher, and she used to work with special ed students. This is her first year teaching middle school science.
She's stating that after this year, she's going back to working with the special ed students. Let that sink in. The _special ed_ students, students who need extra help and attention, students who have cognitive challenges they have no control over, are more agreeable to look after than non-special ed students.
Nun taken
Those special ed kids, for the most part, are sweethearts. Gen alpha appears as though someone fed them after midnight, then splashed water on them.
SPED teacher here. I will absolutely take the SPED kids over the ged ed kids.
:(
Whatever people picture when you say special ed students, whoever/whatever you picture, GUARANTEED every single one of them are more stable and fun to be around than kids that act like the one in the video!
I prefer to be around what people call "special" people because they are ALL cooler, funnier, and more stable than "normal" people nowadays!
I remember a time where I was maybe 4-5 years old in Target with my mom, and I had witnessed another kid have a tantrum over not getting a toy. His mom eventually gave in and got it for him, well, I decided to try that and my mother dropped everything she was doing (full buggy and all) and put me under her and carried my sorry ass out of the store. She then took me home and put me in my room saying, "Don't you leave this room until I come get you!" Suffice to say, I didn't do it again.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
Did the same when my daughter was 4. Never did it again.
That’s what all great parents do! Giving in just incentivizes bad behavior.🤷🏼♀️
Try that thing in asian countries, you'll get your ass beaten.
Noah? Is that you?
😂
The one and only time I snatched one of my boys up and left a full cart of groceries was at a Target. Their grandparents commented frequently that our boys never ask for things when they go out to the store and they were thankful for that.
Everyone be at peace. The Day of Judgement is right around the corner. Btw, you know her “parent” voted for Harris.
😂😂😂
"You don't know what she's going through"? If she needs it, get her help. But there is NO reason to allow a child to do this. My parents would NEVER have allowed this.
💯
I have never been smacked, beaten or remotely screamed or yelled at my entire life by either of my parents. I never needed to because I always behaved and just did my own thing. My parents never had to do any of that, ofcourse I'm sure when I was much much younger I had been spanked or whatnot, I don't remember that far back but I never had to be disciplined because I always behaved in any situation I was in. For the record, I was born in the year 2000, so I swear, it is not all of us that are crazy. There are people my age that are logical thinking humans that don't act this way or will never allow our children to act this way.
I would have been dead. Legit, my mom wouldn't have even just beat my ass.. she would have put it into extinction and me along with it.. would have smacked so hard that the shear pressure of it would have collapsed the universe into itself.
10 dimensions of pain. The heat radiation from my smacked butt would have made everything from the store all the way to the Blockbuster across the street into ground zero. It would burn with the power of 70,942 suns.
And this is probably a leading reason why I never did that..
There was a woman who killed a bride on her wedding night because she was drunk driving. An overwhelming response was "she's just a girl! You don't know what she's been through! You can't judge unless you're perfect!" Those people raise these kids.
@@SuperBaccaPlayz sadly, you are an outlier. That just means somewhere down the line you gained common decency and manners. Most people don't find those things on their own, and our generation wasn't *taught* those things by the people who needed to be teaching them.
Could be a scam. Kids creates chaos while mom/dad steals to take eyes off them
Yes, or parents hoping Walmart employees will step in to stop the girl and then the parents will sue Walmart for "traumatizing" the girl.
Yeah, I considered that as well.
Possible
Hmm. I didn’t think about these possibilities.
So so true. Seen cases where the parents are stealing and the kids are helping them steal by putting things in their backpack or jackets
I've noticed it here in the UK too. Even from adults. No manners, no kindness, and no respect.
Do you think I can send my neighbour a Christmas card without fear of them phoning the police?
Just say ⚫️’s.
Just say ⚫️’s.
Just say ⚫️’s
If I became a father, am not letting my kids act out like the girl in the beginning.
When I worked in childcare about a year ago, I had a kid like this. Little girl, defiant, walked all over her mother, screamed insults, etc. One day, I simply held her by the arms, looked into her face, and said, "No. We do not act like that," or something like that. I kept her from acting out. Going forward, she was completely different in our room. The truly revelatory part is that she didn't just respect me from that point forward. I would say, based on my observation, that she at least liked, if not loved, me. She seemed to trust me. It is heartbreaking when a child doesn't have adults around who are willing to love them by setting boundaries.
Parents are fully responsible for all damages. When they are given a $300 bill for damages or be arrested, such behavior may stop.
...maybe.
Parent, not parents. Nobody knows who daddy is.....
I’m pretty sure it’s gonna be more than $300 try $3000
And after I believe, $3000 I think it’s considered a felony
@@Helfirehydratrans I doubt it's that much, but yeah, they need to have them pay for the damage bill and then fine them lot of money, so every other parents thinks twice. Sometimes you just have to make example out of people.
However I am not really gonna shit on parents here, it's just byproduct of incredibly stupid laws over last decade or so. I once heard incredibly funny interaction between husband and wife, he was (jokingly saying) he would spank her. She replies that she will call the cops on him and he'll got to jail for five years. He then shoot back saying he's gonna kill her, get 10, get out in 2 for good behavior and then get remarried, all while not having to go through expensive divorce process.
They were obviously just joking and having funny banter, but It perfectly sums up the absurdity of laws in last decade or so.
$300's a lot in the hood
About 20 years ago at Walmart, my 18 month grandson was picking up items from the cart and throwing them on the floor while I was attempting to check out. I told him “no” and popped him on the leg. The cashier told me that I was a “bad grandma” and that I should be ashamed of myself. I asked her if I should have just let him throw everything on the floor and just leave it there for her to pick up? She finished checking me out and we left, no more said.
Should people be shamed for correcting their kids and grandkids?
No. You stop it at point of incident. You're acting out, I don't care, I will embarrass you wherever. No f's given. I'm raising kids that need to be functional in society. Also, tell them to eff off when they have kids, IF they have kids, they can raise them as brats and in the mean time do not tell others how to raise theirs. Enough disfuncional people in this world.
You should never be shamed for correcting your child. I would have told that cashier to mind her own business.
Not at all
Nein, auf keinen Fall.
Hätte ich auch nur ein wenig von dem Verhalten an den Tag gelegt was das Kind in diesem Markt getan hat, mein Vater hätte mir noch vor Ort und Stelle den Arsch versohlt.
Davon hätte Ihn auch bei Gott keiner von abgebracht.
I'd be like, "I mean....if you'd like to talk about it outside....."
As a former supermarket employee, customers do get away with a lot of bad behaviours from taking the small pack of gum without paying to eating half a bag of grapes or any other weigh and scan item before weighing it to my personal favourite eating a whole cooked BBQ chicken and leaving the empty packet (with bones) behind your absorbents (flour, rice, pasta, laundry detergents). The loss prevention team are always under scrutiny and many of these people leaving are sad stories, one was arrested cause he just had enough of stopping people and starting stealing himself, another left when his son was caught stealing in his store and another was left on medical cause of the beating he received.
insane. shame on the parents.
Probably a singular parent. But I am just dumbfounded at how this child is just running around alone with the parent nowhere around at all. And if somehow both parents are in the picture this is twice as insane.
Parent
They can’t even spell shame let alone understand it
Like Kamala people feel shame
This is not an excuse, put an explanation
A lot of parents in the current generation of young adults don’t punish their kids at all because they don’t trust them selves to do it the right way
Because when they got punished, it was psychological abuse or torture most of their punishments. They don’t remember why they were punished in the first place.
The current parents are the first generation of kids that could not be legally hit by their parents
So parents figured out different ways to punish their kids, not involve, psychological abuse and torture
You may not be able to hit your kids, but you can force them into uncomfortable positions for hours
You can psychologically torture them
And that’s what happened to a lot of young adults when they were kids because their parents couldn’t hit them anymore they figured out other ways to punish them
So now those kids grew up, had kids of their own, and don’t trust themselves to punish their children appropriately
Because the only punishment they learned with psychological abuse and torture
This is not an excuse
But how do you learn to appropriately discipline your children if all you experienced was torture as discipline
Like what’s the difference between psychological manipulation and telling your kid that they’re doing something wrong?
Like I genuinely don’t know how to appropriately punish children, because of my psychological torture that I went through
Because if you punish your kids too much, they will literally have no self-control or boundaries because it doesn’t matter what they do because they’re always bad
Everything I ever did I got punished for, so I just stop trying
Parents need to learn to balance punishment and non-punishment and treat the children as they should be, but there is a lot of people who are just giving the kids absolutely no punishment or not following through with their punishment
The kids nowadays act like it’s the end of the world if they get their iPad taken away for five minutes
Like the amount of parents that I see, give him when they do, some thing just shows that the word is meaningless
Former teacher here 🙋🏼♀️ the amount of gaslighting from admin about students misbehaving and the refusal from parents to discipline was unreal. Left and am so glad I did. NEVER want to go back.
I couldn’t be a teacher in a modern school.
My youngest sister just got her teaching degree and is about to finish up her student teaching. She just finished with second graders, and right now she's with kindergarteners. She comes home a stressed out frazzled mess every day because these kids are so ill-behaved, and because of current sensibilities she can't do anything about it. She's literally not allowed to even lay a hand on them to pull them away from fighting with each other. She's told me it feels more like working at an asylum than she ever expected.
Me too
You should have formed a stronger relationship with the kids. What did you do to trigger them to throw that chair at you? (Just kidding! Teacher myself here and almost quit multiple times! The gaslighting from admin is unreal!).
@aurelie8220 I was gonna get pretty angry until I read your whole comment lol
i am a janitor at wallmart. don't show me this...
I feal your pain, I was Janitorial Maintenace man myself
I'm sure you are use to demon possessed kids at this point lol come on!
What’s a wallmart
@@AR_GUY-EMSrich people supermarket
lol, I'm a cart attendant for Target and I 100% would have been called to clean this up. Grunts of the retail world unite ✊
I’m now in middle school and just realized the kids at my schools immaturity and how sad it is for teachers getting paid so little and dealing with these types of kids, also my school has had a lot of sub teachers quit and now we’re on a need of subs because they are refusing to work.
As a current senior in high school this problem of lack of discipline is not only prevalent among gen alpha but also gen z. I go to a charter school and you would expect better behaved students but nope. There’s literally a senior in my school who goes out of his to be an annoyance that when they leave the room everyone breaths a sigh of relief including the teachers. Majority of the students have an attitude problem for absolutely no good reason. These students are so unqualified both intellectually and behaviorally it’s ridiculous. I fear for the future of this country if this non-disciplining keeps going on. I thank god every day for letting me be born in an Asian household that taught me to self-discipline
This isn't new. It happened when I was in school in the 80s and 90s. There was always one or two kids who was badly abused and neglected at home who would do anything for attention.
In sixth grade, my teacher sat me behind a 14 y/o kid with major attitude problems because I was unreactive (due to my own trauma at home.) Whenever she (the teacher) wasn't looking or had her back to us, the bully would turn around and slug me. He would also crumple up paper and throw it at me all day. No one liked him and eventually one of the other kids from a broken home stood up to him, though that didn't change anything for me.
The bully mellowed out a bit through the course of the year because I never gave him the satisfaction of a reaction, but I'm sure this screwed me up deeply. I've been passive and afraid of conflict ever since. Yay public school.
sophomore in college here. we had 1 or 2 kids my age who were an annoyance that never learned how to shut the fuck up. there is always a good amount of parental ass whoopin and bullying from other kids that helps you be a normal person.
@@brushstroke3733 It was was a problem for my gen too. Always a few bad apples, but it was more accepted for the kids to deal with it. Today is a strange combination of total lack of fear from authority and the emotional fortitude of a wet noodle.
I think the lack of discipline comes down to that their parents are mostly younger generation. That was the first generation that could not legally be hit.
So their parents torture them and psychologically tortured them, and now that they had kids with their own they don’t trust them self to punish their kids appropriately because they were never punished appropriately
Their parents were too tough in too hard on them so now they’re way too easy and laid-back on their children because they do not trust them selves to punish them the right way
Younger Gen Z maybe, but not us older Gen Zers. I'm (2002 Gen Zer meaning I'm 22 currently) and I turned out just fine with the correct amount of discipline from my single mother. Me and my brother both turned out ok. I think it's more so the generation of today who acts more like this but it could be because the parents are neglecting them and letting technology and iPads raise them instead of doing it themselves and giving them attention and love like they need. Us older Gen Z peeps had a healthy balance of digital and natural stuff in our life so therefore we weren't iPad babies glued to the screen and learned better than these kids do. It's not really their fault but moreso the parents who raise them and what they allow, the technology they're given at certain ages that prevents them from learning simple basic manners and other stuff because they learn bad behavior from what they see on social media and the like because nobody acts good on social media platforms let's be honest here, so not really a great example to learn from, and their environment of where they live and what they see around them. Kids mirror their parents behavior and how they act or other people's as well, they don't just pull this stuff out of their butt cracks. Maybe this little girl learned this kinda behavior from her parents and assumed it was a normal way to act in public because she isn't aware it's wrong when no one punishes her for it. Perhaps many other parents these days do this as well and just let their kids walk all over them like a doormat simply because they see it as wrong to punish their kids or too mean and hurtful and will make their children cry. Maybe people these days are too sensitive to discipline their children and actually parent them. Back when I was a child my mother simply did one of these few examples. She either spanked me and my brother for being naughty, she threatened to take our stuff away or throw it away and scared us into being good (which btw worked), she embarrassed us in stores in front of strangers/other customers when we were being cheeky because she wasn't afraid to yell out loud even if others looked at us. All of those tactics were pretty useful and usually worked 99% of the time. There was definitely one time the spanking didn't work on my older brother though because he had such a big fat booty it didn't even hurt him like at all and he's a millennial I think? He's almost 27 or 28 I honestly can't remember because time keeps moving by so quickly in the blink of eye. Anyways my point I was trying to make was we were both raised right so not all of gen z is this bad, mostly just the youngins and ones that lucked out on getting graced with good parents like I did well "parent" technically. This is more of a Gen alpha problem and maybe some select few younger Gen zers but for the most part Gen Z is usually fine. 😅
I’m sixty and have seen this childhood bad behavior my whole life. But years ago someone would have just grabbed the child and escorted both the parent and the child out of the store.
Let bring that back.
@@dave3657
I saw a young mother at the doctor's office recently. Her kids were off the rails misbehaving. She just ignored them, on her phone the whole time. At one point she told them Shhh but literally nothing else. They were absolute terrors, into everything and being loud. I was in absolute shock. We need to bring back the right to publicly discipline our children.
Anyone who saw what was happening was probably afraid to even touch her because they don't want to get sued for touching someone else's child. I would have looked for the parent, but I understand why no one wants to physically stop her.
Indeed... and by the way our justice system works, you might, as well, get charged with assault on the child if you stop her and neutralize the parent that will undoubtedly hit you for neutralizing their precious child.
Exactly. I'm shocked Brett didn't mention this because in this day and age there would 100% be legal repercussions for an adult touching a child that is not their own in a way that even bordered on violent.
By the SAME token, the parent should be afraid to be sued for her child touching (and destroying) someone else's merchandise. It can't work in only one direction.
How about using your words?
Nobody in that clip said stop or tried to communicate with the kid...
@@kevinpankanin6222 You don't have kids, do you? When a kid is THAT out of control, saying "stop" won't do a thing, especially when it comes from a stranger. That's the problem with "gentle parenting"... the kids laugh at them and just go on with their destructive behavior because hearing "no" is NOT a real consequence.
I was raised by quite loving and protective parents but they also taught me discipline and the importance of hardwork so I don't become spoiled and behave like this.
Wokeness and DEI must be STOPPED!
What is that???
Didn't Earn It
@@BrynnLee-s9lDiversity Equity and Inclusion, the bane of any functioning society
@@BrynnLee-s9lDEI stands for diversity equity inclusion it’s where you hire people from minority groups (race/belifs aka LGBTQIA) even if they aren’t the most qualified choice
@BrynnLee-s9l The letters mean Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. This isn't really a DEI issue in today's video, but it does need to Stop.
It is an ideology that is extremely racist, the EXACT OPPOSITE of what MLK Jr preached. It rewards people for being any race but white, any gender but cis male, any sexual preference but monogamous heterosexual. It does not reward people based on merit.
It is an unfair ideology, and everyone who knows what it is agrees even if they support it.
Don't believe me? Call someone a DEI hire. Even people who support DEI know that it's a racist comment.
I've been teaching for 25 years. It is an epidemic now, full on. Thank you for this. Teachers have been the scapegoats for everything for far too long. We go to work now and have to endure abuse from students-mental, emotional, and physical. Our hands are tied and the expectations are completely unrealistic. The stress is enormous.
There is also possible that the parents hands are also tied so they do not dare to discipline their children.
Schools are bad. You don't educate kids, you indoctrinate them. Face it.
When I was a teen, the group I ran with may have been thugs and and we did bad stuff all the time like fight and drink and stuff. But we would never talk back or hit a teacher like these kids do these days
I can ONLY imagine what teachers go throw, l teach Sunday school and lm only with for that small time during church and one a week and it's crazy , you cnt talk they wnt keep quite and it's only a handful of kids causing the disruption for now but l was told l couldn't displine ,couldn't do time outs ( l mean the most gentle thing ) the head leadership women told me the children aren't bad they got no bad kids ,we mustn't shout or correct them and if we correct them as gentle and possible and they dnt listen then we must just leave them ,to do whatever they want run around be wild not participate in the programs it's is fine
Right kids have been bad for generations they may have been unfriendly or rude with a lot of good people but nothing compared to this or what been going on for the last 10 years.
This is exactly why I left teaching. I thought it was my calling, but when I entered into it, there were so many leftist, woke principals and parents involved that they drove me BANANAS. I had kids mock me and tease me daily, and had them almost DARE ME to punish them, because guess what? Any punishment I dished out to them was immediately a massive friggin issue catastrophe with the kids' parents, and more often than not, what I did, from "talking too harshly to the kids" to simply sending them to the principal's office, was seen as "too mean" and "overstressing for the kids". After I was suspended without pay for sending a bunch of boys to the office, I quit. I could not take the education system anymore. Now? There is a massive shortage of teachers in my home Canadian province (gee, WONDER WHY), and I can't go back because of my unwarranted track record. Thanks, Woke World. You've screwed yourselves by making schools too soft on discipline and giving parents too much power
Same here. Sometimes I miss the nice parts about teaching, but they were so far and few between that it just wasn’t worth it anymore. I’ll never understand why so many parents want their kids to never face consequences and be an absolute menace to society.
I worked at a camp over the summer with kids ages 5-10ish and by the end of it I was about ready to lose my mind. On one of the last days, I was lecturing this one kid about what he’d done wrong and his response was to yell back and mock me to my face, laughing the whole time. I marched his tail directly to my boss with no hesitation cuz screw that. I was baffled by his nerve to do something like that and months later I’m still mad whenever I think about it
You make me almost feel grateful for going to a private high school. I could only imagine the agony for some teachers. Liberals who live in fear of everything are the cause of this
I feel you as a fellow educator . Establishment is afraid of the parents and lawsuits and teachers are normally left to take the blame. When a child does something wrong it no longer focuses on the wrong act but focuses on the way the teacher handles it was wrong, the tone is wrong, the teacher is unfair....
Humanity is doomed if world war III becomes a reality with how much of the world is broken by entitlement
An assistant principal in a local school, tried to stop a fight and got seriously injured and quit the school. Not just that person, other employees have gotten seriously injured because of these fights! It’s horrible!
"Spare the rod, spoil the child" ~ I grew up with that mantra in my family. And I did very well in my life. 65 now. Thank you Ma and Papa.
We got paddled at school, and our biggest fear is that our dads would find out we misbehaved. We didn't dare tell our parents we got paddled. We learned our place.
@@blueplanet5002We learned discipline and respect.
The passage that reads: *spare the rod* , *spoil the child* does not mean to *beat the child* . The *ROD* is a tool that was used to *guide sheep* . it was not used to *beat the sheep or in this case use on a child* . We as parents are to *GUIDE* our children not make them fearful of you. I am not OK with using one's hands on a kid esp. It doesn't teach them anything but to fear you.
@@Jaisee14you can spank without making a child fear you. They need to fear the spanking.
@@Jaisee14Wrong. Someone who doesn't have physical repercusions for their actions turn into uncontrollable individuals who are more likely to end up in prison or dead.
I texted my mother and asked what she would have done if I had behaved like this youngster. Here's her response:
"You wouldn't have because I had taught you to behave better. AND I wasn't afraid to leave a grocery cart full of items in the store while I carried your kids out before it got that far."
I don't have anything to offer. She's correct.
Make sure to cite your sources when you copy/paste a comment. @ShootingStarStudio
Exactly
When I was in my 20’s I was going into Best Buy. A mother came out with 3 kids, sat them down, and LAID into these kids for their behavior. I didn’t see it, but those kids messed up. I wanted to laugh but I was afraid she would start in on me.
If I behaved that way, I would have been flayed in the store.
If I had acted that way my parents would have killed me for it.
Sounds like my mom, too!
I used to live in a terraced house, that's where you share walls with your neighbours, those walls weren't very thick so noise travelled through. At night my neighbour's daughter played loud music that wouldn't let me sleep. I politely asked her mother to do something about it, at first she promised to do so but the problem wouldn't stop so I had to go ask a few more times. At one point her mother told me her daughter needed the music to calm her down because she was a victim of abuse. Of course I expressed my sympathy but asked if listening on earphones wouldn't have the same soothing effect. She got angry at me shouting nonsense that I'm going after her kids. Whatever is going on with your family shouldn't be my problem, I get up at 5am to go to work but can't sleep till 2am because of your daughter's behaviour. I'm half awake driving and could cause an accident. Whatever you're going through it shouldn't be an excuse to disrupt other people's lives. We all go through crap!
That's soo bad
I would have made sure they were all up with me the next morning till the shit stopped and when asked why I'd do that at 4:30 am well I was abused and it's the only way I can cope with my mornings
I would be so loud getting ready for work at 5AM....
She was enabling her daughter. She may have been abused, but she still needs to practice self respect and respect for others.
Victim of abuse from who? Her parents?
I am so grateful that I cannot relate. I have two sons. One is 20 and a productive member of society, and the other is 13. Both are respectful young men. They have their days like everyone else. But this young lady needs therapy and her guardian needs a firmer hand❤
I saw this earlier today, these kids seriously need a reality check
Too late. That little shit will end up in prison.
The parents too
Yea, checked with a belt multiple times
It's mostly the parents to blame, they're the ones that NEED to discipline their children
the parents first and foremost
My father, who passed away 2 years ago, was a substitute teacher in our town and had a student who was causing an issue with another student and when he intervened, he pushed the aggresive student to separate the two. The aggresive student told their parents and it was brought to the school administration which lead to my father not being able to substitute teach. There was no discussion or "hearing" to see what actually happened. It was a teacher put hands on a student and the teacher was wrong. This is the problem nowadays, kids can do what they want because adults are afraid of discipline. If I had done anything like this growing up, my parents would have been all for the teacher's response.
I pulled my child out of school bcuz they not allowed to control the kids anymore.
You are right I worked in a school for 30 years and they get away with murder in so many words. We were told to call them FRIENDS THAT IS BS!!!!!!!!! WECARE THE ADULT NOT THEM!!!!!!
You are an excellent speaker with excellent presentation. Keep up the excellent work. Joy from Tennessee 😊
I'm a teacher. I can't touch a child. I can try to protect myself if they start hitting or kicking but that is it. behaviors are horrible. Not only are they hurting us, but the students are being abused in classrooms by violent students and they won't remove them. A fellow teacher has lost students from her classroom because of the violence. She is losing good students and is left with the violent one and there is nothing she can do to get this child removed. We both teach kindergarten.
Here's an angle no one looked at. perhaps that child is doing what she is doing because mom told her to, to give mom a distraction to shoplift easier.
Could be. Especially today.
omg thats a good point
Glad I'm not the only one who thought this as well 😅 lol
Or the mom could want to go viral and get money. Like the Cash (Catch?) Me Outside girl from years ago.
Well they should charge mom for the products he broke
It's not just parenting. I work in a pre k classroom when I just finished an online training course . One of the things I remember in the course is when a child is misbehaving, you don't tell them what they did wrong, I was told to redirect them to something else so they are not learning.
Did anyone check the electronic department? Gangs of thieves used to go into stores and cause distraction while their partners were cleaning out high end merchandise. They would often use young children for distractions. I always wonder about ridiculous behavior like this from a former retail back ground.
😂😂 love it! She’s a decoy. Her and her mother.
That is a very good thought!
I would bet money that this is what was happening. Didn’t realize it until I saw other commenters suggesting it but it makes the most sense. Regardless, that child is absolutely SCREWED. Whether she was told to do this by her parents as a decoy, or she was truly having a meltdown. Such a shame. She will be a product of her environment one day.
As a former teacher, I get heck from people for staying home to homeschool my children. Videos like this serve as excellent reminders of the behavior my children will have limited exposure to, and I have zero regrets. Children don’t just learn from their teachers, they learn from their peers. I will not allow my children to be taught to act in such a way, nor have it reinforced 5/7 days a week.
If what you said was true all public school children would be crazy and out of control
How pervasive is this problem? We live in a small town, and it’s literally insane at the things people will call CPS for when you have small children.
I used to think people who homeschool their kids were doomsday fanatics with a bunker in their backyard. Now, seeing this generation, I know if I had kids I would find a way to homeschool them too.
@hoyamayo3642 have you been in one lately? There's a large chunk of this and the other chunk is just mindlessly on their phones the entire time
@@hoyamayo3642oh sweetheart....how old are you? Remember backnin the 70s and 80s thst there was a " naughty table" where 4 or 5 kids would sit as they were naughty and distracted the rest of the class, a class of up to 40 kids, well now its the reverse.
You get a small group of kids who behave and want to learn, maybe 5 to 10 kids..... the rest are the "naughty table" kids. So if yr lucky out of 40 kids there are 10 who behave and want to learn.
You have no idea or yr not paying attention..
Giving 3 year old ipads or phones means these children dont even have a 3 minute concentration ability.
How can a teacher teach a child who CANT concentrate.
The stories i could tell you but i doubt you would believe and take it on board that these poor childrens minds have been destroyed by aged 7 and look at the result.
There is no way I would EVER let my child act like that in a store. Or at home!
There is no way i would ever let anyone's child act like that in a store. Who suffers the consequences of those actions? - the workers/cleaners who have to break their backs for even longer now to sort out that mess on top of their regular duties. I would probably get charged, but I simply do not care - this entire situation would only happen in america.
My dad would have beat my ass skinless, made me mow lawns until I paid back the damage and then beat my ass skinless again. I was born in 1964 where this crap didn't fly.
Did she have some kind of disability? I have worked with autistic and behavioral disordered kids. I have seen this kind of destructive behavior in the classroom. It’s so sad!
True, or it’s a cry for help
I have ASD and I was raised to behave right. My mother would never have let me get away anything like that. Saying that these misbehaving kids are Autistic just gives people who hate people on the spectrum.
@@annakenny2213 Or, she is screaming inside for help
Where are her parents?!? Or guardian?!? Like what?!? That's not ok!!!
Ya I understand normal Walmart workers not doing anything but if a parent isn't stepping in security or someone that deals with kicking people out should @roningt would have a great take on this
Probably stealing
@@BillyReb i see
@@BillyReb Sadly, I can easily seeing some single mom sending the kid to do this to distract people from her stuffing things in her pockets and walking out.
@@samanthabrown9960 they were probably the moron that said: "you don't know what she been though!"
it's simple, tally up what the girl damaged, and give Mom the bill. See if Mom wants to let her kid do that moving forward.
That video is a great analogy… we are literally standing around like those adults watching the collapse of society in front of our eyes and doing nothing about it
Good point. I was just thinking where are the adults? Same for society.
but we did do something about it........we voted Trump back as president!!!!!!! That was the first step. But, I do agree, we should have done something sooner for sure.
It makes me glad I’m closer to the end of my life rather than just starting out
Yes, and the future is a black female.
@ Perhaps but it’s not Harris
1:34 That Kedem grape juice is very expensive and appears to be of the carbonated variety. I hope she knows the damage she is doing by destroying those bottles.
As a preschool teacher, it starts so early, these kids don’t know what authority is, or what consequences are
I work with 18 to 24 month olds, I can tell even younger than that if the kids are the ones running the house.
preK para, here. That has never been more apparent this year.
Yes omg these parents spoil their children at a young age and think it’s “cute” when they act out
This imbalance of giving children too much authority, too much say actually creates very angry children. It’s a burden they’re not meant to carry, they are asked to make all the decisions because their thoughts, feelings and approval of even small decisions matters above everything.
Parents, by not stepping into their role as a figure of authority and stability do more damage than anything they were trying to avoid in the first place. Objectively it’s a worse outcome than stereotypical spankings.
What I’ve found is that they lash out, and the most pitiful part is that they don’t even understand themselves why they are a ball of rude, disrespectful rage.
@@mackenzieraye 100%, there are so many instances of parents coming to pick up their kids and they just stand there smiling as their kid is actively disobeying us or being a nuisance to the other kids because it’s “cute”. What kind of lesson does that teach the kid?
That parent should be charged with all the vandalism that she did.
my sister and I were at our local park. She saw her neighbours child trying to climb the newly planted trees and breaking the branches. She called out to him and shook her finger " no" to him. He stopped, but later the dad came over to talk to my sister about embarrassing his child when she told him to stop destroying the tree. Apparently his son's feeling mattered more than the newly planted trees.
🤦🏻♂️sad state when we need to parent the parents.
Someone pulled up sixty something newly planted trees and threw them into the river in st paul.
Oh I wasn't even thinking you were leading to the new tree being harmed I thought you were going to say she was telling the kid that because the kid could get hurt trying to climb a tree that they obviously can't lol but yea either way. Now that doesn't bother me too much just waving a finger but I don't agree with strangers coming up to my kid to tell them or speak to them for any reasons if my kid is not doing something right I expect them to address me the parent because my kids know not to speak to a stranger and an adult has no business speaking to them as children so my kids would not speak back and will walk away from them not to be rude but for their own safety, but my kids would never be out of my eye sight anyways and if they did something wrong I would be the first to handle it anyways before anyone else even gets a chance to try and say something.
And that is the problem. If you can't control your children keep their bad asses at home!! YOU deal with the bullshit!!
@@TheRepublican777 my community has spent thousands of dollars replacing trees that the kids keep killing by breaking off all the branches. Our park has very little shade because most of the trees were destroyed and now the community isn't bothering to replace the trees anymore. As for this kid, he was old enough to be at the park without parents. His parent should have backed up my sister and affirmed to his son that destroying the trees are a form of vandalism.
Look i was born in the 80’s/90’s if i did this the security would have pulled me in the back room my parents would have had to pay for all the thing’s BROKEN and DESTROYED (being they were not paid for and the store still was the owner of them aka destruction of property) I might have had the cops called on me too. But worst of all the beating I would have gotten from my parents (that was scary enough to make me not want to do it). I say we take back parenting and spare the rod not the child.
People I know with kids like this have told me "When you have kids you'll understand." I promise I will never understand.
I have kids. I don't understand. My kids tried tantrums in public once or twice. We left the store and went home. They learned that tantrums don't work.
This is not normal behaviour. She's probably autistic so her brain doesn't comprehend what she's doing. This is not a normal tantrum.
As a kid I didnt understand and now as a mom I still don't 😂 yes it can be hard but it's 100% worth it to not raise a pos
I am the mom of a now grown up son. He never behaved like that in his whole life. I can not understand parents like that.
This is not one of those moments 😂 I have three kids, and they would absolutely never behave like this. It is absolutely unacceptable and I feel for this little girl. She clearly has no boundaries.
I’m just shocked that someone said “she could be the next president”… this unchecked behavior is the first step to someone being a serial killer.
damn, people are setting the bar pretty low
@@edsondinho1404didn’t think it get any lower but it did.
Well, there's a bunch of kids who grew up disrespecting their elders.
They have kids now.
Yep it all goes back around
I would have called police and cps. Unfit parents.
I should also add that this kid made that Walmart a hazardous environment. Someone could get injured because of her.
My mom was a in person teacher for 20+ years, never had an issue with being attacked. In 2021 she was bit by a little girl who was being "gentle-parented" by her Grandparents. Her arm bruised, thankfully she had on a pretty thick sweater at the time so there was no punters but you could clearly see teeth marks for two days afterwards. The Grandparents said "oh, she's going through things. Be gentle, be kind. Blah blah blah" and the administration said it was a "personal matter", like wtf. Anyway, she's a virtual teacher now, has her own mini school and help start a charter school for our state!
My state has public online schooling and if I can't afford private school for my kids (once I have some lol) and there aren't any homeschool groups in my area, that's the way I will go for them 100%. They don't need to be bullied or struggle to learn because their peers are disruptive. I know of some parents that started a school for homeschooled kids essentially; a couple of the parents are teachers and they use a closed school building to have class for all their kids, allowing them to have personalized time when needed. I hope I'm able to find or put together a group like that because that sounds like the best way to handle children's education these days, but online schooling seems second-best.
That is not gentle parenting get it right please 😊
@ I’m calling what they were calling it🤷♀️
@@Random-mess well that’s totally different
My daughter quit teaching and started homeschooling her children for a while. She now homeschools the two youngest and the three older ones are now in a no-BS, no-DEI, no-CRT private school. She said she couldn't deal with the parents as much as the children. The parents take no responsibility for the actions of their children.
Today a kindergartener was wandering barefoot in the middle school halls, a 6th grader hit a locker and the walls so loudly I thought there was an earthquake, and a 10-year-old was hanging out 'alone' in the halls the whole day when I heard a teacher say 'come on now, you haven't been in class all day'...another day subbing in a K-8 Seattle Public School. Have to say this was in the top three worst ones, actually feels unsafe. Other ones are lovely. Who is to blame? The parents, full-stop. And a school system too fearful of parents, must take the kids, and just trying to survive.
These children are very sick. This has nothing to do with discipline. They probably are on the autism spectrum. Easy to judge the parents. Often the medical field has no answers either.
Sorry , but in our school and country, parents would be contacted , children sent home.
Touching someone under 18: lifetime jail sentence with a $850,000 fine, PLUS: get frowned upon on social media.
in for a penny you say?
As one of today's kids, I could not agree more. I hate my generation
this is so real
Your generation is even more right wing than (the males of) mine (Gen Z). Thanks to slop content on the internet radicalizing them.
I hate your generation, too.
Naw, just remember these moments and raise your own kids to know the difference between right and wrong. Sometimes it feels like those with common sense are the last Centurions on the wall, holding back the barbarians.
Same bro
The first time I behaved that way in the store, I got my butt smacked. The second time... mom asked them to hold her cart, immediately took me home, dropped me off with my brother, then went back to the store without me. For the rest of the summer, I was not allowed to go anywhere, not even next door. I was GROUNDED. No TV, no dessert, no popsicles, no running through the sprinklers... NO POPSICLES for the rest of the summer! I never did it again. The cost was too high.
My mom did something similar. Except it was just the store I wasn't allowed to go to. For 6 months every time I asked to go to the store with her, she said "little girls who don't know how to behave don't get to go to the store" and left me with my grandma. Needless to say I never acted up at the store again after that
Yep, there are many ways to discipline a child in order to get the point across. My son was testing the boundaries big time when he was young, and he made it to six weeks grounding that summer, before he decided to stop. I did warn him that every time he continued with his stupidity another week was coming. He served his time, and never did it again. He tried to get me to reduce his time, but I said no. I told him that you were warned several times and you kept chosing this, so time will be fully served. His friends kept stopping by every week, and I kept saying to them "Sorry boys, your friend chose unwisely over and over again, the sentence will not be reduced." He is a fully grown man now, and we have a close relationship. I always explained WHY things were wrong, and always gave him a chance first to choose wisely. When he didn't, then he learned that consequences will follow, and that I meant what I said. Never cave once you make the discipline decision, otherwise your kid will play you like a fiddle. They need to know consequences will follow, wether it be good or bad, so choose wisely. My kids got rewarded when they chose wisely. In the bible it says that God disciplines those whom he loves. No discipline is pleasant for the time being, but later will yield the fruit of righteousness. That is so true. God Bless.
“I’m not going to be touching no one’s kids. I’m not going to be the one going to jail.” My feelings exactly. It's every man for himself in this brave new world and my life is more important than smashed juice bottles.
You just take the item from their hands. It's not touching the child because the item doesn't belong to them.
If they pick up another, take it away, another take it away and so on.
@@lorieakin5771 What if the bottle gets broken in the prosses and severe bodily harm is done before you even notice it?
You go to jai, no pass go, no collect 200$ 👍 Walmart doesn't pay enough for that.
@IcecalGamer
I've bought one of those bottles. It's not that delicate.
I blame the parents!
I raised 2 boys now 24 yo & 22yo and a girl 21yo without any of this crap. My husband & I worked (my job I did part time. I went into work days he was off as a fireman) we managed things at malls and had our own things in malls around the South. Our kids never went to daycares, we took them with us when we had to clean, collect $ & make deposits They were in a couple sports a year so yeah, we were busy. What we didn’t have time for was bad behavior. I am very proud of my kids and the adults they have become.
There's a pretty obvious difference between your kids and this deviant.
Good for you.
Nice 👍🏼
Thank you 😊
I’m a boomer and raised my kids like most of us did. Not one of my 3 would have ever thought to do something like this…EVER! They were corrected well before any behavior got even close to this level. I have to end with saying all 3 of them love their dad very much because they know how much I love them.
My father is a boomer and we would have gotten endless beltings for that kind of crap. Usually, as collective punishment for not keeping each other in line. We know he loves us, too, somewhat informed by how we saw other kids turn out.
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Hard Love.
This child would look at the response of those around her before taking yet another action. As a medically-retired educator, I know that approximately 50% of teachers quit within their first five years of teaching. Many cite lack of support from administrators and parents, as well as disrespectful and out of control student conduct/behavior. I’ve held other jobs, before I became an educator, demanding careers, but no job was as taxing as the roles I held, while working in education.
This girl needs help… extensive help… and a lot of discipline and structure. She needs it ASAP.
I noticed that too. She was, as Brett put it, desperately looking for someone, or anyone who would just tell her where the boundaries were. As it happened the one person who tried was told not to.
Preschool teacher here-I had an almost four year old kid come up behind me and start beating me three weeks into the year. He continued to scream at me and it’s my first year teaching. I have another kid who spit on me and told me he was going to burn my house down. Another kid refuses to listen and destroys toys and other items in the classroom. The first child’s parent said that he had a strict childhood and he did not want the same for his kid, and also said that his family is “just loud when they talk”.
Please parent your children. It shouldn’t have to suck or be hazardous to be a teacher.
Woman: You don't know what she's been through!
Me: Irrelevant. I'm thinking that YOU should be held responsible for abetting criminal behavior.
There is relevence. I dont agree with some other things that lady says or her trying to stop the man from making the girl throw glass bottles, but there being a reason to the behavior such as an autistic meltdown, mental breakdown, or cry for attention is not impossible. Like in the case of an autistic meltdown or history of physical trauma, touching her could trigger a more volatile response, we dont know her so we dont know. It just doesnt excuse what the girl is doing. The parents need to be found and need to stop their kid. Then they need to either pay for the damages or be banned from the store. And of course the kid should be disciplined at home, by her parents.
So here’s the thing: I’m a parent of two neurodivergent kiddos, and I’ve seen some epic meltdowns. But I would NEVER allow one of my children to destroy property in this manner. I would pick her up and carry her out so darn fast, so other people are not negatively affected by her situation. That parent needs to held accountable.
I was wondering if this could be a child with some sort of special needs, but I would hope if that was the case their parent or caregiver wouldn’t let them be throwing glass containers on the ground. That’s the point where someone NEEDS to step in to prevent imminent harm.
@@JaneDoe-fn8ni exactly. I work with disabled people with such behaviors and we are trained to restrain them if they are in imminent harm or are bringing harm to those around them... and we avoid restraint if possible... Literally in our training they use stories like people throwing pickle jars in a walmart.
I hope you didn't tell your children they are... "neurodivergent". Giving children labels is part of the problem.
I also wondered about neurodivergence (we’re a whole family of it!), but a) when you actually raise an ND kid you learn the warning signs and know when it’s time to go, and b) I’ve seen meltdowns and that isn’t a meltdown. That was deliberate.
Watching that girl makes me SO STINKING MAD! If I had EVER tried that, I wouldn't have been able to sit down for a week.
Cops and/or CPS absolutely would have been called back in the day.
👏👏👏👏girl!!!! Everything u said babe!!! Help these people n the future.. my god!
That teacher described exactly why I dropped out of school in 2003. I couldn't learn effectively in an environment dominated by violent sociopaths.
Genuinely considering homeschooling my future children. I remember being in middle school and begging my mom to switch me to online school because of kids like this. Literally fights everyday at my school and it was always mostly girls. I’ve lived 20 years without getting into a single fight or laying a hand on anyone. Parents need to start teaching their children to just remove themselves from environments that aren’t benefitting them. I’ve witnessed teachers get cured out, things thrown at them, and parents ridiculing the teachers for disciplinary action.
In VA they let one kid bully a teacher and he ended up shooting her in the stomach… the school ignored her cries for help and her worries of what the kid was doing. He’s 6 years old.. the mother was sentenced 21 months I believe? But all this due to the parents ignoring all the worries the teacher told them about the kid, and how aggressive and mean he was
Do you really want us to believe that a 6 y/o shot a teacher?
@@eBrunoro This actually happend. Look it up. It was a big deal a few years ago.
@@eBrunoroit was all over the news.
@@eBrunoro you don’t need to believe me, please look it up and you will see the news as well as the sentence and court hearings. Do your research please. It was a big case in Va, now all students have clear backpacks, metal detectors and police officers, all the way down to pre-K
how is damaging products Not treated the same as theft?!!?? where is the store security, off duty law enforcement moonlighting, to collect and detain this criminally destructive child
If we treated the same way they treat theft in California, the kid would need to destroy several thousands dollars more in goods before anything would happen.
Walmart doesn’t have that
Lol, that would be the parent's dreams come true! They would have been awarded millions of dollars.
You want security involved? Fine, here's how that will turn out. Security will approach this hell spawn, then he/she will be fired and/or sued for interfering. Security guards are not allowed to do shit.
The reason it's not treated the same as theft is because it's Property Damage, which is a separate crime in and of itself.
That young girl should be grounded forever
This is our classrooms in New Zealand also. There's a girl in my son's class where she holds the class hostage, destroys the class, throws sissors, and hurts other children. She has even punched the DP on the throat and threatened a teacher assistant with a box cutter.
She still hasn't been removed from the school. Her education and rights are more important than the majority of the classes right to safety and education.
Life outside the Shire can be rough
I was a substitute teacher in the US a for a few years leading up to Covid. I experienced one of these kinds of blow ups and how they evacuate all the other students. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
In the US, the law says that special education students should be placed in the least restrictive classroom according to their capacity. That doesn't mean put them in a class environment they can't handle without harming others. Many times I witnessed special needs kids harming other students and the student remaining in the classroom.
Their educational rights do not exceed the rights of others' welfare!
Doing this, just teaches kids that the rules can be broken when there are no consequences or that they can't trust adults for their safety.
Is she a face tattoo person?
@dawnmitchell11 what they're supposed to do or used to do is have them in special classes for the subjects they struggle with and mainstream the classes they do ok with.. if they are unable to control themselves and are putting other children and/or staff at risk, the state is supposed to accommodate them to go to a special school for them to get an education in a safe and equipped environment!!
Yep, we get that stateside too. It’s like the Joker entering the classroom and everyone’s sense of justice is absolutely violated. I would recommend homeschooling, it is purposefully being done now where they send kids to certain schools to diversify it. All it does is ensure that the kids don’t get an education.